Not surprised at all! LOL!! Typical black men behavior. I doubt if he even gave that many black women a chance. I guess this is the closest thing to his ex-wife.

Ok white, Cuban or whatever she is not even pretty I think though maybe he doesn't really have good taste in general I am not trying not be mean but Juanita wasn't all that pretty her damn self maybe he wants a more toned down woman because of his high profile status but from what I have seen so far his taste in questionable. And anyway a lot of NBA players don't have very good taste most of their chicks are super average. And for the record he is still fine.

I call myself trying to quote someone but shorten the post.... I know I’m going but I’m not ready to meet the King yet…lol. But I will continue to try my best to do right while I’m still here. I don’t feel deprived…I see so many women at church crying and blowing snot over dudes they have slept with for whatever reason only to be right back at square one. I don’t want to look back 10 years from now and realize I been with XXX amount of men looking for love. I sleep good at night not wondering where he is, what he’s doing and who he’s doing it with, does he love me and all that other nonsense. I don’t knock what other folks are doing but I have never really understood the concept of folks sleeping with someone and then they just go their separate ways like its nothing. My heart and vajayjay are tied together with some Timberland boot shoelaces…you can’t have one without the other.

[quote comment="231203"]Good Afternoon Everyone, Is there an epidemic going on? My feelings are hurt. Tear.[/quote] Don't be sweetie, these negros have deep issues

[quote comment="231461"][quote comment="231453"][quote comment="231443"][quote comment="231434"][quote comment="231397"][quote comment="231367"][quote comment="231366"][quote comment="231356"]I'm shy to use my real name but here I go. I haven't had sex for 5 years ladies. Any comments?[/quote] First question 1. Is it for spiritual reasons?[/quote] ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Well I guess I'm going to hell then....[/quote] My goodies have been locked up for 1 year and 3 months on Oct. 12th...its definitely for spiritual and personal reasons. No need of giving up the goods to men who are not good enough. If you like it, put a ring on it...I'm sure I'll be renewing my application I have men fill out when they try to get at me while playing that song 50-11 times this weekend.[/quote] I hear that..us ladies and guys can avoid so much heartache and pain if we just wait on JESUS!! I wish I would have!!!!! I'm just starting to understand that now!! *looking to see if I still have the key to my Chasity Belt handy*[/quote] ---------------------------------------------------------------------------- Wait broke the wagon....If I gotta stop having sex to get to heaven....then I'm in BIG trouble!!![/quote] I will be at the altar for you on Sunday and you are now on my prayer list for tonight...lol.[/quote] --------------------------------------------------------------------------- Uhm if you are gonna pray for me...dont worry about that..pray I get a new job or a check or something...dont waste your time praying for me to stop having sex...it aint gonna happen....[/quote] why would u want to stop ?...cuz u're not married ?

I heard a long time ago that Mike had a thang for White Chicks...kinda like Terry Crews in the movie White Chicks.

[quote comment="231271"][quote comment="231258"][quote comment="231244"]here we go again...! cant a brotha just be with who he wants to be with? i mean come on its not that serious! lol a woman is a woman...i know that much, the reason why some of y`all sistas cant keep a man is because of your insecurities.....yesterday y`all were all up on gabrielle union because she`s supposedly with dwayne wade..hmmm last time i checked gabrielle union isnt exactly what you call white or light skin...so what do you finally want? a brotha gets a girl with a big booty its another problem..black men dont have any issues....look at yourselves in the mirror...[/quote] Damn....i'm surely happy I got a man! lol....Who cannot stand pink people.....lol[/quote] girl me too! lol[/quote] LMAO..cosign* me too!!!

[quote comment="231479"][quote comment="231454"][quote comment="231449"][quote comment="231428"][quote comment="231421"][quote comment="231415"]Okay, Now I'm inspired. I'm gonna tell my husband that I'm not gonna have sex for a year!!! Thank Ladies for empowering me!![/quote] Riiiiiiight! Okay Toya, lemme know how that little experiment goes so I can tell MY husband, 'cause "I gotta headache" ain't cutting it anymore! :lol:[/quote] Oops...TONYA![/quote] Girl Please...I can hear my husband now,"Whatever, I bet you better be naked when I get home!"[/quote] LMAO!!!!!! ...WITH the baby oil and a shoehorn! Oops, T.M.I.! :lol:[/quote] Shoehorn? Ohhhhhhhh helllllllll nawwwwwww, you ain't gonna drop some info like that and NOW wanna be quiet.......what you use a shoehorn for? Enquiring minds wanna now, lol.[/quote] HAHAHAHA! Ah Girl I'm just trippin, you know..jokes! Er, um, ah, yeah... :oops:

Heeeeeeeeey y'all! I'm tired, because I thought it said Michael Jackson until I saw the pic. And either way... I'm not surprised.

While I'm not surprised I couldn't really care either. If ya happy Mike, I'm happy for you. *I still consider you a ball-hogger* :wink:

dont blame michael one bit....black women are judmental look at each other funny always competing if u get on the elevator with a few and speak they look at u funny like u just spoke a foreign language...i dont blame him one bit...not all black women are like this but the majority are and its a shame when my 14 yrs old son who is in the 9th grade comes home and say mama why black girls have the worst attitudes? i wish i had the answer...

[quote comment="231291"]QUESTION TO YOU ALL!?! If white men,with money,were more reluctant to dating ‘us’, would black men dating white women be that big of an issue for us black women?[/quote] That is the problem. Its not equal. I grew up around a lot of white people and white guys were just not into dating black girls.

[quote comment="231469"][quote comment="231457"][quote comment="231442"][quote comment="231427"][quote comment="231410"][quote comment="231397"][quote comment="231367"][quote comment="231366"][quote comment="231356"]I'm shy to use my real name but here I go. I haven't had sex for 5 years ladies. Any comments?[/quote] First question 1. Is it for spiritual reasons?[/quote] ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Well I guess I'm going to hell then....[/quote] My goodies have been locked up for 1 year and 3 months on Oct. 12th...its definitely for spiritual and personal reasons. No need of giving up the goods to men who are not good enough. If you like it, put a ring on it...I'm sure I'll be renewing my application I have men fill out when they try to get at me while playing that song 50-11 times this weekend.[/quote] ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------- What about your OWN need to have sex....good Lord 15 months w/o sex....I hope you got some toys or something...[/quote] I haven't had sex in a minute. Since I'm not in a relationship, I really don't have a desire to. I mean if "IT" was around me all the time, it would be harder to resist but I don't need it like that.[/quote] You know, I don't have toys or desire to have them or "it" right now. I'm 27 and want a relationship and courtship firmly established before I have sex with someone ever again. I mean, I'm human, I have urges and lustful thoughts like the next person, but I just know that good things (pun intended) literally and figuaratively come to those who wait and be patient. I know if I wait on Him to continue to mature me, perfect me, groom and prune me; He will be able to trust me with the Godly man that He has for me.[/quote] That's wonderful....I hate I was a Ho before I got married. I've been ho-free for some time now.[/quote] Wht's Being a Ho to you ?[/quote] I be a hoe only to my man!It's only appropriate.[quote comment="231469"][quote comment="231457"][quote comment="231442"][quote comment="231427"][quote comment="231410"][quote comment="231397"][quote comment="231367"][quote comment="231366"][quote comment="231356"]I'm shy to use my real name but here I go. I haven't had sex for 5 years ladies. Any comments?[/quote] First question 1. Is it for spiritual reasons?[/quote] ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Well I guess I'm going to hell then....[/quote] My goodies have been locked up for 1 year and 3 months on Oct. 12th...its definitely for spiritual and personal reasons. No need of giving up the goods to men who are not good enough. If you like it, put a ring on it...I'm sure I'll be renewing my application I have men fill out when they try to get at me while playing that song 50-11 times this weekend.[/quote] ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------- What about your OWN need to have sex....good Lord 15 months w/o sex....I hope you got some toys or something...[/quote] I haven't had sex in a minute. Since I'm not in a relationship, I really don't have a desire to. I mean if "IT" was around me all the time, it would be harder to resist but I don't need it like that.[/quote] You know, I don't have toys or desire to have them or "it" right now. I'm 27 and want a relationship and courtship firmly established before I have sex with someone ever again. I mean, I'm human, I have urges and lustful thoughts like the next person, but I just know that good things (pun intended) literally and figuaratively come to those who wait and be patient. I know if I wait on Him to continue to mature me, perfect me, groom and prune me; He will be able to trust me with the Godly man that He has for me.[/quote] That's wonderful....I hate I was a Ho before I got married. I've been ho-free for some time now.[/quote] Wht's Being a Ho to you ?[/quote] Its safe to say that you should be a ho to your man lol.IMO

SHE IS NOT WHITE! SHE IS NOT WHITE! SHE IS NOT WHITE! SHE IS MUTALLO! SHE IS MULATTO! SHE IS MULLATO! JUST LIKE HALLE OR MARIAH OR OBAMA.

[quote comment="231997"][quote comment="231958"]Good job ybf for all the Becky comments! a lot of self loathing going on here.... please don't be so transparent ladies---it ain't cute...It is none of your business to judge a Black man and who he chooses to hook up with or not, and you wouldn't give a damn if you were HEALTHY emotionally. get your mind right and you will have no problem attracting kind and honest men!!!!! The numbers aren't there-60% of Black women will never marry (not that they all want too) however don't sabotage your chances to love...date outside your race. Grow up and create your own destiny...[/quote] YBF is the pied piper and these dummies are the fucking rats. Hate breeds hate and they just fall right in line. Mike could care less what these idiots think so don't sweat it.[/quote] Self loathing? Hmmm, I dont think so. Self loathing is hating ourselves...umm, obviously we love our BEAUTIFUL BLACK selves and Mike will start caring when his sells go down. Oh you didn't know, most black women take care of their children by theirselves...so that means they work two jobs so their child can have the best...when we go to Footlocker and decide what sneaker we want, it defenitely wont be Jordans. So he's gunna lose, big time too.

[quote comment="231474"][quote comment="231442"][quote comment="231427"][quote comment="231410"][quote comment="231397"][quote comment="231367"][quote comment="231366"][quote comment="231356"]I'm shy to use my real name but here I go. I haven't had sex for 5 years ladies. Any comments?[/quote] First question 1. Is it for spiritual reasons?[/quote] ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Well I guess I'm going to hell then....[/quote] My goodies have been locked up for 1 year and 3 months on Oct. 12th...its definitely for spiritual and personal reasons. No need of giving up the goods to men who are not good enough. If you like it, put a ring on it...I'm sure I'll be renewing my application I have men fill out when they try to get at me while playing that song 50-11 times this weekend.[/quote] ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------- What about your OWN need to have sex....good Lord 15 months w/o sex....I hope you got some toys or something...[/quote] I haven't had sex in a minute. Since I'm not in a relationship, I really don't have a desire to. I mean if "IT" was around me all the time, it would be harder to resist but I don't need it like that.[/quote] You know, I don't have toys or desire to have them or "it" right now. I'm 27 and want a relationship and courtship firmly established before I have sex with someone ever again. I mean, I'm human, I have urges and lustful thoughts like the next person, but I just know that good things (pun intended) literally and figuaratively come to those who wait and be patient. I know if I wait on Him to continue to mature me, perfect me, groom and prune me; He will be able to trust me with the Godly man that He has for me.[/quote] I told my current boyfriend that I'm not gone jump and just have sex when was dating and that if he didn't want a girl like me he could leave, but he stayed, dated for a couple months and we in a relationship.I pray he is the one, but it is too early to determine.I think some women want to rush and just find a man to find a missing void.But love is deeper.But the only thing that irks me is when he gets on myspace, LORD!!!!Lol[/quote] Girl, stick to ya guns.... I've made the mistake of confusing good sex with love and ended up huuuuuurt lookin stupid... Love is deeper....Love is God.. God is the only one who can fill that void... Take it from someone who knows first hand!!

My last post was @ Southernbella *AKA* I Hope Obama’s “Swag” Rubs Off On Our Youth!!! Will The Real Black Men Please Stand Up!!! I will do what you asked then. Oh another note...I love that guys response to that letter. It was very true, honest and very straight to the point.

Tasha, please get us outta this post!

She cute but this chick still don't got nothing on his ex...Juanita Jordan call me baby! ;) Lol

[quote comment="231479"][quote comment="231454"][quote comment="231449"][quote comment="231428"][quote comment="231421"][quote comment="231415"]Okay, Now I'm inspired. I'm gonna tell my husband that I'm not gonna have sex for a year!!! Thank Ladies for empowering me!![/quote] Riiiiiiight! Okay Toya, lemme know how that little experiment goes so I can tell MY husband, 'cause "I gotta headache" ain't cutting it anymore! :lol:[/quote] Oops...TONYA![/quote] Girl Please...I can hear my husband now,"Whatever, I bet you better be naked when I get home!"[/quote] LMAO!!!!!! ...WITH the baby oil and a shoehorn! Oops, T.M.I.! :lol:[/quote] Shoehorn? Ohhhhhhhh helllllllll nawwwwwww, you ain't gonna drop some info like that and NOW wanna be quiet.......what you use a shoehorn for? Enquiring minds wanna now, lol.[/quote] shiit im curious too lol

[quote comment="232161"]I'm with the girls that think Michael still looks fine. He can get it from me anytime! All that tall, dark, lucious, muscular, aged like fine wine piece of a man! Oh, let me stop... I'm getting myself worked up! LOL No seriuosly, I feel what everyone is saying about brothers always going for the white girls. If they aren't gay, on the down low, or locked up, they prefer white girls. What a damned shame! Black women have been loyal to black men for so long but they don't show us the smae curteousy. Damn that, sisters strat going and getting yourself a white man and see how the brothers like that![/quote] go ahead!! When he DOGS you out or has no more use for you(Tyler Perry's movie The Family that Prays gives a good example of that!!) what are you going to do then????

She looks like Capricorn. Diddy's former assistant. Whatever Mike. At least your ex-wife was a sista.

[quote comment="231450"][quote comment="231381"][quote comment="231362"]When BLACK WOMEN stop waiting for BLACK MEN to VALIDATE them, only then will they move on.[/quote] Why is it that a Black man has to validate a Black woman? Why is it that we have to "move on"? What is so wrong with wanting a relationship/love with a Black man? I'm not saying that I would NEVER EVER EVER date outside of my race, but i would PREFER to be in love with and create a family with a Black man. If that makes me dumb, stupid, old-fashioned, ignorant, etc. then i guess i am.........[/quote] Les, let me start off by saying I am a SOLDIER for Black men. I love them and I can't ever see myself w/o anyone else, but I don't wanna pass up true love either for the sake of being w/ a BM. I won't generalize and say all BM or even most because I don't believe that all of them are lusting after non-black woman. However, I REFUSE to make a woman that isn't black feel as if she is superior to me because she is w/ a BM. I just wish my sista's would stop b*tchin about them because BM doing them regardless. These BM that date white women seem to forget about The Civil Rights movement and Emmit Till. I'm trying to not make this into a essay, but BW are beautiful but intimidating for a lot of non-black men. That's why we naturally want "our kings" (imo) to be by our side. For all the brothers out there salivating over non-black women, there are still brothers that are down for their sistas.It's embarrassing to me when some are up in these blogs going off because it's not just YBF chicks that read this blof. You'd be surprised to know how mainstream media be "all up in the bizniz" on the low. They come to these black based blogs when they want info, and to see some of my ppl bickering over a black man and his Becky, it's a bit sad and redundant. I just think we shouldn't give these topics so much energy. So what. It's his money, his life, and if he likes his Becky, I love it and like Is aid, could care less.[/quote] I agree with you, in "real life" I could care less about Jordan cuz if he is with a black woman my mortgage is due on the first and if he is with a white woman my mortgage is still due on the first, so in the frand scheme of things it really doesn't make a difference in my life, but color me stupid but I'm just a champion for Black love and i would just simply prefer to have my man and my children look like me. It's just ironic when you think back to slavery days when families where ripped apart from each other and the Black man would risk death trying to find his Black woman & Black family and now-a-days the Black man is voluntarily turning their back on Black woman.

New post!!!!!

[quote comment="231478"]I call myself trying to quote someone but shorten the post.... I know I’m going but I’m not ready to meet the King yet…lol. But I will continue to try my best to do right while I’m still here. I don’t feel deprived…I see so many women at church crying and blowing snot over dudes they have slept with for whatever reason only to be right back at square one. I don’t want to look back 10 years from now and realize I been with XXX amount of men looking for love. I sleep good at night not wondering where he is, what he’s doing and who he’s doing it with, does he love me and all that other nonsense. I don’t knock what other folks are doing but I have never really understood the concept of folks sleeping with someone and then they just go their separate ways like its nothing. My heart and vajayjay are tied together with some Timberland boot shoelaces…you can’t have one without the other.[/quote] -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- I guess....so I take it you never had a cut.... Pretty much...a guy you get down with, with no strings attached... When I was in college I went through a phase where I was sleeping around....but hey its college..that you suppose to do, LOL!!!! I mean hell I like sex....so I'm gonna have boyfriend or not...Now I'm not saying I am or I was screwing every Tom, Dick, and Harry, but I wasnt really looking for no committments, it was too many dudes on campus to pick just ONE!!! But when I moved to Chicago, I put my hoe cards down and settled down...which is pretty hard..cause I still want to do my thing...but I love my man too much..so I just resist the temptations...but I aint giving up my sex life.... I have one question: Do you think by you practicing abstinance is going to get you into heaven? I'm sure there are other sins you DO...that God sees as well. Remember there is no sin bigger than another!!