[quote comment="249877"][quote comment="249787"]All I ever been to her is a good friend. She has put her baby daddy before me even tho he now doesnt even take care of his child. And she put this trilfing chick before me who shes not even friends with because she tried to get with her baby daddy. when her child was being born I was in the hospital along with my other friend all night. She wouldnt even let us hold the baby she acted like we were dirty. But how bout a few days later, we went to visit her that same trifling chick was holding that baby when me being her best friend from 5th grade hadnt even touched her. You know how much that hurts? That was two years ago but I cant let it go. Shes done more things but Im just starting to feel like I've been putting too much into this relationship and she hasnt put anything. Not fair. I told her about her mom too but I dont think she understands the seriousness of what her mom said.[/quote] [quote comment="249757"][quote comment="249717"]I need some advice. I have a friend, we've been best friends since 5th grade. Recently, her mom said some real racist stuff. Shes hispanic and she has a baby who is mixed with black. My friend loves black dudes, and shes twenty, her mom still got control over her but anyways she left the baby at home and her mom and sister kept calling her, I guess her mom found out she was with a black dude so her mom started saying racist stuff like you better not bring another monkey baby in this house and talking down about black people. My friend told me this and acted like this was just randy dandy. I took it offensively ya know because I had the feeling her whole family was racist but this proved it. Now I'm not talking to her because I just get fake vibes from her. In her away message the other day she was selling out about me (I think) and I just been thinking about all the fucked up shit she's done to me. What do you ladies suggest I do? If you need more details let me know[/quote] how long have ya'll been friends? And do she act like she's racists?[/quote] s&j this sounds to me like you are giving to much to this person and they are not equaling your compassion and freindship back to you. i don't think you deserve to constantly be treated like that! love you as hard as you value her![/quote] ♥ I agree, Thank you so much ladies!

[quote comment="249387"]How can you not comment on a divorce but move in with someone other than your wife? Well then i guess no comment is actually necessary because your actions have spoken louder than words.[/quote] one word trifling!

[quote comment="249595"][quote comment="249588"]Hey errybody!! *scrolling back to see what I missed*[/quote] hey![/quote] Hola!

[quote comment="249645"]Don't y'all sometimes have that moment that you cry for no reason?You just cry???Isn't that crazy???[/quote] LOL, I'm a crybaby, so I'm always crying for no real reason...

[quote comment="249645"]Don't y'all sometimes have that moment that you cry for no reason?You just cry???Isn't that crazy???[/quote] If I smell Channel #5, I do...that was my mom's favorite perfume....I have to run past the Channel counter!!! lol lol lol And it's been 13 yrs since she's been gone....

[quote comment="249640"]i don't give a hot damn what yall look like.....I just love to be in the presence of sistas....real sistas... :smile:[/quote] Well you must be ugly then!!!!!!!!!! SIKE! WHOA, girl you know that was a major joke!!!!!!! You are absolutely right.. I don't care what anyone looks like.. I just love down to earth, real sistas... I can't stand girls who are into themselves so much that they can't even realize ANYTHING going on around her......... I tell them to bring it back down to earth.. BEAUTY FADES... IGNORANCE LASTS!!!!!!!

I'll just refrain from saying anything about Gabby falling short of my high expectations until all this gets concretely confirmed...

[quote comment="249389"]TRIFLING![/quote] Celebs love living that TRIFE LIFE!!!!!!!!!!!

Man, Dwayne is one odd looking B-Ball player. Ugh, I guess $$$ outweighs looks these days.

[quote comment="249631"][quote comment="249624"][quote comment="249605"][quote comment="249580"][quote comment="249569"][quote comment="249561"][quote comment="249556"][quote comment="249547"][quote comment="249534"][quote comment="249517"][quote comment="249499"][quote comment="249491"]Thanks Les and congrats on the YBF baby ;)!![/quote] Your welcome but our YBF is in heaven now, so we're pulling for Rainy to have our next YBF baby now......... :tears:[/quote] really sorry to hear that, Les, I never knew it...[/quote] Thanx[/quote] Awwwww Les.. I feel your pain girl.. I lost a child at 5 months... I have made up for it though. I have a beautiful 4 year old, and God has graciously decided to bless me with another who should be arriving on the scene in April 09.. God has seen your tears sweetie and He will come to your side... But the fuuny thing is, if I would have had that child at 16, I would have been up a creek.. God sees the future and He knows whats best...[/quote] Yetta, i didn't know you were expecting!!! I love babies....(hell, I've had enough! LOL LOL)[/quote] Yes ma'am I am !!!!!!!!!! :lol:[/quote] bring that baby to me here in Houston...I don't know what it is about me and babies...I LOVE THEM!!!!!....[/quote] I have fam that just moved to Houston!!!!!!!!!!!! Girl, and you know what else is funny???? ( God forgive me for this but, ) I never wanted kids..of course I did things that people who want kids do, but I was always naive when it came down to it....I was like..I'm not gonna get pregnant..it worked for a while, but God had something in store for me..... That is why I tell people if you can wait..do it... And I know I sound like a hypocrite to some, but I still have and know Jesus and He has forgiven me for my mistakes..(so glad that He is not like man.) After getting myself into this situation, ( with a deadbeat at that) I have learned what God was trying to tell me all along.. But thank God for his mercy.. I'm in school, workign full time and just moved into my own place.so He still has been good to me..... *Exhaling*[/quote] Well go head Yetta!!! I wish you and your lil ones nothing but the best! Ya'll pray for me...I'm trying to potty train my son![/quote] You go country, i'm still trying to pottrytrain mines........and he's 9 years old! lol[/quote] That was a joke right Les.............. :P[/quote] Unfortunately, no, i don't know about that boy - he can take a nap for 4 hours & everything is alright but when he goes to bed.......forget it, he can't wake up for nothing! I used to wake up every 2 - 3 hours in the night & put him on the toilet but then i would be no good at work the next morning. I get home late, so not having him drink after 7pm won't work cuz we eat dinner like 7:30pm - 8pm. He uses the bathroom right before bed, so i dunno what else to do. The Dr. wanted to give me a pill to give him but i'm not into all this medication stuff, cuz Lord knows what the side effects can be. My son was born premature, so i just excuse it as him being half-baked, i just thank the Lord that he made it without no problems, so if his only issue is his bladder - i'll take it. I just feel sorry for his future wife, lol.

[quote comment="249645"]Don't y'all sometimes have that moment that you cry for no reason?You just cry???Isn't that crazy???[/quote] I do that when I'm in my car.. I'll be listening to some good gospel music and I just start the waterworks.. I just sit there and think how good God has been to me inspite of myself and all my shortcomings... He still speaks to me and blesses me and I just can't figure out why!!!! His love is THAT STRONG and I realize that it cannot be broken no matter what I've done and am doing... That'll get me...

You know...I've been guilty of getting caught up in silly arguments on here (I'm going to chalk it up to my frustrations due to working with people I don't like-lol), but I mean it is such a different energy in here when we don't engage in all that foolishness. Its great to be able to have conversation, to share your viewpoints and to learn from other peoples' as well. There are really some great, positive strong sisters on here and I wish you all nothing but every blessing! There is far too much that divides us already in the world- let's keep the maturity and the positivity going!

[quote comment="249645"]Don't y'all sometimes have that moment that you cry for no reason?You just cry???Isn't that crazy???[/quote] Yeah I have that moment, when you don't even know why but the tears keep on coming down..

[quote comment="249649"][quote comment="249640"]i don't give a hot damn what yall look like.....I just love to be in the presence of sistas....real sistas... :smile:[/quote] Well you must be ugly then!!!!!!!!!! SIKE! WHOA, girl you know that was a major joke!!!!!!! You are absolutely right.. I don't care what anyone looks like.. I just love down to earth, real sistas... I can't stand girls who are into themselves so much that they can't even realize ANYTHING going on around her......... I tell them to bring it back down to earth.. BEAUTY FADES... IGNORANCE LASTS!!!!!!![/quote] :lol: I actually don't have too many female friends(I prefer to hang w/ guys cuz they are drama free) so it's good to come on here and enjoy myself w/ sistas I've never met.

[quote comment="249651"][quote comment="249580"][quote comment="249569"][quote comment="249561"][quote comment="249556"][quote comment="249547"][quote comment="249534"][quote comment="249517"][quote comment="249499"][quote comment="249491"]Thanks Les and congrats on the YBF baby ;)!![/quote] Your welcome but our YBF is in heaven now, so we're pulling for Rainy to have our next YBF baby now......... :tears:[/quote] really sorry to hear that, Les, I never knew it...[/quote] Thanx[/quote] Awwwww Les.. I feel your pain girl.. I lost a child at 5 months... I have made up for it though. I have a beautiful 4 year old, and God has graciously decided to bless me with another who should be arriving on the scene in April 09.. God has seen your tears sweetie and He will come to your side... But the fuuny thing is, if I would have had that child at 16, I would have been up a creek.. God sees the future and He knows whats best...[/quote] Yetta, i didn't know you were expecting!!! I love babies....(hell, I've had enough! LOL LOL)[/quote] Yes ma'am I am !!!!!!!!!! :lol:[/quote] bring that baby to me here in Houston...I don't know what it is about me and babies...I LOVE THEM!!!!!....[/quote] I have fam that just moved to Houston!!!!!!!!!!!! Girl, and you know what else is funny???? ( God forgive me for this but, ) I never wanted kids..of course I did things that people who want kids do, but I was always naive when it came down to it....I was like..I'm not gonna get pregnant..it worked for a while, but God had something in store for me..... That is why I tell people if you can wait..do it... And I know I sound like a hypocrite to some, but I still have and know Jesus and He has forgiven me for my mistakes..(so glad that He is not like man.) After getting myself into this situation, ( with a deadbeat at that) I have learned what God was trying to tell me all along.. But thank God for his mercy.. I'm in school, workign full time and just moved into my own place.so He still has been good to me..... *Exhaling*[/quote] OH Yetta that's the story of my life too....never wanted kids but I've been blessed with my best friend my daughter and my protector my son....congrats to you as well[/quote] Oh ladies...I wish I could take you guys out...I proud of you guys ..strong single black women....respect

[quote comment="249597"][quote comment="249588"]Hey errybody!! *scrolling back to see what I missed*[/quote] KIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIMY wussup girl! :smile:[/quote] What's up chica!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[quote comment="249637"][quote comment="249630"][quote comment="249622"][quote comment="249614"][quote comment="249608"]OK, let's stop it right now...I'm about to cry.....And I hate for people to see me cry...They'll start to think I'm soft around this camp! LOL LOL LOL[/quote] You so crazy Kay! I'd love to meet all you guys in real life. You guys are all so much fun![/quote] OH MY GOD that would be some talk show stuff right there..I can see it now... That would be soooooooooooo fun!!! We would be on t.v. for real!!!!!!!!!!![/quote] I actually am Gorgeous, so when yall meet me, sont be shocked. lol. (My friends mess with me all the time b/c they say Im conceited)[/quote] hahahahahaha.....I look just like my dad...Big beautiful brown eyes (best feature), jet black wavy hair and a 100 watt smile!!!! *gots to keep the teeth pretty and straight*[/quote] I know what you look like :lol:

[quote comment="249654"][quote comment="249631"][quote comment="249624"][quote comment="249605"][quote comment="249580"][quote comment="249569"][quote comment="249561"][quote comment="249556"][quote comment="249547"][quote comment="249534"][quote comment="249517"][quote comment="249499"][quote comment="249491"]Thanks Les and congrats on the YBF baby ;)!![/quote] Your welcome but our YBF is in heaven now, so we're pulling for Rainy to have our next YBF baby now......... :tears:[/quote] really sorry to hear that, Les, I never knew it...[/quote] Thanx[/quote] Awwwww Les.. I feel your pain girl.. I lost a child at 5 months... I have made up for it though. I have a beautiful 4 year old, and God has graciously decided to bless me with another who should be arriving on the scene in April 09.. God has seen your tears sweetie and He will come to your side... But the fuuny thing is, if I would have had that child at 16, I would have been up a creek.. God sees the future and He knows whats best...[/quote] Yetta, i didn't know you were expecting!!! I love babies....(hell, I've had enough! LOL LOL)[/quote] Yes ma'am I am !!!!!!!!!! :lol:[/quote] bring that baby to me here in Houston...I don't know what it is about me and babies...I LOVE THEM!!!!!....[/quote] I have fam that just moved to Houston!!!!!!!!!!!! Girl, and you know what else is funny???? ( God forgive me for this but, ) I never wanted kids..of course I did things that people who want kids do, but I was always naive when it came down to it....I was like..I'm not gonna get pregnant..it worked for a while, but God had something in store for me..... That is why I tell people if you can wait..do it... And I know I sound like a hypocrite to some, but I still have and know Jesus and He has forgiven me for my mistakes..(so glad that He is not like man.) After getting myself into this situation, ( with a deadbeat at that) I have learned what God was trying to tell me all along.. But thank God for his mercy.. I'm in school, workign full time and just moved into my own place.so He still has been good to me..... *Exhaling*[/quote] Well go head Yetta!!! I wish you and your lil ones nothing but the best! Ya'll pray for me...I'm trying to potty train my son![/quote] You go country, i'm still trying to pottrytrain mines........and he's 9 years old! lol[/quote] That was a joke right Les.............. :P[/quote] Unfortunately, no, i don't know about that boy - he can take a nap for 4 hours & everything is alright but when he goes to bed.......forget it, he can't wake up for nothing! I used to wake up every 2 - 3 hours in the night & put him on the toilet but then i would be no good at work the next morning. I get home late, so not having him drink after 7pm won't work cuz we eat dinner like 7:30pm - 8pm. He uses the bathroom right before bed, so i dunno what else to do. The Dr. wanted to give me a pill to give him but i'm not into all this medication stuff, cuz Lord knows what the side effects can be. My son was born premature, so i just excuse it as him being half-baked, i just thank the Lord that he made it without no problems, so if his only issue is his bladder - i'll take it. I just feel sorry for his future wife, lol.[/quote] My friend has the same problem with her son.. he is 6 I think.. He still pees the bed and she thinks it's a bladder problem...She'll kill me if she know I told this, but she wet the bed even into her 20's...so she thinks he will go through the same thing..

Time to catch up

Y'ALL NEED TO TURN OFF THE ESTROGEN UP IN HERE. WHACKO'S!

[quote comment="249547"][quote comment="249534"][quote comment="249517"][quote comment="249499"][quote comment="249491"]Thanks Les and congrats on the YBF baby ;)!![/quote] Your welcome but our YBF is in heaven now, so we're pulling for Rainy to have our next YBF baby now......... :tears:[/quote] really sorry to hear that, Les, I never knew it...[/quote] Thanx[/quote] Awwwww Les.. I feel your pain girl.. I lost a child at 5 months... I have made up for it though. I have a beautiful 4 year old, and God has graciously decided to bless me with another who should be arriving on the scene in April 09.. God has seen your tears sweetie and He will come to your side... But the fuuny thing is, if I would have had that child at 16, I would have been up a creek.. God sees the future and He knows whats best...[/quote] that's wonderful! *hugging les hard*

[quote comment="249647"][quote comment="249645"]Don't y'all sometimes have that moment that you cry for no reason?You just cry???Isn't that crazy???[/quote] LOL, I'm a crybaby, so I'm always crying for no real reason...[/quote] You and me both. I get mad at myself for crying. I can watch a comedy sitcom and get choked up. I'm especially a sucker for a happy ending or a love story!

And I'm MAD my job didn't block YBF yet they went and blocked the GRAVI site which is why I can't change or even see other ppls gravi's. :evil:

I think the only person in the Jackson family who didn't get a nose job was Mother Katherine. If reports are true stating that Father Joe would tease Michael calling him big nose then what's up with that?