Remy Ma Wants OUT!+Usher Gives Baby Details!
Remy Ma has made her list and is checking it twice. Her Christmas list consists of GTFO of jail. Her lawyers are now appealing her conviction saying the judge in the case committed errors–leading her to being found guilty of shooting her “friend” Makeda Barnes and ending up in the slammer since March of this year:
At issue specifically, were the judge’s instructions regarding the testimony of Remy’s victim, Makeda Smith-Barnes, who was shot by the rapper outside a New York City nightclub during an argument over $3000.
In closing arguments on March 24, Remy’s attorney Ivan Fisher argued that Smith-Barnes’ testimony actually supported his client’s explanation of the shooting as an accident.However, the jury was instructed that if they believed the victim to be “truthful and accurate,” under the law, her words were enough to establish reasonable doubt.
Additionally, Fisher was barred by the court from arguing that the shooting in fact occurred during a struggle for the .45 caliber automatic handgun which, allegedly resulted in Smith-Barnes being shot in the abdomen at close range.
These two instructions, the appeal states, amounted to a “directed verdict,” which they say should be examined as more than just accidental error.
Source
Remy is eligible for parole in 2014. Something tells me she needs to keep on wishing…
And Usher has finally revealed the details surrounding his new baby. His wife Tameka Raymond will be delivering their second BOY together on December 15th to be exact. Just in time for a Christmas bundle of joy. Ursh finally revealed the details he’s been keeping on the hush to Stevie Wonder on Stevie’s radio show this week. He says they haven’t finalized a name, but they’re open to suggestions from the public. Congrats to the Raymonds.
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:05 am (Quote) | Reply |
Uno.
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:06 am (Quote) | Reply |
WHOMP WHOMP Ursh. No one really cares about you and your husband Tammeka….although I hope she delivers a healthy bundle of joy
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:06 am (Quote) | Reply |
Remy
Congrats to Ushmeka. I didn’t know Stevie had a radio show
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:06 am (Quote) | Reply |
deux..
big up Nigeria..
Love you London!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:07 am (Quote) | Reply |
Tameka must can only bare boys cause ain’t not girls poppin out of there.
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:08 am (Quote) | Reply |
Dang, Remy. 2014?? That’s more numbers than your album sales. May the force be with you…I just know Big Bertha is salivating in corner right about now.
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Oh and congrats to Ursh & Lady. My idea for a name (since they’re open for public suggestions) would be: Beard.
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:08 am (Quote) | Reply |
Congrats to Usher & Tameka … Hopefully it’s a cute and normal name they give to the baby
Remy Ma … Whateva, Whateva, It’s Whateva!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:08 am (Quote) | Reply |
top ten?
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:08 am (Quote) | Reply |
Congrats for Ursh and Tameka? I do hope she gets she gets fixed after this one. After all, she’s good to go with money after having 2 kids by him.
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:09 am (Quote) | Reply |
WHATEVER Remy keep dreaming
you should have thought about that before you shot someone
Stevie Wonder has a radio show??????
Congrats on the baby Usher and Tameka
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:09 am (Quote) | Reply |
too bad Remy! And damn, how old is the 1st baby? Only the rich can have back to back babies and not be stressed the hell out! Oh, well congrats to them.
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:09 am (Quote) | Reply |
FREE REMY…wow usher…yall must be doin a lot of trading places….he better stay wit her…if he don’t child support goin 2 kick his ass.lol
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:10 am (Quote) | Reply |
I still think she got knocked AGAIN up to try to make sure that man can’t try and go NO WHERE!! Sealing up the payments for life!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:10 am (Quote) | Reply |
So this makes 5 boys for Tameka huh? I bet she wants a girl! I hope they have a healthy baby and give it a nice name. Usher can go the Rev. Run route and name his sons after him and his brothers. I always thought that was nice. So what’s his brother’s name? James? Yeah, that would work.
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:10 am (Quote) | Reply |
Top 20? Lol…Usher lookin dapper!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:11 am (Quote) | Reply |
2014! Damn remy, well keep wishing for that exit out of jail. Why do they want suggestions from the public?
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:12 am (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300738"]WHOMP WHOMP Ursh. No one really cares about you and your husband Tammeka….although I hope she delivers a healthy bundle of joy :)[/quote]
How you gon call the girl a dude and wish her well in the same sentence??? Girl you crazy!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:12 am (Quote) | Reply |
Remy, do your time!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:13 am (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300750"]Dang, Remy. 2014?? That’s more numbers than your album sales. May the force be with you…I just know Big Bertha is salivating in corner right about now.
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Oh and congrats to Ursh & Lady. My idea for a name (since they’re open for public suggestions) would be: Beard.[/quote]
LMAO. DEAD @ Big Bertha________________________________.
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:13 am (Quote) | Reply |
Well, I hope this next baby is as cute as big brother cause Usher V is a lil cutie if I ever saw one!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:13 am (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300776"][quote comment="300738"]WHOMP WHOMP Ursh. No one really cares about you and your husband Tammeka….although I hope she delivers a healthy bundle of joy :)[/quote]
How you gon call the girl a dude and wish her well in the same sentence??? Girl you crazy! :lol:[/quote]
I still think she looks like a dude…but that’s not the baby’s fault. I really hope the baby is healthy. I dont wish bad on anyone….
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:14 am (Quote) | Reply |
Remy Ma..All YOU GOTTA DO IS PULL UP YA PANTS..and LEAN BACK!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:14 am (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300777"]Remy, do your time![/quote]
Right. HELLO- U SHOT SOMEONE!! (**crickets)
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:15 am (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300776"][quote comment="300738"]WHOMP WHOMP Ursh. No one really cares about you and your husband Tammeka….although I hope she delivers a healthy bundle of joy :)[/quote]
How you gon call the girl a dude and wish her well in the same sentence??? Girl you crazy! :lol:[/quote]
I Know right!LOL
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:16 am (Quote) | Reply |
I feel bad for Remy a little bit. You spending 6 years in jail for arguing over $3000!? She probably feels all kind of dumb and embarrassed.
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:16 am (Quote) | Reply |
Remy Ma couldn’t be save if Jonny Cocohran was her lawyer.Too bad.
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:17 am (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300788"][quote comment="300777"]Remy, do your time![/quote]
Right. HELLO- U SHOT SOMEONE!! (**crickets)[/quote]
LMAO @ the crickets
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:17 am (Quote) | Reply |
Usher and Tameka look just alike in that pic it is scary
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:17 am (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300783"]Well, I hope this next baby is as cute as big brother cause Usher V is a lil cutie if I ever saw one![/quote]
I know cause I though lil Usher V was gonna be a monsta! He is cute though…
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:17 am (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300782"][quote comment="300750"]Dang, Remy. 2014?? That’s more numbers than your album sales. May the force be with you…I just know Big Bertha is salivating in corner right about now.
__________
Oh and congrats to Ursh & Lady. My idea for a name (since they’re open for public suggestions) would be: Beard.[/quote]
LMAO. DEAD @ Big Bertha________________________________.[/quote]
With a body shaped like a Ham Hock. *shutters*
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:17 am (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300787"]Remy Ma..All YOU GOTTA DO IS PULL UP YA PANTS..and LEAN BACK![/quote]
DEAD___________________________
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:18 am (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300773"]2014! Damn remy, well keep wishing for that exit out of jail. Why do they want suggestions from the public?[/quote]
They tired of all the men in the family being named Usher
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:18 am (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300798"][quote comment="300783"]Well, I hope this next baby is as cute as big brother cause Usher V is a lil cutie if I ever saw one![/quote]
I know cause I though lil Usher V was gonna be a monsta! He is cute though…[/quote]
Aww. lol. alteast I was talkin’ about the baby’s daddy, not the daddy. lmao!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:19 am (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300799"][quote comment="300782"][quote comment="300750"]Dang, Remy. 2014?? That’s more numbers than your album sales. May the force be with you…I just know Big Bertha is salivating in corner right about now.
__________
Oh and congrats to Ursh & Lady. My idea for a name (since they’re open for public suggestions) would be: Beard.[/quote]
LMAO. DEAD @ Big Bertha________________________________.[/quote]
With a body shaped like a Ham Hock. *shutters*[/quote]
Big Bertha is probably built like the Tazmanian devil….
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:19 am (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300805"][quote comment="300798"][quote comment="300783"]Well, I hope this next baby is as cute as big brother cause Usher V is a lil cutie if I ever saw one![/quote]
I know cause I though lil Usher V was gonna be a monsta! He is cute though…[/quote]
Aww. lol. alteast I was talkin’ about the baby’s daddy, not the daddy. lmao![/quote]
**baby
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:19 am (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300799"][quote comment="300782"][quote comment="300750"]Dang, Remy. 2014?? That’s more numbers than your album sales. May the force be with you…I just know Big Bertha is salivating in corner right about now.
__________
Oh and congrats to Ursh & Lady. My idea for a name (since they’re open for public suggestions) would be: Beard.[/quote]
LMAO. DEAD @ Big Bertha________________________________.[/quote]
With a body shaped like a Ham Hock. *shutters*[/quote]
Not a ham hock!!! Oh shit!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:20 am (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300788"][quote comment="300777"]Remy, do your time![/quote]
Right. HELLO- U SHOT SOMEONE!! (**crickets)[/quote]
just cause you made a hit record or two doesn’t mean you something special.
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:21 am (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300787"]Remy Ma..All YOU GOTTA DO IS PULL UP YA PANTS..and LEAN BACK![/quote]
LMAOOOOOO
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:21 am (Quote) | Reply |
That’s a publicity stunt, they aren’t letting anyone else name the baby? Remy Ma…if they let her out, it’s only going to be more foolishness. We got other stuff going on…economy, Pres.-Elect Obama, The holidays shoot I gotta get my nails done later, and all of that is more important than getting your ignorant butt out of jail.
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:22 am (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300814"]That’s a publicity stunt, they aren’t letting anyone else name the baby? Remy Ma…if they let her out, it’s only going to be more foolishness. We got other stuff going on…economy, Pres.-Elect Obama, The holidays shoot I gotta get my nails done later, and all of that is more important than getting your ignorant butt out of jail.[/quote]
I agree. It just to make people care about them two dudes’ baby.
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:22 am (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300792"]I feel bad for Remy a little bit. You spending 6 years in jail for arguing over $3000!? She probably feels all kind of dumb and embarrassed.[/quote]
She’s probably mad as hell. If I was her friend I’d be on the look out. Remy looks crazy.
* mumbling… let me change my gravi…I ain’t trying to catch a charge over this crazy heffa. She probably scrolling in jail.
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:23 am (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300807"][quote comment="300799"][quote comment="300782"][quote comment="300750"]Dang, Remy. 2014?? That’s more numbers than your album sales. May the force be with you…I just know Big Bertha is salivating in corner right about now.
__________
Oh and congrats to Ursh & Lady. My idea for a name (since they’re open for public suggestions) would be: Beard.[/quote]
LMAO. DEAD @ Big Bertha________________________________.[/quote]
With a body shaped like a Ham Hock. *shutters*[/quote]
Big Bertha is probably built like the Tazmanian devil….[/quote]
More like Peter Pete off of Goof Troop.
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:24 am (Quote) | Reply |
I remember I met Remy Ma at the Westchester Mall. Lets just say her and her fam are ghettooooooooo
as to be expected
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:24 am (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300812"][quote comment="300787"]Remy Ma..All YOU GOTTA DO IS PULL UP YA PANTS..and LEAN BACK![/quote]
LMAOOOOOO[/quote]
_________________________________11:24am
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:24 am (Quote) | Reply |
Usher gon be like Diddy and keep trying until he gets a girl. Watch. He seems like the type to want a daddy’s girl to spoil.
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:24 am (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300816"][quote comment="300792"]I feel bad for Remy a little bit. You spending 6 years in jail for arguing over $3000!? She probably feels all kind of dumb and embarrassed.[/quote]
She’s probably mad as hell. If I was her friend I’d be on the look out. Remy looks crazy.
* mumbling… let me change my gravi…I ain’t trying to catch a charge over this crazy heffa. She probably scrolling in jail. :lol:[/quote]
DEAD @ scrolling in jail
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:25 am (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300819"]I remember I met Remy Ma at the Westchester Mall. Lets just say her and her fam are ghettooooooooo
as to be expected[/quote]
I TOTALLY believe you. (**scrolls back up to look @ her pic….self explanatory)
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:25 am (Quote) | Reply |
Poor Remy, she is probably going through weave withdrawals. I actually did think that her sentence was a bit excessive. Rapists get less time than that. I hope she changes her life after doing her bid.
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:25 am (Quote) | Reply |
AWW Ursh’s firstborn is adorable! I know this one will be too. Congrats to them.
Daaamn Remy..
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:26 am (Quote) | Reply |
2014!!! dang remy..oh well u cant just shoot somebody and call it a day…congrats to usher and tameka….didnt know stevie wonder had a show…
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:26 am (Quote) | Reply |
URSHER’S baby boy should be named “gothca b***!” (a la Chapelle Show) cuz that what MAN-eka is saying.
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:27 am (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300821"][quote comment="300812"][quote comment="300787"]Remy Ma..All YOU GOTTA DO IS PULL UP YA PANTS..and LEAN BACK![/quote]
LMAOOOOOO[/quote]
_________________________________11:24am[/quote]
——————————— Autopsy @ 11:26
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:27 am (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300822"]Usher gon be like Diddy and keep trying until he gets a girl. Watch. He seems like the type to want a daddy’s girl to spoil.[/quote]
What’s Diddy’s excuse now? he’s got 3. Cassie will be knocked up by this time next year…
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:27 am (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300823"][quote comment="300816"][quote comment="300792"]I feel bad for Remy a little bit. You spending 6 years in jail for arguing over $3000!? She probably feels all kind of dumb and embarrassed.[/quote]
She’s probably mad as hell. If I was her friend I’d be on the look out. Remy looks crazy.
* mumbling… let me change my gravi…I ain’t trying to catch a charge over this crazy heffa. She probably scrolling in jail. :lol:[/quote]
DEAD @ scrolling in jail :P[/quote]
You know they be getting phones and ish.
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:28 am (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300828"]URSHER’S baby boy should be named “gothca b***!” (a la Chapelle Show) cuz that what MAN-eka is saying.[/quote]
lmao!!!!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:28 am (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300825"]Poor Remy, she is probably going through weave withdrawals. I actually did think that her sentence was a bit excessive. Rapists get less time than that. I hope she changes her life after doing her bid.[/quote]
That’s the truth. The judicial system is bias, so what more can you expect?? I know she’ll go running to the the nearest wig crypt store after she’s released. That, and CVS…for anti-bacterial wipes.
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:28 am (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300835"][quote comment="300823"][quote comment="300816"][quote comment="300792"]I feel bad for Remy a little bit. You spending 6 years in jail for arguing over $3000!? She probably feels all kind of dumb and embarrassed.[/quote]
She’s probably mad as hell. If I was her friend I’d be on the look out. Remy looks crazy.
* mumbling… let me change my gravi…I ain’t trying to catch a charge over this crazy heffa. She probably scrolling in jail. :lol:[/quote]
DEAD @ scrolling in jail :P[/quote]
You know they be getting phones and ish. :neutral:[/quote]
right. She’s gonna be trying to call and text u.
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:29 am (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300816"][quote comment="300792"]I feel bad for Remy a little bit. You spending 6 years in jail for arguing over $3000!? She probably feels all kind of dumb and embarrassed.[/quote]
She’s probably mad as hell. If I was her friend I’d be on the look out. Remy looks crazy.
* mumbling… let me change my gravi…I ain’t trying to catch a charge over this crazy heffa. She probably scrolling in jail. :lol:[/quote]
Thats straight crazy…arguing over 3G’s when your suppose to have money like that…I understand its all about the prinicpal of the matter but still…She should know when 2 walk away and when to fight…The chick wasn’t even worth it…
Oh and Tameka needs to stop pushing out all those babies…She’s going to be all old when they grow up…
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:30 am (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300804"][quote comment="300773"]2014! Damn remy, well keep wishing for that exit out of jail. Why do they want suggestions from the public?[/quote]
They tired of all the men in the family being named Usher :lol:[/quote]
No, I’m tired of that ish! Who said that was cute? At least set the standards a little higher. Name him Executive, Doctor, Lawyer! Anything except Usher.
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:30 am (Quote) | Reply |
She shot this chick and now she thinks she should be let out of jail.
One question, why do you think you should be set free, since you did in fact commit the crime?
Congrats to Usher. Name the baby something outrageous like Camouflage hell, everyone else is doing it. I know you don’t want your baby to be left out!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:31 am (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300835"][quote comment="300823"][quote comment="300816"][quote comment="300792"]I feel bad for Remy a little bit. You spending 6 years in jail for arguing over $3000!? She probably feels all kind of dumb and embarrassed.[/quote]
She’s probably mad as hell. If I was her friend I’d be on the look out. Remy looks crazy.
* mumbling… let me change my gravi…I ain’t trying to catch a charge over this crazy heffa. She probably scrolling in jail. :lol:[/quote]
DEAD @ scrolling in jail :P[/quote]
You know they be getting phones and ish. :neutral:[/quote]
Yes I have a homie like that
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:31 am (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300750"]Dang, Remy. 2014?? That’s more numbers than your album sales. May the force be with you…I just know Big Bertha is salivating in corner right about now.
__________
Oh and congrats to Ursh & Lady. My idea for a name (since they’re open for public suggestions) would be: Beard.[/quote]
OMG!!! LOL…I damn near choked after reading this.
As far as Urshmanka….they make a beautiful baby so congrats. Is it me or doesn’t she tower ovr him. She looks like she could whoop his butt.
Remy, you always seemed like you wanted to be this thugged out shemale and now you are. Take your time like the thug you are. Going around popping friends and stuff.
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:31 am (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300840"][quote comment="300804"][quote comment="300773"]2014! Damn remy, well keep wishing for that exit out of jail. Why do they want suggestions from the public?[/quote]
They tired of all the men in the family being named Usher :lol:[/quote]
No, I’m tired of that ish! Who said that was cute? At least set the standards a little higher. Name him Executive, Doctor, Lawyer! Anything except Usher.[/quote]
hahaha.
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:31 am (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300834"][quote comment="300822"]Usher gon be like Diddy and keep trying until he gets a girl. Watch. He seems like the type to want a daddy’s girl to spoil.[/quote]
What’s Diddy’s excuse now? he’s got 3. Cassie will be knocked up by this time next year…[/quote]
In my mind I’d like to think Diddy is smarter than to knock up Cassie. He probably stands there and watches her take a BCP every day. I would if I were him.
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:32 am (Quote) | Reply |
Well…can’t blame Remy for trying, right?
Congrats to Usher and Tameka!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:33 am (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300833"][quote comment="300821"][quote comment="300812"][quote comment="300787"]Remy Ma..All YOU GOTTA DO IS PULL UP YA PANTS..and LEAN BACK![/quote]
LMAOOOOOO[/quote]
_________________________________11:24am[/quote]
——————————— Autopsy @ 11:26[/quote]
All I’m sayin is she got all gun happy with the Terror Squad and she what happens…
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:33 am (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300845"][quote comment="300834"][quote comment="300822"]Usher gon be like Diddy and keep trying until he gets a girl. Watch. He seems like the type to want a daddy’s girl to spoil.[/quote]
What’s Diddy’s excuse now? he’s got 3. Cassie will be knocked up by this time next year…[/quote]
In my mind I’d like to think Diddy is smarter than to knock up Cassie. He probably stands there and watches her take a BCP every day. I would if I were him.[/quote]
lol. He probably sneaks extra ones into her food as well.
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:34 am (Quote) | Reply |
They should’ve put Remy under the jail ole idiot!
Congrats Urshmeka!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:34 am (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300838"][quote comment="300835"][quote comment="300823"][quote comment="300816"][quote comment="300792"]I feel bad for Remy a little bit. You spending 6 years in jail for arguing over $3000!? She probably feels all kind of dumb and embarrassed.[/quote]
She’s probably mad as hell. If I was her friend I’d be on the look out. Remy looks crazy.
* mumbling… let me change my gravi…I ain’t trying to catch a charge over this crazy heffa. She probably scrolling in jail. :lol:[/quote]
DEAD @ scrolling in jail :P[/quote]
You know they be getting phones and ish. :neutral:[/quote]
right. She’s gonna be trying to call and text u.[/quote]
Nah, ordering hits and stuff.. cussing me out on is it Jerry or Maury.. who does those daytime shows now?
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:34 am (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300851"][quote comment="300845"][quote comment="300834"][quote comment="300822"]Usher gon be like Diddy and keep trying until he gets a girl. Watch. He seems like the type to want a daddy’s girl to spoil.[/quote]
What’s Diddy’s excuse now? he’s got 3. Cassie will be knocked up by this time next year…[/quote]
In my mind I’d like to think Diddy is smarter than to knock up Cassie. He probably stands there and watches her take a BCP every day. I would if I were him.[/quote]
lol. He probably sneaks extra ones into her food as well.[/quote]
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:34 am (Quote) | Reply |
I wonder if Remy will run into Da Brat???
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:34 am (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300839"][quote comment="300816"][quote comment="300792"]I feel bad for Remy a little bit. You spending 6 years in jail for arguing over $3000!? She probably feels all kind of dumb and embarrassed.[/quote]
She’s probably mad as hell. If I was her friend I’d be on the look out. Remy looks crazy.
* mumbling… let me change my gravi…I ain’t trying to catch a charge over this crazy heffa. She probably scrolling in jail. :lol:[/quote]
Thats straight crazy…arguing over 3G’s when your suppose to have money like that…I understand its all about the prinicpal of the matter but still…She should know when 2 walk away and when to fight…The chick wasn’t even worth it…
Oh and Tameka needs to stop pushing out all those babies…She’s going to be all old when they grow up…[/quote]
Money like WHAT? If Bey and Jay are celeb couple number 1, Remy Ma and Papoose are like 388,219. They don’t have real money.
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:35 am (Quote) | Reply |
This is actually the best I have ever seen Remy look. She got rid of the skunk on her head.
I never understood her song Conceited…what reason does she have to be conceited? So many questions. Maybe I’ll write her and ask her. She ain’t go nothing but time on her hands to write me back…
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:36 am (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300856"][quote comment="300839"][quote comment="300816"][quote comment="300792"]I feel bad for Remy a little bit. You spending 6 years in jail for arguing over $3000!? She probably feels all kind of dumb and embarrassed.[/quote]
She’s probably mad as hell. If I was her friend I’d be on the look out. Remy looks crazy.
* mumbling… let me change my gravi…I ain’t trying to catch a charge over this crazy heffa. She probably scrolling in jail. :lol:[/quote]
Thats straight crazy…arguing over 3G’s when your suppose to have money like that…I understand its all about the prinicpal of the matter but still…She should know when 2 walk away and when to fight…The chick wasn’t even worth it…
Oh and Tameka needs to stop pushing out all those babies…She’s going to be all old when they grow up…[/quote]
Money like WHAT? If Bey and Jay are celeb couple number 1, Remy Ma and Papoose are like 388,219. They don’t have real money.[/quote]
DEAD!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:36 am (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300856"][quote comment="300839"][quote comment="300816"][quote comment="300792"]I feel bad for Remy a little bit. You spending 6 years in jail for arguing over $3000!? She probably feels all kind of dumb and embarrassed.[/quote]
She’s probably mad as hell. If I was her friend I’d be on the look out. Remy looks crazy.
* mumbling… let me change my gravi…I ain’t trying to catch a charge over this crazy heffa. She probably scrolling in jail. :lol:[/quote]
Thats straight crazy…arguing over 3G’s when your suppose to have money like that…I understand its all about the prinicpal of the matter but still…She should know when 2 walk away and when to fight…The chick wasn’t even worth it…
Oh and Tameka needs to stop pushing out all those babies…She’s going to be all old when they grow up…[/quote]
Money like WHAT? If Bey and Jay are celeb couple number 1, Remy Ma and Papoose are like 388,219. They don’t have real money.[/quote]
DEAD@ 388,219.
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:37 am (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300858"]This is actually the best I have ever seen Remy look. She got rid of the skunk on her head.
I never understood her song Conceited…what reason does she have to be conceited? So many questions. Maybe I’ll write her and ask her. She ain’t go nothing but time on her hands to write me back…[/quote]
Never got that song either. If anything, it should’ve been titled: ‘Constipated’. And I don’t think she’ll write back. I have a feeling her hands will be occupied…
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:37 am (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300853"][quote comment="300838"][quote comment="300835"][quote comment="300823"][quote comment="300816"][quote comment="300792"]I feel bad for Remy a little bit. You spending 6 years in jail for arguing over $3000!? She probably feels all kind of dumb and embarrassed.[/quote]
She’s probably mad as hell. If I was her friend I’d be on the look out. Remy looks crazy.
* mumbling… let me change my gravi…I ain’t trying to catch a charge over this crazy heffa. She probably scrolling in jail. :lol:[/quote]
DEAD @ scrolling in jail :P[/quote]
You know they be getting phones and ish. :neutral:[/quote]
right. She’s gonna be trying to call and text u.[/quote]
Nah, ordering hits and stuff.. cussing me out on is it Jerry or Maury.. who does those daytime shows now?[/quote]
Congrats on the new position. I get happy when my peeps are bettering themselves. Maybe y’alls success will rub off on me!
Am I ever going to find a better job…I don’t think so
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:37 am (Quote) | Reply |
Oh, so now Usher wants to reach out to the fans since his CD didn’t sale. HELL NAW! Don’t come begging now Usher. You should have thought about the hand that was feeding you when you jump all up against your fans on your wifes be have. MEMO: Silence is golden sometimes. You should have shut your dang gone mouth and rode out the storm in silence. Now back to the subject; So Usher, since yo ass is getting low funds you want to holla at us (the fans), NOT. We don’t care nothing about you no more, your wife or the kids you producing. MOVING THE FREAK ON and you Usher need a class on how to treat your fans if you want them to buy your CD’s.
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:38 am (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300858"]This is actually the best I have ever seen Remy look. She got rid of the skunk on her head.
I never understood her song Conceited…what reason does she have to be conceited? So many questions. Maybe I’ll write her and ask her. She ain’t go nothing but time on her hands to write me back…[/quote]
Lol.. Hey Country, I used to hate that song with a passion. Maybe bcuz she was the rapping in the song.
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:38 am (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300856"][quote comment="300839"][quote comment="300816"][quote comment="300792"]I feel bad for Remy a little bit. You spending 6 years in jail for arguing over $3000!? She probably feels all kind of dumb and embarrassed.[/quote]
She’s probably mad as hell. If I was her friend I’d be on the look out. Remy looks crazy.
* mumbling… let me change my gravi…I ain’t trying to catch a charge over this crazy heffa. She probably scrolling in jail. :lol:[/quote]
Thats straight crazy…arguing over 3G’s when your suppose to have money like that…I understand its all about the prinicpal of the matter but still…She should know when 2 walk away and when to fight…The chick wasn’t even worth it…
Oh and Tameka needs to stop pushing out all those babies…She’s going to be all old when they grow up…[/quote]
Money like WHAT? If Bey and Jay are celeb couple number 1, Remy Ma and Papoose are like 388,219. They don’t have real money.[/quote]
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:38 am (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300856"][quote comment="300839"][quote comment="300816"][quote comment="300792"]I feel bad for Remy a little bit. You spending 6 years in jail for arguing over $3000!? She probably feels all kind of dumb and embarrassed.[/quote]
She’s probably mad as hell. If I was her friend I’d be on the look out. Remy looks crazy.
* mumbling… let me change my gravi…I ain’t trying to catch a charge over this crazy heffa. She probably scrolling in jail. :lol:[/quote]
Thats straight crazy…arguing over 3G’s when your suppose to have money like that…I understand its all about the prinicpal of the matter but still…She should know when 2 walk away and when to fight…The chick wasn’t even worth it…
Oh and Tameka needs to stop pushing out all those babies…She’s going to be all old when they grow up…[/quote]
Money like WHAT? If Bey and Jay are celeb couple number 1, Remy Ma and Papoose are like 388,219. They don’t have real money.[/quote]
Nah they ain’t got NO MONEY!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:38 am (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300845"][quote comment="300834"][quote comment="300822"]Usher gon be like Diddy and keep trying until he gets a girl. Watch. He seems like the type to want a daddy’s girl to spoil.[/quote]
What’s Diddy’s excuse now? he’s got 3. Cassie will be knocked up by this time next year…[/quote]
In my mind I’d like to think Diddy is smarter than to knock up Cassie. He probably stands there and watches her take a BCP every day. I would if I were him.[/quote]
Don’t he look just like the type to do that. Kim was probably switching them pills out with fake ones. Cassie don’t have her game down yet.
Meanwhile Jay is searching for Bey’s stash and trying to knock her iud out. He’s reading books on antibiotics and bc reactions.
*Just a little humor. I do have my flyswatter folks*
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:39 am (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300862"][quote comment="300853"][quote comment="300838"][quote comment="300835"][quote comment="300823"][quote comment="300816"][quote comment="300792"]I feel bad for Remy a little bit. You spending 6 years in jail for arguing over $3000!? She probably feels all kind of dumb and embarrassed.[/quote]
She’s probably mad as hell. If I was her friend I’d be on the look out. Remy looks crazy.
* mumbling… let me change my gravi…I ain’t trying to catch a charge over this crazy heffa. She probably scrolling in jail. :lol:[/quote]
DEAD @ scrolling in jail :P[/quote]
You know they be getting phones and ish. :neutral:[/quote]
right. She’s gonna be trying to call and text u.[/quote]
Nah, ordering hits and stuff.. cussing me out on is it Jerry or Maury.. who does those daytime shows now?[/quote]
Congrats on the new position. I get happy when my peeps are bettering themselves. Maybe y’alls success will rub off on me!
Am I ever going to find a better job…I don’t think so :sad:[/quote]
You get back what you put out. Of course you will find a better job.
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:39 am (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300866"][quote comment="300856"][quote comment="300839"][quote comment="300816"][quote comment="300792"]I feel bad for Remy a little bit. You spending 6 years in jail for arguing over $3000!? She probably feels all kind of dumb and embarrassed.[/quote]
She’s probably mad as hell. If I was her friend I’d be on the look out. Remy looks crazy.
* mumbling… let me change my gravi…I ain’t trying to catch a charge over this crazy heffa. She probably scrolling in jail. :lol:[/quote]
Thats straight crazy…arguing over 3G’s when your suppose to have money like that…I understand its all about the prinicpal of the matter but still…She should know when 2 walk away and when to fight…The chick wasn’t even worth it…
Oh and Tameka needs to stop pushing out all those babies…She’s going to be all old when they grow up…[/quote]
Money like WHAT? If Bey and Jay are celeb couple number 1, Remy Ma and Papoose are like 388,219. They don’t have real money.[/quote]
Nah they ain’t got NO MONEY! :lol:[/quote]
Remember when he tried to break her out??? LMAO
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:40 am (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300864"][quote comment="300858"]This is actually the best I have ever seen Remy look. She got rid of the skunk on her head.
I never understood her song Conceited…what reason does she have to be conceited? So many questions. Maybe I’ll write her and ask her. She ain’t go nothing but time on her hands to write me back…[/quote]
Lol.. Hey Country, I used to hate that song with a passion. Maybe bcuz she was the rapping in the song.[/quote]
hey girl! what’s doing on?
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:40 am (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300871"][quote comment="300864"][quote comment="300858"]This is actually the best I have ever seen Remy look. She got rid of the skunk on her head.
I never understood her song Conceited…what reason does she have to be conceited? So many questions. Maybe I’ll write her and ask her. She ain’t go nothing but time on her hands to write me back…[/quote]
Lol.. Hey Country, I used to hate that song with a passion. Maybe bcuz she was the rapping in the song.[/quote]
hey girl! what’s doing on?[/quote]
what’s going on?
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:40 am (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300864"][quote comment="300858"]This is actually the best I have ever seen Remy look. She got rid of the skunk on her head.
I never understood her song Conceited…what reason does she have to be conceited? So many questions. Maybe I’ll write her and ask her. She ain’t go nothing but time on her hands to write me back…[/quote]
Lol.. Hey Country, I used to hate that song with a passion. Maybe bcuz she was the rapping in the song.[/quote]
Hey girl!!! Happy Friday!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:41 am (Quote) | Reply |
Hey everybody….chick, country, rainy, aj,vogue an anyone else that I failed to mention…too many names in here…lol.
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:41 am (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300862"][quote comment="300853"][quote comment="300838"][quote comment="300835"][quote comment="300823"][quote comment="300816"][quote comment="300792"]I feel bad for Remy a little bit. You spending 6 years in jail for arguing over $3000!? She probably feels all kind of dumb and embarrassed.[/quote]
She’s probably mad as hell. If I was her friend I’d be on the look out. Remy looks crazy.
* mumbling… let me change my gravi…I ain’t trying to catch a charge over this crazy heffa. She probably scrolling in jail. :lol:[/quote]
DEAD @ scrolling in jail :P[/quote]
You know they be getting phones and ish. :neutral:[/quote]
right. She’s gonna be trying to call and text u.[/quote]
Nah, ordering hits and stuff.. cussing me out on is it Jerry or Maury.. who does those daytime shows now?[/quote]
Congrats on the new position. I get happy when my peeps are bettering themselves. Maybe y’alls success will rub off on me!
Am I ever going to find a better job…I don’t think so :sad:[/quote]
You will Country! The devotional I read yesterday said we should not allow words of defeat or negativity to come out of our mouth and I am trying to do that myself! Be patient and just believe it is already on its way!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:41 am (Quote) | Reply |
Congrats Usher!!!! Nice to see a Black man still going strong with a beautiful Black woman!!!
Remy…….no one ever cared about your buck-eyed self!!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:42 am (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300860"][quote comment="300856"][quote comment="300839"][quote comment="300816"][quote comment="300792"]I feel bad for Remy a little bit. You spending 6 years in jail for arguing over $3000!? She probably feels all kind of dumb and embarrassed.[/quote]
She’s probably mad as hell. If I was her friend I’d be on the look out. Remy looks crazy.
* mumbling… let me change my gravi…I ain’t trying to catch a charge over this crazy heffa. She probably scrolling in jail. :lol:[/quote]
Thats straight crazy…arguing over 3G’s when your suppose to have money like that…I understand its all about the prinicpal of the matter but still…She should know when 2 walk away and when to fight…The chick wasn’t even worth it…
Oh and Tameka needs to stop pushing out all those babies…She’s going to be all old when they grow up…[/quote]
Money like WHAT? If Bey and Jay are celeb couple number 1, Remy Ma and Papoose are like 388,219. They don’t have real money.[/quote]
DEAD@ 388,219.[/quote]
LMAO!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:42 am (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300862"][quote comment="300853"][quote comment="300838"][quote comment="300835"][quote comment="300823"][quote comment="300816"][quote comment="300792"]I feel bad for Remy a little bit. You spending 6 years in jail for arguing over $3000!? She probably feels all kind of dumb and embarrassed.[/quote]
She’s probably mad as hell. If I was her friend I’d be on the look out. Remy looks crazy.
* mumbling… let me change my gravi…I ain’t trying to catch a charge over this crazy heffa. She probably scrolling in jail. :lol:[/quote]
DEAD @ scrolling in jail :P[/quote]
You know they be getting phones and ish. :neutral:[/quote]
right. She’s gonna be trying to call and text u.[/quote]
Nah, ordering hits and stuff.. cussing me out on is it Jerry or Maury.. who does those daytime shows now?[/quote]
Congrats on the new position. I get happy when my peeps are bettering themselves. Maybe y’alls success will rub off on me!
Am I ever going to find a better job…I don’t think so :sad:[/quote]
Thank you and be patient.
“Take each rock that is thrown at you and turn it into a stepping stone.”
*borrowed from Ne-Ne’s husband Gregg, RHOA.
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:42 am (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300867"]
Don’t he look just like the type to do that. Kim was probably switching them pills out with fake ones. Cassie don’t have her game down yet.
Meanwhile Jay is searching for Bey’s stash and trying to knock her iud out. He’s reading books on antibiotics and bc reactions.
*Just a little humor. I do have my flyswatter folks*[/quote]
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:43 am (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300867"][quote comment="300845"][quote comment="300834"][quote comment="300822"]Usher gon be like Diddy and keep trying until he gets a girl. Watch. He seems like the type to want a daddy’s girl to spoil.[/quote]
What’s Diddy’s excuse now? he’s got 3. Cassie will be knocked up by this time next year…[/quote]
In my mind I’d like to think Diddy is smarter than to knock up Cassie. He probably stands there and watches her take a BCP every day. I would if I were him.[/quote]
Don’t he look just like the type to do that. Kim was probably switching them pills out with fake ones. Cassie don’t have her game down yet.
Meanwhile Jay is searching for Bey’s stash and trying to knock her iud out. He’s reading books on antibiotics and bc reactions.
*Just a little humor. I do have my flyswatter folks*[/quote]
Girl please Jay DYIN fa Bey to get pregnant. She is playin his a** everytime she has an interview. “I’m not ready I got my nephew blah blah” Karma Jay, Karma. You already got a son you don’t claim (for the stans)
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:43 am (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300866"][quote comment="300856"][quote comment="300839"][quote comment="300816"][quote comment="300792"]I feel bad for Remy a little bit. You spending 6 years in jail for arguing over $3000!? She probably feels all kind of dumb and embarrassed.[/quote]
She’s probably mad as hell. If I was her friend I’d be on the look out. Remy looks crazy.
* mumbling… let me change my gravi…I ain’t trying to catch a charge over this crazy heffa. She probably scrolling in jail. :lol:[/quote]
Thats straight crazy…arguing over 3G’s when your suppose to have money like that…I understand its all about the prinicpal of the matter but still…She should know when 2 walk away and when to fight…The chick wasn’t even worth it…
Oh and Tameka needs to stop pushing out all those babies…She’s going to be all old when they grow up…[/quote]
Money like WHAT? If Bey and Jay are celeb couple number 1, Remy Ma and Papoose are like 388,219. They don’t have real money.[/quote]
Nah they ain’t got NO MONEY! :lol:[/quote]
Hey Whoa….sorry your feeling sick…but ummm how long is the sale going on at Saks?? I could use a new bag….
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:43 am (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300855"]I wonder if Remy will run into Da Brat??? :shock:[/quote]
not on Rikers she won’t…
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:43 am (Quote) | Reply |
Forget baby names, my suggest is make sure next album doesn’t sound exactly like your last album.
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:44 am (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300875"][quote comment="300862"][quote comment="300853"][quote comment="300838"][quote comment="300835"][quote comment="300823"][quote comment="300816"][quote comment="300792"]I feel bad for Remy a little bit. You spending 6 years in jail for arguing over $3000!? She probably feels all kind of dumb and embarrassed.[/quote]
She’s probably mad as hell. If I was her friend I’d be on the look out. Remy looks crazy.
* mumbling… let me change my gravi…I ain’t trying to catch a charge over this crazy heffa. She probably scrolling in jail. :lol:[/quote]
DEAD @ scrolling in jail :P[/quote]
You know they be getting phones and ish. :neutral:[/quote]
right. She’s gonna be trying to call and text u.[/quote]
Nah, ordering hits and stuff.. cussing me out on is it Jerry or Maury.. who does those daytime shows now?[/quote]
Congrats on the new position. I get happy when my peeps are bettering themselves. Maybe y’alls success will rub off on me!
Am I ever going to find a better job…I don’t think so :sad:[/quote]
You will Country! The devotional I read yesterday said we should not allow words of defeat or negativity to come out of our mouth and I am trying to do that myself! Be patient and just believe it is already on its way![/quote]
Thanks!!! I’m trying! I’m just getting tired is all. But on a lighter note I have been applying so I know I will get a response soon.
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:44 am (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300872"][quote comment="300871"][quote comment="300864"][quote comment="300858"]This is actually the best I have ever seen Remy look. She got rid of the skunk on her head.
I never understood her song Conceited…what reason does she have to be conceited? So many questions. Maybe I’ll write her and ask her. She ain’t go nothing but time on her hands to write me back…[/quote]
Lol.. Hey Country, I used to hate that song with a passion. Maybe bcuz she was the rapping in the song.[/quote]
hey girl! what’s doing on?[/quote]
what’s going on?[/quote]
Nothing much, How about you?[quote comment="300873"][quote comment="300864"][quote comment="300858"]This is actually the best I have ever seen Remy look. She got rid of the skunk on her head.
I never understood her song Conceited…what reason does she have to be conceited? So many questions. Maybe I’ll write her and ask her. She ain’t go nothing but time on her hands to write me back…[/quote]
Lol.. Hey Country, I used to hate that song with a passion. Maybe bcuz she was the rapping in the song.[/quote]
Hey girl!!! Happy Friday![/quote]
What up Christin, How are you doing?
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:44 am (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300879"][quote comment="300867"]
Don’t he look just like the type to do that. Kim was probably switching them pills out with fake ones. Cassie don’t have her game down yet.
Meanwhile Jay is searching for Bey’s stash and trying to knock her iud out. He’s reading books on antibiotics and bc reactions.
*Just a little humor. I do have my flyswatter folks*[/quote]
I can
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:44 am (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300879"][quote comment="300867"]
Don’t he look just like the type to do that. Kim was probably switching them pills out with fake ones. Cassie don’t have her game down yet.
Meanwhile Jay is searching for Bey’s stash and trying to knock her iud out. He’s reading books on antibiotics and bc reactions.
*Just a little humor. I do have my flyswatter folks*[/quote]
Beyonce got some special Creole BC…
Jay is not going to be able to penetrate its magical force field
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:45 am (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300880"][quote comment="300867"][quote comment="300845"][quote comment="300834"][quote comment="300822"]Usher gon be like Diddy and keep trying until he gets a girl. Watch. He seems like the type to want a daddy’s girl to spoil.[/quote]
What’s Diddy’s excuse now? he’s got 3. Cassie will be knocked up by this time next year…[/quote]
In my mind I’d like to think Diddy is smarter than to knock up Cassie. He probably stands there and watches her take a BCP every day. I would if I were him.[/quote]
Don’t he look just like the type to do that. Kim was probably switching them pills out with fake ones. Cassie don’t have her game down yet.
Meanwhile Jay is searching for Bey’s stash and trying to knock her iud out. He’s reading books on antibiotics and bc reactions.
*Just a little humor. I do have my flyswatter folks*[/quote]
Girl please Jay DYIN fa Bey to get pregnant. She is playin his a** everytime she has an interview. “I’m not ready I got my nephew blah blah” Karma Jay, Karma. You already got a son you don’t claim (for the stans) :twisted:[/quote]
LMAO!!!!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:45 am (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300874"]Hey everybody….chick, country, rainy, aj,vogue an anyone else that I failed to mention…too many names in here…lol.[/quote]
Hey Christin & country..I think I missed ya’ll earlier.
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:46 am (Quote) | Reply |
Thanks G1 & mmschel!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:46 am (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300882"][quote comment="300855"]I wonder if Remy will run into Da Brat??? :shock:[/quote]
not on Rikers she won’t…[/quote]
Hi kay p!!!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:47 am (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300881"][quote comment="300866"][quote comment="300856"][quote comment="300839"][quote comment="300816"][quote comment="300792"]I feel bad for Remy a little bit. You spending 6 years in jail for arguing over $3000!? She probably feels all kind of dumb and embarrassed.[/quote]
She’s probably mad as hell. If I was her friend I’d be on the look out. Remy looks crazy.
* mumbling… let me change my gravi…I ain’t trying to catch a charge over this crazy heffa. She probably scrolling in jail. :lol:[/quote]
Thats straight crazy…arguing over 3G’s when your suppose to have money like that…I understand its all about the prinicpal of the matter but still…She should know when 2 walk away and when to fight…The chick wasn’t even worth it…
Oh and Tameka needs to stop pushing out all those babies…She’s going to be all old when they grow up…[/quote]
Money like WHAT? If Bey and Jay are celeb couple number 1, Remy Ma and Papoose are like 388,219. They don’t have real money.[/quote]
Nah they ain’t got NO MONEY! :lol:[/quote]
Hey Whoa….sorry your feeling sick…but ummm how long is the sale going on at Saks?? I could use a new bag….[/quote]
Girl you betta get there ASAP! I have an inside discount hookup but they literally had to temporarily shut that down bcuz the associates was on the clock bum rushing the boutiques for their stuff. Two ppl got fired and everything!! You need to hurry up. Chanel bags starts today.
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:47 am (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300887"][quote comment="300879"][quote comment="300867"]
Don’t he look just like the type to do that. Kim was probably switching them pills out with fake ones. Cassie don’t have her game down yet.
Meanwhile Jay is searching for Bey’s stash and trying to knock her iud out. He’s reading books on antibiotics and bc reactions.
*Just a little humor. I do have my flyswatter folks*[/quote]
I can :oops:[/quote]
Get out my head Whoa!!!! I think she’s thinkin the same thing too…on Access they said about 4-5 yrs ago she said by 25 she wanted to be married with at least 2 kids..she said “I did?….woooow”….lol
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:47 am (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300887"][quote comment="300879"][quote comment="300867"]
Don’t he look just like the type to do that. Kim was probably switching them pills out with fake ones. Cassie don’t have her game down yet.
Meanwhile Jay is searching for Bey’s stash and trying to knock her iud out. He’s reading books on antibiotics and bc reactions.
*Just a little humor. I do have my flyswatter folks*[/quote]
I can :oops:[/quote]
I just don’t care one way or the other
But I do hope if they hav kids that they take after Bey…
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:47 am (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300856"][quote comment="300839"][quote comment="300816"][quote comment="300792"]I feel bad for Remy a little bit. You spending 6 years in jail for arguing over $3000!? She probably feels all kind of dumb and embarrassed.[/quote]
She’s probably mad as hell. If I was her friend I’d be on the look out. Remy looks crazy.
* mumbling… let me change my gravi…I ain’t trying to catch a charge over this crazy heffa. She probably scrolling in jail. :lol:[/quote]
Thats straight crazy…arguing over 3G’s when your suppose to have money like that…I understand its all about the prinicpal of the matter but still…She should know when 2 walk away and when to fight…The chick wasn’t even worth it…
Oh and Tameka needs to stop pushing out all those babies…She’s going to be all old when they grow up…[/quote]
Money like WHAT? If Bey and Jay are celeb couple number 1, Remy Ma and Papoose are like 388,219. They don’t have real money.[/quote]
LMAOOOOOOOOOO
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:47 am (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300874"]Hey everybody….chick, country, rainy, aj,vogue an anyone else that I failed to mention…too many names in here…lol.[/quote]
Hey! I didnt even see this! Too much scrolling
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:47 am (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300885"][quote comment="300872"][quote comment="300871"][quote comment="300864"][quote comment="300858"]This is actually the best I have ever seen Remy look. She got rid of the skunk on her head.
I never understood her song Conceited…what reason does she have to be conceited? So many questions. Maybe I’ll write her and ask her. She ain’t go nothing but time on her hands to write me back…[/quote]
Lol.. Hey Country, I used to hate that song with a passion. Maybe bcuz she was the rapping in the song.[/quote]
hey girl! what’s doing on?[/quote]
what’s going on?[/quote]
Nothing much, How about you?[quote comment="300873"][quote comment="300864"][quote comment="300858"]This is actually the best I have ever seen Remy look. She got rid of the skunk on her head.
I never understood her song Conceited…what reason does she have to be conceited? So many questions. Maybe I’ll write her and ask her. She ain’t go nothing but time on her hands to write me back…[/quote]
Lol.. Hey Country, I used to hate that song with a passion. Maybe bcuz she was the rapping in the song.[/quote]
Hey girl!!! Happy Friday![/quote]
What up Christin, How are you doing?[/quote]
Hey! If I missed you!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:47 am (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300892"][quote comment="300874"]Hey everybody….chick, country, rainy, aj,vogue an anyone else that I failed to mention…too many names in here…lol.[/quote]
Hey Christin & country..I think I missed ya’ll earlier.[/quote]
It’s cool!!! It’s too many to shout out! When I say good morning all I’m encompassing everybody. LOL!!!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:48 am (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300880"][quote comment="300867"][quote comment="300845"][quote comment="300834"][quote comment="300822"]Usher gon be like Diddy and keep trying until he gets a girl. Watch. He seems like the type to want a daddy’s girl to spoil.[/quote]
What’s Diddy’s excuse now? he’s got 3. Cassie will be knocked up by this time next year…[/quote]
In my mind I’d like to think Diddy is smarter than to knock up Cassie. He probably stands there and watches her take a BCP every day. I would if I were him.[/quote]
Don’t he look just like the type to do that. Kim was probably switching them pills out with fake ones. Cassie don’t have her game down yet.
Meanwhile Jay is searching for Bey’s stash and trying to knock her iud out. He’s reading books on antibiotics and bc reactions.
*Just a little humor. I do have my flyswatter folks*[/quote]
Girl please Jay DYIN fa Bey to get pregnant. She is playin his a** everytime she has an interview. “I’m not ready I got my nephew blah blah” Karma Jay, Karma. You already got a son you don’t claim (for the stans) :twisted:[/quote]
*side eyeing*
I can’t wait to see their kids
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:49 am (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300898"][quote comment="300887"][quote comment="300879"][quote comment="300867"]
Don’t he look just like the type to do that. Kim was probably switching them pills out with fake ones. Cassie don’t have her game down yet.
Meanwhile Jay is searching for Bey’s stash and trying to knock her iud out. He’s reading books on antibiotics and bc reactions.
*Just a little humor. I do have my flyswatter folks*[/quote]
I can :oops:[/quote]
Get out my head Whoa!!!! I think she’s thinkin the same thing too…on Access they said about 4-5 yrs ago she said by 25 she wanted to be married with at least 2 kids..she said “I did?….woooow”….lol[/quote]
Girl I won’t be surprised if Bey leaves him after 2 more yrs and no babies. I really don’t believe she wants to have kids w/ Jay. She is very self centered and I just can’t see it. Not saying it won’t happen, but I can’t see it. She keeps reinforcing in EVERY interview she’s not ready while he is reinforcing in EVERY interview how ready he is (when he got one already). Karma m’fka….
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:49 am (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300799"][quote comment="300782"][quote comment="300750"]Dang, Remy. 2014?? That’s more numbers than your album sales. May the force be with you…I just know Big Bertha is salivating in corner right about now.
__________
Oh and congrats to Ursh & Lady. My idea for a name (since they’re open for public suggestions) would be: Beard.[/quote]
LMAO. DEAD @ Big Bertha________________________________.[/quote]
With a body shaped like a Ham Hock. *shutters*[/quote]
U are dead wrong for that!!! DEAD AGAIN___________________.
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:51 am (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300905"][quote comment="300898"][quote comment="300887"][quote comment="300879"][quote comment="300867"]
Don’t he look just like the type to do that. Kim was probably switching them pills out with fake ones. Cassie don’t have her game down yet.
Meanwhile Jay is searching for Bey’s stash and trying to knock her iud out. He’s reading books on antibiotics and bc reactions.
*Just a little humor. I do have my flyswatter folks*[/quote]
I can :oops:[/quote]
Get out my head Whoa!!!! I think she’s thinkin the same thing too…on Access they said about 4-5 yrs ago she said by 25 she wanted to be married with at least 2 kids..she said “I did?….woooow”….lol[/quote]
Girl I won’t be surprised if Bey leaves him after 2 more yrs and no babies. I really don’t believe she wants to have kids w/ Jay. She is very self centered and I just can’t see it. Not saying it won’t happen, but I can’t see it. She keeps reinforcing in EVERY interview she’s not ready while he is reinforcing in EVERY interview how ready he is (when he got one already). Karma m’fka….[/quote]
I heard he’s gonna be interviewed by Angie Martinez..I wanna hear what he has to say about the kids thing..I don’t see these two breaking up though..I can’t see Bey with anyone else…I just can’t.
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:51 am (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300906"][quote comment="300799"][quote comment="300782"][quote comment="300750"]Dang, Remy. 2014?? That’s more numbers than your album sales. May the force be with you…I just know Big Bertha is salivating in corner right about now.
__________
Oh and congrats to Ursh & Lady. My idea for a name (since they’re open for public suggestions) would be: Beard.[/quote]
LMAO. DEAD @ Big Bertha________________________________.[/quote]
With a body shaped like a Ham Hock. *shutters*[/quote]
U are dead wrong for that!!! DEAD AGAIN___________________.[/quote]
Hey, what kinda boots are you talking about?? Uggs?
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:51 am (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300905"][quote comment="300898"][quote comment="300887"][quote comment="300879"][quote comment="300867"]
Don’t he look just like the type to do that. Kim was probably switching them pills out with fake ones. Cassie don’t have her game down yet.
Meanwhile Jay is searching for Bey’s stash and trying to knock her iud out. He’s reading books on antibiotics and bc reactions.
*Just a little humor. I do have my flyswatter folks*[/quote]
I can :oops:[/quote]
Get out my head Whoa!!!! I think she’s thinkin the same thing too…on Access they said about 4-5 yrs ago she said by 25 she wanted to be married with at least 2 kids..she said “I did?….woooow”….lol[/quote]
Girl I won’t be surprised if Bey leaves him after 2 more yrs and no babies. I really don’t believe she wants to have kids w/ Jay. She is very self centered and I just can’t see it. Not saying it won’t happen, but I can’t see it. She keeps reinforcing in EVERY interview she’s not ready while he is reinforcing in EVERY interview how ready he is (when he got one already). Karma m’fka….[/quote]
Is that mystery baby/child/boy really his?
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:51 am (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300895"][quote comment="300882"][quote comment="300855"]I wonder if Remy will run into Da Brat??? :shock:[/quote]
not on Rikers she won’t…[/quote]
Hi kay p!!![/quote]
hey chica
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:52 am (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300902"][quote comment="300885"][quote comment="300872"][quote comment="300871"][quote comment="300864"][quote comment="300858"]This is actually the best I have ever seen Remy look. She got rid of the skunk on her head.
I never understood her song Conceited…what reason does she have to be conceited? So many questions. Maybe I’ll write her and ask her. She ain’t go nothing but time on her hands to write me back…[/quote]
Lol.. Hey Country, I used to hate that song with a passion. Maybe bcuz she was the rapping in the song.[/quote]
hey girl! what’s doing on?[/quote]
what’s going on?[/quote]
Nothing much, How about you?[quote comment="300873"][quote comment="300864"][quote comment="300858"]This is actually the best I have ever seen Remy look. She got rid of the skunk on her head.
I never understood her song Conceited…what reason does she have to be conceited? So many questions. Maybe I’ll write her and ask her. She ain’t go nothing but time on her hands to write me back…[/quote]
Lol.. Hey Country, I used to hate that song with a passion. Maybe bcuz she was the rapping in the song.[/quote]
Hey girl!!! Happy Friday![/quote]
What up Christin, How are you doing?[/quote]
Hey! If I missed you![/quote]
Heeeyyy!!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:53 am (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300874"]Hey everybody….chick, country, rainy, aj,vogue an anyone else that I failed to mention…too many names in here…lol.[/quote]
morning! happy dance
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:54 am (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300909"][quote comment="300905"][quote comment="300898"][quote comment="300887"][quote comment="300879"][quote comment="300867"]
Don’t he look just like the type to do that. Kim was probably switching them pills out with fake ones. Cassie don’t have her game down yet.
Meanwhile Jay is searching for Bey’s stash and trying to knock her iud out. He’s reading books on antibiotics and bc reactions.
*Just a little humor. I do have my flyswatter folks*[/quote]
I can :oops:[/quote]
Get out my head Whoa!!!! I think she’s thinkin the same thing too…on Access they said about 4-5 yrs ago she said by 25 she wanted to be married with at least 2 kids..she said “I did?….woooow”….lol[/quote]
Girl I won’t be surprised if Bey leaves him after 2 more yrs and no babies. I really don’t believe she wants to have kids w/ Jay. She is very self centered and I just can’t see it. Not saying it won’t happen, but I can’t see it. She keeps reinforcing in EVERY interview she’s not ready while he is reinforcing in EVERY interview how ready he is (when he got one already). Karma m’fka….[/quote]
Is that mystery baby/child/boy really his?[/quote]
IMO, YES!! But that’s MY opinion (for the stans)
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:55 am (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300908"][quote comment="300906"][quote comment="300799"][quote comment="300782"][quote comment="300750"]Dang, Remy. 2014?? That’s more numbers than your album sales. May the force be with you…I just know Big Bertha is salivating in corner right about now.
__________
Oh and congrats to Ursh & Lady. My idea for a name (since they’re open for public suggestions) would be: Beard.[/quote]
LMAO. DEAD @ Big Bertha________________________________.[/quote]
With a body shaped like a Ham Hock. *shutters*[/quote]
U are dead wrong for that!!! DEAD AGAIN___________________.[/quote]
Hey, what kinda boots are you talking about?? Uggs?[/quote]
Nope..they are made in Australia..kinda like Uggs but more fashionable..they have various kinds of styles..they are very popular in Europe and they are sellin out hella fast in the US!!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:56 am (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300842"][quote comment="300835"][quote comment="300823"][quote comment="300816"][quote comment="300792"]I feel bad for Remy a little bit. You spending 6 years in jail for arguing over $3000!? She probably feels all kind of dumb and embarrassed.[/quote]
She’s probably mad as hell. If I was her friend I’d be on the look out. Remy looks crazy.
* mumbling… let me change my gravi…I ain’t trying to catch a charge over this crazy heffa. She probably scrolling in jail. :lol:[/quote]
DEAD @ scrolling in jail :P[/quote]
You know they be getting phones and ish. :neutral:[/quote]
Yes I have a homie like that
:P[/quote]
***waving**
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:56 am (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300909"][quote comment="300905"][quote comment="300898"][quote comment="300887"][quote comment="300879"][quote comment="300867"]
Don’t he look just like the type to do that. Kim was probably switching them pills out with fake ones. Cassie don’t have her game down yet.
Meanwhile Jay is searching for Bey’s stash and trying to knock her iud out. He’s reading books on antibiotics and bc reactions.
*Just a little humor. I do have my flyswatter folks*[/quote]
I can :oops:[/quote]
Get out my head Whoa!!!! I think she’s thinkin the same thing too…on Access they said about 4-5 yrs ago she said by 25 she wanted to be married with at least 2 kids..she said “I did?….woooow”….lol[/quote]
Girl I won’t be surprised if Bey leaves him after 2 more yrs and no babies. I really don’t believe she wants to have kids w/ Jay. She is very self centered and I just can’t see it. Not saying it won’t happen, but I can’t see it. She keeps reinforcing in EVERY interview she’s not ready while he is reinforcing in EVERY interview how ready he is (when he got one already). Karma m’fka….[/quote]
Is that mystery baby/child/boy really his?[/quote]
NO it ain’t..sheesh…But I do believe B is not trying to pop out no babies with quarter sized nostrils
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:57 am (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300915"][quote comment="300908"][quote comment="300906"][quote comment="300799"][quote comment="300782"][quote comment="300750"]Dang, Remy. 2014?? That’s more numbers than your album sales. May the force be with you…I just know Big Bertha is salivating in corner right about now.
__________
Oh and congrats to Ursh & Lady. My idea for a name (since they’re open for public suggestions) would be: Beard.[/quote]
LMAO. DEAD @ Big Bertha________________________________.[/quote]
With a body shaped like a Ham Hock. *shutters*[/quote]
U are dead wrong for that!!! DEAD AGAIN___________________.[/quote]
Hey, what kinda boots are you talking about?? Uggs?[/quote]
Nope..they are made in Australia..kinda like Uggs but more fashionable..they have various kinds of styles..they are very popular in Europe and they are sellin out hella fast in the US!![/quote]
I know what youre talking about. They are cute! I like the ones that tie up in the back!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:57 am (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300915"][quote comment="300908"][quote comment="300906"][quote comment="300799"][quote comment="300782"][quote comment="300750"]Dang, Remy. 2014?? That’s more numbers than your album sales. May the force be with you…I just know Big Bertha is salivating in corner right about now.
__________
Oh and congrats to Ursh & Lady. My idea for a name (since they’re open for public suggestions) would be: Beard.[/quote]
LMAO. DEAD @ Big Bertha________________________________.[/quote]
With a body shaped like a Ham Hock. *shutters*[/quote]
U are dead wrong for that!!! DEAD AGAIN___________________.[/quote]
Hey, what kinda boots are you talking about?? Uggs?[/quote]
Nope..they are made in Australia..kinda like Uggs but more fashionable..they have various kinds of styles..they are very popular in Europe and they are sellin out hella fast in the US!![/quote]
You be up on everything!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:58 am (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300907"][quote comment="300905"][quote comment="300898"][quote comment="300887"][quote comment="300879"][quote comment="300867"]
Don’t he look just like the type to do that. Kim was probably switching them pills out with fake ones. Cassie don’t have her game down yet.
Meanwhile Jay is searching for Bey’s stash and trying to knock her iud out. He’s reading books on antibiotics and bc reactions.
*Just a little humor. I do have my flyswatter folks*[/quote]
I can :oops:[/quote]
Get out my head Whoa!!!! I think she’s thinkin the same thing too…on Access they said about 4-5 yrs ago she said by 25 she wanted to be married with at least 2 kids..she said “I did?….woooow”….lol[/quote]
Girl I won’t be surprised if Bey leaves him after 2 more yrs and no babies. I really don’t believe she wants to have kids w/ Jay. She is very self centered and I just can’t see it. Not saying it won’t happen, but I can’t see it. She keeps reinforcing in EVERY interview she’s not ready while he is reinforcing in EVERY interview how ready he is (when he got one already). Karma m’fka….[/quote]
I heard he’s gonna be interviewed by Angie Martinez..I wanna hear what he has to say about the kids thing..I don’t see these two breaking up though..I can’t see Bey with anyone else…I just can’t.[/quote]
Yea right now I can’t see Bey w/ anyone else, the same way I couldn’t see J. Lo w/o Puff (a whole nother topic). However, she is just like J. Lo in a way. She wanna put her hand in every pot but she gonna get burned. Look how nobody cares for J. Lo now. I see that happening to Bey. In order to dominate everything, Bey will do whatever she feels necessary even if that means leaving Jay. Not saying she don’t love him right now, but time will tell. You see she still going hard w/ her *cough* acting
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:58 am (Quote) | Reply |
Usher gets the BIG WHOMP WHOMP!! I do hope the baby is healthy and all but him and the MAN of a wife of his…NEXT..
Remy…ya did the crime and so you GOTS to pay the TIME!!!! So shut it!!!!!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:58 am (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300919"][quote comment="300909"][quote comment="300905"][quote comment="300898"][quote comment="300887"][quote comment="300879"][quote comment="300867"]
Don’t he look just like the type to do that. Kim was probably switching them pills out with fake ones. Cassie don’t have her game down yet.
Meanwhile Jay is searching for Bey’s stash and trying to knock her iud out. He’s reading books on antibiotics and bc reactions.
*Just a little humor. I do have my flyswatter folks*[/quote]
I can :oops:[/quote]
Get out my head Whoa!!!! I think she’s thinkin the same thing too…on Access they said about 4-5 yrs ago she said by 25 she wanted to be married with at least 2 kids..she said “I did?….woooow”….lol[/quote]
Girl I won’t be surprised if Bey leaves him after 2 more yrs and no babies. I really don’t believe she wants to have kids w/ Jay. She is very self centered and I just can’t see it. Not saying it won’t happen, but I can’t see it. She keeps reinforcing in EVERY interview she’s not ready while he is reinforcing in EVERY interview how ready he is (when he got one already). Karma m’fka….[/quote]
Is that mystery baby/child/boy really his?[/quote]
NO it ain’t..sheesh…But I do believe B is not trying to pop out no babies with quarter sized nostrils[/quote]
Or bun sized lips.
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:58 am (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300920"][quote comment="300915"][quote comment="300908"][quote comment="300906"][quote comment="300799"][quote comment="300782"][quote comment="300750"]Dang, Remy. 2014?? That’s more numbers than your album sales. May the force be with you…I just know Big Bertha is salivating in corner right about now.
__________
Oh and congrats to Ursh & Lady. My idea for a name (since they’re open for public suggestions) would be: Beard.[/quote]
LMAO. DEAD @ Big Bertha________________________________.[/quote]
With a body shaped like a Ham Hock. *shutters*[/quote]
U are dead wrong for that!!! DEAD AGAIN___________________.[/quote]
Hey, what kinda boots are you talking about?? Uggs?[/quote]
Nope..they are made in Australia..kinda like Uggs but more fashionable..they have various kinds of styles..they are very popular in Europe and they are sellin out hella fast in the US!![/quote]
I know what youre talking about. They are cute! I like the ones that tie up in the back![/quote]
AHHHH I BOUGHT THEM!!!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:00 pm (Quote) | Reply |
Dat Chick, did you see your prayer in the last post?
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:00 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300919"][quote comment="300909"][quote comment="300905"][quote comment="300898"][quote comment="300887"][quote comment="300879"][quote comment="300867"]
Don’t he look just like the type to do that. Kim was probably switching them pills out with fake ones. Cassie don’t have her game down yet.
Meanwhile Jay is searching for Bey’s stash and trying to knock her iud out. He’s reading books on antibiotics and bc reactions.
*Just a little humor. I do have my flyswatter folks*[/quote]
I can :oops:[/quote]
Get out my head Whoa!!!! I think she’s thinkin the same thing too…on Access they said about 4-5 yrs ago she said by 25 she wanted to be married with at least 2 kids..she said “I did?….woooow”….lol[/quote]
Girl I won’t be surprised if Bey leaves him after 2 more yrs and no babies. I really don’t believe she wants to have kids w/ Jay. She is very self centered and I just can’t see it. Not saying it won’t happen, but I can’t see it. She keeps reinforcing in EVERY interview she’s not ready while he is reinforcing in EVERY interview how ready he is (when he got one already). Karma m’fka….[/quote]
Is that mystery baby/child/boy really his?[/quote]
NO it ain’t..sheesh…But I do believe B is not trying to pop out no babies with quarter sized nostrils[/quote]
LMAO@quarter sized nostrils.
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:01 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300874"]Hey everybody….chick, country, rainy, aj,vogue an anyone else that I failed to mention…too many names in here…lol.[/quote]
Hey Christin!!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:02 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300924"][quote comment="300919"][quote comment="300909"][quote comment="300905"][quote comment="300898"][quote comment="300887"][quote comment="300879"][quote comment="300867"]
Don’t he look just like the type to do that. Kim was probably switching them pills out with fake ones. Cassie don’t have her game down yet.
Meanwhile Jay is searching for Bey’s stash and trying to knock her iud out. He’s reading books on antibiotics and bc reactions.
*Just a little humor. I do have my flyswatter folks*[/quote]
I can :oops:[/quote]
Get out my head Whoa!!!! I think she’s thinkin the same thing too…on Access they said about 4-5 yrs ago she said by 25 she wanted to be married with at least 2 kids..she said “I did?….woooow”….lol[/quote]
Girl I won’t be surprised if Bey leaves him after 2 more yrs and no babies. I really don’t believe she wants to have kids w/ Jay. She is very self centered and I just can’t see it. Not saying it won’t happen, but I can’t see it. She keeps reinforcing in EVERY interview she’s not ready while he is reinforcing in EVERY interview how ready he is (when he got one already). Karma m’fka….[/quote]
Is that mystery baby/child/boy really his?[/quote]
NO it ain’t..sheesh…But I do believe B is not trying to pop out no babies with quarter sized nostrils[/quote]
Or bun sized lips.[/quote]
LMAO…lips looking like hot dog buns!! Po baby! And Solange barely passed cause lil man was lookin like Kermit the frog for a minute…He cute now though…ducking
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:02 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300925"][quote comment="300920"][quote comment="300915"][quote comment="300908"][quote comment="300906"][quote comment="300799"][quote comment="300782"][quote comment="300750"]Dang, Remy. 2014?? That’s more numbers than your album sales. May the force be with you…I just know Big Bertha is salivating in corner right about now.
__________
Oh and congrats to Ursh & Lady. My idea for a name (since they’re open for public suggestions) would be: Beard.[/quote]
LMAO. DEAD @ Big Bertha________________________________.[/quote]
With a body shaped like a Ham Hock. *shutters*[/quote]
U are dead wrong for that!!! DEAD AGAIN___________________.[/quote]
Hey, what kinda boots are you talking about?? Uggs?[/quote]
Nope..they are made in Australia..kinda like Uggs but more fashionable..they have various kinds of styles..they are very popular in Europe and they are sellin out hella fast in the US!![/quote]
I know what youre talking about. They are cute! I like the ones that tie up in the back![/quote]
AHHHH I BOUGHT THEM!!! :-)[/quote]
YOU HAVE GOOD TASTE!! LOL
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:02 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300925"][quote comment="300920"][quote comment="300915"][quote comment="300908"][quote comment="300906"][quote comment="300799"][quote comment="300782"][quote comment="300750"]Dang, Remy. 2014?? That’s more numbers than your album sales. May the force be with you…I just know Big Bertha is salivating in corner right about now.
__________
Oh and congrats to Ursh & Lady. My idea for a name (since they’re open for public suggestions) would be: Beard.[/quote]
LMAO. DEAD @ Big Bertha________________________________.[/quote]
With a body shaped like a Ham Hock. *shutters*[/quote]
U are dead wrong for that!!! DEAD AGAIN___________________.[/quote]
Hey, what kinda boots are you talking about?? Uggs?[/quote]
Nope..they are made in Australia..kinda like Uggs but more fashionable..they have various kinds of styles..they are very popular in Europe and they are sellin out hella fast in the US!![/quote]
I know what youre talking about. They are cute! I like the ones that tie up in the back![/quote]
AHHHH I BOUGHT THEM!!! :-)[/quote]
Man, they are expensive!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:02 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300926"]Dat Chick, did you see your prayer in the last post?[/quote]
No I’ll go look
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:05 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300926"]Dat Chick, did you see your prayer in the last post?[/quote]
which post?
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:05 pm (Quote) | Reply |
I’m baaaacccccccccckkkkkkkkk!!!!!!!!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:06 pm (Quote) | Reply |
hey BFF what’s good..give me some chocolate to start it off right
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:06 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300936"]I’m baaaacccccccccckkkkkkkkk!!!!!!!![/quote]
Prego!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:07 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300937"]hey BFF what’s good..give me some chocolate to start it off right :razz:[/quote]
*passing the box*
I bought the box in just for you
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:07 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300918"][quote comment="300842"][quote comment="300835"][quote comment="300823"][quote comment="300816"][quote comment="300792"]I feel bad for Remy a little bit. You spending 6 years in jail for arguing over $3000!? She probably feels all kind of dumb and embarrassed.[/quote]
She’s probably mad as hell. If I was her friend I’d be on the look out. Remy looks crazy.
* mumbling… let me change my gravi…I ain’t trying to catch a charge over this crazy heffa. She probably scrolling in jail. :lol:[/quote]
DEAD @ scrolling in jail :P[/quote]
You know they be getting phones and ish. :neutral:[/quote]
Yes I have a homie like that
:P[/quote]
***waving**[/quote]
hey rainy…i just replied to ur last post, in the last post
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:08 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300935"][quote comment="300926"]Dat Chick, did you see your prayer in the last post?[/quote]
which post?[/quote]
Sherika and Messiah
In the name of Jesus, we come to you believing in success and prosperity according to your will. Lord we ask that you cover Messiah’s mind and spirit as he takes the insurance test. We are praising you in advance for success and the passing of this insurance test so that Messiah can walk into the destiny and position you have for his life. In Jesus name I pray, Amen.
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:09 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300936"]I’m baaaacccccccccckkkkkkkkk!!!!!!!![/quote]
Hey Yetta
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:09 pm (Quote) | Reply |
I’m back & I’m not gonna EVEN asked what I missed!
Dang, two posts since I left!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:12 pm (Quote) | Reply |
Hey mmschel, congrats on deciding to take the job! The Range Rover is coming soon, huh??! Girl GO’NE!
Get a BLACK one, for me!!!!!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:12 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300940"][quote comment="300937"]hey BFF what’s good..give me some chocolate to start it off right :razz:[/quote]
*passing the box*
I bought the box in just for you :wink:[/quote]
**taking small bit itty bitty bites so it can last….
[quote comment="300941"][quote comment="300918"][quote comment="300842"][quote comment="300835"][quote comment="300823"][quote comment="300816"][quote comment="300792"]I feel bad for Remy a little bit. You spending 6 years in jail for arguing over $3000!? She probably feels all kind of dumb and embarrassed.[/quote]
She’s probably mad as hell. If I was her friend I’d be on the look out. Remy looks crazy.
* mumbling… let me change my gravi…I ain’t trying to catch a charge over this crazy heffa. She probably scrolling in jail. :lol:[/quote]
DEAD @ scrolling in jail :P[/quote]
You know they be getting phones and ish. :neutral:[/quote]
Yes I have a homie like that
:P[/quote]
***waving**[/quote]
hey rainy…i just replied to ur last post, in the last post :)[/quote]
going to check
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:12 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300930"][quote comment="300925"][quote comment="300920"][quote comment="300915"][quote comment="300908"][quote comment="300906"][quote comment="300799"][quote comment="300782"][quote comment="300750"]Dang, Remy. 2014?? That’s more numbers than your album sales. May the force be with you…I just know Big Bertha is salivating in corner right about now.
__________
Oh and congrats to Ursh & Lady. My idea for a name (since they’re open for public suggestions) would be: Beard.[/quote]
LMAO. DEAD @ Big Bertha________________________________.[/quote]
With a body shaped like a Ham Hock. *shutters*[/quote]
U are dead wrong for that!!! DEAD AGAIN___________________.[/quote]
Hey, what kinda boots are you talking about?? Uggs?[/quote]
Nope..they are made in Australia..kinda like Uggs but more fashionable..they have various kinds of styles..they are very popular in Europe and they are sellin out hella fast in the US!![/quote]
I know what youre talking about. They are cute! I like the ones that tie up in the back![/quote]
AHHHH I BOUGHT THEM!!! :-)[/quote]
YOU HAVE GOOD TASTE!! LOL :smile:[/quote]
LOL, thanks..I got em for a good price to..half of what they usually cost
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:13 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300938"][quote comment="300936"]I’m baaaacccccccccckkkkkkkkk!!!!!!!![/quote]
Prego![/quote]
Hey lady!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I’m not even gonna ask what I miss… I see that Bey was in the last post and I’m sure there was maylay……
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:13 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300931"][quote comment="300925"][quote comment="300920"][quote comment="300915"][quote comment="300908"][quote comment="300906"][quote comment="300799"][quote comment="300782"][quote comment="300750"]Dang, Remy. 2014?? That’s more numbers than your album sales. May the force be with you…I just know Big Bertha is salivating in corner right about now.
__________
Oh and congrats to Ursh & Lady. My idea for a name (since they’re open for public suggestions) would be: Beard.[/quote]
LMAO. DEAD @ Big Bertha________________________________.[/quote]
With a body shaped like a Ham Hock. *shutters*[/quote]
U are dead wrong for that!!! DEAD AGAIN___________________.[/quote]
Hey, what kinda boots are you talking about?? Uggs?[/quote]
Nope..they are made in Australia..kinda like Uggs but more fashionable..they have various kinds of styles..they are very popular in Europe and they are sellin out hella fast in the US!![/quote]
I know what youre talking about. They are cute! I like the ones that tie up in the back![/quote]
AHHHH I BOUGHT THEM!!! :-)[/quote]
Man, they are expensive![/quote]
What boots you bought Foley?? Like behind really need to see some boots….smh
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:13 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300943"][quote comment="300936"]I’m baaaacccccccccckkkkkkkkk!!!!!!!![/quote]
Hey Yetta[/quote]
Hey chica!!!!!!!!!!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:13 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300935"][quote comment="300926"]Dat Chick, did you see your prayer in the last post?[/quote]
which post?[/quote]
oh my bad…the post before this one. …I see as I am scrolling that Rainy found it for you.
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:14 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300946"]Hey mmschel, congrats on deciding to take the job! The Range Rover is coming soon, huh??! Girl GO’NE!
Get a BLACK one, for me!!!!! :lol:[/quote]
LOL!!! Cop you so crazy!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:14 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300940"][quote comment="300937"]hey BFF what’s good..give me some chocolate to start it off right :razz:[/quote]
*passing the box*
I bought the box in just for you :wink:[/quote]
*pouting*… I want some…
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:14 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300931"][quote comment="300925"][quote comment="300920"][quote comment="300915"][quote comment="300908"][quote comment="300906"][quote comment="300799"][quote comment="300782"][quote comment="300750"]Dang, Remy. 2014?? That’s more numbers than your album sales. May the force be with you…I just know Big Bertha is salivating in corner right about now.
__________
Oh and congrats to Ursh & Lady. My idea for a name (since they’re open for public suggestions) would be: Beard.[/quote]
LMAO. DEAD @ Big Bertha________________________________.[/quote]
With a body shaped like a Ham Hock. *shutters*[/quote]
U are dead wrong for that!!! DEAD AGAIN___________________.[/quote]
Hey, what kinda boots are you talking about?? Uggs?[/quote]
Nope..they are made in Australia..kinda like Uggs but more fashionable..they have various kinds of styles..they are very popular in Europe and they are sellin out hella fast in the US!![/quote]
I know what youre talking about. They are cute! I like the ones that tie up in the back![/quote]
AHHHH I BOUGHT THEM!!! :-)[/quote]
Man, they are expensive![/quote]
Yea they are, but I belive in quality over quantity so I don’t feel so bad..and I got them on sale so i’m not as hurt
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:15 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300942"][quote comment="300935"][quote comment="300926"]Dat Chick, did you see your prayer in the last post?[/quote]
which post?[/quote]
Sherika and Messiah
In the name of Jesus, we come to you believing in success and prosperity according to your will. Lord we ask that you cover Messiah’s mind and spirit as he takes the insurance test. We are praising you in advance for success and the passing of this insurance test so that Messiah can walk into the destiny and position you have for his life. In Jesus name I pray, Amen.[/quote]
I got it! Thank you! See this what I was talking about yesterday.
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:15 pm (Quote) | Reply |
oh remy!!! its sad cause she is like the hottest chick in the rap game!!! but ma, you live by the sword, you die by the sword!!! you have way too many assaults on your record for anyone to believe you don’t have anger issues and won’t be a threat to someone else. i agree…she better add something like “being sodomized” to that list instead
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:16 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300951"][quote comment="300931"][quote comment="300925"][quote comment="300920"][quote comment="300915"][quote comment="300908"][quote comment="300906"][quote comment="300799"][quote comment="300782"][quote comment="300750"]Dang, Remy. 2014?? That’s more numbers than your album sales. May the force be with you…I just know Big Bertha is salivating in corner right about now.
__________
Oh and congrats to Ursh & Lady. My idea for a name (since they’re open for public suggestions) would be: Beard.[/quote]
LMAO. DEAD @ Big Bertha________________________________.[/quote]
With a body shaped like a Ham Hock. *shutters*[/quote]
U are dead wrong for that!!! DEAD AGAIN___________________.[/quote]
Hey, what kinda boots are you talking about?? Uggs?[/quote]
Nope..they are made in Australia..kinda like Uggs but more fashionable..they have various kinds of styles..they are very popular in Europe and they are sellin out hella fast in the US!![/quote]
I know what youre talking about. They are cute! I like the ones that tie up in the back![/quote]
AHHHH I BOUGHT THEM!!! :-)[/quote]
Man, they are expensive![/quote]
What boots you bought Foley?? Like behind really need to see some boots….smh[/quote]
Some cute winter boots, they are by Australia love Collective..like uggs but more fashionable
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:16 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300946"]Hey mmschel, congrats on deciding to take the job! The Range Rover is coming soon, huh??! Girl GO’NE!
Get a BLACK one, for me!!!!! :lol:[/quote]
Hey Copwife! Hey Yetta. I had to step out for sec.
Girl, my plan was to save the difference. But last night My husband was like “you can buy a 06 and pay for it in six months, you’ll still have $$ left.” And he’s a for-real number cruncher.
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:16 pm (Quote) | Reply |
I wish I could cyber hug a certain few….why am I on the back burner for ‘hear say’???
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:17 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300955"][quote comment="300940"][quote comment="300937"]hey BFF what’s good..give me some chocolate to start it off right :razz:[/quote]
*passing the box*
I bought the box in just for you :wink:[/quote]
*pouting*… I want some…[/quote]
you can have a little….
Choc have caffenine and that not good for baby D. But you can have a treat today it’s Godiva!!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:17 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300954"][quote comment="300946"]Hey mmschel, congrats on deciding to take the job! The Range Rover is coming soon, huh??! Girl GO’NE!
Get a BLACK one, for me!!!!! :lol:[/quote]
LOL!!! Cop you so crazy![/quote]
It’s FRIDAY!!!!! Heeeey Country!!!!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:18 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300949"][quote comment="300938"][quote comment="300936"]I’m baaaacccccccccckkkkkkkkk!!!!!!!![/quote]
Prego![/quote]
Hey lady!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I’m not even gonna ask what I miss… I see that Bey was in the last post and I’m sure there was maylay…… :P[/quote]
Hey yetta!!! How’s the bambino?
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:19 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300963"][quote comment="300954"][quote comment="300946"]Hey mmschel, congrats on deciding to take the job! The Range Rover is coming soon, huh??! Girl GO’NE!
Get a BLACK one, for me!!!!! :lol:[/quote]
LOL!!! Cop you so crazy![/quote]
It’s FRIDAY!!!!! Heeeey Country!!!![/quote]
I’ll let you use Friday as an excuse
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:19 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300941"][quote comment="300918"][quote comment="300842"][quote comment="300835"][quote comment="300823"][quote comment="300816"][quote comment="300792"]I feel bad for Remy a little bit. You spending 6 years in jail for arguing over $3000!? She probably feels all kind of dumb and embarrassed.[/quote]
She’s probably mad as hell. If I was her friend I’d be on the look out. Remy looks crazy.
* mumbling… let me change my gravi…I ain’t trying to catch a charge over this crazy heffa. She probably scrolling in jail. :lol:[/quote]
DEAD @ scrolling in jail :P[/quote]
You know they be getting phones and ish. :neutral:[/quote]
Yes I have a homie like that
:P[/quote]
***waving**[/quote]
hey rainy…i just replied to ur last post, in the last post :)[/quote]
***come back**i posted to you*
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:20 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300961"]I wish I could cyber hug a certain few….why am I on the back burner for ‘hear say’???[/quote]
Who do you want to cyberhug?
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:20 pm (Quote) | Reply |
*yawns* I gotta take a piss…BRB
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:20 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300960"][quote comment="300946"]Hey mmschel, congrats on deciding to take the job! The Range Rover is coming soon, huh??! Girl GO’NE!
Get a BLACK one, for me!!!!! :lol:[/quote]
Hey Copwife! Hey Yetta. I had to step out for sec.
Girl, my plan was to save the difference. But last night My husband was like “you can buy a 06 and pay for it in six months, you’ll still have $$ left.” And he’s a for-real number cruncher. :shock:[/quote]
Okay, okay…so normally, being as frugal (read:CHEAP) as I am, I would say save the money. But if HUBBY says go for it, GIRL!!! I’m all like WHOOMP, WHOOMP!!! You can hate me NOW in my RANGE!!! HELLO?!!?!?
Girl, come scoop me…I’m only like 6 hours away! HAHAHAAHAHA!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:21 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300963"][quote comment="300954"][quote comment="300946"]Hey mmschel, congrats on deciding to take the job! The Range Rover is coming soon, huh??! Girl GO’NE!
Get a BLACK one, for me!!!!! :lol:[/quote]
LOL!!! Cop you so crazy![/quote]
It’s FRIDAY!!!!! Heeeey Country!!!![/quote]
Hey you! where you been ?
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:21 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300960"][quote comment="300946"]Hey mmschel, congrats on deciding to take the job! The Range Rover is coming soon, huh??! Girl GO’NE!
Get a BLACK one, for me!!!!! :lol:[/quote]
Hey Copwife! Hey Yetta. I had to step out for sec.
Girl, my plan was to save the difference. But last night My husband was like “you can buy a 06 and pay for it in six months, you’ll still have $$ left.” And he’s a for-real number cruncher. :shock:[/quote]
**see that team work lovessssssss it***that what god put together loves it**
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:21 pm (Quote) | Reply |
Okay, so this is what I wanted to tell you all…
Dude (baby dizzle) called me last night to “see how I was doing” right.. so I was sleepy and kind of blew him off, so this nig gone have teh nerve to ask, not ask, but tell me I should let him come over so we can talk. Now, ladies, please tell me why he thinks that I Should do anything?!! I was like.. We’ll see about that…
NO WAY, NO HOW is that gonna happen.. I already know how this is gonna turn out, and I don’t even want to go down that road…
So , I get to work and go into my meeting, and the receptionist pulls me out to tell me I have a visitor.So I walk out of the Conference room to him standing there with a fake rose and a smile… I don’t know why, but it pissed me off. First of all, he looked like he just hopped off the BUM bus, with his doo-rag on… not only that but he had on a long john shirt with windsuit pants..WTF????
I refuse to settle for that again.I know I messed up and now have a baby by this man, but I refuse to stay in that..I know alot of females who have stayed with men because of children and they regret it deeply… AM I WRONG?? I have my eye on the prize and I will not continue to settle…..
Your thoughts here_____________________________
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:21 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300966"][quote comment="300963"][quote comment="300954"][quote comment="300946"]Hey mmschel, congrats on deciding to take the job! The Range Rover is coming soon, huh??! Girl GO’NE!
Yeah I know, THIS time!!!! 
Get a BLACK one, for me!!!!! :lol:[/quote]
LOL!!! Cop you so crazy![/quote]
It’s FRIDAY!!!!! Heeeey Country!!!![/quote]
I’ll let you use Friday as an excuse :wink:[/quote]
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:21 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300957"][quote comment="300942"][quote comment="300935"][quote comment="300926"]Dat Chick, did you see your prayer in the last post?[/quote]
which post?[/quote]
Sherika and Messiah
In the name of Jesus, we come to you believing in success and prosperity according to your will. Lord we ask that you cover Messiah’s mind and spirit as he takes the insurance test. We are praising you in advance for success and the passing of this insurance test so that Messiah can walk into the destiny and position you have for his life. In Jesus name I pray, Amen.[/quote]
I got it! Thank you! See this what I was talking about yesterday. :wink:[/quote]
**i know **
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:22 pm (Quote) | Reply |
I have returned!!
What have I missed?
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:23 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300971"][quote comment="300963"][quote comment="300954"][quote comment="300946"]Hey mmschel, congrats on deciding to take the job! The Range Rover is coming soon, huh??! Girl GO’NE!
Get a BLACK one, for me!!!!! :lol:[/quote]
LOL!!! Cop you so crazy![/quote]
It’s FRIDAY!!!!! Heeeey Country!!!![/quote]
Hey you! where you been ?[/quote]
What’s up meanie-girl?!?!? I MISSED you!!!!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:23 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300965"][quote comment="300949"][quote comment="300938"][quote comment="300936"]I’m baaaacccccccccckkkkkkkkk!!!!!!!![/quote]
Prego![/quote]
Hey lady!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I’m not even gonna ask what I miss… I see that Bey was in the last post and I’m sure there was maylay…… :P[/quote]
Hey yetta!!! How’s the bambino?[/quote]
Doing good girl!!! What’s good with you chica?
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:24 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300959"][quote comment="300951"][quote comment="300931"][quote comment="300925"][quote comment="300920"][quote comment="300915"][quote comment="300908"][quote comment="300906"][quote comment="300799"][quote comment="300782"][quote comment="300750"]Dang, Remy. 2014?? That’s more numbers than your album sales. May the force be with you…I just know Big Bertha is salivating in corner right about now.
__________
Oh and congrats to Ursh & Lady. My idea for a name (since they’re open for public suggestions) would be: Beard.[/quote]
LMAO. DEAD @ Big Bertha________________________________.[/quote]
With a body shaped like a Ham Hock. *shutters*[/quote]
U are dead wrong for that!!! DEAD AGAIN___________________.[/quote]
Hey, what kinda boots are you talking about?? Uggs?[/quote]
Nope..they are made in Australia..kinda like Uggs but more fashionable..they have various kinds of styles..they are very popular in Europe and they are sellin out hella fast in the US!![/quote]
I know what youre talking about. They are cute! I like the ones that tie up in the back![/quote]
AHHHH I BOUGHT THEM!!! :-)[/quote]
Man, they are expensive![/quote]
What boots you bought Foley?? Like behind really need to see some boots….smh[/quote]
Some cute winter boots, they are by Australia love Collective..like uggs but more fashionable ;-)[/quote]
Awwwww What kind? I want some uugs but not the regular s I want the summit ones…they cost $250 and I’m trying to get my boo to get them for me.
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:24 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300970"][quote comment="300960"][quote comment="300946"]Hey mmschel, congrats on deciding to take the job! The Range Rover is coming soon, huh??! Girl GO’NE!
Get a BLACK one, for me!!!!! :lol:[/quote]
Hey Copwife! Hey Yetta. I had to step out for sec.
Girl, my plan was to save the difference. But last night My husband was like “you can buy a 06 and pay for it in six months, you’ll still have $$ left.” And he’s a for-real number cruncher. :shock:[/quote]
Okay, okay…so normally, being as frugal (read:CHEAP) as I am, I would say save the money. But if HUBBY says go for it, GIRL!!! I’m all like WHOOMP, WHOOMP!!! You can hate me NOW in my RANGE!!! HELLO?!!?!?
Girl, come scoop me…I’m only like 6 hours away! HAHAHAAHAHA! :lol:[/quote]
You know I would drive that baby til the wheels fall off.
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:24 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300973"]Okay, so this is what I wanted to tell you all…
Dude (baby dizzle) called me last night to “see how I was doing” right.. so I was sleepy and kind of blew him off, so this nig gone have teh nerve to ask, not ask, but tell me I should let him come over so we can talk. Now, ladies, please tell me why he thinks that I Should do anything?!! I was like.. We’ll see about that…
NO WAY, NO HOW is that gonna happen.. I already know how this is gonna turn out, and I don’t even want to go down that road…
So , I get to work and go into my meeting, and the receptionist pulls me out to tell me I have a visitor.So I walk out of the Conference room to him standing there with a fake rose and a smile… I don’t know why, but it pissed me off. First of all, he looked like he just hopped off the BUM bus, with his doo-rag on… not only that but he had on a long john shirt with windsuit pants..WTF????
I refuse to settle for that again.I know I messed up and now have a baby by this man, but I refuse to stay in that..I know alot of females who have stayed with men because of children and they regret it deeply… AM I WRONG?? I have my eye on the prize and I will not continue to settle…..
Your thoughts here_____________________________ :P[/quote]
He did NOT go out and get you a gas station flower!!!
Girl never stay with a man b/c of kids.
I tried it with my 1st one and became very depressed.
If you aren’t happy, it shows to your children.
They would rather be in a happy home than one full of stress and turmoil.
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:25 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300975"][quote comment="300957"][quote comment="300942"][quote comment="300935"][quote comment="300926"]Dat Chick, did you see your prayer in the last post?[/quote]
which post?[/quote]
Sherika and Messiah
In the name of Jesus, we come to you believing in success and prosperity according to your will. Lord we ask that you cover Messiah’s mind and spirit as he takes the insurance test. We are praising you in advance for success and the passing of this insurance test so that Messiah can walk into the destiny and position you have for his life. In Jesus name I pray, Amen.[/quote]
I got it! Thank you! See this what I was talking about yesterday. :wink:[/quote]
**i know ** ;)[/quote]
UGGGGH! I’m missing out on the YBF prayers and EVERYTHING!
Heeeeey Rainy!!!!!!!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:25 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300968"][quote comment="300961"]I wish I could cyber hug a certain few….why am I on the back burner for ‘hear say’???[/quote]
Who do you want to cyberhug?[/quote]
It doesn’t matter. The majority has spoken, so I’ll just stick to chatting by my lonesome.
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:26 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300972"][quote comment="300960"][quote comment="300946"]Hey mmschel, congrats on deciding to take the job! The Range Rover is coming soon, huh??! Girl GO’NE!
Get a BLACK one, for me!!!!! :lol:[/quote]
Hey Copwife! Hey Yetta. I had to step out for sec.
Girl, my plan was to save the difference. But last night My husband was like “you can buy a 06 and pay for it in six months, you’ll still have $$ left.” And he’s a for-real number cruncher. :shock:[/quote]
**see that team work lovessssssss it***that what god put together loves it**[/quote]
He’s good like that… God…. & My Hubby…
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:26 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300980"][quote comment="300970"][quote comment="300960"][quote comment="300946"]Hey mmschel, congrats on deciding to take the job! The Range Rover is coming soon, huh??! Girl GO’NE!
Get a BLACK one, for me!!!!! :lol:[/quote]
Hey Copwife! Hey Yetta. I had to step out for sec.
Girl, my plan was to save the difference. But last night My husband was like “you can buy a 06 and pay for it in six months, you’ll still have $$ left.” And he’s a for-real number cruncher. :shock:[/quote]
Okay, okay…so normally, being as frugal (read:CHEAP) as I am, I would say save the money. But if HUBBY says go for it, GIRL!!! I’m all like WHOOMP, WHOOMP!!! You can hate me NOW in my RANGE!!! HELLO?!!?!?
Girl, come scoop me…I’m only like 6 hours away! HAHAHAAHAHA! :lol:[/quote]
You know I would drive that baby til the wheels fall off. :lol:[/quote]
DO IT! You deserve it!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:27 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300973"]Okay, so this is what I wanted to tell you all…
Dude (baby dizzle) called me last night to “see how I was doing” right.. so I was sleepy and kind of blew him off, so this nig gone have teh nerve to ask, not ask, but tell me I should let him come over so we can talk. Now, ladies, please tell me why he thinks that I Should do anything?!! I was like.. We’ll see about that…
at the fake rose..WTF was he thinking?!?!
NO WAY, NO HOW is that gonna happen.. I already know how this is gonna turn out, and I don’t even want to go down that road…
So , I get to work and go into my meeting, and the receptionist pulls me out to tell me I have a visitor.So I walk out of the Conference room to him standing there with a fake rose and a smile… I don’t know why, but it pissed me off. First of all, he looked like he just hopped off the BUM bus, with his doo-rag on… not only that but he had on a long john shirt with windsuit pants..WTF????
I refuse to settle for that again.I know I messed up and now have a baby by this man, but I refuse to stay in that..I know alot of females who have stayed with men because of children and they regret it deeply… AM I WRONG?? I have my eye on the prize and I will not continue to settle…..
Your thoughts here_____________________________ :P[/quote]
I dont think youre wrong. You should ever settle for anyone. You’ll only come out feeling cheated and short changed in the long run!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:27 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300983"][quote comment="300968"][quote comment="300961"]I wish I could cyber hug a certain few….why am I on the back burner for ‘hear say’???[/quote]
Who do you want to cyberhug?[/quote]
It doesn’t matter. The majority has spoken, so I’ll just stick to chatting by my lonesome.[/quote]
What are you going thru???? I see ppl talking to you.. Me included.
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:27 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300981"][quote comment="300973"]Okay, so this is what I wanted to tell you all…
Dude (baby dizzle) called me last night to “see how I was doing” right.. so I was sleepy and kind of blew him off, so this nig gone have teh nerve to ask, not ask, but tell me I should let him come over so we can talk. Now, ladies, please tell me why he thinks that I Should do anything?!! I was like.. We’ll see about that…
NO WAY, NO HOW is that gonna happen.. I already know how this is gonna turn out, and I don’t even want to go down that road…
So , I get to work and go into my meeting, and the receptionist pulls me out to tell me I have a visitor.So I walk out of the Conference room to him standing there with a fake rose and a smile… I don’t know why, but it pissed me off. First of all, he looked like he just hopped off the BUM bus, with his doo-rag on… not only that but he had on a long john shirt with windsuit pants..WTF????
I refuse to settle for that again.I know I messed up and now have a baby by this man, but I refuse to stay in that..I know alot of females who have stayed with men because of children and they regret it deeply… AM I WRONG?? I have my eye on the prize and I will not continue to settle…..
Your thoughts here_____________________________ :P[/quote]
He did NOT go out and get you a gas station flower!!!
Girl never stay with a man b/c of kids.
I tried it with my 1st one and became very depressed.
If you aren’t happy, it shows to your children.
They would rather be in a happy home than one full of stress and turmoil.[/quote]
Yes he did bring me a BP flower for 99 cents!!!!!!!!!!!! I know it would be wrong for me to stay… And I know some people will say otherwise, but I’m sticking to my gut!!! He is not showing me that he is trying to do anything with his life, and I’m sorry but a cheap flower WON’T DO IT BUDDY!!!!!!!!!!!!!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:28 pm (Quote) | Reply |
Mz. Keyes@ i first was to praise you for your strenght and resolve for not cracking that head to the white meat…i will say that if he is trying to put fourth an effort. meet him in a publix place and set up a parenting plan. That way he will see you about the business of B A B Y D not vitamin D
♥
reading you post i went through all those emotions
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:28 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300973"]Okay, so this is what I wanted to tell you all…
Dude (baby dizzle) called me last night to “see how I was doing” right.. so I was sleepy and kind of blew him off, so this nig gone have teh nerve to ask, not ask, but tell me I should let him come over so we can talk. Now, ladies, please tell me why he thinks that I Should do anything?!! I was like.. We’ll see about that…
In WINDSUIT PANTS?!?! GOD NO. LOL, but on the real tip, don’t settle for less when you can get more. Trust me, I don’t have any kids thank god (I had a miscarriage and as sick as it sounds I thank God for it) because my ex was a capital BUM. Wasn’t doing not a damn thing but smokin bud and hangin out and being a hater when I was doing my thang. With that said, do you and do for you and your children. Thats the best thing you can do. And trust me, when you stay focused, you Barack in shining armor will come along and “Michelle O.” you!!!
NO WAY, NO HOW is that gonna happen.. I already know how this is gonna turn out, and I don’t even want to go down that road…
So , I get to work and go into my meeting, and the receptionist pulls me out to tell me I have a visitor.So I walk out of the Conference room to him standing there with a fake rose and a smile… I don’t know why, but it pissed me off. First of all, he looked like he just hopped off the BUM bus, with his doo-rag on… not only that but he had on a long john shirt with windsuit pants..WTF????
I refuse to settle for that again.I know I messed up and now have a baby by this man, but I refuse to stay in that..I know alot of females who have stayed with men because of children and they regret it deeply… AM I WRONG?? I have my eye on the prize and I will not continue to settle…..
Your thoughts here_____________________________ :P[/quote]
WOW
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:29 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300973"]Okay, so this is what I wanted to tell you all…
Dude (baby dizzle) called me last night to “see how I was doing” right.. so I was sleepy and kind of blew him off, so this nig gone have teh nerve to ask, not ask, but tell me I should let him come over so we can talk. Now, ladies, please tell me why he thinks that I Should do anything?!! I was like.. We’ll see about that…
NO WAY, NO HOW is that gonna happen.. I already know how this is gonna turn out, and I don’t even want to go down that road…
So , I get to work and go into my meeting, and the receptionist pulls me out to tell me I have a visitor.So I walk out of the Conference room to him standing there with a fake rose and a smile… I don’t know why, but it pissed me off. First of all, he looked like he just hopped off the BUM bus, with his doo-rag on… not only that but he had on a long john shirt with windsuit pants..WTF????
I refuse to settle for that again.I know I messed up and now have a baby by this man, but I refuse to stay in that..I know alot of females who have stayed with men because of children and they regret it deeply… AM I WRONG?? I have my eye on the prize and I will not continue to settle…..
Your thoughts here_____________________________ :P[/quote]
Ok I’m still stunned at windbreaker pants..homie didn’t have no jeans he could have slipped on..and not the doorag!!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:29 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300967"][quote comment="300941"][quote comment="300918"][quote comment="300842"][quote comment="300835"][quote comment="300823"][quote comment="300816"][quote comment="300792"]I feel bad for Remy a little bit. You spending 6 years in jail for arguing over $3000!? She probably feels all kind of dumb and embarrassed.[/quote]
She’s probably mad as hell. If I was her friend I’d be on the look out. Remy looks crazy.
* mumbling… let me change my gravi…I ain’t trying to catch a charge over this crazy heffa. She probably scrolling in jail. :lol:[/quote]
DEAD @ scrolling in jail :P[/quote]
You know they be getting phones and ish. :neutral:[/quote]
Yes I have a homie like that
:P[/quote]
***waving**[/quote]
hey rainy…i just replied to ur last post, in the last post :)[/quote]
***come back**i posted to you*[/quote]
Ok I had to go over and be all in y’all’s business.
It’s good that y’all are in a similar situation (not good about the situation, but you now what I mean) and that you have each other to lean on. I love my YBF!!!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:29 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300988"][quote comment="300981"][quote comment="300973"]Okay, so this is what I wanted to tell you all…
Dude (baby dizzle) called me last night to “see how I was doing” right.. so I was sleepy and kind of blew him off, so this nig gone have teh nerve to ask, not ask, but tell me I should let him come over so we can talk. Now, ladies, please tell me why he thinks that I Should do anything?!! I was like.. We’ll see about that…
NO WAY, NO HOW is that gonna happen.. I already know how this is gonna turn out, and I don’t even want to go down that road…
So , I get to work and go into my meeting, and the receptionist pulls me out to tell me I have a visitor.So I walk out of the Conference room to him standing there with a fake rose and a smile… I don’t know why, but it pissed me off. First of all, he looked like he just hopped off the BUM bus, with his doo-rag on… not only that but he had on a long john shirt with windsuit pants..WTF????
I refuse to settle for that again.I know I messed up and now have a baby by this man, but I refuse to stay in that..I know alot of females who have stayed with men because of children and they regret it deeply… AM I WRONG?? I have my eye on the prize and I will not continue to settle…..
Your thoughts here_____________________________ :P[/quote]
He did NOT go out and get you a gas station flower!!!
Girl never stay with a man b/c of kids.
I tried it with my 1st one and became very depressed.
If you aren’t happy, it shows to your children.
They would rather be in a happy home than one full of stress and turmoil.[/quote]
Yes he did bring me a BP flower for 99 cents!!!!!!!!!!!! I know it would be wrong for me to stay… And I know some people will say otherwise, but I’m sticking to my gut!!! He is not showing me that he is trying to do anything with his life, and I’m sorry but a cheap flower WON’T DO IT BUDDY!!!!!!!!!!!!![/quote]
He should be punched in the head for that flower.
But people say kids deserve both parents but kids also deserve happiness.
If their parents aren’t happy together, why force it?
A child can have both parents and them not be together if the parents are willing to but forth the work for their child.
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:29 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300983"][quote comment="300968"][quote comment="300961"]I wish I could cyber hug a certain few….why am I on the back burner for ‘hear say’???[/quote]
Who do you want to cyberhug?[/quote]
It doesn’t matter. The majority has spoken, so I’ll just stick to chatting by my lonesome.[/quote]
Hey Dani, I replied to you…. I would reply more often if this durn computer wasn’t on the fritz. Everytime I go to submit a comment, it tells me that there was a problem and Windows has to close the program….
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:30 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300973"]Okay, so this is what I wanted to tell you all…
Dude (baby dizzle) called me last night to “see how I was doing” right.. so I was sleepy and kind of blew him off, so this nig gone have teh nerve to ask, not ask, but tell me I should let him come over so we can talk. Now, ladies, please tell me why he thinks that I Should do anything?!! I was like.. We’ll see about that…
NO WAY, NO HOW is that gonna happen.. I already know how this is gonna turn out, and I don’t even want to go down that road…
So , I get to work and go into my meeting, and the receptionist pulls me out to tell me I have a visitor.So I walk out of the Conference room to him standing there with a fake rose and a smile… I don’t know why, but it pissed me off. First of all, he looked like he just hopped off the BUM bus, with his doo-rag on… not only that but he had on a long john shirt with windsuit pants..WTF????
I refuse to settle for that again.I know I messed up and now have a baby by this man, but I refuse to stay in that..I know alot of females who have stayed with men because of children and they regret it deeply… AM I WRONG?? I have my eye on the prize and I will not continue to settle…..
Your thoughts here_____________________________ :P[/quote]
NOPE! Don’t stay with him just for the kid! The kid will know (they ALWAYS KNOW) and it doesn’t make the situation any better! Move on to the next dude (MR. RIGHT!) when YOU’RE ready for a better relationship and peace of mind!
Short, QUICK and to the point!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:30 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300982"][quote comment="300975"][quote comment="300957"][quote comment="300942"][quote comment="300935"][quote comment="300926"]Dat Chick, did you see your prayer in the last post?[/quote]
which post?[/quote]
Sherika and Messiah
In the name of Jesus, we come to you believing in success and prosperity according to your will. Lord we ask that you cover Messiah’s mind and spirit as he takes the insurance test. We are praising you in advance for success and the passing of this insurance test so that Messiah can walk into the destiny and position you have for his life. In Jesus name I pray, Amen.[/quote]
I got it! Thank you! See this what I was talking about yesterday. :wink:[/quote]
**i know ** ;)[/quote]
UGGGGH! I’m missing out on the YBF prayers and EVERYTHING!
Heeeeey Rainy!!!!!!![/quote]
***hey buddy***happy friday dance**
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:30 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300990"]Mz. Keyes@ i first was to praise you for your strenght and resolve for not cracking that head to the white meat…i will say that if he is trying to put fourth an effort. meet him in a publix place and set up a parenting plan. That way he will see you about the business of B A B Y D not vitamin D
♥
reading you post i went through all those emotions[/quote]
check old post
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:31 pm (Quote) | Reply |
Hey everyone!! I really hate scrolling. What did I miss??
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:31 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300973"]Okay, so this is what I wanted to tell you all…
Dude (baby dizzle) called me last night to “see how I was doing” right.. so I was sleepy and kind of blew him off, so this nig gone have teh nerve to ask, not ask, but tell me I should let him come over so we can talk. Now, ladies, please tell me why he thinks that I Should do anything?!! I was like.. We’ll see about that…
NO WAY, NO HOW is that gonna happen.. I already know how this is gonna turn out, and I don’t even want to go down that road…
So , I get to work and go into my meeting, and the receptionist pulls me out to tell me I have a visitor.So I walk out of the Conference room to him standing there with a fake rose and a smile… I don’t know why, but it pissed me off. First of all, he looked like he just hopped off the BUM bus, with his doo-rag on… not only that but he had on a long john shirt with windsuit pants..WTF????
I refuse to settle for that again.I know I messed up and now have a baby by this man, but I refuse to stay in that..I know alot of females who have stayed with men because of children and they regret it deeply… AM I WRONG?? I have my eye on the prize and I will not continue to settle…..
Your thoughts here_____________________________ :P[/quote]
No you are not wrong, my momma always told my sisters and I to never settle and she also told us to write down a list of qualities that you want in a man and keep on asking god to give you direction…
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:31 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301001"]Hey everyone!! I really hate scrolling. What did I miss??[/quote]
Heyyyyyyyyyy!
I just got back myself so I can’t tell you what you’ve missed
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:32 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300973"]Okay, so this is what I wanted to tell you all…
Dude (baby dizzle) called me last night to “see how I was doing” right.. so I was sleepy and kind of blew him off, so this nig gone have teh nerve to ask, not ask, but tell me I should let him come over so we can talk. Now, ladies, please tell me why he thinks that I Should do anything?!! I was like.. We’ll see about that…
NO WAY, NO HOW is that gonna happen.. I already know how this is gonna turn out, and I don’t even want to go down that road…
So , I get to work and go into my meeting, and the receptionist pulls me out to tell me I have a visitor.So I walk out of the Conference room to him standing there with a fake rose and a smile… I don’t know why, but it pissed me off. First of all, he looked like he just hopped off the BUM bus, with his doo-rag on… not only that but he had on a long john shirt with windsuit pants..WTF????
I refuse to settle for that again.I know I messed up and now have a baby by this man, but I refuse to stay in that..I know alot of females who have stayed with men because of children and they regret it deeply… AM I WRONG?? I have my eye on the prize and I will not continue to settle…..
Your thoughts here_____________________________ :P[/quote]
Now you know I’m going to send you back 6 weeks to my post on this kinda stuff. *(in my best Della Reese voice). Now I’m not going to tell you or these other ladies again. Think about yourselves and your children. The right man will fall into place when God puts him there. Not because you’re making room for him.
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:32 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300979"][quote comment="300959"][quote comment="300951"][quote comment="300931"][quote comment="300925"][quote comment="300920"][quote comment="300915"][quote comment="300908"][quote comment="300906"][quote comment="300799"][quote comment="300782"][quote comment="300750"]Dang, Remy. 2014?? That’s more numbers than your album sales. May the force be with you…I just know Big Bertha is salivating in corner right about now.
__________
Oh and congrats to Ursh & Lady. My idea for a name (since they’re open for public suggestions) would be: Beard.[/quote]
LMAO. DEAD @ Big Bertha________________________________.[/quote]
With a body shaped like a Ham Hock. *shutters*[/quote]
U are dead wrong for that!!! DEAD AGAIN___________________.[/quote]
Hey, what kinda boots are you talking about?? Uggs?[/quote]
Nope..they are made in Australia..kinda like Uggs but more fashionable..they have various kinds of styles..they are very popular in Europe and they are sellin out hella fast in the US!![/quote]
I know what youre talking about. They are cute! I like the ones that tie up in the back![/quote]
AHHHH I BOUGHT THEM!!! :-)[/quote]
Man, they are expensive![/quote]
What boots you bought Foley?? Like behind really need to see some boots….smh[/quote]
Some cute winter boots, they are by Australia love Collective..like uggs but more fashionable ;-)[/quote]
Awwwww What kind? I want some uugs but not the regular s I want the summit ones…they cost $250 and I’m trying to get my boo to get them for me.[/quote]
I got these Yeti ones with rabbit fur all around them and two pom poms on the back..if you go on shopbop, they are in the sale section..within one damn day and an hour..them thangs sold out quick!!! Go head gurl..go get the boo to get em for you..wish i had me a suga daddy right about now, lol
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:32 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300996"][quote comment="300988"][quote comment="300981"][quote comment="300973"]Okay, so this is what I wanted to tell you all…
Dude (baby dizzle) called me last night to “see how I was doing” right.. so I was sleepy and kind of blew him off, so this nig gone have teh nerve to ask, not ask, but tell me I should let him come over so we can talk. Now, ladies, please tell me why he thinks that I Should do anything?!! I was like.. We’ll see about that…
NO WAY, NO HOW is that gonna happen.. I already know how this is gonna turn out, and I don’t even want to go down that road…
So , I get to work and go into my meeting, and the receptionist pulls me out to tell me I have a visitor.So I walk out of the Conference room to him standing there with a fake rose and a smile… I don’t know why, but it pissed me off. First of all, he looked like he just hopped off the BUM bus, with his doo-rag on… not only that but he had on a long john shirt with windsuit pants..WTF????
I refuse to settle for that again.I know I messed up and now have a baby by this man, but I refuse to stay in that..I know alot of females who have stayed with men because of children and they regret it deeply… AM I WRONG?? I have my eye on the prize and I will not continue to settle…..
Your thoughts here_____________________________ :P[/quote]
He did NOT go out and get you a gas station flower!!!
Girl never stay with a man b/c of kids.
I tried it with my 1st one and became very depressed.
If you aren’t happy, it shows to your children.
They would rather be in a happy home than one full of stress and turmoil.[/quote]
Yes he did bring me a BP flower for 99 cents!!!!!!!!!!!! I know it would be wrong for me to stay… And I know some people will say otherwise, but I’m sticking to my gut!!! He is not showing me that he is trying to do anything with his life, and I’m sorry but a cheap flower WON’T DO IT BUDDY!!!!!!!!!!!!![/quote]
He should be punched in the head for that flower.
But people say kids deserve both parents but kids also deserve happiness.
If their parents aren’t happy together, why force it?
A child can have both parents and them not be together if the parents are willing to but forth the work for their child.[/quote]
Glam, this dude is a straight bum… I know I laid down with him, but I see how you guys are always talking about what your husbands and boyfriends do for you and I’m sitting here with the glue mouth because this dude is not doing a thing…. And I have a daughter..I can’t just have a man living up in my crib and my daughter is there.. Can’t do it…. I made this mistake, but like I said, I refuse to STAY in this situation…not worth it…
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:32 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300973"]Okay, so this is what I wanted to tell you all…
Dude (baby dizzle) called me last night to “see how I was doing” right.. so I was sleepy and kind of blew him off, so this nig gone have teh nerve to ask, not ask, but tell me I should let him come over so we can talk. Now, ladies, please tell me why he thinks that I Should do anything?!! I was like.. We’ll see about that…
NO WAY, NO HOW is that gonna happen.. I already know how this is gonna turn out, and I don’t even want to go down that road…
So , I get to work and go into my meeting, and the receptionist pulls me out to tell me I have a visitor.So I walk out of the Conference room to him standing there with a fake rose and a smile… I don’t know why, but it pissed me off. First of all, he looked like he just hopped off the BUM bus, with his doo-rag on… not only that but he had on a long john shirt with windsuit pants..WTF????
I refuse to settle for that again.I know I messed up and now have a baby by this man, but I refuse to stay in that..I know alot of females who have stayed with men because of children and they regret it deeply… AM I WRONG?? I have my eye on the prize and I will not continue to settle…..
Your thoughts here_____________________________ :P[/quote]
Hellz Naw you ain’t wrong. What you wrong for is questioning you decision. First off don’t be showing up at my place of work all unannouced that’s first! Second if you going to have the balls to pull that at least come in your easter clothes
try a bouquet of roses and maybe I won’t have them escort yo azz outta here! Then how about you try coming at my lunch at least noon to see if I would like to talk to you over lunch. Not early in the A.M when meetings and whatnot is going on. So no I don’t think you are wrong, you cut him off for a reason and you should standby it. If he had potential you would know that by now and he would be present. I’m glad to hear he concerned about yours and baby D’s well being but he’s supposed to be and he don’t get a chest pump for doing what he supposed to do.
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:33 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300995"][quote comment="300967"][quote comment="300941"][quote comment="300918"][quote comment="300842"][quote comment="300835"][quote comment="300823"][quote comment="300816"][quote comment="300792"]I feel bad for Remy a little bit. You spending 6 years in jail for arguing over $3000!? She probably feels all kind of dumb and embarrassed.[/quote]
She’s probably mad as hell. If I was her friend I’d be on the look out. Remy looks crazy.
* mumbling… let me change my gravi…I ain’t trying to catch a charge over this crazy heffa. She probably scrolling in jail. :lol:[/quote]
DEAD @ scrolling in jail :P[/quote]
You know they be getting phones and ish. :neutral:[/quote]
Yes I have a homie like that
:P[/quote]
***waving**[/quote]
hey rainy…i just replied to ur last post, in the last post :)[/quote]
***come back**i posted to you*[/quote]
Ok I had to go over and be all in y’all’s business.
It’s good that y’all are in a similar situation (not good about the situation, but you now what I mean) and that you have each other to lean on. I love my YBF!!![/quote]
lol, it’s cool country. that is y i posted. we have so many walks of life in YBF that i wanted to get ppl’s view on the situation. i am glad too, that i have someone in a similar sitution as me cause it is hard fighting blind. it is nice to get lil bits of info here and there that will help in this trying process. this is no fly by night, so we need all the help/guidance/support we can get.
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:34 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300990"]Mz. Keyes@ i first was to praise you for your strenght and resolve for not cracking that head to the white meat…i will say that if he is trying to put fourth an effort. meet him in a publix place and set up a parenting plan. That way he will see you about the business of B A B Y D not vitamin D
♥
reading you post i went through all those emotions[/quote]
Good reply Rainy.
Yetta.. I made the rule about the do-rags on Nov. 5!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:34 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300973"]Okay, so this is what I wanted to tell you all…
Dude (baby dizzle) called me last night to “see how I was doing” right.. so I was sleepy and kind of blew him off, so this nig gone have teh nerve to ask, not ask, but tell me I should let him come over so we can talk. Now, ladies, please tell me why he thinks that I Should do anything?!! I was like.. We’ll see about that…
NO WAY, NO HOW is that gonna happen.. I already know how this is gonna turn out, and I don’t even want to go down that road…
So , I get to work and go into my meeting, and the receptionist pulls me out to tell me I have a visitor.So I walk out of the Conference room to him standing there with a fake rose and a smile… I don’t know why, but it pissed me off. First of all, he looked like he just hopped off the BUM bus, with his doo-rag on… not only that but he had on a long john shirt with windsuit pants..WTF????
I refuse to settle for that again.I know I messed up and now have a baby by this man, but I refuse to stay in that..I know alot of females who have stayed with men because of children and they regret it deeply… AM I WRONG?? I have my eye on the prize and I will not continue to settle…..
Your thoughts here_____________________________ :P[/quote]
your not wrong don’t settle at all
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:34 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300987"][quote comment="300983"][quote comment="300968"][quote comment="300961"]I wish I could cyber hug a certain few….why am I on the back burner for ‘hear say’???[/quote]
Who do you want to cyberhug?[/quote]
It doesn’t matter. The majority has spoken, so I’ll just stick to chatting by my lonesome.[/quote]
What are you going thru???? I see ppl talking to you.. Me included.[/quote]
I miss Rainy & Christin!! They won’t talk to me anymore
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:35 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301003"][quote comment="301001"]Hey everyone!! I really hate scrolling. What did I miss??[/quote]
Heyyyyyyyyyy!
I just got back myself so I can’t tell you what you’ve missed :([/quote]
Thanks anyway!!!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:35 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301004"][quote comment="300973"]Okay, so this is what I wanted to tell you all…
Dude (baby dizzle) called me last night to “see how I was doing” right.. so I was sleepy and kind of blew him off, so this nig gone have teh nerve to ask, not ask, but tell me I should let him come over so we can talk. Now, ladies, please tell me why he thinks that I Should do anything?!! I was like.. We’ll see about that…
NO WAY, NO HOW is that gonna happen.. I already know how this is gonna turn out, and I don’t even want to go down that road…
So , I get to work and go into my meeting, and the receptionist pulls me out to tell me I have a visitor.So I walk out of the Conference room to him standing there with a fake rose and a smile… I don’t know why, but it pissed me off. First of all, he looked like he just hopped off the BUM bus, with his doo-rag on… not only that but he had on a long john shirt with windsuit pants..WTF????
I refuse to settle for that again.I know I messed up and now have a baby by this man, but I refuse to stay in that..I know alot of females who have stayed with men because of children and they regret it deeply… AM I WRONG?? I have my eye on the prize and I will not continue to settle…..
Your thoughts here_____________________________ :P[/quote]
Now you know I’m going to send you back 6 weeks to my post on this kinda stuff. *(in my best Della Reese voice). Now I’m not going to tell you or these other ladies again. Think about yourselves and your children. The right man will fall into place when God puts him there. Not because you’re making room for him.[/quote]
And that is where my hope lies Mmschel…. I know that there is a God who wants the best for me, and even though we mess up does not mean we have to continue to mess up.. After getting myself in this mess, I now understand that God is trying to tell me to wait for him, because when we don’t stuff like this happens. And I truly believe that God will place someone in my life who understands my situation and will be there hor me and my children. I don’t want to invite this man back into my life and miss out on what God has in store for me….
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:36 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301006"][quote comment="300996"][quote comment="300988"][quote comment="300981"][quote comment="300973"]Okay, so this is what I wanted to tell you all…
Dude (baby dizzle) called me last night to “see how I was doing” right.. so I was sleepy and kind of blew him off, so this nig gone have teh nerve to ask, not ask, but tell me I should let him come over so we can talk. Now, ladies, please tell me why he thinks that I Should do anything?!! I was like.. We’ll see about that…
NO WAY, NO HOW is that gonna happen.. I already know how this is gonna turn out, and I don’t even want to go down that road…
So , I get to work and go into my meeting, and the receptionist pulls me out to tell me I have a visitor.So I walk out of the Conference room to him standing there with a fake rose and a smile… I don’t know why, but it pissed me off. First of all, he looked like he just hopped off the BUM bus, with his doo-rag on… not only that but he had on a long john shirt with windsuit pants..WTF????
I refuse to settle for that again.I know I messed up and now have a baby by this man, but I refuse to stay in that..I know alot of females who have stayed with men because of children and they regret it deeply… AM I WRONG?? I have my eye on the prize and I will not continue to settle…..
Your thoughts here_____________________________ :P[/quote]
He did NOT go out and get you a gas station flower!!!
Girl never stay with a man b/c of kids.
I tried it with my 1st one and became very depressed.
If you aren’t happy, it shows to your children.
They would rather be in a happy home than one full of stress and turmoil.[/quote]
Yes he did bring me a BP flower for 99 cents!!!!!!!!!!!! I know it would be wrong for me to stay… And I know some people will say otherwise, but I’m sticking to my gut!!! He is not showing me that he is trying to do anything with his life, and I’m sorry but a cheap flower WON’T DO IT BUDDY!!!!!!!!!!!!![/quote]
He should be punched in the head for that flower.
But people say kids deserve both parents but kids also deserve happiness.
If their parents aren’t happy together, why force it?
A child can have both parents and them not be together if the parents are willing to but forth the work for their child.[/quote]
Glam, this dude is a straight bum… I know I laid down with him, but I see how you guys are always talking about what your husbands and boyfriends do for you and I’m sitting here with the glue mouth because this dude is not doing a thing…. And I have a daughter..I can’t just have a man living up in my crib and my daughter is there.. Can’t do it…. I made this mistake, but like I said, I refuse to STAY in this situation…not worth it…[/quote]
See youhave the right attitude.
And mama…I am 27 so I have been through some bums and I am just now able to say I am lucky to have an amazing man.
God placed him in my life and I feel so blessed.
And I think back to my 1st son’s father like, What if I would’ve stayed?
HELL NO!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:37 pm (Quote) | Reply |
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:37 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301014"][quote comment="301003"][quote comment="301001"]Hey everyone!! I really hate scrolling. What did I miss??[/quote]
Heyyyyyyyyyy!
I just got back myself so I can’t tell you what you’ve missed :([/quote]
Thanks anyway!!! :lol:[/quote]
Hey Toya, Whats up with you?
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:39 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300990"]Mz. Keyes@ i first was to praise you for your strenght and resolve for not cracking that head to the white meat…i will say that if he is trying to put fourth an effort. meet him in a publix place and set up a parenting plan. That way he will see you about the business of B A B Y D not vitamin D
…… Thank you..I surely wanted to act like I did not know this man… 
♥
reading you post i went through all those emotions[/quote]
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:40 pm (Quote) | Reply |
Get ya tubes tied!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:41 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301005"][quote comment="300979"][quote comment="300959"][quote comment="300951"][quote comment="300931"][quote comment="300925"][quote comment="300920"][quote comment="300915"][quote comment="300908"][quote comment="300906"][quote comment="300799"][quote comment="300782"][quote comment="300750"]Dang, Remy. 2014?? That’s more numbers than your album sales. May the force be with you…I just know Big Bertha is salivating in corner right about now.
__________
Oh and congrats to Ursh & Lady. My idea for a name (since they’re open for public suggestions) would be: Beard.[/quote]
LMAO. DEAD @ Big Bertha________________________________.[/quote]
With a body shaped like a Ham Hock. *shutters*[/quote]
U are dead wrong for that!!! DEAD AGAIN___________________.[/quote]
Hey, what kinda boots are you talking about?? Uggs?[/quote]
Nope..they are made in Australia..kinda like Uggs but more fashionable..they have various kinds of styles..they are very popular in Europe and they are sellin out hella fast in the US!![/quote]
I know what youre talking about. They are cute! I like the ones that tie up in the back![/quote]
AHHHH I BOUGHT THEM!!! :-)[/quote]
Man, they are expensive![/quote]
What boots you bought Foley?? Like behind really need to see some boots….smh[/quote]
Some cute winter boots, they are by Australia love Collective..like uggs but more fashionable ;-)[/quote]
Awwwww What kind? I want some uugs but not the regular s I want the summit ones…they cost $250 and I’m trying to get my boo to get them for me.[/quote]
I got these Yeti ones with rabbit fur all around them and two pom poms on the back..if you go on shopbop, they are in the sale section..within one damn day and an hour..them thangs sold out quick!!! Go head gurl..go get the boo to get em for you..wish i had me a suga daddy right about now, lol[/quote]
Foley, are they really called “Yeti” boots?!?! PLEASE say they are not, ’cause I’m sitting here thinking about Sasquash walking around with a clubbed foot like Toby/Kunta Kinte! HAHAHAHHAA!
Nah, but seriously they sound cute! I’mma check for them too!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:41 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300983"][quote comment="300968"][quote comment="300961"]I wish I could cyber hug a certain few….why am I on the back burner for ‘hear say’???[/quote]
Who do you want to cyberhug?[/quote]
It doesn’t matter. The majority has spoken, so I’ll just stick to chatting by my lonesome.[/quote]
Well I personally don’t have a problem with you but I have heard the stories. I’m all about positive energy and I’ll be honest the jury is still out on somethings you have been accused of. I can seee that you really reaching out and me being a Christian, I would be wrong to judge and hold a grudge. So with that being said I’ll extend the olive branch and welcome you my cyber friendship if it means anything to you.
*cyberhug*
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:41 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301007"][quote comment="300973"]Okay, so this is what I wanted to tell you all…
Dude (baby dizzle) called me last night to “see how I was doing” right.. so I was sleepy and kind of blew him off, so this nig gone have teh nerve to ask, not ask, but tell me I should let him come over so we can talk. Now, ladies, please tell me why he thinks that I Should do anything?!! I was like.. We’ll see about that…
NO WAY, NO HOW is that gonna happen.. I already know how this is gonna turn out, and I don’t even want to go down that road…
So , I get to work and go into my meeting, and the receptionist pulls me out to tell me I have a visitor.So I walk out of the Conference room to him standing there with a fake rose and a smile… I don’t know why, but it pissed me off. First of all, he looked like he just hopped off the BUM bus, with his doo-rag on… not only that but he had on a long john shirt with windsuit pants..WTF????
I refuse to settle for that again.I know I messed up and now have a baby by this man, but I refuse to stay in that..I know alot of females who have stayed with men because of children and they regret it deeply… AM I WRONG?? I have my eye on the prize and I will not continue to settle…..
Your thoughts here_____________________________ :P[/quote]
Hellz Naw you ain’t wrong. What you wrong for is questioning you decision. First off don’t be showing up at my place of work all unannouced that’s first! Second if you going to have the balls to pull that at least come in your easter clothes
try a bouquet of roses and maybe I won’t have them escort yo azz outta here! Then how about you try coming at my lunch at least noon to see if I would like to talk to you over lunch. Not early in the A.M when meetings and whatnot is going on. So no I don’t think you are wrong, you cut him off for a reason and you should standby it. If he had potential you would know that by now and he would be present. I’m glad to hear he concerned about yours and baby D’s well being but he’s supposed to be and he don’t get a chest pump for doing what he supposed to do.[/quote]
BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!!!! Girl, that is what I’m talking about…
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:42 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301024"][quote comment="301005"][quote comment="300979"][quote comment="300959"][quote comment="300951"][quote comment="300931"][quote comment="300925"][quote comment="300920"][quote comment="300915"][quote comment="300908"][quote comment="300906"][quote comment="300799"][quote comment="300782"][quote comment="300750"]Dang, Remy. 2014?? That’s more numbers than your album sales. May the force be with you…I just know Big Bertha is salivating in corner right about now.
__________
Oh and congrats to Ursh & Lady. My idea for a name (since they’re open for public suggestions) would be: Beard.[/quote]
LMAO. DEAD @ Big Bertha________________________________.[/quote]
With a body shaped like a Ham Hock. *shutters*[/quote]
U are dead wrong for that!!! DEAD AGAIN___________________.[/quote]
Hey, what kinda boots are you talking about?? Uggs?[/quote]
Nope..they are made in Australia..kinda like Uggs but more fashionable..they have various kinds of styles..they are very popular in Europe and they are sellin out hella fast in the US!![/quote]
I know what youre talking about. They are cute! I like the ones that tie up in the back![/quote]
AHHHH I BOUGHT THEM!!! :-)[/quote]
Man, they are expensive![/quote]
What boots you bought Foley?? Like behind really need to see some boots….smh[/quote]
Some cute winter boots, they are by Australia love Collective..like uggs but more fashionable ;-)[/quote]
Awwwww What kind? I want some uugs but not the regular s I want the summit ones…they cost $250 and I’m trying to get my boo to get them for me.[/quote]
I got these Yeti ones with rabbit fur all around them and two pom poms on the back..if you go on shopbop, they are in the sale section..within one damn day and an hour..them thangs sold out quick!!! Go head gurl..go get the boo to get em for you..wish i had me a suga daddy right about now, lol[/quote]
Foley, are they really called “Yeti” boots?!?! PLEASE say they are not, ’cause I’m sitting here thinking about Sasquash walking around with a clubbed foot like Toby/Kunta Kinte! HAHAHAHHAA!
Nah, but seriously they sound cute! I’mma check for them too![/quote]
__________________________ call it.
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:42 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301023"]Get ya tubes tied![/quote]
I AM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:42 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301023"]Get ya tubes tied![/quote]
Oooookay?!?!
Heeeey you!!!! Drink plently of tea w/lemon and gargle with salt and water! (what Momma always told me!)
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:43 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300973"]Okay, so this is what I wanted to tell you all…
Dude (baby dizzle) called me last night to “see how I was doing” right.. so I was sleepy and kind of blew him off, so this nig gone have teh nerve to ask, not ask, but tell me I should let him come over so we can talk. Now, ladies, please tell me why he thinks that I Should do anything?!! I was like.. We’ll see about that…
NO WAY, NO HOW is that gonna happen.. I already know how this is gonna turn out, and I don’t even want to go down that road…
So , I get to work and go into my meeting, and the receptionist pulls me out to tell me I have a visitor.So I walk out of the Conference room to him standing there with a fake rose and a smile… I don’t know why, but it pissed me off. First of all, he looked like he just hopped off the BUM bus, with his doo-rag on… not only that but he had on a long john shirt with windsuit pants..WTF????
I refuse to settle for that again.I know I messed up and now have a baby by this man, but I refuse to stay in that..I know alot of females who have stayed with men because of children and they regret it deeply… AM I WRONG?? I have my eye on the prize and I will not continue to settle…..
Your thoughts here_____________________________ :P[/quote]
Damn I step away for one minute and missed all this.
First of all, girl, hell no don’t settle for less! I know he’s your baby’s father but he’s wack. You are on your way to doing great things and I feel, even though I don’t know him, that he will hold you back. Don’t deny him his son, but don’t get back with him. You two are adults and you seem like you have a good head on your shoulders so I know that you will work out a way for him to be involved in Dakota’s life.
Plus, he gets a big minus for showing up at your place of employemnt looking like a bum. Doesn’t he know you are at a business and have an image to uphold. Ughh!!! He pissed me off when I read that.
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:43 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301025"][quote comment="300983"][quote comment="300968"][quote comment="300961"]I wish I could cyber hug a certain few….why am I on the back burner for ‘hear say’???[/quote]
Who do you want to cyberhug?[/quote]
It doesn’t matter. The majority has spoken, so I’ll just stick to chatting by my lonesome.[/quote]
Well I personally don’t have a problem with you but I have heard the stories. I’m all about positive energy and I’ll be honest the jury is still out on somethings you have been accused of. I can seee that you really reaching out and me being a Christian, I would be wrong to judge and hold a grudge. So with that being said I’ll extend the olive branch and welcome you my cyber friendship if it means anything to you.
*cyberhug*[/quote]
I don’t even know what’s going on since I am so new here but that was sweet!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:44 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301027"][quote comment="301024"][quote comment="301005"][quote comment="300979"][quote comment="300959"][quote comment="300951"][quote comment="300931"][quote comment="300925"][quote comment="300920"][quote comment="300915"][quote comment="300908"][quote comment="300906"][quote comment="300799"][quote comment="300782"][quote comment="300750"]Dang, Remy. 2014?? That’s more numbers than your album sales. May the force be with you…I just know Big Bertha is salivating in corner right about now.
__________
Oh and congrats to Ursh & Lady. My idea for a name (since they’re open for public suggestions) would be: Beard.[/quote]
LMAO. DEAD @ Big Bertha________________________________.[/quote]
With a body shaped like a Ham Hock. *shutters*[/quote]
U are dead wrong for that!!! DEAD AGAIN___________________.[/quote]
Hey, what kinda boots are you talking about?? Uggs?[/quote]
Nope..they are made in Australia..kinda like Uggs but more fashionable..they have various kinds of styles..they are very popular in Europe and they are sellin out hella fast in the US!![/quote]
I know what youre talking about. They are cute! I like the ones that tie up in the back![/quote]
AHHHH I BOUGHT THEM!!! :-)[/quote]
Man, they are expensive![/quote]
What boots you bought Foley?? Like behind really need to see some boots….smh[/quote]
Some cute winter boots, they are by Australia love Collective..like uggs but more fashionable ;-)[/quote]
Awwwww What kind? I want some uugs but not the regular s I want the summit ones…they cost $250 and I’m trying to get my boo to get them for me.[/quote]
I got these Yeti ones with rabbit fur all around them and two pom poms on the back..if you go on shopbop, they are in the sale section..within one damn day and an hour..them thangs sold out quick!!! Go head gurl..go get the boo to get em for you..wish i had me a suga daddy right about now, lol[/quote]
Foley, are they really called “Yeti” boots?!?! PLEASE say they are not, ’cause I’m sitting here thinking about Sasquash walking around with a clubbed foot like Toby/Kunta Kinte! HAHAHAHHAA!
Nah, but seriously they sound cute! I’mma check for them too![/quote]
__________________________ call it.[/quote]
11:44 a.m. CST!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:44 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301025"][quote comment="300983"][quote comment="300968"][quote comment="300961"]I wish I could cyber hug a certain few….why am I on the back burner for ‘hear say’???[/quote]
Who do you want to cyberhug?[/quote]
It doesn’t matter. The majority has spoken, so I’ll just stick to chatting by my lonesome.[/quote]
Well I personally don’t have a problem with you but I have heard the stories. I’m all about positive energy and I’ll be honest the jury is still out on somethings you have been accused of. I can seee that you really reaching out and me being a Christian, I would be wrong to judge and hold a grudge. So with that being said I’ll extend the olive branch and welcome you my cyber friendship if it means anything to you.
*cyberhug*[/quote]
What stories??? See, that’s what I’m saying. How am I (the accusee) not even in the loop? I’m not even gonna ask… I accept your friendship, because you see like a nice person. *cyber hug recieved & returned*
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:44 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301028"][quote comment="301023"]Get ya tubes tied![/quote]
I AM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!![/quote]
MEEEEEE TOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! No if, ands, buts about it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:45 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301034"][quote comment="301028"][quote comment="301023"]Get ya tubes tied![/quote]
I AM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!![/quote]
MEEEEEE TOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! No if, ands, buts about it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!![/quote]
My fiance doesn’t want that so I wont get it done right away but after the hard times I’ve had during this pregnancy, I don’t know if I am strong enough to go through it again.
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:46 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301011"][quote comment="300990"]Mz. Keyes@ i first was to praise you for your strenght and resolve for not cracking that head to the white meat…i will say that if he is trying to put fourth an effort. meet him in a publix place and set up a parenting plan. That way he will see you about the business of B A B Y D not vitamin D
♥
reading you post i went through all those emotions[/quote]
Good reply Rainy.
Yetta.. I made the rule about the do-rags on Nov. 5![/quote]
What, no do-rags and cornrolls past 18 y.o.? (I missed that, so I’m guessing!)
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:46 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301017"]:lol: @ Dat Chick & “easter clothes”!!!!!
@ mmschel & “Della Reese voice”! Noooo, not DELLA REESE!!!!! HAHAHAAHAHAHAHAA[/quote]
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:47 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300984"][quote comment="300972"][quote comment="300960"][quote comment="300946"]Hey mmschel, congrats on deciding to take the job! The Range Rover is coming soon, huh??! Girl GO’NE!
Get a BLACK one, for me!!!!! :lol:[/quote]
Hey Copwife! Hey Yetta. I had to step out for sec.
Girl, my plan was to save the difference. But last night My husband was like “you can buy a 06 and pay for it in six months, you’ll still have $$ left.” And he’s a for-real number cruncher. :shock:[/quote]
**see that team work lovessssssss it***that what god put together loves it**[/quote]
He’s good like that… God…. & My Hubby… :smile:[/quote]
^^^dead at your title…loves that movie! rock a bar baby
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:47 pm (Quote) | Reply |
k scrolling to see what i missed***
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:47 pm (Quote) | Reply |
Hey Ladies, i’m back
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:47 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301030"][quote comment="300973"]Okay, so this is what I wanted to tell you all…
Dude (baby dizzle) called me last night to “see how I was doing” right.. so I was sleepy and kind of blew him off, so this nig gone have teh nerve to ask, not ask, but tell me I should let him come over so we can talk. Now, ladies, please tell me why he thinks that I Should do anything?!! I was like.. We’ll see about that…
NO WAY, NO HOW is that gonna happen.. I already know how this is gonna turn out, and I don’t even want to go down that road…
So , I get to work and go into my meeting, and the receptionist pulls me out to tell me I have a visitor.So I walk out of the Conference room to him standing there with a fake rose and a smile… I don’t know why, but it pissed me off. First of all, he looked like he just hopped off the BUM bus, with his doo-rag on… not only that but he had on a long john shirt with windsuit pants..WTF????
I refuse to settle for that again.I know I messed up and now have a baby by this man, but I refuse to stay in that..I know alot of females who have stayed with men because of children and they regret it deeply… AM I WRONG?? I have my eye on the prize and I will not continue to settle…..
Your thoughts here_____________________________ :P[/quote]
Damn I step away for one minute and missed all this.
First of all, girl, hell no don’t settle for less! I know he’s your baby’s father but he’s wack. You are on your way to doing great things and I feel, even though I don’t know him, that he will hold you back. Don’t deny him his son, but don’t get back with him. You two are adults and you seem like you have a good head on your shoulders so I know that you will work out a way for him to be involved in Dakota’s life.
Plus, he gets a big minus for showing up at your place of employemnt looking like a bum. Doesn’t he know you are at a business and have an image to uphold. Ughh!!! He pissed me off when I read that.[/quote]
I won’t deny him his son…never, but I hope that he does not think that is an invitation to me… some dudes are just that immature. I’ve known some guys who refused to see the child because the woman did not want to be with him…
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:48 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301041"]Hey Ladies, i’m back[/quote]
Welcome back love!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:48 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301037"][quote comment="301011"][quote comment="300990"]Mz. Keyes@ i first was to praise you for your strenght and resolve for not cracking that head to the white meat…i will say that if he is trying to put fourth an effort. meet him in a publix place and set up a parenting plan. That way he will see you about the business of B A B Y D not vitamin D
♥
reading you post i went through all those emotions[/quote]
Good reply Rainy.
Yetta.. I made the rule about the do-rags on Nov. 5![/quote]
What, no do-rags and cornrolls past 18 y.o.? (I missed that, so I’m guessing!)[/quote]
Me too!! Was it something about Obama being president, so doo-rags are out?
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:49 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301029"][quote comment="301023"]Get ya tubes tied![/quote]
Oooookay?!?!
Heeeey you!!!! Drink plently of tea w/lemon and gargle with salt and water! (what Momma always told me!)[/quote]
Hey mama! Imma do all of that and some later cuz I can’t do being sick!
Anyhoo, don’t mean to be harsh but it just upsets me sometimes that my sista’s get pregnant for BUMS! Like, didn’t you see that when you were laying w/ him? And now these kids are growing up w/o their fathers. It’s just sad. I’m 29 and my ex and I bumped into each other (while in JA) and he’s like, yuh nuh have no pickney yet? I’m like “No, when I find a man that puts me in a house for his future son/daughter then I’ll have plenty of babies.” He’s like “no no, you ain’t gonna have none then, you better hurry up cuz ya clock is ticking.” All I’m thinking is, this fool got 3 kids, by 3 different chicks. Granted he financially takes care of every last one of them and the mothers, but he’s out in the street, he ain’t spending time w/ them and I don’t want that. I want a man that gets pleasure from being a father and spending time w/ his kid(s). As women, we have to learn seperate a good f*ck from the bum that he is. If that means I won’t be having kids than so be it. Don’t mean to offend anyone, I know there’s a lot of mom’s on this blog. I just hate to see the outcome of bad choices that affect the kids that come from it.
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:49 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301024"][quote comment="301005"][quote comment="300979"][quote comment="300959"][quote comment="300951"][quote comment="300931"][quote comment="300925"][quote comment="300920"][quote comment="300915"][quote comment="300908"][quote comment="300906"][quote comment="300799"][quote comment="300782"][quote comment="300750"]Dang, Remy. 2014?? That’s more numbers than your album sales. May the force be with you…I just know Big Bertha is salivating in corner right about now.
__________
Oh and congrats to Ursh & Lady. My idea for a name (since they’re open for public suggestions) would be: Beard.[/quote]
LMAO. DEAD @ Big Bertha________________________________.[/quote]
With a body shaped like a Ham Hock. *shutters*[/quote]
U are dead wrong for that!!! DEAD AGAIN___________________.[/quote]
Hey, what kinda boots are you talking about?? Uggs?[/quote]
Nope..they are made in Australia..kinda like Uggs but more fashionable..they have various kinds of styles..they are very popular in Europe and they are sellin out hella fast in the US!![/quote]
I know what youre talking about. They are cute! I like the ones that tie up in the back![/quote]
AHHHH I BOUGHT THEM!!! :-)[/quote]
Man, they are expensive![/quote]
What boots you bought Foley?? Like behind really need to see some boots….smh[/quote]
Some cute winter boots, they are by Australia love Collective..like uggs but more fashionable ;-)[/quote]
Awwwww What kind? I want some uugs but not the regular s I want the summit ones…they cost $250 and I’m trying to get my boo to get them for me.[/quote]
yall are a mess I swear….
I got these Yeti ones with rabbit fur all around them and two pom poms on the back..if you go on shopbop, they are in the sale section..within one damn day and an hour..them thangs sold out quick!!! Go head gurl..go get the boo to get em for you..wish i had me a suga daddy right about now, lol[/quote]
Foley, are they really called “Yeti” boots?!?! PLEASE say they are not, ’cause I’m sitting here thinking about Sasquash walking around with a clubbed foot like Toby/Kunta Kinte! HAHAHAHHAA!
Nah, but seriously they sound cute! I’mma check for them too![/quote]
LMAO. You know how the Europeans title their merchandise!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:49 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301038"][quote comment="301017"]:lol: @ Dat Chick & “easter clothes”!!!!!
@ mmschel & “Della Reese voice”! Noooo, not DELLA REESE!!!!! HAHAHAAHAHAHAHAA[/quote]
ESPECIALLY, when you are in the wrong! I mean, dang Yetta, he rolled up like he was ’bout to run through Wal-Mart right quick!
NAH, stay cordial for little Dakota, and that’s about IT!!!!! NO VITAMIN D for HIM!!!!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:50 pm (Quote) | Reply |
Hey Glam, you gettin’ married? Congrats! I can’t wait til I walk down the aisle..
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:50 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301041"]Hey Ladies, i’m back[/quote]
Leeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeees!!! *twirls Les around* Where have you been
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:50 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301036"][quote comment="301034"][quote comment="301028"][quote comment="301023"]Get ya tubes tied![/quote]
I AM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!![/quote]
MEEEEEE TOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! No if, ands, buts about it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!![/quote]
My fiance doesn’t want that so I wont get it done right away but after the hard times I’ve had during this pregnancy, I don’t know if I am strong enough to go through it again.[/quote]
SAME HERE!!!!!!!!!!! This has been a high risk pregnancy for me.. my cervix does not want to hold children and I can’t go though this anymore…..
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:51 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301043"][quote comment="301030"][quote comment="300973"]Okay, so this is what I wanted to tell you all…
Dude (baby dizzle) called me last night to “see how I was doing” right.. so I was sleepy and kind of blew him off, so this nig gone have teh nerve to ask, not ask, but tell me I should let him come over so we can talk. Now, ladies, please tell me why he thinks that I Should do anything?!! I was like.. We’ll see about that…
NO WAY, NO HOW is that gonna happen.. I already know how this is gonna turn out, and I don’t even want to go down that road…
So , I get to work and go into my meeting, and the receptionist pulls me out to tell me I have a visitor.So I walk out of the Conference room to him standing there with a fake rose and a smile… I don’t know why, but it pissed me off. First of all, he looked like he just hopped off the BUM bus, with his doo-rag on… not only that but he had on a long john shirt with windsuit pants..WTF????
I refuse to settle for that again.I know I messed up and now have a baby by this man, but I refuse to stay in that..I know alot of females who have stayed with men because of children and they regret it deeply… AM I WRONG?? I have my eye on the prize and I will not continue to settle…..
Your thoughts here_____________________________ :P[/quote]
Damn I step away for one minute and missed all this.
First of all, girl, hell no don’t settle for less! I know he’s your baby’s father but he’s wack. You are on your way to doing great things and I feel, even though I don’t know him, that he will hold you back. Don’t deny him his son, but don’t get back with him. You two are adults and you seem like you have a good head on your shoulders so I know that you will work out a way for him to be involved in Dakota’s life.
Plus, he gets a big minus for showing up at your place of employemnt looking like a bum. Doesn’t he know you are at a business and have an image to uphold. Ughh!!! He pissed me off when I read that.[/quote]
I won’t deny him his son…never, but I hope that he does not think that is an invitation to me… some dudes are just that immature. I’ve known some guys who refused to see the child because the woman did not want to be with him…[/quote]
And if he chooses to be ignorant, then that’s his choice. He will be missing out on a wonderful child. And Dakota will know the reasonwhy y’all aren’t together and why daddy never came around and he won’t forget and when “daddy” tries to come around and Dakota shuts him down, he won’t have no one to blame but himself. You and Dakota and your man (I know you will find one) are going to be just fine minus the lame.
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:51 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301043"][quote comment="301030"][quote comment="300973"]Okay, so this is what I wanted to tell you all…
Dude (baby dizzle) called me last night to “see how I was doing” right.. so I was sleepy and kind of blew him off, so this nig gone have teh nerve to ask, not ask, but tell me I should let him come over so we can talk. Now, ladies, please tell me why he thinks that I Should do anything?!! I was like.. We’ll see about that…
NO WAY, NO HOW is that gonna happen.. I already know how this is gonna turn out, and I don’t even want to go down that road…
So , I get to work and go into my meeting, and the receptionist pulls me out to tell me I have a visitor.So I walk out of the Conference room to him standing there with a fake rose and a smile… I don’t know why, but it pissed me off. First of all, he looked like he just hopped off the BUM bus, with his doo-rag on… not only that but he had on a long john shirt with windsuit pants..WTF????
I refuse to settle for that again.I know I messed up and now have a baby by this man, but I refuse to stay in that..I know alot of females who have stayed with men because of children and they regret it deeply… AM I WRONG?? I have my eye on the prize and I will not continue to settle…..
Your thoughts here_____________________________ :P[/quote]
Damn I step away for one minute and missed all this.
First of all, girl, hell no don’t settle for less! I know he’s your baby’s father but he’s wack. You are on your way to doing great things and I feel, even though I don’t know him, that he will hold you back. Don’t deny him his son, but don’t get back with him. You two are adults and you seem like you have a good head on your shoulders so I know that you will work out a way for him to be involved in Dakota’s life.
Plus, he gets a big minus for showing up at your place of employemnt looking like a bum. Doesn’t he know you are at a business and have an image to uphold. Ughh!!! He pissed me off when I read that.[/quote]
I won’t deny him his son…never, but I hope that he does not think that is an invitation to me… some dudes are just that immature. I’ve known some guys who refused to see the child because the woman did not want to be with him…[/quote]
Ooh my sister baby daddy for example.. he told her since she doesn’t want to be in his life, theres no need for him to try and be a part of my niece’s life as well. And its best he just remove himself!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:52 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301041"]Hey Ladies, i’m back[/quote]
Heeeeey Ms. Les!!!!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:52 pm (Quote) | Reply |
Aiight so we are talking about windsuits and tying tubes???
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:52 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301048"][quote comment="301038"][quote comment="301017"]:lol: @ Dat Chick & “easter clothes”!!!!!
@ mmschel & “Della Reese voice”! Noooo, not DELLA REESE!!!!! HAHAHAAHAHAHAHAA[/quote]
ESPECIALLY, when you are in the wrong! I mean, dang Yetta, he rolled up like he was ’bout to run through Wal-Mart right quick!
NAH, stay cordial for little Dakota, and that’s about IT!!!!! NO VITAMIN D for HIM!!!! :evil:[/quote]
OMG NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO..That is what got me in this situation now..Sex is not even the issue, I’ve learned that I really must wait, because when I jump the gun…THIS HAPPENS!!!!!!!!!!! I’m scared of sex now chile!!! Word!!!!
He looked like he was about to go and wash some cars…
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:52 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301026"][quote comment="301007"][quote comment="300973"]Okay, so this is what I wanted to tell you all…
Dude (baby dizzle) called me last night to “see how I was doing” right.. so I was sleepy and kind of blew him off, so this nig gone have teh nerve to ask, not ask, but tell me I should let him come over so we can talk. Now, ladies, please tell me why he thinks that I Should do anything?!! I was like.. We’ll see about that…
NO WAY, NO HOW is that gonna happen.. I already know how this is gonna turn out, and I don’t even want to go down that road…
So , I get to work and go into my meeting, and the receptionist pulls me out to tell me I have a visitor.So I walk out of the Conference room to him standing there with a fake rose and a smile… I don’t know why, but it pissed me off. First of all, he looked like he just hopped off the BUM bus, with his doo-rag on… not only that but he had on a long john shirt with windsuit pants..WTF????
I refuse to settle for that again.I know I messed up and now have a baby by this man, but I refuse to stay in that..I know alot of females who have stayed with men because of children and they regret it deeply… AM I WRONG?? I have my eye on the prize and I will not continue to settle…..
Your thoughts here_____________________________ :P[/quote]
Hellz Naw you ain’t wrong. What you wrong for is questioning you decision. First off don’t be showing up at my place of work all unannouced that’s first! Second if you going to have the balls to pull that at least come in your easter clothes
try a bouquet of roses and maybe I won’t have them escort yo azz outta here! Then how about you try coming at my lunch at least noon to see if I would like to talk to you over lunch. Not early in the A.M when meetings and whatnot is going on. So no I don’t think you are wrong, you cut him off for a reason and you should standby it. If he had potential you would know that by now and he would be present. I’m glad to hear he concerned about yours and baby D’s well being but he’s supposed to be and he don’t get a chest pump for doing what he supposed to do.[/quote]
BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!!!! Girl, that is what I’m talking about… :lol:[/quote]
you know I cuts the dead beats NOOOOO SLACK!
Go to my Blog and read my poem from Feb “Stay in The Game”
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:53 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301025"][quote comment="300983"][quote comment="300968"][quote comment="300961"]I wish I could cyber hug a certain few….why am I on the back burner for ‘hear say’???[/quote]
Who do you want to cyberhug?[/quote]
It doesn’t matter. The majority has spoken, so I’ll just stick to chatting by my lonesome.[/quote]
Well I personally don’t have a problem with you but I have heard the stories. I’m all about positive energy and I’ll be honest the jury is still out on somethings you have been accused of. I can seee that you really reaching out and me being a Christian, I would be wrong to judge and hold a grudge. So with that being said I’ll extend the olive branch and welcome you my cyber friendship if it means anything to you.
*cyberhug*[/quote]
where’d ya go….i didn’t get a request yet. not rushing u r anything, but i don’t want to have a ‘fakey’ try to come on my page on the sly…..i have my precious kiddies all over it
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:53 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301046"][quote comment="301029"][quote comment="301023"]Get ya tubes tied![/quote]
Oooookay?!?!
Heeeey you!!!! Drink plently of tea w/lemon and gargle with salt and water! (what Momma always told me!)[/quote]
Hey mama! Imma do all of that and some later cuz I can’t do being sick!
Anyhoo, don’t mean to be harsh but it just upsets me sometimes that my sista’s get pregnant for BUMS! Like, didn’t you see that when you were laying w/ him? And now these kids are growing up w/o their fathers. It’s just sad. I’m 29 and my ex and I bumped into each other (while in JA) and he’s like, yuh nuh have no pickney yet? I’m like “No, when I find a man that puts me in a house for his future son/daughter then I’ll have plenty of babies.” He’s like “no no, you ain’t gonna have none then, you better hurry up cuz ya clock is ticking.” All I’m thinking is, this fool got 3 kids, by 3 different chicks. Granted he financially takes care of every last one of them and the mothers, but he’s out in the street, he ain’t spending time w/ them and I don’t want that. I want a man that gets pleasure from being a father and spending time w/ his kid(s). As women, we have to learn seperate a good f*ck from the bum that he is. If that means I won’t be having kids than so be it. Don’t mean to offend anyone, I know there’s a lot of mom’s on this blog. I just hate to see the outcome of bad choices that affect the kids that come from it.[/quote]
I know what you mean and sometimes you are just caught up in the moment.
Trust me that is no excuse.
With my 1st son, we were together for 4 years before I got preg and of course he wasn’t planned but I never expected for us to end.
Now with my 2nd son, I was in love and engaged months before I got preg.
But I know plenty of women that get pregnant by these losers.
Some don’t show their true colors until the woman is preg but we have to do better by wrapping it up and taking our birth control.
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:53 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301037"][quote comment="301011"][quote comment="300990"]Mz. Keyes@ i first was to praise you for your strenght and resolve for not cracking that head to the white meat…i will say that if he is trying to put fourth an effort. meet him in a publix place and set up a parenting plan. That way he will see you about the business of B A B Y D not vitamin D
♥
reading you post i went through all those emotions[/quote]
Good reply Rainy.
Yetta.. I made the rule about the do-rags on Nov. 5![/quote]
What, no do-rags and cornrolls past 18 y.o.? (I missed that, so I’m guessing!)[/quote]
You got it. I stepped out again. *Trying to get this stuff done to leave here. I’ll miss ya’ll Tuesday. Exit interview is out of town. But back to the post. No do-rags in public. No corn rows after 20. and Pull ya pants up! Oh, and to mama’s of boys. Pay for braces not a grill.
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:54 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301052"][quote comment="301043"][quote comment="301030"][quote comment="300973"]Okay, so this is what I wanted to tell you all…
Dude (baby dizzle) called me last night to “see how I was doing” right.. so I was sleepy and kind of blew him off, so this nig gone have teh nerve to ask, not ask, but tell me I should let him come over so we can talk. Now, ladies, please tell me why he thinks that I Should do anything?!! I was like.. We’ll see about that…
NO WAY, NO HOW is that gonna happen.. I already know how this is gonna turn out, and I don’t even want to go down that road…
So , I get to work and go into my meeting, and the receptionist pulls me out to tell me I have a visitor.So I walk out of the Conference room to him standing there with a fake rose and a smile… I don’t know why, but it pissed me off. First of all, he looked like he just hopped off the BUM bus, with his doo-rag on… not only that but he had on a long john shirt with windsuit pants..WTF????
I refuse to settle for that again.I know I messed up and now have a baby by this man, but I refuse to stay in that..I know alot of females who have stayed with men because of children and they regret it deeply… AM I WRONG?? I have my eye on the prize and I will not continue to settle…..
Your thoughts here_____________________________ :P[/quote]
Damn I step away for one minute and missed all this.
First of all, girl, hell no don’t settle for less! I know he’s your baby’s father but he’s wack. You are on your way to doing great things and I feel, even though I don’t know him, that he will hold you back. Don’t deny him his son, but don’t get back with him. You two are adults and you seem like you have a good head on your shoulders so I know that you will work out a way for him to be involved in Dakota’s life.
Plus, he gets a big minus for showing up at your place of employemnt looking like a bum. Doesn’t he know you are at a business and have an image to uphold. Ughh!!! He pissed me off when I read that.[/quote]
I won’t deny him his son…never, but I hope that he does not think that is an invitation to me… some dudes are just that immature. I’ve known some guys who refused to see the child because the woman did not want to be with him…[/quote]
And if he chooses to be ignorant, then that’s his choice. He will be missing out on a wonderful child. And Dakota will know the reasonwhy y’all aren’t together and why daddy never came around and he won’t forget and when “daddy” tries to come around and Dakota shuts him down, he won’t have no one to blame but himself. You and Dakota and your man (I know you will find one) are going to be just fine minus the lame.[/quote]
I lub ya’ll!!!!!! I knew you guys would understand.. I was beginning to feel guilty about my decision… but now I know that I must do it, not for me but for my children..
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:54 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301040"]k scrolling to see what i missed***[/quote]
Girl Whoa wants the tubes tied, Foley’s buying Yeti boots, Les is BACK, and no more do-rags in the 0-8!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:54 pm (Quote) | Reply |
Hey Glam & Toya & Les!
Danielle, girl you know I never ever had a problem with you so cyber hugs and gummi juice to you!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:54 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301056"][quote comment="301048"][quote comment="301038"][quote comment="301017"]:lol: @ Dat Chick & “easter clothes”!!!!!
@ mmschel & “Della Reese voice”! Noooo, not DELLA REESE!!!!! HAHAHAAHAHAHAHAA[/quote]
ESPECIALLY, when you are in the wrong! I mean, dang Yetta, he rolled up like he was ’bout to run through Wal-Mart right quick!
NAH, stay cordial for little Dakota, and that’s about IT!!!!! NO VITAMIN D for HIM!!!! :evil:[/quote]
OMG NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO..That is what got me in this situation now..Sex is not even the issue, I’ve learned that I really must wait, because when I jump the gun…THIS HAPPENS!!!!!!!!!!! I’m scared of sex now chile!!! Word!!!!
He looked like he was about to go and wash some cars…[/quote]
The way you described him…it seems like hadn’t even washed his ass!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:55 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301033"][quote comment="301025"][quote comment="300983"][quote comment="300968"][quote comment="300961"]I wish I could cyber hug a certain few….why am I on the back burner for ‘hear say’???[/quote]
Who do you want to cyberhug?[/quote]
It doesn’t matter. The majority has spoken, so I’ll just stick to chatting by my lonesome.[/quote]
Well I personally don’t have a problem with you but I have heard the stories. I’m all about positive energy and I’ll be honest the jury is still out on somethings you have been accused of. I can seee that you really reaching out and me being a Christian, I would be wrong to judge and hold a grudge. So with that being said I’ll extend the olive branch and welcome you my cyber friendship if it means anything to you.
*cyberhug*[/quote]
What stories??? See, that’s what I’m saying. How am I (the accusee) not even in the loop? I’m not even gonna ask… I accept your friendship, because you see like a nice person. *cyber hug recieved & returned*[/quote]
Yeah that neither here nor there but I”m happy to be a friend.
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:55 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301051"][quote comment="301036"][quote comment="301034"][quote comment="301028"][quote comment="301023"]Get ya tubes tied![/quote]
I AM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!![/quote]
MEEEEEE TOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! No if, ands, buts about it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!![/quote]
My fiance doesn’t want that so I wont get it done right away but after the hard times I’ve had during this pregnancy, I don’t know if I am strong enough to go through it again.[/quote]
SAME HERE!!!!!!!!!!! This has been a high risk pregnancy for me.. my cervix does not want to hold children and I can’t go though this anymore…..[/quote]
I have fibroids so it’s going to effect my chance to have children anyway.
And having them while being pregnant is quite painful.
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:56 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301046"][quote comment="301029"][quote comment="301023"]Get ya tubes tied![/quote]
Oooookay?!?!
Heeeey you!!!! Drink plently of tea w/lemon and gargle with salt and water! (what Momma always told me!)[/quote]
Hey mama! Imma do all of that and some later cuz I can’t do being sick!
Anyhoo, don’t mean to be harsh but it just upsets me sometimes that my sista’s get pregnant for BUMS! Like, didn’t you see that when you were laying w/ him? And now these kids are growing up w/o their fathers. It’s just sad. I’m 29 and my ex and I bumped into each other (while in JA) and he’s like, yuh nuh have no pickney yet? I’m like “No, when I find a man that puts me in a house for his future son/daughter then I’ll have plenty of babies.” He’s like “no no, you ain’t gonna have none then, you better hurry up cuz ya clock is ticking.” All I’m thinking is, this fool got 3 kids, by 3 different chicks. Granted he financially takes care of every last one of them and the mothers, but he’s out in the street, he ain’t spending time w/ them and I don’t want that. I want a man that gets pleasure from being a father and spending time w/ his kid(s). As women, we have to learn seperate a good f*ck from the bum that he is. If that means I won’t be having kids than so be it. Don’t mean to offend anyone, I know there’s a lot of mom’s on this blog. I just hate to see the outcome of bad choices that affect the kids that come from it.[/quote]
I understand what you’re saying but sometimes people don’t see the real person or that person doesnt show themselves until after the baby is born. So I dont think its fair to say didnt you see he was a BUM when you was laying with him? Theres a chance that she didnt! Women have been with a man for years and years and years and then all of a sudden he can show himself!!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:56 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301048"][quote comment="301038"][quote comment="301017"]:lol: @ Dat Chick & “easter clothes”!!!!!
@ mmschel & “Della Reese voice”! Noooo, not DELLA REESE!!!!! HAHAHAAHAHAHAHAA[/quote]
ESPECIALLY, when you are in the wrong! I mean, dang Yetta, he rolled up like he was ’bout to run through Wal-Mart right quick!
NAH, stay cordial for little Dakota, and that’s about IT!!!!! NO VITAMIN D for HIM!!!! :evil:[/quote]
Why am i picturing you with those long chalkboard pointer thingy’s & you’re slamming it down on his penis, lol.
[quote comment="301050"][quote comment="301041"]Hey Ladies, i’m back[/quote]
Leeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeees!!! *twirls Les around* Where have you been :?:[/quote]
At home on a little sick-ation (called in sick & used it as a mini vacation, lol)
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:56 pm (Quote) | Reply |
TV GUIDE ALERT
Don’t forget to watch THE GAME tonight
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:57 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301056"][quote comment="301048"][quote comment="301038"][quote comment="301017"]:lol: @ Dat Chick & “easter clothes”!!!!!
@ mmschel & “Della Reese voice”! Noooo, not DELLA REESE!!!!! HAHAHAAHAHAHAHAA[/quote]
ESPECIALLY, when you are in the wrong! I mean, dang Yetta, he rolled up like he was ’bout to run through Wal-Mart right quick!
NAH, stay cordial for little Dakota, and that’s about IT!!!!! NO VITAMIN D for HIM!!!! :evil:[/quote]
OMG NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO..That is what got me in this situation now..Sex is not even the issue, I’ve learned that I really must wait, because when I jump the gun…THIS HAPPENS!!!!!!!!!!! I’m scared of sex now chile!!! Word!!!!
He looked like he was about to go and wash some cars…[/quote]
Noooooooooo!!! The visuals are KILLIN’ ME, and I don’t even know what he looks like! Wax on, wax off!!!
You are a MESS Yetta!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:57 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301045"][quote comment="301037"][quote comment="301011"][quote comment="300990"]Mz. Keyes@ i first was to praise you for your strenght and resolve for not cracking that head to the white meat…i will say that if he is trying to put fourth an effort. meet him in a publix place and set up a parenting plan. That way he will see you about the business of B A B Y D not vitamin D
♥
reading you post i went through all those emotions[/quote]
Good reply Rainy.
Yetta.. I made the rule about the do-rags on Nov. 5![/quote]
What, no do-rags and cornrolls past 18 y.o.? (I missed that, so I’m guessing!)[/quote]
Me too!! Was it something about Obama being president, so doo-rags are out?[/quote]
Yeah.. He’s representing us so we must represent him! He’s not wearing that do-rag out. But I know he has one. He takes it off just before exiting Air force -3.
side note * I know it’s air force one. He doesn’t have it yet.
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:57 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301063"]Hey Glam & Toya & Les!
Danielle, girl you know I never ever had a problem with you so cyber hugs and gummi juice to you![/quote]
*Grabs Gummi Juics, & Gives Country a Hug* and cranks Tupac…. ♫Do you Wanna Ride or Die…La da dee da la dee da da da…♪
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:58 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301058"][quote comment="301025"][quote comment="300983"][quote comment="300968"][quote comment="300961"]I wish I could cyber hug a certain few….why am I on the back burner for ‘hear say’???[/quote]
Who do you want to cyberhug?[/quote]
It doesn’t matter. The majority has spoken, so I’ll just stick to chatting by my lonesome.[/quote]
Well I personally don’t have a problem with you but I have heard the stories. I’m all about positive energy and I’ll be honest the jury is still out on somethings you have been accused of. I can seee that you really reaching out and me being a Christian, I would be wrong to judge and hold a grudge. So with that being said I’ll extend the olive branch and welcome you my cyber friendship if it means anything to you.
*cyberhug*[/quote]
where’d ya go….i didn’t get a request yet. not rushing u r anything, but i don’t want to have a ‘fakey’ try to come on my page on the sly…..i have my precious kiddies all over it :)[/quote]
I do have a mypsace but that’s not what I was giving her. I just was letting her know that I am nice and will be nice to her.
Search me on myspace by name Rik and you’ll see DAT CHICK 215
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:58 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300937"]hey BFF what’s good..give me some chocolate to start it off right :razz:[/quote]
i’m not sure if there are 2 ppl with yur name or someone wiht ur name close to it….anyhoo, u still here? if so, i am waiting on the page to accept–but nothing came through. i just don’t want someone else to try and get on, and i think it is u. lemme know when u do it.
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:58 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301000"][quote comment="300990"]Mz. Keyes@ i first was to praise you for your strenght and resolve for not cracking that head to the white meat…i will say that if he is trying to put fourth an effort. meet him in a publix place and set up a parenting plan. That way he will see you about the business of B A B Y D not vitamin D
♥
reading you post i went through all those emotions[/quote]
check old post :)[/quote]
okay..i requested you..
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:59 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301069"]TV GUIDE ALERT
Don’t forget to watch THE GAME tonight[/quote]
THANK YOU!!!!!
Why do I forget EVERY Friday, until “Everybody Hates Chris” has been on for 15 minutes?!??! Damn that CW for moving THE GAME!!!!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 12:59 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301059"][quote comment="301046"][quote comment="301029"][quote comment="301023"]Get ya tubes tied![/quote]
Oooookay?!?!
Heeeey you!!!! Drink plently of tea w/lemon and gargle with salt and water! (what Momma always told me!)[/quote]
Hey mama! Imma do all of that and some later cuz I can’t do being sick!
Anyhoo, don’t mean to be harsh but it just upsets me sometimes that my sista’s get pregnant for BUMS! Like, didn’t you see that when you were laying w/ him? And now these kids are growing up w/o their fathers. It’s just sad. I’m 29 and my ex and I bumped into each other (while in JA) and he’s like, yuh nuh have no pickney yet? I’m like “No, when I find a man that puts me in a house for his future son/daughter then I’ll have plenty of babies.” He’s like “no no, you ain’t gonna have none then, you better hurry up cuz ya clock is ticking.” All I’m thinking is, this fool got 3 kids, by 3 different chicks. Granted he financially takes care of every last one of them and the mothers, but he’s out in the street, he ain’t spending time w/ them and I don’t want that. I want a man that gets pleasure from being a father and spending time w/ his kid(s). As women, we have to learn seperate a good f*ck from the bum that he is. If that means I won’t be having kids than so be it. Don’t mean to offend anyone, I know there’s a lot of mom’s on this blog. I just hate to see the outcome of bad choices that affect the kids that come from it.[/quote]
I know what you mean and sometimes you are just caught up in the moment.
Trust me that is no excuse.
With my 1st son, we were together for 4 years before I got preg and of course he wasn’t planned but I never expected for us to end.
Now with my 2nd son, I was in love and engaged months before I got preg.
But I know plenty of women that get pregnant by these losers.
Some don’t show their true colors until the woman is preg but we have to do better by wrapping it up and taking our birth control.[/quote]
And Whoa, you are totally right. I have no excuse for this mistake, and I am woman enough to admit that I made one.. But that does not take away from the fact that this nigga is a straight bum. Why can’t he get his ish together for the sake of the child. He had a job when I met him and it was all gravy.. Why would I have someone in my life that is worthless? Why should my children suffer. There are plenty children out there who are better off without the real dad around. I am one of them..My real father was a jerk and I’m glad that he os not around.. he denied me from the moment I was born. I’d rather my child to call a nother man dad, than to subject him to the foolishness of his real father.
OnNov 21, 2008 at 1:00 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301072"][quote comment="301063"]Hey Glam & Toya & Les!
Danielle, girl you know I never ever had a problem with you so cyber hugs and gummi juice to you![/quote]
*Grabs Gummi Juics, & Gives Country a Hug* and cranks Tupac…. ♫Do you Wanna Ride or Die…La da dee da la dee da da da…♪[/quote]
LOL! @ your sexy song!!!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 1:00 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301073"][quote comment="301058"][quote comment="301025"][quote comment="300983"][quote comment="300968"][quote comment="300961"]I wish I could cyber hug a certain few….why am I on the back burner for ‘hear say’???[/quote]
Who do you want to cyberhug?[/quote]
It doesn’t matter. The majority has spoken, so I’ll just stick to chatting by my lonesome.[/quote]
Well I personally don’t have a problem with you but I have heard the stories. I’m all about positive energy and I’ll be honest the jury is still out on somethings you have been accused of. I can seee that you really reaching out and me being a Christian, I would be wrong to judge and hold a grudge. So with that being said I’ll extend the olive branch and welcome you my cyber friendship if it means anything to you.
*cyberhug*[/quote]
where’d ya go….i didn’t get a request yet. not rushing u r anything, but i don’t want to have a ‘fakey’ try to come on my page on the sly…..i have my precious kiddies all over it :)[/quote]
I do have a mypsace but that’s not what I was giving her. I just was letting her know that I am nice and will be nice to her.
Search me on myspace by name Rik and you’ll see DAT CHICK 215[/quote]
lol, my bad–i had mis-read ur name for a sec and thought u were rainy and that she changed her name up. but i’ll check ur page out.
OnNov 21, 2008 at 1:00 pm (Quote) | Reply |
I knooow this is not a Beyonce post but I’m listen to the cd as I’m scrolling…SHE SHOULD HAVE DUMPED “Thats Why Youre Beautiful” song in the garbage.
OnNov 21, 2008 at 1:01 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301074"][quote comment="300937"]hey BFF what’s good..give me some chocolate to start it off right :razz:[/quote]
i’m not sure if there are 2 ppl with yur name or someone wiht ur name close to it….anyhoo, u still here? if so, i am waiting on the page to accept–but nothing came through. i just don’t want someone else to try and get on, and i think it is u. lemme know when u do it.[/quote]
did you see me?
OnNov 21, 2008 at 1:01 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300973"]Okay, so this is what I wanted to tell you all…
Dude (baby dizzle) called me last night to “see how I was doing” right.. so I was sleepy and kind of blew him off, so this nig gone have teh nerve to ask, not ask, but tell me I should let him come over so we can talk. Now, ladies, please tell me why he thinks that I Should do anything?!! I was like.. We’ll see about that…
NO WAY, NO HOW is that gonna happen.. I already know how this is gonna turn out, and I don’t even want to go down that road…
So , I get to work and go into my meeting, and the receptionist pulls me out to tell me I have a visitor.So I walk out of the Conference room to him standing there with a fake rose and a smile… I don’t know why, but it pissed me off. First of all, he looked like he just hopped off the BUM bus, with his doo-rag on… not only that but he had on a long john shirt with windsuit pants..WTF????
I refuse to settle for that again.I know I messed up and now have a baby by this man, but I refuse to stay in that..I know alot of females who have stayed with men because of children and they regret it deeply… AM I WRONG?? I have my eye on the prize and I will not continue to settle…..
Your thoughts here_____________________________ :P[/quote]
My sentiments exactly. It sounds like you already know the answer. when God takes someone out of your life, leave them there. He made more room for Him and what he is going to do in your life. Don’t slow down His process!!!!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 1:01 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301078"][quote comment="301059"][quote comment="301046"][quote comment="301029"][quote comment="301023"]Get ya tubes tied![/quote]
Oooookay?!?!
Heeeey you!!!! Drink plently of tea w/lemon and gargle with salt and water! (what Momma always told me!)[/quote]
Hey mama! Imma do all of that and some later cuz I can’t do being sick!
Anyhoo, don’t mean to be harsh but it just upsets me sometimes that my sista’s get pregnant for BUMS! Like, didn’t you see that when you were laying w/ him? And now these kids are growing up w/o their fathers. It’s just sad. I’m 29 and my ex and I bumped into each other (while in JA) and he’s like, yuh nuh have no pickney yet? I’m like “No, when I find a man that puts me in a house for his future son/daughter then I’ll have plenty of babies.” He’s like “no no, you ain’t gonna have none then, you better hurry up cuz ya clock is ticking.” All I’m thinking is, this fool got 3 kids, by 3 different chicks. Granted he financially takes care of every last one of them and the mothers, but he’s out in the street, he ain’t spending time w/ them and I don’t want that. I want a man that gets pleasure from being a father and spending time w/ his kid(s). As women, we have to learn seperate a good f*ck from the bum that he is. If that means I won’t be having kids than so be it. Don’t mean to offend anyone, I know there’s a lot of mom’s on this blog. I just hate to see the outcome of bad choices that affect the kids that come from it.[/quote]
I know what you mean and sometimes you are just caught up in the moment.
Trust me that is no excuse.
With my 1st son, we were together for 4 years before I got preg and of course he wasn’t planned but I never expected for us to end.
Now with my 2nd son, I was in love and engaged months before I got preg.
But I know plenty of women that get pregnant by these losers.
Some don’t show their true colors until the woman is preg but we have to do better by wrapping it up and taking our birth control.[/quote]
And Whoa, you are totally right. I have no excuse for this mistake, and I am woman enough to admit that I made one.. But that does not take away from the fact that this nigga is a straight bum. Why can’t he get his ish together for the sake of the child. He had a job when I met him and it was all gravy.. Why would I have someone in my life that is worthless? Why should my children suffer. There are plenty children out there who are better off without the real dad around. I am one of them..My real father was a jerk and I’m glad that he os not around.. he denied me from the moment I was born. I’d rather my child to call a nother man dad, than to subject him to the foolishness of his real father.[/quote]
Mama you know your children wont suffer.
Stay close to God always.
OnNov 21, 2008 at 1:01 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301064"][quote comment="301056"][quote comment="301048"][quote comment="301038"][quote comment="301017"]:lol: @ Dat Chick & “easter clothes”!!!!!
@ mmschel & “Della Reese voice”! Noooo, not DELLA REESE!!!!! HAHAHAAHAHAHAHAA[/quote]
ESPECIALLY, when you are in the wrong! I mean, dang Yetta, he rolled up like he was ’bout to run through Wal-Mart right quick!
NAH, stay cordial for little Dakota, and that’s about IT!!!!! NO VITAMIN D for HIM!!!! :evil:[/quote]
OMG NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO..That is what got me in this situation now..Sex is not even the issue, I’ve learned that I really must wait, because when I jump the gun…THIS HAPPENS!!!!!!!!!!! I’m scared of sex now chile!!! Word!!!!
He looked like he was about to go and wash some cars…[/quote]
The way you described him…it seems like hadn’t even washed his ass! :lol:[/quote]
BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 1:03 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301046"][quote comment="301029"][quote comment="301023"]Get ya tubes tied![/quote]
Oooookay?!?!
Heeeey you!!!! Drink plently of tea w/lemon and gargle with salt and water! (what Momma always told me!)[/quote]
Hey mama! Imma do all of that and some later cuz I can’t do being sick!
Anyhoo, don’t mean to be harsh but it just upsets me sometimes that my sista’s get pregnant for BUMS! Like, didn’t you see that when you were laying w/ him? And now these kids are growing up w/o their fathers. It’s just sad. I’m 29 and my ex and I bumped into each other (while in JA) and he’s like, yuh nuh have no pickney yet? I’m like “No, when I find a man that puts me in a house for his future son/daughter then I’ll have plenty of babies.” He’s like “no no, you ain’t gonna have none then, you better hurry up cuz ya clock is ticking.” All I’m thinking is, this fool got 3 kids, by 3 different chicks. Granted he financially takes care of every last one of them and the mothers, but he’s out in the street, he ain’t spending time w/ them and I don’t want that. I want a man that gets pleasure from being a father and spending time w/ his kid(s). As women, we have to learn seperate a good f*ck from the bum that he is. If that means I won’t be having kids than so be it. Don’t mean to offend anyone, I know there’s a lot of mom’s on this blog. I just hate to see the outcome of bad choices that affect the kids that come from it.[/quote]
I understand what you’re saying Whoa but sometimes Wolves come in Sheep’s clothing…though there are some women who are desperate, there are some that are caring and we fall for the guys that treat us good but don’t have a pot to piss in.
OnNov 21, 2008 at 1:03 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301079"][quote comment="301072"][quote comment="301063"]Hey Glam & Toya & Les!
Danielle, girl you know I never ever had a problem with you so cyber hugs and gummi juice to you![/quote]
*Grabs Gummi Juics, & Gives Country a Hug* and cranks Tupac…. ♫Do you Wanna Ride or Die…La da dee da la dee da da da…♪[/quote]
LOL! @ your sexy song!!![/quote]
Yessssssss.
OnNov 21, 2008 at 1:03 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301063"]Hey Glam & Toya & Les!
Danielle, girl you know I never ever had a problem with you so cyber hugs and gummi juice to you![/quote]
Hey mama!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 1:03 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301067"][quote comment="301046"][quote comment="301029"][quote comment="301023"]Get ya tubes tied![/quote]
Oooookay?!?!
Heeeey you!!!! Drink plently of tea w/lemon and gargle with salt and water! (what Momma always told me!)[/quote]
Hey mama! Imma do all of that and some later cuz I can’t do being sick!
Anyhoo, don’t mean to be harsh but it just upsets me sometimes that my sista’s get pregnant for BUMS! Like, didn’t you see that when you were laying w/ him? And now these kids are growing up w/o their fathers. It’s just sad. I’m 29 and my ex and I bumped into each other (while in JA) and he’s like, yuh nuh have no pickney yet? I’m like “No, when I find a man that puts me in a house for his future son/daughter then I’ll have plenty of babies.” He’s like “no no, you ain’t gonna have none then, you better hurry up cuz ya clock is ticking.” All I’m thinking is, this fool got 3 kids, by 3 different chicks. Granted he financially takes care of every last one of them and the mothers, but he’s out in the street, he ain’t spending time w/ them and I don’t want that. I want a man that gets pleasure from being a father and spending time w/ his kid(s). As women, we have to learn seperate a good f*ck from the bum that he is. If that means I won’t be having kids than so be it. Don’t mean to offend anyone, I know there’s a lot of mom’s on this blog. I just hate to see the outcome of bad choices that affect the kids that come from it.[/quote]
I understand what you’re saying but sometimes people don’t see the real person or that person doesnt show themselves until after the baby is born. So I dont think its fair to say didnt you see he was a BUM when you was laying with him? Theres a chance that she didnt! Women have been with a man for years and years and years and then all of a sudden he can show himself!![/quote]
I know Toya and I DON’T feel all black women who are in this situation were dealing w/ bums. I know in general that sometimes it’s not even the woman. However tho, I feel some women just be so stupified by the d*ck that they think a baby is the next best thing. My mom got pregnant w/ me at 15 and she grilled me from the time I was knee high why I have my whole life ahead of me and I should look at a man’s family (and him) before I have a child for him. I just wish, for the possibilty of a future child w/ a dummy, that women, especially black women, would look w/ their eyes and not their heart cuz we all know our heart is connected to our puzzy.
OnNov 21, 2008 at 1:03 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301031"][quote comment="301025"][quote comment="300983"][quote comment="300968"][quote comment="300961"]I wish I could cyber hug a certain few….why am I on the back burner for ‘hear say’???[/quote]
Who do you want to cyberhug?[/quote]
It doesn’t matter. The majority has spoken, so I’ll just stick to chatting by my lonesome.[/quote]
Well I personally don’t have a problem with you but I have heard the stories. I’m all about positive energy and I’ll be honest the jury is still out on somethings you have been accused of. I can seee that you really reaching out and me being a Christian, I would be wrong to judge and hold a grudge. So with that being said I’ll extend the olive branch and welcome you my cyber friendship if it means anything to you.
*cyberhug*[/quote]
I don’t even know what’s going on since I am so new here but that was sweet![/quote]
You know I’m the YBF peacemaker but I goes hard for my FAM and make no bones about it. I love all who wants to be loved
*cyberhugs to everyone reading this*
OnNov 21, 2008 at 1:03 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301059"][quote comment="301046"][quote comment="301029"][quote comment="301023"]Get ya tubes tied![/quote]
Oooookay?!?!
Heeeey you!!!! Drink plently of tea w/lemon and gargle with salt and water! (what Momma always told me!)[/quote]
Hey mama! Imma do all of that and some later cuz I can’t do being sick!
Anyhoo, don’t mean to be harsh but it just upsets me sometimes that my sista’s get pregnant for BUMS! Like, didn’t you see that when you were laying w/ him? And now these kids are growing up w/o their fathers. It’s just sad. I’m 29 and my ex and I bumped into each other (while in JA) and he’s like, yuh nuh have no pickney yet? I’m like “No, when I find a man that puts me in a house for his future son/daughter then I’ll have plenty of babies.” He’s like “no no, you ain’t gonna have none then, you better hurry up cuz ya clock is ticking.” All I’m thinking is, this fool got 3 kids, by 3 different chicks. Granted he financially takes care of every last one of them and the mothers, but he’s out in the street, he ain’t spending time w/ them and I don’t want that. I want a man that gets pleasure from being a father and spending time w/ his kid(s). As women, we have to learn seperate a good f*ck from the bum that he is. If that means I won’t be having kids than so be it. Don’t mean to offend anyone, I know there’s a lot of mom’s on this blog. I just hate to see the outcome of bad choices that affect the kids that come from it.[/quote]
I know what you mean and sometimes you are just caught up in the moment.
Trust me that is no excuse.
With my 1st son, we were together for 4 years before I got preg and of course he wasn’t planned but I never expected for us to end.
Now with my 2nd son, I was in love and engaged months before I got preg.
But I know plenty of women that get pregnant by these losers.
Some don’t show their true colors until the woman is preg but we have to do better by wrapping it up and taking our birth control.[/quote]
Another thing and I’ll be finished my rant. A lot of people (not talking about any specifically) will say well you should’ve been married, etc. That isnt a guartanee than a man will be a good father, provider, etc. My best friend was married for seven years. The two children that she had with her husband were planned. She took care of him and home. She never suspected anything and found underwear in his car. She confronted him and the next morning he was gone. She couldnt find him. After a few months he popped back up. In total its been almost two years since he walked out and he still hasnt given her a dime for their children. Yes women need to make better choices, but parents need to raise BETTER MEN!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 1:05 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301082"][quote comment="301074"][quote comment="300937"]hey BFF what’s good..give me some chocolate to start it off right :razz:[/quote]
i’m not sure if there are 2 ppl with yur name or someone wiht ur name close to it….anyhoo, u still here? if so, i am waiting on the page to accept–but nothing came through. i just don’t want someone else to try and get on, and i think it is u. lemme know when u do it.[/quote]
did you see me?[/quote]
hm, nope, not yet. unless myspace is working slow–nada in the friend request section.
OnNov 21, 2008 at 1:05 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301091"][quote comment="301059"][quote comment="301046"][quote comment="301029"][quote comment="301023"]Get ya tubes tied![/quote]
Oooookay?!?!
Heeeey you!!!! Drink plently of tea w/lemon and gargle with salt and water! (what Momma always told me!)[/quote]
Hey mama! Imma do all of that and some later cuz I can’t do being sick!
Anyhoo, don’t mean to be harsh but it just upsets me sometimes that my sista’s get pregnant for BUMS! Like, didn’t you see that when you were laying w/ him? And now these kids are growing up w/o their fathers. It’s just sad. I’m 29 and my ex and I bumped into each other (while in JA) and he’s like, yuh nuh have no pickney yet? I’m like “No, when I find a man that puts me in a house for his future son/daughter then I’ll have plenty of babies.” He’s like “no no, you ain’t gonna have none then, you better hurry up cuz ya clock is ticking.” All I’m thinking is, this fool got 3 kids, by 3 different chicks. Granted he financially takes care of every last one of them and the mothers, but he’s out in the street, he ain’t spending time w/ them and I don’t want that. I want a man that gets pleasure from being a father and spending time w/ his kid(s). As women, we have to learn seperate a good f*ck from the bum that he is. If that means I won’t be having kids than so be it. Don’t mean to offend anyone, I know there’s a lot of mom’s on this blog. I just hate to see the outcome of bad choices that affect the kids that come from it.[/quote]
I know what you mean and sometimes you are just caught up in the moment.
Trust me that is no excuse.
With my 1st son, we were together for 4 years before I got preg and of course he wasn’t planned but I never expected for us to end.
Now with my 2nd son, I was in love and engaged months before I got preg.
But I know plenty of women that get pregnant by these losers.
Some don’t show their true colors until the woman is preg but we have to do better by wrapping it up and taking our birth control.[/quote]
Another thing and I’ll be finished my rant. A lot of people (not talking about any specifically) will say well you should’ve been married, etc. That isnt a guartanee than a man will be a good father, provider, etc. My best friend was married for seven years. The two children that she had with her husband were planned. She took care of him and home. She never suspected anything and found underwear in his car. She confronted him and the next morning he was gone. She couldnt find him. After a few months he popped back up. In total its been almost two years since he walked out and he still hasnt given her a dime for their children. Yes women need to make better choices, but parents need to raise BETTER MEN![/quote]
I will raise two fine men!
Trust and believe that!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 1:06 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301090"][quote comment="301031"][quote comment="301025"][quote comment="300983"][quote comment="300968"][quote comment="300961"]I wish I could cyber hug a certain few….why am I on the back burner for ‘hear say’???[/quote]
Who do you want to cyberhug?[/quote]
It doesn’t matter. The majority has spoken, so I’ll just stick to chatting by my lonesome.[/quote]
Well I personally don’t have a problem with you but I have heard the stories. I’m all about positive energy and I’ll be honest the jury is still out on somethings you have been accused of. I can seee that you really reaching out and me being a Christian, I would be wrong to judge and hold a grudge. So with that being said I’ll extend the olive branch and welcome you my cyber friendship if it means anything to you.
*cyberhug*[/quote]
I don’t even know what’s going on since I am so new here but that was sweet![/quote]
You know I’m the YBF peacemaker but I goes hard for my FAM and make no bones about it. I love all who wants to be loved
*cyberhugs to everyone reading this*[/quote]
Awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwzzzzzzzzzzzz!!♥
OnNov 21, 2008 at 1:06 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301084"][quote comment="301078"][quote comment="301059"][quote comment="301046"][quote comment="301029"][quote comment="301023"]Get ya tubes tied![/quote]
Oooookay?!?!
Heeeey you!!!! Drink plently of tea w/lemon and gargle with salt and water! (what Momma always told me!)[/quote]
Hey mama! Imma do all of that and some later cuz I can’t do being sick!
Anyhoo, don’t mean to be harsh but it just upsets me sometimes that my sista’s get pregnant for BUMS! Like, didn’t you see that when you were laying w/ him? And now these kids are growing up w/o their fathers. It’s just sad. I’m 29 and my ex and I bumped into each other (while in JA) and he’s like, yuh nuh have no pickney yet? I’m like “No, when I find a man that puts me in a house for his future son/daughter then I’ll have plenty of babies.” He’s like “no no, you ain’t gonna have none then, you better hurry up cuz ya clock is ticking.” All I’m thinking is, this fool got 3 kids, by 3 different chicks. Granted he financially takes care of every last one of them and the mothers, but he’s out in the street, he ain’t spending time w/ them and I don’t want that. I want a man that gets pleasure from being a father and spending time w/ his kid(s). As women, we have to learn seperate a good f*ck from the bum that he is. If that means I won’t be having kids than so be it. Don’t mean to offend anyone, I know there’s a lot of mom’s on this blog. I just hate to see the outcome of bad choices that affect the kids that come from it.[/quote]
I know what you mean and sometimes you are just caught up in the moment.
Trust me that is no excuse.
With my 1st son, we were together for 4 years before I got preg and of course he wasn’t planned but I never expected for us to end.
Now with my 2nd son, I was in love and engaged months before I got preg.
But I know plenty of women that get pregnant by these losers.
Some don’t show their true colors until the woman is preg but we have to do better by wrapping it up and taking our birth control.[/quote]
And Whoa, you are totally right. I have no excuse for this mistake, and I am woman enough to admit that I made one.. But that does not take away from the fact that this nigga is a straight bum. Why can’t he get his ish together for the sake of the child. He had a job when I met him and it was all gravy.. Why would I have someone in my life that is worthless? Why should my children suffer. There are plenty children out there who are better off without the real dad around. I am one of them..My real father was a jerk and I’m glad that he os not around.. he denied me from the moment I was born. I’d rather my child to call a nother man dad, than to subject him to the foolishness of his real father.[/quote]
Mama you know your children wont suffer.
Stay close to God always.[/quote]
God is all I have at this point..Only He can re-new me and make me whole again, only He has the key to Heaven and Hell, so I’m sticking with Him.. And I know some people may look at me as a hypocrite, but I know that we were not all born Christians..even the greatest king in the Bible ( David) made mistake, but God still covered Him and loved Him. His child was killed, but as a result of his disobedience, but God never turned His back on David, and even blessed him some more.. That is why I must go through these things, becuase I was disobedient, but I’m still leaning on God… Thank God that He is not like man. I have God….ohhh and of course my YBF fam!!!!!!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 1:07 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301089"][quote comment="301067"][quote comment="301046"][quote comment="301029"][quote comment="301023"]Get ya tubes tied![/quote]
Oooookay?!?!
Heeeey you!!!! Drink plently of tea w/lemon and gargle with salt and water! (what Momma always told me!)[/quote]
Hey mama! Imma do all of that and some later cuz I can’t do being sick!
Anyhoo, don’t mean to be harsh but it just upsets me sometimes that my sista’s get pregnant for BUMS! Like, didn’t you see that when you were laying w/ him? And now these kids are growing up w/o their fathers. It’s just sad. I’m 29 and my ex and I bumped into each other (while in JA) and he’s like, yuh nuh have no pickney yet? I’m like “No, when I find a man that puts me in a house for his future son/daughter then I’ll have plenty of babies.” He’s like “no no, you ain’t gonna have none then, you better hurry up cuz ya clock is ticking.” All I’m thinking is, this fool got 3 kids, by 3 different chicks. Granted he financially takes care of every last one of them and the mothers, but he’s out in the street, he ain’t spending time w/ them and I don’t want that. I want a man that gets pleasure from being a father and spending time w/ his kid(s). As women, we have to learn seperate a good f*ck from the bum that he is. If that means I won’t be having kids than so be it. Don’t mean to offend anyone, I know there’s a lot of mom’s on this blog. I just hate to see the outcome of bad choices that affect the kids that come from it.[/quote]
I understand what you’re saying but sometimes people don’t see the real person or that person doesnt show themselves until after the baby is born. So I dont think its fair to say didnt you see he was a BUM when you was laying with him? Theres a chance that she didnt! Women have been with a man for years and years and years and then all of a sudden he can show himself!![/quote]
I know Toya and I DON’T feel all black women who are in this situation were dealing w/ bums. I know in general that sometimes it’s not even the woman. However tho, I feel some women just be so stupified by the d*ck that they think a baby is the next best thing. My mom got pregnant w/ me at 15 and she grilled me from the time I was knee high why I have my whole life ahead of me and I should look at a man’s family (and him) before I have a child for him. I just wish, for the possibilty of a future child w/ a dummy, that women, especially black women, would look w/ their eyes and not their heart cuz we all know our heart is connected to our puzzy.[/quote]
Okay…(when you sending me my book!!)
OnNov 21, 2008 at 1:07 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301090"][quote comment="301031"][quote comment="301025"][quote comment="300983"][quote comment="300968"][quote comment="300961"]I wish I could cyber hug a certain few….why am I on the back burner for ‘hear say’???[/quote]
Who do you want to cyberhug?[/quote]
It doesn’t matter. The majority has spoken, so I’ll just stick to chatting by my lonesome.[/quote]
Well I personally don’t have a problem with you but I have heard the stories. I’m all about positive energy and I’ll be honest the jury is still out on somethings you have been accused of. I can seee that you really reaching out and me being a Christian, I would be wrong to judge and hold a grudge. So with that being said I’ll extend the olive branch and welcome you my cyber friendship if it means anything to you.
*cyberhug*[/quote]
I don’t even know what’s going on since I am so new here but that was sweet![/quote]
You know I’m the YBF peacemaker but I goes hard for my FAM and make no bones about it. I love all who wants to be loved
*cyberhugs to everyone reading this*[/quote]
Aww Dat chick *cyberhugs* to you to! and everyone else
OnNov 21, 2008 at 1:08 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301090"][quote comment="301031"][quote comment="301025"][quote comment="300983"][quote comment="300968"][quote comment="300961"]I wish I could cyber hug a certain few….why am I on the back burner for ‘hear say’???[/quote]
Who do you want to cyberhug?[/quote]
It doesn’t matter. The majority has spoken, so I’ll just stick to chatting by my lonesome.[/quote]
Well I personally don’t have a problem with you but I have heard the stories. I’m all about positive energy and I’ll be honest the jury is still out on somethings you have been accused of. I can seee that you really reaching out and me being a Christian, I would be wrong to judge and hold a grudge. So with that being said I’ll extend the olive branch and welcome you my cyber friendship if it means anything to you.
*cyberhug*[/quote]
I don’t even know what’s going on since I am so new here but that was sweet![/quote]
You know I’m the YBF peacemaker but I goes hard for my FAM and make no bones about it. I love all who wants to be loved
*cyberhugs to everyone reading this*[/quote]
Awwwww! Yay Girl YAY!
Cyberhugs right back!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 1:08 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301096"][quote comment="301089"][quote comment="301067"][quote comment="301046"][quote comment="301029"][quote comment="301023"]Get ya tubes tied![/quote]
Oooookay?!?!
Heeeey you!!!! Drink plently of tea w/lemon and gargle with salt and water! (what Momma always told me!)[/quote]
Hey mama! Imma do all of that and some later cuz I can’t do being sick!
Anyhoo, don’t mean to be harsh but it just upsets me sometimes that my sista’s get pregnant for BUMS! Like, didn’t you see that when you were laying w/ him? And now these kids are growing up w/o their fathers. It’s just sad. I’m 29 and my ex and I bumped into each other (while in JA) and he’s like, yuh nuh have no pickney yet? I’m like “No, when I find a man that puts me in a house for his future son/daughter then I’ll have plenty of babies.” He’s like “no no, you ain’t gonna have none then, you better hurry up cuz ya clock is ticking.” All I’m thinking is, this fool got 3 kids, by 3 different chicks. Granted he financially takes care of every last one of them and the mothers, but he’s out in the street, he ain’t spending time w/ them and I don’t want that. I want a man that gets pleasure from being a father and spending time w/ his kid(s). As women, we have to learn seperate a good f*ck from the bum that he is. If that means I won’t be having kids than so be it. Don’t mean to offend anyone, I know there’s a lot of mom’s on this blog. I just hate to see the outcome of bad choices that affect the kids that come from it.[/quote]
I understand what you’re saying but sometimes people don’t see the real person or that person doesnt show themselves until after the baby is born. So I dont think its fair to say didnt you see he was a BUM when you was laying with him? Theres a chance that she didnt! Women have been with a man for years and years and years and then all of a sudden he can show himself!![/quote]
I know Toya and I DON’T feel all black women who are in this situation were dealing w/ bums. I know in general that sometimes it’s not even the woman. However tho, I feel some women just be so stupified by the d*ck that they think a baby is the next best thing. My mom got pregnant w/ me at 15 and she grilled me from the time I was knee high why I have my whole life ahead of me and I should look at a man’s family (and him) before I have a child for him. I just wish, for the possibilty of a future child w/ a dummy, that women, especially black women, would look w/ their eyes and not their heart cuz we all know our heart is connected to our puzzy.[/quote]
Okay…(when you sending me my book!!) :lol:[/quote]
LMAO! I told you in the email already ma!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 1:09 pm (Quote) | Reply |
**wondering why my gravi is still of the Brooklyn Bridge**
**thinking also that maybe she should actually read this post**
OnNov 21, 2008 at 1:09 pm (Quote) | Reply |
Okay for real ya’ll are about to make a sister cry up in here!!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 1:10 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301086"][quote comment="301046"][quote comment="301029"][quote comment="301023"]Get ya tubes tied![/quote]
Oooookay?!?!
Heeeey you!!!! Drink plently of tea w/lemon and gargle with salt and water! (what Momma always told me!)[/quote]
Hey mama! Imma do all of that and some later cuz I can’t do being sick!
Anyhoo, don’t mean to be harsh but it just upsets me sometimes that my sista’s get pregnant for BUMS! Like, didn’t you see that when you were laying w/ him? And now these kids are growing up w/o their fathers. It’s just sad. I’m 29 and my ex and I bumped into each other (while in JA) and he’s like, yuh nuh have no pickney yet? I’m like “No, when I find a man that puts me in a house for his future son/daughter then I’ll have plenty of babies.” He’s like “no no, you ain’t gonna have none then, you better hurry up cuz ya clock is ticking.” All I’m thinking is, this fool got 3 kids, by 3 different chicks. Granted he financially takes care of every last one of them and the mothers, but he’s out in the street, he ain’t spending time w/ them and I don’t want that. I want a man that gets pleasure from being a father and spending time w/ his kid(s). As women, we have to learn seperate a good f*ck from the bum that he is. If that means I won’t be having kids than so be it. Don’t mean to offend anyone, I know there’s a lot of mom’s on this blog. I just hate to see the outcome of bad choices that affect the kids that come from it.[/quote]
I understand what you’re saying Whoa but sometimes Wolves come in Sheep’s clothing…though there are some women who are desperate, there are some that are caring and we fall for the guys that treat us good but don’t have a pot to piss in.[/quote]
True…that is why I have now learned my value, and I will not even take it any further with this man. I admit..I do get stupid when it comes to sex, but like I said..this pregnancy is the result of my disobedience….
OnNov 21, 2008 at 1:10 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301099"][quote comment="301096"][quote comment="301089"][quote comment="301067"][quote comment="301046"][quote comment="301029"][quote comment="301023"]Get ya tubes tied![/quote]
Oooookay?!?!
Heeeey you!!!! Drink plently of tea w/lemon and gargle with salt and water! (what Momma always told me!)[/quote]
Hey mama! Imma do all of that and some later cuz I can’t do being sick!
Anyhoo, don’t mean to be harsh but it just upsets me sometimes that my sista’s get pregnant for BUMS! Like, didn’t you see that when you were laying w/ him? And now these kids are growing up w/o their fathers. It’s just sad. I’m 29 and my ex and I bumped into each other (while in JA) and he’s like, yuh nuh have no pickney yet? I’m like “No, when I find a man that puts me in a house for his future son/daughter then I’ll have plenty of babies.” He’s like “no no, you ain’t gonna have none then, you better hurry up cuz ya clock is ticking.” All I’m thinking is, this fool got 3 kids, by 3 different chicks. Granted he financially takes care of every last one of them and the mothers, but he’s out in the street, he ain’t spending time w/ them and I don’t want that. I want a man that gets pleasure from being a father and spending time w/ his kid(s). As women, we have to learn seperate a good f*ck from the bum that he is. If that means I won’t be having kids than so be it. Don’t mean to offend anyone, I know there’s a lot of mom’s on this blog. I just hate to see the outcome of bad choices that affect the kids that come from it.[/quote]
I understand what you’re saying but sometimes people don’t see the real person or that person doesnt show themselves until after the baby is born. So I dont think its fair to say didnt you see he was a BUM when you was laying with him? Theres a chance that she didnt! Women have been with a man for years and years and years and then all of a sudden he can show himself!![/quote]
I know Toya and I DON’T feel all black women who are in this situation were dealing w/ bums. I know in general that sometimes it’s not even the woman. However tho, I feel some women just be so stupified by the d*ck that they think a baby is the next best thing. My mom got pregnant w/ me at 15 and she grilled me from the time I was knee high why I have my whole life ahead of me and I should look at a man’s family (and him) before I have a child for him. I just wish, for the possibilty of a future child w/ a dummy, that women, especially black women, would look w/ their eyes and not their heart cuz we all know our heart is connected to our puzzy.[/quote]
Okay…(when you sending me my book!!) :lol:[/quote]
LMAO! I told you in the email already ma! :smile:[/quote]
Ooops you sure did!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 1:11 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301095"][quote comment="301084"][quote comment="301078"][quote comment="301059"][quote comment="301046"][quote comment="301029"][quote comment="301023"]Get ya tubes tied![/quote]
Oooookay?!?!
Heeeey you!!!! Drink plently of tea w/lemon and gargle with salt and water! (what Momma always told me!)[/quote]
Hey mama! Imma do all of that and some later cuz I can’t do being sick!
Anyhoo, don’t mean to be harsh but it just upsets me sometimes that my sista’s get pregnant for BUMS! Like, didn’t you see that when you were laying w/ him? And now these kids are growing up w/o their fathers. It’s just sad. I’m 29 and my ex and I bumped into each other (while in JA) and he’s like, yuh nuh have no pickney yet? I’m like “No, when I find a man that puts me in a house for his future son/daughter then I’ll have plenty of babies.” He’s like “no no, you ain’t gonna have none then, you better hurry up cuz ya clock is ticking.” All I’m thinking is, this fool got 3 kids, by 3 different chicks. Granted he financially takes care of every last one of them and the mothers, but he’s out in the street, he ain’t spending time w/ them and I don’t want that. I want a man that gets pleasure from being a father and spending time w/ his kid(s). As women, we have to learn seperate a good f*ck from the bum that he is. If that means I won’t be having kids than so be it. Don’t mean to offend anyone, I know there’s a lot of mom’s on this blog. I just hate to see the outcome of bad choices that affect the kids that come from it.[/quote]
I know what you mean and sometimes you are just caught up in the moment.
Trust me that is no excuse.
With my 1st son, we were together for 4 years before I got preg and of course he wasn’t planned but I never expected for us to end.
Now with my 2nd son, I was in love and engaged months before I got preg.
But I know plenty of women that get pregnant by these losers.
Some don’t show their true colors until the woman is preg but we have to do better by wrapping it up and taking our birth control.[/quote]
And Whoa, you are totally right. I have no excuse for this mistake, and I am woman enough to admit that I made one.. But that does not take away from the fact that this nigga is a straight bum. Why can’t he get his ish together for the sake of the child. He had a job when I met him and it was all gravy.. Why would I have someone in my life that is worthless? Why should my children suffer. There are plenty children out there who are better off without the real dad around. I am one of them..My real father was a jerk and I’m glad that he os not around.. he denied me from the moment I was born. I’d rather my child to call a nother man dad, than to subject him to the foolishness of his real father.[/quote]
Mama you know your children wont suffer.
Stay close to God always.[/quote]
God is all I have at this point..Only He can re-new me and make me whole again, only He has the key to Heaven and Hell, so I’m sticking with Him.. And I know some people may look at me as a hypocrite, but I know that we were not all born Christians..even the greatest king in the Bible ( David) made mistake, but God still covered Him and loved Him. His child was killed, but as a result of his disobedience, but God never turned His back on David, and even blessed him some more.. That is why I must go through these things, becuase I was disobedient, but I’m still leaning on God… Thank God that He is not like man. I have God….ohhh and of course my YBF fam!!!!!![/quote]
Exactly why I have been through the things I have been through this past year…b/c of my disobedience.
I had to repent to God and ask for his forgiveness.
I was out int he street partying every night and dealing with dudes and not even going to church like I was supposed to.
I wasn’t reading the word or anything.
I had a great job and thought that was all I needed.
I was drinking all the time and popping pills.
Living that life and having all the friends.
All the FAKE friends…that used me for who I knew and what I had.
I had to be shown all this and trouble had to come my way.
After I repented and asked God to forgive for any and every sin I had committed, seen and unseen, I have never felt better.
I refuse to stray from God again b/c he gave me my life.
I love how you stay close to him and trust him.
It’s beautiful.
OnNov 21, 2008 at 1:11 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301083"][quote comment="300973"]Okay, so this is what I wanted to tell you all…
Dude (baby dizzle) called me last night to “see how I was doing” right.. so I was sleepy and kind of blew him off, so this nig gone have teh nerve to ask, not ask, but tell me I should let him come over so we can talk. Now, ladies, please tell me why he thinks that I Should do anything?!! I was like.. We’ll see about that…
NO WAY, NO HOW is that gonna happen.. I already know how this is gonna turn out, and I don’t even want to go down that road…
So , I get to work and go into my meeting, and the receptionist pulls me out to tell me I have a visitor.So I walk out of the Conference room to him standing there with a fake rose and a smile… I don’t know why, but it pissed me off. First of all, he looked like he just hopped off the BUM bus, with his doo-rag on… not only that but he had on a long john shirt with windsuit pants..WTF????
I refuse to settle for that again.I know I messed up and now have a baby by this man, but I refuse to stay in that..I know alot of females who have stayed with men because of children and they regret it deeply… AM I WRONG?? I have my eye on the prize and I will not continue to settle…..
Your thoughts here_____________________________ :P[/quote]
My sentiments exactly. It sounds like you already know the answer. when God takes someone out of your life, leave them there. He made more room for Him and what he is going to do in your life. Don’t slow down His process!!!! [/quote]
I’m already there Christin!!!!!!!!!!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 1:11 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301067"][quote comment="301046"][quote comment="301029"][quote comment="301023"]Get ya tubes tied![/quote]
Oooookay?!?!
Heeeey you!!!! Drink plently of tea w/lemon and gargle with salt and water! (what Momma always told me!)[/quote]
Hey mama! Imma do all of that and some later cuz I can’t do being sick!
Anyhoo, don’t mean to be harsh but it just upsets me sometimes that my sista’s get pregnant for BUMS! Like, didn’t you see that when you were laying w/ him? And now these kids are growing up w/o their fathers. It’s just sad. I’m 29 and my ex and I bumped into each other (while in JA) and he’s like, yuh nuh have no pickney yet? I’m like “No, when I find a man that puts me in a house for his future son/daughter then I’ll have plenty of babies.” He’s like “no no, you ain’t gonna have none then, you better hurry up cuz ya clock is ticking.” All I’m thinking is, this fool got 3 kids, by 3 different chicks. Granted he financially takes care of every last one of them and the mothers, but he’s out in the street, he ain’t spending time w/ them and I don’t want that. I want a man that gets pleasure from being a father and spending time w/ his kid(s). As women, we have to learn seperate a good f*ck from the bum that he is. If that means I won’t be having kids than so be it. Don’t mean to offend anyone, I know there’s a lot of mom’s on this blog. I just hate to see the outcome of bad choices that affect the kids that come from it.[/quote]
I understand what you’re saying but sometimes people don’t see the real person or that person doesnt show themselves until after the baby is born. So I dont think its fair to say didnt you see he was a BUM when you was laying with him? Theres a chance that she didnt! Women have been with a man for years and years and years and then all of a sudden he can show himself!![/quote]
My point exactly and I’ve stated that before. Take for example Jay-Z….he said that too. His parents were married and when they got divorced his dad divorced them too..that’s why he was real reluctant in starting a relationship with his dad when now my name is all over you know me?? Men show their true colors most times after the child is born….I know for a fact mine did….my whole pregnancy was beautiful thanks to him….I can’t lie but when my son got to be 3 months….I’m like who the f is this ass?? A brand new him!!!!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 1:11 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301100"]**wondering why my gravi is still of the Brooklyn Bridge**
**thinking also that maybe she should actually read this post**[/quote]
I see a pretty girl in your gravi
OnNov 21, 2008 at 1:12 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301090"][quote comment="301031"][quote comment="301025"][quote comment="300983"][quote comment="300968"][quote comment="300961"]I wish I could cyber hug a certain few….why am I on the back burner for ‘hear say’???[/quote]
Who do you want to cyberhug?[/quote]
It doesn’t matter. The majority has spoken, so I’ll just stick to chatting by my lonesome.[/quote]
Well I personally don’t have a problem with you but I have heard the stories. I’m all about positive energy and I’ll be honest the jury is still out on somethings you have been accused of. I can seee that you really reaching out and me being a Christian, I would be wrong to judge and hold a grudge. So with that being said I’ll extend the olive branch and welcome you my cyber friendship if it means anything to you.
*cyberhug*[/quote]
I don’t even know what’s going on since I am so new here but that was sweet![/quote]
You know I’m the YBF peacemaker but I goes hard for my FAM and make no bones about it. I love all who wants to be loved
*cyberhugs to everyone reading this*[/quote]
I just have a question: *After scrolling last week and damn near developing carpal tunnel* : Why did you pin point me out as the person who stole Rainy’s identity?? How demonic would that be???…I wouldn’t even do that. Nor do have the time or boredom to do so. When I post, I post with my own gravi. People on here have been known that I obsess over my gravi and change it every 2 to three days tops. So how odd would it be for me to post under no gravi at all, or Rainy’s for that matter? I just think a lot of the finger pointing and hear say is childish and ridiculous. And I just wanted to know why all of this is centered around me. Is there no possible way that a blogger has a vendetta towards me? I do watch Law & Order. This whole fiasco is new to me.
OnNov 21, 2008 at 1:12 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301098"][quote comment="301090"][quote comment="301031"][quote comment="301025"][quote comment="300983"][quote comment="300968"][quote comment="300961"]I wish I could cyber hug a certain few….why am I on the back burner for ‘hear say’???[/quote]
Who do you want to cyberhug?[/quote]
It doesn’t matter. The majority has spoken, so I’ll just stick to chatting by my lonesome.[/quote]
Well I personally don’t have a problem with you but I have heard the stories. I’m all about positive energy and I’ll be honest the jury is still out on somethings you have been accused of. I can seee that you really reaching out and me being a Christian, I would be wrong to judge and hold a grudge. So with that being said I’ll extend the olive branch and welcome you my cyber friendship if it means anything to you.
*cyberhug*[/quote]
I don’t even know what’s going on since I am so new here but that was sweet![/quote]
You know I’m the YBF peacemaker but I goes hard for my FAM and make no bones about it. I love all who wants to be loved
*cyberhugs to everyone reading this*[/quote]
Awwwww! Yay Girl YAY!
Cyberhugs right back![/quote]
See I’m not mean
Well to you a lil bit
but you like it 
OnNov 21, 2008 at 1:13 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301091"][quote comment="301059"][quote comment="301046"][quote comment="301029"][quote comment="301023"]Get ya tubes tied![/quote]
Oooookay?!?!
Heeeey you!!!! Drink plently of tea w/lemon and gargle with salt and water! (what Momma always told me!)[/quote]
Hey mama! Imma do all of that and some later cuz I can’t do being sick!
Anyhoo, don’t mean to be harsh but it just upsets me sometimes that my sista’s get pregnant for BUMS! Like, didn’t you see that when you were laying w/ him? And now these kids are growing up w/o their fathers. It’s just sad. I’m 29 and my ex and I bumped into each other (while in JA) and he’s like, yuh nuh have no pickney yet? I’m like “No, when I find a man that puts me in a house for his future son/daughter then I’ll have plenty of babies.” He’s like “no no, you ain’t gonna have none then, you better hurry up cuz ya clock is ticking.” All I’m thinking is, this fool got 3 kids, by 3 different chicks. Granted he financially takes care of every last one of them and the mothers, but he’s out in the street, he ain’t spending time w/ them and I don’t want that. I want a man that gets pleasure from being a father and spending time w/ his kid(s). As women, we have to learn seperate a good f*ck from the bum that he is. If that means I won’t be having kids than so be it. Don’t mean to offend anyone, I know there’s a lot of mom’s on this blog. I just hate to see the outcome of bad choices that affect the kids that come from it.[/quote]
I know what you mean and sometimes you are just caught up in the moment.
Trust me that is no excuse.
With my 1st son, we were together for 4 years before I got preg and of course he wasn’t planned but I never expected for us to end.
Now with my 2nd son, I was in love and engaged months before I got preg.
But I know plenty of women that get pregnant by these losers.
Some don’t show their true colors until the woman is preg but we have to do better by wrapping it up and taking our birth control.[/quote]
Another thing and I’ll be finished my rant. A lot of people (not talking about any specifically) will say well you should’ve been married, etc. That isnt a guartanee than a man will be a good father, provider, etc. My best friend was married for seven years. The two children that she had with her husband were planned. She took care of him and home. She never suspected anything and found underwear in his car. She confronted him and the next morning he was gone. She couldnt find him. After a few months he popped back up. In total its been almost two years since he walked out and he still hasnt given her a dime for their children. Yes women need to make better choices, but parents need to raise BETTER MEN![/quote]
It’s a never ending cycle…men need to step up to the plate but how can they if they don’t know how…it seems like it goes on and on and on.
OnNov 21, 2008 at 1:15 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301078"][quote comment="301059"][quote comment="301046"][quote comment="301029"][quote comment="301023"]Get ya tubes tied![/quote]
Oooookay?!?!
Heeeey you!!!! Drink plently of tea w/lemon and gargle with salt and water! (what Momma always told me!)[/quote]
Hey mama! Imma do all of that and some later cuz I can’t do being sick!
Anyhoo, don’t mean to be harsh but it just upsets me sometimes that my sista’s get pregnant for BUMS! Like, didn’t you see that when you were laying w/ him? And now these kids are growing up w/o their fathers. It’s just sad. I’m 29 and my ex and I bumped into each other (while in JA) and he’s like, yuh nuh have no pickney yet? I’m like “No, when I find a man that puts me in a house for his future son/daughter then I’ll have plenty of babies.” He’s like “no no, you ain’t gonna have none then, you better hurry up cuz ya clock is ticking.” All I’m thinking is, this fool got 3 kids, by 3 different chicks. Granted he financially takes care of every last one of them and the mothers, but he’s out in the street, he ain’t spending time w/ them and I don’t want that. I want a man that gets pleasure from being a father and spending time w/ his kid(s). As women, we have to learn seperate a good f*ck from the bum that he is. If that means I won’t be having kids than so be it. Don’t mean to offend anyone, I know there’s a lot of mom’s on this blog. I just hate to see the outcome of bad choices that affect the kids that come from it.[/quote]
I know what you mean and sometimes you are just caught up in the moment.
Trust me that is no excuse.
With my 1st son, we were together for 4 years before I got preg and of course he wasn’t planned but I never expected for us to end.
Now with my 2nd son, I was in love and engaged months before I got preg.
But I know plenty of women that get pregnant by these losers.
Some don’t show their true colors until the woman is preg but we have to do better by wrapping it up and taking our birth control.[/quote]
And Whoa, you are totally right. I have no excuse for this mistake, and I am woman enough to admit that I made one.. But that does not take away from the fact that this nigga is a straight bum. Why can’t he get his ish together for the sake of the child. He had a job when I met him and it was all gravy.. Why would I have someone in my life that is worthless? Why should my children suffer. There are plenty children out there who are better off without the real dad around. I am one of them..My real father was a jerk and I’m glad that he os not around.. he denied me from the moment I was born. I’d rather my child to call a nother man dad, than to subject him to the foolishness of his real father.[/quote]
Ok, so he’s a bum. You can’t go back and change what happened. My bum from 18 years ago showed up at my son’s graduation with the whole damn crew. Auntie Mesha, KiKi, and all them! He had never done anything ever. He couldn’t tell you what this boy is allergic too. So you know have to focus on what you want and what you need to do. My son has the utmost of respect for me and clarity of judgment about his father than ever. I never spoke ill of him, But I never expected anything from him. I never called I never did anything but take care of my son and move myself forward.
I never got ugly and trust me, there were many days when I would cry and be so mad and wish a nigga dead. But I kept at it. He even tried at 14 to try and get custody. I sent his lawyer a copy of the $18,000.00 tuition bill and said when he pays that he can get him. Case dropped. I kept a shoe box with the receipt of everything I ever bought, because I knew this kid was mine and no-one else would love him or be responsible for him like me.
Yetta you have now got to realize the same thing. So… Put your feelings in your pocket so they don’t get hurt. And let’s get to working on this cyber- baby shower.
Let that bum be a bum by himself. And when he shows up chest all sticking out… Don’t even blink!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 1:15 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301091"][quote comment="301059"][quote comment="301046"][quote comment="301029"][quote comment="301023"]Get ya tubes tied![/quote]
Oooookay?!?!
Heeeey you!!!! Drink plently of tea w/lemon and gargle with salt and water! (what Momma always told me!)[/quote]
Hey mama! Imma do all of that and some later cuz I can’t do being sick!
Anyhoo, don’t mean to be harsh but it just upsets me sometimes that my sista’s get pregnant for BUMS! Like, didn’t you see that when you were laying w/ him? And now these kids are growing up w/o their fathers. It’s just sad. I’m 29 and my ex and I bumped into each other (while in JA) and he’s like, yuh nuh have no pickney yet? I’m like “No, when I find a man that puts me in a house for his future son/daughter then I’ll have plenty of babies.” He’s like “no no, you ain’t gonna have none then, you better hurry up cuz ya clock is ticking.” All I’m thinking is, this fool got 3 kids, by 3 different chicks. Granted he financially takes care of every last one of them and the mothers, but he’s out in the street, he ain’t spending time w/ them and I don’t want that. I want a man that gets pleasure from being a father and spending time w/ his kid(s). As women, we have to learn seperate a good f*ck from the bum that he is. If that means I won’t be having kids than so be it. Don’t mean to offend anyone, I know there’s a lot of mom’s on this blog. I just hate to see the outcome of bad choices that affect the kids that come from it.[/quote]
I know what you mean and sometimes you are just caught up in the moment.
Trust me that is no excuse.
With my 1st son, we were together for 4 years before I got preg and of course he wasn’t planned but I never expected for us to end.
Now with my 2nd son, I was in love and engaged months before I got preg.
But I know plenty of women that get pregnant by these losers.
Some don’t show their true colors until the woman is preg but we have to do better by wrapping it up and taking our birth control.[/quote]
Another thing and I’ll be finished my rant. A lot of people (not talking about any specifically) will say well you should’ve been married, etc. That isnt a guartanee than a man will be a good father, provider, etc. My best friend was married for seven years. The two children that she had with her husband were planned. She took care of him and home. She never suspected anything and found underwear in his car. She confronted him and the next morning he was gone. She couldnt find him. After a few months he popped back up. In total its been almost two years since he walked out and he still hasnt given her a dime for their children. Yes women need to make better choices, but parents need to raise BETTER MEN![/quote]
My best friedn is going thru something similar, her & husband been married now 12 years. He had a mother that gave my best friend HELL, eventually the mother passed, then unexpectadely his younger sister died, and my best friend was his rock during those hard times. He had a business tricking out cars - was ALWAYS on the computer, ordering parts, finding about the latest car crap, etc. come to find out he is online IM’ing, he has pages on black dating websites and all! You know how my friend found out? He picked up this random chick from the train station & they’re talking - random chick is falling for him (my BF’s husband) & tells her girfriend at work about him & shows her girlfriend at work his pic on the dating website. Guess who’s randoms chick friend at work? My best friends sister!!!! BUSTED!!! (It’s a small world my friends!) Eventually they broke up, cuz now after investigation my best friend found out A TON LOAD OF SHYT!) Point is, he was one of those guys that i NEVER thought would be the cheating type, now he’s moved out, left my friend & their daughter - he still does for them financially but by the hints he’s dropping & the way he drops by the house & questions he asks his daughter you can just tell that all he wants to find out is if my friend has found a new man yet so he can stop paying! Guhrl you just never know with these men now-a-days!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 1:15 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301110"][quote comment="301091"][quote comment="301059"][quote comment="301046"][quote comment="301029"][quote comment="301023"]Get ya tubes tied![/quote]
Oooookay?!?!
Heeeey you!!!! Drink plently of tea w/lemon and gargle with salt and water! (what Momma always told me!)[/quote]
Hey mama! Imma do all of that and some later cuz I can’t do being sick!
Anyhoo, don’t mean to be harsh but it just upsets me sometimes that my sista’s get pregnant for BUMS! Like, didn’t you see that when you were laying w/ him? And now these kids are growing up w/o their fathers. It’s just sad. I’m 29 and my ex and I bumped into each other (while in JA) and he’s like, yuh nuh have no pickney yet? I’m like “No, when I find a man that puts me in a house for his future son/daughter then I’ll have plenty of babies.” He’s like “no no, you ain’t gonna have none then, you better hurry up cuz ya clock is ticking.” All I’m thinking is, this fool got 3 kids, by 3 different chicks. Granted he financially takes care of every last one of them and the mothers, but he’s out in the street, he ain’t spending time w/ them and I don’t want that. I want a man that gets pleasure from being a father and spending time w/ his kid(s). As women, we have to learn seperate a good f*ck from the bum that he is. If that means I won’t be having kids than so be it. Don’t mean to offend anyone, I know there’s a lot of mom’s on this blog. I just hate to see the outcome of bad choices that affect the kids that come from it.[/quote]
I know what you mean and sometimes you are just caught up in the moment.
Trust me that is no excuse.
With my 1st son, we were together for 4 years before I got preg and of course he wasn’t planned but I never expected for us to end.
Now with my 2nd son, I was in love and engaged months before I got preg.
But I know plenty of women that get pregnant by these losers.
Some don’t show their true colors until the woman is preg but we have to do better by wrapping it up and taking our birth control.[/quote]
Another thing and I’ll be finished my rant. A lot of people (not talking about any specifically) will say well you should’ve been married, etc. That isnt a guartanee than a man will be a good father, provider, etc. My best friend was married for seven years. The two children that she had with her husband were planned. She took care of him and home. She never suspected anything and found underwear in his car. She confronted him and the next morning he was gone. She couldnt find him. After a few months he popped back up. In total its been almost two years since he walked out and he still hasnt given her a dime for their children. Yes women need to make better choices, but parents need to raise BETTER MEN![/quote]
It’s a never ending cycle…men need to step up to the plate but how can they if they don’t know how…it seems like it goes on and on and on.[/quote]
And one thing women need to stop doing is using their children as pawns.
I can’t stand that.
They are hurting their child.
If they don’t get enough child support, they want to say that the father can never see the child.
I mean at least he is trying to be a father.
UGH!
That annoys me so much!
If I would have been that chick, my son would have never seen his father after age 2.
OnNov 21, 2008 at 1:15 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301089"][quote comment="301067"][quote comment="301046"][quote comment="301029"][quote comment="301023"]Get ya tubes tied![/quote]
Oooookay?!?!
Heeeey you!!!! Drink plently of tea w/lemon and gargle with salt and water! (what Momma always told me!)[/quote]
Hey mama! Imma do all of that and some later cuz I can’t do being sick!
Anyhoo, don’t mean to be harsh but it just upsets me sometimes that my sista’s get pregnant for BUMS! Like, didn’t you see that when you were laying w/ him? And now these kids are growing up w/o their fathers. It’s just sad. I’m 29 and my ex and I bumped into each other (while in JA) and he’s like, yuh nuh have no pickney yet? I’m like “No, when I find a man that puts me in a house for his future son/daughter then I’ll have plenty of babies.” He’s like “no no, you ain’t gonna have none then, you better hurry up cuz ya clock is ticking.” All I’m thinking is, this fool got 3 kids, by 3 different chicks. Granted he financially takes care of every last one of them and the mothers, but he’s out in the street, he ain’t spending time w/ them and I don’t want that. I want a man that gets pleasure from being a father and spending time w/ his kid(s). As women, we have to learn seperate a good f*ck from the bum that he is. If that means I won’t be having kids than so be it. Don’t mean to offend anyone, I know there’s a lot of mom’s on this blog. I just hate to see the outcome of bad choices that affect the kids that come from it.[/quote]
I understand what you’re saying but sometimes people don’t see the real person or that person doesnt show themselves until after the baby is born. So I dont think its fair to say didnt you see he was a BUM when you was laying with him? Theres a chance that she didnt! Women have been with a man for years and years and years and then all of a sudden he can show himself!![/quote]
I know Toya and I DON’T feel all black women who are in this situation were dealing w/ bums. I know in general that sometimes it’s not even the woman. However tho, I feel some women just be so stupified by the d*ck that they think a baby is the next best thing. My mom got pregnant w/ me at 15 and she grilled me from the time I was knee high why I have my whole life ahead of me and I should look at a man’s family (and him) before I have a child for him. I just wish, for the possibilty of a future child w/ a dummy, that women, especially black women, would look w/ their eyes and not their heart cuz we all know our heart is connected to our puzzy.[/quote]
You know what the problem is? These mama’s are raising Pussy ass boys..not men. SINCE WHEN IS IT OKAY FOR YOUR SON NOT TO KNOW HOW TO TAKE CARE OF HIMSELF EH? WHEN IS IT OKAY FOR A WOMAN TO DO EVERY SINGLE THING (INCLUDING HOW TO TEACH YOU HOW TO USE UR OWN DAMN MONEY) FOR YOU AND TAKE CARE OF THE HOME AND CHILDREN WHILE U STAY HOME AND DON’T DO SHIT? THERE ARE A LOT OF THESE TYPES OUT HERE: DON’T DO NOTHING BUT WORK AND SPEND THEIR MONEY ON SHIT TO THROW THESE CHICKS OFF, THEN WHEN THEY GET EM, ITS A DONE DEAL.
AND ANOTHER THING:
LADIES BE VERY CAREFUL, BECAUSE THESE LAME ASS BIRD ASS NEGROES ARE STARTING TO GET WOMEN LIKE US PREGNANT SO THAT WE ARE STUCK WITH THEM FOR LIFE. BE VERY CAREFUL. When they see women who are about something, and don’t have any kids or have one kid and is still living well, they will wine and dine ur ass, then when they get in the panties..they will get ur ass pregnant.
OnNov 21, 2008 at 1:15 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301107"][quote comment="301100"]**wondering why my gravi is still of the Brooklyn Bridge**
Unfortunately I can’t see it. Let me clean my cache again…
**thinking also that maybe she should actually read this post**[/quote]
I see a pretty girl in your gravi[/quote]
Thank you!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 1:16 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301104"][quote comment="301095"][quote comment="301084"][quote comment="301078"][quote comment="301059"][quote comment="301046"][quote comment="301029"][quote comment="301023"]Get ya tubes tied![/quote]
Oooookay?!?!
Heeeey you!!!! Drink plently of tea w/lemon and gargle with salt and water! (what Momma always told me!)[/quote]
Hey mama! Imma do all of that and some later cuz I can’t do being sick!
Anyhoo, don’t mean to be harsh but it just upsets me sometimes that my sista’s get pregnant for BUMS! Like, didn’t you see that when you were laying w/ him? And now these kids are growing up w/o their fathers. It’s just sad. I’m 29 and my ex and I bumped into each other (while in JA) and he’s like, yuh nuh have no pickney yet? I’m like “No, when I find a man that puts me in a house for his future son/daughter then I’ll have plenty of babies.” He’s like “no no, you ain’t gonna have none then, you better hurry up cuz ya clock is ticking.” All I’m thinking is, this fool got 3 kids, by 3 different chicks. Granted he financially takes care of every last one of them and the mothers, but he’s out in the street, he ain’t spending time w/ them and I don’t want that. I want a man that gets pleasure from being a father and spending time w/ his kid(s). As women, we have to learn seperate a good f*ck from the bum that he is. If that means I won’t be having kids than so be it. Don’t mean to offend anyone, I know there’s a lot of mom’s on this blog. I just hate to see the outcome of bad choices that affect the kids that come from it.[/quote]
I know what you mean and sometimes you are just caught up in the moment.
Trust me that is no excuse.
With my 1st son, we were together for 4 years before I got preg and of course he wasn’t planned but I never expected for us to end.
Now with my 2nd son, I was in love and engaged months before I got preg.
But I know plenty of women that get pregnant by these losers.
Some don’t show their true colors until the woman is preg but we have to do better by wrapping it up and taking our birth control.[/quote]
And Whoa, you are totally right. I have no excuse for this mistake, and I am woman enough to admit that I made one.. But that does not take away from the fact that this nigga is a straight bum. Why can’t he get his ish together for the sake of the child. He had a job when I met him and it was all gravy.. Why would I have someone in my life that is worthless? Why should my children suffer. There are plenty children out there who are better off without the real dad around. I am one of them..My real father was a jerk and I’m glad that he os not around.. he denied me from the moment I was born. I’d rather my child to call a nother man dad, than to subject him to the foolishness of his real father.[/quote]
Mama you know your children wont suffer.
Stay close to God always.[/quote]
God is all I have at this point..Only He can re-new me and make me whole again, only He has the key to Heaven and Hell, so I’m sticking with Him.. And I know some people may look at me as a hypocrite, but I know that we were not all born Christians..even the greatest king in the Bible ( David) made mistake, but God still covered Him and loved Him. His child was killed, but as a result of his disobedience, but God never turned His back on David, and even blessed him some more.. That is why I must go through these things, becuase I was disobedient, but I’m still leaning on God… Thank God that He is not like man. I have God….ohhh and of course my YBF fam!!!!!![/quote]
Exactly why I have been through the things I have been through this past year…b/c of my disobedience.
I had to repent to God and ask for his forgiveness.
I was out int he street partying every night and dealing with dudes and not even going to church like I was supposed to.
I wasn’t reading the word or anything.
I had a great job and thought that was all I needed.
I was drinking all the time and popping pills.
Living that life and having all the friends.
All the FAKE friends…that used me for who I knew and what I had.
I had to be shown all this and trouble had to come my way.
After I repented and asked God to forgive for any and every sin I had committed, seen and unseen, I have never felt better.
I refuse to stray from God again b/c he gave me my life.
I love how you stay close to him and trust him.
It’s beautiful.[/quote]
On the real ya’ll…I think I’m about to cry.. Glam…we have not met just by pure happenstance..we have the SAME story… I even asked God to bring people into my life that will understand ME!! I have my fam, but they are so not on my level..They have a very strong relationship with God…my brother is a Pastor, so I feel that I will never be on their level, but again, God has answered me and placed you all in my life. Even though by computer, an answer is still an answer and is not what we expect it to be..
OnNov 21, 2008 at 1:16 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301101"]Okay for real ya’ll are about to make a sister cry up in here!![/quote]
*passes you a Puffs with Lotion tissue*
OnNov 21, 2008 at 1:16 pm (Quote) | Reply |
Loveislove where were u chica?
OnNov 21, 2008 at 1:17 pm (Quote) | Reply |
@Glam: When are you getting married?
OnNov 21, 2008 at 1:17 pm (Quote) | Reply |
Every child needs to be like MIDNIGHT! minus the killing. LOL!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 1:18 pm (Quote) | Reply |
ONLY ON YBF CAN A POST GO FROM REMY MA —> TO A DISCUSSION ABOUT NO GOOD BABY DADDIES!!! I LOVE IT! (but it would be nice to get a new post)
OnNov 21, 2008 at 1:18 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301120"]@Glam: When are you getting married?[/quote]
January
OnNov 21, 2008 at 1:18 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301104"][quote comment="301095"][quote comment="301084"][quote comment="301078"][quote comment="301059"][quote comment="301046"][quote comment="301029"][quote comment="301023"]Get ya tubes tied![/quote]
Oooookay?!?!
Heeeey you!!!! Drink plently of tea w/lemon and gargle with salt and water! (what Momma always told me!)[/quote]
Hey mama! Imma do all of that and some later cuz I can’t do being sick!
Anyhoo, don’t mean to be harsh but it just upsets me sometimes that my sista’s get pregnant for BUMS! Like, didn’t you see that when you were laying w/ him? And now these kids are growing up w/o their fathers. It’s just sad. I’m 29 and my ex and I bumped into each other (while in JA) and he’s like, yuh nuh have no pickney yet? I’m like “No, when I find a man that puts me in a house for his future son/daughter then I’ll have plenty of babies.” He’s like “no no, you ain’t gonna have none then, you better hurry up cuz ya clock is ticking.” All I’m thinking is, this fool got 3 kids, by 3 different chicks. Granted he financially takes care of every last one of them and the mothers, but he’s out in the street, he ain’t spending time w/ them and I don’t want that. I want a man that gets pleasure from being a father and spending time w/ his kid(s). As women, we have to learn seperate a good f*ck from the bum that he is. If that means I won’t be having kids than so be it. Don’t mean to offend anyone, I know there’s a lot of mom’s on this blog. I just hate to see the outcome of bad choices that affect the kids that come from it.[/quote]
I know what you mean and sometimes you are just caught up in the moment.
Trust me that is no excuse.
With my 1st son, we were together for 4 years before I got preg and of course he wasn’t planned but I never expected for us to end.
Now with my 2nd son, I was in love and engaged months before I got preg.
But I know plenty of women that get pregnant by these losers.
Some don’t show their true colors until the woman is preg but we have to do better by wrapping it up and taking our birth control.[/quote]
And Whoa, you are totally right. I have no excuse for this mistake, and I am woman enough to admit that I made one.. But that does not take away from the fact that this nigga is a straight bum. Why can’t he get his ish together for the sake of the child. He had a job when I met him and it was all gravy.. Why would I have someone in my life that is worthless? Why should my children suffer. There are plenty children out there who are better off without the real dad around. I am one of them..My real father was a jerk and I’m glad that he os not around.. he denied me from the moment I was born. I’d rather my child to call a nother man dad, than to subject him to the foolishness of his real father.[/quote]
Mama you know your children wont suffer.
Stay close to God always.[/quote]
God is all I have at this point..Only He can re-new me and make me whole again, only He has the key to Heaven and Hell, so I’m sticking with Him.. And I know some people may look at me as a hypocrite, but I know that we were not all born Christians..even the greatest king in the Bible ( David) made mistake, but God still covered Him and loved Him. His child was killed, but as a result of his disobedience, but God never turned His back on David, and even blessed him some more.. That is why I must go through these things, becuase I was disobedient, but I’m still leaning on God… Thank God that He is not like man. I have God….ohhh and of course my YBF fam!!!!!![/quote]
Exactly why I have been through the things I have been through this past year…b/c of my disobedience.
I had to repent to God and ask for his forgiveness.
I was out int he street partying every night and dealing with dudes and not even going to church like I was supposed to.
I wasn’t reading the word or anything.
I had a great job and thought that was all I needed.
I was drinking all the time and popping pills.
Living that life and having all the friends.
All the FAKE friends…that used me for who I knew and what I had.
I had to be shown all this and trouble had to come my way.
After I repented and asked God to forgive for any and every sin I had committed, seen and unseen, I have never felt better.
I refuse to stray from God again b/c he gave me my life.
I love how you stay close to him and trust him.
It’s beautiful.[/quote]
awwww…HIGH FIVE BABY GIRL!!!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 1:19 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301118"][quote comment="301101"]Okay for real ya’ll are about to make a sister cry up in here!![/quote]
*passes you a Puffs with Lotion tissue*[/quote]
Got me all worked up in the post. Blood pressure up & all!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 1:20 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301121"]Every child needs to be like MIDNIGHT! minus the killing. LOL![/quote]
WORD..all them guerilla tactics had me rollin
OnNov 21, 2008 at 1:20 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301108"][quote comment="301090"][quote comment="301031"][quote comment="301025"][quote comment="300983"][quote comment="300968"][quote comment="300961"]I wish I could cyber hug a certain few….why am I on the back burner for ‘hear say’???[/quote]
Who do you want to cyberhug?[/quote]
It doesn’t matter. The majority has spoken, so I’ll just stick to chatting by my lonesome.[/quote]
Well I personally don’t have a problem with you but I have heard the stories. I’m all about positive energy and I’ll be honest the jury is still out on somethings you have been accused of. I can seee that you really reaching out and me being a Christian, I would be wrong to judge and hold a grudge. So with that being said I’ll extend the olive branch and welcome you my cyber friendship if it means anything to you.
*cyberhug*[/quote]
I don’t even know what’s going on since I am so new here but that was sweet![/quote]
You know I’m the YBF peacemaker but I goes hard for my FAM and make no bones about it. I love all who wants to be loved
*cyberhugs to everyone reading this*[/quote]
I just have a question: *After scrolling last week and damn near developing carpal tunnel* : Why did you pin point me out as the person who stole Rainy’s identity?? How demonic would that be???…I wouldn’t even do that. Nor do have the time or boredom to do so. When I post, I post with my own gravi. People on here have been known that I obsess over my gravi and change it every 2 to three days tops. So how odd would it be for me to post under no gravi at all, or Rainy’s for that matter? I just think a lot of the finger pointing and hear say is childish and ridiculous. And I just wanted to know why all of this is centered around me. Is there no possible way that a blogger has a vendetta towards me? I do watch Law & Order. This whole fiasco is new to me.[/quote]
Well like I said I have heard the stories. Some concerning you and Rainy too. And as I stated that day what sealed the deal for me was when I saw the
emotioncon and I only saw you use that one. I only remember because I was scrolling trying to figure out how do ALL the emotioncons and I saw one I never saw and I quoted it from you. Now there is a possibility that someone else did it yes and for that reason I am willing to put the past in the past and move forward I also apologized offered friendship that day which is why I am offering again today.
I hope that answers your questions and ends this convo because I really would like to move forward.
OnNov 21, 2008 at 1:21 pm (Quote) | Reply |
@ Love:
But I wonder, why IS that? I’m happy that old dude came around for you during the pregnancy, but why does it seem like men come out of the woodwork for the wife/girlfriend/baby mama when they are preggers with THEIR child?
Is it just me, or does it seem like there’s a lot of emphasis put on the CHILD and not so much on the mother of the child? My hubby’s dad wasn’t around (neither was mine) and he’s already beating his chest about his “unborn” child and what he’ll do for the child, and HIS child. I’m like, what about me? I’ll be the MOTHER of the child! My mom says it’s because men tend to place more emphasis on and give more attention to their BLOOD (mothers, children etc.) than the wife/girlfriend/baby-mama.
OnNov 21, 2008 at 1:21 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301115"][quote comment="301089"][quote comment="301067"][quote comment="301046"][quote comment="301029"][quote comment="301023"]Get ya tubes tied![/quote]
Oooookay?!?!
Heeeey you!!!! Drink plently of tea w/lemon and gargle with salt and water! (what Momma always told me!)[/quote]
Hey mama! Imma do all of that and some later cuz I can’t do being sick!
Anyhoo, don’t mean to be harsh but it just upsets me sometimes that my sista’s get pregnant for BUMS! Like, didn’t you see that when you were laying w/ him? And now these kids are growing up w/o their fathers. It’s just sad. I’m 29 and my ex and I bumped into each other (while in JA) and he’s like, yuh nuh have no pickney yet? I’m like “No, when I find a man that puts me in a house for his future son/daughter then I’ll have plenty of babies.” He’s like “no no, you ain’t gonna have none then, you better hurry up cuz ya clock is ticking.” All I’m thinking is, this fool got 3 kids, by 3 different chicks. Granted he financially takes care of every last one of them and the mothers, but he’s out in the street, he ain’t spending time w/ them and I don’t want that. I want a man that gets pleasure from being a father and spending time w/ his kid(s). As women, we have to learn seperate a good f*ck from the bum that he is. If that means I won’t be having kids than so be it. Don’t mean to offend anyone, I know there’s a lot of mom’s on this blog. I just hate to see the outcome of bad choices that affect the kids that come from it.[/quote]
I understand what you’re saying but sometimes people don’t see the real person or that person doesnt show themselves until after the baby is born. So I dont think its fair to say didnt you see he was a BUM when you was laying with him? Theres a chance that she didnt! Women have been with a man for years and years and years and then all of a sudden he can show himself!![/quote]
I know Toya and I DON’T feel all black women who are in this situation were dealing w/ bums. I know in general that sometimes it’s not even the woman. However tho, I feel some women just be so stupified by the d*ck that they think a baby is the next best thing. My mom got pregnant w/ me at 15 and she grilled me from the time I was knee high why I have my whole life ahead of me and I should look at a man’s family (and him) before I have a child for him. I just wish, for the possibilty of a future child w/ a dummy, that women, especially black women, would look w/ their eyes and not their heart cuz we all know our heart is connected to our puzzy.[/quote]
You know what the problem is? These mama’s are raising Pussy ass boys..not men. SINCE WHEN IS IT OKAY FOR YOUR SON NOT TO KNOW HOW TO TAKE CARE OF HIMSELF EH? WHEN IS IT OKAY FOR A WOMAN TO DO EVERY SINGLE THING (INCLUDING HOW TO TEACH YOU HOW TO USE UR OWN DAMN MONEY) FOR YOU AND TAKE CARE OF THE HOME AND CHILDREN WHILE U STAY HOME AND DON’T DO SHIT? THERE ARE A LOT OF THESE TYPES OUT HERE: DON’T DO NOTHING BUT WORK AND SPEND THEIR MONEY ON SHIT TO THROW THESE CHICKS OFF, THEN WHEN THEY GET EM, ITS A DONE DEAL.
AND ANOTHER THING:
LADIES BE VERY CAREFUL, BECAUSE THESE LAME ASS BIRD ASS NEGROES ARE STARTING TO GET WOMEN LIKE US PREGNANT SO THAT WE ARE STUCK WITH THEM FOR LIFE. BE VERY CAREFUL. When they see women who are about something, and don’t have any kids or have one kid and is still living well, they will wine and dine ur ass, then when they get in the panties..they will get ur ass pregnant.[/quote]
Girl you betta preach…the last guy I was with was saying stuff that had me scared to sleep with him. I thought he was gonna try and get me pregnant intentionally. He was always talking about how he wanted me to be his baby Momma…he plays too much!!! I cut him lose after his birthday and never talked to him with no explanation or anything ever again. It wasn’t money, or class or anything like that that had me alarmed, it was the fact that he was not willing to give me the commitment I need and want before I am comfortable enough to be with someone in that way. Needless to say, I thank God fore using him to concecrate me and increase my patience to wait on the man that God has for me.
OnNov 21, 2008 at 1:22 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301117"][quote comment="301104"][quote comment="301095"][quote comment="301084"][quote comment="301078"][quote comment="301059"][quote comment="301046"][quote comment="301029"][quote comment="301023"]Get ya tubes tied![/quote]
Oooookay?!?!
Heeeey you!!!! Drink plently of tea w/lemon and gargle with salt and water! (what Momma always told me!)[/quote]
Hey mama! Imma do all of that and some later cuz I can’t do being sick!
Anyhoo, don’t mean to be harsh but it just upsets me sometimes that my sista’s get pregnant for BUMS! Like, didn’t you see that when you were laying w/ him? And now these kids are growing up w/o their fathers. It’s just sad. I’m 29 and my ex and I bumped into each other (while in JA) and he’s like, yuh nuh have no pickney yet? I’m like “No, when I find a man that puts me in a house for his future son/daughter then I’ll have plenty of babies.” He’s like “no no, you ain’t gonna have none then, you better hurry up cuz ya clock is ticking.” All I’m thinking is, this fool got 3 kids, by 3 different chicks. Granted he financially takes care of every last one of them and the mothers, but he’s out in the street, he ain’t spending time w/ them and I don’t want that. I want a man that gets pleasure from being a father and spending time w/ his kid(s). As women, we have to learn seperate a good f*ck from the bum that he is. If that means I won’t be having kids than so be it. Don’t mean to offend anyone, I know there’s a lot of mom’s on this blog. I just hate to see the outcome of bad choices that affect the kids that come from it.[/quote]
I know what you mean and sometimes you are just caught up in the moment.
Trust me that is no excuse.
With my 1st son, we were together for 4 years before I got preg and of course he wasn’t planned but I never expected for us to end.
Now with my 2nd son, I was in love and engaged months before I got preg.
But I know plenty of women that get pregnant by these losers.
Some don’t show their true colors until the woman is preg but we have to do better by wrapping it up and taking our birth control.[/quote]
And Whoa, you are totally right. I have no excuse for this mistake, and I am woman enough to admit that I made one.. But that does not take away from the fact that this nigga is a straight bum. Why can’t he get his ish together for the sake of the child. He had a job when I met him and it was all gravy.. Why would I have someone in my life that is worthless? Why should my children suffer. There are plenty children out there who are better off without the real dad around. I am one of them..My real father was a jerk and I’m glad that he os not around.. he denied me from the moment I was born. I’d rather my child to call a nother man dad, than to subject him to the foolishness of his real father.[/quote]
Mama you know your children wont suffer.
Stay close to God always.[/quote]
God is all I have at this point..Only He can re-new me and make me whole again, only He has the key to Heaven and Hell, so I’m sticking with Him.. And I know some people may look at me as a hypocrite, but I know that we were not all born Christians..even the greatest king in the Bible ( David) made mistake, but God still covered Him and loved Him. His child was killed, but as a result of his disobedience, but God never turned His back on David, and even blessed him some more.. That is why I must go through these things, becuase I was disobedient, but I’m still leaning on God… Thank God that He is not like man. I have God….ohhh and of course my YBF fam!!!!!![/quote]
Exactly why I have been through the things I have been through this past year…b/c of my disobedience.
I had to repent to God and ask for his forgiveness.
I was out int he street partying every night and dealing with dudes and not even going to church like I was supposed to.
I wasn’t reading the word or anything.
I had a great job and thought that was all I needed.
I was drinking all the time and popping pills.
Living that life and having all the friends.
All the FAKE friends…that used me for who I knew and what I had.
I had to be shown all this and trouble had to come my way.
After I repented and asked God to forgive for any and every sin I had committed, seen and unseen, I have never felt better.
I refuse to stray from God again b/c he gave me my life.
I love how you stay close to him and trust him.
It’s beautiful.[/quote]
On the real ya’ll…I think I’m about to cry.. Glam…we have not met just by pure happenstance..we have the SAME story… I even asked God to bring people into my life that will understand ME!! I have my fam, but they are so not on my level..They have a very strong relationship with God…my brother is a Pastor, so I feel that I will never be on their level, but again, God has answered me and placed you all in my life. Even though by computer, an answer is still an answer and is not what we expect it to be..[/quote]
We aren’t that far apart!
You will get your with child butt to KC for a spa weekend.
But yeah I have been through a lot the past 2 years and when I got back right with God, he blessed me with an amazing man and a beautiful life.
I couldn’t ask for anything more.
We just have to stay close to him and abide by his word.
I know it gets hard sometimes but he only wants us to do small things and then he comes around and blesses us with things beyond our imagination.
My gma is my pastor so I am very close.
Don’t be crying at work!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 1:22 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301127"][quote comment="301108"][quote comment="301090"][quote comment="301031"][quote comment="301025"][quote comment="300983"][quote comment="300968"][quote comment="300961"]I wish I could cyber hug a certain few….why am I on the back burner for ‘hear say’???[/quote]
Who do you want to cyberhug?[/quote]
It doesn’t matter. The majority has spoken, so I’ll just stick to chatting by my lonesome.[/quote]
Well I personally don’t have a problem with you but I have heard the stories. I’m all about positive energy and I’ll be honest the jury is still out on somethings you have been accused of. I can seee that you really reaching out and me being a Christian, I would be wrong to judge and hold a grudge. So with that being said I’ll extend the olive branch and welcome you my cyber friendship if it means anything to you.
*cyberhug*[/quote]
I don’t even know what’s going on since I am so new here but that was sweet![/quote]
You know I’m the YBF peacemaker but I goes hard for my FAM and make no bones about it. I love all who wants to be loved
*cyberhugs to everyone reading this*[/quote]
I just have a question: *After scrolling last week and damn near developing carpal tunnel* : Why did you pin point me out as the person who stole Rainy’s identity?? How demonic would that be???…I wouldn’t even do that. Nor do have the time or boredom to do so. When I post, I post with my own gravi. People on here have been known that I obsess over my gravi and change it every 2 to three days tops. So how odd would it be for me to post under no gravi at all, or Rainy’s for that matter? I just think a lot of the finger pointing and hear say is childish and ridiculous. And I just wanted to know why all of this is centered around me. Is there no possible way that a blogger has a vendetta towards me? I do watch Law & Order. This whole fiasco is new to me.[/quote]
Well like I said I have heard the stories. Some concerning you and Rainy too. And as I stated that day what sealed the deal for me was when I saw the
emotioncon and I only saw you use that one. I only remember because I was scrolling trying to figure out how do ALL the emotioncons and I saw one I never saw and I quoted it from you. Now there is a possibility that someone else did it yes and for that reason I am willing to put the past in the past and move forward I also apologized offered friendship that day which is why I am offering again today.
I hope that answers your questions and ends this convo because I really would like to move forward.[/quote]
Aight, aight, aight!!! Drop it you two!!!!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 1:22 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301115"][quote comment="301089"][quote comment="301067"][quote comment="301046"][quote comment="301029"][quote comment="301023"]Get ya tubes tied![/quote]
Oooookay?!?!
Heeeey you!!!! Drink plently of tea w/lemon and gargle with salt and water! (what Momma always told me!)[/quote]
Hey mama! Imma do all of that and some later cuz I can’t do being sick!
Anyhoo, don’t mean to be harsh but it just upsets me sometimes that my sista’s get pregnant for BUMS! Like, didn’t you see that when you were laying w/ him? And now these kids are growing up w/o their fathers. It’s just sad. I’m 29 and my ex and I bumped into each other (while in JA) and he’s like, yuh nuh have no pickney yet? I’m like “No, when I find a man that puts me in a house for his future son/daughter then I’ll have plenty of babies.” He’s like “no no, you ain’t gonna have none then, you better hurry up cuz ya clock is ticking.” All I’m thinking is, this fool got 3 kids, by 3 different chicks. Granted he financially takes care of every last one of them and the mothers, but he’s out in the street, he ain’t spending time w/ them and I don’t want that. I want a man that gets pleasure from being a father and spending time w/ his kid(s). As women, we have to learn seperate a good f*ck from the bum that he is. If that means I won’t be having kids than so be it. Don’t mean to offend anyone, I know there’s a lot of mom’s on this blog. I just hate to see the outcome of bad choices that affect the kids that come from it.[/quote]
I understand what you’re saying but sometimes people don’t see the real person or that person doesnt show themselves until after the baby is born. So I dont think its fair to say didnt you see he was a BUM when you was laying with him? Theres a chance that she didnt! Women have been with a man for years and years and years and then all of a sudden he can show himself!![/quote]
I know Toya and I DON’T feel all black women who are in this situation were dealing w/ bums. I know in general that sometimes it’s not even the woman. However tho, I feel some women just be so stupified by the d*ck that they think a baby is the next best thing. My mom got pregnant w/ me at 15 and she grilled me from the time I was knee high why I have my whole life ahead of me and I should look at a man’s family (and him) before I have a child for him. I just wish, for the possibilty of a future child w/ a dummy, that women, especially black women, would look w/ their eyes and not their heart cuz we all know our heart is connected to our puzzy.[/quote]
You know what the problem is? These mama’s are raising Pussy ass boys..not men. SINCE WHEN IS IT OKAY FOR YOUR SON NOT TO KNOW HOW TO TAKE CARE OF HIMSELF EH? WHEN IS IT OKAY FOR A WOMAN TO DO EVERY SINGLE THING (INCLUDING HOW TO TEACH YOU HOW TO USE UR OWN DAMN MONEY) FOR YOU AND TAKE CARE OF THE HOME AND CHILDREN WHILE U STAY HOME AND DON’T DO SHIT? THERE ARE A LOT OF THESE TYPES OUT HERE: DON’T DO NOTHING BUT WORK AND SPEND THEIR MONEY ON SHIT TO THROW THESE CHICKS OFF, THEN WHEN THEY GET EM, ITS A DONE DEAL.
AND ANOTHER THING:
LADIES BE VERY CAREFUL, BECAUSE THESE LAME ASS BIRD ASS NEGROES ARE STARTING TO GET WOMEN LIKE US PREGNANT SO THAT WE ARE STUCK WITH THEM FOR LIFE. BE VERY CAREFUL. When they see women who are about something, and don’t have any kids or have one kid and is still living well, they will wine and dine ur ass, then when they get in the panties..they will get ur ass pregnant.[/quote]
And girl, let me tell you..after I got pregnant, we got into an argument, he sends me a text saying that.. “I’m one deep, she will be the one with the son.” What kind of ish…. and I want him in my life..NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO. And he has the nerve to say that he wont work because he does not want to pay child support for his other children, and he can’t work because he wants to see if he can get General Assistance..what kind of ish is that.. you are a grown man capable of working, but yet you want to take advantage of the system, or at least he think he will, because he does not know that the system is designed to keep young mothers and fathers trapped.
OnNov 21, 2008 at 1:22 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301113"][quote comment="301110"][quote comment="301091"][quote comment="301059"][quote comment="301046"][quote comment="301029"][quote comment="301023"]Get ya tubes tied![/quote]
Oooookay?!?!
Heeeey you!!!! Drink plently of tea w/lemon and gargle with salt and water! (what Momma always told me!)[/quote]
Hey mama! Imma do all of that and some later cuz I can’t do being sick!
Anyhoo, don’t mean to be harsh but it just upsets me sometimes that my sista’s get pregnant for BUMS! Like, didn’t you see that when you were laying w/ him? And now these kids are growing up w/o their fathers. It’s just sad. I’m 29 and my ex and I bumped into each other (while in JA) and he’s like, yuh nuh have no pickney yet? I’m like “No, when I find a man that puts me in a house for his future son/daughter then I’ll have plenty of babies.” He’s like “no no, you ain’t gonna have none then, you better hurry up cuz ya clock is ticking.” All I’m thinking is, this fool got 3 kids, by 3 different chicks. Granted he financially takes care of every last one of them and the mothers, but he’s out in the street, he ain’t spending time w/ them and I don’t want that. I want a man that gets pleasure from being a father and spending time w/ his kid(s). As women, we have to learn seperate a good f*ck from the bum that he is. If that means I won’t be having kids than so be it. Don’t mean to offend anyone, I know there’s a lot of mom’s on this blog. I just hate to see the outcome of bad choices that affect the kids that come from it.[/quote]
I know what you mean and sometimes you are just caught up in the moment.
Trust me that is no excuse.
With my 1st son, we were together for 4 years before I got preg and of course he wasn’t planned but I never expected for us to end.
Now with my 2nd son, I was in love and engaged months before I got preg.
But I know plenty of women that get pregnant by these losers.
Some don’t show their true colors until the woman is preg but we have to do better by wrapping it up and taking our birth control.[/quote]
Another thing and I’ll be finished my rant. A lot of people (not talking about any specifically) will say well you should’ve been married, etc. That isnt a guartanee than a man will be a good father, provider, etc. My best friend was married for seven years. The two children that she had with her husband were planned. She took care of him and home. She never suspected anything and found underwear in his car. She confronted him and the next morning he was gone. She couldnt find him. After a few months he popped back up. In total its been almost two years since he walked out and he still hasnt given her a dime for their children. Yes women need to make better choices, but parents need to raise BETTER MEN![/quote]
It’s a never ending cycle…men need to step up to the plate but how can they if they don’t know how…it seems like it goes on and on and on.[/quote]
And one thing women need to stop doing is using their children as pawns.
I can’t stand that.
They are hurting their child.
If they don’t get enough child support, they want to say that the father can never see the child.
I mean at least he is trying to be a father.
UGH!
That annoys me so much!
If I would have been that chick, my son would have never seen his father after age 2.[/quote]
Yeah I hate when WOMEN do that also!! My twins father doesnt help me financially. It used to of course bother me and it still does but they will have regardless cuz of the woman their mother is. However he calls them everyday faithfully to speak with them and I let him speak. I’ll be damned if they get older and say “But Mommy at least he called and you didnt let us talk”! THey will know that I did what I could but that the HE dropped the ball. I’m just fortunate that my oldests father is wonderful and treats my twins wonderfully.
OnNov 21, 2008 at 1:22 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301126"][quote comment="301121"]Every child needs to be like MIDNIGHT! minus the killing. LOL![/quote]
WORD..all them guerilla tactics had me rollin :lol:[/quote]
Man, I GOTTA read Midnight!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 1:23 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301115"][quote comment="301089"][quote comment="301067"][quote comment="301046"][quote comment="301029"][quote comment="301023"]Get ya tubes tied![/quote]
Oooookay?!?!
Heeeey you!!!! Drink plently of tea w/lemon and gargle with salt and water! (what Momma always told me!)[/quote]
Hey mama! Imma do all of that and some later cuz I can’t do being sick!
Anyhoo, don’t mean to be harsh but it just upsets me sometimes that my sista’s get pregnant for BUMS! Like, didn’t you see that when you were laying w/ him? And now these kids are growing up w/o their fathers. It’s just sad. I’m 29 and my ex and I bumped into each other (while in JA) and he’s like, yuh nuh have no pickney yet? I’m like “No, when I find a man that puts me in a house for his future son/daughter then I’ll have plenty of babies.” He’s like “no no, you ain’t gonna have none then, you better hurry up cuz ya clock is ticking.” All I’m thinking is, this fool got 3 kids, by 3 different chicks. Granted he financially takes care of every last one of them and the mothers, but he’s out in the street, he ain’t spending time w/ them and I don’t want that. I want a man that gets pleasure from being a father and spending time w/ his kid(s). As women, we have to learn seperate a good f*ck from the bum that he is. If that means I won’t be having kids than so be it. Don’t mean to offend anyone, I know there’s a lot of mom’s on this blog. I just hate to see the outcome of bad choices that affect the kids that come from it.[/quote]
I understand what you’re saying but sometimes people don’t see the real person or that person doesnt show themselves until after the baby is born. So I dont think its fair to say didnt you see he was a BUM when you was laying with him? Theres a chance that she didnt! Women have been with a man for years and years and years and then all of a sudden he can show himself!![/quote]
I know Toya and I DON’T feel all black women who are in this situation were dealing w/ bums. I know in general that sometimes it’s not even the woman. However tho, I feel some women just be so stupified by the d*ck that they think a baby is the next best thing. My mom got pregnant w/ me at 15 and she grilled me from the time I was knee high why I have my whole life ahead of me and I should look at a man’s family (and him) before I have a child for him. I just wish, for the possibilty of a future child w/ a dummy, that women, especially black women, would look w/ their eyes and not their heart cuz we all know our heart is connected to our puzzy.[/quote]
You know what the problem is? These mama’s are raising Pussy ass boys..not men. SINCE WHEN IS IT OKAY FOR YOUR SON NOT TO KNOW HOW TO TAKE CARE OF HIMSELF EH? WHEN IS IT OKAY FOR A WOMAN TO DO EVERY SINGLE THING (INCLUDING HOW TO TEACH YOU HOW TO USE UR OWN DAMN MONEY) FOR YOU AND TAKE CARE OF THE HOME AND CHILDREN WHILE U STAY HOME AND DON’T DO SHIT? THERE ARE A LOT OF THESE TYPES OUT HERE: DON’T DO NOTHING BUT WORK AND SPEND THEIR MONEY ON SHIT TO THROW THESE CHICKS OFF, THEN WHEN THEY GET EM, ITS A DONE DEAL.
AND ANOTHER THING:
LADIES BE VERY CAREFUL, BECAUSE THESE LAME ASS BIRD ASS NEGROES ARE STARTING TO GET WOMEN LIKE US PREGNANT SO THAT WE ARE STUCK WITH THEM FOR LIFE. BE VERY CAREFUL. When they see women who are about something, and don’t have any kids or have one kid and is still living well, they will wine and dine ur ass, then when they get in the panties..they will get ur ass pregnant.[/quote]
PREEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEACH!!! I had to get in my moms a** about that not to long ago. Me and my sis been left the house and went about our biz. hell I was out at 17. anyhoo, my two brothers are sooooo slack to me. I told her you are encouraging their slackness when they still at home, not paying no rent or barely helping w/ utilities. I’m like you and my stepfather should be at home kickin it alone. My brothers know I’m a bossy b*tch and when I come home they love me but don’t wanna see me cuz my face says it all.
ESPECIALLY W.I. black women. They will put their daughters out in a heartbeat but treat their sons like they wanna screw them sometimes. Then these men expect you to baby them like their mother and they do nothing in return.
Not me Foley. Truss I know I’m valued. When dudes be trying to holla at me and I tell them my age, their shocked cuz they think I’m waaay younger (not that I’m old), two their eyes literally POP outta there head when I tell them I’m childless. But I know what they thinkin, not stupid at all. Like I said, if you can’t provide a HOME (u know house, condo) for your seed, then gets the f*ck on! I got my ish together, so he better make sure he’s doing BETTER THAN ME!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 1:23 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301124"][quote comment="301104"][quote comment="301095"][quote comment="301084"][quote comment="301078"][quote comment="301059"][quote comment="301046"][quote comment="301029"][quote comment="301023"]Get ya tubes tied![/quote]
Oooookay?!?!
Heeeey you!!!! Drink plently of tea w/lemon and gargle with salt and water! (what Momma always told me!)[/quote]
Hey mama! Imma do all of that and some later cuz I can’t do being sick!
Anyhoo, don’t mean to be harsh but it just upsets me sometimes that my sista’s get pregnant for BUMS! Like, didn’t you see that when you were laying w/ him? And now these kids are growing up w/o their fathers. It’s just sad. I’m 29 and my ex and I bumped into each other (while in JA) and he’s like, yuh nuh have no pickney yet? I’m like “No, when I find a man that puts me in a house for his future son/daughter then I’ll have plenty of babies.” He’s like “no no, you ain’t gonna have none then, you better hurry up cuz ya clock is ticking.” All I’m thinking is, this fool got 3 kids, by 3 different chicks. Granted he financially takes care of every last one of them and the mothers, but he’s out in the street, he ain’t spending time w/ them and I don’t want that. I want a man that gets pleasure from being a father and spending time w/ his kid(s). As women, we have to learn seperate a good f*ck from the bum that he is. If that means I won’t be having kids than so be it. Don’t mean to offend anyone, I know there’s a lot of mom’s on this blog. I just hate to see the outcome of bad choices that affect the kids that come from it.[/quote]
I know what you mean and sometimes you are just caught up in the moment.
Trust me that is no excuse.
With my 1st son, we were together for 4 years before I got preg and of course he wasn’t planned but I never expected for us to end.
Now with my 2nd son, I was in love and engaged months before I got preg.
But I know plenty of women that get pregnant by these losers.
Some don’t show their true colors until the woman is preg but we have to do better by wrapping it up and taking our birth control.[/quote]
And Whoa, you are totally right. I have no excuse for this mistake, and I am woman enough to admit that I made one.. But that does not take away from the fact that this nigga is a straight bum. Why can’t he get his ish together for the sake of the child. He had a job when I met him and it was all gravy.. Why would I have someone in my life that is worthless? Why should my children suffer. There are plenty children out there who are better off without the real dad around. I am one of them..My real father was a jerk and I’m glad that he os not around.. he denied me from the moment I was born. I’d rather my child to call a nother man dad, than to subject him to the foolishness of his real father.[/quote]
Mama you know your children wont suffer.
Stay close to God always.[/quote]
God is all I have at this point..Only He can re-new me and make me whole again, only He has the key to Heaven and Hell, so I’m sticking with Him.. And I know some people may look at me as a hypocrite, but I know that we were not all born Christians..even the greatest king in the Bible ( David) made mistake, but God still covered Him and loved Him. His child was killed, but as a result of his disobedience, but God never turned His back on David, and even blessed him some more.. That is why I must go through these things, becuase I was disobedient, but I’m still leaning on God… Thank God that He is not like man. I have God….ohhh and of course my YBF fam!!!!!![/quote]
Exactly why I have been through the things I have been through this past year…b/c of my disobedience.
I had to repent to God and ask for his forgiveness.
I was out int he street partying every night and dealing with dudes and not even going to church like I was supposed to.
I wasn’t reading the word or anything.
I had a great job and thought that was all I needed.
I was drinking all the time and popping pills.
Living that life and having all the friends.
All the FAKE friends…that used me for who I knew and what I had.
I had to be shown all this and trouble had to come my way.
After I repented and asked God to forgive for any and every sin I had committed, seen and unseen, I have never felt better.
I refuse to stray from God again b/c he gave me my life.
I love how you stay close to him and trust him.
It’s beautiful.[/quote]
awwww…HIGH FIVE BABY GIRL!!![/quote]
Thank you thank you!
LOL!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 1:23 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301075"][quote comment="301000"][quote comment="300990"]Mz. Keyes@ i first was to praise you for your strenght and resolve for not cracking that head to the white meat…i will say that if he is trying to put fourth an effort. meet him in a publix place and set up a parenting plan. That way he will see you about the business of B A B Y D not vitamin D
♥
reading you post i went through all those emotions[/quote]
check old post :)[/quote]
okay..i requested you..[/quote]
i still haven’t gotten anything. i requested dat chick…hopefully u can find me through her page.
oh and DAT CHICK….lol, i requested u.
OnNov 21, 2008 at 1:23 pm (Quote) | Reply |
To Yetta, but for everybody if you missed it. & to those on myspace. He’s Fresh. Look at who’s in the picture. :smile
Ok, so he’s a bum. You can’t go back and change what happened. My bum from 18 years ago showed up at my son’s graduation with the whole damn crew. Auntie Mesha, KiKi, and all them! He had never done anything ever. He couldn’t tell you what this boy is allergic too. So you know have to focus on what you want and what you need to do. My son has the utmost of respect for me and clarity of judgment about his father than ever. I never spoke ill of him, But I never expected anything from him. I never called I never did anything but take care of my son and move myself forward.
I never got ugly and trust me, there were many days when I would cry and be so mad and wish a nigga dead. But I kept at it. He even tried at 14 to try and get custody. I sent his lawyer a copy of the $18,000.00 tuition bill and said when he pays that he can get him. Case dropped. I kept a shoe box with the receipt of everything I ever bought, because I knew this kid was mine and no-one else would love him or be responsible for him like me.
Yetta you have now got to realize the same thing. So… Put your feelings in your pocket so they don’t get hurt. And let’s get to working on this cyber- baby shower.
Let that bum be a bum by himself. And when he shows up chest all sticking out… Don’t even blink!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 1:24 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301137"][quote comment="301075"][quote comment="301000"][quote comment="300990"]Mz. Keyes@ i first was to praise you for your strenght and resolve for not cracking that head to the white meat…i will say that if he is trying to put fourth an effort. meet him in a publix place and set up a parenting plan. That way he will see you about the business of B A B Y D not vitamin D
♥
reading you post i went through all those emotions[/quote]
check old post :)[/quote]
okay..i requested you..[/quote]
i still haven’t gotten anything. i requested dat chick…hopefully u can find me through her page.
oh and DAT CHICK….lol, i requested u. :)[/quote]
I need to get my myspace up again.
I’ll do it after the baby arrives I guess.
OnNov 21, 2008 at 1:24 pm (Quote) | Reply |
I’m sorry… my son is Fresh.
OnNov 21, 2008 at 1:24 pm (Quote) | Reply |
lessssssssssssssssssssssss i missed you
OnNov 21, 2008 at 1:24 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301113"][quote comment="301110"][quote comment="301091"][quote comment="301059"][quote comment="301046"][quote comment="301029"][quote comment="301023"]Get ya tubes tied![/quote]
Oooookay?!?!
Heeeey you!!!! Drink plently of tea w/lemon and gargle with salt and water! (what Momma always told me!)[/quote]
Hey mama! Imma do all of that and some later cuz I can’t do being sick!
Anyhoo, don’t mean to be harsh but it just upsets me sometimes that my sista’s get pregnant for BUMS! Like, didn’t you see that when you were laying w/ him? And now these kids are growing up w/o their fathers. It’s just sad. I’m 29 and my ex and I bumped into each other (while in JA) and he’s like, yuh nuh have no pickney yet? I’m like “No, when I find a man that puts me in a house for his future son/daughter then I’ll have plenty of babies.” He’s like “no no, you ain’t gonna have none then, you better hurry up cuz ya clock is ticking.” All I’m thinking is, this fool got 3 kids, by 3 different chicks. Granted he financially takes care of every last one of them and the mothers, but he’s out in the street, he ain’t spending time w/ them and I don’t want that. I want a man that gets pleasure from being a father and spending time w/ his kid(s). As women, we have to learn seperate a good f*ck from the bum that he is. If that means I won’t be having kids than so be it. Don’t mean to offend anyone, I know there’s a lot of mom’s on this blog. I just hate to see the outcome of bad choices that affect the kids that come from it.[/quote]
I know what you mean and sometimes you are just caught up in the moment.
Trust me that is no excuse.
With my 1st son, we were together for 4 years before I got preg and of course he wasn’t planned but I never expected for us to end.
Now with my 2nd son, I was in love and engaged months before I got preg.
But I know plenty of women that get pregnant by these losers.
Some don’t show their true colors until the woman is preg but we have to do better by wrapping it up and taking our birth control.[/quote]
Another thing and I’ll be finished my rant. A lot of people (not talking about any specifically) will say well you should’ve been married, etc. That isnt a guartanee than a man will be a good father, provider, etc. My best friend was married for seven years. The two children that she had with her husband were planned. She took care of him and home. She never suspected anything and found underwear in his car. She confronted him and the next morning he was gone. She couldnt find him. After a few months he popped back up. In total its been almost two years since he walked out and he still hasnt given her a dime for their children. Yes women need to make better choices, but parents need to raise BETTER MEN![/quote]
It’s a never ending cycle…men need to step up to the plate but how can they if they don’t know how…it seems like it goes on and on and on.[/quote]
And one thing women need to stop doing is using their children as pawns.
I can’t stand that.
They are hurting their child.
If they don’t get enough child support, they want to say that the father can never see the child.
I mean at least he is trying to be a father.
UGH!
That annoys me so much!
If I would have been that chick, my son would have never seen his father after age 2.[/quote]
Now that right there is soooo depressing. The family court…I dunno who in there right mind would love going through that bs!!!! Only time i went was when my dads father felt he needed to get at me and ask for custody of my son and took me to court where the judge laughed in his face and threw the case out….the judge in turn asked if i wanted to go through with child support or will we work it out amongst ourselves and I said yes we…..he does or he doesn’t is his damn business….I aint going through with no damn child support case and taking off every min to go to court….hell nah!!!!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 1:25 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301127"][quote comment="301108"][quote comment="301090"][quote comment="301031"][quote comment="301025"][quote comment="300983"][quote comment="300968"][quote comment="300961"]I wish I could cyber hug a certain few….why am I on the back burner for ‘hear say’???[/quote]
Who do you want to cyberhug?[/quote]
It doesn’t matter. The majority has spoken, so I’ll just stick to chatting by my lonesome.[/quote]
Well I personally don’t have a problem with you but I have heard the stories. I’m all about positive energy and I’ll be honest the jury is still out on somethings you have been accused of. I can seee that you really reaching out and me being a Christian, I would be wrong to judge and hold a grudge. So with that being said I’ll extend the olive branch and welcome you my cyber friendship if it means anything to you.
*cyberhug*[/quote]
I don’t even know what’s going on since I am so new here but that was sweet![/quote]
You know I’m the YBF peacemaker but I goes hard for my FAM and make no bones about it. I love all who wants to be loved
*cyberhugs to everyone reading this*[/quote]
I just have a question: *After scrolling last week and damn near developing carpal tunnel* : Why did you pin point me out as the person who stole Rainy’s identity?? How demonic would that be???…I wouldn’t even do that. Nor do have the time or boredom to do so. When I post, I post with my own gravi. People on here have been known that I obsess over my gravi and change it every 2 to three days tops. So how odd would it be for me to post under no gravi at all, or Rainy’s for that matter? I just think a lot of the finger pointing and hear say is childish and ridiculous. And I just wanted to know why all of this is centered around me. Is there no possible way that a blogger has a vendetta towards me? I do watch Law & Order. This whole fiasco is new to me.[/quote]
Well like I said I have heard the stories. Some concerning you and Rainy too. And as I stated that day what sealed the deal for me was when I saw the
emotioncon and I only saw you use that one. I only remember because I was scrolling trying to figure out how do ALL the emotioncons and I saw one I never saw and I quoted it from you. Now there is a possibility that someone else did it yes and for that reason I am willing to put the past in the past and move forward I also apologized offered friendship that day which is why I am offering again today.
I hope that answers your questions and ends this convo because I really would like to move forward.[/quote]
Guess I’ll have to banish any usage of emoticons if I don’t want to be accussed of something I haven’t done. 
Yep. —>
_________
Moving Forward.
OnNov 21, 2008 at 1:25 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301123"][quote comment="301120"]@Glam: When are you getting married?[/quote]
January[/quote]
CONGRATULATIONS!!!
How did I miss that?!?!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 1:25 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301125"][quote comment="301118"][quote comment="301101"]Okay for real ya’ll are about to make a sister cry up in here!![/quote]
*passes you a Puffs with Lotion tissue*[/quote]
Got me all worked up in the post. Blood pressure up & all![/quote]
Thanks christin, I’m good now.. sometimes I just get a lil emotional when you talking about all the good things that god does for us ya know.
OnNov 21, 2008 at 1:26 pm (Quote) | Reply |
Rainy & Jaurdyn, Glam and Yetta….awww YAY!!!!
Y’all make me smile when I’m at work. Cause Lord knows the presence of these folks that I’m in, make me want to do unholy things!!!!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 1:26 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301126"][quote comment="301121"]Every child needs to be like MIDNIGHT! minus the killing. LOL![/quote]
WORD..all them guerilla tactics had me rollin :lol:[/quote]
*heads over to Masjid’s*
OnNov 21, 2008 at 1:27 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301129"][quote comment="301115"][quote comment="301089"][quote comment="301067"][quote comment="301046"][quote comment="301029"][quote comment="301023"]Get ya tubes tied![/quote]
Oooookay?!?!
Heeeey you!!!! Drink plently of tea w/lemon and gargle with salt and water! (what Momma always told me!)[/quote]
Hey mama! Imma do all of that and some later cuz I can’t do being sick!
Anyhoo, don’t mean to be harsh but it just upsets me sometimes that my sista’s get pregnant for BUMS! Like, didn’t you see that when you were laying w/ him? And now these kids are growing up w/o their fathers. It’s just sad. I’m 29 and my ex and I bumped into each other (while in JA) and he’s like, yuh nuh have no pickney yet? I’m like “No, when I find a man that puts me in a house for his future son/daughter then I’ll have plenty of babies.” He’s like “no no, you ain’t gonna have none then, you better hurry up cuz ya clock is ticking.” All I’m thinking is, this fool got 3 kids, by 3 different chicks. Granted he financially takes care of every last one of them and the mothers, but he’s out in the street, he ain’t spending time w/ them and I don’t want that. I want a man that gets pleasure from being a father and spending time w/ his kid(s). As women, we have to learn seperate a good f*ck from the bum that he is. If that means I won’t be having kids than so be it. Don’t mean to offend anyone, I know there’s a lot of mom’s on this blog. I just hate to see the outcome of bad choices that affect the kids that come from it.[/quote]
I understand what you’re saying but sometimes people don’t see the real person or that person doesnt show themselves until after the baby is born. So I dont think its fair to say didnt you see he was a BUM when you was laying with him? Theres a chance that she didnt! Women have been with a man for years and years and years and then all of a sudden he can show himself!![/quote]
I know Toya and I DON’T feel all black women who are in this situation were dealing w/ bums. I know in general that sometimes it’s not even the woman. However tho, I feel some women just be so stupified by the d*ck that they think a baby is the next best thing. My mom got pregnant w/ me at 15 and she grilled me from the time I was knee high why I have my whole life ahead of me and I should look at a man’s family (and him) before I have a child for him. I just wish, for the possibilty of a future child w/ a dummy, that women, especially black women, would look w/ their eyes and not their heart cuz we all know our heart is connected to our puzzy.[/quote]
You know what the problem is? These mama’s are raising Pussy ass boys..not men. SINCE WHEN IS IT OKAY FOR YOUR SON NOT TO KNOW HOW TO TAKE CARE OF HIMSELF EH? WHEN IS IT OKAY FOR A WOMAN TO DO EVERY SINGLE THING (INCLUDING HOW TO TEACH YOU HOW TO USE UR OWN DAMN MONEY) FOR YOU AND TAKE CARE OF THE HOME AND CHILDREN WHILE U STAY HOME AND DON’T DO SHIT? THERE ARE A LOT OF THESE TYPES OUT HERE: DON’T DO NOTHING BUT WORK AND SPEND THEIR MONEY ON SHIT TO THROW THESE CHICKS OFF, THEN WHEN THEY GET EM, ITS A DONE DEAL.
AND ANOTHER THING:
LADIES BE VERY CAREFUL, BECAUSE THESE LAME ASS BIRD ASS NEGROES ARE STARTING TO GET WOMEN LIKE US PREGNANT SO THAT WE ARE STUCK WITH THEM FOR LIFE. BE VERY CAREFUL. When they see women who are about something, and don’t have any kids or have one kid and is still living well, they will wine and dine ur ass, then when they get in the panties..they will get ur ass pregnant.[/quote]
Girl you betta preach…the last guy I was with was saying stuff that had me scared to sleep with him. I thought he was gonna try and get me pregnant intentionally. He was always talking about how he wanted me to be his baby Momma…he plays too much!!! I cut him lose after his birthday and never talked to him with no explanation or anything ever again. It wasn’t money, or class or anything like that that had me alarmed, it was the fact that he was not willing to give me the commitment I need and want before I am comfortable enough to be with someone in that way. Needless to say, I thank God fore using him to concecrate me and increase my patience to wait on the man that God has for me.[/quote]
Thank the lord, myself I dealt with the same thing..Ex dude, when I was preggers was on some..i don’t want to kill my child but i’m not ready to take care of it bullshit. So when I had my miscarriage (i didn’t tell his ass to this very day, cuz I didn’t need his fake ass sympathy) I repented and changed my life for the better.
OnNov 21, 2008 at 1:27 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301144"][quote comment="301123"][quote comment="301120"]@Glam: When are you getting married?[/quote]
January[/quote]
CONGRATULATIONS!!!
How did I miss that?!?![/quote]
LOL!
Well I never mentioned it.
Just that I was engaged.
We were planning to get married on April 4th…but months later I became preg and that is now my due date.
So we just moved it b/c I want to have the same last name as my child and his father when he arrives.
I love my man so much!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 1:28 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301146"]Rainy & Jaurdyn, Glam and Yetta….awww YAY!!!!
Y’all make me smile when I’m at work. Cause Lord knows the presence of these folks that I’m in, make me want to do unholy things!!!![/quote]
LOL!!!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 1:28 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301139"][quote comment="301137"][quote comment="301075"][quote comment="301000"][quote comment="300990"]Mz. Keyes@ i first was to praise you for your strenght and resolve for not cracking that head to the white meat…i will say that if he is trying to put fourth an effort. meet him in a publix place and set up a parenting plan. That way he will see you about the business of B A B Y D not vitamin D
♥
reading you post i went through all those emotions[/quote]
check old post :)[/quote]
okay..i requested you..[/quote]
i still haven’t gotten anything. i requested dat chick…hopefully u can find me through her page.
oh and DAT CHICK….lol, i requested u. :)[/quote]
I need to get my myspace up again.
I’ll do it after the baby arrives I guess.[/quote]
cool. let us know, u will be added
congrats on ur engagement–not sure if i am late as hell though.
mine is memorial weekend.
OnNov 21, 2008 at 1:29 pm (Quote) | Reply |
Ok, so I’m felling scrolled over…
OnNov 21, 2008 at 1:29 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301142"][quote comment="301113"][quote comment="301110"][quote comment="301091"][quote comment="301059"][quote comment="301046"][quote comment="301029"][quote comment="301023"]Get ya tubes tied![/quote]
Oooookay?!?!
Heeeey you!!!! Drink plently of tea w/lemon and gargle with salt and water! (what Momma always told me!)[/quote]
Hey mama! Imma do all of that and some later cuz I can’t do being sick!
Anyhoo, don’t mean to be harsh but it just upsets me sometimes that my sista’s get pregnant for BUMS! Like, didn’t you see that when you were laying w/ him? And now these kids are growing up w/o their fathers. It’s just sad. I’m 29 and my ex and I bumped into each other (while in JA) and he’s like, yuh nuh have no pickney yet? I’m like “No, when I find a man that puts me in a house for his future son/daughter then I’ll have plenty of babies.” He’s like “no no, you ain’t gonna have none then, you better hurry up cuz ya clock is ticking.” All I’m thinking is, this fool got 3 kids, by 3 different chicks. Granted he financially takes care of every last one of them and the mothers, but he’s out in the street, he ain’t spending time w/ them and I don’t want that. I want a man that gets pleasure from being a father and spending time w/ his kid(s). As women, we have to learn seperate a good f*ck from the bum that he is. If that means I won’t be having kids than so be it. Don’t mean to offend anyone, I know there’s a lot of mom’s on this blog. I just hate to see the outcome of bad choices that affect the kids that come from it.[/quote]
I know what you mean and sometimes you are just caught up in the moment.
Trust me that is no excuse.
With my 1st son, we were together for 4 years before I got preg and of course he wasn’t planned but I never expected for us to end.
Now with my 2nd son, I was in love and engaged months before I got preg.
But I know plenty of women that get pregnant by these losers.
Some don’t show their true colors until the woman is preg but we have to do better by wrapping it up and taking our birth control.[/quote]
Another thing and I’ll be finished my rant. A lot of people (not talking about any specifically) will say well you should’ve been married, etc. That isnt a guartanee than a man will be a good father, provider, etc. My best friend was married for seven years. The two children that she had with her husband were planned. She took care of him and home. She never suspected anything and found underwear in his car. She confronted him and the next morning he was gone. She couldnt find him. After a few months he popped back up. In total its been almost two years since he walked out and he still hasnt given her a dime for their children. Yes women need to make better choices, but parents need to raise BETTER MEN![/quote]
It’s a never ending cycle…men need to step up to the plate but how can they if they don’t know how…it seems like it goes on and on and on.[/quote]
And one thing women need to stop doing is using their children as pawns.
I can’t stand that.
They are hurting their child.
If they don’t get enough child support, they want to say that the father can never see the child.
I mean at least he is trying to be a father.
UGH!
That annoys me so much!
If I would have been that chick, my son would have never seen his father after age 2.[/quote]
Now that right there is soooo depressing. The family court…I dunno who in there right mind would love going through that bs!!!! Only time i went was when my dads father felt he needed to get at me and ask for custody of my son and took me to court where the judge laughed in his face and threw the case out….the judge in turn asked if i wanted to go through with child support or will we work it out amongst ourselves and I said yes we…..he does or he doesn’t is his damn business….I aint going through with no damn child support case and taking off every min to go to court….hell nah!!!![/quote]
Girl!!!
LOL!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 1:29 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301131"][quote comment="301127"][quote comment="301108"][quote comment="301090"][quote comment="301031"][quote comment="301025"][quote comment="300983"][quote comment="300968"][quote comment="300961"]I wish I could cyber hug a certain few….why am I on the back burner for ‘hear say’???[/quote]
Who do you want to cyberhug?[/quote]
It doesn’t matter. The majority has spoken, so I’ll just stick to chatting by my lonesome.[/quote]
Well I personally don’t have a problem with you but I have heard the stories. I’m all about positive energy and I’ll be honest the jury is still out on somethings you have been accused of. I can seee that you really reaching out and me being a Christian, I would be wrong to judge and hold a grudge. So with that being said I’ll extend the olive branch and welcome you my cyber friendship if it means anything to you.
*cyberhug*[/quote]
I don’t even know what’s going on since I am so new here but that was sweet![/quote]
You know I’m the YBF peacemaker but I goes hard for my FAM and make no bones about it. I love all who wants to be loved
*cyberhugs to everyone reading this*[/quote]
I just have a question: *After scrolling last week and damn near developing carpal tunnel* : Why did you pin point me out as the person who stole Rainy’s identity?? How demonic would that be???…I wouldn’t even do that. Nor do have the time or boredom to do so. When I post, I post with my own gravi. People on here have been known that I obsess over my gravi and change it every 2 to three days tops. So how odd would it be for me to post under no gravi at all, or Rainy’s for that matter? I just think a lot of the finger pointing and hear say is childish and ridiculous. And I just wanted to know why all of this is centered around me. Is there no possible way that a blogger has a vendetta towards me? I do watch Law & Order. This whole fiasco is new to me.[/quote]
Well like I said I have heard the stories. Some concerning you and Rainy too. And as I stated that day what sealed the deal for me was when I saw the
emotioncon and I only saw you use that one. I only remember because I was scrolling trying to figure out how do ALL the emotioncons and I saw one I never saw and I quoted it from you. Now there is a possibility that someone else did it yes and for that reason I am willing to put the past in the past and move forward I also apologized offered friendship that day which is why I am offering again today.
I hope that answers your questions and ends this convo because I really would like to move forward.[/quote]
Aight, aight, aight!!! Drop it you two!!!![/quote]
I’m done. I”m being good! I prowmise!
I sent cyberhugs to everybody how can read
OnNov 21, 2008 at 1:30 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301111"][quote comment="301078"][quote comment="301059"][quote comment="301046"][quote comment="301029"][quote comment="301023"]Get ya tubes tied![/quote]
Oooookay?!?!
Heeeey you!!!! Drink plently of tea w/lemon and gargle with salt and water! (what Momma always told me!)[/quote]
Hey mama! Imma do all of that and some later cuz I can’t do being sick!
Anyhoo, don’t mean to be harsh but it just upsets me sometimes that my sista’s get pregnant for BUMS! Like, didn’t you see that when you were laying w/ him? And now these kids are growing up w/o their fathers. It’s just sad. I’m 29 and my ex and I bumped into each other (while in JA) and he’s like, yuh nuh have no pickney yet? I’m like “No, when I find a man that puts me in a house for his future son/daughter then I’ll have plenty of babies.” He’s like “no no, you ain’t gonna have none then, you better hurry up cuz ya clock is ticking.” All I’m thinking is, this fool got 3 kids, by 3 different chicks. Granted he financially takes care of every last one of them and the mothers, but he’s out in the street, he ain’t spending time w/ them and I don’t want that. I want a man that gets pleasure from being a father and spending time w/ his kid(s). As women, we have to learn seperate a good f*ck from the bum that he is. If that means I won’t be having kids than so be it. Don’t mean to offend anyone, I know there’s a lot of mom’s on this blog. I just hate to see the outcome of bad choices that affect the kids that come from it.[/quote]
I know what you mean and sometimes you are just caught up in the moment.
Trust me that is no excuse.
With my 1st son, we were together for 4 years before I got preg and of course he wasn’t planned but I never expected for us to end.
Now with my 2nd son, I was in love and engaged months before I got preg.
But I know plenty of women that get pregnant by these losers.
Some don’t show their true colors until the woman is preg but we have to do better by wrapping it up and taking our birth control.[/quote]
And Whoa, you are totally right. I have no excuse for this mistake, and I am woman enough to admit that I made one.. But that does not take away from the fact that this nigga is a straight bum. Why can’t he get his ish together for the sake of the child. He had a job when I met him and it was all gravy.. Why would I have someone in my life that is worthless? Why should my children suffer. There are plenty children out there who are better off without the real dad around. I am one of them..My real father was a jerk and I’m glad that he os not around.. he denied me from the moment I was born. I’d rather my child to call a nother man dad, than to subject him to the foolishness of his real father.[/quote]
Ok, so he’s a bum. You can’t go back and change what happened. My bum from 18 years ago showed up at my son’s graduation with the whole damn crew. Auntie Mesha, KiKi, and all them! He had never done anything ever. He couldn’t tell you what this boy is allergic too. So you know have to focus on what you want and what you need to do. My son has the utmost of respect for me and clarity of judgment about his father than ever. I never spoke ill of him, But I never expected anything from him. I never called I never did anything but take care of my son and move myself forward.
I never got ugly and trust me, there were many days when I would cry and be so mad and wish a nigga dead. But I kept at it. He even tried at 14 to try and get custody. I sent his lawyer a copy of the $18,000.00 tuition bill and said when he pays that he can get him. Case dropped. I kept a shoe box with the receipt of everything I ever bought, because I knew this kid was mine and no-one else would love him or be responsible for him like me.
Yetta you have now got to realize the same thing. So… Put your feelings in your pocket so they don’t get hurt. And let’s get to working on this cyber- baby shower.
Let that bum be a bum by himself. And when he shows up chest all sticking out… Don’t even blink![/quote]
I hear that.. and that is what I did to my daughter’s father.. the abusive one.. After my dad died, I was like.. there is nothing left for me here, so I gotta move..He ACTED like he was upset, but after we got here, I never heard from him. He got her a few items for Christmas last year, but no birthday call, no present no nothing..Natalia still knows her dad is Charles though and she will tell anybody that.. We did get to see him on our trip back there in July, even though the nig was in jail….(go figure) I never speak ill of him, she will realize it all on her own…
OnNov 21, 2008 at 1:30 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301153"][quote comment="301139"][quote comment="301137"][quote comment="301075"][quote comment="301000"][quote comment="300990"]Mz. Keyes@ i first was to praise you for your strenght and resolve for not cracking that head to the white meat…i will say that if he is trying to put fourth an effort. meet him in a publix place and set up a parenting plan. That way he will see you about the business of B A B Y D not vitamin D
♥
reading you post i went through all those emotions[/quote]
check old post :)[/quote]
okay..i requested you..[/quote]
i still haven’t gotten anything. i requested dat chick…hopefully u can find me through her page.
oh and DAT CHICK….lol, i requested u. :)[/quote]
I need to get my myspace up again.
I’ll do it after the baby arrives I guess.[/quote]
cool. let us know, u will be added
congrats on ur engagement–not sure if i am late as hell though.
mine is memorial weekend.[/quote]
LOL!
You aren’t late.
Remember I am new.
Congrats on yours!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 1:30 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301151"][quote comment="301144"][quote comment="301123"][quote comment="301120"]@Glam: When are you getting married?[/quote]
January[/quote]
CONGRATULATIONS!!!
How did I miss that?!?![/quote]
LOL!
Well I never mentioned it.
Just that I was engaged.
We were planning to get married on April 4th…but months later I became preg and that is now my due date.
So we just moved it b/c I want to have the same last name as my child and his father when he arrives.
I love my man so much![/quote]
Aw, I feel you Girl! I love my man too! …high fivin’!
I wanna see pictures of your dress & stuff! I love weddings!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 1:31 pm (Quote) | Reply |
It is some real positive energy flowing through here today. I have learned so much!!!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 1:31 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301155"]Ok, so I’m felling scrolled over… :sad:[/quote]
Hey mmschel, and its a new post too!!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 1:31 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301141"]lessssssssssssssssssssssss i missed you[/quote]
Hey Rainy, you know i missed all of yall too this past week & thankfully i came back on today and it’s all love (except no love for the deadbeat daddies) cuz the few times i popped in earlier this week it was World War 3 over Mrs. Unmentionable in here :rolls: so i just logged out, lol, even the YBF night shift are crazy too, lol.
OnNov 21, 2008 at 1:31 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301155"]Ok, so I’m felling scrolled over… :sad:[/quote]
We love you to mmschel!!!!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 1:32 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301128"]@ Love:
But I wonder, why IS that? I’m happy that old dude came around for you during the pregnancy, but why does it seem like men come out of the woodwork for the wife/girlfriend/baby mama when they are preggers with THEIR child?
Is it just me, or does it seem like there’s a lot of emphasis put on the CHILD and not so much on the mother of the child? My hubby’s dad wasn’t around (neither was mine) and he’s already beating his chest about his “unborn” child and what he’ll do for the child, and HIS child. I’m like, what about me? I’ll be the MOTHER of the child! My mom says it’s because men tend to place more emphasis on and give more attention to their BLOOD (mothers, children etc.) than the wife/girlfriend/baby-mama.[/quote]
No no….he didn’t come around then…..he was always around at that point….it’s after the baby came he started acting like a damn fool. Like his values in life decreased. And the funny thing is he swears his reasonings is right….like give a good paying job to sell….wtf???? and then say he wanna hurry up and provide the best for me and the baby….ummmm hello your ass was already doing that….did i ask you to switch up and go from good to bad….and who was living with you while you sell???? lost his damn mind!!!!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 1:32 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301156"][quote comment="301142"][quote comment="301113"][quote comment="301110"][quote comment="301091"][quote comment="301059"][quote comment="301046"][quote comment="301029"][quote comment="301023"]Get ya tubes tied![/quote]
Oooookay?!?!
Heeeey you!!!! Drink plently of tea w/lemon and gargle with salt and water! (what Momma always told me!)[/quote]
Hey mama! Imma do all of that and some later cuz I can’t do being sick!
Anyhoo, don’t mean to be harsh but it just upsets me sometimes that my sista’s get pregnant for BUMS! Like, didn’t you see that when you were laying w/ him? And now these kids are growing up w/o their fathers. It’s just sad. I’m 29 and my ex and I bumped into each other (while in JA) and he’s like, yuh nuh have no pickney yet? I’m like “No, when I find a man that puts me in a house for his future son/daughter then I’ll have plenty of babies.” He’s like “no no, you ain’t gonna have none then, you better hurry up cuz ya clock is ticking.” All I’m thinking is, this fool got 3 kids, by 3 different chicks. Granted he financially takes care of every last one of them and the mothers, but he’s out in the street, he ain’t spending time w/ them and I don’t want that. I want a man that gets pleasure from being a father and spending time w/ his kid(s). As women, we have to learn seperate a good f*ck from the bum that he is. If that means I won’t be having kids than so be it. Don’t mean to offend anyone, I know there’s a lot of mom’s on this blog. I just hate to see the outcome of bad choices that affect the kids that come from it.[/quote]
I know what you mean and sometimes you are just caught up in the moment.
Trust me that is no excuse.
With my 1st son, we were together for 4 years before I got preg and of course he wasn’t planned but I never expected for us to end.
Now with my 2nd son, I was in love and engaged months before I got preg.
But I know plenty of women that get pregnant by these losers.
Some don’t show their true colors until the woman is preg but we have to do better by wrapping it up and taking our birth control.[/quote]
Another thing and I’ll be finished my rant. A lot of people (not talking about any specifically) will say well you should’ve been married, etc. That isnt a guartanee than a man will be a good father, provider, etc. My best friend was married for seven years. The two children that she had with her husband were planned. She took care of him and home. She never suspected anything and found underwear in his car. She confronted him and the next morning he was gone. She couldnt find him. After a few months he popped back up. In total its been almost two years since he walked out and he still hasnt given her a dime for their children. Yes women need to make better choices, but parents need to raise BETTER MEN![/quote]
It’s a never ending cycle…men need to step up to the plate but how can they if they don’t know how…it seems like it goes on and on and on.[/quote]
And one thing women need to stop doing is using their children as pawns.
I can’t stand that.
They are hurting their child.
If they don’t get enough child support, they want to say that the father can never see the child.
I mean at least he is trying to be a father.
UGH!
That annoys me so much!
If I would have been that chick, my son would have never seen his father after age 2.[/quote]
Now that right there is soooo depressing. The family court…I dunno who in there right mind would love going through that bs!!!! Only time i went was when my dads father felt he needed to get at me and ask for custody of my son and took me to court where the judge laughed in his face and threw the case out….the judge in turn asked if i wanted to go through with child support or will we work it out amongst ourselves and I said yes we…..he does or he doesn’t is his damn business….I aint going through with no damn child support case and taking off every min to go to court….hell nah!!!![/quote]
Girl!!!
LOL![/quote]
Me either that is why I refused to put the first nig on there, and I’m not about to put this one on there..he already stated that he wont work because he don’t want to pay.. what sense would that make for me to turn around and put him on there and expect something…. all that court drama is a waste of time..
OnNov 21, 2008 at 1:32 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301161"][quote comment="301151"][quote comment="301144"][quote comment="301123"][quote comment="301120"]@Glam: When are you getting married?[/quote]
January[/quote]
CONGRATULATIONS!!!
How did I miss that?!?![/quote]
LOL!
Well I never mentioned it.
Just that I was engaged.
We were planning to get married on April 4th…but months later I became preg and that is now my due date.
So we just moved it b/c I want to have the same last name as my child and his father when he arrives.
I love my man so much![/quote]
Aw, I feel you Girl! I love my man too! …high fivin’!
I wanna see pictures of your dress & stuff! I love weddings![/quote]
It’s not the dress I wanted anymore since I will be 6 months preg but it’s beautiful.
OnNov 21, 2008 at 1:32 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301146"]Rainy & Jaurdyn, Glam and Yetta….awww YAY!!!!
Y’all make me smile when I’m at work. Cause Lord knows the presence of these folks that I’m in, make me want to do unholy things!!!![/quote]
aw, thanks. i love being included in things
OnNov 21, 2008 at 1:32 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301158"][quote comment="301111"][quote comment="301078"][quote comment="301059"][quote comment="301046"][quote comment="301029"][quote comment="301023"]Get ya tubes tied![/quote]
Oooookay?!?!
Heeeey you!!!! Drink plently of tea w/lemon and gargle with salt and water! (what Momma always told me!)[/quote]
Hey mama! Imma do all of that and some later cuz I can’t do being sick!
Anyhoo, don’t mean to be harsh but it just upsets me sometimes that my sista’s get pregnant for BUMS! Like, didn’t you see that when you were laying w/ him? And now these kids are growing up w/o their fathers. It’s just sad. I’m 29 and my ex and I bumped into each other (while in JA) and he’s like, yuh nuh have no pickney yet? I’m like “No, when I find a man that puts me in a house for his future son/daughter then I’ll have plenty of babies.” He’s like “no no, you ain’t gonna have none then, you better hurry up cuz ya clock is ticking.” All I’m thinking is, this fool got 3 kids, by 3 different chicks. Granted he financially takes care of every last one of them and the mothers, but he’s out in the street, he ain’t spending time w/ them and I don’t want that. I want a man that gets pleasure from being a father and spending time w/ his kid(s). As women, we have to learn seperate a good f*ck from the bum that he is. If that means I won’t be having kids than so be it. Don’t mean to offend anyone, I know there’s a lot of mom’s on this blog. I just hate to see the outcome of bad choices that affect the kids that come from it.[/quote]
I know what you mean and sometimes you are just caught up in the moment.
Trust me that is no excuse.
With my 1st son, we were together for 4 years before I got preg and of course he wasn’t planned but I never expected for us to end.
Now with my 2nd son, I was in love and engaged months before I got preg.
But I know plenty of women that get pregnant by these losers.
Some don’t show their true colors until the woman is preg but we have to do better by wrapping it up and taking our birth control.[/quote]
And Whoa, you are totally right. I have no excuse for this mistake, and I am woman enough to admit that I made one.. But that does not take away from the fact that this nigga is a straight bum. Why can’t he get his ish together for the sake of the child. He had a job when I met him and it was all gravy.. Why would I have someone in my life that is worthless? Why should my children suffer. There are plenty children out there who are better off without the real dad around. I am one of them..My real father was a jerk and I’m glad that he os not around.. he denied me from the moment I was born. I’d rather my child to call a nother man dad, than to subject him to the foolishness of his real father.[/quote]
Ok, so he’s a bum. You can’t go back and change what happened. My bum from 18 years ago showed up at my son’s graduation with the whole damn crew. Auntie Mesha, KiKi, and all them! He had never done anything ever. He couldn’t tell you what this boy is allergic too. So you know have to focus on what you want and what you need to do. My son has the utmost of respect for me and clarity of judgment about his father than ever. I never spoke ill of him, But I never expected anything from him. I never called I never did anything but take care of my son and move myself forward.
I never got ugly and trust me, there were many days when I would cry and be so mad and wish a nigga dead. But I kept at it. He even tried at 14 to try and get custody. I sent his lawyer a copy of the $18,000.00 tuition bill and said when he pays that he can get him. Case dropped. I kept a shoe box with the receipt of everything I ever bought, because I knew this kid was mine and no-one else would love him or be responsible for him like me.
Yetta you have now got to realize the same thing. So… Put your feelings in your pocket so they don’t get hurt. And let’s get to working on this cyber- baby shower.
Let that bum be a bum by himself. And when he shows up chest all sticking out… Don’t even blink![/quote]
I hear that.. and that is what I did to my daughter’s father.. the abusive one.. After my dad died, I was like.. there is nothing left for me here, so I gotta move..He ACTED like he was upset, but after we got here, I never heard from him. He got her a few items for Christmas last year, but no birthday call, no present no nothing..Natalia still knows her dad is Charles though and she will tell anybody that.. We did get to see him on our trip back there in July, even though the nig was in jail….(go figure) I never speak ill of him, she will realize it all on her own…[/quote]
Absolutely! It’s hard but you gotta be strong. Right now your kids only have you.
OnNov 21, 2008 at 1:33 pm (Quote) | Reply |
NEW POST!!!!!!!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 1:34 pm (Quote) | Reply |
new post!! new post!! new post
OnNov 21, 2008 at 1:34 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301132"][quote comment="301115"][quote comment="301089"][quote comment="301067"][quote comment="301046"][quote comment="301029"][quote comment="301023"]Get ya tubes tied![/quote]
Oooookay?!?!
Heeeey you!!!! Drink plently of tea w/lemon and gargle with salt and water! (what Momma always told me!)[/quote]
Hey mama! Imma do all of that and some later cuz I can’t do being sick!
Anyhoo, don’t mean to be harsh but it just upsets me sometimes that my sista’s get pregnant for BUMS! Like, didn’t you see that when you were laying w/ him? And now these kids are growing up w/o their fathers. It’s just sad. I’m 29 and my ex and I bumped into each other (while in JA) and he’s like, yuh nuh have no pickney yet? I’m like “No, when I find a man that puts me in a house for his future son/daughter then I’ll have plenty of babies.” He’s like “no no, you ain’t gonna have none then, you better hurry up cuz ya clock is ticking.” All I’m thinking is, this fool got 3 kids, by 3 different chicks. Granted he financially takes care of every last one of them and the mothers, but he’s out in the street, he ain’t spending time w/ them and I don’t want that. I want a man that gets pleasure from being a father and spending time w/ his kid(s). As women, we have to learn seperate a good f*ck from the bum that he is. If that means I won’t be having kids than so be it. Don’t mean to offend anyone, I know there’s a lot of mom’s on this blog. I just hate to see the outcome of bad choices that affect the kids that come from it.[/quote]
I understand what you’re saying but sometimes people don’t see the real person or that person doesnt show themselves until after the baby is born. So I dont think its fair to say didnt you see he was a BUM when you was laying with him? Theres a chance that she didnt! Women have been with a man for years and years and years and then all of a sudden he can show himself!![/quote]
I know Toya and I DON’T feel all black women who are in this situation were dealing w/ bums. I know in general that sometimes it’s not even the woman. However tho, I feel some women just be so stupified by the d*ck that they think a baby is the next best thing. My mom got pregnant w/ me at 15 and she grilled me from the time I was knee high why I have my whole life ahead of me and I should look at a man’s family (and him) before I have a child for him. I just wish, for the possibilty of a future child w/ a dummy, that women, especially black women, would look w/ their eyes and not their heart cuz we all know our heart is connected to our puzzy.[/quote]
You know what the problem is? These mama’s are raising Pussy ass boys..not men. SINCE WHEN IS IT OKAY FOR YOUR SON NOT TO KNOW HOW TO TAKE CARE OF HIMSELF EH? WHEN IS IT OKAY FOR A WOMAN TO DO EVERY SINGLE THING (INCLUDING HOW TO TEACH YOU HOW TO USE UR OWN DAMN MONEY) FOR YOU AND TAKE CARE OF THE HOME AND CHILDREN WHILE U STAY HOME AND DON’T DO SHIT? THERE ARE A LOT OF THESE TYPES OUT HERE: DON’T DO NOTHING BUT WORK AND SPEND THEIR MONEY ON SHIT TO THROW THESE CHICKS OFF, THEN WHEN THEY GET EM, ITS A DONE DEAL.
AND ANOTHER THING:
LADIES BE VERY CAREFUL, BECAUSE THESE LAME ASS BIRD ASS NEGROES ARE STARTING TO GET WOMEN LIKE US PREGNANT SO THAT WE ARE STUCK WITH THEM FOR LIFE. BE VERY CAREFUL. When they see women who are about something, and don’t have any kids or have one kid and is still living well, they will wine and dine ur ass, then when they get in the panties..they will get ur ass pregnant.[/quote]
And girl, let me tell you..after I got pregnant, we got into an argument, he sends me a text saying that.. “I’m one deep, she will be the one with the son.” What kind of ish…. and I want him in my life..NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO. And he has the nerve to say that he wont work because he does not want to pay child support for his other children, and he can’t work because he wants to see if he can get General Assistance..what kind of ish is that.. you are a grown man capable of working, but yet you want to take advantage of the system, or at least he think he will, because he does not know that the system is designed to keep young mothers and fathers trapped.[/quote]
Hunny..I live by this phrase that I came up with by myself:
To Live Life is to be heartbroken and to experience every kind of pain there is to be felt
So with that said, you will be blessed in Jesus name..those who are trapped in the system are those who want to stay in the system. Trust me I kno of a lot of single mothers and fathers who were in the system..and decided to do right for themselves and their kids and they are living the good life because of their sacrifices and hard work. Don’t worry..just remember to stay steadfast in prayer.
OnNov 21, 2008 at 1:34 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301178"][quote comment="301156"][quote comment="301142"][quote comment="301113"][quote comment="301110"][quote comment="301091"][quote comment="301059"][quote comment="301046"][quote comment="301029"][quote comment="301023"]Get ya tubes tied![/quote]
Oooookay?!?!
Heeeey you!!!! Drink plently of tea w/lemon and gargle with salt and water! (what Momma always told me!)[/quote]
Hey mama! Imma do all of that and some later cuz I can’t do being sick!
Anyhoo, don’t mean to be harsh but it just upsets me sometimes that my sista’s get pregnant for BUMS! Like, didn’t you see that when you were laying w/ him? And now these kids are growing up w/o their fathers. It’s just sad. I’m 29 and my ex and I bumped into each other (while in JA) and he’s like, yuh nuh have no pickney yet? I’m like “No, when I find a man that puts me in a house for his future son/daughter then I’ll have plenty of babies.” He’s like “no no, you ain’t gonna have none then, you better hurry up cuz ya clock is ticking.” All I’m thinking is, this fool got 3 kids, by 3 different chicks. Granted he financially takes care of every last one of them and the mothers, but he’s out in the street, he ain’t spending time w/ them and I don’t want that. I want a man that gets pleasure from being a father and spending time w/ his kid(s). As women, we have to learn seperate a good f*ck from the bum that he is. If that means I won’t be having kids than so be it. Don’t mean to offend anyone, I know there’s a lot of mom’s on this blog. I just hate to see the outcome of bad choices that affect the kids that come from it.[/quote]
I know what you mean and sometimes you are just caught up in the moment.
Trust me that is no excuse.
With my 1st son, we were together for 4 years before I got preg and of course he wasn’t planned but I never expected for us to end.
Now with my 2nd son, I was in love and engaged months before I got preg.
But I know plenty of women that get pregnant by these losers.
Some don’t show their true colors until the woman is preg but we have to do better by wrapping it up and taking our birth control.[/quote]
Another thing and I’ll be finished my rant. A lot of people (not talking about any specifically) will say well you should’ve been married, etc. That isnt a guartanee than a man will be a good father, provider, etc. My best friend was married for seven years. The two children that she had with her husband were planned. She took care of him and home. She never suspected anything and found underwear in his car. She confronted him and the next morning he was gone. She couldnt find him. After a few months he popped back up. In total its been almost two years since he walked out and he still hasnt given her a dime for their children. Yes women need to make better choices, but parents need to raise BETTER MEN![/quote]
It’s a never ending cycle…men need to step up to the plate but how can they if they don’t know how…it seems like it goes on and on and on.[/quote]
And one thing women need to stop doing is using their children as pawns.
I can’t stand that.
They are hurting their child.
If they don’t get enough child support, they want to say that the father can never see the child.
I mean at least he is trying to be a father.
UGH!
That annoys me so much!
If I would have been that chick, my son would have never seen his father after age 2.[/quote]
Now that right there is soooo depressing. The family court…I dunno who in there right mind would love going through that bs!!!! Only time i went was when my dads father felt he needed to get at me and ask for custody of my son and took me to court where the judge laughed in his face and threw the case out….the judge in turn asked if i wanted to go through with child support or will we work it out amongst ourselves and I said yes we…..he does or he doesn’t is his damn business….I aint going through with no damn child support case and taking off every min to go to court….hell nah!!!![/quote]
Girl!!!
LOL![/quote]
Me either that is why I refused to put the first nig on there, and I’m not about to put this one on there..he already stated that he wont work because he don’t want to pay.. what sense would that make for me to turn around and put him on there and expect something…. all that court drama is a waste of time..[/quote]
My mom never had my dad pay b/c he didn’t have a job.
She was like what’s the point?
She did an amazing job taking care of me.
I didn’t want for anything.
That is why I am so spoiled now.
LOL!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 1:35 pm (Quote) | Reply |
ok, why some people keep saying that maneka looks like a man and say that serena is feminine! Come on now! Maneka is really feminine and beautiful!!! poor girl! Anyways, ain’t she tired of having kids???! 5 Kids!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 1:36 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301159"][quote comment="301153"][quote comment="301139"][quote comment="301137"][quote comment="301075"][quote comment="301000"][quote comment="300990"]Mz. Keyes@ i first was to praise you for your strenght and resolve for not cracking that head to the white meat…i will say that if he is trying to put fourth an effort. meet him in a publix place and set up a parenting plan. That way he will see you about the business of B A B Y D not vitamin D
♥
reading you post i went through all those emotions[/quote]
check old post :)[/quote]
okay..i requested you..[/quote]
i still haven’t gotten anything. i requested dat chick…hopefully u can find me through her page.
oh and DAT CHICK….lol, i requested u. :)[/quote]
I need to get my myspace up again.
I’ll do it after the baby arrives I guess.[/quote]
cool. let us know, u will be added
congrats on ur engagement–not sure if i am late as hell though.
mine is memorial weekend.[/quote]
LOL!
You aren’t late.
Remember I am new.
Congrats on yours![/quote]
oh, okey-dokey–it did slip my mind that u were newbie–my brain is fried on fri
thank ya ma’am
OnNov 21, 2008 at 1:39 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301181"][quote comment="301146"]Rainy & Jaurdyn, Glam and Yetta….awww YAY!!!!
Y’all make me smile when I’m at work. Cause Lord knows the presence of these folks that I’m in, make me want to do unholy things!!!![/quote]
aw, thanks. i love being included in things :)[/quote]
Me to!!!! *hehehehehehehehe*
OnNov 21, 2008 at 1:42 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301177"][quote comment="301128"]@ Love:
But I wonder, why IS that? I’m happy that old dude came around for you during the pregnancy, but why does it seem like men come out of the woodwork for the wife/girlfriend/baby mama when they are preggers with THEIR child?
Is it just me, or does it seem like there’s a lot of emphasis put on the CHILD and not so much on the mother of the child? My hubby’s dad wasn’t around (neither was mine) and he’s already beating his chest about his “unborn” child and what he’ll do for the child, and HIS child. I’m like, what about me? I’ll be the MOTHER of the child! My mom says it’s because men tend to place more emphasis on and give more attention to their BLOOD (mothers, children etc.) than the wife/girlfriend/baby-mama.[/quote]
No no….he didn’t come around then…..he was always around at that point….it’s after the baby came he started acting like a damn fool. Like his values in life decreased. And the funny thing is he swears his reasonings is right….like give a good paying job to sell….wtf???? and then say he wanna hurry up and provide the best for me and the baby….ummmm hello your ass was already doing that….did i ask you to switch up and go from good to bad….and who was living with you while you sell???? lost his damn mind!!!![/quote]
Oh okay, I FEEL you now! That is CRAZY! ANYTHING for the baby huh? Leaivng a good paying (honest) job and blaming it on the baby and the situation?!?! Nah, I think NOT! Man, dudes be trippin….it’s like their priorites are ALL out of wack, but they SWEAR they are doing the best that they can, or the RIGHT thing!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 1:43 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301146"]Rainy & Jaurdyn, Glam and Yetta….awww YAY!!!!
Y’all make me smile when I’m at work. Cause Lord knows the presence of these folks that I’m in, make me want to do unholy things!!!![/quote]
am I chopped liver ???
OnNov 21, 2008 at 1:48 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301263"][quote comment="301146"]Rainy & Jaurdyn, Glam and Yetta….awww YAY!!!!
Y’all make me smile when I’m at work. Cause Lord knows the presence of these folks that I’m in, make me want to do unholy things!!!![/quote]
am I chopped liver ???[/quote]
That’s what I’m saying!!!!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 1:49 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="301263"][quote comment="301146"]Rainy & Jaurdyn, Glam and Yetta….awww YAY!!!!
Y’all make me smile when I’m at work. Cause Lord knows the presence of these folks that I’m in, make me want to do unholy things!!!![/quote]
am I chopped liver ???[/quote]
of course not girl! You are filet mignon!!!!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 2:12 pm (Quote) | Reply |
WHOMPS REMY! You should have been thought of that…Look at Kim, Foxy, Michael Vic, Mystikal, Shyne, Da Brat, etc…CAREERS DONE! Of course Jail ain’t a nice place. You could have been the only female rapper out there doing something. You f*cked up! All these rappers talking about bling, money,etc and you incarcerate yourself over $3k? Didn’t even get one of your people to do it? DUMMY
OnNov 21, 2008 at 2:17 pm (Quote) | Reply |
Remy probably won’t get out and her dumb ass shouldn’t. If you shoot someone, you go to jail. It’s as simple as that!
Congrats on the baby (although they should’ve gave Cinco more time to be a baby his damn self before he had to be a big brother). Hope he’s born healthy and without complications.
OnNov 21, 2008 at 2:33 pm (Quote) | Reply |
I hope Rem gets out…best of luck to her
OnNov 21, 2008 at 3:27 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300814"]That’s a publicity stunt, they aren’t letting anyone else name the baby? Remy Ma…if they let her out, it’s only going to be more foolishness. We got other stuff going on…economy, Pres.-Elect Obama, The holidays shoot I gotta get my nails done later, and all of that is more important than getting your ignorant butt out of jail.[/quote]
Dead. “I gotta get my nails done later”. You are killing me. LMAO
OnNov 21, 2008 at 3:41 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300750"]Dang, Remy. 2014?? That’s more numbers than your album sales. May the force be with you…I just know Big Bertha is salivating in corner right about now.
__________
Oh and congrats to Ursh & Lady. My idea for a name (since they’re open for public suggestions) would be: Beard.[/quote]
LMAOOO!!!!!!!!!! the baby’s name is perfect, everytime i see them i think the same thing, she’s just a beard, we all know Usher likes EXTRA sugar in his tea
OnNov 21, 2008 at 5:22 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300740"]Remy
Congrats to Ushmeka. I didn’t know Stevie had a radio show[/quote]
Yes, he does he actually owns a radio station here in cali, he guest hosts the show every thursday.
OnNov 21, 2008 at 8:08 pm (Quote) | Reply |
I think I am the only one that feels this way but there is something that I love about Tameka and Usher. From the moment they got together along with all the drama of the on again off again wedding… The fact that he stood by this woman in the face of all the haters including his mother. I mean we all know at one time Usher could have gotten into any number of drawers but he chose hers. FOr that reason (and that cute little clone of his) I respect that brother. That means he is real just like brother from another mother Barack Obama. Because we all know that Barack is the number one man in the world, and he is genuinely attracted to his wife. He could’ve had anyone but he chose the right one. That’s how I feel about Usher. I got five on it that their relationship out lasts alot of these phony baloneys. Play yo position gurl!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 8:57 pm (Quote) | Reply |
so Tameka only pops out baby Boys…can dis chick eva had girl..dawm dats gonna be her 5 boyz…i mean REALLY!!
OnNov 21, 2008 at 9:21 pm (Quote) | Reply |
CONGRATS USHER AND TAMEKA. SOME PEOPLE DON’T LIKE HER, THEY DIDN’T HAVE A PROBLEM WITH CHILLI. I’VE HEARD RUMORS OF WELFARE FRAUD AND ALL KINDS OF STUFF. SHE DON’T HAFT TO WORRY ABOUT NO KIND OF WELFARE NOW THAT SHE’S MRS. RAYMOND HOLLA! SHE SORTA LOOKS LIKE CIARA AND THEY SOUND ALIKE WHEN THEY SPEAK.
OnNov 21, 2008 at 11:08 pm (Quote) | Reply |
I like these two as a couple (Tameka and Usher). They should name the new baby boy Deacon Raymond.
OnNov 22, 2008 at 12:25 pm (Quote) | Reply |
[quote comment="300972"][quote comment="300960"][quote comment="300946"]Hey mmschel, congrats on deciding to take the job! The Range Rover is coming soon, huh??! Girl GO’NE!
Get a BLACK one, for me!!!!! :lol:[/quote]
Hey Copwife! Hey Yetta. I had to step out for sec.
Girl, my plan was to save the difference. But last night My husband was like “you can buy a 06 and pay for it in six months, you’ll still have $$ left.” And he’s a for-real number cruncher. :shock:[/quote]
**see that team work lovessssssss it***that what god put together loves it**[/quote]
That is truly neat. Be blessed for ever more
OnNov 22, 2008 at 12:40 pm (Quote) | Reply |
Congrats to Usher and Tameka. Remy I hope you find inner peace….