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Yung Berg's Baby Mama Beanna McFerren STILL Says Berg's A Deadbeat, Tries To Model For Money

Remember rapper Yung Berg's alleged baby mama, Beanna, who blasted him months back about being a deadbeat and not taking care of his 7 year old son who has autism?

 

Well she's back and trying to land some money for modeling...because she says Berg still isn't taking responsibility and helping her with their son who has special needs.  Deets and her "modeling" pics when you read on...

Beanna McFerren already put Yung "My Chain Gets Snatched Everyday" Berg on blast last October about dismissing his 7 year old son, Lamont, who Beanna claims is his.  The two met while she was in high school.  And now, she says Berg still hasn't taken responsibility or paid a dime in child support.  And he flat out does not take care of his child.

So, since Beanna has a child with special needs, she says she now has to model for friends of hers in order to make money.  And she needs attention and publicity and Berg's exposure in order to get what she feels she deserves.  So...

She sent over her "modeling pics" she did for a friend's new clothing designs based on Berg's chains he stays getting snatched.  And she also spoke on Yung Berg's deadbeat-ness: 

Hello Natasha, my name is Beanna and i'm the mother of Rapper yung Berg 7 yr old Autistic son. A new friend of mine name Thesis Williams recently did a Tshirt dedicated to Yung Berg's fallen chains (lol). And I recently did a photo shoot with it on. I had a couple of other pieces on has well. I wanted to know if they could possibly be posted on your web site. Now I know he is not that ''hot" but he got some things cooking, and I'm not going to lie to you, I need his attention and his exposure. He does not take care of him since birth. I put in a picture of him in case you didnt believe me. I want to thank you up front for even just reading this.

More pics:

SIGH.  Yung Berg...if this is indeed your son...we're going to need you to take responsibility.  Quickly.  Period.

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All blk women want is big dicks and money with a guy with a outside appearance as a thug!! Its sick! I guess my blk ass is a lame, lil dick hater! LOL
Big D's picture

lastly, i seen this dude who

lastly, i seen this dude who made the shirts advertise on youtube. so she simply getting some quick cash for doing very little but advertising t-shirts. so to blast her cause she just did this lil promo of a t-shirt some dude made as her being serious bout modeling, then yall in the wrong but who knows what she really thinks since she hasn't outright said it officially. regardless, yung berg address in a new song regarding this and he saying he doesn't know who she is. *kanye shrugs
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like to add there's serious

like to add there's serious issues that need to be address on BOTH sides of the sexes. it ain't only one sided issue. maybe i'm just not meeting these type of women but the ones i met are usually on the oldshool tip and asking for the type of dude who went to a prestigious school, high salary job in a high profile company and bunch of other shit when seeking a mate. either way, its a complicated issue and there is more than one specific thing thats the problem to lay blame on.
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we don't know the full story

we don't know the full story about her life to really say she bumming around, if i remember she mentioned she does do everything herself to help raise her kid but regardless, i can see how doing this IS NOT A GOOD LOOK and will make folks scream "CHILD SERVICES" either way, kids should stop having fuucking kids
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She looks like a man hahahaha

She looks like a man hahahaha
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She look like a hoochie cuci

She look like a hoochie cuci hood rat! Lolz
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She look like a hoochie cuci

She look like a hoochie cuci hood rat! Lolz
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I love how you say "tries" to

I love how you say "tries" to model! HAHA
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I'm a black male in my 30's,

I'm a black male in my 30's, single, educated (have an M.D.) and doing a masters at Johns Hopkins. I have to say that it's hard to find an educated, beautiful black woman. I am pretty good looking, slim, cinnamon skin, and the black women I see in Baltimore all have kids, and are obese. The good looking ones I meet aren't educated and are just gold diggers. And when I meet an educated one, they aren't good looking. It's hard out here. Where are the educated, sophisticated non-gold digging black women in Baltimore, MD???!?!?!?? Just lettin' the ladies know there are educated, good looking brothers out there who are responsible (i have no kids, never been married) looking for the same thing in a sister and holding out to find it.
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Anonymous's picture

Just lettin' the ladies know

Just lettin' the ladies know there are educated, good looking brothers out there who are responsible (i have no kids, never been married) looking for the same thing in a sister and holding out to find it.
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lol....if this is modeling

lol....if this is modeling then everybody on facebook must be naomi campbell and tyson beckford. hilarious.
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AND IT COULDN'T BE MY SON HE

AND IT COULDN'T BE MY SON HE WASN'T TAKING CARE OF B/C I'D BE THE PERSON WHO WAS STEALING OR GETTING HIS CHAINS STOLE FOR THE DOUGH!!!! SO HE'D BE PAYING CHILD SUPPORT WHETHER HE KNEW IT OR NOT. BOY HE'S LUCKY!!!!!..........JENNY JONES!!!!
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I will not comment on this

I will not comment on this young girl, its too sad! and who is yung berg, really he doesnt count!
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Usually I just post my

Usually I just post my stuff............ But this Big Mike's thought process is something. I hate when someone use STATISTICS and THEIR isolated thought process to define an entire situation. It's SIMPLE OUR men to act like MEN!!! If they didn't have fathers that is all the more reason they should at least attempt to do the best they can as a FATHER. I HATE well dressed EXCUSES. Becuz, people get wrapped up in the dressing and and over look the COPOUT!!!Black Women should use birth control...Yet, every other day THEY ARE RECALLING IT. WHY? thanks for asking...IT"S KILLING US!!! Maybe you don't like you mother bc Your Daddy wasn't ther blame HER and Leave black women as a whole OUT Of IT. THANKS!!! LUV YA!! BLACK WOMAN !!! You ARE BEAUTIFUL, Strong, Smart, Resourceful, Savy, Complex and I LOVE YOU ALL!!! Now Back to business.... THANK YOU!!! THANK YOU!!!! THANK YOU!!!!! THANK YOU!!!!! For the GREAT SUPPORT!! If you haven't ordered Boj Oil for yourself, friends or family go to the website now to take advantage of this great introductory price of $9.99! Boj Oil is an 100% organic skin food oil that is absorbed in your skin in three minutes, so you glow without being oily. Get your skin ready for it's spring show, by conditioning while moisturizing with Boj Oil. Great for chronic dry skin, hands & feet, diabetic skin care, even heals ezcema and is safe for children. Our introductory price of $9.99 is a limited time offer.Hurry!! Google Boj Oil or visit us on www*thelanarienne*com Love Ya! Ok
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*Anger typing* with no proof

*Anger typing* with no proof reading But I hope you feel me...
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I definitely feel you. That

I definitely feel you. That long essay he typed all to say WHAT? Black men need to step up and behave the way men of OTHER RACES BEHAVE. Marry the women, become fathers, raise a solid family. The dysfunction will never end if the Big Mike's of the world keep spouting statistics and putting NO ACTION behind the words. Meet a good woman, fall in love, get down on that knee and live happily ever after! Don't you men know a good woman can only make you STRONGER??
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There is nothing wrong with

There is nothing wrong with being a baby mama? Wtf..... 70 percent of black children are born out of wedlock. Most turn out to be criminals or follow in the footsteps of being a single parent them selves. Fuck out of hear, i would never want to be JUST a baby mama wife sounds way better. If your teaching your child that having a baby out of wed lock is a good thing... shame on you.
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There is nothing wrong with

There is nothing wrong with being a baby mama? Wtf..... 70 percent of black children are born out of wedlock. Most turn out to be criminals or follow in the footsteps of being a single parent them selves. Fuck out of hear, i would never want to be JUST a baby mama wife sounds way better. If your teaching your child that having a baby out of wed lock is a good thing... shame on you.
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First i want to say i'm glad

First i want to say i'm glad she doing something to provide for her son.Alot of comments about her getting a job or going to school.We dont know if she do have a job or in school,but when you got a sick child and you got to take off you can lose that job and how things looking alot of people are getting laid off and school is getting high to even attensd so instead of all these back and forth give her some encouragement.Stop acting like we still in slavery like we always got to see what the white folks say or think.They aint check us for our thoughts on things.They got the same issues a Blacks as wells as Hispanics,Asians and any other race.Instead this banter wwe all need to be helpers of one another.Find out some programs in her area and put that in the comments.We just bash and then move on to the next story.She may have a child support order but that don't gaurtnee you are going to get it.Not all staes garinish your wages in my case he had the option to pay and then they garnish but some men will quit there job just so they don't pay.These stories on blogs are surface stories until you were ther or want to find the depth try something new help them out instead of the bashing.This site is making money off of people's problems.So we can't blame the white man we doing it to our self.
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First of all. Everyone on

First of all. Everyone on this board arguing about marriage as if marriage saves the fucking day. Marriage doesn't give a man the qualities of loyalty, commitment and integrity. It never has and never will. As far as baby mamas are concerned. Black women are entitled to have love in the form of children too! Yes a lot of this mess is by design but nature will always want babies! Stop with the labels and using white folks as a measuring stick for every fucking thing. My question is: why do we use white people as a measuring stick for every fucking thing when they had a 400 year headstart? The Black Women is human first and does the best she can with what she knows just like everyone else in humanity!
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In conclusion, I must ask.

In conclusion, I must ask. Why do black women "As a Group" refuse to take birth control and refuse to teach young black girls that female contraceptives is not an option for sexually active women who do not want to get pregnant?
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i ask this question ALL the

i ask this question ALL the time
Maria's picture

You all continue to not

You all continue to not understand that black women have created a self perpetuating matriarchal society over the last 50 years. There is no stigma to being a baby mama. In black society SINGLE “motherhood” is empowerment it is celebrated and encouraged. These ghetto baby mama's (financially enabled by white liberals) do not want for her daughter and son what she did not have. A traditional nuclear family. You all want a guy who's grandmother was a baby mama by multiple men, who's mama is a baby mama by multiple men, who's sisters are baby mama's by multiple men to all of a sudden become something he has never seen. Good luck with that. These are learned behaviors. That type of guy is going to need to mature on his own and is probably not going to be ready to get married in his 20's and 30's. You probably will have to catch him in his late 30's or 40's after he has made some mistakes and learned on his own how to be a man. I refuse to accept a cute educated, physically fit (under 170 pounds) black woman with a friendly personality and a tight va-gina telling me that she can't find a husband. [off topic - stop sticking all those toys inside of you every night. It's no different than having a Different man stick a dyck inside of you every night. You're va-gina is going to be just as big and just as used. Men can tell. If you have to, use a topical vibrator]. What you're saying is not that you can't get a husband. You're saying you can't get the husband that you want so you'd rather be alone. There are too many black guys some with degrees all working who don't have girlfriends and can't get a girlfriend. Y'all need to lower you're physical standards. That ready made guy who has it all going on (WHO's LOOKING TO GET MARRIED) doesn't want you. Now, let me say this again. If you're such a catch why aren't the men from other races an option? Yeah right, you know the competition over there is a hell of a lot more tougher than only competing with black women. Quite frankly that's ONE of the reasons white and non black women jump the fence to black men, less competition. This lie that all black women tell about them being exclusive is laughable. If White, Hispanic & Asian ballers pursued, whined & dined single black woman, 9 out of 10 of them would drop the draws, FACT! The few black women who are being pursued by non black men are taking advantage of some of those opportunities most of them are cute, educated, under 140/150 pounds, no kids & have no ghetto tendencies. The only reason Black women are complaining is because they are not being pursued by men of other races. The loudest complainers are 200+ pounders running around talking about they date black men exclusively. No shyt :-) Black men just have more options. Stop complaining ladies and step your game up. You know you'd take advantage of some of those opportunities if you were single and being pursued. Get off the holy than thou routine. It's played out. Only dumbazz nehgrow men still believe this loyalty crap. Black women are no more OR LESS loyal than women of other races. They just have less options. It's 2011. Anyone who wants to deny someone they do not know love because of race does not deserve love.
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I'm sorry, but you have

I'm sorry, but you have completely loss me. I don't understand the quip about sticking toys in a women's Vag… and about it being loose and all that, equate to BW not getting a man. FYI, lots of women, millions of women from across the board use those things, the majority being white women. Your logic that this is somehow hurting a black woman's or women's anatomy in some way, is crazy. You're going to explain where you came up with this logic, 'cause toys does in no way compare/equate to the real thing and you can ask any women that. And I see that you are still laying the blame solely on women. The fault you mention with BW in our society is very true. The baby mama culture that we, not just she, have created and applauded for years is our downfall. You have to remember, just when women's movement was taking hold, at the same time, men were proclaiming that they were rolling stones. A song was made to championed these types of men, "wherever he laid his hat was his home." That's how prevalent this was and it has been perpetuated in our black community for far too long. These BM carry the notion of having several "baby mama's" as a badge of honor, as a testament to their virility. It's not a one sided problem. Just the same way you want to hold BW accountable for their faults-amount of sexual partners, "toys" as you mentioned and the such- you should do the same for those men as well. It is just as nasty when men lay up with countless amounts of women. It is just as filthy and risky. These men don't get a pass, because they have delayed maturity. I'm sorry. And if BW need to be held accountable for not using birth control, so should BM. As you mentioned other races of women protect themselves from pregnancies, so do other races of men. Those that make sure that BC is in place in the relationship seldomly end up with an unwanted pregnancies, those that don't, end up like John Edwards. The last topic about women being the least desirable, that's nothing new. White men and Asian men are the least desirable males. So all across the board, different races have their choices for different reason. I can't speak for all, but from the BW that I associate with and know, it's not a problem attracting, black and non-black men, it's the quality. And there is some truth to that many BW having more than unreasonable standards. Don't really know how that came about in our culture, but it has some validity in the reasons why there are more single black women. I'm not here to debate back and forth on this, there are many points that we agree on. My issue is when we keep taking a part of the problem out of the equation. I don't like that you that putting all the blame on BW and I don't like to see when BW solely put the blame on BM as well. We all have a hand in the problem in our community, and we all have a hand in the solution as well. Once we start to realize that as a people is when we will see some progress. Sorry for this long diatribe. I will get off my soap box now.
 babiegirl's picture

I am a black woman, I am

I am a black woman, I am married, I weigh about 165, I have children by my husband, not 5 different men. My husband and I are both educated. I have been perused by the opposite race and would date outside of my race if not married to a black man already. We have the same options as everybody else. Its how you see yourself and the world around you. I get what your saying @Big Mike but maybe you should try a black woman for once and see that we are not what you think.
Anonymous's picture

PS. I still look good at 165

PS. I still look good at 165 (work out regularly to lose the baby fat.)
Anonymous's picture

That baby looks JUST LIKE HIS

That baby looks JUST LIKE HIS ASS!.....Maury Povich material!
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man this is a terrible

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@Rock of Ages Black men have

@Rock of Ages Black men have stopped being men because their is no one to teach him how to be a man. We are going on three generations of legions of boys and girls being raised by women. The community is just reaping the seeds of the dysfunction they sow. Who is going to show those boys the responsibility of the man of the home and how to respect women. The only thing they see are different men going in and out of their mama's bedroom. Now, do you really think these ghetto mama's want they're son marrying and treating his wife better than men treated her? Misery loves company. You want me to believe that you and 4 other educated young women can't find a husband because all black men are players, whores crooks and criminals. And, there are so few black men available. LMAO ROTF I'm not buying it. Actually the competition is almost nonexistent for a REALISTIC smart black woman. Let's look at your competition of women under 30. 20% of them are married. Another 20% are in a relationship. Another 20% have given up. They ain't looking. You see them in the streets at the grocery store. Their hair is all over their head hasn't been combed all day, they're walking around with 2 to 5 kids it's a wrap and they're usually overweight. They know the only man they're going to get is a bum or a jailbird. That's about 60% of the women off the market. Now you have your competition, the one's who are looking. About 20% are not dateable for most educated eligible black man. They have some issues obese, multiple kids uneducated, talk like a runaway slave or sailor, loud and ghetto. That only leaves about 20% of black women who are looking and are dateable. You mean to tell me none of the 5 of you all can find a husband? Something doesn't sound right. Maybe you're expectations are not realistic. Are you all looking for a Denzel or Boris Kodjoe with a PHD. Are you looking for a great looking ready made man. That guy probably is not looking for you all. Unless you look like Beyonce or Gabriel Union. You've got to love who loves you. Maybe look for a guy who might not be the physical standard that you're looking for, but meets all the other criteria. If you think a degree is all you need you're mistaken. Better get in the gym with those women of other races. This is 2011. If you and your girls have so much going on for yourselves, get a non black guy. Let me say this i understand that there are plenty of unmarried black women who were lucky to get one date in a year. Men didn’t find them attractive for one reason or another…. weight, facial features, ect…. I have compassion and sympathy for them. Then there are the black women who from 18 to 32 have multiple men asking them out on dates daily. Black men treated them like Queens! Who, also end up alone unmarried at 40, because of horrible choices in men and self absorption. You know the type drop dead gorgeous, great body, ect… They have a new boyfriend it seems almost every other week. I have absolutely no sympathy for that group of women. You made your bed, now shut up and lay in it.
Big Mike's picture

@ Big Mike....I am reading

@ Big Mike....I am reading this post about a young black man that refuses to acknowledge/take care of his child yet an individual who I presume to be a black man uses this as a forum to bash black women...go figure. I am in no way advocating for a person whom I believe made a poor choice in her selection of her child's father but realistically, every black woman is not to blame for the mishaps, mistakes, etc. of black men. So, I ask, oh enlightened one, what makes a deadbeat...?
Anonymous's picture

@ Big Mike....I am reading

@ Big Mike....I am reading this post about a young black man that refuses to acknowledge/take care of his child yet an individual who I presume to be a black man uses this as a forum to bash black women...go figure. I am in no way advocating for a person whom I believe made a poor choice in her selection of her child's father but realistically, every black woman is not to blame for the mishaps, mistakes, etc. of black men. So, I ask, oh enlightened one, what makes a deadbeat...?
Anonymous's picture

@ Big Mike....I am reading

@ Big Mike....I am reading this post about a young black man that refuses to acknowledge/take care of his child yet an individual who I presume to be a black man uses this as a forum to bash black women...go figure. I am in no way advocating for a person whom I believe made a poor choice in her selection of her child's father but realistically, every black woman is not to blame for the mishaps, mistakes, etc. of black men. So, I ask, oh enlightened one, what makes a deadbeat...?
Anonymous's picture

You make some great points

You make some great points and I hear your sincerity loud and clear. I can say that my girlfriends are a great group of women and would make great wives for a good man. We are all attractive in our own unique way, if you saw a photo of us we recently took at a friend's wedding you would say thats a nice looking group of women. The friend getting married was White - of course. Our white friends make it look so easy. One of my friends I actually met at Gold's gym 9 years ago and all but two of us stay fit. The other two are thick, not fat. None of my friends are looking for Denzel's with PhDs. The previous men they dated were your average black men working the 9 to 5. The ex-military guy was a personal trainer. The men just dogged them out and they didn't deserve it. I know all black men aren't crooks, criminals, etc. but the ones who are focused on marriage and family are just too few and far between. In response to your first paragrpah, at what point do the men step back into the picture?? It's not rocket science, all it takes is commitment.
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I don't think that anyone has

I don't think that anyone has a problem with your statement per say. The problem is that it's still coming off one sided. Why are the black men not there? There is absolutely no reason why a man is not in their child's life. Don't just blame the black women for not teaching their boys how to be men. The black men are obviously not there to do it either in many of those cases-see example above. In many of those cases the black choose to opt out. There is no excuse for that. I'm sorry but there is no convincing me otherwise. There are men who will go to hell and back to be with their children, regardless of the relationship with the mother, so those that don't shouldn't be excused. This issue in our community lays on both of our black men and women shoulders. As far as the post from the lady and her friends that are not married or have yet to meet someone, you'd be surprise how common that is. The root of that subject is far too much to get into at this time of night, but some of the points you mentioned have been made before.
 babiegirl's picture

I understand the man needs to

I understand the man needs to take care of his child. However, what kind of ghetto, low-class hoodrat is she to use his chain being snatched as a means of making money via t-shirts? Is she serious? Why not use that energy to educate yourself, get a real job and get some services for your autistic son? Taking him to court is also an option! Duh! If he is the father, get him to the judge! I can't.
Tiff's picture

The shoes, the hair where is

The shoes, the hair where is this child from?
Ggirl's picture

first off, she needs to

first off, she needs to forget about the modeling. :( it aint gonna happen boo. now,,, here is my problem with black women. They choose to have kids by men that they barley know ( 6 months to a year is not long enough to have somebodys kids. they have kids by men who already have two or three and expect for thier child to be the special one. lmao. They have kids by men who have felonys and know job. The reason why so many brothers go to jail is because they are tyring to support these kids that they dont want or dont need. yeah, he laid down with you and got you pregnant but you should be smart enough to know that you will be that the burden will be put on you. I belive tha black women bread criminals as well as unstable kids because they only think of themselves when conceving. Thats why thier are so many baby mamas' if you DONT get a ring DONT have a baby. and now we are suppose to feel sorry for her? lmao bitch go get a job.
Ggirl's picture

I have some typos in my first

I have some typos in my first post. Forgive me, it's late and I'm tired. Just wanted to add my 2c's.
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I had to jump into this

I had to jump into this conversation because I think it's very important as a community that we have this discussion. The issue with the high rate of single mothers in our community is a bit more complex than some of the reasons I've read, such as the liberal agenda to destroy the black family, the lack of black women on birth control and all the other type of reasons that have been put out there. I think it's a mix of all those things as well as losing a lot of our foundation as a people. I do agree with some of Big Mike's point that our community as a whole has some major short comings. There are a lot of pressing issues that have plagued the black community and has led to many fundamental issues. My only problem with it is that, we are still blaming one part of the equation for this, the black woman. It takes two to tango. There is no amount of job loss, liberal black women ranting, birth control or lack thereof that should or would keep a man from raising his children. There is absolutely no excuse for that. I have an issue when the fault is being placed solely one sex. All men know how baby's are made, so if you lay with a woman and don't use any form of protection on your end, you are taking a risk of getting that person pregnant, regardless if it's a white woman, black, yellow, green or whatever color you might have a preference for. Stop excusing this behavior. Yes, it is true that the woman is ultimately stuck with the child and therefore wood have an important investment as well, but the fact of the matter is that half of the DNA comes from the dad and is just as important as the woman. So as a man, if you no intention of going any further with any woman that you are with, you should think it's paramount that half of your DNA is not left with someone whom you have no plans of raise your seed with. I know that's easier said then done, since a lot of men don't think that far when in the throws of passion, but the responsibility should still be there. Responsible, mature men, regardless of status, position, standing in the world care where they offspring are and demand that they be a part of their life. And to expand further on this discussion, black women as a whole should demand more from their men. As one commentator stated, black women as whole don't demand more from their men and that is the reason why so many are unmarried. I have been engaged twice within the span of two years. My friend's asked me, how do you do it? how do you get these men to propose to you? especially when they themselves had been with their men for 7 years and still couldn't get their men to marry them. I explained to them that, before I enter a relationship, I make it clear that what my ultimate goal and is to get married and if they no intentions of settling down in the near future, then there is no need to date. With this, I have managed to weed out a lot of men that did not have marriage as a part of their future plan. These are the things that you need to discuss before you get into a relationship with someone. At my age (34) i didn't have time to date just for fun. Dating someone should ultimately lead to marriage and if that was not part of my partner's plan, then there's no need to continue. And I think that's the mistake that a lot of women make. I'm speaking from experience, this what i see a lot of black women make. You have to make clear to any potential partner that dating that leads to nowhere is not an option for you. It has to have a purpose, if the compatibility, love, goals and needs are there then why should the legality and blessing of God not be a part of it as well. I believe that as African Americans, we need to go back to a our fundamental values as a people, as a culture, with both the sexes being held responsible is the place to start.
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i started to agree with u

i started to agree with u until the 2nd paragraph. what does any of that have to do with it? smh
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I just expanded on the topic

I just expanded on the topic because someone had made a statement that black men not wanting to marry black women as a possible reason for the high rate of unwed mothers in the black community. If you read further down someone states that black women need to demand more from their men. I just expanded on that because I found that to be true in my own life experience.
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@Tatum Moss Wrong! 1. The are

@Tatum Moss Wrong! 1. The are more white women on welfare because they're are more white people! Both groups each have about (11 mil) people on welfare. However, Black people only make up 13% (aprox 40 mil) of the population white people make up 65% (aprox 200 mil.) of the population. Your statement tries to distract and deflect attention away from the fact that this baby mama nonsense has destroy the black community. In the Black Matriarchy that predominates Black Society “motherhood” is empowerment. Its reflected in the Pop culture with Fantasia’s lyric declaring ” …babi mama, backbone of the neighborhood”. Devotion to and allegiance to one man as father and husband is counter to sub cultures’ norms. Illegitimacy has to be de-incentivize. You have single uneducated, unskilled and unemployed women who are better off financially with children than without (through public aid SSI and some section 8). That is crazy.These young women didn't care anything about their own education. What makes you think they're going to care about their kids? Boy my people trip me out sometime. We always want to treat a symptoms but not never the root cause. People are wondering what’s wrong with black people. Why is there so much, crime, poverty, foreclosures, drop outs, teen pregnancies ect. ect. ect. There ain't nothing wrong with black people. We are trying to accomplish something that has NEVER BEEN DONE IN THE HISTORY OF CIVILIZATION. Establishing a productive community without men in the home. The black community has a 70% plus illegitimacy rate. By using the religious leaders, civil rights leaders and black academia to deliver their message. The liberal, progressive, marxist, socailist movements took black men out of the home and highjacked the civil rights movement into the progressive, socialist, marxist, union rights, womens rights, GLBT, Illegal immigration and as an afterthought black civil rights movement. The non critical thinking common black folk have bought into it and now the black community is drowning because of it. For 50 years, From the 1910 to the 1960's the illegitimacy rate in the African American community was 20% OR LESS. The last fifty years it has sky rocketed to 70%. Coincidence? Come on people use your brain. Illegitimacy is not our culture. This is a learned behavior. You now have black folks walking around actually thinking that this is how our community has always existed. That illegitimacy is a remnant of slavery. It is not. Black illegitimacy is clearly a creation of the progressive liberal socialist hippie 60’s. Wanting to create a new familial stucture. The decade of free love, drop out, get high, individualism and feminism (the man is not needed in the home). It has really done a job on black folks and has destroyed the black sense of community. Black folk let the progressives, marxist socialist in their home and the feminist in their bedrooms. The end result is only 42% of black women will ever marry down from 78% in 1960 and a 70% plus illegitimacy rate up from 20% in 1960. Anyone who thinks that's a good thing for blacks is delusional and or on does not think the African American agenda is more important than the progressive agenda. In 1963 when Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. gave his "I Have a Dream" speech, more than 70 percent of all Black families were headed by married couples. In 2002 that number was down to 48 percent. If he were to give that speach tooday it would be "I HAD A NIGHTMARE" :lol Authoritative – The first principle is the man is the head of the household. He is in the home. You can not have a productive community, city nor country without men in the home. People want more programs, more police, more schools, more, more, more. However, None of those social problems will ever be solved until that first principle is addressed and solved. At some point, we will recognize this. I’m not blaming this all on the women. The blame has to be shared by all. But the fact of the matter is, a man can’t get pregnant. Treating the symptom is much easier than treating the root cause. Treating the root cause is painful and difficult.
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