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Domestic Dust-Up At Gary Dourdan's House!

Looks like there's drama in the air for former "CSI" star Gary Dourdan and his long time girlfriend Maria Asis del Alamo. Cops were called to his Venice, CA crib last night after Maria allegedly tried to beat Gary down and scratch him up. She was cuffed and taken into custody on a misdemeanor domestic battery charge. But as of this morning is out on bail. According to TMZ, Maria is 5'8" and 110 lbs, while Gary is 6'2" and 190. Damn homie.

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deelisciouos, thanks for your

deelisciouos, thanks for your comment. But, you give that "Trick" too much credit, her type can be brought for a dime a dozen!
Mary W.'s picture

Gary just cannot catch a

Gary just cannot catch a break! I knew from the start that this girl was trouble. All she is is a body. She has no substance, but when you choose looks over substance, you end up in this type of situation. I am very proud of the way you handled yourself in this case, give this girl her walking papers and just take some time for yourself. Then be more careful about your selections.
Mary W.'s picture

@tru blu Not true. These

@tru blu Not true. These women went through this for years before they decided to divorce their husbands. Check out Shawnee’s interview in Essence Mag. Kobe and Tiger were never in danger of losing their careers. If you make them money they will allow you to do so. These apologizes are to save face and make the public feel better not their wives. If you want to apologize to your wife take her on a trip, do something special, stop cheating, you don't need cameras and an audience. This is a set up by the publicist and their team. Oh and by the way who is +++++ and +++++? I’m curious LOL.
Lady K's picture

That's a very, very big,

That's a very, very big, very, very nice ass. >>>>>>>>>>>meetingrich.com
dsssd's picture

People need to stop putting

People need to stop putting their hands on other people.. ya ass is going to jail..
D's picture

@pjDuncan What comments are u

@pjDuncan What comments are u reading cos aint nobody bashing him for doing the right thing dumbass
SideShow Bob's picture

*DEAD* @ posted by I Run

*DEAD* @ posted by I Run H-Town!!Wed, March 17, 2010 10:47 AM He shoulda big faced her
SideShow Bob's picture

Why does it seem all these

Why does it seem all these dudes (black actors, athletes..) keep getting caught up with the same "type" of chic...if not Latino, a white girl and the ironic thing they claimed they don't date sisters because of the drama.
Dee's picture

uh ohh... Tiger & Elin

uh ohh... Tiger & Elin 2.0 at least he was smart at calling the cops and walking away from the situation. He knew if he didn't, he would be blamed for the situation. Domestic violence is wrong, whether your a man or woman. If you can take a hit, don't start it.
Mrs. Darren shellychelle Sharper's picture

First of all. He did the

First of all. He did the right thing, otherwise the world would have been on his azz for beating his woman. And, I can't believe that no one else has mentioned the physical parallels between these two and +++++++ and ******, just sayin'. @ Cubalinda - Shaq (nor Michael Jordan) had to make public apologies because their wives said "GAME OVA'" and they're paying through their azzez. Don't get it twisted... none of their careers have suffered from their infidelitiesl Tiger and Kobe made public apologies so that they could try to save their marriages.
tru blu's picture

Lady K, thank you for this:

Lady K, thank you for this: "Hell Tiger cheated on Elin and it is top news over, war, earthquakes and hurricanes. Shaq been cheatin on the beautiful Shawnee O’Neal and he didn’t have to give a public apology like Kobe and Tiger!"
CubaLinda's picture

Good she was the aggressor

Good she was the aggressor and not him, otherwise he'd be in a isht load of trouble and his career would probably be over. She on the otherhand will have to find another sponsor...
CubaLinda's picture

Whoa! not good however he

Whoa! not good however he looks real good here even though he's been falling off for awhile now & his girl favors Eliza Dushku a bit IMO. She's pretty.
angelaheiress's picture

He was right to call the cops

He was right to call the cops on her no doubt about it. But why do black men who are victims of domestic abuse get so much support on sites like this (black blogs) but black women victims like rihanna don't?
honeygirl's picture

@ rita Wed, March 17, 2010

@ rita Wed, March 17, 2010 1:52 PM Here is the perfect example of someone who is ACTUALLY INNOCENT! His girl beat him down, he called the police because he knows in that situation he will win. On the other hand, if Rihanna DID hit CB how come he never called the police? U know the answer… He would have saved his career and his reputation. Just sayin’ -------------------------- I don't know too many young black men (especially famous)ones, who would like the world to know/see their bruises and wounds, b/c they let a smaller woman beat on them. Which is the whole point of TMZ posting their height and weight. Keep in mind, we never saw his "mugshot" or whatever. Didn't see him for a while...there's a reason. Plus, if he was there when the cops showed up, they would have had to press some kind of charges on her and that could have lead to her being deported. I'm sure Chris wouldn't want either one of those options. Which is why some people in the biz say they don't understand why he chose to go this route. Yes, he picked the worst option, but that's what young, dumb and in love will get you.
Me's picture

Cosign @Me Damnit! He is

Cosign @Me Damnit! He is still fine to me. I loved him on CSI. So he has a drug problem. Isn't that the norm in the entertainment biz. Everytime you turn around someone is going to rehab or overdosing. I'm glad he just called the police on her azz! If he would have hit her, no matter what she did, it would be a black man put his hands on a white women. Hell Tiger cheated on Elin and it is top news over, war, earthquakes and hurricanes. Shaq been cheatin on the beautiful Shawnee O'Neal and he didn't have to give a public apology like Kobe and Tiger! Hell AI been cheatin on his wife and they have a sick child but no apology. WTF? @Ghetto Hood Rat LOL! That was my show. Don't forget he played Janets boyfriend in the video for Again.
Lady K's picture

See that's some bullsh** when

See that's some bullsh** when A man does the right thing and calls the cops on a crazy Bi*** it's damn homie like he a punk but when he kicks her ass where the scum of the earth. Males can't win in a domestic situation.
Syn's picture

SMDH at the "Damn Homie"

SMDH at the "Damn Homie" statement from the writer and for feeling the need to provide his stats. That has got to be the most ignorant statement I've read to date on all the board - especially since this is supposed to be a board run by black folks. Like many posters I'm glad he didn't hit her back, yet whoever wrote this post acts like because he's 'bigger' the story should have ended up differently. The writer should have given Gary props instead of declaring 'damn homie' like he's some kind of punk for not beating his woman. Why do so many assume that drugs were involved?!! I have yet to read anywhere that Gary was high - and you know if he was that would have been the second headline. It must be a bytch to be an entertainer/actor - you're damned if you do, you're damned if you don't. 'Damn homie' - I can only hope the writer of this post wasn't a woman - that would make that comment all the worse. How about giving props when a brother has the strength to walk away instead of challenging his ability to beat a smaller woman. Black folks get too caught up in the mess sometimes - the only thing damning about this story is making him out to be a punk.
HollaBack's picture

Here is the perfect example

Here is the perfect example of someone who is ACTUALLY INNOCENT! His girl beat him down, he called the police because he knows in that situation he will win. On the other hand, if Rihanna DID hit CB how come he never called the police? U know the answer... He would have saved his career and his reputation. Just sayin'
rita's picture

@Mech. Girl...I so agree

@Mech. Girl...I so agree sweet!
Chelly's picture

@ not a becky...I think she's

@ not a becky...I think she's more like a Consuela or amarillo(yellow in spanish)...The name rings Hispanic...For the record, we've been getting with the Brad's for a long time now...What Century are you in???? Is she was black, his bizz wud still be on blast! It always amazes me when Blk ppl say they want equality and so on, but then they have problems with interracial dating or anything like that...So...U want to be the same, but not togehter...Hmmm...I knw, off topic, but along the same lines...
Chelly's picture

@pjDuncan @Me

@pjDuncan @Me @BigBOOtyGoddess...... @SMH!!@DOUBLESTANDARD I cosign 100%. Domestic violence is wrong period. And putting stats up and saying damm homie goes to show you that there's always going to be a double standard. Gary's getting cracked on for doing the right thing. So is this woman going to be the poster child for dv...no. But let him 2 pieced her all hell wouldve broke loose. Are we going to put on focus on DV against MEN...no because it's not serious huh...he's not that important huh? More men need to stand up but they are afraid because they dont want to be a "DAMN HOMIE" SMH
Mechanical Girl's picture

He was smart for not calling

He was smart for not calling the cops
Lee's picture

I mean NOT hitting a girl

I mean NOT hitting a girl back. " Why does it have to be the case where, NOT hitting a girl back who is ATTACKING you, is being a REAL MAN."
Me's picture

SHE'S A LATINA DON'T MISS

SHE'S A LATINA DON'T MISS WITH LATINAS LOL
SWEETFACEJLO's picture

Why do guys have to have this

Why do guys have to have this SUPERHUMAN level of restraint? Fighting back is a reflex. Why does it have to be the case where, hitting a girl back who is ATTACKING you, is being a REAL MAN. I think that is BS. Is a REAL woman, a woman who will let her man beat her? No! A REAL man should be a man who knows he's not with a real woman (no real woman would come at her man like a man) and leaves her...or something. Are we women considered children who don't know any better? It's really getting old. He just so happened to be old and experienced enough to be able to weigh out the SOCIETAL consequences, but this is EFFED UP! And we keep seeing all these women getting away with beating black men. WTH is going on??
Me's picture

Why do guys have to have this

Why do guys have to have this SUPERHUMAN level of restraint? Fighting back is a reflex. Why does it have to be the case where, hitting a girl back who is ATTACKING you, is being a REAL MAN. I think that is BS. Is a REAL woman, a woman who will let her man beat her? No! A REAL man should be a man who knows he's not with a real woman (no real woman would come at her man like a man) and leaves her...or something. Are we women considered children who don't know any better? It's really getting old. He just so happened to be old and experienced enough to be able to weigh out the SOCIETAL consequences, but this is EFFED UP! And we keep seeing all these women getting away with beating black men. WTH is going on?
Me's picture

So now because a men didn't

So now because a men didn't hit a women back he is less then a man... who cares about his height and weight i think he is more of a man because he didnt hit her... people are so stupid sometimes...
shy's picture

Exactly!

Exactly! @SMH!!@DOUBLESTANDARD People are crazy! men hitting women and women hitting men are both fails. Keep your hands to yourself.
Tae's picture

I'm glad he didn't hit her

I'm glad he didn't hit her back or he would've been in jail faster than your credit application being denied at the car dealship!!
wowzers's picture

don't you guys get it?? this

don't you guys get it?? this was a simple crackhead /heroin fight!!!! gary was high as hell and could not fight back so he called the cops!!!
robbie's picture

Don't trip! If he was

Don't trip! If he was beating her AZZ, the headline would have read "BLACK ACTOR GOES ON A RAMPAGE AND BRUTALLY ASSAULTS GIRLFRIEND". Notice how I did not mention the girlfriend's race because that's how society look at black men.
Blaakpearl's picture

Maybe she knocked a few

Maybe she knocked a few screws back into place & this dude can ACTUALLY get some business again. Or...maybe not.
imnotthatstoopid's picture

To all the Broke, Busted &

To all the Broke, Busted & Disgusted Negroes who are convinced only non Black women are submissive, passive, and not emasculating please take note of this post. If it don't apply, let it fly. But hit dogs will holla-WOOF WOOF.
M.E.L's picture

There's going to be a lot of

There's going to be a lot of cop calling by guys in the near future...tsk tsk for the heffas that can't keep their hands to themselves.
GTFOH with the dumb's picture

Hmmmm,glad he didnt whoop her

Hmmmm,glad he didnt whoop her azz. I know he wanted too. Catch 22: now ppl gon give him hell becuz he didnt whoop her azz.....but if he would have then he would have been compared too Chris Brown.
Geez.....'s picture

Funny that the media is

Funny that the media is reporting her height and size like there is a difference... that's the problem with society..domestic violence is domestic violence.. doesn't matter the size...doesn't matter if he was cheating or not..she should have just left, but instead she did what probably happened in that car between the other two just like many others couples..she raised her hand and put them on him, what's unfortunate is that she will get off with a slap of the wrist...as usual..and he will become the butt of DV jokes..smdh
BigBOOtyGoddess......'s picture

I have a rule of thumb when

I have a rule of thumb when it comes to hitting a man.. if you don't want him to hit you back.. DON'T HIT HIM... I get sick of broads crying wife beater when all along they threw the first punch.. How long should a man be abused before he loses it and show's a woman why he's called man.. B please... get a grip.. keep your hands to yourself... I know plenty of women who love to hit first and then are shocked when they get hit back.. "you hit me.. I can't believe this"... BELIEVE IT... Me.. I don't hit men unless I have too... and ALWAYS put my disclaimer out when I was dating (married now)... Disclaimer If you hit me... I will not fight back... until you are asleep.. and I fight DIRTY.. Hot grits anyone..?
trinigal's picture

Good thing he called the cop!

Good thing he called the cop! Now I hope people around him wont get all ignorant and make fun of him abt this. Smart move.
trish24's picture

Wow slow news day????

Wow slow news day????
AND THE SURVEY SAYS....'s picture

He did the right thing.. If

He did the right thing.. If he would have put his hands on her the story right now would be that he beat her & she fought back... Too many woman want to be tough & hit their man but as soon as they knock the crap out of them, turn around and call the police Great decision Gary...
doh hold meh back's picture

Ok,. is it wrong that I'm

Ok,. is it wrong that I'm really happy that it wasn't him who hit her...
trinigal's picture

why is it DAMN HOMIE????,if

why is it DAMN HOMIE????,if it what of came out that he had beat her down everyone would have been up in arms calling him a women beater, abuser etc.... but since she did it no one has anything to say, he probably could of defended himself but he refrained why aren't the rihanna fans rallying around him, i get tired of women thinking they can hit on men, i've never been beaten in a relationship and i would never place my hands on my mate not expecting to get hit back man or women. if your big enough to hit a man your big enough to get knocked down by one!
SMH!!@DOUBLESTANDARD's picture

Tasha...seriously...with the

Tasha...seriously...with the damn homie, and putting thier stats up...like in other words he got his ass beat by his girlfriend....no what he did was didn't hit back...period!
Gossip Girl's picture

@Hola------> CO-SIGN! I am

@Hola------> CO-SIGN! I am a black woman, and I know a lot of black women who WILL go toe to toe w/ their men. Just because he's had a domestic violence issue does not mean he needs to be with a black woman. He ought to want to be with a black woman so that his lineage and his heritage stays alive and strong. But whatev. I'm glad he called the cops and didn't hit her, because he would have SURELY been on the news, under arrest, flashlight in face, hog-tied to his belt loop.
Undeniable's picture

He gets clowned for doing the

He gets clowned for doing the right thing, but let him have two pieced her and then folk would be calling for his head on a platter. Will his career get the boost that Rihanna's did after she got pieced up? I think not, double standard azz society. SMH
pjDuncan's picture

Cries laughing @ Ghetto Hood

Cries laughing @ Ghetto Hood rat not Shazza an Freddie Peace n Love man Peace n Love LOL!
carmool's picture

@beautifuldaidreamer:

@beautifuldaidreamer: co-sign! When I first read the headline I just knew it was gonna be the other way around, but I am so glad it wasn't! Whew! Good thing cause I love him! Now let's see how big a story this is becomes! Watch people try to laugh and clown him for doing the RIGHT thing by walking away! SMH! I'm I love Gary! He is still fine as hell to me! I miss seeing him on TV. CSI isn't the same without him, don't even watch it anymore. Hope he gets his life together and kicks the drugs and that crazy ass GF of his! *sidenote* I wonder if he goes back to her will people call him 'typical abused victim' or will she get labeled a batterer. Hmmm...
Me Damnit!'s picture

Oh My a WOMEN can actually

Oh My a WOMEN can actually hit a MAN Who Knew. We won't see this on TMZ but we will sure here about Tiger Woods for Enternity(SMH) I can't stand Gary any ways he came from looking delish on a different world to a CRACK HEAD!! Nice Eyes though,LOL
TRUTHHURTS's picture

omg these comments are

omg these comments are hilarious!!!!!
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