Hater! We come in all shades so quit acting as if your ass is blind.

Seminole Law Woman (rightfully re-christened - per eva's post) - you showed alot of class and restraint....keep going and stay positive ---Congrats on being able to multi-task in the real world ---we need more black women trial attorneys --- so good for you --- Do you know how a dog shakes itself dry after it gets a bath? That's the same way you (and Natasha) have to shake off the haters -- with great force and much vigor --- after all they're like fleas -- they're bothersome and they don't matter....congrats to you both-- keep moving forward.....!!

I agree with a few of you on here. Natasha sweetie, don't worry about what people have to say about your opinions, they are like a##holes, everybody has one. This site is great & I know many of us couldn't make it through the day without coming here. I don't belong to an organization, but if I did I do see how finding out it was a soror of yours would make one upset. The act of violence was senseless regardless of what preceded the incident. We must learn how to solve matters without getting physical all the time. Again, Tash keep doing yo thang!!! Oh & thanks to all you other posters who give me a good laugh too, I LOVE THIS SITE!

Why we don't we learn to agree to disagree respectfully AND THEN LET IT GO, THAT IS WHAT SHOULD HAVE HAPPEN BETWEEN THEM. Either way no matter what happen Da brat should now how to conduct herself as adult. I really hope and pray the young lady assaulted will be okay. EVERYONE JUSTIFYING THIS VIOLENT ACT HOW WOULDYOU FEEL IF THAT WAS YOU OR A LOVED ONE? BESIDES ANYONE HIT AN OBJECT WITH ENOUGH FORCE CAN CAUSE SERIOUS HARM. PEOPLE NEED TO REALIZE IS BETTER WALK AWAY THAN TO INJURE SOMEONE,RISKS LAWSUIT AND GO TO JAIL. ANOTHER THING I DON'T THINK PEOPLE SHOULD GET DRUNK IN PUBLIC ESPECIALLY IF THEY CAN NOT HANDLE ALCOHOL WELL.SHE NEEDS PUBLICLY APOLOGIZED FOR HER CHILDISH,TACKY, AND VIOLENTLY BEHAVIOR.SHE IS WAY TOO OLD TO BEHAVE IN THIS MANNER. I HOPE THAT SHE RECIEVES A SUITABLE PUNISHMENT FOR HER CRIME. SHE NEEDS TO LEARN THERE ARE CONSEQUENCES FOR ACTIONS. SO EVERYONE PLEASE LIVE, LOVE, RESPECT AND REALIZE THE VALUE OF LIFE. XOXOXOXOXO

[quote comment="9191"]Can folks PLEASE stop comparing YBF to Perez Hilton!!!! I'm sure Perez could care less about being sued, getting death threats, people talking ish about him, etc...... He is too busy on MTV and Extra and VH1 and all of the other tv deals he has inked just off of his blog. And when he does have free time, I'm sure he is spending the over $100,000 a month his blog pulls in. The difference between "them" and "us" is that we take everything so personal and view every comment as a personal attack that we feel we need to defend ourselves against. "They" understand that at the end of the day, the only thing that matters is the payoff. I would like to see more sites like YBF, Crunktastical, Concreteloop, etc..... get their own shows and/ or continuous face-time on BET, TV1, and the other channels but that won't happen b/c we are our own worst enemy. Instead of coming together on a united front, we compare ourselves to others and try to "out-shine" each other and when it's all said and done no one shines because, during our journey to get to the top, we have tarnished ourselves beyond recognition.[/quote] Do you really believe Perez is having the success he's having because he's a part of some sect or race who "comes together on a united front" who doesn't "compare [themselves] to others" and who don't "try to 'out-shine' each other"? Honestly? Competitiveness is an American spirit, not just a black one. And, Perez's success is not unlike Natasha's, really... They're both appealing to a particular audience...Perez's audience just happens to be the mainstream... NOW, I am not FOR ONE MINUTE discrediting the man...it is his own witty, perverse...his vile genious that makes him so infectious and so his audience is not only mainstream BUT also intellectuals who enjoy Perez's brand of kitsch... But, as I said...it's ultimately not about black people pulling each other down, it's just about the audience... I will say, if my be so bold, that black blogs don't seem to have picked up on the fact that writing a blog is ACTUALLY WRITING A BLOG...it's not just posting pictures and mono-syllabic disses...You've got to write in a way that seems personal and endearing...because your opinion is not at all an objective one...if Golden Brooks is a "HAM" that is not something you'll prove to be a fact...it is only your opinion...so why not write it as if it is... That's all...

if I may be so bold* Wow...so many errors! I really can't blog and talk on the phone, I see...

I'm confused as to why there's such mean-spiritedness directed at this site's host rather than at the issue at hand -- that Da Brat is a violent, lowlife thug who needs to go to the penitentiary for a few years. But then there are a lot of sick, damaged, mean-spirited people who, like those who aren't mentally and spiritual sick, have a right to the use of a PC/laptop and DSL/dial-up internet. I say I'm confused but then I realize that most of the people posting here are probably young and immature, with no home-training and no sense of propriety or right and wrong. To come on this young woman's site and post such poorly written gibberish attacking her is lowdown, dirty and to say nothing of ignorant. I'm not a Greek and couldn't care less if the victim was a Delta, an AKA or a Zeta. Had I been a Greek, this was my site and the victim was a soror, I'm sure I would have posted the same thing that Natasha did. It's just a shame that people are so animalistic nowadays, whether in word or deed, and so ill-mannered and ill-bred. I don't read Perez Hilton but I do read YBF and have done so for over a year now. I like it better than most of the sites I visit, including some that I've posted to for 3 years or more. But seeing that there are as many evil people posting here are there are on the other sites, it makes me wonder just what kinds of rocks people are crawling from these days. And the other gossip site chick that had the unmitigated gall to come here and berate YBF's host? Well, obviously ain't nothing happening on your site else you wouldn't have time to be spewing your evil wench views over here.

I think everyone is having withdrawls and just want a new post. Da Brat needs to grow the hell up and man up. (laughing) about the man up I just typed. I get disappointed when Rappers do bad things. Guns, drugs, driving without a license, Dog fighting, on the D L . Glad I taught my kids that a Hero can be in your household, neighborhood or a teacher. My future Heroes will be my kids, going to college will pay off and they will soon make more money than me. They(my kids) fight over who will get the privellege of putting me in either a mental hospital or a nursing home. lol. Room lighten up. Life is short. This site is to have fun. Does anyone have a sense of humor anymore?

She's a Delta boo!

It's sad to see or hear about people fighting with each other like this...even more so that a bottle was brought into the picture. What happened?? I don't get how this transpired. This has nothing to do with the actual post...but I was surprised by the clip that was posted regarding the cheerleader. Actually, I was surprised by the grammar. "The girl..." She is not a GIRL, she is an adult and a woman. Why is she being referred to as a "girl"?? I was highly annoyed by that. Maybe it's just my feminist side. "...which I have always stayed in contact with..." WHICH?? Her mother is a human being, not an object. "Which" is not used when referring to human beings. You say "whom". *s*

Da Brat just need to sit her over grown behind down!I think she is jealous or sumthin. Drunk or not at some point a little uhh.. class needs to rub off, also she is not considered VIP in my book. Brat maybe u should seek therapy perhaps? Maybe discuss why u hate woman lol

[quote comment="9224"]I think everyone is having withdrawls and just want a new post. Da Brat needs to grow the hell up and man up. (laughing) about the man up I just typed. I get disappointed when Rappers do bad things. Guns, drugs, driving without a license, Dog fighting, on the D L . Glad I taught my kids that a Hero can be in your household, neighborhood or a teacher. My future Heroes will be my kids, going to college will pay off and they will soon make more money than me. They(my kids) fight over who will get the privellege of putting me in either a mental hospital or a nursing home. lol. Room lighten up. Life is short. This site is to have fun. Does anyone have a sense of humor anymore?[/quote] Ha ha ha I like this ^ I do agree.

Wow....u people are something lol. Dissing this chic on her own site. Black folks got some damn nerve...lol Natasha, keep doing you because if it were one of my sorors (skee-wee) then I would feel the same way. Can't please everybody so if they dont like what they see or keep comparing you to others then tell'em keep it moving and go somewhere else. U Better than me because my attitude is trash...I'm working on that though!!!! lol

Wow....

Happy Sunday. Hope everyone is enjoying the extra hour we got. MrStyle, thanks for the the response. Made my day. I am not crazy, I just play one in public. lol. Damn, I turned into my dad.

Oh! and the lil kids dancing! LOL Stop it SO right!

[quote comment="9234"]It's sad to see or hear about people fighting with each other like this...even more so that a bottle was brought into the picture. What happened?? I don't get how this transpired. This has nothing to do with the actual post...but I was surprised by the clip that was posted regarding the cheerleader. Actually, I was surprised by the grammar. "The girl..." She is not a GIRL, she is an adult and a woman. Why is she being referred to as a "girl"?? I was highly annoyed by that. Maybe it's just my feminist side. "...which I have always stayed in contact with..." WHICH?? Her mother is a human being, not an object. "Which" is not used when referring to human beings. You say "whom". *s*[/quote] Bitch, shut up. This ain't English class. This is an entertainment site. If you can't deal with grammatical errors then read an A Beka Book.

Send Da Brat wonna be need to grow up hood ass to jail let's see how much of a puck she would be around some hard as women criminals she would be somebodies bitch for real but she may like that

had to make this point.... foxy brown da brat, remy, naomi campbell, etc. etc. when a female gets into trouble and is clearly acting out because she's in need of an intervention and/or emotional support or assistance and it manifests in this kind of behavior, there is very little sympathy. but when T.I. buys $21,000 of illegal guns he knew he couldn't legally own, when micheal vick is fighting dogs and passing on STD's, they get a cheering section....and we wonder why black women in our community feel so diminished.... just posing the question....

*exclamatory*

[quote comment="9270"]had to make this point.... foxy brown da brat, remy, naomi campbell, etc. etc. when a female gets into trouble and is clearly acting out because she's in need of an intervention and/or emotional support or assistance and it manifests in this kind of behavior, there is very little sympathy. but when T.I. buys $21,000 of illegal guns he knew he couldn't legally own, when micheal vick is fighting dogs and passing on STD's, they get a cheering section....and we wonder why black women in our community feel so diminished.... just posing the question....[/quote] Damn shame that black men do what they do and leave us for another race. Mike V. deserves a non cheering section, along with R Kelly. Grow the hell up. I cry tears of joy and pain for my young son. To be black in America is now a crime. (why)? The why is because noone cares. To raise black kids is not hard. cook, clean play cards/board games and talk with them. Take them to church and teach them that making kids is not a fad, but stupid. I know I am off track. I am having withdrawls for a new post.

First of all, it is very unfortunate that this beautiful young lady was wrongly attacked. When I first heard the story, my heart immediately went to her. I've never cared for the Da Brat. I've seen her out and about in my clubbing days and it is sad she is still the same. Secondly, to all of you that took offense that Natasha stated "she's my soror" needs to drink some prune juice and let the *&^# go! I am so tired of people acting out of jealousy because you don't understand our bond. I am member of DynaSTy of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Inc. (oooo-ooop!) It is so much deeper than the Soror, the call, the strolls, etc. It is about what The 22 went through to get DST established. But I don't have to explain that to you to get you to sympathize. Like my Soror AJ said. Think about it if it was your sister, your brother, or your mother. Shay is not my blood sister. I don't know her and have never met her, but the bond is that strong that Sorors automatically come out of nowhere when another soror is at harm's way. I never knew Natasha was a Delta. She has never boasted about her membership. That automatically shows she never meant to project any arrogance (to the chic that stated that earlier). If you took it that way, then that is your issue. GET OVER IT!

Natasha You are so wack! You are only producing this site because you want what Perez has! You want to be famous, you want to be with the stars! You talk about them every day. You are always belittling them and then you will turn around and do a free give away for them. You are SOOOOO fake. You are fat! You are UGLY! You probably are not even a REAL delta! I saw a Delta shout out to you and you DIDN'T EVEN RESPOND! I know you don't have to, but then what is the cause for all this so called anger over a soror getting hit over the head? I question if you are REALLY a Delta. You are a quitter. You quit law school to play on the internet all day! That is what most bloggers do, play on the internet all day! And most bloggers are ugly, that is why they talk about people all day. Just look at perez. UGLY and FAT, just like Natasha. Most of yall don't know that because she has only relaeased one or two pictures of her "fab" self. You are a shame. Oh, and this site is her life.

Seminole Law Girl: While you're exerting energy proving just how ignorant and lacking you are in the sophistication and couth department, I'm resting easy with the fact that at the very least your school is ranked 53 among law schools. Assumebly, they accept trash like you who don't quite warrant a tier 2 law school, but damn sure would never survive in a top ten Tier 1 law school...not even a top 20 Tier 1, for that matter. On another note, I didn't realize there was a big debate here about the owner of the website and whether she has a right to her opinions. I will say that when you have a public website, there's bound to be differences of opinion among site users...and people tend to be a lot braver about being an ass and hurling insults at the site owner and each other (just look at the comments section here on any day), when they're safely hidden behind the anonymity of the internet. I think once we learn to accept and even expect the ignorant AND the good, it becomes a lot easier. I know it can be hurtful when siteusers know just one buttons to push...but just ignore them. Obviously you're doing the right thing if people are even responding. With that said, I think it's a tragedy no matter where this woman was from or what groups she "belongs" to. I've never understood sorority/fraternity mentalities, so it's difficult for me to even understand why people are angrier, simply because the person is a member of a certain organization. I think everyone has a right to our symphathies in equal portion...

WELL! I just left you kids alone for a couple of days and this is what I find when I come back??? You should be ashamed of yourselves. Go to the corner AT ONCE – and when there I want you think of your attitude. Natasha – I know how hard you work to develop and maintain this site. I look at you as a daughter, and just want to say I am proud of you and admire your skill in turning what was a lack (news of black celebrities), into a viable, enjoyable and profitable business. Success brings many good things – but it also brings unpleasant stuff and judging from the posts you have a lot of success! I know you are a sensible young woman who will take the constructive criticisms and weight them, take the support (there is lots) offered with gratitude and you will be fine. I also hope you've been off having a great weekend as I did. There is a sisterhood that comes with being Black and female (especially in North America), that is hard to ignore. Let us see as true sisters and treat each other with love and respect. We can get mad with each other, we can disagree but can we do it in a better manner? I hope when I log on tomorrow you will be all in a better mood and better behaviour. Good night.