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Ciara Spotted House Hunting In Cali+Jill Scott And Fiance SPLIT Post-Baby!

Ciara and her superhero self Super C were spotted house hunting in Los Feliz, CA today in cutoffs and pink wedge booties:

Ok CiCi.

And Jill Scott has revealed that she and her fiance/backup drummer Lil John have split since she had baby Jett:
ESSENCE.COM: Congrats to you on your new bundle of joy, Jett Hamilton. How has motherhood been treating you? SCOTT: Wonderful. I named him after a black gemstone that my makeup artist in Africa had; it was simply called Jet, and I fell in love with it and the name because I thought my beautiful baby is a gem. I truly loved being pregnant and feeling what was going on inside my body and watching it change. It's difficult to recoup but still amazing nonetheless. I would have another one. ESSENCE.COM: So does that mean you had an easy labor of love? SCOTT: Not at all. I was in labor for 36 hours. After that experience, anytime I have reservations and think I can't do anything I remind myself that I survived the birth of my child (Laughs). Although I didn't scream my baby into this world, the pain continued after he was born for at least three weeks. During labor I felt like I needed to put the fire out. Everybody kept telling me the pain wasn't going to last forever but after 20 hours of it I left the building. I felt like I was on the ceiling looking down at myself like, Dag, girl, you still in labor? I know my experience isn't everyone's but I believe people need to be realistic when sharing their stories about their pregnancies and birth. When he arrived I held him in my arms for about an hour and then went to sleep because I was simply exhausted. ESSENCE.COM: Well, at least your hubby-to-be was there to support. How has he been adjusting to Jett? SCOTT: Yes, he was there and for a couple of days afterwards while I stayed in hospital, but John and I are no longer together. When you have a baby you're dealing with a lot of emotions and I don't know how much of it had to do with us breaking up, but it happens. We definitely love our son and we are co-parenting and working on being friends. It is what it is. I have a lot of support, so I want for nothing as far as that's concerned. I know some might criticize me or the fact that my son is being raised in a single-parent home, but I wasn't raised in a two-parent home and I had a good relationship with my dad. I have hopes for him and I'm sure his father will do his part as well.
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@YBFcommenter you are so

@YBFcommenter you are so smart and I've never heard it put so well in response to the "marriage is a piece" of paper statment. That such a good comparison. I justed wanted to let you know that is my new favorite quote.
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@STR8NATRAL Same thing here.

@STR8NATRAL Same thing here. My momma was a single mom too but WE HAVE TO BREAK THE CYCLES. Why are we refusing to? It's kinda funny. The same women saying that they can't find a good black man seem not to be understanding that's because we have too many women teaching the boys how to be men. How's that gonna work out over the years?
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@Ms. EJ LMAO! I'm not angry.

@Ms. EJ LMAO! I'm not angry. I have no reason to be. I'm a wife and my kids have the same father so I could just not care because I'm not in court trying to get child support. I just care about my race. I do a alot. Just like I cried when Obama was elected from joy. It makes me sad everytime I hear those stats on us. It litterally hurts my feelings, and I wanna cry then too. I hate to see a black 16 or 17 yr old's face on the front page. That could be my son or nephew. I can't stand it. So maybe we all do need to get angry.
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CIARA LOOKING GREAT ON HER

CIARA LOOKING GREAT ON HER FINALLY DAY OFF. SHE IS DRESSED FINE TO ME. EVERYBODY KNOW CIARA BODY IS THE BEST. IF SHE LOOKS SAD IT'S CAUSE SHE IS TIRED SHE HAS BEEN NONE STOP SINCE SHE STARTED PROMO. !!!!!!CONGRATS CICI ON YOUR WORLDWIDE SUCCESS WITH THE ALBUM AND SINGLES!!!!!!!! U.S. IS CLOSE MINDED BUT HOPEFULLY SINCE LIKE A SURGEON IS OUT ON RADIO IT WILL WHEEL THEM BACK IN THEY ARE THE ONLY ONES MISSING OUT.
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Erica (original): Ciara’s

Erica (original): Ciara’s legs are fire. As for Jill…please. That was nothing but a relationship. They got together quick, had the baby quick, and broke up quick. true that is how I felt when she was saying she was getting married the second time. I mean dang you just divorced your first and you are getting into another. I love Jill and wish her the best but I am sad now that the baby has to endure two separate households. Where's the commitment that is suppose to be in a marriage?
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JILL SCOTT IS A BIG GIRL AND

JILL SCOTT IS A BIG GIRL AND SHE'S PRETTIER THAN CIARA.
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Keta: Why are ya’ll

Keta: Why are ya’ll equating marriage with a sorry ass man. Is that the other option in your minds. Who said anything about putting up with a sorry man? I would assume that if you married this man he would be worthy of you, or a least try it that why. Why are we so negative about marriage? There are still a lot of good black men out there that will make excellent husband and fathers. Don’t get me wrong if mine starting acting up tomorrow his ass would be out the door. That’s really not what we are saying. Maybe its just where I live because everyone on here is acting like I’m making this stuff up. You mean to tell me you don’t know anyone that has never been married and has more than one child and more than one baby daddy? I mean it goes on a lot down here is the South. Several of you are bringing up individual situations about parents being killed etc. I’m sorry but I wasn’t even talking about that. I’m talking about the life long carriers of Section 8 vouchers, not the use the system a few years and get on your feet women. I’m talking about the life long, “my vagina is a clown car for these kids to keep coming out of” women. That’s the norm I don’t want to see. If you are already on the system why should we have to pay for you to have another kid. Why? What do ya’ll think that’s okay? Ya’ll ain’t tired of paying taxes for them to be living better than you? Have you seen the section 8 houses in ATL? I’m just saying. It don’t bother anyone of you to see these woman with 5 kids like we don’t have multiple birth controll methods out here? I know other situations happen but that’s not what I’m seeing. I’m seeing women being careless. I understand totally what you are saying! Not downing single mothers because my mom was one, but at some point, just like my mom did, we as women have to expect more from ourselves, and more from the men that we deal with! PERIOD! It's not judging when it's apparent in almost every city in America that LARGE numbers of single black women have multiple children, by different men. I'm sorry, but it is what is! No, I'm not saying its EVERY single mom but everyone has to agree that there is an alarming number of single black mothers who fit this discription. All I'm saying is, don't be so negative concerning marriage, and a person CHOSING to do things the right way. If you already have kids, that's cool too. Be the strong woman that God created you to be & raise your kids the best that you can. But lets not make excuses for constantly making bad choices!
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nonayabizznizz: Ci-Andre is

nonayabizznizz: Ci-Andre is a man. Oh, and Marriage DOES NOT EQUATE TO HAPPINESS WHEN IT COMES TO A KID! Women flaunt their married men and the word “wife” around like they hit the lottery (all the while their husbands are boinking the “baby mamma” next door THEN comes home to his wife’s cooking and clean clothes). Shat ap wit all that cause marriage aint nothing but a ring and paper. ain't nothing but a ring and paper, that was pretty ignorant. sex ain't nothing but a stick and a whole but that don't make it any less amazing. people who normally dimiss the institution of marriage have never had the honor of being anyone's wife. Zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz: At least Jill knows who her baby daddy is, unlike most ppl on this site! lol! yea u know who u are. wow, that's an accomplishment knowing who got you pregnant. we can all shoot for the stars in life.
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Zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz: At least

Zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz: At least Jill knows who her baby daddy is, unlike most ppl on this site! lol! yea u know who u are. wow, that's an accomplishment knowing who got you pregnant. we can all shoot for the stars in life.
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lazycheapfatbastard: As a

lazycheapfatbastard: As a man, i have so much respect for women. Birth must be the like changing the world. So much pressure. So much expectation. As a man, I don’t have my body changed in such a dramatic way. I respect it. Women have been phemonnal about birth, the secrets, the necessity and men have been cowards about the patience, the understanding because it’s alien. I send all my blessings to Jill Scott and I will call my Mama tonight. But she was still an awful mother. Your comment was touching. May God Bless and Prosper You for showing respect and kindess towards your mother. She probably did the best she could do.
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rez: You’re actually the

rez: You’re actually the one being pious and self righteous trying to sell your baby mama religion. I’m tire of black folks buying this bull. Yeah, yeah, crap happens but there are too many examples of this baby mama mentality being the norm to the point where we need to start questioning whether this is just “unfortunate, unavoidable” circumstance OR if we are doing things that continue to cause us to be baby mamas. Oh and for the record, I am having my 1st child this year with my husband of 8 years. No, I don’t know what the future holds, but from the way i have lived my past and present, I know my future won’t hold endless excuses. i agree with you. but it is important to remember that two parents do not necessairly make a home stable, loving or functional. it's amazing how we as a people can have standards when it comes to things that are so superficial, like shoes, hair, makeup, but when people start discussing a standard for families, like being married it's a problem
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@THIS IS BEAUTY-That is all

@THIS IS BEAUTY-That is all I'm trying to get across, but you just wrote it much better than I did :) It is being judgemental and I can not stand for those people who like to thumb their nose up persay towards others. I'm for empowering and helping not looking down or belittling those, because I have a caring heart, but most of all I'm a woman of God. @KETA-You seem to be very angry more so than "concern" regarding the issue. I don't believe in trying to force someone to believe, feel, speak or think the same as I, because I respect people. Hopefully the anger it seems that you have you can use that to help single mothers such as volunteering or being a mentor, turn that negativie energy into positive. God Bless :)
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Jill said she was told she

Jill said she was told she couldn't have children a long time ago and to be married to someone for over 10 years and no baby Im sure she believed it. So her getting pregnant wasn't something she expected at all. I am sure she was Pleasantly surprised. ( I would have been) no matter what the situation. I am not gonna judge jilly on this one. And like a previous poster stated. I am sure her, john and her baby will be more than ok.
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Simple hot innovative Go

Simple hot innovative Go CICI! <3
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yes keta that is hard my mom

yes keta that is hard my mom also raise three of us similar situation but she was a nurse and she was married and my dad just left so all im saying is dont be so judgemental of single moms.some are good women who step up to the plate and make the most of the cards they were delt.im not talking about the welfare hood rats.god bless u
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@this is beauty You do make

@this is beauty You do make a good point but take for example,My mother 5 of us. She worked everyday and I mean everyday. It was only her. In cases like that...how have the time and energy it takes into rearing a child? Even though she was a good mother and didn't take the bullshit. AND SHE NEVER PARTIED! she didn't have time to. She was at work, we did what we wanted to do when she was gone. My momma had no choice if we wanted school clothes she had to work for them right? Okay she didn't have a college education, and didn't have time to go back to school so you know that was a low paying job right? All I ask is why not TRY to make a situation a partership. We have two incomes, I don't have to work hard like that. I have weekends with my kids. I can go to thier activites, she couldn't. There is someone at home when my kids get home from school because we work together
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Why are ya'll equating

Why are ya'll equating marriage with a sorry ass man. Is that the other option in your minds. Who said anything about putting up with a sorry man? I would assume that if you married this man he would be worthy of you, or a least try it that why. Why are we so negative about marriage? There are still a lot of good black men out there that will make excellent husband and fathers. Don't get me wrong if mine starting acting up tomorrow his ass would be out the door. That's really not what we are saying. Maybe its just where I live because everyone on here is acting like I'm making this stuff up. You mean to tell me you don't know anyone that has never been married and has more than one child and more than one baby daddy? I mean it goes on a lot down here is the South. Several of you are bringing up individual situations about parents being killed etc. I'm sorry but I wasn't even talking about that. I'm talking about the life long carriers of Section 8 vouchers, not the use the system a few years and get on your feet women. I'm talking about the life long, "my vagina is a clown car for these kids to keep coming out of" women. That's the norm I don't want to see. If you are already on the system why should we have to pay for you to have another kid. Why? What do ya'll think that's okay? Ya'll ain't tired of paying taxes for them to be living better than you? Have you seen the section 8 houses in ATL? I'm just saying. It don't bother anyone of you to see these woman with 5 kids like we don't have multiple birth controll methods out here? I know other situations happen but that's not what I'm seeing. I'm seeing women being careless.
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Keta: ICECAUGHTTHEBEYITISU

Keta: ICECAUGHTTHEBEYITISU better PREACH IT!!!! That’s what I can’t stand about us black women. We LOOOOOVE to dog each other out, Especially when one is down. NO! We are not the only race that does it, BUT we do it the most!!For the record I wasn’t dogging anyone. I know others races do it too. The only reason I mention black mothers and kids is because I’m black and basically those are the ones I care about. I don’t understand what’s so wrong with saying we as a community should do a better job with our kids home stability and that’s in several areas(don’t get my started with the black moma’s and beatings) Nobody can deny it. We have to many of our good black men in jail. Hell that’s why its hard for so many of us to find them. There are many many issues in our community spanning from proverty to diseases. Why is it affecting our community and hitting us so hard then? I mean my opinion is the absense of good strong family foundations. Just my theory. But eveyone has ragged on us for it, but not one of you gave us a different view on the issue. If it’s not that. Then what is it? I really want to know so I can help. Why is everything happening to us way more than the other races? The problem is a lot of people have kids when they dont want them and those people should get themselves fixed. It doesnt matter if your a single parent or have both parents if you show your kids love give them confidence,have the means to financially support them,spend time with them and make sure they are on the right path they will turn out fine.If you neglect them, resent them, too busy partying and chasing after men of course they're going to be problems in our community.alot of single women have these things to offer and it would be nice to have a good man to help but if they are more of a problem than helping i dont see why we should put up with it so these judgemental people can say your doing it right cause you're married.
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ICECAUGHTTHEBEYITIS U better

ICECAUGHTTHEBEYITIS U better PREACH IT!!!! That’s what I can’t stand about us black women. We LOOOOOVE to dog each other out, Especially when one is down. NO! We are not the only race that does it, BUT we do it the most!! For the record I wasn't dogging anyone. I know others races do it too. The only reason I mention black mothers and kids is because I'm black and basically those are the ones I care about. I don't understand what's so wrong with saying we as a community should do a better job with our kids home stability and that's in several areas(don't get my started with the black moma's and beatings) Nobody can deny it. We have to many of our good black men in jail. Hell that's why its hard for so many of us to find them. There are many many issues in our community spanning from proverty to diseases. Why is it affecting our community and hitting us so hard then? I mean my opinion is the absense of good strong family foundations. Just my theory. But eveyone has ragged on us for it, but not one of you gave us a different view on the issue. If it's not that. Then what is it? I really want to know so I can help. Why is everything happening to us way more than the other races?
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HI C-ERROR: blockquote

HI C-ERROR: blockquote cite=”comment-533499″>A Bunch of Losers: I REALLY USE TO LOVE THIS BLOG SITE BUT NOW IT HAS TURNED TO JUST ANOTHER GOSSIP SITE AT MY DOWNTIME AT WORK I USE TO LOVE TO TUNE INTO YBF NOW THIS SITE IS FILLED WITH A BUNCH OF LOSERS BLOGGING THEIR STUPID OPINIONS THAT NO ONE CARES TO HEAR 98% OF THE USERS ON THIS SITE ARE PROBABLY UGLY FAT LONELY BITCHES WITH NO MAN AND NO LIFE AND HAVE HUGE HALOS ON TOP OF THERE HEADS BECAUSE THEY ARE SO PERFECT THAT THEY CAN JUDGE OTHERS. BITCH PLEASE, INSTEAD OF USING AVATARS POSTING OTHERS PICTURES POST YOUR OWN DAMN PICTURES AND LET OTHERS JUDGE YOU ON A DAILY BASIS. I DON’T THINK IT WILL HAPPEN WITH THERE GOODWILL CLOTHES AND TEN DOLLAR SHOE STORE KICKS PLEASE ALL THESE MUTHA F**KERS QUICK TO TALK ABOUT SOMEBODY AND DRAG THEM THRU THE MUD WITH THEIR USELESS CRITICISM. UNGLORIOUS RIGID ASS BITCHES THAT THRIVE OFF THE DOWNFALL OF OTHERS PUT A COCK IN IT AND GET A LIFE HATERS (AND YES I SAID HATER) SORRY BROKE ASS NOTHING ASS HOES!!!!!!! ZERO AMOUNT IN YOUR BANK ACCOUNT BITCHES.IS THAT U MS C-ERROR, THAT U GURL? "C-error" lmao Who came up with that one? Cici's got some nice legs!!!! But I'm shocked at Jill they were supposed to get married. What's up man? Maybe its true and she just wanted a baby..never know or dude is just a loser
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I don't know why, but it

I don't know why, but it always seems like Ciara's feet are too big for her shoes. Every picture I see, her toes are hanging over.
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ALL I HAVE TO SAY ABOUT JILL

ALL I HAVE TO SAY ABOUT JILL SCOTT IS THAT I AM REALLY DISAPPOINTED. I WISH HER AND THE GUY CAN MAYBE WORK IT OUT DOWN THE LINE AND IT NOT BE SO FINAL. THERE IS A CHILD INVOLVED AND I THINK SHE OWES IT TO THAT CHILD TO TRY. IF IT DOESN'T WORK OUT THEN FINE BUT RIGHT WHEN THE CHILD IS BORN YOU CALL IT QUITS???? *SIGH* AND I THINK CIARA LOOKS CUTE HERE. I HERE ALOT OF HATERADE UP IN HERE ABOUT HER NOT HAVING ANY CLOTHES BUT ITS PROBABLY HOT AS HADES THATS WHY SHE'S DRESSED LIKE THAT AND HAS THE BODY TO DO SO. AND I'M NO LONGER AN ASHANTI MUSIC FAN BUT I CONGRATULATE HER FOR HER ROLE AS DOROTHY.
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Ms.EJ: Goodafternoon to

Ms.EJ: Goodafternoon to ALL: I hope everyone is having a blessed day thus far @ XOXO, REZ AND KETA-Goodafternoon I’ve read the comments from you three as well as the comments of those who responded, and I do see both sides, however my issue is that you all seem to strongly be judging, and stereotyping ALL SINGLE MOTHERS in a such a negative way.Also just because you see a woman well a black woman since that is the gender and race you seem to be attacking with a child does not automatically mean she is a single mother and if that is the case it definitely does not mean that she is a single mother by choice. I have friends who’s parents were killed in accidents, murdered (and NO not by any illegal activity)or unfortunately from illnesses such as cancer that my beloved late father passed away from.I am not for abortions and though neither one of you has directly come out and said so it seems that you rather a lady to abort rather than raise the child as a single partent. It seems that you all would be more for that then anything else. Its unfortunate it seems that their is no support or sisterhood with sistas. We seem to be the most hateful, envious, jealous filled, judgemental and mean spirited to each other. Yes, I get that we all make mistakes, and I get being responsibile for our own actions, but why kick someone when they are already down persay. U better PREACH IT!!!! That's what I can't stand about us black women. We LOOOOOVE to dog each other out, Especially when one is down. NO! We are not the only race that does it, BUT we do it the most!!
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Lovely One: There is a

Lovely One: There is a difference between the single mother whose hubby died and the single mother who refuses to use birth control. We never put those two types of women in the same category.Secondly, we overall give men to much power over our entire lives. WOMEN have the power to use birth control b/c the man wont use condoms. WOMEN have the power to leave a man that wont commit rather than becoming an eternal fiance, if that. WOMEN have the power to leave a abusive relationship. WOMEN have the power to tell a man “hell no i wont be your other woman,” etc. etc. This is not about tearing people down but we would all have better lives if we made better decisions for the future and not the “now.” Take notes ladies because a real woman just spoke!!!!
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Tomica: Don’t worry, Kate

Tomica: Don’t worry, Kate is going to milk this divorce thing until it is dry. “Poor me, I am raising 8 children by myself, Jon is so stupid, he is incapable of doing anything.” Come on, I don’t believe it. Yeah, she is raising 8 kids with all of the handlers and bodyguards…lol. HAAA!!!! Girl you are soooo right!! Jon love those kids! Hell he was the only one playing with them and getting them dressed! I can understand why he grew apart from her. He HAD to quit his job because she was being so stupid and selfish ( as usual ) about traveling for a book tour. He had to quit his job. Hell somebody got to be home for the children. She is NO victim! Jon and ESPECIALLY Maddy wanted to cameras out of that house a long time ago, BUT she wanted to keep it going for the $$$$. It's funny because she was just trying to talk about Octo- Mom a while ago. Heaven knows I despise that lady, but karma came right back around and hit Kate in the butt. The media is exposing her DIRTY games.
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Again, there are always

Again, there are always exceptions to the rules and there are extreme circumstances out there. Always. But we are talking about the baby mama in the traditional since of the word. The ones out here with 4 and 5 kids and different daddies. And none of the kids fathers support the child. But instead of learning a lesson the first two times you keep going. It's happening way to often.
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Ms.EJ: Goodafternoon to ALL:

Ms.EJ: Goodafternoon to ALL: I hope everyone is having a blessed day thus far @ XOXO, REZ AND KETA-Goodafternoon I’ve read the comments from you three as well as the comments of those who responded, and I do see both sides, however my issue is that you all seem to strongly be judging, and stereotyping ALL SINGLE MOTHERS in a such a negative way.Also just because you see a woman well a black woman since that is the gender and race you seem to be attacking with a child does not automatically mean she is a single mother and if that is the case it definitely does not mean that she is a single mother by choice. I have friends who’s parents were killed in accidents, murdered (and NO not by any illegal activity)or unfortunately from illnesses such as cancer that my beloved late father passed away from.I am not for abortions and though neither one of you has directly come out and said so it seems that you rather a lady to abort rather than raise the child as a single partent. It seems that you all would be more for that then anything else. Its unfortunate it seems that their is no support or sisterhood with sistas. We seem to be the most hateful, envious, jealous filled, judgemental and mean spirited to each other. Yes, I get that we all make mistakes, and I get being responsibile for our own actions, but why kick someone when they are already down persay. Ok, again, I was not putting all single mothers in a category. You need to stop. You know and I know its sooooo many of us out there that are having kids by these men that we aren't even in a relationship with. Some of these men will have several kids be several different baby mommas and yet it'll still be some damn fool out there that will give him baby number 8. Don't play you know it goes on way too much. My momma was a single mother and a damn good one I might add. And God Forbid, if my husband died tomorrow, we will be paid. A LOT! Because that's what a real man does. He will make sure his family is taken care of. I wouldn't want that trade ever! But that's what planned parenting will get you. You won't be caught out there in some of those situations that people keep finding themselves in, then needs to government to bail their asses out. I'm all for government programs too. So don't jump on me. I wish I could get a foodstamp right about now.
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Ms.EJ: Goodafternoon to

Ms.EJ: Goodafternoon to ALL: I hope everyone is having a blessed day thus far @ XOXO, REZ AND KETA-Goodafternoon I’ve read the comments from you three as well as the comments of those who responded, and I do see both sides, however my issue is that you all seem to strongly be judging, and stereotyping ALL SINGLE MOTHERS in a such a negative way.Also just because you see a woman well a black woman since that is the gender and race you seem to be attacking with a child does not automatically mean she is a single mother and if that is the case it definitely does not mean that she is a single mother by choice. I have friends who’s parents were killed in accidents, murdered (and NO not by any illegal activity)or unfortunately from illnesses such as cancer that my beloved late father passed away from.I am not for abortions and though neither one of you has directly come out and said so it seems that you rather a lady to abort rather than raise the child as a single partent. It seems that you all would be more for that then anything else. Its unfortunate it seems that their is no support or sisterhood with sistas. We seem to be the most hateful, envious, jealous filled, judgemental and mean spirited to each other. Yes, I get that we all make mistakes, and I get being responsibile for our own actions, but why kick someone when they are already down persay. There is a difference between the single mother whose hubby died and the single mother who refuses to use birth control. We never put those two types of women in the same category. Secondly, we overall give men to much power over our entire lives. WOMEN have the power to use birth control b/c the man wont use condoms. WOMEN have the power to leave a man that wont commit rather than becoming an eternal fiance, if that. WOMEN have the power to leave a abusive relationship. WOMEN have the power to tell a man "hell no i wont be your other woman," etc. etc. This is not about tearing people down but we would all have better lives if we made better decisions for the future and not the "now."
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I like Ciara but she does not

I like Ciara but she does not have nicer legs than Rihanna.Ciara is not known for having nice legs Rihanna is. Her legs are even insured for 1 million dollars. Rihanna does not wear stocking thats Beyonce. Rihanna beautiful flawless skin. I coud see cellulite on Ciara's legs. From my perspective her legs are way too manly. Rihanna's legs are long and feminine looking.
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@SHERRY TIFFANY EVANS-Can

@SHERRY TIFFANY EVANS-Can really really sing and I think she is so underated.
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jjj: I was expecting the

jjj: I was expecting the Ashanti thing… I’m not surprised. Hopefully she’ll get better.I like Ciara’s song “Work”… It makes me want to dance every time I hear it. Work it Ci Ci! Okay, I seen the Wiz on Saturday with my husband. Vocally, Ashanti sucked. I actually fell asleep a couple of times. I think Tiffany Evans would bring soo much more to the show. Ashanti's voice is not strong enough for broadway. My kids want to see it but I do not think I am going to take them until they change stars.
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I still continue to not like

I still continue to not like Ciara's new music direction as well as her videos. I understand about growth, but it should be a transition. Its still a fail to me. It also could be the choice of singles that her record label is releasing. Like A Suregeon would've been a great first single. Is it just me, but does it look like Jill Scotts ex is a bit on the "tangy w/a few sprinkles of zest"? nevertheless, as long as she lets God guide her footsteps she will be more than okay.
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Goodafternoon to ALL: I hope

Goodafternoon to ALL: I hope everyone is having a blessed day thus far :) @ XOXO, REZ AND KETA-Goodafternoon :) I've read the comments from you three as well as the comments of those who responded, and I do see both sides, however my issue is that you all seem to strongly be judging, and stereotyping ALL SINGLE MOTHERS in a such a negative way. Also just because you see a woman well a black woman since that is the gender and race you seem to be attacking with a child does not automatically mean she is a single mother and if that is the case it definitely does not mean that she is a single mother by choice. I have friends who's parents were killed in accidents, murdered (and NO not by any illegal activity)or unfortunately from illnesses such as cancer that my beloved late father passed away from. I am not for abortions and though neither one of you has directly come out and said so it seems that you rather a lady to abort rather than raise the child as a single partent. It seems that you all would be more for that then anything else. Its unfortunate it seems that their is no support or sisterhood with sistas. We seem to be the most hateful, envious, jealous filled, judgemental and mean spirited to each other. Yes, I get that we all make mistakes, and I get being responsibile for our own actions, but why kick someone when they are already down persay.
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why is CiCi leaving the "A"

why is CiCi leaving the "A" she can buy an estate in Georgia for what she will pay for damn near anything in LA. dont tell me shes pursuing fashion and acting... OMG! LOVE those shoes tho!
lea's picture

I think the problem with the

I think the problem with the Jill Scott situation is not that she is a single parent...things happen, but she was so in love with that dude and she barely knew him. the whole situation had rebound all over it. it is sad it did not work out, but I think Jill was trying to prove that she could recover fast from the last man.
SH on the grind's picture

* she was ripped from head to

* she was ripped from head to toe*
yeah's picture

A Bunch of Losers: I REALLY

A Bunch of Losers: I REALLY USE TO LOVE THIS BLOG SITE BUT NOW IT HAS TURNED TO JUST ANOTHER GOSSIP SITE AT MY DOWNTIME AT WORK I USE TO LOVE TO TUNE INTO YBF NOW THIS SITE IS FILLED WITH A BUNCH OF LOSERS BLOGGING THEIR STUPID OPINIONS THAT NO ONE CARES TO HEAR 98% OF THE USERS ON THIS SITE ARE PROBABLY UGLY FAT LONELY BITCHES WITH NO MAN AND NO LIFE AND HAVE HUGE HALOS ON TOP OF THERE HEADS BECAUSE THEY ARE SO PERFECT THAT THEY CAN JUDGE OTHERS. BITCH PLEASE, INSTEAD OF USING AVATARS POSTING OTHERS PICTURES POST YOUR OWN DAMN PICTURES AND LET OTHERS JUDGE YOU ON A DAILY BASIS. I DON’T THINK IT WILL HAPPEN WITH THERE GOODWILL CLOTHES AND TEN DOLLAR SHOE STORE KICKS PLEASE ALL THESE MUTHA F**KERS QUICK TO TALK ABOUT SOMEBODY AND DRAG THEM THRU THE MUD WITH THEIR USELESS CRITICISM. UNGLORIOUS RIGID ASS BITCHES THAT THRIVE OFF THE DOWNFALL OF OTHERS PUT A COCK IN IT AND GET A LIFE HATERS (AND YES I SAID HATER) SORRY BROKE ASS NOTHING ASS HOES!!!!!!! ZERO AMOUNT IN YOUR BANK ACCOUNT BITCHES. I'm sayin! was reading through the comments and was like, Wow! so much hate on Ciara. She ripped from head to toe.
yeah's picture

"you ppl may wait until

"you ppl may wait until you’re married and find you cant even have kids,or you could have married the wrong person and it doesn’t work out. things doesn’t always go according to plan" Again, I am married , happily. Plans aren't the issue here, our prison and proverty rates compared to other races are the issues we need to address. It's ridiculous. No marriage is perfect, and not every marriage is going to last. That's not a reason not to even try to do what's best. Some marriages do work, take the Obamas for expample. I don't understand why we have just accepted being someone's baby mama. There are always exceptions to every rule, of course. But, all we are saying is that we shouldn't let this be the norm.
Keta's picture

oh and the ashanti thing isnt

oh and the ashanti thing isnt worth reading to me she needs to just give it up...
t.dubz...'s picture

Lovely One:

Lovely One: PREACH!!!!!!!!!!!! We cant change negative statistics (unwed mothers, proverty rate, obesity) until we accept our responsibility in the situation. you ppl may wait until you're married and find you cant even have kids,or you could have married the wrong person and it doesn't work out. things doesn't always go according to plan
this is beauty's picture

my heart goes out to jill ur

my heart goes out to jill ur not by urself honey!! i read this on yesterday about her being a single mother...ciara is looking good...she looks great, i really cant say nothing bad about this chick...
t.dubz...'s picture

Damn Jill...wish her the

Damn Jill...wish her the best.
Lovely One's picture

rez: You’re actually the

rez: You’re actually the one being pious and self righteous trying to sell your baby mama religion. I’m tire of black folks buying this bull. Yeah, yeah, crap happens but there are too many examples of this baby mama mentality being the norm to the point where we need to start questioning whether this is just “unfortunate, unavoidable” circumstance OR if we are doing things that continue to cause us to be baby mamas. Oh and for the record, I am having my 1st child this year with my husband of 8 years. No, I don’t know what the future holds, but from the way i have lived my past and present, I know my future won’t hold endless excuses. PREACH!!!!!!!!!!!! We cant change negative statistics (unwed mothers, proverty rate, obesity) until we accept our responsibility in the situation.
Lovely One's picture

those shoes with that outfit

those shoes with that outfit are a major NO NO!
cindy's picture

OK CiCi needs to cover up,

OK CiCi needs to cover up, all that skin showing don't look good to me. Leave a little to the imagination! As for Jill Scott's ex, he should have stuck by her no matter how hormonal she was, thats a damn shame!
whateva's picture

Something is wrong with CiCi,

Something is wrong with CiCi, she's been looking sad lately. Jill~ I wish it could have worked out. Something about him was a little off to me.
T's picture

blacks women have to stop:

blacks women have to stop: I totally agree with Rez! The Baby Mama stuff has got to stop in our community. I’m tired of our young black sons filling the jails and prisons. All of you can be in denial if you want but the stats are there! Although my mother raise 5 of us on her own and none of us went to jail, I decided that’s not the best way to do things,because “just cause it’s possible doesn’t mean it’s to be done.” Then you want to complain about the sorry ass men that don’t take care of the kids. You knew that before you layed up with him. I’m married with two kids, and even if we broke up tomorrow, I know that he will still be a dad because I took the time out to get to know a person before I had kids with him. Again there are stats to back that up too. BRAVO!!!
Whoa!'s picture

I LOVE THOSE PINK

I LOVE THOSE PINK BOOTIES!!!!! where can i find em!
Bine's picture

DeE: Exactly what I thought

DeE: Exactly what I thought when I heard of her being engaged and especially when I heard of her being pregnant. We are all human, we all desire companionship and love. WE just move toooooooo fast. Way to fast. Yet another part of our human nature we must tame and not allow it to drive us so easily. COSIGN!!! Slow down!!
Whoa!'s picture

LUVTHEOBAMAS: I have to say

LUVTHEOBAMAS: I have to say that after reading these comments on being a single parent, I’m a bit confused!I totally agree that having an abortion to give the appearance that you have things ‘all together’ is not the answer.I truly believe that if you create life, you should take responsibility for it, whether you & the dude are still together, married or not.However, I do strongly advocate loving 2 parent homes. Am I saying stay together just for the sake of the kids, NO!But I am saying that 2 parent families that are loving are BETTER for children!That’s just real!I came from a single parent home, and while my mom was AWESOME, there are some things that I missed out on not having a good father around.We may want to make excuses for our current situations, but in reality, kids really NEED both parents.But they need 2 GOOD parents, not just warm bodies in the house arguing all the time.So, enough of the excuses, it is what is. THANK YOU! That's all we are trying to get across.
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