THANK YOU! I WAS JUST ABOUT TO SAY SOMETHING. [quote comment="151032"]Why do people feel you need to have a ring to define your relationship? Does not having a ring mean the two in the relationship are not committed and therefore are doomed to fail? Why do people equate a non-married couple with "hopeless girl and useless, non committed man"??[/quote]

@Joja86:Marriage should be abolished. Real talk. It's all about a punk ass ring, wedding, and how much money he got in the bank. Like Tina said...What's love got to do with it? Not a damn thang! Would women be so quick to marry if the tables were turned and men got to keep the kids(most of the time) and snatched all the money? Hell Naw! Just ask Oprah. She aint lettin' Stedman get half of her billion. Is she? HELL NAW!!

[quote comment="151109"]it's too many black women can say they mothers, but cant say that they wives. ~ ~ PS... Uncle Luke?? Well I'll be John Brown![/quote] mothers are the BEST, she even had you!

Ima say this once and for all (prolly cuz I'm having a crappy day and had to take two shots of patron at lunch to get through it,,,,) ~ ~ Being light skinned does not make you pretty... But being dark skinned does not make you ugly! Get over the color complex people, how about we move on to a weight issue or something??

Who N de hell is that tranny holding his baby moms stomach with chipped nail polish, baby hair slicked down and blue contacts. If she dont knock it the fuck off! Now Im not hating this is just an opinion but ummmm his baby mama is not cute! Sorry! Neeeeeeeexxxxttttt!!

Ok - so she isn't a model nut just wants to look like one? Who takes glamour shots with Spy Bags and photoshopped pics in bikinis and doesn't claim to be a model? I'm not hating - she is pretty but give me a break.

[quote comment="151500"][quote comment="151445"]It's so sad that people don't desire to be married. They just settle for living together and getting knocked up..it's the new norm; people even defend it like marriage isn't something to aspire to. It's not taught to children anymore that marriage is the ideal family structure; what now has become ideal and convienient is getting together to have a baby and don't worry about solidifying the family unit. That's not okay and it never will be no matter what mainstream society tells you. In every culture the normal life progression is to get married and start a family! Well, I was raised in a two parent household with two parents who loved each other and they both taught me not to settle for anything less. And I mean really who the heck wants to be with someone for 6 years and they won't commit to spend the rest of their life with you? So you get no pension; or social security because nothing was legal; oh I forgot you'll just claim common-law! Expect more out of life than just being someone's baby mama..no matter what Fantasia says it's not a badge of honor![/quote] NEWS FLASH!! Getting married is NOT a commitment to spend the rest of your life with someone. Especially when you can get divorced like it aint no thang. Wake up from your fairytale dream. Just because you were brainwashed into believing that marriage is the ultimate commitment, doesn't mean it should go for everybody. Stop judging people and DO YOU! You make it seem as if marriage is gonna save the family from harm and keep them in some warm, fuzzy love bubble. It's not! A REAL FAMILY IS WHAT YOU MAKE IT. Not what the state says it is.[/quote] See, it's that quote right there that's the problem "Getting Married is NOT a commitement to spend the rest of your life with someone" Sweetheart yes it is...or at least we should try our best to make it a life long commitment. Young people have a very "flippant" attitude towards marriage and children. Those are 2 very serious commitments and if EVERYONE took those 2 things seriously....trust me we wouldn't have the high divorce rate that we have and our children would be thriving in a MUCH better enviornment.

[quote comment="151396"]@Joja86:Marriage should be abolished. Real talk. It's all about a punk ass ring, wedding, and how much money he got in the bank. Like Tina said...What's love got to do with it? Not a damn thang! Would women be so quick to marry if the tables were turned and men got to keep the kids(most of the time) and snatched all the money? Hell Naw! Just ask Oprah. She aint lettin' Stedman get half of her billion. Is she? HELL NAW!![/quote] She would if Stedman working it right... Maybe Tyler Perry (if he ain't gay) will get past that barrier But for real though, many ruined the meaning of marriage, but I still think its something to consider and a nice way of saying I want to be with you forever. Would you not want to have the last name of your lover, or be able to share your last name with your girl? (whichever applies). ::shrugs:: Sounds fairytale but I mean..

@ mila - Are you calling a person you don't personally know, but only know of via a blog and several random comments, a whore? With your "supposed" education level, one would have hoped for better from you...guess not - smh.

[quote comment="151266"]Ok if my math is correct based on info: - She's been with Fab since she was 20 - Had her 1st child at 16 - and is 26 right now? How old is Fab?[/quote] He's 30.

[quote comment="151132"][quote comment="151121"][quote comment="151109"]it's too many black women can say they mothers, but cant say that they wives. ~ ~ PS... Uncle Luke?? Well I'll be John Brown![/quote] mother are the BEST she even had you![/quote] That, my dear, was a Common Lyric.... and I dont know nuthin bout havin a mama, mine's been dead for over 20 years! ~ *hic hic* HAHAHAAA[/quote] But you agree with him?! When you tally up all the unwed single mothers vs. the wives let me know what you come up with... sorry about your mother.

[quote comment="151419"][quote comment="151266"]Ok if my math is correct based on info: - She's been with Fab since she was 20 - Had her 1st child at 16 - and is 26 right now? How old is Fab?[/quote] He's 30.[/quote] Thanks

Its true about fat Joe but thats not it she used to fuck around with michael vick the dog killer too. Im from VA and know her very well she gets it in. Its really sad that Fab got caught up with this chick cause the only professional job shes ever had is being a pro groupie. oh and fab didnt keep their relationship a secret to protect them there is no relationship period she met him in 05 fucked him here and there until she got lucky pregnant cha ching.. now he has no choice but to deal with her. The baby is 5months in the babyshower picture and he waited that long cause they werent even together like that he wanted to make sure the kid is his. friends of the crew still aint sure

Is that Shar Jackson 4reaL? LMAO!! Well, shes a hot mess!!

In the last pic,on the left is Christina (tina) Llano i Think. shorty on the right, is Melissa (Hell Mel) Trance? They are a part of Emily's B styling company Embellished Image. myspace.com/embellished_image. Christina is the girlfriend of Zab Judah and her and her sister Emily Llano are video girls. Word on the street is that Emily Llano befriended Emily B. so she can take her ideas and make her own styling company which she has now. How Pathetic!

ya r sum jealous girls. the women is pretty. and hav u ever heard of getting a tan….mayb thats y she two differnt colors in the pics. u already know the skin tone color of the people who r hating. lol always hating on the pretty light girls lmao! Beauty you sound really stupid. What does color have to do with this post. A complexion doesn't define beauty. One can only imagine what you look like. And YES I am light skin, but obviously I'm not a ignorant and arrogant acting like U. Moving on....the baby is adorable. If they are both happy with the baby then I'm happy for them. Ring or No Ring. Life goes on.

Am I the only one who remembers the interview he did last year on HOT 97 when he basically said he slept with Rosalyn Sanchez (the girl from the make me better video) and it didn't work out cuz he wasn't tryin to wife her. Can't post the link for obvious reasons but it is very easy to find the video of the interview online so you can see for yourself. All i'm saying is either they have a VERY open relationship or something just ain't right.

It's so sad that people don't desire to be married. They just settle for living together and getting knocked up..it's the new norm; people even defend it like marriage isn't something to aspire to. It's not taught to children anymore that marriage is the ideal family structure; what now has become ideal and convienient is getting together to have a baby and don't worry about solidifying the family unit. That's not okay and it never will be no matter what mainstream society tells you. In every culture the normal life progression is to get married and start a family! Well, I was raised in a two parent household with two parents who loved each other and they both taught me not to settle for anything less. And I mean really who the heck wants to be with someone for 6 years and they won't commit to spend the rest of their life with you? So you get no pension; or social security because nothing was legal; oh I forgot you'll just claim common-law! Expect more out of life than just being someone's baby mama..no matter what Fantasia says it's not a badge of honor!

[quote comment="151442"]Am I the only one who remembers the interview he did last year on HOT 97 when he basically said he slept with Rosalyn Sanchez (the girl from the make me better video) and it didn't work out cuz he wasn't tryin to wife her. Can't post the link for obvious reasons but it is very easy to find the video of the interview online so you can see for yourself. All i'm saying is either they have a VERY open relationship or something just ain't right.[/quote] IF HE SAID THAT HE ONLY DID BECAUSE HE DOES NOT WANT THE SPOTLIGHT ON HIS PERSONAL BIZZ HE RATHER PEOPLE FOCUS ON HIS MUSIC. I HEARED HIM SAY HE IS SINGLE SO MANY TIMES ON THE RADIO WHILE PROMOTING HIS LAST ALBUM BUT IT'S JUST CAUSE EVERYONE IS GOING TO PUT THERE NOSE WHERE IT SHOULDNT BE JUST LIKE EVERYONE IS DOING NOW!!! I'M ON TEAM EMILY LOL.

[quote comment="151097"]ya r sum jealous girls. the women is pretty. and hav u ever heard of getting a tan....mayb thats y she two differnt colors in the pics. u already know the skin tone color of the people who r hating. lol always hating on the pretty light girls lmao![/quote] Bitch you are hella outdated with that colorstruck shit, this is 2008. And you think lightskin make you cute. You sound hella ugly, if you were really pretty you wouldn't bring up the light shit, and say the hater chicks are of a skin tone other than light. A hater is just a hater. Light skinned chick who think dark skinned chicks hate on them because of color are hella stupid, and usually not pretty at all. I am a fine, cute, pretty, beautiful sista, like my hand I think fab's girl is very nice looking.

[quote comment="151161"][quote comment="151143"][quote comment="151132"][quote comment="151121"][quote comment="151109"]it's too many black women can say they mothers, but cant say that they wives. ~ ~ PS... Uncle Luke?? Well I'll be John Brown![/quote] mother are the BEST she even had you![/quote] That, my dear, was a Common Lyric.... ~ *hic hic* HAHAHAAA[/quote] But you agree with him?! When you tally up all the unwed single mothers vs. the wives let me know what you come up with... .[/quote] All good, Kerry... Thanks,:) ~ Anyway, yeah I do think there are more baby mamas out there than wives in the black community... am I incorrect? I think I read a statistic that 70% of black children are born out of wedlock. Im not one to say that the ring, paper and pomp makes a wife better than a babymama, but its sad that so many of our kids are raised without the stable family thang.[/quote] This is what i mean by mis-interpretation. You're saying baby momma's (not the term we use in London but hey lol) and wives. Where is the inbetween i.e. those who are in stable relationships, with kids, but not married??? To put a ring on a woman's finger does mean the family is stable (hello britney spears). There is a difference between being born out of wedlock, but having a stable, conhabitating family, and being born out of a wedlock and daddy is nowhere to be seen and mummy is alone. People seem to blur the lines between the two. However, i am not saying there are not "issues" within the black community. My argument is simpy referring to the points made about marriage and having children. x

[quote comment="151006"]She's pretty[/quote] NOT REALLY!!!!!

Damn nobody uses condoms or birth control anymore. SIGH...and AIDS continues to run amuck...

[quote comment="151168"]He don't need to marry her. He already has her![/quote] so true. so sad.

She is a very pretty girl IMO. W/O make up she just looks paler, but still attractive. You know its funny how the comments on the blogs start off so nice and then towards the end it gets all crazy and negative. I think some people just like to start the light skinned dark skinned debate *eeehheeemmm* just ask Beauty, primarily because it keeps the blog going! It's a shame that we need a negative topic to keep bloggin though! Maybe she just needs some attention and wants someone to comment back at her LOL I see you Beauty in all your light skinned glory,,,gimme a break!