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Here's a new promo pic of Monica.  Not sure what it's for, but she looks pretty fab. President Obama is covering the March issue of Vanity Fair.  Nice. And the Prez and First Lady visited a D.C. school to read to the kiddies today.  Cuteness. More pics when you read the rest... Cuteness. Speaking of cuteness, here's pics of Cardinals and Steelers pre-Superbowl with their kiddies: Larry Fitzgerald and his son Devin. James Harrison and his son James III And Coach Mike Tomlin and his daughter Harlyn.  Too cute.

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Why it seems like all those

Why it seems like all those football players got half white ass looking kids. I guess it is true that once they get famous they go for the white chicks
Janay's picture

Melinda, you sound stupid!

Melinda, you sound stupid! Obama is half white but he is married to a sistah so what is your point. You should be married to Al.
Alicia's picture

Al, I would like you to know

Al, I would like you to know that I am married and not a bitter women that no one wants. And if you call knowning what you want out of life controlling than you have a problem, and did you her me sa anything about your views on your sell out opinion. If you choose to be with someone that probably inslaved your relatives than that is on you. Just don't do anything that her o her family do not like because the "N" word will come out real fast. And keep some money put away to keep her ass from looking old beacause that do not age gracefully. Your baby moma probably had to take you to court to take care of our kids!
Alicia's picture

Hello!! Ihave a question to

Hello!! Ihave a question to the woman who claims that she's a "sistah". Are you really a sistah, or are you using that as a cover up so that you won't be cursed out on this forum for the stupidity that you have stated? Moving on, to the caucasian lady that said "sistah" please refrain yourself from ever using that word again. If you go to some neighborhoods your a** would be f*%$#d up. So I don't know who you have been hanging out with or talking to, but just know at the end of the day your not of African decent, and that there are certain things that you can not and shall not say. *Just a little hint for you, no offense* Finally, To the men that are going for these white women. My sisters, please just look at how these men look like first. Do we really want them? Or are these white girls really doing us a favor? I rather see them with a white girl then them being gay. Cuban Gooding Jr., Does a sistah really want that? (Be honest now) Now, Denzel Washington,( fine & intelligent), and hes with a sistah. These are the men that we are looking for, or should be looking at. These men that are with white girls, even if they do have good looks, do they have personality? No they are probably the worst of the worst. Please My Beautiful Black Sisters, Let Them GOOOOOOOO! We can do so much better, and thats why God has it the way it is, because we deserve the best. At the end of the day we are left with the creme de la creme, while these white girls are left with garbage. Just Let It Be!! From: A SISTAH That Is Blessed
The One's picture

[quote comment="414245"]Al,

[quote comment="414245"]Al, you sound like one of the brothers that like the white women. You must have had a bad experience and like other weak minded brother you took the easy way out, because if you looked hard enough you would see there are a lot of sisters that do not have the baggage. Oh yeah read my comment again, I spoke on the brothers having a problem with the sisters and fake hair.[/quote] Alicia you sound like the type of woman that wants to control a man and doesn't trust a black man, the type who says any Black man I'm with better do what I want when I want and any black man you deal with you try to put on a leash. Maybe you should check yourself and see why you're alone and bitter. Just because someone does not see your view in the same light, you have to attempt to cut them down. Yea typical bitter woman and it does not make a difference on race. I married someone that looks at me and accepted me as is, which is a hard working man and a good father and provider for his children. My first wife was a sista and I have 3 great children . But when it was time to move on, I moved on and I make sure my kids are taken care of. When I was single I spent time looking at sistas who #1 wanted to put themself ahead of my children - thats not happening. #2 Putting up with sistas who could not stop the baby momma drama. #3 They had no trust for a brotha #4 Wouldn't leave the streets and the b.s. right where it is and make it known they are a positive black woman. #5 Wanted me take in their child and support their child ahead of my own. Are they crazy?? I dated alot of sistas from across the country and some are great and I support my black women but like I said before we need to take responsiblility for our actions. We need to grow up. If someone doesn't want you then so be it not every black man or woman is going to be into their own race. respect their decision. We have no idea what made them go else where.
AL's picture

[quote comment="414245"]Al,

[quote comment="414245"]Al, you sound like one of the brothers that like the white women. You must have had a bad experience and like other weak minded brother you took the easy way out, because if you looked hard enough you would see there are a lot of sisters that do not have the baggage. Oh yeah read my comment again, I spoke on the brothers having a problem with the sisters and fake hair.[/quote] No, actually he's not. I'm his wife.
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[quote

[quote comment="414136"][quote comment="410848"][quote comment="410844"][quote comment="410838"]Monica looks glam! I bet their parents are still hearing the story about what happened when the president and first lady came to visit. And I bet the parents are telling everybody they know too. Do I see a pattern going on here with the football players' kids? Ummmm.[/quote] LOL..i know right!!! At first I thought one guy was playing with the other's child from the 1st pic...cuz they look alike. But then I notice its a damn trend!!![/quote] yall took the words right out of my mouth! im sad now ok gotta scroll back up to the obamas so i can be happy and see the definition of true black love[/quote] Ummm,,,Obama is half white[/quote]
Alicia's picture

[quote

[quote comment="412527"]Wealthy black men marry white women because they can now afford to buy them all the things they need to look black. Butt injections, tanning treatments, lip injections and when they start looking old at the age of 25yrs a face lift. White women can have the insecure black men. Give me a strong secure black man any day. Those white women brothers love to talk about black women and fake hair but their white women have fake ass, breast,lips, hips and all. Peace![/quote] How about the Sista with the fake hair and nails, aren't they just as fake? How about the sista with the attitude that doesn't know how to treat a brotha that is postive and knows what he wants and is reaching for his goals. We seem to forget that everyone doesn't like to be treated like crap and bringing your baggage from the wanna be thug you bring into the ralationship with a positive brother. How about we as black men and women take responsibility for our actions and how we mistreat each other. So when a brother or sista goes and marries a white, asian or hispanic person, maybe they are tired of the bull we put each other through or maybe that person just looked past color and found someone to truely love.
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[quote

[quote comment="410848"][quote comment="410844"][quote comment="410838"]Monica looks glam! I bet their parents are still hearing the story about what happened when the president and first lady came to visit. And I bet the parents are telling everybody they know too. Do I see a pattern going on here with the football players' kids? Ummmm.[/quote] LOL..i know right!!! At first I thought one guy was playing with the other's child from the 1st pic...cuz they look alike. But then I notice its a damn trend!!![/quote] yall took the words right out of my mouth! im sad now ok gotta scroll back up to the obamas so i can be happy and see the definition of true black love[/quote] Ummm,,,Obama is half white
Melinda's picture

Al, you sound like one of the

Al, you sound like one of the brothers that like the white women. You must have had a bad experience and like other weak minded brother you took the easy way out, because if you looked hard enough you would see there are a lot of sisters that do not have the baggage. Oh yeah read my comment again, I spoke on the brothers having a problem with the sisters and fake hair.
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Wealthy black men marry white

Wealthy black men marry white women because they can now afford to buy them all the things they need to look black. Butt injections, tanning treatments, lip injections and when they start looking old at the age of 25yrs a face lift. White women can have the insecure black men. Give me a strong secure black man any day. Those white women brothers love to talk about black women and fake hair but their white women have fake ass, breast,lips, hips and all. Peace!
Alicia's picture

[quote

[quote comment="410843"]cracker loving football players[/quote] LMAO!!! HELLO!!!?!?!?! You are a mess! LMBAO!
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I love that we have Barack

I love that we have Barack and Michelle as an image you cannot avoid that is everywhere in the media as an example of what can be. At my job in corporate America, even white colleagues keep coming up to me mentioning how they think their image will be a great example for black men and women...all of this broadcast in our face daily for the world to see. They mention all the images of him taking kids to school and trick or treating and how his daughters look at him with such admiration and how affectionate he is with his wife. No longer can someone use the excuse that they never see these kind of parental and marital relationships in real life where they live. I also love that Michelle is polished and accomplished in her own right and she often speaks on his behalf and represents him at events and in interviews on her own when he is not available. I think it makes many men admire a woman like that and desire one for themselves. It is one thing to have an armpiece to stand in the background and make you look good but a woman that can represent you like Michelle Obama in public...that is a whole other thing. They are truly partners and I think that will do a lot towards inspiring other men to put more thought into their potential life partners. I've had male friends already mention how they want to find a 'Michelle type'. This is similar to how during the Cosby series many men desired a 'Claire type'. But this is not a fictional character so it is more powerful. Their images and their partnership is great for all men and women really. Back to athletes...my husband played football in college and mentioned how as many of these guys (before the NFL) go to majority white colleges in rural areas (U of Kentucky, U of Nebraska???)just as my own husband did they just continue what they got used to while there. He said the Beckys threw themselves on them on campus and pursued them with great aggressiveness and the guys did not resist much and for many that just turned into their preference over time. He said of the sistas that were attending the same college most of the sistas expected the football players to pursue them instead and put in effort and actually date them and court them and the guys avoided them for that more than anything just because they took more work. I have seen this in action at mixed events and it definitely plays a part in this. I have to give it to them for being more aggressive about what they want. I've been at parties with sistas standing with me admiring guys waiting for the guys to come to them (as many of us were raised) and while they admire Becky comes over and is passing her number and flirting and inviting him back to her place where her and 3 friends would love him to come over (this is a true story). Sometimes it is simply who is coming at them the hardest versus intentionally being prejudiced. That is what happened with my own lil brother who is now married to a 300 lb Becky with a kid by another brotha. It was hard to hate on him when that truly was all that was coming at him hard through his 20s and who was working with him and helping him out when he didn't have anything.
HauteLegalDiva's picture

I too, am tired of people

I too, am tired of people telling Black women to get over ourselves. As a feminist and someone who does research on women, black women, the black family, it is very disheartening for me to hear whites and other blacks (female or male) to tell women to be quiet and stop complaining and yadda. I think that with sooooo much history, much of the pain and discomfort women have with Black men dating white woman dates back, way back. It never feels like the now. It feels like the biggest insult ever. Especially when you know some strong Black women are raising these Black men. Interracial dating is a thin line for me. Honestly. I believe that you should date who you love and whoever makes you happy... BUT too too many, too many, way too many times have I heard Black men talking about they hate Black women, they dont want their kids hair coming out nappy, White women know their place, yadda yadda yadda racist bullshit. There are so many racist Black men out there. Truly. I live in Ohio. I know. Damnit. The problem is when you see a white woman on a black mans arm you never know which on it is. Is it because he LOVES her or because he HATES us. Its so complicated. Black women are the least desired women in the world. They did a study and they had men of all races state which women they think are the most beautiful. Black women were at the FUCKING bottom. The bottom ladies. Im on my soap box now, but Black women spend their lives trying to live up to America's standards to beauty, which are the closest to white the better and we still aint it! Our OWN men rated us the least desirable. Our OWN men. And I dont want to hear this sorry excuse about attitudes cause theres some white bops out there that are horrriibbbllleee. Horrible attitudes. Dont give me that. I guess all I got to say is that this is complicated. And yes, many Black men prefer to date white women because they believe the media's lies about us and they have given in to white beauty standards. But its also true that Black women, we have to move the fuck on. Find who loves you. Black men dont own our love. Just like we dont own there. Love yourself and go find someone that loves you. No matter the race. Cause this behavior aint lettin up! Shit, go find you an Asian man. They hurtin just like us. MM hmm
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Those are some pale babies!

Those are some pale babies! I love President Barack and Mechelle even more!!!
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[quote comment="411130"]The

[quote comment="411130"]The only other person on earth that will ever understand is an Asian man because they suffer from the same situation as Black women...right or wrong ...there is pain there on this topic....and it should not be minimized. Just check this out as an example: It is on The Best of Craigslist (search for it, since I can't link to it here) To the Asian Girl Whom I offended with my Asian-ness - m4w Date: 2009-01-03, 9:20PM PST You: Asian, young(ish), cute, petite, left-of-center, cosmopolitan. Me: The Asian guy you would never dream of giving a second glance. Hi! I’m so sad that you were offended by my very presence at your favorite boutique coffee shop. Seriously, I was just there to do some work and maybe a bit of reading – I didn’t mean to draw attention to the fact that you too, are also Asian. I was just looking for a quiet place to sit, and the seat by you just happened to be open. It’s not like peed all over you, put my arm around your shoulder, and screamed to all the other patrons in a heavy Chinese accent, “She mine! You all stay away!” After I sat down and pulled out Said’s Orientalism (no joke), you, in all of your ignorant glory, proceeded to loudly flirt with the nearest non-Asian man with a pulse to dissuade any romantic overtures from me. Lady, I already know you only date white guys; you don’t even have to open your mouth. Ever since Chad took you out back in high school and made you the envy of all homecoming, you’ve understood the magical power of white boys. Your parents balked until they saw how well Chet treated you and made you so so so happy. You tell yourself you don’t see color lines, and that you’re ending racism by only dating white guys – and you give yourself a little pat on the back every night before dreaming of waking up with beautiful blonde hair. You’ve even thrown in a black guy or two, just to get back at daddy. Asian guys? Like, gag me with a spoon! Hey, I applaud you. You’re totally progressive. Never mind all that bukakke stuff Jeremy keeps wanting to do (I wonder where he gets these ideas?). No need to worry about Scotty’s browser history pointing to asianteensluts.com. Totally normal! What red-blooded American man doesn’t want to bang a Japanese high school girl? Honestly, if I were in your stilettos, I’d do the same thing. If white girls were all over me ‘cause of my nice, smooth skin, my mad computer skills and wispy peach fuzz, I’d ride that white stallion to all glory. But since I’m 6’2”, 200 lbs. with 4% body fat and a PhD, I guess I’ll have to settle for one of our more racist Asian sistahs. * Location: Westside * it's NOT ok to contact this poster with services or other commercial interests PostingID: 979427049[/quote] LOVED THIS. AND IT IS TRUE, ASIAN MEN ARE NOT WITHIN THE MEDIA'S SPECTRUM OF WHAT IS CONSIDERED "ATTRACTIVE". THE ONLY ONE I'VE SEEN THE MEDIA TRY TO GLORIFY IS THE ASIAN GUY ON "LOST". EVERYTHING THIS GUY SAID WAS RIGHT ON POINT. I'VE ALSO FOUND MYSELF IN WORK NETWORKING SITUATIONS WHERE I WAS THE ONLY BLACK FEMALE AND THERE WAS ONE BLACK MALE. BEST BELIEVE THE BROTHA WAS TRYING HARD TO NOT BE ANYWHERE NEAR ME. HE MADE SURE HE CHUMMED IT UP WITH THE WHITE GIRLS, BUT WOULD LOOK ANYWHERE (THE FLOOR, CEILING, ETC) THE MINUTE I GOT A FOOT NEAR HIM. AND BEST BELIEVE I IGNORED IS ARSE.... STEVIE WONDER COULD SEE THE GUYS ISSUE . . . JUST CRAZY.....
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[quote comment="411477"]We

[quote comment="411477"]We come in all shades and colors. What makes many of you think that the babies of these football players aren't by some light skinned chick? I'm just saying. HOWEVER...I know what yall mean though and I understand the pain and hurt, because that's what it is. When we see successful black men make it we do want to see a black woman on his arm. Which is why so many of us love to see Barack and Michelle. We have this thing for black men. We adore seeing Kimora and her chocolate man Djimon. So when we see Tiger who married the nanny we just shake our heads in heavy disapproval. We just can't help but to wonder what is so wrong with loving a sista! We see pics of Michael Jordan and his "other" boo, Jamie Foxx and on the low with his, we even had the hot producer Pow whatever his name was say he was the king of white girls. Where is our love? Where is our appreciation? And I'm not talking about the cover of King magazine. How many white entertainers do you see boo'd up with blacks? I'm talking about A listers here HOW MANY? Immediately you can name the black women who are dating white men not the other way around, interesting. Black women got too much mouth, too head strong, trust issues... a lot of that goes right back to the black man, the absent father, the broken promises. Whew the issues there. Fathers be good to your daughters! Good subject for my blog indeed.I don't think the women on this board are not bitter they just don't understand how some black men can't appreciate what's standing right in front of him.[/quote] Love it! Thank you sooooo much, that's the answer I needed! Everybody's opinions are so strong and on point. That's why I asked the question hopeing some brother may stumble upon these comments and see that we as sistahs are not bitter but curious and it may make them think about their decisions more, not just in reference to dating a non black, but how they treat women in general from their sister, to their mother to their baby mamma! Thanks YBf!
!*~Mz D! ThornTon #50 2009-Blak folk happy!~'s picture

[quote comment="411307"]I

[quote comment="411307"]I really don't understand why everyone is on here arguing about if these football players are married to white women... The fact of the matter is: HOW MANY BLACK MEN DO YOU SEE GETTING MARRIED PERIOD? Marriage within the black community is a distant memory..and its sad to say. You see young ppl growing up, not even wanting to get married because they don't think it's feasible. Black women would have a higher opportunity of marriage if we would stop feeling bad and guilty for dating outside of our race. Society is not as accustomed to seeing a black woman with a white man, per say, but you can't live your life miserable because your afraid of taking a chance and not willing to have to fight a little (against societal norms) to find true happiness. I'm saying. If black men are so quick to go and date, marry, start a family, outside of their race, then black women can too AND LOVE IT! Stop complaining about, "oh, another one took our men", "these white girls are taking all our men", "black men are stupid", "oh he's a sell out", this and that and the third...cuz really ladies, HE IS NOT THINKING ABOUT YOU NOR BLACK WOMEN AS A GROUP, and NEITHER IS THE WHITE WOMAN WHO HAS HIM! Stop tormenting yourselves and do what you gotta do! *smooches! lol (i know that was long, sorry i really got going on this one)[/quote] PREACH GIRL! PREACH!
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Thats amazing that so many of

Thats amazing that so many of us were thinking the same thing about those kids. When I saw the pic of Tomlin a smile just spread across my face. I knew I loved that man for a reason. I'm so sick of these black men ALWAYS messing with these OTHER women. What, when you start making money black women arent good enough for you? This mess is SAD!!! I'm honestly pissed off about it.. UGH!!
luv2bnvd's picture

We come in all shades and

We come in all shades and colors. What makes many of you think that the babies of these football players aren't by some light skinned chick? I'm just saying. HOWEVER...I know what yall mean though and I understand the pain and hurt, because that's what it is. When we see successful black men make it we do want to see a black woman on his arm. Which is why so many of us love to see Barack and Michelle. We have this thing for black men. We adore seeing Kimora and her chocolate man Djimon. So when we see Tiger who married the nanny we just shake our heads in heavy disapproval. We just can't help but to wonder what is so wrong with loving a sista! We see pics of Michael Jordan and his "other" boo, Jamie Foxx and on the low with his, we even had the hot producer Pow whatever his name was say he was the king of white girls. Where is our love? Where is our appreciation? And I'm not talking about the cover of King magazine. How many white entertainers do you see boo'd up with blacks? I'm talking about A listers here HOW MANY? Immediately you can name the black women who are dating white men not the other way around, interesting. Black women got too much mouth, too head strong, trust issues... a lot of that goes right back to the black man, the absent father, the broken promises. Whew the issues there. Fathers be good to your daughters! Good subject for my blog indeed.I don't think the women on this board are not bitter they just don't understand how some black men can't appreciate what's standing right in front of him.
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~*I asked the question, with

~*I asked the question, with an inquiring mind*~ At the end of the day any and all reasonable adults have the 'choice' to mate, date and procreate with whomever they choose. That is the awsomeness of the America and the world. I have seen a person half korean and half black, or half puerto rican and half japanesse. Any two humans regardless of 'race' can make a child. As a black woman my only question was really about financial status and why does a woman on non color equate "We've made it on up to the east side!" I've seen alot of broke interacial couples especially in the south, but I still think that is it still about status. What have we as black women done [or not done] to make them feel that a non black woman should be treated better or makes them feel as if they have a better 'status' or even make them more humble [meaning she ain't no 'ho', 'trick', 'freak' or 'gold digger']. It's different.........if I say 'I want a white man' just for the sake of having a white man, then in essence I am prejudice to my own kind, but if I meet someone who is not my race, and we just click and grow into something great, that's not a race thing, that's a relationship thing. Some black men say to themselves "I want a white gal!" that's prejudice, but if they honestly meet a non black person [white, korean, asian or other] and just happen to fall in love naturally, then that is understandable. I still feel that the reason that 70% of black women are 'single' [not married, may have a man or baby daddy but no ring] is because of something...............WHAT? Signed Another inquiring moment
!*~Mz D! ThornTon #50 2009-Blak folk happy!~'s picture

Prez Obama involved in the

Prez Obama involved in the community, that's a wonderful and positive thing for everyone to see. They are giving back and showing us what we need to go back to real african american families! There is hope yall!! I'm proud of the Coach and glad that he was able to make history! Thank God for the Prez's transparency as well!
DivineQueen's picture

In my last post I meant to

In my last post I meant to say GENES. Thankyou
Bree's picture

Understand that...WHITE WOMEN

Understand that...WHITE WOMEN CAN ONLY HAVE BLACK MEN,BECAUSE BLACK MEN WANT WHITE WOMEN. Note: No one can take away someone who has never been theirs to begin with. So we as BLACK WOMEN have to stop focusing on THE BLACK MAN AND THE WHITE WOMEN...HONESTLY, IN MY OPINION, LET THEM MIX AND MINGLE AND MAKE BABIES OF COLOR. THIS WAS THE INTENTION OF OUR SUPERIOR BEING ANYWAY. (UNDERSTAND OUR GENDES ARE VERY DOMINANT, THEY ALWAYS COME HERE LOOKING LIKE US(BLACK PEOPLE). So KNOW IT'S A BEAUTIFUL THING, AND LET IT GO, BECAUSE IT'S NOT THAT IMPORTANT. Besides you have to be confident within yourself. AND THAT I AM. Never once will I be intimidated or mad with a WHITE WOMAN because she dates the man that is the same color as I am.
Bree's picture

oh oops guess I should have

oh oops guess I should have read the postings before commenting.. lol oops
jade's picture

This may sound

This may sound horrible..hopefully not racist but why do most of these althetes kids appear to be all mixed babes?? Dont tell me all the things i've been hearing about black men "upgrading" to "other" women once they make a little cheddar.. Its a shame..lol
jade's picture

It can and does happen. I've

It can and does happen. I've been to 3 black weddings in the past 2 years and I just got married last year to an educated, tall, handsome, black man with no kids and great character that I have dated for 3.5 years. He was just getting by when we met but as the relationship inspired him to step up his game he entered and is now completing grad school and doing the damn thing now. And now that I see these dudes rap sheets...none of those ballers seem like catches anyway. It is all about character. Of the single men in my circle, many of them already had kids out of wedlock...and frankly when that is the case they are not pressed to get married to have a family because some woman/women already gave them one without the paperwork and commitment. My husband (raised by a single mom and no idea who his dad is) on the otherhand refused to have a kid out of wedlock, never had unprotected sex (not even in our 3.5 years of dating) and wanted a family but only within a marriage. Some brothers do actually share those values. We do need to get back to marriage and stable family structures...the lack of them is a major part of the problems in our community. I wonder if this tough economy where it is even harder for one to make it solo than it already was will inspire more nuptials.
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[quote comment="411376"]A

[quote comment="411376"]A little over a year ago, I went out on a date and was told by a successful (loved God, owned two homes, partnership track 5th associate at a large firm, actively involved in his community) black man that any "thinking black man marries a black woman, like Barack." Coach Mike Tomlin has been married to a black woman since 1995 and other two men are NOT married to their baby mothers and currently fighting court cases with them...mind you they play for a team and NOT are coaching at team. Black women, we need to let it go! If a black man does not want to date us, then he is NOT a thinking black man! Eric Holder just named US Attorney General has been married for years to a black woman who is a physician. So, find yourself a thinking black man![/quote] Exactly - Ladies please don't acknowledge Quinta or whatever,,, She is probably some chick working on a paper on how Black women re-act to dumb issues as this one - hell it he want's a white woman so be it - hell I have a degree - an honor grad - from a HBC - and proud of it. I work for my dad - he owns his own business- and I am happy as hell. I luv this site b'cuz I like to escape for a minute. Ole whitey if in fact she is, is a trip. She is funny - looking for her fame trying to upset us - Please!
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A little over a year ago, I

A little over a year ago, I went out on a date and was told by a successful (loved God, owned two homes, partnership track 5th associate at a large firm, actively involved in his community) black man that any "thinking black man marries a black woman, like Barack." Coach Mike Tomlin has been married to a black woman since 1995 and other two men are NOT married to their baby mothers and currently fighting court cases with them...mind you they play for a team and NOT are coaching at team. Black women, we need to let it go! If a black man does not want to date us, then he is NOT a thinking black man! Eric Holder just named US Attorney General has been married for years to a black woman who is a physician. So, find yourself a thinking black man!
Lisa's picture

[quote comment="411307"]I

[quote comment="411307"]I really don't understand why everyone is on here arguing about if these football players are married to white women... The fact of the matter is: HOW MANY BLACK MEN DO YOU SEE GETTING MARRIED PERIOD? Marriage within the black community is a distant memory..and its sad to say. You see young ppl growing up, not even wanting to get married because they don't think it's feasible. Black women would have a higher opportunity of marriage if we would stop feeling bad and guilty for dating outside of our race. Society is not as accustomed to seeing a black woman with a white man, per say, but you can't live your life miserable because your afraid of taking a chance and not willing to have to fight a little (against societal norms) to find true happiness. I'm saying. If black men are so quick to go and date, marry, start a family, outside of their race, then black women can too AND LOVE IT! Stop complaining about, "oh, another one took our men", "these white girls are taking all our men", "black men are stupid", "oh he's a sell out", this and that and the third...cuz really ladies, HE IS NOT THINKING ABOUT YOU NOR BLACK WOMEN AS A GROUP, and NEITHER IS THE WHITE WOMAN WHO HAS HIM! Stop tormenting yourselves and do what you gotta do! *smooches! lol (i know that was long, sorry i really got going on this one)[/quote] OOh Reality check!! I went out with a white guy the other day (I've been actively seeking awhite dude to date since so many throw themselves at me and I cant find a brutha to save my life) and I swear, every brutha in that place (white a white woman on his arm mind you) was giving ME the evil eye like I did something wrong!!! What was my other option? Stay home and make brunch for my lonlyself?? Hells to tha naw. you gotta get yours, and I gotta get mine! I certainly prefer a black man with a good job and all his teeth but if I gotta settle, its gonna be on the color of his skin... not the content of his character.
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James Harrison is also NOT

James Harrison is also NOT married to the mother of his child: In March 2008, Harrison was arrested and charged with simple assault and criminal mischief stemming from a domestic altercation with his girlfriend.[19] On April 3, 2008 the district attorney dropped all charges because Harrison had completed anger management counseling and psychological counseling.[20] The arrest gained some controversy after the team released wide receiver Cedrick Wilson in a similar but unrelated incident around the same time but not Harrison, with the Steelers even issuing a press release shortly after they released Wilson stating that the Harrison incident and Wilson's incident were examined "on a case-by-case basis" and Wilson's incident determined that he needed to be released while Harrison had "taken responsibility for his actions."[21]
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[quote comment="411307"]I

[quote comment="411307"]I really don't understand why everyone is on here arguing about if these football players are married to white women... The fact of the matter is: HOW MANY BLACK MEN DO YOU SEE GETTING MARRIED PERIOD? Marriage within the black community is a distant memory..and its sad to say. You see young ppl growing up, not even wanting to get married because they don't think it's feasible. Black women would have a higher opportunity of marriage if we would stop feeling bad and guilty for dating outside of our race. Society is not as accustomed to seeing a black woman with a white man, per say, but you can't live your life miserable because your afraid of taking a chance and not willing to have to fight a little (against societal norms) to find true happiness. I'm saying. If black men are so quick to go and date, marry, start a family, outside of their race, then black women can too AND LOVE IT! Stop complaining about, "oh, another one took our men", "these white girls are taking all our men", "black men are stupid", "oh he's a sell out", this and that and the third...cuz really ladies, HE IS NOT THINKING ABOUT YOU NOR BLACK WOMEN AS A GROUP, and NEITHER IS THE WHITE WOMAN WHO HAS HIM! Stop tormenting yourselves and do what you gotta do! *smooches! lol (i know that was long, sorry i really got going on this one)[/quote] Dang girl PREACH. How many of them are getting married. It's 2009, We have a black president. If we can't find our own Obama then maybe we're looking in the wrong direction.
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Larry Fitzergad is NOT

Larry Fitzergad is NOT married and the mother of his baby is a white woman: In December 2007, a Star Tribune columnist reported that a former Oakland Raiders cheerleader, Angela Nazario, was alleging that Fitzgerald had impregnated her.[17] Fitzgerald's father later said that his son had acknowledged paternity and "is a devoted father."[16] Nazario filed for and won an order of protection against Fitzgerald in December of 2008, alleging that Fitzgerald had shoved her during a domestic disturbance. No charges were filed.[18] In a January 2009 press conference, Fitzgerald's father said of the accusations, "She's just trying to get a lot of money." His lawyers have said that they cannot discuss the case because a judge had sealed it.[16]
Lisa's picture

I really don't understand why

I really don't understand why everyone is on here arguing about if these football players are married to white women... The fact of the matter is: HOW MANY BLACK MEN DO YOU SEE GETTING MARRIED PERIOD? Marriage within the black community is a distant memory..and its sad to say. You see young ppl growing up, not even wanting to get married because they don't think it's feasible. Black women would have a higher opportunity of marriage if we would stop feeling bad and guilty for dating outside of our race. Society is not as accustomed to seeing a black woman with a white man, per say, but you can't live your life miserable because your afraid of taking a chance and not willing to have to fight a little (against societal norms) to find true happiness. I'm saying. If black men are so quick to go and date, marry, start a family, outside of their race, then black women can too AND LOVE IT! Stop complaining about, "oh, another one took our men", "these white girls are taking all our men", "black men are stupid", "oh he's a sell out", this and that and the third...cuz really ladies, HE IS NOT THINKING ABOUT YOU NOR BLACK WOMEN AS A GROUP, and NEITHER IS THE WHITE WOMAN WHO HAS HIM! Stop tormenting yourselves and do what you gotta do! *smooches! lol (i know that was long, sorry i really got going on this one)
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[quote comment="410827"]Mike

[quote comment="410827"]Mike is obviously the only one that likes the sistas.... SMH[/quote] As much as I'm sure these men love their children, I'm sure they wish they could see more of themselves in their babies. Sad!
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[quote comment="411118"]I

[quote comment="411118"]I have read all of the posts and although I do feel the pain of the black women having beennot submissive, but terribly naive in thinking that I had true black love @ one point in my life and putting up with a cheating man who had not one but two bi-racial children during our relationship, and yes he was had a great football career ahead of him until he was shot. I thought I needed to be validated by black men, but it wasn't his color or preference, hell after we split I heard a lot of stories about him, hell he was even in a three way with two girls from India, so a ho is a ho, and a cheater is a cheater. Like the female above I realized that black men weren't the only men I could find happiness with. Hell I'm not ugly. I had a lot of asian men and white men ask me out but I was too afraid at one point. I did date the asian guy but he was too afraid to get too serious because he was taking care of his mother, but he treated me so nice, was very respectful. The white men when I had conversations with them, I discovered that they were interested but they were very afraid to take me home, they wanted it to be "in the dark", (mind you this is a small rural area)and they openly told me that biracial dating was out-of-the question according to their parents it was taught very early on that you don't date outside of your race. So I never dated white men in this area because of that. If I lived somewhere else less racist and prejudiced, maybe I'd be less afraid. I just have this image of some old white man/woman calling me a nigger, and me snapping the f*ck out. So I can see both sides of that. Hell my maternal and paternal families are melting pots too, and my daughter's brothers and sisters are all bi-racial, and it's funny because her father and I argued about halle berry because he was upset she had a baby by a white man, and when I explained that she was just as much white as she was black, just like Obama, he got pissed off and said his kids were black, yet their mother has blond hair and blue eyes. shit is ridiculous, brothers are something else.[/quote] NO YOU CAN'T, SEEK JESUS.
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[quote comment="411130"]The

[quote comment="411130"]The only other person on earth that will ever understand is an Asian man because they suffer from the same situation as Black women...right or wrong ...there is pain there on this topic....and it should not be minimized. Just check this out as an example: It is on The Best of Craigslist (search for it, since I can't link to it here) To the Asian Girl Whom I offended with my Asian-ness - m4w Date: 2009-01-03, 9:20PM PST You: Asian, young(ish), cute, petite, left-of-center, cosmopolitan. Me: The Asian guy you would never dream of giving a second glance. Hi! I’m so sad that you were offended by my very presence at your favorite boutique coffee shop. Seriously, I was just there to do some work and maybe a bit of reading – I didn’t mean to draw attention to the fact that you too, are also Asian. I was just looking for a quiet place to sit, and the seat by you just happened to be open. It’s not like peed all over you, put my arm around your shoulder, and screamed to all the other patrons in a heavy Chinese accent, “She mine! You all stay away!” After I sat down and pulled out Said’s Orientalism (no joke), you, in all of your ignorant glory, proceeded to loudly flirt with the nearest non-Asian man with a pulse to dissuade any romantic overtures from me. Lady, I already know you only date white guys; you don’t even have to open your mouth. Ever since Chad took you out back in high school and made you the envy of all homecoming, you’ve understood the magical power of white boys. Your parents balked until they saw how well Chet treated you and made you so so so happy. You tell yourself you don’t see color lines, and that you’re ending racism by only dating white guys – and you give yourself a little pat on the back every night before dreaming of waking up with beautiful blonde hair. You’ve even thrown in a black guy or two, just to get back at daddy. Asian guys? Like, gag me with a spoon! Hey, I applaud you. You’re totally progressive. Never mind all that bukakke stuff Jeremy keeps wanting to do (I wonder where he gets these ideas?). No need to worry about Scotty’s browser history pointing to asianteensluts.com. Totally normal! What red-blooded American man doesn’t want to bang a Japanese high school girl? Honestly, if I were in your stilettos, I’d do the same thing. If white girls were all over me ‘cause of my nice, smooth skin, my mad computer skills and wispy peach fuzz, I’d ride that white stallion to all glory. But since I’m 6’2”, 200 lbs. with 4% body fat and a PhD, I guess I’ll have to settle for one of our more racist Asian sistahs. * Location: Westside * it's NOT ok to contact this poster with services or other commercial interests PostingID: 979427049[/quote] GET A JOB.
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YAY STEEEELERSSS!!!!

YAY STEEEELERSSS!!!! LOL These are some lovely babies...but why do they all look like the same kid lol. Too cute. LOVE LOVE LOVE THE OBAMAS. 2009 AND BEYOND! He really needs to stop and make a public visit when he comes to Canada on the 19th.
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POTUS and First Lady look

POTUS and First Lady look absolutely radiant...you can tell that they really love children. It' amazing to me how all those big black ass football players don't have big black babies...do they hate their color that much...that they had to make sure their babies were light.
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Frantz Fanon: Black Skin,

Frantz Fanon: Black Skin, White Mask. Seems they like to bang "certains ones" cuz its easy... then when they find one that wont give it up so quick, they marry her. (She's the one that lets em whoop her azz and sleep with other women so long as her credit card is accepted)
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Harrison is an asshole, all

Harrison is an asshole, all that roughness on the play was uncalled for... Monica needs to change that hair, I never liked it from the get go...it's been months boo...come on Michelle looks fab sans the make up and Barack always looks handsome
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Well, it is funny the pics

Well, it is funny the pics where posted that way so we could speak on it. But honestly we don't know them peoples business and I really don't care. They gettin' paid like crazy and I'm not. But I know we can agree on one thing... those kids look happy and healthy and their daddies are in their lives. That's the best thing. Okay, I'm done on the soap box. Monica's outfit is silly lookin'. That's my time folks...
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Doesn't it look like the the

Doesn't it look like the the lil white boy's jersey in the pic with Fitzgerald says "cracker"? im just sayin.......
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[quote comment="411130"]The

[quote comment="411130"]The only other person on earth that will ever understand is an Asian man because they suffer from the same situation as Black women...right or wrong ...there is pain there on this topic....and it should not be minimized. Just check this out as an example: It is on The Best of Craigslist (search for it, since I can't link to it here) To the Asian Girl Whom I offended with my Asian-ness - m4w Date: 2009-01-03, 9:20PM PST You: Asian, young(ish), cute, petite, left-of-center, cosmopolitan. Me: The Asian guy you would never dream of giving a second glance. Hi! I’m so sad that you were offended by my very presence at your favorite boutique coffee shop. Seriously, I was just there to do some work and maybe a bit of reading – I didn’t mean to draw attention to the fact that you too, are also Asian. I was just looking for a quiet place to sit, and the seat by you just happened to be open. It’s not like peed all over you, put my arm around your shoulder, and screamed to all the other patrons in a heavy Chinese accent, “She mine! You all stay away!” After I sat down and pulled out Said’s Orientalism (no joke), you, in all of your ignorant glory, proceeded to loudly flirt with the nearest non-Asian man with a pulse to dissuade any romantic overtures from me. Lady, I already know you only date white guys; you don’t even have to open your mouth. Ever since Chad took you out back in high school and made you the envy of all homecoming, you’ve understood the magical power of white boys. Your parents balked until they saw how well Chet treated you and made you so so so happy. You tell yourself you don’t see color lines, and that you’re ending racism by only dating white guys – and you give yourself a little pat on the back every night before dreaming of waking up with beautiful blonde hair. You’ve even thrown in a black guy or two, just to get back at daddy. Asian guys? Like, gag me with a spoon! Hey, I applaud you. You’re totally progressive. Never mind all that bukakke stuff Jeremy keeps wanting to do (I wonder where he gets these ideas?). No need to worry about Scotty’s browser history pointing to asianteensluts.com. Totally normal! What red-blooded American man doesn’t want to bang a Japanese high school girl? Honestly, if I were in your stilettos, I’d do the same thing. If white girls were all over me ‘cause of my nice, smooth skin, my mad computer skills and wispy peach fuzz, I’d ride that white stallion to all glory. But since I’m 6’2”, 200 lbs. with 4% body fat and a PhD, I guess I’ll have to settle for one of our more racist Asian sistahs. * Location: Westside * it's NOT ok to contact this poster with services or other commercial interests PostingID: 979427049[/quote] Hey, I wanna bang a Japanese high school girl!!!! Me love them long time....
PlasticSoul's picture

Monica is in great shape to

Monica is in great shape to have had two kids. Go girl!
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[quote comment="410841"]I was

[quote comment="410841"]I was gonna say something about the babies but I will resist the urge and move on to bigger and blacker things. The pres and first lady are too awesome! Mrs. Obama looks excited to be around the children. How I wish she would have another baby--a boy this time.[/quote] I betcha there was an Inauguration Night conception....lol. Barack Obama, Jr. Awesome! She's still young enough at 45 to birth one more out. Fingers crossed!
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[quote comment="411130"]The

[quote comment="411130"]The only other person on earth that will ever understand is an Asian man because they suffer from the same situation as Black women...right or wrong ...there is pain there on this topic....and it should not be minimized. Just check this out as an example: It is on The Best of Craigslist (search for it, since I can't link to it here) To the Asian Girl Whom I offended with my Asian-ness - m4w Date: 2009-01-03, 9:20PM PST You: Asian, young(ish), cute, petite, left-of-center, cosmopolitan. Me: The Asian guy you would never dream of giving a second glance. Hi! I’m so sad that you were offended by my very presence at your favorite boutique coffee shop. Seriously, I was just there to do some work and maybe a bit of reading – I didn’t mean to draw attention to the fact that you too, are also Asian. I was just looking for a quiet place to sit, and the seat by you just happened to be open. It’s not like peed all over you, put my arm around your shoulder, and screamed to all the other patrons in a heavy Chinese accent, “She mine! You all stay away!” After I sat down and pulled out Said’s Orientalism (no joke), you, in all of your ignorant glory, proceeded to loudly flirt with the nearest non-Asian man with a pulse to dissuade any romantic overtures from me. Lady, I already know you only date white guys; you don’t even have to open your mouth. Ever since Chad took you out back in high school and made you the envy of all homecoming, you’ve understood the magical power of white boys. Your parents balked until they saw how well Chet treated you and made you so so so happy. You tell yourself you don’t see color lines, and that you’re ending racism by only dating white guys – and you give yourself a little pat on the back every night before dreaming of waking up with beautiful blonde hair. You’ve even thrown in a black guy or two, just to get back at daddy. Asian guys? Like, gag me with a spoon! Hey, I applaud you. You’re totally progressive. Never mind all that bukakke stuff Jeremy keeps wanting to do (I wonder where he gets these ideas?). No need to worry about Scotty’s browser history pointing to asianteensluts.com. Totally normal! What red-blooded American man doesn’t want to bang a Japanese high school girl? Honestly, if I were in your stilettos, I’d do the same thing. If white girls were all over me ‘cause of my nice, smooth skin, my mad computer skills and wispy peach fuzz, I’d ride that white stallion to all glory. But since I’m 6’2”, 200 lbs. with 4% body fat and a PhD, I guess I’ll have to settle for one of our more racist Asian sistahs. * Location: Westside * it's NOT ok to contact this poster with services or other commercial interests PostingID: 979427049[/quote] Deep! Luvs it!
Alexandrite Pearl's picture

The only other person on

The only other person on earth that will ever understand is an Asian man because they suffer from the same situation as Black women...right or wrong ...there is pain there on this topic....and it should not be minimized. Just check this out as an example: It is on The Best of Craigslist (search for it, since I can't link to it here) To the Asian Girl Whom I offended with my Asian-ness - m4w Date: 2009-01-03, 9:20PM PST You: Asian, young(ish), cute, petite, left-of-center, cosmopolitan. Me: The Asian guy you would never dream of giving a second glance. Hi! I’m so sad that you were offended by my very presence at your favorite boutique coffee shop. Seriously, I was just there to do some work and maybe a bit of reading – I didn’t mean to draw attention to the fact that you too, are also Asian. I was just looking for a quiet place to sit, and the seat by you just happened to be open. It’s not like peed all over you, put my arm around your shoulder, and screamed to all the other patrons in a heavy Chinese accent, “She mine! You all stay away!” After I sat down and pulled out Said’s Orientalism (no joke), you, in all of your ignorant glory, proceeded to loudly flirt with the nearest non-Asian man with a pulse to dissuade any romantic overtures from me. Lady, I already know you only date white guys; you don’t even have to open your mouth. Ever since Chad took you out back in high school and made you the envy of all homecoming, you’ve understood the magical power of white boys. Your parents balked until they saw how well Chet treated you and made you so so so happy. You tell yourself you don’t see color lines, and that you’re ending racism by only dating white guys – and you give yourself a little pat on the back every night before dreaming of waking up with beautiful blonde hair. You’ve even thrown in a black guy or two, just to get back at daddy. Asian guys? Like, gag me with a spoon! Hey, I applaud you. You’re totally progressive. Never mind all that bukakke stuff Jeremy keeps wanting to do (I wonder where he gets these ideas?). No need to worry about Scotty’s browser history pointing to asianteensluts.com. Totally normal! What red-blooded American man doesn’t want to bang a Japanese high school girl? Honestly, if I were in your stilettos, I’d do the same thing. If white girls were all over me ‘cause of my nice, smooth skin, my mad computer skills and wispy peach fuzz, I’d ride that white stallion to all glory. But since I’m 6’2”, 200 lbs. with 4% body fat and a PhD, I guess I’ll have to settle for one of our more racist Asian sistahs. * Location: Westside * it's NOT ok to contact this poster with services or other commercial interests PostingID: 979427049
HauteLegalDiva's picture

TRUE.........................

TRUE..............................
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Just wow at this thread...

Just wow at this thread...
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