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Candid Fab: Tatyana Ali & Her Boyfriend, Naomi & Her Man, Estelle & Iman

YBF chicks have been out and about these past couple days.  Tatyana Ali was spotted looking all happy and in love on the streets of Hollywood this week:

Aside from me really wanting this chick to update her closet, I'm still loving me some Tatyana. Pics of Naomi, Estelle, and Iman when you read the rest...

Iman was spotted out and about in Soho yesterday flying solo.  Looking laid back and fab as always. But Naomi was spotted aboard her yacht and all over St. Tropez (and her London bloke boyfriend Marc Elias):  

Must be nice.

By the way, if you're going to rock black boots in the summer (Rih Rih), these are the type you should rock.  Gladiator sandals/boots.  Just a suggestion. And one of our fave British imports Estele was spotted in London buying out the YSL boutique:

Again, must be nice.
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an african GODDESS doesn't

an african GODDESS doesn't lower herself to breed with neanderthals and values dominant genes and her melanin.. sorry a white man will NOT treat you the same as a black male.. the white man is SKILLED IN PRACTICING RACISM (White Supremacy) and you have NO IDEA how it works. If white men appreciate black females so much WHEN ARE THEY GOING TO STOP PRACTICING RACISM (White Supremacy) and give up the unearned criminal benefits they get from doing So? so BLACK FEMALES can live in a world where neither we or our people are degraded OR TARGETed for GENOCIDE. including through the white sex assault? When are they going to go to WAR with the rest of the White people STEALING resources from and murdering Africans? When are they going to stop making up shitty laws and unjust sentences for our sons, brothers, uncles and cousins so that they are locked up and their lives are ruined while they PROTECT WHITE RAPISTS AND CRIMINALS AND MURDERERS and set them free? http://www.talkshoe.com/talkshoe/web/talkCast.jsp?masterId=97250&cmd=tc
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Yall do NOT SEE NA NA'S

Yall do NOT SEE NA NA'S HAIRLINE!!!!!!!! My Goodness... Check out the pic where her feet are up. She has a receeding hair line!!!! LACEFRONTS, DEM DAM lancefronts!!!!
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[quote comment="134007"][quote comment="132277"][quote comment="132262"][quote comment="132259"]Just my 2 cents: I will NEVER fuck with a white boy, ever. For what? I loooove Black men, so no matter what they do, say, don't do, have done, I will be here for them...and most of them definitely need to get there shit together. So what?!!!!? So do most of us (black women). Naomi needs to do something about her hairline or lack there of. It has gotten out of hand. Take that weave out and rest, please. I like Estelle's swag. She don't give a fuck and that's a must in the industry she's in. You go girl![/quote] i hope the black men in your life are as dedicated and as loyal as you are. i doubt it though because anytime you let a person know you have no standards and that there is NOTHING they can do or say that would make them lose you then what incentive do they have to respect and cherish you[/quote] I think that should be directed to the brothers and sisters who forget their past...the Black Man isn't the enemy...the counter reply is always justifying reasons to go outside your race to date...yet why not look at the same reasons why not to...the white men who you may think are in your best interest will turn your black asses back where you came from as soon as he figures he can't break your blackness (assimilation) or can't deal with your so-called "attitudes"...so it's like where are we in this discussion and exchange of thoughts. But for some of us we'd rather sleep with the master than live in the slave quarters until we get free. Ain't ish change.[/quote] OH PULEEEEZZZ! Enough with the slavery mentality already! You are in a company of a few with this one. Nobody in their right mind refers to a white man as "master" in this day and age; and secondly, this is not 1890 nobody is assimilating anybody!!! If you are talking about people in relationships trying to change each other to fit their ideal, then we are all guilty of that, in one instance or another, we have tried that crap on our partners hence the importance of the expression "I love you just the way you are" I have lived and travelled all over the globe and I find that for a country that plays itself to being the model of everything good, America is sooo behind when it comes to race relations. If this blog was posted in London, nobody would give a rat's ass that Naomi, Tatyana and Iman are shagging white men. For some, skin color is a non issue, we are all the same with the similar needs and wants!! I personally have dated black white brown whatever you might call it but I can tell you I didn't have to become a chameleon to be in a relationship with each of these races. Yes, there is always cultural differences depending on where a person is from but this has nothing to do with one's race! And Anyways different is always good you always learn something new it enriches the brain. A black man who is a product of an interracial relationship is about to become president to the most powerful country in the world, this should be a good example to black people all over that that we can be whatever we want to be, do whoever we want to do, go wherever we want to go, the sky is the limit! You didn't see Obama going "no I can't run for presidency "whitey the master" is going to bring me down". Stop limiting yourselves! Open you minds! Your referrence of a white black relationship as "sleeping with the master than live in the slave quarters" is soo freaking oudated to the point of being ridiculous!! You are the master of you, responsible for your own destiny, if you perceive someone to be a master of you then they will be that and you will only have yourself to blame for " living in the slave quarters period". The funny thing is that people like you who make these kinds of comments act as if you were around during the slavery era, you are all so consumed with so much hatred and negativity. Hey GET OVER IT!! I am not saying that forget your history but that's why it is called history it's in the past you learn something you move on! Millions of our ancestors already lived through the inhumane era, you do not have to relive it! They didn't have a choice, you do! After all, there is this whole future to be conquired. If you feel you got set back because of slavery, you don't just sit there and blame "whitey", no! Go to school, aim high,fight for success if you have to; and work hard to become the change that you want to see in your own society. Make your ancestors proud! A victim's mentality does not help but actually disables! You sir are the one who is full of self hatred, your logic is proof to that fact and PLEASE DO US A FAVOR, DO NOT SPREAD YOUR SELF HATRED AROUND YOUR "BROTHERS AND SISTERS", IT IS TOO DAMN TOXIC! SOME OF US HAVE HIGH PLACES TO GO AND BIG THINGS TO DO! CAN YOU CHANGE? YES YOU CAN![/quote] WELL SAID. I completely agree with you. This is probably the most intelligent thing I have ever heard anybody say.
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Who tatyana choses to date is

Who tatyana choses to date is her business.All the haters who post negative comments about her sould get a grip. as an african american male I respect her for the way she carries herself.If tatyana chooses to date outside of her race this is entireley her choice. This in no way means that tatyana,hale or naomie are somehow betraying thier race.Who a person decides to date is thier decesion. Besides tatyana seem to show plenty of love to Derrick Lucke and Jarue In recent movies she did with them. As an african american man I respect these sisters regardless of who they choose to date.
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[quote comment="132967"]For

[quote comment="132967"]For the record, Naomi does not OWN that yacht. As for her man, all good with me...who cares what race someone is? People that have a problem obviously have a IQ less than 100. Are these the same idiots that won't vote for Barrack because his Mother is white or his father is black. Idiots.[/quote] WELL SPOKEN!!!!!
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[quote comment="132277"][quote comment="132262"][quote comment="132259"]Just my 2 cents: I will NEVER fuck with a white boy, ever. For what? I loooove Black men, so no matter what they do, say, don't do, have done, I will be here for them...and most of them definitely need to get there shit together. So what?!!!!? So do most of us (black women). Naomi needs to do something about her hairline or lack there of. It has gotten out of hand. Take that weave out and rest, please. I like Estelle's swag. She don't give a fuck and that's a must in the industry she's in. You go girl![/quote] i hope the black men in your life are as dedicated and as loyal as you are. i doubt it though because anytime you let a person know you have no standards and that there is NOTHING they can do or say that would make them lose you then what incentive do they have to respect and cherish you[/quote] I think that should be directed to the brothers and sisters who forget their past...the Black Man isn't the enemy...the counter reply is always justifying reasons to go outside your race to date...yet why not look at the same reasons why not to...the white men who you may think are in your best interest will turn your black asses back where you came from as soon as he figures he can't break your blackness (assimilation) or can't deal with your so-called "attitudes"...so it's like where are we in this discussion and exchange of thoughts. But for some of us we'd rather sleep with the master than live in the slave quarters until we get free. Ain't ish change.[/quote] OH PULEEEEZZZ! Enough with the slavery mentality already! You are in a company of a few with this one. Nobody in their right mind refers to a white man as "master" in this day and age; and secondly, this is not 1890 nobody is assimilating anybody!!! If you are talking about people in relationships trying to change each other to fit their ideal, then we are all guilty of that, in one instance or another, we have tried that crap on our partners hence the importance of the expression "I love you just the way you are" I have lived and travelled all over the globe and I find that for a country that plays itself to being the model of everything good, America is sooo behind when it comes to race relations. If this blog was posted in London, nobody would give a rat's ass that Naomi, Tatyana and Iman are shagging white men. For some, skin color is a non issue, we are all the same with the similar needs and wants!! I personally have dated black white brown whatever you might call it but I can tell you I didn't have to become a chameleon to be in a relationship with each of these races. Yes, there is always cultural differences depending on where a person is from but this has nothing to do with one's race! And Anyways different is always good you always learn something new it enriches the brain. A black man who is a product of an interracial relationship is about to become president to the most powerful country in the world, this should be a good example to black people all over that that we can be whatever we want to be, do whoever we want to do, go wherever we want to go, the sky is the limit! You didn't see Obama going "no I can't run for presidency "whitey the master" is going to bring me down". Stop limiting yourselves! Open you minds! Your referrence of a white black relationship as "sleeping with the master than live in the slave quarters" is soo freaking oudated to the point of being ridiculous!! You are the master of you, responsible for your own destiny, if you perceive someone to be a master of you then they will be that and you will only have yourself to blame for " living in the slave quarters period". The funny thing is that people like you who make these kinds of comments act as if you were around during the slavery era, you are all so consumed with so much hatred and negativity. Hey GET OVER IT!! I am not saying that forget your history but that's why it is called history it's in the past you learn something you move on! Millions of our ancestors already lived through the inhumane era, you do not have to relive it! They didn't have a choice, you do! After all, there is this whole future to be conquired. If you feel you got set back because of slavery, you don't just sit there and blame "whitey", no! Go to school, aim high,fight for success if you have to; and work hard to become the change that you want to see in your own society. Make your ancestors proud! A victim's mentality does not help but actually disables! You sir are the one who is full of self hatred, your logic is proof to that fact and PLEASE DO US A FAVOR, DO NOT SPREAD YOUR SELF HATRED AROUND YOUR "BROTHERS AND SISTERS", IT IS TOO DAMN TOXIC! SOME OF US HAVE HIGH PLACES TO GO AND BIG THINGS TO DO! CAN YOU CHANGE? YES YOU CAN!
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[quote comment="133892"][quote comment="133482"]I'm so sick of all these self hating caribbean and african fools who can't wait to buy them a white mate as soon as they get some american money which was bestowed upon them by black music and black movies. They need to find white men to help them with their careers, and gear their talents to white fans, and stop using us black folks. THEY'RE ALL SICK! I can't think of a single foreign black in entertainment who is intelligent enough to share their wealth with another black person from their own country or the american black community, can you????[/quote] WHY ARE YOU SO AFRAID OF WHITE MAN PEOPLE ? SERIOUSLY I AM SENSING THAT YOU ARE REALLY THREATED BY THE WHITE MAN/ WOMAN, DAMN! YOUR HYSTERIA IS OVERWHELMING!! YOUR LOGIC SEEMS TO IMPLY THAT A CAUCASIAN PERSON IS MORE SUPERIOR THAN BLACKS HENCE YOUR COMMENT ON "SELF HATING AFRICANS AND CARRIBEANS, WHO CAN'T WAIT TO BUY A WHITE MAN WHEN THEY GET RICH" THE INSINUATION HERE IS THAT WHITE MEN ARE PRIZED TROPHIES RIGHT? THATS WHY THESE GIRLS ARE BUYING THEM FROM LEFT TO RIGHT. HAVE YOU EVER COME OUT OF YOUR LITTLE BOX LONG ENOUGH TO REALIZE THAT MAYBE SOME PEOPLE JUST SEE WHITE PEOPLE AS PEOPLE AND NOT JUST THIS BIG MONSTER YOU IMAGINE THEM TO BE? AND THAT DATING A WHITE MAN IS A NON ISSUE AS YOU MAKE IT TO BE, SINCE THIS IS NOT 1920 AND NOBODY WHO IS WORLDLY OR INTELLIGENT ENOUGH GIVES A DAMN ABOUT INTERRACIAL DATING. PLEASE DON'T SPEAK FOR OTHERS REGARDING THE CHOICES THEY MAKE IN WHO THEY WANT TO BE WITH; WHEN YOU DO THAT, NOT ONLY DO YOU SOUND STUPID BUT MORONIC. WHAT YOU ARE DOING IS MAKING AN ASSUMPTION THAT THE BLACK PEOPLE YOU ARE REFERRING TO ARE AS IGNORANT AND CLOSE MINDED AS YOU ARE. IF YOU CHOOSE TO ONLY DATE PEOPLE OF THE SAME RACE AS YOU ARE THATS ALL GOOD BUT SERIOUSLY YOU DO NOT HAVE THE RIGHT TO JUDGE OTHERS WHO OPT FOR VARIETY; BECAUSE NOBODY IS JUDGING YOU FOR DATING "ONLY" BLACK MEN I RESPECT THAT, THE ONLY THING I DON'T CARE FOR IS THE HATE AND VENOM THAT IS BEING SPEWED OUT OF YOUR MOUTH. YOU AND THE KKK HAVE A SIMILAR IDEOLOGY DO YOU REALIZE THAT? AND BY THE WAY WHO ARE THESE AFRICANS AND CARRIBEANS YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT? LET ME SEE IMAN? NO CAN'T BE SHE HAS ONLY BEEN IN ONE BLACK FILM WHICH WAS REALLY BAD AND I DON'T THINK THAT MADE HER CAREER, SHE WAS A ALREADY A SUCCESFUL AND RICH AFRICAN MODEL WHEN SHE MARRIED DAVID BOWIE AND SHE GIVES TONS OF MONEY TO AMERICAN AND AFRICAN CHARITIES. AND HER FIRST HUSBAND OR BABY'S FATHER WAS BLACK. LET SEE, NAOMI CAMPBELL CAN'T BE , SHE HAD ONE ALBUM WHICH FLOPPED AND HER ACTING CAREER IS NOTHING TO SPEAK LOUD ABOUT. AND SHE HAS DATED A NUMBER OF BLACK MEN AND A LOT OF WHITE GUYS AND SHE HAS ALWAYS BEEN RICH AND SHE GIVES A LOT TO SOUTH AFRICAN AND JAMAICAN CHARITIES SO NO IT'S NOT HER WHO ELSE SELITA EBANKS NO NOT HER SHE IS A CARRIBEAN WHO DATES BLACK MEN. RIHANNA? WELL SHE IS DATING CHRIS BROWN ISN'T SHE? HEATHER HEADLEY-CARRIBEAN MARRIED TO A WHITE GUY INVOLVED IN CHARITY WORK, MH! NOT HER, HER HUSBAND IS THE ONE MAKING THE DOUGH ANYWAY! ALL I CAN COME UP WITH IS A BUNCH OF AFRICAN AND AMERICAN SUPER MODELS WHO ARE NON ACTORS NOR SINGERS SO YOU LOST ME HERE! LETS TRY THE MEN, AKON-HAS LIKE 6 BLACK BABY MAMAS. DJAMON HANSOU= HE IS WITH KIMORA PLEASE STOP MAKING UP STUFF JUST TO SUPPORT AN IDIOTIC ARGUMENT. WHILE YOU ARE SO CONSUMED WITH HATING AND BEING JUDGEMENTAL, THE PEOPLE YOU ARE HATING ON ARE BUSY MAKING THAT MONEY. WHO IS THE LOOSER HERE? YOU WANT A PIECE OF THAT DOUGH? WELL! FOLLOW YOUR OWN ADVICE AND GET YOU A WHITE MAN! NO WAIT YOU CAN'T MONEY ONLY GETS WITH MONEY!!!! IGNORANCE IS A MOTHER OF ALL EVILS!!!!!!!!![/quote] Damn right to VERITA'S ARGUMENT!
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[quote comment="133482"]I'm

[quote comment="133482"]I'm so sick of all these self hating caribbean and african fools who can't wait to buy them a white mate as soon as they get some american money which was bestowed upon them by black music and black movies. They need to find white men to help them with their careers, and gear their talents to white fans, and stop using us black folks. THEY'RE ALL SICK! I can't think of a single foreign black in entertainment who is intelligent enough to share their wealth with another black person from their own country or the american black community, can you????[/quote] WHY ARE YOU SO AFRAID OF WHITE MAN PEOPLE ? SERIOUSLY I AM SENSING THAT YOU ARE REALLY THREATED BY THE WHITE MAN/ WOMAN, DAMN! YOUR HYSTERIA IS OVERWHELMING!! YOUR LOGIC SEEMS TO IMPLY THAT A CAUCASIAN PERSON IS MORE SUPERIOR THAN BLACKS HENCE YOUR COMMENT ON "SELF HATING AFRICANS AND CARRIBEANS, WHO CAN'T WAIT TO BUY A WHITE MAN WHEN THEY GET RICH" THE INSINUATION HERE IS THAT WHITE MEN ARE PRIZED TROPHIES RIGHT? THATS WHY THESE GIRLS ARE BUYING THEM FROM LEFT TO RIGHT. HAVE YOU EVER COME OUT OF YOUR LITTLE BOX LONG ENOUGH TO REALIZE THAT MAYBE SOME PEOPLE JUST SEE WHITE PEOPLE AS PEOPLE AND NOT JUST THIS BIG MONSTER YOU IMAGINE THEM TO BE? AND THAT DATING A WHITE MAN IS A NON ISSUE AS YOU MAKE IT TO BE, SINCE THIS IS NOT 1920 AND NOBODY WHO IS WORLDLY OR INTELLIGENT ENOUGH GIVES A DAMN ABOUT INTERRACIAL DATING. PLEASE DON'T SPEAK FOR OTHERS REGARDING THE CHOICES THEY MAKE IN WHO THEY WANT TO BE WITH; WHEN YOU DO THAT, NOT ONLY DO YOU SOUND STUPID BUT MORONIC. WHAT YOU ARE DOING IS MAKING AN ASSUMPTION THAT THE BLACK PEOPLE YOU ARE REFERRING TO ARE AS IGNORANT AND CLOSE MINDED AS YOU ARE. IF YOU CHOOSE TO ONLY DATE PEOPLE OF THE SAME RACE AS YOU ARE THATS ALL GOOD BUT SERIOUSLY YOU DO NOT HAVE THE RIGHT TO JUDGE OTHERS WHO OPT FOR VARIETY; BECAUSE NOBODY IS JUDGING YOU FOR DATING "ONLY" BLACK MEN I RESPECT THAT, THE ONLY THING I DON'T CARE FOR IS THE HATE AND VENOM THAT IS BEING SPEWED OUT OF YOUR MOUTH. YOU AND THE KKK HAVE A SIMILAR IDEOLOGY DO YOU REALIZE THAT? AND BY THE WAY WHO ARE THESE AFRICANS AND CARRIBEANS YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT? LET ME SEE IMAN? NO CAN'T BE SHE HAS ONLY BEEN IN ONE BLACK FILM WHICH WAS REALLY BAD AND I DON'T THINK THAT MADE HER CAREER, SHE WAS A ALREADY A SUCCESFUL AND RICH AFRICAN MODEL WHEN SHE MARRIED DAVID BOWIE AND SHE GIVES TONS OF MONEY TO AMERICAN AND AFRICAN CHARITIES. AND HER FIRST HUSBAND OR BABY'S FATHER WAS BLACK. LET SEE, NAOMI CAMPBELL CAN'T BE , SHE HAD ONE ALBUM WHICH FLOPPED AND HER ACTING CAREER IS NOTHING TO SPEAK LOUD ABOUT. AND SHE HAS DATED A NUMBER OF BLACK MEN AND A LOT OF WHITE GUYS AND SHE HAS ALWAYS BEEN RICH AND SHE GIVES A LOT TO SOUTH AFRICAN AND JAMAICAN CHARITIES SO NO IT'S NOT HER WHO ELSE SELITA EBANKS NO NOT HER SHE IS A CARRIBEAN WHO DATES BLACK MEN. RIHANNA? WELL SHE IS DATING CHRIS BROWN ISN'T SHE? HEATHER HEADLEY-CARRIBEAN MARRIED TO A WHITE GUY INVOLVED IN CHARITY WORK, MH! NOT HER, HER HUSBAND IS THE ONE MAKING THE DOUGH ANYWAY! ALL I CAN COME UP WITH IS A BUNCH OF AFRICAN AND AMERICAN SUPER MODELS WHO ARE NON ACTORS NOR SINGERS SO YOU LOST ME HERE! LETS TRY THE MEN, AKON-HAS LIKE 6 BLACK BABY MAMAS. DJAMON HANSOU= HE IS WITH KIMORA PLEASE STOP MAKING UP STUFF JUST TO SUPPORT AN IDIOTIC ARGUMENT. WHILE YOU ARE SO CONSUMED WITH HATING AND BEING JUDGEMENTAL, THE PEOPLE YOU ARE HATING ON ARE BUSY MAKING THAT MONEY. WHO IS THE LOOSER HERE? YOU WANT A PIECE OF THAT DOUGH? WELL! FOLLOW YOUR OWN ADVICE AND GET YOU A WHITE MAN! NO WAIT YOU CAN'T MONEY ONLY GETS WITH MONEY!!!! IGNORANCE IS A MOTHER OF ALL EVILS!!!!!!!!!
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[quote comment="132324"]The

[quote comment="132324"]The funny thing is all those who complain that blacks are dating outside their race are so out of touch, it's depressing. Don't you realize that YOU are the ones with the self-hatred? Does Tatyana want to date your a**? Did she turn you down at the club? So why are you so worried about what the h**l she does? Look at all the black men who beat up on Halle before she found a man (white) who treated her right? And what all y'all are doing is called "math abuse" - ignoring the forest for the trees. You forget about the LEGIONS of black famous people who are with other black people, and focus on the relatively few who are not, and act as if the race is collapsing. This is the 21st century. Carry your own cross, and let people be with who they want. Free your damn minds.[/quote] AMEN TO THAT!
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[quote comment="132394"][quote comment="132369"]I see you can take the girl out of London, but not London out of the girl........I see the Jaffa cakes Estelle..........lol As for Naomi's edges, thats what a perpetual weave/braids can do to the hairline, especially if you insist on wearing it up alot. Its true that three of these women are with White guys and its funny how we woman can do it and our Black card atays firmly in tact. A Black man only has to mention liking non Black woman in an interview and he is a brainswashed, uncle-tomming self hater........lol Ahyhoo....Four Black woman who are successful in their fields, seem to be happy, cant complain really.[/quote] I noticed there's definitely a double standard with that. It absolutely kills me when people try to act like Halle's man is some kind of knight in shining armour who rescued her from all those bad black men...Puh-lease. Some people are just faking the funk on their true feelings. It becomes a tit for tat thing. My heart is with the brothers...I'll never fake the funk on that.[/quote] the double standard is the other way around. both black men and black women complain when the opposite sex dates outside of his or her race, but black women get MUCH more flack, that's why 70% of black women are STILL single cos they don't explore all of their options, cause they're still on tha "loyalty" shyt, but things are obviously starting to change. At best, a brother will be called a sellout. A black woman will be called a b*tch, massa's wh*re, a sellout tramp etc even by the very black men who don't want them, and black men will ATTACK the woman and the non-black man. Why do you think 73% of interracial marriages involving blacks are with BLACK MEN? Why are there sooo many more black men in the media in interracial relationships than black women? Because they get away with it much more easily and don't give a f*ck!
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NEWSFLASH EVERYONE: Tyra

NEWSFLASH EVERYONE: Tyra Banks has been doing these episodes about black men and women and I was truly hurt by what I saw and heard. She had the editor of Essence there and they said that 73% of interracial marriages in the US consist of at least one BLACK MAN! Translation: Out of all of the interracial marriages in the US, almost every one of them consists of a black man who is married to someone who is not a black woman. Tyra and much of the audience were in complete shock when they heard that. Plus, black men were once on her show and when asked to pick their ideal woman, they chose the white woman and said that it was because that was the ultimate fantasy for a black man. Even the whites, hispanics and asians chose non-black women because black women are so negatively spoken about by their own black men and portrayed so terribly in the media. Tyra literally almost cried because the black woman was standing on the stage alone because nobody wanted her. One black guy finally said that he would marry the black woman but that's because he wants her to clean his house and take care of the kids. He still admitted that the white woman was his fantasy. So please get off your soapboxes about how black women somehow owe it to black men to only date them and no one else. As a black woman who is a former model, owns two homes and makes six figures with no children, I will always be open to a wonderful black man because not all of them are done with us. However, I find that I usually get hit on more by white men than black men and I have no problem dating white men. I have been interested in black men at work, in my apartment building, etc. They were usually with someone who was not black and did not give me the time of day. However, I have caught them checking me out when the non-white woman wasn't looking. I just don't understand why so many of the successful ones have completely discounted us. The only ones we are sure to get are the thugs and that's because even some white women won't go near some of them. If Black men are open to dating anyone, that's fine. However, there is no denying that they are openly calling black women b***** in music, still deserting them to raise children alone and publicly denouncing them as gold-diggers, as if white women aren't interested in men with money, too. When Bill Cosby denounced this behavior, blacks went off on him but deep down, we all know that he was right. We are the only race of people who are known for disrespecting our women (by saying b**** and ho) and ourselves (by saying "nigga"). We kill one another more than any other group. White people and every other race basically laugh at us for destroying ourselves. If I marry a terrific black man, then great. I will be the best wife possible to him. But if a terrific white man comes along, I guess we'll be together then because I am not waiting for black men to finally start noticing us again. It probably won't happen so I am keeping my options open, which is the best thing a black woman can do these days. Black women are the fastest growing AIDS population in the US. Why? Because many Black men whom were are so loyal to are infecting us. Many get out of prison where they have had sex with men and then they infect women. Many black men are also on the down low because they are gay and won't admit it. Now, I will admit that many of our black men are falsely imprisoned all the time because they are black and police just target them. However, the fact is that too many of them are in jail period and black women are paying the price when they get out. I don't mean to cause anyone to become angry because I only want to see us progress but we as a people are just not there for one another as we should be and we mistreat one another the way we do. Black men, if you don't like seeing Halle Berry with a white man and you hate seeing Iman with Bowie, then do something about it. Stop leaving us, calling us names, looking at everyone else but us and start defending us when people disrespect us in songs (including defending us against other black men), in the workplace, etc. Pick up a phone and make arrangements to be there for our young boys (even if you don't want to be with the mother anymore) so that we can make the kind of progress that we are truly capable of. Go out and mentor a young black child by spending time with him/her. If our own men are putting us down or sitting by while others do, what else are we left to do? Who is going to help us to defend ourselves? White people like Don Imus will stop insulting us when they see black men stop doing it.
MW's picture

I'm so sick of all these self

I'm so sick of all these self hating caribbean and african fools who can't wait to buy them a white mate as soon as they get some american money which was bestowed upon them by black music and black movies. They need to find white men to help them with their careers, and gear their talents to white fans, and stop using us black folks. THEY'RE ALL SICK! I can't think of a single foreign black in entertainment who is intelligent enough to share their wealth with another black person from their own country or the american black community, can you????
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[quote

[quote comment="132131"][quote comment="132111"]Did I miss the memo that the white boy is the new accessory?[/quote] This is the Jungle Fever post... Tatyana and her man, Naomi and her man, and Iman has been married to David Bowie for years. LOL! Get with the program! Once you go white... uh... whatever... I can't even think of a rhyme.[/quote] ummm... everything's right!! (lmao)
Kim's picture

For the record, Naomi does

For the record, Naomi does not OWN that yacht. As for her man, all good with me...who cares what race someone is? People that have a problem obviously have a IQ less than 100. Are these the same idiots that won't vote for Barrack because his Mother is white or his father is black. Idiots.
truth's picture

WHY IS NAOMI LOSING HER HAIR,

WHY IS NAOMI LOSING HER HAIR, SHE NEEDS TO SEE ABOUT SOME ROGAINE OR WOMEN AND TAKE CARE OF THAT BEFORE SHE GOES TOTALLY BALD.
karen's picture

WHY IS NAOMI LOSING HER HAIR,

WHY IS NAOMI LOSING HER HAIR, SHE NEEDS TO SEE ABOUT SOME ROGAINE OR WOMEN AND TAK ARE OF THAT BEFOE H GOES TOTAL BALD.
karen's picture

Wow can't any of the YBF

Wow can't any of the YBF chicks in this post actually have YBF boyfriends? SMH
Toya's picture

ive never relized this

ive never relized this but..estelle is not attractiVE AT ALL... .Niomes sandal/boots are cute ....and tatyanas man is not he looks like hes old enough to be her uncle or something interatial love?love is love who gives a damb what colour you are i thought weve move past that as a society
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Tati... NOOOOOOOOOOO you were

Tati... NOOOOOOOOOOO you were so beautiful on fresh prince... to bad you decided to still use thier wardrobe.. Naomi looks good her body is slammin.. and i like her chain (ironic how she has it around her neck and her boyfriends white...) any way her edges are insane.. she cld have at least tried to fill them in with marker. Estelle looks good shes still trying to adjust to her fame. Iman looked ok shes had better days.
katinaz's picture

black women are the last to

black women are the last to date inter-racially and I don't even know why, hell i hear than in some sities you can walk up to a black man wanting to ask him is he know where the nearest bus stop is and before you even say a word he'll say "I don't date black women" we have this idea of the "perfect black man" in our heads and of some of us sit around and he never come, but yet some of yall have the nerve to judge others who look outside the black community for love. I don't even get why black women are so hesistant to date outside our race, while most black men will give their right arm to date anything OTHER then a black woman because society saids that, that whats "beautiful"
Linda's picture

Did I miss the memo that the

Did I miss the memo that the white boy is the new accessory? This is the Jungle Fever post… Tatyana and her man, Naomi and her man, and Iman has been married to David Bowie for years. LOL! Get with the program! Once you go white… uh… whatever… I can’t even think of a rhyme. ...Once you go white...you gonna be aiight!!!!! LOL!
Fatima Halim's picture

some of you people can not be

some of you people can not be serious, so what if they are dating white men whats wrong with that? let me get this straight so a black woman does not have other options when it comes to choosing a mate. she MUST choose a black man, but yet a black man can go and be with whomever he wants???. Please stop the Bullsh!t, Black man white man blue man, green man it doesn't matter because we are all Gods children and we can be with whoever makes us happy.
Linda's picture

[quote comment="132324"]The

[quote comment="132324"]The funny thing is all those who complain that blacks are dating outside their race are so out of touch, it's depressing. Don't you realize that YOU are the ones with the self-hatred? Does Tatyana want to date your a**? Did she turn you down at the club? So why are you so worried about what the h**l she does? Look at all the black men who beat up on Halle before she found a man (white) who treated her right? And what all y'all are doing is called "math abuse" - ignoring the forest for the trees. You forget about the LEGIONS of black famous people who are with other black people, and focus on the relatively few who are not, and act as if the race is collapsing. This is the 21st century. Carry your own cross, and let people be with who they want. Free your damn minds.[/quote] ditto. Please focus your energies inward than outward. Its really black men and silly black women who try to put more on their skin color than what it really is. You love who you love. You don't see Reggie making excuses or apologizing to black women about Kim. Just goes to show how black men view black women: They date Interracially because "they are the most prized" (laughable at best) but if a black women does it, "she has self-hate issues." Negro, when slavery was ended, it stopped for white men and it stopped for your ass too. You can no longer control black women with 17 babies and a promise of a ring or the "black struggle." I've been on plenty of dates with black men and not one time did any of them want to talk to be about the "black struggle." They'd rather play the "racially- ambiguous guessing game" than to acknowledge their obvious ethnic background.
LeAnne's picture

There is nothing wrong with

There is nothing wrong with dating outside of your race. The problem is when you ONLY date outside of your race.
Klover's picture

Hellooo ... A white man is

Hellooo ... A white man is just a MAN, who just happen to have pale skin. What's the big deal? Women CAN pick whatever flavor they want ... at that time.
Martinique_fr's picture

[quote

[quote comment="132283"][quote comment="132270"]lmao ^^ leave the white alone who made you the ruler of this world if people want to date white purple green whatever let it be so if a white person wants to ask you out you say " dear sir i cannot dat you at this moment its out of style" what so dating know is a fashion accessory? asian spanish lots of people date white and i dont see people complaining you need to let your problems go + the same brown black light black men are also dating whateverthey would like[/quote] Latino, Asians, and whoever are not the laughing stock of the world either...Slavery is something that is engraved in our history...we have been the play toy to the world...and yet we buy into the notion that we aught to let the past go and look past our history...the ish don't stop. Jena 6...we will forever have this debate...we didn't ask for this ish...psychologically these sisters are troubled internally...Naomi just goes where the dollar (security) is regardless...Tatiana doesn't even want to acknowledge herself (blackness)...it's a sad sight to see. You can't put other ethnicities in our struggles...everyone has their own...ours is the most un-sempathetic...no one wants to focus on blacks globally...we are the play toys of the world. Play on fools.[/quote] Negro pleas! Do not let your arrogance fill your head up with nonsense.All of these women are just living life. They went out on dates, fell in love and here they are now. I'm so happy that you are so quick acknowledge the supposed "self-hate" of these stars and you will not be lacksadasial about your own issues with blackness. To imply that black people are the play toys of the human race while decry black women in IR relationships is truly a laugh, at best. Black women: do you see the psychological fuckery that this dude is tossing your way. He will have you thinking that you are doing a great disservice to the world by putting your own heart first before societal pressures. Fool! Last time I checked Naomi was quite PRO-black and was the first model to speak out about the racial injustices on the runway last few seasons. Miss Ashley Banks was on the stars of the biggest black TV show of all time, and has never denied her afro-latino roots or black caribbean heritage. Sounds to me like you no longer have your third leg to stand on and feel the need to berate black women's brains into submission. Sick person.
LeAnne's picture

but the only thing i find

but the only thing i find stupid is that just because you have been with LOOSER does not mean that all men of this race are LOOSER. That ;s the thing! You need a brain to be able to not judge a whole race based on YOUR experience. It so stupid. So what if Halle was with blakc men who beat her. maybe she should choose her man the right way! That's it. I have been with a white biy who was a looser and black men that were totally ADORABLE, RESPONSIBLE AND STUFF! Someone said in this forum that maybe you should check on you first, and find out why you cannot get a good man! Black or not!
Valenne's picture

Naomi's boyfriends swim

Naomi's boyfriends swim shorts are to short.
all smilz's picture

[quote

[quote comment="132330"]Majority of wealthy black men are not interested in black women and if they are those women are put through the ringer .Black men want black women when they are down out and broke thats when they need a black woman , unfortunately whenever they gravitate financially that black woman has to hit rocks .I can't even defend black men anymore I feel stupid doing it .Naomi Tatyana and Iman are in the right direction at that level the last thing they need is a black man to embarrass cheat beat and ultimately destroy them emotionally[/quote] i wish people can prove that! Show me some statistics because they are not so many wealthy man with non black sistas. Even here, how many couples can you name that are interracial???? Black man marry Black woman, maybe 1% of the couple are biracial or a little more but the race is not going to disappear because of that since we still apply the "one drop rule" so techinically, all those following generations will alaways considered as black right??
Valenne's picture

[quote comment="132369"]I see

[quote comment="132369"]I see you can take the girl out of London, but not London out of the girl........I see the Jaffa cakes Estelle..........lol As for Naomi's edges, thats what a perpetual weave/braids can do to the hairline, especially if you insist on wearing it up alot. Its true that three of these women are with White guys and its funny how we woman can do it and our Black card atays firmly in tact. A Black man only has to mention liking non Black woman in an interview and he is a brainswashed, uncle-tomming self hater........lol Ahyhoo....Four Black woman who are successful in their fields, seem to be happy, cant complain really.[/quote] AGREED!!! its like we "woman" have the right to date outside of our race and nobody complain, but as soon as its a black man, people are talking about the preservation of the race? The fact tha thopse white girls would never look at them if those men were not rcih! But do you really think Naomi would get all this billionnaire if she was not the SUPERMODEL!
Valenne's picture

[quote comment="132369"]I see

[quote comment="132369"]I see you can take the girl out of London, but not London out of the girl........I see the Jaffa cakes Estelle..........lol As for Naomi's edges, thats what a perpetual weave/braids can do to the hairline, especially if you insist on wearing it up alot. Its true that three of these women are with White guys and its funny how we woman can do it and our Black card atays firmly in tact. A Black man only has to mention liking non Black woman in an interview and he is a brainswashed, uncle-tomming self hater........lol Ahyhoo....Four Black woman who are successful in their fields, seem to be happy, cant complain really.[/quote] I noticed there's definitely a double standard with that. It absolutely kills me when people try to act like Halle's man is some kind of knight in shining armour who rescued her from all those bad black men...Puh-lease. Some people are just faking the funk on their true feelings. It becomes a tit for tat thing. My heart is with the brothers...I'll never fake the funk on that.
Straight...no chaser's picture

Wow! I'm just happy that

Wow! I'm just happy that there's a discussion going on and nobody has been cussed out. THIS is how adults are supposed to act. Go 'head my YBF brothers and sisters! Speak your minds and continue to be respectful of one another! Have a blessed day.
LJ's picture

I see you can take the girl

I see you can take the girl out of London, but not London out of the girl........I see the Jaffa cakes Estelle..........lol As for Naomi's edges, thats what a perpetual weave/braids can do to the hairline, especially if you insist on wearing it up alot. Its true that three of these women are with White guys and its funny how we woman can do it and our Black card atays firmly in tact. A Black man only has to mention liking non Black woman in an interview and he is a brainswashed, uncle-tomming self hater........lol Ahyhoo....Four Black woman who are successful in their fields, seem to be happy, cant complain really.
justapost's picture

I 100% agree with you. Black

I 100% agree with you. Black men are the death of our race. They are weak and disgust me. Single sistas should not wait around, and look else where.
Hello Kitty's picture

Iman looks like a hot mess.

Iman looks like a hot mess. Her hair looks like its running from her head. *nayaahay, abe..ende mobia* She aint fooling her fellow somalis. LOL
Amina's picture

What the fuck is wrong with

What the fuck is wrong with Tatyana?? She never looks "done"... always like she just stepped out of 1992. Ashley Banks had more fashion sense than this tacky broad.
misspriss08's picture

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[quote comment="132315"][quote comment="132162"]Inter racial love is cool MINUS the white boys. Give the shit a rest people. Plenty of yellow, brown, red , and black boys to choose from. Leave that white alone for a while. Its for your own good. Trust me lolol. White boys no good and well they are out of style .[/quote] I'm confused... if it's minus the white boys, how is it interracial love??[/quote] It's not just black and white. There are other races out there.
Marie's picture

It's true, people are going

It's true, people are going to be with who they want to be with, but why is it that on just about any site (black), someone is telling black women that they should try dating white men or advertising interracial dating, like people don't know where to find white men if that's what they are interested in. Just observe.
Ara's picture

Ya'll keep on, ya gon run up

Ya'll keep on, ya gon run up on a Jeffery Darmer, they 're kind of weird.
Ara's picture

Naomi is a star period the

Naomi is a star period the chick is fab edges or i woulndt mind having her edges if you you'd gauranteed me I 'd have her body at 40 :) Anyways I sian born and raised and over interracial is not much of a big deal...
nini's picture

Naomi is a star period the

Naomi is a star period the chick is fab edges or i woulndt mind having her edges if you you'd gauranteed me I 'd have her body at 40 :) Anyways I parisian born and raised and over interracial is not much of a big deal...
nini's picture

wonder how Tatiyana feels

wonder how Tatiyana feels about her ex hanging (Jonathan Brandis) himself.....
Sony's picture

The funny thing is all those

The funny thing is all those who complain that blacks are dating outside their race are so out of touch, it's depressing. Don't you realize that YOU are the ones with the self-hatred? Does Tatyana want to date your a**? Did she turn you down at the club? So why are you so worried about what the h**l she does? Look at all the black men who beat up on Halle before she found a man (white) who treated her right? And what all y'all are doing is called "math abuse" - ignoring the forest for the trees. You forget about the LEGIONS of black famous people who are with other black people, and focus on the relatively few who are not, and act as if the race is collapsing. This is the 21st century. Carry your own cross, and let people be with who they want. Free your damn minds.
Fo Sho's picture

[quote

[quote comment="132287"][quote comment="132278"]"what a damn shame" as in these successful rich beautiful black women choose white dudes to have realationships with. If these black women were regular working class women, these white boys would never dare hold there hands in public, or take them home to their family!!![/quote] Co-Effn Sign. Point blank period...the same goes for us brothers...we get it twisted too. Love yourself first. Then you can love your people. We need a cure for this.[/quote] It's interesting that you gave essay-sized comments when you were whipping down black women for dating outside of their race. But you half-way throw in this little brief disclaimer to put the brothas in check! The scales are weighing mighty heavy on the black man's side in the fault-finding little game! Share the wealth!
Jobell's picture

[quote

[quote comment="132203"][quote comment="132148"][quote comment="132131"][quote comment="132111"]Did I miss the memo that the white boy is the new accessory?[/quote] This is the Jungle Fever post... Tatyana and her man, Naomi and her man, and Iman has been married to David Bowie for years. LOL! Get with the program! Once you go white... uh... whatever... I can't even think of a rhyme.[/quote] lol im sayin[/quote] I thought of a rhyme (I don't live by it- my man is black LOL) Once you go white that black man is out of sight LOL[/quote] OUCH! Whew!
Jobell's picture

[quote comment="132162"]Inter

[quote comment="132162"]Inter racial love is cool MINUS the white boys. Give the shit a rest people. Plenty of yellow, brown, red , and black boys to choose from. Leave that white alone for a while. Its for your own good. Trust me lolol. White boys no good and well they are out of style .[/quote] I'm confused... if it's minus the white boys, how is it interracial love??
Jobell's picture

[quote

[quote comment="132131"][quote comment="132111"]Did I miss the memo that the white boy is the new accessory?[/quote] This is the Jungle Fever post... Tatyana and her man, Naomi and her man, and Iman has been married to David Bowie for years. LOL! Get with the program! Once you go white... uh... whatever... I can't even think of a rhyme.[/quote] LOL... that last line had me cracking up!
Jobell's picture

[quote

[quote comment="132283"][quote comment="132270"]lmao ^^ leave the white alone who made you the ruler of this world if people want to date white purple green whatever let it be so if a white person wants to ask you out you say " dear sir i cannot dat you at this moment its out of style" what so dating know is a fashion accessory? asian spanish lots of people date white and i dont see people complaining you need to let your problems go + the same brown black light black men are also dating whateverthey would like[/quote] Latino, Asians, and whoever are not the laughing stock of the world either...Slavery is something that is engraved in our history...we have been the play toy to the world...and yet we buy into the notion that we aught to let the past go and look past our history...the ish don't stop. Jena 6...we will forever have this debate...we didn't ask for this ish...psychologically these sisters are troubled internally...Naomi just goes where the dollar (security) is regardless...Tatiana doesn't even want to acknowledge herself (blackness)...it's a sad sight to see. You can't put other ethnicities in our struggles...everyone has their own...ours is the most un-sempathetic...no one wants to focus on blacks globally...we are the play toys of the world. Play on fools.[/quote PREACH Brotha!!!!!
A Marcus fan!'s picture

OKAY...I've gotta stop being

OKAY...I've gotta stop being such a garbage mouth, It's like I can't control myself when certain topics come up. I apologize, again.
Dawn's picture

[quote

[quote comment="132276"][quote comment="132262"][quote comment="132259"]Just my 2 cents: I will NEVER fuck with a white boy, ever. For what? I loooove Black men, so no matter what they do, say, don't do, have done, I will be here for them...and most of them definitely need to get there shit together. So what?!!!!? So do most of us (black women). Naomi needs to do something about her hairline or lack there of. It has gotten out of hand. Take that weave out and rest, please. I like Estelle's swag. She don't give a fuck and that's a must in the industry she's in. You go girl![/quote] i hope the black men in your life are as dedicated and as loyal as you are. i doubt it though because anytime you let a person know you have no standards and that there is NOTHING they can do or say that would make them lose you then what incentive do they have to respect and cherish you[/quote] I think that should be directed to the brothers and sisters who forget their past...the Black Man isn't the enemy...the counter reply is always justifying reasons to go outside your race to date...yet why not look at the same reasons why not to...the white men who you may think are in your best interest will turn your black asses back where you came from as soon as he figures he can't break your blackness (assimilation) or can't deal with your so-called "attitudes"...so it's like where are we in this discussion and exchange of thoughts. But for some of us we'd rather sleep with the master than live in the slave quarters until we get free. Ain't ish changed.[/quote] Much, Much Love...Marcus X! "We need you" and more importantly, I need you. Don't forget that. Shoot, "We all we got!"
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