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Rihanna Hits The Club!+Diddy Explains Why He Let Chris & Rihanna Chill At His Miami Pad

Just a month after the beatdown situation, Rihanna was spotted leaving the club last night in L.A. She chilled for 4 hours sans Chris at CoCo de Ville nightclub--with her dark shades on the whole time. Then escaped in a red pickup truck. Something reeks of PR staging right here....

Diddy hit up the "Ellen" show yesterday and tried to explain why he lent his Miami house to Chris Brown and Rih in the midst of the scandal. He says he wanted to provide an environment where they could talk and work things out:
"I don't cast a judgment on anybody. It's a dark time for them, and I'm there for support."

And he says he can lend his house to whomever he damn well pleases. That's fine and all, but didn't he just say last week that he didn't know Chris was even bringing Rihanna. And that Chris told him it would just be him and his moms? Just sayin'... By the way, Chris' people say he will not be at the Nickelodeon Kids' Choice Awards.

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I DO NOT LIKE DIDDY! P.S.

I DO NOT LIKE DIDDY! P.S. GO TAKE CARE OF YOUR KIDS MR. COMBS! THE END...
ROSE's picture

Okay i post on these all the

Okay i post on these all the time cuz this topic jus keepz gettin more confusin as the dayz go by chris brown hit rihanna and i do feel it waz wrong of him but @ da same tyme he is in anger management also to da ppl who constantly compare him to ike turner da difference is ike turner did not get help but chris brown did!!!!! Kevin Powell even sed he waz abusive until he waz able to get help for himself. What Diddy sed on da show waz da truth!!!!!! We don't kno wat happened so who r we to keep sayin chris brown did dis and dat! Also I find it rude how ppl r sayin rihanna or any1 else is gettin abused is dumb, stupid, and shud get hit harder. I don't think any1 realizes it but you are puttin every1 down that is goin thru dis situation. It's not rite and i feel like ppl need to back off. Oprah to me itz sad u sed u wanted to help rihanna but to me u put her on blast!!!!!!!! If u wanted to help her so muchb u shud talk to her in private not on T.V. Another thing since wen do u feel now is da tyme to talk about domestic abuse? Newayz i pray for the people goin thru dis terrible situation!
V's picture

[quote comment="450177"]To

[quote comment="450177"]To everyone who doesn't understand why Rihanna went back to Chris...sit back & listen to what pretty much EVERY SINGLE Black celebrity (with the exception of Rosario Dawson, Tyra & JAYZ) has said on the subject...they're all basically REFUSING to cast judgement. Hello people, there are some actions we must judge as wrong in our society, and all of these people (Puff, Kanye, Will SMith etc) are basically condoning his actions. I have lost all respect for Puffy. He's a grown man who should be acting like he knows better, which leads me to wonder if he DOES know better. Whenever a man can't come out and say that ANYTIME a man hitting a woman is wrong, it leads me to believe that man is unable to do so because HE HIMSELF is an abuser. I'm a consumer who is part of the reason Puffy has the money to loan that mansion out to Chris Brown. From now on I will NEVER, EEEEVER support one thing he, Kanye, or the rest do. One thing these incidents teach me is to be more careful what I do with my hard earned money. It won't be wasted on all these WIMPS who are too cowardly to say it doesn't matter if they were in the car. What happened to her face should be ENOUGH to tell them that boy was past wrong. It boggles my mind to the point I feel like crying because it seems no one, including herself, truly cares about this girl. She needs to get away from Chris and get around people who care about her. It's obvious she has battered woman's syndrome...she has no self worth.[/quote] AMEN TO THAT!!! ESPICALLY THE PART ABOUT PUFFY, HE MAY NOT KNOW ANY BETTER WHICH IS REALLY SAD. HE HAD THE NERVE TO GET OFFENDED AT ELLEN ABOUT SAYING THAT IT WAS WRONG AND WOULDNT COME OUT W/ HIS PUNK ASS AND SAY THAT YES IT WAS WRONG FOR HIM TO BEAT HER ASS TO THAT EXTREME! I WAS THRU W/HIM A WHILE BACK BUT ESPICALLY W/ THE WHOLE I WANNA WORK FOR DIDDY MESS, WHO THE HELL DOES HE THINK HE IS, GOD! NOT SO MUCH!
Maya's picture

[quote

[quote comment="448541"]Honestly...I dont understand y women think that men are blessed with an easily suppressed temper...if you hit someone hard enough y dont u think hes going to hit you back....hellloooo....hes not God.....so she got wat she wanted...I mean why was she beating on him in the first place pls? Honestly Chris Brown is a youngin...he isnt fully grown yet...so hes not mature enough to try to at least control his temper..Diddy was trying to help the both of them work out their differences by giving his house....so what? its not like he gave it to only Chris Brown to play and have fun....Rihanna was there too so plssss....[/quote] SO..lemme get this straight..she hits him, and that's reason for him to do ALL that he did? What that boy did was not self defense, that was cowardly. I say cowardly because I doubt Chris would have tried to haul off and beat a man that way. Anytime you don't call that spade a spade, you are setting back our growth. Seriously, I wonder if when one of his girls reach 20 and they get Black eyes from their bf, Puff is going to offer them the same mansion to 'reconcile'. Hmmm. Maybe when Delilah hits her bf in the chest and he breaks her nose Puff will just wag his finger in their direction and tell them that 'sometimes relationships get ugly'. The man makes me barf. And I'm sad to say I used to be an ardent supporter of his, but now I'm pretty convinced he must beat his women too.
VOMIT on Sean Combs's picture

To everyone who doesn't

To everyone who doesn't understand why Rihanna went back to Chris...sit back & listen to what pretty much EVERY SINGLE Black celebrity (with the exception of Rosario Dawson, Tyra & JAYZ) has said on the subject...they're all basically REFUSING to cast judgement. Hello people, there are some actions we must judge as wrong in our society, and all of these people (Puff, Kanye, Will SMith etc) are basically condoning his actions. I have lost all respect for Puffy. He's a grown man who should be acting like he knows better, which leads me to wonder if he DOES know better. Whenever a man can't come out and say that ANYTIME a man hitting a woman is wrong, it leads me to believe that man is unable to do so because HE HIMSELF is an abuser. I'm a consumer who is part of the reason Puffy has the money to loan that mansion out to Chris Brown. From now on I will NEVER, EEEEVER support one thing he, Kanye, or the rest do. One thing these incidents teach me is to be more careful what I do with my hard earned money. It won't be wasted on all these WIMPS who are too cowardly to say it doesn't matter if they were in the car. What happened to her face should be ENOUGH to tell them that boy was past wrong. It boggles my mind to the point I feel like crying because it seems no one, including herself, truly cares about this girl. She needs to get away from Chris and get around people who care about her. It's obvious she has battered woman's syndrome...she has no self worth.
VOMIT on Sean Combs's picture

[quote

[quote comment="448963"][quote comment="448906"]I am sorry for your loss…but it really unfair to compare different situations. Your family has witnessed domestic violence on women, while my family experienced domestic violence on men. Either way, it’s not right. Unfair? You know whats unfair that I have to respond to people like you who somehow find it justifiable when a man puts his hands on woman.[/quote] To address me, use the quote button. Obviously, you misunderstood my comment. I don't condone domestic/physical violence on a female or a male. You spoke your personal experience, and I spoke mine. Got it? Good.[/quote] You want a quote..I got a quote for you "Fuck You" Now you got it? Good.
Tish's picture

[quote

[quote comment="448637"][quote comment="448524"][quote comment="448466"]This is the reason why Black America is the laughing stock of White America. And before you jump on me with your comments just think about it....Do you think that Justin Timberlake would haul of and beat the shit out of his girlfriend and then Donald Trump have them stay in one of his luxury Villas to help them patch things up?! A definitive Hell No! I don't care if she did hit him, he has a good 50 pounds on her. He beat the shit out of her and then said "Wait until we get home, Ima beat your ass." SO not only was this NOT the first time, but he spoke to her as if she were his slave. With that said, Sean Diddy Combs needs to be tarred and feathered for not minding his damn business and thinking that these two need patching up after one of them got their ass whooped by the other. Not only did he change up his statements, he basically condoned both of their behavior...do you think he would patch things up between his daughter and their boyfriends if they were in a similar situation. He just wanted to be in the mix as usual. And for everyone saying why do you care over and over again...heres why I care....my son asked me the other day, "why did Chris Brown beat up that girl that sings the ella ella song?"...he meant Umbrella. And I honestly had to sit back and say wow....what type of message does this send to our kids. Get your minds right people. This shit is black ignorance at its worst. I'm not saying Whites don't do the same thing, but they don't publicize it the way we do and then publicly condone. it. SMFH on all levels.[/quote] So true, my son is 9 & i tell him alllllll the time "Do not hit people, do you want people hitting on you? Whatever you don't like for yourself, don't do to others AND ESPECIALLY don't hit girls, would you like for a guy to hit me?" He says "No" "Rich & Famous" Chris Brown hits "Rich & Famous" Rhianna, they're on BET, MTV which no matter what Mommy tells his is the "bomb, best, end-all/be-all" so now "Rich & Famous" Rhianna goes back with "Rich & Famous" Chris Brown.....so what does that do to Mommy's 9 years of teachings to my son????????? Think about it people! Think about it when YOUR daughter is pre-K and Jermaine keeps hitting on her! What you gonna say then? "Who cares?" I don't think so![/quote] How bout YOU tell YOUR kids to keep their hands to themselves,run away, tell a teacher or an adult if that is not possible they need to be taught to defend themselves when being attacked and not just stand there and get their tail beat! It is YOUR job to teach YOUR children right from wrong NOT the people on the TV. Actually, I can't think of one thing the people on the TV do that kids should look up to besides the prez, so it sounds like you need to tell your kids that the TV is just make believe and that that ain't how the real world works! I keep hearing it doesn't matter what she did, WTF!! What SHE did caused the whole altercation! Violence is not ok.[/quote] How do we know she started the whole thing? That would be assuming that he's never hit her before. I'm sorry, "wait until we get home, I'ma beat yo ass" does not sound like someone who has never done this before. And even though I agree parents should teach their children the difference between right and wrong, not celebrities, there are alot of parents who don't. And their kids are the ones at home watching this play out thinking that it's normal for a man to hit a woman, and not having a mature and responsible adult to explain to them that it isn't. Case in point, Chris Brown. Obviously his mother neglected to get him the counseling that he needed.
Michella's picture

Are Chris and Rihanna being

Are Chris and Rihanna being used as scapegoats to detract voters from Barack's failing presidency? If oprah is doing this for that reason, she is downright evil, and worse than a child molester. Are Chris and Rihanna being used as scapegoats to detract voters from Barack's failing presidency? If oprah is doing this for that reason, she is downright evil, and worse than a child molester. Are Chris and Rihanna being used as scapegoats to detract voters from Barack's failing presidency? If oprah is doing this for that reason, she is downright evil, and worse than a child molester.
Oprah Using RiRi's picture

[quote comment="448340"]Diddy

[quote comment="448340"]Diddy is full of shit. I don't like him[/quote] i second that & it is definitely coonery at it's finest. i'm so tired of diddy and so over this whole chrihannagate..
scj's picture

going to the club after you

going to the club after you got ass beat down is not classy at all hum hum whateva not taking that publicity stunt
CapeFlower's picture

[quote comment="449247"]COULD

[quote comment="449247"]COULD OPRAH WINFREY BE USING THESE CHILDRENS' PROBLEM TO DIVERT ATTENTION AWAY FROM BARACK OBAMA'S FAILING PRESIDENCY???? IT IS THE ONLY EXPLANATION FOR THIS INSANITY. THEY ARE BEING USED AS SCAPEGOATS. RASCIST POLITICIANS DO IT ALL THE TIME. NOW WE HAVE A BLACK PRESIDENT HURTING HIS OWN PEOPLE. SICK!!![/quote] ATTENTION POSTER: Please STFU immediately...that is all
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CorporateHoodB!tch your

CorporateHoodB!tch your comment just shut this post down!!!! End of thread!
Natasha's picture

amen to the comment above .

amen to the comment above . Black america needs to get it together. its truly embrassing.
katherine's picture

[quote comment="448466"]This

[quote comment="448466"]This is the reason why Black America is the laughing stock of White America. And before you jump on me with your comments just think about it....Do you think that Justin Timberlake would haul of and beat the shit out of his girlfriend and then Donald Trump have them stay in one of his luxury Villas to help them patch things up?! A definitive Hell No! I don't care if she did hit him, he has a good 50 pounds on her. He beat the shit out of her and then said "Wait until we get home, Ima beat your ass." SO not only was this NOT the first time, but he spoke to her as if she were his slave. With that said, Sean Diddy Combs needs to be tarred and feathered for not minding his damn business and thinking that these two need patching up after one of them got their ass whooped by the other. Not only did he change up his statements, he basically condoned both of their behavior...do you think he would patch things up between his daughter and their boyfriends if they were in a similar situation. He just wanted to be in the mix as usual. And for everyone saying why do you care over and over again...heres why I care....my son asked me the other day, "why did Chris Brown beat up that girl that sings the ella ella song?"...he meant Umbrella. And I honestly had to sit back and say wow....what type of message does this send to our kids. Get your minds right people. This shit is black ignorance at its worst. I'm not saying Whites don't do the same thing, but they don't publicize it the way we do and then publicly condone. it. SMFH on all levels.[/quote] THANK YOU!
Stacy's picture

***Hey Chris, why would you

***Hey Chris, why would you go jetski and have your kiss and make up session at Diddy's. Really? (WAS NOT A GOOD LOOK) ***Hey Rihanna, why not build a recording studio in your home? Then have Adonis give the media fake locations of your whereabouts instead exactly where you are? ***Rihanna now is going to nightclubs with shades on? Why not just build a club in your basement. Have a party with your real friends to cheer yourself up? ***Why can't both of you just stay out of the f*king media for about 3 months...we'll miss you--but that's the point. ***Even jurors have to be sequestered (not allowed to read newspaper/internet that might affect their opinion) for high profiled media cases. ***Why are their handlers not keeping them out of public eye…at least until after April 6th? ***Go back into hiding and let this shyt blow over. OOOOOH, unless this all bad f*king publicity stunt!!! :mad:
CorporateHoodB!tch's picture

Like I always say, Diddy is a

Like I always say, Diddy is a media whore who will do anything to stay in the news or feel as though he's relevant. If he hadn't let Chrihanna stay at his house, he would not have been on Ellen this week. It gave him exposure, yet again, by exploiting others. His routine is tired. [yawn]
jasperblue23's picture

[quote comment="449191"]i'm

[quote comment="449191"]i'm sorry but diddy's gay.....all that dancing and the girly mannerisms...it was just a lil much. there's nothing wrong with being gay...just sayin' moving along...he pretty much said what chris was ok because rihanna probably hit him first...he goes "i don't think anyone should hit anyone", which implies rihanna was getting what she deserved for hitting chris....and if you were paying attention, he got kinda passionate about it the reason why he's defending chris so much is because he hits women himself...he's just a big pig looking out for a lil pig i hate pigs[/quote] Agreed...when will people catch on to him?
Live4Gossip's picture

Sigh at the publicity

Sigh at the publicity opportunist that Diddy is. Public Relations 101: Media camps are trained to put out conflicting stories, so that way they can 1)offer an outlet the "EXCLUSIVE" to properly "clear up" the situation or 2) maintain the public's confusion on the matter because it's actually better for publicity. The option that promises incessant discussion is the one that wins. Also, if you think Diddy didn't know the real story about these 2 before he gave those kids the keys to his house, you're dead wrong.... and he's totally going to milk this for all that it's worth. Trust that his sneaky "i'm just being a friend" plan will play out very soon. What's sad about this is that Chris Brown can put out an album this summer and that shit will more than likely go platinum. I'm not saying I agree but that's just how it always plays out. SMDH on all levels of this foolery that is ChrihannaGate.
NoWay2Hollyhood's picture

[quote comment="449247"]COULD

[quote comment="449247"]COULD OPRAH WINFREY BE USING THESE CHILDRENS' PROBLEM TO DIVERT ATTENTION AWAY FROM BARACK OBAMA'S FAILING PRESIDENCY???? IT IS THE ONLY EXPLANATION FOR THIS INSANITY. THEY ARE BEING USED AS SCAPEGOATS. RASCIST POLITICIANS DO IT ALL THE TIME. NOW WE HAVE A BLACK PRESIDENT HURTING HIS OWN PEOPLE. SICK!!![/quote] what in the blue hell are you talking about?
why?'s picture

COULD OPRAH WINFREY BE USING

COULD OPRAH WINFREY BE USING THESE CHILDRENS' PROBLEM TO DIVERT ATTENTION AWAY FROM BARACK OBAMA'S FAILING PRESIDENCY???? IT IS THE ONLY EXPLANATION FOR THIS INSANITY. THEY ARE BEING USED AS SCAPEGOATS. RASCIST POLITICIANS DO IT ALL THE TIME. NOW WE HAVE A BLACK PRESIDENT HURTING HIS OWN PEOPLE. SICK!!!
OPRAH USING RIRI's picture

TESTOSTERONE TOPS ESTROGEN

TESTOSTERONE TOPS ESTROGEN ANYDAY!!!!!! Yea it was wrong for her to hit him first and it was wrong for him to beat her ass afterwards. If he needed to defend him self seems to me like one good lick woulda done it, not multiple ones w/ bitting. Some body on her said Rhi is a thick girl and her licks prob hurt, she isnt thick and even if her licks hurt they damn sure didnt hurt as bad as his did. Somebody said that's why Black America is a laughing stock...true...this is all sad on many levels.... Diddy sux.
Maya's picture

The reason why Diddy can't

The reason why Diddy can't cast a stone on Chris is because back in the day he beatdown his then girlfriend Misa Hyton Brim!
Tar Baby aka Coal Black African formerly known as African Gi's picture

i'm sorry but diddy's

i'm sorry but diddy's gay.....all that dancing and the girly mannerisms...it was just a lil much. there's nothing wrong with being gay...just sayin' moving along...he pretty much said what chris was ok because rihanna probably hit him first...he goes "i don't think anyone should hit anyone", which implies rihanna was getting what she deserved for hitting chris....and if you were paying attention, he got kinda passionate about it the reason why he's defending chris so much is because he hits women himself...he's just a big pig looking out for a lil pig i hate pigs
why?'s picture

@ HoneyBee You hit it on

@ HoneyBee You hit it on the nose!!!!! I do not believe that Ellen was saying it was wrong for Diddy to give up his house. He is grown! I think he should have chilled and allow both these very young people to HEAL APART first then get back together! Rihanna and Chris just had a fight and then two weeks later they shacked up at Puff's house. When did they have time to grow from the situation? It was too soon for them to be back together. Esecially after all that happened. I think people want to get on the "casting stones" bandwagon but no one is mad at them. I am not, but I think they should not be together right now because it is too soon. It is just not healthy and we do need to pray for them!
Natasha's picture

And P Diddy's dancing is

And P Diddy's dancing is awful. Dude looks about 60 when he dances.
Ange's picture

[quote comment="448466"]This

[quote comment="448466"]This is the reason why Black America is the laughing stock of White America. And before you jump on me with your comments just think about it....Do you think that Justin Timberlake would haul of and beat the shit out of his girlfriend and then Donald Trump have them stay in one of his luxury Villas to help them patch things up?! A definitive Hell No! I don't care if she did hit him, he has a good 50 pounds on her. He beat the shit out of her and then said "Wait until we get home, Ima beat your ass." SO not only was this NOT the first time, but he spoke to her as if she were his slave. With that said, Sean Diddy Combs needs to be tarred and feathered for not minding his damn business and thinking that these two need patching up after one of them got their ass whooped by the other. Not only did he change up his statements, he basically condoned both of their behavior...do you think he would patch things up between his daughter and their boyfriends if they were in a similar situation. He just wanted to be in the mix as usual. And for everyone saying why do you care over and over again...heres why I care....my son asked me the other day, "why did Chris Brown beat up that girl that sings the ella ella song?"...he meant Umbrella. And I honestly had to sit back and say wow....what type of message does this send to our kids. Get your minds right people. This shit is black ignorance at its worst. I'm not saying Whites don't do the same thing, but they don't publicize it the way we do and then publicly condone. it. SMFH on all levels.[/quote] I REALLY AGREE WITH YOU!!! Well written.
Ange's picture

[quote

[quote comment="449050"][quote comment="448372"]Diddy is such a bad role model, he shouldn't get this much publicity! Chris was wrong, so ppl should stop trying to justify his actions by saying we've all bin in one situation or another....I'm sorry but I have never been in that situation and even if I meet someone that's been battered, I wouldn't advise the person to stay in an abusive r'ship cos it leads to destruction.[/quote] i think Diddy means that people have disputes. Chris' and Rih's dispute made it to the media. I do not consider her a battered women. I just do not get it, we do not know the full story in that car. All we know is Rih was beat up but we do not know what injuries Chis incurred throughout this ordeal. It is soooo a double standard. Men can not hit but women can beat the hell out of you and it is okay. Done with Chris and Rih and everyone's opinion. God Bless People are only capable of seeing one color and nothing else. Diddy needs to shut up.[/quote] Oh foreal? I didn't know it was common and acceptable for relationship disputes to end with beatdowns... Anyways, I noticed that guys are sticking up for riri while most girls are defending Chris kinda interesting, I wonder why that is?
xyz's picture

[quote comment="448372"]Diddy

[quote comment="448372"]Diddy is such a bad role model, he shouldn't get this much publicity! Chris was wrong, so ppl should stop trying to justify his actions by saying we've all bin in one situation or another....I'm sorry but I have never been in that situation and even if I meet someone that's been battered, I wouldn't advise the person to stay in an abusive r'ship cos it leads to destruction.[/quote] i think Diddy means that people have disputes. Chris' and Rih's dispute made it to the media. I do not consider her a battered women. I just do not get it, we do not know the full story in that car. All we know is Rih was beat up but we do not know what injuries Chis incurred throughout this ordeal. It is soooo a double standard. Men can not hit but women can beat the hell out of you and it is okay. Done with Chris and Rih and everyone's opinion. God Bless People are only capable of seeing one color and nothing else. Diddy needs to shut up.
sherry's picture

Diddy need to stfu!! He's a

Diddy need to stfu!! He's a media whore! Why would I want to listen to a man who doesn't respect woman...who prefers to associate with women who doesn't respect herself...who signs artist on his label long enough for them to make (maybe) a million dollars and then puts out his own album to overshadow them. Who is always on the blog giving incoherent statements, peeing publicly, etc. He put himself out there just in case Chris Brown label decides to let him go, he'll be right there to sign him to Bad Boy. Whatever Diddy!!
deafjam04's picture

I'm sorry, but why is Rihanna

I'm sorry, but why is Rihanna going out in public news? Is she supposed to stay hidden in the house in shame because the world knows her business and has seen her effed up face? She's young and dumb, but still wants to have fun...NEXT Tasha, I LOVES you, but you know damn well Diddy wasn't quoted as saying that; a "source" was. Anyways, I kind of agree with Diddy ( :shock: Did I just say that?). He's a grown ass man and doesn't have to explain anything to anyone. However, if he didn't wanna be placed in the middle of this sitch, he shouldn't have put himself there by allowing them access to his home. Sidebar: Am I the only one who thinks Ellen was a little unprofessional in her approach? She came off very rude and ridiculing like she was disgusted with him/looking down on him for what he did. So much for not being judgemental, huh, Ellen?
Southern Queen Dee *IS THE PROUD GRANNY OF 3 BEAUTIFUL KITTI's picture

[quote comment="448906"]I am

[quote comment="448906"]I am sorry for your loss…but it really unfair to compare different situations. Your family has witnessed domestic violence on women, while my family experienced domestic violence on men. Either way, it’s not right. Unfair? You know whats unfair that I have to respond to people like you who somehow find it justifiable when a man puts his hands on woman.[/quote] To address me, use the quote button. Obviously, you misunderstood my comment. I don't condone domestic/physical violence on a female or a male. You spoke your personal experience, and I spoke mine. Got it? Good.
☆ Lola A♏ ★'s picture

I am sorry for your loss…but

I am sorry for your loss…but it really unfair to compare different situations. Your family has witnessed domestic violence on women, while my family experienced domestic violence on men. Either way, it’s not right. Unfair? You know whats unfair that I have to respond to people like you who somehow find it justifiable when a man puts his hands on woman.
Tish's picture

So, here's what i don't

So, here's what i don't get..some of you are makin' it seem like Diddy should've came out & told the media where Chris & Rihanna were? WTF for? The reason this bothers me so much is because I've been thru something very similar to this..minus the celeb status (lol), I know what it's like to have a man hit you..supposedly, the man you love & that says he loves you too. To make a long story short, me & this MAN are still friends to this day, we have talked everything out, we both got help & I have no regrets about what we had nor do I hate him. Don't blame Diddy for lending his house so they could try to talk things out, he's not the one to blame. And wtf ya'll mean HE had them out there in full view for the paps? Chris was out there jet skiing! If anything, how do ya'll know someone from Chris' camp didn't call the paps & tip them off? Ya'll kids trip me out. And don't keep blaming Chris for goin' off on her. Nobody knows if she put her hands on him first. And I'll say this again, if you're man enough to put ya hands on a n*gga, then be man enough to get some hands put right back on you. It's 3 sides to every story, his, hers & the truth! Nobody made any t-shirts or songs when Ike was beatin' Tina's azz, or how bout when Mike was beatin' Robin's azz? Sit down somewhere with all this Mickey Mouse b.s. Oh, & for lil mama that made the comment sayin' if we want real news to go to CNN.com or something...hell, I've been on CNN.com, MSNBC.com, NYtimes.com & EVERYBODY IS TALKING ABOUT THIS CORNBALL ISH!!!
Chan's picture

I don't particularly care for

I don't particularly care for Diddy, as I think he is very arrogant and cocky (despite his crazy swag and finesse you can't deny) however, I agree with him: That's his house! I mean WTF, media/people, in general forget their places and need to learn to stay out of other people's business. He wasn't out rallying for them to get together or use his home as the intervention spot---he was contacted about them using his home and for that reason, he is entitled, if he choose, to say yes. Moreover, it's amazing how Chris is the only one being held accountable for what transpired between him and Rihanna?!!! I mean most, if not all, read the statement of facts: He pulled over and tried to put her out of his car; he kept hitting with his right arm (translation: she was fighting him and he was defending himself); she called a friend and said have the police there waiting (Rihanna knitpicking); he pulled over and she snatched his keys and act like she threw them but was really sitting on them (why in the world did Rihanna take his keys after getting her behind beat would she take his keys instead of letting him go?) Now, I'm not justifying Chris's behavior by no means, he was wrong and took things too far; however, as a woman I am going to say this, Rihanna is just as wrong, she went through his phone (stop looking through his phone---rule 101, if you look you find), she starting cussing and fussing, then fighting him---WTF? Women don't get to hit men and think they are going to just walk away---he tried to get away and that didn't help! Therefore, if you keep hitting you will get hit. My point, Rihanna should be held equally responsible and he should press charges against her ass too, women need to learn to keep their hands to themselves if they don't want to get hit. Now for men who just abuse off GP, hell yeah they are wrong and should be dealt with accordingly by the authorities but for situations where women hit first, they should be held just as accountable! Lastly, I am looking down on Rihanna more because she is in a position to not stay in an abusive relationship---she has the financial means, unlike most women in that situation to LEAVE! For me personally, no, I don't know what it is like but what I know for sure is that I love me and I don't do the fighting....
Squeekbox's picture

It'm more than clear that

It'm more than clear that Ellen was less than pleased by Diddy's response. Sure, no one should be inclined to hit someone else, man or woman. But the evidence of the beating that Rihanna took (and that pic was supposedly the best looking, cleaned up version), should that she didn't stand a chance of really defending herself. So, we need our men to walk away in heated situations, rather than let out their aggressions. Chris damaged that girl's face, and we were able to see that be didn't even sustain a scratch! Oh well. I think Diddy was trying his best to be diplomatic about it, but I wish he would have taken a stance on the issue of violence toward women. No, we don't know what happened in that car, but we know that Chris wasn't the one who go his ass kicked!
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[quote comment="448809"]When

[quote comment="448809"]When I was ten, my aunt was murdered by her husband and her three children witnessed the whole thing...Based on the comments from some of the posters on here, if she hit him first that night then she deserved it. Any woman or worse man on here that thinks it is ok for a man to put his hands on a woman can come with me when we put flowers on my aunt's grave this Easter.[/quote] This is so very sad. My heart goes out to you. We live in a very violent society and we do not do a good job of equiping people with the skills they need to cope with anger. Aggression and Abuse are different things. We need to understand the differences when we speak. Unfortunately, the male brain does not fully mature until about the age of 25. Imgagine guns in the hands of imature boys....Perhaps this situation will at least allow us to discuss these issues. I have sympathy for both of these young people.
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[quote comment="448809"]When

[quote comment="448809"]When I was ten, my aunt was murdered by her husband and her three children witnessed the whole thing...Based on the comments from some of the posters on here, if she hit him first that night then she deserved it. Any woman or worse man on here that thinks it is ok for a man to put his hands on a woman can come with me when we put flowers on my aunt's grave this Easter.[/quote] I am sorry for your loss...but it really unfair to compare different situations. Your family has witnessed domestic violence on women, while my family experienced domestic violence on men. Either way, it's not right.
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[quote comment="448423"]Diddy

[quote comment="448423"]Diddy is dead wrong on this one! First and foremost he stated that he was not aware of the situation that Rihanna would be there! Now his stupid ass is retracting his statements by stating that his "FRIENDS" needed a placing to discuss what occurred! Stop the bullshit please! If that situation involved his daughter or mother, would he have let the guy stay there! Cut the self-righteous indignation Diddy! The fact of the matter speak clearly in the police report which states that this was abuse![/quote] Wrong! Diddy did not state he was aware of Chris Brown bringing Rihanna. Read your blogs carefulluy. What was stated, was a close friend to Diddy said; xyz.
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When I was ten, my aunt was

When I was ten, my aunt was murdered by her husband and her three children witnessed the whole thing...Based on the comments from some of the posters on here, if she hit him first that night then she deserved it. Any woman or worse man on here that thinks it is ok for a man to put his hands on a woman can come with me when we put flowers on my aunt's grave this Easter.
Tish's picture

Surprise surprise, another

Surprise surprise, another celebrity sits on the fence. If one of my boys tells me he battered his girl cos he lost his temper, even IF she hit him first, I'm damn well not gonna stick up for his actions or make excuses for him. I hear people speaking about this like it was a 'slip up', and that 'it happens all the time'. Is it really a stretch for a man NOT to beat the living daylights out of a woman?! But anyway, i'm getting bored of this myself, ppl will continue to make excuses for him, they'll continue to rationalise woman beating (she hit him etc.), girls will still love him, and he'll eventually start selling more records, so I'm just like whatever with this now.
Anartist's picture

[quote comment="448344"]Who

[quote comment="448344"]Who care, Diddy's right..he can let anyone he wants stay at his house. He shouldn't have to explain his actions to no damn body. Damn, people need to mind they business. He's GROWN![/quote] Hmm, mind their business. If he wanted people to mind their business, he should not have made his business open! He knew exactly what he was doing. He had them out there in full view of the paps. Why not take them somewhere private to deal with their issues.
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[quote comment="448400"]Diddy

[quote comment="448400"]Diddy is gay. Thank you.[/quote] hahaha......YES! My cousin saw him chillin' with a tranny in Miami!
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Chris withdraws from Kids

Chris withdraws from Kids Choice Awards. Chris Brown Withdraws From KCA Consideration LOS ANGELES, March 11 /PRNewswire-FirstCall/ -- A spokesman for Chris Brown said that, given the controversy surrounding his nominations for Kids' Choice Awards, he is withdrawing his name from consideration. "Chris very much appreciates the support of his fans and the honor they have paid him in the way of nominations for Favorite Male Singer and Favorite Song. Unfortunately, the controversy surrounding the incident last month has shifted the focus from the music to whether he should be allowed to be among those nominated. While Chris would like to speak to his fans directly about this and other issues, pending legal proceedings preclude his doing so at this time. Once the matter before him has been resolved, he intends to do so."
Nia's picture

the biggest killer of women

the biggest killer of women aged 15 to 45 is domestic violence. just saying
Lita's picture

im oer te whole damn

im oer te whole damn story..its just a stunt..it aint real..and diddy gets on my nerves..hes full of it
Maria Winters's picture

Rihanna should be in threapy

Rihanna should be in threapy getting help not going out to the club
Commenting Now!'s picture

IT AMAZES ME HOW PEOPLE HAVE

IT AMAZES ME HOW PEOPLE HAVE SOME MANY DIFFERENT OPINIONS ABOUT THIS TOPIC, BUT AT THE END OF THE DAY. WHAT YOU THINK DOESNT EVEN MATTER. IF PEOPLE WOULD FOCUS THIS MUCH ON POSITIVE THINGS THE WORLD WOULD BE A MUCH BETTER PLACE. GET OFF CHRIS' NUTS AND GIVE RHI-RHI A BREAK. LOVE HAS MADE US ALL DO CRAZY THINGS...MAYBE NOT THIS CRAZY...
I LOVE U CHRIS's picture

Girl, enough with the dark

Girl, enough with the dark sunglasses indoor and outdoor. enough with the entouraege (more people). enough with the hoping from limo to plane to limo to plane on backseats with frown. REMEMBER PAWN THE REPLAY ISLAND GIRL. enough with the foolywang. take them drak glasses, punk rock clothes, attitude. dress like the young 20s=oemthing year old lady u are. go there do a NATIONAL SPOT FOR YOUR MILLIONS OF YOUNG WOMAN OUT THERE. SHOW THAT BEAUTIFUL FACE GOD BLESSED YOU WITH AND TALK, SPEAK, REPRESENT YOUNG WOMEN OUT THERE AND TELL THEM "NO TO DOMESTIC VIOLENCE." JUST ONE PSA. come out of that shell and stop hiding behind COCO DE VILLE, DIDDY MENSIONS, JET SKIIS, NIGHTCLUBS, CHRIS BRWON VISITS AT URE HOUSE, AIPLANE AND BACKSEAT OF CHAUFFEUR LIMOS. ENOUGH IS ENOUGH. GOD MAD YOU A STAR GIVE BACK TO YOUR YOUNG FANS OUT THERE WHO LOOK UP TO YOU FOR POSITIVE POSITIVE MESSAGES NOT MATERIALISTIC/DUMB/CELEBRITY WORLD OF HINGS THINGS THINGS (DUETS WRITTEN BY PRODUCERS AFTER YOUR FACE GOT BLOODIED. ENOUGH) OTHERWISE SHAME ON YOU RIHANNA!!! SHAME ON YOU !! (c.b. not even worth mentionning. therapy before jet skiis)
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[quote comment="448720"]I

[quote comment="448720"]I totally agree with the girl who use to post "Diddy is the devil" he really is full of bullshit! He's going to open his house up to Chris Brown out of all people? With all thats going on in the world he couldn't find people more worthy to spend even a weekend there? And he killed it when he said "He doesn't pass judgement" Well he passed judgement real quick when he kicked Aubrey out of DK.[/quote] Reports are stating that Jay Z asked this favor of Puffy. RIhanna contacted Jay Z because she wanted to reconcile with Chris and Jay went to Puffy for a location they could meet privately. Jay Z cant be caught in this situation because of wifey and because he doesnt want the rumors to start again about them messing around. Diddy is the devil, he has nerve he is a womanizer as well as far as Cassie and Kim goes.
Thanks's picture

first and foremost, i am T I

first and foremost, i am T I R E D of this chris and rihanna mess .. everyone running to her side. i dont believe in N O O N E hitting each other. from what ive read, she has often started arguments and has hit him and this is the F I R S T time he has hit her. the media also blows things out of content as well, but i know you all have heard of the tv show on OXYGEN called SNAPPED .. so lets not act like women dont harm men cause they DO! as far as DIDDY,like CHAN said, he can do what he wants with HIS house. maybe he said he didnt know chris was there so the media would not bother them,who knows. and as far as chris jet-ski'n .. let the man jetski d*mn .. people act like him and her should have stayed in the house the whole time and talk talk TALK .. no! they should have done activites with each other hecks. we do not know her side of the story at ALL .. i am seriously tired and over this whole crap .. MORE PICS ON KANYE AND AMBER PLEASE ..
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