What's Beef?: Terrence & Rocsi Go At It!+Erykah Badu Says Kiss Her Placenta

Jul 13 | by Natasha

Let me find out 106 and Park now has a reason for me to watch that ish. Yesterday's show was very interesting as Rocsi stormed off the stage after Terrence pretty much clowned her the whole show. Now from what I hear and from what I gather after watching those two in action like once in my whole life, Terrence always clowns Rocsi in fun. It's part of their "act". But yesterday, either Terrence took it too far, or Rocsi was just extra sensitive yesterday, or their secret "reationship" I'm convinced they have has taken a toll on them both. After looking very annoyed the whole show, Rocsi stormed off the stage looking like she was either about to cry or scream and didn't even return to close out the show. It's all in the video posted above. I mean I think Rocsi is a wack host and everything but damn. Dude was not holding his tongue yesterday. Somebody's getting fired. I just want to know who....

And Erykah Badu is lashing out on all the folks who passed judgment on her this week about how many baby daddies she has and this new pregnancy of hers. She pretty much confirms her pregnancy by titling the post "Pregnant with Insults". Check out her newest posting on her Forums (It is not on her myspace page or official fan site so I have not 100% verified the source just yet): peace, HOW DARE YOU DISRESPECT THE QUEENDOM ...AND MY CHILDREN AND MY INTELLIGENCE. ive never been so disgusted in all of my life . there is no other place i used to enjoy more . i post no where else . you guys have taken an all time low , tho. I'LL STATE MY PEACE i am a great mother and care giver to my 2 children and to this world . my children are 2 of the kindest and happiest people i have met. I home schooled them and taught them the ways of good to the best of my ability. i am their doctor and their nurse . and even sometimes their mother and their father. i am an excellent mother and resent all of the negative comments and insults on my character. I PUT MUCH TIME AND THOUGHT INTO HAVING AND RAISING MY CHILDREN. IVE HAD THE HONORS OF HAVING 2 HOME BIRTHS AND 2 WONDERFUL PARTNERS BY MY SIDE. every relationship i have been in was because i loved the person DEARLY and was dedicated to us "exclusively" FOR A NUMBER OF YEARS. the fathers of my children are my brothers and friends . we have a great deal of respect for one another and always will. WE LOVE OUR CHILDREN TO NO END. we took our own "vows" and CONTINUE TO UPHOLD THEM. AND THAT IS WHAT THAT IS . The rest of the article when you read the rest... question? WHAT IS MARRIAGE ? WHO IS THE JUDGE? WE ONLY UNDERSTAND THE EXAMPLES WE ARE GIVEN ( well sort of) WOULD IT "LOOK BETTER " TO MARRY AND DIVIORCE AND MARRY AGAIN ? WOULD THAT BE MORALLY CORRECT ? WHATS THE DIFFERENCE ? the government's involvement i guess. IDEALLY , IT WOULD BE EXCELLENT TO FIND THE MAN OR WOMAN WHO FULFILLS YOUR SPIRIT AND STAY FOR EVER AND EVER ( thru sickness and health till death do us part ) AND HAVE HEALTHY STRONG CHILDREN AS A RESULT OF A HEALTHY AND STRONG UNION. (this CAN happen ... we need much training , however.) OR IS IT REALLY "GOOD" TO STAY IN A RELATIONSHIP WHERE BOTH PARTIES ARE UNFULFILLED , LONGING FOR RELIEF , BRINGING one another down as a result of improper training , creating BAD ENERGY AND EXPERIENCES FOR THE CHILD TO REPEAT ? (not to mention breeding deceit and anger and resentment ) SEEMS TO CREATE FEARFUL CHILDREN WHO TURN INTO FEARFUL ADULTS . HOW MANY OF YOU GREW UP IN 2 PARENT HOMES THAT WERE MISERABLE AS FUCK ? OR 2 PARENT HOMES THAT WERE NOT PERFECT BUT WORKED? HOW MANY GREW UP IN ONE PARENT HOMES WHERE THE MOTHER WORKED HARD TO MAKE SURE YOU WERE CARED FOR BUT SHE WASNT QUITE HAPPY? HOW ABOUT A HOME WHERE THE FATHER WAS THE MAIN CARE GIVER AND DID THE BEST HE COULD -LACKING NURTURE? HOW MANY OF YOU HAVE A SIBLING THAT HAS A DIFFERENT FATHER OR MOTHER? DOES HE OR SHE MEAN LESS TO YOU? HOW MANY OF YOU HAVE MORE THAN 1 MOTHER OR FATHER OF YOUR OWN CHILDren ? HOW MANY OF YOU HAD /OR / ARE PARENTS RESPONSIBLE ENOUGH TO MAKE GOOD DECISIONS FOR YOURSELF AND YOUR CHILDREN ,THAT DONT QUITE FIT ANY OF THESE DESCRIPTIONS? HOW MANY OF YOU STAY IN UNHEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS FOR FEAR OF GOING TO HELL? HOW MANY HOS OUT THERE ... THAT HAVE KIDS TO GET A PAYDAY? HOW MANY PEOPLE GETTING THEY ASS KICKED AND ARE FORCED TO SUBMIT CAUSE YO MAMA GOT HER ASS KICKED? THEN WHAT is CORRECT? how about this: I PRAY WITH MY CHILDREN I FEED THEM GOOD FOOD THEY RESPECT PEOPLES DIFFERENCES THEY TRAVEL THE WORLD WITH ME THE KNOW WHO THEY ARE THEY ADORE THEIR FATHERS AND ARE LOVED BY 2 PARENTS OR MORE - OR TWO OR MORE SETS OF LOVING GRANDPARENTS THEY CRY THEY GET HURT THEY GET SICK THEY HEAL THEY ARE real THEY ARE NOT AN IDEA or a TOPIC AND NEITHER AM I . I AM ALIVE . I AM BEAUTIFUL WOMAN. I AM A GOOD WOMAM. I AM GROWING I AM COMPLETE WITH OR WITHOUT A PARTNER AND WILL ALWAYS BE AND I HAVE DREAMS OF A FAMILY STRUCTURE ALL OF MY DREAMS DO NOT COME TRUE AND DESPITE ALL OF THE PAIN IN MY LIFE ... IN MY MOTHERS LIFE ... IN MY GRANDMOTHERS LIFE WE HAVE ALWAYS ENDURED AND THERE IS SO MUCH JOY TO BE EXPERIENCED. I NEVER HAD A FATHER AND I DONT KNOW WHAT THAT FEELS LIKE - BUT MY CHILDREN DO , AND THEY LOVE THEIR 'PARENTS' . WE ARE THEIR CHAMPIONS . live how you want . follow which ever pattern YOU like . MY CHILDREN WILL BE LEADERS and they will not ever be slaves to this society's failing idea of morality. THEY OWN THEIR MINDS AND THEIR DREAMS. BIRTH CONTROL lol ... could have 10 babies instead of 2 . I LOVE CHILDREN AND I WILL HAVE AS MANY AS GOD WILL GIVE ME . I AM VERY HEALTHY AND RESPONSIBLE AND SO ARE ALL OF MY PARTNERS I CHOSE THEM WISELY AND SOBERLY . ALL GOOD BROTHERS . your opinions lack experience and are not only careless but also very uninformed and immature. nothing is sacred here . and i see why. if i loose you as a fan because i want to continue to have children then FUCK OFF... WHO NEEDS YOU ....CERTAINLY NOT ME ... KICK ROCKS ... CALL TYRONE ... PACK LIGHT .... BITE ME i have defended myself here ON THIS SITE and hurled a few insults .. but only in response to your insults of my music , my clothes , my lyrics , my hair , my being a woman , my spirit, my choices of partners.... these have all been on trial here . and i continued to support the energy of this place . this is to all the okay players / REAL HUMAN BEINGS hiding behind screen names in order to insult one another and who ever else you will. geeeez... i had to say something i am so sad for parents who try , today guys enough is enuf. dont judge to quickly , OKAY PLAYER? i know you are having fun , but what if it were you and your children? my son is 10 . my daughter, 4 . peace ANALOGUE GIRL and if this post is not clear kiss my placenta. Y'all better leave Ms. Badu alone. I know for a fact D-Town (Dallas, Texas) chicks don't play. The Randomness: 1. In the non-YBF news fo the day, Angelina Jolie allegedly gave birth to her twins via C-section today at 6p in Nice, France. Their names are Knox Leon (boy)and Vivienne Marcheline Jolie-Pitt (girl). Congrats to her, Brad, and the whole fam if true.

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So 3 times spoiled Your

So 3 times spoiled Your saying you'd prefer you girl child to have weight issues, dress in tiny clothing attracting men who will tell her bullish in her ears get marriage to them have kids and accept that the guys fooling around on her and she can't leaving him for the sake of her kids than... A girl child that grew up culturally aware, happy with herself, experienced real love (once or twice)which unfortunately didn't work out although has a beautiful reminder in the child they 2 created. And lives happliy? You fool!

by People Please!!
8:40 pm - Jul 13, '08

[quote comment="139181"]To

[quote comment="139181"]To mrs parker It ain't that (most) black women are happy to have baby daddies but alota black men are unreliable when it comes to raising their children! You go out blaming the mother for getting in that situation thought you don't know the whole story, but don't think that its about time black men got there act togething! The reality is both parents don't need to be together to raise a child but they do need to work together and respect one another! If all black men are gonna call women with more than one baby father a 'hoe' then why do they let these women have their babies, surely they want their kids decent mothers? When guys get a more selective with there seed then maybe we won't have some many 'baby mothers' out there!!![/quote] i don't care how you write it,scream it, and try to justify her stank behavoir 3 babies and 3 different daddies is funky!!!!! why should we leave it up to a man to use protection, why don't we as evolved human beings and women take it upon ourselves to use condoms when we decide to fuck!!!!!!! i said it!!!!!! there is no reason on earth why women in 2008 should be having multiple children by multiple men and feel it is ok, its not okay for oprah a billionaire and it aint ok for laquisha in the ghetto. use protection period!!!!!

by mrs parker
8:40 pm - Jul 13, '08

both terrence and rocsi is

both terrence and rocsi is corny i can't stand the 2 of them together so if one gets fired hopefully terrence cuz he is the corniest. hopefully they bring back tigger and julissa. why did they leave?!

by black_ice
7:32 am - Jul 13, '08

I don't give a dam about what

I don't give a dam about what they wear! Wearing clothes and spit'in out bastard kids is too different things. Ericka speak about black power and ish but at the same time displaying hood rat behavior. Beyonce ain't never acted out so poorly. Tight clothes on stage and not being a hoe in the industry = marriage stepping off the stage....ha!

by 3 times spoiled
8:43 pm - Jul 13, '08

[quote comment="139067"]fuck

[quote comment="139067"]fuck rocsi how many black hosts are on telemundo?[/quote] WoW, it's like u read my MIND HERE....I don't think that she fits in with are community....But I'm real enough to say that they both need to GO. I don't care what Miss Erica says, she pass judgement off in her music all the time...The way she lives her life isn't matching upto what she's been preaching....If this was Fantasia...everyone would be all over this with all types of hoodrat comments...Shi*t happpen and I know that.....but 3 times, sorry I can't excuse this behavior....no matter how elegant she writes about it. Maybe she just like breeding these black men kids !!!!, thats what alot of these woman now of days are doing. Many of them are looked at as BREEDERS.....

by HottCocoa
7:39 am - Jul 14, '08

I respect Erykah as an

I respect Erykah as an artist, she's the QUEEN. But I think we need to set higher standards for ourselves and our children, when you have Erykah, Puffy, Mosdef and the likes we need to sit and wonder what's going on. They all have children from different people. 70% of black families have SINGLE parents, there's a problem. Now every races have single moms, but we have the highest rate and we're a MINORITY. This is crazy. I think the men are just as BAD as the women, we should condemn them just as much, and if women are hoes then men are f*cking hoes too. And it's even worse for the men cause often times they get other chicks preg by cheating (Puff), they're not even exclusive like Badu was. This isn't about religion, marriage, acting hollier than thou, it is just that our community CANNOT be strong without strong family structures. Let's use common sense. We as a people need to make better choices, don't stay in a relationship if you're unhappy or disrespected, but don't be quick to procreate if you're not sure the person is serious about LONG TERM relationship and strong commitment because you'll be related to that person FOR LIFE with a kid. Black women can't "do it all" and always sacrifice all the time damn it! And black men can and should be all time parents like the mothers, that's why we all need to be wiser! I wish her the best, nobody's perfect, I hope she makes better decisions in the future tho kids are blessings regardless of our choices. But let's have higher standards, for the sake of our children and ourselves as black people.

by Jrockin
12:23 am - Jul 15, '08

People please what are you

People please what are you talking about? you all over the place.....lmao

by 3 times spoiled
8:45 pm - Jul 13, '08

[quote

[quote comment="139194"]Nobody ever said Beyonce has control over what he may or may not do in the future! I was talking about her choices alone, not his. She is trying to do the right thing. As far as money hell she got plenty of it, she'll be aight![/quote] So 3 times spoiled your trying to say that if beyonce's married was to break down and her kids were to suffer at least she tried to do the right thing?! What kinda mentality do you thinks kid grow up with if they see their dads cheat on or disrespect their mothers? Your first understandings about relationships as a child are of your parents! Erykah stated that she and her kids fathers have alotta respect of one another, for a girl to see her women respected by men will respect and know her worth! For a boy he'll know how to repect and treat his woman well, he'll know his responsiblity!

by People Please!!
8:49 pm - Jul 13, '08

Are we still using the term

Are we still using the term "wedlock?" LMAO!!! As someone said.....if we are going to bring religion into this we may as well include "pre-marital" sex as a sin. I can't believe we are still using these words. I'm not going to knock anyone's belief but the one thing I don't like about religion is it doesn't allow people to just be who they are. There is only one way. It shouldn't be that way in my opinion. I think there is hypocrisy on both sides of this debate. People should spend less time worrying about what people think of them (Erykah) or judging others (ybf readers) and more time living their own lives.

by Lucky
8:53 pm - Jul 13, '08

VANESSA YOU MUST HAVE ALOT OF

VANESSA YOU MUST HAVE ALOT OF BABY DADDIES TO!!! THE POINT IS ERICA DON'T HAVE TO GET MARRIED IF SHE DON'T WANT TO, THE POINT IS 3 KIDS 3 DIFFERENT DADDIES THAT IS STANK TO ME, AND ERICA KNOWS IT TO THAT IS WHY SHE WROTE THAT LONG LETTER TO JUSTIFY HOW IGNORANT SHE IS. THER ARE TO MANY FORMS OF BIRTH CONTROL OUT HERE....PILLS. CONDOMS,SHOTS,FEMALE CONDOMS, PATCHES,SPONGES,IUD,OVULATION CALENDERS,PULL OUT(LOL)!!!! BUT IN ERICA CASE HOW ABOUT ABSTINENCE!!!!!! SHE CAN KEEP ACTING LIKE MOTHER EARTH NEXT STEP WILL BE MOTHER AIDS, I KNOW COMMON IS GLAD HE LEFT HER ALONE. THE BROTHER WITH 5 DIFFERENT BABY MOMMAS YOU ARE SO BOGUS OBAMA WAS TALKING ABOUT YOU " ANY FOOL CAN MAKE A BABY ONLY REAL MAN CAN TAKE CARE OF THEM" AND IT AINT NO WAY YOU CAN BE THERE FOR FIVE KIDS WITH FIVE DIFFERENT MOMMAS....YOU MAKE MY SKIN CRAWL.

by mrs parker
7:44 am - Jul 13, '08

All the ignorance I see on

All the ignorance I see on here is starting to make me sick to my stomach. Its obvious to me that the ones who are passing judgement are either A. Ho's themselves. Just cuz u aint got kids to sho for don't mean u cant be a whore behind closed doors. B. Single parents who are hatin because THEIR babie daddies are contributing C. Single angry black women with no children waitin on a fantasy Mr. blackman who wants the "other" woman or D. Women who are obviously living in a dream world where black women can't want and raise a child by themselves. AND WE CAN! What about the women out there who want children but don't have the respectable suitors. There is nothing stanky about it cuz truth be told most relationships exist for the wrong reasons. People have the right to be happy and just because youre not (the haters) Doesn't make it right for you to bring others down. And for Erykay B. MORE POWER TO YOU. WITH A RIGHT FIST RAISED. Cuz u know what. At lease yo baby daddies is takin care of theirs. PEACE

by UR_HINESS
9:25 pm - Jul 14, '08

[quote comment="138893"]A.

[quote comment="138893"]A. If there was any doubt that Terrence and Rosci were screwing, I think this pretty much shows that they were. B. Badu is grown, making enough money to take care of her children on her own. She's not asking for someone to help her take care of her kids. So what if she has 3 babies by different men.[/quote] All the money in the world can't make up for not having a full time father around. Trust me, I know. Especially with black children. The need it the most and suffer the worst.

by Poo
7:44 am - Jul 13, '08

Last time I checked Erykah

Last time I checked Erykah was a grown ass woman ... The nerve of some people to be hypocrites and criticize people for making their own decisions when half of you probably don't even know your own fathers or on Maury trying to figure out who the father of your child(ren) are, at least these kids won't be another statistic growing up without their other half in their life ... So Erykah keep doing what makes you happy and shake them haters off!

by This_Is_A_Stick_Up!
7:46 am - Jul 13, '08

[quote

[quote comment="138871"]Marriage is not for everyone. I find it funny that people are talking about having children outside of wedlock is wrong, but so is having sex before marriage. And I won't make assumptions but, I bet those talking about her not being married are the same ones having sex before marriage. Ignorance is bliss.[/quote] you're right, marriage is not for everyone just like having children is not for everyone either, that's why so many young women and girls are out there having 'secret' abortions. And for the ones who have one certainly wouldn't say it on a blog, they're just gonna take it to their graves!!

by SophiaJanelle
7:47 am - Jul 13, '08

Nope wrong! I'm not gonna

Nope wrong! I'm not gonna even go there about worrying how they marriage is going to work out...lol. If it don't it don't, if it do it do. Bottom line TODAY Beyonce's relationship and marriage is something to be happy about, not jumping into relationship after relationship leaving kids along the way...cough...badu. I have a kid almost 13 and her father and I split 9 years ago. Since then I have choosen my relationships wisely so I don't make the mistake of having hella kids and unmarried. My daughter would be so ashamed! And trust she in junior high school right now and my behaviors effect everything she does. I'm more mad that badu has 3 different fathers for her kids, where is her self respect! Dang if her relationships have been so fu'ed up maybe its a sign to give it a rest...geeze

by 3 times spoiled
9:01 pm - Jul 13, '08

There are so many things I

There are so many things I want to say but they have already been said. I wish people would think more about their children and less about themselves.

by Isla
9:02 pm - Jul 13, '08

[quote

[quote comment="139464"][quote comment="139067"]fuck rocsi how many black hosts are on telemundo?[/quote] WoW, it's like u read my MIND HERE....I don't think that she fits in with are community....But I'm real enough to say that they both need to GO. I don't care what Miss Erica says, she pass judgement off in her music all the time...The way she lives her life isn't matching upto what she's been preaching....If this was Fantasia...everyone would be all over this with all types of hoodrat comments...Shi*t happpen and I know that.....but 3 times, sorry I can't excuse this behavior....no matter how elegant she writes about it. Maybe she just like breeding these black men kids !!!!, thats what alot of these woman now of days are doing. Many of them are looked at as BREEDERS.....[/quote] TRUTH girl, you, Mary and many others are telling it like it is!

by camilla
8:00 am - Jul 14, '08

I honestly don't feel that

I honestly don't feel that Erykah needs to explain herself. She is grown no one who talked crap about her is doing anything to aide the wellbeing of her or her kids. So what had has 3 baby daddies she is responsible and seems to be a good parent. I wouldn't have even addressed that bs.

by Allie @ Foolishness Personified
7:49 am - Jul 13, '08

The people who defend Miss

The people who defend Miss Wright (Badu) are missing the point. The point is that Marriage brings cohesion to family structre. That idea is lost amongst most of the posters.

by LooseLeeps
9:04 pm - Jul 13, '08

@Stfu Already...I totally

@Stfu Already...I totally agree with you 100%...E. Badu is a baby maker period!! And to all those that feel that she is entitled to do what she wants becuase she is grown well its not "her" life that she is doing what she so pleases to its her children's life as well...there are reasons why children need a mother and a father period! As far as I am concerened E. Badu is selfish and irresponsible...and for all those that agree with her ideology you are as much as a bird as she is...great aspirations...yes I voluntarily will have 4 kids by 4 baby daddies and never be married (what a freaking joke) and this is why other races undermine our intelligence and take us as a joke!! The men are in jail and the womemn are habititiual baby makers!! I also will be removing her albums from my Ipod...what a waste of a bright and talented Black female!

by D. Michele
8:03 am - Jul 14, '08

[quote comment="138870"]ERICA

[quote comment="138870"]ERICA WHAT EXAMPLE ARE YOU SHOWING FOR YOUR 3 CHILDREN? THERE WILL BE SOME QUESTIONS WHEN YOUR HAPPY CHILDREN GROW UP AND SEE 3 DIFFRENT MEN AT THE DOOR TO TAKE THEM ON A OUTING AND EVERYONE IS GOING IN A DIFFERENT DIRECTION. ERICA YOU CAN SLEEP WITH WHOMEVER YOU WANT TO, THE POINT IS USE PROTECTION!!!!!!!! HAVE YOU HEARD OF AIDS?????? I WILL JUDGE BECAUSE YOU CAME OUT AS MOTHER EARTH BURNING INCENSE ON STAGE TALKING ABOUT HOW BLACK MEN SHOULD BE BETTER ROLE MODELS ETC. AND YOU CAN'T PUT A HAT ON YOUR 3 DIFFERENT BABY DADDIES??? WHAT WILL YOU TELL LITTLE PUMA WHEN SHE COMES HOME PREGNANT WITH EVERY MAN SHE THINKS SHE LOVES BABY? ERICA YOU ARE A DISSAPOINTMENT TO ALL FEMALE FANS THAT LOOK UP TO YOU AS A POSITIVE ROLE MODEL. P.S I'M A STAY AT HOME MOM OF THREE LITTLE GIRLS AND ME AND MY HUSBAND MADE SURE WE USED PROTECTION UNTIL WE DECIDED TO START OUR FAMILY.[/quote] Mrs. Parker, get a life. How many couples do you know who are miserable and stay in marriages that are not working. I had a friend who stayed with his wife for eighteen years because of their three sons, and all three sons have emotional problems. They witnessed parents who absolutely hated one another and lived separate lives. So, if her children are healthy and love her and their respective fathers, who cares. What is important, is they are loved and see two individuals who respect each other and love each other.

by My OP
7:52 am - Jul 13, '08

3 times spoiled My point has

3 times spoiled My point has been and continues to be: Ish happens and you can't always trust a black mans gonna stick around! So what should black women stop having kids and let the black race die out? You all put the emphasis on the black women but you don't blame the slack black man! Its alright to have 'baby mothers' rite but what women can't have 'baby fathers'? Don't watch who she sleeping with, watch how she raises her kids. Do they go hungry, are they educated, are they well treated? I respect Mrs. Parker's last comment, about family values, and thats whats Erykahs doing, she has her family and she teaching them values. Do all the men with baby mothers pratise this with their multiple families? At least Erykah keeps hers all under one roof!

by People Please!!
9:04 pm - Jul 13, '08

I know a girl who has 4 kids

I know a girl who has 4 kids by 2 different dudes and neither relationship worked out. She look mad dumb walking around with all those kids by herself. Maybe she drinking what badu drinking....shrugs...baby number 5 will prolly be hear in 2009.....lol.

by 3 times spoiled
9:06 pm - Jul 13, '08

Terrance say he graduated

Terrance say he graduated from college or whatever well he need to start acting like it they do usually pick at each other but this time he overdid it..he did not have to keep clowning her like she couldn't read,and that ciara comment was waaay over the line.he even cut her off at the end,once again saying she couldn't read!I think Rocsi handled that with such class even though I know it was hard to do but that was very professional and the best thing to do..if she would've continued arguing back and forth with him it would've only made things worse, especially on t.v. and Terrance was acting bad enough..he is really immature,you don't have to always put people down to make it a better show..the most important part of the show are the videos not the hosts..and I'm sick of him always talking about Ciara Ciara Ciara..she would never give him the time of day..She way bigger than him!he weigh like 90 pounds

by Ti
8:23 am - Jul 14, '08

I'm not blaming all the woman

I'm not blaming all the woman but just like I got control over my body so do they. Having kids is a serious thing and every guy I date does not deserve a kid all willy nilly like that. Have some control, THINK people!

by 3 times spoiled
9:10 pm - Jul 13, '08

[quote

[quote comment="138859"][quote comment="138855"][quote comment="138814"]Okay, I'm sorry but wasn't Erykah just telling chicks if they wanted to be accepted or successful in this industry to do some "ho" shit? So she can not get mad when people are starting to see her to do the same...Because like someone else said, in the hood, 3 kids by 3 different men is some "ho" shit.[/quote] Really.. hmmm so every woman who doesnt stay with the same man forever and has kids for the men she is at the time because she does not want to kill her baby is a hoe.. get real... hoe shit.... look how far a part in age the kids are...[/quote] Sorry, you can worship this chick all you want but truth of the matter is, SHE HAS NEVER BEEN MARRIED TO EITHER OF HER CHILDREN'S FATHER...I don't give a damn about her staying with a man forever, but those kids(especially her daughter) do not need to be subjected to different men running in and out and with none of them seeing her fit to be a wife... And you damn right I can talk...I don't have any kids...And my parents were married when I was born and I'd like to keep up the tradition.If she can judge other people, she damn well can be judged...[/quote] So your point is everyone should force themselves into marriage in order to have kids? Or stick with one partner wrong or right their entire lives for fear of what fools like you might think of them to be? Is Mathew Knowles your daddy. It's the only way I can see why you reason the way you do. Not everybody has big dreams of conforming to your ideas of marriage and no, not all children need an unstable home with a mommy and daddy that fake their lives to please the world. Get a clue. Some of ya'll hating coz miss Badu got all her babby daddy's on lock while some of your baby daddy's are ducking and divin, everytime they see ya'll around the corner. Chick got her ish on lock. Stop hating. Either that or ya'll some society brainwashed dolls. Crazy talking with that "she is not married" crap in 2008. If she wants to have 10 kids by 10 babby daddys, it's her prerogative. As long as she is exclusive to those dudes while making them babys and as long as she ain't got no beef with her baby daddys. Do you Badu. Level orange alert :)

by tyty
7:57 am - Jul 13, '08

[quote

[quote comment="139035"][quote comment="138908"]This is Tyrone. Yall muhfuckas bet not call me! I’m workin’ on my fifth kid with my fifth baby mama. I can freak and type at the same time. I’m talented like that. But on the real, leave Ms. Badu alone. She can buy and sell most of you ingrates on this site. Marriage don’t equal love! And further more, marriage aint even religious no more. People do it just to fit in with society. Well, news flash: SOCIETY is fucked up!! Her kids know their fathers. This bein’ a black site, we know damn well a lot of yall don’t know ya daddy. And for anybody wonderin’, I TAKES CARE OF MY KIDS!![/quote] Isn't it terrible that you are saying the Black people refuse to commit to one-another (through marriage) to allow the children produced from that union to grow as God intended? People crack me up they always change any doctrines to suit their lifestyle in order make it seem that their choices are alright; that is one thing my Father stressed to me is to always understand that you are sinning when you do something wrong and we should always own up to it but never talk yourself into thinking it is alright. I can speak on this b/c I was raised in a two parent home and at age 25 I have no kids b/c I plan to be married first and then kids will come. I practice abstinence in order to follow this plan. I am sick of people coming up to me (different races) and asking how many kids I have; I don't take the comments lightly (b/c I still look like I am 17 and I am black) b/c it is believed that the black female is loose and it is common thought that she will have multiple baby daddies. Come on black people stand up for yourselves and know that you deserve the respect that marriage offers; as well as breaking down stereotypes that the world has of us.[/quote] Baby, baby, baby! You don't understand. You've been TAUGHT that sex before marriage is a sin. While i commend you on your spiritual chastity belt, you are in no place to judge someone for not following the path that you followed. You wanna get to heaven, I understand that. But it doesn't mean the next person is going to hell because they didn't get a government license before they had sex or kids. You may get married and find out years down the line, your husband is cheating, bi-sexual, or(and) got kids with other women while married to you. You have your faith and that's cool. But don't you dare judge just because you got your stuff on lock, right now. Erykah in no way seems loose or nasty. My second baby mama got a little loose though, after I turned her into a freak.

by Tyrone
9:15 pm - Jul 13, '08

ROCSI leaving the show was

ROCSI leaving the show was LEGIT. The man just didn't stop, and we don't even know if they didn't have a fight before and he was subliminally really dissing her. She's not USED to acting like that, and I'm tired of people always talking about "overracting" "pmsing" and "overly emotional" everytime a woman expresses her frustration when facing disrespect. Like we CAN'T be legitimately mad. People kill me. Terrence needs to sit his ass somewhere because the whole "why don't you have Ciara's body" especially being Rocsi's boyfriend and knowing how women get picked on so much for their bodies was uncalled for. STUPID ASS!

by Jrockin
12:34 am - Jul 15, '08

1. A MAN SHOULD BE A

1. A MAN SHOULD BE A GENTLEMAN AT ALL TIMES. 2. ROCSI WAS NOT FIGHTING BACK, SO HE WAS ACTING LIKE A TOTAL JERK 3. NEW HOSTS NEEDED, I THINK ITS ABOUT TIME !!!!

by ANA
7:57 am - Jul 13, '08

wow.. yesterday's episode was

wow.. yesterday's episode was hella funny.. i smell a breakup..

by Eryka
8:02 am - Jul 13, '08

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[quote comment="138955"][quote comment="138870"]ERICA WHAT EXAMPLE ARE YOU SHOWING FOR YOUR 3 CHILDREN? THERE WILL BE SOME QUESTIONS WHEN YOUR HAPPY CHILDREN GROW UP AND SEE 3 DIFFRENT MEN AT THE DOOR TO TAKE THEM ON A OUTING AND EVERYONE IS GOING IN A DIFFERENT DIRECTION. ERICA YOU CAN SLEEP WITH WHOMEVER YOU WANT TO, THE POINT IS USE PROTECTION!!!!!!!! HAVE YOU HEARD OF AIDS?????? I WILL JUDGE BECAUSE YOU CAME OUT AS MOTHER EARTH BURNING INCENSE ON STAGE TALKING ABOUT HOW BLACK MEN SHOULD BE BETTER ROLE MODELS ETC. AND YOU CAN'T PUT A HAT ON YOUR 3 DIFFERENT BABY DADDIES??? WHAT WILL YOU TELL LITTLE PUMA WHEN SHE COMES HOME PREGNANT WITH EVERY MAN SHE THINKS SHE LOVES BABY? ERICA YOU ARE A DISSAPOINTMENT TO ALL FEMALE FANS THAT LOOK UP TO YOU AS A POSITIVE ROLE MODEL. P.S I'M A STAY AT HOME MOM OF THREE LITTLE GIRLS AND ME AND MY HUSBAND MADE SURE WE USED PROTECTION UNTIL WE DECIDED TO START OUR FAMILY.[/quote] Mrs. Parker, get a life. How many couples do you know who are miserable and stay in marriages that are not working. I had a friend who stayed with his wife for eighteen years because of their three sons, and all three sons have emotional problems. They witnessed parents who absolutely hated one another and lived separate lives. So, if her children are healthy and love her and their respective fathers, who cares. What is important, is they are loved and see two individuals who respect each other and love each other.[/quote] YOU SERIOUSLY DON'T SEE ANYTHING WRONG WITH A WOMAN OR MAN HAVING TONS OF KIDS BY DIFFERENT PEOPLE, THE POINT IS NOT ABOUT HER BEING ABLE TO TAKE CARE OF HER KIDS, MOST DO, THE POINT IS THE EXAMPLE YOU ARE SETTING FOR YOUR KIDS, WE SHOULD ALL WANT TO SEE SOMETHING BETTER FOR OUR CHILDREN. SHE SHOULD USE PROTECTION POINT BLANK. AIDS IS OUT THERE BOO! AND IT DON'T DISCRIMINATE. WHAT WILL HER ANSWER BE WHEN THEY SAY MOMMY WHY DO WE HAVE 3 DIFFERENT DADDIES? HOPEFULLY SHE WILL STOP AFTER THIS CHILD.

by mrs parker
8:04 am - Jul 13, '08

To 3 times spoiled I mean no

To 3 times spoiled I mean no dis-repect but i do hope that when you find a man you wanna settle down with and have another kid that he don't leaving you cos you'll be looking silly then! Your girl you know with 4 kids probably don't have no self esteem or respect which is why she got herself in that perdicament. Everybody is different, want works for some don't work for others. People can make mistakes but they need to just pick up themself and get on with it, no-one ever knows the full story so stop judging. Maybe Erykah is a hoe/slut/tramp/etc what you want her to do? would you prefer she aborted all her kids? Would it make you better if she slumped into depression, want her to respect or value herself less? What? Ish happens and she's doing what she feels is the best for herself and her kids! I respect that!

by People Please!!
9:21 pm - Jul 13, '08

ERYKHA I PRAY YOU HAVE 100

ERYKHA I PRAY YOU HAVE 100 BEAUTIFUL BLACK BABIES. I AM SO HAPPY THAT SOME OF OUR WOMEN ARE NOT FALLING FOR THE PLANS OF GENOCIDE RASCIST ARE IMPOSING ON OUR PEOPLE BY DEMONIZING SINGLE BLACK MOTHERS, LYING LIKE BLACK WOMEN ARE THE ONLY ONES WITH HIV IN HOPES THAT WILL LIMIT OUR NUMBER OF CHILDREN,IMPRISONING OUR MEN IN THEIR PRIME CHILD BEARING YEARS, PUTTING GUNS IN OUR COMMUNITY AND DRUGS TO KILL US OFF. INTELLIGENT WOMEN, ESPECIALLY THE ONES WITH MONEY SHOULD HAVE AS MANY BLACK BABIES AS THEY CAN TO STOP THE GENOCIDE PLAN.

by vickie
8:45 am - Jul 14, '08

i've been under a rock... who

i've been under a rock... who is her 2nd baby daddy? i know Andre is the first.

by question
12:37 am - Jul 15, '08

Erykah Badu is a grown ass

Erykah Badu is a grown ass fucking woman. She can have as many children by as many different dudes as she wants to and no one should give a fuck. Sweep around your own front door, before you try to sweep around anyone else's. If you're so worried about little girls having good role models, why don't you insist on their MOTHERS being the good role models for them, instead of celebrities? Jesus Christ. People get on my nerves with that holier than thou shit.

by Maria
8:14 am - Jul 13, '08

I honestly think That was

I honestly think That was STAGED!!!! i think this is to get ratings or start some people to talk

by ISIS
8:15 am - Jul 13, '08

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[quote comment="138933"][quote comment="138908"]This is Tyrone. Yall muhfuckas bet not call me! I’m workin’ on my fifth kid with my fifth baby mama. I can freak and type at the same time. I’m talented like that. But on the real, leave Ms. Badu alone. She can buy and sell most of you ingrates on this site. Marriage don’t equal love! And further more, marriage aint even religious no more. People do it just to fit in with society. Well, news flash: SOCIETY is fucked up!! Her kids know their fathers. This bein’ a black site, we know damn well a lot of yall don’t know ya daddy. And for anybody wonderin’, I TAKES CARE OF MY KIDS!![/quote] no human being on earth can purchase another human being. and having money does mean that people in a public forum do not have the right to question her choices. if you do not want your life commented on publically-don't have a blog, do not share your prenancy with fans. i'm starting to respect bey and jigga more and more, what they bring to the table is their art and that's all they discuss. badu is always coming off as so enlightened, like she exists on some metaphysical plane beyond reproach. she sounds like a scorned woman, a miserable one, who went on a self-serving rant. what woman would not want to be honored beyond the title of baby's mama?! pul-leeze[/quote] This is Tyrone. I feel you sista. But you obviously missed the joke. I didn't mean "buying and selling" literally. The metaphysical plane you refer to, I'll try to clear up. Erykah lives outside the box, and thinks outside the box. She never said she was perfect. Her gripe is with people that try to judge her, when 99.9% of their lives are not perfect. I could understand the downtalk if she was a crack head, alcoholic, or dead beat mother. Stop looking for a reason to condemn this sista. She is a good mother, not a perfect mother. I'm guessing neither is any other woman breathing oxygen, with blood flowing through her veins. And check yo self on her wanting to be honored beyond the title of baby mama. YOU said that. She didn't. She's a mother, friend, sister, daughter, and artist. I gotta go. My fourth baby mama callin' me for some more of this midnight chocolate.

by Tyrone
8:22 am - Jul 13, '08

I couldn't tell that Rocsci

I couldn't tell that Rocsci STORMED off at all, but if she did,, that was totally unprofessional, and if anyone has to go it should be her.

by vickie
8:53 am - Jul 14, '08

I don't know the whole

I don't know the whole backstory as to what went on with 106 & Park, but Rosci should have walked off. You don't not stay in the presence of someone who is insulting you. Whether you are on live TV or not. Any, trained psychologist will tell you that if someone is insulting you or berating you and you feel under attack it is best to walk away from that person as a way to end the attack. She did the right thing and I would tell anyone, male or female, but especially women that if someone is insulting you or trying to embarrass you, you do not have to stand there and take it nor do you have to stoop to their level of disrespetful behavior to defend yourself. Simply walk away. When you walk away you take away their power to abuse you. Here is a young Black man verbally abusing a woman on national TV and find this quite appalling and it's such ashame that we idolize Black men for being verbally abusive by simply saying it's clowning or entertainment. I believe Rosci should consult an attorney and file a formal complaint with HR against this Terrance person. Whether they had romantic relationship prior to this incident does not give him the right to insult her nor does it let him off the hook with regards to a lawsuit for verbal abuse and sexual harrassment in the workplace.

by magenta
9:35 pm - Jul 14, '08

I agree 100% with what erykah

I agree 100% with what erykah has to say its her choice and business .. People especially black women are so judgemental of one another.. If she wants to have kids with several men that's her choice not any of yours !!!!!! Half of you pointing fingers at her are used up as hell and probably have had several abortions your damn selves that's why you aren't a mother as of yet... You all act like your so decent talking about " marriage" like being married makes you decent it doesnt!!! There's plenty of married hoes walking around, if half of the men knew how many men there wives really slept with wouldnt be married he would probably call you a stank used up whore and wush he never married her..walking around being married doesnt make you decent.. You all talk about about "marriage" but it you want to be politicially correct your suppose to be married before you have sex how many of you on this board are virgins? Where in the bible does it say its ok to spread your legs with your boyfriends? Did you wait to have sex before you got married if you are currently married? If you know your currently sexually active with your boyfriend not husband the way you all say GOD intended don't judge her or anybody else .. Clean up your own dirty backyards before trying to clean up someone elses!!! If you live in a glass house don't throw stones!!!! Half of women wear white wedding gowns when they get married but didn't earn the right to wear white your damn dress shouldve been bright whore red!!!! For the all the men youve laid down with !!! If what erykah chooses to do is not your cup of tea don't worry about it and MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS!!!! And worry about your own lives!!! And keep track of how many men you all have spread your legs with!!!!! Remember when you judge others YOU are also currently being judged by others and GOD !!!

by nelly
8:23 am - Jul 13, '08

wasn't rocsi the one that got

wasn't rocsi the one that got raped by Lisa Raye's King of the cow pastor? that would explain her bizarre behavior.

by vickie
8:56 am - Jul 14, '08

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[quote comment="138958"][quote comment="138859"][quote comment="138855"][quote comment="138814"]Okay, I'm sorry but wasn't Erykah just telling chicks if they wanted to be accepted or successful in this industry to do some "ho" shit? So she can not get mad when people are starting to see her to do the same...Because like someone else said, in the hood, 3 kids by 3 different men is some "ho" shit.[/quote] Really.. hmmm so every woman who doesnt stay with the same man forever and has kids for the men she is at the time because she does not want to kill her baby is a hoe.. get real... hoe shit.... look how far a part in age the kids are...[/quote] Sorry, you can worship this chick all you want but truth of the matter is, SHE HAS NEVER BEEN MARRIED TO EITHER OF HER CHILDREN'S FATHER...I don't give a damn about her staying with a man forever, but those kids(especially her daughter) do not need to be subjected to different men running in and out and with none of them seeing her fit to be a wife... And you damn right I can talk...I don't have any kids...And my parents were married when I was born and I'd like to keep up the tradition.If she can judge other people, she damn well can be judged...[/quote] So your point is everyone should force themselves into marriage in order to have kids? Or stick with one partner wrong or right their entire lives for fear of what fools like you might think of them to be? Is Mathew Knowles your daddy. It's the only way I can see why you reason the way you do. Not everybody has big dreams of conforming to your ideas of marriage and no, not all children need an unstable home with a mommy and daddy that fake their lives to please the world. Get a clue. Some of ya'll hating coz miss Badu got all her babby daddy's on lock while some of your baby daddy's are ducking and divin, everytime they see ya'll around the corner. Chick got her ish on lock. Stop hating. Either that or ya'll some society brainwashed dolls. Crazy talking with that "she is not married" crap in 2008. If she wants to have 10 kids by 10 babby daddys, it's her prerogative. As long as she is exclusive to those dudes while making them babys and as long as she ain't got no beef with her baby daddys. Do you Badu. Level orange alert :)[/quote] And that's why alot of Black men don't respect alot of you chicks now...Because you dumbasses have a very low expectation level...Babymamas are all you birds desire to be...Sad and pathetic.

by Stfu Already
8:23 am - Jul 13, '08

Sometimes I feel that being

Sometimes I feel that being black is a "curse". I mean I am quite sure Erikah wanted the relationships between her 2 babies father to work out. But they were probably too busy chasing more a** like most black men. Lets face it, most black men are not "marriage material" or "father material" for that matter. We have slim pickings, and most of the good ones are either gay or married or both. For those who argue the difference, explain to me why most successful black women are single? So women go ahead and use your birthcontrol or wait around for a man to "marry you". You soon will find yourself waiting a damn long time. By then you will be to old to conceive naturally and will be looking for a donor or a partner with no benefits to have a child with. Real talk...the black family is not what it was when our mom and dads were growing up.

by cajunqueen
9:36 pm - Jul 13, '08

I'm sorry but Terence took it

I'm sorry but Terence took it too far, he is an idiot and since day 1 I could not STAND HIM. Not saying Rocsi is 100% but he is an Azz! I really miss AJ and Free they were the BEST!!! Bring them back BET and get rid of this dick pulling azzhole, Terence!

by KK
8:27 am - Jul 13, '08

Terrence was wrong for

Terrence was wrong for talking about her body, as a woman..we should be able to work without that stupid sh*t !!!!, so for that he should be fired because it's sexual harassment... This show has been so corny since they have gotten there. I think BET should be more sensitive to the host that they use on their shows to represent them...These are the young people that are speaking to our kids...I respected and Liked FREE and AJ because they were smart and it showed when they spoke about real issues....I use to watch this show, didn't know if it was me getting too old....BECAUSE I COULDN"T STAND LISTENING TO ROCSI & TERRENCE. From what I read from people on here it was them and not me getting to old."Because the Girl is Still YOUNG....HEYYY" LOLOL Since Yung Berg, I think as a hole we should be more careful about...WHO WE SUPPORT...

by HottCocoa
8:29 am - Jul 13, '08

You better preach sista!

by Black men don't love blk women
9:39 pm - Jul 13, '08

the things ya miss when you

the things ya miss when you stop watching BET. but that crap Terrence pulled... I give Rosci props for holding her own, because if he did that shiz to me I am not the one. Would have pulled a boondocks on that show: grabbed a metal folding chair and just chucked it at his dumb ass, then proceeded to whoop the shit out of him. What I don't understand is the audience's reaction. none of them were laughing or anything until they were cued, so I wonder if he was harassing her off the cameras in front of them. and if that was the case why didn't the producers stop him?? I mean the minute he was making up that song about her breath they should have been in his ear telling him to shut up or turn his mic off. They let him just sit there and bad mouth her repeatedly and the audience was stunned.

by Dana J
8:33 am - Jul 13, '08

not to mention, blk men marry

not to mention, blk men marry outside they race at faster rates then any other men!

by Black men don't love blk women
9:41 pm - Jul 13, '08

For all you birds that are

For all you birds that are defending this chick, don't ever try and get mad when Black men disrespect you by calling you whores, "dark butts", and whatever else or when they go out and get White or other non Black women...It is clear none of you have enough respect for yourselves or your children to think it is fair to atleast ATTEMPT to raise them in a two parent household...Yeah alot of marriages don't last, but you owe it to your children to try and provide them with a normal, happy, healthy life-style inwhich they could have both of their parents in the same household...You can call it judging all you like, I call it having some damn common sense and not being so selfish and thinking only about you and what you want...3 kids by 3 different men is plain triflin...And I bet some of you call the men triflin for exhibiting the same behavior...

by Stfu Already
8:34 am - Jul 13, '08

tyty wrote: Stfu Already

tyty wrote: Stfu Already wrote: tyty wrote: Stfu Already wrote: mila T wrote: Stfu Already wrote: Okay, I’m sorry but wasn’t Erykah just telling chicks if they wanted to be accepted or successful in this industry to do some “ho” shit? So she can not get mad when people are starting to see her to do the same…Because like someone else said, in the hood, 3 kids by 3 different men is some “ho” shit. Really.. hmmm so every woman who doesnt stay with the same man forever and has kids for the men she is at the time because she does not want to kill her baby is a hoe.. get real… hoe shit…. look how far a part in age the kids are… Sorry, you can worship this chick all you want but truth of the matter is, SHE HAS NEVER BEEN MARRIED TO EITHER OF HER CHILDREN’S FATHER…I don’t give a damn about her staying with a man forever, but those kids(especially her daughter) do not need to be subjected to different men running in and out and with none of them seeing her fit to be a wife… And you damn right I can talk…I don’t have any kids…And my parents were married when I was born and I’d like to keep up the tradition.If she can judge other people, she damn well can be judged… So your point is everyone should force themselves into marriage in order to have kids? Or stick with one partner wrong or right their entire lives for fear of what fools like you might think of them to be? Is Mathew Knowles your daddy. It’s the only way I can see why you reason the way you do. Not everybody has big dreams of conforming to your ideas of marriage and no, not all children need an unstable home with a mommy and daddy that fake their lives to please the world. Get a clue. Some of ya’ll hating coz miss Badu got all her babby daddy’s on lock while some of your baby daddy’s are ducking and divin, everytime they see ya’ll around the corner. Chick got her ish on lock. Stop hating. Either that or ya’ll some society brainwashed dolls. Crazy talking with that “she is not married” crap in 2008. If she wants to have 10 kids by 10 babby daddys, it’s her prerogative. As long as she is exclusive to those dudes while making them babys and as long as she ain’t got no beef with her baby daddys. Do you Badu. Level orange alert And that’s why alot of Black men don’t respect alot of you chicks now…Because you dumbasses have a very low expectation level…Babymamas are all you birds desire to be…Sad and pathetic. Last time I checked, the fathers of Badu’s children HIGHLY RESPECT her. So your point does not make any sense at all. Just stupid generalizing rumblings. If you think this is the only cause of disrespect towards black women by black men then you probably need to re-evaluate your reasoning. A black man will not respect you more just coz you have one baby daddy but you still triflin on the DL. You need to come better than that. Miss Badu does not speak for all black women. She lives her own life accordingly and Yeah they had so much respect for her that neither thought she was wifey material. I don’t have to come better because I know better…Chick is Triflin….With a capital “T”…All of that mumbo jumbo she has preached over the years and tried to judge others, and look at her… And you’re right, she definitely does not speak for all Black women…Some of us have the sense and the decency to want better for our kids…But that one bad apple can ruin it for alot of these women. Stfu Already On Jul 13, 2008 at 12:51 am | Reply | Quote DROCK wrote: Wow @ Ms. Badu. I will be donating all of your cd’s (and I have all of them) to goodwill. Terrance needs to get his ass beat for acting like that on tv. He kept pushing and pushing and pushing. Props to Rosci for holding her temper as long as she did. LMAO I think I’ll join you…People like her and Mos Def have been a great disappointment…They need to practice what they preach… Look you all need to stop holding these celebrities like they are gods, they say words to make money, we all make mistakes depending on our understanding of life and what we were exposed to growing up. Who are we to judge? Are we god? NO! They are entertainers, do you know that all the judging you're doing right now is a sin? Don't get caught up in all the drama that the enemy has set up for you to fall into. All we should pray is pray for these people (and our selfs) to do better. We all have done wrong, and not worthy to judge or throw stones at anyone. God created us in his image to love and support each other, most comments on here are ignorant and that isn't going to help us to be saved when god comes( judgement) (which is on hand right now) stop wasting your time and energy on putting down gods people. It's not up to you, like i say we SHOULD only pray that Ericka see the light and one day want to have a holy union for her family to be happy, and not lacking anything like she is for an absent father in her life. She will continue to search for that peace (but it only comes from god) she as to give her life to him and let him be her guide instead of making excuses for her down faults. I am not here to judge because i am not worthy and so are you! Just my extra penny!