As we exclusively reported earlier--when TheYBF.com broke the story first around 4p EST--Liza Irizarry claims model Selita Ebanks violently attacked her at Dream nightclub in Miami.  All over Selita's new boo, "Think Like A Man" and "106 & Park" star Terrence J.

We now have the texts Liza sent to Terrence and a pic from the beginning of their friendship....

Liza, a video and magazine model, told us she and Terrence met years ago.  She's from the Bronx and he works in New York, so they know each other from the industry.  But there was no past video model style hanky panky.  Liza tells TheYBF.com:

"I've know Terrence for years.  We never dated.  Never had sex.  It's not like that.  We have mutual friends.  And every time I see him I say 'Hi' and give a kiss on the cheek...like I do with everybody.  Selita has to learn that somebody of her status can't just go around hitting people."

And she sent Terrence some text messages--right after the 5am attack where Selita and her friends allegedly punched Liza in the nose and back:

She says he never responded.  As of this afternoon, Selita's reps exclusively denied all claims to TheYBF.com.