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What's Beef?: Terrence & Rocsi Go At It!+Erykah Badu Says Kiss Her Placenta


Let me find out 106 and Park now has a reason for me to watch that ish. Yesterday's show was very interesting as Rocsi stormed off the stage after Terrence pretty much clowned her the whole show. Now from what I hear and from what I gather after watching those two in action like once in my whole life, Terrence always clowns Rocsi in fun. It's part of their "act". But yesterday, either Terrence took it too far, or Rocsi was just extra sensitive yesterday, or their secret "reationship" I'm convinced they have has taken a toll on them both. After looking very annoyed the whole show, Rocsi stormed off the stage looking like she was either about to cry or scream and didn't even return to close out the show. It's all in the video posted above. I mean I think Rocsi is a wack host and everything but damn. Dude was not holding his tongue yesterday. Somebody's getting fired. I just want to know who....
And Erykah Badu is lashing out on all the folks who passed judgment on her this week about how many baby daddies she has and this new pregnancy of hers. She pretty much confirms her pregnancy by titling the post "Pregnant with Insults". Check out her newest posting on her Forums (It is not on her myspace page or official fan site so I have not 100% verified the source just yet): peace, HOW DARE YOU DISRESPECT THE QUEENDOM ...AND MY CHILDREN AND MY INTELLIGENCE. ive never been so disgusted in all of my life . there is no other place i used to enjoy more . i post no where else . you guys have taken an all time low , tho. I'LL STATE MY PEACE i am a great mother and care giver to my 2 children and to this world . my children are 2 of the kindest and happiest people i have met. I home schooled them and taught them the ways of good to the best of my ability. i am their doctor and their nurse . and even sometimes their mother and their father. i am an excellent mother and resent all of the negative comments and insults on my character. I PUT MUCH TIME AND THOUGHT INTO HAVING AND RAISING MY CHILDREN. IVE HAD THE HONORS OF HAVING 2 HOME BIRTHS AND 2 WONDERFUL PARTNERS BY MY SIDE. every relationship i have been in was because i loved the person DEARLY and was dedicated to us "exclusively" FOR A NUMBER OF YEARS. the fathers of my children are my brothers and friends . we have a great deal of respect for one another and always will. WE LOVE OUR CHILDREN TO NO END. we took our own "vows" and CONTINUE TO UPHOLD THEM. AND THAT IS WHAT THAT IS . The rest of the article when you read the rest... question? WHAT IS MARRIAGE ? WHO IS THE JUDGE? WE ONLY UNDERSTAND THE EXAMPLES WE ARE GIVEN ( well sort of) WOULD IT "LOOK BETTER " TO MARRY AND DIVIORCE AND MARRY AGAIN ? WOULD THAT BE MORALLY CORRECT ? WHATS THE DIFFERENCE ? the government's involvement i guess. IDEALLY , IT WOULD BE EXCELLENT TO FIND THE MAN OR WOMAN WHO FULFILLS YOUR SPIRIT AND STAY FOR EVER AND EVER ( thru sickness and health till death do us part ) AND HAVE HEALTHY STRONG CHILDREN AS A RESULT OF A HEALTHY AND STRONG UNION. (this CAN happen ... we need much training , however.) OR IS IT REALLY "GOOD" TO STAY IN A RELATIONSHIP WHERE BOTH PARTIES ARE UNFULFILLED , LONGING FOR RELIEF , BRINGING one another down as a result of improper training , creating BAD ENERGY AND EXPERIENCES FOR THE CHILD TO REPEAT ? (not to mention breeding deceit and anger and resentment ) SEEMS TO CREATE FEARFUL CHILDREN WHO TURN INTO FEARFUL ADULTS . HOW MANY OF YOU GREW UP IN 2 PARENT HOMES THAT WERE MISERABLE AS FUCK ? OR 2 PARENT HOMES THAT WERE NOT PERFECT BUT WORKED? HOW MANY GREW UP IN ONE PARENT HOMES WHERE THE MOTHER WORKED HARD TO MAKE SURE YOU WERE CARED FOR BUT SHE WASNT QUITE HAPPY? HOW ABOUT A HOME WHERE THE FATHER WAS THE MAIN CARE GIVER AND DID THE BEST HE COULD -LACKING NURTURE? HOW MANY OF YOU HAVE A SIBLING THAT HAS A DIFFERENT FATHER OR MOTHER? DOES HE OR SHE MEAN LESS TO YOU? HOW MANY OF YOU HAVE MORE THAN 1 MOTHER OR FATHER OF YOUR OWN CHILDren ? HOW MANY OF YOU HAD /OR / ARE PARENTS RESPONSIBLE ENOUGH TO MAKE GOOD DECISIONS FOR YOURSELF AND YOUR CHILDREN ,THAT DONT QUITE FIT ANY OF THESE DESCRIPTIONS? HOW MANY OF YOU STAY IN UNHEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS FOR FEAR OF GOING TO HELL? HOW MANY HOS OUT THERE ... THAT HAVE KIDS TO GET A PAYDAY? HOW MANY PEOPLE GETTING THEY ASS KICKED AND ARE FORCED TO SUBMIT CAUSE YO MAMA GOT HER ASS KICKED? THEN WHAT is CORRECT? how about this: I PRAY WITH MY CHILDREN I FEED THEM GOOD FOOD THEY RESPECT PEOPLES DIFFERENCES THEY TRAVEL THE WORLD WITH ME THE KNOW WHO THEY ARE THEY ADORE THEIR FATHERS AND ARE LOVED BY 2 PARENTS OR MORE - OR TWO OR MORE SETS OF LOVING GRANDPARENTS THEY CRY THEY GET HURT THEY GET SICK THEY HEAL THEY ARE real THEY ARE NOT AN IDEA or a TOPIC AND NEITHER AM I . I AM ALIVE . I AM BEAUTIFUL WOMAN. I AM A GOOD WOMAM. I AM GROWING I AM COMPLETE WITH OR WITHOUT A PARTNER AND WILL ALWAYS BE AND I HAVE DREAMS OF A FAMILY STRUCTURE ALL OF MY DREAMS DO NOT COME TRUE AND DESPITE ALL OF THE PAIN IN MY LIFE ... IN MY MOTHERS LIFE ... IN MY GRANDMOTHERS LIFE WE HAVE ALWAYS ENDURED AND THERE IS SO MUCH JOY TO BE EXPERIENCED. I NEVER HAD A FATHER AND I DONT KNOW WHAT THAT FEELS LIKE - BUT MY CHILDREN DO , AND THEY LOVE THEIR 'PARENTS' . WE ARE THEIR CHAMPIONS . live how you want . follow which ever pattern YOU like . MY CHILDREN WILL BE LEADERS and they will not ever be slaves to this society's failing idea of morality. THEY OWN THEIR MINDS AND THEIR DREAMS. BIRTH CONTROL lol ... could have 10 babies instead of 2 . I LOVE CHILDREN AND I WILL HAVE AS MANY AS GOD WILL GIVE ME . I AM VERY HEALTHY AND RESPONSIBLE AND SO ARE ALL OF MY PARTNERS I CHOSE THEM WISELY AND SOBERLY . ALL GOOD BROTHERS . your opinions lack experience and are not only careless but also very uninformed and immature. nothing is sacred here . and i see why. if i loose you as a fan because i want to continue to have children then FUCK OFF... WHO NEEDS YOU ....CERTAINLY NOT ME ... KICK ROCKS ... CALL TYRONE ... PACK LIGHT .... BITE ME i have defended myself here ON THIS SITE and hurled a few insults .. but only in response to your insults of my music , my clothes , my lyrics , my hair , my being a woman , my spirit, my choices of partners.... these have all been on trial here . and i continued to support the energy of this place . this is to all the okay players / REAL HUMAN BEINGS hiding behind screen names in order to insult one another and who ever else you will. geeeez... i had to say something i am so sad for parents who try , today guys enough is enuf. dont judge to quickly , OKAY PLAYER? i know you are having fun , but what if it were you and your children? my son is 10 . my daughter, 4 . peace ANALOGUE GIRL and if this post is not clear kiss my placenta. Y'all better leave Ms. Badu alone. I know for a fact D-Town (Dallas, Texas) chicks don't play. The Randomness: 1. In the non-YBF news fo the day, Angelina Jolie allegedly gave birth to her twins via C-section today at 6p in Nice, France. Their names are Knox Leon (boy)and Vivienne Marcheline Jolie-Pitt (girl). Congrats to her, Brad, and the whole fam if true.

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Wow. 416 comments though?

Wow. 416 comments though?
[D.C. Maven ♥ 1986]'s picture

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[quote comment="139085"][quote comment="139044"]Reading these comments makes it easier for me to understand the state of black America. The breakdown of the family is the root of our problems. People taking about marriage is not necessary, it doesn't matter if a woman has multiple baby daddys, etc. Not so. Look around. There is no other race having babies outside of marriage at the rate black people do and the rate of high school drop-outs, teenage pregnancies, crime in our communities are all a direct result of this. Based on some of these comments it appears that we are not so much Young, Black and Fabulous as we are Young, Black and F@#%ed-Up. We have to do better or our race is in serious trouble.[/quote] Amen. I am not saying she should be married, I just don't understand the three different baby daddies. People are on here saying " oh let her have as many kids as she wants from how many daddies she want"- I mean really? We are the only race that thinks that is ok ( yeah,other races have different dads, but I don't think they want to and condone it) and have the lowest expectations. So you have three different daddies, one child gets to go to Six Flags with his cousins on his daddy side, while the second child has to stay home, and your third goes to his grandmothers on his daddy side-why would you want all of that for your kids? Her case may not be that extreme, but that is what the average chick with several daddies have to deal with. I am not getting on my soapbox, I just think we need to do better in our community. This goes for the baby daddies as well, Flav, Diddy, and all the rest of the trife crew.[/quote] People really need to get off their high horses. Marriage is not the answer to everything. You get security from YOURSELF, not a legalized government union that has a 50-50 chance of survival. People get married because that's what society says we're supposed to do and it's the "right thing." Live your lives people. Be responsible. Stay woke. Please, STAY WOKE!!!!!
Lisa's picture

[quote

[quote comment="143365"]E.BADU was, is and always will be one of the best in my book. while u all r referrin to the bible, ur first husband will ALWAYS be ur husband, in biblical terms.... so getting married for the second time and having another child is (biblically speaking) illegitimate. u musta skipped that part. I grew up in a 2 parent household, and to this day, i feel my mom wouldve been happier if she woulda left him... she says she stayed with him for us, which also makes me feel... nvmd.. how can u say ms badu is not educated? be for real... real KNOWLEDGE does not lie in those books and schools u put urself in debt for...(no pun intended) ur jus a clone of what the white man wants us to be, anyway... modern day slaves, with a decent sellout compensation.. maybe some of u dont feel her vibe, cuz ud rather hear the new joint by young joc or sum1 else stupid, the girl has madd sense. ud have to actually google sum of the shit shes spittin lyrically. NO, REALLY. and y r u all callin her names? realy; WHO DOES THAT?! {as if ur virgins... } love is love, and love changes, as u grow, change and mature. or maybe u dont. anyway... COP THAT DISK! u might learn sumthin[/quote] You make so much sense. You are on point with your statements sweetie!
Lisa's picture

Dam, how you all know Erykah

Dam, how you all know Erykah didn't get tested before she had sex???? People all up in her kooch!! Let her live her life! As long as her kids are taken care of, why does it matter?
Lisa's picture

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[quote comment="138996"][quote comment="138988"][quote comment="138976"]For all you birds that are defending this chick, don't ever try and get mad when Black men disrespect you by calling you whores, "dark butts", and whatever else or when they go out and get White or other non Black women...It is clear none of you have enough respect for yourselves or your children to think it is fair to atleast ATTEMPT to raise them in a two parent household...Yeah alot of marriages don't last, but you owe it to your children to try and provide them with a normal, happy, healthy life-style inwhich they could have both of their parents in the same household...You can call it judging all you like, I call it having some damn common sense and not being so selfish and thinking only about you and what you want...3 kids by 3 different men is plain triflin...And I bet some of you call the men triflin for exhibiting the same behavior...[/quote] I AGREE!!!!! WE ARE THE ONLY RACE THAT WILL SETTLE AT BEING A BABY MOMMA INSTEAD OF BEING A WIFE. WHITE WOMEN NEVER SETTLE THEY ARE GOING TO MAKE SURE TO GET THAT PAPER BECAUSE THEY KNOW WITH MARRIAGE COMES SECURITY. ASK ALL THE BLACK MEN THAT MAKE THEM WIVES. I GREW UP IN A SINGLE PARENT HOME AND MY MOTHER WAS THE ULTIMATE CAREGIVER SHE SHOWED ME CHASITY, TO LOVE MY BODY NOT TO SETTLE AT BEING A BOOTYCALL,AND A BABY MOMMA, SHE TAUGHT ME CLASS, AND TO MAKE SURE WHEN I WAS READY TO START A FAMILY START IT AFTER MARRIAGE, SHE TAUGHT ME NOT TO STRIVE TO BE A STATISTIC BUT TO BE A POSITIVE MEMBER OF THE BLACK SOCIETY. I DON'T CARE HOW YOU BLACK WOMWN OUT HERE TRY TO DRESS IT UP, 3 DIFFERENT BABY DADDIES IS FUCKED UP!!!!!!!! USE PROTECTION ERICA BADU!!!!!!!!!!!!!![/quote] Only the Trashy trailor park White women just "settle" for babymama status...And hell even alot of them try and get married...that's why alot of them marry so young..But you better believe most of the decent White chicks want security...That is why they stay getting ahead...and the attitudes of some on here are how alot of Black women in general stay getting left behind...Black women are the LEASTlikely group of women to get married...around 70% have kids out of wedlock.[/quote] wow, Madonna had a child out of wedlock, so did a slew of other sucessful women. If you think because a man marries you that is some type of security, well I can give you examples of thousands of married women who are abused, cheated on, and left with no child support. Women of all races. Read a book, stay off the internet and go meet some real people because you are so ignorant, and it's bitches like you that perpetuate the stereotypes. Because I have had more than one relationship (sexual relationship) does not give anyone the right to judge my character, call me a whore or disrespect me same for my girl Eryka
blaq's picture

[quote comment="138789"]I

[quote comment="138789"]I like Erykah, I really do, but something has to be said about not only having unprotected sex with these men, but having babies by all of them. We have an epidemic in the black community with AIDS and out of wedlock children and I would really like to see black women get out of this cycle. I am not saying she should stay and be unhappy in these relationships; she just needs to stop letting all these men skeet skeet up in her all the time. In the end it is HER decision, but this is just my personal opinion.[/quote] Some man skeeted up in your mama, that's how you got here stupid. what is all the time, her son is 10 six years later she had a daughter, and four years later she is pregnant again. And if you don't let a man skeet in you as you say you will never be a mother. and if you have had more than one partner you really don't have a leg to stand on hypocrite
blaq's picture

E.BADU was, is and always

E.BADU was, is and always will be one of the best in my book. while u all r referrin to the bible, ur first husband will ALWAYS be ur husband, in biblical terms.... so getting married for the second time and having another child is (biblically speaking) illegitimate. u musta skipped that part. I grew up in a 2 parent household, and to this day, i feel my mom wouldve been happier if she woulda left him... she says she stayed with him for us, which also makes me feel... nvmd.. how can u say ms badu is not educated? be for real... real KNOWLEDGE does not lie in those books and schools u put urself in debt for...(no pun intended) ur jus a clone of what the white man wants us to be, anyway... modern day slaves, with a decent sellout compensation.. maybe some of u dont feel her vibe, cuz ud rather hear the new joint by young joc or sum1 else stupid, the girl has madd sense. ud have to actually google sum of the shit shes spittin lyrically. NO, REALLY. and y r u all callin her names? realy; WHO DOES THAT?! {as if ur virgins... } love is love, and love changes, as u grow, change and mature. or maybe u dont. anyway... COP THAT DISK! u might learn sumthin
genuine1's picture

get it b!tch!

get it b!tch!
marilynn m.'s picture

[quote comment="142051"]Oh

[quote comment="142051"]Oh gosh I wish some of yall could repost 10 years from now!Half of yall would be on your second husband and or father for your child... Its so funny how people have this "it can't happen to me mentality..." Then when it happens, you begin feeling guilty about all the shit you talked and you wanna hide, then you are angry at the world because you too aint perfect... Bitter Bitches! Get a grip on real life this ain't no fairy tale shit... Someone pull another code Orange Alert...[/quote] Umm. Speak for yourself. I believe in a few ideals: 1.) Everyone comes into your life for a reason meaning that it will never be a total loss to marry someone even if it doesn't work out and especially if I want to have children. 2.) Do not sell yourself short. You deserve to have someone that will make a lifetime commitment to you and the people who have been saying that they want to get married before having children, will continue to believe it even if their marriage doesn't work. I won't feel guilty because I will always know my worth and the worth of my sisters out there trying to make it. So, I ask you not to continue to worry about what MIGHT happen but live your life as if you deserve the best every day and dont' settle because you see others settling. Also, don't down people who want the best by saying that they are living in a fairytale. They are just saying that until that day comes when they may get divorced they are going to go for the relationship and lifestyle that we ALL deserve. And, if their relationship goes bad, they are going to tell their daughters that it does not mean that they have to settle either. Don't live your life based on the failures of other people...
hadley street's picture

On Gabrielle and

On Gabrielle and NoBitterBitchesdotcom: Well said - both of you raise excellent points! Since when are not ready to fully commit ourselves to another person for life, til death do us part, forsaking all others......, but we are ready to raise children?? Damn that is a good question! Unless we have marriage we have no family structure, just broken lines.... Ring the alarm - - we are going critical people - PSA: Code orange alert.
Lady's picture

I do respect erykah badu and

I do respect erykah badu and it is her life so I cannot be critical of her but I do have an opinion about women or men with multiple baby moms/dads . I just feel whether or not to get married is not the issue but rather to have a child with someone at all is. i think that having children is a far more important decision in one's life than marriage will ever be because you are solely responsible as parents for bringing a life into the world and your decision to do so will have far reaching consequences for the rest of that child's life. That to me is just more powerful than what union you choose to enter with another human being as an adult. I see more and more people choosing to have kids together but not be married under the rationale that marriage is somehow the bigger decision. I find this ludicrous and laughable. So when did choosing your babies mother/father take a second to marriage. For me, having the child is the bigger decision and besides that you will have to put up with the father/mother you're pondering who to marry or not for at least another 18 years making sacrifices and all sorts of compromises for the child's sake. And even if you dont believe in the institution of marriage for what ever reason believing in having children with different families, possibly different last names , having to divide your children's time among their separate families ,possibly having you child exposed to the dad or mom's multiple significant others over time is an idea you'd rather be sold on? These 3,4,5 etc baby moms/dads have to stop folks if there is any hope for the black family structure.
gabrielle's picture

Oh gosh I wish some of yall

Oh gosh I wish some of yall could repost 10 years from now!Half of yall would be on your second husband and or father for your child... Its so funny how people have this "it can't happen to me mentality..." Then when it happens, you begin feeling guilty about all the shit you talked and you wanna hide, then you are angry at the world because you too aint perfect... Bitter Bitches! Get a grip on real life this ain't no fairy tale shit... Someone pull another code Orange Alert...
NoBitterBitchesdotcom's picture

potty

potty mouth fornicator illegitimate children any way you slice it.....what makes badu unique? except maybe her craft. she raising overindulged brats too-they are only special to her.who cares if she has a thousand kids.......i'm just sayin
vlo's picture

[quote comment="138927"]So

[quote comment="138927"]So many of you on here really like to judge. I hope that every day of your life continues to be perfect.[/quote] The point is not that we expect everyone to be perfect. The point is that you should always strive for the best possible situation. Also, you should learn from your past mistakes and try to do things better in the future. When I see someone that is rationalizing not getting married because of someone else's failures I think that is a copout. You should at least strive for the best and that is pretty much all you can do. That's why I don't necessarily hold divorced people as accountable as people who never even tried to have a stable two parent family. The person who is divorced is not perfect but at least they strived for the best possible situation and didn't make excuses about what other people are able to do when they made decisions about THEIR lives. I also won't necessarily hold someone accountable for having one child out of wedlock. We all mistakes but once you bring a child into the world it is no longer about you. That means that whatever you do in your life from that point on has an effect on the lives of your children and you should take that into account. I think that this situation is far worse than many of you care to admit to because everyone is so busy trying to adapt to a world that has lowered its standards, however, we can still strive for the best even when the world is lost.
Hadley Street's picture

Very interesting to say the

Very interesting to say the least (some of the comments) What I don't understand is... Why are some of you calling these children bastards??? Their fathers are taking care of them, so therefore, these children (who deserve not to be judged in this manner) are not bastards. And to say the least for those of you writing how many of you know your fathers personnally??? Do you consider yourself a bastard? Does it mean that a child who spend times with both his/her mother and father separately makes them a bastard??? Quit tearing down the morale of children, this is why children today are all screwed up, because of the judgements that people make and the pressure that is put on them. Its hard enough to walk around the school yard and be put down by other kids becuase your shoes aren't the latest, or because your family does not have money, or because your mixed, or you wear glasses... (you follow me) then you have adults on the other hand giving you hell because your parents are not married and they consider and call you bastards. End this mess stop being so judgemental on people... especially children no one should opress children like this. Pride them for being individuals regardless of their situation... And for those of you waiting to get married before you have children. Thats coo if thats you... But today you could be possibly waiting forever. Also you could go ahead and get married and possibly face a divorce because aint no child and or marriage about to keep a man. If he wants to bounce he gonna bounce period. Also no man is going to choose you over a woman who has children whether she has 5 baby daddies or not. It does not make them inferior to you in any way because you decided to wait. Half of you all posting have probably had more partners than Erykah Badu has probably ever had and you have the nerve to post on the website about how "stank" (hoe, whatever yall call it) you think she is... Funny... opperession And for those ignorant as$ people out there thinking that only black women are baby mamas and that only white women are getting married first and have only one baby daddy and all that other shit is for birds man. There are women of all nationalities facing the same situation world wide so stop it... And what you gonna do if your man wants to leave you after being married? Are you never going to date again? And if you do and decide to have kids by your next husband and he leaves you then guess what you ain't no better than Miss Badu honey... It doesn't matter people married or not you could face the same situation with 3 fathers for your children... so please stop being ignorant look deep down inside and just know that you could be in the same situation...stop it
WOW WOW WOW's picture

Luv you E That's Right!! -

Luv you E That's Right!! - It's hard for some to get to - but live your own life, YOU ARE FREE! F*** the folks who don't like it or who blab on and on about stats. Now that said - you are a wealthy, independent woman. NOT ALL Woman have the option you do - it's complicated, people should not be married if they don't see fit - AND black youth, Black Chilren', in 2 parent households for MOST part, fare better than those in a household with just one parent; it's "better" b/c; two incomes, 2, and depending on the income and educational level, have more time to spend(not the case in poor and working-class homes), have support around them, on and on...... Most of us don't have the scheckles(SP?) that our DEAR DEAR sis E has... so don't be too arrogant Mama B!
WELL's picture

I would NOT call Erykah Badu

I would NOT call Erykah Badu a "HOE" because she has not sold her soul (as I know of) for fame and fortune. 1. She has NOT made sex tapes to become famous 2. She has NOT tried to sleep with every "baller" she could find 3. She DOESNT APPEAR to have gotten preggos for a paycheck. HOWEVER, she is encouraging this GHETTO PHILOSOPHY that its okay to have multiple kids by multiple men. She needs to realize that of all the positive things that she's teaching her kids, she's also teaching them to AVOID COMMITMENT and/or ACCEPT A MAN'S LACK OF COMMITMENT. I'm a true believer that people fall in and out of love in a marriage. With that being said, relationships require work and dedication. If you continue to give up on that love/relationship, you will NEVER find your happy ending that is spoken of in the Bible...you know...the "to death do us part" love. BTW, this is coming from a person who loves E. Badu's music and actually respects her. Erykah, I agree with you on a lot of things but you are TRIPPIN' on this one boo, boo.
Lovely's picture

I dont care where she is

I dont care where she is from....truth is she is a pretty lady/person that got fucked and ended up with accidents like most ppl in the world, she's not any more special or different no matter how she try to make her self seem.
Natasha's picture

Anyways like someone said on

Anyways like someone said on this websiter or maybe another, Erykah is a groupie loving rap artist. She makes her seem like she is so different an ordinary fron the regular girls on the block , but there she goes. I liked her in the beginning, but now I don't know. She's a bit contridictary from what she has proclaimed to what she actually is. Me, i don't have one damn kid and thats b/s i choose 2 keep my protection game on lock. Trust I will not have even 2 kids from different daddies unless one of them died.
Natasha's picture

I love you and your music

I love you and your music Erykah, Keep on keeping on. As far as Terrence and Rocsi, he may have overdone it a lil. I love Rocsi, but she is just as bad as he is, so the pot can't call the kettle black. The show is suffering anyway, because Free is gone. On top of that, The same freakin videos are being played everyday. what ever happened to a top 20 countdown that plays the full top videos for the week? Between bet now, rap city, 106, and bet late, how many times a day do you see the same videos? They suck! Brindg back Martin!
ANT bANKS's picture

--Erykah's rant is a tad bit

--Erykah's rant is a tad bit too defensive for someone whose persona is supposed to exemplify self-confidence and inner peace. If she wants to repopulate the world single-handedly with incense-wielding, afro wig-wearing children, so be it. But Erykah's comment about home schooling her children is what really caught me by surprise. That's pretty scary, if you ask me. I understand the point of view that public schools are inadequate and private schools are expensive, but we're not talking joe shmo on the block---this is Erykah Badu. I KNOW she can afford private school. (1) What makes her qualified to teach, especially with her arguably inventive moral code? (2) What about social integration and interaction with other children? ----Until today, I've never seen 106 & Park and all I can say is Terence is embarrassingly immature. It must've taken an enormous amount of self-restraint (and desire to remain employed!) for Rosci to simply walk off set without knocking his ignorant ass out.
futureplasticsurgeon's picture

To Update on the 106th

To Update on the 106th topic... Well I guess Terrance still got his job...but Rocsi wasnt there.... Then Terrance said to Keri Hilson "I've been Having Female problems this weekend..." No kidding...Im convinced that they are or were a couple...
Dominique=[♥]'s picture

[quote comment="138854"]It's

[quote comment="138854"]It's so funny how we can create an email address and a fake name and become so holier than though on the internet it is 2008 and we are no longer living in a time where we have shot gun weddings and say our kids our premature or lie about the dates of our weddings just to save face. We no longer have to be miserable in relationships that weren't meant to be just to say I married my baby's daddy. The majority of u on here momma's has multiple baby's daddy's if not u yourself. As a matter of fact the majority of u are probably considered the towns BUST IT BABY for lack of better term. But it's very easy to get behind a desk and be who u wished u were in real life. That's that woman's life u don't know her or her struggle. Her's or anyone else happiness is not defined through u or anyone else. I can only imagine what would be said about the ones who criticize everyone else's choices and lives. I bet u would feel very differently if it was your business put up on this screen. Leaving u with my Mother's favorite qoute "Sweep around your own front door, before u try to sweep around mine."[/quote] ^5
nat's picture

yall keep saying she has

yall keep saying she has several children w/ different fathers - she has two children. she hasn't confirmed or denied that she is pregnant again. the bottom line, however, is that she will be judged for her choices as will we...and however that turns out, we're still held accountable for our own actions. i just wouldn't worry about it. she's an adult.
nat's picture

Use your MIND and not your

Use your MIND and not your BEHIND
k2007's picture

I can't speak for Erykah, her

I can't speak for Erykah, her baby daddies, or her children, but at the end of the day, LOVE makes a family, NOT a marriage license, NOT a parental unit with XX-XY chromosome makeup, NOT a particular tax bracket, NOT a particular religious doctrine. Most people these days have no concept of how humble, selfless, and sacrificial you have to be to be an excellent parent. Most of us end up projecting all of our bullsh*t onto our kids and burdening them with things that we need to work out for ourself. And even worse, for the sake of "keeping up appearances" don't want to be real about it. I don't believe in the idea of "throwaway" children, just because their parents didn't make the right amount of money, or didn't "look" the right way as a family unit. I'm blessed to have a mother and father who, while are far, FAR from perfect, have done the best that they can, and have always been PRESENT. No matter what your situation is as a parent, if you are real with yourself and with your children, you will be alright.
Jb's picture

And on the real...if she was

And on the real...if she was considered a ghetto-ish female, or someone less respected for their "craft," this whole thing would have turned down right scandalous.
classylady's picture

And on the real...if she was

And on the real...if she was considered ghetto-ish female, or someone less respected for their "craft," this whole thing would have turned down right scandalous.
classylady's picture

i am from dallas, tx and you

i am from dallas, tx and you damn skippy...we dont play dat!!! ERYKAH is my girl and always will be!! yall better quit hatin lol
miss d-town's picture

THEY SHOULD BRING FREE

THEY SHOULD BRING FREE BACK!!!!!!!
910 ShAwAtY's picture

I dont think she should be so

I dont think she should be so surprised that there are critics, but as long as she has a good relationship with the fathers, and works hard to take care of her children, that's all that matters. Obviously she takes really good care of them
classylady's picture

I am so very proud of Erykah

I am so very proud of Erykah - not for her comments ( although I agree with my whole heart with her; I have only one child he is 17 - his Dad has 7 younger than my son ) for being a woman in the public eye who lives in truth and honesty. As women why do we have to be better than the average woman? I believe together as a whole we make the average woman, I made no comments on her no pregnancy because I respect her right to chose as she pleases for her life, not one of us walks in her shoes or sleeps in her bed. Judgement is his, I may have a comment if I thought her a negelctful mother. I'm an older black mother from another generation where woman helped each other grow as women and as wives and parents. I believe she would take my comments with love.... I couldn't read all the comments, from the few that I did I ask - and I ask that you consider your answers with of self - How many of you have had un-protected sex with more than 3 people? ( mind you Ms. Badu is in her 30's ) How many will admit the truth...? even to yourself? Do you ever contemplate going to hell for your judgements? Do we have qualms with women having babies out of wed lock or womwn having babies they can not nuture or financially care for? Do you really fault her for searching and seeking love? Do you down her for loving, losing that love and still having the courage to try and love again? Do you appluad her of being a shining example of a real woman in the public eye? How many women do you know with more than 1 partner with whom they had kids and are still doing so? ( I know several, that's on them... ) This is crazy, lack of acceptance and mis-understanding which leads to haterd is just un-nerving. People we are living in the last days, and for us as a people it's the most exciting since 50's and 60's as far as the strides we are making as a people and accepting our own differences as America is forced to accept us all on every level. We have a voice on a national level, are you careful of how you use it? I try to be. Divided we fall - together we stand... Just like in relationships in public we can grin and bare it, and in private we can speak our peace. I know there is no privacy these days, I hope instead of negative this blog get you to think just think, that's all. Playing on my iPod Otis Redding - A Change is Gonna Come. Obma 08' If we can't support each other, we can be slient, it is our right and choice. Peace, love and all tha other ish...... (sp?)
Lady's picture

[quote comment="138789"]I

[quote comment="138789"]I like Erykah, I really do, but something has to be said about not only having unprotected sex with these men, but having babies by all of them. We have an epidemic in the black community with AIDS and out of wedlock children and I would really like to see black women get out of this cycle. I am not saying she should stay and be unhappy in these relationships; she just needs to stop letting all these men skeet skeet up in her all the time. In the end it is HER decision, but this is just my personal opinion.[/quote] Yes, I know it's not a popular opinion to be more responsible and to stop perpetrating the stereotype. However, it has to be said. We can make three babies by three daddies sound good we want with poetry, but at the end of the day you gotta try to get some of that relationship training you are referring to. Keep our black fathers and mothers in happy homes! We can do it! I know we can!
talk's picture

Then they could bring back

Then they could bring back Julissa
kelly's picture

I GUESS TERRANCE WON! He's

I GUESS TERRANCE WON! He's hosting by himself today on 106, LoL. Rocsi Left? hmmm
Joja86's picture

and 1 more thing...I would

and 1 more thing...I would hope that some of you who are advocates for raising a child alone would really take a look at and listen to what you are saying. Real talk--No woman on here can say that she WANTED to raise a child alone when she started out. Sometimes we have to live with the cards that we have been dealt, but if it could have worked or if we would had been more selective--we would have wanted better for ourselves and our children (our family). This don't mean that you have to admit any regret on your part, but just be honest. I have plenty of friends who got married for "the kids sake" and I will be the first to advise against that, but WHAT if we had the opportunity to do it appropriately--such as making a conscious decision to be with this man and to raise a family TOGETHER? Would you really be against that!? Real Talk. I am really kind of tripped out to see so many people against marriage (done the right way, of course, where vows and the commitment is upheld--without feeling trapped or miserable)...smh. It's kind of depressing. Ya'll gone make me play "Golden" by Chrisette Michelle.
chilady's picture

i've been under a rock... who

i've been under a rock... who is her 2nd baby daddy? i know Andre is the first.
question's picture

ROCSI leaving the show was

ROCSI leaving the show was LEGIT. The man just didn't stop, and we don't even know if they didn't have a fight before and he was subliminally really dissing her. She's not USED to acting like that, and I'm tired of people always talking about "overracting" "pmsing" and "overly emotional" everytime a woman expresses her frustration when facing disrespect. Like we CAN'T be legitimately mad. People kill me. Terrence needs to sit his ass somewhere because the whole "why don't you have Ciara's body" especially being Rocsi's boyfriend and knowing how women get picked on so much for their bodies was uncalled for. STUPID ASS!
Jrockin's picture

I respect Erykah as an

I respect Erykah as an artist, she's the QUEEN. But I think we need to set higher standards for ourselves and our children, when you have Erykah, Puffy, Mosdef and the likes we need to sit and wonder what's going on. They all have children from different people. 70% of black families have SINGLE parents, there's a problem. Now every races have single moms, but we have the highest rate and we're a MINORITY. This is crazy. I think the men are just as BAD as the women, we should condemn them just as much, and if women are hoes then men are f*cking hoes too. And it's even worse for the men cause often times they get other chicks preg by cheating (Puff), they're not even exclusive like Badu was. This isn't about religion, marriage, acting hollier than thou, it is just that our community CANNOT be strong without strong family structures. Let's use common sense. We as a people need to make better choices, don't stay in a relationship if you're unhappy or disrespected, but don't be quick to procreate if you're not sure the person is serious about LONG TERM relationship and strong commitment because you'll be related to that person FOR LIFE with a kid. Black women can't "do it all" and always sacrifice all the time damn it! And black men can and should be all time parents like the mothers, that's why we all need to be wiser! I wish her the best, nobody's perfect, I hope she makes better decisions in the future tho kids are blessings regardless of our choices. But let's have higher standards, for the sake of our children and ourselves as black people.
Jrockin's picture

Terrance showed his a@#! I

Terrance showed his a@#! I am kinda on the fence about E. Badu. I agree with most of you that she is a grown woman and that no one should be able to judge her....but at the same time she comes across as this organic, conscious sista who is truly concerned with the community, right? She makes it kind of hard not to QUESTION the blatant contradictions that are made in her personal life and her music. I am a diehard fan, no doubt, but I am really confused by this. Mama Gun was one of my all time favorite cd's from her and you could literally hear the pain that she was feeling from a failed relationship and the realization that she would be raising a child alone. She gave interview after interview after that (ya'll remember Honey magazine?)about how this was something that she didn't want to go through again. Now, all marriage and spiritual talk aside--even though they are valid points, but what about the pain and rejection that comes along with her past decisions? What troubles me is that she is acting like she is okay with it, when CLEARLY it was not okay with her. All of you true E. Badu fans...don't you remember this? I just don't understand the contradictions. We do have a tendency to hold people to a higher level of standards when they put themselves out there as being so enlightened. If I had a baby by everyone I was in love with then I would be like the woman who lived in the shoe! It is just confusing. I hope she really is okay with it, but I have a feeling that she is not.
chilady's picture

all that mess about how shes

all that mess about how shes headed for hell and damnation for having kids out of "wedlock" is bogus judgmental babble from a sect of "religous" folks who aren't suppose to be judging her in the first place... according to their bible. The western "moral code" is one sided and convenient only for the patriarch. Don't impose this slavery on those of us who live as FREE MEN AND WOMEN! I'm sure those babies and the one on the way are happy well adjusted and full of science! Let's hope we can say the same about some of yours..
epee's picture

E.BADU has been in my heart

E.BADU has been in my heart since i heard the first snare drums on "on & on", thats the first music my baby girl heard in my womb. Ill always be a fan no matter if she has 20 kids with 20 dudes. I find it amusing that most of these comments here are in "support" of her lifestyle now that she has basically read the entire blogosphere! When i have been here and other alike sites, all the chicks do are say how much they love her BUT shes done this wrong and that wrong and how wrong she is for having theses kids and fukkin up theses boy's heads when they get wit her( WHICH IS ABSOLUTELY RIDICULOUS)! all that mess about how shes headed for hell and damnation for having kids out of "wedlock" is bogus judgmental babble from a sect of "religous" folks who aren't suppose to be judging her in the first place... according to their bible. The western "moral code" is one sided and convenient only for the patriarch. Don't impose this slavery on those of us who live as FREE MEN AND WOMEN! I'm sure those babies and the one on the way are happy well adjusted and full of science! Let's hope we can say the same about some of yours.. pc
da essence's picture

Erykah's response was fine

Erykah's response was fine and dandy until she stated that at times she is a father and a mother. That made me think twice of the men she chose to father her children. No one is perfect but a good father is not a father sometimes or most of the time but all the time. If anyone should choose to have multiple baby daddys it should be strong, intellegent and financial secure woman like Erykah Badu.
swizzkhocolate's picture

I don't know the whole

I don't know the whole backstory as to what went on with 106 & Park, but Rosci should have walked off. You don't not stay in the presence of someone who is insulting you. Whether you are on live TV or not. Any, trained psychologist will tell you that if someone is insulting you or berating you and you feel under attack it is best to walk away from that person as a way to end the attack. She did the right thing and I would tell anyone, male or female, but especially women that if someone is insulting you or trying to embarrass you, you do not have to stand there and take it nor do you have to stoop to their level of disrespetful behavior to defend yourself. Simply walk away. When you walk away you take away their power to abuse you. Here is a young Black man verbally abusing a woman on national TV and find this quite appalling and it's such ashame that we idolize Black men for being verbally abusive by simply saying it's clowning or entertainment. I believe Rosci should consult an attorney and file a formal complaint with HR against this Terrance person. Whether they had romantic relationship prior to this incident does not give him the right to insult her nor does it let him off the hook with regards to a lawsuit for verbal abuse and sexual harrassment in the workplace.
magenta's picture

All the ignorance I see on

All the ignorance I see on here is starting to make me sick to my stomach. Its obvious to me that the ones who are passing judgement are either A. Ho's themselves. Just cuz u aint got kids to sho for don't mean u cant be a whore behind closed doors. B. Single parents who are hatin because THEIR babie daddies are contributing C. Single angry black women with no children waitin on a fantasy Mr. blackman who wants the "other" woman or D. Women who are obviously living in a dream world where black women can't want and raise a child by themselves. AND WE CAN! What about the women out there who want children but don't have the respectable suitors. There is nothing stanky about it cuz truth be told most relationships exist for the wrong reasons. People have the right to be happy and just because youre not (the haters) Doesn't make it right for you to bring others down. And for Erykay B. MORE POWER TO YOU. WITH A RIGHT FIST RAISED. Cuz u know what. At lease yo baby daddies is takin care of theirs. PEACE
UR_HINESS's picture

Rocsi and Terrence clown all

Rocsi and Terrence clown all the time.....Now she wants to get extra senstive....Did his joke go a little too far, maybe but no one knows what happened prior to all this...She definetely should not have walked off camera....it was very unprofessional....she should have sucked it up and kept the show moving...on that note however the show needs new hosts.
YYesItsMe!!'s picture

I think that Terrence owes

I think that Terrence owes Rocsi and apology regardless. And erykah has been a fake from day one, with the fake dreads and the whole nine so she gets a big fat H.S.D!
Valski's picture

i dont watch 106 & park but

i dont watch 106 & park but does anyone know what happened the next day? did she come back? that was very unprofessional and the producers should have put a stop to him.
tues's picture

I don't watch 106 like I used

I don't watch 106 like I used to and though I'm not a bitg fan of either I happened to catch when this went down and I was utterly disgusted by Terrence yes they do have there playful moments with a jab here and there but nothing like this..dude just would not let up. you can tell in her face she was not feelin ita he should have let up like usual but NO he decided to take it to a WHOLE NOTHA LEVEL with the body comment. dudes be killin me with the whole I want a woman stacked with this that and then some!!! but they look like Terrence!! you see he didn't like when she said body like Nelly(btw I would have said more than that..)he got offended...
shay nicole's picture

Erykah can cut the crap. why

Erykah can cut the crap. why have sex with someone if your not sure you really like them? what happened to having sex with someone you love? its quite obvious taht she spreads them to any guy that smiles at her. She is a beautiful woman, she didnt have to sell herself short. She just spewed endless excuses. typical ho
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