Young, Black, and Fabulous :: I Don’t Have To Make This Ish Up.: Ursh Shuts Down The Baby Pimpin’

  • Posted on May 2, 2008 by Natasha

    Ursh Shuts Down The Baby Pimpin’

    Usher says he’s not even trying to shop around pics of his baby lil Usher Raymond V. He tells Page Six, “In no way would I ever pimp out my child for money.” Daddy and son were already spotted out and about together last month. He also says he’s livid that people are even talking about his child at all. And of course, he goes on about how everyone should respect his wife Tameka because it is who he has chosen to spend his life with:

    “I stand by her as a man loving my wife and being there for my child . . . Opinions are like [bleep]holes. Everybody’s got one. What I will say is, this is my wife and I would hope that [people] would respect my wife and my marriage and who I have chosen to spend my life with.”





    And what Ursh has to say on people talking ish about him in regards to him possibly fronting as a family man:

    “What makes you a man more than being a father to your child? I recognize I gave anonymity away when I became an artist, but to have people try to paint a horrible picture of what’s so beautiful - it’s obvious someone is trying to stop something so beautiful.”





    He and Baby Ursh will be featured in the Father’s Day ‘08 issue of Essence magazine.

    Cohen/Wireimage, TMZ

    88 Comments »

    1. Proposition O

      On May 2, 2008 at 4:26 pm | Reply | Quote

      If yall don’t let that boy have his husband and family…gawsh! j/k!

    2. TIANA

      On May 2, 2008 at 4:26 pm | Reply | Quote

      thats good that he’s not getting money out of his child.
      i never thought of it that way.

    3. inmyopinion

      On May 2, 2008 at 4:27 pm | Reply | Quote

      2nd

    4. inmyopinion

      On May 2, 2008 at 4:27 pm | Reply | Quote

      Not 2, but 3rd lol

    5. NJ-KDub

      On May 2, 2008 at 4:28 pm | Reply | Quote

      Ursh WHATEV….no one WANTS to BUY those photographs, thats why

    6. BRIS BABY

      On May 2, 2008 at 4:29 pm | Reply | Quote

      Man I hope that baby is cute.

    7. NJ-KDub

      On May 2, 2008 at 4:29 pm | Reply | Quote

      LOL!

    8. T!

      On May 2, 2008 at 4:30 pm | Reply | Quote

      ENDEARING!

    9. inmyopinion

      On May 2, 2008 at 4:31 pm | Reply | Quote

      Who really cares about Ursh and his wife. Hope he’s stopped his cheating ways because before he got with her he had a different chick like every week. Just hope he a good dad to his kid and the rest of hers.

    10. Fenix

      On May 2, 2008 at 4:33 pm | Reply | Quote

      So I don’t think celebrities initially set out to “pimp” their children. Truth be told, they will be less likely to attacked by paparazzi trying to get a picture of the unphotographed kid when they choose to set up a planned photo shoot. I don’t know about everyone else, but Brangelina donated all the money they received for pictures of their kid.

      Just a thought for those who think it is “kid pimpin” to sale photos..

    11. the truth

      On May 2, 2008 at 4:34 pm | Reply | Quote

      his baby is sweet and peole hatin and talkin ish about the baby are …..
      but still cant stnad his wife, and think he can do better. love is blind and it’ll take over your mind(eve) but when he’s ready to swallow his pride and say he messed up choosin her and had to much pride to say so. im sure his mama, friends and fans will al be forgiving and be grateful only to tameeka for having such a sweet child. on the bright note finally she looks like she smilin for real and aint puttiun effort to keep it on like it will crack her face in 2 to do it

    12. Jelly Bean

      On May 2, 2008 at 4:35 pm | Reply | Quote

      OMG that pic of Usher holding his son is so damn cute I can’t even be mad at him anymore for marrying old whatshername. Yum…

    13. toy

      On May 2, 2008 at 4:35 pm | Reply | Quote

      maybe if he didnt marry that ghetto tranny mess, then we wouldnt have to talk about her.

    14. Harlem Chic

      On May 2, 2008 at 4:36 pm | Reply | Quote

      It’s good to see a black man defend his very black wife by being a provider and a protector. Get you grown man on Ursh! I know this is a gossip site; but the level of fever that the Raymonds get as a couple is ri-damn-diculous…

    15. Essence

      On May 2, 2008 at 4:36 pm | Reply | Quote

      I’ve been an Usher since forever. So I’m happy for him. Although I thought Chilli was a better match for him.

    16. life

      On May 2, 2008 at 4:37 pm | Reply | Quote

      Natasha remember while back you said your sure the celebrities that the celebs that visit your site are kanye, usher and etc. well seems like ushers been readin YBF and is counsellin his girl on how to act. also he probably hurt at all the comments peole made because i aint ever hear no other sites or peole really hate on him or make him as news worthy as this one. so he’s a bit touchy./.. but he know what time it is and what to do. aint gonna say no more for some cougars start jumpin down my throat like there certain peoples friends and were maid of honours at their wedding… think i hinted to much

    17. life

      On May 2, 2008 at 4:39 pm | Reply | Quote

      inmyopinion wrote:

      Who really cares about Ursh and his wife. Hope he’s stopped his cheating ways because before he got with her he had a different chick like every week. Just hope he a good dad to his kid and the rest of hers.

      why cause his album said that. because i never really heard about him cheation. and as far as im concerned i thought he was gay up until confessions. or now im border line. so was he cheatin with men. cant wait til tameeka do a tell all cuz im sure she will

    18. p1tey1

      On May 2, 2008 at 4:40 pm | Reply | Quote

      I have to respect Usher for standing up for his wife and not pimping his son. Big ups!!!!! Black love y’all!!!

    19. toya

      On May 2, 2008 at 4:42 pm | Reply | Quote

      Essence wrote:

      I’ve been an Usher since forever. So I’m happy for him. Although I thought Chilli was a better match for him.

      me too. chili was the shit baby hairs old school and all. seems like none of them can stay happy or get it right after oneanother. actually onsecond note chilli’s man is cuuuuuute

    20. nba961

      On May 2, 2008 at 4:50 pm | Reply | Quote

      The only thing I want to know is the baby’s head shaped like a cone like his father’s?

    21. FashionIcon2010

      On May 2, 2008 at 4:50 pm | Reply | Quote

      WHO CARES USHER!!!!!!!! You can be married to that shoplifting woman if you want….. SO WHAT!!!!!!!!! The baby is a cute chunky wonky though….

    22. nini

      On May 2, 2008 at 4:51 pm | Reply | Quote

      I like them together and I truly believe that people really need to stop hating on them and just mind their own and the same goes for nick and mariah, Ya Dig!!!!!

    23. blaquecheri

      On May 2, 2008 at 4:55 pm | Reply | Quote

      HATERS!!!!!I guess you would all be happy if Usher married a light-bright barely legal chick, Tameka is a grown woman (we all know he likey the older women)she is not a video chick, starlett, just a regular chick, and she must be doing something right if a 27 yo superstar waits for your divorce to be final then makes you his wife. As for Chili, she’s beautiful, but can’t keep a man, so she definately doesn’t sound like a good catch to me. The boy looks happy. And besides Tameka is from the Town, we just got game like that no matter what the age, sorry haters

    24. TELL 'EM BOY!

      On May 2, 2008 at 4:56 pm | Reply | Quote

      YES INDEEDY!!!!!!!!!!!

    25. Mabel

      On May 2, 2008 at 4:57 pm | Reply | Quote

      Kudos to you Usher for blasting all the naysayers. It kills me how black people can find the ugliest things to say about each other. Your wife has been vilified in the Black press and the white blog site have jumped onboard and is also calling her all manner of names. Nobody took the time out to applaud you for marrying a single mother and becoming a father to her previous children and making a home with her so your child will not be another statistic. You deserve any father of the year recognition you receive. May God bless you and your family.

    26. STFU Already

      On May 2, 2008 at 4:57 pm | Reply | Quote

      I don’t get why people are so mad…Hell at the end of the day, they represent a stong BLACK couple…I mean I get people being skeptical of the relationship because of Tameka’s past, but some have just been downright disrespectful and hateful…..At the end of the day, it will be Usher’s mess to clean up if something goes wrong with their marriage…

    27. Cheryl

      On May 2, 2008 at 4:57 pm | Reply | Quote

      Fenix wrote:

      So I don’t think celebrities initially set out to “pimp” their children. Truth be told, they will be less likely to attacked by paparazzi trying to get a picture of the unphotographed kid when they choose to set up a planned photo shoot. I don’t know about everyone else, but Brangelina donated all the money they received for pictures of their kid.

      Just a thought for those who think it is “kid pimpin” to sale photos..

      My thoughts exactly! It’s the ones that try to play hide-n-seek who have the most trouble from the media.

    28. lexus

      On May 2, 2008 at 5:00 pm | Reply | Quote

      blaquecheri wrote:

      HATERS!!!!!I guess you would all be happy if Usher married a light-bright barely legal chick, Tameka is a grown woman (we all know he likey the older women)she is not a video chick, starlett, just a regular chick, and she must be doing something right if a 27 yo superstar waits for your divorce to be final then makes you his wife. As for Chili, she’s beautiful, but can’t keep a man, so she definately doesn’t sound like a good catch to me. The boy looks happy. And besides Tameka is from the Town, we just got game like that no matter what the age, sorry haters

      we loved chili and they the same completion. but she was pretty smiled and deserving. who are you tameeka’s sister, friends tameeka herself

    29. miss. t.

      On May 2, 2008 at 5:03 pm | Reply | Quote

      usher do u baby cuz everybody else is doing what they want to do regardless of what family or friends have to say..people will talk until u die, even if ur doing good or bad somebody will ALWAYS have something negative to say..if usher has indeed made a big mistake by marrying her (as so many people think) it is his life and he has to deal with it..but why marrying her is such a big deal? i didn’t know he was paying so many people’s bills to be worrying so much of what he’s doing and has anybody lost sleep over him and tameka?

    30. question

      On May 2, 2008 at 5:05 pm | Reply | Quote

      STFU Already wrote:

      I don’t get why people are so mad…Hell at the end of the day, they represent a stong BLACK couple…I mean I get people being skeptical of the relationship because of Tameka’s past, but some have just been downright disrespectful and hateful…..At the end of the day, it will be Usher’s mess to clean up if something goes wrong with their marriage…

      bothers me cuz i watched him grow have been a fan for years and can see him do better. he had countless girlfriends if you can remember all dark skin and none of them were ever made fun of.. usher and his mom were closer that siamese twins now his mother and him dont talk because of this chick and she use to be employed by his mom. just lately you’ve been seeing her smile. maybe bcuz ppl started commenting and dissing her so she finally got the point. when he was with chili no one was mad those anonymous g’s no one knocked him. USHER usually only dates dark girls.love black love but dont think she is it. but if he’s happy im happy for him. but i hope she aint burnin wholes in his pockets and turnin them millions to hundreds

    31. nicole

      On May 2, 2008 at 5:07 pm | Reply | Quote

      wow. why is everybody so bitter? did ush cheat on one of y’all or something? i mean damn. all he asked was to respect his family and people cant even do that. crazy.

      anyways, the black love is always beautiful. props to them, i will be picking up essence mag.

    32. inmyopinion

      On May 2, 2008 at 5:09 pm | Reply | Quote

      life wrote:

      inmyopinion wrote:

      Who really cares about Ursh and his wife. Hope he’s stopped his cheating ways because before he got with her he had a different chick like every week. Just hope he a good dad to his kid and the rest of hers.

      why cause his album said that. because i never really heard about him cheation. and as far as im concerned i thought he was gay up until confessions. or now im border line. so was he cheatin with men. cant wait til tameeka do a tell all cuz im sure she will

      Not sure if he cheated with men.

    33. inmyopinion

      On May 2, 2008 at 5:11 pm | Reply | Quote

      life wrote:

      inmyopinion wrote:

      Who really cares about Ursh and his wife. Hope he’s stopped his cheating ways because before he got with her he had a different chick like every week. Just hope he a good dad to his kid and the rest of hers.

      why cause his album said that. because i never really heard about him cheation. and as far as im concerned i thought he was gay up until confessions. or now im border line. so was he cheatin with men. cant wait til tameeka do a tell all cuz im sure she will

      I never thought he was gay.

    34. Country Elegance

      On May 2, 2008 at 5:12 pm | Reply | Quote

      Cheryl wrote:

      Fenix wrote:

      So I don’t think celebrities initially set out to “pimp” their children. Truth be told, they will be less likely to attacked by paparazzi trying to get a picture of the unphotographed kid when they choose to set up a planned photo shoot. I don’t know about everyone else, but Brangelina donated all the money they received for pictures of their kid.

      Just a thought for those who think it is “kid pimpin” to sale photos..

      My thoughts exactly!

      It’s the ones that try to play hide-n-seek who have the most trouble from the media.

      Everyone is going to do what they want to do and say what they want to say but I am in agreement with you. Most of the stars donate the money to a charity and it keeps them from being attached by folks trying to get there picture.

    35. Stacy Holt

      On May 2, 2008 at 5:19 pm | Reply | Quote

      I think people are mad at Usher and Tameka because something about her just ain’t right….you can look at her and tell she is the dominant force in the relationshiop. it is a known fact that Usher likes older women… I just don’t think that they compliment each other well. but who cares because at the end of the day he has to sleep with her not me

    36. sexybeach

      On May 2, 2008 at 5:29 pm | Reply | Quote

      FINALLY stop putting a price tag on your child’s head it makes me sick when i read that celebrities sell their children’s pictures to magazines

    37. Asea

      On May 2, 2008 at 5:33 pm | Reply | Quote

      Oh please Usher. I am a fan but he is always saying something that doesnt need to be said. So is he saying his friends Diddy, Chilli, The Beckhams, Will & Jada, etc pimp out their children? People are fans and everyone likes to see babies whether they are famous or not! he’s always so defensive… i know he cathces heat about Tameka but he did wife her, so she must have something extra spicy goin on. I also find it odd that he didnt mention her kids/sons. It’s all about “my son.” Hmmmm. He needs to just be quiet! He always ends up insulting someone, or coming off as self absorbed.

    38. black_ice

      On May 2, 2008 at 5:44 pm | Reply | Quote

      it’s good to see him not pimping out his kid. but damn i can’t wait to see halle’s baby.

    39. s

      On May 2, 2008 at 5:49 pm | Reply | Quote

      People are always going to find something negative to say no matter what is said. All he said was he wanted people to respect his family. nothing more nothing less.

    40. Mitch

      On May 2, 2008 at 5:59 pm | Reply | Quote

      Unless you experience true love you have no idea how he feels. Very few people experience true love and misery always love company. I am truly happy for him.

    41. Stacey

      On May 2, 2008 at 6:05 pm | Reply | Quote

      I think that this is the epitome of what a black man should be .If all black men could think like that we would run America like the jews …

    42. JUJU

      On May 2, 2008 at 6:23 pm | Reply | Quote

      THATS RIGHT USHER LET THESE HOES KNOW! THE MAIN ONES TALKING SHIT PROBABLY THE LONELY SINGLE ONES!!
      AND WOULD YALL GET OFF OF CHILLI THAT SHIT IS DONE AND OVER WITH HE HAS MOVED ON!LET IT BE

    43. JUJU

      On May 2, 2008 at 6:26 pm | Reply | Quote

      question wrote:

      STFU Already wrote:

      I don’t get why people are so mad…Hell at the end of the day, they represent a stong BLACK couple…I mean I get people being skeptical of the relationship because of Tameka’s past, but some have just been downright disrespectful and hateful…..At the end of the day, it will be Usher’s mess to clean up if something goes wrong with their marriage…

      bothers me cuz i watched him grow have been a fan for years and can see him do better. he had countless girlfriends if you can remember all dark skin and none of them were ever made fun of.. usher and his mom were closer that siamese twins now his mother and him dont talk because of this chick and she use to be employed by his mom. just lately you’ve been seeing her smile. maybe bcuz ppl started commenting and dissing her so she finally got the point. when he was with chili no one was mad those anonymous g’s no one knocked him. USHER usually only dates dark girls.love black love but dont think she is it. but if he’s happy im happy for him. but i hope she aint burnin wholes in his pockets and turnin them millions to hundreds

      WHY DO YOU CARE ABOUT HIS MONEY

    44. luvangel330

      On May 2, 2008 at 6:36 pm | Reply | Quote

      Get your grown man on then Ursh…’bout time like he said opinuines are like a** Holes.

    45. lashanda

      On May 2, 2008 at 8:00 pm | Reply | Quote

      people have criticized his marriage for the past year and he never said a thing about the comments until know. if you notice he didnt defend his marriage until know,the reason being usher likes to create controversial when has a album coming out. i really dont care about his marriage to tamekea,he should not be worried about that right know, but worried about this album he got coming out and he live of to hype of his last album. i just wish he would stop letting controvesor sell his records but let his talent sell his records

    46. S.D.

      On May 2, 2008 at 8:11 pm | Reply | Quote

      From what Town? I know you aint talking about Oakland!

    47. S.D.

      On May 2, 2008 at 8:21 pm | Reply | Quote

      Anyways, @ 1st I didn’t like Tameeka and Ush together. I don’t care what any of you ’sophisticated and mature’ people say but when your a fan of somebody, when you’re willing to pay money to see somebody or buy their records..you do get invested in their life. That’s celebreality. So I’ll say it again, at 1st I didn’t like them together. But now, I’m starting to see Tameeka as a regular ghetto chick. Which gives other regular ghetto chicks hope to trapping the Ushers of this world. I’m happy if they happy..

      I still think Chilli was sooo much better for him…But then again, who am I to tell the man who to date? But I can damn sho comment on it!

    48. Yanique

      On May 2, 2008 at 8:27 pm | Reply | Quote

      AAACCCKKK how sweet I am waiting for that pic to translate into a real life situation for me.

      Perfectly happy and in love with someone who loves me back.

      Being 21 and having never had a bf while my little sis at 17 has had 2 SUCKS EGGS!!

      Ima get that weight and PCOS under control and find me a hot piece of ass like Tameka did

    49. Yas

      On May 2, 2008 at 8:39 pm | Reply | Quote

      Okay!! Usher please spare us all the madness!! That is your choice so just leave it at that!! There are other things in life to be worried about besides somebody making comments about the marriage.
      Focus on happiness!!!

    50. atlsista

      On May 2, 2008 at 8:39 pm | Reply | Quote

      I feel Usher on one hand……but there is still something about Tameka that I can’t quite put my finger on……I just can’t call it. Usher’s whole image has been off lately…..ever since he got with her. Like he’s trying to hard to seem mature …I guess to match her age.

      I just hope he realizes that just because he married her and had a baby with her does not mean he it’s a done deal.

    51. Asia

      On May 2, 2008 at 8:57 pm | Reply | Quote

      Nice!! Can’t wait until the Father’s Day Essence issue. A real Father a real Man. Gotta Love It and Respect It. Usher is now a grown ass intelligent man, and he married a grown ass beautiful black woman. Low lifes will hate as they may. Get yours!!!

    52. Petunia

      On May 2, 2008 at 9:27 pm | Reply | Quote

      ursh is full-o-shit!

    53. Klover

      On May 2, 2008 at 9:52 pm | Reply | Quote

      I think his marriage is going to kill his career. His son his adorable though…..for now.

    54. Milan

      On May 2, 2008 at 9:56 pm | Reply | Quote

      blaquecheri wrote:

      HATERS!!!!!I guess you would all be happy if Usher married a light-bright barely legal chick, Tameka is a grown woman (we all know he likey the older women)she is not a video chick, starlett, just a regular chick, and she must be doing something right if a 27 yo superstar waits for your divorce to be final then makes you his wife. As for Chili, she’s beautiful, but can’t keep a man, so she definately doesn’t sound like a good catch to me. The boy looks happy. And besides Tameka is from the Town, we just got game like that no matter what the age, sorry haters

      what does skin tone has to do with anything? Don’t insult us lighter skin black by acting as if we are a sub-ethnicity to dark girls. Black is Black~

    55. Grace

      On May 2, 2008 at 10:19 pm | Reply | Quote

      Let’s keep it real. Usher couln’t get a bid of $1000 to see pictures of a brown baby. Do anyone really think that Tameka would turn down a million for a couple of photos. People really need to get off Tameka’s looks. If Meka want to believe that is why people DON’T like her, let her keep being dullisional. Usher went & took another man’s family. Out of all the women in this world, he went & Jacked someone else family. KARMA IS A BITCH!

    56. mz_dallas06

      On May 2, 2008 at 11:21 pm | Reply | Quote

      How can people knock Usher for getting married to a woman that he has made a child with ( as well as stepped into the step-parent role) and Then Knock Ditty for Not marrying Kim Porter?? WTF?? I give USHER his props because this MAN not only defends his relationship with Tameka, he also DEFENDS TAMEKA and Their Family as a whole. What does it matter what Chilli looks like? Looks have never kept ANY couple together. From many pix that I’ve seen of him in the past he has dated many different women and not ONE of those women have been around since Tameka has stepped into the picture–so clearly he WANTS this woman and he is willing to stand before GOD and vow to love, honor and respect her—– DITTY COULD LEARN ALOT FROM HIM.

    57. Bella

      On May 2, 2008 at 11:21 pm | Reply | Quote

      HT

      JUJU wrote:

      THATS RIGHT USHER LET THESE HOES KNOW! THE MAIN ONES TALKING SHIT PROBABLY THE LONELY SINGLE ONES!!
      AND WOULD YALL GET OFF OF CHILLI THAT SHIT IS DONE AND OVER WITH HE HAS MOVED ON!LET IT BE

      I agree..CHili is gone, they been done for over 4 years. Chicks move the hell on. YOu are so right the ones that talk shit about other peoples relationships are the ones who are miserable with NO MAN.

    58. Chica

      On May 2, 2008 at 11:23 pm | Reply | Quote

      Harlem Chic wrote:

      It’s good to see a black man defend his very black wife by being a provider and a protector. Get you grown man on Ursh! I know this is a gossip site; but the level of fever that the Raymonds get as a couple is ri-damn-diculous…

      Hell to the yeah! He is gettin his grown man/husband/daddy on!! How many black men can we say that about these days? Very few…

      U can’t take what isn’t yours…no man or woman can be stolen if they are separated from their spouse/significant other…and even if they aren’t..they leave upon their own free will. If u can “take” my man…he isn’t mine obviously…

    59. Bella

      On May 2, 2008 at 11:24 pm | Reply | Quote

      Also, looks are in the eye of the beholder. Blacks are so quick to knock each other down.

    60. Klover

      On May 2, 2008 at 11:41 pm | Reply | Quote

      He’s foolish

    61. swtndl81

      On May 3, 2008 at 12:18 am | Reply | Quote

      so true, he mad that no one wants to buy this babys pics. i bet if there were offers he, jr, and his mama oops i mean wife would on the cover of people, us weekly,whatever.

    62. BLAQCURANT

      On May 3, 2008 at 1:19 am | Reply | Quote

      Bella wrote:

      Also, looks are in the eye of the beholder. Blacks are so quick to knock each other down.

      Bella,

      Don’t be so quick to generalize ‘Blacks” because you do not know all Blacks, and we all are not “quick to knock each other down” don’t judge all “Blacks” just because of a slew of negative comments on a “Black” blog. They do not represent US ALL.

      “Blacks” do not hold the monopoly on “knocking each other down”.

      mz_dallas06
      You hit the nail on the head baby!

      SD
      It’s sounds like you an obsessed fan “you do get invested in their life” I may buy someone’s cd, hell I might even go to their concert and buy a tee shirt or 2, I might even comment about it on a gossip blog site, but I am not ‘invested” in their life that sounds a little too stalk-er-ish, too many grown ass people on this blog are taking Ushers marriage to Tameka way too personally, like they have an added interest in it or something, it’s one thing not agree with or not to be happy with whom he decided to marry but a lot of these comments are soo derogatory and mean and nasty and petty, it’s not called for this is the only way grown people/adults can express how unhappy they are with Ushers choice in a wife?
      “But now, I’m starting to see Tameka as a regular ghetto chick.” SD how is Tameka “a regular ghetto chick”? Do you know Tameka personally or are you giving an opinion based only on rumors and half truths and negativity?

      Lashanda
      I mean really, what is so controversial about Usher defending his marriage and his wife????wtf??

      Asea - “So is he saying his friends Diddy, Chilli, The Beckhams, Will & Jada, etc pimp out their children? ” Did Ursher really drop the names of his celebrity “friends” that supposedly “pimped” their babies photos???? Whom did he insult again? I must’ve missed that one, you are reading way to much into the reason HE decided not to “pimp” photos of his and Tameka’s son.

      Question
      Life is too short to be “bothered” by why some celebrity that you don’t know is married to someone that you don’t know but have deemed not good enough, geeeezzz louise, is there anyone on this blog that personally knows Usher and Tameka?

      Is there anyone on this blog that knows exactly for a fact what happened in Tameka’s 1st marriage, Is there anyone on this blog that knows for a fact that Tameka personally came between Usher and his mother? Is there anyone on this blog that knows for a fact what goes on in Mr. & Mrs. Raymond’s marriage? Or is everyone on the bandwagon following rumors, speculation, innuendo, here say, assumptions, etc….? Just wondering. I get that this is a gossip blog but some of these comments are just a little to much.

      BC

    63. love r damn selves

      On May 3, 2008 at 1:30 am | Reply | Quote

      p1tey1 wrote:

      I have to respect Usher for standing up for his wife and not pimping his son. Big ups!!!!! Black love y’all!!!

      I second that! He is a man among men

    64. love r damn selves

      On May 3, 2008 at 1:34 am | Reply | Quote

      BLAQCURANT wrote:

      Bella wrote:

      Also, looks are in the eye of the beholder. Blacks are so quick to knock each other down.

      Bella,

      Don’t be so quick to generalize ‘Blacks” because you do not know all Blacks, and we all are not “quick to knock each other down” don’t judge all “Blacks” just because of a slew of negative comments on a “Black” blog. They do not represent US ALL.

      “Blacks” do not hold the monopoly on “knocking each other down”.

      mz_dallas06
      You hit the nail on the head baby!

      SD
      It’s sounds like you an obsessed fan “you do get invested in their life” I may buy someone’s cd, hell I might even go to their concert and buy a tee shirt or 2, I might even comment about it on a gossip blog site, but I am not ‘invested” in their life that sounds a little too stalk-er-ish, too many grown ass people on this blog are taking Ushers marriage to Tameka way too personally, like they have an added interest in it or something, it’s one thing not agree with or not to be happy with whom he decided to marry but a lot of these comments are soo derogatory and mean and nasty and petty, it’s not called for this is the only way grown people/adults can express how unhappy they are with Ushers choice in a wife?
      “But now, I’m starting to see Tameka as a regular ghetto chick.” SD how is Tameka “a regular ghetto chick”? Do you know Tameka personally or are you giving an opinion based only on rumors and half truths and negativity?

      Lashanda
      I mean really, what is so controversial about Usher defending his marriage and his wife????wtf??

      Asea - “So is he saying his friends Diddy, Chilli, The Beckhams, Will & Jada, etc pimp out their children? ” Did Ursher really drop the names of his celebrity “friends” that supposedly “pimped” their babies photos???? Whom did he insult again? I must’ve missed that one, you are reading way to much into the reason HE decided not to “pimp” photos of his and Tameka’s son.

      Question
      Life is too short to be “bothered” by why some celebrity that you don’t know is married to someone that you don’t know but have deemed not good enough, geeeezzz louise, is there anyone on this blog that personally knows Usher and Tameka?

      Is there anyone on this blog that knows exactly for a fact what happened in Tameka’s 1st marriage, Is there anyone on this blog that knows for a fact that Tameka personally came between Usher and his mother? Is there anyone on this blog that knows for a fact what goes on in Mr. & Mrs. Raymond’s marriage? Or is everyone on the bandwagon following rumors, speculation, innuendo, here say, assumptions, etc….? Just wondering. I get that this is a gossip blog but some of these comments are just a little to much.

      BC

      Very well said. I will agree with Blla halfway though…..MOST black people have a PhD (Pull Him/Her Down) syndrome.

    65. Klover

      On May 3, 2008 at 1:45 am | Reply | Quote

      Some of you all really need to expand and not just spend your time on sites that are geared towards people of color, or have friends that are only black. What is being discussed is not pulling “black people down” people of every color comment on each other and celebrities. Get it right, get out of your “black box” and respect that people have opinions and keep moving. If you want to talk about a problem with black people, lets talk about how we always want to relate everything to color. Please expand your mind and your world, because it is not that serious.

    66. BLAQCURANT

      On May 3, 2008 at 2:03 am | Reply | Quote

      love r damn selves wrote:

      BLAQCURANT wrote:

      Bella wrote:

      Also, looks are in the eye of the beholder. Blacks are so quick to knock each other down.

      Bella,

      Don’t be so quick to generalize ‘Blacks” because you do not know all Blacks, and we all are not “quick to knock each other down” don’t judge all “Blacks” just because of a slew of negative comments on a “Black” blog. They do not represent US ALL.

      “Blacks” do not hold the monopoly on “knocking each other down”.

      mz_dallas06
      You hit the nail on the head baby!

      SD
      It’s sounds like you an obsessed fan “you do get invested in their life” I may buy someone’s cd, hell I might even go to their concert and buy a tee shirt or 2, I might even comment about it on a gossip blog site, but I am not ‘invested” in their life that sounds a little too stalk-er-ish, too many grown ass people on this blog are taking Ushers marriage to Tameka way too personally, like they have an added interest in it or something, it’s one thing not agree with or not to be happy with whom he decided to marry but a lot of these comments are soo derogatory and mean and nasty and petty, it’s not called for this is the only way grown people/adults can express how unhappy they are with Ushers choice in a wife?
      “But now, I’m starting to see Tameka as a regular ghetto chick.” SD how is Tameka “a regular ghetto chick”? Do you know Tameka personally or are you giving an opinion based only on rumors and half truths and negativity?

      Lashanda
      I mean really, what is so controversial about Usher defending his marriage and his wife????wtf??

      Asea - “So is he saying his friends Diddy, Chilli, The Beckhams, Will & Jada, etc pimp out their children? ” Did Ursher really drop the names of his celebrity “friends” that supposedly “pimped” their babies photos???? Whom did he insult again? I must’ve missed that one, you are reading way to much into the reason HE decided not to “pimp” photos of his and Tameka’s son.

      Question
      Life is too short to be “bothered” by why some celebrity that you don’t know is married to someone that you don’t know but have deemed not good enough, geeeezzz louise, is there anyone on this blog that personally knows Usher and Tameka?

      Is there anyone on this blog that knows exactly for a fact what happened in Tameka’s 1st marriage, Is there anyone on this blog that knows for a fact that Tameka personally came between Usher and his mother? Is there anyone on this blog that knows for a fact what goes on in Mr. & Mrs. Raymond’s marriage? Or is everyone on the bandwagon following rumors, speculation, innuendo, here say, assumptions, etc….? Just wondering. I get that this is a gossip blog but some of these comments are just a little to much.

      BC

      Very well said. I will agree with Blla halfway though…..MOST black people have a PhD (Pull Him/Her Down) syndrome.

      Well I don’t know “most black people” so I can not honestly agree with you, I can only go by the “Black people” I know and associate with and this generalization does not depict me, them or us, maybe you meant most black people you know, I’m just asking.

      BC

    67. Shamrock

      On May 3, 2008 at 6:22 am | Reply | Quote

      I give Usher props for his relationship with his wife, and his commitment to family, we need more black men (men in general, because they are all getting slack when it comes to family) like him. But let’s be real, none of those gossip mags are looking to put his baby on the cover. The only “black” person who will get the opportunity is Halle, and that’s because she is biracial and american’s sweetheart. I am sure if they offered him some money he would do it around the time his album drops.