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Ray-J Says He Was SEXMATIZED By 'KK," Speaks On Relationship With Whitney

Ray-J wants to teach everyone how to have a successful relationship.  So he wrote a book, Death of the Cheating Man: What Every Woman Must Know About Men Who Stray, where he talks about being sexmatized by a certain girl in his past he calls "KK."  And he doesn't leave out both of their infidelities, their lies, and why that type of relationship didn't work. Check out his interview inside...

 

Ray chatted with Kevin Frazier of "The Insider" on why he wrote this book (because he's going through a point of growth in his life and wants to recognize why things happened in his past), his romantic relationship with Whitney Houston (which he tries to not say whether they have a physical intimate relationship), and his addictive relationship with a certain girl he only reveals as "KK."

Now while it's extremely obvious he's talking about his former sex tape partner Kim Kardashian, Ray still tries to say he didn't want the focus to be on the person but the situation--so it could be about "anyone." (Whatevs Ray. We all know damn well who this is.)  Peep the vid above, and the transcript of the parts that matter below:

Kevin Frazier: Tell me about the girl in the book. You say she literally hypnotized you with sex.

Ray-J: Absolutely.  I was hypnotized.  Waking up in the morning with toothpaste already on the toothbrush, a warm towel all ready to go to wash your face.  Just certain different perks of being with a woman like that could really trap you into an emotional world that's hard to get out of.

The relationship with KK ended because we just felt like, you know, were friends and honest with each other.  But as far as our commitment as a one on one relationship, that just wasn't working. 

............

As far as sex, it was intense.  As far as the relationship with KK, it was a roller coaster ride of fun and emotions and infidelity and lies...from both ends.  We were the same person, we lived the same life, we lied the same, we cheated the same.  We were the same person just in different forms.

At the end of the day, it was a clash.

Kevin Frazier: So she knew you were having sex with other people and you knew you were having sex with other people?

Ray: Exactly. And she knew the same.

 

And no, he still won't admit who actually really released that sex tape.  But sexmatized by toothpaste and a washcloth?  Really? Ok.

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RIP Whitney despite ur past,

RIP Whitney despite ur past, u r still an icon 2 me
Anonymous's picture

I don't know why R-Jay fake

I don't know why R-Jay fake ass is hanging around for. I bet u a million dollars he was supplying Whitney whith un-cut cocain. He's nothing but an opportunist, just like Kim Kardashian. He's trash and probrably was going out getting drugs for whitney while making money off her habit.
Anonymous's picture

Let us wait to find out what

Let us wait to find out what he actually tries to publish. I KNOW. Ray j, bow down, accept Christ. What is done in the dark will come to the light... Call me Ray J. I know the beginning and the end of your book. If your book publishes I will write book of truth and opinion for the world. You have never met me but I know you personally.
Anonymous's picture

Anonymous, your post is more

Anonymous, your post is more than a bit ridiculous! Since you know him yet never met him personally why not be direct. Since you have never met then this reduces your level of knowing this man personally. While you pitch an offer you simultaneously disrespect the work he has created. Why not just call him a liar. He published the book from the viewpoint by choice, to send a particular message. Who are YOU to decipher how and what should be written. Such drama. Surely Ray J can put you in your place but since you posted such ignorance I decided to respond. I KNOW you (your type) yet we haven't met.
Lois Rene's picture

Let us wait to find out what

Let us wait to find out what he actually tries to publish. I KNOW. Ray j, bow down, accept Christ. What is done in the dark will come to the light... Call me Ray J. You have never met me but I know you personally.
Anonymous's picture

Let us wait to find out what

Let us wait to find out what he actually tries to publish. I KNOW. Ray j, bow down, accept Christ. What is done in the dark will come to the light... Call me Ray J. You have never met me but I know you personally.
Anonymous's picture

Let us wait to find out what

Let us wait to find out what he actually tries to publish. I KNOW. Ray j, bow down, accept Christ. What is done in the dark will come to the light... Call me Ray J. You have never met me but I know you personally.
Anonymous's picture

Let us wait to find out what

Let us wait to find out what he actually tries to publish. I KNOW. Ray j, bow down, accept Christ. What is done in the dark will come to the light... Call me Ray J. You have never met me but I know you personally.
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Anonymous's picture

Rest in Peace Whitney!!!! Can

Rest in Peace Whitney!!!! Can not believe you are gone!
Anonymous's picture

RIP Whitney!

RIP Whitney!
Anonymous's picture

he sure has interesting ways

he sure has interesting ways of getting his paycheck
Anonymous's picture

He is a loser and a dog, and

He is a loser and a dog, and he can't tell anyone anything about having a successful relationship and be taken seriously when he's been knee-deep in ho-activity. FOH!
Anonymous's picture

This guy really really really

This guy really really really really really really really really really gets on my last nerve!
Realist's picture

cant believe he is still

cant believe he is still going on about this after all this time!!
toot toot's picture

lmao at ray j irrelevant

lmao at ray j irrelevant arse...a near decade late n millions short.
Anonymous's picture

This fool is still talking

This fool is still talking about Kim Kardashian? Go away Gay J. We don't care about your stupid book or your personal life.
R.'s picture

I wish Ray J's punk ass would

I wish Ray J's punk ass would shut the f--- up! Ugh--still re-hashing the past, going out with Whitney, picking fights with Fab--all in an effort to be relevant. Brandy is the only star in his family: he needs to accept that and come up with a Plan B. I never liked Ray J: with his squeaky lil whiny voice, like an 8 yr old boy. GTFOH...
Godiva-Diva...Re-elect Obama!!!'s picture

why would he need a plan b?

why would he need a plan b? he makes hit tv shows, made 5 million off a sex tape , sold 2 million singles with sexy can i. he has more money then fab. i thin ray j doing well for himself you just a jealous hater
Anonymous's picture

Ray J is that you..LoL

Ray J is that you..LoL
Anonymous's picture

You Really need a Hobby,on

You Really need a Hobby,on the BLOGS Defending Ray J CTFU...I can go along with the Beyonce Fans Defending her.But Ray J is where I Draw the Line,Shit is about to get REAL,You need your Ass Roasted for real LOL! HaaaaaaHaaaaaaaa People are Jealous of Ray J ,I have heard it All!
Anonymous's picture

NO ONE IS JEALOUS OF GAY JAY,

NO ONE IS JEALOUS OF GAY JAY, ASSSSS HOLE! ARE U SERIOUS, U MUST BE GAY TOO!
Anonymous's picture

No one is jealous of Ray-J so

No one is jealous of Ray-J so please, give me a break!
Anonymous's picture

I cant believe some of the

I cant believe some of the comments I am reading! Ya'll Uncle Tom's will blast a Black man trying to share his dating experiences, but ya'll niccas made an already rich girl (Kim K) a millionaire by watching her show/buying her clothes/watching her p0rn tape/buying her exercise tape???!!!!! Is this YBF?!! GTFOHWTBS! Ya'll should be a shame or urself. More concerned abt who Kim K is phucking, than a Black man writing a testimonial book. Bunch of imbeciles!
ShreveportShawty's picture

You might as well calm all of

You might as well calm all of that down...do you personally KNOW the people on this site and if/how they support the Kardashians?? Why are YOU insulting your OWN people in defense of Ray-Jay: I mean aside from his mother & sister you NEVER see or hear of him celebrating black women. And for the record I could give a damn about Kim K: I don't support her or her fam at all but I don't support a corny ass dude either: with zero talent who keeps re-living the past. Kim K turned their sad lil porn tape into a $60 million + empire. Ray-J has NOTHING. Who's fault is that? HIS. Dont defend people who dont give a SHIT about you.
Godiva-Diva...Re-elect Obama!!!'s picture

Im not defending him, I am

Im not defending him, I am clearly making a point Brandy has been struggling in the music industry & so does Ray J, Ciara, Olivia, Ashanti, etc. But Kim K has made her ENTIRE FAM rich! Ray J wrote a book trying to tell men & women which ptifalls 2 avoid in r-ships & u yall strike him down??!!! And i said a BOOK! Not a diet pill, Not a sexy calender, Not a Playgirl spread (all of which Kim K has done). A BOOK!!!!!!! Give credit where credit is due!!!! Crabs in a Barrel!!!!!
ShreveportShawty's picture

I'm with you on this one

I'm with you on this one Godiva! How does that blogger know that we support KK (what a broad statement) and why should we support a person we don't like just because he's black? I too, don't care for Ray-J, never have and there's nothing wrong with that!
Anonymous's picture

So, Ray J confirms Kim K is a

So, Ray J confirms Kim K is a cheat & a ho3. ALL MEN, PLS TAKE NOTE I dnt blame Ray J 4 cashing in off the Kardashians. Kim K went from a living off her daddy's money 2 making her WHOLE FAMILY millionaires. Brandy & Ray J aint balling like tht right now. When a talentless family can beat out a Brandy (a double threat), esp unattractive Khloe, u know smtg in the entertainment industry aint rite.
ShreveportShawty's picture

You know Ray J, maybe you

You know Ray J, maybe you have horrible morning breat and she didn't want to smell it, so she already had your toothbrush prepared, since obvioulsy you didn't brush & clean your face after waking up. Ray J is so lame and childish. He is only Brandy's little brother and he could take his wack butt & sit down. I saw the video of him and "KK" and I must say he is wack in bed and he is small!!
Sara's picture

You know Ray J, maybe you

You know Ray J, maybe you have horrible morning breat and she didn't want to smell it, so she already had your toothbrush prepared, since obvioulsy you didn't brush & clean your face after waking up. Ray J is so lame and childish. He is only Brandy's little brother and he could take his wack butt & sit down. I saw the video of him and "KK" and I must say he is wack in bed and he is small!!
Sara's picture

You know Ray J, maybe you

You know Ray J, maybe you have horrible morning breat and she didn't want to smell it, so she already had your toothbrush prepared, since obvioulsy you didn't brush & clean your face after waking up. Ray J is so lame and childish. He is only Brandy's little brother and he could take his wack butt & sit down. I saw the video of him and "KK" and I must say he is wack in bed and he is small!!
Sara's picture

You know Ray J, maybe you

You know Ray J, maybe you have horrible morning breat and she didn't want to smell it, so she already had your toothbrush prepared, since obvioulsy you didn't brush & clean your face after waking up. Ray J is so lame and childish. He is only Brandy's little brother and he could take his wack butt & sit down. I saw the video of him and "KK" and I must say he is wack in bed and he is small!!
Sara's picture

It's obvious that he's

It's obvious that he's talking about Kim K and even if he isn't, he knows good and well that people are going to automatically assume that thus generating a buzz for the book. If the guy wants to write about his love life and profit from it, then let him do him. His intentions are irrelevant. If you're not interested in it then don't support it, simple! I'm sure if someone cared enough to pay money to hear about your past love life, some of ya'll would do it too. http://www.ellecherieamour.wordpress.com
Elle's picture

Really if we look at the

Really if we look at the situation ray j in my opinion is nothing more than a male giggalo he has attached his self to women of high statue n made a name for his self yeah kk then Whitney n for what let his mom say he n brandy r doing great finacially I dnt believe so.not to point fingers but I feel the cops r right to investigate n see exactly where he was when Whitney died
Anonymous's picture

Really if we look at the

Really if we look at the situation ray j in my opinion is nothingore than a male giggalo he has attached his self to women of high statue n made a name for his self yeah kk then Whitney n for what let his mom say he n brandy r doing great finacially I dnt believe so.not to point fingers but I feel the cops r right to investigate n see exactly where he was when Whitney died
Anonymous's picture

It's obvious that he's

It's obvious that he's talking about Kim K and even if he isn't, he knows good and well that people are going to automatically assume that thus generating a buzz for the book. If the guy wants to write about his love life and profit from it, then let him do him. His intentions are irrelevant. If you're not interested in it then don't support it, simple! I'm sure if someone cared enough to pay money to hear about your past love life, some of ya'll would do it too. http://www.ellecherieamour.wordpress.com
Elle's picture

WHY IS EVERYONE JUMPING TO

WHY IS EVERYONE JUMPING TO THE CONCLUSION THAT HE'S TALKING ABOUT KIM KARDASHIAN? KIM IS NOT THE ONLY WOMEN HE DATED WHOSE NAME BEGINS WITH A "K". RAY JAY ALSO DATED AND LIVED WITH KARRINE STEFFANS SO HE COULD BE TALKING ABOUT HER. SHE WAS SCREWING EVERYONE IN THE INDUSTRY SO IT COULD BE HER. ANYWHO! STOP BEING SO GULLIBE ABOUT EVERYTHING YOU READ OR HEAR.
Andrea's picture

I just learned the definition

I just learned the definition of the word scumbag: Ray-J! Please someone cut this clowns mic off, so we never hear from this dumb-ass again
The Bottom Liner's picture

Shut up all y'all talking

Shut up all y'all talking shit about Ray J are ignorant jealous envious haters! Everybody knows Ray J and Whitney have been Freinds for years!!! So thats irrevalant this is what is wrong with blk ppl now we talk shit about one another and don't support each other that is why our race is falling now! I support his book it's positive he is finally doin something positive let him be but yet y'all haters and hateress don't have the Amount of money put together that Ray J has in his pocket right now! So go do sum work wit ur broke asses
TLaDee's picture

Shut up all y'all talking

Shut up all y'all talking shit about Ray J are ignorant jealous envious haters! Everybody knows Ray J and Whitney have been Freinds for years!!! So thats irrevalant this is what is wrong with blk ppl now we talk shit about one another and don't support each other that is why our race is falling now! I support his book it's positive he is finally doin something positive let him be but yet y'all haters and hateress don't have the Amount of money put together that Ray J has in his pocket right now! So go do sum work wit ur broke asses
TLaDee's picture

Shut up all y'all talking

Shut up all y'all talking shit about Ray J are ignorant jealous envious haters! Everybody knows Ray J and Whitney have been Freinds for years!!! So thats irrevalant this is what is wrong with blk ppl now we talk shit about one another and don't support each other that is why our race is falling now! I support his book it's positive he is finally doin something positive let him be but yet y'all haters and hateress don't have the Amount of money put together that Ray J has in his pocket right now! So go do sum work wit ur broke asses
Anonymous's picture

He is such a loser! Still

He is such a loser! Still trying to cash in on The Kardashians.
ImThinking's picture

Why not!?!? They don't seem

Why not!?!? They don't seem to have a promblem cashing cashing in on the benifits of the sex tape that put her name out there. So why does it make him a loser and not them? Truth I could care less about either one and how they make their money; I've never seen the tape, a show or bought an item. So let them each do them and cash in on the tape that started it all.
Anonymous's picture

IKR. WHY?!?!?! If he had a

IKR. WHY?!?!?! If he had a life he would prolly kept it moving like KK other exes. Her ex husband Kris is having a great season. Ray has cemented his place of being a loser!!!! What's next, being an extra on The Game. #moveon
Anonymous's picture

IKR. WHY?!?!?! If he had a

IKR. WHY?!?!?! If he had a life he would prolly kept it moving like KK other exes. Her ex husband Kris is having a great season. Ray has cemented his place of being a loser!!!! What's next, being an extra on The Game. #moveon
Anonymous's picture

IKR. WHY?!?!?! If he had a

IKR. WHY?!?!?! If he had a life he would prolly kept it moving like KK other exes. Her ex husband Kris is having a great season. Ray has cemented his place of being a loser!!!! What's next, being an extra on The Game. #moveon
Anonymous's picture

IKR. WHY?!?!?! If he had a

IKR. WHY?!?!?! If he had a life he would prolly kept it moving like KK other exes. Her ex husband Kris is having a great season. Ray has cemented his place of being a loser!!!! What's next, being an extra on The Game. #moveon
Anonymous's picture

IKR. WHY?!?!?! If he had a

IKR. WHY?!?!?! If he had a life he would prolly kept it moving like KK other exes. Her ex husband Kris is having a great season. Ray has cemented his place of being a loser!!!! What's next, being an extra on The Game. #moveon
Anonymous's picture

IKR. WHY?!?!?! If he had a

IKR. WHY?!?!?! If he had a life he would prolly kept it moving like KK other exes. Her ex husband Kris is having a great season. Ray has cemented his place of being a loser!!!! What's next, being an extra on The Game. #moveon
Anonymous's picture

IKR. WHY?!?!?! If he had a

IKR. WHY?!?!?! If he had a life he would prolly kept it moving like KK other exes. Her ex husband Kris is having a great season. Ray has cemented his place of being a loser!!!! What's next, being an extra on The Game. #moveon
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