T.I.’s eternal babies’ mama Tiny, Lil Wayne’s baby’s mama/ex-wife Antonia Carter, and Lyfe Jennings’ baby’s mama Joy (the one who recently filed a restraining order against him) all partied it up together last night in the ATL. Apparently they’re all BFFs now. Joy even went to Antonia’s birthday party this past weekend.
I would pay good money to be a fly on the wall during their conversations. I’m sure Louis Vuitton, “What birth control?”, and money are topics that get tossed around every second. Damn shame. Oh, heeeey Mr. Harris.
More pics when you read the rest…
Raven Symone was spotted at an event recently. I don’t know if it’s her choice of clothing or poses or what–but chick always looks like her body is straight swollen.
And Mario and Terrence Howard were spotted at an event giving each other musical tips. I’m sure that had the high probability of being a dead end convo.
Wed, October 29, 2008 10:26 AM
First?
Wed, October 29, 2008 10:27 AM
I still luv me some Wayne
Wed, October 29, 2008 10:27 AM
Poor Tiny..she tried once again and failed
Wed, October 29, 2008 10:28 AM
Top Fizzle. Damn that Tiny…
Wed, October 29, 2008 10:28 AM
Those grey uggs are kinda cute.
Wed, October 29, 2008 10:29 AM
Ahh leave the baby mamas alone! lol
Wed, October 29, 2008 10:29 AM
Rven looks scary…Happy Halloween. lol
Wed, October 29, 2008 10:29 AM
Tiny actually look decent in those flicks.
Raven…Raven…Raven…
Wed, October 29, 2008 10:29 AM
There is something crispy about that Antonia chick…
Wed, October 29, 2008 10:29 AM
Who dat is? Dat’s just my babymama!
Wed, October 29, 2008 10:30 AM
Ms. Ex Carter is posing the same way she did in her b-day flicks. Tiny is so damn regular! ughhh she disgusts me…T.i. is too Dapper for that hoodfigga chick
Wed, October 29, 2008 10:30 AM
I wonder….why does Antonia Carter always pose as if she’s somebody other than Lil Waynes ex-wife/baby mother? I’m not trying to be cruel but that’s a pitiful way to try and gain “celebrity”.
Wed, October 29, 2008 10:31 AM
Awww look at the starting line-up for TEAM BM.
Again, Jesus, be a condom and a half. Please!
Wed, October 29, 2008 10:31 AM
[quote comment="258601"]Ms. Ex Carter is posing the same way she did in her b-day flicks. Tiny is so damn regular! ughhh she disgusts me…T.i. is too Dapper for that hoodfigga chick[/quote]
LOL, I was looking at those poses too…
Wed, October 29, 2008 10:31 AM
See this is my problem with living in ATL now, everybody is tryin’ to be Hollywood!
They are just the ex/baby momma’s to some celebs/ musicians!
Wed, October 29, 2008 10:32 AM
One of these things just ain’t like the other….one of these things just doesn’t belong… YEAH, you —>Tiny.
Wed, October 29, 2008 10:32 AM
Is it me or did that Terence Howard and mario pic just pop ou tof no where
Wed, October 29, 2008 10:33 AM
[quote comment="258601"]Ms. Ex Carter is posing the same way she did in her b-day flicks. Tiny is so damn regular! ughhh she disgusts me…T.i. is too Dapper for that hoodfigga chick[/quote]
You know everyone has their POSE they love doing. I didn’t realize that I had one until I looked at some of my pics. I’m posing the same in about 85% of them! lol
Wed, October 29, 2008 10:34 AM
Tiny better be glad for the Babymama ability, cause otherwise, I doubt TI would be with her
Raven needs a makeover SOON and she needs to stop making those weird faces.
Wed, October 29, 2008 10:34 AM
[quote comment="258604"]I wonder….why does Antonia Carter always pose as if she’s somebody other than Lil Waynes ex-wife/baby mother? I’m not trying to be cruel but that’s a pitiful way to try and gain “celebrity”.[/quote]
I know right? She’s always posing like “Yeah. That’s right. Someone famous was once with me. I’m the shit”. LOL.
Wed, October 29, 2008 10:34 AM
Raven needs a stylist and if by chance she already has one, she should shoot her.
Wed, October 29, 2008 10:35 AM
[quote comment="258610"]One of these things just ain’t like the other….one of these things just doesn’t belong… YEAH, you —>Tiny.[/quote]
LOL. Terrible!
I’m just realizing that po’ boy standing beside Ravs. :(
Wed, October 29, 2008 10:38 AM
why in the hell does Raven look like a hot a$$ mess with her THREE chins…… Raven take some time off and get a makeover and some lipo or get on that Kanye workout plan boo boo
Wed, October 29, 2008 10:39 AM
okay – sooooo you know we are very shallow when baby mamas are getting posts.
So now you’re famous for who you pro-created with…or jumped off with and made a bastard(because I know a jump-off post is sure to follow)
Wed, October 29, 2008 10:40 AM
Morning! Okay, so the baby mommas are trying to get organized huh? Do I sense a Million Baby Momma March making its way to a hood near you?
Wed, October 29, 2008 10:40 AM
LOL at Baby Mama Night Out
I heart Mario can he be my husband Rainy?
Wed, October 29, 2008 10:41 AM
[quote comment="258624"]why in the hell does Raven look like a hot a$$ mess with her THREE chins…… Raven take some time off and get a makeover and some lipo or get on that Kanye workout plan boo boo[/quote]
It’s not the weight, because my whole family look like the Weather Girls. But they dress really nice. It’s the way Raven dresses and the accesories.
Wed, October 29, 2008 10:41 AM
Tiny looks good in these pictures. Natasha is right about the caliber of conversation that was going on..a bunch of nothing.
Raven please cut the salt out of your diet, you are on swoll! lol
The x- misses Carter is cute, Lyfe Jennings baby momma is plain and nothing special at all…I’m just sayin….
Wed, October 29, 2008 10:41 AM
Imma haf to hurt Tiny. lol
Raven needs a water pill. lmao
Wed, October 29, 2008 10:42 AM
Raven just needs a good friend, a diet plan and some new clothes and she could up her game. She’s too pretty and successful to be looking a mess.
Wed, October 29, 2008 10:42 AM
Wassup ladies….wht’s good with ya’ll
Wed, October 29, 2008 10:42 AM
[quote comment="258624"]why in the hell does Raven look like a hot a$$ mess with her THREE chins…… Raven take some time off and get a makeover and some lipo or get on that Kanye workout plan boo boo[/quote]
agreed – Raven you need to call Jenny and get a size healthy.
its ok to be who you are sista – please don’t get me wrong…but baby girl is NOT wearing her weight well – she NEVER looks good.
and she need a longer skirt – and get rid of that fucking hat already.
Wed, October 29, 2008 10:42 AM
I can not deal with that Baby Mama news…are these chicks really trying to be celebs on the strength of their baby mama status?? Sad..just sad!! Go take care of the kids and stop trying to be all up in the spotlight!! YUCK!!!
Wed, October 29, 2008 10:43 AM
[quote comment="258631"][quote comment="258624"]why in the hell does Raven look like a hot a$$ mess with her THREE chins…… Raven take some time off and get a makeover and some lipo or get on that Kanye workout plan boo boo[/quote]
It’s not the weight, because my whole family look like the Weather Girls. But they dress really nice. It’s the way Raven dresses and the accesories.[/quote]
Thank you for wrapping it up because that is exactly what it is, the choice of clothing is whack as hell!
Wed, October 29, 2008 10:43 AM
…and Natasha the sarcasm in this post slayed me. :)
Wed, October 29, 2008 10:43 AM
[quote comment="258628"]Morning! Okay, so the baby mommas are trying to get organized huh? Do I sense a Million Baby Momma March making its way to a hood near you?[/quote]
LMBO!!!!
Wed, October 29, 2008 10:43 AM
[quote comment="258627"]okay – sooooo you know we are very shallow when baby mamas are getting posts.
So now you’re famous for who you pro-created with…or jumped off with and made a bastard(because I know a jump-off post is sure to follow)[/quote]
Everytime we see Cassie in a post that IS a jump-off post.
Wed, October 29, 2008 10:44 AM
[quote comment="258588"]Poor Tiny..she tried once again and failed[/quote]
I’m mad at the over-collagenized (is that a damn word?) lips. TI, seriously?!? Seriously?!
Wed, October 29, 2008 10:44 AM
Uhhh thank god I postponed my trip to ATL until further notice, if this is the only thing that gets noticed down there, I think i’ll cancel. ESP. after watching Real Housewives last night..smdh, bunch of money grubbing dirty broads looking for the next dude to make a come up. Whatever happened to making a damn living yourself? If this is what I have to look forward being down there, it aint happenin. BTW, why is the first thing these chicks buy when they get money is Gucci or Louis Vuitton? That ish is straight up low-budget, I mean there are many other designers that are just as good if not better than these two. I mean paying 2,000 for a bag doesn’t make you fly if your hair, outfit, or living is straight shot..Just doesn’t make sense to me, Someone please clarify. Thanks
Wed, October 29, 2008 10:44 AM
What does T.I. see in Tiny?
Wed, October 29, 2008 10:44 AM
[quote comment="258588"]Poor Tiny..she tried once again and failed[/quote]
ALWAYS…try try try again!!!!
Wed, October 29, 2008 10:44 AM
[quote comment="258631"][quote comment="258624"]why in the hell does Raven look like a hot a$$ mess with her THREE chins…… Raven take some time off and get a makeover and some lipo or get on that Kanye workout plan boo boo[/quote]
It’s not the weight, because my whole family look like the Weather Girls. But they dress really nice. It’s the way Raven dresses and the accesories.[/quote]
ok i can co-sign that
Wed, October 29, 2008 10:45 AM
[quote comment="258644"]Uhhh thank god I postponed my trip to ATL until further notice, if this is the only thing that gets noticed down there, I think i’ll cancel. ESP. after watching Real Housewives last night..smdh, bunch of money grubbing dirty broads looking for the next dude to make a come up. Whatever happened to making a damn living yourself? If this is what I have to look forward being down there, it aint happenin. BTW, why is the first thing these chicks buy when they get money is Gucci or Louis Vuitton? That ish is straight up low-budget, I mean there are many other designers that are just as good if not better than these two. I mean paying 2,000 for a bag doesn’t make you fly if your hair, outfit, or living is straight shot..Just doesn’t make sense to me, Someone please clarify. Thanks[/quote]
co-post. I asked that last week about the ATL.
Wed, October 29, 2008 10:45 AM
[quote comment="258633"]Imma haf to hurt Tiny. lol
Raven needs a water pill. lmao[/quote]
:lol: but true!
Wed, October 29, 2008 10:46 AM
[quote comment="258645"]What does T.I. see in Tiny?[/quote]
a down ass chick – and a freak in the bed
Wed, October 29, 2008 10:46 AM
This is the best Tiny has eva looked, and that’s not saying much. The hair color looks nice on her for a change but that jsut may be because I can’t see the color underneath her cap.
Wed, October 29, 2008 10:47 AM
[quote comment="258645"]What does T.I. see in Tiny?[/quote]
He probably really trusts her, and to come up looking the way she does she is probably really confident also.
Wed, October 29, 2008 10:47 AM
don’t settle for less ladies WAIT for the ring and if trying to put one on your finger KEEP IT MOVING!
Wed, October 29, 2008 10:47 AM
When I looked at that pic the first thing that came to mond is when TI was on chelsea and he called her His situation they are crazy lol
Wed, October 29, 2008 10:47 AM
[quote comment="258645"]What does T.I. see in Tiny?[/quote]
What does Tiny see in TI. I can’t deal with a little a$$ dude. Add about a foot to his height and 50lbs to his weight then maybe.
Wed, October 29, 2008 10:48 AM
“and if he ain’t willing to put one on your finger keep it moving” is what i meant
Wed, October 29, 2008 10:49 AM
[quote comment="258633"]Imma haf to hurt Tiny. lol
Raven needs a water pill. lmao[/quote]
And The Master Cleanse
Wed, October 29, 2008 10:49 AM
i think raven is depressed or something…she looks sad..
Wed, October 29, 2008 10:49 AM
i think Bravo will has a new show in the making, the REAL Baby Mama’s of Atlanta.
it’s curious that you don’t see Luda’s baby mama splattered all over the damn internet. hell, you barely see their daughter either.
getting curiouser and curiouser *thinking*
Wed, October 29, 2008 10:49 AM
[quote comment="258659"][quote comment="258633"]Imma haf to hurt Tiny. lol
Raven needs a water pill. lmao[/quote]
And The Master Cleanse[/quote]
*and that 21 day detox at martha vineyard
Wed, October 29, 2008 10:50 AM
Lil Wayne’s ex-wife is a pretty girl.
Wed, October 29, 2008 10:50 AM
Oh the joy’s of being a “Baby Mama” and using your kids as collateral…SYKE!!!! What about real women who have no kids and have to work for their money? Can I get some luv YBF?????? I think I’m one of the last few that actually wants to be committed and married before poppin out somebody’s kid. Can ladies like us get some kinda dedication?!? Award?!? Tribute????
Wed, October 29, 2008 10:50 AM
[quote comment="258651"][quote comment="258645"]What does T.I. see in Tiny?[/quote]
a down ass chick – and a freak in the bed[/quote]
& loves ecstacy
Wed, October 29, 2008 10:50 AM
[quote comment="258654"][quote comment="258645"]What does T.I. see in Tiny?[/quote]
He probably really trusts her, and to come up looking the way she does she is probably really confident also.[/quote]
Nice compliment Toya..lmao
Wed, October 29, 2008 10:50 AM
[quote comment="258659"][quote comment="258633"]Imma haf to hurt Tiny. lol
Raven needs a water pill. lmao[/quote]
And The Master Cleanse[/quote]
and a prune juice smoothie with a box of raisins
Wed, October 29, 2008 10:50 AM
[quote comment="258666"][quote comment="258654"][quote comment="258645"]What does T.I. see in Tiny?[/quote]
He probably really trusts her, and to come up looking the way she does she is probably really confident also.[/quote]
Nice compliment Toya..lmao[/quote]
:lol:
Wed, October 29, 2008 10:51 AM
[quote comment="258662"][quote comment="258659"][quote comment="258633"]Imma haf to hurt Tiny. lol
Raven needs a water pill. lmao[/quote]
And The Master Cleanse[/quote]
*and that 21 day detox at martha vineyard[/quote]
I read about that detox, I wanna try it myself….
Wed, October 29, 2008 10:52 AM
[quote comment="258655"]don’t settle for less ladies WAIT for the ring and if trying to put one on your finger KEEP IT MOVING![/quote]
Co-Sign!! I rather have a HUSBAND over a BABY DADDY any day. And yes I do understand things happen, but if it doesn’t have to, then it shouldn’t and won’t. I love chillren, but I rather have a standard family, but thats just me…
Wed, October 29, 2008 10:53 AM
[quote comment="258664"]Oh the joy’s of being a “Baby Mama” and using your kids as collateral…SYKE!!!! What about real women who have no kids and have to work for their money? Can I get some luv YBF?????? I think I’m one of the last few that actually wants to be committed and married before poppin out somebody’s kid. Can ladies like us get some kinda dedication?!? Award?!? Tribute????[/quote]
OOOOOOHHHHH NNNNOOOOOO UUUUUUU AAAAAIIINNNTTTTT lol
co-sign!!!
Wed, October 29, 2008 10:53 AM
[quote comment="258659"][quote comment="258633"]Imma haf to hurt Tiny. lol
Raven needs a water pill. lmao[/quote]
And The Master Cleanse[/quote]
ROFL HAAAHAAAA
Wed, October 29, 2008 10:53 AM
[quote comment="258664"]Oh the joy’s of being a “Baby Mama” and using your kids as collateral…SYKE!!!! What about real women who have no kids and have to work for their money? Can I get some luv YBF?????? I think I’m one of the last few that actually wants to be committed and married before poppin out somebody’s kid. Can ladies like us get some kinda dedication?!? Award?!? Tribute????[/quote]
Wait. I am a “baby mama”. I hope you werent saying that I don’t work for my money. If you were just referring to the women in the post then my apologies.
Wed, October 29, 2008 10:53 AM
[quote comment="258648"][quote comment="258644"]Uhhh thank god I postponed my trip to ATL until further notice, if this is the only thing that gets noticed down there, I think i’ll cancel. ESP. after watching Real Housewives last night..smdh, bunch of money grubbing dirty broads looking for the next dude to make a come up. Whatever happened to making a damn living yourself? If this is what I have to look forward being down there, it aint happenin. BTW, why is the first thing these chicks buy when they get money is Gucci or Louis Vuitton? That ish is straight up low-budget, I mean there are many other designers that are just as good if not better than these two. I mean paying 2,000 for a bag doesn’t make you fly if your hair, outfit, or living is straight shot..Just doesn’t make sense to me, Someone please clarify. Thanks[/quote]
co-post. I asked that last week about the ATL.[/quote]
Please don’t ask them to change, I enjoy the lost souls.
Wed, October 29, 2008 10:54 AM
[quote comment="258661"]i think Bravo will has a new show in the making, the REAL Baby Mama’s of Atlanta.
it’s curious that you don’t see Luda’s baby mama splattered all over the damn internet. hell, you barely see their daughter either.
getting curiouser and curiouser *thinking*[/quote]
LMAO. I think Luda’s baby mama is a lawyer thats why..she has an actual career and life, unlike these professional semen drinkers.
Wed, October 29, 2008 10:55 AM
[quote comment="258664"]Oh the joy’s of being a “Baby Mama” and using your kids as collateral…SYKE!!!! What about real women who have no kids and have to work for their money? Can I get some luv YBF?????? I think I’m one of the last few that actually wants to be committed and married before poppin out somebody’s kid. Can ladies like us get some kinda dedication?!? Award?!? Tribute????[/quote]
*HUG* from one hard working sistah to another..
Wed, October 29, 2008 10:56 AM
[quote comment="258664"]Oh the joy’s of being a “Baby Mama” and using your kids as collateral…SYKE!!!! What about real women who have no kids and have to work for their money? Can I get some luv YBF?????? I think I’m one of the last few that actually wants to be committed and married before poppin out somebody’s kid. Can ladies like us get some kinda dedication?!? Award?!? Tribute????[/quote]
Me too!
Wed, October 29, 2008 10:56 AM
[quote comment="258631"][quote comment="258624"]why in the hell does Raven look like a hot a$$ mess with her THREE chins…… Raven take some time off and get a makeover and some lipo or get on that Kanye workout plan boo boo[/quote]
It’s not the weight, because my whole family look like the Weather Girls. But they dress really nice. It’s the way Raven dresses and the accesories.[/quote]
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I agree, you can be thick and still be fly…..(cause I am)….she just dont know how to put everything together….
I think Toya is cute girl….and she seems happy to be Lil Wayne’s baby mama…like she seems delighted…
And Tiny…you’s a lucky broad….I bet she wake up everyday feeling like she won the lottery….I know I would…But I’m sure life aint always as green on the other side….she gotta put up groupies and stalkers and jumpoffs…but hell I’ll just keep a pistol in my Louie and shoot any HOE I see, LOL!!
But yeah to be a fly on the wall in that room….
I bet the main topic of discussion is groupies and who’s got the bottom bitch position and how to put in a proper lace front….
Wed, October 29, 2008 10:57 AM
[quote comment="258666"][quote comment="258654"][quote comment="258645"]What does T.I. see in Tiny?[/quote]
He probably really trusts her, and to come up looking the way she does she is probably really confident also.[/quote]
Nice compliment Toya..lmao[/quote]
Ok, so he closes his eyes real hard when he’s with her and tries not to look at her when they’re in public.
Wed, October 29, 2008 10:57 AM
Did anyone see Real Housewives last night? Was I the only one dying laughing when they had to pull the plug on the auction? hahaha people just standing around looking at each other!!
Wed, October 29, 2008 10:58 AM
[quote comment="258679"][quote comment="258631"][quote comment="258624"]why in the hell does Raven look like a hot a$$ mess with her THREE chins…… Raven take some time off and get a makeover and some lipo or get on that Kanye workout plan boo boo[/quote]
It’s not the weight, because my whole family look like the Weather Girls. But they dress really nice. It’s the way Raven dresses and the accesories.[/quote]
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I agree, you can be thick and still be fly…..(cause I am)….she just dont know how to put everything together….
I think Toya is cute girl….and she seems happy to be Lil Wayne’s baby mama…like she seems delighted…
And Tiny…you’s a lucky broad….I bet she wake up everyday feeling like she won the lottery….I know I would…But I’m sure life aint always as green on the other side….she gotta put up groupies and stalkers and jumpoffs…but hell I’ll just keep a pistol in my Louie and shoot any HOE I see, LOL!!
But yeah to be a fly on the wall in that room….
I bet the main topic of discussion is groupies and who’s got the bottom bitch position and how to put in a proper lace front….[/quote]
Lol @ Wayne’s baby mama looking delighted!!
Wed, October 29, 2008 10:58 AM
[quote comment="258676"][quote comment="258661"]i think Bravo will has a new show in the making, the REAL Baby Mama’s of Atlanta.
it’s curious that you don’t see Luda’s baby mama splattered all over the damn internet. hell, you barely see their daughter either.
getting curiouser and curiouser *thinking*[/quote]
LMAO. I think Luda’s baby mama is a lawyer thats why..she has an actual career and life, unlike these professional semen drinkers.[/quote]
ahhh, i do understand that relationships fall apart married or not and if there are kids involved they need to be taken care of. . however, if you’re able bodied you can work and support yourself and your children whether the father’s famour or infamous or just Joe the Plumber. . .get out the louis store and get a dayum job!
whoever said that gucchi and louis are played out is right. . they don’t our money or your baby daddy’s money but they’ll take it because they know we’re pressed to have those two G’s or LV on our arm. be more creative and get find another designer
Wed, October 29, 2008 10:59 AM
[quote comment="258680"][quote comment="258666"][quote comment="258654"][quote comment="258645"]What does T.I. see in Tiny?[/quote]
He probably really trusts her, and to come up looking the way she does she is probably really confident also.[/quote]
Nice compliment Toya..lmao[/quote]
Ok, so he closes his eyes real hard when he’s with her and tries not to look at her when they’re in public.[/quote]
He probably loooves the way she looks. He’s from the hood. They love females who look like that! lol
Wed, October 29, 2008 10:59 AM
[quote comment="258674"][quote comment="258664"]Oh the joy’s of being a “Baby Mama” and using your kids as collateral…SYKE!!!! What about real women who have no kids and have to work for their money? Can I get some luv YBF?????? I think I’m one of the last few that actually wants to be committed and married before poppin out somebody’s kid. Can ladies like us get some kinda dedication?!? Award?!? Tribute????[/quote]
Wait. I am a “baby mama”. I hope you werent saying that I don’t work for my money. If you were just referring to the women in the post then my apologies.[/quote]
I hope she is referring to the women in this post –
I’m a single mother too “baby mama” I guess – but I am a real woman who works for her money…
But can’t say I’m not wishing right now that MY baby father was a platinum selling rapper cause maybe he could kick a sista some HELP!!!
Been working HARD for 11 years to raise my lil mama…
So yeah – I’m going say she’s talking to these women on this post and women like them.
no harm no foul
Wed, October 29, 2008 11:00 AM
[quote comment="258674"][quote comment="258664"]Oh the joy’s of being a “Baby Mama” and using your kids as collateral…SYKE!!!! What about real women who have no kids and have to work for their money? Can I get some luv YBF?????? I think I’m one of the last few that actually wants to be committed and married before poppin out somebody’s kid. Can ladies like us get some kinda dedication?!? Award?!? Tribute????[/quote]
Wait. I am a “baby mama”. I hope you werent saying that I don’t work for my money. If you were just referring to the women in the post then my apologies.[/quote]
You probably work extemly hard for every dime you make and are a great mother! However, I’m also pretty sure you didn’t go after some celeb to have a baby buy just so things could potentially easier.
I’m not putting baby mother’s down at all (I’m a product of it) my mother was a single mother who raised me by herself NO help from my father!!!!
I just see how life could have been if I wasn’t raised like that is all I’m saying. NO Disrespect to harding working single mothers.
But question, wouldn’t you have liked to be married and know your child has both parents at home at night?
Wed, October 29, 2008 11:01 AM
I’m sorry but thats the best tiny ever looked pokin out behind that girl… and ummmm why does raven’s face look like its melting not cute…
MORNIN LADIEs!
Wed, October 29, 2008 11:01 AM
[quote comment="258683"][quote comment="258676"][quote comment="258661"]i think Bravo will has a new show in the making, the REAL Baby Mama’s of Atlanta.
it’s curious that you don’t see Luda’s baby mama splattered all over the damn internet. hell, you barely see their daughter either.
getting curiouser and curiouser *thinking*[/quote]
LMAO. I think Luda’s baby mama is a lawyer thats why..she has an actual career and life, unlike these professional semen drinkers.[/quote]
ahhh, i do understand that relationships fall apart married or not and if there are kids involved they need to be taken care of. . however, if you’re able bodied you can work and support yourself and your children whether the father’s famour or infamous or just Joe the Plumber. . .get out the louis store and get a dayum job!
whoever said that gucchi and louis are played out is right. . they don’t our money or your baby daddy’s money but they’ll take it because they know we’re pressed to have those two G’s or LV on our arm. be more creative and get find another designer[/quote]
I sooo concur. I am sooooo over Gucci & LV….damn people check out other designers Mulberry, Stella Mccarteney, Zagliani, etc.
Wed, October 29, 2008 11:02 AM
I am so sorry people you have to forgive me all the baby mamas (Professional baby mama’s)look like hood rat chicks from the block i hope my daughter don’t grow up to become a professional baby mama using the men in hollywood to get pregnant just so they can live a certain lifestyle I hope she grows up and accomplish on her own lil’waynes baby mama looks like she started out young. I hope she goes to school now that she is no longer with lil’wayne and make something of her life. She is very pretty!!
Wed, October 29, 2008 11:04 AM
[quote comment="258688"][quote comment="258683"][quote comment="258676"][quote comment="258661"]i think Bravo will has a new show in the making, the REAL Baby Mama’s of Atlanta.
it’s curious that you don’t see Luda’s baby mama splattered all over the damn internet. hell, you barely see their daughter either.
getting curiouser and curiouser *thinking*[/quote]
LMAO. I think Luda’s baby mama is a lawyer thats why..she has an actual career and life, unlike these professional semen drinkers.[/quote]
ahhh, i do understand that relationships fall apart married or not and if there are kids involved they need to be taken care of. . however, if you’re able bodied you can work and support yourself and your children whether the father’s famour or infamous or just Joe the Plumber. . .get out the louis store and get a dayum job!
whoever said that gucchi and louis are played out is right. . they don’t our money or your baby daddy’s money but they’ll take it because they know we’re pressed to have those two G’s or LV on our arm. be more creative and get find another designer[/quote]
I sooo concur. I am sooooo over Gucci & LV….damn people check out other designers Mulberry, Stella Mccarteney, Zagliani, etc.[/quote]
I also like Rebecca Minkoff and Kooba!! *whispers…but I still loove them double Gs-lol*
Wed, October 29, 2008 11:04 AM
[quote comment="258618"]Raven needs a stylist and if by chance she already has one, she should shoot her.[/quote]
LMFAO
Wed, October 29, 2008 11:04 AM
Wow so now being some rapper’s babymama guarantees you instant celebrity? This world is really getting pathetic.
On another note will someone please tell Raven to get her fat ass into the gym? She looks like a fifty year old grandmother for god’s sake. A few more hostess cupcakes and she’s going to be Nell Carter’s twin.
Wed, October 29, 2008 11:06 AM
[quote comment="258687"]I’m sorry but thats the best tiny ever looked pokin out behind that girl… and ummmm why does raven’s face look like its melting not cute…
MORNIN LADIEs![/quote]
Morning! A little harsh on Raven…but I agree, she does not look like she is earing her weight comfortably at all!
Wed, October 29, 2008 11:06 AM
[quote comment="258686"][quote comment="258674"][quote comment="258664"]Oh the joy’s of being a “Baby Mama” and using your kids as collateral…SYKE!!!! What about real women who have no kids and have to work for their money? Can I get some luv YBF?????? I think I’m one of the last few that actually wants to be committed and married before poppin out somebody’s kid. Can ladies like us get some kinda dedication?!? Award?!? Tribute????[/quote]
Wait. I am a “baby mama”. I hope you werent saying that I don’t work for my money. If you were just referring to the women in the post then my apologies.[/quote]
You probably work extemly hard for every dime you make and are a great mother! However, I’m also pretty sure you didn’t go after some celeb to have a baby buy just so things could potentially easier.
I’m not putting baby mother’s down at all (I’m a product of it) my mother was a single mother who raised me by herself NO help from my father!!!!
I just see how life could have been if I wasn’t raised like that is all I’m saying. NO Disrespect to harding working single mothers.
But question, wouldn’t you have liked to be married and know your child has both parents at home at night?[/quote]
Hey girl wussup? I concur w/ your statement. I am the product of a single parent and a daddy w/ chirrun errwhere. It’s too easy for men to walk away from the mother of their child and the responsibilty. I know that I want that cycle to stop with me. Sh*t does happen but I’m not even thinking about procreating w/o a commitment, I’m not even saying marriage so much (I do want to be married), but I want the father of my possible future children to be a responsible man that not only loves me but adores his child(ren).
Wed, October 29, 2008 11:06 AM
[quote comment="258686"][quote comment="258674"][quote comment="258664"]Oh the joy’s of being a “Baby Mama” and using your kids as collateral…SYKE!!!! What about real women who have no kids and have to work for their money? Can I get some luv YBF?????? I think I’m one of the last few that actually wants to be committed and married before poppin out somebody’s kid. Can ladies like us get some kinda dedication?!? Award?!? Tribute????[/quote]
Wait. I am a “baby mama”. I hope you werent saying that I don’t work for my money. If you were just referring to the women in the post then my apologies.[/quote]
You probably work extemly hard for every dime you make and are a great mother! However, I’m also pretty sure you didn’t go after some celeb to have a baby buy just so things could potentially easier.
I’m not putting baby mother’s down at all (I’m a product of it) my mother was a single mother who raised me by herself NO help from my father!!!!
I just see how life could have been if I wasn’t raised like that is all I’m saying. NO Disrespect to harding working single mothers.
But question, wouldn’t you have liked to be married and know your child has both parents at home at night?[/quote]
I HAD my father and mother at home with me every night. Don’t get me wrong my dad was a WONDERFUL father but a horrible husband that sometimes I wished my parents wouuld just get a divorce. The arguments I had to listen to because they stayed together BECAUSE of us children it showed. My children who are all boys have wonderful male figures in their lives INCLUDING their fathers. It might not be the ideal situation or “normal” situation but it works for all of us. And no unfortunately I wouldn’t change it because I feel deep in my heart I made the right decision for them. Sorry for being long-winded.
Wed, October 29, 2008 11:06 AM
[quote comment="258686"][quote comment="258674"][quote comment="258664"]Oh the joy’s of being a “Baby Mama” and using your kids as collateral…SYKE!!!! What about real women who have no kids and have to work for their money? Can I get some luv YBF?????? I think I’m one of the last few that actually wants to be committed and married before poppin out somebody’s kid. Can ladies like us get some kinda dedication?!? Award?!? Tribute????[/quote]
Wait. I am a “baby mama”. I hope you werent saying that I don’t work for my money. If you were just referring to the women in the post then my apologies.[/quote]
You probably work extemly hard for every dime you make and are a great mother! However, I’m also pretty sure you didn’t go after some celeb to have a baby buy just so things could potentially easier.
I’m not putting baby mother’s down at all (I’m a product of it) my mother was a single mother who raised me by herself NO help from my father!!!!
I just see how life could have been if I wasn’t raised like that is all I’m saying. NO Disrespect to harding working single mothers.
But question, wouldn’t you have liked to be married and know your child has both parents at home at night?[/quote]
well as a single mother (before I got married) we have to realize that just because two parents are at home that doesn’t mean the children will be well off. you can have a two parent home but only one parent is taking care of their responsibilites.
now a well balanced two parent home? yes, that would be better for the child but if the father or mother isn’t in the home and can still give the babies (all kids under 18 are babies to me) the love and attention and respect they need and deserve in every aspect, the out of the home parent can live on the moon as long as they are actively involved with their children.
anddddddddd we have to take into consideration that some of these celebrity baby mama’s could be divorced from their celebrity baby daddy. . some could be remarried or married (for the first time), some could have a career. . they are not always at the club shopping for the latest Gucchi handbag screaming “HE DON’T PAY ENOUGH CHILD SUPPORT!”
Wed, October 29, 2008 11:06 AM
[quote comment="258694"][quote comment="258687"]I’m sorry but thats the best tiny ever looked pokin out behind that girl… and ummmm why does raven’s face look like its melting not cute…
MORNIN LADIEs![/quote]
Morning! A little harsh on Raven…but I agree, she does not look like she is earing her weight comfortably at all![/quote]
*wearing*
Wed, October 29, 2008 11:07 AM
[quote comment="258681"]Did anyone see Real Housewives last night? Was I the only one dying laughing when they had to pull the plug on the auction? hahaha people just standing around looking at each other!![/quote]
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That was not funny…Cheap ass people..How you gonna come to a charity function and not spend any money. That is really tacky….I’m sure DeShawn was really hurt behind that…but you cant invite 500 people to your HOUSE like that…that should have been at a nice venue besides their house…But like Eric said he only came out of 20 stacks…that aint sh&t to him!!!
That bracelet Kim bought was off the chain….but I cant stand her….she uses NeNe for her ghettoness so that she can claim she’s a “down ass white girl” ane then she uses Sheree’ for her beauty…she wants to be around Sheree because that makes her look good. I almost died when she told Sheree that they look alike…I’m like Beyotch Please…. U wish….
and Lisa’s husband is fine as hell…..and I think I have changed my mind about her….she’s a hustler and they compliment each other well….she is the baddest one on the show…
Wed, October 29, 2008 11:07 AM
[quote comment="258678"][quote comment="258664"]Oh the joy’s of being a “Baby Mama” and using your kids as collateral…SYKE!!!! What about real women who have no kids and have to work for their money? Can I get some luv YBF?????? I think I’m one of the last few that actually wants to be committed and married before poppin out somebody’s kid. Can ladies like us get some kinda dedication?!? Award?!? Tribute????[/quote]
Me too![/quote]
****no you are not THE ONLY ONE!….we got a lot of hardworking sisters who are on her doing what we got to do for our kids( I.E. nieces, nephews,step-sons and daughters, neighborhood kids, blended families..some got help and some don’t but we always make ends meet :lol:
Wed, October 29, 2008 11:07 AM
These women are doing their thing. If our baby daddies PAPER like T.I or Weezy maybe we would be dressing up and trying to be on the scene too(Hoodstyle and all). *I do not have any baby daddies* I am just saying!
Wed, October 29, 2008 11:08 AM
[quote comment="258691"][quote comment="258688"][quote comment="258683"][quote comment="258676"][quote comment="258661"]i think Bravo will has a new show in the making, the REAL Baby Mama’s of Atlanta.
it’s curious that you don’t see Luda’s baby mama splattered all over the damn internet. hell, you barely see their daughter either.
getting curiouser and curiouser *thinking*[/quote]
LMAO. I think Luda’s baby mama is a lawyer thats why..she has an actual career and life, unlike these professional semen drinkers.[/quote]
ahhh, i do understand that relationships fall apart married or not and if there are kids involved they need to be taken care of. . however, if you’re able bodied you can work and support yourself and your children whether the father’s famour or infamous or just Joe the Plumber. . .get out the louis store and get a dayum job!
whoever said that gucchi and louis are played out is right. . they don’t our money or your baby daddy’s money but they’ll take it because they know we’re pressed to have those two G’s or LV on our arm. be more creative and get find another designer[/quote]
I sooo concur. I am sooooo over Gucci & LV….damn people check out other designers Mulberry, Stella Mccarteney, Zagliani, etc.[/quote]
I also like Rebecca Minkoff and Kooba!! *whispers…but I still loove them double Gs-lol*[/quote]
Oh girl my best friend has this Kooba bag that I keep telling her I’m gonna take from her….Gustto is nice too
Wed, October 29, 2008 11:08 AM
Ignoring the baby mamas posted up in the pic…TI stands out from all of them! Too bad, b/c they are ALL trying to get their sexy poses on. smh
Wed, October 29, 2008 11:08 AM
[quote comment="258691"][quote comment="258688"][quote comment="258683"][quote comment="258676"][quote comment="258661"]i think Bravo will has a new show in the making, the REAL Baby Mama’s of Atlanta.
it’s curious that you don’t see Luda’s baby mama splattered all over the damn internet. hell, you barely see their daughter either.
getting curiouser and curiouser *thinking*[/quote]
LMAO. I think Luda’s baby mama is a lawyer thats why..she has an actual career and life, unlike these professional semen drinkers.[/quote]
ahhh, i do understand that relationships fall apart married or not and if there are kids involved they need to be taken care of. . however, if you’re able bodied you can work and support yourself and your children whether the father’s famour or infamous or just Joe the Plumber. . .get out the louis store and get a dayum job!
whoever said that gucchi and louis are played out is right. . they don’t our money or your baby daddy’s money but they’ll take it because they know we’re pressed to have those two G’s or LV on our arm. be more creative and get find another designer[/quote]
I sooo concur. I am sooooo over Gucci & LV….damn people check out other designers Mulberry, Stella Mccarteney, Zagliani, etc.[/quote]
I also like Rebecca Minkoff and Kooba!! *whispers…but I still loove them double Gs-lol*[/quote]
I love Marc Jacobs, Foley+Corrina, Kooba, and Botikier among many others..I love my Leathers, no doubt I love me some Louie V, but I refuse to spend it on them until I have my situation situated..I aint having no LV bag and wondering where my next dollar is coming from, or having to push my hair appt back cuz I had to HAVE that bag..nah. I want the whole sha-bang..Better yet, I want it as a damn gift from the hubby, not buying it my damn self.
Wed, October 29, 2008 11:09 AM
I cant…ya’ll KNOW I love me some Tiny!
Wed, October 29, 2008 11:10 AM
[quote comment="258696"][quote comment="258686"][quote comment="258674"][quote comment="258664"]Oh the joy’s of being a “Baby Mama” and using your kids as collateral…SYKE!!!! What about real women who have no kids and have to work for their money? Can I get some luv YBF?????? I think I’m one of the last few that actually wants to be committed and married before poppin out somebody’s kid. Can ladies like us get some kinda dedication?!? Award?!? Tribute????[/quote]
Wait. I am a “baby mama”. I hope you werent saying that I don’t work for my money. If you were just referring to the women in the post then my apologies.[/quote]
You probably work extemly hard for every dime you make and are a great mother! However, I’m also pretty sure you didn’t go after some celeb to have a baby buy just so things could potentially easier.
I’m not putting baby mother’s down at all (I’m a product of it) my mother was a single mother who raised me by herself NO help from my father!!!!
I just see how life could have been if I wasn’t raised like that is all I’m saying. NO Disrespect to harding working single mothers.
But question, wouldn’t you have liked to be married and know your child has both parents at home at night?[/quote]
I HAD my father and mother at home with me every night. Don’t get me wrong my dad was a WONDERFUL father but a horrible husband that sometimes I wished my parents wouuld just get a divorce. The arguments I had to listen to because they stayed together BECAUSE of us children it showed. My children who are all boys have wonderful male figures in their lives INCLUDING their fathers. It might not be the ideal situation or “normal” situation but it works for all of us. And no unfortunately I wouldn’t change it because I feel deep in my heart I made the right decision for them. Sorry for being long-winded.[/quote]
Toya ain’t nothing wrong with that and it sounds like your sons are happy boys! :smile:
Wed, October 29, 2008 11:10 AM
[quote comment="258703"][quote comment="258691"][quote comment="258688"][quote comment="258683"][quote comment="258676"][quote comment="258661"]i think Bravo will has a new show in the making, the REAL Baby Mama’s of Atlanta.
it’s curious that you don’t see Luda’s baby mama splattered all over the damn internet. hell, you barely see their daughter either.
getting curiouser and curiouser *thinking*[/quote]
LMAO. I think Luda’s baby mama is a lawyer thats why..she has an actual career and life, unlike these professional semen drinkers.[/quote]
ahhh, i do understand that relationships fall apart married or not and if there are kids involved they need to be taken care of. . however, if you’re able bodied you can work and support yourself and your children whether the father’s famour or infamous or just Joe the Plumber. . .get out the louis store and get a dayum job!
whoever said that gucchi and louis are played out is right. . they don’t our money or your baby daddy’s money but they’ll take it because they know we’re pressed to have those two G’s or LV on our arm. be more creative and get find another designer[/quote]
I sooo concur. I am sooooo over Gucci & LV….damn people check out other designers Mulberry, Stella Mccarteney, Zagliani, etc.[/quote]
I also like Rebecca Minkoff and Kooba!! *whispers…but I still loove them double Gs-lol*[/quote]
Oh girl my best friend has this Kooba bag that I keep telling her I’m gonna take from her….Gustto is nice too[/quote]
Gussto – my current bags of choice this season.
Botkier too
Wed, October 29, 2008 11:10 AM
Why do the eternal baby mommas look rough? I mean, use that child support to do something with yourself!! Tiny being the worst one! Hot ghetto mess!
Wed, October 29, 2008 11:11 AM
some of u r such haters with a capital HHHHH. Mr. Harris obviously loves Tiny b/c no matter how many kids u may piss out for a man. if he don’t lu u…u out tha damn door! Ask any man that…no baby gon make no man stay wit u if he don’t want to. To TI n TIny: keep yo ish tight no matter what them haters say.
so, ladies, if he still humpin around after the 1st bambino, chances r he will be humpin around even more when u piss out the 2nd and 3rd one.
Wed, October 29, 2008 11:11 AM
Morning Peeps!
Ugh Raven disturbs me. :sad: I want to like her when she’s out and about but she just irritates me!
Wed, October 29, 2008 11:11 AM
[quote comment="258701"]These women are doing their thing. If our baby daddies PAPER like T.I or Weezy maybe we would be dressing up and trying to be on the scene too(Hoodstyle and all). *I do not have any baby daddies* I am just saying![/quote]
what pic are you looking at where those girls are dressed up??
Wed, October 29, 2008 11:12 AM
[quote comment="258697"][quote comment="258686"][quote comment="258674"][quote comment="258664"]Oh the joy’s of being a “Baby Mama” and using your kids as collateral…SYKE!!!! What about real women who have no kids and have to work for their money? Can I get some luv YBF?????? I think I’m one of the last few that actually wants to be committed and married before poppin out somebody’s kid. Can ladies like us get some kinda dedication?!? Award?!? Tribute????[/quote]
Wait. I am a “baby mama”. I hope you werent saying that I don’t work for my money. If you were just referring to the women in the post then my apologies.[/quote]
You probably work extemly hard for every dime you make and are a great mother! However, I’m also pretty sure you didn’t go after some celeb to have a baby buy just so things could potentially easier.
I’m not putting baby mother’s down at all (I’m a product of it) my mother was a single mother who raised me by herself NO help from my father!!!!
I just see how life could have been if I wasn’t raised like that is all I’m saying. NO Disrespect to harding working single mothers.
But question, wouldn’t you have liked to be married and know your child has both parents at home at night?[/quote]
well as a single mother (before I got married) we have to realize that just because two parents are at home that doesn’t mean the children will be well off. you can have a two parent home but only one parent is taking care of their responsibilites.
now a well balanced two parent home? yes, that would be better for the child but if the father or mother isn’t in the home and can still give the babies (all kids under 18 are babies to me) the love and attention and respect they need and deserve in every aspect, the out of the home parent can live on the moon as long as they are actively involved with their children.
anddddddddd we have to take into consideration that some of these celebrity baby mama’s could be divorced from their celebrity baby daddy. . some could be remarried or married (for the first time), some could have a career. . they are not always at the club shopping for the latest Gucchi handbag screaming “HE DON’T PAY ENOUGH CHILD SUPPORT!”[/quote]
I agree!
Wed, October 29, 2008 11:12 AM
[quote comment="258701"]These women are doing their thing. If our baby daddies PAPER like T.I or Weezy maybe we would be dressing up and trying to be on the scene too(Hoodstyle and all). *I do not have any baby daddies* I am just saying![/quote]
i’m sorry but i was raised to work for what you want and i’m not the “stay at home and spend his money type” because that gets boring to me. it’s only so much maury i can watch in a week.
my momma told me to always have your own money don’t ever be in a situation where a man can tell you what to do and not do because it’s “HIS MONEY”. if you have your own by hard work no one can tell you nothing.
Wed, October 29, 2008 11:12 AM
[quote comment="258711"]some of u r such haters with a capital HHHHH. Mr. Harris obviously loves Tiny b/c no matter how many kids u may piss out for a man. if he don’t lu u…u out tha damn door! Ask any man that…no baby gon make no man stay wit u if he don’t want to. To TI n TIny: keep yo ish tight no matter what them haters say.
so, ladies, if he still humpin around after the 1st bambino, chances r he will be humpin around even more when u piss out the 2nd and 3rd one.[/quote]
who pisses out kids? just saying
Wed, October 29, 2008 11:13 AM
[quote comment="258686"][quote comment="258674"][quote comment="258664"]Oh the joy’s of being a “Baby Mama” and using your kids as collateral…SYKE!!!! What about real women who have no kids and have to work for their money? Can I get some luv YBF?????? I think I’m one of the last few that actually wants to be committed and married before poppin out somebody’s kid. Can ladies like us get some kinda dedication?!? Award?!? Tribute????[/quote]
Wait. I am a “baby mama”. I hope you werent saying that I don’t work for my money. If you were just referring to the women in the post then my apologies.[/quote]
You probably work extemly hard for every dime you make and are a great mother! However, I’m also pretty sure you didn’t go after some celeb to have a baby buy just so things could potentially easier.
I’m not putting baby mother’s down at all (I’m a product of it) my mother was a single mother who raised me by herself NO help from my father!!!!
I just see how life could have been if I wasn’t raised like that is all I’m saying. NO Disrespect to harding working single mothers.
But question, wouldn’t you have liked to be married and know your child has both parents at home at night?[/quote]
I agree with your sentiments 100%. My parents were married, and I love my dad but he was at times very uninvolved and didn’t have his priorities straight. Heck, I asked him the other day if I have any unknown siblings and I suspect very strongly based on his response that I do. My eldest brother, now deceased, however, grew up without ever knowing his father and believe me, it caused him an unknown amount of pain-it was like that missing link that he really needed. I have no kids yet, but based on my experience growing up, I think that a loving, two-parent household is what is best for a child.
Wed, October 29, 2008 11:13 AM
[quote comment="258699"][quote comment="258681"]Did anyone see Real Housewives last night? Was I the only one dying laughing when they had to pull the plug on the auction? hahaha people just standing around looking at each other!![/quote]
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That was not funny…Cheap ass people..How you gonna come to a charity function and not spend any money. That is really tacky….I’m sure DeShawn was really hurt behind that…but you cant invite 500 people to your HOUSE like that…that should have been at a nice venue besides their house…But like Eric said he only came out of 20 stacks…that aint sh&t to him!!!
That bracelet Kim bought was off the chain….but I cant stand her….she uses NeNe for her ghettoness so that she can claim she’s a “down ass white girl” ane then she uses Sheree’ for her beauty…she wants to be around Sheree because that makes her look good. I almost died when she told Sheree that they look alike…I’m like Beyotch Please…. U wish….
and Lisa’s husband is fine as hell…..and I think I have changed my mind about her….she’s a hustler and they compliment each other well….she is the baddest one on the show…[/quote]
****
i haven’t seen all of it yet but they should have just ask them to donate money nad had a nice sit down dinner. i believe they would have gave more if they wouldn’t have felt pressured to buy something…just think about it 500 people each of them donate 4,000 that’s two million right there!
Wed, October 29, 2008 11:13 AM
[quote comment="258705"][quote comment="258691"][quote comment="258688"][quote comment="258683"][quote comment="258676"][quote comment="258661"]i think Bravo will has a new show in the making, the REAL Baby Mama’s of Atlanta.
it’s curious that you don’t see Luda’s baby mama splattered all over the damn internet. hell, you barely see their daughter either.
getting curiouser and curiouser *thinking*[/quote]
LMAO. I think Luda’s baby mama is a lawyer thats why..she has an actual career and life, unlike these professional semen drinkers.[/quote]
ahhh, i do understand that relationships fall apart married or not and if there are kids involved they need to be taken care of. . however, if you’re able bodied you can work and support yourself and your children whether the father’s famour or infamous or just Joe the Plumber. . .get out the louis store and get a dayum job!
whoever said that gucchi and louis are played out is right. . they don’t our money or your baby daddy’s money but they’ll take it because they know we’re pressed to have those two G’s or LV on our arm. be more creative and get find another designer[/quote]
I sooo concur. I am sooooo over Gucci & LV….damn people check out other designers Mulberry, Stella Mccarteney, Zagliani, etc.[/quote]
I also like Rebecca Minkoff and Kooba!! *whispers…but I still loove them double Gs-lol*[/quote]
I love Marc Jacobs, Foley+Corrina, Kooba, and Botikier among many others..I love my Leathers, no doubt I love me some Louie V, but I refuse to spend it on them until I have my situation situated..I aint having no LV bag and wondering where my next dollar is coming from, or having to push my hair appt back cuz I had to HAVE that bag..nah. I want the whole sha-bang..Better yet, I want it as a damn gift from the hubby, not buying it my damn self.[/quote]
Uh uh mama some of them designer bags you mentioned cost just as much. And some of them damn LV bags, particularly that damn “Speedy” isn’t that much. They start at $675+ I think. I don’t know. I have the pochette and the batignolles and I decided that was enough for me. Those two don’t cost that much. My other bags cost more. I just think LV is wack now.
Wed, October 29, 2008 11:16 AM
[quote comment="258686"][quote comment="258674"][quote comment="258664"]Oh the joy’s of being a “Baby Mama” and using your kids as collateral…SYKE!!!! What about real women who have no kids and have to work for their money? Can I get some luv YBF?????? I think I’m one of the last few that actually wants to be committed and married before poppin out somebody’s kid. Can ladies like us get some kinda dedication?!? Award?!? Tribute????[/quote]
Wait. I am a “baby mama”. I hope you werent saying that I don’t work for my money. If you were just referring to the women in the post then my apologies.[/quote]
You probably work extemly hard for every dime you make and are a great mother! However, I’m also pretty sure you didn’t go after some celeb to have a baby buy just so things could potentially easier.
I’m not putting baby mother’s down at all (I’m a product of it) my mother was a single mother who raised me by herself NO help from my father!!!!
I just see how life could have been if I wasn’t raised like that is all I’m saying. NO Disrespect to harding working single mothers.
But question, wouldn’t you have liked to be married and know your child has both parents at home at night?[/quote]
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I’m a single mother of two …. my children have a relationship with their father …. just because he and I couldn’t make it work doesn’t mean he’s not in their lives.
And as for marriage — I don’t want it. And if u think about the divorce rate you’ll see that getting married because of kids is not right either.
Oh and one other thing — two parents in the home doesn’t make anything greater. It takes more dedication but I’m happy to say I’m giving it to my children just as well as their father.
Wed, October 29, 2008 11:17 AM
[quote comment="258696"][quote comment="258686"][quote comment="258674"][quote comment="258664"]Oh the joy’s of being a “Baby Mama” and using your kids as collateral…SYKE!!!! What about real women who have no kids and have to work for their money? Can I get some luv YBF?????? I think I’m one of the last few that actually wants to be committed and married before poppin out somebody’s kid. Can ladies like us get some kinda dedication?!? Award?!? Tribute????[/quote]
Wait. I am a “baby mama”. I hope you werent saying that I don’t work for my money. If you were just referring to the women in the post then my apologies.[/quote]
You probably work extemly hard for every dime you make and are a great mother! However, I’m also pretty sure you didn’t go after some celeb to have a baby buy just so things could potentially easier.
I’m not putting baby mother’s down at all (I’m a product of it) my mother was a single mother who raised me by herself NO help from my father!!!!
I just see how life could have been if I wasn’t raised like that is all I’m saying. NO Disrespect to harding working single mothers.
But question, wouldn’t you have liked to be married and know your child has both parents at home at night?[/quote]
I HAD my father and mother at home with me every night. Don’t get me wrong my dad was a WONDERFUL father but a horrible husband that sometimes I wished my parents wouuld just get a divorce. The arguments I had to listen to because they stayed together BECAUSE of us children it showed. My children who are all boys have wonderful male figures in their lives INCLUDING their fathers. It might not be the ideal situation or “normal” situation but it works for all of us. And no unfortunately I wouldn’t change it because I feel deep in my heart I made the right decision for them. Sorry for being long-winded.[/quote]
I hear you girl…I believe in marriage and I want to get married before I have any kids but my dad was also not the best husband to my mom so I can understand what you are saying.
Wed, October 29, 2008 11:17 AM
[quote comment="258716"][quote comment="258697"][quote comment="258686"][quote comment="258674"][quote comment="258664"]Oh the joy’s of being a “Baby Mama” and using your kids as collateral…SYKE!!!! What about real women who have no kids and have to work for their money? Can I get some luv YBF?????? I think I’m one of the last few that actually wants to be committed and married before poppin out somebody’s kid. Can ladies like us get some kinda dedication?!? Award?!? Tribute????[/quote]
Wait. I am a “baby mama”. I hope you werent saying that I don’t work for my money. If you were just referring to the women in the post then my apologies.[/quote]
You probably work extemly hard for every dime you make and are a great mother! However, I’m also pretty sure you didn’t go after some celeb to have a baby buy just so things could potentially easier.
I’m not putting baby mother’s down at all (I’m a product of it) my mother was a single mother who raised me by herself NO help from my father!!!!
I just see how life could have been if I wasn’t raised like that is all I’m saying. NO Disrespect to harding working single mothers.
But question, wouldn’t you have liked to be married and know your child has both parents at home at night?[/quote]
well as a single mother (before I got married) we have to realize that just because two parents are at home that doesn’t mean the children will be well off. you can have a two parent home but only one parent is taking care of their responsibilites.
now a well balanced two parent home? yes, that would be better for the child but if the father or mother isn’t in the home and can still give the babies (all kids under 18 are babies to me) the love and attention and respect they need and deserve in every aspect, the out of the home parent can live on the moon as long as they are actively involved with their children.
anddddddddd we have to take into consideration that some of these celebrity baby mama’s could be divorced from their celebrity baby daddy. . some could be remarried or married (for the first time), some could have a career. . they are not always at the club shopping for the latest Gucchi handbag screaming “HE DON’T PAY ENOUGH CHILD SUPPORT!”[/quote]
I agree![/quote]
Me too!
Wed, October 29, 2008 11:17 AM
[quote comment="258686"][quote comment="258674"][quote comment="258664"]Oh the joy’s of being a “Baby Mama” and using your kids as collateral…SYKE!!!! What about real women who have no kids and have to work for their money? Can I get some luv YBF?????? I think I’m one of the last few that actually wants to be committed and married before poppin out somebody’s kid. Can ladies like us get some kinda dedication?!? Award?!? Tribute????[/quote]
Wait. I am a “baby mama”. I hope you werent saying that I don’t work for my money. If you were just referring to the women in the post then my apologies.[/quote]
You probably work extemly hard for every dime you make and are a great mother! However, I’m also pretty sure you didn’t go after some celeb to have a baby buy just so things could potentially easier.
I’m not putting baby mother’s down at all (I’m a product of it) my mother was a single mother who raised me by herself NO help from my father!!!!
I just see how life could have been if I wasn’t raised like that is all I’m saying. NO Disrespect to harding working single mothers.
But question, wouldn’t you have liked to be married and know your child has both parents at home at night?[/quote]
what if your marriage is a disaster and you and your husband don’t get along for shit – and you fight in front of the kids. is that better just because both parents were in the home at night?
Conventional households are not the norm anymore and there are sooo many different situations and circumstances out there today – who’s to really say what is really best for the child?
And also – with both my parents in my home I still managed to get pregnant young, fuck up in school and everything else – two parents don’t always perfect well adjusted children.
Two separated parents can be just as beneficial to the development of the child.
Wed, October 29, 2008 11:17 AM
[quote comment="258719"][quote comment="258686"][quote comment="258674"][quote comment="258664"]Oh the joy’s of being a “Baby Mama” and using your kids as collateral…SYKE!!!! What about real women who have no kids and have to work for their money? Can I get some luv YBF?????? I think I’m one of the last few that actually wants to be committed and married before poppin out somebody’s kid. Can ladies like us get some kinda dedication?!? Award?!? Tribute????[/quote]
Wait. I am a “baby mama”. I hope you werent saying that I don’t work for my money. If you were just referring to the women in the post then my apologies.[/quote]
You probably work extemly hard for every dime you make and are a great mother! However, I’m also pretty sure you didn’t go after some celeb to have a baby buy just so things could potentially easier.
I’m not putting baby mother’s down at all (I’m a product of it) my mother was a single mother who raised me by herself NO help from my father!!!!
I just see how life could have been if I wasn’t raised like that is all I’m saying. NO Disrespect to harding working single mothers.
But question, wouldn’t you have liked to be married and know your child has both parents at home at night?[/quote]
I agree with your sentiments 100%. My parents were married, and I love my dad but he was at times very uninvolved and didn’t have his priorities straight. Heck, I asked him the other day if I have any unknown siblings and I suspect very strongly based on his response that I do. My eldest brother, now deceased, however, grew up without ever knowing his father and believe me, it caused him an unknown amount of pain-it was like that missing link that he really needed. I have no kids yet, but based on my experience growing up, I think that a loving, two-parent household is what is best for a child.[/quote]
I sooo concur. I didn’t get to have a relationship (and know/meet) my dad until I was 18 YEARS OLD! I was soooo angry w/ him because we went through so much because he wasn’t around, but was living the high life. We cool now, but I always feel this emptiness that will never go away. I wish he would’ve of been there. Every child can’t help but want to know where they come from. Any man that walks away from their chold, planned or not, is a coward.
Wed, October 29, 2008 11:18 AM
Families are comprised of the members of that household that live, love, and work together for a unified goal of supporting one another. In any given arrangement, it is always the hope that the unity creates a positive & productive example and contribution to society. I have a great respect for every family combination imaginable. And that’s all I’m gonna say on it.
Wed, October 29, 2008 11:18 AM
For the record lets not forget that Tiny had a career and Xscape were very successful, and if TI tells Tiny to quit her singing career because she can have whatever she likes then whats worng with that. And most of you jealous girls would do the same thing and wha success do you have nothing but writing on a blog hating on people. Now WAYNE and Lyfe exes they are different but I guess you continue to hate on someone because she is with someone you will or could never have. KEEP DREAMING, HATING AND ACTING LIKE TWELVE YEAR OLDS.
Wed, October 29, 2008 11:18 AM
[quote comment="258703"][quote comment="258691"][quote comment="258688"][quote comment="258683"][quote comment="258676"][quote comment="258661"]i think Bravo will has a new show in the making, the REAL Baby Mama’s of Atlanta.
it’s curious that you don’t see Luda’s baby mama splattered all over the damn internet. hell, you barely see their daughter either.
getting curiouser and curiouser *thinking*[/quote]
LMAO. I think Luda’s baby mama is a lawyer thats why..she has an actual career and life, unlike these professional semen drinkers.[/quote]
ahhh, i do understand that relationships fall apart married or not and if there are kids involved they need to be taken care of. . however, if you’re able bodied you can work and support yourself and your children whether the father’s famour or infamous or just Joe the Plumber. . .get out the louis store and get a dayum job!
whoever said that gucchi and louis are played out is right. . they don’t our money or your baby daddy’s money but they’ll take it because they know we’re pressed to have those two G’s or LV on our arm. be more creative and get find another designer[/quote]
I sooo concur. I am sooooo over Gucci & LV….damn people check out other designers Mulberry, Stella Mccarteney, Zagliani, etc.[/quote]
I also like Rebecca Minkoff and Kooba!! *whispers…but I still loove them double Gs-lol*[/quote]
Oh girl my best friend has this Kooba bag that I keep telling her I’m gonna take from her….Gustto is nice too[/quote]
Verrry nice!
Wed, October 29, 2008 11:19 AM
[quote comment="258695"][quote comment="258686"][quote comment="258674"][quote comment="258664"]Oh the joy’s of being a “Baby Mama” and using your kids as collateral…SYKE!!!! What about real women who have no kids and have to work for their money? Can I get some luv YBF?????? I think I’m one of the last few that actually wants to be committed and married before poppin out somebody’s kid. Can ladies like us get some kinda dedication?!? Award?!? Tribute????[/quote]
Wait. I am a “baby mama”. I hope you werent saying that I don’t work for my money. If you were just referring to the women in the post then my apologies.[/quote]
You probably work extemly hard for every dime you make and are a great mother! However, I’m also pretty sure you didn’t go after some celeb to have a baby buy just so things could potentially easier.
I’m not putting baby mother’s down at all (I’m a product of it) my mother was a single mother who raised me by herself NO help from my father!!!!
I just see how life could have been if I wasn’t raised like that is all I’m saying. NO Disrespect to harding working single mothers.
But question, wouldn’t you have liked to be married and know your child has both parents at home at night?[/quote]
Hey girl wussup? I concur w/ your statement. I am the product of a single parent and a daddy w/ chirrun errwhere. It’s too easy for men to walk away from the mother of their child and the responsibilty. I know that I want that cycle to stop with me. Sh*t does happen but I’m not even thinking about procreating w/o a commitment, I’m not even saying marriage so much (I do want to be married), but I want the father of my possible future children to be a responsible man that not only loves me but adores his child(ren).[/quote]
good morning sunshine!!!
girl i rushed through that comment…i’m surprise you even understood it lol after i wrote it i was like is this english????
but yes because of the way i was brought up, i agree with you, i can’t live any other way either. i want to more than i baby mama and you can best believe that i protect myself ALL the time to keep me from ever having to deal with that possibility!
i definitely would have liked my father around a lot more often and will not subject my child to the same feelings i had growing up!!!!!
Wed, October 29, 2008 11:20 AM
[quote comment="258717"][quote comment="258701"]These women are doing their thing. If our baby daddies PAPER like T.I or Weezy maybe we would be dressing up and trying to be on the scene too(Hoodstyle and all). *I do not have any baby daddies* I am just saying![/quote]
i’m sorry but i was raised to work for what you want and i’m not the “stay at home and spend his money type” because that gets boring to me. it’s only so much maury i can watch in a week.
my momma told me to always have your own money don’t ever be in a situation where a man can tell you what to do and not do because it’s “HIS MONEY”. if you have your own by hard work no one can tell you nothing.[/quote]
Honestly if these men were my baby daddies, I would really use that money for my children and work for my own glitz and glamour..it may sound far fetched and all, but trust me, when a man gives you money to take of your children and you do very well, he will reward you with something extra (which is what these ladies MAY be getting) but one shouldn’t assume cuz he’s giving you 20 g’s he’s saying to get something nice for yourself, I would take 15 out of that and start a trust fund for college or something with it..stretch that bad boy out..This is why some of these celeb baby daddies vanish, because they end up sleeping with the wrong ones aka the women on the come up. They blow through the dough and want more to support their habit, all the while leaving them kids to learn nothing else but to value just money and money alone, but no education.
Wed, October 29, 2008 11:20 AM
[quote comment="258669"][quote comment="258662"][quote comment="258659"][quote comment="258633"]Imma haf to hurt Tiny. lol
Raven needs a water pill. lmao[/quote]
And The Master Cleanse[/quote]
*and that 21 day detox at martha vineyard[/quote]
I read about that detox, I wanna try it myself….[/quote]
in essence i want to got there and do the whole thing, spa, massage, acupuncture, reflexology, hot rocks, kneeding, body wraps, and then the detox
Wed, October 29, 2008 11:20 AM
[quote comment="258686"][quote comment="258674"][quote comment="258664"]Oh the joy’s of being a “Baby Mama” and using your kids as collateral…SYKE!!!! What about real women who have no kids and have to work for their money? Can I get some luv YBF?????? I think I’m one of the last few that actually wants to be committed and married before poppin out somebody’s kid. Can ladies like us get some kinda dedication?!? Award?!? Tribute????[/quote]
Wait. I am a “baby mama”. I hope you werent saying that I don’t work for my money. If you were just referring to the women in the post then my apologies.[/quote]
You probably work extemly hard for every dime you make and are a great mother! However, I’m also pretty sure you didn’t go after some celeb to have a baby buy just so things could potentially easier.
I’m not putting baby mother’s down at all (I’m a product of it) my mother was a single mother who raised me by herself NO help from my father!!!!
I just see how life could have been if I wasn’t raised like that is all I’m saying. NO Disrespect to harding working single mothers.
But question, wouldn’t you have liked to be married and know your child has both parents at home at night?[/quote]
I agree 110% but the reason why people don’t feel the way u do is because people are not the same today a husband is not a requirement it’s a temporay asset nowadays
Wed, October 29, 2008 11:20 AM
lol some bitter chicks up in here… must have been a while!
Wed, October 29, 2008 11:21 AM
[quote comment="258731"][quote comment="258686"][quote comment="258674"][quote comment="258664"]Oh the joy’s of being a “Baby Mama” and using your kids as collateral…SYKE!!!! What about real women who have no kids and have to work for their money? Can I get some luv YBF?????? I think I’m one of the last few that actually wants to be committed and married before poppin out somebody’s kid. Can ladies like us get some kinda dedication?!? Award?!? Tribute????[/quote]
Wait. I am a “baby mama”. I hope you werent saying that I don’t work for my money. If you were just referring to the women in the post then my apologies.[/quote]
You probably work extemly hard for every dime you make and are a great mother! However, I’m also pretty sure you didn’t go after some celeb to have a baby buy just so things could potentially easier.
I’m not putting baby mother’s down at all (I’m a product of it) my mother was a single mother who raised me by herself NO help from my father!!!!
I just see how life could have been if I wasn’t raised like that is all I’m saying. NO Disrespect to harding working single mothers.
But question, wouldn’t you have liked to be married and know your child has both parents at home at night?[/quote]
what if your marriage is a disaster and you and your husband don’t get along for shit – and you fight in front of the kids. is that better just because both parents were in the home at night?
Conventional households are not the norm anymore and there are sooo many different situations and circumstances out there today – who’s to really say what is really best for the child?
And also – with both my parents in my home I still managed to get pregnant young, fuck up in school and everything else – two parents don’t always perfect well adjusted children.
Two separated parents can be just as beneficial to the development of the child.[/quote]
Well I know I will NOT give up on mariage. Yes things happen and I don’t want to be in a unhappy relationship for the sake of kids because kids aren’t blind/dumb. But we shouldn’t give up just because the divorce rate is high and all that crap. There is nothing wrong w/ marriage. It’s the persons that go into it for the wrong reasons w/o a realistic view and having some type of thorough knowledge about their partner that give marriage a bad name.
Wed, October 29, 2008 11:21 AM
[quote comment="258648"][quote comment="258644"]Uhhh thank god I postponed my trip to ATL until further notice, if this is the only thing that gets noticed down there, I think i’ll cancel. ESP. after watching Real Housewives last night..smdh, bunch of money grubbing dirty broads looking for the next dude to make a come up. Whatever happened to making a damn living yourself? If this is what I have to look forward being down there, it aint happenin. BTW, why is the first thing these chicks buy when they get money is Gucci or Louis Vuitton? That ish is straight up low-budget, I mean there are many other designers that are just as good if not better than these two. I mean paying 2,000 for a bag doesn’t make you fly if your hair, outfit, or living is straight shot..Just doesn’t make sense to me, Someone please clarify. Thanks[/quote]
co-post. I asked that last week about the ATL.[/quote]
Like I said..as some that lives in the ATL, alot of the ladies are real “HOLLYWOOD” (or HOLLYHOOD depending on who you’re talkin about).
Alot of attitude, alot of hatin’ on other people for no reason, alot of pettiness and concerns of how much money you have and what you’re wearing!
That being said… they are still plenty of good people around in the ATL too!
Wed, October 29, 2008 11:22 AM
[quote comment="258736"]For the record lets not forget that Tiny had a career and Xscape were very successful, and if TI tells Tiny to quit her singing career because she can have whatever she likes then whats worng with that. And most of you jealous girls would do the same thing and wha success do you have nothing but writing on a blog hating on people. Now WAYNE and Lyfe exes they are different but I guess you continue to hate on someone because she is with someone you will or could never have. KEEP DREAMING, HATING AND ACTING LIKE TWELVE YEAR OLDS.[/quote]
slow your speech playboy! she could have Lil Wayne and Joy could keep Lyfe until he’s gone to November! not everyone wants to date a rapper, actor or baller and some have baby daddy’s are very well off that you don’t know about and their baby mama’s can work a mall like it’s nobody’s business!
however, i don’t subscribe to the notion of being kept by any man. . .rich or not and i’m damn sure not going to screw a gremlin just to get paid! my eggs and my child isn’t worth a Malandrino dress!
Wed, October 29, 2008 11:22 AM
[quote comment="258736"]For the record lets not forget that Tiny had a career and Xscape were very successful, and if TI tells Tiny to quit her singing career because she can have whatever she likes then whats worng with that. And most of you jealous girls would do the same thing and wha success do you have nothing but writing on a blog hating on people. Now WAYNE and Lyfe exes they are different but I guess you continue to hate on someone because she is with someone you will or could never have. KEEP DREAMING, HATING AND ACTING LIKE TWELVE YEAR OLDS.[/quote]
well said
Wed, October 29, 2008 11:22 AM
[quote comment="258718"][quote comment="258711"]some of u r such haters with a capital HHHHH. Mr. Harris obviously loves Tiny b/c no matter how many kids u may piss out for a man. if he don’t lu u…u out tha damn door! Ask any man that…no baby gon make no man stay wit u if he don’t want to. To TI n TIny: keep yo ish tight no matter what them haters say.
so, ladies, if he still humpin around after the 1st bambino, chances r he will be humpin around even more when u piss out the 2nd and 3rd one.[/quote]
who pisses out kids? just saying[/quote]
figure of speech…if u never heard it oh oh oh…
Wed, October 29, 2008 11:23 AM
Basically you just never know. My girlfriend is married & her husband don’t do ish in the house, don’t help their daughter with homework, can barely get my girlfriends daughter to school looking decent & on time, i’m sure he has no idea who her doctor is or is even located! He’s the type to pay the bills, he bought my girlfriend a car, they go out but he just isn’t very attentive like that. He grew up with not the best mother figure & he’s not very talkative but him being in the house isn’t very helpful either. She’s not a babymother but it’s like she is because she does 99% of everything for her daughter, so you just never know. You just have to make the best out of your situation.
Wed, October 29, 2008 11:23 AM
[quote comment="258697"][quote comment="258686"][quote comment="258674"][quote comment="258664"]Oh the joy’s of being a “Baby Mama” and using your kids as collateral…SYKE!!!! What about real women who have no kids and have to work for their money? Can I get some luv YBF?????? I think I’m one of the last few that actually wants to be committed and married before poppin out somebody’s kid. Can ladies like us get some kinda dedication?!? Award?!? Tribute????[/quote]
Wait. I am a “baby mama”. I hope you werent saying that I don’t work for my money. If you were just referring to the women in the post then my apologies.[/quote]
You probably work extemly hard for every dime you make and are a great mother! However, I’m also pretty sure you didn’t go after some celeb to have a baby buy just so things could potentially easier.
I’m not putting baby mother’s down at all (I’m a product of it) my mother was a single mother who raised me by herself NO help from my father!!!!
I just see how life could have been if I wasn’t raised like that is all I’m saying. NO Disrespect to harding working single mothers.
But question, wouldn’t you have liked to be married and know your child has both parents at home at night?[/quote]
well as a single mother (before I got married) we have to realize that just because two parents are at home that doesn’t mean the children will be well off. you can have a two parent home but only one parent is taking care of their responsibilites.
now a well balanced two parent home? yes, that would be better for the child but if the father or mother isn’t in the home and can still give the babies (all kids under 18 are babies to me) the love and attention and respect they need and deserve in every aspect, the out of the home parent can live on the moon as long as they are actively involved with their children.
anddddddddd we have to take into consideration that some of these celebrity baby mama’s could be divorced from their celebrity baby daddy. . some could be remarried or married (for the first time), some could have a career. . they are not always at the club shopping for the latest Gucchi handbag screaming “HE DON’T PAY ENOUGH CHILD SUPPORT!”[/quote]
If I was TI baby momma I would be saying the same thing. He makes to much money to be giving her that chump change to take care of his kids. And for those who say if she wants them to live the same lifestyle he does he needs to have them. BS. Just b/c he makes more money doesn’t make him a better parent. My son’s father made more than me and damn right I wanted my son to have the same things his other son had. I didn’t make as much b/c I didn’t want to get a job that would take me from his everyday life. I do soccer, basketball, boyscouts to name a few activities with him. I got a state job not making much but I am a active parent. I have a husband now so I don’t really need anything from him but before damn right I wanted child support and I wanted more when he made more.
Wed, October 29, 2008 11:24 AM
[quote comment="258720"][quote comment="258699"][quote comment="258681"]Did anyone see Real Housewives last night? Was I the only one dying laughing when they had to pull the plug on the auction? hahaha people just standing around looking at each other!![/quote]
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That was not funny…Cheap ass people..How you gonna come to a charity function and not spend any money. That is really tacky….I’m sure DeShawn was really hurt behind that…but you cant invite 500 people to your HOUSE like that…that should have been at a nice venue besides their house…But like Eric said he only came out of 20 stacks…that aint sh&t to him!!!
That bracelet Kim bought was off the chain….but I cant stand her….she uses NeNe for her ghettoness so that she can claim she’s a “down ass white girl” ane then she uses Sheree’ for her beauty…she wants to be around Sheree because that makes her look good. I almost died when she told Sheree that they look alike…I’m like Beyotch Please…. U wish….
and Lisa’s husband is fine as hell…..and I think I have changed my mind about her….she’s a hustler and they compliment each other well….she is the baddest one on the show…[/quote]
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i haven’t seen all of it yet but they should have just ask them to donate money nad had a nice sit down dinner. i believe they would have gave more if they wouldn’t have felt pressured to buy something…just think about it 500 people each of them donate 4,000 that’s two million right there![/quote]
She should have had a silent auction first, with the party to celebrate the event. This would have given people the opportunity to give in private, And she would have known how much $$ she was going to get in advance. Every fundraiser I go here to is done like that from, art, to sports memorabilia, trips, dinners, jewelry, etc. She needs people in her life.
Wed, October 29, 2008 11:24 AM
New Post!
Wed, October 29, 2008 11:25 AM
[quote comment="258722"][quote comment="258705"][quote comment="258691"][quote comment="258688"][quote comment="258683"][quote comment="258676"][quote comment="258661"]i think Bravo will has a new show in the making, the REAL Baby Mama’s of Atlanta.
it’s curious that you don’t see Luda’s baby mama splattered all over the damn internet. hell, you barely see their daughter either.
getting curiouser and curiouser *thinking*[/quote]
LMAO. I think Luda’s baby mama is a lawyer thats why..she has an actual career and life, unlike these professional semen drinkers.[/quote]
ahhh, i do understand that relationships fall apart married or not and if there are kids involved they need to be taken care of. . however, if you’re able bodied you can work and support yourself and your children whether the father’s famour or infamous or just Joe the Plumber. . .get out the louis store and get a dayum job!
whoever said that gucchi and louis are played out is right. . they don’t our money or your baby daddy’s money but they’ll take it because they know we’re pressed to have those two G’s or LV on our arm. be more creative and get find another designer[/quote]
I sooo concur. I am sooooo over Gucci & LV….damn people check out other designers Mulberry, Stella Mccarteney, Zagliani, etc.[/quote]
I also like Rebecca Minkoff and Kooba!! *whispers…but I still loove them double Gs-lol*[/quote]
I love Marc Jacobs, Foley+Corrina, Kooba, and Botikier among many others..I love my Leathers, no doubt I love me some Louie V, but I refuse to spend it on them until I have my situation situated..I aint having no LV bag and wondering where my next dollar is coming from, or having to push my hair appt back cuz I had to HAVE that bag..nah. I want the whole sha-bang..Better yet, I want it as a damn gift from the hubby, not buying it my damn self.[/quote]
Uh uh mama some of them designer bags you mentioned cost just as much. And some of them damn LV bags, particularly that damn “Speedy” isn’t that much. They start at $675+ I think. I don’t know. I have the pochette and the batignolles and I decided that was enough for me. Those two don’t cost that much. My other bags cost more. I just think LV is wack now.[/quote]
Oh yea I feel you and I know they cost just as much, but the whole “LV” craze is just lame now..everybody and they mama got one of them on the bus and what-not..I admire these bags..I don’t own em all..the bags I do own (foley+corrina, marc jacobs) Best believe I caught them bitches on sale..Trust me I know my sample sales and sales on them special sites okkayy??? :-)
Wed, October 29, 2008 11:25 AM
[quote comment="258732"][quote comment="258719"][quote comment="258686"][quote comment="258674"][quote comment="258664"]Oh the joy’s of being a “Baby Mama” and using your kids as collateral…SYKE!!!! What about real women who have no kids and have to work for their money? Can I get some luv YBF?????? I think I’m one of the last few that actually wants to be committed and married before poppin out somebody’s kid. Can ladies like us get some kinda dedication?!? Award?!? Tribute????[/quote]
Wait. I am a “baby mama”. I hope you werent saying that I don’t work for my money. If you were just referring to the women in the post then my apologies.[/quote]
You probably work extemly hard for every dime you make and are a great mother! However, I’m also pretty sure you didn’t go after some celeb to have a baby buy just so things could potentially easier.
I’m not putting baby mother’s down at all (I’m a product of it) my mother was a single mother who raised me by herself NO help from my father!!!!
I just see how life could have been if I wasn’t raised like that is all I’m saying. NO Disrespect to harding working single mothers.
But question, wouldn’t you have liked to be married and know your child has both parents at home at night?[/quote]
I agree with your sentiments 100%. My parents were married, and I love my dad but he was at times very uninvolved and didn’t have his priorities straight. Heck, I asked him the other day if I have any unknown siblings and I suspect very strongly based on his response that I do. My eldest brother, now deceased, however, grew up without ever knowing his father and believe me, it caused him an unknown amount of pain-it was like that missing link that he really needed. I have no kids yet, but based on my experience growing up, I think that a loving, two-parent household is what is best for a child.[/quote]
I sooo concur. I didn’t get to have a relationship (and know/meet) my dad until I was 18 YEARS OLD! I was soooo angry w/ him because we went through so much because he wasn’t around, but was living the high life. We cool now, but I always feel this emptiness that will never go away. I wish he would’ve of been there. Every child can’t help but want to know where they come from. Any man that walks away from their chold, planned or not, is a coward.[/quote]
Awww…I feel for you girl, but I’m glad you finally got to meet him! Too many men these days sooo have the wrong idea about what it means to be a man…f$ing around is easy and it don’t take a man to do that, but it does take a man to make and honor a committment-to a woman and to any children he brings into the world!
Wed, October 29, 2008 11:25 AM
[quote comment="258743"][quote comment="258717"][quote comment="258701"]These women are doing their thing. If our baby daddies PAPER like T.I or Weezy maybe we would be dressing up and trying to be on the scene too(Hoodstyle and all). *I do not have any baby daddies* I am just saying![/quote]
i’m sorry but i was raised to work for what you want and i’m not the “stay at home and spend his money type” because that gets boring to me. it’s only so much maury i can watch in a week.
my momma told me to always have your own money don’t ever be in a situation where a man can tell you what to do and not do because it’s “HIS MONEY”. if you have your own by hard work no one can tell you nothing.[/quote]
Honestly if these men were my baby daddies, I would really use that money for my children and work for my own glitz and glamour..it may sound far fetched and all, but trust me, when a man gives you money to take of your children and you do very well, he will reward you with something extra (which is what these ladies MAY be getting) but one shouldn’t assume cuz he’s giving you 20 g’s he’s saying to get something nice for yourself, I would take 15 out of that and start a trust fund for college or something with it..stretch that bad boy out..This is why some of these celeb baby daddies vanish, because they end up sleeping with the wrong ones aka the women on the come up. They blow through the dough and want more to support their habit, all the while leaving them kids to learn nothing else but to value just money and money alone, but no education.[/quote]
i can agree with that. i would want the best for my children but you have instill something in them. it’s cute to see lil wayne’s daugther cheerleading and Toya and Lil Wayne were babies when they had her and i don’t think he was nationally known at that time if he was known at all
Wed, October 29, 2008 11:25 AM
Wow, i didn’t mean for my post to cause such an uproar.When i was referring to the “Baby Mama’s”…I was referring to the women in the post or any other woman who DO use men with alot of money as targets for getting paid by having their babies. I KNOW all baby mamas are not like that, however, I am tired of society glorifying them and I feel like women like myself who try to stay on the right track are overlooked as lame and boring. I want to spend more money on my education than a dinky prada purse, I want to be married and committed before having children, and I know there are thousands of sistas like that out there but are being overshadowed by the idea of it being “cute” to have a baby out of wedlock and cash in on men with money. Damn..y’all i think I need to star a blog :)
Wed, October 29, 2008 11:26 AM
[quote comment="258696"][quote comment="258686"][quote comment="258674"][quote comment="258664"]Oh the joy’s of being a “Baby Mama” and using your kids as collateral…SYKE!!!! What about real women who have no kids and have to work for their money? Can I get some luv YBF?????? I think I’m one of the last few that actually wants to be committed and married before poppin out somebody’s kid. Can ladies like us get some kinda dedication?!? Award?!? Tribute????[/quote]
Wait. I am a “baby mama”. I hope you werent saying that I don’t work for my money. If you were just referring to the women in the post then my apologies.[/quote]
You probably work extemly hard for every dime you make and are a great mother! However, I’m also pretty sure you didn’t go after some celeb to have a baby buy just so things could potentially easier.
I’m not putting baby mother’s down at all (I’m a product of it) my mother was a single mother who raised me by herself NO help from my father!!!!
I just see how life could have been if I wasn’t raised like that is all I’m saying. NO Disrespect to harding working single mothers.
But question, wouldn’t you have liked to be married and know your child has both parents at home at night?[/quote]
I HAD my father and mother at home with me every night. Don’t get me wrong my dad was a WONDERFUL father but a horrible husband that sometimes I wished my parents wouuld just get a divorce. The arguments I had to listen to because they stayed together BECAUSE of us children it showed. My children who are all boys have wonderful male figures in their lives INCLUDING their fathers. It might not be the ideal situation or “normal” situation but it works for all of us. And no unfortunately I wouldn’t change it because I feel deep in my heart I made the right decision for them. Sorry for being long-winded.[/quote]
i concur both parent were in the home but my father was not a good husband, they argued so much…
Wed, October 29, 2008 11:26 AM
[quote comment="258750"][quote comment="258648"][quote comment="258644"]Uhhh thank god I postponed my trip to ATL until further notice, if this is the only thing that gets noticed down there, I think i’ll cancel. ESP. after watching Real Housewives last night..smdh, bunch of money grubbing dirty broads looking for the next dude to make a come up. Whatever happened to making a damn living yourself? If this is what I have to look forward being down there, it aint happenin. BTW, why is the first thing these chicks buy when they get money is Gucci or Louis Vuitton? That ish is straight up low-budget, I mean there are many other designers that are just as good if not better than these two. I mean paying 2,000 for a bag doesn’t make you fly if your hair, outfit, or living is straight shot..Just doesn’t make sense to me, Someone please clarify. Thanks[/quote]
co-post. I asked that last week about the ATL.[/quote]
Like I said..as some that lives in the ATL, alot of the ladies are real “HOLLYWOOD” (or HOLLYHOOD depending on who you’re talkin about).
Alot of attitude, alot of hatin’ on other people for no reason, alot of pettiness and concerns of how much money you have and what you’re wearing!
That being said… they are still plenty of good people around in the ATL too![/quote]
And you top my list Good People. Hold it down for em’
Now, tell me this…. why yall let them put them fools on TV? lol
Wed, October 29, 2008 11:29 AM
[quote comment="258701"]These women are doing their thing. If our baby daddies PAPER like T.I or Weezy maybe we would be dressing up and trying to be on the scene too(Hoodstyle and all). *I do not have any baby daddies* I am just saying![/quote]
*****if i have a baby daddy and he was giving me money like that i promise you on all the is LV and gucci i would NOT be doing it up hood style. i would be squirrling it up for a rainy day!
Wed, October 29, 2008 11:30 AM
[quote comment="258770"]Wow, i didn’t mean for my post to cause such an uproar.When i was referring to the “Baby Mama’s”…I was referring to the women in the post or any other woman who DO use men with alot of money as targets for getting paid by having their babies. I KNOW all baby mamas are not like that, however, I am tired of society glorifying them and I feel like women like myself who try to stay on the right track are overlooked as lame and boring. I want to spend more money on my education than a dinky prada purse, I want to be married and committed before having children, and I know there are thousands of sistas like that out there but are being overshadowed by the idea of it being “cute” to have a baby out of wedlock and cash in on men with money. Damn..y’all i think I need to star a blog :)[/quote]
Girl one question can start an entire different converstaion than the topic at hand up in here! :wink:
Wed, October 29, 2008 11:32 AM
~THE WINNING FORMULA~
**Have a baby with a money maker, open a boutique, dip your hand in modeling, singing, or acting, go to a few parties, date a couple of his friends and just when your almost broke…come out with a ‘tell all’ book, get pregnant again and start the cycle over!
Wed, October 29, 2008 11:34 AM
[quote comment="258790"]~THE WINNING FORMULA~
**Have a baby with a money maker, open a boutique, dip your hand in modeling, singing, or acting, go to a few parties, date a couple of his friends and just when your almost broke…come out with a ‘tell all’ book, get pregnant again and start the cycle over![/quote]
LMFAO. DEAD
Wed, October 29, 2008 11:36 AM
[quote comment="258790"]~THE WINNING FORMULA~
**Have a baby with a money maker, open a boutique, dip your hand in modeling, singing, or acting, go to a few parties, date a couple of his friends and just when your almost broke…come out with a ‘tell all’ book, get pregnant again and start the cycle over![/quote]
?????Alex is this you????
Wed, October 29, 2008 11:36 AM
[quote comment="258664"]Oh the joy’s of being a “Baby Mama” and using your kids as collateral…SYKE!!!! What about real women who have no kids and have to work for their money? Can I get some luv YBF?????? I think I’m one of the last few that actually wants to be committed and married before poppin out somebody’s kid. Can ladies like us get some kinda dedication?!? Award?!? Tribute????[/quote]
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
Agreed!!! All the single woman with NO kids, got there own home,own job, own car, & bank account. Aint waiting on NO man to HELP her stand the up and shout “INDEPENDENT BITCHES”. When did it become cool to be a baby-moma/celebrity this freaking ridiculous.
Wed, October 29, 2008 11:37 AM
[quote comment="258790"]~THE WINNING FORMULA~
**Have a baby with a money maker, open a boutique, dip your hand in modeling, singing, or acting, go to a few parties, date a couple of his friends and just when your almost broke…come out with a ‘tell all’ book, get pregnant again and start the cycle over![/quote]
DEAD
Wed, October 29, 2008 11:39 AM
I’m serious, who do I have to talk to at YBF to get a tribute to women like me who are hard working Indies with no kids. We could send in our pics and everything. Truly, despite what society thinks, we are truly young black and fabulous!
Wed, October 29, 2008 11:41 AM
[quote comment="258799"][quote comment="258790"]~THE WINNING FORMULA~
**Have a baby with a money maker, open a boutique, dip your hand in modeling, singing, or acting, go to a few parties, date a couple of his friends and just when your almost broke…come out with a ‘tell all’ book, get pregnant again and start the cycle over![/quote]
?????Alex is this you????[/quote]
No.
Wed, October 29, 2008 11:42 AM
I had to read all the post before I decided to post about this situation…..alot of women get pregnant by dudes they have no business getting pregnant by and then they EXPECT help….
You should know that nine times outta ten if you get pregnant by your jumpoff, he is not going to be there for your child.
If you get pregnant by a dude that’s got another woman or a WIFE nine times outta ten he aint gonna be there for his baby.
If the dude got a baby that he already dont take care of then he aint take care of your baby either.
I dont understand hpw we let our values go down..Its like we cool raising kids outta wedlock and having 2 and 3 different baby daddies….I dont understand….
What happened to getting an education FIRST, then getting married, then having babies…..
I dont understand having babies with different men….it’s crazy to me…
I’m not judging anybody I’m just saying…..
Wed, October 29, 2008 11:43 AM
[quote comment="258718"][quote comment="258711"]some of u r such haters with a capital HHHHH. Mr. Harris obviously loves Tiny b/c no matter how many kids u may piss out for a man. if he don’t lu u…u out tha damn door! Ask any man that…no baby gon make no man stay wit u if he don’t want to. To TI n TIny: keep yo ish tight no matter what them haters say.
so, ladies, if he still humpin around after the 1st bambino, chances r he will be humpin around even more when u piss out the 2nd and 3rd one.[/quote]
who pisses out kids? just saying[/quote]
yeah that is just gross
TI loves Tiny just like Diddy loves Kim…now you can all sit up in here and hate but they are living their comfortable lives while some of you are just spewing hate from behind the screen….next destination – your stinky bed
Wed, October 29, 2008 11:44 AM
[quote comment="258736"]For the record lets not forget that Tiny had a career and Xscape were very successful, and if TI tells Tiny to quit her singing career because she can have whatever she likes then whats worng with that. And most of you jealous girls would do the same thing and wha success do you have nothing but writing on a blog hating on people. Now WAYNE and Lyfe exes they are different but I guess you continue to hate on someone because she is with someone you will or could never have. KEEP DREAMING, HATING AND ACTING LIKE TWELVE YEAR OLDS.[/quote]
Go to school and learn how to spell wrong it’s W-R-O-N-G NOT W-O-R-N-G who hates on someone who is exposing themselves to many diseases by having multiple baby mamas and partners dreaming of what to get AIDS or herpes you are probably just like them of course every women wants a man to take care of them but never make that your primary goal to the point where you do not try to accomplish something for yourself on your own and if this is so immature why is your comment posted here??????????????????????????????????????????????
Wed, October 29, 2008 11:45 AM
Well first off i’m pretty sure that they don’t have a bunch of different baby daddies. Secondly what is a shame about a group of women hanging out together? So 3 of them have children with famous people. Not to mention Lil Wayne and girl were married. And that is also Lyfe Jennings wife not just baby mama.
Wed, October 29, 2008 11:46 AM
[quote comment="258811"]I’m serious, who do I have to talk to at YBF to get a tribute to women like me who are hard working Indies with no kids. We could send in our pics and everything. Truly, despite what society thinks, we are truly young black and fabulous![/quote]
I feel ya girl!
Wed, October 29, 2008 11:49 AM
[quote comment="258731"][quote comment="258686"][quote comment="258674"][quote comment="258664"]Oh the joy’s of being a “Baby Mama” and using your kids as collateral…SYKE!!!! What about real women who have no kids and have to work for their money? Can I get some luv YBF?????? I think I’m one of the last few that actually wants to be committed and married before poppin out somebody’s kid. Can ladies like us get some kinda dedication?!? Award?!? Tribute????[/quote]
Wait. I am a “baby mama”. I hope you werent saying that I don’t work for my money. If you were just referring to the women in the post then my apologies.[/quote]
You probably work extemly hard for every dime you make and are a great mother! However, I’m also pretty sure you didn’t go after some celeb to have a baby buy just so things could potentially easier.
I’m not putting baby mother’s down at all (I’m a product of it) my mother was a single mother who raised me by herself NO help from my father!!!!
I just see how life could have been if I wasn’t raised like that is all I’m saying. NO Disrespect to harding working single mothers.
But question, wouldn’t you have liked to be married and know your child has both parents at home at night?[/quote]
what if your marriage is a disaster and you and your husband don’t get along for shit – and you fight in front of the kids. is that better just because both parents were in the home at night?
Conventional households are not the norm anymore and there are sooo many different situations and circumstances out there today – who’s to really say what is really best for the child?
And also – with both my parents in my home I still managed to get pregnant young, fuck up in school and everything else – two parents don’t always perfect well adjusted children.
Two separated parents can be just as beneficial to the development of the child.[/quote]
I totally agree with this. Being married before you have kids is great and all but it does not mean once you have kids you will be together forever. You could wind up divorced. Than what, you still going to be a single parent.
Wed, October 29, 2008 11:50 AM
[quote comment="258717"][quote comment="258701"]These women are doing their thing. If our baby daddies PAPER like T.I or Weezy maybe we would be dressing up and trying to be on the scene too(Hoodstyle and all). *I do not have any baby daddies* I am just saying![/quote]
i’m sorry but i was raised to work for what you want and i’m not the “stay at home and spend his money type” because that gets boring to me. it’s only so much maury i can watch in a week.
my momma told me to always have your own money don’t ever be in a situation where a man can tell you what to do and not do because it’s “HIS MONEY”. if you have your own by hard work no one can tell you nothing.[/quote]
I think what you just said was like a scripture or something…Im just saying….co-f***in sign
Wed, October 29, 2008 11:50 AM
lil waynes baby mother is a bony average chic…but what di u expect look at wayne!!
Wed, October 29, 2008 11:51 AM
[quote comment="258820"][quote comment="258736"]For the record lets not forget that Tiny had a career and Xscape were very successful, and if TI tells Tiny to quit her singing career because she can have whatever she likes then whats worng with that. And most of you jealous girls would do the same thing and wha success do you have nothing but writing on a blog hating on people. Now WAYNE and Lyfe exes they are different but I guess you continue to hate on someone because she is with someone you will or could never have. KEEP DREAMING, HATING AND ACTING LIKE TWELVE YEAR OLDS.[/quote]
Go to school and learn how to spell wrong it’s W-R-O-N-G NOT W-O-R-N-G who hates on someone who is exposing themselves to many diseases by having multiple baby mamas and partners dreaming of what to get AIDS or herpes you are probably just like them of course every women wants a man to take care of them but never make that your primary goal to the point where you do not try to accomplish something for yourself on your own and if this is so immature why is your comment posted here??????????????????????????????????????????????[/quote]
Do you know anything about these womens lives to make such a nasty comment? And what is your problem anyway can’t she have an opinion without being attacked by you??? This is blog first of all its not that serious maybe you need to calm the hell down and her comment is posted for the same reason yours is.
Wed, October 29, 2008 11:52 AM
[quote comment="258817"]I had to read all the post before I decided to post about this situation…..alot of women get pregnant by dudes they have no business getting pregnant by and then they EXPECT help….
You should know that nine times outta ten if you get pregnant by your jumpoff, he is not going to be there for your child.
If you get pregnant by a dude that’s got another woman or a WIFE nine times outta ten he aint gonna be there for his baby.
If the dude got a baby that he already dont take care of then he aint take care of your baby either.
I dont understand hpw we let our values go down..Its like we cool raising kids outta wedlock and having 2 and 3 different baby daddies….I dont understand….
What happened to getting an education FIRST, then getting married, then having babies…..
I dont understand having babies with different men….it’s crazy to me…
I’m not judging anybody I’m just saying…..[/quote]
SPIT IT SISTER!!! tHANK YOU AND WHEN U TRY TO TEACH THEM TO create higher standards for themselves they say u r hating WHY????? Beacuse I am trying to teach you that u r better u can accomplish more. They have let their values go dooooown bad!!!
Wed, October 29, 2008 11:53 AM
[quote comment="258817"]I had to read all the post before I decided to post about this situation…..alot of women get pregnant by dudes they have no business getting pregnant by and then they EXPECT help….
You should know that nine times outta ten if you get pregnant by your jumpoff, he is not going to be there for your child.
If you get pregnant by a dude that’s got another woman or a WIFE nine times outta ten he aint gonna be there for his baby.
If the dude got a baby that he already dont take care of then he aint take care of your baby either.
I dont understand hpw we let our values go down..Its like we cool raising kids outta wedlock and having 2 and 3 different baby daddies….I dont understand….
What happened to getting an education FIRST, then getting married, then having babies…..
I dont understand having babies with different men….it’s crazy to me…
I’m not judging anybody I’m just saying…..[/quote]
You are SO right! Even though men should be more selective w/ the woman they sleep with, there are soooo many chicks who know damn well that man is their to bust a NUT and they lose sight of that because the penis is so good and want a baby. Not me. Women need to know the difference between a causal/careless f*ck and an actual loving relationship.
Wed, October 29, 2008 11:53 AM
[quote comment="258644"]Uhhh thank god I postponed my trip to ATL until further notice, if this is the only thing that gets noticed down there, I think i’ll cancel. ESP. after watching Real Housewives last night..smdh, bunch of money grubbing dirty broads looking for the next dude to make a come up. Whatever happened to making a damn living yourself? If this is what I have to look forward being down there, it aint happenin. BTW, why is the first thing these chicks buy when they get money is Gucci or Louis Vuitton? That ish is straight up low-budget, I mean there are many other designers that are just as good if not better than these two. I mean paying 2,000 for a bag doesn’t make you fly if your hair, outfit, or living is straight shot..Just doesn’t make sense to me, Someone please clarify. Thanks[/quote]
*church*
Wed, October 29, 2008 11:53 AM
[quote comment="258839"]lil waynes baby mother is a bony average chic…but what di u expect look at wayne!![/quote]
True, but man think about it…he had her since she was 14. She’s cute, but she dont look like no celeb bc shes not. She came way before the lights and the cameras.
Wed, October 29, 2008 11:54 AM
[quote comment="258836"][quote comment="258731"][quote comment="258686"][quote comment="258674"][quote comment="258664"]Oh the joy’s of being a “Baby Mama” and using your kids as collateral…SYKE!!!! What about real women who have no kids and have to work for their money? Can I get some luv YBF?????? I think I’m one of the last few that actually wants to be committed and married before poppin out somebody’s kid. Can ladies like us get some kinda dedication?!? Award?!? Tribute????[/quote]
Wait. I am a “baby mama”. I hope you werent saying that I don’t work for my money. If you were just referring to the women in the post then my apologies.[/quote]
You probably work extemly hard for every dime you make and are a great mother! However, I’m also pretty sure you didn’t go after some celeb to have a baby buy just so things could potentially easier.
I’m not putting baby mother’s down at all (I’m a product of it) my mother was a single mother who raised me by herself NO help from my father!!!!
I just see how life could have been if I wasn’t raised like that is all I’m saying. NO Disrespect to harding working single mothers.
But question, wouldn’t you have liked to be married and know your child has both parents at home at night?[/quote]
what if your marriage is a disaster and you and your husband don’t get along for shit – and you fight in front of the kids. is that better just because both parents were in the home at night?
Conventional households are not the norm anymore and there are sooo many different situations and circumstances out there today – who’s to really say what is really best for the child?
And also – with both my parents in my home I still managed to get pregnant young, fuck up in school and everything else – two parents don’t always perfect well adjusted children.
Two separated parents can be just as beneficial to the development of the child.[/quote]
I totally agree with this. Being married before you have kids is great and all but it does not mean once you have kids you will be together forever. You could wind up divorced. Than what, you still going to be a single parent.[/quote]
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Yeah, but let’s be honest most people these days aint even checking to get married….they are cool with shacking up with someone forever…which is not cool…why would you want to bring your child int he world with no real stability…why would you want to have a child by someone that doesnt even want to marry you….
Women need to have more value for themselves….
Wed, October 29, 2008 11:54 AM
[quote comment="258684"][quote comment="258680"][quote comment="258666"][quote comment="258654"][quote comment="258645"]What does T.I. see in Tiny?[/quote]
He probably really trusts her, and to come up looking the way she does she is probably really confident also.[/quote]
Nice compliment Toya..lmao[/quote]
Ok, so he closes his eyes real hard when he’s with her and tries not to look at her when they’re in public.[/quote]
He probably loooves the way she looks. He’s from the hood. They love females who look like that! lol[/quote]
T.I. is with Tiny becasue she held him down when he didn’t have shit. T.I. loves that girl and we should just be happy for them.
If he would have left her when he blew up we would be complaining about that.
Stop hating on her becasue she has what all of you want (T.I.)
Wed, October 29, 2008 11:54 AM
[quote comment="258664"]Oh the joy’s of being a “Baby Mama” and using your kids as collateral…SYKE!!!! What about real women who have no kids and have to work for their money? Can I get some luv YBF?????? I think I’m one of the last few that actually wants to be committed and married before poppin out somebody’s kid. Can ladies like us get some kinda dedication?!? Award?!? Tribute????[/quote]
Um… you really get no love here and not bec/ I’m a single mother (i’m not), but because your judgmentalness is beyond me. Yea, some chicks scheme and have a baby to keep a dude or his money, but there are a lot of women out there who find themselves in a situation and choose not to abort their child but to bring life in to this world. Is it the decision you or I would make? Maybe, maybe not. But it is theirs and I commend the women out there like my mother who work day in and day out make sure their kids are provide for whether or not daddy is or is not there.
Wed, October 29, 2008 11:55 AM
[quote comment="258825"][quote comment="258811"]I’m serious, who do I have to talk to at YBF to get a tribute to women like me who are hard working Indies with no kids. We could send in our pics and everything. Truly, despite what society thinks, we are truly young black and fabulous![/quote]
I feel ya girl![/quote]
Shoo, (unfortunately) i’m a “babymama” (i hate that word) too but i’m FABULOUS too. I was with my son’s father for 6 and a half years, i saw he wasn’t, for whatever reason, taking it to the next level, we broke up then BOOM! ended up pregnant (that break-up sex, just like drunken sex, will get you everytime, lol) AND i work damn hard for my money, as you all can see with me being on YBF all damn day, lol, so not all quote un-quote babymama’s are the same.
Wed, October 29, 2008 11:55 AM
[quote comment="258850"][quote comment="258839"]lil waynes baby mother is a bony average chic…but what di u expect look at wayne!![/quote]
True, but man think about it…he had her since she was 14. She’s cute, but she dont look like no celeb bc shes not. She came way before the lights and the cameras.[/quote]
You took the words off my fingers.
Wed, October 29, 2008 11:56 AM
[quote comment="258857"][quote comment="258825"][quote comment="258811"]I’m serious, who do I have to talk to at YBF to get a tribute to women like me who are hard working Indies with no kids. We could send in our pics and everything. Truly, despite what society thinks, we are truly young black and fabulous![/quote]
I feel ya girl![/quote]
Shoo, (unfortunately) i’m a “babymama” (i hate that word) too but i’m FABULOUS too. I was with my son’s father for 6 and a half years, i saw he wasn’t, for whatever reason, taking it to the next level, we broke up then BOOM! ended up pregnant (that break-up sex, just like drunken sex, will get you everytime, lol) AND i work damn hard for my money, as you all can see with me being on YBF all damn day, lol, so not all quote un-quote babymama’s are the same.[/quote]
AND YOU ARE FAAAAAAAAAAAAABULOUS Les!
Wed, October 29, 2008 11:57 AM
[quote comment="258747"]lol some bitter chicks up in here… must have been a while![/quote]
lol… huh brah?
Wed, October 29, 2008 11:57 AM
[quote comment="258857"][quote comment="258825"][quote comment="258811"]I’m serious, who do I have to talk to at YBF to get a tribute to women like me who are hard working Indies with no kids. We could send in our pics and everything. Truly, despite what society thinks, we are truly young black and fabulous![/quote]
I feel ya girl![/quote]
Shoo, (unfortunately) i’m a “babymama” (i hate that word) too but i’m FABULOUS too. I was with my son’s father for 6 and a half years, i saw he wasn’t, for whatever reason, taking it to the next level, we broke up then BOOM! ended up pregnant (that break-up sex, just like drunken sex, will get you everytime, lol) AND i work damn hard for my money, as you all can see with me being on YBF all damn day, lol, so not all quote un-quote babymama’s are the same.[/quote]
Agreed……….
Wed, October 29, 2008 12:00 PM
[quote comment="258811"]I’m serious, who do I have to talk to at YBF to get a tribute to women like me who are hard working Indies with no kids. We could send in our pics and everything. Truly, despite what society thinks, we are truly young black and fabulous![/quote]
* Just tell me when and where to sign-up*
*I’ve learned that your success is only important to you-and a few around you. To do ‘the right thing’ gets you a nod of “thats what your supposed to do”.
Wed, October 29, 2008 12:00 PM
[quote comment="258847"][quote comment="258817"]I had to read all the post before I decided to post about this situation…..alot of women get pregnant by dudes they have no business getting pregnant by and then they EXPECT help….
You should know that nine times outta ten if you get pregnant by your jumpoff, he is not going to be there for your child.
If you get pregnant by a dude that’s got another woman or a WIFE nine times outta ten he aint gonna be there for his baby.
If the dude got a baby that he already dont take care of then he aint take care of your baby either.
I dont understand hpw we let our values go down..Its like we cool raising kids outta wedlock and having 2 and 3 different baby daddies….I dont understand….
What happened to getting an education FIRST, then getting married, then having babies…..
I dont understand having babies with different men….it’s crazy to me…
I’m not judging anybody I’m just saying…..[/quote]
You are SO right! Even though men should be more selective w/ the woman they sleep with, there are soooo many chicks who know damn well that man is their to bust a NUT and they lose sight of that because the penis is so good and want a baby. Not me. Women need to know the difference between a causal/careless f*ck and an actual loving relationship.[/quote]
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It’s common sense….you dont have a baby with a ni%%a you only see at night….and you dont marry somebody that you feel you wouldnt want to have a baby by….
I will say that God has watched over me and its a miracle that I dont have no kids and never had an abortion (Thank Ya Jesus) BUT if I was in a situation like that I dont think I’d bring a child into this world who will never know their father…I think that’s selfish on the Mother….and then you have to struggle to take care of the child…
God meant for it to be a MOTHER and a FATHER….
Wed, October 29, 2008 12:02 PM
[quote comment="258851"][quote comment="258836"][quote comment="258731"][quote comment="258686"][quote comment="258674"][quote comment="258664"]Oh the joy’s of being a “Baby Mama” and using your kids as collateral…SYKE!!!! What about real women who have no kids and have to work for their money? Can I get some luv YBF?????? I think I’m one of the last few that actually wants to be committed and married before poppin out somebody’s kid. Can ladies like us get some kinda dedication?!? Award?!? Tribute????[/quote]
Wait. I am a “baby mama”. I hope you werent saying that I don’t work for my money. If you were just referring to the women in the post then my apologies.[/quote]
You probably work extemly hard for every dime you make and are a great mother! However, I’m also pretty sure you didn’t go after some celeb to have a baby buy just so things could potentially easier.
I’m not putting baby mother’s down at all (I’m a product of it) my mother was a single mother who raised me by herself NO help from my father!!!!
I just see how life could have been if I wasn’t raised like that is all I’m saying. NO Disrespect to harding working single mothers.
But question, wouldn’t you have liked to be married and know your child has both parents at home at night?[/quote]
what if your marriage is a disaster and you and your husband don’t get along for shit – and you fight in front of the kids. is that better just because both parents were in the home at night?
Conventional households are not the norm anymore and there are sooo many different situations and circumstances out there today – who’s to really say what is really best for the child?
And also – with both my parents in my home I still managed to get pregnant young, fuck up in school and everything else – two parents don’t always perfect well adjusted children.
Two separated parents can be just as beneficial to the development of the child.[/quote]
I totally agree with this. Being married before you have kids is great and all but it does not mean once you have kids you will be together forever. You could wind up divorced. Than what, you still going to be a single parent.[/quote]
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Yeah, but let’s be honest most people these days aint even checking to get married….they are cool with shacking up with someone forever…which is not cool…why would you want to bring your child int he world with no real stability…why would you want to have a child by someone that doesnt even want to marry you….
Women need to have more value for themselves….[/quote]
And, in my case, I have alot of value for myself & i placed alot of value on my unborn childs life, so that’s why I chose to bring him in this world. Ish happens, was with my childs father for 6 and a half years, nothing, then one day pregnant! It can’t be said that i wasn’t trying to be careful but birth control isn’t 100% & one day, one day, your LUCK must run out. Ofcourse i would’ve preferred a better situation but I chose not to murder my child.
Wed, October 29, 2008 12:03 PM
my baby daddy is pee-wee herman, and mc hammer …..i’m glad i got that off my chest
Wed, October 29, 2008 12:03 PM
[quote comment="258857"][quote comment="258825"][quote comment="258811"]I’m serious, who do I have to talk to at YBF to get a tribute to women like me who are hard working Indies with no kids. We could send in our pics and everything. Truly, despite what society thinks, we are truly young black and fabulous![/quote]
I feel ya girl![/quote]
Shoo, (unfortunately) i’m a “babymama” (i hate that word) too but i’m FABULOUS too. I was with my son’s father for 6 and a half years, i saw he wasn’t, for whatever reason, taking it to the next level, we broke up then BOOM! ended up pregnant (that break-up sex, just like drunken sex, will get you everytime, lol) AND i work damn hard for my money, as you all can see with me being on YBF all damn day, lol, so not all quote un-quote babymama’s are the same.[/quote]
Same here girl!!!! Why do you always get hit on the break-up sex?? I just knew I was done with my son’s fathers ass….then ms red dont show up!!!!!
Wed, October 29, 2008 12:05 PM
[quote comment="258863"][quote comment="258747"]lol some bitter chicks up in here… must have been a while![/quote]
lol… huh brah?[/quote]
‘huh brah’!!! :) Hey hometeam!
Wed, October 29, 2008 12:06 PM
[quote comment="258872"][quote comment="258847"][quote comment="258817"]I had to read all the post before I decided to post about this situation…..alot of women get pregnant by dudes they have no business getting pregnant by and then they EXPECT help….
You should know that nine times outta ten if you get pregnant by your jumpoff, he is not going to be there for your child.
If you get pregnant by a dude that’s got another woman or a WIFE nine times outta ten he aint gonna be there for his baby.
If the dude got a baby that he already dont take care of then he aint take care of your baby either.
I dont understand hpw we let our values go down..Its like we cool raising kids outta wedlock and having 2 and 3 different baby daddies….I dont understand….
What happened to getting an education FIRST, then getting married, then having babies…..
I dont understand having babies with different men….it’s crazy to me…
I’m not judging anybody I’m just saying…..[/quote]
You are SO right! Even though men should be more selective w/ the woman they sleep with, there are soooo many chicks who know damn well that man is their to bust a NUT and they lose sight of that because the penis is so good and want a baby. Not me. Women need to know the difference between a causal/careless f*ck and an actual loving relationship.[/quote]
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It’s common sense….you dont have a baby with a ni%%a you only see at night….and you dont marry somebody that you feel you wouldnt want to have a baby by….
I will say that God has watched over me and its a miracle that I dont have no kids and never had an abortion (Thank Ya Jesus) BUT if I was in a situation like that I dont think I’d bring a child into this world who will never know their father…I think that’s selfish on the Mother….and then you have to struggle to take care of the child…
God meant for it to be a MOTHER and a FATHER….[/quote]
*doing my holy ghost quick-foot dance down the isle*
Wed, October 29, 2008 12:07 PM
[quote comment="258872"][quote comment="258847"][quote comment="258817"]I had to read all the post before I decided to post about this situation…..alot of women get pregnant by dudes they have no business getting pregnant by and then they EXPECT help….
You should know that nine times outta ten if you get pregnant by your jumpoff, he is not going to be there for your child.
If you get pregnant by a dude that’s got another woman or a WIFE nine times outta ten he aint gonna be there for his baby.
If the dude got a baby that he already dont take care of then he aint take care of your baby either.
I dont understand hpw we let our values go down..Its like we cool raising kids outta wedlock and having 2 and 3 different baby daddies….I dont understand….
What happened to getting an education FIRST, then getting married, then having babies…..
I dont understand having babies with different men….it’s crazy to me…
I’m not judging anybody I’m just saying…..[/quote]
You are SO right! Even though men should be more selective w/ the woman they sleep with, there are soooo many chicks who know damn well that man is their to bust a NUT and they lose sight of that because the penis is so good and want a baby. Not me. Women need to know the difference between a causal/careless f*ck and an actual loving relationship.[/quote]
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It’s common sense….you dont have a baby with a ni%%a you only see at night….and you dont marry somebody that you feel you wouldnt want to have a baby by….
I will say that God has watched over me and its a miracle that I dont have no kids and never had an abortion (Thank Ya Jesus) BUT if I was in a situation like that I dont think I’d bring a child into this world who will never know their father…I think that’s selfish on the Mother….and then you have to struggle to take care of the child…
God meant for it to be a MOTHER and a FATHER….[/quote]
You’re assuming that every situation is a jumpoff situation. What if you guys are engaged? Before the marriage occurs, you end up pregnant, you choose to keep the pregnancy because you have the “security” & a ring to boot, then guess what he chooses to skip town when you are 6 – 7 months pregnant – what would you do then?
Wed, October 29, 2008 12:07 PM
[quote comment="258879"][quote comment="258857"][quote comment="258825"][quote comment="258811"]I’m serious, who do I have to talk to at YBF to get a tribute to women like me who are hard working Indies with no kids. We could send in our pics and everything. Truly, despite what society thinks, we are truly young black and fabulous![/quote]
I feel ya girl![/quote]
Shoo, (unfortunately) i’m a “babymama” (i hate that word) too but i’m FABULOUS too. I was with my son’s father for 6 and a half years, i saw he wasn’t, for whatever reason, taking it to the next level, we broke up then BOOM! ended up pregnant (that break-up sex, just like drunken sex, will get you everytime, lol) AND i work damn hard for my money, as you all can see with me being on YBF all damn day, lol, so not all quote un-quote babymama’s are the same.[/quote]
Same here girl!!!! Why do you always get hit on the break-up sex?? I just knew I was done with my son’s fathers ass….then ms red dont show up!!!!![/quote]
LOL@Ms. Red
Wed, October 29, 2008 12:07 PM
[quote comment="258857"][quote comment="258825"][quote comment="258811"]I’m serious, who do I have to talk to at YBF to get a tribute to women like me who are hard working Indies with no kids. We could send in our pics and everything. Truly, despite what society thinks, we are truly young black and fabulous![/quote]
I feel ya girl![/quote]
Shoo, (unfortunately) i’m a “babymama” (i hate that word) too but i’m FABULOUS too. I was with my son’s father for 6 and a half years, i saw he wasn’t, for whatever reason, taking it to the next level, we broke up then BOOM! ended up pregnant (that break-up sex, just like drunken sex, will get you everytime, lol) AND i work damn hard for my money, as you all can see with me being on YBF all damn day, lol, so not all quote un-quote babymama’s are the same.[/quote]
Hey Les–yes girl you ARE FAB and big ups to you for working and taking care of your son!!! I agree that all baby mamas are not the same. I think she was specifically referring to women who have kids just to milk money out of a dude! No disrespect intended at all, believe me, my Mom was a baby mama before she met and married my dad.
Wed, October 29, 2008 12:08 PM
[quote comment="258879"][quote comment="258857"][quote comment="258825"][quote comment="258811"]I’m serious, who do I have to talk to at YBF to get a tribute to women like me who are hard working Indies with no kids. We could send in our pics and everything. Truly, despite what society thinks, we are truly young black and fabulous![/quote]
I feel ya girl![/quote]
Shoo, (unfortunately) i’m a “babymama” (i hate that word) too but i’m FABULOUS too. I was with my son’s father for 6 and a half years, i saw he wasn’t, for whatever reason, taking it to the next level, we broke up then BOOM! ended up pregnant (that break-up sex, just like drunken sex, will get you everytime, lol) AND i work damn hard for my money, as you all can see with me being on YBF all damn day, lol, so not all quote un-quote babymama’s are the same.[/quote]
Same here girl!!!! Why do you always get hit on the break-up sex?? I just knew I was done with my son’s fathers ass….then ms red dont show up!!!!![/quote]
That last good whine will get you every time, lol.
Wed, October 29, 2008 12:09 PM
[quote comment="258795"][quote comment="258790"]~THE WINNING FORMULA~
**Have a baby with a money maker, open a boutique, dip your hand in modeling, singing, or acting, go to a few parties, date a couple of his friends and just when your almost broke…come out with a ‘tell all’ book, get pregnant again and start the cycle over![/quote]
LMFAO. DEAD[/quote]
LOL. It works girl!
Wed, October 29, 2008 12:09 PM
[quote comment="258820"][quote comment="258736"]For the record lets not forget that Tiny had a career and Xscape were very successful, and if TI tells Tiny to quit her singing career because she can have whatever she likes then whats worng with that. And most of you jealous girls would do the same thing and wha success do you have nothing but writing on a blog hating on people. Now WAYNE and Lyfe exes they are different but I guess you continue to hate on someone because she is with someone you will or could never have. KEEP DREAMING, HATING AND ACTING LIKE TWELVE YEAR OLDS.[/quote]
Go to school and learn how to spell wrong it’s W-R-O-N-G NOT W-O-R-N-G who hates on someone who is exposing themselves to many diseases by having multiple baby mamas and partners dreaming of what to get AIDS or herpes you are probably just like them of course every women wants a man to take care of them but never make that your primary goal to the point where you do not try to accomplish something for yourself on your own and if this is so immature why is your comment posted here??????????????????????????????????????????????[/quote]
You, obviously, are still to get your first period. You need to grow up. You just cannot judge people from pictures and the commentary here. Life is not as black and white. I used to be that girl who couldnt fathom being a single mom. I got married alright, had a beautiful son and what came after is a Bravo Movie! You need to manage YOUR own life before starting to rolodex others’ lives. Natasha put an age limit up in this thing
Wed, October 29, 2008 12:11 PM
[quote comment="258884"][quote comment="258872"][quote comment="258847"][quote comment="258817"]I had to read all the post before I decided to post about this situation…..alot of women get pregnant by dudes they have no business getting pregnant by and then they EXPECT help….
You should know that nine times outta ten if you get pregnant by your jumpoff, he is not going to be there for your child.
If you get pregnant by a dude that’s got another woman or a WIFE nine times outta ten he aint gonna be there for his baby.
If the dude got a baby that he already dont take care of then he aint take care of your baby either.
I dont understand hpw we let our values go down..Its like we cool raising kids outta wedlock and having 2 and 3 different baby daddies….I dont understand….
What happened to getting an education FIRST, then getting married, then having babies…..
I dont understand having babies with different men….it’s crazy to me…
I’m not judging anybody I’m just saying…..[/quote]
You are SO right! Even though men should be more selective w/ the woman they sleep with, there are soooo many chicks who know damn well that man is their to bust a NUT and they lose sight of that because the penis is so good and want a baby. Not me. Women need to know the difference between a causal/careless f*ck and an actual loving relationship.[/quote]
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It’s common sense….you dont have a baby with a ni%%a you only see at night….and you dont marry somebody that you feel you wouldnt want to have a baby by….
I will say that God has watched over me and its a miracle that I dont have no kids and never had an abortion (Thank Ya Jesus) BUT if I was in a situation like that I dont think I’d bring a child into this world who will never know their father…I think that’s selfish on the Mother….and then you have to struggle to take care of the child…
God meant for it to be a MOTHER and a FATHER….[/quote]
You’re assuming that every situation is a jumpoff situation. What if you guys are engaged? Before the marriage occurs, you end up pregnant, you choose to keep the pregnancy because you have the “security” & a ring to boot, then guess what he chooses to skip town when you are 6 – 7 months pregnant – what would you do then?[/quote]
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No, that’s what I’m saying….I’m saying that we have to raise the bar…we have to FEEL like we are worthy to get married…instead of settling to be a baby mother….that’s all I’m saying…
Wed, October 29, 2008 12:13 PM
[quote comment="258886"][quote comment="258857"][quote comment="258825"][quote comment="258811"]I’m serious, who do I have to talk to at YBF to get a tribute to women like me who are hard working Indies with no kids. We could send in our pics and everything. Truly, despite what society thinks, we are truly young black and fabulous![/quote]
I feel ya girl![/quote]
Shoo, (unfortunately) i’m a “babymama” (i hate that word) too but i’m FABULOUS too. I was with my son’s father for 6 and a half years, i saw he wasn’t, for whatever reason, taking it to the next level, we broke up then BOOM! ended up pregnant (that break-up sex, just like drunken sex, will get you everytime, lol) AND i work damn hard for my money, as you all can see with me being on YBF all damn day, lol, so not all quote un-quote babymama’s are the same.[/quote]
Hey Les–yes girl you ARE FAB and big ups to you for working and taking care of your son!!! I agree that all baby mamas are not the same. I think she was specifically referring to women who have kids just to milk money out of a dude! No disrespect intended at all, believe me, my Mom was a baby mama before she met and married my dad.[/quote]
Yeah, i know she was specifically referring to them but not all situations are the same & maybe even those same chicks didn’t think like that initially. I would definitely say that Lil Wayne’s ex didn’t have that mindset when she had her child because they were 13/14 when they had the child, before he even had the money or fame. Sometimes ish just happens though.
Wed, October 29, 2008 12:16 PM
i just want to say that all the women on here for the most part are mothers…even if we didn’t give birth yet..as YBF women we are always taking care of everybody..like i said before newphew, nieces, aunts, blended families, god-children..etc,,etc…and we all take the situation we were dealts and make our ends meet..and yes that everyday stuggle don’t get shine and we ain’t rocking gucci and this and that but we in the the voice of tim gunn MAKE IT WORK
Wed, October 29, 2008 12:17 PM
[quote comment="258889"][quote comment="258879"][quote comment="258857"][quote comment="258825"][quote comment="258811"]I’m serious, who do I have to talk to at YBF to get a tribute to women like me who are hard working Indies with no kids. We could send in our pics and everything. Truly, despite what society thinks, we are truly young black and fabulous![/quote]
I feel ya girl![/quote]
Shoo, (unfortunately) i’m a “babymama” (i hate that word) too but i’m FABULOUS too. I was with my son’s father for 6 and a half years, i saw he wasn’t, for whatever reason, taking it to the next level, we broke up then BOOM! ended up pregnant (that break-up sex, just like drunken sex, will get you everytime, lol) AND i work damn hard for my money, as you all can see with me being on YBF all damn day, lol, so not all quote un-quote babymama’s are the same.[/quote]
Same here girl!!!! Why do you always get hit on the break-up sex?? I just knew I was done with my son’s fathers ass….then ms red dont show up!!!!![/quote]
That last good whine will get you every time, lol.[/quote]
____dead^^^ that sounds like a song :lol:
Wed, October 29, 2008 12:18 PM
[quote comment="258850"][quote comment="258839"]lil waynes baby mother is a bony average chic…but what di u expect look at wayne!![/quote]
True, but man think about it…he had her since she was 14. She’s cute, but she dont look like no celeb bc shes not. She came way before the lights and the cameras.[/quote]
I dont they get that they were actually married. And who’s to say these ladies dont have side hustles or their own business?!?!?!? Im just saying…. I dont think any of the ladies in these pics are looking for a come up, I think they were there for the guys before they were famous…..
Wed, October 29, 2008 12:18 PM
[quote comment="258676"][quote comment="258661"]i think Bravo will has a new show in the making, the REAL Baby Mama’s of Atlanta.
it’s curious that you don’t see Luda’s baby mama splattered all over the damn internet. hell, you barely see their daughter either.
getting curiouser and curiouser *thinking*[/quote]
LMAO. I think Luda’s baby mama is a lawyer thats why..she has an actual career and life, unlike these professional semen drinkers.[/quote]
LOL…. DEAD… FLATLINE.. and BACK… I almost chocked on my tea “Professional Semn drinkers”
Wed, October 29, 2008 12:18 PM
[quote comment="258699"][quote comment="258681"]Did anyone see Real Housewives last night? Was I the only one dying laughing when they had to pull the plug on the auction? hahaha people just standing around looking at each other!![/quote]
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That was not funny…Cheap ass people..How you gonna come to a charity function and not spend any money. That is really tacky….I’m sure DeShawn was really hurt behind that…but you cant invite 500 people to your HOUSE like that…that should have been at a nice venue besides their house…But like Eric said he only came out of 20 stacks…that aint sh&t to him!!!
That bracelet Kim bought was off the chain….but I cant stand her….she uses NeNe for her ghettoness so that she can claim she’s a “down ass white girl” ane then she uses Sheree’ for her beauty…she wants to be around Sheree because that makes her look good. I almost died when she told Sheree that they look alike…I’m like Beyotch Please…. U wish….
and Lisa’s husband is fine as hell…..and I think I have changed my mind about her….she’s a hustler and they compliment each other well….she is the baddest one on the show…[/quote] Well I agree with NeNe’s gay friend, DeShawn’s tickets should’ve came with a price. Im sorry to say but Black folks (and obviously some of dem white folks) are good for eating up your food and drinking your liquor! And btw Kim gets on my damn nerves kissing Sheree’s ass like she is her Big Poppa! Talking about she beautiful, that bitch looks like a praying mantis. And Lisa’s baby is cute even with the old man’s doo with the part on the side……..and her husband is fine.—————–I always thought Raven was too damn big not to have any children, she needs to work on that and her wardrobe. And she does seem depressed. Raven may need some d*** in her life!
Wed, October 29, 2008 12:23 PM
[quote comment="258899"][quote comment="258886"][quote comment="258857"][quote comment="258825"][quote comment="258811"]I’m serious, who do I have to talk to at YBF to get a tribute to women like me who are hard working Indies with no kids. We could send in our pics and everything. Truly, despite what society thinks, we are truly young black and fabulous![/quote]
I feel ya girl![/quote]
Shoo, (unfortunately) i’m a “babymama” (i hate that word) too but i’m FABULOUS too. I was with my son’s father for 6 and a half years, i saw he wasn’t, for whatever reason, taking it to the next level, we broke up then BOOM! ended up pregnant (that break-up sex, just like drunken sex, will get you everytime, lol) AND i work damn hard for my money, as you all can see with me being on YBF all damn day, lol, so not all quote un-quote babymama’s are the same.[/quote]
Hey Les–yes girl you ARE FAB and big ups to you for working and taking care of your son!!! I agree that all baby mamas are not the same. I think she was specifically referring to women who have kids just to milk money out of a dude! No disrespect intended at all, believe me, my Mom was a baby mama before she met and married my dad.[/quote]
Yeah, i know she was specifically referring to them but not all situations are the same & maybe even those same chicks didn’t think like that initially. I would definitely say that Lil Wayne’s ex didn’t have that mindset when she had her child because they were 13/14 when they had the child, before he even had the money or fame. Sometimes ish just happens though.[/quote]
Yeah, life does happen while you are making other plans!
Wed, October 29, 2008 12:23 PM
[quote comment="258883"][quote comment="258872"][quote comment="258847"][quote comment="258817"]I had to read all the post before I decided to post about this situation…..alot of women get pregnant by dudes they have no business getting pregnant by and then they EXPECT help….
You should know that nine times outta ten if you get pregnant by your jumpoff, he is not going to be there for your child.
If you get pregnant by a dude that’s got another woman or a WIFE nine times outta ten he aint gonna be there for his baby.
If the dude got a baby that he already dont take care of then he aint take care of your baby either.
I dont understand hpw we let our values go down..Its like we cool raising kids outta wedlock and having 2 and 3 different baby daddies….I dont understand….
What happened to getting an education FIRST, then getting married, then having babies…..
I dont understand having babies with different men….it’s crazy to me…
I’m not judging anybody I’m just saying…..[/quote]
You are SO right! Even though men should be more selective w/ the woman they sleep with, there are soooo many chicks who know damn well that man is their to bust a NUT and they lose sight of that because the penis is so good and want a baby. Not me. Women need to know the difference between a causal/careless f*ck and an actual loving relationship.[/quote]
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It’s common sense….you dont have a baby with a ni%%a you only see at night….and you dont marry somebody that you feel you wouldnt want to have a baby by….
I will say that God has watched over me and its a miracle that I dont have no kids and never had an abortion (Thank Ya Jesus) BUT if I was in a situation like that I dont think I’d bring a child into this world who will never know their father…I think that’s selfish on the Mother….and then you have to struggle to take care of the child…
God meant for it to be a MOTHER and a FATHER….[/quote]
*doing my holy ghost quick-foot dance down the isle*[/quote]
What you say sounds good and of course God wanted for children to have mother and father in the house but us as imperfect creatures dont always do what he tells us to….or situations dont always go how you plan them to. You are saying if you were in that situation you wouldnt bring your child into the world….that can also be looked at as you disobeying God too.I understand what everyone is getting at when they say they want the family life with mother, father and children at home but in this life we live in it will not always go that way. I know girls that had both parents at home and was in misery every day of their lives. Being 12 and one my homegirls came to school once and couldnt even sit down..went to the bathroom with her and her back look like she was in the Roots movie….she got that from her dad that lived at home….they all did. He treated his family like they were in the military….but to everyone on the outside and when they went to church it was the “perfect family”. I’m proud to be a mom….yes a single mom but because of my son and the struggle I just appreciate everything more….wouldnt change what I went through and for him to see the effort made just for him to have what he has in life is all I need. He’s my motivator….i took a lot for granted and was extremely spoiled before I had him….but he bought responsibility and determination into my life.
Wed, October 29, 2008 12:29 PM
[quote comment="258858"][quote comment="258850"][quote comment="258839"]lil waynes baby mother is a bony average chic…but what di u expect look at wayne!![/quote]
True, but man think about it…he had her since she was 14. She’s cute, but she dont look like no celeb bc shes not. She came way before the lights and the cameras.[/quote]
You took the words off my fingers.[/quote]
Yea…i dont know i mean there is nothing wrong with being average…but i really honestly wouldnt expect any girl that was “truly” in love with wayne before the fame and status quo to look like a celebrity. im still trying to figure out what the HELL is wrong w/nivea! …. beauty is in the eye of the beholder… but there isnt a LOUIS BAG big enough for me to willingly lay down w/that gremlin……………maybe i shouldnt be so shallow! LOL!
Wed, October 29, 2008 12:30 PM
LMAO@ “what birth control”
aaaw thats sad, they only got one kid each tho right? maybe im wrong. its still funny
Wed, October 29, 2008 12:30 PM
[quote comment="258681"]Did anyone see Real Housewives last night? Was I the only one dying laughing when they had to pull the plug on the auction? hahaha people just standing around looking at each other!![/quote]
Girl, I was too disgusted with Kim and Sheree’s convo at lunch.
Kim – “Girl you pretty,”
Sheree – “No girl, you are pretty”
Kim – “But you are so pretty too”
Sheree & Kim – “I think females are jealous”
Could they not shut up any sooner? That is the most concieted conversation I have ever heard!
Wed, October 29, 2008 12:31 PM
[quote comment="258945"][quote comment="258883"][quote comment="258872"][quote comment="258847"][quote comment="258817"]I had to read all the post before I decided to post about this situation…..alot of women get pregnant by dudes they have no business getting pregnant by and then they EXPECT help….
You should know that nine times outta ten if you get pregnant by your jumpoff, he is not going to be there for your child.
If you get pregnant by a dude that’s got another woman or a WIFE nine times outta ten he aint gonna be there for his baby.
If the dude got a baby that he already dont take care of then he aint take care of your baby either.
I dont understand hpw we let our values go down..Its like we cool raising kids outta wedlock and having 2 and 3 different baby daddies….I dont understand….
What happened to getting an education FIRST, then getting married, then having babies…..
I dont understand having babies with different men….it’s crazy to me…
I’m not judging anybody I’m just saying…..[/quote]
You are SO right! Even though men should be more selective w/ the woman they sleep with, there are soooo many chicks who know damn well that man is their to bust a NUT and they lose sight of that because the penis is so good and want a baby. Not me. Women need to know the difference between a causal/careless f*ck and an actual loving relationship.[/quote]
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It’s common sense….you dont have a baby with a ni%%a you only see at night….and you dont marry somebody that you feel you wouldnt want to have a baby by….
I will say that God has watched over me and its a miracle that I dont have no kids and never had an abortion (Thank Ya Jesus) BUT if I was in a situation like that I dont think I’d bring a child into this world who will never know their father…I think that’s selfish on the Mother….and then you have to struggle to take care of the child…
God meant for it to be a MOTHER and a FATHER….[/quote]
*doing my holy ghost quick-foot dance down the isle*[/quote]
What you say sounds good and of course God wanted for children to have mother and father in the house but us as imperfect creatures dont always do what he tells us to….or situations dont always go how you plan them to. You are saying if you were in that situation you wouldnt bring your child into the world….that can also be looked at as you disobeying God too.I understand what everyone is getting at when they say they want the family life with mother, father and children at home but in this life we live in it will not always go that way. I know girls that had both parents at home and was in misery every day of their lives. Being 12 and one my homegirls came to school once and couldnt even sit down..went to the bathroom with her and her back look like she was in the Roots movie….she got that from her dad that lived at home….they all did. He treated his family like they were in the military….but to everyone on the outside and when they went to church it was the “perfect family”. I’m proud to be a mom….yes a single mom but because of my son and the struggle I just appreciate everything more….wouldnt change what I went through and for him to see the effort made just for him to have what he has in life is all I need. He’s my motivator….i took a lot for granted and was extremely spoiled before I had him….but he bought responsibility and determination into my life.[/quote]
Go girl!
Wed, October 29, 2008 12:31 PM
For all the single mother’s on YBF, I don’t believe the question that started these comments weer directed to any of you. Hell there are women out here killing/abusing their children on a daily basis. I commend you MOTHERS period, whether you are involved w/ father or not, for being foremost a mother and a nurturer to another human being that came out of your body. You all are woman who have someone so important in your lives that you put up with sh*t on your job, slack a** men, and just being damn tired for the love of your child(ren). At the end of the day, you could’ve gave up, but you haven’t and I pray you never do. So kudos to all the beautiful YBF mothers.
Wed, October 29, 2008 12:38 PM
WHy you gotta show the most unflattering pictures of Raven.Come on Tasha.
And the ATL Golddigers just don’t get no love from me.I mean.Kimbo and Sherman…please.Those, excuse my language..bitches just scream out “I’m Broke” just like the rest of the peasants lol.
Wed, October 29, 2008 12:41 PM
[quote comment="258972"][quote comment="258681"]Did anyone see Real Housewives last night? Was I the only one dying laughing when they had to pull the plug on the auction? hahaha people just standing around looking at each other!![/quote]
Girl, I was too disgusted with Kim and Sheree’s convo at lunch.
Kim – “Girl you pretty,”
Sheree – “No girl, you are pretty”
Kim – “But you are so pretty too”
Sheree & Kim – “I think females are jealous”
Could they not shut up any sooner? That is the most concieted conversation I have ever heard![/quote]
i thought kim wanted to just jump over the table and tongue sheree down…
Wed, October 29, 2008 12:43 PM
[quote comment="258977"]For all the single mother’s on YBF, I don’t believe the question that started these comments weer directed to any of you. Hell there are women out here killing/abusing their children on a daily basis. I commend you MOTHERS period, whether you are involved w/ father or not, for being foremost a mother and a nurturer to another human being that came out of your body. You all are woman who have someone so important in your lives that you put up with sh*t on your job, slack a** men, and just being damn tired for the love of your child(ren). At the end of the day, you could’ve gave up, but you haven’t and I pray you never do. So kudos to all the beautiful YBF mothers.[/quote]
:) girl you got such a good spirit!!!
Wed, October 29, 2008 12:45 PM
[quote comment="258977"]For all the single mother’s on YBF, I don’t believe the question that started these comments weer directed to any of you. Hell there are women out here killing/abusing their children on a daily basis. I commend you MOTHERS period, whether you are involved w/ father or not, for being foremost a mother and a nurturer to another human being that came out of your body. You all are woman who have someone so important in your lives that you put up with sh*t on your job, slack a** men, and just being damn tired for the love of your child(ren). At the end of the day, you could’ve gave up, but you haven’t and I pray you never do. So kudos to all the beautiful YBF mothers.[/quote]
Thanks chica!!
Wed, October 29, 2008 12:51 PM
[quote comment="258977"]For all the single mother’s on YBF, I don’t believe the question that started these comments weer directed to any of you. Hell there are women out here killing/abusing their children on a daily basis. I commend you MOTHERS period, whether you are involved w/ father or not, for being foremost a mother and a nurturer to another human being that came out of your body. You all are woman who have someone so important in your lives that you put up with sh*t on your job, slack a** men, and just being damn tired for the love of your child(ren). At the end of the day, you could’ve gave up, but you haven’t and I pray you never do. So kudos to all the beautiful YBF mothers.[/quote]
Thakn youuuuuuuuuuuuuuu cuz i JUST KNOW you were referring/”talking” to me, lol.
Wed, October 29, 2008 12:55 PM
[quote comment="258999"][quote comment="258972"][quote comment="258681"]Did anyone see Real Housewives last night? Was I the only one dying laughing when they had to pull the plug on the auction? hahaha people just standing around looking at each other!![/quote]
Girl, I was too disgusted with Kim and Sheree’s convo at lunch.
Kim – “Girl you pretty,”
Sheree – “No girl, you are pretty”
Kim – “But you are so pretty too”
Sheree & Kim – “I think females are jealous”
Could they not shut up any sooner? That is the most concieted conversation I have ever heard![/quote]
i thought kim wanted to just jump over the table and tongue sheree down…[/quote]
They probably would have if the cameras weren’t there, lol, you know how them ATL’ians get down, lol.
Wed, October 29, 2008 1:32 PM
smh… u know it aint nuthin but some ghetto ass black people…..next
Wed, October 29, 2008 1:43 PM
these chicks make black women look bad.
Wed, October 29, 2008 1:46 PM
[quote comment="258879"][quote comment="258857"][quote comment="258825"][quote comment="258811"]I’m serious, who do I have to talk to at YBF to get a tribute to women like me who are hard working Indies with no kids. We could send in our pics and everything. Truly, despite what society thinks, we are truly young black and fabulous![/quote]
I feel ya girl![/quote]
Shoo, (unfortunately) i’m a “babymama” (i hate that word) too but i’m FABULOUS too. I was with my son’s father for 6 and a half years, i saw he wasn’t, for whatever reason, taking it to the next level, we broke up then BOOM! ended up pregnant (that break-up sex, just like drunken sex, will get you everytime, lol) AND i work damn hard for my money, as you all can see with me being on YBF all damn day, lol, so not all quote un-quote babymama’s are the same.[/quote]
Same here girl!!!! Why do you always get hit on the break-up sex?? I just knew I was done with my son’s fathers ass….then ms red dont show up!!!!![/quote]
I dont understand “break up” or “angry” sex. If I’m mad at my boyfriend, I dont want him to touch me AT ALL!
Wed, October 29, 2008 2:23 PM
I have no idea what Toya, Tiny or Joy did to be disrespected on this site. They are just regular women who had children with the men they love, so what. Tiny is a singer and Escape is due to drop a come back album, congrats. Toya seems to have done well considering she was a mom at 14 and wrote a book, hope it does well, congrats. Joy holding it down with a jailbird abusive babydaddy congrats. Don’t hate congratulate. Men have been taking care of their wives (even the babymamas are common law wives)since the beginning of time, so what, if you have a passion to follow a career good for you, that’s what you choose, if a woman chooses to be a wife and mother instead of a career there is nothing wrong with that.
Wed, October 29, 2008 4:08 PM
Can some body tell me why lil’ wayne baby mom always do that same pose.. like its cute…please
Wed, October 29, 2008 4:27 PM
How TI let himself be photographed in this baby mama outing? ::deducts swag points:: OH LAWD @ Raven… her & Serena both wore this dress… looks horrible on them
Wed, October 29, 2008 6:23 PM
[quote comment="258672"][quote comment="258664"]Oh the joy’s of being a “Baby Mama” and using your kids as collateral…SYKE!!!! What about real women who have no kids and have to work for their money? Can I get some luv YBF?????? I think I’m one of the last few that actually wants to be committed and married before poppin out somebody’s kid. Can ladies like us get some kinda dedication?!? Award?!? Tribute????[/quote]
OOOOOOHHHHH NNNNOOOOOO UUUUUUU AAAAAIIINNNTTTTT lol
co-sign!!![/quote]
Amen to that one. We are the few indeed and THAT is what makes us so damn YBF. I’ll keep the rest of my thoughts of this baby mama reunion to myself & go back to working on my thesis while I wait on the Lord for the arrival of my diamond.
Wed, October 29, 2008 7:02 PM
I can’t hate on these girls/ women( I will use the term women loosely cause I don’t know them. However, they actually reproduced with dudes that have potential and was able to to translate that into a cushy livehood for themselves and children. It’s a suvival instinct that is in each of us. The animal kingdom greatly exercises this rule when choosing a mate. That is why I can’t understand why a female reduces her chances of survival for herself and offspring by mating/ having sex with men who don’t have the potential to produce a living or atleast desire to make and do better for self and family. I’m not saying this to sound gold diggerish but income should be on your mind when a child is being considered or even yourself. This is also to include you have to bring something to the table as well other than open hands so that you can be that mans equal and helpmeet. Generate an income that reflects your ablility to the fullest and seek a counterpart that can also generate their income to the fullest so that you both can be compliments. Now in terms of these baby mothers they probably had the aspects of getting a nigga whose paid but also there are some shit they have to go through as well. Look at lyfe sad…Toya we have yet seen her with a new man and tiny well she got other baby mamas to share her lovely man with. Like I am saying I’m not hating on these ladies but how full can their lives truly be once that purse house car is brought.
Wed, October 29, 2008 9:28 PM
LOL
Thu, June 11, 2009 6:01 PM
Tiny is so ugly she looks like a piglet and Lyfe Jennings baby mama looks so damn plain what the heck do they see in those two girls?? Now on the other hand Lil Wayne’ ex-wife is so pretty and by the way so is his Daughter Reginae I cant wait to see the Reality-TV show coming on B.E.T June 28 after the 09 B.E.T Awards at 10:00 P.M!
Mon, October 12, 2009 2:28 PM
i second this ! first of all; no disrespect to nobody cuz everybody has the riqht to their own opinion ! but i feel lik da stuff people sayinq about tiny beinq da baby mama, and
i second this 100% besides this is ah bloq; who spells correct on the internet? anywho; with all respect to everyone &nd their opinion; i feel as if tiny had her FAME &ND RESPECT wayy before T.I. was even close to BIG; she had her before he had hym; she was already set before he came into the picture; &nd she did that on her OWN without T.I. &nd if she’s ah baby mama kudos to her; it’s her life; if she wants to be ah baby mama, ah stripper, a flippa, anythinq its HER life; she has to live with it &nd she has to qo to sleep every niqht &nd worry about it ! now as far as toya; she’s a very beautiful younq lady ! &nd wayne was her FIRST she was there before all da fame &nd money &nd shit came into da picture; &nd i honestly respect anythinq thats done by her; it’s not lik she’s runninq behind hym ! &nd beinq wit someone lik lil wayne da fame is qonna come with it &nd it’s qonna stay ! besides if she is chasinq famous men or w/e ppl wana call it; she doinq what she qotta do to take care of hers ! lik i said about tiny; it’s toya’s life &nd i think she deserves everythinq she qets ! i’m not callinq nobody ah hater; but i would lik for my opinion to be respected just as well as i respected yours ! qoodday !
Mon, October 12, 2009 2:40 PM
THANK YOU !!!! exactly what i’m tryinq to say ! i was readinq another bloq where tiny &nd toya were labled as “embarrassments” i dont understand that ! with all due respect to keyshia cole, &nd her family but if tiny &nd toya are embarrassments what are THEY? now dont qet me wronq i love both shows they are kixx; but who are people to judqe others; they dont kno what these women qo throuqh from day to day when they’re not on camera; they are both beautiful successful women; &nd they have beautiful kids ! &nd i honestly think toya is more than a baby mama to weezy f.. they had somethinq; and nomatta wat ppl say dey always will; and it’s shown in the beautiful reginae ! :)
Tue, December 1, 2009 12:41 AM
ummm all of these damned haters i mean damn jump off of their clits!!!stop hating half of you on here posting comments about these chikx dont hate find something better to do to throw salt.while you guys are tryna point out what ones faults are you need to look at the four fingers that are pointing back at you!do you have a job? do your kids father take care of your kids? do yoU eveN know who their fathers are? what is your occupation.hell get a life & stop worrying about the next bitch! i bet you while all yall on here talking this professional bull ish not nan one of you sad whores have a man or if you do your wishing it was one of their babies daddy. ha ha dont get ad because they have the men you wish you had. IF YOU GT SOO MUCH O SAY ABOUT THEM AND HATE THEM SOO MUCH WHY DO YOU CONTINUE TO TUNE INTO THEIR SHOW??? TINY…HAD HER OWN & HELD HER OWN FOR THE LONGEST. TOYA IS A STRONG BLACK WOMAN & WHILE YOU GUYS ARE TRYING TO DOWN PLAY HER LETS NOT FORGET HER & WAYNE BEEN TOGETHER SINCE THEY WERE CHILDREN HAD A CHILD GOT MARRIED & TIL THIS DAY THEY STILL HAVE MAJOR LOVE FOR EACHOTHER CLEARLY SEEING HOW HE SHOUTS HER OUT IN HIS SONGS & BUYS HER ANYTHING SHE WANTS!!!THEY ARE STILL BESTFRIENDS TO THIS DAY. AS FOR LYFES BABYMOMMA DONT KNOW MUCH ABOUT HER BUT SHE WAS WITH HIM BEFORE THE FAME SOO STFU!!!YOU PEOPLE ARE ON HERE GROWN & DON’T ACT YOR AGE F.Y.I IM YOUNG UNDER 15 AND I HAVE MORE SENSE THEN HALF OF YOU PITFUL TRICKSON HERE NOT BECAUSE MY MOM AND FATHER ARE EXTREMELY SUCCESSFUL BRAIN SURGEON. JUST BECAUSE I WAS TAUGHT NOT TO JUDGE A BOOK BY ITS COVER & NOT TOO JUDGE ANYONE BECAUSE YOU DON’T KNOW THEIR STORY.I PERSONALLY FIND ALL THE WOMEN YOU GUYS ARE HATING ON FANTASTIC! WAT I FIND SOO FUNNY IS THESE WOMEN THAT ARE SOO CLASSY & LOVING YOU GUYS HATE BUT YOU LOVE NON CLASSY GARBAGE NOTHING ASS HOES LIKE NEW YORK!HA HA WTF!ANYWAYS HAD TO PUT A YOUNG INPUT BACK TO MY HOMEWORK!STRIVE TO BE MUCH MORE THAN A HATER PEOPLE!!!!
SIGNED….ENYLA RAiN
Tue, March 9, 2010 8:48 PM
hi i love pie so much