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  • Posted on Nov 7, 2008 by Natasha

    Event Fab

    Zoe Saldana got fierce with it at the DSquared event in LA last night.

    Loving the feminine take on the tuxedo.  Hot.

    More pics from events when you read the rest…

    Over at the Lucky Shops event:


    Beverly Johnson and her daughter showed up looking fabulous.

    And model Noemie was there too.

    Here’s a pic from Will Smith and Rosario Dawson’s upcoming new movie Seven Pounds:

    The premise seems touching.


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    118 Comments »

    1. Melodia
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 3:30 pm | Reply |

      Zoe looks fly.

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    2. Glamness
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 3:30 pm | Reply |

      Fab all around!

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    3. Killahwilla
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 3:30 pm | Reply |

      1ST!!!!

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    4. ♥Ms. Toya♥ Obama Stan #2
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 3:30 pm | Reply |

      First?!

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    5. I love black people
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 3:30 pm | Reply |

      Go head Zoe! Loving the look. Somebody please fix Noeme a plate QUICK. Her body looks like it hurts

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    6. Ron.Dougy
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 3:30 pm | Reply |

      Zoe … is one word…hotness!!!

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    7. ♥Ms. Toya♥ Obama Stan #2
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 3:31 pm | Reply |

      Damn! I’ll settle for Top 5…lol

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    8. Melodia
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 3:31 pm | Reply |

      Is that a skeleton in that black dress? She can’t even stand up straight she is thin and frail.

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    9. Melodia
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 3:31 pm | Reply |

      [quote comment="276283"]1ST!!!![/quote]

      Not quite. LOL

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    10. Badd Azz
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 3:32 pm | Reply |

      Top 10

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    11. superkala
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 3:32 pm | Reply |

      Ah man I wish I had that dog. Too cute.

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    12. TIA
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 3:34 pm | Reply |

      zoe is so pretty..will was on oprah yesterday..

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    13. kaykay
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 3:36 pm | Reply |

      i like zoe’s outfit (esp. those pants) but why does her smile look so fake in that one pic?

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    14. SexySister
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 3:36 pm | Reply |

      Zoe needs a little foundation and a tad bit of lipstick and then she could be considered ‘fierce’.

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    15. ~ Ms T ~
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 3:37 pm | Reply |

      Zoe looks great. Beverley Johnson looks Fab.

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    16. Glamness
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 3:37 pm | Reply |

      The man sitting next to Zoe makes me a lil nervous.
      Now looking at Zoe makes me want to pop in “Center Stage” (yes I own it don’t laugh) even though I just watched it yesterday.

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    17. Too much of a good thing is wonderful
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 3:38 pm | Reply |

      Zoe looks fab! Beverly Johnson ,ageless reminds me of Stacy Dash with that ageless beauty going on.

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    18. S&J Obama Stan #0.1 & 7!!! I stan for Bee too so don't even try it!
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 3:39 pm | Reply |

      wow, William might be a free man come Monday?!? Way to mess my BEST WEEK EVER!!

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    19. 504Baddest
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 3:40 pm | Reply |

      Everyone looks nice but da broke down chick who looks like she bout to hit da floor…

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    20. S&J Obama Stan #0.1 & 7!!! I stan for Bee too so don't even try it!
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 3:41 pm | Reply |

      Seven Pounds looks like its going to be a great film, I saw the preview I was like DAMNNN, Will needs an Oscar!!!

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    21. Foley.
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 3:41 pm | Reply |

      I LOVE IT!!! She looks so fab :-) and now Ms. Toya i’m listening to the Double Dutch Bus..lawd have mercy :shock: Missy took some of the lyrics from her Gossip Folks song..Its cute though!! :-)

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    22. S&J Obama Stan #0.1 & 7!!! I stan for Bee too so don't even try it!
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 3:42 pm | Reply |

      Noemie looks confused like she doesnt know why she is there and she looks hungry too.

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    23. nessnice
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 3:43 pm | Reply |

      zoe is dope…

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    24. drea...
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 3:43 pm | Reply |

      she looks nice..how much does she weight??

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    25. Audie
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 3:44 pm | Reply |

      Very nice, looks great on her slender frame.

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    26. Mz. Christian Keyes.400 YEARS OF PAIN ALL WASHED AWAY IN ONE NIGHT!!!!!!
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 3:46 pm | Reply |

      I want a feminine tux!!!!!!!!!!! :P

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    27. br00kie
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 3:47 pm | Reply |

      the model looks like shes in pain… :(

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    28. Mz. Christian Keyes.400 YEARS OF PAIN ALL WASHED AWAY IN ONE NIGHT!!!!!!
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 3:48 pm | Reply |

      Noemie..or whatever your name is…. I’m praying that they had ALOT of fattening foods at that ceremony!! Baby, eat a BBQ samminch or something!!!!!!!!!!

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    29. Hotstuff
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 3:48 pm | Reply |

      Are you talking about his tux or hers…both look pretty damn fem to me!!! *snaps for the kids*

      Noemie needs to eat dammit for real I thought zoe was skinny as hell.

      Beverly JOhnson looks nice…her daughter has on way too much makeup

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    30. Miss GQ
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 3:48 pm | Reply |

      Zoe looks cute…that Neiomi model is odee skinny..

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    31. ManDown_Holla_TyraMail (Tykeza, Monisha and Ti'eisha LOOOL!)
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 3:49 pm | Reply |

      Who’s the fudge packer next to Zoe??

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    32. Glamness
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 3:49 pm | Reply |

      [quote comment="276381"]Noemie..or whatever your name is…. I’m praying that they had ALOT of fattening foods at that ceremony!! Baby, eat a BBQ samminch or something!!!!!!!!!![/quote]
      She better have ate something while she was there.
      Lookin like Skelator’s sister.

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    33. GETER
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 3:50 pm | Reply |

      Why did O’s mag shut down? Tell us more!

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    34. rainywaters~TEAM DAT CHICK
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 3:51 pm | Reply |

      HEY YA’LL I’M BACK YEAAA

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    35. S&J Obama Stan #0.1 & 7!!! I stan for Bee too so don't even try it!
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 3:52 pm | Reply |

      [quote comment="276388"]Why did O’s mag shut down? Tell us more![/quote]
      theres a link next to it that has more details…

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    36. les923~Obama Stan #1
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 3:52 pm | Reply |

      [quote comment="276330"]Zoe needs a little foundation and a tad bit of lipstick and then she could be considered ‘fierce’.[/quote]

      It really bothers me that she doesn’t wear no damn make-up!!!!

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    37. tealight....
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 3:53 pm | Reply |

      hey everybody

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    38. S&J Obama Stan #0.1 & 7!!! I stan for Bee too so don't even try it!
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 3:53 pm | Reply |

      [quote comment="276394"][quote comment="276330"]Zoe needs a little foundation and a tad bit of lipstick and then she could be considered ‘fierce’.[/quote]

      It really bothers me that she doesn’t wear no damn make-up!!!![/quote]
      her skin is nice tho, good for her!!!

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    39. southernBella *AKA* I'm Going to St. Louis This Weekend....Nelly Here I Come.....
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 3:54 pm | Reply |

      [quote comment="276355"]Noemie looks confused like she doesnt know why she is there and she looks hungry too.[/quote]
      ————————————————————————–
      She looks famished…..

      I want to lose weight, but I dont ever, ever want to be that thin…Ever.

      Quote

    40. S&J Obama Stan #0.1 & 7!!! I stan for Bee too so don't even try it!
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 3:57 pm | Reply |

      [quote comment="276398"][quote comment="276355"]Noemie looks confused like she doesnt know why she is there and she looks hungry too.[/quote]
      ————————————————————————–
      She looks famished…..

      I want to lose weight, but I dont ever, ever want to be that thin…Ever.[/quote]
      somebody throw that girl a chicken wing!!!

      Quote

    41. southernBella *AKA* I'm Going to St. Louis This Weekend....Nelly Here I Come.....
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 3:57 pm | Reply |

      [quote comment="276394"][quote comment="276330"]Zoe needs a little foundation and a tad bit of lipstick and then she could be considered ‘fierce’.[/quote]

      It really bothers me that she doesn’t wear no damn make-up!!!![/quote]
      ————————————————————————-
      She dont really need no make-up for real…..

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    42. Mz. Christian Keyes.400 YEARS OF PAIN ALL WASHED AWAY IN ONE NIGHT!!!!!!
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 3:58 pm | Reply |

      [quote comment="276385"][quote comment="276381"]Noemie..or whatever your name is…. I’m praying that they had ALOT of fattening foods at that ceremony!! Baby, eat a BBQ samminch or something!!!!!!!!!![/quote]
      She better have ate something while she was there.
      Lookin like Skelator’s sister.[/quote]
      Girl, yes!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

      Quote

    43. sweetsistah
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 3:58 pm | Reply |

      [quote comment="276404"][quote comment="276398"][quote comment="276355"]Noemie looks confused like she doesnt know why she is there and she looks hungry too.[/quote]
      ————————————————————————–
      She looks famished…..

      I want to lose weight, but I dont ever, ever want to be that thin…Ever.[/quote]
      somebody throw that girl a chicken wing!!![/quote]

      ish…better yet the whole chicken….she is a pretty girl though!

      Quote

    44. tealight....
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 3:58 pm | Reply |

      i need advice..my best friend since i was 15 (he was 17) recently told me he had feelings for me. when we met we were trying to date but the age difference him being 18 soon and i was still a “minor” we were just friends and nothing else. he dated girls and id give him advice and vice versa. we were talking the other day and he told me how he feels and i didnt know what to say..i dont want to ruin our friendship but he’s has so many qualities i want in a man..smart, no kids, God fearing, job and chocolate…any advice?!?

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    45. Kimmy
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 3:59 pm | Reply |

      The ladies look fab! Noemie is so cute!

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    46. southernBella *AKA* I'm Going to St. Louis This Weekend....Nelly Here I Come.....
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 3:59 pm | Reply |

      [quote comment="276404"][quote comment="276398"][quote comment="276355"]Noemie looks confused like she doesnt know why she is there and she looks hungry too.[/quote]
      ————————————————————————–
      She looks famished…..

      I want to lose weight, but I dont ever, ever want to be that thin…Ever.[/quote]
      somebody throw that girl a chicken wing!!![/quote]
      ————————————————————————
      She needs to go to a buffet everyday for a month…..

      How can any man think that’s sexy…..she’s nothing but skin and bones….

      Quote

    47. Mz. Christian Keyes.400 YEARS OF PAIN ALL WASHED AWAY IN ONE NIGHT!!!!!!
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 3:59 pm | Reply |

      [quote comment="276396"]hey everybody[/quote]
      Hey chica!!!!!!!!!

      Quote

    48. nba961
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 3:59 pm | Reply |

      Finally Zoe looks good for once.

      I’mma need someone to tell Beverly that those rain slicker pants do not go with that restuarant hostess shirt and vest combo.

      And yes, I would like to donate $2 to the Feed Noemie Foundation.

      Quote

    49. Glamness
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 3:59 pm | Reply |

      [quote comment="276404"][quote comment="276398"][quote comment="276355"]Noemie looks confused like she doesnt know why she is there and she looks hungry too.[/quote]
      ————————————————————————–
      She looks famished…..

      I want to lose weight, but I dont ever, ever want to be that thin…Ever.[/quote]
      somebody throw that girl a chicken wing!!![/quote]
      She needs more than just a wing!
      She needs a whole meal to even be considered thin.
      I don’t know what she is.
      Lookin like she will blow away with the wind….or somebody just blowing on their hot food.

      Quote

    50. SxyKole *Obama Stan #4*
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 3:59 pm | Reply |

      Everybody looks nice.. What in the hell!!! They need to get on top of the case. William may walk on monday wtf??

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    51. Glamness
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 4:01 pm | Reply |

      [quote comment="276409"]i need advice..my best friend since i was 15 (he was 17) recently told me he had feelings for me. when we met we were trying to date but the age difference him being 18 soon and i was still a “minor” we were just friends and nothing else. he dated girls and id give him advice and vice versa. we were talking the other day and he told me how he feels and i didnt know what to say..i dont want to ruin our friendship but he’s has so many qualities i want in a man..smart, no kids, God fearing, job and chocolate…any advice?!?[/quote]
      That’s a hard one.
      Do you think you could go back to being just friends if it weren’t to work out?
      Because that’s really important.

      Quote

    52. Kimmy
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 4:03 pm | Reply |

      [quote comment="276392"]HEY YA’LL I’M BACK YEAAA[/quote]

      Hey Rainy!!!!!!!!!

      Quote

    53. tealight....confused
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 4:04 pm | Reply |

      as for post.. love zoe outfit i would so rock that
      that other chick cant spell name right not going to try..looks bad im sorry there is a such thing as being to skinny..though im not that big or that small id gladly give her 10 of my pounds..chick looks scary!!

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    54. Mz. Christian Keyes.400 YEARS OF PAIN ALL WASHED AWAY IN ONE NIGHT!!!!!!
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 4:04 pm | Reply |

      [quote comment="276409"]i need advice..my best friend since i was 15 (he was 17) recently told me he had feelings for me. when we met we were trying to date but the age difference him being 18 soon and i was still a “minor” we were just friends and nothing else. he dated girls and id give him advice and vice versa. we were talking the other day and he told me how he feels and i didnt know what to say..i dont want to ruin our friendship but he’s has so many qualities i want in a man..smart, no kids, God fearing, job and chocolate…any advice?!?[/quote]
      Go for the gold… Friends, in most cases, sometimes makes the best mates!!! That God fearing quality in him is what makes me say this of course. Why do you think this will mess up your friendship? That is the main thing that a couple needs in order to survive.. Well next to having a relationship with God. As long as you two are not planning to jump each others bones, then go for it… I think that is the way to mess something up…jump in the sack prematurely….

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    55. rainywaters~TEAM DAT CHICK
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 4:04 pm | Reply |

      I DON’T THINK I HAVE EVER READ AN ISSUE OF O..SO BORING..LOVE OPRAH THOUGH

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    56. countrygyrl #13 ~ Obamariffic!
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 4:06 pm | Reply |

      Zoe looks makeupless fab!

      Noemie is really thin. Wow!

      Beverly Johnson looks great for her age.

      Quote

    57. Mz. Christian Keyes.400 YEARS OF PAIN ALL WASHED AWAY IN ONE NIGHT!!!!!!
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 4:06 pm | Reply |

      [quote comment="276415"][quote comment="276404"][quote comment="276398"][quote comment="276355"]Noemie looks confused like she doesnt know why she is there and she looks hungry too.[/quote]
      ————————————————————————–
      She looks famished…..

      I want to lose weight, but I dont ever, ever want to be that thin…Ever.[/quote]
      somebody throw that girl a chicken wing!!![/quote]
      She needs more than just a wing!
      She needs a whole meal to even be considered thin.
      I don’t know what she is.
      Lookin like she will blow away with the wind….or somebody just blowing on their hot food.[/quote]
      I agree, she needs to gain 15 pounds just to qualify as skinny!!!!!!!!

      Quote

    58. Glamness
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 4:06 pm | Reply |

      [quote comment="276431"][quote comment="276409"]i need advice..my best friend since i was 15 (he was 17) recently told me he had feelings for me. when we met we were trying to date but the age difference him being 18 soon and i was still a “minor” we were just friends and nothing else. he dated girls and id give him advice and vice versa. we were talking the other day and he told me how he feels and i didnt know what to say..i dont want to ruin our friendship but he’s has so many qualities i want in a man..smart, no kids, God fearing, job and chocolate…any advice?!?[/quote]
      Go for the gold… Friends, in most cases, sometimes makes the best mates!!! That God fearing quality in him is what makes me say this of course. Why do you think this will mess up your friendship? That is the main thing that a couple needs in order to survive.. Well next to having a relationship with God. As long as you two are not planning to jump each others bones, then go for it… I think that is the way to mess something up…jump in the sack prematurely….[/quote]
      Well said.
      I totally agree.

      Quote

    59. SxyKole *Obama Stan #4*
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 4:06 pm | Reply |

      [quote comment="276423"][quote comment="276409"]i need advice..my best friend since i was 15 (he was 17) recently told me he had feelings for me. when we met we were trying to date but the age difference him being 18 soon and i was still a “minor” we were just friends and nothing else. he dated girls and id give him advice and vice versa. we were talking the other day and he told me how he feels and i didnt know what to say..i dont want to ruin our friendship but he’s has so many qualities i want in a man..smart, no kids, God fearing, job and chocolate…any advice?!?[/quote]
      That’s a hard one.
      Do you think you could go back to being just friends if it weren’t to work out?
      Because that’s really important.[/quote]
      Yeah this is a hard one… I say go for but take is slow, see where it leads to. Make sure ya’ll are both ready beyond friendship.

      Quote

    60. rainywaters~TEAM DAT CHICK
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 4:06 pm | Reply |

      [quote comment="276426"][quote comment="276392"]HEY YA’LL I’M BACK YEAAA[/quote]

      Hey Rainy!!!!!!!!![/quote]
      what i miss should i go scrolling in the other posts

      Quote

    61. This_Is_A_Stick_Up! ... No, I'm Not a Stalker, I Just Like to Look and Follow People Around.
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 4:07 pm | Reply |

      beverly and her daughter are looking fab :)

      Zoe is looking cute - Love the pants

      Noemie is a pretty girl but, she looks confused and hungry

      I ♥ Will Smith - Looks like a good movie

      Quote

    62. loveislove (("AINT NO STOPPIN US NOW..WE'RE ON THA MOVE!!"..A CHANGE HAS COME WITH PRESIDENT BARACK OBAMA!!!..STAN #INFINITY))
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 4:07 pm | Reply |

      [quote comment="276409"]i need advice..my best friend since i was 15 (he was 17) recently told me he had feelings for me. when we met we were trying to date but the age difference him being 18 soon and i was still a “minor” we were just friends and nothing else. he dated girls and id give him advice and vice versa. we were talking the other day and he told me how he feels and i didnt know what to say..i dont want to ruin our friendship but he’s has so many qualities i want in a man..smart, no kids, God fearing, job and chocolate…any advice?!?[/quote]

      Woooow..that can go either way….it can be for the best or the extremely worst. I just went there with the same kind of friendship (from high school we have been best friends) and we decided now to take it further (the past 3 yrs) and lemme tell you that was the biggest mistake of my life….I despise this dude!!!!

      Quote

    63. Kimmy
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 4:08 pm | Reply |

      [quote comment="276439"][quote comment="276426"][quote comment="276392"]HEY YA’LL I’M BACK YEAAA[/quote]

      Hey Rainy!!!!!!!!![/quote]
      what i miss should i go scrolling in the other posts[/quote]

      I’m not sure…I was kind of in an out myself.

      Quote

    64. tealight....confused
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 4:08 pm | Reply |

      [quote comment="276431"][quote comment="276409"]i need advice..my best friend since i was 15 (he was 17) recently told me he had feelings for me. when we met we were trying to date but the age difference him being 18 soon and i was still a “minor” we were just friends and nothing else. he dated girls and id give him advice and vice versa. we were talking the other day and he told me how he feels and i didnt know what to say..i dont want to ruin our friendship but he’s has so many qualities i want in a man..smart, no kids, God fearing, job and chocolate…any advice?!?[/quote]
      Go for the gold… Friends, in most cases, sometimes makes the best mates!!! That God fearing quality in him is what makes me say this of course. Why do you think this will mess up your friendship? That is the main thing that a couple needs in order to survive.. Well next to having a relationship with God. As long as you two are not planning to jump each others bones, then go for it… I think that is the way to mess something up…jump in the sack prematurely….[/quote]
      no i dont plan on jumping his bones anytime soon lol i say i dont want to ruin the friendship because ppl have the friend side and the relationship side of them..we are so much alike..we always have the convo about theres no one out there for us and he says we just having been looking at each other

      Quote

    65. blaq
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 4:09 pm | Reply |

      [quote comment="276409"]i need advice..my best friend since i was 15 (he was 17) recently told me he had feelings for me. when we met we were trying to date but the age difference him being 18 soon and i was still a “minor” we were just friends and nothing else. he dated girls and id give him advice and vice versa. we were talking the other day and he told me how he feels and i didnt know what to say..i dont want to ruin our friendship but he’s has so many qualities i want in a man..smart, no kids, God fearing, job and chocolate…any advice?!?[/quote]

      The best man a woman can have was her friend first. I know form personal experience, take a chance especially since he was brave and confident enough to tell you. He has the qualities you want in a man and he want you. Girl go get your Maaan!!!!! And if he is truly your friend and you are truly his you won’t do anything in the confines of a relationship that will ruin the friendship if things don’t work out.

      Quote

    66. OneLife Obama #9
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 4:09 pm | Reply |

      [quote comment="276290"]Go head Zoe! Loving the look. Somebody please fix Noeme a plate QUICK. Her body looks like it hurts[/quote]

      hhehehehehehe for real im so hungry lookin ass

      Quote

    67. mmschel (How did I miss the afternoon clinic closing??? Hanging out on YBF. Yeahhh Boi!)
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 4:09 pm | Reply |

      [quote comment="276409"]i need advice..my best friend since i was 15 (he was 17) recently told me he had feelings for me. when we met we were trying to date but the age difference him being 18 soon and i was still a “minor” we were just friends and nothing else. he dated girls and id give him advice and vice versa. we were talking the other day and he told me how he feels and i didnt know what to say..i dont want to ruin our friendship but he’s has so many qualities i want in a man..smart, no kids, God fearing, job and chocolate…any advice?!?[/quote]
      Aren’t you both grown now?

      Quote

    68. Copwife
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 4:09 pm | Reply |

      What in the skinny azzed-Noemie hell is going on? :shock:

      Quote

    69. loveislove (("AINT NO STOPPIN US NOW..WE'RE ON THA MOVE!!"..A CHANGE HAS COME WITH PRESIDENT BARACK OBAMA!!!..STAN #INFINITY))
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 4:11 pm | Reply |

      [quote comment="276441"][quote comment="276409"]i need advice..my best friend since i was 15 (he was 17) recently told me he had feelings for me. when we met we were trying to date but the age difference him being 18 soon and i was still a “minor” we were just friends and nothing else. he dated girls and id give him advice and vice versa. we were talking the other day and he told me how he feels and i didnt know what to say..i dont want to ruin our friendship but he’s has so many qualities i want in a man..smart, no kids, God fearing, job and chocolate…any advice?!?[/quote]

      Woooow..that can go either way….it can be for the best or the extremely worst. I just went there with the same kind of friendship (from high school we have been best friends) and we decided now to take it further (the past 3 yrs) and lemme tell you that was the biggest mistake of my life….I despise this dude!!!![/quote]

      Your situation of course can definitely turn out better than mine but he to had the qualities I wanted in a guy…shit back in the days I didn’t wanna talk to him cause he was so nice and I didn’t appreciate that then and I didn’t feel I was good enough for him….but boy did the damn tables turn….wolves in sheep clothing defines him to a tee!!!!

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    70. Copwife
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 4:12 pm | Reply |

      [quote comment="276392"]HEY YA’LL I’M BACK YEAAA[/quote]
      …I’m TELLIN’!!!!!!!
      Hey Rainy, Dat Chick called us “elders”!!!!!!!
      YEAHHHH DAT CHICK, NOW WHAT?!?!!? :lol:

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    71. Pinkflame1983
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 4:12 pm | Reply |

      Zoe always looks wet to me. So skinny and aged looking does she smoke cigs? She is so not fly.

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    72. tealight....confused
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 4:12 pm | Reply |

      [quote comment="276441"][quote comment="276409"]i need advice..my best friend since i was 15 (he was 17) recently told me he had feelings for me. when we met we were trying to date but the age difference him being 18 soon and i was still a “minor” we were just friends and nothing else. he dated girls and id give him advice and vice versa. we were talking the other day and he told me how he feels and i didnt know what to say..i dont want to ruin our friendship but he’s has so many qualities i want in a man..smart, no kids, God fearing, job and chocolate…any advice?!?[/quote]

      Woooow..that can go either way….it can be for the best or the extremely worst. I just went there with the same kind of friendship (from high school we have been best friends) and we decided now to take it further (the past 3 yrs) and lemme tell you that was the biggest mistake of my life….I despise this dude!!!![/quote]
      o my…see we’ve been friends for 9 yrs and we know so much about each other. what happened for u to say it was a mistake if u dont mind me asking

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    73. DAT CHICK OBAMA STAN #3
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 4:13 pm | Reply |

      [quote comment="276392"]HEY YA’LL I’M BACK YEAAA[/quote]

      Hey mama!!!

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    74. Copwife
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 4:13 pm | Reply |

      [quote comment="276436"][quote comment="276415"][quote comment="276404"][quote comment="276398"][quote comment="276355"]Noemie looks confused like she doesnt know why she is there and she looks hungry too.[/quote]
      ————————————————————————–
      She looks famished…..

      I want to lose weight, but I dont ever, ever want to be that thin…Ever.[/quote]
      somebody throw that girl a chicken wing!!![/quote]
      She needs more than just a wing!
      She needs a whole meal to even be considered thin.
      I don’t know what she is.
      Lookin like she will blow away with the wind….or somebody just blowing on their hot food.[/quote]
      I agree, she needs to gain 15 pounds just to qualify as skinny!!!!!!!![/quote]
      :lol: :lol: Crazy girl!!!!!

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    75. Kimmy
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 4:13 pm | Reply |

      [quote comment="276409"]i need advice..my best friend since i was 15 (he was 17) recently told me he had feelings for me. when we met we were trying to date but the age difference him being 18 soon and i was still a “minor” we were just friends and nothing else. he dated girls and id give him advice and vice versa. we were talking the other day and he told me how he feels and i didnt know what to say..i dont want to ruin our friendship but he’s has so many qualities i want in a man..smart, no kids, God fearing, job and chocolate…any advice?!?[/quote]

      Hmmm…kinda dicey. There is that risk that if it doesn’t work out, you may lose a good friend, but I was in a situation like that and I didn’t give it a chance and I have always regretted that. He was a great guy and I think we could have worked.

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    76. PrettyBlaqueGirl ~ Jealousy is a Disease, So Get Well Soon B*^ch
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 4:13 pm | Reply |

      [quote comment="276404"][quote comment="276398"][quote comment="276355"]Noemie looks confused like she doesnt know why she is there and she looks hungry too.[/quote]
      ————————————————————————–
      She looks famished…..

      I want to lose weight, but I dont ever, ever want to be that thin…Ever.[/quote]
      somebody throw that girl a chicken wing!!![/quote]
      Forget the chicken wing, throw her the whole chicken

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    77. tealight....confused
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 4:14 pm | Reply |

      [quote comment="276447"][quote comment="276409"]i need advice..my best friend since i was 15 (he was 17) recently told me he had feelings for me. when we met we were trying to date but the age difference him being 18 soon and i was still a “minor” we were just friends and nothing else. he dated girls and id give him advice and vice versa. we were talking the other day and he told me how he feels and i didnt know what to say..i dont want to ruin our friendship but he’s has so many qualities i want in a man..smart, no kids, God fearing, job and chocolate…any advice?!?[/quote]
      Aren’t you both grown now?[/quote]
      yea he’s 26 and im 24

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    78. DAT CHICK OBAMA STAN #3
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 4:15 pm | Reply |

      [quote comment="276451"][quote comment="276392"]HEY YA’LL I’M BACK YEAAA[/quote]
      …I’m TELLIN’!!!!!!!
      Hey Rainy, Dat Chick called us “elders”!!!!!!!
      YEAHHHH DAT CHICK, NOW WHAT?!?!!? :lol:[/quote]

      Naaa uhnnnn
      just you :P

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    79. mmschel (How did I miss the afternoon clinic closing??? Hanging out on YBF. Yeahhh Boi!)
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 4:16 pm | Reply |

      [quote comment="276423"][quote comment="276409"]i need advice..my best friend since i was 15 (he was 17) recently told me he had feelings for me. when we met we were trying to date but the age difference him being 18 soon and i was still a “minor” we were just friends and nothing else. he dated girls and id give him advice and vice versa. we were talking the other day and he told me how he feels and i didnt know what to say..i dont want to ruin our friendship but he’s has so many qualities i want in a man..smart, no kids, God fearing, job and chocolate…any advice?!?[/quote]
      That’s a hard one.
      Do you think you could go back to being just friends if it weren’t to work out?
      Because that’s really important.[/quote]
      Hi Glam! Welcome.
      @ Tealight you must be able to agree with each other on what happens if the intimate doesn’t work out. If you return to being friends then those experiences should be cast out so you don’t have problems. It’ takes a short time to develop feelings but twice as long to get rid of them.

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    80. mmschel (How did I miss the afternoon clinic closing??? Hanging out on YBF. Yeahhh Boi!)
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 4:17 pm | Reply |

      [quote comment="276448"]What in the skinny azzed-Noemie hell is going on? :shock:[/quote]
      It’s not a good look. And whoever thinks it’s is…is lying or has bad eyesight.

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    81. Copwife
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 4:17 pm | Reply |

      [quote comment="276394"][quote comment="276330"]Zoe needs a little foundation and a tad bit of lipstick and then she could be considered ‘fierce’.[/quote]

      It really bothers me that she doesn’t wear no damn make-up!!!![/quote]
      Yeah, what’s up with that?!!? I don’t think I’ve ever seen her with makeup, not even theatrical makeup in movies, unless it’s applied really lightly! Maybe she’s allergic? (seriously!)

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    82. Glamness
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 4:18 pm | Reply |

      [quote comment="276469"][quote comment="276423"][quote comment="276409"]i need advice..my best friend since i was 15 (he was 17) recently told me he had feelings for me. when we met we were trying to date but the age difference him being 18 soon and i was still a “minor” we were just friends and nothing else. he dated girls and id give him advice and vice versa. we were talking the other day and he told me how he feels and i didnt know what to say..i dont want to ruin our friendship but he’s has so many qualities i want in a man..smart, no kids, God fearing, job and chocolate…any advice?!?[/quote]
      That’s a hard one.
      Do you think you could go back to being just friends if it weren’t to work out?
      Because that’s really important.[/quote]
      Hi Glam! Welcome.
      @ Tealight you must be able to agree with each other on what happens if the intimate doesn’t work out. If you return to being friends then those experiences should be cast out so you don’t have problems. It’ takes a short time to develop feelings but twice as long to get rid of them.[/quote]
      Thank you!

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    83. DAT CHICK OBAMA STAN #3
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 4:19 pm | Reply |

      [quote comment="276437"][quote comment="276431"][quote comment="276409"]i need advice..my best friend since i was 15 (he was 17) recently told me he had feelings for me. when we met we were trying to date but the age difference him being 18 soon and i was still a “minor” we were just friends and nothing else. he dated girls and id give him advice and vice versa. we were talking the other day and he told me how he feels and i didnt know what to say..i dont want to ruin our friendship but he’s has so many qualities i want in a man..smart, no kids, God fearing, job and chocolate…any advice?!?[/quote]
      Go for the gold… Friends, in most cases, sometimes makes the best mates!!! That God fearing quality in him is what makes me say this of course. Why do you think this will mess up your friendship? That is the main thing that a couple needs in order to survive.. Well next to having a relationship with God. As long as you two are not planning to jump each others bones, then go for it… I think that is the way to mess something up…jump in the sack prematurely….[/quote]
      Well said.
      I totally agree.[/quote]

      Glam watch my back!

      *whispering*
      It’s an old lady in here chasing me wit Bengay and asking me to scrub her dentures

      Heeeeyyyy Copwife!!! :lol:

      *whistling*

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    84. OneLife Obama #9
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 4:19 pm | Reply |

      [quote comment="276409"]i need advice..my best friend since i was 15 (he was 17) recently told me he had feelings for me. when we met we were trying to date but the age difference him being 18 soon and i was still a “minor” we were just friends and nothing else. he dated girls and id give him advice and vice versa. we were talking the other day and he told me how he feels and i didnt know what to say..i dont want to ruin our friendship but he’s has so many qualities i want in a man..smart, no kids, God fearing, job and chocolate…any advice?!?[/quote]

      oh this is so love and basketball……remember to keep ur heart open!!!

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    85. Copwife
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 4:19 pm | Reply |

      [quote comment="276465"][quote comment="276451"][quote comment="276392"]HEY YA’LL I’M BACK YEAAA[/quote]
      …I’m TELLIN’!!!!!!!
      Hey Rainy, Dat Chick called us “elders”!!!!!!!
      YEAHHHH DAT CHICK, NOW WHAT?!?!!? :lol:[/quote]

      Naaa uhnnnn
      just you :P [/quote]
      HAHAAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAAHA!!!!!!!!
      I’m too through with you today, Girl! You literally have me laughing out loud!!!!! You are gonna get me fired and I’mma have to come live in your new house! :lol:

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    86. Glamness
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 4:21 pm | Reply |

      [quote comment="276481"][quote comment="276437"][quote comment="276431"][quote comment="276409"]i need advice..my best friend since i was 15 (he was 17) recently told me he had feelings for me. when we met we were trying to date but the age difference him being 18 soon and i was still a “minor” we were just friends and nothing else. he dated girls and id give him advice and vice versa. we were talking the other day and he told me how he feels and i didnt know what to say..i dont want to ruin our friendship but he’s has so many qualities i want in a man..smart, no kids, God fearing, job and chocolate…any advice?!?[/quote]
      Go for the gold… Friends, in most cases, sometimes makes the best mates!!! That God fearing quality in him is what makes me say this of course. Why do you think this will mess up your friendship? That is the main thing that a couple needs in order to survive.. Well next to having a relationship with God. As long as you two are not planning to jump each others bones, then go for it… I think that is the way to mess something up…jump in the sack prematurely….[/quote]
      Well said.
      I totally agree.[/quote]

      Glam watch my back!

      *whispering*
      It’s an old lady in here chasing me wit Bengay and asking me to scrub her dentures

      Heeeeyyyy Copwife!!! :lol:

      *whistling*[/quote]
      :lol:

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    87. Brazilian.Barbie is a Single Lady!
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 4:23 pm | Reply |

      @ tealight

      About friends becoming together.It’s a weird situation.When a male friend tells me he likes me, I kind of back off.It’s a weird feeling.But go for what you feel.You may never know.I think it might be better to stay friend though.And that’s just my opinion.Hope whatever you choose will be the best for you *cyber hug*

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    88. tealight....confused
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 4:23 pm | Reply |

      thanks for the advice ladies!! at least now i have an idea of what to say when he calls back because at first i was speechless and dumb-founded lol

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    89. mmschel (How did I miss the afternoon clinic closing??? Hanging out on YBF. Yeahhh Boi!)
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 4:24 pm | Reply |

      [quote comment="276481"][quote comment="276437"][quote comment="276431"][quote comment="276409"]i need advice..my best friend since i was 15 (he was 17) recently told me he had feelings for me. when we met we were trying to date but the age difference him being 18 soon and i was still a “minor” we were just friends and nothing else. he dated girls and id give him advice and vice versa. we were talking the other day and he told me how he feels and i didnt know what to say..i dont want to ruin our friendship but he’s has so many qualities i want in a man..smart, no kids, God fearing, job and chocolate…any advice?!?[/quote]
      Go for the gold… Friends, in most cases, sometimes makes the best mates!!! That God fearing quality in him is what makes me say this of course. Why do you think this will mess up your friendship? That is the main thing that a couple needs in order to survive.. Well next to having a relationship with God. As long as you two are not planning to jump each others bones, then go for it… I think that is the way to mess something up…jump in the sack prematurely….[/quote]
      Well said.
      I totally agree.[/quote]

      Glam watch my back!

      *whispering*
      It’s an old lady in here chasing me wit Bengay and asking me to scrub her dentures

      Heeeeyyyy Copwife!!! :lol:

      *whistling*[/quote]
      Bengay? dentures? Lettme take my earrings off.

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    90. Mz. Christian Keyes.400 YEARS OF PAIN ALL WASHED AWAY IN ONE NIGHT!!!!!!
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 4:24 pm | Reply |

      [quote comment="276457"][quote comment="276436"][quote comment="276415"][quote comment="276404"][quote comment="276398"][quote comment="276355"]Noemie looks confused like she doesnt know why she is there and she looks hungry too.[/quote]
      ————————————————————————–
      She looks famished…..

      I want to lose weight, but I dont ever, ever want to be that thin…Ever.[/quote]
      somebody throw that girl a chicken wing!!![/quote]
      She needs more than just a wing!
      She needs a whole meal to even be considered thin.
      I don’t know what she is.
      Lookin like she will blow away with the wind….or somebody just blowing on their hot food.[/quote]
      I agree, she needs to gain 15 pounds just to qualify as skinny!!!!!!!![/quote]
      :lol: :lol:

      Crazy girl!!!!![/quote]
      *Snickering* … Okay roll call..are we here, or in the horny Ursh post!!!!!!!!!

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    91. loveislove (("AINT NO STOPPIN US NOW..WE'RE ON THA MOVE!!"..A CHANGE HAS COME WITH PRESIDENT BARACK OBAMA!!!..STAN #INFINITY))
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 4:25 pm | Reply |

      [quote comment="276453"][quote comment="276441"][quote comment="276409"]i need advice..my best friend since i was 15 (he was 17) recently told me he had feelings for me. when we met we were trying to date but the age difference him being 18 soon and i was still a “minor” we were just friends and nothing else. he dated girls and id give him advice and vice versa. we were talking the other day and he told me how he feels and i didnt know what to say..i dont want to ruin our friendship but he’s has so many qualities i want in a man..smart, no kids, God fearing, job and chocolate…any advice?!?[/quote]

      Woooow..that can go either way….it can be for the best or the extremely worst. I just went there with the same kind of friendship (from high school we have been best friends) and we decided now to take it further (the past 3 yrs) and lemme tell you that was the biggest mistake of my life….I despise this dude!!!![/quote]
      o my…see we’ve been friends for 9 yrs and we know so much about each other. what happened for u to say it was a mistake if u dont mind me asking[/quote]

      Well we’ve been best friends for 13 yrs….yes 13!!!! I don’t want you to judge your relationship off of mine….just letting you know the good and the bad. But he from high school was always the guy you wanted to take home to your mom….and as we got older it remained the same. But back then I wanted the thug guy….wont even lie. Even to this day, he doesnt drink..not even socially, or smoke….nothing!!!! I had so much respect for him and felt I had to be up to par with my ish to even go the relationship route. So after a failed relationship with my child’s father and a disengagement I felt with him knowing all that and being my friend he would have my best interest at heart. He knew my entire family, vice versa, so I felt he was the one. Girrrrrrrrrl, I about 1 year ago suffered a miscarriage with him….and he was there..he was supportive and had me all the way through….only to find out when that was going on with me he had another with his “other girlfriend” on the way???? So she had the baby January and he just told me July..when everyone else started finding out and he didnt want me to hear from them. That took me hard even more so than the break-up of me and my child’s father just because he was always my best friend and we discussed everything and he was in my face every 5 secs….so that experience has taught me it doesnt matter how long you know someone….they can still f you over!!!!

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    92. blaq
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 4:25 pm | Reply |

      [quote comment="276458"][quote comment="276409"]i need advice..my best friend since i was 15 (he was 17) recently told me he had feelings for me. when we met we were trying to date but the age difference him being 18 soon and i was still a “minor” we were just friends and nothing else. he dated girls and id give him advice and vice versa. we were talking the other day and he told me how he feels and i didnt know what to say..i dont want to ruin our friendship but he’s has so many qualities i want in a man..smart, no kids, God fearing, job and chocolate…any advice?!?[/quote]

      Hmmm…kinda dicey. There is that risk that if it doesn’t work out, you may lose a good friend, but I was in a situation like that and I didn’t give it a chance and I have always regretted that. He was a great guy and I think we could have worked.[/quote]

      A man is gonna show his true colors either way, what are the deal breakers, what would make YOU stop being friends, communicate but don’t pass up a good thing for fear of the unknown. Just because you break up doesn’t mean you have to hate a person, I am still friends with most of my ex’s because they were pretty good dudes. It took time to mourn the loss of the relationship but he friendship was genuine. The only one who I despise was never truly a friend and I am glad he in no longer in my life at all, but the relationship didn’t turn him into a bad person, he true self was gonna come out.

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    93. tealight....confused
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 4:25 pm | Reply |

      [quote comment="276503"]@ tealight

      About friends becoming together.It’s a weird situation.When a male friend tells me he likes me, I kind of back off.It’s a weird feeling.But go for what you feel.You may never know.I think it might be better to stay friend though.And that’s just my opinion.Hope whatever you choose will be the best for you *cyber hug*[/quote]
      :lol: thanks girl!

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    94. mmschel (How did I miss the afternoon clinic closing??? Hanging out on YBF. Yeahhh Boi!)
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 4:26 pm | Reply |

      [quote comment="276506"]thanks for the advice ladies!! at least now i have an idea of what to say when he calls back because at first i was speechless and dumb-founded lol[/quote]
      Remember to discuss what happens if it doesn’t work. But hopefully it will, so we won’t stress it!!!

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    95. Copwife
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 4:26 pm | Reply |

      [quote comment="276509"][quote comment="276481"][quote comment="276437"][quote comment="276431"][quote comment="276409"]i need advice..my best friend since i was 15 (he was 17) recently told me he had feelings for me. when we met we were trying to date but the age difference him being 18 soon and i was still a “minor” we were just friends and nothing else. he dated girls and id give him advice and vice versa. we were talking the other day and he told me how he feels and i didnt know what to say..i dont want to ruin our friendship but he’s has so many qualities i want in a man..smart, no kids, God fearing, job and chocolate…any advice?!?[/quote]
      Go for the gold… Friends, in most cases, sometimes makes the best mates!!! That God fearing quality in him is what makes me say this of course. Why do you think this will mess up your friendship? That is the main thing that a couple needs in order to survive.. Well next to having a relationship with God. As long as you two are not planning to jump each others bones, then go for it… I think that is the way to mess something up…jump in the sack prematurely….[/quote]
      Well said.
      I totally agree.[/quote]

      Glam watch my back!

      *whispering*
      It’s an old lady in here chasing me wit Bengay and asking me to scrub her dentures

      Heeeeyyyy Copwife!!! :lol:

      *whistling*[/quote]
      Bengay? dentures? Lettme take my earrings off.[/quote]
      OKAY?!!?!?
      OOOOOOOHHHHHH! Dat Chick, I don’t know whether to KNOCK YOU OUT, or give you five! YOU ARE STUPID!!!!!!! :lol:

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    96. Blue Star
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 4:27 pm | Reply |

      [quote comment="276393"][quote comment="276388"]Why did O’s mag shut down? Tell us more![/quote]
      theres a link next to it that has more details…[/quote]
      Do you really expect a “Home” magazine to survive when there is a housing crisis right now? No one is going to subscribe to a Home magazine if they have no home. I didn’t click on the link…I’m just ASSuming. :-D

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    97. Mz. Christian Keyes.. OBAMA= Our Blacks Are Moving America..McCain=Maybe Crackers Can Acknowledge It Now!!!.
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 4:28 pm | Reply |

      Hey ladies!! Check the Screen name!!!

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    98. tealight....confused
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 4:31 pm | Reply |

      [quote comment="276513"][quote comment="276453"][quote comment="276441"][quote comment="276409"]i need advice..my best friend since i was 15 (he was 17) recently told me he had feelings for me. when we met we were trying to date but the age difference him being 18 soon and i was still a “minor” we were just friends and nothing else. he dated girls and id give him advice and vice versa. we were talking the other day and he told me how he feels and i didnt know what to say..i dont want to ruin our friendship but he’s has so many qualities i want in a man..smart, no kids, God fearing, job and chocolate…any advice?!?[/quote]

      Woooow..that can go either way….it can be for the best or the extremely worst. I just went there with the same kind of friendship (from high school we have been best friends) and we decided now to take it further (the past 3 yrs) and lemme tell you that was the biggest mistake of my life….I despise this dude!!!![/quote]
      o my…see we’ve been friends for 9 yrs and we know so much about each other. what happened for u to say it was a mistake if u dont mind me asking[/quote]

      Well we’ve been best friends for 13 yrs….yes 13!!!! I don’t want you to judge your relationship off of mine….just letting you know the good and the bad. But he from high school was always the guy you wanted to take home to your mom….and as we got older it remained the same. But back then I wanted the thug guy….wont even lie. Even to this day, he doesnt drink..not even socially, or smoke….nothing!!!! I had so much respect for him and felt I had to be up to par with my ish to even go the relationship route. So after a failed relationship with my child’s father and a disengagement I felt with him knowing all that and being my friend he would have my best interest at heart. He knew my entire family, vice versa, so I felt he was the one. Girrrrrrrrrl, I about 1 year ago suffered a miscarriage with him….and he was there..he was supportive and had me all the way through….only to find out when that was going on with me he had another with his “other girlfriend” on the way???? So she had the baby January and he just told me July..when everyone else started finding out and he didnt want me to hear from them. That took me hard even more so than the break-up of me and my child’s father just because he was always my best friend and we discussed everything and he was in my face every 5 secs….so that experience has taught me it doesnt matter how long you know someone….they can still f you over!!!![/quote]
      wow :shock: and that is what scares me..i know how he is as a friend and i know a lil about the relationship side of him but only what he tells me. i have been friends with one of exs but she has never said anything bad about him. the others either didnt like me because they thought i wanted him or i never met them. but i can say he is still associates with most of them.

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    99. Mz. Christian Keyes.. OBAMA= Our Blacks Are Moving America..McCain=Maybe Crackers Can Acknowledge It Now!!!.
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 4:32 pm | Reply |

      [quote comment="276513"][quote comment="276453"][quote comment="276441"][quote comment="276409"]i need advice..my best friend since i was 15 (he was 17) recently told me he had feelings for me. when we met we were trying to date but the age difference him being 18 soon and i was still a “minor” we were just friends and nothing else. he dated girls and id give him advice and vice versa. we were talking the other day and he told me how he feels and i didnt know what to say..i dont want to ruin our friendship but he’s has so many qualities i want in a man..smart, no kids, God fearing, job and chocolate…any advice?!?[/quote]

      Woooow..that can go either way….it can be for the best or the extremely worst. I just went there with the same kind of friendship (from high school we have been best friends) and we decided now to take it further (the past 3 yrs) and lemme tell you that was the biggest mistake of my life….I despise this dude!!!![/quote]
      o my…see we’ve been friends for 9 yrs and we know so much about each other. what happened for u to say it was a mistake if u dont mind me asking[/quote]

      Well we’ve been best friends for 13 yrs….yes 13!!!! I don’t want you to judge your relationship off of mine….just letting you know the good and the bad. But he from high school was always the guy you wanted to take home to your mom….and as we got older it remained the same. But back then I wanted the thug guy….wont even lie. Even to this day, he doesnt drink..not even socially, or smoke….nothing!!!! I had so much respect for him and felt I had to be up to par with my ish to even go the relationship route. So after a failed relationship with my child’s father and a disengagement I felt with him knowing all that and being my friend he would have my best interest at heart. He knew my entire family, vice versa, so I felt he was the one. Girrrrrrrrrl, I about 1 year ago suffered a miscarriage with him….and he was there..he was supportive and had me all the way through….only to find out when that was going on with me he had another with his “other girlfriend” on the way???? So she had the baby January and he just told me July..when everyone else started finding out and he didnt want me to hear from them. That took me hard even more so than the break-up of me and my child’s father just because he was always my best friend and we discussed everything and he was in my face every 5 secs….so that experience has taught me it doesnt matter how long you know someone….they can still f you over!!!![/quote]
      Man, I hate to hear stories like that… and Tealight..now if you don’t feel like this will work, screw my advice and don’t even bother. A ladies intuition is, in most cases, the right way to go!!!

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    100. mmschel (How did I miss the afternoon clinic closing??? Hanging out on YBF. Yeahhh Boi!)
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 4:32 pm | Reply |

      [quote comment="276530"]Hey ladies!! Check the Screen name!!![/quote]
      Love it!

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    101. DAT CHICK OBAMA STAN #3
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 4:32 pm | Reply |

      [quote comment="276509"][quote comment="276481"][quote comment="276437"][quote comment="276431"][quote comment="276409"]i need advice..my best friend since i was 15 (he was 17) recently told me he had feelings for me. when we met we were trying to date but the age difference him being 18 soon and i was still a “minor” we were just friends and nothing else. he dated girls and id give him advice and vice versa. we were talking the other day and he told me how he feels and i didnt know what to say..i dont want to ruin our friendship but he’s has so many qualities i want in a man..smart, no kids, God fearing, job and chocolate…any advice?!?[/quote]
      Go for the gold… Friends, in most cases, sometimes makes the best mates!!! That God fearing quality in him is what makes me say this of course. Why do you think this will mess up your friendship? That is the main thing that a couple needs in order to survive.. Well next to having a relationship with God. As long as you two are not planning to jump each others bones, then go for it… I think that is the way to mess something up…jump in the sack prematurely….[/quote]
      Well said.
      I totally agree.[/quote]

      Glam watch my back!

      *whispering*
      It’s an old lady in here chasing me wit Bengay and asking me to scrub her dentures

      Heeeeyyyy Copwife!!! :lol:

      *whistling*[/quote]
      Bengay? dentures? Lettme take my earrings off.[/quote]

      :shock: No no no ….*backing up with hands blocking me*

      Not you *whispering* :arrow: that other lady
      :lol:

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    102. tealight....confused
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 4:33 pm | Reply |

      [quote comment="276530"]Hey ladies!! Check the Screen name!!![/quote]
      i like i like lol!

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    103. Pusher
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 4:36 pm | Reply |

      model lookin like she on that stuff.

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    104. sweetsistah
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 4:38 pm | Reply |

      [quote comment="276516"][quote comment="276503"]@ tealight

      About friends becoming together.It’s a weird situation.When a male friend tells me he likes me, I kind of back off.It’s a weird feeling.But go for what you feel.You may never know.I think it might be better to stay friend though.And that’s just my opinion.Hope whatever you choose will be the best for you *cyber hug*[/quote]
      :lol: thanks girl![/quote]

      I married my best friend……We have been together 14 yrs.

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    105. Copwife
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 4:40 pm | Reply |

      [quote comment="276530"]Hey ladies!! Check the Screen name!!![/quote]
      Me likey a lot!

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    106. Kimmy
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 4:41 pm | Reply |

      [quote comment="276566"][quote comment="276516"][quote comment="276503"]@ tealight

      About friends becoming together.It’s a weird situation.When a male friend tells me he likes me, I kind of back off.It’s a weird feeling.But go for what you feel.You may never know.I think it might be better to stay friend though.And that’s just my opinion.Hope whatever you choose will be the best for you *cyber hug*[/quote]
      :lol: thanks girl![/quote]

      I married my best friend……We have been together 14 yrs.[/quote]

      That’s great! I really admire that!

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    107. loveislove (("AINT NO STOPPIN US NOW..WE'RE ON THA MOVE!!"..A CHANGE HAS COME WITH PRESIDENT BARACK OBAMA!!!..STAN #INFINITY))
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 4:41 pm | Reply |

      [quote comment="276538"][quote comment="276513"][quote comment="276453"][quote comment="276441"][quote comment="276409"]i need advice..my best friend since i was 15 (he was 17) recently told me he had feelings for me. when we met we were trying to date but the age difference him being 18 soon and i was still a “minor” we were just friends and nothing else. he dated girls and id give him advice and vice versa. we were talking the other day and he told me how he feels and i didnt know what to say..i dont want to ruin our friendship but he’s has so many qualities i want in a man..smart, no kids, God fearing, job and chocolate…any advice?!?[/quote]

      Woooow..that can go either way….it can be for the best or the extremely worst. I just went there with the same kind of friendship (from high school we have been best friends) and we decided now to take it further (the past 3 yrs) and lemme tell you that was the biggest mistake of my life….I despise this dude!!!![/quote]
      o my…see we’ve been friends for 9 yrs and we know so much about each other. what happened for u to say it was a mistake if u dont mind me asking[/quote]

      Well we’ve been best friends for 13 yrs….yes 13!!!! I don’t want you to judge your relationship off of mine….just letting you know the good and the bad. But he from high school was always the guy you wanted to take home to your mom….and as we got older it remained the same. But back then I wanted the thug guy….wont even lie. Even to this day, he doesnt drink..not even socially, or smoke….nothing!!!! I had so much respect for him and felt I had to be up to par with my ish to even go the relationship route. So after a failed relationship with my child’s father and a disengagement I felt with him knowing all that and being my friend he would have my best interest at heart. He knew my entire family, vice versa, so I felt he was the one. Girrrrrrrrrl, I about 1 year ago suffered a miscarriage with him….and he was there..he was supportive and had me all the way through….only to find out when that was going on with me he had another with his “other girlfriend” on the way???? So she had the baby January and he just told me July..when everyone else started finding out and he didnt want me to hear from them. That took me hard even more so than the break-up of me and my child’s father just because he was always my best friend and we discussed everything and he was in my face every 5 secs….so that experience has taught me it doesnt matter how long you know someone….they can still f you over!!!![/quote]
      wow :shock: and that is what scares me..i know how he is as a friend and i know a lil about the relationship side of him but only what he tells me. i have been friends with one of exs but she has never said anything bad about him. the others either didnt like me because they thought i wanted him or i never met them. but i can say he is still associates with most of them.[/quote]

      Don’t let it scare you….just let it be something you are aware of. Just because I experienced doesn’t mean you will..they are not the same guy so you dont know the outcome. My ex who I was engaged to and is younger than me gave me the best advice ever. When we met I wouldnt give him the time or day because he had everything I said I didn’t want in a guy….he was younger than me and spanish….all of which my son’s father was and to top it off he looked just like him…..so I kept turning him down. One day I told him why I kept denying him and he stood in my face and started like he was at an award show and said “round of applause to your baby father….he is the man…cuz although you two aren’t together anymore he still got control over your life….you still letting him have the power”. That shit knocked the shit outta and really made me think. So just because of what I went through with this ass no I wont let that get the best of me or turn me away from trying to experience love again….it just taught me. So I didnt tell you that to deter you just to let you know and not be naive to what could possibly be.

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    108. Copwife
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 4:42 pm | Reply |

      [quote comment="276542"][quote comment="276509"][quote comment="276481"][quote comment="276437"][quote comment="276431"][quote comment="276409"]i need advice..my best friend since i was 15 (he was 17) recently told me he had feelings for me. when we met we were trying to date but the age difference him being 18 soon and i was still a “minor” we were just friends and nothing else. he dated girls and id give him advice and vice versa. we were talking the other day and he told me how he feels and i didnt know what to say..i dont want to ruin our friendship but he’s has so many qualities i want in a man..smart, no kids, God fearing, job and chocolate…any advice?!?[/quote]
      Go for the gold… Friends, in most cases, sometimes makes the best mates!!! That God fearing quality in him is what makes me say this of course. Why do you think this will mess up your friendship? That is the main thing that a couple needs in order to survive.. Well next to having a relationship with God. As long as you two are not planning to jump each others bones, then go for it… I think that is the way to mess something up…jump in the sack prematurely….[/quote]
      Well said.
      I totally agree.[/quote]

      Glam watch my back!

      *whispering*
      It’s an old lady in here chasing me wit Bengay and asking me to scrub her dentures

      Heeeeyyyy Copwife!!! :lol:

      *whistling*[/quote]
      Bengay? dentures? Lettme take my earrings off.[/quote]

      :shock: No no no ….*backing up with hands blocking me*

      Not you *whispering* :arrow: that other lady
      :lol:[/quote]
      DAT CHICK!!!!!! :evil:
      Keep it up and I’mma have to stuff you inside of your $1200 LV purse, straight mafia-style! HA! :lol:

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    109. sweetsistah
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 4:49 pm | Reply |

      [quote comment="276577"][quote comment="276566"][quote comment="276516"][quote comment="276503"]@ tealight

      About friends becoming together.It’s a weird situation.When a male friend tells me he likes me, I kind of back off.It’s a weird feeling.But go for what you feel.You may never know.I think it might be better to stay friend though.And that’s just my opinion.Hope whatever you choose will be the best for you *cyber hug*[/quote]
      :lol: thanks girl![/quote]

      I married my best friend……We have been together 14 yrs.[/quote]

      That’s great! I really admire that![/quote]

      Its alot of work and everyday aint sunshine but we know divorce is not an option. But sometimes I do look at my single friends and think I have missed out on stuff. I got married right out of school, so it was very hard at first.

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    110. boot
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 4:49 pm | Reply |

      Beverly Johnson looks good because she has had a facelift!
      Google it if you don’t believe me.

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    111. Tealeaf
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 4:54 pm | Reply |

      Zoe looks like a crackhead to me

      Noemie had gotten too skinny

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    112. cantstopwontstop
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 5:25 pm | Reply |

      [quote comment="276409"]i need advice..my best friend since i was 15 (he was 17) recently told me he had feelings for me. when we met we were trying to date but the age difference him being 18 soon and i was still a “minor” we were just friends and nothing else. he dated girls and id give him advice and vice versa. we were talking the other day and he told me how he feels and i didnt know what to say..i dont want to ruin our friendship but he’s has so many qualities i want in a man..smart, no kids, God fearing, job and chocolate…any advice?!?[/quote

      i’m sorry…what’s the problem????

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    113. ada frsacua
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 5:27 pm | Reply |

      th model girl looks nice but a bit decapitated. im jus syain hope that is not here runway pose. but then and again fashion is awkward

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    114. cantstopwontstop
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 5:28 pm | Reply |

      Noemie’s appearance is shocking what happened there??? And Zoe, too, looked so much better with a little more weigh on her….what’s going on with these women….it seems like Hollywood standards of beauty really do a number on some women….

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    115. Kitty
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 6:44 pm | Reply |

      Zoe is NOT CUTE AT ALL!! Although her outfit is cute..(seen it before on Celene Deon) she looks VERY VERY OLD. ANd she needs 2-20 more sandwiches. boooooooooo Zoe. You get two Burger King coupons and a SIT DOWN

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    116. TripleT
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 7:20 pm | Reply |

      I love that outfit. This is the first time I saw her looking like she was going to a fashion show. She ususally looks like she don’t care what she wears.

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    117. ChaCha Fance
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 7:49 pm | Reply |

      Noemie PLEASE EAT SOMETHING! Whatever your problems are, they’re not worth starving yourself sweetie!!

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    118. Tabby
      OnNov 7, 2008 at 10:11 pm | Reply |

      Zoe is blunted. I don’t see how she is so thin…having the munches and all. I love Dsquared.

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