We, along with many other people, have indeed noticed just how much time LaLa & Carmelo Anthony have NOT been spending together over the last few months.  La went from being at every game of Carmelo's and tweeting constant pics from their QT together....to barely even mentioning her husband for the past four months.

The newest reports inside about their marriage being allegedly on the rocks...

Rumors have been taking off this week that there's trouble in Carmelo & LaLa Anthony's marital paradise.  The fact they have not been seen together in four months (when they're usually attached at the hip in front of a camera), and La seemed to celebrate Thanksgiving, Christmas and New Year's Eve without her man....made folks believe something was going on.

The "Your wife tastes like Honey Nut Cheerios" diss from Kevin Garnett to Melo Monday night (a game LaLa actually showed up to) was another drop in bucket that pushed breakup rumor further.

Of course, LaLa's relatives maintain she has never slept with Kevin (and we don't believe she has either).  But what people are really wondering about is, what's really going on with the Anthonys?

The NY Post reports today:

“It is true they haven’t seen much of each other in the past few months,” says a friend of the couple. “She’s been away a lot filming her show, ‘La La’s Full Court Life,’ in London, New York and LA. They are not separated and are still together. She and Melo have a house in LA — so she’s always there when she’s doing auditions.”

And other sources tell the Post that La has been partying everywhere from Miami to NYC to L.A. solo dolo, and that's not rubbing Melo the right way.  So they are rumored to be living apart:

Sources add that La La’s also been partying with girlfriends from Mexico to Miami, which has displeased Melo and “made him angry.”

According to multiple sources, the pair had been seeking a new home over the summer and were checking out apartments in TriBeCa for up to $25,000 a month. But the search cooled along with the relationship. “During the summer they were looking for a new apartment constantly,” said a source. “About two months ago, that completely dried up. They don’t even return their brokers’ phone calls anymore.”

Didn't her bestie Charlamagne da God tell her sometimes a man just wants his woman to be at home while he's out traveling for work?  And not out constantly partying?  He may have been right.

Still, neither Melo or LaLa have spoken directly on any split or marital problems.  So...

Keep calm and let the reality cameras roll on....