Word has it Usher has a lil boo he’s been secretly kickin’ it with–and it may be Kelly Rowland. Jawn Murray reported on the Tom Joyner Morning Show this week that The Raymonds are indeed riding on Splitsville Lane, just like TheYBF.com was the first to report a while back. And Ursh has actually moved on to spending lots of time on the low with a new celeb “friend”. Jawn wouldn’t reveal who it was, but he did say the mystery woman spends A LOT of time in Europe. And we all know how Kelly pretty much lives over there. YBF sources also report Kelly had a huge crush on him these last few years, and they’ve even partied together over in London.
We broke the exclusive MONTHS ago that Usher & Tameka were on Splitsville Lane, despite the false “happy couple” front they were putting up. And most people accused us of lying and making up stories, including Usher’s camp. But we stood by our story. Funny how these days everybody is hopping on the Splitsville bandwagon and saying the two are pretty much dunzo, despite the happy couple front they’re still putting on. Usher and Tameka rarely hit up events together these days, and when they do, insiders say they barely even speak to each other. Tameka will be delivering their second baby they have together next month, and people are predicting that will cause even more drama. As usual, we called it. And we’ll sit back and wait for the full story to reveal itself…
The real deal on the 50 Cent/Angel Lola Luv alleged hook up when you read the rest…
So 50 Cent and video vixen Angel “Lola” Luv caused a frenzy when they hit the BET Hip Hop Awards red carpet together this weekend. Rumors have been flying that the two are on new couple status (where you at Ciara?). But we’re not buying it.
A couple months ago, Angel confirmed that she is indeed releasing a mixtape on G-Unit’s label and we all know 50 loves to stir up publicity around his female artists (remember Olivia):
We also learned that Angel will be starring in a movie with 50 Cent very soon. So we’re going with publicity stunt. No candy shop loving there.
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:18 PM
First…wow
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:19 PM
I don’t believe it, i need more proof.
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:19 PM
FIRST
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:19 PM
well i’m glad if its true cause usher’s wife is sooo boo boo!!
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:19 PM
Two words: Who cares!
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:19 PM
Yay new post … :D
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:20 PM
Well…if they are done, that’s too bad. But what can you do???
I like Kelly, they would look good together. But I can’t imagine she would go for Usher considering his track record…I will believe it when I see it.
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:20 PM
Thats right…Usher’s been seeing ME!!!!!!!!!!
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:20 PM
What’s good ybfer’s :?:
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:20 PM
I don’t want to see either of these as a couple.
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:21 PM
Usher and Kelly? Let me find out lol..I know Tameka is ready to get in that ass for child support x’s 2!!! LOL
Angel Lola is so irrelevant with that fake ass…mix tape? Movie? Oh lawd….
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:21 PM
I didn’t know Angel had telent … :roll:
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:22 PM
[quote comment="245645"]I didn’t know Angel had telent … :roll:[/quote]
*talent
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:23 PM
[quote comment="245641"]What’s good ybfer’s :?:[/quote]
Hiya!
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:23 PM
honestly if Usher and Kelly had a baby..that little kid would be very pretty
better than Usher’s husband Tameka
anything else i dont care about
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:23 PM
Kelly Rowland looks really nice in that pic…and who is that tranny looking woman beside Usher? Tameka should stop bleaching her skin she is starting to look white.
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:23 PM
Anywho..NEXT!!
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:24 PM
[quote comment="245641"]What’s good ybfer’s :?:[/quote]
Hey hey!! How are you?
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:24 PM
Wow! I hope it’s not true about Usher and Tameka. If it is, 2 more kids will be the product of a divorced family. Even though most couples can make that work, I don’t wish that on any kid.
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:24 PM
[quote comment="245644"]Usher and Kelly? Let me find out lol..I know Tameka is ready to get in that ass for child support x’s 2!!! LOL
Angel Lola is so irrelevant with that fake ass…mix tape? Movie? Oh lawd….[/quote]
Yeah for Usher!!! I could support a relationship of him and Kelly. Now Tameka golddigger move your Azzzzzz.
But she ain’t done yet she got her security be getting pregnant 2x…damn Heffa
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:25 PM
GOH!!!!!!!!!!!!! (Get outta here)
I don’t think that’s true!!!!!!!
Angel who?
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:26 PM
[quote comment="245652"]Anywho..NEXT!![/quote]
I’m with you…I’m giving this post all kinds of screw faces…..
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:26 PM
[quote comment="245651"]Kelly Rowland looks really nice in that pic…and who is that tranny looking woman beside Usher? Tameka should stop bleaching her skin she is starting to look white.[/quote]
LMAO
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:26 PM
Kelly Rowland spent over $100,000 on Usher and some other friends some time ago. They went out to have an evening together. I guess she was trying to impress Usher then…I DON’T KNOW. I think this is just a rumour.
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:26 PM
Although I think Usher and Kelly would make a beautiful couple, I doubt she would want to put herself in that situation … considering Usher’s M.O. I refuse to belive it until otherwise is proven.
No one cares about the other two.
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:27 PM
[quote comment="245649"][quote comment="245641"]What’s good ybfer’s :?:[/quote]
Hiya![/quote]
Heyyy Toya :lol:
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:27 PM
My vote would be Amerie, she’s in Europe a lot too.
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:27 PM
No wonder why she always has that distant look on her face… thinkin ’bout Ursher much Kelly?
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:28 PM
[quote comment="245659"]GOH!!!!!!!!!!!!! (Get outta here)
I don’t think that’s true!!!!!!!
Angel who?[/quote]
If she turns around she may look familiar.
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:28 PM
[quote comment="245666"]Kelly Rowland spent over $100,000 on Usher and some other friends some time ago. They went out to have an evening together. I guess she was trying to impress Usher then…I DON’T KNOW. I think this is just a rumour.[/quote]
Sounds like one too….
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:28 PM
Looking at the pictures…I think Usher and Kelly Rowland make a really cute couple. They would be a perfect match! Is it just me who think so?
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:29 PM
[quote comment="245673"][quote comment="245659"]GOH!!!!!!!!!!!!! (Get outta here)
I don’t think that’s true!!!!!!!
Angel who?[/quote]
If she turns around she may look familiar.[/quote]
Ahhhhhhh. okay… And she’s relevent becaaauuuuse?????
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:29 PM
[quote comment="245641"]What’s good ybfer’s :?:[/quote]
Howdy partner!!!!!! :lol:
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:30 PM
[quote comment="245666"]Kelly Rowland spent over $100,000 on Usher and some other friends some time ago. They went out to have an evening together. I guess she was trying to impress Usher then…I DON’T KNOW. I think this is just a rumour.[/quote]
NOW i KNOW that’s a lie, Kelly KNOW she ain’t hardly got that kind of money to trick on Usher. DC money is nice but when you don’t have that much income coming in, you can’t be tricking that kind of money.
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:30 PM
Top 50?
Anywho. Usher and Kelly would make a cute couple. I just hope he’s not cheating with her now. That would make not like both of them. And 50 cent irks me to pieces everytime I see him I think of “Stepin Fetchit”
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:30 PM
[quote comment="245679"][quote comment="245673"][quote comment="245659"]GOH!!!!!!!!!!!!! (Get outta here)
I don’t think that’s true!!!!!!!
Angel who?[/quote]
If she turns around she may look familiar.[/quote]
Ahhhhhhh. okay… And she’s relevent becaaauuuuse?????[/quote]
She has a fake ass ghetto bootie…..she is a video hoe/jump off….
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:30 PM
Woooo that is juicy gossip.
Usher and Kelly shut the door. The pics of them hanging out may have added fuel to the fire.
Every article I read now about Usher makes it seems he married her because she was preggers.
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:31 PM
children aside i would actually be Happy if they were together kelly and ursh would make very cute couple i could see it! hello all im new to ybf!!! :lol:
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:32 PM
I think its a damn shame that anyone would be happy that his marriage is over just because his wife is not a top model. She is a regular looking woman just like the woman walking the street every damn day and communicating on this blog. Its really ashame marriage is not a game and there are children involved its really a sad situation. If he is dating Kelly R she better just watch herself. He is a serial cheater.
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:32 PM
Good for Usher, I like this upgrade!
Ummm, Angel don’t even think about becoming a rapper. I thought Ciara and Fifty was together…interesting.
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:33 PM
[quote comment="245664"][quote comment="245652"]Anywho..NEXT!![/quote]
I’m with you…I’m giving this post all kinds of screw faces…..[/quote]
LOL, I may as well go to lunch now, this is the whackness for real…
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:33 PM
[quote comment="245664"][quote comment="245652"]Anywho..NEXT!![/quote]
I’m with you…I’m giving this post all kinds of screw faces…..[/quote]
I actually gave it the gas face..
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:33 PM
[quote comment="245651"]Kelly Rowland looks really nice in that pic…and who is that tranny looking woman beside Usher? Tameka should stop bleaching her skin she is starting to look white.[/quote]
lol, we have our differences but that was funny…
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:33 PM
[quote comment="245686"]Top 50?
Anywho. Usher and Kelly would make a cute couple. I just hope he’s not cheating with her now. That would make not like both of them. And 50 cent irks me to pieces everytime I see him I think of “Stepin Fetchit”[/quote]
LOL…I can’t stand 50 cent either.
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:34 PM
[quote comment="245641"]What’s good ybfer’s :?:[/quote]
Hey Christin!…back to scrolling, gotta catch up w/y’all
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:34 PM
[quote comment="245699"][quote comment="245664"][quote comment="245652"]Anywho..NEXT!![/quote]
I’m with you…I’m giving this post all kinds of screw faces…..[/quote]
I actually gave it the gas face..[/quote]
3RD base…..lol lol lol
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:35 PM
awwwwwww sookie, sookie now!!!!
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:35 PM
[quote comment="245687"][quote comment="245679"][quote comment="245673"][quote comment="245659"]GOH!!!!!!!!!!!!! (Get outta here)
I don’t think that’s true!!!!!!!
Angel who?[/quote]
If she turns around she may look familiar.[/quote]
Ahhhhhhh. okay… And she’s relevent becaaauuuuse?????[/quote]
She has a fake ass ghetto bootie…..she is a video hoe/jump off….[/quote]
What Kay said.
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:35 PM
Im actually pretty bummed about Urshmeka break up. I don’t know why cause everybody saw that a mile away like the Cannons but I guess you just hate to be right some times.
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:35 PM
[quote comment="245694"]I think its a damn shame that anyone would be happy that his marriage is over just because his wife is not a top model. She is a regular looking woman just like the woman walking the street every damn day and communicating on this blog. Its really ashame marriage is not a game and there are children involved its really a sad situation. If he is dating Kelly R she better just watch herself. He is a serial cheater.[/quote]
I agree with you, looks mean nothing really past the initial attraction, it’s all about the emotional connection, who cares if they look cute together – in the grand scheme of things?
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:36 PM
[quote comment="245705"][quote comment="245699"][quote comment="245664"][quote comment="245652"]Anywho..NEXT!![/quote]
I’m with you…I’m giving this post all kinds of screw faces…..[/quote]
I actually gave it the gas face..[/quote]
3RD base…..lol lol lol[/quote]
Gurl, you know I’m good for turning a post old school when I’m bored. LOL
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:36 PM
So, if Usher leaves his wife for Kelly, would you guys consider her a homewrecker like you considered gabrielle union?…Had to ask…
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:37 PM
[quote comment="245704"][quote comment="245641"]What’s good ybfer’s :?:[/quote]
Hey Christin!…back to scrolling, gotta catch up w/y’all[/quote]
Girl, you are not missing a thing…lol. Things just got started…jump offs, ghetto booties…lol.
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:37 PM
[quote comment="245710"][quote comment="245694"]I think its a damn shame that anyone would be happy that his marriage is over just because his wife is not a top model. She is a regular looking woman just like the woman walking the street every damn day and communicating on this blog. Its really ashame marriage is not a game and there are children involved its really a sad situation. If he is dating Kelly R she better just watch herself. He is a serial cheater.[/quote]
I agree with you, looks mean nothing really past the initial attraction, it’s all about the emotional connection, who cares if they look cute together – in the grand scheme of things?[/quote]
I’m not happy or sad. I really don’t care but I’m sure this is a rumor. Tameka aint letting that go…
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:38 PM
[quote comment="245714"]So, if Usher leaves his wife for Kelly, would you guys consider her a homewrecker like you considered gabrielle union?…Had to ask…[/quote]
yes.
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:38 PM
damn angel, that’s the type pf person that just should shut up and be pretty lol
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:38 PM
[quote comment="245702"][quote comment="245686"]Top 50?
Anywho. Usher and Kelly would make a cute couple. I just hope he’s not cheating with her now. That would make not like both of them. And 50 cent irks me to pieces everytime I see him I think of “Stepin Fetchit”[/quote]
LOL…I can’t stand 50 cent either.[/quote]
50 is an opportunist. If the can create scandle and boost sales then that will happen as we have seen over the years
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:39 PM
[quote comment="245721"][quote comment="245714"]So, if Usher leaves his wife for Kelly, would you guys consider her a homewrecker like you considered gabrielle union?…Had to ask…[/quote]
yes.[/quote]
K, just making sure…b/c it seemed as though a lot of people were congratulating kelly….
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:39 PM
[quote comment="245714"]So, if Usher leaves his wife for Kelly, would you guys consider her a homewrecker like you considered gabrielle union?…Had to ask…[/quote]
good question
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:40 PM
[quote comment="245721"][quote comment="245714"]So, if Usher leaves his wife for Kelly, would you guys consider her a homewrecker like you considered gabrielle union?…Had to ask…[/quote]
yes.[/quote]
i wonder if people would respect him more for being with kelly more thsn when he was with tameka!!! just cause kelly is prettier!!! smh to people! i love kelly but a woman is not better than another just because she is prettier!
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:40 PM
[quote comment="245721"][quote comment="245714"]So, if Usher leaves his wife for Kelly, would you guys consider her a homewrecker like you considered gabrielle union?…Had to ask…[/quote]
yes.[/quote]
They both need their asses beat…but then again, what comes around goes around…just how you got him, will be how you loose him…*side eyes tomeka* didn’t she cheat on her hubby for Ush?????
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:41 PM
[quote comment="245714"]So, if Usher leaves his wife for Kelly, would you guys consider her a homewrecker like you considered gabrielle union?…Had to ask…[/quote]
Nope because I don’t consider Gabrielle to be a homewrecker either.
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:41 PM
[quote comment="245711"][quote comment="245705"][quote comment="245699"][quote comment="245664"][quote comment="245652"]Anywho..NEXT!![/quote]
I’m with you…I’m giving this post all kinds of screw faces…..[/quote]
I actually gave it the gas face..[/quote]
3RD base…..lol lol lol[/quote]
Gurl, you know I’m good for turning a post old school when I’m bored. LOL[/quote]
I love old school hip hop….I don’t listen to rap, I listen to hip hop…….
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:42 PM
[quote comment="245729"][quote comment="245721"][quote comment="245714"]So, if Usher leaves his wife for Kelly, would you guys consider her a homewrecker like you considered gabrielle union?…Had to ask…[/quote]
yes.[/quote]
They both need their asses beat…but then again, what comes around goes around…just how you got him, will be how you loose him…*side eyes tomeka* didn’t she cheat on her hubby for Ush?????[/quote]
True, true, she sure did, Lahdamercy all these fluids just a co-mingling, ewwwwwwww, i tell you these stars are the same as regular people they only sleep on higher thread count sheets than we do.
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:42 PM
[quote comment="245694"]I think its a damn shame that anyone would be happy that his marriage is over just because his wife is not a top model. She is a regular looking woman just like the woman walking the street every damn day and communicating on this blog. Its really ashame marriage is not a game and there are children involved its really a sad situation. If he is dating Kelly R she better just watch herself. He is a serial cheater.[/quote]
I agree. Sometimes I wonder if it’s b/c so many of us are the product of single-mother homes or divorced parents that we don’t place the same value on marriage. I know that there are a good number of black people who do very well without both biological parents in the home but I just really think that it’s a blessing to have a mom and a dad that are in a sustainable, happy marriage. If anything, the comments should be along the lines of why in the hell did they bring children into this mirage of a marriage if these rumors are indeed true but maybe I’m asking for too much.
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:42 PM
Stupid Usher. Makes me want to go work out my abs. Time to break out the yoga mat.
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:43 PM
[quote comment="245729"][quote comment="245721"][quote comment="245714"]So, if Usher leaves his wife for Kelly, would you guys consider her a homewrecker like you considered gabrielle union?…Had to ask…[/quote]
yes.[/quote]
They both need their asses beat…but then again, what comes around goes around…just how you got him, will be how you loose him…*side eyes tomeka* didn’t she cheat on her hubby for Ush?????[/quote]
exactly. so a big whoopdeedo for both relationships.
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:43 PM
[quote comment="245664"][quote comment="245652"]Anywho..NEXT!![/quote]
I’m with you…I’m giving this post all kinds of screw faces…..[/quote]
And side eyes…LOL!!
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:43 PM
[quote comment="245730"][quote comment="245714"]So, if Usher leaves his wife for Kelly, would you guys consider her a homewrecker like you considered gabrielle union?…Had to ask…[/quote]
Nope because I don’t consider Gabrielle to be a homewrecker either.[/quote]
Okay…I see where you’re coming from in that the husband and wife are the ones to “wreck the home”, but I think both kelly and gabby are acting real sketch..NOT a good look, in fact it is never a good look to be involved with a married man no matter the stability of his marriage
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:44 PM
[quote comment="245725"][quote comment="245714"]So, if Usher leaves his wife for Kelly, would you guys consider her a homewrecker like you considered gabrielle union?…Had to ask…[/quote]
good question[/quote]
She should at least wait until a the divorce is final.. I don’t care who you are…black, white, purple, Jew, Christian, Muslim..if you sleep with or is just in a relationship with someone who is not divorced..it AINT RIGHT!!!!!!!
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:45 PM
[quote comment="245691"]children aside i would actually be Happy if they were together kelly and ursh would make very cute couple i could see it! hello all im new to ybf!!! :lol:[/quote]
Hello :D
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:45 PM
All this actual and potential bed hopping disgust me. Star or no star…diseases exist. Only in Hollyhood and Hollywood can is this acceptable. I really hope that Ursh is not cutting up.
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:45 PM
So…if the Kelly rumors are true…are some of ya’ll gonna rip her apart like ya’ll did Gabrielle Union? As a Gabby stan you know I have to ask that.
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:46 PM
why when marriages break up it’s the man’s fault? it could be a mutual decision b/t both people involved some people can be so warped minded and one sided..sometimes it is one person’s fault but not all the time but on this post it’s always the man’s fault and forget if he is seeing someone else it’s the new woman’s fault too—geesh!!
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:47 PM
OK I don’t know Tameka but she just comes off as a no good Bi…
Even though Usher can’t be faithful to anyone Monica, Brandy, my girl Chilli…
Anywho it not the looks that put that couple off its was the fake happy in love attitude that didn’t go over well. Anybody else get that feeling when seeing them two?
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:47 PM
[quote comment="245731"][quote comment="245711"][quote comment="245705"][quote comment="245699"][quote comment="245664"][quote comment="245652"]Anywho..NEXT!![/quote]
I’m with you…I’m giving this post all kinds of screw faces…..[/quote]
I actually gave it the gas face..[/quote]
3RD base…..lol lol lol[/quote]
Gurl, you know I’m good for turning a post old school when I’m bored. LOL[/quote]
I love old school hip hop….I don’t listen to rap, I listen to hip hop…….[/quote]
I’m right there with you, girl
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:48 PM
[quote comment="245741"][quote comment="245730"][quote comment="245714"]So, if Usher leaves his wife for Kelly, would you guys consider her a homewrecker like you considered gabrielle union?…Had to ask…[/quote]
Nope because I don’t consider Gabrielle to be a homewrecker either.[/quote]
Okay…I see where you’re coming from in that the husband and wife are the ones to “wreck the home”, but I think both kelly and gabby are acting real sketch..NOT a good look, in fact it is never a good look to be involved with a married man no matter the stability of his marriage[/quote]
No its not a good luck but it just seems as if ppl in general tend to put the blame on the “other woman” when the husband should be taking most of the blame. He is the one who stood in church and took vows to be with that woman for better or worse. That “other woman” didnt take those vows.
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:48 PM
good look*
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:49 PM
I think if Kels and Ush started dating, it would help both their careers. Kelly can then move back to the states and quit applying for a worker’s permit in the UK. She is wasting the money she has.
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:49 PM
[quote comment="245630"]I don’t believe it, i need more proof.[/quote]
ditto
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:49 PM
[quote comment="245743"][quote comment="245725"][quote comment="245714"]So, if Usher leaves his wife for Kelly, would you guys consider her a homewrecker like you considered gabrielle union?…Had to ask…[/quote]
good question[/quote]
She should at least wait until a the divorce is final.. I don’t care who you are…black, white, purple, Jew, Christian, Muslim..if you sleep with or is just in a relationship with someone who is not divorced..it AINT RIGHT!!!!!!![/quote]
CO-SIGN!!!
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:50 PM
Bonjour les amis
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:50 PM
[quote comment="245750"]why when marriages break up it’s the man’s fault? it could be a mutual decision b/t both people involved some people can be so warped minded and one sided..sometimes it is one person’s fault but not all the time but on this post it’s always the man’s fault and forget if he is seeing someone else it’s the new woman’s fault too—geesh!![/quote]
You are right…With my exhusband, it was a mutual decision…neither one of us were at fault…people grow apart…we don’t know what happened in D Wades marriage…hell, she probably was acting up, we don’t know…and to assume Gabby was the cause is just ri-damn-diculious!!!
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:51 PM
[quote comment="245758"]Bonjour les amis[/quote]
You talkin’ ’bout me? lol
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:52 PM
Where’s there’s smoke…also, didn’t Usher used to have a thing for Beyonce? Does anybody else remember that? Get it together Ursh!
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:52 PM
[quote comment="245741"][quote comment="245730"][quote comment="245714"]So, if Usher leaves his wife for Kelly, would you guys consider her a homewrecker like you considered gabrielle union?…Had to ask…[/quote]
Nope because I don’t consider Gabrielle to be a homewrecker either.[/quote]
Okay…I see where you’re coming from in that the husband and wife are the ones to “wreck the home”, but I think both kelly and gabby are acting real sketch..NOT a good look, in fact it is never a good look to be involved with a married man no matter the stability of his marriage[/quote]
ditto to all of that lol but appreancewise as a couple i thought they looked better. wasnt getting deep with it :ashamed:
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:53 PM
[quote comment="245752"][quote comment="245731"][quote comment="245711"][quote comment="245705"][quote comment="245699"][quote comment="245664"][quote comment="245652"]Anywho..NEXT!![/quote]
I’m with you…I’m giving this post all kinds of screw faces…..[/quote]
I actually gave it the gas face..[/quote]
3RD base…..lol lol lol[/quote]
Gurl, you know I’m good for turning a post old school when I’m bored. LOL[/quote]
I love old school hip hop….I don’t listen to rap, I listen to hip hop…….[/quote]
I’m right there with you, girl[/quote]
Cause rap has taken a turn for the worse…It is dead…..
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:54 PM
apperrance*
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:54 PM
i think 50 is just promoting angel….i still believe him and ciara are still kicking it.in the second pictue angel looks a little uncomfortable.
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:55 PM
Angel and 50 might be messing around because i heard that 50 and ciara aint together anymore. all those celebrities mess with each other. All they do is trade off
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:56 PM
[quote comment="245759"][quote comment="245750"]why when marriages break up it’s the man’s fault? it could be a mutual decision b/t both people involved some people can be so warped minded and one sided..sometimes it is one person’s fault but not all the time but on this post it’s always the man’s fault and forget if he is seeing someone else it’s the new woman’s fault too—geesh!![/quote]
You are right…With my exhusband, it was a mutual decision…neither one of us were at fault…people grow apart…we don’t know what happened in D Wades marriage…hell, she probably was acting up, we don’t know…and to assume Gabby was the cause is just ri-damn-diculious!!![/quote]
I don’t think it’s that really but to be out & about with a new woman before the divorce papers are even drawn, much less signed, is not cool it’s not like they can’t wait, like they have to move in together because of finances, it’s just a bit quick if you ask me.
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:56 PM
[quote comment="245760"][quote comment="245758"]Bonjour les amis[/quote]
You talkin’ ’bout me? lol[/quote]
:lol:
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:56 PM
[quote comment="245753"][quote comment="245741"][quote comment="245730"][quote comment="245714"]So, if Usher leaves his wife for Kelly, would you guys consider her a homewrecker like you considered gabrielle union?…Had to ask…[/quote]
Nope because I don’t consider Gabrielle to be a homewrecker either.[/quote]
Okay…I see where you’re coming from in that the husband and wife are the ones to “wreck the home”, but I think both kelly and gabby are acting real sketch..NOT a good look, in fact it is never a good look to be involved with a married man no matter the stability of his marriage[/quote]
No its not a good luck but it just seems as if ppl in general tend to put the blame on the “other woman” when the husband should be taking most of the blame. He is the one who stood in church and took vows to be with that woman for better or worse. That “other woman” didnt take those vows.[/quote]
In my opinion, whoever is doing the cheating (whether is husband and skank or wife and man-skank) are to blame. The other woman/man didn’t take vows but that doesn’t excuse his/her behavior either. He/She obviously doesn’t RESPECT the sanctity of marriage but still. And if the rumors about Gabby and D-Wade are true, then I’m side eyeing Gabby because what kind of woman WILLING pursues something with a man when you KNOW he’s still married? Is your snatch that on fire that you can’t wait until the divorce is final?
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:57 PM
[quote comment="245751"]OK I don’t know Tameka but she just comes off as a no good Bi…
Even though Usher can’t be faithful to anyone Monica, Brandy, my girl Chilli…
Anywho it not the looks that put that couple off its was the fake happy in love attitude that didn’t go over well. Anybody else get that feeling when seeing them two?[/quote]
Nah I don’t think Monica was EVER with Usher. She’s a thug misses.
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:57 PM
*WILLINGLY
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:57 PM
Angel rapping *my mind just went blank* She got that tranny look.
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:57 PM
Oh yes just wanted to say, I don’t know if tmrw we’ll be arguing over a Bey post, mixed couples, babies or whatever, but today the ladies up in YBF *you know who you are* showed me nothing but love. I was really in the dumps this morning, so bad I didn’t eat my L’Eggo strawberry waffles. But I feel so much better now and it’s because of you ladies and I’d like to say Thank you. :smile:
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:57 PM
[quote comment="245770"][quote comment="245753"][quote comment="245741"][quote comment="245730"][quote comment="245714"]So, if Usher leaves his wife for Kelly, would you guys consider her a homewrecker like you considered gabrielle union?…Had to ask…[/quote]
Nope because I don’t consider Gabrielle to be a homewrecker either.[/quote]
Okay…I see where you’re coming from in that the husband and wife are the ones to “wreck the home”, but I think both kelly and gabby are acting real sketch..NOT a good look, in fact it is never a good look to be involved with a married man no matter the stability of his marriage[/quote]
No its not a good luck but it just seems as if ppl in general tend to put the blame on the “other woman” when the husband should be taking most of the blame. He is the one who stood in church and took vows to be with that woman for better or worse. That “other woman” didnt take those vows.[/quote]
In my opinion, whoever is doing the cheating (whether is husband and skank or wife and man-skank) are to blame. The other woman/man didn’t take vows but that doesn’t excuse his/her behavior either. He/She obviously doesn’t RESPECT the sanctity of marriage but still. And if the rumors about Gabby and D-Wade are true, then I’m side eyeing Gabby because what kind of woman WILLING pursues something with a man when you KNOW he’s still married? Is your snatch that on fire that you can’t wait until the divorce is final?[/quote]
eeew @ snatch, lol…but still true!
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:59 PM
[quote comment="245767"]Angel and 50 might be messing around because i heard that 50 and ciara aint together anymore. all those celebrities mess with each other. All they do is trade off[/quote]
TRUE
It is like the playing a game hit and pass it. We celebs everybody can get a turn
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:59 PM
Usher should leave his womanizing at least until his wife has given birth. He has no shame. I understand their marriage is basically over but whoring through Europe while your wife carries your child is disrespectful.
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:59 PM
[quote comment="245770"][quote comment="245753"][quote comment="245741"][quote comment="245730"][quote comment="245714"]So, if Usher leaves his wife for Kelly, would you guys consider her a homewrecker like you considered gabrielle union?…Had to ask…[/quote]
Nope because I don’t consider Gabrielle to be a homewrecker either.[/quote]
Okay…I see where you’re coming from in that the husband and wife are the ones to “wreck the home”, but I think both kelly and gabby are acting real sketch..NOT a good look, in fact it is never a good look to be involved with a married man no matter the stability of his marriage[/quote]
No its not a good luck but it just seems as if ppl in general tend to put the blame on the “other woman” when the husband should be taking most of the blame. He is the one who stood in church and took vows to be with that woman for better or worse. That “other woman” didnt take those vows.[/quote]
In my opinion, whoever is doing the cheating (whether is husband and skank or wife and man-skank) are to blame. The other woman/man didn’t take vows but that doesn’t excuse his/her behavior either. He/She obviously doesn’t RESPECT the sanctity of marriage but still. And if the rumors about Gabby and D-Wade are true, then I’m side eyeing Gabby because what kind of woman WILLING pursues something with a man when you KNOW he’s still married? Is your snatch that on fire that you can’t wait until the divorce is final?[/quote]
You covered it all girl-ditto!
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:59 PM
Well, I guess I’m just a whoremonger and will be banished to hell……Going to lunch….gotta feed the fat girl in me……
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:59 PM
[quote comment="245724"][quote comment="245721"][quote comment="245714"]So, if Usher leaves his wife for Kelly, would you guys consider her a homewrecker like you considered gabrielle union?…Had to ask…[/quote]
yes.[/quote]
K, just making sure…b/c it seemed as though a lot of people were congratulating kelly….[/quote]
I don’t consider either Gabrielle or Kelly as homewreckers because the marriages were both “on the outs” before either women got involved with the men they’re supposedly dating.
And as for Kelly and Usher, I’ll believe it until it’s proven not to be true…. Only because I have inside information. I don’t know either of them personally, but I do know someone who does; and based on some information they’ve told me, it’s more likely to be true than not.
Tue, October 21, 2008 12:59 PM
[quote comment="245770"][quote comment="245753"][quote comment="245741"][quote comment="245730"][quote comment="245714"]So, if Usher leaves his wife for Kelly, would you guys consider her a homewrecker like you considered gabrielle union?…Had to ask…[/quote]
Nope because I don’t consider Gabrielle to be a homewrecker either.[/quote]
Okay…I see where you’re coming from in that the husband and wife are the ones to “wreck the home”, but I think both kelly and gabby are acting real sketch..NOT a good look, in fact it is never a good look to be involved with a married man no matter the stability of his marriage[/quote]
No its not a good luck but it just seems as if ppl in general tend to put the blame on the “other woman” when the husband should be taking most of the blame. He is the one who stood in church and took vows to be with that woman for better or worse. That “other woman” didnt take those vows.[/quote]
In my opinion, whoever is doing the cheating (whether is husband and skank or wife and man-skank) are to blame. The other woman/man didn’t take vows but that doesn’t excuse his/her behavior either. He/She obviously doesn’t RESPECT the sanctity of marriage but still. And if the rumors about Gabby and D-Wade are true, then I’m side eyeing Gabby because what kind of woman WILLING pursues something with a man when you KNOW he’s still married? Is your snatch that on fire that you can’t wait until the divorce is final?[/quote]
A divorce especially when someone has a lot of money takes a long time! She didnt feel like waiting for months and months…lol
Tue, October 21, 2008 1:00 PM
[quote comment="245764"][quote comment="245752"][quote comment="245731"][quote comment="245711"][quote comment="245705"][quote comment="245699"][quote comment="245664"][quote comment="245652"]Anywho..NEXT!![/quote]
I’m with you…I’m giving this post all kinds of screw faces…..[/quote]
I actually gave it the gas face..[/quote]
3RD base…..lol lol lol[/quote]
Gurl, you know I’m good for turning a post old school when I’m bored. LOL[/quote]
I love old school hip hop….I don’t listen to rap, I listen to hip hop…….[/quote]
I’m right there with you, girl[/quote]
Cause rap has taken a turn for the worse…It is dead…..[/quote]
I put time of death right around the time Aaron Carter (Nick Carter of the Backstreet Boys’ lil brother) started “rapping”…
Tue, October 21, 2008 1:00 PM
[quote comment="245771"][quote comment="245751"]OK I don’t know Tameka but she just comes off as a no good Bi…
Even though Usher can’t be faithful to anyone Monica, Brandy, my girl Chilli…
Anywho it not the looks that put that couple off its was the fake happy in love attitude that didn’t go over well. Anybody else get that feeling when seeing them two?[/quote]
Nah I don’t think Monica was EVER with Usher. She’s a thug misses.[/quote]
Slow Jam remake was the ish though!
Tue, October 21, 2008 1:00 PM
[quote comment="245774"]Oh yes just wanted to say, I don’t know if tmrw we’ll be arguing over a Bey post, mixed couples, babies or whatever, but today the ladies up in YBF *you know who you are* showed me nothing but love. I was really in the dumps this morning, so bad I didn’t eat my L’Eggo strawberry waffles. But I feel so much better now and it’s because of you ladies and I’d like to say Thank you. :smile:[/quote]
Awwwwwwwwwww, group hug……….but girl i wish i could be THAT depressed NOT to eat, lol.
Tue, October 21, 2008 1:00 PM
[quote comment="245743"][quote comment="245725"][quote comment="245714"]So, if Usher leaves his wife for Kelly, would you guys consider her a homewrecker like you considered gabrielle union?…Had to ask…[/quote]
good question[/quote]
She should at least wait until a the divorce is final.. I don’t care who you are…black, white, purple, Jew, Christian, Muslim..if you sleep with or is just in a relationship with someone who is not divorced..it AINT RIGHT!!!!!!![/quote]
See I shoulda scrolled before I wrote cuz I asked the same question as Ms. Williams did. What’s also funny to me is how many of us said Usher and Tameka were and odd couple, but I bet those same PEOPLE (self included I admit) will jump on the team Tameka bandwagon if he leaves her.
And in MY opinion…Kelly would be WORST b/c Tameka is prego right now with her husbands second baby. To me- that’s just trashy. Like Brittany vs Shar vs Brittany trashy.
Tue, October 21, 2008 1:01 PM
[quote comment="245774"]Oh yes just wanted to say, I don’t know if tmrw we’ll be arguing over a Bey post, mixed couples, babies or whatever, but today the ladies up in YBF *you know who you are* showed me nothing but love. I was really in the dumps this morning, so bad I didn’t eat my L’Eggo strawberry waffles. But I feel so much better now and it’s because of you ladies and I’d like to say Thank you. :smile:[/quote]
Awww…:-). There are days when it is crazy in here, but there are some real cool, mature sisters on here. Glad you’re feeling better and keep ya head up girl!
Tue, October 21, 2008 1:01 PM
[quote comment="245761"]Where’s there’s smoke…also, didn’t Usher used to have a thing for Beyonce? Does anybody else remember that? Get it together Ursh![/quote]
what man did not have a thing for bee wether he said it loud or not lol!!
Tue, October 21, 2008 1:02 PM
[quote comment="245758"]Bonjour les amis[/quote]
salut jas!!! ca va ou koi!!!
Tue, October 21, 2008 1:02 PM
[quote comment="245781"][quote comment="245770"][quote comment="245753"][quote comment="245741"][quote comment="245730"][quote comment="245714"]So, if Usher leaves his wife for Kelly, would you guys consider her a homewrecker like you considered gabrielle union?…Had to ask…[/quote]
Nope because I don’t consider Gabrielle to be a homewrecker either.[/quote]
Okay…I see where you’re coming from in that the husband and wife are the ones to “wreck the home”, but I think both kelly and gabby are acting real sketch..NOT a good look, in fact it is never a good look to be involved with a married man no matter the stability of his marriage[/quote]
No its not a good luck but it just seems as if ppl in general tend to put the blame on the “other woman” when the husband should be taking most of the blame. He is the one who stood in church and took vows to be with that woman for better or worse. That “other woman” didnt take those vows.[/quote]
In my opinion, whoever is doing the cheating (whether is husband and skank or wife and man-skank) are to blame. The other woman/man didn’t take vows but that doesn’t excuse his/her behavior either. He/She obviously doesn’t RESPECT the sanctity of marriage but still. And if the rumors about Gabby and D-Wade are true, then I’m side eyeing Gabby because what kind of woman WILLING pursues something with a man when you KNOW he’s still married? Is your snatch that on fire that you can’t wait until the divorce is final?[/quote]
A divorce especially when someone has a lot of money takes a long time! She didnt feel like waiting for months and months…lol[/quote]
Soooo true…Guy Richie (Madonna’s husband) suppose to get 60 Million..whooooooooooooa!
Tue, October 21, 2008 1:02 PM
[quote comment="245766"]i think 50 is just promoting angel….i still believe him and ciara are still kicking it.in the second pictue angel looks a little uncomfortable.[/quote]
That girl always looks uncomfortable. Carrying a sack of potatoes around in your panties is stressful.
Tue, October 21, 2008 1:02 PM
[quote comment="245783"][quote comment="245764"][quote comment="245752"][quote comment="245731"][quote comment="245711"][quote comment="245705"][quote comment="245699"][quote comment="245664"][quote comment="245652"]Anywho..NEXT!![/quote]
I’m with you…I’m giving this post all kinds of screw faces…..[/quote]
I actually gave it the gas face..[/quote]
3RD base…..lol lol lol[/quote]
Gurl, you know I’m good for turning a post old school when I’m bored. LOL[/quote]
I love old school hip hop….I don’t listen to rap, I listen to hip hop…….[/quote]
I’m right there with you, girl[/quote]
Cause rap has taken a turn for the worse…It is dead…..[/quote]
I put time of death right around the time Aaron Carter (Nick Carter of the Backstreet Boys’ lil brother) started “rapping”…[/quote]
LOL! Remember that song he had w/shaq!! LMAO!!!! So lame
Tue, October 21, 2008 1:02 PM
[quote comment="245753"][quote comment="245741"][quote comment="245730"][quote comment="245714"]So, if Usher leaves his wife for Kelly, would you guys consider her a homewrecker like you considered gabrielle union?…Had to ask…[/quote]
Nope because I don’t consider Gabrielle to be a homewrecker either.[/quote]
Okay…I see where you’re coming from in that the husband and wife are the ones to “wreck the home”, but I think both kelly and gabby are acting real sketch..NOT a good look, in fact it is never a good look to be involved with a married man no matter the stability of his marriage[/quote]
No its not a good luck but it just seems as if ppl in general tend to put the blame on the “other woman” when the husband should be taking most of the blame. He is the one who stood in church and took vows to be with that woman for better or worse. That “other woman” didnt take those vows.[/quote]
That is soooo true, but as these posts appear, it is always a female who is in the spotlight. Gabby, now Kelly. Now if the post says that, say for instance, Bruce Willis wants to jumps Madonna’s bones, then Bruce would be put on blast…we all know that Madonna is still married…
*Of course, we know that this will never be…just an example*
Tue, October 21, 2008 1:03 PM
[quote comment="245776"][quote comment="245767"]Angel and 50 might be messing around because i heard that 50 and ciara aint together anymore. all those celebrities mess with each other. All they do is trade off[/quote]
TRUE
It is like the playing a game hit and pass it. We celebs everybody can get a turn[/quote]
hollywood is like a bright peoples high school…they date everyone friends’ ex or not!
Tue, October 21, 2008 1:03 PM
[quote comment="245789"][quote comment="245758"]Bonjour les amis[/quote]
salut jas!!! ca va ou koi!!![/quote]
Ya’ll stop all this cussin now!!!!!!! :lol:
Tue, October 21, 2008 1:05 PM
bright=white
Tue, October 21, 2008 1:05 PM
[quote comment="245779"]Well, I guess I’m just a whoremonger and will be banished to hell……Going to lunch….gotta feed the fat girl in me……[/quote]
*gasp* Kay stop it!! LOL You are not a whoremonger. Besides, if you’re going to hell, you will be in good company. My seat has been reserved since 8th grade
Tue, October 21, 2008 1:06 PM
[quote comment="245774"]Oh yes just wanted to say, I don’t know if tmrw we’ll be arguing over a Bey post, mixed couples, babies or whatever, but today the ladies up in YBF *you know who you are* showed me nothing but love. I was really in the dumps this morning, so bad I didn’t eat my L’Eggo strawberry waffles. But I feel so much better now and it’s because of you ladies and I’d like to say Thank you. :smile:[/quote]
WE LOVES YOU WHOA! *no homo*
Tue, October 21, 2008 1:06 PM
[quote comment="245780"][quote comment="245724"][quote comment="245721"][quote comment="245714"]So, if Usher leaves his wife for Kelly, would you guys consider her a homewrecker like you considered gabrielle union?…Had to ask…[/quote]
yes.[/quote]
K, just making sure…b/c it seemed as though a lot of people were congratulating kelly….[/quote]
I don’t consider either Gabrielle or Kelly as homewreckers because the marriages were both “on the outs” before either women got involved with the men they’re supposedly dating.
And as for Kelly and Usher, I’ll believe it until it’s proven not to be true…. Only because I have inside information. I don’t know either of them personally, but I do know someone who does; and based on some information they’ve told me, it’s more likely to be true than not.[/quote]
Well regardless if it’s on the outs or not, we all remember what happened to Brittney when she went with KFed while Shar was pregnant………the kharma that will hit Kelly, and Lahd knows she ain’t even on top music-wise or financially like Brittney, so she can’t even withstand this kharma, she would be in the po’ house for sure! Not even the protection of the Creole voodoo could combat that!
Tue, October 21, 2008 1:07 PM
[quote comment="245786"][quote comment="245743"][quote comment="245725"][quote comment="245714"]So, if Usher leaves his wife for Kelly, would you guys consider her a homewrecker like you considered gabrielle union?…Had to ask…[/quote]
good question[/quote]
She should at least wait until a the divorce is final.. I don’t care who you are…black, white, purple, Jew, Christian, Muslim..if you sleep with or is just in a relationship with someone who is not divorced..it AINT RIGHT!!!!!!![/quote]
See I shoulda scrolled before I wrote cuz I asked the same question as Ms. Williams did. What’s also funny to me is how many of us said Usher and Tameka were and odd couple, but I bet those same PEOPLE (self included I admit) will jump on the team Tameka bandwagon if he leaves her.
And in MY opinion…Kelly would be WORST b/c Tameka is prego right now with her husbands second baby. To me- that’s just trashy. Like Brittany vs Shar vs Brittany trashy.[/quote]
get out of my head, lol
Tue, October 21, 2008 1:07 PM
and im sorry but there is not such thing as a homewrecker!!! A Man can chase me all day long, if im happy with my man, i would never let him do me! Just because society want us to think that men are some kind of victims that cannot resist any woman, they think thay can go out there and do whatever! at the end, the wife is going to fight with the alleged homewrecker when she is actually married to a dog! get it together! No woman put a gun on your husband head for him to cheat!!!!!!!!!!!
Tue, October 21, 2008 1:07 PM
[quote comment="245792"][quote comment="245783"][quote comment="245764"][quote comment="245752"][quote comment="245731"][quote comment="245711"][quote comment="245705"][quote comment="245699"][quote comment="245664"][quote comment="245652"]Anywho..NEXT!![/quote]
I’m with you…I’m giving this post all kinds of screw faces…..[/quote]
I actually gave it the gas face..[/quote]
3RD base…..lol lol lol[/quote]
Gurl, you know I’m good for turning a post old school when I’m bored. LOL[/quote]
I love old school hip hop….I don’t listen to rap, I listen to hip hop…….[/quote]
I’m right there with you, girl[/quote]
Cause rap has taken a turn for the worse…It is dead…..[/quote]
I put time of death right around the time Aaron Carter (Nick Carter of the Backstreet Boys’ lil brother) started “rapping”…[/quote]
LOL! Remember that song he had w/shaq!! LMAO!!!! So lame[/quote]
Tue, October 21, 2008 1:07 PM
Thanks Les..Kimmy :wink:
Tue, October 21, 2008 1:08 PM
[quote comment="245759"][quote comment="245750"]why when marriages break up it’s the man’s fault? it could be a mutual decision b/t both people involved some people can be so warped minded and one sided..sometimes it is one person’s fault but not all the time but on this post it’s always the man’s fault and forget if he is seeing someone else it’s the new woman’s fault too—geesh!![/quote]
You are right…With my exhusband, it was a mutual decision…neither one of us were at fault…people grow apart…we don’t know what happened in D Wades marriage…hell, she probably was acting up, we don’t know…and to assume Gabby was the cause is just ri-damn-diculious!!![/quote]
I don’t think that Gabby was the cause..I just think that she needs better timing.. wait until the divorce is final… It just seems so suspicious when you see two people together and one is not divorced… celeb or not..
Tue, October 21, 2008 1:08 PM
[quote comment="245804"][quote comment="245792"][quote comment="245783"][quote comment="245764"][quote comment="245752"][quote comment="245731"][quote comment="245711"][quote comment="245705"][quote comment="245699"][quote comment="245664"][quote comment="245652"]Anywho..NEXT!![/quote]
I’m with you…I’m giving this post all kinds of screw faces…..[/quote]
I actually gave it the gas face..[/quote]
3RD base…..lol lol lol[/quote]
Gurl, you know I’m good for turning a post old school when I’m bored. LOL[/quote]
I love old school hip hop….I don’t listen to rap, I listen to hip hop…….[/quote]
I’m right there with you, girl[/quote]
Cause rap has taken a turn for the worse…It is dead…..[/quote]
I put time of death right around the time Aaron Carter (Nick Carter of the Backstreet Boys’ lil brother) started “rapping”…[/quote]
LOL! Remember that song he had w/shaq!! LMAO!!!! So lame[/quote][/quote]
opps…
but I’m dead at that song!take me higher Lord now!!!
Tue, October 21, 2008 1:09 PM
[quote comment="245798"][quote comment="245779"]Well, I guess I’m just a whoremonger and will be banished to hell……Going to lunch….gotta feed the fat girl in me……[/quote]
*gasp* Kay stop it!! LOL You are not a whoremonger. Besides, if you’re going to hell, you will be in good company. My seat has been reserved since 8th grade[/quote]
LOL…I think I’ll have a reservation at the same table
Tue, October 21, 2008 1:09 PM
Jawn Murray announced this tibid this morning on the TJMS and I thought it would be Kelly although he never said the name. Anyway, Why did you continue to add that Usher’s Wife “Tameka” may have put this rumor out and it’s mostly likely just that A RUMOR!
As for Angel and 50 I beleive that they are messing around that how she probably got the mixtape and movie deal in the first place! Come on we can be this naieve. It is, what it is!
Tue, October 21, 2008 1:10 PM
[quote comment="245799"][quote comment="245774"]Oh yes just wanted to say, I don’t know if tmrw we’ll be arguing over a Bey post, mixed couples, babies or whatever, but today the ladies up in YBF *you know who you are* showed me nothing but love. I was really in the dumps this morning, so bad I didn’t eat my L’Eggo strawberry waffles. But I feel so much better now and it’s because of you ladies and I’d like to say Thank you. :smile:[/quote]
WE LOVES YOU WHOA! *no homo*[/quote]
Loves you back….
Tue, October 21, 2008 1:10 PM
[quote comment="245800"][quote comment="245780"][quote comment="245724"][quote comment="245721"][quote comment="245714"]So, if Usher leaves his wife for Kelly, would you guys consider her a homewrecker like you considered gabrielle union?…Had to ask…[/quote]
yes.[/quote]
K, just making sure…b/c it seemed as though a lot of people were congratulating kelly….[/quote]
I don’t consider either Gabrielle or Kelly as homewreckers because the marriages were both “on the outs” before either women got involved with the men they’re supposedly dating.
And as for Kelly and Usher, I’ll believe it until it’s proven not to be true…. Only because I have inside information. I don’t know either of them personally, but I do know someone who does; and based on some information they’ve told me, it’s more likely to be true than not.[/quote]
Well regardless if it’s on the outs or not, we all remember what happened to Brittney when she went with KFed while Shar was pregnant………the kharma that will hit Kelly, and Lahd knows she ain’t even on top music-wise or financially like Brittney, so she can’t even withstand this kharma, she would be in the po’ house for sure! Not even the protection of the Creole voodoo could combat that![/quote]
sicko! lol
Tue, October 21, 2008 1:11 PM
[quote comment="245792"][quote comment="245783"][quote comment="245764"][quote comment="245752"][quote comment="245731"][quote comment="245711"][quote comment="245705"][quote comment="245699"][quote comment="245664"][quote comment="245652"]Anywho..NEXT!![/quote]
I’m with you…I’m giving this post all kinds of screw faces…..[/quote]
I actually gave it the gas face..[/quote]
3RD base…..lol lol lol[/quote]
Gurl, you know I’m good for turning a post old school when I’m bored. LOL[/quote]
I love old school hip hop….I don’t listen to rap, I listen to hip hop…….[/quote]
I’m right there with you, girl[/quote]
Cause rap has taken a turn for the worse…It is dead…..[/quote]
I put time of death right around the time Aaron Carter (Nick Carter of the Backstreet Boys’ lil brother) started “rapping”…[/quote]
LOL! Remember that song he had w/shaq!! LMAO!!!! So lame[/quote]
Yeah, I had that song in mind! LOL
Tue, October 21, 2008 1:12 PM
[quote comment="245798"][quote comment="245779"]Well, I guess I’m just a whoremonger and will be banished to hell……Going to lunch….gotta feed the fat girl in me……[/quote]
*gasp* Kay stop it!! LOL You are not a whoremonger. Besides, if you’re going to hell, you will be in good company. My seat has been reserved since 8th grade[/quote]
*damn I might have a seat there too…smh*
Tue, October 21, 2008 1:12 PM
[quote comment="245814"][quote comment="245798"][quote comment="245779"]Well, I guess I’m just a whoremonger and will be banished to hell……Going to lunch….gotta feed the fat girl in me……[/quote]
*gasp* Kay stop it!! LOL You are not a whoremonger. Besides, if you’re going to hell, you will be in good company. My seat has been reserved since 8th grade[/quote]
*damn I might have a seat there too…smh*[/quote]
I definitely have a seat! lol
Tue, October 21, 2008 1:13 PM
I don’t believe it! I knew Mr. Raymond was up to his old ways with his lame one night stand tour but I really don’t expect something like that from Kelly- she came off as having more class than that…then again, so did Alicia Keys.
Tue, October 21, 2008 1:14 PM
[quote comment="245778"][quote comment="245770"][quote comment="245753"][quote comment="245741"][quote comment="245730"][quote comment="245714"]So, if Usher leaves his wife for Kelly, would you guys consider her a homewrecker like you considered gabrielle union?…Had to ask…[/quote]
Nope because I don’t consider Gabrielle to be a homewrecker either.[/quote]
Okay…I see where you’re coming from in that the husband and wife are the ones to “wreck the home”, but I think both kelly and gabby are acting real sketch..NOT a good look, in fact it is never a good look to be involved with a married man no matter the stability of his marriage[/quote]
No its not a good luck but it just seems as if ppl in general tend to put the blame on the “other woman” when the husband should be taking most of the blame. He is the one who stood in church and took vows to be with that woman for better or worse. That “other woman” didnt take those vows.[/quote]
In my opinion, whoever is doing the cheating (whether is husband and skank or wife and man-skank) are to blame. The other woman/man didn’t take vows but that doesn’t excuse his/her behavior either. He/She obviously doesn’t RESPECT the sanctity of marriage but still. And if the rumors about Gabby and D-Wade are true, then I’m side eyeing Gabby because what kind of woman WILLING pursues something with a man when you KNOW he’s still married? Is your snatch that on fire that you can’t wait until the divorce is final?[/quote]
You covered it all girl-ditto![/quote]
Have to disagree. Toya I can tell you have never been in a divorce. They often take an extremely long time. In the Gabby Union case for example, the wife may be in a new relationship of her own by now. And how do we know that the WIFE wasn’t the one who ENDED it? Or that it wasn’t a mutually decided separation? Or that the WIFE was the one responsible for the demise of the marrage? I just feel the Usher/Tameka/Kelly situation is worst because Tameka is in a more vulnerable position than D.Wades wife was – seeing how she’s preggers and all. :( And YES I know wade and wife have kids too but just how some of you are saying can the divorce be final before Gabby dates Wads, for goodness sake- can TAMEKA have their CHILD first before daddy skips around Europe with another woman?? :?:
Tue, October 21, 2008 1:14 PM
[quote comment="245797"]bright=white[/quote]
Lol!
Tue, October 21, 2008 1:15 PM
[quote comment="245815"][quote comment="245814"][quote comment="245798"][quote comment="245779"]Well, I guess I’m just a whoremonger and will be banished to hell……Going to lunch….gotta feed the fat girl in me……[/quote]
*gasp* Kay stop it!! LOL You are not a whoremonger. Besides, if you’re going to hell, you will be in good company. My seat has been reserved since 8th grade[/quote]
*damn I might have a seat there too…smh*[/quote]
I definitely have a seat! lol[/quote]
lol, I dont know bout that 1…
Tue, October 21, 2008 1:16 PM
[quote comment="245735"][quote comment="245694"]I think its a damn shame that anyone would be happy that his marriage is over just because his wife is not a top model. She is a regular looking woman just like the woman walking the street every damn day and communicating on this blog. Its really ashame marriage is not a game and there are children involved its really a sad situation. If he is dating Kelly R she better just watch herself. He is a serial cheater.[/quote]
I agree. Sometimes I wonder if it’s b/c so many of us are the product of single-mother homes or divorced parents that we don’t place the same value on marriage. I know that there are a good number of black people who do very well without both biological parents in the home but I just really think that it’s a blessing to have a mom and a dad that are in a sustainable, happy marriage. If anything, the comments should be along the lines of why in the hell did they bring children into this mirage of a marriage if these rumors are indeed true but maybe I’m asking for too much.[/quote]
Very good point i didn’t even consider that.
Tue, October 21, 2008 1:16 PM
[quote comment="245819"][quote comment="245815"][quote comment="245814"][quote comment="245798"][quote comment="245779"]Well, I guess I’m just a whoremonger and will be banished to hell……Going to lunch….gotta feed the fat girl in me……[/quote]
*gasp* Kay stop it!! LOL You are not a whoremonger. Besides, if you’re going to hell, you will be in good company. My seat has been reserved since 8th grade[/quote]
*damn I might have a seat there too…smh*[/quote]
I definitely have a seat! lol[/quote]
lol, I dont know bout that 1…[/quote]
Me either chile….
Tue, October 21, 2008 1:16 PM
[quote comment="245819"][quote comment="245815"][quote comment="245814"][quote comment="245798"][quote comment="245779"]Well, I guess I’m just a whoremonger and will be banished to hell……Going to lunch….gotta feed the fat girl in me……[/quote]
*gasp* Kay stop it!! LOL You are not a whoremonger. Besides, if you’re going to hell, you will be in good company. My seat has been reserved since 8th grade[/quote]
*damn I might have a seat there too…smh*[/quote]
I definitely have a seat! lol[/quote]
lol, I dont know bout that 1…[/quote]
Same here S&J….I am trying to get a seat up yonder….(just not anytime soon…..)
Tue, October 21, 2008 1:17 PM
[quote comment="245802"][quote comment="245786"][quote comment="245743"][quote comment="245725"][quote comment="245714"]So, if Usher leaves his wife for Kelly, would you guys consider her a homewrecker like you considered gabrielle union?…Had to ask…[/quote]
good question[/quote]
She should at least wait until a the divorce is final.. I don’t care who you are…black, white, purple, Jew, Christian, Muslim..if you sleep with or is just in a relationship with someone who is not divorced..it AINT RIGHT!!!!!!![/quote]
See I shoulda scrolled before I wrote cuz I asked the same question as Ms. Williams did. What’s also funny to me is how many of us said Usher and Tameka were and odd couple, but I bet those same PEOPLE (self included I admit) will jump on the team Tameka bandwagon if he leaves her.
And in MY opinion…Kelly would be WORST b/c Tameka is prego right now with her husbands second baby. To me- that’s just trashy. Like Brittany vs Shar vs Brittany trashy.[/quote]
get out of my head, lol[/quote]
lol :lol:
Tue, October 21, 2008 1:17 PM
plus im going to say something crazy! I don’t believe two people are meant to be together for their whole life! Im a christian but i don’t believe that! My parents are together for 25 years but i know for a fact that they have to go through a lot of BS to get to that point! so basically, you have to accept the cheating part, this and other things! People don;t want to go through that! why should they???? I thibk we have a limited time with one person and we move on!
Tue, October 21, 2008 1:19 PM
[quote comment="245826"]plus im going to say something crazy! I don’t believe two people are meant to be together for their whole life! Im a christian but i don’t believe that! My parents are together for 25 years but i know for a fact that they have to go through a lot of BS to get to that point! so basically, you have to accept the cheating part, this and other things! People don;t want to go through that! why should they???? I thibk we have a limited time with one person and we move on![/quote]
you sure do sound crazy…
Tue, October 21, 2008 1:19 PM
[quote comment="245817"][quote comment="245778"][quote comment="245770"][quote comment="245753"][quote comment="245741"][quote comment="245730"][quote comment="245714"]So, if Usher leaves his wife for Kelly, would you guys consider her a homewrecker like you considered gabrielle union?…Had to ask…[/quote]
Nope because I don’t consider Gabrielle to be a homewrecker either.[/quote]
Okay…I see where you’re coming from in that the husband and wife are the ones to “wreck the home”, but I think both kelly and gabby are acting real sketch..NOT a good look, in fact it is never a good look to be involved with a married man no matter the stability of his marriage[/quote]
No its not a good luck but it just seems as if ppl in general tend to put the blame on the “other woman” when the husband should be taking most of the blame. He is the one who stood in church and took vows to be with that woman for better or worse. That “other woman” didnt take those vows.[/quote]
In my opinion, whoever is doing the cheating (whether is husband and skank or wife and man-skank) are to blame. The other woman/man didn’t take vows but that doesn’t excuse his/her behavior either. He/She obviously doesn’t RESPECT the sanctity of marriage but still. And if the rumors about Gabby and D-Wade are true, then I’m side eyeing Gabby because what kind of woman WILLING pursues something with a man when you KNOW he’s still married? Is your snatch that on fire that you can’t wait until the divorce is final?[/quote]
You covered it all girl-ditto![/quote]
Have to disagree. Toya I can tell you have never been in a divorce. They often take an extremely long time. In the Gabby Union case for example, the wife may be in a new relationship of her own by now. And how do we know that the WIFE wasn’t the one who ENDED it? Or that it wasn’t a mutually decided separation? Or that the WIFE was the one responsible for the demise of the marrage? I just feel the Usher/Tameka/Kelly situation is worst because Tameka is in a more vulnerable position than D.Wades wife was – seeing how she’s preggers and all. :( And YES I know wade and wife have kids too but just how some of you are saying can the divorce be final before Gabby dates Wads, for goodness sake- can TAMEKA have their CHILD first before daddy skips around Europe with another woman?? :?:[/quote]
I know a divorce can take a long time I ACTUALLY said that!
Tue, October 21, 2008 1:21 PM
[quote comment="245828"][quote comment="245826"]plus im going to say something crazy! I don’t believe two people are meant to be together for their whole life! Im a christian but i don’t believe that! My parents are together for 25 years but i know for a fact that they have to go through a lot of BS to get to that point! so basically, you have to accept the cheating part, this and other things! People don;t want to go through that! why should they???? I thibk we have a limited time with one person and we move on![/quote]
you sure do sound crazy…[/quote]
Lol.
Tue, October 21, 2008 1:21 PM
[quote comment="245823"][quote comment="245819"][quote comment="245815"][quote comment="245814"][quote comment="245798"][quote comment="245779"]Well, I guess I’m just a whoremonger and will be banished to hell……Going to lunch….gotta feed the fat girl in me……[/quote]
*gasp* Kay stop it!! LOL You are not a whoremonger. Besides, if you’re going to hell, you will be in good company. My seat has been reserved since 8th grade[/quote]
*damn I might have a seat there too…smh*[/quote]
I definitely have a seat! lol[/quote]
lol, I dont know bout that 1…[/quote]
Same here S&J….I am trying to get a seat up yonder….(just not anytime soon…..)[/quote]
I was joking..gosh guys…lol
Tue, October 21, 2008 1:23 PM
[quote comment="245833"][quote comment="245823"][quote comment="245819"][quote comment="245815"][quote comment="245814"][quote comment="245798"][quote comment="245779"]Well, I guess I’m just a whoremonger and will be banished to hell……Going to lunch….gotta feed the fat girl in me……[/quote]
*gasp* Kay stop it!! LOL You are not a whoremonger. Besides, if you’re going to hell, you will be in good company. My seat has been reserved since 8th grade[/quote]
*damn I might have a seat there too…smh*[/quote]
I definitely have a seat! lol[/quote]
lol, I dont know bout that 1…[/quote]
Same here S&J….I am trying to get a seat up yonder….(just not anytime soon…..)[/quote]
I was joking..gosh guys…lol[/quote]
lol….we know…
Tue, October 21, 2008 1:24 PM
[quote comment="245800"][quote comment="245780"][quote comment="245724"][quote comment="245721"][quote comment="245714"]So, if Usher leaves his wife for Kelly, would you guys consider her a homewrecker like you considered gabrielle union?…Had to ask…[/quote]
yes.[/quote]
K, just making sure…b/c it seemed as though a lot of people were congratulating kelly….[/quote]
I don’t consider either Gabrielle or Kelly as homewreckers because the marriages were both “on the outs” before either women got involved with the men they’re supposedly dating.
And as for Kelly and Usher, I’ll believe it until it’s proven not to be true…. Only because I have inside information. I don’t know either of them personally, but I do know someone who does; and based on some information they’ve told me, it’s more likely to be true than not.[/quote]
Well regardless if it’s on the outs or not, we all remember what happened to Brittney when she went with KFed while Shar was pregnant………the kharma that will hit Kelly, and Lahd knows she ain’t even on top music-wise or financially like Brittney, so she can’t even withstand this kharma, she would be in the po’ house for sure! Not even the protection of the Creole voodoo could combat that![/quote]
Now, that’s funny! LOL
But the difference with Brittney and K-Fed is that he wasn’t married to Shar. I don’t even think it was kharma with Brit. I think she was in love with a Zero that brought her down to his level. Kelly, on the other hand, doesn’t stand for bs, and she may not be a big hit in the US, but they love her overseas. So, she’s probably not going to go broke.
And according to Jawn Murray this morning, Usher has been living in the house he had before he and Tameka got together. They’ve been separated for a while, and Usher has been trying to hold out on making their breakup public (although he is miserable) so as to not make it seem like he’s abandoning his pregnant wife. Apparently, they were having problems when she got pregnant the second time.
I’m not justifying his right to date while he’s still married. Just stating what’s supposedly going on.
Tue, October 21, 2008 1:24 PM
[quote comment="245821"][quote comment="245735"][quote comment="245694"]I think its a damn shame that anyone would be happy that his marriage is over just because his wife is not a top model. She is a regular looking woman just like the woman walking the street every damn day and communicating on this blog. Its really ashame marriage is not a game and there are children involved its really a sad situation. If he is dating Kelly R she better just watch herself. He is a serial cheater.[/quote]
I agree. Sometimes I wonder if it’s b/c so many of us are the product of single-mother homes or divorced parents that we don’t place the same value on marriage. I know that there are a good number of black people who do very well without both biological parents in the home but I just really think that it’s a blessing to have a mom and a dad that are in a sustainable, happy marriage. If anything, the comments should be along the lines of why in the hell did they bring children into this mirage of a marriage if these rumors are indeed true but maybe I’m asking for too much.[/quote]
Very good point i didn’t even consider that.[/quote]
I agree Lotus good point. I wonder if Tameka is one of those women who believe that having a baby with a man will magically “change” him or “keep” him or “tame” him. She does have an awful lot of babies :(
Tue, October 21, 2008 1:25 PM
[quote comment="245826"]plus im going to say something crazy! I don’t believe two people are meant to be together for their whole life! Im a christian but i don’t believe that! My parents are together for 25 years but i know for a fact that they have to go through a lot of BS to get to that point! so basically, you have to accept the cheating part, this and other things! People don;t want to go through that! why should they???? I thibk we have a limited time with one person and we move on![/quote]
Yes chile, you do sound a wee bit off ya rocker… God did not intend for divorce to even exist, first of all, but we humans don’t take marriage vows serious enough for anything TO LAST!!!!! People must realize that there is a price to pay for that….
Tue, October 21, 2008 1:25 PM
[quote comment="245636"]Two words: Who cares![/quote]
WAVING like a fool*
Tue, October 21, 2008 1:25 PM
[quote comment="245836"][quote comment="245821"][quote comment="245735"][quote comment="245694"]I think its a damn shame that anyone would be happy that his marriage is over just because his wife is not a top model. She is a regular looking woman just like the woman walking the street every damn day and communicating on this blog. Its really ashame marriage is not a game and there are children involved its really a sad situation. If he is dating Kelly R she better just watch herself. He is a serial cheater.[/quote]
I agree. Sometimes I wonder if it’s b/c so many of us are the product of single-mother homes or divorced parents that we don’t place the same value on marriage. I know that there are a good number of black people who do very well without both biological parents in the home but I just really think that it’s a blessing to have a mom and a dad that are in a sustainable, happy marriage. If anything, the comments should be along the lines of why in the hell did they bring children into this mirage of a marriage if these rumors are indeed true but maybe I’m asking for too much.[/quote]
Very good point i didn’t even consider that.[/quote]
I agree Lotus good point. I wonder if Tameka is one of those women who believe that having a baby with a man will magically “change” him or “keep” him or “tame” him. She does have an awful lot of babies :([/quote]
She should of learned that after baby #3..
Tue, October 21, 2008 1:26 PM
[quote comment="245826"]plus im going to say something crazy! I don’t believe two people are meant to be together for their whole life! Im a christian but i don’t believe that! My parents are together for 25 years but i know for a fact that they have to go through a lot of BS to get to that point! so basically, you have to accept the cheating part, this and other things! People don;t want to go through that! why should they???? I thibk we have a limited time with one person and we move on![/quote]
I don’t think you have to accept cheating. Cheating is not a definite but it can happen and may be a roadblock along the way. That’s why people shouldn’t get married unless they’re serious. It’s not a walk in the park….there WILL be trials and tribulations and it’s up to those two that committed to one another to help hold one another up and continue to go forward, until they part(death).
Tue, October 21, 2008 1:26 PM
good lord i got to get my scroll on 156 comments*
Tue, October 21, 2008 1:27 PM
[quote comment="245829"][quote comment="245817"][quote comment="245778"][quote comment="245770"][quote comment="245753"][quote comment="245741"][quote comment="245730"][quote comment="245714"]So, if Usher leaves his wife for Kelly, would you guys consider her a homewrecker like you considered gabrielle union?…Had to ask…[/quote]
Nope because I don’t consider Gabrielle to be a homewrecker either.[/quote]
Okay…I see where you’re coming from in that the husband and wife are the ones to “wreck the home”, but I think both kelly and gabby are acting real sketch..NOT a good look, in fact it is never a good look to be involved with a married man no matter the stability of his marriage[/quote]
No its not a good luck but it just seems as if ppl in general tend to put the blame on the “other woman” when the husband should be taking most of the blame. He is the one who stood in church and took vows to be with that woman for better or worse. That “other woman” didnt take those vows.[/quote]
In my opinion, whoever is doing the cheating (whether is husband and skank or wife and man-skank) are to blame. The other woman/man didn’t take vows but that doesn’t excuse his/her behavior either. He/She obviously doesn’t RESPECT the sanctity of marriage but still. And if the rumors about Gabby and D-Wade are true, then I’m side eyeing Gabby because what kind of woman WILLING pursues something with a man when you KNOW he’s still married? Is your snatch that on fire that you can’t wait until the divorce is final?[/quote]
You covered it all girl-ditto![/quote]
Have to disagree. Toya I can tell you have never been in a divorce. They often take an extremely long time. In the Gabby Union case for example, the wife may be in a new relationship of her own by now. And how do we know that the WIFE wasn’t the one who ENDED it? Or that it wasn’t a mutually decided separation? Or that the WIFE was the one responsible for the demise of the marrage? I just feel the Usher/Tameka/Kelly situation is worst because Tameka is in a more vulnerable position than D.Wades wife was – seeing how she’s preggers and all. :( And YES I know wade and wife have kids too but just how some of you are saying can the divorce be final before Gabby dates Wads, for goodness sake- can TAMEKA have their CHILD first before daddy skips around Europe with another woman?? :?:[/quote]
I know a divorce can take a long time I ACTUALLY said that![/quote]
Oh aight. My bad then Toya. :)
Tue, October 21, 2008 1:28 PM
seriously!!!!!!! [quote comment="245828"][quote comment="245826"]plus im going to say something crazy! I don’t believe two people are meant to be together for their whole life! Im a christian but i don’t believe that! My parents are together for 25 years but i know for a fact that they have to go through a lot of BS to get to that point! so basically, you have to accept the cheating part, this and other things! People don;t want to go through that! why should they???? I thibk we have a limited time with one person and we move on![/quote]
you sure do sound crazy…[/quote]
well why people are divorcing at an incredible rate!!!! if it supposed to be their soulmate!! they take wows but they still divorce! so if you don’t find your soulmate, the one your supposed to live all your life with, you don’t get married??? But marriage is a contract today, not only on god eyes but also in our society and people get married even when they know the other is NOT their soulmate! should you stay with someone just because you are married to him/her??
Tue, October 21, 2008 1:28 PM
[quote comment="245841"][quote comment="245826"]plus im going to say something crazy! I don’t believe two people are meant to be together for their whole life! Im a christian but i don’t believe that! My parents are together for 25 years but i know for a fact that they have to go through a lot of BS to get to that point! so basically, you have to accept the cheating part, this and other things! People don;t want to go through that! why should they???? I thibk we have a limited time with one person and we move on![/quote]
I don’t think you have to accept cheating. Cheating is not a definite but it can happen and may be a roadblock along the way. That’s why people shouldn’t get married unless they’re serious. It’s not a walk in the park….there WILL be trials and tribulations and it’s up to those two that committed to one another to help hold one another up and continue to go forward, until they part(death).[/quote]
BINGO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Tue, October 21, 2008 1:30 PM
[quote comment="245846"][quote comment="245841"][quote comment="245826"]plus im going to say something crazy! I don’t believe two people are meant to be together for their whole life! Im a christian but i don’t believe that! My parents are together for 25 years but i know for a fact that they have to go through a lot of BS to get to that point! so basically, you have to accept the cheating part, this and other things! People don;t want to go through that! why should they???? I thibk we have a limited time with one person and we move on![/quote]
I don’t think you have to accept cheating. Cheating is not a definite but it can happen and may be a roadblock along the way. That’s why people shouldn’t get married unless they’re serious. It’s not a walk in the park….there WILL be trials and tribulations and it’s up to those two that committed to one another to help hold one another up and continue to go forward, until they part(death).[/quote]
BINGO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!![/quote]
Exactly!!….now can we get a new post pleasE?
Tue, October 21, 2008 1:31 PM
[quote comment="245845"]seriously!!!!!!! [quote comment="245828"][quote comment="245826"]plus im going to say something crazy! I don’t believe two people are meant to be together for their whole life! Im a christian but i don’t believe that! My parents are together for 25 years but i know for a fact that they have to go through a lot of BS to get to that point! so basically, you have to accept the cheating part, this and other things! People don;t want to go through that! why should they???? I thibk we have a limited time with one person and we move on![/quote]
you sure do sound crazy…[/quote]
well why people are divorcing at an incredible rate!!!! if it supposed to be their soulmate!! they take wows but they still divorce! so if you don’t find your soulmate, the one your supposed to live all your life with, you don’t get married??? But marriage is a contract today, not only on god eyes but also in our society and people get married even when they know the other is NOT their soulmate! should you stay with someone just because you are married to him/her??[/quote]
They are divorcing because they can’t wait on God!!!! My sister in law divorced the guy she knew God told her to marry, but she jumped the gun and married him before the guy was ready.. It was meant to be, but not at that time.. We must wait on God, and with you being a Christian, I know you know what that means…
Tue, October 21, 2008 1:32 PM
[quote comment="245845"]seriously!!!!!!! [quote comment="245828"][quote comment="245826"]plus im going to say something crazy! I don’t believe two people are meant to be together for their whole life! Im a christian but i don’t believe that! My parents are together for 25 years but i know for a fact that they have to go through a lot of BS to get to that point! so basically, you have to accept the cheating part, this and other things! People don;t want to go through that! why should they???? I thibk we have a limited time with one person and we move on![/quote]
you sure do sound crazy…[/quote]
well why people are divorcing at an incredible rate!!!! if it supposed to be their soulmate!! they take wows but they still divorce! so if you don’t find your soulmate, the one your supposed to live all your life with, you don’t get married??? But marriage is a contract today, not only on god eyes but also in our society and people get married even when they know the other is NOT their soulmate! should you stay with someone just because you are married to him/her??[/quote]
There’s a high rate of divorce because people go in for the wrong reasons. Don’t blame the institution, blame the persons. People are so quick to throw in the towel w/ any little problem now. And unfortunately, society promotes divorce, hell it’s a business.
To think that our grandparents (some, your parents) stuck it out and I’m sure they faced a lot more hardships back then than we are now, and they stuck it out. Why? Because they believed in their vows, that’s why.
Tue, October 21, 2008 1:32 PM
well now im confused. i live in atl and last week was ushers birthday dinner at mansion. i heard he and tameka were just as lovey dovey as could be, and that the light skinned chick from the other pics a few weeks ago was actually little ushers godmother. but hey, nething is possible!!!
Tue, October 21, 2008 1:33 PM
[quote comment="245699"][quote comment="245664"][quote comment="245652"]Anywho..NEXT!![/quote]
I’m with you…I’m giving this post all kinds of screw faces…..[/quote]
I actually gave it the gas face..[/quote]
OMG 3rd bass loves it! :lol:
Tue, October 21, 2008 1:33 PM
[quote comment="245845"]seriously!!!!!!! [quote comment="245828"][quote comment="245826"]plus im going to say something crazy! I don’t believe two people are meant to be together for their whole life! Im a christian but i don’t believe that! My parents are together for 25 years but i know for a fact that they have to go through a lot of BS to get to that point! so basically, you have to accept the cheating part, this and other things! People don;t want to go through that! why should they???? I thibk we have a limited time with one person and we move on![/quote]
you sure do sound crazy…[/quote]
well why people are divorcing at an incredible rate!!!! if it supposed to be their soulmate!! they take wows but they still divorce! so if you don’t find your soulmate, the one your supposed to live all your life with, you don’t get married??? But marriage is a contract today, not only on god eyes but also in our society and people get married even when they know the other is NOT their soulmate! should you stay with someone just because you are married to him/her??[/quote]
Just because “society” says it’s ok, doesn’t mean that’s the way it should be.
Tue, October 21, 2008 1:34 PM
~I always loved Usher and his wife as a couple. I always knew they wouldn’t last though, so if they are getting a divorce then *shrug*. It lasted longer then I thought it would, and at least they made that beautiful baby.
~ Now about 50 and Angel. I know they ‘re not together because she’s banks piece. Among other reasons that I won’t get into.
Tue, October 21, 2008 1:34 PM
If it was a white girl, you tar babies would be hard on her but since its one of you, its all gravy. Well I got news for you…once Usher divorces that black whore, hes moving on to one of us, and he will never return!
Tue, October 21, 2008 1:36 PM
[quote comment="245855"]If it was a white girl, you tar babies would be hard on her but since its one of you, its all gravy. Well I got news for you…once Usher divorces that black whore, hes moving on to one of us, and he will never return![/quote]
OK :shock:
Tue, October 21, 2008 1:36 PM
Seriously?? New post PLEASE!
Tue, October 21, 2008 1:37 PM
[quote comment="245819"][quote comment="245815"][quote comment="245814"][quote comment="245798"][quote comment="245779"]Well, I guess I’m just a whoremonger and will be banished to hell……Going to lunch….gotta feed the fat girl in me……[/quote]
*gasp* Kay stop it!! LOL You are not a whoremonger. Besides, if you’re going to hell, you will be in good company. My seat has been reserved since 8th grade[/quote]
*damn I might have a seat there too…smh*[/quote]
I definitely have a seat! lol[/quote]
lol, I dont know bout that 1…[/quote]
Well considering what you all are saying….Looking back at my life…yeah…I’m banished to hell!!! *this is why I don’t associate with people at my church*
Tue, October 21, 2008 1:37 PM
where is man down??? she has been mia for 2 days now….she better not be locked up! lol
Tue, October 21, 2008 1:37 PM
[quote comment="245854"]~I always loved Usher and his wife as a couple. I always knew they wouldn’t last though, so if they are getting a divorce then *shrug*. It lasted longer then I thought it would, and at least they made that beautiful baby.
~ Now about 50 and Angel. I know they ‘re not together because she’s banks piece. Among other reasons that I won’t get into.[/quote]
Lola isn’t Banks piece and I almost know that for a fact.
Tue, October 21, 2008 1:37 PM
[quote comment="245849"][quote comment="245845"]seriously!!!!!!! [quote comment="245828"][quote comment="245826"]plus im going to say something crazy! I don’t believe two people are meant to be together for their whole life! Im a christian but i don’t believe that! My parents are together for 25 years but i know for a fact that they have to go through a lot of BS to get to that point! so basically, you have to accept the cheating part, this and other things! People don;t want to go through that! why should they???? I thibk we have a limited time with one person and we move on![/quote]
you sure do sound crazy…[/quote]
well why people are divorcing at an incredible rate!!!! if it supposed to be their soulmate!! they take wows but they still divorce! so if you don’t find your soulmate, the one your supposed to live all your life with, you don’t get married??? But marriage is a contract today, not only on god eyes but also in our society and people get married even when they know the other is NOT their soulmate! should you stay with someone just because you are married to him/her??[/quote]
There’s a high rate of divorce because people go in for the wrong reasons. Don’t blame the institution, blame the persons. People are so quick to throw in the towel w/ any little problem now. And unfortunately, society promotes divorce, hell it’s a business.
To think that our grandparents (some, your parents) stuck it out and I’m sure they faced a lot more hardships back then than we are now, and they stuck it out. Why? Because they believed in their vows, that’s why.[/quote]
Maybe! Because im wondering if i would ever get married one day cause i never met any man that i feel he could be my soul mate even if i’ve already been in love! I know im still young but my parents or grand parents married real early! my mother married my father after knowing him for 6 monts ONLY!!!!!!! She did not play, she didn’t mess with nobody unless he has REAL intentions so at that point, they could not know they were soul mates! I guess, they respect their wows! But isn’t it about REAL LOVE!!!!
Tue, October 21, 2008 1:38 PM
[quote comment="245844"][quote comment="245829"][quote comment="245817"][quote comment="245778"][quote comment="245770"][quote comment="245753"][quote comment="245741"][quote comment="245730"][quote comment="245714"]So, if Usher leaves his wife for Kelly, would you guys consider her a homewrecker like you considered gabrielle union?…Had to ask…[/quote]
Nope because I don’t consider Gabrielle to be a homewrecker either.[/quote]
Okay…I see where you’re coming from in that the husband and wife are the ones to “wreck the home”, but I think both kelly and gabby are acting real sketch..NOT a good look, in fact it is never a good look to be involved with a married man no matter the stability of his marriage[/quote]
No its not a good luck but it just seems as if ppl in general tend to put the blame on the “other woman” when the husband should be taking most of the blame. He is the one who stood in church and took vows to be with that woman for better or worse. That “other woman” didnt take those vows.[/quote]
In my opinion, whoever is doing the cheating (whether is husband and skank or wife and man-skank) are to blame. The other woman/man didn’t take vows but that doesn’t excuse his/her behavior either. He/She obviously doesn’t RESPECT the sanctity of marriage but still. And if the rumors about Gabby and D-Wade are true, then I’m side eyeing Gabby because what kind of woman WILLING pursues something with a man when you KNOW he’s still married? Is your snatch that on fire that you can’t wait until the divorce is final?[/quote]
You covered it all girl-ditto![/quote]
Have to disagree. Toya I can tell you have never been in a divorce. They often take an extremely long time. In the Gabby Union case for example, the wife may be in a new relationship of her own by now. And how do we know that the WIFE wasn’t the one who ENDED it? Or that it wasn’t a mutually decided separation? Or that the WIFE was the one responsible for the demise of the marrage? I just feel the Usher/Tameka/Kelly situation is worst because Tameka is in a more vulnerable position than D.Wades wife was – seeing how she’s preggers and all. :( And YES I know wade and wife have kids too but just how some of you are saying can the divorce be final before Gabby dates Wads, for goodness sake- can TAMEKA have their CHILD first before daddy skips around Europe with another woman?? :?:[/quote]
I know a divorce can take a long time I ACTUALLY said that![/quote]
Oh aight. My bad then Toya. :)[/quote]
It’s cool :)
Tue, October 21, 2008 1:39 PM
[quote comment="245869"][quote comment="245854"]~I always loved Usher and his wife as a couple. I always knew they wouldn’t last though, so if they are getting a divorce then *shrug*. It lasted longer then I thought it would, and at least they made that beautiful baby.
~ Now about 50 and Angel. I know they ‘re not together because she’s banks piece. Among other reasons that I won’t get into.[/quote]
Lola isn’t Banks piece and I almost know that for a fact.[/quote]
you trying to tell us something whoa? lol
Tue, October 21, 2008 1:39 PM
HELLOOOOOOOOOOOO LADIES!!!! DON’T RESPOND TO “WHITE GIRL” PLEASE! Thank you. *Steps down from podium*
Tue, October 21, 2008 1:40 PM
Looks like I ain’t miss nothin’.
Tue, October 21, 2008 1:40 PM
[quote comment="245849"][quote comment="245845"]seriously!!!!!!! [quote comment="245828"][quote comment="245826"]plus im going to say something crazy! I don’t believe two people are meant to be together for their whole life! Im a christian but i don’t believe that! My parents are together for 25 years but i know for a fact that they have to go through a lot of BS to get to that point! so basically, you have to accept the cheating part, this and other things! People don;t want to go through that! why should they???? I thibk we have a limited time with one person and we move on![/quote]
you sure do sound crazy…[/quote]
well why people are divorcing at an incredible rate!!!! if it supposed to be their soulmate!! they take wows but they still divorce! so if you don’t find your soulmate, the one your supposed to live all your life with, you don’t get married??? But marriage is a contract today, not only on god eyes but also in our society and people get married even when they know the other is NOT their soulmate! should you stay with someone just because you are married to him/her??[/quote]
There’s a high rate of divorce because people go in for the wrong reasons. Don’t blame the institution, blame the persons. People are so quick to throw in the towel w/ any little problem now. And unfortunately, society promotes divorce, hell it’s a business.
To think that our grandparents (some, your parents) stuck it out and I’m sure they faced a lot more hardships back then than we are now, and they stuck it out. Why? Because they believed in their vows, that’s why.[/quote]
Nah, i believe people our grandparents stuck it out because divorce wasn’t as easy to get and it was still a no-no to get divorced then, it’s just like abortion, i know half of us prolly wouldn’t be here if abortion was as available back in the days, lol.
Tue, October 21, 2008 1:42 PM
[quote comment="245875"][quote comment="245869"][quote comment="245854"]~I always loved Usher and his wife as a couple. I always knew they wouldn’t last though, so if they are getting a divorce then *shrug*. It lasted longer then I thought it would, and at least they made that beautiful baby.
~ Now about 50 and Angel. I know they ‘re not together because she’s banks piece. Among other reasons that I won’t get into.[/quote]
Lola isn’t Banks piece and I almost know that for a fact.[/quote]
you trying to tell us something whoa? lol[/quote]
:lol: I just did suga, that AIN’T Lloyd Banks piece…the dude she deals with is well known tho (at least NYC/NJ) and he has stacks. She’s a very pretty girl but very young. She’s only 21
Tue, October 21, 2008 1:43 PM
Thanks to Jon B bringing up Robin Thicke, I am reminded of a quote I read from him in a recent article:
“I always say that marriage is easy– but love is a mother f****r,” he laughs. “When you truly love someone, you never stop compromising, learning from each other, listening to each other. The day you do, is the day that the love starts to disappear. So love is never a walk in the park. We’re always changing, but we do it together.
“My parents have each been through several divorces. And now, they’re both with the right person. My dad is now definitely with someone who’s a better pick for him than my mum was, and my mum is with someone who’s a better pick for her than my dad was.
“But my parents’ situation gave me an odd perspective of relationships. I always kind of prepared myself that divorce was an option. So years ago, my wife and I decided that we could never ever threaten a break up. Because as soon as you’re willing to say, ‘F*** it, I’m leaving’, then that’s what you’re willing to do. So now if we argue, it’s like, ‘F*** it, I’m going upstairs!’ So we’re all good. She’s my best friend in the world.”
I love it and I have always used that as a benchmark in my relationship. If I was not willing to put in the work, I stopped wasting my time. He was not the right person and I moved on.
Tue, October 21, 2008 1:44 PM
[quote comment="245728"][quote comment="245721"][quote comment="245714"]So, if Usher leaves his wife for Kelly, would you guys consider her a homewrecker like you considered gabrielle union?…Had to ask…[/quote]
yes.[/quote]
i wonder if people would respect him more for being with kelly more thsn when he was with tameka!!! just cause kelly is prettier!!! smh to people! i love kelly but a woman is not better than another just because she is prettier![/quote]
Welcome to the human experience.
Tue, October 21, 2008 1:45 PM
So random, but did anyone watch csi miami last night? I fell asleep at the end…who made the dress/bomb?
Tue, October 21, 2008 1:46 PM
[quote comment="245878"][quote comment="245849"][quote comment="245845"]seriously!!!!!!! [quote comment="245828"][quote comment="245826"]plus im going to say something crazy! I don’t believe two people are meant to be together for their whole life! Im a christian but i don’t believe that! My parents are together for 25 years but i know for a fact that they have to go through a lot of BS to get to that point! so basically, you have to accept the cheating part, this and other things! People don;t want to go through that! why should they???? I thibk we have a limited time with one person and we move on![/quote]
you sure do sound crazy…[/quote]
well why people are divorcing at an incredible rate!!!! if it supposed to be their soulmate!! they take wows but they still divorce! so if you don’t find your soulmate, the one your supposed to live all your life with, you don’t get married??? But marriage is a contract today, not only on god eyes but also in our society and people get married even when they know the other is NOT their soulmate! should you stay with someone just because you are married to him/her??[/quote]
There’s a high rate of divorce because people go in for the wrong reasons. Don’t blame the institution, blame the persons. People are so quick to throw in the towel w/ any little problem now. And unfortunately, society promotes divorce, hell it’s a business.
To think that our grandparents (some, your parents) stuck it out and I’m sure they faced a lot more hardships back then than we are now, and they stuck it out. Why? Because they believed in their vows, that’s why.[/quote]
Nah, i believe people our grandparents stuck it out because divorce wasn’t as easy to get and it was still a no-no to get divorced then, it’s just like abortion, i know half of us prolly wouldn’t be here if abortion was as available back in the days, lol.[/quote]
CO-SIGN!!
There’s nothing new under the sun…if you ask your grandparents, they can tell you about how triflin ppl were in their day as well. If anything there were just more people miserable while wed than unwed lol
Tue, October 21, 2008 1:47 PM
[quote comment="245878"][quote comment="245849"][quote comment="245845"]seriously!!!!!!! [quote comment="245828"][quote comment="245826"]plus im going to say something crazy! I don’t believe two people are meant to be together for their whole life! Im a christian but i don’t believe that! My parents are together for 25 years but i know for a fact that they have to go through a lot of BS to get to that point! so basically, you have to accept the cheating part, this and other things! People don;t want to go through that! why should they???? I thibk we have a limited time with one person and we move on![/quote]
you sure do sound crazy…[/quote]
well why people are divorcing at an incredible rate!!!! if it supposed to be their soulmate!! they take wows but they still divorce! so if you don’t find your soulmate, the one your supposed to live all your life with, you don’t get married??? But marriage is a contract today, not only on god eyes but also in our society and people get married even when they know the other is NOT their soulmate! should you stay with someone just because you are married to him/her??[/quote]
There’s a high rate of divorce because people go in for the wrong reasons. Don’t blame the institution, blame the persons. People are so quick to throw in the towel w/ any little problem now. And unfortunately, society promotes divorce, hell it’s a business.
To think that our grandparents (some, your parents) stuck it out and I’m sure they faced a lot more hardships back then than we are now, and they stuck it out. Why? Because they believed in their vows, that’s why.[/quote]
Nah, i believe people our grandparents stuck it out because divorce wasn’t as easy to get and it was still a no-no to get divorced then, it’s just like abortion, i know half of us prolly wouldn’t be here if abortion was as available back in the days, lol.[/quote]
You wrong for that Les….You’re right tho..my biological mother just decided she didn’t want my black a$$ no mo and gave me and my brothers and sisters up for adoption!!!!!
Tue, October 21, 2008 1:47 PM
[quote comment="245878"][quote comment="245849"][quote comment="245845"]seriously!!!!!!! [quote comment="245828"][quote comment="245826"]plus im going to say something crazy! I don’t believe two people are meant to be together for their whole life! Im a christian but i don’t believe that! My parents are together for 25 years but i know for a fact that they have to go through a lot of BS to get to that point! so basically, you have to accept the cheating part, this and other things! People don;t want to go through that! why should they???? I thibk we have a limited time with one person and we move on![/quote]
you sure do sound crazy…[/quote]
well why people are divorcing at an incredible rate!!!! if it supposed to be their soulmate!! they take wows but they still divorce! so if you don’t find your soulmate, the one your supposed to live all your life with, you don’t get married??? But marriage is a contract today, not only on god eyes but also in our society and people get married even when they know the other is NOT their soulmate! should you stay with someone just because you are married to him/her??[/quote]
There’s a high rate of divorce because people go in for the wrong reasons. Don’t blame the institution, blame the persons. People are so quick to throw in the towel w/ any little problem now. And unfortunately, society promotes divorce, hell it’s a business.
To think that our grandparents (some, your parents) stuck it out and I’m sure they faced a lot more hardships back then than we are now, and they stuck it out. Why? Because they believed in their vows, that’s why.[/quote]
Nah, i believe people our grandparents stuck it out because divorce wasn’t as easy to get and it was still a no-no to get divorced then, it’s just like abortion, i know half of us prolly wouldn’t be here if abortion was as available back in the days, lol.[/quote]
Very true, but I do know of older women who will tell you about the issues w/in their marriage they faced and they all dealt w/ it differently. What I’m saying is that it’s so easy to jump ship these days w/o even putting in a fight. For every and anyone that wants to meet their soulmate, he might not even be in this (your) country. We (including myself) need to stop putting boundaries around our minds and hearts. Maybe that trip you keep putting off will be more than a vacation for you….maybe that place you said you’d never travel to, he’s there. Maybe that coworker you can’t stand, knows a guy that happens to be perfect for you. Or maybe you’re crossing his path everyday and don’t know. It’s crazy…..
Tue, October 21, 2008 1:48 PM
[quote comment="245876"]HELLOOOOOOOOOOOO LADIES!!!! DON’T RESPOND TO “WHITE GIRL” PLEASE! Thank you. *Steps down from podium*[/quote]
And we were having such a lovely day….. SMH!
Tue, October 21, 2008 1:49 PM
[quote comment="245900"][quote comment="245878"][quote comment="245849"][quote comment="245845"]seriously!!!!!!! [quote comment="245828"][quote comment="245826"]plus im going to say something crazy! I don’t believe two people are meant to be together for their whole life! Im a christian but i don’t believe that! My parents are together for 25 years but i know for a fact that they have to go through a lot of BS to get to that point! so basically, you have to accept the cheating part, this and other things! People don;t want to go through that! why should they???? I thibk we have a limited time with one person and we move on![/quote]
you sure do sound crazy…[/quote]
well why people are divorcing at an incredible rate!!!! if it supposed to be their soulmate!! they take wows but they still divorce! so if you don’t find your soulmate, the one your supposed to live all your life with, you don’t get married??? But marriage is a contract today, not only on god eyes but also in our society and people get married even when they know the other is NOT their soulmate! should you stay with someone just because you are married to him/her??[/quote]
There’s a high rate of divorce because people go in for the wrong reasons. Don’t blame the institution, blame the persons. People are so quick to throw in the towel w/ any little problem now. And unfortunately, society promotes divorce, hell it’s a business.
To think that our grandparents (some, your parents) stuck it out and I’m sure they faced a lot more hardships back then than we are now, and they stuck it out. Why? Because they believed in their vows, that’s why.[/quote]
Nah, i believe people our grandparents stuck it out because divorce wasn’t as easy to get and it was still a no-no to get divorced then, it’s just like abortion, i know half of us prolly wouldn’t be here if abortion was as available back in the days, lol.[/quote]
Very true, but I do know of older women who will tell you about the issues w/in their marriage they faced and they all dealt w/ it differently. What I’m saying is that it’s so easy to jump ship these days w/o even putting in a fight. For every and anyone that wants to meet their soulmate, he might not even be in this (your) country. We (including myself) need to stop putting boundaries around our minds and hearts. Maybe that trip you keep putting off will be more than a vacation for you….maybe that place you said you’d never travel to, he’s there. Maybe that coworker you can’t stand, knows a guy that happens to be perfect for you. Or maybe you’re crossing his path everyday and don’t know. It’s crazy…..[/quote]
Beautiful…. This should be on a Hallmark Card!!!! I tell you, it’s all in God’s timing…
Tue, October 21, 2008 1:51 PM
[quote comment="245878"][quote comment="245849"][quote comment="245845"]seriously!!!!!!! [quote comment="245828"][quote comment="245826"]plus im going to say something crazy! I don’t believe two people are meant to be together for their whole life! Im a christian but i don’t believe that! My parents are together for 25 years but i know for a fact that they have to go through a lot of BS to get to that point! so basically, you have to accept the cheating part, this and other things! People don;t want to go through that! why should they???? I thibk we have a limited time with one person and we move on![/quote]
you sure do sound crazy…[/quote]
well why people are divorcing at an incredible rate!!!! if it supposed to be their soulmate!! they take wows but they still divorce! so if you don’t find your soulmate, the one your supposed to live all your life with, you don’t get married??? But marriage is a contract today, not only on god eyes but also in our society and people get married even when they know the other is NOT their soulmate! should you stay with someone just because you are married to him/her??[/quote]
There’s a high rate of divorce because people go in for the wrong reasons. Don’t blame the institution, blame the persons. People are so quick to throw in the towel w/ any little problem now. And unfortunately, society promotes divorce, hell it’s a business.
To think that our grandparents (some, your parents) stuck it out and I’m sure they faced a lot more hardships back then than we are now, and they stuck it out. Why? Because they believed in their vows, that’s why.[/quote]
Nah, i believe people our grandparents stuck it out because divorce wasn’t as easy to get and it was still a no-no to get divorced then, it’s just like abortion, i know half of us prolly wouldn’t be here if abortion was as available back in the days, lol.[/quote]
My mom told me just recently that when she got pregnant with me my dad didnt want her to have me. He told her he didnt want anymore kids. My mom basically told him that she didnt care what he wanted and had me anyway. My dad got so mad when my mom told me that. I didnt really care cause my dad treated me like a princess. I know its off topic. Sorry guys! lol
Tue, October 21, 2008 1:51 PM
HAs anyone ever read the book “Behind those eyes” by T.P. Carter?
Tue, October 21, 2008 1:52 PM
[quote comment="245900"][quote comment="245878"][quote comment="245849"][quote comment="245845"]seriously!!!!!!! [quote comment="245828"][quote comment="245826"]plus im going to say something crazy! I don’t believe two people are meant to be together for their whole life! Im a christian but i don’t believe that! My parents are together for 25 years but i know for a fact that they have to go through a lot of BS to get to that point! so basically, you have to accept the cheating part, this and other things! People don;t want to go through that! why should they???? I thibk we have a limited time with one person and we move on![/quote]
you sure do sound crazy…[/quote]
well why people are divorcing at an incredible rate!!!! if it supposed to be their soulmate!! they take wows but they still divorce! so if you don’t find your soulmate, the one your supposed to live all your life with, you don’t get married??? But marriage is a contract today, not only on god eyes but also in our society and people get married even when they know the other is NOT their soulmate! should you stay with someone just because you are married to him/her??[/quote]
There’s a high rate of divorce because people go in for the wrong reasons. Don’t blame the institution, blame the persons. People are so quick to throw in the towel w/ any little problem now. And unfortunately, society promotes divorce, hell it’s a business.
To think that our grandparents (some, your parents) stuck it out and I’m sure they faced a lot more hardships back then than we are now, and they stuck it out. Why? Because they believed in their vows, that’s why.[/quote]
Nah, i believe people our grandparents stuck it out because divorce wasn’t as easy to get and it was still a no-no to get divorced then, it’s just like abortion, i know half of us prolly wouldn’t be here if abortion was as available back in the days, lol.[/quote]
Very true, but I do know of older women who will tell you about the issues w/in their marriage they faced and they all dealt w/ it differently. What I’m saying is that it’s so easy to jump ship these days w/o even putting in a fight. For every and anyone that wants to meet their soulmate, he might not even be in this (your) country. We (including myself) need to stop putting boundaries around our minds and hearts. Maybe that trip you keep putting off will be more than a vacation for you….maybe that place you said you’d never travel to, he’s there. Maybe that coworker you can’t stand, knows a guy that happens to be perfect for you. Or maybe you’re crossing his path everyday and don’t know. It’s crazy…..[/quote]
love it girl!!!!! you’r totally right!!!!!!!!lol, next year, im going to brazil, im sure there is a nice brotha for me ova there!
Tue, October 21, 2008 1:54 PM
[quote comment="245911"]HAs anyone ever read the book “Behind those eyes” by T.P. Carter?[/quote]
No..Does it have good advice in it?
Tue, October 21, 2008 1:55 PM
[quote comment="245866"][quote comment="245819"][quote comment="245815"][quote comment="245814"][quote comment="245798"][quote comment="245779"]Well, I guess I’m just a whoremonger and will be banished to hell……Going to lunch….gotta feed the fat girl in me……[/quote]
*gasp* Kay stop it!! LOL You are not a whoremonger. Besides, if you’re going to hell, you will be in good company. My seat has been reserved since 8th grade[/quote]
*damn I might have a seat there too…smh*[/quote]
I definitely have a seat! lol[/quote]
lol, I dont know bout that 1…[/quote]
Well considering what you all are saying….Looking back at my life…yeah…I’m banished to hell!!! *this is why I don’t associate with people at my church*[/quote]
Kay if you don’t stop it! You are not banished to hell! I simply don’t agree with being involved with a married man. And after what you said about your pastor, I can understand your last statement
Tue, October 21, 2008 1:56 PM
but is there really such thing as soul mate?? lol, let me stop with my thoughts lol!
Tue, October 21, 2008 2:03 PM
[quote comment="245863"][quote comment="245855"]If it was a white girl, you tar babies would be hard on her but since its one of you, its all gravy. Well I got news for you…once Usher divorces that black whore, hes moving on to one of us, and he will never return![/quote]
OK :shock:[/quote]
BACK FROM LUNCH and scrolled to see bright girl ignorance lawd have mercy on her soul
Tue, October 21, 2008 2:07 PM
[quote comment="245694"]I think its a damn shame that anyone would be happy that his marriage is over just because his wife is not a top model. She is a regular looking woman just like the woman walking the street every damn day and communicating on this blog. Its really ashame marriage is not a game and there are children involved its really a sad situation. If he is dating Kelly R she better just watch herself. He is a serial cheater.[/quote]
I DEF AGREE WITH YOU…but I just started thinking…didnt Tameka snatch Usher from Chilli? It that is truly the case then the old saying, “How you get ‘em is how you’ll lose ‘em” came into place.” And this is coming from a chick who supported the Tameka & Usher marriage…As if they care about my damn opinion. LOL
Tue, October 21, 2008 2:09 PM
A rapper. mixtape album? WOW the industry these days.
I sen her in a film she did and she sucked worst than B. But hey, whatever.
Tue, October 21, 2008 2:09 PM
[quote comment="245910"][quote comment="245878"][quote comment="245849"][quote comment="245845"]seriously!!!!!!! [quote comment="245828"][quote comment="245826"]plus im going to say something crazy! I don’t believe two people are meant to be together for their whole life! Im a christian but i don’t believe that! My parents are together for 25 years but i know for a fact that they have to go through a lot of BS to get to that point! so basically, you have to accept the cheating part, this and other things! People don;t want to go through that! why should they???? I thibk we have a limited time with one person and we move on![/quote]
you sure do sound crazy…[/quote]
well why people are divorcing at an incredible rate!!!! if it supposed to be their soulmate!! they take wows but they still divorce! so if you don’t find your soulmate, the one your supposed to live all your life with, you don’t get married??? But marriage is a contract today, not only on god eyes but also in our society and people get married even when they know the other is NOT their soulmate! should you stay with someone just because you are married to him/her??[/quote]
There’s a high rate of divorce because people go in for the wrong reasons. Don’t blame the institution, blame the persons. People are so quick to throw in the towel w/ any little problem now. And unfortunately, society promotes divorce, hell it’s a business.
To think that our grandparents (some, your parents) stuck it out and I’m sure they faced a lot more hardships back then than we are now, and they stuck it out. Why? Because they believed in their vows, that’s why.[/quote]
Nah, i believe people our grandparents stuck it out because divorce wasn’t as easy to get and it was still a no-no to get divorced then, it’s just like abortion, i know half of us prolly wouldn’t be here if abortion was as available back in the days, lol.[/quote]
My mom told me just recently that when she got pregnant with me my dad didnt want her to have me. He told her he didnt want anymore kids. My mom basically told him that she didnt care what he wanted and had me anyway. My dad got so mad when my mom told me that. I didnt really care cause my dad treated me like a princess. I know its off topic. Sorry guys! lol[/quote]
It’s on topic and that’s good to hear that he treated you like a princess, not enough of us have a good loving father figure in our lives, good to know some do exist.
Tue, October 21, 2008 2:09 PM
***ooopps i responded should have scrolled more lol***
Tue, October 21, 2008 2:12 PM
[quote comment="245913"][quote comment="245900"][quote comment="245878"][quote comment="245849"][quote comment="245845"]seriously!!!!!!! [quote comment="245828"][quote comment="245826"]plus im going to say something crazy! I don’t believe two people are meant to be together for their whole life! Im a christian but i don’t believe that! My parents are together for 25 years but i know for a fact that they have to go through a lot of BS to get to that point! so basically, you have to accept the cheating part, this and other things! People don;t want to go through that! why should they???? I thibk we have a limited time with one person and we move on![/quote]
you sure do sound crazy…[/quote]
well why people are divorcing at an incredible rate!!!! if it supposed to be their soulmate!! they take wows but they still divorce! so if you don’t find your soulmate, the one your supposed to live all your life with, you don’t get married??? But marriage is a contract today, not only on god eyes but also in our society and people get married even when they know the other is NOT their soulmate! should you stay with someone just because you are married to him/her??[/quote]
There’s a high rate of divorce because people go in for the wrong reasons. Don’t blame the institution, blame the persons. People are so quick to throw in the towel w/ any little problem now. And unfortunately, society promotes divorce, hell it’s a business.
To think that our grandparents (some, your parents) stuck it out and I’m sure they faced a lot more hardships back then than we are now, and they stuck it out. Why? Because they believed in their vows, that’s why.[/quote]
Nah, i believe people our grandparents stuck it out because divorce wasn’t as easy to get and it was still a no-no to get divorced then, it’s just like abortion, i know half of us prolly wouldn’t be here if abortion was as available back in the days, lol.[/quote]
Very true, but I do know of older women who will tell you about the issues w/in their marriage they faced and they all dealt w/ it differently. What I’m saying is that it’s so easy to jump ship these days w/o even putting in a fight. For every and anyone that wants to meet their soulmate, he might not even be in this (your) country. We (including myself) need to stop putting boundaries around our minds and hearts. Maybe that trip you keep putting off will be more than a vacation for you….maybe that place you said you’d never travel to, he’s there. Maybe that coworker you can’t stand, knows a guy that happens to be perfect for you. Or maybe you’re crossing his path everyday and don’t know. It’s crazy…..[/quote]
love it girl!!!!! you’r totally right!!!!!!!!lol, next year, im going to brazil, im sure there is a nice brotha for me ova there![/quote]
Just be careful, the AIDS rate in Brazil is CRAZY!!!!!!!! YBF need Valenne!!!!!!!!
Tue, October 21, 2008 2:17 PM
[quote comment="245982"][quote comment="245913"][quote comment="245900"][quote comment="245878"][quote comment="245849"][quote comment="245845"]seriously!!!!!!! [quote comment="245828"][quote comment="245826"]plus im going to say something crazy! I don’t believe two people are meant to be together for their whole life! Im a christian but i don’t believe that! My parents are together for 25 years but i know for a fact that they have to go through a lot of BS to get to that point! so basically, you have to accept the cheating part, this and other things! People don;t want to go through that! why should they???? I thibk we have a limited time with one person and we move on![/quote]
you sure do sound crazy…[/quote]
well why people are divorcing at an incredible rate!!!! if it supposed to be their soulmate!! they take wows but they still divorce! so if you don’t find your soulmate, the one your supposed to live all your life with, you don’t get married??? But marriage is a contract today, not only on god eyes but also in our society and people get married even when they know the other is NOT their soulmate! should you stay with someone just because you are married to him/her??[/quote]
There’s a high rate of divorce because people go in for the wrong reasons. Don’t blame the institution, blame the persons. People are so quick to throw in the towel w/ any little problem now. And unfortunately, society promotes divorce, hell it’s a business.
To think that our grandparents (some, your parents) stuck it out and I’m sure they faced a lot more hardships back then than we are now, and they stuck it out. Why? Because they believed in their vows, that’s why.[/quote]
Nah, i believe people our grandparents stuck it out because divorce wasn’t as easy to get and it was still a no-no to get divorced then, it’s just like abortion, i know half of us prolly wouldn’t be here if abortion was as available back in the days, lol.[/quote]
Very true, but I do know of older women who will tell you about the issues w/in their marriage they faced and they all dealt w/ it differently. What I’m saying is that it’s so easy to jump ship these days w/o even putting in a fight. For every and anyone that wants to meet their soulmate, he might not even be in this (your) country. We (including myself) need to stop putting boundaries around our minds and hearts. Maybe that trip you keep putting off will be more than a vacation for you….maybe that place you said you’d never travel to, he’s there. Maybe that coworker you can’t stand, knows a guy that happens to be perfect for you. Or maybe you’re crossing his path everyday and don’t know. It’s crazy…..[/quote]
love it girl!!!!! you’r totally right!!!!!!!!lol, next year, im going to brazil, im sure there is a nice brotha for me ova there![/quote]
Just be careful, the AIDS rate in Brazil is CRAZY!!!!!!!! YBF need Valenne!!!!!!!![/quote]
thanks girl! but i ALWAYS MAKE SURE ITS WRAPPED BEFORE!!!!!!!!! ALWAYS!!!
Tue, October 21, 2008 2:17 PM
[quote comment="245854"]~I always loved Usher and his wife as a couple. I always knew they wouldn’t last though, so if they are getting a divorce then *shrug*. It lasted longer then I thought it would, and at least they made that beautiful baby.
~ Now about 50 and Angel. I know they ‘re not together because she’s banks piece. Among other reasons that I won’t get into.[/quote]
I don’t know who told you that lie but, Banks and Lola have never ever kicked it like that. That’s a rumor that needs to end right here.
50 and Lola have been tight for years. It’s possible it could be growing into something deeper.
50 AND Lola were recently asked about their relationship and they will not confirm or deny a relationship.
Tue, October 21, 2008 2:21 PM
do you people read what tasha said. 50 and what’s her name are NOT A COUPLE
Tue, October 21, 2008 2:32 PM
[quote comment="246012"]do you people read what tasha said. 50 and what’s her name are NOT A COUPLE[/quote]
R.I.F. – Reading is Fundamental!
Tue, October 21, 2008 2:38 PM
its true that kelly spent 100,000 grand cus it was in the magazines with a picture of here goin out at the time. She has got money cus she was doin a few shows in London and SHE GOT PAID….!!!!!
Tue, October 21, 2008 3:04 PM
[quote comment="245996"][quote comment="245854"]~I always loved Usher and his wife as a couple. I always knew they wouldn’t last though, so if they are getting a divorce then *shrug*. It lasted longer then I thought it would, and at least they made that beautiful baby.
~ Now about 50 and Angel. I know they ‘re not together because she’s banks piece. Among other reasons that I won’t get into.[/quote]
I don’t know who told you that lie but, Banks and Lola have never ever kicked it like that. That’s a rumor that needs to end right here.
50 and Lola have been tight for years. It’s possible it could be growing into something deeper.
50 AND Lola were recently asked about their relationship and they will not confirm or deny a relationship.[/quote]
Awwwww sorry to have to inform you, but Banks has been fuckin her for years. It’s not even a rumor boo.SMH
Tue, October 21, 2008 3:11 PM
[quote comment="246157"][quote comment="245996"][quote comment="245854"]~I always loved Usher and his wife as a couple. I always knew they wouldn’t last though, so if they are getting a divorce then *shrug*. It lasted longer then I thought it would, and at least they made that beautiful baby.
~ Now about 50 and Angel. I know they ‘re not together because she’s banks piece. Among other reasons that I won’t get into.[/quote]
I don’t know who told you that lie but, Banks and Lola have never ever kicked it like that. That’s a rumor that needs to end right here.
50 and Lola have been tight for years. It’s possible it could be growing into something deeper.
50 AND Lola were recently asked about their relationship and they will not confirm or deny a relationship.[/quote]
Awwwww sorry to have to inform you, but Banks has been fuckin her for years. It’s not even a rumor boo.SMH[/quote]
Don’t apologize to me you are the one grossly misinformed but, that’s cool. Keep hanging on to those delusions if it helps you sleep at night.
Tue, October 21, 2008 3:13 PM
[quote comment="246012"]do you people read what tasha said. 50 and what’s her name are NOT A COUPLE[/quote]
Tasha says alot of stuff. Remember the 50 and Bambi rumor? She said there would be pictures. I never did see any pictures.
Tue, October 21, 2008 3:14 PM
[quote comment="246012"]do you people read what tasha said. 50 and what’s her name are NOT A COUPLE[/quote]
I know right!!?? Reading is fundamental people.lol
Tue, October 21, 2008 3:20 PM
WOW! Usher and Kelly licking it? I never would have guessed that.
I believe Ciara and 50 is a publicity stunt just like Angel! Why would Ciara wear a ring that looks like a wedding band? So everyone can start the is 50 and Ciara married rumors again!
Tue, October 21, 2008 3:26 PM
[quote comment="246183"][quote comment="246157"][quote comment="245996"][quote comment="245854"]~I always loved Usher and his wife as a couple. I always knew they wouldn’t last though, so if they are getting a divorce then *shrug*. It lasted longer then I thought it would, and at least they made that beautiful baby.
~ Now about 50 and Angel. I know they ‘re not together because she’s banks piece. Among other reasons that I won’t get into.[/quote]
I don’t know who told you that lie but, Banks and Lola have never ever kicked it like that. That’s a rumor that needs to end right here.
50 and Lola have been tight for years. It’s possible it could be growing into something deeper.
50 AND Lola were recently asked about their relationship and they will not confirm or deny a relationship.[/quote]
Awwwww sorry to have to inform you, but Banks has been fuckin her for years. It’s not even a rumor boo.SMH[/quote]
Don’t apologize to me you are the one grossly misinformed but, that’s cool. Keep hanging on to those delusions if it helps you sleep at night.[/quote]
Well I guess ignorance really is bliss, but whatever believe what you want because these celebs don’t mean much to me. Also why would info about a celeb who doesn’t care about me and who I certainly don’t care about help me sleep? Bloging is just something to help me get through the long work day it’s really not that serious. The fact that you think that way should worry you thougjh because it probably means that you take these celebs too seriously.
Tue, October 21, 2008 4:03 PM
[quote comment="246225"]
I believe Ciara and 50 is a publicity stunt just like Angel! Why would Ciara wear a ring that looks like a wedding band? So everyone can start the is 50 and Ciara married rumors again![/quote]
That would make sense if there were pictures of them together at a random KFC or on vacation at the Bahamas but there are none. Maybe she is engaged but it’s not to 50 that’s for sure. You never see her with her real man, whoever that may be.
Tue, October 21, 2008 4:13 PM
Usher use a freakin condom!! You on your 23nd child with the broad but have no feelings?? We could have told you it wasnt going to work before the marriage
Tue, October 21, 2008 4:15 PM
OH YEAH 50 YOU LOST YOUR MIND IF YOU SIGNED ANGEL LOLA TO RAP?! :DIES:
Tue, October 21, 2008 4:57 PM
I am all for the institution of marriage, but bump Tameka. I would LOVE to see Usher and Kelly together!
Tue, October 21, 2008 5:02 PM
[quote comment="246255"][quote comment="246183"][quote comment="246157"][quote comment="245996"][quote comment="245854"]~I always loved Usher and his wife as a couple. I always knew they wouldn’t last though, so if they are getting a divorce then *shrug*. It lasted longer then I thought it would, and at least they made that beautiful baby.
~ Now about 50 and Angel. I know they ‘re not together because she’s banks piece. Among other reasons that I won’t get into.[/quote]
I don’t know who told you that lie but, Banks and Lola have never ever kicked it like that. That’s a rumor that needs to end right here.
50 and Lola have been tight for years. It’s possible it could be growing into something deeper.
50 AND Lola were recently asked about their relationship and they will not confirm or deny a relationship.[/quote]
Awwwww sorry to have to inform you, but Banks has been fuckin her for years. It’s not even a rumor boo.SMH[/quote]
Don’t apologize to me you are the one grossly misinformed but, that’s cool. Keep hanging on to those delusions if it helps you sleep at night.[/quote]
Well I guess ignorance really is bliss, but whatever believe what you want because these celebs don’t mean much to me. Also why would info about a celeb who doesn’t care about me and who I certainly don’t care about help me sleep? Bloging is just something to help me get through the long work day it’s really not that serious. The fact that you think that way should worry you thougjh because it probably means that you take these celebs too seriously.[/quote]
Believe me it’s not that serious for me either. I had not intention of even commenting on this topic. The only reason I did comment is because you were flat out lying about Banks and Lola.
Tue, October 21, 2008 5:25 PM
I must say that ybf always hits the nail on the head! I love this website! I am on it every time I take a break at work. This is awesome!
Tue, October 21, 2008 8:10 PM
um whatev about the Usher thang!!!
Tue, October 21, 2008 8:38 PM
i hope kelly and usher are a couple….. they would make a really cute one
Tue, October 21, 2008 9:06 PM
I am really upset at Usher how thought he was different because although he is a SCORPIO like Diddy, Swizz beatz, who now have had the habit of geting into a relationship, having children and then leaving. And I wouldnt be so upset if it was one child he is having but come one, He really lost my respect if this rumor is true. Is that the new thing now?
Tue, October 21, 2008 9:35 PM
Oh I for got Fabulous is another one
Tue, October 21, 2008 11:22 PM
[quote comment="246849"]I am really upset at Usher how thought he was different because although he is a SCORPIO like Diddy, Swizz beatz, who now have had the habit of geting into a relationship, having children and then leaving. And I wouldnt be so upset if it was one child he is having but come one, He really lost my respect if this rumor is true. Is that the new thing now?[/quote]
umm… usher is a libra.
Wed, October 22, 2008 8:41 AM
[quote comment="246849"]I am really upset at Usher how thought he was different because although he is a SCORPIO like Diddy, Swizz beatz, who now have had the habit of geting into a relationship, having children and then leaving. And I wouldnt be so upset if it was one child he is having but come one, He really lost my respect if this rumor is true. Is that the new thing now?[/quote]
A-HAH!! I KNEW IT! they were completely UNcompatible to begin with! How a yung calf…barely walkin’ on his own gonna go marry a grown ass OX like that!?! And Mr. Raymond is a Libra….but it don’t matter WHAT the sign…once they’re name is M.A.N……and in THIS day N age….PLEASE! Men don’t even wanna stay w/the ones who remind them of OR act kinda like their moms anymore…I.E:….Usher…now he bouncin’!!! And ‘Tom’eka did come in like a GRANNY never mind a mom….wonderin’ how dem ‘TOM’eka fans r feelin’ right about now!!!
Wed, October 22, 2008 9:03 AM
[quote comment="246948"][quote comment="246849"]I am really upset at Usher how thought he was different because although he is a SCORPIO like Diddy, Swizz beatz, who now have had the habit of geting into a relationship, having children and then leaving. And I wouldnt be so upset if it was one child he is having but come one, He really lost my respect if this rumor is true. Is that the new thing now?[/quote]
A-HAH!! I KNEW IT! they were completely UNcompatible to begin with! How a yung calf…barely walkin’ on his own gonna go marry a grown ass OX like that!?! And Mr. Raymond is a Libra….but it don’t matter WHAT the sign…once they’re name is M.A.N……and in THIS day N age….PLEASE! Men don’t even wanna stay w/the ones who remind them of OR act kinda like their moms anymore…I.E:….Usher…now he bouncin’!!! And ‘Tom’eka did come in like a GRANNY never mind a mom….wonderin’ how dem ‘TOM’eka fans r feelin’ right about now!!![/quote]
All joking aside, it’s a damn shame that this couldn’t work out OR that they didn’t enter this union on the real! And it’s even sadder that THIS is a way of life…a big way of life for our own! Before trying to gain status with people or acquire THINGS why can’t we learn to love each other honestly and truly?!! What happened to ‘for better or for worse’, ‘through thick or thin’,…what happened to REAL LOVE!?!?…….on a side note, I WANNA RIP WITE-SKEEZ A NEW ONE SOOOO BADLY BUT….not gonna give that illiterate, WORLD WRECKER the satisfaction!!!
Wed, October 22, 2008 9:09 AM
Ursh is sloppy seconds and used goods now. Ever since he hooked up with Tameka, he just turned me off. I particularly didn’t like the way he handled his mother. He wouldn’t even have a career if it wasn’t for her. I hope Kelly is smarter than this and will find a real man, not this untrained dog with two kids and a crazy soon to be ex-wife. As for 50, boo! He works my nerves and if Ciara really is dealing with him, she needs to get a clue! 50 ain’t right! Ciara needs to get a new stylist, get a fly cut that suits her like Rihanna and just step up her game, but first we’ve got to lose 50!
Wed, October 22, 2008 10:02 AM
SHAME,SHAME, SHAME on them all!
Wed, October 22, 2008 10:20 AM
Did Tameka impregnate herself? Whe I keep hearing she GOT HERSLF PREGNANT then I get confused.
If its true, then it everyone involved is part of a bad situation. The kids have it worst.
Whatever Tameka looks like (i think shes ok) she did make the cutest baby with Usher. Childs so cute its unreal.
Wed, October 22, 2008 11:40 AM
[quote comment="245651"]Kelly Rowland looks really nice in that pic…and who is that tranny looking woman beside Usher? Tameka should stop bleaching her skin she is starting to look white.[/quote]
LMAO! THAT WAS FUNNY….
Wed, October 22, 2008 12:36 PM
[quote comment="245665"][quote comment="245651"]Kelly Rowland looks really nice in that pic…and who is that tranny looking woman beside Usher? Tameka should stop bleaching her skin she is starting to look white.[/quote]
LMAO[/quote]
OH SHIT LOL
Thu, October 23, 2008 5:34 PM
Yeah…. so what about 50 cent? DAMN I CAN’T STAND HIM!! He is such a hater and who is this Lola chick?
So now he gonna talk about this chick the same way he talked about Ciara. He dont got no conscience and why do females wanna date him anyways? He is soooo over. Close that casket already!!!
Fri, January 2, 2009 10:04 PM
sweetdickbk i smell a hater get money stop hating broke down bitch