[quote comment="346604"][quote comment="346587"][quote comment="346580"]Oh wow I tell you about these HATERS!!![/quote] they are outta control..just ignore[/quote] I know right Like I said HATERS!!! If they wasn't hating, they wouldn't be all in Me, Sai, or Jpeezy grill right? Lol[/quote] sky check your email!

[quote comment="346732"][quote comment="346712"][quote comment="346702"]HEAVEN....LAWD HAVE MERCY!! :shock:[/quote] Foley!Missed ya today![/quote] I missed you too BB!!! What's been goin on while i've been gone? (My firm has its holiday party tonight and I had to pick up some things ;-) ) Heaven..do what you have to do, but don't disgrace yourself in the process. If he doesn't value you enough to be honest with you, then let his behind go sistah. You are too classy for that. Don't leave him with a bang, cuz that will only make it easier for him to move to the next broad and cancel you out of his memory. Leave his azz stunned. You just end it nonchalantly and leave with your dignity and respect. That will hurt him more because he will then realize what he has screwed up. Pack his crap, leave it at the door, and keep it moving. Your midnight will come along, Inshallah and all you need to do is focus on you. Triflin brotha he is..sad such a shame our brothas are so deceitful. *Cyberhugs*[/quote] YES!!! Girl, nothing hurts them more than when you deal with them nonchalantly. If you have to completely stop talking to him that's what I would do. I did that once and that cut that man like a knife. They like to go through all the crying and cussing and clowning because they think that it means you care, but when you just stun them with silence...it messes them up.

[quote comment="346461"][quote comment="346454"]Here we go w/ ppl beasting, acting like u was talkin bout they own kids[/quote] LOL[/quote] lmao

[quote comment="346599"][quote comment="346585"][quote comment="346575"][quote comment="346552"]*Goes back in time*[/quote] Glammmmmm!!! How are you??? How are the boys???[/quote] Hey Kimmy Kim Kim!!! Ty is sick with a bad cold and Karter is fine kickin my insides! How are you?[/quote] KIMMY!!!!!!!!!!!! How you durin???[/quote] Hey Christin!!!! I'm good, how about you????

[quote comment="346747"][quote comment="346743"][quote comment="346735"][quote comment="346730"]Im trying to figure out what group he is in....Hmmmm[/quote] I THINK THAT IT MAY BE SOMEBODY FROM NEW EDITION [/quote] I was thinking that too.. But you know last time I heard all of them were married.[/quote] not ronnie[/quote] Ronnie is married to Shamari Fears from Blaque.

[quote comment="346456"][quote comment="346439"][quote comment="346422"][quote comment="346404"][quote comment="346393"][quote comment="346388"][quote comment="346377"][quote comment="346371"][quote comment="346356"][quote comment="346339"][quote comment="346329"][quote comment="346322"][quote comment="346312"]Is slim going to be on Making the Band 5? I saw a flyer someplace.[/quote] What kind of talent is that man Diddy looking for on MTB5? Is it gonna be a girl/guy singing group? I feel like thats the only one he hasnt done yet[/quote] no he's looking for individual talent this time[/quote] then hows it gonna be a band lol[/quote] i dunno...i guess he don't want to change the name since their about to be 5 seasons deep[/quote] Yeah right. I bet at the end it'll be a replacement for Danity Kane. And he did a girl/guy group in the MTB 2. But it was a hip hop/singing group.[/quote] MTB2 was the BEST making the band ever..LMAO *thinking bout dylan*[/quote] HAHA 'Who are the 5 best rappers of all time? Dylan, Dylan, Dylan, Dylan and Dylan' LMAO[/quote] LMAO..that's exactly wat popped in my head..LOL!!! u remeber Mysterious????[/quote] Sooo mad we all thought of the same thing at the same time![/quote] OMG DIDDY PLAYED HER, REMEMBER WHEN THEY HAD TO TAKE HER OUT IN THE AMBULANCE. PURE HILARITY, BUT HER RHYMES WERE KINDA TIGHT THO [/quote] LMAO...LMAO..no she looked maad scared wen he brought babs back...i remember when she flipped out wen she wasn't picked..LMAO[/quote] THEY HAD SHOWED IT IN SLO MO AND EVERYTHING, SHE BROKE THE GLASS, WILING OUT [/quote] LMAO..yup and they had the sound effects too...LMAO

MONICA AND BRANDY.......ALWAYS WILL BE MY FAVORITES.....P.S. GUESS THE BOY WASNT THERE'S CUZ THEY BOTH AINT GET EM..........I CALL FOR ANOTHER DUET....WHO IS WITH ME

[quote comment="346744"][quote comment="346681"][quote comment="346652"][quote comment="346648"][quote comment="346644"]Hey @ GQ & Dame........ @ Everyone else.....I'm sure I will have a really good story for ya'll tomorrow..... I'm really thinking about leaving my so-called bf on the side of the road.....(he's visiting from ATL)....or just packing his shit and throwing it out the door, and letting him figure out how to get back home...I"M NOT PLAYING!![/quote] Ohhhhh snap!!! Girl...what he do???[/quote] Details detailssssssss[/quote] Ok...backstory.....my BF (and i use that term loosely) is a singer in a group...and yes you know the group...Well, we first met 16 years ago...only dated a short time....We happen to run into each other this past August and from that day he has been telling me that he wants me to be with him...and not to be dating other guys....Because unlike his ass..i'm honest and told him that i didn't consider us exclusive...i didn't completely trust him because of his lifestyle....So...to try and prove to me that he is serious, he's been staying at my place when he's not at a show....And I have been going to almost all of the shows with him....so fine, i'm starting to actually believe that he really cares and trying not to sterotype....But this fool left his phone out and this morning i decided to look at his texts...there were a few suspect ones...but one in particular where this girl is fighting with him.....she wants to break it off because he isn't coming to see here anymore and whatnot.....but then he tells her...I wasn't with anybody on thanksgiving...i don't know why u think i'm some kind of gigolo......He was with me on Thanksgiving...at one of his shows......So....now i'm trying to figure out the best way to get rid of him.....We were supposed to drive to New Orleans on Sat because he has a show on Sunday....and i was going to act like everything is ok.....but pull over somewhere in the middle of nowhere and ask him to go inside the store and get me a soda....but while he's doing that..i was going to throw his shit out of my car and drive back home........OR i was going to go back to my place tonight and just throw him outside and tell him to figure it out....Les/Foley...i will email you my myspace so u know who i'm talking about...I know u can email the other regular girls on here the info....i just don't want everyone else knowing who we talking about.[/quote] Ok, see this is the ish i love! Do you know how i caught my ex cheating? I knew he would NEVER bring no one to my house because my girlfriend (the one with the 6 kids & 5 babyfathers but that's another story, lol) & everytime they heard footsteps down the hallway 1 of them kids would open their door and peek out so he knew he would be automatically busted. So i had a video camera (cuz i didn't have a tape recorder) & i put it under my bed and left it on record & i heard him on the phone with the next chick!!! I guess she was sick & her throat was hurting her (cuz i can't hear her side of the convo) so then he said to her "How about i come over there and slide my dykk down your throat to make it feel better" !!!!!!!!!!!! Guhrl, threw him right out that night. Then when he took too long to come get the rest of is house - i "donated" his clothes to the homeless shelter! Heaven, i need more details, is it YOUR car that you guys are going to take on the road trip? And do you still have the phone? If you do, send the text to your phone but then you have to go into the "Sent" box and erase it when your done.[/quote] See I always felt that once I got to the point that I felt I needed to get a video camera or a tape recorded for my man, it was time for him to go!!! As women we have instincts...I dont feel I need the proof. Unless he was my husband and I need that for court!! lol

[quote comment="346447"] ILL B BACK GONNA TAKE LUNCH [/quote] Bye Sai!

YBFers!!! I just saw Seven Pounds with Will Smith!!!! OMFG this is without a doubt the best movie I have ever seen! You MUST watch it!! Ok, back to normal mode. Jaden has some damn big feet haha! Funny funny. He's cool, but he has GOT to cut his hair, I liked the afro in the pursuit of hapiness! Anyways, don't care about brandy or monica. Brandy is so corny and Monica's career has been dead since the boy is mine got off the charts..

[quote comment="346446"][quote comment="346442"][quote comment="346425"][quote comment="346395"][quote comment="346264"]Am I the ONLY one who this Jaden is obnoxious?!! He looks like a jerk in the making (not to talk ish about someone under 18)[/quote] No, you're not alone. He's cute, but I find him very annoying. It's great to have a confident child, but he is beyond confident...more like arrogant.[/quote] Honestly he's got enough fam rep and cash flow to be so. But it's going to make him un appealing as a person. *pulling out my crystal ball I see....Diddy to the tenth power. :lol:[/quote] Oh no, not Diddy! Diddy is the Devil where are you?! We need you to perform an exorcism and a new count-down.[/quote] He is! He's gonna have one of those fan-nasty attitudes.[/quote] LOL @fan-nasty. Seriously, in the last pic of Jaden...I just want to take a wooden-spoon and pop him on his lips. Knock him down a few pegs.

Jaden is too cute

[quote comment="346744"][quote comment="346681"][quote comment="346652"][quote comment="346648"][quote comment="346644"]Hey @ GQ & Dame........ @ Everyone else.....I'm sure I will have a really good story for ya'll tomorrow..... I'm really thinking about leaving my so-called bf on the side of the road.....(he's visiting from ATL)....or just packing his shit and throwing it out the door, and letting him figure out how to get back home...I"M NOT PLAYING!![/quote] Ohhhhh snap!!! Girl...what he do???[/quote] Details detailssssssss[/quote] Ok...backstory.....my BF (and i use that term loosely) is a singer in a group...and yes you know the group...Well, we first met 16 years ago...only dated a short time....We happen to run into each other this past August and from that day he has been telling me that he wants me to be with him...and not to be dating other guys....Because unlike his ass..i'm honest and told him that i didn't consider us exclusive...i didn't completely trust him because of his lifestyle....So...to try and prove to me that he is serious, he's been staying at my place when he's not at a show....And I have been going to almost all of the shows with him....so fine, i'm starting to actually believe that he really cares and trying not to sterotype....But this fool left his phone out and this morning i decided to look at his texts...there were a few suspect ones...but one in particular where this girl is fighting with him.....she wants to break it off because he isn't coming to see here anymore and whatnot.....but then he tells her...I wasn't with anybody on thanksgiving...i don't know why u think i'm some kind of gigolo......He was with me on Thanksgiving...at one of his shows......So....now i'm trying to figure out the best way to get rid of him.....We were supposed to drive to New Orleans on Sat because he has a show on Sunday....and i was going to act like everything is ok.....but pull over somewhere in the middle of nowhere and ask him to go inside the store and get me a soda....but while he's doing that..i was going to throw his shit out of my car and drive back home........OR i was going to go back to my place tonight and just throw him outside and tell him to figure it out....Les/Foley...i will email you my myspace so u know who i'm talking about...I know u can email the other regular girls on here the info....i just don't want everyone else knowing who we talking about.[/quote] Ok, see this is the ish i love! Do you know how i caught my ex cheating? I knew he would NEVER bring no one to my house because my girlfriend (the one with the 6 kids & 5 babyfathers but that's another story, lol) & everytime they heard footsteps down the hallway 1 of them kids would open their door and peek out so he knew he would be automatically busted. So i had a video camera (cuz i didn't have a tape recorder) & i put it under my bed and left it on record & i heard him on the phone with the next chick!!! I guess she was sick & her throat was hurting her (cuz i can't hear her side of the convo) so then he said to her "How about i come over there and slide my dykk down your throat to make it feel better" !!!!!!!!!!!! Guhrl, threw him right out that night. Then when he took too long to come get the rest of is house - i "donated" his clothes to the homeless shelter! Heaven, i need more details, is it YOUR car that you guys are going to take on the road trip? And do you still have the phone? If you do, send the text to your phone but then you have to go into the "Sent" box and erase it when your done.[/quote] dang...i hate that both of yall had to find out like that! :(

[quote comment="346269"][quote comment="346233"]Jaden is a cutie. Love Brandy and Monica![/quote] ME TOO BOTH LADIES LOOK GORGEOUS, AND THAT DAMN CUTIE JADEN, HE KNOWS HE IS GONNA BE GETTING ALL THE LADIES WHEN HE GETS OLDER, AND JADA IS GONNA B BEATING THEM OFF WITH FLY SWATTERS.:lol: [/quote] oooh what!!!!! no negative comments about children this time around. I hope you ate ur Wheatie you gonna need the energy. and they say a good healthy diet makes your hair grow,maybe you can get back those edges.

[quote comment="346750"][quote comment="346741"][quote comment="346723"][quote comment="346704"]@ HEAVEN JUST GIVING YOU A HUGS. I THINK YOU SHOULD BE UP FRONT LIKE YOU HAVE BEEN THIS WHOLE TIME AND PUT HIS A** OUT...IF YOU WANT I CAN COME SING IN THE BACKGROUND! WOOO WOO WOO YOU DID HER WRONG AOOAOA AND WE KNOW THE TRUTH ♫♫♫ KC STYLE[/quote] Rainy..u so silly!!!! I'm just so mad because when we first met back up in August...We had a serious convo....I told him not to play games with me because I had just lost my dad, and was having a very hard time...and that i couldn't deal with someone who couldnt be truthful with me...And he sat there and promised me that he was serious and wasn't trying to play no games....It doesn't make me feel better that he's with me but playing another chick....that's not cool. I'm going to call her tomorrow to let her know how trifling he is.[/quote] Those damn people just left my office so I just got a chance to read this!!! Sorry to hear about your dad. WHAT THE HECK IS WRONG WITH THESE MEN???? Is it too much to ask that they be honest??? Always wanna have their cake and eat it too. SMH...I feel for you mama but better that you found out now.[/quote] Thanks...To everybody....And Foley u r right...I think i am going to go home and just tell him it's not working out and he needs to leave.....Make him wonder...[/quote] AND I HOPE U REALLY DO THIS AND DON'T FALL FOR THE TENDER KISSES AND SWEET MELODIES HE IS GOING TO TRY AND WOO U WITH, DON'T BREAK

[quote comment="346473"]YBFers!!! I just saw Seven Pounds with Will Smith!!!! OMFG this is without a doubt the best movie I have ever seen! You MUST watch it!! Ok, back to normal mode. Jaden has some damn big feet haha! Funny funny. He's cool, but he has GOT to cut his hair, I liked the afro in the pursuit of hapiness! Anyways, don't care about brandy or monica. Brandy is so corny and Monica's career has been dead since the boy is mine got off the charts..[/quote] EVER SEEN? Damn. I gotta go see it...

I never post, just read comments but I couldn't help posting now that I'd be in the top 10! (Hopefully)

[quote comment="346750"][quote comment="346741"][quote comment="346723"][quote comment="346704"]@ HEAVEN JUST GIVING YOU A HUGS. I THINK YOU SHOULD BE UP FRONT LIKE YOU HAVE BEEN THIS WHOLE TIME AND PUT HIS A** OUT...IF YOU WANT I CAN COME SING IN THE BACKGROUND! WOOO WOO WOO YOU DID HER WRONG AOOAOA AND WE KNOW THE TRUTH ♫♫♫ KC STYLE[/quote] Rainy..u so silly!!!! I'm just so mad because when we first met back up in August...We had a serious convo....I told him not to play games with me because I had just lost my dad, and was having a very hard time...and that i couldn't deal with someone who couldnt be truthful with me...And he sat there and promised me that he was serious and wasn't trying to play no games....It doesn't make me feel better that he's with me but playing another chick....that's not cool. I'm going to call her tomorrow to let her know how trifling he is.[/quote] Those damn people just left my office so I just got a chance to read this!!! Sorry to hear about your dad. WHAT THE HECK IS WRONG WITH THESE MEN???? Is it too much to ask that they be honest??? Always wanna have their cake and eat it too. SMH...I feel for you mama but better that you found out now.[/quote] Thanks...To everybody....And Foley u r right...I think i am going to go home and just tell him it's not working out and he needs to leave.....Make him wonder...[/quote] You're welcome Heaven! Pray about it and then do what is in your heart. *cyberhugs*

damn, messed up the gravi! it's me though!

[quote comment="346744"][quote comment="346681"][quote comment="346652"][quote comment="346648"][quote comment="346644"]Hey @ GQ & Dame........ @ Everyone else.....I'm sure I will have a really good story for ya'll tomorrow..... I'm really thinking about leaving my so-called bf on the side of the road.....(he's visiting from ATL)....or just packing his shit and throwing it out the door, and letting him figure out how to get back home...I"M NOT PLAYING!![/quote] Ohhhhh snap!!! Girl...what he do???[/quote] Details detailssssssss[/quote] Ok...backstory.....my BF (and i use that term loosely) is a singer in a group...and yes you know the group...Well, we first met 16 years ago...only dated a short time....We happen to run into each other this past August and from that day he has been telling me that he wants me to be with him...and not to be dating other guys....Because unlike his ass..i'm honest and told him that i didn't consider us exclusive...i didn't completely trust him because of his lifestyle....So...to try and prove to me that he is serious, he's been staying at my place when he's not at a show....And I have been going to almost all of the shows with him....so fine, i'm starting to actually believe that he really cares and trying not to sterotype....But this fool left his phone out and this morning i decided to look at his texts...there were a few suspect ones...but one in particular where this girl is fighting with him.....she wants to break it off because he isn't coming to see here anymore and whatnot.....but then he tells her...I wasn't with anybody on thanksgiving...i don't know why u think i'm some kind of gigolo......He was with me on Thanksgiving...at one of his shows......So....now i'm trying to figure out the best way to get rid of him.....We were supposed to drive to New Orleans on Sat because he has a show on Sunday....and i was going to act like everything is ok.....but pull over somewhere in the middle of nowhere and ask him to go inside the store and get me a soda....but while he's doing that..i was going to throw his shit out of my car and drive back home........OR i was going to go back to my place tonight and just throw him outside and tell him to figure it out....Les/Foley...i will email you my myspace so u know who i'm talking about...I know u can email the other regular girls on here the info....i just don't want everyone else knowing who we talking about.[/quote] Ok, see this is the ish i love! Do you know how i caught my ex cheating? I knew he would NEVER bring no one to my house because my girlfriend (the one with the 6 kids & 5 babyfathers but that's another story, lol) & everytime they heard footsteps down the hallway 1 of them kids would open their door and peek out so he knew he would be automatically busted. So i had a video camera (cuz i didn't have a tape recorder) & i put it under my bed and left it on record & i heard him on the phone with the next chick!!! I guess she was sick & her throat was hurting her (cuz i can't hear her side of the convo) so then he said to her "How about i come over there and slide my dykk down your throat to make it feel better" !!!!!!!!!!!! Guhrl, threw him right out that night. Then when he took too long to come get the rest of is house - i "donated" his clothes to the homeless shelter! Heaven, i need more details, is it YOUR car that you guys are going to take on the road trip? And do you still have the phone? If you do, send the text to your phone but then you have to go into the "Sent" box and erase it when your done.[/quote] Yeah it's my car.......Actually we were going to fly....My friend has alot of miles and was going to buy me a ticket so i wouldn't have to drive...the only problem was that his ticket was bought by the shows promoter and it was a roundtrip from Atlanta....Well he wanted to change the city and they were going to charge some crazy fee...so i told him we could drive...I took down her number so even if he doesn't leave his phone out, i would have it.

Nah but seriously I hope everything works out for you Heaven. You deserve wayyyyyyy better!!

[quote comment="346467"][quote comment="346434"]ChiLady you here?? yeah stick colombus short hun...I see you. You have nothin LOCKED DOWN!!!![/quote] LOL!!! I am too mad at you for hunting me down to tell me that...lol!! You got me laughing out loud at my desk over that, and you know that we been getting along so good today...[/quote] Love goes haaaaard for her Kanye...so sleep with one eye open tonight :lol:

[quote comment="346474"][quote comment="346446"][quote comment="346442"][quote comment="346425"][quote comment="346395"][quote comment="346264"]Am I the ONLY one who this Jaden is obnoxious?!! He looks like a jerk in the making (not to talk ish about someone under 18)[/quote] No, you're not alone. He's cute, but I find him very annoying. It's great to have a confident child, but he is beyond confident...more like arrogant.[/quote] Honestly he's got enough fam rep and cash flow to be so. But it's going to make him un appealing as a person. *pulling out my crystal ball I see....Diddy to the tenth power. :lol:[/quote] Oh no, not Diddy! Diddy is the Devil where are you?! We need you to perform an exorcism and a new count-down.[/quote] He is! He's gonna have one of those fan-nasty attitudes.[/quote] LOL @fan-nasty. Seriously, in the last pic of Jaden...I just want to take a wooden-spoon and pop him on his lips. Knock him down a few pegs.[/quote] LMAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAOOOOOO!!! You tryin to kill me!!! :lol:

[quote comment="346473"]YBFers!!! I just saw Seven Pounds with Will Smith!!!! OMFG this is without a doubt the best movie I have ever seen! You MUST watch it!! Ok, back to normal mode. Jaden has some damn big feet haha! Funny funny. He's cool, but he has GOT to cut his hair, I liked the afro in the pursuit of hapiness! Anyways, don't care about brandy or monica. Brandy is so corny and Monica's career has been dead since the boy is mine got off the charts..[/quote] i wanna see that, but ima wait till it's uploaded online

[quote comment="346452"][quote comment="346408"][quote comment="346379"]Personally I would have Ms. Patti sing for me, but I like that he selected an older, experienced Icon. I do respect the work Beyonce did to get the vote out though. It was really classy.[/quote] Did you hear Patti this morning on the Steve Harvey show with the brown liquor song? "You are my Friend" gave me chills....Patti is the truth!![/quote] Heeey Chilady! I can't get with all the hollerin and screamin...but when she controls her voice she is AMAZING...some great Patti songs are "Love and Need and Want You", "If Only you Knew" and "My Love, Sweet Love". "On My Own" with Michael McDonald and "The Best is Yet to Come" with Grover Washington but my faaave is "I'm in Love Again".[/quote] Heeeyyy Kimmy!!! Girl, you gone make me youtube "On My Own" with Michael McDonald. That was one of my favorites, but what about "When you've been blessed," "Somebody Loves You, Baby" and countless others. Patti goes hard. I love her, screaming and all!!