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Chrihanna UPDATE: Just Doing My Gossiply Duties...

A ridiculous amount of info/B.S. hit the net today regarding the Chris and Rih Rih. Here's the extra quick rundown from everybody's "sources": Rihanna is refusing to testify against Chris because she's had a change of heart and still wants to be with him, The D.A. received the full case today and likely has enough evidence to move forward without her testimony, the two supposedly got engaged in Miami a few days ago, the two supposedly got hitched in M.I.A. a few days ago. I honestly believe none of this ish but whatevs. Or maybe I'm just over all this foolishness already. Here's a couple of pics of Chris sneaking into Rihanna's apartment last night: WTF is the reason for sneaking after we've all seen you kiki'ing it up on waterskis with Rihanna's friends over the weekend?  Just sayin'... As if we cared, here's Dr. Phil's and "The View" ladies' 2 cents on the matter:

I am dying to go sit in his audience when he references this ish in an upcoming show of his just to scream STFU PLEASE. Simply because I have the urge. 'Tis all for now....
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I completely agree with

I completely agree with Whoopi. If a woman hits a man she is running the risk of getting hit back. I'm not saying that abuse is right, but if it isn't right for them it isn't right for us. I honestly believe that there is more to the story than we know and who's to say we'll ever know. I just think that it's funny that Rhi Rhi has stated before that she has a violent side yet no one has brought that up.
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yall some silly bitches...fo

yall some silly bitches...fo real tho.... Ain't no defending this lil ugly monster for his actions......first it was she had herpes so it was ok to kick her ass...Now its she started it..Yada-yada-yada....Just keep paying attention cause I can promise you that not only will he beat her ass again but he will beat another chicks ass too in the future. He has a problem. I've been there. He will not change,he'll only get worse. Run Rihanna run. Just like phil said. There are police repots that said chris has even gone off on his moms.... lil niggga gots a screw loose.
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i agree with the post above

i agree with the post above they both should do counseling otherwise this shit will continue and she will be seriously hurt. both career down the drain too.
Kerra's picture

BOTTOM LINE IS THIS: NO ONE

BOTTOM LINE IS THIS: NO ONE KNOWS WHO STARTED THE FIGHT BUT WHAT CHRIS DID WAS WRONG. HOWEVER!!!! PEOPLE NEED TO REALIZE THAT EVEN IF SENTENCED TO JAIL TIME THAT IS NOT GOING TO STOP THE PSYCHOLOGICAL MINDSET THAT LET CHRIS TO ASSAULTING RIHANNA, {THIS GOES FOR OTHER ABUSERS AND VICTIMS WHO RETURN TO THEIR ABUSERS AS WELL} THIS STORY IS SO MUCH MORE THAN A THE CELEBRITY CHRIS BROWN MAKING A MISTAKE, THIS IS CLASSIC EXAMPLE OF A VICIOUS CYCLE OF FAMILIES NOT CAPITALIZING ON AN OPPORTUNITY TO DIALOGUE ABOUT A SERIOUS PROBLEM AND MORE IMPORTANTLY SEEKING COUNSELING & PRAYER. I THINK MOST OF US KNEW RIHANNA WOULD GO BACK TO CHRIS, I CAN ONLY HOPE AND PRAY THAT IF INDEED IT IS TRUE--NO MATTER WHO STARTED IT BOTH FAMILIES CAN SEEK COUNSELING AND GO ABOUT THE SOLUTION THE RIGHT WAY.
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dr. phil know he trippin cuz

dr. phil know he trippin cuz if his wife robin attacked him with one of those heavy cast iron skillets( that i know his country ass be using) he would beat that ass til the point of no return.
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PHIL know he trippin... Cuz

PHIL know he trippin... Cuz if Robin (his wife) came after him with one of those heavy griddle skillets (that I know his country ass be using) he would tap that ass until the cows came home.
ahananeemous's picture

[quote comment="441963"]What

[quote comment="441963"]What was wrong with what Dr. Phil said? I think he was spot on.[/quote] I don't agree w/Dr. Phil, I think what Whoppi said is right. If a woman hits a man she should expect to get hit back. I agree that one should hit the other, but so many women hit men and think its ok, its not.
Geneva's picture

i'm with whoopi on this one

i'm with whoopi on this one
d's picture

For those of you who are

For those of you who are arguing that maybe Rhianna hit him first, then doesn't that make him BooBoo the fool for staying with her? The point is that everyone needs to act like an adult and keep their hands to themselves. Abuse on either side is WRONG. And I have seen more than a few arrests where they arrest both people in a domestic violence situation and charge both with assault. If Chris got hit, then he needed to prosecute.
khia213's picture

[quote comment="441976"]S.O.S

[quote comment="441976"]S.O.S PLEASE SOMEONE HELP THIS GIRL! Could someone please give me Rihanna's home adress so i can send them an early wedding present...im thinking boxing gloves for Christopher and a nice pink helmet for my girl Rih...hell i'll even throw in a body bag fo free...CHURCH![/quote] i'm not talking to you you are a fool lol
Pocahontas's picture

Rihanna needs to be alone and

Rihanna needs to be alone and find her self. Girls always think they need to be boo'd-up to be happy, but sometimes being alone is better. Violent men never change, they just mask their true selves until something triggers their anger. But, as long as Rihanna doesn't piss him off, she should be bruise-free. :)
kassy's picture

LMAO at the ridiculousness of

LMAO at the ridiculousness of all of this!!! who cares anymore..really?? at this point i think they BOTH are craving some attention...good or bad. all this sneaking so peeps can catch a peek? yeah...publicity...they don't even care if its negative b/c they just want their names on our tongues. i'd bet good money if this stopped being talked about each camp would make a statement...i'd LOVE someone to prove me wrong.
so mean's picture

Why is it that no one has

Why is it that no one has seen Chris' booking photo from when he truned himself in? I mean TMZ and People always and I do mean always have those photos. Yet this one time we have not seen not nary a picture of him.... maybe just maybe he had some knots on his head as well. Did she deserve to get beat up? Heck no but if he had lumps he didn't deserve it either. Don't put your hands on anyone unless you are up for a fight...PERIOD!!!!!!!!!
Judge Me Never's picture

Whoopi is stupid! I was

Whoopi is stupid! I was embarrassed for her yesterday. She does not represent the black community because we do not condole domestic abuse. Men are not suppose to beat women, period!
Toni's picture

Why do you have beef with Dr.

Why do you have beef with Dr. Phil Natasha!? I mean to me he MADE some of the best comments on the matter. He said Rihanna is making a big mistake by going back to Chris Brown THIS SOON! I felt that was great advice to Rihanna that if she wanted to be with Chris Brown she should have given him a type of "probation" -- wait until a professional clears with regard to his anger issues. That's smart to me. But to take him back simply because he's promising not to hit you is case book domestic abuse -- just because Rihanna and Chris Brown are famous does not change the rules on that --
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they say when a man has a

they say when a man has a pinky ring he is going to go crazy. also, if Rihanna is seen with a pinky ring engraved in her forehead, we will know whats up.
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I agree with Dr.Phil and

I agree with Dr.Phil and Whoopi my cousin whose a male got beaten everyday because he was taught not to EVER put his hands on a woman until one day she beat him so bad that when she left for work he left her with their sons, because he knew it would only escalate and he was stronger than her. I also agree with Dr. Phil because he said Never put your hands on a woman because a man dosent know his strenghts. But personal family histroy aside, we will see what happends today!
DanielleJ's picture

BMilligan you hit the nail on

BMilligan you hit the nail on the head! 19 & 20 yrs old going through ALL this drama! Pathetic. World at their feet. Just tragic!
Diva's picture

Natasha, wtf was wrong with

Natasha, wtf was wrong with what Dr. Phil said!? I mean come on.. This is a sad ass issue! And if you dont like it then oh well.. People need to realize that crap like this is serious, and then if somebody end up DEAD then you would say "Folks shoulda spoke up!" Whats up with this silent crap? Please! Thank you Dr. Phil for stating facts! And what the heck is that on chris brown's hand? A skull with a halo!? Confused much!? He need Jesus!
Diva's picture

I am so glad that Whoopi said

I am so glad that Whoopi said what she said... Abuse is always a one way street and I don't know why... I agree 100% with Whoopi that with the unconditional rule that men should not put there hands on women period.. Women should not put their hands on a man thinking that they will not get hit back.. I have seen so many times when a womna is going crazy hitting and slapping a man because of something as calling her a bitch. Just like they said if a man hits you leave.. But if a woman hits you is it ok?? Is it ok for women to beat on men just because if they were to say ok lets fight they would most likely lose.. In 2009 somethings just shouldn't fly anymore... And I can't wait to see what the facts are about this case because I just know that it is not what everyone thinks but it will be a lesson for many to learn from!
FrecklesMemphis's picture

i don't want to hear anymore

i don't want to hear anymore about this fuckery until chris goes to trial and get his damn sentence, that is all. and after that, am sooo glad won't be hearing from them musically for about a year, hopefully. and please for the love of all that is good, FIX THE SITE!!!!!
sea_sea's picture

I DONT THINK DR. PHIL SAID

I DONT THINK DR. PHIL SAID ANYTHING WRONG. AT ALL. AND I COSIGN WITH WHOOPI. SAD PART ABOUT THIS IS, I HEARD SOMEWHERE THAT THEY SAY THE PICS WE SAW WERE THE ONES AFTER SHE WASHED UP. AND THAT SHE REPORTED THIS WASNT THE FIRST TIME AND THE BEATINGS HAVE BECOMING PROGRESSIVLEY WORSE. MY TWO BIGGEST ISSUES: 1. YOU ARE FRICKING 19 and 20 YEARS OLD> WHAT IN THE HELL ARE YOU FIGHTING OVER. YOU AINT GOT KIDS, HOUSES TOGETHER OR MARRIED. NOT THAT ANY OF THOSE THINGS MAKE IT RIGHT. JUST A TADBIT UNDERSTANDABLE FOR A FIGHT. 2. RIHANNA. THIS IS ONE OF MANY CHRIS BROWNS THAT WILL BE IN HOPEFULLY YOUR LONG LIFE. TELL HIM TO GET TO STEPPING
BMILLIGAN's picture

[quote comment="442126"]I

[quote comment="442126"]I work in publicity and I gotta say, both teams should be fired for thinking this wasn't going to spin out of control AND for allowing Diddy to be involved, like WTF? Now, (according to various reports)she's lumped up, engaged, preggers, possibly married and staying in the home of yet ANOTHER possible abuser (Diddy). Jesus. Worse, she's on all 4 covers of the celeb mags: it's a complete circus. How are you hired to be on someone's publicity team but not making the proper "actions" to at least show people there's some sort of humility, counseling or progress being made while awaiting his court date? If his team is going to OK him in public, then why not hire paps to "catch" Chris at his church or going into a known Psychotherapists office in LA... (that's what they do anyways)something low key-- NOT LOOKING LIKE HE'S HAVING THE TIME OF HIS LIFE. TACKY AND SAD. You can't spring a speedy reunion on the public when they are still emotionally involved in the drama created by both the clients and the media. Something tells me we are in for a doozy of a statement by the time we hear the DA's decision post-arraignment. *popping my popcorn in the microwave.[/quote] I tend to agree with you! I am so dismayed by this whole situation! I thought Rihanna was smarter than this! How can a beat down bring you 2 closer??? There must be some serious psychological things going on with Rihanna! So sad!!!
Annie's picture

Rih cant leave that dick

Rih cant leave that dick alone. Yall will soon see that she is crazy in love and will do anythng to be with Chris.
The Troof!'s picture

Ok How do we know any of the

Ok How do we know any of the Miami pics are even recent??? I mean can we move on from this already...NEITHER camp is saying anything and the press is running rampid...with no confirms or denials of ANYTHING...lets let it go already...
LC's picture

singing "Break up to make up,

singing "Break up to make up, that's all we dooooo. First you love me then you hate me, that's a game for foolsss"
sasha fierce's picture

Whoopi is right to a certain

Whoopi is right to a certain degree but it doesn't really hold in this situation...because IF Rihanna did hit on him, it was clearly not equal to the damage he did to her. The proof is in pics of both of them after the accident. You should not put your hands on ANYONE but it's just a proven fact that men are stronger than women so that beat down was just unnecessary. We need to stop trying to justify his actions because if he did do it, it was wrong...celebrity or not. And she already said that he had beat on her before so how many "mistakes" are you going to make beating the one you "love"? Lastly, I feel that if your name is being slandered in the media, you would go in damage control and clarify if the statements against you were wrong. Chris acknowledged wrong-doing and did not deny that he hit her...what celebrity you know is not going to try to clear their name? However, there's clearly more to this story cuz I don't know what type of family/friends is going to sit around and be okay with her going back to an abusive relationship...
T's picture

OK for a moment let's put

OK for a moment let's put aside the actions of Chris and Rih Rih for a hot second. I work in publicity and I gotta say, both teams should be fired for thinking this wasn't going to spin out of control AND for allowing Diddy to be involved, like WTF? Now, (according to various reports)she's lumped up, engaged, preggers, possibly married and staying in the home of yet ANOTHER possible abuser (Diddy). Jesus. Worse, she's on all 4 covers of the celeb mags: it's a complete circus. How are you hired to be on someone's publicity team but not making the proper "actions" to at least show people there's some sort of humility, counseling or progress being made while awaiting his court date? If his team is going to OK him in public, then why not hire paps to "catch" Chris at his church or going into a known Psychotherapists office in LA... (that's what they do anyways)something low key-- NOT LOOKING LIKE HE'S HAVING THE TIME OF HIS LIFE. TACKY AND SAD. You can't spring a speedy reunion on the public when they are still emotionally involved in the drama created by both the clients and the media. Something tells me we are in for a doozy of a statement by the time we hear the DA's decision post-arraignment. *popping my popcorn in the microwave.
NoWay2Hollyhood's picture

I work in publicity and I

I work in publicity and I gotta say, both teams should be fired for thinking this wasn't going to spin out of control AND for allowing Diddy to be involved, like WTF? Now, (according to various reports)she's lumped up, engaged, preggers, possibly married and staying in the home of yet ANOTHER possible abuser (Diddy). Jesus. Worse, she's on all 4 covers of the celeb mags: it's a complete circus. How are you hired to be on someone's publicity team but not making the proper "actions" to at least show people there's some sort of humility, counseling or progress being made while awaiting his court date? If his team is going to OK him in public, then why not hire paps to "catch" Chris at his church or going into a known Psychotherapists office in LA... (that's what they do anyways)something low key-- NOT LOOKING LIKE HE'S HAVING THE TIME OF HIS LIFE. TACKY AND SAD. You can't spring a speedy reunion on the public when they are still emotionally involved in the drama created by both the clients and the media. Something tells me we are in for a doozy of a statement by the time we hear the DA's decision post-arraignment. *popping my popcorn in the microwave.
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[quote comment="442107"]A lot

[quote comment="442107"]A lot of people are saying that it's hard to see Chris Brown as an abuser but turn around and based on speculation know that Rhianna must have done something to provoke him. EVEN if Rhianna provoked him, his response needed to be reasonable to the threat she posed to him. Looking from the pictures I highly doubt that whatever people think that Rhianna did to Chris wasn't as severe as what Chris did to her...notice how there was no talk of Chris's bruises, probably because he didn't have any at all or any that warranted attention. Self-defense includes alot of things i.e. avoidance, awareness, de-escalation, alarm calls, but not retaliation in a manner that exceeds the threat being posed - any lawyer can tell you that.[/quote] Amen to that. Girl! they could have watched her ask him a question and get beat down and they would still be like "She deserved it, she hit him yesterday when the cameras weren't rolling" So sad.
lisa's picture

I heard Rih is a man in real

I heard Rih is a man in real life and Chris was pissed but he is willing to take the dick up his ass and be submissive. All the time we thought they were fuck'n was just foreplay. They plan on getting married in December and will be adopting 1,599 babies from Africa. They are in the process of building a new home next to B and Jay. There you have it folks. End of story!
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[quote

[quote comment="442110"][quote comment="442077"][quote comment="442061"][quote comment="442055"]love is waking up with a busted lip from my man love is fighting with my man like cats and dogs love is being rushed to the emergency room love is being publicly humiliated in front of the world love is...well love is...overated! thank you[/quote] love is beating my man down day after day love is publicly humilating him in front of the world love is .. a thin line ... thank you[/quote] i'm going to play devil's advocate and ask you how do you know she was beating him everyday? Another thing I want you to ponder is a 6'1- 6'3 i dunno lets say 180 lb man made of muscle fighting with a 5'7-5'9 slender woman, who do you suppose will win? I trying really hard not to take sides, but Chris' actions do not show humiliation or shame. Cheesing for the paps and jet skiing into the sunset while flexing arms doesn't look remorseful to me. Self-defense can just be restraint of your enemy, especially if you have training in Tae Kwon Do. Repeatedly hitting the person you "love" b/c you lost your willpower is a travesty...im smh at this situation[/quote] 5'9 yes but slender she is not. He wasn't cheesing for the paps. He was minding his own business on private property. No one but Rihanna knows if he is remorseful.[/quote] Why are you defending Chris Brown's actions? Are you his fan or something? He clearly has a physical advantage over her. Why stoop to that level of having a physical altercation with the girl? There were helicopters surrounding the area, he knew paps were around...if he didn't, then he has to be a fool, especially in light of recent events. His actions send out a very disheartening message. They are both in the wrong, yes, for fighting in the first place, but Chris took it to a whole other level with the beatdown that he gave out to his "love". It went deeper than self-defense, things were severe enough to put her in the emergency room, and SOME people are giving Chris the benefit of the doubt, while saying that Rhi did something to deserve it. WTF??? sry for typos.
sasha fierce's picture

Kids were sitting here

Kids were sitting here watching TV everyday awaiting her decision on what to do (she's a role model whether she wants to be or not) and she makes the decision to go back to him..Good lesson Rhianna, the whole world had her back and now we feel like she let everyone down..
Pinkgirly's picture

I always agree with Dr.

I always agree with Dr. Phil..He always keeps it 100.. I'm done with Rhianna, she made a dumb decision, she can have anybody but she wants someone thats going to beat her..I can no longer respect her for that, she won't be getting none of my money anymore..
Pinkgirly's picture

[quote

[quote comment="442077"][quote comment="442061"][quote comment="442055"]love is waking up with a busted lip from my man love is fighting with my man like cats and dogs love is being rushed to the emergency room love is being publicly humiliated in front of the world love is...well love is...overated! thank you[/quote] love is beating my man down day after day love is publicly humilating him in front of the world love is .. a thin line ... thank you[/quote] i'm going to play devil's advocate and ask you how do you know she was beating him everyday? Another thing I want you to ponder is a 6'1- 6'3 i dunno lets say 180 lb man made of muscle fighting with a 5'7-5'9 slender woman, who do you suppose will win? I trying really hard not to take sides, but Chris' actions do not show humiliation or shame. Cheesing for the paps and jet skiing into the sunset while flexing arms doesn't look remorseful to me. Self-defense can just be restraint of your enemy, especially if you have training in Tae Kwon Do. Repeatedly hitting the person you "love" b/c you lost your willpower is a travesty...im smh at this situation[/quote] 5'9 yes but slender she is not. He wasn't cheesing for the paps. He was minding his own business on private property. No one but Rihanna knows if he is remorseful.
Trina's picture

[quote comment="442107"]A lot

[quote comment="442107"]A lot of people are saying that it's hard to see Chris Brown as an abuser but turn around and based on speculation know that Rhianna must have done something to provoke him. EVEN if Rhianna provoked him, his response needed to be reasonable to the threat she posed to him. Looking from the pictures I highly doubt that whatever people think that Rhianna did to Chris wasn't as severe as what Chris did to her...notice how there was no talk of Chris's bruises, probably because he didn't have any at all or any that warranted attention. Self-defense includes alot of things i.e. avoidance, awareness, de-escalation, alarm calls, but not retaliation in a manner that exceeds the threat being posed - any lawyer can tell you that.[/quote] Applause for that one! Great critical thinking sigh
sasha fierce's picture

A lot of people are saying

A lot of people are saying that it's hard to see Chris Brown as an abuser but turn around and based on speculation know that Rhianna must have done something to provoke him. EVEN if Rhianna provoked him, his response needed to be reasonable to the threat she posed to him. Looking from the pictures I highly doubt that whatever people think that Rhianna did to Chris wasn't as severe as what Chris did to her...notice how there was no talk of Chris's bruises, probably because he didn't have any at all or any that warranted attention. Self-defense includes alot of things i.e. avoidance, awareness, de-escalation, alarm calls, but not retaliation in a manner that exceeds the threat being posed - any lawyer can tell you that.
naijasoul's picture

[quote

[quote comment="442080"][quote comment="442077"][quote comment="442061"][quote comment="442055"]love is waking up with a busted lip from my man love is fighting with my man like cats and dogs love is being rushed to the emergency room love is being publicly humiliated in front of the world love is...well love is...overated! thank you[/quote] love is beating my man down day after day love is publicly humilating him in front of the world love is .. a thin line ... thank you[/quote] i'm going to play devil's advocate and ask you how do you know she was beating him everyday? Another thing I want you to ponder is a 6'1- 6'3 i dunno lets say 180 lb man made of muscle fighting with a 5'7-5'9 slender woman, who do you suppose will win? I trying really hard not to take sides, but Chris' actions do not show humiliation or shame. Cheesing for the paps and jet skiing into the sunset while flexing arms doesn't look remorseful to me. Self-defense can just be restraint of your enemy, especially if you have training in Tae Kwon Do. Repeatedly hitting the person you "love" b/c you lost your willpower is a travesty...im smh at this situation[/quote] IS he supposed to sit in the house and cry??? Or TRY and move forward with his life? How do you know he isn't seeking help? Or that they aren't together???OH thats right you dont know. HE didn't kill her. He has a right to activities to take his mind off the stress. You don't know both sides. And clearly she has been on vacation and hanging out with him as well. So there are no sides to take. The situation happened. They are moving on...and so should we.[/quote] Yea he didn't kill her THIS TIME, but what if he kills her next time she "provokes" him?(someone who is clearly physiologically weaker) This is a situation that is unfortunately in the public eye and we are all learning how NOT to conduct a relationship. And it's not about him relieving stress, its making sure his significant other is healing emotionally, as well as physically. You know the whole world is watching and you cheesing with the battered woman's friends, while your ex/significant other/lover/fiance? is inside probably licking her wounds. What kind of fuckery is this? If you can't see what's wrong with this scenario then I have no words. I'm done
sasha fierce's picture

I heard a rumor she is

I heard a rumor she is pregnant, can anyone confirm or deny this??? I heard it on a radio show here in Texas.
Shunta's picture

sigh..................

sigh..................
Honesty's picture

They are going to be the next

They are going to be the next whitney and bobby. All they need now is a crack pipe.
Austinlady's picture

Why is Chris/Rhianna aspiring

Why is Chris/Rhianna aspiring to be the next Whitney/Bobby fiasco, booooo. They are on their way to the crack pipe.
Austinlady's picture

[quote comment="442029"]Okay

[quote comment="442029"]Okay Whoopi whatev chick! Because let your daughter come home from getting her a** beat and let her tell you, Mom I deserved it because I hit him first! WTFE! Whoopi would lose her damn mind. STFU you sound stupid. And ummmm... hello? what about the car and the dress. Im sorry but this sh** got extra real when you see/read about the car, the blood, the finger prints, the evidence showing that she was fighting to get away from him and got dragged across the console to the drivers side bleeding. He beat her a** while she tried to escape but could not. All that it proved to me that she is back with him is that this is an ongoing cycle of abuse and that this is not the first time.[/quote] Whaaaat!! Where you get this "evidence" smdh, if that's all true they deserve each other.
BadGirl23's picture

This is what happens when

This is what happens when it's no longer LOVE but an addiction. That person now becomes a drug and you feel as though you NEED them and have to have you fix of them. I should know :(
BOHO's picture

Why is it that everyone is

Why is it that everyone is associating the abusive man with the black man. Domestic Abuse/Violence is universal. I guess any person who has training in Martial Arts, should not be allowed to defend themselves (this is for people in general).
Shy's picture

[quote comment="442048"]why

[quote comment="442048"]why do black men think they can put their hands on black women? i know, all cultures have domestic violence and it's NOT just a black on black issue, but somehow it seems in our community we condone it. whether ri-ri started it or not (altho when u put ur hands on someone u don't know the consequences- that is, if she even did), he should have left the situation. ri-ri is tiny and to want to beat her down is repulsive. it's sociopathic to beat someone down and bite them. in addition when u love someone, u should never play dirty and step over the line and yes that goes for her too, but a man should never ever ever lay his hands on a woman. it's not like he slapped her, it's more like he BEAT her. someone needs to have sense in the relationship. oh, but i guess women should just st*u, right? and stay in their place? and ah hello, he's from an abusive family and he obviously has rage and violence issues. we need to protect our women and love them, not keep them in their place. sorry for the rant guys! dr. phil was right![/quote] I agree
Damn Shame's picture

So she married the abuser??

So she married the abuser?? Ike and Tina fo'real!! I'll wait for ya'll movie ;)
BadGirl23's picture

Why is that everyone is

Why is that everyone is associated the abusive man with the black man. Domestic Abuse/Violence is universal. As far as Whoopi goes, I doubt she would let any man beat her (black, white or india). She may tell him to get in the ring, so they can duke it.
Shy's picture

[quote

[quote comment="442077"][quote comment="442061"][quote comment="442055"]love is waking up with a busted lip from my man love is fighting with my man like cats and dogs love is being rushed to the emergency room love is being publicly humiliated in front of the world love is...well love is...overated! thank you[/quote] love is beating my man down day after day love is publicly humilating him in front of the world love is .. a thin line ... thank you[/quote] i'm going to play devil's advocate and ask you how do you know she was beating him everyday? Another thing I want you to ponder is a 6'1- 6'3 i dunno lets say 180 lb man made of muscle fighting with a 5'7-5'9 slender woman, who do you suppose will win? I trying really hard not to take sides, but Chris' actions do not show humiliation or shame. Cheesing for the paps and jet skiing into the sunset while flexing arms doesn't look remorseful to me. Self-defense can just be restraint of your enemy, especially if you have training in Tae Kwon Do. Repeatedly hitting the person you "love" b/c you lost your willpower is a travesty...im smh at this situation[/quote] IS he supposed to sit in the house and cry??? Or TRY and move forward with his life? How do you know he isn't seeking help? Or that they aren't together???OH thats right you dont know. HE didn't kill her. He has a right to activities to take his mind off the stress. You don't know both sides. And clearly she has been on vacation and hanging out with him as well. So there are no sides to take. The situation happened. They are moving on...and so should we.
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[quote comment="442018"][quote comment="441988"][quote comment="441983"][quote comment="441966"]I totally agree with THE PHIL[/quote] I totally agree with whoopi[/quote] i just watched it.. (i agree with her too)[/quote] You know what to a degree Whoopi is right, if she was the first to throw blows that was a no no; however, has anyone noticed how we are making an excuse for a man to abuse a women. If she punch him in the mouth he should have been a man and walked away. I was born and raised in the south and I have seen women in my family and friends constantly make excuses for triffling men. I have a saying that in the south women raise their daughters and spoil their sons. This is why Pookie still lives at home with his momma and mooches off his sister. The only way we can build a stonger black community is by building up our men to be men and not mamma's boys and punks who we make excuses for. I personally have never been abused by a mate, but I think that is because I have kept a standard of expectations for the man that I wanted ( I have been blessed with a beautiful Adonis of a man). Also, every guy I dated knew better than to look at me the wrong way, because I'll catch a case to protect myself for real! I say all black women should have high expectations, and one of those expectations is to not beat me like a dude when and if I piss you off. Let's stop making excuses for triffling men, FYI when was the last time any of us saw or heard of Whoopi dating a black man? She is willing to promote the triffling behavior, but she ain't gonna live with it.[/quote] Preach!
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