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Zoe Kravitz and Wyclef and others are chillin' in Utah for the Sundance Movie Festival. And the two got their dance on. And Christina Milian and KeKe Palmer are out there looking fab too. More pics when you read the rest.... Zoe looked cute in her usual grungy way. And kicked it with Adrienne Bailon at another event. Erica Alexander made an appearance at Sundance.  Is she pregnant? Christina kicked it in the Gatorade room. KeKe Palmer did a fab pictorial shoot. And down in Miami, the Mournings had fun at Zo's King Pin Classic to benefit Honeyshine Mentoring Program at Lucky Strike Lanes: Aww. D. Wade was there. And a cute look for Tracey. The Randomness: 1.  Taraji P. Henson is talking about her Oscar nomination. Story
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♫WE ARE LIVING SINGLE...OOOoo

♫WE ARE LIVING SINGLE...OOOoo in a 90's kind of world, I'm glad I got my girls!♪♫ I LOVE ERICA's character on Living SIngle "Maxine" she's my favorite, matter of fact I'm about 2 watch that show in a minute.
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I loves Erica Alexandra as

I loves Erica Alexandra as Max on Living Single. Is it me or does she look like she hasn't aged 1 day?
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keke looks old

keke looks old
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:-) christina milian my girl

:-) christina milian my girl your so pretty sorry,if tasha always post u when you are chillin and never doing promotion of your new album girl (when "bey trailer is first on an article :-( ) love you girl keep doing your thing !!! xoxo
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[quote comment="396404"][quote comment="396379"][quote comment="396352"][quote comment="396343"][quote comment="396324"]Hey ya'll. Just peeking in for a few. I sent Thank you shout-outs to your e-mail.[/quote] Heeeeeey Lady! I'm going to FB you because I don't have your email.[/quote] No!!!!!!!!!! it's mmschel at yahoo. Some one forward to Kimmy the e-mails.[/quote] YOU SHOULD BE ASHAMED OF YOURSELF CHEATING ON YOUR HUSBAND SOMEONE WOMEN DONT HAVE ONE. AND IF THE RELATIONSHIP IS THAT BAD YOU SHOULD JUST LEAVE. YOU ARE DISREPECTING THE VALUE OF MARRIAGE AND THEY LADIES THAT SIT HERE AND TALK ABOUT ALICIA AND DWADE ARE THE SAME ONES CONDONING WHAT YOU DID ITS CRAZY. YA'LL DONT KNOW THEIR SITUATION JUST LIKE YOU MAY SAY I DONT KNOW HERS BUT THERE IS NEVER A GOOD REASON TO DISREPECT THE UNION OF GOD.[/quote] And last time I checked I don't have to answer to you. I have to stand before God and nobody else. Get outta my business if I din't invite u in. lonely bitch![/quote] HOLD ON NOW. YEA ITS NONE OF HER BUSINESS, AND NOT OURS EITHER. I DONT KNOW THE STORY BUT DANG, YOU IN HERE TALKING ABOUT HOW YOU CHEATED ON YOUR HUSBAND, WITH YOUR REAL? 9ICTURE AS YOUR GRAVI? UUUM OK. IF THAT REALLY IS YOU, HOW DUMB CAN YOU BE. SOMEONE THAT MIGHT KNOW YOU OR YOUR HUBBY GO AND TELL HIM WHAT YOU DISCUSSING IN HERE.
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[quote comment="396387"][quote comment="396356"]EVERYONE LOOKS GOOD EXCEPT ERICA GET IT TOGETHER, IM SURE YOU CAN DO BETTER![/quote] the truth hurts HUH Now you do better an go bury that gravi[/quote] THAT WAS MEAN. AND UNCALLED FOR. YOU CAN CLOWN THE GIRL, BUT THAT WAS VERY MEAN TO SAY THAT ABOUT HER DECEASED CHILD. HOW HORRIBLE.
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LMAO!!!!!!!!

LMAO!!!!!!!!
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[quote comment="396591"][quote comment="396552"]LADIES! I never post on here but had to this time: Yes, you probably shouldn't have posted that info but guess what? it's YOUR right to do that if you want. Secondly, WE as women need to strengthen each other, stop cussing at each other (so unatractive) and help each other, the most hated species in america is a BLACK woman! We are proving them right everytime just mortifying each other. Listen, I love you all no matter what! I'm married 6 years and it aint easy, I got stories to write a book but I surround myself with women that love me, guide me, strengthen me and help me get back on the right path when needed. We need to heal from the past, we all make mistakes...AMENNNNNNN...and I'm out![/quote] I agree with you. I think alot of women's issues from the past (and certainly present) is from women not being able to express themselves. Secrets can kill. If not the body then definitely the spirit. Incest, Rape, Medical issues, etc. woman have been holding there tongues too long. When people talk over their issues maybe they can find an answer, another point of view or just plain support. I may not agree with someone's life but you always gotta walk a mile in one's shoe before you judge. It's so easy to sit back and claim "I would never do this, I would never do that" but you NEVER know till you're in that situation.[/quote] Yeah cause I surely needed to let go of all the things that's been going on....anywho I'm off to the hairdresser... I dont have to look like shit, even if I feel like shit!!! I'll holla at ya'll later.... Lves ya'll~~~
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[quote comment="396591"][quote comment="396552"]LADIES! I never post on here but had to this time: Yes, you probably shouldn't have posted that info but guess what? it's YOUR right to do that if you want. Secondly, WE as women need to strengthen each other, stop cussing at each other (so unatractive) and help each other, the most hated species in america is a BLACK woman! We are proving them right everytime just mortifying each other. Listen, I love you all no matter what! I'm married 6 years and it aint easy, I got stories to write a book but I surround myself with women that love me, guide me, strengthen me and help me get back on the right path when needed. We need to heal from the past, we all make mistakes...AMENNNNNNN...and I'm out![/quote] I agree with you. I think alot of women's issues from the past (and certainly present) is from women not being able to express themselves. Secrets can kill. If not the body then definitely the spirit. Incest, Rape, Medical issues, etc. woman have been holding there tongues too long. When people talk over their issues maybe they can find an answer, another point of view or just plain support. I may not agree with someone's life but you always gotta walk a mile in one's shoe before you judge. It's so easy to sit back and claim "I would never do this, I would never do that" but you NEVER know till you're in that situation.[/quote] i agree with you 100%. i love that eveyone has different opinions on here and i like that people come on here and discuss their problems. it's hard to always talk to your friends and family and sometimes it's easier just to get it out to a group of people that don't know you or your situation. it's refreshing to know someone may be going thru the samething as me!
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[quote comment="396591"][quote comment="396552"]LADIES! I never post on here but had to this time: Yes, you probably shouldn't have posted that info but guess what? it's YOUR right to do that if you want. Secondly, WE as women need to strengthen each other, stop cussing at each other (so unatractive) and help each other, the most hated species in america is a BLACK woman! We are proving them right everytime just mortifying each other. Listen, I love you all no matter what! I'm married 6 years and it aint easy, I got stories to write a book but I surround myself with women that love me, guide me, strengthen me and help me get back on the right path when needed. We need to heal from the past, we all make mistakes...AMENNNNNNN...and I'm out![/quote] I agree with you. I think alot of women's issues from the past (and certainly present) is from women not being able to express themselves. Secrets can kill. If not the body then definitely the spirit. Incest, Rape, Medical issues, etc. woman have been holding there tongues too long. When people talk over their issues maybe they can find an answer, another point of view or just plain support. I may not agree with someone's life but you always gotta walk a mile in one's shoe before you judge. It's so easy to sit back and claim "I would never do this, I would never do that" but you NEVER know till you're in that situation.[/quote] PREACH!!! That's why I try not to judge and I look at things from both sides.
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[quote comment="396591"][quote comment="396552"]LADIES! I never post on here but had to this time: Yes, you probably shouldn't have posted that info but guess what? it's YOUR right to do that if you want. Secondly, WE as women need to strengthen each other, stop cussing at each other (so unatractive) and help each other, the most hated species in america is a BLACK woman! We are proving them right everytime just mortifying each other. Listen, I love you all no matter what! I'm married 6 years and it aint easy, I got stories to write a book but I surround myself with women that love me, guide me, strengthen me and help me get back on the right path when needed. We need to heal from the past, we all make mistakes...AMENNNNNNN...and I'm out![/quote] I agree with you. I think alot of women's issues from the past (and certainly present) is from women not being able to express themselves. Secrets can kill. If not the body then definitely the spirit. Incest, Rape, Medical issues, etc. woman have been holding there tongues too long. When people talk over their issues maybe they can find an answer, another point of view or just plain support. I may not agree with someone's life but you always gotta walk a mile in one's shoe before you judge. It's so easy to sit back and claim "I would never do this, I would never do that" but you NEVER know till you're in that situation.[/quote] TRUE STATEMENT! Let's all move on and check the new post...lol..so I can go back into hiding...lmao...
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[quote comment="396595"]*yawns* New post yet??[/quote] yes
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[quote comment="396573"][quote comment="396544"][quote comment="396530"][quote comment="396515"][quote comment="396502"][quote comment="396487"][quote comment="396449"][quote comment="396395"][quote comment="396382"][quote comment="396358"][quote comment="396333"]D-Wade, D-Wade D-Wade...he still sexy, I dont give a damn what his wife say!!! Zoe be looking like she smoke hella blunts....she stay looking high!! What is do Miss Shaw...I see you rocking the Cowboy hat... Oh and Morning Family!!1[/quote] Hi Bella! How is the little one?? Did you apply for unemployment??[/quote] The baby is fine! I have my 3 month appointment next Friday, so I'll have some updates then....and yes I applied for unemployment, I went to the public aid office on Wednesday to get Medicaid and all that. Them bitches had me fill out the paper and told me they would call me. I'm like so I dont get seen today, the man was like 'do you see all these applications, its a recession, so yes we'll call you when we have something available! I was like damn, well fuck you too![/quote] Thats good to hear (well see) Bella. I hope you get everything straightened out![/quote] Girl I'm trying not to stress out!!! Right now my relationship is very rocky..it seems like we are fighting about money everyday. Our sex life has gone to shams and a part of me wants to move back to Texas. He doesnt want me to move back to Texas because he wants to be with his child, but I feel like there aint no sense of me being up here without no security, cause he cant afford to take care of me and him on just his salary, He keeps want to writ everything down on paper, but I tell him everything looks good on paper...but what about reality. I came to Chicago to get my master's degree....so i have accomplished what I was suppose to do 2 years ago. I just dont feel right depending on no dude to take care of me...I dont give a damn if we are engaged or what...and he cant understand that...he always talking about love this and love that...Shit we cant eat love, I cant pay no bills with love, I cant get my hair done with love...so love goes out the door when aint no money invloved.....me finding a job right now is very questionable because come next month I'm gonna be showing and nobody is gonna hire a pregnant lady... I just have so much on my plate right now![/quote] I feel for you mama! It is hard but try not to stress yourself too much. I'm not married but that is exactly what a partnership is about...you have to learn to let go and lean on your man sometimes, not a damn thing wrong with that, especially at a time like this![/quote] I dont feel comfortable depending on no man to take care of me. For one, he moved in with ME, so MY name is on the lease....the furniture in here is MINE...this MY shit...and I dont want him to take care of me....I've never wanted that. I always had him do shit that I dont want to pay for like buying food (I hate buying groceries), cable bill, getting my hair done... shit like that...plus he got his own bills.... Girl I went from being Miss Independent, to Miss I Need Your Help....and I cant stand it!!1[/quote] But isn't that what a marriage and a partnership is about? Why won't you let him take care of you for awhile? You're pregnant! You could be taking this time to prepare yourself for your baby. Let his ass work two and three jobs. This is YOUR time[/quote] I know this is gonna sound real selfish, but I dont care...I really dont want to give him that control...I cant stand being nice because I feel I have to so that I can get what I need from him....I feel like I'm letting him dictate the control of the MY household...If he pisses me off I want to be able to tell him to take his money and shove it up his ass...and now I cant say or be like that...cause I actually NEED his money.... I just feel useless....I havent even told my daddy that I'm jobless....cause he gonna come up here and get me as soon as I tell him...he is not going to like me being up here without a way to take care of MYSELF!!![/quote] Well marriage and partnership are about compromise. And that doesn't sound like something that you're ready or willing to do right now. Maybe it is best for you to step back and re-evaluate some things in your life. Cuz honestly, you do sound a lil selfish. It's ok to be selfish sometimes, but you're about to have a baby and it's not just about you anymore sweetie.[/quote] Very True. Bella if you said yes to that proposal and you have that ring on your finger, look at it hunny. That right there is a symbol of what is to become the rest of your life. He is stepping to the plate and yes it may seem annoying but let me tell you something. There are many women who wished they had that in their own men in their lives!..[/quote] Foley that don't mean jack shit! I've seen low lives do that all the time because they know they've hit the jackpot w/ a woman who needs them. Not saying bella is dependent on him or calling him a lowlife. But I had a friend who you couldn't tell her SHIT cuz she was married. Guess what tho, she's taking care of him and the kids financially while he sits at home playing vido games. Hell he wouldn't even babysit them AND he won't work. Is that worth it for saying "I's married now?"
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[quote comment="396555"][quote comment="396544"][quote comment="396530"][quote comment="396515"][quote comment="396502"][quote comment="396487"][quote comment="396449"][quote comment="396395"][quote comment="396382"][quote comment="396358"][quote comment="396333"]D-Wade, D-Wade D-Wade...he still sexy, I dont give a damn what his wife say!!! Zoe be looking like she smoke hella blunts....she stay looking high!! What is do Miss Shaw...I see you rocking the Cowboy hat... Oh and Morning Family!!1[/quote] Hi Bella! How is the little one?? Did you apply for unemployment??[/quote] The baby is fine! I have my 3 month appointment next Friday, so I'll have some updates then....and yes I applied for unemployment, I went to the public aid office on Wednesday to get Medicaid and all that. Them bitches had me fill out the paper and told me they would call me. I'm like so I dont get seen today, the man was like 'do you see all these applications, its a recession, so yes we'll call you when we have something available! I was like damn, well fuck you too![/quote] Thats good to hear (well see) Bella. I hope you get everything straightened out![/quote] Girl I'm trying not to stress out!!! Right now my relationship is very rocky..it seems like we are fighting about money everyday. Our sex life has gone to shams and a part of me wants to move back to Texas. He doesnt want me to move back to Texas because he wants to be with his child, but I feel like there aint no sense of me being up here without no security, cause he cant afford to take care of me and him on just his salary, He keeps want to writ everything down on paper, but I tell him everything looks good on paper...but what about reality. I came to Chicago to get my master's degree....so i have accomplished what I was suppose to do 2 years ago. I just dont feel right depending on no dude to take care of me...I dont give a damn if we are engaged or what...and he cant understand that...he always talking about love this and love that...Shit we cant eat love, I cant pay no bills with love, I cant get my hair done with love...so love goes out the door when aint no money invloved.....me finding a job right now is very questionable because come next month I'm gonna be showing and nobody is gonna hire a pregnant lady... I just have so much on my plate right now![/quote] I feel for you mama! It is hard but try not to stress yourself too much. I'm not married but that is exactly what a partnership is about...you have to learn to let go and lean on your man sometimes, not a damn thing wrong with that, especially at a time like this![/quote] I dont feel comfortable depending on no man to take care of me. For one, he moved in with ME, so MY name is on the lease....the furniture in here is MINE...this MY shit...and I dont want him to take care of me....I've never wanted that. I always had him do shit that I dont want to pay for like buying food (I hate buying groceries), cable bill, getting my hair done... shit like that...plus he got his own bills.... Girl I went from being Miss Independent, to Miss I Need Your Help....and I cant stand it!!1[/quote] But isn't that what a marriage and a partnership is about? Why won't you let him take care of you for awhile? You're pregnant! You could be taking this time to prepare yourself for your baby. Let his ass work two and three jobs. This is YOUR time[/quote] I know this is gonna sound real selfish, but I dont care...I really dont want to give him that control...I cant stand being nice because I feel I have to so that I can get what I need from him....I feel like I'm letting him dictate the control of the MY household...If he pisses me off I want to be able to tell him to take his money and shove it up his ass...and now I cant say or be like that...cause I actually NEED his money.... I just feel useless....I havent even told my daddy that I'm jobless....cause he gonna come up here and get me as soon as I tell him...he is not going to like me being up here without a way to take care of MYSELF!!![/quote] Well marriage and partnership are about compromise. And that doesn't sound like something that you're ready or willing to do right now. Maybe it is best for you to step back and re-evaluate some things in your life. Cuz honestly, you do sound a lil selfish. It's ok to be selfish sometimes, but you're about to have a baby and it's not just about you anymore sweetie.[/quote] Am I suppose to compromise my independence because I'm engaged or compromise the fact that I want to be able to take care of myself...I dont feel like its no man's responsibility to take care of no woman....married or not....I feel like he's suppose to take care of his share...but totally take care of everything...NO...It's not equal control if that's happening![/quote] How are you compromising your independence? You're not in a position right now to financial take care of yourself. Do you understand how BLESSED you are to have a man that wants to do that for you? When I was pregnant, I worked and went to school while my son's father sat on his azz and played PS2! I was 7 months before his ass got up and got a job. I WISH I had a man to take care of me a little bit. This is temporary girl. If you're going to be MARRIED it's not just you in the marriage. Just because you can't contribute financially doesn't make you less of an independent person.
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[quote comment="396573"][quote comment="396544"][quote comment="396530"][quote comment="396515"][quote comment="396502"][quote comment="396487"][quote comment="396449"][quote comment="396395"][quote comment="396382"][quote comment="396358"][quote comment="396333"]D-Wade, D-Wade D-Wade...he still sexy, I dont give a damn what his wife say!!! Zoe be looking like she smoke hella blunts....she stay looking high!! What is do Miss Shaw...I see you rocking the Cowboy hat... Oh and Morning Family!!1[/quote] Hi Bella! How is the little one?? Did you apply for unemployment??[/quote] The baby is fine! I have my 3 month appointment next Friday, so I'll have some updates then....and yes I applied for unemployment, I went to the public aid office on Wednesday to get Medicaid and all that. Them bitches had me fill out the paper and told me they would call me. I'm like so I dont get seen today, the man was like 'do you see all these applications, its a recession, so yes we'll call you when we have something available! I was like damn, well fuck you too![/quote] Thats good to hear (well see) Bella. I hope you get everything straightened out![/quote] Girl I'm trying not to stress out!!! Right now my relationship is very rocky..it seems like we are fighting about money everyday. Our sex life has gone to shams and a part of me wants to move back to Texas. He doesnt want me to move back to Texas because he wants to be with his child, but I feel like there aint no sense of me being up here without no security, cause he cant afford to take care of me and him on just his salary, He keeps want to writ everything down on paper, but I tell him everything looks good on paper...but what about reality. I came to Chicago to get my master's degree....so i have accomplished what I was suppose to do 2 years ago. I just dont feel right depending on no dude to take care of me...I dont give a damn if we are engaged or what...and he cant understand that...he always talking about love this and love that...Shit we cant eat love, I cant pay no bills with love, I cant get my hair done with love...so love goes out the door when aint no money invloved.....me finding a job right now is very questionable because come next month I'm gonna be showing and nobody is gonna hire a pregnant lady... I just have so much on my plate right now![/quote] I feel for you mama! It is hard but try not to stress yourself too much. I'm not married but that is exactly what a partnership is about...you have to learn to let go and lean on your man sometimes, not a damn thing wrong with that, especially at a time like this![/quote] I dont feel comfortable depending on no man to take care of me. For one, he moved in with ME, so MY name is on the lease....the furniture in here is MINE...this MY shit...and I dont want him to take care of me....I've never wanted that. I always had him do shit that I dont want to pay for like buying food (I hate buying groceries), cable bill, getting my hair done... shit like that...plus he got his own bills.... Girl I went from being Miss Independent, to Miss I Need Your Help....and I cant stand it!!1[/quote] But isn't that what a marriage and a partnership is about? Why won't you let him take care of you for awhile? You're pregnant! You could be taking this time to prepare yourself for your baby. Let his ass work two and three jobs. This is YOUR time[/quote] I know this is gonna sound real selfish, but I dont care...I really dont want to give him that control...I cant stand being nice because I feel I have to so that I can get what I need from him....I feel like I'm letting him dictate the control of the MY household...If he pisses me off I want to be able to tell him to take his money and shove it up his ass...and now I cant say or be like that...cause I actually NEED his money.... I just feel useless....I havent even told my daddy that I'm jobless....cause he gonna come up here and get me as soon as I tell him...he is not going to like me being up here without a way to take care of MYSELF!!![/quote] Well marriage and partnership are about compromise. And that doesn't sound like something that you're ready or willing to do right now. Maybe it is best for you to step back and re-evaluate some things in your life. Cuz honestly, you do sound a lil selfish. It's ok to be selfish sometimes, but you're about to have a baby and it's not just about you anymore sweetie.[/quote] Very True. Bella if you said yes to that proposal and you have that ring on your finger, look at it hunny. That right there is a symbol of what is to become the rest of your life. He is stepping to the plate and yes it may seem annoying but let me tell you something. There are many women who wished they had that in their own men in their lives!..[/quote] Alright, Alright, LOL!! I do love him and he's a great dude...and he tries very hard to please me...but sometimes that's just not enough...I think I'm more mad at myself...this is not where I envisioned my self at the verge of turning 28. I was suppose to have a career and be be living it up...instead I'm unemployed and pregnant. I dont feel like I'm no better than the broads I see in the street pushing a stroller....I never wanted to be "average" and hell now I feel below.... But once again ya'll always put things into perspective and allow me to come in here and vent.... I love my YBF sisters!!
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*yawns* New post yet??

*yawns* New post yet??
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[quote comment="396552"]LADIES! I never post on here but had to this time: Yes, you probably shouldn't have posted that info but guess what? it's YOUR right to do that if you want. Secondly, WE as women need to strengthen each other, stop cussing at each other (so unatractive) and help each other, the most hated species in america is a BLACK woman! We are proving them right everytime just mortifying each other. Listen, I love you all no matter what! I'm married 6 years and it aint easy, I got stories to write a book but I surround myself with women that love me, guide me, strengthen me and help me get back on the right path when needed. We need to heal from the past, we all make mistakes...AMENNNNNNN...and I'm out![/quote] I agree with you. I think alot of women's issues from the past (and certainly present) is from women not being able to express themselves. Secrets can kill. If not the body then definitely the spirit. Incest, Rape, Medical issues, etc. woman have been holding there tongues too long. When people talk over their issues maybe they can find an answer, another point of view or just plain support. I may not agree with someone's life but you always gotta walk a mile in one's shoe before you judge. It's so easy to sit back and claim "I would never do this, I would never do that" but you NEVER know till you're in that situation.
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[quote comment="396552"]LADIES! I never post on here but had to this time: Yes, you probably shouldn't have posted that info but guess what? it's YOUR right to do that if you want. Secondly, WE as women need to strengthen each other, stop cussing at each other (so unatractive) and help each other, the most hated species in america is a BLACK woman! We are proving them right everytime just mortifying each other. Listen, I love you all no matter what! I'm married 6 years and it aint easy, I got stories to write a book but I surround myself with women that love me, guide me, strengthen me and help me get back on the right path when needed. We need to heal from the past, we all make mistakes...AMENNNNNNN...and I'm out![/quote] Thank you for saying this!! :wink: But I still hope there is a lesson for all of us to learn from that situation. We all are cool w/ one another but at the end of the day, we don't know one another. And it's very DANGEROUS what Mmschel did. I'm not in any way judging her because it's not my place to. However, when you have your gravi up and admit something to STRANGERS, that's a no-no. Ladies, some of us get along cool, some of us have met, some of you know each other personally. There's nothing wrong with seeking advice/opinions, just don't go exposing yourself unless you're ready to deal w/ the consequences, which there will be.
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[quote comment="396565"][quote comment="396552"]LADIES! I never post on here but had to this time: Yes, you probably shouldn't have posted that info but guess what? it's YOUR right to do that if you want. Secondly, WE as women need to strengthen each other, stop cussing at each other (so unatractive) and help each other, the most hated species in america is a BLACK woman! We are proving them right everytime just mortifying each other. Listen, I love you all no matter what! I'm married 6 years and it aint easy, I got stories to write a book but I surround myself with women that love me, guide me, strengthen me and help me get back on the right path when needed. We need to heal from the past, we all make mistakes...AMENNNNNNN...and I'm out![/quote] Gosh Darnit I spelled unattractive wrong! yall know what I meant...giggles & smiles...[/quote] LOL!! Its alright mama..AMMEENN!!
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[quote comment="396563"][quote comment="396552"]LADIES! I never post on here but had to this time: Yes, you probably shouldn't have posted that info but guess what? it's YOUR right to do that if you want. Secondly, WE as women need to strengthen each other, stop cussing at each other (so unatractive) and help each other, the most hated species in america is a BLACK woman! We are proving them right everytime just mortifying each other. Listen, I love you all no matter what! I'm married 6 years and it aint easy, I got stories to write a book but I surround myself with women that love me, guide me, strengthen me and help me get back on the right path when needed. We need to heal from the past, we all make mistakes...AMENNNNNNN...and I'm out![/quote] agrees..but is she stalking b/c she commenting on whats going on but never posts? i think not or is just b/c i disagree with the comments most of the time?[/quote] Are you asking ME y am I posting now? if so, mostly b/c this site is for entertainment so I just view photos BUT I also felt you had a point even though your point may have been a little offensive to her, but I soley replied b/c I'm sick of US attacking each other and going on and on even tho as I said, you said how you felt and that's your right as well. It's not what we say it's how we say it...
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It's alot going on in here

It's alot going on in here today boy!!!!!!!!!!!! I'm about to step out to lunch and ERRBODY better had cyber-kissed and made up by the time I get back, or else I'm giving cyber whippings and paci's to ALL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :P
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[quote comment="396560"][quote comment="396528"][quote comment="396519"][quote comment="396513"][quote comment="396500"][quote comment="396492"][quote comment="396466"]my man is well taken care of thank you, im not on here all day everyday..i do have a life and opinions ya'll dont like it o well. i dont need attention i can comment, no i dont know what is going on in her relationship but i DO know it was dumb to broadcast it with her pic up. like she wanted everyone to know, does she not have ya'lls email???????!!![/quote] okay girl you just came on a little strong! you never know what someone is going through in their life...people do things that can't be explained sometimes. i know i love jesus and am a believer but because i believe i also know i was born a sinner! when you don't agree with someone attempt empathy, if you can't empathize there is always sympathy and prayer. if you truly believe in god please pray for her don't degrade her or anyone else. just wanted to add my two cents...even though no one asked for it.[/quote] Very well said![/quote] i agree with you it just really pissed me off, like i said i hold marriage as something to be highly respected. and i may have come of hard but i will not support or hold my tongue on something that is wrong no matter what the situation. and i said something because she was gloriying it like she was proud. she did nt seem remorseful cause if i did something like that i would not be on here saying how good it was but would be saying "guys i did something terrible and i need to talk to someone" MY OPINION[/quote] Yeah, but just because you dont "cheat" doesnt mean you dont do other things that are wrong....there is NO SIN BIGGER THAN ANOTHER.... hell I think about cheating too...i think its pretty normal!!![/quote] Never did I say I don't sin, none is greater than the other. Like I said MARRIAGE IS A SCARED THING AND OUR COMMUNITY IS THE WORST WHEN IT COMES TO MARRIAGE AND IT MAKES ME UPSET. My mom cheated on my dad, it just hits home. Not apologzing for my opinions, just my approach.[/quote] Well it was the approach that was wrong, just like the poster who took offense to you saying that Kimora's & Djimon baby wouldn't come out too cute if the baby favored Djimon - so that's why they said your gravi pic was ugly. There are ways to go about saying things - as they saying goes "You catch more flies with honey than vinegar".[/quote] LOL!! And I'm laughing at whoever called somebody's gravi pic ugly...that was mean!
southernBella *AKA* My President is Black....'s picture

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[quote comment="396563"][quote comment="396552"]LADIES! I never post on here but had to this time: Yes, you probably shouldn't have posted that info but guess what? it's YOUR right to do that if you want. Secondly, WE as women need to strengthen each other, stop cussing at each other (so unatractive) and help each other, the most hated species in america is a BLACK woman! We are proving them right everytime just mortifying each other. Listen, I love you all no matter what! I'm married 6 years and it aint easy, I got stories to write a book but I surround myself with women that love me, guide me, strengthen me and help me get back on the right path when needed. We need to heal from the past, we all make mistakes...AMENNNNNNN...and I'm out![/quote] agrees..but is she stalking b/c she commenting on whats going on but never posts? i think not or is just b/c i disagree with the comments most of the time?[/quote] No she's a stalker too. Just not a rude one like you :D
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[quote comment="396544"][quote comment="396530"][quote comment="396515"][quote comment="396502"][quote comment="396487"][quote comment="396449"][quote comment="396395"][quote comment="396382"][quote comment="396358"][quote comment="396333"]D-Wade, D-Wade D-Wade...he still sexy, I dont give a damn what his wife say!!! Zoe be looking like she smoke hella blunts....she stay looking high!! What is do Miss Shaw...I see you rocking the Cowboy hat... Oh and Morning Family!!1[/quote] Hi Bella! How is the little one?? Did you apply for unemployment??[/quote] The baby is fine! I have my 3 month appointment next Friday, so I'll have some updates then....and yes I applied for unemployment, I went to the public aid office on Wednesday to get Medicaid and all that. Them bitches had me fill out the paper and told me they would call me. I'm like so I dont get seen today, the man was like 'do you see all these applications, its a recession, so yes we'll call you when we have something available! I was like damn, well fuck you too![/quote] Thats good to hear (well see) Bella. I hope you get everything straightened out![/quote] Girl I'm trying not to stress out!!! Right now my relationship is very rocky..it seems like we are fighting about money everyday. Our sex life has gone to shams and a part of me wants to move back to Texas. He doesnt want me to move back to Texas because he wants to be with his child, but I feel like there aint no sense of me being up here without no security, cause he cant afford to take care of me and him on just his salary, He keeps want to writ everything down on paper, but I tell him everything looks good on paper...but what about reality. I came to Chicago to get my master's degree....so i have accomplished what I was suppose to do 2 years ago. I just dont feel right depending on no dude to take care of me...I dont give a damn if we are engaged or what...and he cant understand that...he always talking about love this and love that...Shit we cant eat love, I cant pay no bills with love, I cant get my hair done with love...so love goes out the door when aint no money invloved.....me finding a job right now is very questionable because come next month I'm gonna be showing and nobody is gonna hire a pregnant lady... I just have so much on my plate right now![/quote] I feel for you mama! It is hard but try not to stress yourself too much. I'm not married but that is exactly what a partnership is about...you have to learn to let go and lean on your man sometimes, not a damn thing wrong with that, especially at a time like this![/quote] I dont feel comfortable depending on no man to take care of me. For one, he moved in with ME, so MY name is on the lease....the furniture in here is MINE...this MY shit...and I dont want him to take care of me....I've never wanted that. I always had him do shit that I dont want to pay for like buying food (I hate buying groceries), cable bill, getting my hair done... shit like that...plus he got his own bills.... Girl I went from being Miss Independent, to Miss I Need Your Help....and I cant stand it!!1[/quote] But isn't that what a marriage and a partnership is about? Why won't you let him take care of you for awhile? You're pregnant! You could be taking this time to prepare yourself for your baby. Let his ass work two and three jobs. This is YOUR time[/quote] I know this is gonna sound real selfish, but I dont care...I really dont want to give him that control...I cant stand being nice because I feel I have to so that I can get what I need from him....I feel like I'm letting him dictate the control of the MY household...If he pisses me off I want to be able to tell him to take his money and shove it up his ass...and now I cant say or be like that...cause I actually NEED his money.... I just feel useless....I havent even told my daddy that I'm jobless....cause he gonna come up here and get me as soon as I tell him...he is not going to like me being up here without a way to take care of MYSELF!!![/quote] Well marriage and partnership are about compromise. And that doesn't sound like something that you're ready or willing to do right now. Maybe it is best for you to step back and re-evaluate some things in your life. Cuz honestly, you do sound a lil selfish. It's ok to be selfish sometimes, but you're about to have a baby and it's not just about you anymore sweetie.[/quote] Very True. Bella if you said yes to that proposal and you have that ring on your finger, look at it hunny. That right there is a symbol of what is to become the rest of your life. He is stepping to the plate and yes it may seem annoying but let me tell you something. There are many women who wished they had that in their own men in their lives!..
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[quote comment="396552"]LADIES! I never post on here but had to this time: Yes, you probably shouldn't have posted that info but guess what? it's YOUR right to do that if you want. Secondly, WE as women need to strengthen each other, stop cussing at each other (so unatractive) and help each other, the most hated species in america is a BLACK woman! We are proving them right everytime just mortifying each other. Listen, I love you all no matter what! I'm married 6 years and it aint easy, I got stories to write a book but I surround myself with women that love me, guide me, strengthen me and help me get back on the right path when needed. We need to heal from the past, we all make mistakes...AMENNNNNNN...and I'm out![/quote] Tell it!
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[quote comment="396549"][quote comment="396540"]WHADDUP! WHADDUP! WHADDUP!!!!!!!!!!!!!! What the hizell is going on in here!!!!!!!!!!!!!!????????????[/quote] What up Yetta See!! EVERYbody is changing their personal gravis! New YBF rule for real...[/quote] Whaddup!!! I see the drama is ensuing!!! I refuse to change my Gravi!! I like seeing my Christian up there!!
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[quote comment="396527"][quote comment="396489"][quote comment="396464"]*clears throat* KUMBAYA MY LORD. KUMBAYAAAAAAAAAAA[/quote] *harmonizes with you* OH LORD....KUMBAYAAAAAAAA[/quote] Nam-myoho-renge-kyo[/quote] LMAO :lol:
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[quote comment="396552"]LADIES! I never post on here but had to this time: Yes, you probably shouldn't have posted that info but guess what? it's YOUR right to do that if you want. Secondly, WE as women need to strengthen each other, stop cussing at each other (so unatractive) and help each other, the most hated species in america is a BLACK woman! We are proving them right everytime just mortifying each other. Listen, I love you all no matter what! I'm married 6 years and it aint easy, I got stories to write a book but I surround myself with women that love me, guide me, strengthen me and help me get back on the right path when needed. We need to heal from the past, we all make mistakes...AMENNNNNNN...and I'm out![/quote] Gosh Darnit I spelled unattractive wrong! yall know what I meant...giggles & smiles...
MARRIED CHIC CAN'T BELIEVE THIS ISH!'s picture

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[quote comment="396552"]LADIES! I never post on here but had to this time: Yes, you probably shouldn't have posted that info but guess what? it's YOUR right to do that if you want. Secondly, WE as women need to strengthen each other, stop cussing at each other (so unatractive) and help each other, the most hated species in america is a BLACK woman! We are proving them right everytime just mortifying each other. Listen, I love you all no matter what! I'm married 6 years and it aint easy, I got stories to write a book but I surround myself with women that love me, guide me, strengthen me and help me get back on the right path when needed. We need to heal from the past, we all make mistakes...AMENNNNNNN...and I'm out![/quote] agrees..but is she stalking b/c she commenting on whats going on but never posts? i think not or is just b/c i disagree with the comments most of the time?
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[quote comment="396552"]LADIES! I never post on here but had to this time: Yes, you probably shouldn't have posted that info but guess what? it's YOUR right to do that if you want. Secondly, WE as women need to strengthen each other, stop cussing at each other (so unatractive) and help each other, the most hated species in america is a BLACK woman! We are proving them right everytime just mortifying each other. Listen, I love you all no matter what! I'm married 6 years and it aint easy, I got stories to write a book but I surround myself with women that love me, guide me, strengthen me and help me get back on the right path when needed. We need to heal from the past, we all make mistakes...AMENNNNNNN...and I'm out![/quote] AMEN
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[quote comment="396544"][quote comment="396530"][quote comment="396515"][quote comment="396502"][quote comment="396487"][quote comment="396449"][quote comment="396395"][quote comment="396382"][quote comment="396358"][quote comment="396333"]D-Wade, D-Wade D-Wade...he still sexy, I dont give a damn what his wife say!!! Zoe be looking like she smoke hella blunts....she stay looking high!! What is do Miss Shaw...I see you rocking the Cowboy hat... Oh and Morning Family!!1[/quote] Hi Bella! How is the little one?? Did you apply for unemployment??[/quote] The baby is fine! I have my 3 month appointment next Friday, so I'll have some updates then....and yes I applied for unemployment, I went to the public aid office on Wednesday to get Medicaid and all that. Them bitches had me fill out the paper and told me they would call me. I'm like so I dont get seen today, the man was like 'do you see all these applications, its a recession, so yes we'll call you when we have something available! I was like damn, well fuck you too![/quote] Thats good to hear (well see) Bella. I hope you get everything straightened out![/quote] Girl I'm trying not to stress out!!! Right now my relationship is very rocky..it seems like we are fighting about money everyday. Our sex life has gone to shams and a part of me wants to move back to Texas. He doesnt want me to move back to Texas because he wants to be with his child, but I feel like there aint no sense of me being up here without no security, cause he cant afford to take care of me and him on just his salary, He keeps want to writ everything down on paper, but I tell him everything looks good on paper...but what about reality. I came to Chicago to get my master's degree....so i have accomplished what I was suppose to do 2 years ago. I just dont feel right depending on no dude to take care of me...I dont give a damn if we are engaged or what...and he cant understand that...he always talking about love this and love that...Shit we cant eat love, I cant pay no bills with love, I cant get my hair done with love...so love goes out the door when aint no money invloved.....me finding a job right now is very questionable because come next month I'm gonna be showing and nobody is gonna hire a pregnant lady... I just have so much on my plate right now![/quote] I feel for you mama! It is hard but try not to stress yourself too much. I'm not married but that is exactly what a partnership is about...you have to learn to let go and lean on your man sometimes, not a damn thing wrong with that, especially at a time like this![/quote] I dont feel comfortable depending on no man to take care of me. For one, he moved in with ME, so MY name is on the lease....the furniture in here is MINE...this MY shit...and I dont want him to take care of me....I've never wanted that. I always had him do shit that I dont want to pay for like buying food (I hate buying groceries), cable bill, getting my hair done... shit like that...plus he got his own bills.... Girl I went from being Miss Independent, to Miss I Need Your Help....and I cant stand it!!1[/quote] But isn't that what a marriage and a partnership is about? Why won't you let him take care of you for awhile? You're pregnant! You could be taking this time to prepare yourself for your baby. Let his ass work two and three jobs. This is YOUR time[/quote] I know this is gonna sound real selfish, but I dont care...I really dont want to give him that control...I cant stand being nice because I feel I have to so that I can get what I need from him....I feel like I'm letting him dictate the control of the MY household...If he pisses me off I want to be able to tell him to take his money and shove it up his ass...and now I cant say or be like that...cause I actually NEED his money.... I just feel useless....I havent even told my daddy that I'm jobless....cause he gonna come up here and get me as soon as I tell him...he is not going to like me being up here without a way to take care of MYSELF!!![/quote] Well marriage and partnership are about compromise. And that doesn't sound like something that you're ready or willing to do right now. Maybe it is best for you to step back and re-evaluate some things in your life. Cuz honestly, you do sound a lil selfish. It's ok to be selfish sometimes, but you're about to have a baby and it's not just about you anymore sweetie.[/quote] Very true
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[quote comment="396528"][quote comment="396519"][quote comment="396513"][quote comment="396500"][quote comment="396492"][quote comment="396466"]my man is well taken care of thank you, im not on here all day everyday..i do have a life and opinions ya'll dont like it o well. i dont need attention i can comment, no i dont know what is going on in her relationship but i DO know it was dumb to broadcast it with her pic up. like she wanted everyone to know, does she not have ya'lls email???????!!![/quote] okay girl you just came on a little strong! you never know what someone is going through in their life...people do things that can't be explained sometimes. i know i love jesus and am a believer but because i believe i also know i was born a sinner! when you don't agree with someone attempt empathy, if you can't empathize there is always sympathy and prayer. if you truly believe in god please pray for her don't degrade her or anyone else. just wanted to add my two cents...even though no one asked for it.[/quote] Very well said![/quote] i agree with you it just really pissed me off, like i said i hold marriage as something to be highly respected. and i may have come of hard but i will not support or hold my tongue on something that is wrong no matter what the situation. and i said something because she was gloriying it like she was proud. she did nt seem remorseful cause if i did something like that i would not be on here saying how good it was but would be saying "guys i did something terrible and i need to talk to someone" MY OPINION[/quote] Yeah, but just because you dont "cheat" doesnt mean you dont do other things that are wrong....there is NO SIN BIGGER THAN ANOTHER.... hell I think about cheating too...i think its pretty normal!!![/quote] Never did I say I don't sin, none is greater than the other. Like I said MARRIAGE IS A SCARED THING AND OUR COMMUNITY IS THE WORST WHEN IT COMES TO MARRIAGE AND IT MAKES ME UPSET. My mom cheated on my dad, it just hits home. Not apologzing for my opinions, just my approach.[/quote] Well it was the approach that was wrong, just like the poster who took offense to you saying that Kimora's & Djimon baby wouldn't come out too cute if the baby favored Djimon - so that's why they said your gravi pic was ugly. There are ways to go about saying things - as they saying goes "You catch more flies with honey than vinegar".
MRS. les923 Elba - aka Mrs. DJ Driis's picture

So I know this stalker person

So I know this stalker person didn't run everyone away :(
~*Cherishedbyu*~sooo I'm just gonna create two dolls named S's picture

[quote comment="396546"]Hi

[quote comment="396546"]Hi Yetta!!!! How far along are you? If you don't mind me asking.[/quote] I'm 7 months chica, and so ready for this to be done with! Pregnancy is a beautiful thing, but I declare, I'm having a hard time!! :sad:
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[quote comment="396549"][quote comment="396540"]WHADDUP! WHADDUP! WHADDUP!!!!!!!!!!!!!! What the hizell is going on in here!!!!!!!!!!!!!!????????????[/quote] What up Yetta See!! EVERYbody is changing their personal gravis! New YBF rule for real...[/quote] LOL, I won't say it's a rule, but I think the rule should take your kids off your gravi.If there's stalkers there is a pedophile. I won't change nothing, not scared of nobody but God.If you yourself nobody should have a problem.
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[quote comment="396544"][quote comment="396530"][quote comment="396515"][quote comment="396502"][quote comment="396487"][quote comment="396449"][quote comment="396395"][quote comment="396382"][quote comment="396358"][quote comment="396333"]D-Wade, D-Wade D-Wade...he still sexy, I dont give a damn what his wife say!!! Zoe be looking like she smoke hella blunts....she stay looking high!! What is do Miss Shaw...I see you rocking the Cowboy hat... Oh and Morning Family!!1[/quote] Hi Bella! How is the little one?? Did you apply for unemployment??[/quote] The baby is fine! I have my 3 month appointment next Friday, so I'll have some updates then....and yes I applied for unemployment, I went to the public aid office on Wednesday to get Medicaid and all that. Them bitches had me fill out the paper and told me they would call me. I'm like so I dont get seen today, the man was like 'do you see all these applications, its a recession, so yes we'll call you when we have something available! I was like damn, well fuck you too![/quote] Thats good to hear (well see) Bella. I hope you get everything straightened out![/quote] Girl I'm trying not to stress out!!! Right now my relationship is very rocky..it seems like we are fighting about money everyday. Our sex life has gone to shams and a part of me wants to move back to Texas. He doesnt want me to move back to Texas because he wants to be with his child, but I feel like there aint no sense of me being up here without no security, cause he cant afford to take care of me and him on just his salary, He keeps want to writ everything down on paper, but I tell him everything looks good on paper...but what about reality. I came to Chicago to get my master's degree....so i have accomplished what I was suppose to do 2 years ago. I just dont feel right depending on no dude to take care of me...I dont give a damn if we are engaged or what...and he cant understand that...he always talking about love this and love that...Shit we cant eat love, I cant pay no bills with love, I cant get my hair done with love...so love goes out the door when aint no money invloved.....me finding a job right now is very questionable because come next month I'm gonna be showing and nobody is gonna hire a pregnant lady... I just have so much on my plate right now![/quote] I feel for you mama! It is hard but try not to stress yourself too much. I'm not married but that is exactly what a partnership is about...you have to learn to let go and lean on your man sometimes, not a damn thing wrong with that, especially at a time like this![/quote] I dont feel comfortable depending on no man to take care of me. For one, he moved in with ME, so MY name is on the lease....the furniture in here is MINE...this MY shit...and I dont want him to take care of me....I've never wanted that. I always had him do shit that I dont want to pay for like buying food (I hate buying groceries), cable bill, getting my hair done... shit like that...plus he got his own bills.... Girl I went from being Miss Independent, to Miss I Need Your Help....and I cant stand it!!1[/quote] But isn't that what a marriage and a partnership is about? Why won't you let him take care of you for awhile? You're pregnant! You could be taking this time to prepare yourself for your baby. Let his ass work two and three jobs. This is YOUR time[/quote] I know this is gonna sound real selfish, but I dont care...I really dont want to give him that control...I cant stand being nice because I feel I have to so that I can get what I need from him....I feel like I'm letting him dictate the control of the MY household...If he pisses me off I want to be able to tell him to take his money and shove it up his ass...and now I cant say or be like that...cause I actually NEED his money.... I just feel useless....I havent even told my daddy that I'm jobless....cause he gonna come up here and get me as soon as I tell him...he is not going to like me being up here without a way to take care of MYSELF!!![/quote] Well marriage and partnership are about compromise. And that doesn't sound like something that you're ready or willing to do right now. Maybe it is best for you to step back and re-evaluate some things in your life. Cuz honestly, you do sound a lil selfish. It's ok to be selfish sometimes, but you're about to have a baby and it's not just about you anymore sweetie.[/quote] Am I suppose to compromise my independence because I'm engaged or compromise the fact that I want to be able to take care of myself...I dont feel like its no man's responsibility to take care of no woman....married or not....I feel like he's suppose to take care of his share...but totally take care of everything...NO...It's not equal control if that's happening!
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[quote comment="396545"][quote comment="396540"]WHADDUP! WHADDUP! WHADDUP!!!!!!!!!!!!!! What the hizell is going on in here!!!!!!!!!!!!!!????????????[/quote] YBF has stalkers...Beware[/quote] Girl, been there, done that with these people... It has gotten really old, really quick!!!!!!!!!!!!! All I know is, Mmschel bet not let NO ONE run her!!!!!!! :mad:
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[quote comment="396545"][quote comment="396540"]WHADDUP! WHADDUP! WHADDUP!!!!!!!!!!!!!! What the hizell is going on in here!!!!!!!!!!!!!!????????????[/quote] YBF has stalkers...Beware[/quote] not a stalker there's a lot of people on here that dont comment but reads them and im just telling the truth, you dont have to like it. and if it wasnt the truth u wouldn've changed ur gravi ;)
the truth hurts..im just saying's picture

LADIES! I never post on here

LADIES! I never post on here but had to this time: Yes, you probably shouldn't have posted that info but guess what? it's YOUR right to do that if you want. Secondly, WE as women need to strengthen each other, stop cussing at each other (so unatractive) and help each other, the most hated species in america is a BLACK woman! We are proving them right everytime just mortifying each other. Listen, I love you all no matter what! I'm married 6 years and it aint easy, I got stories to write a book but I surround myself with women that love me, guide me, strengthen me and help me get back on the right path when needed. We need to heal from the past, we all make mistakes...AMENNNNNNN...and I'm out!
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[quote comment="396547"][quote comment="396545"][quote comment="396540"]WHADDUP! WHADDUP! WHADDUP!!!!!!!!!!!!!! What the hizell is going on in here!!!!!!!!!!!!!!????????????[/quote] YBF has stalkers...Beware[/quote] your gravi still up there cheesin sunshine![/quote] Oh darn..... :( I'm gonna fix it laterz
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[quote comment="396540"]WHADDUP! WHADDUP! WHADDUP!!!!!!!!!!!!!! What the hizell is going on in here!!!!!!!!!!!!!!????????????[/quote] What up Yetta See!! EVERYbody is changing their personal gravis! New YBF rule for real...
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[quote comment="396545"][quote comment="396540"]WHADDUP! WHADDUP! WHADDUP!!!!!!!!!!!!!! What the hizell is going on in here!!!!!!!!!!!!!!????????????[/quote] YBF has stalkers...Beware[/quote] what??? who stalking who??
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[quote comment="396545"][quote comment="396540"]WHADDUP! WHADDUP! WHADDUP!!!!!!!!!!!!!! What the hizell is going on in here!!!!!!!!!!!!!!????????????[/quote] YBF has stalkers...Beware[/quote] your gravi still up there cheesin sunshine!
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Hi Yetta!!!! How far along

Hi Yetta!!!! How far along are you? If you don't mind me asking.
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[quote comment="396540"]WHADDUP! WHADDUP! WHADDUP!!!!!!!!!!!!!! What the hizell is going on in here!!!!!!!!!!!!!!????????????[/quote] YBF has stalkers...Beware
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[quote comment="396530"][quote comment="396515"][quote comment="396502"][quote comment="396487"][quote comment="396449"][quote comment="396395"][quote comment="396382"][quote comment="396358"][quote comment="396333"]D-Wade, D-Wade D-Wade...he still sexy, I dont give a damn what his wife say!!! Zoe be looking like she smoke hella blunts....she stay looking high!! What is do Miss Shaw...I see you rocking the Cowboy hat... Oh and Morning Family!!1[/quote] Hi Bella! How is the little one?? Did you apply for unemployment??[/quote] The baby is fine! I have my 3 month appointment next Friday, so I'll have some updates then....and yes I applied for unemployment, I went to the public aid office on Wednesday to get Medicaid and all that. Them bitches had me fill out the paper and told me they would call me. I'm like so I dont get seen today, the man was like 'do you see all these applications, its a recession, so yes we'll call you when we have something available! I was like damn, well fuck you too![/quote] Thats good to hear (well see) Bella. I hope you get everything straightened out![/quote] Girl I'm trying not to stress out!!! Right now my relationship is very rocky..it seems like we are fighting about money everyday. Our sex life has gone to shams and a part of me wants to move back to Texas. He doesnt want me to move back to Texas because he wants to be with his child, but I feel like there aint no sense of me being up here without no security, cause he cant afford to take care of me and him on just his salary, He keeps want to writ everything down on paper, but I tell him everything looks good on paper...but what about reality. I came to Chicago to get my master's degree....so i have accomplished what I was suppose to do 2 years ago. I just dont feel right depending on no dude to take care of me...I dont give a damn if we are engaged or what...and he cant understand that...he always talking about love this and love that...Shit we cant eat love, I cant pay no bills with love, I cant get my hair done with love...so love goes out the door when aint no money invloved.....me finding a job right now is very questionable because come next month I'm gonna be showing and nobody is gonna hire a pregnant lady... I just have so much on my plate right now![/quote] I feel for you mama! It is hard but try not to stress yourself too much. I'm not married but that is exactly what a partnership is about...you have to learn to let go and lean on your man sometimes, not a damn thing wrong with that, especially at a time like this![/quote] I dont feel comfortable depending on no man to take care of me. For one, he moved in with ME, so MY name is on the lease....the furniture in here is MINE...this MY shit...and I dont want him to take care of me....I've never wanted that. I always had him do shit that I dont want to pay for like buying food (I hate buying groceries), cable bill, getting my hair done... shit like that...plus he got his own bills.... Girl I went from being Miss Independent, to Miss I Need Your Help....and I cant stand it!!1[/quote] But isn't that what a marriage and a partnership is about? Why won't you let him take care of you for awhile? You're pregnant! You could be taking this time to prepare yourself for your baby. Let his ass work two and three jobs. This is YOUR time[/quote] I know this is gonna sound real selfish, but I dont care...I really dont want to give him that control...I cant stand being nice because I feel I have to so that I can get what I need from him....I feel like I'm letting him dictate the control of the MY household...If he pisses me off I want to be able to tell him to take his money and shove it up his ass...and now I cant say or be like that...cause I actually NEED his money.... I just feel useless....I havent even told my daddy that I'm jobless....cause he gonna come up here and get me as soon as I tell him...he is not going to like me being up here without a way to take care of MYSELF!!![/quote] Well marriage and partnership are about compromise. And that doesn't sound like something that you're ready or willing to do right now. Maybe it is best for you to step back and re-evaluate some things in your life. Cuz honestly, you do sound a lil selfish. It's ok to be selfish sometimes, but you're about to have a baby and it's not just about you anymore sweetie.
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Pregnant or not, the outfit

Pregnant or not, the outfit on Erica Alexander is UNACCEPTABLE! Why the hat? Ain't no baby bump under there to cover. She's normally very cute....hot mess.
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[quote comment="396536"]*crickets chirp* Can anyone see my new gravie?[/quote] Nope
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[quote comment="396538"][quote comment="396536"]*crickets chirp* Can anyone see my new gravie?[/quote] Cute little Sasha!!![/quote] YAYYYYZz Now is the stalker gone yet??
~*Cherishedbyu*~sooo I'm just gonna create two dolls named S's picture

WHADDUP! WHADDUP!

WHADDUP! WHADDUP! WHADDUP!!!!!!!!!!!!!! What the hizell is going on in here!!!!!!!!!!!!!!????????????
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