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YBF reader Horace sent in this video of a kid on Dr. Phil recently having it out with his mama. The just of the backstory is that they have mother-child discipline and attention issues. The kid, however, forgets he is the kid and hauls off and slaps his mother to "make her listen":
Damn. Let the thought even had formed in my mind to do this ish to my mama. It would be TROUBLE. Speak on it.

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my mom might take it but she

my mom might take it but she didnt raise me, my aunty did and if I had done so to her, oh damn I would get the crap kicked out of me. Which is most likely why I never did. I dont know why people get all butt hurt over a spankin ever now any then my family did it to me and I see how it could help. People should let people raise there own kids or if not start payin for them cause your just sayin that we arnt responable for them
Kari's picture

did anybody notice how his

did anybody notice how his voice changed when he said SHUT UP ? like he was possessed....SMH
cutie pie's picture

[quote comment="110517"]There

[quote comment="110517"]There was no way in the world that I would have slapped my mom like that...If that was us on Dr. Phil, they would have to cut to a commercial break..or the words "PLEASE STAND BY" would come across the television screen.....I have so much respect for my mother that I am scared to even look at her wrong..[/quote] LMAO ok? rainbow screen and all.
BrownSugah's picture

There was no way in the world

There was no way in the world that I would have slapped my mom like that...If that was us on Dr. Phil, they would have to cut to a commercial break..or the words "PLEASE STAND BY" would come across the television screen.....I have so much respect for my mother that I am scared to even look at her wrong..
Tonya's picture

[quote

[quote comment="107390"][quote comment="107371"][quote comment="107352"]WTH is all i can say...Brenda would kill me if I did that, lol[/quote] LOL. I saw this show and that kid was a mess! Rita would've taken a sista down! You hear me?!? And then would've told me to stop crying before she gave me something to cry about (and that is after she whooped my a$$ like a runaway slave).[/quote] That brings back memories!! Didn't you used to hate when your parents would tell you to go pick out a switch on a tree? And then they got nerve enough to get mad when you bring back a twig![/quote] ROTFL... hilarity. I come from the last era of Big Mamas (i'm 26) and i definitely remember gettin extra licks for not picking out a suitable whooping weapon. lol. u took it waaay back.
Prieta's picture

[quote comment="108181"]This

[quote comment="108181"]This is insane. Though I DO feel that is it mostly the mother's fault for not whipping him when he needs to be whipped, she absolutely DOES NEED TO LISTEN to this boy. He had deeeeeep issues most likely due to her neglect and lack of attention that she has given him. He is most likely not getting positive attention when he DOES do something wrong, so he has to slap her ass to get some attention. Pitiful. Let me say, my mother would most definitely beat the SNOT out of me if I slapped her in the face, but God knows I've wanted to do it so many times, but she has instilled the RESPECT that I never let that thought turn into an action. It's all her fault, and she probably deserved it, she created that monster.[/quote] TRUE....TRUE...
humble brotha's picture

[quote comment="107373"]Oprah

[quote comment="107373"]Oprah created a monster! . For the life of me, I cannot understand why people watch Dr Phil or more so, why people actually take their problems to a world-wide audience![/quote] THANK YOU!!!!!!! DR. PHIL TELLS U THE SAME THING YO MAMA OR YOUR BEST FRIEND TELL U-BUT HE CHARGES FEES( I.E....HOTELS, FOOD, AND PUBLIC HUMILIATION.
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1. Yeah, this conversation

1. Yeah, this conversation would never have happened in my mama's house (notice it's not *my* house). Julia would've taken care of all this long ago. I threatened to call Child Protective Services once, and she handed me the phone and asked me what did I think happened to little black children, 10 years old, in the system. They stay there 'til they are 18; and it's not fun. I stayed home, manned up and took my spanking. I tried it all. Toilet paper, books in the pants, the hands, the weak-ass switch, running... Awww, the running was the worst. She ran after me for one lap, then stopped, like, "WTH? Get your a** over here." I never had a beating like the one I got that day. Ma: "Don't you ever run from me again ! This is my damn house and what *I* say goes ! Now shut up all that damn noise ! Jen: huh huh huh . Ma: What did I just say! Shut up! (upper arm grab; toss toward room) Go to that room I let you call yours! And don't come back here until you got your attitude right. 2. "You don't have the right to..." Um, excuse me. As your parent, not only do I have the right, but I have the responsibility to discipline your behind as long as you are living in my house, eating my food, and spending money you neither have nor can earn. If you have another place you would like to go, you should call those people and pack up one change of underwear, one change of clothes and your toiletries and leave. The rest of that stuff I bought will be sold or given away, cuz I don't need clothes for a little boy I don't have. 3. I do think that it is wrong for her to slap him in the face, if she does that on a regular basis. I was always taught that a slap in the face is a sign of total disrespect. But that never stopped Ma from working it out on my behind, legs or lower back. 4. These problems didn't start that day. This is a long-standing issue of discipline between them. Regardless of the fact that his sister died (if that's true), if he had been disciplined consistently and with love his whole life, there would be less of this acting out. Grief is one thing - but total loss of the mind is something else. This kid has lost it. He's hysterical. He needs better help that Dr. Phil, like long-term therapy to work out his anger issues. But his mother needs to set real and concrete boundaries and rules, so he knows what's expected. Maybe he can be rehabilitated, but if I were her, I wouldn't ever trust him. You get the taste of slapping the hell out of someone once, it's always there...
Jen's picture

I cant even say white people

I cant even say white people I saw a white lady slap her 5 year old in my store the othr ay 4 screaming.I wanted to call CPS..I guess stupid people!
Ivy's picture

Most white mother's let their

Most white mother's let their children get away with murder, so this comes as no suprise to me that he would tell his mom to shut up and slap her. Us black folks already know that the thought of even talking back to our parents is not even an option. Only a white child would get away with something like that because had that been me I would be six feet under right now.
Misse's picture

OH NELL NAW!!!! LIKE I WANT

OH NELL NAW!!!! LIKE I WANT TO LAUGH BECAUSE OF THE LITTLE FAT ASS LIL BOY...BUT THEN AGAIN...IT'S NOT FUNNY...I DON'T KNOW WHY THESE WHITE PPL LET THEIR KIDS RUN THEM...I WISH I WOULD! -_-
CHARLOTTE's picture

AMEN!!!! LOL

AMEN!!!! LOL
Bajan Princess's picture

[quote

[quote comment="107396"][quote comment="107379"]my friend just sent that email to me with this video. i told her that i would have choked his fat ass. they would have had to call the cops. we would have been fighting like he was a grown man. i would have caught a case and not even cared, lol. to be honest, that conversation that he started with me wouldnt have made it to the slap, lol.[/quote] I woulda punched him straight in his fat gut and beat his azz like he tried to rob me, i don't care if it's my kid or not. I have told my son, and he's 8, the minute he thinks that he is a man in my house that's the day he can go! I'd rather have no child at all then a disrespectful one! First it's yelling, then it's slapping, next is punching and kicking, then a shot to the head! Hell nah - i am not going to bring the person who will murder me into this world! I'll take him out 1st![/quote] My mom had this same kinda attitude. And not to be all "white person" on you, but this does not create an aspect if respect & trust, but fear. Eventually, he will go. How will he support himself? Working dead end jobs, slinging dope. Black people tend to treat their children like property. They are still people. There is NO WAY an EIGHT YEAR OLD child should be told they can "get out". You brought him into this world. Take care of him. The bible says "Bring a child up in the way they should go". A child will not disrespect you if TEACH them (and discipline them) not to. At eight years old, he does not understand your fears of being shot by him. And as of yet, he hasn't done anything to deserve being treated this way. Stop judging your kids by these bad-@ss kids on the TV, take some time to sit down & TEACH them morals, values, and respect. Your child is a reflection of you- what are you saying about yourself if THIS is what you think he's capable of? How about encouraging him to read a book, or speak another language? That being said, this little fat bastard needs a switch. There is a thing as TOO much respect and leniency with a child. White people & Black people needa find a happy medium when it comes to discipline!
b.SL's picture

YO SON!!!! I wish my kid

YO SON!!!! I wish my kid would try that foolishness with me. I'd kick him straight out the chair. Not a regular kick; like a Bruce Lee cross kick.
Kevin Harris's picture

the problem is that the momma

the problem is that the momma has not put the fear of God in her son...and she should've done that a LOOOOOOOOOOOOONNNNNNNNNNNNNGGGGGGGGGG time ago. And Mom's should've knocked his lil azz outta that chair and into another life after he smacked her. All my father had to do was give me one look...and I can still see "the look" and I knew to straighten up and fly right.
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hahahaha!! this whole post is

hahahaha!! this whole post is too funy! [quote comment="107940"][quote comment="107749"][quote comment="107390"][quote comment="107371"][quote comment="107352"]WTH is all i can say...Brenda would kill me if I did that, lol[/quote] LOL. I saw this show and that kid was a mess! Rita would've taken a sista down! You hear me?!? And then would've told me to stop crying before she gave me something to cry about (and that is after she whooped my a$$ like a runaway slave).[/quote] That brings back memories!! Didn't you used to hate when your parents would tell you to go pick out a switch on a tree? And then they got nerve enough to get mad when you bring back a twig![/quote] Oh, my....boy....don't I remember that.....to this day....I remember that[/quote] I remember once my father got all the kids in the family in the basement with an extention cord! Negros was jumpin' like Mexican jumpin' beans[/quote]
lalita's picture

OK so to which funeral home

OK so to which funeral home do we send flowers for this child who was once alive? Nah but for real, he clearly has special needs issues that need to be addressed before we give the coroner more work.
MsInformed's picture

How about I just played this

How about I just played this video for my mom and she was laughing at how the little boy was talking to his mom and then came the slap....her mouth stayed opened and she walked away from me. I promise she started saying "slap me on national tv and you will be buried on national tv". I'm 24 and that face she just gave scared the sh*t outta me like I was the one that hit her or something. ***true story*** LOL
boo84's picture

First of all, if it was my

First of all, if it was my child...I've would've blacked out and he'd be lying on the floor lifeless... and I wouldn't remember a DAMN thing!!! **True story** No chance in hell would I EVER think of hitting any woman in my family. I cringe when I think of getting beat with an extension cord just because my closet wasn't clean!!! People need to start instilling the fear of God into these kids.
Nikka's picture

WTF......Are u kidding me???

WTF......Are u kidding me??? My Mama would of opened a can of whup ass immediately on camera an all for me acting a fool and raising my voice LOL Let alone raising my hand.....only on Dr. Phil i don't think Oprah would have allowed that ish
Starmaine's picture

First of all that child needs

First of all that child needs to know his place. Secondly if this was a black family he would have been picking himself up from the floor because Camaras or not there is no way that my mother would allow me to raise my hand alone but to make conact hell no. I've always said this and there is a difference in how white people raise their children and how black people raise their children. We have respect in our parents presence.
AC's picture

I don't care what kind of

I don't care what kind of pain he is in, he's still a child and she's the adult, spare the rod and spoil the child, if that was my mom I would be wearing a prostetic arm and picking my teeth up off of the floor, I wouldn't have even tried to raise my voice @ my mom at that age. That woman should have taken a belt to his fat ass. that's whats wrong with moms now they are too afraid of their kids crying child abuse, if they got regular ass whippings they would know their place and behave. That's cultural thing, black kids know better.
shoreanjl's picture

Um... I think that lady was

Um... I think that lady was holding back for the camera. I think she would have molly whopped his ass if the camera was off.
Jokes's picture

This is insane. Though I DO

This is insane. Though I DO feel that is it mostly the mother's fault for not whipping him when he needs to be whipped, she absolutely DOES NEED TO LISTEN to this boy. He had deeeeeep issues most likely due to her neglect and lack of attention that she has given him. He is most likely not getting positive attention when he DOES do something wrong, so he has to slap her ass to get some attention. Pitiful. Let me say, my mother would most definitely beat the SNOT out of me if I slapped her in the face, but God knows I've wanted to do it so many times, but she has instilled the RESPECT that I never let that thought turn into an action. It's all her fault, and she probably deserved it, she created that monster.
spelmanite's picture

LMFAO! ROFL! WHOOO! that shit

LMFAO! ROFL! WHOOO! that shit was funny. thats what her ass get for even entertaining an argument with his ass. I wish a little mothafu**a would........
nikkibaby's picture

I just know that after he hit

I just know that after he hit me, the whole television screen would have gone black and fuzzy due to my retaliation and Dr. Phil would have had to go to a commercial break...
Ace's picture

ppppppppppssssssssshhhhhhhhhh

ppppppppppssssssssshhhhhhhhhhhh..........my mother would pop my neck and break both of my hands if she even thought i was going to raise my hand to hit her!
tezzy's picture

If I talked or even put my

If I talked or even put my hands on my mother I would be 6 feet under and you better believe it
Tasha's picture

anyone remember the

anyone remember the commercial for some show where some black girl was acting up and talking smack to her dad, he was like cut the cameras off because you knew he was about to go postal on her ass.
ScoobieDoobie's picture

HE NEED HIS AZZ WHUPPED!

HE NEED HIS AZZ WHUPPED!
DESI's picture

[quote comment="107382"]This

[quote comment="107382"]This is not funny @ all. If any of my daughters tried that they would be in the ICU. I tell my daughters all the time, look I fight little kids meaning I would give them a major beatdown in the situation call for it. She should have beat him for even talking to her like that.[/quote] I KNOW that's right!!! Thelma would have slapped the taste and teeth outta my mouth, would have grabbed me by my hair so she could slam my head against the wall and then she would have stomped me so far into the ground that everybody would have forgot I even existed!! Please...
Cream's picture

my brother would never raise

my brother would never raise a hand to my mom, but he has disrespected her verbally. this is a result of us having disrespect for my father, who was emotionally abusive. all i'm trying to bring to light is that, as bad as the child may be, it is often a reflection of upbringing. it is unfortunate, but common, now that we have lots of kids growing up with immature parents or with only one parent that can't play both father and mother. ps. yeah, we see this mostly with white kids. but does that mean us black folks are any better? black kids are the ones hanging on the corner, dropping out of school at higher rates, and getting pregnant at younger ages (reportedly... we all know white ppl can afford to send their kids "away" for 9 months or so...)
elle's picture

ALL I HAVE TO SAY. THAT HAD

ALL I HAVE TO SAY. THAT HAD BEEN MY MOTHER THAT I SLAPPED I WOULD HAVE BEEN PICKING MY TEETH OFF THE FLOOR.. NOW THAT IS SOME BULL.. GOD ONLY KNOWS..
lala's picture

what the fuck....honestly i

what the fuck....honestly i feel like jumping in the computer and getting the beating that needed to be done in that sitioation DID... i cant belive it if i even had the nerve to raise my voice at my mom her stare alone would make me burst in damb flames.... i cant belive that viedio people need to control there brats for real
crazyness's picture

Thank you is this fool crazy

Thank you is this fool crazy I'm sorry and don't mean to make this a racial thing but we are different I am 28 years old and would never even think of cussing my mom let alone hitting her are you insane? This kid is on his way to prison watch the next 12 to 15 years there will be a follow up show with him on there in prison for killing his wife and kids just watch his life is not going to end well.
C-Dub's picture

This is EXACTLY what happens

This is EXACTLY what happens when the government makes it illegal to spank your child. Let this kid be my child...camera, no camera, i would of flew off that chair and take his ass out! I dont know any black kids that would be brave enough to do what that kid did. Im 25 yrs old and i wouldnt even dare to think about slapping my mama. The thought alone would instantly give me 2 black eyes.
EnvyMe's picture

[quote comment="107450"]Let

[quote comment="107450"]Let this video be a WARNING for those of you who have UNRULY children. For those of you, who have RUDE children. FASTY children. MOUTHY children. Don't be afraid to SPANK YOUR CHILD. And no it's not cute if your child is three and has an attitude, they'll get older, and WORSE. So don't condone or encourage IGNORANCE. If I everrrrrrrr in my life slapped my mother, IN HER FACE, my life would end at that very momment. I wanted to jump through the screen when I saw that and CHOKE that kid. But the mother is just as much to blame. You have to be a PARENT to your child. Children REPEAT what they see. If you move like a PUSHOVER, they'll come up and TREAT YOU LIKE A PUSH OVER. Stability is the key... CONSISTENCY is NECCESSARY! It's clear that child thinks he's in charge, that he's the parent... I wonder why.... they both need SERIOUS help. Jesus, take the wheel.[/quote] Preach. That's exactly what I was thinking...
elle's picture

Its a cultural thing. In my

Its a cultural thing. In my home, you didnt even look at my mama with a crooked eye. My mother wasnt an abusive parent or anything, but she wouldnt hesitate to slap you if you got out of line. My mother didnt even have to use whippings either. Its a matter of respect, and you teach children that from an early age, not when they hit puberty. My parents let us know the law says they have to feed and provide shelter for us until eighteen, everything else is optional. And if you didnt like what was for dinner, you just didnt eat.
classylady's picture

[quote

[quote comment="107453"][quote comment="107447"][quote comment="107400"]The youngins pimp hand is strong..[/quote] Lmao! You are so wrong for that!!![/quote] LMFAO!!![/quote] THE FORCE IS STRONG WITH HIM I SEE BUT HIS MOM MIND IS WEAK ME THINKS HE NEEDS TO SEEK THE DARK SIDE YODA AND MY MOM WOULD BEAT HIS ASS
KJ's picture

some of you just don't get

some of you just don't get it..the boy is in some pain..I mean some emotional pain..and he is just acting out what she does to him..I actually feel sorry for him..because his mom is a bully.. when ever he tried to express himself or even speak, she over takes the conversation and tries to rule him.. dont get me wrong, he should of not slapped his mom but it seems that's what she does to him..sad... were's his dad, that's my question??
NLovew630's picture

some of you just don't get

some of you just don't get it..the boy is in some pain..I mean some emotional pain..and he is just acting out what she does to him..I actually feel sorry for him..because his mom is a bully.. when ever he tried to express himself or even speak, she over takes the conversation and tries to rule him.. dont get me wrong, he should of not slapped his mom but it seems that's what she does to him..sad... were's his dad, that's my question??
NLovew630's picture

Im a 28 year old black dude,

Im a 28 year old black dude, with a 7, 2 and 1 year old... none of them would dare to hit me, or any adult. My kids have respect for adults, especially their parents.
Toronto Dude's picture

[quote

[quote comment="108003"]Anytime a child raise their hands up toward me it better be in response to the holy spirit, otherwise they are going to draw back a nub.[/quote] LOOOOOOOL! Ya'll killin me! I can not stop reading this post.
Chocolate Royale's picture

[quote

[quote comment="107705"][quote comment="107376"]I remember a few times when I wish I could slap my mama.........Oh Snap! My mama just came out of nowhere and slapped the taste of it out of my mouth! Dang, I can't even think about it.............Mama No, I didn't Mean it![/quote] AHAHAHAHAHAHA![/quote] LMAO! Don't even think about it! LOL @ Denise too! I will shut this B**tch DOW-UUN!
Chocolate Royale's picture

Anytime a child raise their

Anytime a child raise their hands up toward me it better be in response to the holy spirit, otherwise they are going to draw back a nub.
Anit's picture

[quote comment="107400"]The

[quote comment="107400"]The youngins pimp hand is strong..[/quote] LMAO
lost's picture

*only 14-18 yrs

*only 14-18 yrs
HELLO?'s picture

[quote comment="107972"]My

[quote comment="107972"]My mom would have't had a abortion on me .Meaning she'd kill my butt back then and if I even looked like I wanted to fight her she struck first. Now at age 33 she still be trying to spank me and my sister LOL/ These white kids are areal mess.But the white kids I was raised with they were raised oldschool and they couldn't even raise there hand like he did and be alive. Black kids are bad like that too now. So don't be surprised to she a bad black child doing that. Cause parents have the roles backwards now. SAD. Just ANGRY AND SAD. He would have a broken hands in my moms house and be eatig and writing with his FEET. LOL.[/quote] Unfortunately that is because those Black kids' parents are on 14-18 yrs older then them. Sad but true.
HELLO?'s picture

That's why White folks are

That's why White folks are always tryin to get over. They have no control at home so they take it out on the rest of the world. Get it together!!!
HELLO?'s picture

girl you are funny!

girl you are funny!
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