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Remy Ma Wants OUT!+Usher Gives Baby Details!

Remy Ma has made her list and is checking it twice.  Her Christmas list consists of GTFO of jail.  Her lawyers are now appealing her conviction saying the judge in the case committed errors--leading her to being found guilty of shooting her "friend" Makeda Barnes and ending up in the slammer since March of this year:
At issue specifically, were the judge’s instructions regarding the testimony of Remy’s victim, Makeda Smith-Barnes, who was shot by the rapper outside a New York City nightclub during an argument over $3000. In closing arguments on March 24, Remy’s attorney Ivan Fisher argued that Smith-Barnes’ testimony actually supported his client’s explanation of the shooting as an accident. However, the jury was instructed that if they believed the victim to be “truthful and accurate,” under the law, her words were enough to establish reasonable doubt. Additionally, Fisher was barred by the court from arguing that the shooting in fact occurred during a struggle for the .45 caliber automatic handgun which, allegedly resulted in Smith-Barnes being shot in the abdomen at close range. These two instructions, the appeal states, amounted to a “directed verdict,” which they say should be examined as more than just accidental error.
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Remy is eligible for parole in 2014.  Something tells me she needs to keep on wishing... And Usher has finally revealed the details surrounding his new baby.  His wife Tameka Raymond will be delivering their second BOY together on December 15th to be exact.  Just in time for a Christmas bundle of joy.  Ursh finally revealed the details he's been keeping on the hush to Stevie Wonder on Stevie's radio show this week.  He says they haven't finalized a name, but they're open to suggestions from the public.  Congrats to the Raymonds.

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Congrats to Usher and Tameka.

Congrats to Usher and Tameka. Remy I hope you find inner peace....
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[quote comment="300972"][quote comment="300960"][quote comment="300946"]Hey mmschel, congrats on deciding to take the job! The Range Rover is coming soon, huh??! Girl GO'NE! :grin: Get a BLACK one, for me!!!!! :lol:[/quote] Hey Copwife! Hey Yetta. I had to step out for sec. Girl, my plan was to save the difference. But last night My husband was like "you can buy a 06 and pay for it in six months, you'll still have $$ left." And he's a for-real number cruncher. :shock:[/quote] **see that team work lovessssssss it***that what god put together loves it**[/quote] That is truly neat. Be blessed for ever more
Original Obama Stan's picture

I like these two as a couple

I like these two as a couple (Tameka and Usher). They should name the new baby boy Deacon Raymond.
kima's picture

CONGRATS USHER AND TAMEKA.

CONGRATS USHER AND TAMEKA. SOME PEOPLE DON'T LIKE HER, THEY DIDN'T HAVE A PROBLEM WITH CHILLI. I'VE HEARD RUMORS OF WELFARE FRAUD AND ALL KINDS OF STUFF. SHE DON'T HAFT TO WORRY ABOUT NO KIND OF WELFARE NOW THAT SHE'S MRS. RAYMOND HOLLA! SHE SORTA LOOKS LIKE CIARA AND THEY SOUND ALIKE WHEN THEY SPEAK.
PrincessMiMi's picture

so Tameka only pops out baby

so Tameka only pops out baby Boys...can dis chick eva had girl..dawm dats gonna be her 5 boyz...i mean REALLY!!
lala's picture

I think I am the only one

I think I am the only one that feels this way but there is something that I love about Tameka and Usher. From the moment they got together along with all the drama of the on again off again wedding... The fact that he stood by this woman in the face of all the haters including his mother. I mean we all know at one time Usher could have gotten into any number of drawers but he chose hers. FOr that reason (and that cute little clone of his) I respect that brother. That means he is real just like brother from another mother Barack Obama. Because we all know that Barack is the number one man in the world, and he is genuinely attracted to his wife. He could've had anyone but he chose the right one. That's how I feel about Usher. I got five on it that their relationship out lasts alot of these phony baloneys. Play yo position gurl!
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[quote comment="300740"]Remy

[quote comment="300740"]Remy :roll: Congrats to Ushmeka. I didn't know Stevie had a radio show[/quote] Yes, he does he actually owns a radio station here in cali, he guest hosts the show every thursday.
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[quote comment="300750"]Dang,

[quote comment="300750"]Dang, Remy. 2014?? That's more numbers than your album sales. May the force be with you...I just know Big Bertha is salivating in corner right about now. __________ Oh and congrats to Ursh & Lady. My idea for a name (since they're open for public suggestions) would be: Beard.[/quote] LMAOOO!!!!!!!!!! the baby's name is perfect, everytime i see them i think the same thing, she's just a beard, we all know Usher likes EXTRA sugar in his tea ;-)
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[quote comment="300814"]That's a publicity stunt, they aren't letting anyone else name the baby? Remy Ma...if they let her out, it's only going to be more foolishness. We got other stuff going on...economy, Pres.-Elect Obama, The holidays shoot I gotta get my nails done later, and all of that is more important than getting your ignorant butt out of jail.[/quote] Dead. "I gotta get my nails done later". You are killing me. LMAO
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I hope Rem gets out...best of

I hope Rem gets out...best of luck to her
Hotstuff's picture

Remy probably won't get out

Remy probably won't get out and her dumb ass shouldn't. If you shoot someone, you go to jail. It's as simple as that! Congrats on the baby (although they should've gave Cinco more time to be a baby his damn self before he had to be a big brother). Hope he's born healthy and without complications.
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WHOMPS REMY! You should have

WHOMPS REMY! You should have been thought of that...Look at Kim, Foxy, Michael Vic, Mystikal, Shyne, Da Brat, etc...CAREERS DONE! Of course Jail ain't a nice place. You could have been the only female rapper out there doing something. You f*cked up! All these rappers talking about bling, money,etc and you incarcerate yourself over $3k? Didn't even get one of your people to do it? DUMMY
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[quote comment="301263"][quote comment="301146"]Rainy & Jaurdyn, Glam and Yetta....awww YAY!!!! Y'all make me smile when I'm at work. Cause Lord knows the presence of these folks that I'm in, make me want to do unholy things!!!![/quote] am I chopped liver ???[/quote] of course not girl! You are filet mignon!!!!
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[quote comment="301263"][quote comment="301146"]Rainy & Jaurdyn, Glam and Yetta....awww YAY!!!! Y'all make me smile when I'm at work. Cause Lord knows the presence of these folks that I'm in, make me want to do unholy things!!!![/quote] am I chopped liver ???[/quote] That's what I'm saying!!!!
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[quote comment="301146"]Rainy

[quote comment="301146"]Rainy & Jaurdyn, Glam and Yetta....awww YAY!!!! Y'all make me smile when I'm at work. Cause Lord knows the presence of these folks that I'm in, make me want to do unholy things!!!![/quote] am I chopped liver ???
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[quote comment="301177"][quote comment="301128"]@ Love: But I wonder, why IS that? I'm happy that old dude came around for you during the pregnancy, but why does it seem like men come out of the woodwork for the wife/girlfriend/baby mama when they are preggers with THEIR child? Is it just me, or does it seem like there's a lot of emphasis put on the CHILD and not so much on the mother of the child? My hubby's dad wasn't around (neither was mine) and he's already beating his chest about his "unborn" child and what he'll do for the child, and HIS child. I'm like, what about me? I'll be the MOTHER of the child! My mom says it's because men tend to place more emphasis on and give more attention to their BLOOD (mothers, children etc.) than the wife/girlfriend/baby-mama.[/quote] No no....he didn't come around then.....he was always around at that point....it's after the baby came he started acting like a damn fool. Like his values in life decreased. And the funny thing is he swears his reasonings is right....like give a good paying job to sell....wtf???? and then say he wanna hurry up and provide the best for me and the baby....ummmm hello your ass was already doing that....did i ask you to switch up and go from good to bad....and who was living with you while you sell???? lost his damn mind!!!![/quote] Oh okay, I FEEL you now! That is CRAZY! ANYTHING for the baby huh? Leaivng a good paying (honest) job and blaming it on the baby and the situation?!?! Nah, I think NOT! Man, dudes be trippin....it's like their priorites are ALL out of wack, but they SWEAR they are doing the best that they can, or the RIGHT thing! :evil:
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[quote comment="301181"][quote comment="301146"]Rainy & Jaurdyn, Glam and Yetta....awww YAY!!!! Y'all make me smile when I'm at work. Cause Lord knows the presence of these folks that I'm in, make me want to do unholy things!!!![/quote] aw, thanks. i love being included in things :)[/quote] Me to!!!! *hehehehehehehehe* :P
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[quote comment="301159"][quote comment="301153"][quote comment="301139"][quote comment="301137"][quote comment="301075"][quote comment="301000"][quote comment="300990"]Mz. Keyes@ i first was to praise you for your strenght and resolve for not cracking that head to the white meat...i will say that if he is trying to put fourth an effort. meet him in a publix place and set up a parenting plan. That way he will see you about the business of B A B Y D not vitamin D :mrgreen: :lol: :sad: :P :-D :?: :wink: :shock: :cool: :oops: :!: :mad: :evil: :neutral: :?: ♥ reading you post i went through all those emotions[/quote] check old post :)[/quote] okay..i requested you..[/quote] i still haven't gotten anything. i requested dat chick...hopefully u can find me through her page. oh and DAT CHICK....lol, i requested u. :)[/quote] I need to get my myspace up again. I'll do it after the baby arrives I guess.[/quote] cool. let us know, u will be added :) congrats on ur engagement--not sure if i am late as hell though. mine is memorial weekend.[/quote] LOL! You aren't late. Remember I am new. Congrats on yours![/quote] oh, okey-dokey--it did slip my mind that u were newbie--my brain is fried on fri :) thank ya ma'am :)
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ok, why some people keep

ok, why some people keep saying that maneka looks like a man and say that serena is feminine! Come on now! Maneka is really feminine and beautiful!!! poor girl! Anyways, ain't she tired of having kids???! 5 Kids!
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[quote comment="301178"][quote comment="301156"][quote comment="301142"][quote comment="301113"][quote comment="301110"][quote comment="301091"][quote comment="301059"][quote comment="301046"][quote comment="301029"][quote comment="301023"]Get ya tubes tied![/quote] :shock: Oooookay?!?! Heeeey you!!!! Drink plently of tea w/lemon and gargle with salt and water! (what Momma always told me!)[/quote] Hey mama! Imma do all of that and some later cuz I can't do being sick! Anyhoo, don't mean to be harsh but it just upsets me sometimes that my sista's get pregnant for BUMS! Like, didn't you see that when you were laying w/ him? And now these kids are growing up w/o their fathers. It's just sad. I'm 29 and my ex and I bumped into each other (while in JA) and he's like, yuh nuh have no pickney yet? I'm like "No, when I find a man that puts me in a house for his future son/daughter then I'll have plenty of babies." He's like "no no, you ain't gonna have none then, you better hurry up cuz ya clock is ticking." All I'm thinking is, this fool got 3 kids, by 3 different chicks. Granted he financially takes care of every last one of them and the mothers, but he's out in the street, he ain't spending time w/ them and I don't want that. I want a man that gets pleasure from being a father and spending time w/ his kid(s). As women, we have to learn seperate a good f*ck from the bum that he is. If that means I won't be having kids than so be it. Don't mean to offend anyone, I know there's a lot of mom's on this blog. I just hate to see the outcome of bad choices that affect the kids that come from it.[/quote] I know what you mean and sometimes you are just caught up in the moment. Trust me that is no excuse. With my 1st son, we were together for 4 years before I got preg and of course he wasn't planned but I never expected for us to end. Now with my 2nd son, I was in love and engaged months before I got preg. But I know plenty of women that get pregnant by these losers. Some don't show their true colors until the woman is preg but we have to do better by wrapping it up and taking our birth control.[/quote] Another thing and I'll be finished my rant. A lot of people (not talking about any specifically) will say well you should've been married, etc. That isnt a guartanee than a man will be a good father, provider, etc. My best friend was married for seven years. The two children that she had with her husband were planned. She took care of him and home. She never suspected anything and found underwear in his car. She confronted him and the next morning he was gone. She couldnt find him. After a few months he popped back up. In total its been almost two years since he walked out and he still hasnt given her a dime for their children. Yes women need to make better choices, but parents need to raise BETTER MEN![/quote] It's a never ending cycle...men need to step up to the plate but how can they if they don't know how...it seems like it goes on and on and on.[/quote] And one thing women need to stop doing is using their children as pawns. I can't stand that. They are hurting their child. If they don't get enough child support, they want to say that the father can never see the child. I mean at least he is trying to be a father. UGH! That annoys me so much! If I would have been that chick, my son would have never seen his father after age 2.[/quote] Now that right there is soooo depressing. The family court...I dunno who in there right mind would love going through that bs!!!! Only time i went was when my dads father felt he needed to get at me and ask for custody of my son and took me to court where the judge laughed in his face and threw the case out....the judge in turn asked if i wanted to go through with child support or will we work it out amongst ourselves and I said yes we.....he does or he doesn't is his damn business....I aint going through with no damn child support case and taking off every min to go to court....hell nah!!!![/quote] Girl!!! LOL![/quote] Me either that is why I refused to put the first nig on there, and I'm not about to put this one on there..he already stated that he wont work because he don't want to pay.. what sense would that make for me to turn around and put him on there and expect something.... all that court drama is a waste of time..[/quote] My mom never had my dad pay b/c he didn't have a job. She was like what's the point? She did an amazing job taking care of me. I didn't want for anything. That is why I am so spoiled now. LOL!
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[quote comment="301132"][quote comment="301115"][quote comment="301089"][quote comment="301067"][quote comment="301046"][quote comment="301029"][quote comment="301023"]Get ya tubes tied![/quote] :shock: Oooookay?!?! Heeeey you!!!! Drink plently of tea w/lemon and gargle with salt and water! (what Momma always told me!)[/quote] Hey mama! Imma do all of that and some later cuz I can't do being sick! Anyhoo, don't mean to be harsh but it just upsets me sometimes that my sista's get pregnant for BUMS! Like, didn't you see that when you were laying w/ him? And now these kids are growing up w/o their fathers. It's just sad. I'm 29 and my ex and I bumped into each other (while in JA) and he's like, yuh nuh have no pickney yet? I'm like "No, when I find a man that puts me in a house for his future son/daughter then I'll have plenty of babies." He's like "no no, you ain't gonna have none then, you better hurry up cuz ya clock is ticking." All I'm thinking is, this fool got 3 kids, by 3 different chicks. Granted he financially takes care of every last one of them and the mothers, but he's out in the street, he ain't spending time w/ them and I don't want that. I want a man that gets pleasure from being a father and spending time w/ his kid(s). As women, we have to learn seperate a good f*ck from the bum that he is. If that means I won't be having kids than so be it. Don't mean to offend anyone, I know there's a lot of mom's on this blog. I just hate to see the outcome of bad choices that affect the kids that come from it.[/quote] I understand what you're saying but sometimes people don't see the real person or that person doesnt show themselves until after the baby is born. So I dont think its fair to say didnt you see he was a BUM when you was laying with him? Theres a chance that she didnt! Women have been with a man for years and years and years and then all of a sudden he can show himself!![/quote] I know Toya and I DON'T feel all black women who are in this situation were dealing w/ bums. I know in general that sometimes it's not even the woman. However tho, I feel some women just be so stupified by the d*ck that they think a baby is the next best thing. My mom got pregnant w/ me at 15 and she grilled me from the time I was knee high why I have my whole life ahead of me and I should look at a man's family (and him) before I have a child for him. I just wish, for the possibilty of a future child w/ a dummy, that women, especially black women, would look w/ their eyes and not their heart cuz we all know our heart is connected to our puzzy.[/quote] You know what the problem is? These mama's are raising Pussy ass boys..not men. SINCE WHEN IS IT OKAY FOR YOUR SON NOT TO KNOW HOW TO TAKE CARE OF HIMSELF EH? WHEN IS IT OKAY FOR A WOMAN TO DO EVERY SINGLE THING (INCLUDING HOW TO TEACH YOU HOW TO USE UR OWN DAMN MONEY) FOR YOU AND TAKE CARE OF THE HOME AND CHILDREN WHILE U STAY HOME AND DON'T DO SHIT? THERE ARE A LOT OF THESE TYPES OUT HERE: DON'T DO NOTHING BUT WORK AND SPEND THEIR MONEY ON SHIT TO THROW THESE CHICKS OFF, THEN WHEN THEY GET EM, ITS A DONE DEAL. AND ANOTHER THING: LADIES BE VERY CAREFUL, BECAUSE THESE LAME ASS BIRD ASS NEGROES ARE STARTING TO GET WOMEN LIKE US PREGNANT SO THAT WE ARE STUCK WITH THEM FOR LIFE. BE VERY CAREFUL. When they see women who are about something, and don't have any kids or have one kid and is still living well, they will wine and dine ur ass, then when they get in the panties..they will get ur ass pregnant.[/quote] And girl, let me tell you..after I got pregnant, we got into an argument, he sends me a text saying that.. "I'm one deep, she will be the one with the son." What kind of ish.... and I want him in my life..NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO. And he has the nerve to say that he wont work because he does not want to pay child support for his other children, and he can't work because he wants to see if he can get General Assistance..what kind of ish is that.. you are a grown man capable of working, but yet you want to take advantage of the system, or at least he think he will, because he does not know that the system is designed to keep young mothers and fathers trapped.[/quote] Hunny..I live by this phrase that I came up with by myself: To Live Life is to be heartbroken and to experience every kind of pain there is to be felt So with that said, you will be blessed in Jesus name..those who are trapped in the system are those who want to stay in the system. Trust me I kno of a lot of single mothers and fathers who were in the system..and decided to do right for themselves and their kids and they are living the good life because of their sacrifices and hard work. Don't worry..just remember to stay steadfast in prayer.
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[quote comment="301158"][quote comment="301111"][quote comment="301078"][quote comment="301059"][quote comment="301046"][quote comment="301029"][quote comment="301023"]Get ya tubes tied![/quote] :shock: Oooookay?!?! Heeeey you!!!! Drink plently of tea w/lemon and gargle with salt and water! (what Momma always told me!)[/quote] Hey mama! Imma do all of that and some later cuz I can't do being sick! Anyhoo, don't mean to be harsh but it just upsets me sometimes that my sista's get pregnant for BUMS! Like, didn't you see that when you were laying w/ him? And now these kids are growing up w/o their fathers. It's just sad. I'm 29 and my ex and I bumped into each other (while in JA) and he's like, yuh nuh have no pickney yet? I'm like "No, when I find a man that puts me in a house for his future son/daughter then I'll have plenty of babies." He's like "no no, you ain't gonna have none then, you better hurry up cuz ya clock is ticking." All I'm thinking is, this fool got 3 kids, by 3 different chicks. Granted he financially takes care of every last one of them and the mothers, but he's out in the street, he ain't spending time w/ them and I don't want that. I want a man that gets pleasure from being a father and spending time w/ his kid(s). As women, we have to learn seperate a good f*ck from the bum that he is. If that means I won't be having kids than so be it. Don't mean to offend anyone, I know there's a lot of mom's on this blog. I just hate to see the outcome of bad choices that affect the kids that come from it.[/quote] I know what you mean and sometimes you are just caught up in the moment. Trust me that is no excuse. With my 1st son, we were together for 4 years before I got preg and of course he wasn't planned but I never expected for us to end. Now with my 2nd son, I was in love and engaged months before I got preg. But I know plenty of women that get pregnant by these losers. Some don't show their true colors until the woman is preg but we have to do better by wrapping it up and taking our birth control.[/quote] And Whoa, you are totally right. I have no excuse for this mistake, and I am woman enough to admit that I made one.. But that does not take away from the fact that this nigga is a straight bum. Why can't he get his ish together for the sake of the child. He had a job when I met him and it was all gravy.. Why would I have someone in my life that is worthless? Why should my children suffer. There are plenty children out there who are better off without the real dad around. I am one of them..My real father was a jerk and I'm glad that he os not around.. he denied me from the moment I was born. I'd rather my child to call a nother man dad, than to subject him to the foolishness of his real father.[/quote] Ok, so he's a bum. You can't go back and change what happened. My bum from 18 years ago showed up at my son's graduation with the whole damn crew. Auntie Mesha, KiKi, and all them! He had never done anything ever. He couldn't tell you what this boy is allergic too. So you know have to focus on what you want and what you need to do. My son has the utmost of respect for me and clarity of judgment about his father than ever. I never spoke ill of him, But I never expected anything from him. I never called I never did anything but take care of my son and move myself forward. I never got ugly and trust me, there were many days when I would cry and be so mad and wish a nigga dead. But I kept at it. He even tried at 14 to try and get custody. I sent his lawyer a copy of the $18,000.00 tuition bill and said when he pays that he can get him. Case dropped. I kept a shoe box with the receipt of everything I ever bought, because I knew this kid was mine and no-one else would love him or be responsible for him like me. Yetta you have now got to realize the same thing. So... Put your feelings in your pocket so they don't get hurt. And let's get to working on this cyber- baby shower. Let that bum be a bum by himself. And when he shows up chest all sticking out... Don't even blink![/quote] I hear that.. and that is what I did to my daughter's father.. the abusive one.. After my dad died, I was like.. there is nothing left for me here, so I gotta move..He ACTED like he was upset, but after we got here, I never heard from him. He got her a few items for Christmas last year, but no birthday call, no present no nothing..Natalia still knows her dad is Charles though and she will tell anybody that.. We did get to see him on our trip back there in July, even though the nig was in jail....(go figure) I never speak ill of him, she will realize it all on her own...[/quote] Absolutely! It's hard but you gotta be strong. Right now your kids only have you.
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[quote comment="301146"]Rainy

[quote comment="301146"]Rainy & Jaurdyn, Glam and Yetta....awww YAY!!!! Y'all make me smile when I'm at work. Cause Lord knows the presence of these folks that I'm in, make me want to do unholy things!!!![/quote] aw, thanks. i love being included in things :)
Jaurdyn22 - I don't have to be happy because a Black Man won's picture

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[quote comment="301161"][quote comment="301151"][quote comment="301144"][quote comment="301123"][quote comment="301120"]@Glam: When are you getting married?[/quote] January[/quote] CONGRATULATIONS!!! How did I miss that?!?![/quote] LOL! Well I never mentioned it. Just that I was engaged. We were planning to get married on April 4th...but months later I became preg and that is now my due date. So we just moved it b/c I want to have the same last name as my child and his father when he arrives. I love my man so much![/quote] Aw, I feel you Girl! I love my man too! ...high fivin'! I wanna see pictures of your dress & stuff! I love weddings![/quote] It's not the dress I wanted anymore since I will be 6 months preg but it's beautiful.
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[quote comment="301128"]@ Love: But I wonder, why IS that? I'm happy that old dude came around for you during the pregnancy, but why does it seem like men come out of the woodwork for the wife/girlfriend/baby mama when they are preggers with THEIR child? Is it just me, or does it seem like there's a lot of emphasis put on the CHILD and not so much on the mother of the child? My hubby's dad wasn't around (neither was mine) and he's already beating his chest about his "unborn" child and what he'll do for the child, and HIS child. I'm like, what about me? I'll be the MOTHER of the child! My mom says it's because men tend to place more emphasis on and give more attention to their BLOOD (mothers, children etc.) than the wife/girlfriend/baby-mama.[/quote] No no....he didn't come around then.....he was always around at that point....it's after the baby came he started acting like a damn fool. Like his values in life decreased. And the funny thing is he swears his reasonings is right....like give a good paying job to sell....wtf???? and then say he wanna hurry up and provide the best for me and the baby....ummmm hello your ass was already doing that....did i ask you to switch up and go from good to bad....and who was living with you while you sell???? lost his damn mind!!!!
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[quote comment="301155"]Ok, so I'm felling scrolled over... :sad:[/quote] We love you to mmschel!!!!
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[quote comment="301141"]lessssssssssssssssssssssss i missed you[/quote] Hey Rainy, you know i missed all of yall too this past week & thankfully i came back on today and it's all love (except no love for the deadbeat daddies) cuz the few times i popped in earlier this week it was World War 3 over Mrs. Unmentionable in here :rolls: so i just logged out, lol, even the YBF night shift are crazy too, lol.
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[quote comment="301155"]Ok,

[quote comment="301155"]Ok, so I'm felling scrolled over... :sad:[/quote] Hey mmschel, and its a new post too!!
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It is some real positive

It is some real positive energy flowing through here today. I have learned so much!!!
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[quote comment="301151"][quote comment="301144"][quote comment="301123"][quote comment="301120"]@Glam: When are you getting married?[/quote] January[/quote] CONGRATULATIONS!!! How did I miss that?!?![/quote] LOL! Well I never mentioned it. Just that I was engaged. We were planning to get married on April 4th...but months later I became preg and that is now my due date. So we just moved it b/c I want to have the same last name as my child and his father when he arrives. I love my man so much![/quote] Aw, I feel you Girl! I love my man too! ...high fivin'! I wanna see pictures of your dress & stuff! I love weddings!
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[quote comment="301153"][quote comment="301139"][quote comment="301137"][quote comment="301075"][quote comment="301000"][quote comment="300990"]Mz. Keyes@ i first was to praise you for your strenght and resolve for not cracking that head to the white meat...i will say that if he is trying to put fourth an effort. meet him in a publix place and set up a parenting plan. That way he will see you about the business of B A B Y D not vitamin D :mrgreen: :lol: :sad: :P :-D :?: :wink: :shock: :cool: :oops: :!: :mad: :evil: :neutral: :?: ♥ reading you post i went through all those emotions[/quote] check old post :)[/quote] okay..i requested you..[/quote] i still haven't gotten anything. i requested dat chick...hopefully u can find me through her page. oh and DAT CHICK....lol, i requested u. :)[/quote] I need to get my myspace up again. I'll do it after the baby arrives I guess.[/quote] cool. let us know, u will be added :) congrats on ur engagement--not sure if i am late as hell though. mine is memorial weekend.[/quote] LOL! You aren't late. Remember I am new. Congrats on yours!
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[quote comment="301111"][quote comment="301078"][quote comment="301059"][quote comment="301046"][quote comment="301029"][quote comment="301023"]Get ya tubes tied![/quote] :shock: Oooookay?!?! Heeeey you!!!! Drink plently of tea w/lemon and gargle with salt and water! (what Momma always told me!)[/quote] Hey mama! Imma do all of that and some later cuz I can't do being sick! Anyhoo, don't mean to be harsh but it just upsets me sometimes that my sista's get pregnant for BUMS! Like, didn't you see that when you were laying w/ him? And now these kids are growing up w/o their fathers. It's just sad. I'm 29 and my ex and I bumped into each other (while in JA) and he's like, yuh nuh have no pickney yet? I'm like "No, when I find a man that puts me in a house for his future son/daughter then I'll have plenty of babies." He's like "no no, you ain't gonna have none then, you better hurry up cuz ya clock is ticking." All I'm thinking is, this fool got 3 kids, by 3 different chicks. Granted he financially takes care of every last one of them and the mothers, but he's out in the street, he ain't spending time w/ them and I don't want that. I want a man that gets pleasure from being a father and spending time w/ his kid(s). As women, we have to learn seperate a good f*ck from the bum that he is. If that means I won't be having kids than so be it. Don't mean to offend anyone, I know there's a lot of mom's on this blog. I just hate to see the outcome of bad choices that affect the kids that come from it.[/quote] I know what you mean and sometimes you are just caught up in the moment. Trust me that is no excuse. With my 1st son, we were together for 4 years before I got preg and of course he wasn't planned but I never expected for us to end. Now with my 2nd son, I was in love and engaged months before I got preg. But I know plenty of women that get pregnant by these losers. Some don't show their true colors until the woman is preg but we have to do better by wrapping it up and taking our birth control.[/quote] And Whoa, you are totally right. I have no excuse for this mistake, and I am woman enough to admit that I made one.. But that does not take away from the fact that this nigga is a straight bum. Why can't he get his ish together for the sake of the child. He had a job when I met him and it was all gravy.. Why would I have someone in my life that is worthless? Why should my children suffer. There are plenty children out there who are better off without the real dad around. I am one of them..My real father was a jerk and I'm glad that he os not around.. he denied me from the moment I was born. I'd rather my child to call a nother man dad, than to subject him to the foolishness of his real father.[/quote] Ok, so he's a bum. You can't go back and change what happened. My bum from 18 years ago showed up at my son's graduation with the whole damn crew. Auntie Mesha, KiKi, and all them! He had never done anything ever. He couldn't tell you what this boy is allergic too. So you know have to focus on what you want and what you need to do. My son has the utmost of respect for me and clarity of judgment about his father than ever. I never spoke ill of him, But I never expected anything from him. I never called I never did anything but take care of my son and move myself forward. I never got ugly and trust me, there were many days when I would cry and be so mad and wish a nigga dead. But I kept at it. He even tried at 14 to try and get custody. I sent his lawyer a copy of the $18,000.00 tuition bill and said when he pays that he can get him. Case dropped. I kept a shoe box with the receipt of everything I ever bought, because I knew this kid was mine and no-one else would love him or be responsible for him like me. Yetta you have now got to realize the same thing. So... Put your feelings in your pocket so they don't get hurt. And let's get to working on this cyber- baby shower. Let that bum be a bum by himself. And when he shows up chest all sticking out... Don't even blink![/quote] I hear that.. and that is what I did to my daughter's father.. the abusive one.. After my dad died, I was like.. there is nothing left for me here, so I gotta move..He ACTED like he was upset, but after we got here, I never heard from him. He got her a few items for Christmas last year, but no birthday call, no present no nothing..Natalia still knows her dad is Charles though and she will tell anybody that.. We did get to see him on our trip back there in July, even though the nig was in jail....(go figure) I never speak ill of him, she will realize it all on her own...
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[quote comment="301131"][quote comment="301127"][quote comment="301108"][quote comment="301090"][quote comment="301031"][quote comment="301025"][quote comment="300983"][quote comment="300968"][quote comment="300961"]I wish I could cyber hug a certain few....why am I on the back burner for 'hear say'???[/quote] Who do you want to cyberhug?[/quote] It doesn't matter. The majority has spoken, so I'll just stick to chatting by my lonesome.[/quote] Well I personally don't have a problem with you but I have heard the stories. I'm all about positive energy and I'll be honest the jury is still out on somethings you have been accused of. I can seee that you really reaching out and me being a Christian, I would be wrong to judge and hold a grudge. So with that being said I'll extend the olive branch and welcome you my cyber friendship if it means anything to you. *cyberhug*[/quote] I don't even know what's going on since I am so new here but that was sweet![/quote] You know I'm the YBF peacemaker but I goes hard for my FAM and make no bones about it. I love all who wants to be loved *cyberhugs to everyone reading this*[/quote] I just have a question: *After scrolling last week and damn near developing carpal tunnel* : Why did you pin point me out as the person who stole Rainy's identity?? How demonic would that be???...I wouldn't even do that. Nor do have the time or boredom to do so. When I post, I post with my own gravi. People on here have been known that I obsess over my gravi and change it every 2 to three days tops. So how odd would it be for me to post under no gravi at all, or Rainy's for that matter? I just think a lot of the finger pointing and hear say is childish and ridiculous. And I just wanted to know why all of this is centered around me. Is there no possible way that a blogger has a vendetta towards me? I do watch Law & Order. This whole fiasco is new to me.[/quote] Well like I said I have heard the stories. Some concerning you and Rainy too. And as I stated that day what sealed the deal for me was when I saw the :???: emotioncon and I only saw you use that one. I only remember because I was scrolling trying to figure out how do ALL the emotioncons and I saw one I never saw and I quoted it from you. Now there is a possibility that someone else did it yes and for that reason I am willing to put the past in the past and move forward I also apologized offered friendship that day which is why I am offering again today. I hope that answers your questions and ends this convo because I really would like to move forward.[/quote] Aight, aight, aight!!! Drop it you two!!!![/quote] I'm done. I"m being good! I prowmise! I sent cyberhugs to everybody how can read
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[quote comment="301142"][quote comment="301113"][quote comment="301110"][quote comment="301091"][quote comment="301059"][quote comment="301046"][quote comment="301029"][quote comment="301023"]Get ya tubes tied![/quote] :shock: Oooookay?!?! Heeeey you!!!! Drink plently of tea w/lemon and gargle with salt and water! (what Momma always told me!)[/quote] Hey mama! Imma do all of that and some later cuz I can't do being sick! Anyhoo, don't mean to be harsh but it just upsets me sometimes that my sista's get pregnant for BUMS! Like, didn't you see that when you were laying w/ him? And now these kids are growing up w/o their fathers. It's just sad. I'm 29 and my ex and I bumped into each other (while in JA) and he's like, yuh nuh have no pickney yet? I'm like "No, when I find a man that puts me in a house for his future son/daughter then I'll have plenty of babies." He's like "no no, you ain't gonna have none then, you better hurry up cuz ya clock is ticking." All I'm thinking is, this fool got 3 kids, by 3 different chicks. Granted he financially takes care of every last one of them and the mothers, but he's out in the street, he ain't spending time w/ them and I don't want that. I want a man that gets pleasure from being a father and spending time w/ his kid(s). As women, we have to learn seperate a good f*ck from the bum that he is. If that means I won't be having kids than so be it. Don't mean to offend anyone, I know there's a lot of mom's on this blog. I just hate to see the outcome of bad choices that affect the kids that come from it.[/quote] I know what you mean and sometimes you are just caught up in the moment. Trust me that is no excuse. With my 1st son, we were together for 4 years before I got preg and of course he wasn't planned but I never expected for us to end. Now with my 2nd son, I was in love and engaged months before I got preg. But I know plenty of women that get pregnant by these losers. Some don't show their true colors until the woman is preg but we have to do better by wrapping it up and taking our birth control.[/quote] Another thing and I'll be finished my rant. A lot of people (not talking about any specifically) will say well you should've been married, etc. That isnt a guartanee than a man will be a good father, provider, etc. My best friend was married for seven years. The two children that she had with her husband were planned. She took care of him and home. She never suspected anything and found underwear in his car. She confronted him and the next morning he was gone. She couldnt find him. After a few months he popped back up. In total its been almost two years since he walked out and he still hasnt given her a dime for their children. Yes women need to make better choices, but parents need to raise BETTER MEN![/quote] It's a never ending cycle...men need to step up to the plate but how can they if they don't know how...it seems like it goes on and on and on.[/quote] And one thing women need to stop doing is using their children as pawns. I can't stand that. They are hurting their child. If they don't get enough child support, they want to say that the father can never see the child. I mean at least he is trying to be a father. UGH! That annoys me so much! If I would have been that chick, my son would have never seen his father after age 2.[/quote] Now that right there is soooo depressing. The family court...I dunno who in there right mind would love going through that bs!!!! Only time i went was when my dads father felt he needed to get at me and ask for custody of my son and took me to court where the judge laughed in his face and threw the case out....the judge in turn asked if i wanted to go through with child support or will we work it out amongst ourselves and I said yes we.....he does or he doesn't is his damn business....I aint going through with no damn child support case and taking off every min to go to court....hell nah!!!![/quote] Girl!!! LOL!
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Ok, so I'm felling scrolled over... :sad:
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[quote comment="301139"][quote comment="301137"][quote comment="301075"][quote comment="301000"][quote comment="300990"]Mz. Keyes@ i first was to praise you for your strenght and resolve for not cracking that head to the white meat...i will say that if he is trying to put fourth an effort. meet him in a publix place and set up a parenting plan. That way he will see you about the business of B A B Y D not vitamin D :mrgreen: :lol: :sad: :P :-D :?: :wink: :shock: :cool: :oops: :!: :mad: :evil: :neutral: :?: ♥ reading you post i went through all those emotions[/quote] check old post :)[/quote] okay..i requested you..[/quote] i still haven't gotten anything. i requested dat chick...hopefully u can find me through her page. oh and DAT CHICK....lol, i requested u. :)[/quote] I need to get my myspace up again. I'll do it after the baby arrives I guess.[/quote] cool. let us know, u will be added :) congrats on ur engagement--not sure if i am late as hell though. mine is memorial weekend.
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[quote comment="301146"]Rainy & Jaurdyn, Glam and Yetta....awww YAY!!!! Y'all make me smile when I'm at work. Cause Lord knows the presence of these folks that I'm in, make me want to do unholy things!!!![/quote] LOL!!!
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[quote comment="301144"][quote comment="301123"][quote comment="301120"]@Glam: When are you getting married?[/quote] January[/quote] CONGRATULATIONS!!! How did I miss that?!?![/quote] LOL! Well I never mentioned it. Just that I was engaged. We were planning to get married on April 4th...but months later I became preg and that is now my due date. So we just moved it b/c I want to have the same last name as my child and his father when he arrives. I love my man so much!
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[quote comment="301129"][quote comment="301115"][quote comment="301089"][quote comment="301067"][quote comment="301046"][quote comment="301029"][quote comment="301023"]Get ya tubes tied![/quote] :shock: Oooookay?!?! Heeeey you!!!! Drink plently of tea w/lemon and gargle with salt and water! (what Momma always told me!)[/quote] Hey mama! Imma do all of that and some later cuz I can't do being sick! Anyhoo, don't mean to be harsh but it just upsets me sometimes that my sista's get pregnant for BUMS! Like, didn't you see that when you were laying w/ him? And now these kids are growing up w/o their fathers. It's just sad. I'm 29 and my ex and I bumped into each other (while in JA) and he's like, yuh nuh have no pickney yet? I'm like "No, when I find a man that puts me in a house for his future son/daughter then I'll have plenty of babies." He's like "no no, you ain't gonna have none then, you better hurry up cuz ya clock is ticking." All I'm thinking is, this fool got 3 kids, by 3 different chicks. Granted he financially takes care of every last one of them and the mothers, but he's out in the street, he ain't spending time w/ them and I don't want that. I want a man that gets pleasure from being a father and spending time w/ his kid(s). As women, we have to learn seperate a good f*ck from the bum that he is. If that means I won't be having kids than so be it. Don't mean to offend anyone, I know there's a lot of mom's on this blog. I just hate to see the outcome of bad choices that affect the kids that come from it.[/quote] I understand what you're saying but sometimes people don't see the real person or that person doesnt show themselves until after the baby is born. So I dont think its fair to say didnt you see he was a BUM when you was laying with him? Theres a chance that she didnt! Women have been with a man for years and years and years and then all of a sudden he can show himself!![/quote] I know Toya and I DON'T feel all black women who are in this situation were dealing w/ bums. I know in general that sometimes it's not even the woman. However tho, I feel some women just be so stupified by the d*ck that they think a baby is the next best thing. My mom got pregnant w/ me at 15 and she grilled me from the time I was knee high why I have my whole life ahead of me and I should look at a man's family (and him) before I have a child for him. I just wish, for the possibilty of a future child w/ a dummy, that women, especially black women, would look w/ their eyes and not their heart cuz we all know our heart is connected to our puzzy.[/quote] You know what the problem is? These mama's are raising Pussy ass boys..not men. SINCE WHEN IS IT OKAY FOR YOUR SON NOT TO KNOW HOW TO TAKE CARE OF HIMSELF EH? WHEN IS IT OKAY FOR A WOMAN TO DO EVERY SINGLE THING (INCLUDING HOW TO TEACH YOU HOW TO USE UR OWN DAMN MONEY) FOR YOU AND TAKE CARE OF THE HOME AND CHILDREN WHILE U STAY HOME AND DON'T DO SHIT? THERE ARE A LOT OF THESE TYPES OUT HERE: DON'T DO NOTHING BUT WORK AND SPEND THEIR MONEY ON SHIT TO THROW THESE CHICKS OFF, THEN WHEN THEY GET EM, ITS A DONE DEAL. AND ANOTHER THING: LADIES BE VERY CAREFUL, BECAUSE THESE LAME ASS BIRD ASS NEGROES ARE STARTING TO GET WOMEN LIKE US PREGNANT SO THAT WE ARE STUCK WITH THEM FOR LIFE. BE VERY CAREFUL. When they see women who are about something, and don't have any kids or have one kid and is still living well, they will wine and dine ur ass, then when they get in the panties..they will get ur ass pregnant.[/quote] Girl you betta preach...the last guy I was with was saying stuff that had me scared to sleep with him. I thought he was gonna try and get me pregnant intentionally. He was always talking about how he wanted me to be his baby Momma...he plays too much!!! I cut him lose after his birthday and never talked to him with no explanation or anything ever again. It wasn't money, or class or anything like that that had me alarmed, it was the fact that he was not willing to give me the commitment I need and want before I am comfortable enough to be with someone in that way. Needless to say, I thank God fore using him to concecrate me and increase my patience to wait on the man that God has for me.[/quote] Thank the lord, myself I dealt with the same thing..Ex dude, when I was preggers was on some..i don't want to kill my child but i'm not ready to take care of it bullshit. So when I had my miscarriage (i didn't tell his ass to this very day, cuz I didn't need his fake ass sympathy) I repented and changed my life for the better.
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[quote comment="301126"][quote comment="301121"]Every child needs to be like MIDNIGHT! minus the killing. LOL![/quote] WORD..all them guerilla tactics had me rollin :lol:[/quote] *heads over to Masjid's*
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Rainy & Jaurdyn, Glam and

Rainy & Jaurdyn, Glam and Yetta....awww YAY!!!! Y'all make me smile when I'm at work. Cause Lord knows the presence of these folks that I'm in, make me want to do unholy things!!!!
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[quote comment="301125"][quote comment="301118"][quote comment="301101"]Okay for real ya'll are about to make a sister cry up in here!![/quote] *passes you a Puffs with Lotion tissue*[/quote] Got me all worked up in the post. Blood pressure up & all![/quote] Thanks christin, I'm good now.. sometimes I just get a lil emotional when you talking about all the good things that god does for us ya know.
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[quote comment="301123"][quote comment="301120"]@Glam: When are you getting married?[/quote] January[/quote] CONGRATULATIONS!!! How did I miss that?!?!
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[quote comment="301127"][quote comment="301108"][quote comment="301090"][quote comment="301031"][quote comment="301025"][quote comment="300983"][quote comment="300968"][quote comment="300961"]I wish I could cyber hug a certain few....why am I on the back burner for 'hear say'???[/quote] Who do you want to cyberhug?[/quote] It doesn't matter. The majority has spoken, so I'll just stick to chatting by my lonesome.[/quote] Well I personally don't have a problem with you but I have heard the stories. I'm all about positive energy and I'll be honest the jury is still out on somethings you have been accused of. I can seee that you really reaching out and me being a Christian, I would be wrong to judge and hold a grudge. So with that being said I'll extend the olive branch and welcome you my cyber friendship if it means anything to you. *cyberhug*[/quote] I don't even know what's going on since I am so new here but that was sweet![/quote] You know I'm the YBF peacemaker but I goes hard for my FAM and make no bones about it. I love all who wants to be loved *cyberhugs to everyone reading this*[/quote] I just have a question: *After scrolling last week and damn near developing carpal tunnel* : Why did you pin point me out as the person who stole Rainy's identity?? How demonic would that be???...I wouldn't even do that. Nor do have the time or boredom to do so. When I post, I post with my own gravi. People on here have been known that I obsess over my gravi and change it every 2 to three days tops. So how odd would it be for me to post under no gravi at all, or Rainy's for that matter? I just think a lot of the finger pointing and hear say is childish and ridiculous. And I just wanted to know why all of this is centered around me. Is there no possible way that a blogger has a vendetta towards me? I do watch Law & Order. This whole fiasco is new to me.[/quote] Well like I said I have heard the stories. Some concerning you and Rainy too. And as I stated that day what sealed the deal for me was when I saw the :???: emotioncon and I only saw you use that one. I only remember because I was scrolling trying to figure out how do ALL the emotioncons and I saw one I never saw and I quoted it from you. Now there is a possibility that someone else did it yes and for that reason I am willing to put the past in the past and move forward I also apologized offered friendship that day which is why I am offering again today. I hope that answers your questions and ends this convo because I really would like to move forward.[/quote] Yep. ---> :? Guess I'll have to banish any usage of emoticons if I don't want to be accussed of something I haven't done. :roll: _________ Moving Forward.
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[quote comment="301113"][quote comment="301110"][quote comment="301091"][quote comment="301059"][quote comment="301046"][quote comment="301029"][quote comment="301023"]Get ya tubes tied![/quote] :shock: Oooookay?!?! Heeeey you!!!! Drink plently of tea w/lemon and gargle with salt and water! (what Momma always told me!)[/quote] Hey mama! Imma do all of that and some later cuz I can't do being sick! Anyhoo, don't mean to be harsh but it just upsets me sometimes that my sista's get pregnant for BUMS! Like, didn't you see that when you were laying w/ him? And now these kids are growing up w/o their fathers. It's just sad. I'm 29 and my ex and I bumped into each other (while in JA) and he's like, yuh nuh have no pickney yet? I'm like "No, when I find a man that puts me in a house for his future son/daughter then I'll have plenty of babies." He's like "no no, you ain't gonna have none then, you better hurry up cuz ya clock is ticking." All I'm thinking is, this fool got 3 kids, by 3 different chicks. Granted he financially takes care of every last one of them and the mothers, but he's out in the street, he ain't spending time w/ them and I don't want that. I want a man that gets pleasure from being a father and spending time w/ his kid(s). As women, we have to learn seperate a good f*ck from the bum that he is. If that means I won't be having kids than so be it. Don't mean to offend anyone, I know there's a lot of mom's on this blog. I just hate to see the outcome of bad choices that affect the kids that come from it.[/quote] I know what you mean and sometimes you are just caught up in the moment. Trust me that is no excuse. With my 1st son, we were together for 4 years before I got preg and of course he wasn't planned but I never expected for us to end. Now with my 2nd son, I was in love and engaged months before I got preg. But I know plenty of women that get pregnant by these losers. Some don't show their true colors until the woman is preg but we have to do better by wrapping it up and taking our birth control.[/quote] Another thing and I'll be finished my rant. A lot of people (not talking about any specifically) will say well you should've been married, etc. That isnt a guartanee than a man will be a good father, provider, etc. My best friend was married for seven years. The two children that she had with her husband were planned. She took care of him and home. She never suspected anything and found underwear in his car. She confronted him and the next morning he was gone. She couldnt find him. After a few months he popped back up. In total its been almost two years since he walked out and he still hasnt given her a dime for their children. Yes women need to make better choices, but parents need to raise BETTER MEN![/quote] It's a never ending cycle...men need to step up to the plate but how can they if they don't know how...it seems like it goes on and on and on.[/quote] And one thing women need to stop doing is using their children as pawns. I can't stand that. They are hurting their child. If they don't get enough child support, they want to say that the father can never see the child. I mean at least he is trying to be a father. UGH! That annoys me so much! If I would have been that chick, my son would have never seen his father after age 2.[/quote] Now that right there is soooo depressing. The family court...I dunno who in there right mind would love going through that bs!!!! Only time i went was when my dads father felt he needed to get at me and ask for custody of my son and took me to court where the judge laughed in his face and threw the case out....the judge in turn asked if i wanted to go through with child support or will we work it out amongst ourselves and I said yes we.....he does or he doesn't is his damn business....I aint going through with no damn child support case and taking off every min to go to court....hell nah!!!!
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lessssssssssssssssssssssss i missed you
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I'm sorry... my son is Fresh.

I'm sorry... my son is Fresh.
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