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Domestic Dust-Up At Gary Dourdan's House!

Looks like there's drama in the air for former "CSI" star Gary Dourdan and his long time girlfriend Maria Asis del Alamo. Cops were called to his Venice, CA crib last night after Maria allegedly tried to beat Gary down and scratch him up. She was cuffed and taken into custody on a misdemeanor domestic battery charge. But as of this morning is out on bail. According to TMZ, Maria is 5'8" and 110 lbs, while Gary is 6'2" and 190. Damn homie.

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Funny that the media is

Funny that the media is reporting her height and size like there is a difference... that's the problem with society..domestic violence is domestic violence.. doesn't matter the size...doesn't matter if he was cheating or not..she should have just left, but instead she did what probably happened in that car between the other two just like many others couples..she raised her hand and put them on him, what's unfortunate is that she will get off with a slap of the wrist...as usual..and he will become the butt of DV jokes..smdh
BigBOOtyGoddess......'s picture

Hmmmm,glad he didnt whoop her

Hmmmm,glad he didnt whoop her azz. I know he wanted too. Catch 22: now ppl gon give him hell becuz he didnt whoop her azz.....but if he would have then he would have been compared too Chris Brown.
Geez.....'s picture

There's going to be a lot of

There's going to be a lot of cop calling by guys in the near future...tsk tsk for the heffas that can't keep their hands to themselves.
GTFOH with the dumb's picture

@tru blu Not true. These

@tru blu Not true. These women went through this for years before they decided to divorce their husbands. Check out Shawnee’s interview in Essence Mag. Kobe and Tiger were never in danger of losing their careers. If you make them money they will allow you to do so. These apologizes are to save face and make the public feel better not their wives. If you want to apologize to your wife take her on a trip, do something special, stop cheating, you don't need cameras and an audience. This is a set up by the publicist and their team. Oh and by the way who is +++++ and +++++? I’m curious LOL.
Lady K's picture

To all the Broke, Busted &

To all the Broke, Busted & Disgusted Negroes who are convinced only non Black women are submissive, passive, and not emasculating please take note of this post. If it don't apply, let it fly. But hit dogs will holla-WOOF WOOF.
M.E.L's picture

Good she was the aggressor

Good she was the aggressor and not him, otherwise he'd be in a isht load of trouble and his career would probably be over. She on the otherhand will have to find another sponsor...
CubaLinda's picture

Gary just cannot catch a

Gary just cannot catch a break! I knew from the start that this girl was trouble. All she is is a body. She has no substance, but when you choose looks over substance, you end up in this type of situation. I am very proud of the way you handled yourself in this case, give this girl her walking papers and just take some time for yourself. Then be more careful about your selections.
Mary W.'s picture

Maybe she knocked a few

Maybe she knocked a few screws back into place & this dude can ACTUALLY get some business again. Or...maybe not.
imnotthatstoopid's picture

Lady K, thank you for this:

Lady K, thank you for this: "Hell Tiger cheated on Elin and it is top news over, war, earthquakes and hurricanes. Shaq been cheatin on the beautiful Shawnee O’Neal and he didn’t have to give a public apology like Kobe and Tiger!"
CubaLinda's picture

Don't trip! If he was

Don't trip! If he was beating her AZZ, the headline would have read "BLACK ACTOR GOES ON A RAMPAGE AND BRUTALLY ASSAULTS GIRLFRIEND". Notice how I did not mention the girlfriend's race because that's how society look at black men.
Blaakpearl's picture

don't you guys get it?? this

don't you guys get it?? this was a simple crackhead /heroin fight!!!! gary was high as hell and could not fight back so he called the cops!!!
robbie's picture

I'm glad he didn't hit her

I'm glad he didn't hit her back or he would've been in jail faster than your credit application being denied at the car dealship!!
wowzers's picture

Exactly!

Exactly! @SMH!!@DOUBLESTANDARD People are crazy! men hitting women and women hitting men are both fails. Keep your hands to yourself.
Tae's picture

So now because a men didn't

So now because a men didn't hit a women back he is less then a man... who cares about his height and weight i think he is more of a man because he didnt hit her... people are so stupid sometimes...
shy's picture

Why do guys have to have this

Why do guys have to have this SUPERHUMAN level of restraint? Fighting back is a reflex. Why does it have to be the case where, hitting a girl back who is ATTACKING you, is being a REAL MAN. I think that is BS. Is a REAL woman, a woman who will let her man beat her? No! A REAL man should be a man who knows he's not with a real woman (no real woman would come at her man like a man) and leaves her...or something. Are we women considered children who don't know any better? It's really getting old. He just so happened to be old and experienced enough to be able to weigh out the SOCIETAL consequences, but this is EFFED UP! And we keep seeing all these women getting away with beating black men. WTH is going on?
Me's picture

Why do guys have to have this

Why do guys have to have this SUPERHUMAN level of restraint? Fighting back is a reflex. Why does it have to be the case where, hitting a girl back who is ATTACKING you, is being a REAL MAN. I think that is BS. Is a REAL woman, a woman who will let her man beat her? No! A REAL man should be a man who knows he's not with a real woman (no real woman would come at her man like a man) and leaves her...or something. Are we women considered children who don't know any better? It's really getting old. He just so happened to be old and experienced enough to be able to weigh out the SOCIETAL consequences, but this is EFFED UP! And we keep seeing all these women getting away with beating black men. WTH is going on??
Me's picture

SHE'S A LATINA DON'T MISS

SHE'S A LATINA DON'T MISS WITH LATINAS LOL
SWEETFACEJLO's picture

I mean NOT hitting a girl

I mean NOT hitting a girl back. " Why does it have to be the case where, NOT hitting a girl back who is ATTACKING you, is being a REAL MAN."
Me's picture

People need to stop putting

People need to stop putting their hands on other people.. ya ass is going to jail..
D's picture

He was smart for not calling

He was smart for not calling the cops
Lee's picture

uh ohh... Tiger & Elin

uh ohh... Tiger & Elin 2.0 at least he was smart at calling the cops and walking away from the situation. He knew if he didn't, he would be blamed for the situation. Domestic violence is wrong, whether your a man or woman. If you can take a hit, don't start it.
Mrs. Darren shellychelle Sharper's picture

@pjDuncan @Me

@pjDuncan @Me @BigBOOtyGoddess...... @SMH!!@DOUBLESTANDARD I cosign 100%. Domestic violence is wrong period. And putting stats up and saying damm homie goes to show you that there's always going to be a double standard. Gary's getting cracked on for doing the right thing. So is this woman going to be the poster child for dv...no. But let him 2 pieced her all hell wouldve broke loose. Are we going to put on focus on DV against MEN...no because it's not serious huh...he's not that important huh? More men need to stand up but they are afraid because they dont want to be a "DAMN HOMIE" SMH
Mechanical Girl's picture

First of all. He did the

First of all. He did the right thing, otherwise the world would have been on his azz for beating his woman. And, I can't believe that no one else has mentioned the physical parallels between these two and +++++++ and ******, just sayin'. @ Cubalinda - Shaq (nor Michael Jordan) had to make public apologies because their wives said "GAME OVA'" and they're paying through their azzez. Don't get it twisted... none of their careers have suffered from their infidelitiesl Tiger and Kobe made public apologies so that they could try to save their marriages.
tru blu's picture

@ not a becky...I think she's

@ not a becky...I think she's more like a Consuela or amarillo(yellow in spanish)...The name rings Hispanic...For the record, we've been getting with the Brad's for a long time now...What Century are you in???? Is she was black, his bizz wud still be on blast! It always amazes me when Blk ppl say they want equality and so on, but then they have problems with interracial dating or anything like that...So...U want to be the same, but not togehter...Hmmm...I knw, off topic, but along the same lines...
Chelly's picture

@Mech. Girl...I so agree

@Mech. Girl...I so agree sweet!
Chelly's picture

Good for him not hitting

Good for him not hitting back. He would be locked d hell up rite now. I hope he leav dis dumb B alone b4 he ends up in jail.
Htowngirle's picture

Here is the perfect example

Here is the perfect example of someone who is ACTUALLY INNOCENT! His girl beat him down, he called the police because he knows in that situation he will win. On the other hand, if Rihanna DID hit CB how come he never called the police? U know the answer... He would have saved his career and his reputation. Just sayin'
rita's picture

That's a very, very big,

That's a very, very big, very, very nice ass. >>>>>>>>>>>meetingrich.com
dsssd's picture

SMDH at the "Damn Homie"

SMDH at the "Damn Homie" statement from the writer and for feeling the need to provide his stats. That has got to be the most ignorant statement I've read to date on all the board - especially since this is supposed to be a board run by black folks. Like many posters I'm glad he didn't hit her back, yet whoever wrote this post acts like because he's 'bigger' the story should have ended up differently. The writer should have given Gary props instead of declaring 'damn homie' like he's some kind of punk for not beating his woman. Why do so many assume that drugs were involved?!! I have yet to read anywhere that Gary was high - and you know if he was that would have been the second headline. It must be a bytch to be an entertainer/actor - you're damned if you do, you're damned if you don't. 'Damn homie' - I can only hope the writer of this post wasn't a woman - that would make that comment all the worse. How about giving props when a brother has the strength to walk away instead of challenging his ability to beat a smaller woman. Black folks get too caught up in the mess sometimes - the only thing damning about this story is making him out to be a punk.
HollaBack's picture

That's a mess!!!

That's a mess!!!
Happy Lady's picture

see...guys get it too!

see...guys get it too!
Jaurdyn22 - Excuse me...it's Mrs.'s picture

I know it's wrong, but I'm

I know it's wrong, but I'm glad it was HER tryna whoop his ass and not the other way around...
beautifuldaidreamer's picture

5'8 110. That is pretty

5'8 110. That is pretty small. He did the right thing by calling the cops and not hitting her stupid azz back.
Butterflygirl's picture

Smart dude. He knows not to

Smart dude. He knows not to hit a woman.
chillchic's picture

He shoulda big faced her

He shoulda big faced her
I Run H-Town!!'s picture

Why does it seem all these

Why does it seem all these dudes (black actors, athletes..) keep getting caught up with the same "type" of chic...if not Latino, a white girl and the ironic thing they claimed they don't date sisters because of the drama.
Dee's picture

He probably cheated.... He

He probably cheated.... He did the right thing by not fighting back though...
Coldplayer's picture

I'm GLAD he called the COPS!

I'm GLAD he called the COPS! They ain't gone do NOTHING to her watch. They would've thrown the BOOK at him!
Almost Famous's picture

See this is why he should

See this is why he should have gotten a yellowbone, redbone, pecan tan, chocolate, or any other color of african american chick...no boo boo you got a becky and now your business is up on blass on the ybf!
not a becky's picture

Man I just knew when I saw

Man I just knew when I saw this post it was gonna be about him going intoa crack rage and knocking her upside the head. he has not really done anything since CSI and I didn't want it to be something crazy. I mean it is crazy but at least he is not the preptrator
dr's picture

See that's some bullsh** when

See that's some bullsh** when A man does the right thing and calls the cops on a crazy Bi*** it's damn homie like he a punk but when he kicks her ass where the scum of the earth. Males can't win in a domestic situation.
Syn's picture

Black men need to get back to

Black men need to get back to black b4 we start going to Brad
not a becky's picture

*DEAD* @ posted by I Run

*DEAD* @ posted by I Run H-Town!!Wed, March 17, 2010 10:47 AM He shoulda big faced her
SideShow Bob's picture

they were fighting over the

they were fighting over the last crack rock. Her azz became the female Hulk. Bullshiggety! They are a trip!
huh?'s picture

@pjDuncan What comments are u

@pjDuncan What comments are u reading cos aint nobody bashing him for doing the right thing dumbass
SideShow Bob's picture

There are black women who

There are black women who beat up their men too so how does this prove that black men need to be with black women. Men are men, women are women...race is involved when people make it an issue.
Hola's picture

I used to date a guy who was

I used to date a guy who was Gary's double... I wish I could have knocked him the F out! Yes, I know violence is wrong! LOL
Jamaicaseemeya's picture

Cosign @Me Damnit! He is

Cosign @Me Damnit! He is still fine to me. I loved him on CSI. So he has a drug problem. Isn't that the norm in the entertainment biz. Everytime you turn around someone is going to rehab or overdosing. I'm glad he just called the police on her azz! If he would have hit her, no matter what she did, it would be a black man put his hands on a white women. Hell Tiger cheated on Elin and it is top news over, war, earthquakes and hurricanes. Shaq been cheatin on the beautiful Shawnee O'Neal and he didn't have to give a public apology like Kobe and Tiger! Hell AI been cheatin on his wife and they have a sick child but no apology. WTF? @Ghetto Hood Rat LOL! That was my show. Don't forget he played Janets boyfriend in the video for Again.
Lady K's picture

deelisciouos, thanks for your

deelisciouos, thanks for your comment. But, you give that "Trick" too much credit, her type can be brought for a dime a dozen!
Mary W.'s picture

Damn Shazza (differnt world)

Damn Shazza (differnt world) you should have stayed with Freddie Brooks (peace n love man)
Ghetto Hood Rat's picture

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