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Gilbert Arenas ABANDONS Pregnant Fiance' Laura Govan AND Their 3 Kids?!

Looks like that tumultuous on-again off-again relationship of 28-year-old Wizards tuned Magic baller Gilbert Arenas and the pregnant 31-year-old Laura Govan is on the outs again.  But this time, Gilbert abandoned both Laura and all the kids and even cut money off to them--all during the Holidays!

 

We've got the deets on this foolery when you read on...

Gilbert's known to do some foul ish and to treat Laura like trash on many occasions--many times publicly doing so.  But while Laura continues to take him back, she's gotten knocked up by him pretty much every year for the last 4 years.  The two attempted to act like they were tighter than a pregnant woman's bra straps after the whole Shaq and Laura cheating debacle popped off.  But now Gilbert has thrown deuces to his whole family.

After getting traded to the Orlando Magic weeks ago, Gilbert apparently picked up and left with even saying goodbye.  Almost like this dude was just waiting on an out to get away from Laura.  He left his mansion in VA and hit the road to Florida.  Laura's rep (now she's repped by the same person as her "Basketball Wives" star sister Gloria Govan and Matt Barnes) says Gilbert has not spoken to Laura or the kids since Thanksgiving and has been avoiding doing so.  And he has cut off all money to them.  Even though Laura is several months along in her fourth pregnancyThe Washington Post reports:

Govan, who is four months pregnant with their fourth child, "has not heard from Arenas the whole month of December," said publicist Laura Wright in an e-mailed statement. "Govan and the children feel like they have been abandoned."

Wright - who has worked for Govan's sister Gloria and her fiance, Los Angeles Lakers forward Matt Barnes - said that Govan was left at their Great Falls home "with no money to purchase food or Christmas gifts."

 The breakup happened around Thanksgiving. Though he didn't reveal a relationship rift at the time, Arenas recently told reporters he had been staying with Wizards teammate Nick Young for about a month.

WOW.  But there's more.  After his first game witht he Magic a few days ago, Gilbert made it very public he was ditching his old life back in DC/VA. 

He told The Post after his Dec. 20 debut with the Magic that he was so eager to move that he bought a same-day ticket to Florida the minute he'd heard about the trade: "I went to the airport and left. I didn't have a chance to say bye to anybody. I didn't even say bye to the kids." (But Arenas also said that Washington would remain "in my heart" because "that's where I raised my kids and have my family.")

This isn't the first time Gilbert has done some foul ish like this.  But, at the same time, is Laura THIS desperate to be a "baller's wife" that she will remain an eternal fiance and keep popping out kids and not have any type of back up plan for money...despite the fact this is not the first time this has happened?  This ish is just pure foolery.

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Obviously there are some deep

Obviously there are some deep issues here. She had a plan and he's a loser to leave his children. It's sad and unfortunate that she didn't want to pursue a future for herself. After the first child, no marriage and no stability should should have made a plan then. Instead she went for the money! I hope that she uses her child support wisely because more often than not, these athletes end up in a bad financial state. Bottom line the children did not ask to be here. They should not suffer. They both need Christ in their lives!
Simone's picture

she might as well go and seee

she might as well go and seee shaq then cuz Arenas is claiming the babies are shaq's,thats why he abandon them lol.Man some chicks are scandelous yo.Shaquille Oneal too common son.whats wrong with Shaq and all these girls popping babies and claiming its his.This chick should ve known why arenas has been treating her like dirt the last 4 to 5 yrs.I for the life of me dont know why she will wanna stay with Arenas after the public humiliation Arenas gives her yr in yr out,this is just mind blowing honestly.
Anonymous's picture

Those Govan sisters have some

Those Govan sisters have some serious issues. They tried to set up their meal tickets with the basketball players they had relations with. Both guys seem to be turned off because those chics are so shallow. Sitting around trying to act like their stuff was good enough to make him stay. LOL
Anonymous's picture

Why does Laura want everyone

Why does Laura want everyone to think that she and Gil had this long continuous relationship for 9 years. When in fact, in 2001 he and another girl Rebana Williams were together back in 2003. This chick claims she got her masters degree, but when and where did she get this degree. She's been chasing him down since 2004. She couldn't even keep her intern position with the Kings because she was so busy keeping tabs on Gil in DC.
Anonymous's picture

I appreciate you for bein the

I appreciate you for bein the first to state the facts! Lol. Gil n I broke up before he went to the Wiz, but even then I had been out to visit him in VA. He never mentioned Laura or the kids which my mom told me about when the local paper said he had his 2nd kid! I was astonished he would try to lie to me about fam cuz whether we were exes or nor, you have to be true to your kids and family... Claim them at least! But I started to see his personality changing due to the fame and money and he wasn't the college kid I fell in love with. I'll admit I went astray our last year with the warriors, and I was upfront n honest with him about it... And when I left willingly,my neighbors told me that she was constantly coming around the crib in Oakland. But mind you that was in 03... Gil n I lived together since 99 in college... Before he was a star, before the money and fame. Even tho Gil was my first love, the first guy I lived and moved with, he is the only one who looks dumb n will suffer for getting her pregnant, after he even told me she wasnt"gettin up when he was about to cum".... If Gil didn't want kids he should have strapped up.. But child after child, he hasn't confirmed they're all his, he continues to let her entrap him. But Gil does him all the time, not a relationship I could ever be in, he wasn't like that with me... Never went out without me... But even to this day he is still tryin to fly me our wherever he's at, and claims he isn't faithful... Has a whole bunch of groupies... Which makes me sad he's become this type of person... But that's what happens to people when you don't correct bad behavior... Lol. I just wanted to congratulate you for knowin who i was and for callin her BS out!! I wish I had a sit down chat with her on live television cuz I'd make her look super dumb so peoPle could see right through her...kudos!
Rabena's picture

I appreciate you for bein the

I appreciate you for bein the first to state the facts! Lol. Gil n I broke up before he went to the Wiz, but even then I had been out to visit him in VA. He never mentioned Laura or the kids which my mom told me about when the local paper said he had his 2nd kid! I was astonished he would try to lie to me about fam cuz whether we were exes or nor, you have to be true to your kids and family... Claim them at least! But I started to see his personality changing due to the fame and money and he wasn't the college kid I fell in love with. I'll admit I went astray our last year with the warriors, and I was upfront n honest with him about it... And when I left willingly,my neighbors told me that she was constantly coming around the crib in Oakland. But mind you that was in 03... Gil n I lived together since 99 in college... Before he was a star, before the money and fame. Even tho Gil was my first love, the first guy I lived and moved with, he is the only one who looks dumb n will suffer for getting her pregnant, after he even told me she wasnt"gettin up when he was about to cum".... If Gil didn't want kids he should have strapped up.. But child after child, he hasn't confirmed they're all his, he continues to let her entrap him. But Gil does him all the time, not a relationship I could ever be in, he wasn't like that with me... Never went out without me... But even to this day he is still tryin to fly me our wherever he's at, and claims he isn't faithful... Has a whole bunch of groupies... Which makes me sad he's become this type of person... But that's what happens to people when you don't correct bad behavior... Lol. I just wanted to congratulate you for knowin who i was and for callin her BS out!! I wish I had a sit down chat with her on live television cuz I'd make her look super dumb so peoPle could see right through her...kudos!
Rabena's picture

I appreciate you for bein the

I appreciate you for bein the first to state the facts! Lol. Gil n I broke up before he went to the Wiz, but even then I had been out to visit him in VA. He never mentioned Laura or the kids which my mom told me about when the local paper said he had his 2nd kid! I was astonished he would try to lie to me about fam cuz whether we were exes or nor, you have to be true to your kids and family... Claim them at least! But I started to see his personality changing due to the fame and money and he wasn't the college kid I fell in love with. I'll admit I went astray our last year with the warriors, and I was upfront n honest with him about it... And when I left willingly,my neighbors told me that she was constantly coming around the crib in Oakland. But mind you that was in 03... Gil n I lived together since 99 in college... Before he was a star, before the money and fame. Even tho Gil was my first love, the first guy I lived and moved with, he is the only one who looks dumb n will suffer for getting her pregnant, after he even told me she wasnt"gettin up when he was about to cum".... If Gil didn't want kids he should have strapped up.. But child after child, he hasn't confirmed they're all his, he continues to let her entrap him. But Gil does him all the time, not a relationship I could ever be in, he wasn't like that with me... Never went out without me... But even to this day he is still tryin to fly me our wherever he's at, and claims he isn't faithful... Has a whole bunch of groupies... Which makes me sad he's become this type of person... But that's what happens to people when you don't correct bad behavior... Lol. I just wanted to congratulate you for knowin who i was and for callin her BS out!! I wish I had a sit down chat with her on live television cuz I'd make her look super dumb so peoPle could see right through her...kudos!
Rabena's picture

I appreciate you for bein the

I appreciate you for bein the first to state the facts! Lol. Gil n I broke up before he went to the Wiz, but even then I had been out to visit him in VA. He never mentioned Laura or the kids which my mom told me about when the local paper said he had his 2nd kid! I was astonished he would try to lie to me about fam cuz whether we were exes or nor, you have to be true to your kids and family... Claim them at least! But I started to see his personality changing due to the fame and money and he wasn't the college kid I fell in love with. I'll admit I went astray our last year with the warriors, and I was upfront n honest with him about it... And when I left willingly,my neighbors told me that she was constantly coming around the crib in Oakland. But mind you that was in 03... Gil n I lived together since 99 in college... Before he was a star, before the money and fame. Even tho Gil was my first love, the first guy I lived and moved with, he is the only one who looks dumb n will suffer for getting her pregnant, after he even told me she wasnt"gettin up when he was about to cum".... If Gil didn't want kids he should have strapped up.. But child after child, he hasn't confirmed they're all his, he continues to let her entrap him. But Gil does him all the time, not a relationship I could ever be in, he wasn't like that with me... Never went out without me... But even to this day he is still tryin to fly me our wherever he's at, and claims he isn't faithful... Has a whole bunch of groupies... Which makes me sad he's become this type of person... But that's what happens to people when you don't correct bad behavior... Lol. I just wanted to congratulate you for knowin who i was and for callin her BS out!! I wish I had a sit down chat with her on live television cuz I'd make her look super dumb so peoPle could see right through her...kudos!
Rabena's picture

Oh and another thing, she has

Oh and another thing, she has been dating him 9 years and does not have a ring? She could have at least asked him to help her go to college. She could have been a college graduate by now!! Looks don't last honey!!! For a baller, you are old now, you are no longer young and cute. Do something with your life so your children can respect you.
Anonymous's picture

He understands what kind of

He understands what kind of woman she is, that's why he treats her like crap! As for him marrying her, that will never happen, he obviously does not respect her. Perhaps she should take some college course and get a degree so she can take care of her children so they can respect her in the future. And as for him, I hope he didn't abandon his children. That would be sad. They need at least one parent they can look up to, because it isn't her.
Anonymous's picture

laura claims to be educated

laura claims to be educated &bright. You mean to tell me she's been with him 9 years with 4 kids & she doesn't have access to an atm card,checks nothing??? Not very smart.
lolo's picture

laura claims to be educated

laura claims to be educated &bright. You mean to tell me she's been with him 9 years with 4 kids & she doesn't have access to an atm card,checks nothing??? Not very smart.
lolo's picture

laura claims to be educated

laura claims to be educated &bright. You mean to tell me she's been with him 9 years with 4 kids & she doesn't have access to an atm card,checks nothing??? Not very smart.
lolo's picture

laura claims to be educated

laura claims to be educated &bright. You mean to tell me she's been with him 9 years with 4 kids & she doesn't have access to an atm card,checks nothing??? Not very smart.
lolo's picture

laura claims to be educated

laura claims to be educated &bright. You mean to tell me she's been with him 9 years with 4 kids & she doesn't have access to an atm card,checks nothing??? Not very smart.
lolo's picture

laura claims to be educated

laura claims to be educated &bright. You mean to tell me she's been with him 9 years with 4 kids & she doesn't have access to an atm card,checks nothing??? Not very smart.
lolo's picture

laura claims to be educated

laura claims to be educated &bright. You mean to tell me she's been with him 9 years with 4 kids & she doesn't have access to an atm card,checks nothing??? Not very smart.
lolo's picture

laura claims to be educated

laura claims to be educated &bright. You mean to tell me she's been with him 9 years with 4 kids & she doesn't have access to an atm card,checks nothing??? Not very smart.
lolo's picture

HE DIDN'T JUST LEAVE HER ON

HE DIDN'T JUST LEAVE HER ON THE STREETS. SHE IS LIVING IN A HOME RENT FREE. SO WHAT IS HER PROBLEM? APPARENTLY GILBERT WANTED TO GET AWAY FROM HER AND THAT'S EXACTLY WHAT HE DID. HE CAN PAY CHILD SUPPORT BUT HE DOESN'T HAVE TO BE WITH HER JUST BECAUSE SHE HAS 4 KIDS.
MIMI's picture

HE DIDN'T JUST LEAVE HER ON

HE DIDN'T JUST LEAVE HER ON THE STREETS. SHE IS LIVING IN A HOME RENT FREE. SO WHAT IS HER PROBLEM? APPARENTLY GILBERT WANTED TO GET AWAY FROM HER AND THAT'S EXACTLY WHAT HE DID. HE CAN PAY CHILD SUPPORT BUT HE DOESN'T HAVE TO BE WITH HER JUST BECAUSE SHE HAS 4 KIDS.
MIMI's picture

YALL NEED TO SHUT UP AND STOP

YALL NEED TO SHUT UP AND STOP YELLING ABOUT HER..HE IS A DAMM DOG AND DID HER WRONG POINT BLANK you don't do that to the mother of your kids...why aren't yall blaming him? what kind of man is he ???
Anonymous's picture

That bitch is a gold digger

That bitch is a gold digger and you know it. Unfortunately, nine times out of ten these women are simply in it to win it.
Anonymous's picture

YALL NEED TO SHUT UP AND STOP

YALL NEED TO SHUT UP AND STOP YELLING ABOUT HER..HE IS A DAMM DOG AND DID HER WRONG POINT BLANK you don't do that to the mother of your kids...why aren't yall blaming him? what kind of man is he ???
Anonymous's picture

YALL NEED TO SHUT UP AND STOP

YALL NEED TO SHUT UP AND STOP YELLING ABOUT HER..HE IS A DAMM DOG AND DID HER WRONG POINT BLANK you don't do that to the mother of your kids...why aren't yall blaming him? what kind of man is he ???
Anonymous's picture

at the end of the day the

at the end of the day the kids should not have to suffer for the adults! He is wrong
Anonymous's picture

I am so glad someone with

I am so glad someone with some sense has decided to write something I get so tired of the golddigging syndrome, the she is so stupid syndrome, etc and the men are just let off just because they are men I guess. They are both adults are the children need to be taken care of I don't care what goes on. I am not a mother who doesnt like to work but I understand both sides of mother hood, the stay at home mom and and the working mom. If she wants to be a stay home mother and he can afford for her to be one why not, he would do it if they were together. Just because they are not a couple anymore does not mean she does not deserve the same comforts as she does when he wants to come and play house. Which seems to be often.
Drea's picture

Honestly both Gil & Laura are

Honestly both Gil & Laura are stupid. Him for getting involved with a jump off chick then getting her pregnant not once but 4 times. When he could have jumped off & used a rubber. Poor Laura with nothing to fall back on but all the kids. Like another Evelyn invest all those years for nothing. Yes I'm calling her out too since she always picking. That's why all these athletes go for the pretty half breed to end up with no substance. Instead of a woman that can bring something to the relationship besides sex & good looks. Gil obviously still feels for his ex & knows she had good intentions which is why he still try to send for her. Most of theses athletes get big headed but forget it can be taken away fast as it came. Chicks like Laura see one thing...money. Now stuck with all those kids & no money. He basically sluted her & she stupid for putting up with this long. Haven't she learned anything you can't turn a hoe into a house wife & kids don't keep no man.
MzChyna's picture

Honestly both Gil & Laura are

Honestly both Gil & Laura are stupid. Him for getting involved with a jump off chick then getting her pregnant not once but 4 times. When he could have jumped off & used a rubber. Poor Laura with nothing to fall back on but all the kids. Like another Evelyn invest all those years for nothing. Yes I'm calling her out too since she always picking. That's why all these athletes go for the pretty half breed to end up with no substance. Instead of a woman that can bring something to the relationship besides sex & good looks. Gil obviously still feels for his ex & knows she had good intentions which is why he still try to send for her. Most of theses athletes get big headed but forget it can be taken away fast as it came. Chicks like Laura see one thing...money. Now stuck with all those kids & no money. He basically sluted her & she stupid for putting up with this long. Haven't she learned anything you can't turn a hoe into a house wife & kids don't keep no man.
MzChyna's picture

Honestly both Gil & Laura are

Honestly both Gil & Laura are stupid. Him for getting involved with a jump off chick then getting her pregnant not once but 4 times. When he could have jumped off & used a rubber. Poor Laura with nothing to fall back on but all the kids. Like another Evelyn invest all those years for nothing. Yes I'm calling her out too since she always picking. That's why all these athletes go for the pretty half breed to end up with no substance. Instead of a woman that can bring something to the relationship besides sex & good looks. Gil obviously still feels for his ex & knows she had good intentions which is why he still try to send for her. Most of theses athletes get big headed but forget it can be taken away fast as it came. Chicks like Laura see one thing...money. Now stuck with all those kids & no money. He basically sluted her & she stupid for putting up with this long. Haven't she learned anything you can't turn a hoe into a house wife & kids don't keep no man.
MzChyna's picture

Honestly both Gil & Laura are

Honestly both Gil & Laura are stupid. Him for getting involved with a jump off chick then getting her pregnant not once but 4 times. When he could have jumped off & used a rubber. Poor Laura with nothing to fall back on but all the kids. Like another Evelyn invest all those years for nothing. Yes I'm calling her out too since she always picking. That's why all these athletes go for the pretty half breed to end up with no substance. Instead of a woman that can bring something to the relationship besides sex & good looks. Gil obviously still feels for his ex & knows she had good intentions which is why he still try to send for her. Most of theses athletes get big headed but forget it can be taken away fast as it came. Chicks like Laura see one thing...money. Now stuck with all those kids & no money. He basically sluted her & she stupid for putting up with this long. Haven't she learned anything you can't turn a hoe into a house wife & kids don't keep no man.
MzChyna's picture

thats not fair to the kids

thats not fair to the kids though..
Anonymous's picture

Where is her self-righteous

Where is her self-righteous just as delusional sister, Gloria to give her support? These kids have no food? She had no savings? There are some key elements missing in this story. I just hope they're able to to work things out for the sake of the children. S/N if you're flat broke how can you afford a publicist?
Anonymous's picture

I doubt she's broke...she's

I doubt she's broke...she's stating that he left and didn't leave anything, but believe she HAS money. Only a fool wouldn't.
Shy's picture

I WONDER WHAT LAURA AND

I WONDER WHAT LAURA AND GLORIA'S MOTHER AND FATHER THINK ABOUT ALL OF THIS!!!
selectivewords's picture

First of all if she had kept

First of all if she had kept her legs closed til he said I do and she wouldn't be in this sitatution. Secondly no one in a manison is struggling. Get you ass and get a job and stop trying to cash in on somebody else's paycheck.
Anonymous's picture

folks screaming the kids are

folks screaming the kids are suffering! i don't believe that for a second. I believe those kids got more compared to the average black kid. She is crying and broke in a mansion! food in the fridge,power on, and gas on. Closet full of designer crap she can sell on ebay for quick cash. A brand name vechile that is paid! cry me a fucking river you sorry bitch! sorry to be so harsh, but what woman in her right mind would use her uterus to keep a man,especially 4$$$$$$$$$$$ times! Cry to your Mama and your whore ass gold digger sister!
Such a  pretty girl!'s picture

cosigns on everything you

cosigns on everything you said! but that still doesn't justify deserting his children. fuck her.
WhoGonCheckMeBoo's picture

If this is true, this will

If this is true, this will really speak to Gilbert's unsavory character as a man...first the gun incident now this...c'mon man!
Anonymous's picture

bad karma will come and bite

bad karma will come and bite your ass. when his *career* is gone and he ain't got nobody, he will come crawling talking about his kids and feeling regrets. as for the dumb hoe, well if she thinks popping babies will lead her down the aisle, she needs to tie the damn tube and start looking for damn job instead of just lying on your back.
Bodoh's picture

Why does she continue to have

Why does she continue to have children with this loon. He is apparently not stable. Two sides to every story, and I'm thinking both sides of this one needs help
Keli's picture

These athletes are so

These athletes are so talented at the sports they play but lack moral judgment when it comes to women they choose be in relationships with and have children with. These hoes are just using their reproductive organs to get ahead. She fcked Shaq and made you look like a fool, so what. That's what you get! Take care of your kids, you were dumb enough to make them. Now she has you right where she wants you.
Qute 's picture

Damn! Did ya'll have a bad

Damn! Did ya'll have a bad Christmas or what? Chit......but f*ck it.....she deserves it. Now if all you sisthas would just take a part-time job at the court and weld your 'Get yo' dumb azz out of here' justice, we could cut this baby-mama drama plaguing our communities out.
Bronze Duchess's picture

sorry I meant "wield."

sorry I meant "wield."
Bronze Duchess's picture

I know I shouldn't laugh at

I know I shouldn't laugh at another's misfortune... but BWAHAHAHA! Anyway, I wish a nigga would "abandon me" in a mansion! And this chick is supposed to be SMART! She didn't even have a stash long enough for Christmas presents and done pushed out 4 kiddos? GTFOH! Dumb ass broad... Guess she never heard of "mad money"...
WhoAreYou's picture

This is what I hope my

This is what I hope my daughter will never become, a desperate bitch! I don't feel sorry for her and that dumb ass man. i feel sorry for the kids who got placed with a chicken head/golddigger mama and a stupid ass father. She knew exactly what she was doing, trying to keep a man around by having children! sorry honey! ths isn't 1963! thought your looks would get you a ring, but all it got you was heart ache,child support battles, and shame! Any woman in her right mind would have only had one child and moved the fuck on years ago! if she had a C-A-R-E-E-R she wouldn't be crying to the media about her lack of money. He stupid for knocking her up 4 times!
Such a  pretty girl!'s picture

Your so right on all I can

Your so right on all I can say is AMEN!!!!!
Bronze Duchess's picture

This story is a sad case of

This story is a sad case of low self esteem and no moral values.
Anonymous's picture

This story is a sad case of

This story is a sad case of low self esteem and no moral values.
Anonymous's picture

Regardless take care of your

Regardless take care of your damn kids! If you don't wanna be with her fine... the kids are suffering some one sit this fool down and talk to him!!!!! It takes two.. stop saying she needs to learn you don't know what this fool was telling her... These idiots need to think about the kids!!!
Anonymous's picture

That chick DO look like a

That chick DO look like a MAN....makes me question??? Gilbert do you have a little frost on your flake--she real manish looking---He just as retarded as she is---he better play ball till is balls fall off because of the child support he gone have to pay...he trapped in BEAR CLAWS...
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