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And another post that New Orleans Saints Fans are going to love: Reggie Bush is still listed as "injured" and hasn't played with the Saints in a few weeks. But he and his girlfriend Kim Kardashian surely made time to mosey their way over to the Sheraton Hotel in the N.O. to test out a new Nintendo Wii game called "Rayman Raving Rabbids TV Party". The game allows players to dance using the Wii Remote and Nunchucks. Maybe this is all part of the rehab. *side eye* In other football couple's news, Philidelphia Eagle Hank Baskett is gushing on video about his new fiance Girl Next Door Kendra Wilkinson. Check the vid here. Yes, I had the confused look on my face the entire time too. Chick just never struck me as the marriage type. But if he likes it...we love it.

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[quote comment="285292"][quote comment="285143"]It's one thing to get a white girl, more power to you. Why though do they need two white hoes???? They would never ever be smiling up with a black chick that was on video sucking d*ck and laying up in the old white man mansion... okay if you need a white girl that bad I guess those hoes will do.[/quote] Though I don't agree with the word hoe being thrown around on everyone, the basis of what you're saying rings too. If it was a black woman found having a sex tape in all her glory (even if it was with her b/f, other men have too much pride), then that would would have a very very very hard time finding another man after that. If it was a black woman being a sex object for an old man in a mansion, she would have a hard time finding another man after that. Now these two women are with these two men being treated like they are the best thing walking? One at the expense of his team, during the football season at that. I must say people should find love where they can, but this speaks volumes about how black women are viewed over women of other races from a certain standpoint. That's as much as I will say to that situation. But sometimes it's so ridiculous to see how black women are treated, and for ballers to just wife any old woman regardless of their tainted past. It's just crazy.[/quote] I totally agree with the comment.
Miss E.'s picture

Kim Kardashian is so plastic.

Kim Kardashian is so plastic. She doesn't seem to have a real personality. She's not talented at anything. She's a horrible host. What is this chick accomplishments. Oh yeah! Sex Tape with Ray.J and dating Reggie Bush. What a Shame. I must say I do like Kendra she is my favorite on the show. She's like the energizer bunny. But c'mon now I'm sure Hef was not looking at her like a daughter when she was having those foursomes between Hef, Bridget, Holly and Kendra. That was a very sideways comment to make. And Hef's to give her away at their wedding. A bit much.
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[quote comment="284568"][quote comment="284551"][quote comment="284537"][quote comment="284521"][quote comment="284501"][quote comment="284463"]:?[/quote] this is the fake because I got this emotioncon from quoting Danielle or whatever the chick name is that always have a butterfly in her gravi BYtch!!!!![/quote] Damn.....[/quote] Damn x 2[/quote] Damn you slow.....I bet you are about 1 chromosome away from Down's Syndrome......[/quote] Ah. A picture isn't the only thing you can frame. :lol: I love my job. One regular down....several to go. Sorry Danielle 1986! You had it coming. Platypus ...[/quote]MMM
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My first time here. What a

My first time here. What a bunch of misguided negroes! In the new Obama age may I suggest that we let that old sckool "oh poor me, the good ones all want White/Clear (which btw, is funny) men/women? Simple fact people, the world is changing. The Kardashians (if you watch the show) have loads of black friends and seem completely comfortable with us unlike a lot of white folk who you know can't wait to get back to their own kind. Michelle Obama married an almost "clear" bi-racial man. Does that make her wrong in some way? Between the outdated racial issues and the gay bashing I wonder if I can even stomach this site anymore which is a damn shame because the posts are great and I finally get to hear about Black celebrities from black people. I guess I just wont read the comments.
thevegasstyleguy's picture

Some of you guys claim that

Some of you guys claim that these men fall in ove with white women naturally. there is nothing wrong with falling in love, but I know for a fact that so many black sports stars lust and chase white and mixed women like it's going out of style, so it's not always natural love!
BMW's picture

[quote comment="285323"]OKAY

[quote comment="285323"]OKAY WAIT, I DID NOT REALIZE YALL WERE ARGUING ABOUT REGGIE & KIM..PLEASE LEAVE THEM ALONE, REGGIE ALWAYS DATED OUT OF HIS RACE, HE JUST IS NOT INTRESTED IN BLACK GIRLS, HE DATED A MEXICAN IN COLLEGE. HE'S OBVIOUSLY NOT THAT BRIGHT IF HE WIFED OF KIM K. HE'S PROBABLY THE ONLY DUMB DUMB WITH MONEY DUMB ENOUGH TO DATE HER SERIOUSLY, EVEN NICK NOR RAJ WAS THAT DUMB NOW THE OTHER DUDE GOT A POINT, HE'S WITH KENDRA AND KENDRA IS FLY, YOU CANNOT BLAME HIM FOR THAT ONE, I KNOW SHE'S WHITE BUT OVERALL SHE'S ONE OF THE HOTTEST CHICKS PERIOD BESIDES HER SKIN COLOR[/quote] "She;s one of the hottest chicks period besides her skin color" what makes this chick so wonderful, what does she have to offer but an ageing face and a tit job? I'm lost? when did a woman who hasn't done anything big or moral in life become a catch. On reggie, He's a fool, and I know his mother thinks his a bigger one.
BMW's picture

[quote comment="284280"]I

[quote comment="284280"]I could get my back blown out by Reggie on a daily basis.[/quote] I know that's right!!!!
Melonge's picture

Reggie and Hank are both

Reggie and Hank are both gonna get ganked. Kim has learned from the BEST, her digger momma. Kendra is a digger too. WAAAAAAAAAAAKE UP!!! (c)Dap -- School Daze
NYC's picture

OKAY WAIT, I DID NOT REALIZE

OKAY WAIT, I DID NOT REALIZE YALL WERE ARGUING ABOUT REGGIE & KIM..PLEASE LEAVE THEM ALONE, REGGIE ALWAYS DATED OUT OF HIS RACE, HE JUST IS NOT INTRESTED IN BLACK GIRLS, HE DATED A MEXICAN IN COLLEGE. HE'S OBVIOUSLY NOT THAT BRIGHT IF HE WIFED OF KIM K. HE'S PROBABLY THE ONLY DUMB DUMB WITH MONEY DUMB ENOUGH TO DATE HER SERIOUSLY, EVEN NICK NOR RAJ WAS THAT DUMB NOW THE OTHER DUDE GOT A POINT, HE'S WITH KENDRA AND KENDRA IS FLY, YOU CANNOT BLAME HIM FOR THAT ONE, I KNOW SHE'S WHITE BUT OVERALL SHE'S ONE OF THE HOTTEST CHICKS PERIOD BESIDES HER SKIN COLOR
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HEY I KNOW WE USUALLY HATE ON

HEY I KNOW WE USUALLY HATE ON THE SWIRLEY COUPLES AS MALIK FROM THE GAME CALLS IT... BUT THAT KENDRA CHICK IS GORGEOUS, I CAN'T BLAME ANYBODY FOR WANTING HER. NOW KIM ON THE OTHER HAND ..A MESS....KENDRA IS BEAUTIFUL, SHE WAS ALWAYS MY FAV ON THAT PLAYBOY REALITY SHOW.I'M SURE ANY GUY WANTS HER REGARDLESS OF THEIR SKIN COLOR.
Pinklilly's picture

Not really yeah Kelly grew up

Not really yeah Kelly grew up with "white trash" but she was never as far as we know tricking like Kendra apparently was. I mean not every black athlete/white woman who marries is like Jason/Kelly of The Game. That being said while I do believe had these women been black, black men of power may not associate with them. Is every black person obligated to marry another black person? I don't think so. You marry who you want love or otherwise. I guess I'm not bothered by it as much because its their life and they aren't telling me how I should live mine.
CF98's picture

why does hank and kendra

why does hank and kendra remind of the characters from the tv show "the game" on the CW? does anyone else see it or is it just me?
luker's picture

[quote comment="285143"]It's

[quote comment="285143"]It's one thing to get a white girl, more power to you. Why though do they need two white hoes???? They would never ever be smiling up with a black chick that was on video sucking d*ck and laying up in the old white man mansion... okay if you need a white girl that bad I guess those hoes will do.[/quote] Though I don't agree with the word hoe being thrown around on everyone, the basis of what you're saying rings too. If it was a black woman found having a sex tape in all her glory (even if it was with her b/f, other men have too much pride), then that would would have a very very very hard time finding another man after that. If it was a black woman being a sex object for an old man in a mansion, she would have a hard time finding another man after that. Now these two women are with these two men being treated like they are the best thing walking? One at the expense of his team, during the football season at that. I must say people should find love where they can, but this speaks volumes about how black women are viewed over women of other races from a certain standpoint. That's as much as I will say to that situation. But sometimes it's so ridiculous to see how black women are treated, and for ballers to just wife any old woman regardless of their tainted past. It's just crazy.
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This ish is ridiculous and

This ish is ridiculous and please don't come round with no mealy-mouthed 'we love who we love' nonsense. This Kendra woman was a prostitute. Plain and very simple. The only difference is that she was tricking from inside a house rather than out on the street. She was basically to be part of a brothel (girlfriend, my backside) for pathetic old octegenarian Hugh Hefner. There was not a drop of love in that, only dollar bills. And this is who this brother chooses to wife up? Are our black men so depraved and lacking in self-confidence that they would prefer a hard-face, surgically enhanced clear hoe over a black woman? Ain't they learning anything from Barack and Michelle? I'm not even mad, just sorry for him. Damn fool. Damn shame.
Caribbean Lionesse's picture

mabey malibu hoe-bie was a

mabey malibu hoe-bie was a little to harsh...how bout Hoe-white???
QuelleyQuellez's picture

What in the melted fugde

What in the melted fugde sicle puddle is this??? This what reggie is doing while im getting murdered in fantasy football? kickin it wit malibu Hoe-bie... He lucky he fine or i'd take this straight 2 the president...lol.. or prez-elect
QuelleyQuellez's picture

Kendra will probably end up

Kendra will probably end up getting butt implants to keep her black man too. At least, they'll match the plastic boobs.
Kj's picture

As far as the black/white

As far as the black/white thing...if two people genuinely love each other, it's wonderful...BUT the truth remains that there are black men who feel that white women represent the epitome of beauty, of femininity...and therein lies the problem.
StyleSista's picture

[quote comment="284465"]Kim

[quote comment="284465"]Kim and Reggie are cute. He seems like a really nice guy, unlike any football players i've met![/quote] agreed. both he and Kim look like they would be a lot of fun to hang out with on a couples get together. congrats to Kendra
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It's one thing to get a white

It's one thing to get a white girl, more power to you. Why though do they need two white hoes???? They would never ever be smiling up with a black chick that was on video sucking d*ck and laying up in the old white man mansion... okay if you need a white girl that bad I guess those hoes will do.
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[quote comment="285045"]Hank

[quote comment="285045"]Hank Baskett is a small town boy that's about to be taken to the cleaners big time....[/quote] yeah, Kendra is gunna have his kids, take him to the bank and cash her check! I bet you Hank was with a sista before Kendra but wouldnt put a ring on her finger but as soon Kendra comes, shes gets a ring? Whatever, its absolutely their business but I hope I find a black man that I love and he loves me. I wouldn't mind dating an other race but as far as marrying, I want a black man and I want black kids!!!
Shuckin' and Jivin''s picture

Hank Baskett is a small town

Hank Baskett is a small town boy that's about to be taken to the cleaners big time....
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[quote comment="284865"][quote comment="284837"][quote comment="284422"]AW MAN!!!! I should have KNOWN that Kendra Wilkinson's fiance was a Black man!!! Why am I still surprised, though? :roll:[/quote] I'm trippin off the fact that they only dated for 9 months!!![/quote] YET THEY DATE US FOR YEARS AND STILL WON'T PUT A RING ON IT![/quote] LOL! Exactly! It took me about 4 years to wear my fiancee down!!!!
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[quote comment="284805"][quote comment="284781"][quote comment="284756"][quote comment="284737"][quote comment="284669"][quote comment="284656"]I sometimes think a black man who is successful can’t handle a black woman who “wants” him but doesn’t “need” him. They want someone will worship them. I’ve worked with white chicks, they know black men prize them! isn’t that sick that another race knows that our own men put us down! jezuz take the wheel!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Girrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrl!!! You better preach...... My boyfriend's friends all tease him because they know I dont take no sh$t from him...I will tell his a$$ in a minute "let your next move be your best move"...I had my own crib and everything BEFORE I met him...he only makes things eaiser for me because I dont have to spend all my money on bills....but he better know that I dont need him!!![/quote] Black men know how black women are, accept it! he accepted you because you are his own race and he knows what comes with the package. I don't care educated you are, most black women will get all up in your face if you step to us, we don't play games, but we stick beside our men through the hard times. If you can't handle the "real", get a white chick.[/quote] BLACK WOMEN ARE JUST SOARING PAST THE BLACK MEN! I AM HAPPY ABOUT IT TO BE HONEST WITH YOU. I WORK AT A UNIVERSITY AND THERE IS 10 BLACK WOMEN TO EVERY ONE BLACK MAN. IT MAY SEEM LIKE WE ARENT GETTING TO THE RICH/ELITE/GOOD MEN BUT SISTAHS WE ARE DOING IT OURSELVES. WE ARE MAKING MILLIONS AND OUR PARENTS DIDNT LEAVE IT TOO US (KIM K), WE ARENT LAYING ON OUR BACKS IN A BROTHAL WITH A OLD MAN(KENDRA W). DONT LOOK AT WHAT WERE MISSING; LOOK AT WHERE WE'RE AT AND WHERE WE'RE GOING. WHEN YOU GO TO A JOB INTERVIEW YOU WILL GET THE JOB BEFORE A BLACK MAN WILL. DONT GET ME WRONG WE ALL WANT THE BROTHERS WITH US. BUT IF THERE NOT THEN GET BEHIND ME SATAN. I AM PROUD OF US. WE ARE NOT GOING TO SETTLE FOR ANYTHING SO WE WONT FALL FOR ANYTHING. LETS STOP GETTING UPSET WHEN WE SEE A BLACK MAN WITH A WHITE WOMEN. JUST PICK UP YOUR KIDS & GIVE THEM A KISS, TELL THEM HOW BEAUTIFUL THEY ARE, GO TO COLLEGE, GET THAT HIGH PAYING JOB. WE WILL ALWAYS COME OUT ON TOP BECAUSE WE ARE MADE OF STEAL. WE AINT MISSING A THING. GO WITH GOD SISTAHS[/quote] Yea but that's not cool to be glad you're not seeing our male counterparts reach just as far. Society (institutionalized racism) has been put in place to KEEP black males dependent on black women. That's why So many of then give up because they don't believe they have a fair chance and guess what, they won't. Racist don't have to wear a "white hood" to instill fear w/in. They are our billionairs, deans at colleges, law enforcement, etc. If we knew the real truth it would blow your minds. Don't think black people are in the state we are in (HIV, black-on-black crime, poor education sys., etc.) just because. It has always been an still is the hidden conspiracy that we fail to see, mostly because we don't want to see it. If u saw the truth you'd wanna dig your eyes out.[/quote] My husband makes a few thousand more compared to me, but he was a little insecure when he found out that I almost make the same amount compared to him. i'm about to make more money! Yes I know about the issues with black men not being allowed to make it to the top. A mans worth comes from him being able to provide for his family and once you take that away from him he feels that his manhood is gone. This is an issue that needs to be spoken about within our black communties. Black women are killing the degree game, we are avid career women with no apologies! some educated black men seem to resent that, and we need to come together and let go of that slave mentality. The whole thing is the dust left over from slavery![/quote] By no means am I happy about the black men being left behind. My son is black I want nothing more for him than to succeed. But I was talking mainly to women who are upset because they are good sistahs and have to watch a black man with a white woman. yes slavery has alot to do with our reasoning behind inter-racial couples. However,something is wrong with a man who dont want a woman who is successful. Should she apoligize for stopping to play the X-Box and get an education? If I was single I would rather know I was single because I am successful than be single because I have a stank personality. No slave master is stopping them from completing High school, no master is stopping them from going to college. Yes there is some bad police, but lets be for real there is alot of brothers aint doing a durn thing and it has nothing to do with slavery. Let's stop making excuses for them. Please[/quote] What I see is a whole bunch of youths who want street cred and don't care about school! when did being smart become stupid? my 16 year old cousin hides his intelliengce. he doesn't want any of his friends to know he scored the second highest score on his psat test in the school. he even won a writing contest and asked the teacher not to display his work outside the school because he was scared they would think he was trying to be "white" they even had that on 20/20 a few years ago. I'm glad obama is in office, he needs better role models
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[quote comment="284906"][quote comment="284890"][quote comment="284817"][quote comment="284802"][quote comment="284789"]gorgeous one....i hear ya! but sweetie please believe money doesnt always buy happiness. me and my guy were happy before the big contract. when he got his $40 million contract all hell broke loose in our lives. it took some growing up on both of our parts. and when the dust settled he came right back to the one who was there when he was a broke joke from compton....me![/quote] LOL@ broke joke. I know money wont solve all problems, but is it wrong to have financial standards? We have standards for everything else..[/quote] no, its nothing wrong with it. just look for someone who may not be making 6 figures now, but who has goals and is actively working towards accomplishing those goals. just try broadening your horizons. hey if all else fails, you can come to the all star game with me and i'll hook you up! :)[/quote] Shoo, i wanna go tooooo - i need a 8 figga nikkuh in my life too.........lol[/quote] come on les...you can roll too! truth is i still get a lil salty when i see his teammates with some blonde big tittied chick. its kinda disgusting. i have nothing in common with these broads so i give them the cold shoulder. they are not smart, classy and some aint even educated. but like i said, majority of his black teammates are with black women.[/quote] The majority of these athletes period are with Black women...Just because you have some young dumb athletes going for the empty headed trashy nonBlack chicks doesn't mean all of them want that...Deion Sanders has been married twice, both to Black women...And he clowns on Reggie Bush and recently Hank for being engaged to this slut....lol Deion said "Hmmm I bet his family is happy about that." lol I about died... Anyway, my guy is a retired NFL'er...Most of his close friends who are still playing are with or married to Black women...You have some who chase after White women, but there almost always something wrong with any man who does not find his race of women attractive... Barack came from a White woman, but yet he has been married to Michelle for over a decade...And he calls her his rock...That ought to tell some of these color struck dummies something. First woman Millionaire, Madame CJ Walker...Billionaire, Oprah Winfrey...First Black Pres's first Lady, Black woman...
So What?'s picture

[quote comment="284836"]And

[quote comment="284836"]And despite all of this, the highest IR pairing in this country goes on between Asian women and white men. They still outnumber other groups of IR couples.[/quote] (marion) Pooch Hall is fine..heard he was married with 2 girls..but he is fine....yummy
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[quote comment="284751"][quote comment="284729"][quote comment="284693"][quote comment="284676"][quote comment="284660"][quote comment="284653"][quote comment="284633"][quote comment="284618"][quote comment="284582"][quote comment="284569"][quote comment="284494"][quote comment="284487"][quote comment="284476"]So during last night's Atlanta Housewives, I learned that NBA players are guaranteed the money promised in their contracts; while NFL players are not. I wonder if Kim K. knows that....[/quote] You didnt know that? LOL. Thatsw hy I dont understand who golddiggers fight for Football players. However, I think it was very tacky for Big Shawn to point that out.[/quote] LMAO @ Big Shawn...[/quote] tacky but true! get hurt....a football player is broke. now if ya wanna keep it real....baseball players make the most of any sport. not all athletes wives are skanks and whores. i'm certainly not either. believe it or not, most of these guys marry their college sweetheart or some woman they met at a charity function, not the club. so anyone looking to meet a baller, you're better off hitting a golf tournament versus the hotest club.[/quote] a goldigger who does their research...interesting.[/quote] goldgigger? not quite, hunny. engaged to a professional baseball player. getting married valentines day 09 thank you very much.[/quote] DO you mind me asking your ethnicity and you future husband's (I apologize if I am being too invasive ..)[/quote] not at all...i'm black and so is my fiance. i met my guy when he was driving an explorer and i was driving a hyundai excel!! :) i'm around athletes all the time. believe me, these guys do want a good, down to earth educated sista. they just get tired of the groupies...and its groupies of all colors.[/quote] Hook a sista up! LOL. Im not a golddigger but I make very good money, so I cant just date an average joe w/ money becoming an issue. Ive dated athletes before, but I guess I caught them at the stage where they want that groupie aspect...I need a mature athlete (does that exist?). lol[/quote] gorgeous one...we share the same name! yes, there are plenty of mature athletes. sure they go thru their faze of screwing around, most men do. but eventually they grow up and look for "that" sista to settle down with. most black players on my fiance's team are married to sistas. dont believe all you see from the ones who are in the "spotlight"[/quote] Its difficult to date b/c your profession and income is like a gift and a curse. The avg. joe (GROSS..PALIN) is intimidated and money always ends up being an issue. Professional black men want bi-racials or straight up white girls. Its quite disheartening. I m about to be 29, can I meet a man that can afford to date me?!!!!![/quote] No honey professional black men want professional black women, but as long as you think they don't that's the experience you will have. Naomi Campbell thinks she's the finest bitch on the planet, and the most successful model possibly in history in an industry where she is not the standard of beauty and filled with bi-racial competition. It's the confidence baby. A man can smell it a mile away and it's more attractive than a big booty, golden skin, long hair or anything. I was actually surprised by how man black men think Serena is the shit, and it's not just because of her booty. I was surprised because I too have bought into the stereotype. You may be confident in your mind, your profession, etc., but if you feel a white woman or a bi-racial woman has more of a chance than you, your confidence needs to be built. Much love[/quote] Id like to move to wherever it is that you live. I am an attorney and I move around in the black professional circle in Houston. My classmates from lawschool, and even men that I have met since graduating from law school are not going after the professional black woman. I am speaking from experience. Its not about confidence b/c it aint a person walking on this Earth that can tell me Im not the shit. Im successful, Im beautiful, and I got my own shit. These men see those types of women as status symbols, and it surprises me that no one else on here has had the same experience. Maybe I just live in a different world. P.S. Aint no dudes checkin' for serena because they think she's pretty or intelligent. Its all about that ass and the rest of her body. YBF Love back @ Ya! :)[/quote] I can relate to you (...I'm actually in Texas, too, Dallas). Sometimes it just takes time to find the right person who won't feel threatened. I think that there are alot of men who are intimidated because women like us make X amount of money, have our own house, etc., but if they are scared away by that fact, then I say keep on moving! They should be encouraged, not threatened by a good, head-strong woman. For awhile there, all I was running into were knuckleheads. I don't think my independence even came into play - they only had one thing on their minds :-\
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[quote comment="284717"]It is

[quote comment="284717"]It is my birthday and i still love ybf...[/quote] Happy birthday!! Mine was two days ago! Yay for Scorpios! :-)
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[quote comment="284900"][quote comment="284841"][quote comment="284819"][quote comment="284816"]What gets me is that the WORLD idolizes black women. evryone wants to be us...but our own men fal to see that. :([/quote] fail[/quote] For Real! They don't realize a Black womans WORTH![/quote] True. I've heard that a lot of European men are into black women. I guess it's because they're generally more liberal over there. Like even after what happened to the Jews by Nazi's, Germans are supposed to be some the nicest, most accepting people around. In the past, we were only a "fetish" niche for non-black men. There was an interesting report on CNN about a year ago called "Could Mr Right be white?" They said that the numbers of BW/WM relationships have increased over the years. Something is also mentioned about how there is a narrower pool of black men, in the same financial situation as more affluent black women.[/quote] Girl, they are all checking for us, most of the time we don't even realize it. Other races tend to be a bit more subtle in their approach, and so often it goes right over our heads.
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[quote comment="284917"]Bottom line if you don't think there are any good black men who are interested in dating a black woman where you live I can guarantee you will not find one who is. If this is what you believe this is what you will experience. I have dated so many black men who have dated white women, some even exclusively before they met me. And honestly the preference of white to black is more rare than we think, availability is a big factor, acceptance is another. I was in an abusive relationship and did not realize how much it had damaged my confidence until I got better. It seemed like I couldn't buy a date. Nothing changed physically, but once I started to feel beautiful and desirable again, I had more dates than I could handle. Power of thought, science of mind, laws of attraction all of it is true.[/quote] I believe that to be true ~ having confidence attracts people to you like bees to honey.
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[quote comment="284886"][quote comment="284867"][quote comment="284808"][quote comment="284796"][quote comment="284778"][quote comment="284772"][quote comment="284755"][quote comment="284732"][quote comment="284716"][quote comment="284662"][quote comment="284656"]I sometimes think a black man who is successful can’t handle a black woman who “wants” him but doesn’t “need” him. They want someone will worship them. I’ve worked with white chicks, they know black men prize them! isn’t that sick that another race knows that our own men put us down! jezuz take the wheel!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Girrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrl!!! You better preach...... My boyfriend's friends all tease him because they know I dont take no sh$t from him...I will tell his a$$ in a minute "let your next move be your best move"...I had my own crib and everything BEFORE I met him...he only makes things eaiser for me because I dont have to spend all my money on bills....but he better know that I dont need him!!![/quote] Yeah...cause while he is paying the bills you stacking money in case he acts up and you can bounce if necessary![/quote] ------------------------------------------------------------------------- I aint going nowhere. He moved in with me!!! I'm so afraid of letting my guards down...he wants a baby, he wants to get married, he wants his name on my lease... I just feel everything I work so hard for is going down the drain...because I love somebody...(all my independence is being snatched away)[/quote] Girl don't think like that. When you get married your aren't supposed to be independent. You both are supposed to be co-dependent. Thats what a marriage is about. 50/50. You having his back and him having yours. You don't have to do everything by yourself.[/quote] I really appreciate you telling her that. Sometimes I feel some of us have it all wrong.[/quote] I learned this the hard way. LOL! I ain't even married, my boyfriend and I had this discussion after we parted ways. (We in the process of working it out!) LOL![/quote] You know what i find strange sometimes is we woman will share our body with a man but we will not share our money....things that make you go hummmmm[/quote] THANK YOU!!!! With all do respect to those of us who do it- since when is shacking up perfectly acceptable and getting married letting your guard down??? Shit if anything- giving away your milk for FREE is letting your guard down! I'm not picking on anyone in particular. We ALL gotta get it together these days.[/quote] That is why I am old school and proud. After marriage that is when I will move in with my husband and start our lives together. Living with them before will cause comfort and complatency and eventually one will get tired of the other and that starts problems..It doesn't hurt to learn to adapt but I feel that a lot of women are moving in with their men because they don't want to be lonely anymore..and it ends up doing more hurt than good.[/quote] Yeah. Nowadays people want instant gratification. Shoot- they also want help with them bills! So those are two other reasons why couples live together. See me? I had to learn the hard way that patience is a virtue.[/quote] Then you have some with 3 or 4 kids for the guy and been living with him for 10 years and everyone got the same last name but the chick....you playing house the f-in long??[/quote] Ha Ha! Exactly! I was soooo disappointed when the girl (I know she gotta be younger than me) earlier in the post said that she lives with her man but fears the commitment of marriage cuz she's independent. Huh??? Is this REALLY what we're coming to as black women? I SOOO want Michelle Obama to get her own show- write a book- speak to the girls at my local schools- or SOMETHING! LOL.
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[quote comment="284906"][quote comment="284890"][quote comment="284817"][quote comment="284802"][quote comment="284789"]gorgeous one....i hear ya! but sweetie please believe money doesnt always buy happiness. me and my guy were happy before the big contract. when he got his $40 million contract all hell broke loose in our lives. it took some growing up on both of our parts. and when the dust settled he came right back to the one who was there when he was a broke joke from compton....me![/quote] LOL@ broke joke. I know money wont solve all problems, but is it wrong to have financial standards? We have standards for everything else..[/quote] no, its nothing wrong with it. just look for someone who may not be making 6 figures now, but who has goals and is actively working towards accomplishing those goals. just try broadening your horizons. hey if all else fails, you can come to the all star game with me and i'll hook you up! :)[/quote] Shoo, i wanna go tooooo - i need a 8 figga nikkuh in my life too.........lol[/quote] come on les...you can roll too! truth is i still get a lil salty when i see his teammates with some blonde big tittied chick. its kinda disgusting. i have nothing in common with these broads so i give them the cold shoulder. they are not smart, classy and some aint even educated. but like i said, majority of his black teammates are with black women.[/quote] Exactly, atleast if we come along we'll have a bunch of stuff to talk about, lol, YBF, imposters, etc.
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Bottom line if you don't

Bottom line if you don't think there are any good black men who are interested in dating a black woman where you live I can guarantee you will not find one who is. If this is what you believe this is what you will experience. I have dated so many black men who have dated white women, some even exclusively before they met me. And honestly the preference of white to black is more rare than we think, availability is a big factor, acceptance is another. I was in an abusive relationship and did not realize how much it had damaged my confidence until I got better. It seemed like I couldn't buy a date. Nothing changed physically, but once I started to feel beautiful and desirable again, I had more dates than I could handle. Power of thought, science of mind, laws of attraction all of it is true.
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[quote comment="284890"][quote comment="284817"][quote comment="284802"][quote comment="284789"]gorgeous one....i hear ya! but sweetie please believe money doesnt always buy happiness. me and my guy were happy before the big contract. when he got his $40 million contract all hell broke loose in our lives. it took some growing up on both of our parts. and when the dust settled he came right back to the one who was there when he was a broke joke from compton....me![/quote] LOL@ broke joke. I know money wont solve all problems, but is it wrong to have financial standards? We have standards for everything else..[/quote] no, its nothing wrong with it. just look for someone who may not be making 6 figures now, but who has goals and is actively working towards accomplishing those goals. just try broadening your horizons. hey if all else fails, you can come to the all star game with me and i'll hook you up! :)[/quote] Shoo, i wanna go tooooo - i need a 8 figga nikkuh in my life too.........lol[/quote] come on les...you can roll too! truth is i still get a lil salty when i see his teammates with some blonde big tittied chick. its kinda disgusting. i have nothing in common with these broads so i give them the cold shoulder. they are not smart, classy and some aint even educated. but like i said, majority of his black teammates are with black women.
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[quote comment="284841"][quote comment="284819"][quote comment="284816"]What gets me is that the WORLD idolizes black women. evryone wants to be us...but our own men fal to see that. :([/quote] fail[/quote] For Real! They don't realize a Black womans WORTH![/quote] True. I've heard that a lot of European men are into black women. I guess it's because they're generally more liberal over there. Like even after what happened to the Jews by Nazi's, Germans are supposed to be some the nicest, most accepting people around. In the past, we were only a "fetish" niche for non-black men. There was an interesting report on CNN about a year ago called "Could Mr Right be white?" They said that the numbers of BW/WM relationships have increased over the years. Something is also mentioned about how there is a narrower pool of black men, in the same financial situation as more affluent black women.
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[quote comment="284775"][quote comment="284720"][quote comment="284691"]vent: sooo off subject but this is what drives me crazy when i go pick up my kids from school why do the stay at homes mom feel like holding up the entire pickup line so that they can talk about random shit when u see 10 cars behind them????? uggghhh drives me crazy!!!![/quote] uuuummmm....I check out your page and I love it I'm going to request you as a friend and let you hook me up :lol: then i'll invite the rest of the FAM. I'm embarassed to show ya'll my page before it gets done.[/quote] no problem i can do it tonight.... i c there there is some type of drama going on in here today sooooo busy today i cant wait to get caught up!!! be back ladies when the massa goes down for his nap....lol[/quote] alright!
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[quote comment="284817"][quote comment="284802"][quote comment="284789"]gorgeous one....i hear ya! but sweetie please believe money doesnt always buy happiness. me and my guy were happy before the big contract. when he got his $40 million contract all hell broke loose in our lives. it took some growing up on both of our parts. and when the dust settled he came right back to the one who was there when he was a broke joke from compton....me![/quote] LOL@ broke joke. I know money wont solve all problems, but is it wrong to have financial standards? We have standards for everything else..[/quote] no, its nothing wrong with it. just look for someone who may not be making 6 figures now, but who has goals and is actively working towards accomplishing those goals. just try broadening your horizons. hey if all else fails, you can come to the all star game with me and i'll hook you up! :)[/quote] Shoo, i wanna go tooooo - i need a 8 figga nikkuh in my life too.........lol
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[quote comment="284867"][quote comment="284808"][quote comment="284796"][quote comment="284778"][quote comment="284772"][quote comment="284755"][quote comment="284732"][quote comment="284716"][quote comment="284662"][quote comment="284656"]I sometimes think a black man who is successful can’t handle a black woman who “wants” him but doesn’t “need” him. They want someone will worship them. I’ve worked with white chicks, they know black men prize them! isn’t that sick that another race knows that our own men put us down! jezuz take the wheel!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Girrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrl!!! You better preach...... My boyfriend's friends all tease him because they know I dont take no sh$t from him...I will tell his a$$ in a minute "let your next move be your best move"...I had my own crib and everything BEFORE I met him...he only makes things eaiser for me because I dont have to spend all my money on bills....but he better know that I dont need him!!![/quote] Yeah...cause while he is paying the bills you stacking money in case he acts up and you can bounce if necessary![/quote] ------------------------------------------------------------------------- I aint going nowhere. He moved in with me!!! I'm so afraid of letting my guards down...he wants a baby, he wants to get married, he wants his name on my lease... I just feel everything I work so hard for is going down the drain...because I love somebody...(all my independence is being snatched away)[/quote] Girl don't think like that. When you get married your aren't supposed to be independent. You both are supposed to be co-dependent. Thats what a marriage is about. 50/50. You having his back and him having yours. You don't have to do everything by yourself.[/quote] I really appreciate you telling her that. Sometimes I feel some of us have it all wrong.[/quote] I learned this the hard way. LOL! I ain't even married, my boyfriend and I had this discussion after we parted ways. (We in the process of working it out!) LOL![/quote] You know what i find strange sometimes is we woman will share our body with a man but we will not share our money....things that make you go hummmmm[/quote] THANK YOU!!!! With all do respect to those of us who do it- since when is shacking up perfectly acceptable and getting married letting your guard down??? Shit if anything- giving away your milk for FREE is letting your guard down! I'm not picking on anyone in particular. We ALL gotta get it together these days.[/quote] That is why I am old school and proud. After marriage that is when I will move in with my husband and start our lives together. Living with them before will cause comfort and complatency and eventually one will get tired of the other and that starts problems..It doesn't hurt to learn to adapt but I feel that a lot of women are moving in with their men because they don't want to be lonely anymore..and it ends up doing more hurt than good.[/quote] Yeah. Nowadays people want instant gratification. Shoot- they also want help with them bills! So those are two other reasons why couples live together. See me? I had to learn the hard way that patience is a virtue.[/quote] Then you have some with 3 or 4 kids for the guy and been living with him for 10 years and everyone got the same last name but the chick....you playing house the f-in long??
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[quote comment="284773"][quote comment="284751"][quote comment="284729"][quote comment="284693"][quote comment="284676"][quote comment="284660"][quote comment="284653"][quote comment="284633"][quote comment="284618"][quote comment="284582"][quote comment="284569"][quote comment="284494"][quote comment="284487"][quote comment="284476"]So during last night's Atlanta Housewives, I learned that NBA players are guaranteed the money promised in their contracts; while NFL players are not. I wonder if Kim K. knows that....[/quote] You didnt know that? LOL. Thatsw hy I dont understand who golddiggers fight for Football players. However, I think it was very tacky for Big Shawn to point that out.[/quote] LMAO @ Big Shawn...[/quote] tacky but true! get hurt....a football player is broke. now if ya wanna keep it real....baseball players make the most of any sport. not all athletes wives are skanks and whores. i'm certainly not either. believe it or not, most of these guys marry their college sweetheart or some woman they met at a charity function, not the club. so anyone looking to meet a baller, you're better off hitting a golf tournament versus the hotest club.[/quote] a goldigger who does their research...interesting.[/quote] goldgigger? not quite, hunny. engaged to a professional baseball player. getting married valentines day 09 thank you very much.[/quote] DO you mind me asking your ethnicity and you future husband's (I apologize if I am being too invasive ..)[/quote] not at all...i'm black and so is my fiance. i met my guy when he was driving an explorer and i was driving a hyundai excel!! :) i'm around athletes all the time. believe me, these guys do want a good, down to earth educated sista. they just get tired of the groupies...and its groupies of all colors.[/quote] Hook a sista up! LOL. Im not a golddigger but I make very good money, so I cant just date an average joe w/ money becoming an issue. Ive dated athletes before, but I guess I caught them at the stage where they want that groupie aspect...I need a mature athlete (does that exist?). lol[/quote] gorgeous one...we share the same name! yes, there are plenty of mature athletes. sure they go thru their faze of screwing around, most men do. but eventually they grow up and look for "that" sista to settle down with. most black players on my fiance's team are married to sistas. dont believe all you see from the ones who are in the "spotlight"[/quote] Its difficult to date b/c your profession and income is like a gift and a curse. The avg. joe (GROSS..PALIN) is intimidated and money always ends up being an issue. Professional black men want bi-racials or straight up white girls. Its quite disheartening. I m about to be 29, can I meet a man that can afford to date me?!!!!![/quote] No honey professional black men want professional black women, but as long as you think they don't that's the experience you will have. Naomi Campbell thinks she's the finest bitch on the planet, and the most successful model possibly in history in an industry where she is not the standard of beauty and filled with bi-racial competition. It's the confidence baby. A man can smell it a mile away and it's more attractive than a big booty, golden skin, long hair or anything. I was actually surprised by how man black men think Serena is the shit, and it's not just because of her booty. I was surprised because I too have bought into the stereotype. You may be confident in your mind, your profession, etc., but if you feel a white woman or a bi-racial woman has more of a chance than you, your confidence needs to be built. Much love[/quote] Id like to move to wherever it is that you live. I am an attorney and I move around in the black professional circle in Houston. My classmates from lawschool, and even men that I have met since graduating from law school are not going after the professional black woman. I am speaking from experience. Its not about confidence b/c it aint a person walking on this Earth that can tell me Im not the shit. Im successful, Im beautiful, and I got my own shit. These men see those types of women as status symbols, and it surprises me that no one else on here has had the same experience. Maybe I just live in a different world. P.S. Aint no dudes checkin' for serena because they think she's pretty or intelligent. Its all about that ass and the rest of her body. YBF Love back @ Ya! :)[/quote] I understand what Blaq is saying about confidence, but I agree with you 100%. I am also an Attorney and I have my ish together too. That is the same thing that I have seen with most-not all, but most-of my Black male classmates. Where I live, many of the eligible Black men are going after white or Hispanic women.[/quote] you P.S. comment says it all why wouldn't Common be checking for a smart pretty woman like Serena. Why wouldn't Usher want to marry Tameka, it seems like when we see the opposite of the stereotype we can't believe it. It's not that you don't think you're the shit you don't have faith in the black man. Maybe your ideal mate is not a lawyer like you, maybe he's a successful plumber, or whatever. If the majority of black men didn't want, date, marry black women then why do the statistics say the majority of black people marry black people. I live in Oakland, in spite of the homosexual population Oprah said SF and San Jose were two of the best places to meet single men. I can't believe Houston is not popping, I got so much love from the brothas when I visited.
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[quote comment="284860"]Man

[quote comment="284860"]Man yall up on here talkin that talk today. Has the Obama's bought a renewed found faith that real black relationships exist? I hope so. Cuz this shish right here is ridiculous. Now don't get me wrong, love is love but let's look at the bigger picture. There is a deeper manifestation that exist here and ppl always wanna cover it up by saying love does not have a color. WE as a ppl have been brainwashed and culturally conditioned to believe that these women are more beautiful and exotic and we are not. Self hatred in a nutshell. This is a very deep and complicated subject matter...I gotta roll. But I feel yall on this one![/quote] He has..You think he would be in the white house with these skanks posted above.. He choose a intelligent, classy woman, with a great education, instead of some always using my body for attention but it's okay because I'm not black trash.
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[quote comment="284854"][quote comment="284785"]Hey ladies..WTF is going on in here. Les, where were you yesterday. I missed you all day real bad..lol.[/quote] Lol, i was getting Baracked on the kitchen sink yesterday, i busted a couple nuts for the celibate sisters in here, lol. I missed yall too, i was scrolling last night after i left youngin's house, lol.[/quote] grave is dug and I'm getting in it....where is the angel henny juice? Okay, I'm out for real now...*green with envy...lol* :arrow: :mrgreen:
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[quote comment="284808"][quote comment="284796"][quote comment="284778"][quote comment="284772"][quote comment="284755"][quote comment="284732"][quote comment="284716"][quote comment="284662"][quote comment="284656"]I sometimes think a black man who is successful can’t handle a black woman who “wants” him but doesn’t “need” him. They want someone will worship them. I’ve worked with white chicks, they know black men prize them! isn’t that sick that another race knows that our own men put us down! jezuz take the wheel!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Girrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrl!!! You better preach...... My boyfriend's friends all tease him because they know I dont take no sh$t from him...I will tell his a$$ in a minute "let your next move be your best move"...I had my own crib and everything BEFORE I met him...he only makes things eaiser for me because I dont have to spend all my money on bills....but he better know that I dont need him!!![/quote] Yeah...cause while he is paying the bills you stacking money in case he acts up and you can bounce if necessary![/quote] ------------------------------------------------------------------------- I aint going nowhere. He moved in with me!!! I'm so afraid of letting my guards down...he wants a baby, he wants to get married, he wants his name on my lease... I just feel everything I work so hard for is going down the drain...because I love somebody...(all my independence is being snatched away)[/quote] Girl don't think like that. When you get married your aren't supposed to be independent. You both are supposed to be co-dependent. Thats what a marriage is about. 50/50. You having his back and him having yours. You don't have to do everything by yourself.[/quote] I really appreciate you telling her that. Sometimes I feel some of us have it all wrong.[/quote] I learned this the hard way. LOL! I ain't even married, my boyfriend and I had this discussion after we parted ways. (We in the process of working it out!) LOL![/quote] You know what i find strange sometimes is we woman will share our body with a man but we will not share our money....things that make you go hummmmm[/quote] THANK YOU!!!! With all do respect to those of us who do it- since when is shacking up perfectly acceptable and getting married letting your guard down??? Shit if anything- giving away your milk for FREE is letting your guard down! I'm not picking on anyone in particular. We ALL gotta get it together these days.[/quote] That is why I am old school and proud. After marriage that is when I will move in with my husband and start our lives together. Living with them before will cause comfort and complatency and eventually one will get tired of the other and that starts problems..It doesn't hurt to learn to adapt but I feel that a lot of women are moving in with their men because they don't want to be lonely anymore..and it ends up doing more hurt than good.[/quote] Yeah. Nowadays people want instant gratification. Shoot- they also want help with them bills! So those are two other reasons why couples live together. See me? I had to learn the hard way that patience is a virtue.
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[quote comment="284837"][quote comment="284422"]AW MAN!!!! I should have KNOWN that Kendra Wilkinson's fiance was a Black man!!! Why am I still surprised, though? :roll:[/quote] I'm trippin off the fact that they only dated for 9 months!!![/quote] YET THEY DATE US FOR YEARS AND STILL WON'T PUT A RING ON IT!
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[quote comment="284854"][quote comment="284785"]Hey ladies..WTF is going on in here. Les, where were you yesterday. I missed you all day real bad..lol.[/quote] Lol, i was getting Baracked on the kitchen sink yesterday, i busted a couple nuts for the celibate sisters in here, lol. I missed yall too, i was scrolling last night after i left youngin's house, lol.[/quote] We figured that...We can count on Les to get bent over and under..lol
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Man yall up on here talkin

Man yall up on here talkin that talk today. Has the Obama's bought a renewed found faith that real black relationships exist? I hope so. Cuz this shish right here is ridiculous. Now don't get me wrong, love is love but let's look at the bigger picture. There is a deeper manifestation that exist here and ppl always wanna cover it up by saying love does not have a color. WE as a ppl have been brainwashed and culturally conditioned to believe that these women are more beautiful and exotic and we are not. Self hatred in a nutshell. This is a very deep and complicated subject matter...I gotta roll. But I feel yall on this one!
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Oh Kim reminds me of a Tranny

Oh Kim reminds me of a Tranny everytime I see pics of her Reggie is just lost in love, but it's problem not mines
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