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Dear Stan: I'm not pressed about Ms. F*cking For Tracks' work ethic whatsoever. I laugh, because people who work are usually have paps, bloggers and reporters documenting them work. I'm not the one who has tried repeatedly, unsuccessfully to have a recording career. I've been very successful in my own career, "behind the scenes" as you say. When I patronize the establishments I patronize, the "celebs" flock to me and ask what I do. Lol. I've noticed a pattern re: blog posts about Christina. Emphasis is always placed on what she is wearing or what her daughter is wearing. Black folks will have a baby so they can dress them cute and give them a name that will render them jobless in 18-20 years. Where are the photos of these celeb mom and dads at Lakeshore? They aren't photographed at teacher's stores or bookstores buying their kids educational materials. Your child knows he or she is wearing Gucci shoes, but do they know how many noses, eyes and hands they have? It's great to be cute, as a mom and child, but try being smart. How many of these parents plan their children's educations before they decorate their kid's nursery? We're quick to emphasize the superficial and focus on the inconsequential, but we rarely ever praise anything substantive. Folks jumped on the Tyra thread when she completed her Harvard business courses exclaiming, "She didn't get a degree from Harvard!" If she received a diploma, degree, certification or took classes to expand her vocabulary, that's a HUGE accomplishment. Continue praising airheads who are looking at a man for a come-up, while real women are out here earning our own keep and getting it on our feet, not our backs.

Take your deflection elsewhere. It seems that the miserable people are always the ones standing in front of a camera attempting to prove that they're enjoying their lives. But you missed that, didn't you. God has blessed me tremendously, and he enables me to be a blessing to many people. I'm not a parent, but I have the good sense to know that, even when you are in the limelight, you don't place your child in the limelight because you make them a target. I wouldn't post inappropriate/suggestive photos of anyone's child online because there are predators. As for Christina, I honestly think she uses her daughter as an accessory, almost to prove to The-Dream that she is happy and moved on. If you're happy, skip away from being in front of the camera everytime you sneeze and live your life. I'm obviously not the only one who thinks she does too much, because later posters shared similar sentiments as mine (with regards to both Christina and the multitude of photos that she sends to blogs as well as the inappropriate nature of Tichina's daughter's photos). Good parents protect their children. Tia is the only one who seems to act like a normal parent.