Malia Ann Obama is about to be one of the newest residents of 1600 Pennsylvania. We all got to see her–as well as her little sis Sasha–grow up throughout her dad’s Presidential campaign. And because we love to check out cute YBF chicks in the making, here’s some pics:
She’s almost as tall aa her 6′1 dad and she’s only 10. Oh, and she shares her birthday with Independence Day.
More pics of Miss Malia when you read the rest…
Here’s even more pics of Malia, her mom and dad Barack and Michelle, and her little sister Sasha:
Cuteness. Check out YBF’s feature on Sasha Obama here if you missed it.
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:06 PM
Too Cute!!!!!!!!!!
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:07 PM
so cute
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:07 PM
LOVES IT!!! OUR FIRST FAMILY
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:07 PM
I wish Barack was my Daddy!
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:07 PM
Me and daddy havent been getting along since I got here!!
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:07 PM
First?!?! Seriously!!!
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:08 PM
Malia is going to be very tall and beautiful. :)
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:08 PM
You can tell Barack adores her!! I love it!!
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:08 PM
THE 7TH PICTURE IS BEAUTIFUL
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:08 PM
[quote comment="303995"]I wish Barack was my Daddy![/quote]
Yeah…My Baby Daddy!!!!!!!!!!!!
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:08 PM
Loves the Obama’s. Malia and Sasha are straight cuteness. Thanks for keeping us posted on the Presidential family. It makes my heart skip a beat. Simply wonderful.
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:08 PM
i love the way he goes to their eye level when talking to them..that makes me want to cry
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:08 PM
[quote comment="304001"]Malia is going to be very tall and beautiful. :)[/quote]
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:09 PM
[quote comment="303995"]I wish Barack was my Daddy![/quote]
:lol: Don’t we all…
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:09 PM
I am Me [jumping off plane in cold ass Chicago] I’m back! And look at that I come back to a Malia post. Happy Monday, she’s pre-teen fab!!
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:09 PM
She is such a cutie…a mini-Michelle.
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:10 PM
[quote comment="304008"][quote comment="304001"]Malia is going to be very tall and beautiful. :)[/quote][/quote]
A future model in the making for sure.
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:10 PM
[quote comment="304004"][quote comment="303995"]I wish Barack was my Daddy![/quote]
Yeah…My Baby Daddy!!!!!!!!!!!![/quote]
LMAO!!!!!
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:11 PM
[quote comment="303991"]Too Cute!!!!!!!!!![/quote]
I really like your ‘name’…it’s very true!!
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:11 PM
[quote comment="303996"]Me and daddy havent been getting along since I got here!![/quote]
Wassamatta sis?
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:11 PM
AWWWWWW! CANT GET TIRED OF THESE PPL–SO CUTE
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:11 PM
she should be a model..thank god 4 her daddy..cuz michelle don’t look 2 hot n the first pic…
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:12 PM
[quote comment="303997"]First?!?! Seriously!!![/quote]
damn damn damn
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:12 PM
They are a tall (and fab) family!
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:13 PM
[quote comment="304007"]i love the way he goes to their eye level when talking to them..that makes me want to cry[/quote]
Full attention, it’s never like “I can see you baby” you know how parents do when they’re watching but not looking. He gives them full attention because I’m sure he’s aware of how easily they can feel lost in the shuffle
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:13 PM
[quote comment="304018"][quote comment="303991"]Too Cute!!!!!!!!!![/quote]
I really like your ‘name’…it’s very true!![/quote]
Thanks!!! I heard that from my bro and it stuck….
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:13 PM
[quote comment="304022"]she should be a model..thank god 4 her daddy..cuz michelle don’t look 2 hot n the first pic…[/quote]
lmao!
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:14 PM
CUTENESS!!!
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:15 PM
So beautiful! Hes speaking right now on TV….
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:15 PM
That is so beautiful !!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:15 PM
A daddy’s girl…adorable! Looks just like her mom too. She’s one of only 3 people in the world that can have the President waiting on her hand and foot, and doing whatever she wants.
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:16 PM
[quote comment="304037"]That is so beautiful !!!!!!!!!!!!!![/quote]
OFF TOPIC: I cant wait for Thanksgiving either
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:16 PM
They are adorable.
Praise the Father for this new post!!
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:17 PM
How beautiful
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:17 PM
I hope they reconsider letting them appear on Hannah Montana. Miley Cyrus is just one push-up bra away from becoming Lindsay Lohan. *shutters*
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:17 PM
such a cute family.
it will be something to watch them grow
too cute!
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:17 PM
I love children that act like chidlren! They are beautiful!
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:17 PM
they are so blessed to have a daddy like that…barack has a big responsibility on his hands (running the country) and still makes time for family…he loves his family so much..i cant lie i have always wished he was my dad…
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:18 PM
[quote comment="304004"][quote comment="303995"]I wish Barack was my Daddy![/quote]
Yeah…My Baby Daddy!!!!!!!!!!!![/quote]
U a trip :P … I’m still lovin’ the Obama Family :)
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:18 PM
ADORABLE!!!!!
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:18 PM
dang i haven’t spoken to my father in a year :shock:
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:19 PM
Ok we need a postage stamp with afro puffs!!!!!!!!! Yeah!
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:20 PM
[quote comment="304046"]I hope they reconsider letting them appear on Hannah Montana. Miley Cyrus is just one push-up bra away from becoming Lindsay Lohan. *shutters*[/quote]
You ain’t never lied
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:20 PM
I should’ve stayed with naming London, Malia. Her dad said it sounded like a disease
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:20 PM
Um, this has nothing to do with the lovely first family pics. Why did someone just hand me a state-issued ID? They changed their name to Cleopatra Diamond. Who does that? **WHO?**
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:20 PM
[quote comment="304053"]dang i haven’t spoken to my father in a year :shock:[/quote]
Youre not the only one. I have a terrible relationship with my dad. I cant remember the last time I’ve seen or spoken to him.
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:20 PM
This makes me proud to be a daddy’s girl….I wuv my daddy!!!!
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:20 PM
[quote comment="304046"]I hope they reconsider letting them appear on Hannah Montana. Miley Cyrus is just one push-up bra away from becoming Lindsay Lohan. *shutters*[/quote]
Well the last I heard they had turned it down.
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:21 PM
Barack is 6′1???That’s a fine piece right there.
Malia and Sasha are adorable!I want to pinch the lil’ ones cheek!!!It was soo cute how she came out during the election night.Too cute.
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:21 PM
Doing my new post dance I say Hey Mom (michelle) Hey Dad (BO)!
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:21 PM
They are adorable…I pray to God that them lil clear children don’t try to mess her head up when she’s in D.C…
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:21 PM
Yall chicks couldn’t tell us it was a new post! :mad:
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:21 PM
[quote comment="304027"][quote comment="304007"]i love the way he goes to their eye level when talking to them..that makes me want to cry[/quote]
Full attention, it’s never like “I can see you baby” you know how parents do when they’re watching but not looking. He gives them full attention because I’m sure he’s aware of how easily they can feel lost in the shuffle[/quote]
*i know that’s why it went straight to my heart. He not repeating the cycle. he taking a strong stance with his girls*I love it!
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:21 PM
[quote comment="304056"]I should’ve stayed with naming London, Malia. Her dad said it sounded like a disease[/quote]
Lol. Malaria. ??? London is a nice name though.
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:22 PM
[quote comment="304059"]This makes me proud to be a daddy’s girl….I wuv my daddy!!!![/quote]
Me too! My dad gets on my nerves sometimes but I love him dearly and know without a doubt he loves me!
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:23 PM
[quote comment="304060"][quote comment="304046"]I hope they reconsider letting them appear on Hannah Montana. Miley Cyrus is just one push-up bra away from becoming Lindsay Lohan. *shutters*[/quote]
Well the last I heard they had turned it down.[/quote]
And I’m glad they did too.Miley don’t even look like she 15 or however she is.She dress like a 20+
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:23 PM
[quote comment="304064"]Yall chicks couldn’t tell us it was a new post! :mad:[/quote]
I did!
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:23 PM
they are some daddy’s girls…i know i am! lol they are too cute and I could see her being a model in the future.
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:23 PM
Ok ya’ll know I love Michelle. LOVE HER! * whispering, But don’t she look like Cee-lo cousin???
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:24 PM
[quote comment="304065"][quote comment="304027"][quote comment="304007"]i love the way he goes to their eye level when talking to them..that makes me want to cry[/quote]
Full attention, it’s never like “I can see you baby” you know how parents do when they’re watching but not looking. He gives them full attention because I’m sure he’s aware of how easily they can feel lost in the shuffle[/quote]
*i know that’s why it went straight to my heart. He not repeating the cycle. he taking a strong stance with his girls*I love it![/quote]
Me too, guys don’t understand that it’s harder for a girl to fall prey to a lousy nigga if her daddy is a stand up guy who knows how to be a man. Now you know she’ll never stand for a man who doesn’t shower her with attention because her daddy is teaching her that’s what she deserves.
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:24 PM
[quote comment="304066"][quote comment="304056"]I should’ve stayed with naming London, Malia. Her dad said it sounded like a disease[/quote]
Lol. Malaria. ??? London is a nice name though.[/quote]
That’s what I said. I was like that’s Malaria azz hole.
My nephew named her after that Disney show Suite life of Zack and Cody…
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:25 PM
[quote comment="304046"]I hope they reconsider letting them appear on Hannah Montana. Miley Cyrus is just one push-up bra away from becoming Lindsay Lohan. *shutters*[/quote]
Right!?!? Trust with grandmama in the White House..she aint letting them chilren out of her sight.. She will take the belt out on they asses if they try that clear mess with her (and yall know what i’m talkin about..tellin their mamas and daddies to shut up and that they wisht that they were dead and all kinds of mess)..
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:25 PM
Wow kids grow up so fast. Why is BO wearing flip-flops? I still love him though.
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:26 PM
[quote comment="304067"][quote comment="304059"]This makes me proud to be a daddy’s girl….I wuv my daddy!!!![/quote]
Me too! My dad gets on my nerves sometimes but I love him dearly and know without a doubt he loves me![/quote]
Same here. It is a Blessing to have my dad in my life. I really look up to him. He is a very strong black man.
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:27 PM
[quote comment="304068"][quote comment="304060"][quote comment="304046"]I hope they reconsider letting them appear on Hannah Montana. Miley Cyrus is just one push-up bra away from becoming Lindsay Lohan. *shutters*[/quote]
Well the last I heard they had turned it down.[/quote]
And I’m glad they did too.Miley don’t even look like she 15 or however she is.She dress like a 20+[/quote]
That little hoe. Pardon me, but I can’t stand that child. First that hoe Dora the Explorer, and now this?! I swear, clear people will go nutso for just about anything. I’m outraged that my niece has a Hannah Monatana wig!! :mad:
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:28 PM
[quote comment="304072"][quote comment="304065"][quote comment="304027"][quote comment="304007"]i love the way he goes to their eye level when talking to them..that makes me want to cry[/quote]
Full attention, it’s never like “I can see you baby” you know how parents do when they’re watching but not looking. He gives them full attention because I’m sure he’s aware of how easily they can feel lost in the shuffle[/quote]
*i know that’s why it went straight to my heart. He not repeating the cycle. he taking a strong stance with his girls*I love it![/quote]
Me too, guys don’t understand that it’s harder for a girl to fall prey to a lousy nigga if her daddy is a stand up guy who knows how to be a man. Now you know she’ll never stand for a man who doesn’t shower her with attention because her daddy is teaching her that’s what she deserves.[/quote]
That is so true!!!!!
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:28 PM
[quote comment="304058"][quote comment="304053"]dang i haven’t spoken to my father in a year :shock:[/quote]
Youre not the only one. I have a terrible relationship with my dad. I cant remember the last time I’ve seen or spoken to him.[/quote]
**he always has always taking care of me financially. i glad i got to live half my life in other countries. it made me more open.. but emotionally…he remarried some women after 26 years with my mother. i think the last time i saw him was four years ago at my wedding that he just popped up at :shock:
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:28 PM
I went to the re-opening of the American History Musuem (Smithsonian) and as the 44th president they have Barack 2009 – ? in the presidential wing. I almost cried.
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:28 PM
[quote comment="304076"][quote comment="304067"][quote comment="304059"]This makes me proud to be a daddy’s girl….I wuv my daddy!!!![/quote]
Me too! My dad gets on my nerves sometimes but I love him dearly and know without a doubt he loves me![/quote]
Same here. It is a Blessing to have my dad in my life. I really look up to him. He is a very strong black man.[/quote]
I was blessed to have a step-daddy come into my life and pick up the slack, I am thankful for him everyday and he is always there for me. As a matter of fact he’s coming to my job to look at my car this afternoon :-)
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:28 PM
[quote comment="304074"][quote comment="304046"]I hope they reconsider letting them appear on Hannah Montana. Miley Cyrus is just one push-up bra away from becoming Lindsay Lohan. *shutters*[/quote]
Right!?!? Trust with grandmama in the White House..she aint letting them chilren out of her sight.. She will take the belt out on they asses if they try that clear mess with her (and yall know what i’m talkin about..tellin their mamas and daddies to shut up and that they wisht that they were dead and all kinds of mess)..[/quote]
You know her momma old school. “Go outside and find me a switch!”
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:29 PM
[quote comment="304075"]Wow kids grow up so fast. Why is BO wearing flip-flops? I still love him though.[/quote]
That’s the other side Pinkflame, lmao :lol:
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:29 PM
[quote comment="304077"][quote comment="304068"][quote comment="304060"][quote comment="304046"]I hope they reconsider letting them appear on Hannah Montana. Miley Cyrus is just one push-up bra away from becoming Lindsay Lohan. *shutters*[/quote]
Well the last I heard they had turned it down.[/quote]
And I’m glad they did too.Miley don’t even look like she 15 or however she is.She dress like a 20+[/quote]
That little hoe. Pardon me, but I can’t stand that child. First that hoe Dora the Explorer, and now this?! I swear, clear people will go nutso for just about anything. I’m outraged that my niece has a Hannah Monatana wig!! :mad:[/quote]
:shock: Not Dora???? What did senorita Dora do?
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:31 PM
wow she’s tall. i wonder how tall michelle is? malia and her sis sasha are both beautiful girls. man i still cant get over the new first family. it just brings me joy to see such black love.
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:31 PM
[quote comment="304077"][quote comment="304068"][quote comment="304060"][quote comment="304046"]I hope they reconsider letting them appear on Hannah Montana. Miley Cyrus is just one push-up bra away from becoming Lindsay Lohan. *shutters*[/quote]
Well the last I heard they had turned it down.[/quote]
And I’m glad they did too.Miley don’t even look like she 15 or however she is.She dress like a 20+[/quote]
That little hoe. Pardon me, but I can’t stand that child. First that hoe Dora the Explorer, and now this?! I swear, clear people will go nutso for just about anything. I’m outraged that my niece has a Hannah Monatana wig!! :mad:[/quote]
:shock: *whispers* They got Hannah Montanna wigs? What????That lil snatch is milking this image..
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:32 PM
[quote comment="304007"]i love the way he goes to their eye level when talking to them..that makes me want to cry[/quote]
I never noticed that, but now I love it too. I like how he never interupts Michelle even when she cuts him off sometimes.
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:32 PM
[quote comment="304020"][quote comment="303996"]Me and daddy havent been getting along since I got here!![/quote]
Wassamatta sis?[/quote]
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Ladies….
As I’ve told ya’ll that O love my daddy, he’s the one that has put me through school and al of that…but his house has never been MY house…I moved to his house when I graduated from high school….and then tha August, I went straight to college…and have only been here on breaks and whatnot….
My step has always had this thing about me coming over their house and cleaning up…like on the weekends when I was little and come over here there was always a sink full of dishes waiting on me or cleaning the bathroom, dusting, mopping something… So eventually you tired of coming to somebody else’s house to clean up…and they pretty much make you feel ungrateful if dont want to do it. That’s pretty much been going on since I was 6….
Well I got here on Friday morning….didnt rreally get settled because my cousin got married Friday night…Why did my stpe moother come upstaris Saturday morning at 9:28 talking about get up and clean up….I’m like I dont even live..at. all. She wanted me to basically help her do a spring cleaning, but she didnt even bother my sisters at all.
My thing IS…I didnt come 1500 hundred miles to clean somebody else’s crib…I have my own house to clean in Chicago..why would I want to come here and clean….plus my daddy dont me to go anywhere…He wants me to stay at home, but I have like my whole mother side to see, plus a flock of cousins that I grew up with that I want to kick it with…He dont realize that I’m 27 years old and not a child anymore….We exchange some heavy words…I dont think our relationship will be the same.
My boyfriend is coming on Wednesday…I dont know how he is going to react to that….
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:32 PM
[quote comment="304079"][quote comment="304058"][quote comment="304053"]dang i haven’t spoken to my father in a year :shock:[/quote]
Youre not the only one. I have a terrible relationship with my dad. I cant remember the last time I’ve seen or spoken to him.[/quote]
**he always has always taking care of me financially. i glad i got to live half my life in other countries. it made me more open.. but emotionally…he remarried some women after 26 years with my mother. i think the last time i saw him was four years ago at my wedding that he just popped up at :shock:[/quote]
Well at least you got a lil $$$ (even though it taks more than that to raise a kid.) But my dad is an ass. When I was 18 he told me he was glad that I was grown so that he didnt have to pay child support for me anymore :shock:
That is the most hurtful thing I can ever remember him, hell anyone, saying to me.
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:32 PM
[quote comment="304081"][quote comment="304076"][quote comment="304067"][quote comment="304059"]This makes me proud to be a daddy’s girl….I wuv my daddy!!!![/quote]
Me too! My dad gets on my nerves sometimes but I love him dearly and know without a doubt he loves me![/quote]
Same here. It is a Blessing to have my dad in my life. I really look up to him. He is a very strong black man.[/quote]
I was blessed to have a step-daddy come into my life and pick up the slack, I am thankful for him everyday and he is always there for me. As a matter of fact he’s coming to my job to look at my car this afternoon :-)[/quote]
You guys are blessed to have that person in your life … i grew up not knowing my dad and i don’t even know if he’s even still alive … i actually want to find him
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:32 PM
[quote comment="304085"][quote comment="304077"][quote comment="304068"][quote comment="304060"][quote comment="304046"]I hope they reconsider letting them appear on Hannah Montana. Miley Cyrus is just one push-up bra away from becoming Lindsay Lohan. *shutters*[/quote]
Well the last I heard they had turned it down.[/quote]
And I’m glad they did too.Miley don’t even look like she 15 or however she is.She dress like a 20+[/quote]
That little hoe. Pardon me, but I can’t stand that child. First that hoe Dora the Explorer, and now this?! I swear, clear people will go nutso for just about anything. I’m outraged that my niece has a Hannah Monatana wig!! :mad:[/quote]
:shock: Not Dora???? What did senorita Dora do?[/quote]
LOL, she is annoying as hell, but LMAO @ her being a lil hoe
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:33 PM
[quote comment="304057"]Um, this has nothing to do with the lovely first family pics. Why did someone just hand me a state-issued ID? They changed their name to Cleopatra Diamond. Who does that? **WHO?**[/quote]
Someone who takes her job as a stripper really seriously. EEEK!
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:33 PM
[quote comment="304078"][quote comment="304072"][quote comment="304065"][quote comment="304027"][quote comment="304007"]i love the way he goes to their eye level when talking to them..that makes me want to cry[/quote]
Full attention, it’s never like “I can see you baby” you know how parents do when they’re watching but not looking. He gives them full attention because I’m sure he’s aware of how easily they can feel lost in the shuffle[/quote]
*i know that’s why it went straight to my heart. He not repeating the cycle. he taking a strong stance with his girls*I love it![/quote]
Me too, guys don’t understand that it’s harder for a girl to fall prey to a lousy nigga if her daddy is a stand up guy who knows how to be a man. Now you know she’ll never stand for a man who doesn’t shower her with attention because her daddy is teaching her that’s what she deserves.[/quote]
That is so true!!!!![/quote]
aint that the truth!!!! I was spoiled hard by my dad….a dude got some big shoes to fill!!!!
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:34 PM
[quote comment="304023"][quote comment="303997"]First?!?! Seriously!!![/quote]
damn damn damn[/quote]
Sowwy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:35 PM
[quote comment="304058"][quote comment="304053"]dang i haven’t spoken to my father in a year :shock:[/quote]
Youre not the only one. I have a terrible relationship with my dad. I cant remember the last time I’ve seen or spoken to him.[/quote]
The last time I spoke to my dad was in I think 2003. Even though I’m up here in Nashville, he lives about 15 minutes from my Mom. The last time I talked to him he was asking me was I married, do I have kids, where do I live, what am I doing now…I was glad to talk with him, but it was pissing me off that this man was asking me questions that he should know the answer too. I am not upset with him or anything but I think it is sad that I haven’t seen or heard from him since 2003 and my brother transferred from Fisk to UTC and he doesn’t even know he’s in college. That is ridiculous. I praise God that Barack is in their lives and that he puts family first. If men really knew how detrimental it was for them to be in their children’s lives…they would do all they could to play the role they should play in a child’s life.
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:35 PM
[quote comment="304093"][quote comment="304057"]Um, this has nothing to do with the lovely first family pics. Why did someone just hand me a state-issued ID? They changed their name to Cleopatra Diamond. Who does that? **WHO?**[/quote]
Someone who takes her job as a stripper really seriously. EEEK![/quote]
It was a dude. Ahem maybe I should have said that first but I was in shock.
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:36 PM
[quote comment="304081"][quote comment="304076"][quote comment="304067"][quote comment="304059"]This makes me proud to be a daddy’s girl….I wuv my daddy!!!![/quote]
Me too! My dad gets on my nerves sometimes but I love him dearly and know without a doubt he loves me![/quote]
Same here. It is a Blessing to have my dad in my life. I really look up to him. He is a very strong black man.[/quote]
I was blessed to have a step-daddy come into my life and pick up the slack, I am thankful for him everyday and he is always there for me. As a matter of fact he’s coming to my job to look at my car this afternoon :-)[/quote]
That’s what’s up….I spent the whole day with mine yesterday..and he took care o me the whole time I had the flu.
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:37 PM
[quote comment="304087"][quote comment="304077"][quote comment="304068"][quote comment="304060"][quote comment="304046"]I hope they reconsider letting them appear on Hannah Montana. Miley Cyrus is just one push-up bra away from becoming Lindsay Lohan. *shutters*[/quote]
Well the last I heard they had turned it down.[/quote]
And I’m glad they did too.Miley don’t even look like she 15 or however she is.She dress like a 20+[/quote]
That little hoe. Pardon me, but I can’t stand that child. First that hoe Dora the Explorer, and now this?! I swear, clear people will go nutso for just about anything. I’m outraged that my niece has a Hannah Monatana wig!! :mad:[/quote]
:shock: *whispers* They got Hannah Montanna wigs? What????That lil snatch is milking this image..[/quote]
Yes! Girl, my niece has the thing. This old butter colored, raggedy ass wigglette that they sell at none other than Walmart. :shock: She wears the thing on a regular basis, and runs around the house talking about “I’m a rockstar” “hannah Montana”!!! I rebuke it…I rebuke it all! <<<
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:37 PM
[quote comment="304097"][quote comment="304093"][quote comment="304057"]Um, this has nothing to do with the lovely first family pics. Why did someone just hand me a state-issued ID? They changed their name to Cleopatra Diamond. Who does that? **WHO?**[/quote]
Someone who takes her job as a stripper really seriously. EEEK![/quote]
It was a dude. Ahem maybe I should have said that first but I was in shock.[/quote]
:lol: I can’t
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:38 PM
[quote comment="304095"][quote comment="304023"][quote comment="303997"]First?!?! Seriously!!![/quote]
damn damn damn[/quote]
Sowwy!!!!!!!!!!!!!![/quote]
*that’s okay lil bun in the oven gives you a pass*
:razz:
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:38 PM
[quote comment="304085"][quote comment="304077"][quote comment="304068"][quote comment="304060"][quote comment="304046"]I hope they reconsider letting them appear on Hannah Montana. Miley Cyrus is just one push-up bra away from becoming Lindsay Lohan. *shutters*[/quote]
Well the last I heard they had turned it down.[/quote]
And I’m glad they did too.Miley don’t even look like she 15 or however she is.She dress like a 20+[/quote]
That little hoe. Pardon me, but I can’t stand that child. First that hoe Dora the Explorer, and now this?! I swear, clear people will go nutso for just about anything. I’m outraged that my niece has a Hannah Monatana wig!! :mad:[/quote]
:shock: Not Dora???? What did senorita Dora do?[/quote]
MILEY CANNOT SING WORTH A DAMN. Im glad I dvr’d the awards so i wouldnt have to hear her sing.
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:38 PM
[quote comment="304091"][quote comment="304081"][quote comment="304076"][quote comment="304067"][quote comment="304059"]This makes me proud to be a daddy’s girl….I wuv my daddy!!!![/quote]
Me too! My dad gets on my nerves sometimes but I love him dearly and know without a doubt he loves me![/quote]
Same here. It is a Blessing to have my dad in my life. I really look up to him. He is a very strong black man.[/quote]
I was blessed to have a step-daddy come into my life and pick up the slack, I am thankful for him everyday and he is always there for me. As a matter of fact he’s coming to my job to look at my car this afternoon :-)[/quote]
You guys are blessed to have that person in your life … i grew up not knowing my dad and i don’t even know if he’s even still alive … i actually want to find him[/quote]
:( I hope you find him.It’s good that you want to find him.It’s a lot of courage to do.I have a cousin that I haven’t seen at all because my uncle fell to drugs and they moved. I reached out to them and I hope to meet them soon.
My dad, I love him, but he’s always showed the tough love and I guess that’s from being in the military.I want to feel like I’m his daughter and not some soilder.I can’t complain though, he helped payed for my college and putting my brothers and sisters through it too. He didn’t even want me to date til I was like 21 and he was sooo serious about it.I’m 50/50 with my dad.I can’t tell him what I want to tell him because he sooo quick to judge.It’s his way or no way.
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:38 PM
[quote comment="304050"][quote comment="304004"][quote comment="303995"]I wish Barack was my Daddy![/quote]
Yeah…My Baby Daddy!!!!!!!!!!!![/quote]
U a trip :P … I’m still lovin’ the Obama Family :)[/quote]
Girl, you can’t have nasty thoughts about your daddy, so that is the next best thing!!! :wink:
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:39 PM
[quote comment="304089"][quote comment="304020"][quote comment="303996"]Me and daddy havent been getting along since I got here!![/quote]
Wassamatta sis?[/quote]
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Ladies….
As I’ve told ya’ll that O love my daddy, he’s the one that has put me through school and al of that…but his house has never been MY house…I moved to his house when I graduated from high school….and then tha August, I went straight to college…and have only been here on breaks and whatnot….
My step has always had this thing about me coming over their house and cleaning up…like on the weekends when I was little and come over here there was always a sink full of dishes waiting on me or cleaning the bathroom, dusting, mopping something… So eventually you tired of coming to somebody else’s house to clean up…and they pretty much make you feel ungrateful if dont want to do it. That’s pretty much been going on since I was 6….
Well I got here on Friday morning….didnt rreally get settled because my cousin got married Friday night…Why did my stpe moother come upstaris Saturday morning at 9:28 talking about get up and clean up….I’m like I dont even live..at. all. She wanted me to basically help her do a spring cleaning, but she didnt even bother my sisters at all.
My thing IS…I didnt come 1500 hundred miles to clean somebody else’s crib…I have my own house to clean in Chicago..why would I want to come here and clean….plus my daddy dont me to go anywhere…He wants me to stay at home, but I have like my whole mother side to see, plus a flock of cousins that I grew up with that I want to kick it with…He dont realize that I’m 27 years old and not a child anymore….We exchange some heavy words…I dont think our relationship will be the same.
My boyfriend is coming on Wednesday…I dont know how he is going to react to that….[/quote]
You are a grown woman and sometimes you have to remind your parents of that. It only hurts them because it takes time for them to realize that their baby is now an adult just like them.
My father is the same way. He’s real strong headed and old-school in his thoughts about the parent-child relationship (he’s African and they have real strong guidelines about that). So we bump heads a lot. A whole lot, to the point where I don’t speak to his ass because its disrespectful. I look at Obama and how he treats his daughters and i’m like why can’t I have that? Damn what did I do? But you know what though? There’s going to come a point where it will hit him (if it hasn’t already) that he raised a responsible independent woman who’s not afraid to do what she wants…But now its like walking on ice with him, and its okay because I know he loves me..he just has a fucked up way of showing it.
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:39 PM
[quote comment="304099"][quote comment="304087"][quote comment="304077"][quote comment="304068"][quote comment="304060"][quote comment="304046"]I hope they reconsider letting them appear on Hannah Montana. Miley Cyrus is just one push-up bra away from becoming Lindsay Lohan. *shutters*[/quote]
Well the last I heard they had turned it down.[/quote]
And I’m glad they did too.Miley don’t even look like she 15 or however she is.She dress like a 20+[/quote]
That little hoe. Pardon me, but I can’t stand that child. First that hoe Dora the Explorer, and now this?! I swear, clear people will go nutso for just about anything. I’m outraged that my niece has a Hannah Monatana wig!! :mad:[/quote]
:shock: *whispers* They got Hannah Montanna wigs? What????That lil snatch is milking this image..[/quote]
Yes! Girl, my niece has the thing. This old butter colored, raggedy ass wigglette that they sell at none other than Walmart. :shock: She wears the thing on a regular basis, and runs around the house talking about “I’m a rockstar” “hannah Montana”!!! I rebuke it…I rebuke it all! <<<[/quote]
LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!! I AM DEAD! I seen that wig at Target on the clearance section along with these HM chairs and room decorations!!
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:39 PM
[quote comment="304097"][quote comment="304093"][quote comment="304057"]Um, this has nothing to do with the lovely first family pics. Why did someone just hand me a state-issued ID? They changed their name to Cleopatra Diamond. Who does that? **WHO?**[/quote]
Someone who takes her job as a stripper really seriously. EEEK![/quote]
It was a dude. Ahem maybe I should have said that first but I was in shock.[/quote]
How do you keep a straight face at your job?
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:39 PM
[quote comment="304101"][quote comment="304095"][quote comment="304023"][quote comment="303997"]First?!?! Seriously!!![/quote]
damn damn damn[/quote]
Sowwy!!!!!!!!!!!!!![/quote]
*that’s okay lil bun in the oven gives you a pass*
:razz:[/quote]
Tanks!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :P
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:40 PM
[quote comment="304092"][quote comment="304085"][quote comment="304077"][quote comment="304068"][quote comment="304060"][quote comment="304046"]I hope they reconsider letting them appear on Hannah Montana. Miley Cyrus is just one push-up bra away from becoming Lindsay Lohan. *shutters*[/quote]
Well the last I heard they had turned it down.[/quote]
And I’m glad they did too.Miley don’t even look like she 15 or however she is.She dress like a 20+[/quote]
That little hoe. Pardon me, but I can’t stand that child. First that hoe Dora the Explorer, and now this?! I swear, clear people will go nutso for just about anything. I’m outraged that my niece has a Hannah Monatana wig!! :mad:[/quote]
:shock: Not Dora???? What did senorita Dora do?[/quote]
LOL, she is annoying as hell, but LMAO @ her being a lil hoe[/quote]
You know her and Boots were getting it in. And Swiper was doing something “extra” too. “♫You can lead the way♫”….yeah O.K.
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:41 PM
[quote comment="304097"][quote comment="304093"][quote comment="304057"]Um, this has nothing to do with the lovely first family pics. Why did someone just hand me a state-issued ID? They changed their name to Cleopatra Diamond. Who does that? **WHO?**[/quote]
Someone who takes her job as a stripper really seriously. EEEK![/quote]
It was a dude. Ahem maybe I should have said that first but I was in shock.[/quote]
Huh? :shock:
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:41 PM
[quote comment="304099"][quote comment="304087"][quote comment="304077"][quote comment="304068"][quote comment="304060"][quote comment="304046"]I hope they reconsider letting them appear on Hannah Montana. Miley Cyrus is just one push-up bra away from becoming Lindsay Lohan. *shutters*[/quote]
Well the last I heard they had turned it down.[/quote]
And I’m glad they did too.Miley don’t even look like she 15 or however she is.She dress like a 20+[/quote]
That little hoe. Pardon me, but I can’t stand that child. First that hoe Dora the Explorer, and now this?! I swear, clear people will go nutso for just about anything. I’m outraged that my niece has a Hannah Monatana wig!! :mad:[/quote]
:shock: *whispers* They got Hannah Montanna wigs? What????That lil snatch is milking this image..[/quote]
Yes! Girl, my niece has the thing. This old butter colored, raggedy ass wigglette that they sell at none other than Walmart. :shock: She wears the thing on a regular basis, and runs around the house talking about “I’m a rockstar” “hannah Montana”!!! I rebuke it…I rebuke it all! <<<[/quote]
I’m CTFU over here!Looooooooooord!!!!!Wigs, nooooooooo.I’m glad my nieces don’t like that lil fire crotch jr.
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:42 PM
[quote comment="304090"][quote comment="304079"][quote comment="304058"][quote comment="304053"]dang i haven’t spoken to my father in a year :shock:[/quote]
Youre not the only one. I have a terrible relationship with my dad. I cant remember the last time I’ve seen or spoken to him.[/quote]
**he always has always taking care of me financially. i glad i got to live half my life in other countries. it made me more open.. but emotionally…he remarried some women after 26 years with my mother. i think the last time i saw him was four years ago at my wedding that he just popped up at :shock:[/quote]
Well at least you got a lil $$$ (even though it taks more than that to raise a kid.) But my dad is an ass. When I was 18 he told me he was glad that I was grown so that he didnt have to pay child support for me anymore :shock:
That is the most hurtful thing I can ever remember him, hell anyone, saying to me.[/quote]
I’m sorry to hear that. But if thats the kinda person he is then you were better off not having him in your life. Someone that negative and who would say something that hurtful to his own blood isnt worth anything anyway!
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:43 PM
[quote comment="304099"][quote comment="304087"][quote comment="304077"][quote comment="304068"][quote comment="304060"][quote comment="304046"]I hope they reconsider letting them appear on Hannah Montana. Miley Cyrus is just one push-up bra away from becoming Lindsay Lohan. *shutters*[/quote]
Well the last I heard they had turned it down.[/quote]
And I’m glad they did too.Miley don’t even look like she 15 or however she is.She dress like a 20+[/quote]
That little hoe. Pardon me, but I can’t stand that child. First that hoe Dora the Explorer, and now this?! I swear, clear people will go nutso for just about anything. I’m outraged that my niece has a Hannah Monatana wig!! :mad:[/quote]
:shock: *whispers* They got Hannah Montanna wigs? What????That lil snatch is milking this image..[/quote]
Yes! Girl, my niece has the thing. This old butter colored, raggedy ass wigglette that they sell at none other than Walmart. :shock: She wears the thing on a regular basis, and runs around the house talking about “I’m a rockstar” “hannah Montana”!!! I rebuke it…I rebuke it all! <<<[/quote]
Lol! In the name of Jesus!
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:43 PM
[quote comment="304106"][quote comment="304099"][quote comment="304087"][quote comment="304077"][quote comment="304068"][quote comment="304060"][quote comment="304046"]I hope they reconsider letting them appear on Hannah Montana. Miley Cyrus is just one push-up bra away from becoming Lindsay Lohan. *shutters*[/quote]
Well the last I heard they had turned it down.[/quote]
And I’m glad they did too.Miley don’t even look like she 15 or however she is.She dress like a 20+[/quote]
That little hoe. Pardon me, but I can’t stand that child. First that hoe Dora the Explorer, and now this?! I swear, clear people will go nutso for just about anything. I’m outraged that my niece has a Hannah Monatana wig!! :mad:[/quote]
:shock: *whispers* They got Hannah Montanna wigs? What????That lil snatch is milking this image..[/quote]
Yes! Girl, my niece has the thing. This old butter colored, raggedy ass wigglette that they sell at none other than Walmart. :shock: She wears the thing on a regular basis, and runs around the house talking about “I’m a rockstar” “hannah Montana”!!! I rebuke it…I rebuke it all! <<<[/quote]
LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!! I AM DEAD! I seen that wig at Target on the clearance section along with these HM chairs and room decorations!![/quote]
NoOOOO!!! I can’t stand High School Musical!! And…yet again, my niece has a bomber jacket with ‘Wildcats” plastered all over it. Its cute though. So I’ll let her slide with that one. But seriously…Disney needs to stop. Like right now.
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:43 PM
Ok, I’m out. & I’m sorry for what I said. Michelle doesn’t really look like Cee-lo cousin. Not really. Maybe..maybe not. I still Love HER!
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:44 PM
I wannna ruuuunnnnn (ruuuuuunnn)…and smash into youuuuuuuuuuu….sorry everyone but this album has been on repeat for the past 3 days…
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:46 PM
[quote comment="304091"][quote comment="304081"][quote comment="304076"][quote comment="304067"][quote comment="304059"]This makes me proud to be a daddy’s girl….I wuv my daddy!!!![/quote]
Me too! My dad gets on my nerves sometimes but I love him dearly and know without a doubt he loves me![/quote]
Same here. It is a Blessing to have my dad in my life. I really look up to him. He is a very strong black man.[/quote]
I was blessed to have a step-daddy come into my life and pick up the slack, I am thankful for him everyday and he is always there for me. As a matter of fact he’s coming to my job to look at my car this afternoon :-)[/quote]
You guys are blessed to have that person in your life … i grew up not knowing my dad and i don’t even know if he’s even still alive … i actually want to find him[/quote]
i think its a good idea to try to find him. U never know what can happen
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:46 PM
[quote comment="304110"][quote comment="304097"][quote comment="304093"][quote comment="304057"]Um, this has nothing to do with the lovely first family pics. Why did someone just hand me a state-issued ID? They changed their name to Cleopatra Diamond. Who does that? **WHO?**[/quote]
Someone who takes her job as a stripper really seriously. EEEK![/quote]
It was a dude. Ahem maybe I should have said that first but I was in shock.[/quote]
Huh? :shock:[/quote]
Yeah. Dumbfounded. And I can’t really make any comments at my job. I’m supposed to see and don’t see. But that one, I just had to vent. And if I didn’t have YBF, I’d be e-mailing/texting my mama cause that is CRAZY.
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:47 PM
[quote comment="304115"]Ok, I’m out. & I’m sorry for what I said. Michelle doesn’t really look like Cee-lo cousin. Not really. Maybe..maybe not. I still Love HER![/quote]
No.You.Didn’t. ________________________
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:48 PM
[quote comment="304115"]Ok, I’m out. & I’m sorry for what I said. Michelle doesn’t really look like Cee-lo cousin. Not really. Maybe..maybe not. I still Love HER![/quote]
Lol @ cee-lo, I never seen cee-lo with his glasses off
Take care chel!
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:48 PM
[quote comment="304097"][quote comment="304093"][quote comment="304057"]Um, this has nothing to do with the lovely first family pics. Why did someone just hand me a state-issued ID? They changed their name to Cleopatra Diamond. Who does that? **WHO?**[/quote]
Someone who takes her job as a stripper really seriously. EEEK![/quote]
It was a dude. Ahem maybe I should have said that first but I was in shock.[/quote]
:lol: I can’t [quote comment="304117"][quote comment="304091"][quote comment="304081"][quote comment="304076"][quote comment="304067"][quote comment="304059"]This makes me proud to be a daddy’s girl….I wuv my daddy!!!![/quote]
Me too! My dad gets on my nerves sometimes but I love him dearly and know without a doubt he loves me![/quote]
Same here. It is a Blessing to have my dad in my life. I really look up to him. He is a very strong black man.[/quote]
I was blessed to have a step-daddy come into my life and pick up the slack, I am thankful for him everyday and he is always there for me. As a matter of fact he’s coming to my job to look at my car this afternoon :-)[/quote]
You guys are blessed to have that person in your life … i grew up not knowing my dad and i don’t even know if he’s even still alive … i actually want to find him[/quote]
i think its a good idea to try to find him. U never know what can happen[/quote]
Yeah I’m all for that, I just started to track down names and dates to do my family history search. If nothing else it makes you feel solid like you come from somewhere.
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:49 PM
[quote comment="304116"]I wannna ruuuunnnnn (ruuuuuunnn)…and smash into youuuuuuuuuuu….sorry everyone but this album has been on repeat for the past 3 days…[/quote]
I can’t stop listening to Video Phone. :shock:
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:50 PM
[quote comment="304105"][quote comment="304089"][quote comment="304020"][quote comment="303996"]Me and daddy havent been getting along since I got here!![/quote]
Wassamatta sis?[/quote]
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Ladies….
As I’ve told ya’ll that O love my daddy, he’s the one that has put me through school and al of that…but his house has never been MY house…I moved to his house when I graduated from high school….and then tha August, I went straight to college…and have only been here on breaks and whatnot….
My step has always had this thing about me coming over their house and cleaning up…like on the weekends when I was little and come over here there was always a sink full of dishes waiting on me or cleaning the bathroom, dusting, mopping something… So eventually you tired of coming to somebody else’s house to clean up…and they pretty much make you feel ungrateful if dont want to do it. That’s pretty much been going on since I was 6….
Well I got here on Friday morning….didnt rreally get settled because my cousin got married Friday night…Why did my stpe moother come upstaris Saturday morning at 9:28 talking about get up and clean up….I’m like I dont even live..at. all. She wanted me to basically help her do a spring cleaning, but she didnt even bother my sisters at all.
My thing IS…I didnt come 1500 hundred miles to clean somebody else’s crib…I have my own house to clean in Chicago..why would I want to come here and clean….plus my daddy dont me to go anywhere…He wants me to stay at home, but I have like my whole mother side to see, plus a flock of cousins that I grew up with that I want to kick it with…He dont realize that I’m 27 years old and not a child anymore….We exchange some heavy words…I dont think our relationship will be the same.
My boyfriend is coming on Wednesday…I dont know how he is going to react to that….[/quote]
You are a grown woman and sometimes you have to remind your parents of that. It only hurts them because it takes time for them to realize that their baby is now an adult just like them.
My father is the same way. He’s real strong headed and old-school in his thoughts about the parent-child relationship (he’s African and they have real strong guidelines about that). So we bump heads a lot. A whole lot, to the point where I don’t speak to his ass because its disrespectful. I look at Obama and how he treats his daughters and i’m like why can’t I have that? Damn what did I do? But you know what though? There’s going to come a point where it will hit him (if it hasn’t already) that he raised a responsible independent woman who’s not afraid to do what she wants…But now its like walking on ice with him, and its okay because I know he loves me..he just has a fucked up way of showing it.[/quote]
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Foley,
I even tried to talk to my daddy…this nigga said he wasnt even trying to understand where I’m coming from…and that he’s not going to go back and forth with me….so what am I suppose to do….Now we walking around not even speaking…
I heard him tell my stepmom to not ask me to do anything cause I was a lazy fat cow…How do you think that made me feel? I feel like my dad has this expectations of what he wants me to be…and to him I’m not….He wants me to be a homeowner, a wife, a mom…and be a size 6 (even though my stepmom is not)
So I confronted him about what he said…I said so if my boyfriend called me that you’d be ready to fight him and if you are talking to your wife like that you wrong for that too…He could even say nothing…cause now I know whgat goes on when I’m not here…
This trip has really made me realized that I’m not moving back tp Dallas…and that I have to do my best to start my won life in Chicago and start my family there….
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:50 PM
[quote comment="304107"][quote comment="304097"][quote comment="304093"][quote comment="304057"]Um, this has nothing to do with the lovely first family pics. Why did someone just hand me a state-issued ID? They changed their name to Cleopatra Diamond. Who does that? **WHO?**[/quote]
Someone who takes her job as a stripper really seriously. EEEK![/quote]
It was a dude. Ahem maybe I should have said that first but I was in shock.[/quote]
How do you keep a straight face at your job?[/quote]
I have no idea!
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:51 PM
the craziest thing is..me and my fiance has been trying to have a baby for over a year now and for the little girl we would name her MALIA cause his name is MALIK…LOL
I love this family…..(the first family) OBAMA/BIDEN change “08″
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:52 PM
Malia is such a beautiful girl. She has a regal bearing like Barack and Michelle Obama.
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:52 PM
I need help pick three things for my polyanna for $100
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:52 PM
[quote comment="304123"][quote comment="304116"]I wannna ruuuunnnnn (ruuuuuunnn)…and smash into youuuuuuuuuuu….sorry everyone but this album has been on repeat for the past 3 days…[/quote]
I can’t stop listening to Video Phone. :shock:[/quote]
If I had a dude, I be singing that song to him :shock:
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:56 PM
Barack Obama is such a stand up guy. Even though he didn’t know his father well growing up, he hasn’t let that stop him from being a great father to his girls. Hopefully more men (and even women) will look to him as an example that despite what your family situation is there is room for success. B/c frankly, I’m tired of hearing Black men use there fathers’ absence for the reason they don’t know or can’t get ahead. That should be motivation to be better than him.
And as another person said, Barack is showing his girls how a man is supposed to treat a woman. They won’t ever accept bullshit because they know that they’re worth more than that. Whoever steps to them will have some big shoes to fill, which is how it should be. I commend Barack and Michelle for raising beautiful children and showing the world a healthy, positive black family.
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:56 PM
[quote comment="304129"][quote comment="304123"][quote comment="304116"]I wannna ruuuunnnnn (ruuuuuunnn)…and smash into youuuuuuuuuuu….sorry everyone but this album has been on repeat for the past 3 days…[/quote]
I can’t stop listening to Video Phone. :shock:[/quote]
If I had a dude, I be singing that song to him :shock:[/quote]
:cry: Yes, m’am. I’mma find me a dude to sing that to. If it just so happens to be a random hottie at the mall, its okay. I’ll break out into dance & song just to prove my point.
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:58 PM
[quote comment="304129"][quote comment="304123"][quote comment="304116"]I wannna ruuuunnnnn (ruuuuuunnn)…and smash into youuuuuuuuuuu….sorry everyone but this album has been on repeat for the past 3 days…[/quote]
I can’t stop listening to Video Phone. :shock:[/quote]
If I had a dude, I be singing that song to him :shock:[/quote]
*whipers* I love Smash Into You. I cant believe the dream wrote on that song. Thats the best thing I’ve heard from him lyric wise…
Backs out of convo before I get cyber jumped
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:59 PM
[quote comment="304124"][quote comment="304105"][quote comment="304089"][quote comment="304020"][quote comment="303996"]Me and daddy havent been getting along since I got here!![/quote]
Wassamatta sis?[/quote]
—————————————————————————-
Ladies….
As I’ve told ya’ll that O love my daddy, he’s the one that has put me through school and al of that…but his house has never been MY house…I moved to his house when I graduated from high school….and then tha August, I went straight to college…and have only been here on breaks and whatnot….
My step has always had this thing about me coming over their house and cleaning up…like on the weekends when I was little and come over here there was always a sink full of dishes waiting on me or cleaning the bathroom, dusting, mopping something… So eventually you tired of coming to somebody else’s house to clean up…and they pretty much make you feel ungrateful if dont want to do it. That’s pretty much been going on since I was 6….
Well I got here on Friday morning….didnt rreally get settled because my cousin got married Friday night…Why did my stpe moother come upstaris Saturday morning at 9:28 talking about get up and clean up….I’m like I dont even live..at. all. She wanted me to basically help her do a spring cleaning, but she didnt even bother my sisters at all.
My thing IS…I didnt come 1500 hundred miles to clean somebody else’s crib…I have my own house to clean in Chicago..why would I want to come here and clean….plus my daddy dont me to go anywhere…He wants me to stay at home, but I have like my whole mother side to see, plus a flock of cousins that I grew up with that I want to kick it with…He dont realize that I’m 27 years old and not a child anymore….We exchange some heavy words…I dont think our relationship will be the same.
My boyfriend is coming on Wednesday…I dont know how he is going to react to that….[/quote]
You are a grown woman and sometimes you have to remind your parents of that. It only hurts them because it takes time for them to realize that their baby is now an adult just like them.
My father is the same way. He’s real strong headed and old-school in his thoughts about the parent-child relationship (he’s African and they have real strong guidelines about that). So we bump heads a lot. A whole lot, to the point where I don’t speak to his ass because its disrespectful. I look at Obama and how he treats his daughters and i’m like why can’t I have that? Damn what did I do? But you know what though? There’s going to come a point where it will hit him (if it hasn’t already) that he raised a responsible independent woman who’s not afraid to do what she wants…But now its like walking on ice with him, and its okay because I know he loves me..he just has a fucked up way of showing it.[/quote]
————————————————————————-
Foley,
I even tried to talk to my daddy…this nigga said he wasnt even trying to understand where I’m coming from…and that he’s not going to go back and forth with me….so what am I suppose to do….Now we walking around not even speaking…
I heard him tell my stepmom to not ask me to do anything cause I was a lazy fat cow…How do you think that made me feel? I feel like my dad has this expectations of what he wants me to be…and to him I’m not….He wants me to be a homeowner, a wife, a mom…and be a size 6 (even though my stepmom is not)
So I confronted him about what he said…I said so if my boyfriend called me that you’d be ready to fight him and if you are talking to your wife like that you wrong for that too…He could even say nothing…cause now I know whgat goes on when I’m not here…
This trip has really made me realized that I’m not moving back tp Dallas…and that I have to do my best to start my won life in Chicago and start my family there….[/quote]
Awww I’m sorry to hear that. You know what, do what makes you happy and if your mother is proud of you, fuck what everyone else thinks..I’ve learned how to do that, cuz my pops does the same thing..talks all this shit behind my back to my mother, and my pastor at my church and even my sister..so I said it don’t matter what you think of me..cuz when I make it, don’t you ask me for a single thing..I will put your ass in a home and keep it moving..If you don’t support me, then there’s no reason for me to do the same.
Mon, November 24, 2008 12:59 PM
[quote comment="304130"]Barack Obama is such a stand up guy. Even though he didn’t know his father well growing up, he hasn’t let that stop him from being a great father to his girls. Hopefully more men (and even women) will look to him as an example that despite what your family situation is there is room for success. B/c frankly, I’m tired of hearing Black men use there fathers’ absence for the reason they don’t know or can’t get ahead. That should be motivation to be better than him.
And as another person said, Barack is showing his girls how a man is supposed to treat a woman. They won’t ever accept bullshit because they know that they’re worth more than that. Whoever steps to them will have some big shoes to fill, which is how it should be. I commend Barack and Michelle for raising beautiful children and showing the world a healthy, positive black family.[/quote]
WELL SAID!!!!
Mon, November 24, 2008 1:00 PM
[quote comment="304128"]I need help pick three things for my polyanna for $100
how old is she?
Mon, November 24, 2008 1:01 PM
[quote comment="304133"][quote comment="304129"][quote comment="304123"][quote comment="304116"]I wannna ruuuunnnnn (ruuuuuunnn)…and smash into youuuuuuuuuuu….sorry everyone but this album has been on repeat for the past 3 days…[/quote]
I can’t stop listening to Video Phone. :shock:[/quote]
If I had a dude, I be singing that song to him :shock:[/quote]
*whipers* I love Smash Into You. I cant believe the dream wrote on that song. Thats the best thing I’ve heard from him lyric wise…
Backs out of convo before I get cyber jumped[/quote]
We love you girl you not getting cyber jumped!I got you!!!!He wrote Smash Into You?I say that the best writing he did since J Holiday’s Bed.
Mon, November 24, 2008 1:02 PM
[quote comment="304112"][quote comment="304090"][quote comment="304079"][quote comment="304058"][quote comment="304053"]dang i haven’t spoken to my father in a year :shock:[/quote]
Youre not the only one. I have a terrible relationship with my dad. I cant remember the last time I’ve seen or spoken to him.[/quote]
**he always has always taking care of me financially. i glad i got to live half my life in other countries. it made me more open.. but emotionally…he remarried some women after 26 years with my mother. i think the last time i saw him was four years ago at my wedding that he just popped up at :shock:[/quote]
Well at least you got a lil $$$ (even though it taks more than that to raise a kid.) But my dad is an ass. When I was 18 he told me he was glad that I was grown so that he didnt have to pay child support for me anymore :shock:
That is the most hurtful thing I can ever remember him, hell anyone, saying to me.[/quote]
I’m sorry to hear that. But if thats the kinda person he is then you were better off not having him in your life. Someone that negative and who would say something that hurtful to his own blood isnt worth anything anyway![/quote]
IDK What happened to my reply to this…
Yeah…I’ve long ago shut my dad out of my life. Too many broken promises and flat out lies.
But what hurts the most is that I have a 16 year old brother who has to learn how to be a man from everyone but my dad.
My mom, my grandmother, my uncles, and his football coaches. Its really pathetic.
Mon, November 24, 2008 1:02 PM
She is very pretty, she looks like dad
Mon, November 24, 2008 1:04 PM
She is such a **beauty** Lovely family all around.
BTW….I’m glad they declined on the Hannah Montana crap. Those white girls at disney are nothing but trouble. Thankly Raven never got caught up in any scandal.
Mon, November 24, 2008 1:04 PM
So I can pretty much assume that a couple of people in here don’t acknowledge Father’s Day…..huh?
Mon, November 24, 2008 1:05 PM
[quote comment="304137"][quote comment="304133"][quote comment="304129"][quote comment="304123"][quote comment="304116"]I wannna ruuuunnnnn (ruuuuuunnn)…and smash into youuuuuuuuuuu….sorry everyone but this album has been on repeat for the past 3 days…[/quote]
I can’t stop listening to Video Phone. :shock:[/quote]
If I had a dude, I be singing that song to him :shock:[/quote]
*whipers* I love Smash Into You. I cant believe the dream wrote on that song. Thats the best thing I’ve heard from him lyric wise…
Backs out of convo before I get cyber jumped[/quote]
We love you girl you not getting cyber jumped!I got you!!!!He wrote Smash Into You?I say that the best writing he did since J Holiday’s Bed.[/quote]
He wrote that song?!?! Bed kept my husband knee deep in coochie coupons for weeks! I had to put it on my ringtone and was having flash backs every time he called me :lol: Thank you Dream!
Mon, November 24, 2008 1:06 PM
[quote comment="304137"][quote comment="304133"][quote comment="304129"][quote comment="304123"][quote comment="304116"]I wannna ruuuunnnnn (ruuuuuunnn)…and smash into youuuuuuuuuuu….sorry everyone but this album has been on repeat for the past 3 days…[/quote]
I can’t stop listening to Video Phone. :shock:[/quote]
If I had a dude, I be singing that song to him :shock:[/quote]
*whipers* I love Smash Into You. I cant believe the dream wrote on that song. Thats the best thing I’ve heard from him lyric wise…
Backs out of convo before I get cyber jumped[/quote]
We love you girl you not getting cyber jumped!I got you!!!!He wrote Smash Into You?I say that the best writing he did since J Holiday’s Bed.[/quote]
(GEEZ I can’t spell lol…)
awwww thanks :smile: I know how some people get when B is mentioned (the crazies) But yeah I was sooo suprised!!!! That is one of the best songs on the CD.
&& I forgot about Bed. So yeah those are the best songs I’ve heard from him.
Mon, November 24, 2008 1:07 PM
[quote comment="304141"]So I can pretty much assume that a couple of people in here don’t acknowledge Father’s Day…..huh?[/quote]
It’s sad because on Mother’s day you go to the store and see everything sold out and on father’s day no body is buying anything.
Mon, November 24, 2008 1:08 PM
LMAO @ sombody calling Dora the explorer a hoe..loool
Mon, November 24, 2008 1:09 PM
[quote comment="304144"][quote comment="304141"]So I can pretty much assume that a couple of people in here don’t acknowledge Father’s Day…..huh?[/quote]
It’s sad because on Mother’s day you go to the store and see everything sold out and on father’s day no body is buying anything.[/quote]
I guess people connect more with their mother. I love my mother to death!!
Mon, November 24, 2008 1:09 PM
[quote comment="304144"][quote comment="304141"]So I can pretty much assume that a couple of people in here don’t acknowledge Father’s Day…..huh?[/quote]
It’s sad because on Mother’s day you go to the store and see everything sold out and on father’s day no body is buying anything.[/quote]
I have twin uncles so I buy them stuff for Father’s Day in place of my sorry ass “father”
Mon, November 24, 2008 1:09 PM
[quote comment="304138"][quote comment="304112"][quote comment="304090"][quote comment="304079"][quote comment="304058"][quote comment="304053"]dang i haven’t spoken to my father in a year :shock:[/quote]
Youre not the only one. I have a terrible relationship with my dad. I cant remember the last time I’ve seen or spoken to him.[/quote]
**he always has always taking care of me financially. i glad i got to live half my life in other countries. it made me more open.. but emotionally…he remarried some women after 26 years with my mother. i think the last time i saw him was four years ago at my wedding that he just popped up at :shock:[/quote]
Well at least you got a lil $$$ (even though it taks more than that to raise a kid.) But my dad is an ass. When I was 18 he told me he was glad that I was grown so that he didnt have to pay child support for me anymore :shock:
That is the most hurtful thing I can ever remember him, hell anyone, saying to me.[/quote]
I’m sorry to hear that. But if thats the kinda person he is then you were better off not having him in your life. Someone that negative and who would say something that hurtful to his own blood isnt worth anything anyway![/quote]
IDK What happened to my reply to this…
Yeah…I’ve long ago shut my dad out of my life. Too many broken promises and flat out lies.
But what hurts the most is that I have a 16 year old brother who has to learn how to be a man from everyone but my dad.
My mom, my grandmother, my uncles, and his football coaches. Its really pathetic.[/quote]
I guess my perspective may be a little different (as usual :P ) because I lost my Father. He was an alcoholic and made life kind of unbearable, but when he died, I felt pain like I had not experienced before.. not because he passed away, but because my brother was hurt because they did not get along and he went into the Army before they could get it reconciled, and my Dad passed away while he was gone. I admit, I did not treat my Dad the best and it was because of the alcohol, he was a butt hole when he drank, but I made sure that after my mother died to try to treat him with the respect that he could not give out. I saw the pain in his eyes everyday after my mom passed away, and he was never the same.. So I say all that to say..no matter how he treats you, make sure you treat him how God would have you to, so if something does happen, you will know that you have done all that you can…
Mon, November 24, 2008 1:10 PM
[quote comment="304138"][quote comment="304112"][quote comment="304090"][quote comment="304079"][quote comment="304058"][quote comment="304053"]dang i haven’t spoken to my father in a year :shock:[/quote]
Youre not the only one. I have a terrible relationship with my dad. I cant remember the last time I’ve seen or spoken to him.[/quote]
**he always has always taking care of me financially. i glad i got to live half my life in other countries. it made me more open.. but emotionally…he remarried some women after 26 years with my mother. i think the last time i saw him was four years ago at my wedding that he just popped up at :shock:[/quote]
Well at least you got a lil $$$ (even though it taks more than that to raise a kid.) But my dad is an ass. When I was 18 he told me he was glad that I was grown so that he didnt have to pay child support for me anymore :shock:
That is the most hurtful thing I can ever remember him, hell anyone, saying to me.[/quote]
I’m sorry to hear that. But if thats the kinda person he is then you were better off not having him in your life. Someone that negative and who would say something that hurtful to his own blood isnt worth anything anyway![/quote]
IDK What happened to my reply to this…
Yeah…I’ve long ago shut my dad out of my life. Too many broken promises and flat out lies.
But what hurts the most is that I have a 16 year old brother who has to learn how to be a man from everyone but my dad.
My mom, my grandmother, my uncles, and his football coaches. Its really pathetic.[/quote]
That’s so sad. Even when you have a relationship with your Heavenly Father, the ache for your earthly one never goes away. My realtionship with my dad is far from perfect, but I’m glad he’s still alive. I think I’m going to give him a big ol’ (I’m country) bear hug at Thanksgiving!!
Mon, November 24, 2008 1:10 PM
[quote comment="304142"][quote comment="304137"][quote comment="304133"][quote comment="304129"][quote comment="304123"][quote comment="304116"]I wannna ruuuunnnnn (ruuuuuunnn)…and smash into youuuuuuuuuuu….sorry everyone but this album has been on repeat for the past 3 days…[/quote]
I can’t stop listening to Video Phone. :shock:[/quote]
If I had a dude, I be singing that song to him :shock:[/quote]
*whipers* I love Smash Into You. I cant believe the dream wrote on that song. Thats the best thing I’ve heard from him lyric wise…
Backs out of convo before I get cyber jumped[/quote]
We love you girl you not getting cyber jumped!I got you!!!!He wrote Smash Into You?I say that the best writing he did since J Holiday’s Bed.[/quote]
He wrote that song?!?! Bed kept my husband knee deep in coochie coupons for weeks! I had to put it on my ringtone and was having flash backs every time he called me :lol: Thank you Dream![/quote]
LOL coochie coupons!!!!I’m not mad!!!
Mon, November 24, 2008 1:11 PM
[quote comment="304142"][quote comment="304137"][quote comment="304133"][quote comment="304129"][quote comment="304123"][quote comment="304116"]I wannna ruuuunnnnn (ruuuuuunnn)…and smash into youuuuuuuuuuu….sorry everyone but this album has been on repeat for the past 3 days…[/quote]
I can’t stop listening to Video Phone. :shock:[/quote]
If I had a dude, I be singing that song to him :shock:[/quote]
*whipers* I love Smash Into You. I cant believe the dream wrote on that song. Thats the best thing I’ve heard from him lyric wise…
Backs out of convo before I get cyber jumped[/quote]
We love you girl you not getting cyber jumped!I got you!!!!He wrote Smash Into You?I say that the best writing he did since J Holiday’s Bed.[/quote]
He wrote that song?!?! Bed kept my husband knee deep in coochie coupons for weeks! I had to put it on my ringtone and was having flash backs every time he called me :lol: Thank you Dream![/quote]
BWAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!!!! :lol:
Mon, November 24, 2008 1:11 PM
Good Afternoon Ladies :-)
Mon, November 24, 2008 1:12 PM
[quote comment="304136"][quote comment="304128"]I need help pick three things for my polyanna for $100
how old is she?[/quote]
no I have to name three things I want :lol:
$100 in the limit everything I want cost more than that :sad:
Mon, November 24, 2008 1:12 PM
[quote comment="304138"][quote comment="304112"][quote comment="304090"][quote comment="304079"][quote comment="304058"][quote comment="304053"]dang i haven’t spoken to my father in a year :shock:[/quote]
Youre not the only one. I have a terrible relationship with my dad. I cant remember the last time I’ve seen or spoken to him.[/quote]
**he always has always taking care of me financially. i glad i got to live half my life in other countries. it made me more open.. but emotionally…he remarried some women after 26 years with my mother. i think the last time i saw him was four years ago at my wedding that he just popped up at :shock:[/quote]
Well at least you got a lil $$$ (even though it taks more than that to raise a kid.) But my dad is an ass. When I was 18 he told me he was glad that I was grown so that he didnt have to pay child support for me anymore :shock:
That is the most hurtful thing I can ever remember him, hell anyone, saying to me.[/quote]
I’m sorry to hear that. But if thats the kinda person he is then you were better off not having him in your life. Someone that negative and who would say something that hurtful to his own blood isnt worth anything anyway![/quote]
IDK What happened to my reply to this…
Yeah…I’ve long ago shut my dad out of my life. Too many broken promises and flat out lies.
But what hurts the most is that I have a 16 year old brother who has to learn how to be a man from everyone but my dad.
My mom, my grandmother, my uncles, and his football coaches. Its really pathetic.[/quote]
As long as your brother has positive men around him and taking an active role in his life he’ll be fine. I do believe that boys need that role model but it doesnt always have to be their biological father. I’m sure ya brother will be just fine…
Mon, November 24, 2008 1:14 PM
[quote comment="304148"][quote comment="304138"][quote comment="304112"][quote comment="304090"][quote comment="304079"][quote comment="304058"][quote comment="304053"]dang i haven’t spoken to my father in a year :shock:[/quote]
Youre not the only one. I have a terrible relationship with my dad. I cant remember the last time I’ve seen or spoken to him.[/quote]
**he always has always taking care of me financially. i glad i got to live half my life in other countries. it made me more open.. but emotionally…he remarried some women after 26 years with my mother. i think the last time i saw him was four years ago at my wedding that he just popped up at :shock:[/quote]
Well at least you got a lil $$$ (even though it taks more than that to raise a kid.) But my dad is an ass. When I was 18 he told me he was glad that I was grown so that he didnt have to pay child support for me anymore :shock:
That is the most hurtful thing I can ever remember him, hell anyone, saying to me.[/quote]
I’m sorry to hear that. But if thats the kinda person he is then you were better off not having him in your life. Someone that negative and who would say something that hurtful to his own blood isnt worth anything anyway![/quote]
IDK What happened to my reply to this…
Yeah…I’ve long ago shut my dad out of my life. Too many broken promises and flat out lies.
But what hurts the most is that I have a 16 year old brother who has to learn how to be a man from everyone but my dad.
My mom, my grandmother, my uncles, and his football coaches. Its really pathetic.[/quote]
I guess my perspective may be a little different (as usual :P ) because I lost my Father. He was an alcoholic and made life kind of unbearable, but when he died, I felt pain like I had not experienced before.. not because he passed away, but because my brother was hurt because they did not get along and he went into the Army before they could get it reconciled, and my Dad passed away while he was gone. I admit, I did not treat my Dad the best and it was because of the alcohol, he was a butt hole when he drank, but I made sure that after my mother died to try to treat him with the respect that he could not give out. I saw the pain in his eyes everyday after my mom passed away, and he was never the same.. So I say all that to say..no matter how he treats you, make sure you treat him how God would have you to, so if something does happen, you will know that you have done all that you can…[/quote]
Yeah thats true.
I just cant see myself ever calling him or trying to start a conversation. I wouldnt even know what to say.
I would probably go crazy on him…
Mon, November 24, 2008 1:14 PM
✂ *Cutting Out Coochie Coupons* :lol:
Mon, November 24, 2008 1:15 PM
[quote comment="304147"][quote comment="304144"][quote comment="304141"]So I can pretty much assume that a couple of people in here don’t acknowledge Father’s Day…..huh?[/quote]
It’s sad because on Mother’s day you go to the store and see everything sold out and on father’s day no body is buying anything.[/quote]
I have twin uncles so I buy them stuff for Father’s Day in place of my sorry ass “father”[/quote]
My dad is like “don’t get me nothing” because he can for years with the same shoes,clothes, anything!He still wearing the same shoes my brothers and sisters and I bought him like 10 years ago and they still in good condition.I do buy him a card because my dad just don’t like material things.I bought him a Subway gift card last year, he still hasn’t used it, lol.
Mon, November 24, 2008 1:16 PM
[quote comment="304155"][quote comment="304148"][quote comment="304138"][quote comment="304112"][quote comment="304090"][quote comment="304079"][quote comment="304058"][quote comment="304053"]dang i haven’t spoken to my father in a year :shock:[/quote]
Youre not the only one. I have a terrible relationship with my dad. I cant remember the last time I’ve seen or spoken to him.[/quote]
**he always has always taking care of me financially. i glad i got to live half my life in other countries. it made me more open.. but emotionally…he remarried some women after 26 years with my mother. i think the last time i saw him was four years ago at my wedding that he just popped up at :shock:[/quote]
Well at least you got a lil $$$ (even though it taks more than that to raise a kid.) But my dad is an ass. When I was 18 he told me he was glad that I was grown so that he didnt have to pay child support for me anymore :shock:
That is the most hurtful thing I can ever remember him, hell anyone, saying to me.[/quote]
I’m sorry to hear that. But if thats the kinda person he is then you were better off not having him in your life. Someone that negative and who would say something that hurtful to his own blood isnt worth anything anyway![/quote]
IDK What happened to my reply to this…
Yeah…I’ve long ago shut my dad out of my life. Too many broken promises and flat out lies.
But what hurts the most is that I have a 16 year old brother who has to learn how to be a man from everyone but my dad.
My mom, my grandmother, my uncles, and his football coaches. Its really pathetic.[/quote]
I guess my perspective may be a little different (as usual :P ) because I lost my Father. He was an alcoholic and made life kind of unbearable, but when he died, I felt pain like I had not experienced before.. not because he passed away, but because my brother was hurt because they did not get along and he went into the Army before they could get it reconciled, and my Dad passed away while he was gone. I admit, I did not treat my Dad the best and it was because of the alcohol, he was a butt hole when he drank, but I made sure that after my mother died to try to treat him with the respect that he could not give out. I saw the pain in his eyes everyday after my mom passed away, and he was never the same.. So I say all that to say..no matter how he treats you, make sure you treat him how God would have you to, so if something does happen, you will know that you have done all that you can…[/quote]
Yeah thats true.
I just cant see myself ever calling him or trying to start a conversation. I wouldnt even know what to say.
I would probably go crazy on him…[/quote]
And it is very hard finding the words to say to someone who treats you like crap, but even if it’s a forced ” I love You”, say it, and let that be the end of the convo..
Mon, November 24, 2008 1:16 PM
[quote comment="304128"]I need help pick three things for my polyanna for $100[/quote]
If she is in the doll age ( I guess 3-8) the new Baby Alive Doll (she’s in African American too!) would be nice.
Mon, November 24, 2008 1:16 PM
i’m sad now..yuck..hate talking about my father..
Mon, November 24, 2008 1:17 PM
CUTE CUTE CUTE!!! Such sweet girls. I <3 the Obamas =]
Mon, November 24, 2008 1:17 PM
[quote comment="304154"][quote comment="304138"][quote comment="304112"][quote comment="304090"][quote comment="304079"][quote comment="304058"][quote comment="304053"]dang i haven’t spoken to my father in a year :shock:[/quote]
Youre not the only one. I have a terrible relationship with my dad. I cant remember the last time I’ve seen or spoken to him.[/quote]
**he always has always taking care of me financially. i glad i got to live half my life in other countries. it made me more open.. but emotionally…he remarried some women after 26 years with my mother. i think the last time i saw him was four years ago at my wedding that he just popped up at :shock:[/quote]
Well at least you got a lil $$$ (even though it taks more than that to raise a kid.) But my dad is an ass. When I was 18 he told me he was glad that I was grown so that he didnt have to pay child support for me anymore :shock:
That is the most hurtful thing I can ever remember him, hell anyone, saying to me.[/quote]
I’m sorry to hear that. But if thats the kinda person he is then you were better off not having him in your life. Someone that negative and who would say something that hurtful to his own blood isnt worth anything anyway![/quote]
IDK What happened to my reply to this…
Yeah…I’ve long ago shut my dad out of my life. Too many broken promises and flat out lies.
But what hurts the most is that I have a 16 year old brother who has to learn how to be a man from everyone but my dad.
My mom, my grandmother, my uncles, and his football coaches. Its really pathetic.[/quote]
As long as your brother has positive men around him and taking an active role in his life he’ll be fine. I do believe that boys need that role model but it doesnt always have to be their biological father. I’m sure ya brother will be just fine…[/quote]
Yeah because honestly my dad isnt the type of person I want around my brother.
And besides he has my grandmother to jack him up and give him one of those “country whippins” her mama gave her where he has to “scrape himself off the floor!!” LOL
Mon, November 24, 2008 1:17 PM
[quote comment="304152"]Good Afternoon Ladies :-)[/quote]
Noon!!
Mon, November 24, 2008 1:19 PM
[quote comment="304158"][quote comment="304147"][quote comment="304144"][quote comment="304141"]So I can pretty much assume that a couple of people in here don’t acknowledge Father’s Day…..huh?[/quote]
It’s sad because on Mother’s day you go to the store and see everything sold out and on father’s day no body is buying anything.[/quote]
I have twin uncles so I buy them stuff for Father’s Day in place of my sorry ass “father”[/quote]
My dad is like “don’t get me nothing” because he can for years with the same shoes,clothes, anything!He still wearing the same shoes my brothers and sisters and I bought him like 10 years ago and they still in good condition.I do buy him a card because my dad just don’t like material things.I bought him a Subway gift card last year, he still hasn’t used it, lol.[/quote]
Tell your dad to slide that over this way LOL
I love subway!
Mon, November 24, 2008 1:19 PM
[quote comment="304152"]Good Afternoon Ladies :-)[/quote]
Whaddup mama!!!!
Mon, November 24, 2008 1:21 PM
[quote comment="304159"][quote comment="304155"][quote comment="304148"][quote comment="304138"][quote comment="304112"][quote comment="304090"][quote comment="304079"][quote comment="304058"][quote comment="304053"]dang i haven’t spoken to my father in a year :shock:[/quote]
Youre not the only one. I have a terrible relationship with my dad. I cant remember the last time I’ve seen or spoken to him.[/quote]
**he always has always taking care of me financially. i glad i got to live half my life in other countries. it made me more open.. but emotionally…he remarried some women after 26 years with my mother. i think the last time i saw him was four years ago at my wedding that he just popped up at :shock:[/quote]
Well at least you got a lil $$$ (even though it taks more than that to raise a kid.) But my dad is an ass. When I was 18 he told me he was glad that I was grown so that he didnt have to pay child support for me anymore :shock:
That is the most hurtful thing I can ever remember him, hell anyone, saying to me.[/quote]
I’m sorry to hear that. But if thats the kinda person he is then you were better off not having him in your life. Someone that negative and who would say something that hurtful to his own blood isnt worth anything anyway![/quote]
IDK What happened to my reply to this…
Yeah…I’ve long ago shut my dad out of my life. Too many broken promises and flat out lies.
But what hurts the most is that I have a 16 year old brother who has to learn how to be a man from everyone but my dad.
My mom, my grandmother, my uncles, and his football coaches. Its really pathetic.[/quote]
I guess my perspective may be a little different (as usual :P ) because I lost my Father. He was an alcoholic and made life kind of unbearable, but when he died, I felt pain like I had not experienced before.. not because he passed away, but because my brother was hurt because they did not get along and he went into the Army before they could get it reconciled, and my Dad passed away while he was gone. I admit, I did not treat my Dad the best and it was because of the alcohol, he was a butt hole when he drank, but I made sure that after my mother died to try to treat him with the respect that he could not give out. I saw the pain in his eyes everyday after my mom passed away, and he was never the same.. So I say all that to say..no matter how he treats you, make sure you treat him how God would have you to, so if something does happen, you will know that you have done all that you can…[/quote]
Yeah thats true.
I just cant see myself ever calling him or trying to start a conversation. I wouldnt even know what to say.
I would probably go crazy on him…[/quote]
And it is very hard finding the words to say to someone who treats you like crap, but even if it’s a forced ” I love You”, say it, and let that be the end of the convo..[/quote]
*Whew* Thats gonna take some practice.
But thanks :smile:
Besides Im willing to be the better person!
Mon, November 24, 2008 1:23 PM
OH SUBWAY GOT THEM FLATBREAD sandwiches that look good even though i stan for quizno sub mmm mmm mm
Mon, November 24, 2008 1:24 PM
[quote comment="304171"][quote comment="304159"][quote comment="304155"][quote comment="304148"][quote comment="304138"][quote comment="304112"][quote comment="304090"][quote comment="304079"][quote comment="304058"][quote comment="304053"]dang i haven’t spoken to my father in a year :shock:[/quote]
Youre not the only one. I have a terrible relationship with my dad. I cant remember the last time I’ve seen or spoken to him.[/quote]
**he always has always taking care of me financially. i glad i got to live half my life in other countries. it made me more open.. but emotionally…he remarried some women after 26 years with my mother. i think the last time i saw him was four years ago at my wedding that he just popped up at :shock:[/quote]
Well at least you got a lil $$$ (even though it taks more than that to raise a kid.) But my dad is an ass. When I was 18 he told me he was glad that I was grown so that he didnt have to pay child support for me anymore :shock:
That is the most hurtful thing I can ever remember him, hell anyone, saying to me.[/quote]
I’m sorry to hear that. But if thats the kinda person he is then you were better off not having him in your life. Someone that negative and who would say something that hurtful to his own blood isnt worth anything anyway![/quote]
IDK What happened to my reply to this…
Yeah…I’ve long ago shut my dad out of my life. Too many broken promises and flat out lies.
But what hurts the most is that I have a 16 year old brother who has to learn how to be a man from everyone but my dad.
My mom, my grandmother, my uncles, and his football coaches. Its really pathetic.[/quote]
I guess my perspective may be a little different (as usual :P ) because I lost my Father. He was an alcoholic and made life kind of unbearable, but when he died, I felt pain like I had not experienced before.. not because he passed away, but because my brother was hurt because they did not get along and he went into the Army before they could get it reconciled, and my Dad passed away while he was gone. I admit, I did not treat my Dad the best and it was because of the alcohol, he was a butt hole when he drank, but I made sure that after my mother died to try to treat him with the respect that he could not give out. I saw the pain in his eyes everyday after my mom passed away, and he was never the same.. So I say all that to say..no matter how he treats you, make sure you treat him how God would have you to, so if something does happen, you will know that you have done all that you can…[/quote]
Yeah thats true.
I just cant see myself ever calling him or trying to start a conversation. I wouldnt even know what to say.
I would probably go crazy on him…[/quote]
And it is very hard finding the words to say to someone who treats you like crap, but even if it’s a forced ” I love You”, say it, and let that be the end of the convo..[/quote]
*Whew* Thats gonna take some practice.
But thanks :smile:
Besides Im willing to be the better person![/quote]
It’s not easy, but it will make YOU feel better….
Mon, November 24, 2008 1:27 PM
bye everybody..i’mm a go do some work..
Mon, November 24, 2008 1:27 PM
[quote comment="304169"][quote comment="304152"]Good Afternoon Ladies :-)[/quote]
Whaddup mama!!!![/quote]
nuttin just chillin…you??
Mon, November 24, 2008 1:28 PM
Alot of men now-a-days are sooooooooo f’ed up
Mon, November 24, 2008 1:28 PM
[quote comment="304172"]OH SUBWAY GOT THEM FLATBREAD sandwiches that look good even though i stan for quizno sub mmm mmm mm[/quote]
Are they good?I’ve been eyeing it for a week now..
Mon, November 24, 2008 1:28 PM
Alot of men now-a-days are sooooooooo f’ed up.
My YBF is acting up something terrible.
Mon, November 24, 2008 1:30 PM
[quote comment="304175"]bye everybody..i’mm a go do some work..[/quote]
Cornball, lol, just joking cuz i know i need to be doing some work too – but i’m NOT, lol, lata Rainy
Mon, November 24, 2008 1:30 PM
[quote comment="304150"][quote comment="304142"][quote comment="304137"][quote comment="304133"][quote comment="304129"][quote comment="304123"][quote comment="304116"]I wannna ruuuunnnnn (ruuuuuunnn)…and smash into youuuuuuuuuuu….sorry everyone but this album has been on repeat for the past 3 days…[/quote]
I can’t stop listening to Video Phone. :shock:[/quote]
If I had a dude, I be singing that song to him :shock:[/quote]
*whipers* I love Smash Into You. I cant believe the dream wrote on that song. Thats the best thing I’ve heard from him lyric wise…
Backs out of convo before I get cyber jumped[/quote]
We love you girl you not getting cyber jumped!I got you!!!!He wrote Smash Into You?I say that the best writing he did since J Holiday’s Bed.[/quote]
He wrote that song?!?! Bed kept my husband knee deep in coochie coupons for weeks! I had to put it on my ringtone and was having flash backs every time he called me :lol: Thank you Dream![/quote]
LOL coochie coupons!!!!I’m not mad!!![/quote]
Girl we was getting it ON! :lol:
Mon, November 24, 2008 1:31 PM
[quote comment="304179"]Alot of men now-a-days are sooooooooo f’ed up.
My YBF is acting up something terrible.[/quote]
Mine too… I wonder if this has anything to do with those hackers or what-not?
Mon, November 24, 2008 1:31 PM
[quote comment="304179"]Alot of men now-a-days are sooooooooo f’ed up.
My YBF is acting up something terrible.[/quote]
Mine too, thought it was my wacktastic computer
Mon, November 24, 2008 1:32 PM
[quote comment="304178"][quote comment="304172"]OH SUBWAY GOT THEM FLATBREAD sandwiches that look good even though i stan for quizno sub mmm mmm mm[/quote]
Are they good?I’ve been eyeing it for a week now..[/quote]
i have not tried them but as soon as i stop doing this detox..i’m try it and them coffee cake pancakes from ihop…
Mon, November 24, 2008 1:33 PM
I might as well stop trying to reply!
All these error messages!!
Anyway thanks to everyone for the advice! Thats why I love YBF ♥
Mon, November 24, 2008 1:35 PM
[quote comment="304160"][quote comment="304128"]I need help pick three things for my polyanna for $100[/quote]
If she is in the doll age ( I guess 3-8) the new Baby Alive Doll (she’s in African American too!) would be nice.[/quote]
No for me! I have to make mt list of stuff I want.
Mon, November 24, 2008 1:35 PM
[quote comment="304185"][quote comment="304178"][quote comment="304172"]OH SUBWAY GOT THEM FLATBREAD sandwiches that look good even though i stan for quizno sub mmm mmm mm[/quote]
Are they good?I’ve been eyeing it for a week now..[/quote]
i have not tried them but as soon as i stop doing this detox..i’m try it and them coffee cake pancakes from ihop…[/quote]
I’m trying to change my eating habits!I’m trying lol.Coffee Cake pancakes sound good.
Mon, November 24, 2008 1:35 PM
[quote comment="304176"][quote comment="304169"][quote comment="304152"]Good Afternoon Ladies :-)[/quote]
Whaddup mama!!!![/quote]
nuttin just chillin…you??[/quote]
same here…awaitin tomorrow..lol
Mon, November 24, 2008 1:35 PM
[quote comment="304180"][quote comment="304175"]bye everybody..i’mm a go do some work..[/quote]
Cornball, lol, just joking cuz i know i need to be doing some work too – but i’m NOT, lol, lata Rainy[/quote]
u…i never was good at the come backs :lol: bye
Mon, November 24, 2008 1:38 PM
How much you think Obama’s Sperm is worth in a sperm bank. Would you pay a few hundred thousand?
Mon, November 24, 2008 1:38 PM
[quote comment="304186"]I might as well stop trying to reply!
All these error messages!!
Anyway thanks to everyone for the advice! Thats why I love YBF ♥[/quote]
I’m getting like a 504 (or 405..) message and when I try to refresh it just doesn’t refresh… :?
Mon, November 24, 2008 1:38 PM
[quote comment="304188"][quote comment="304160"][quote comment="304128"]I need help pick three things for my polyanna for $100[/quote]
If she is in the doll age ( I guess 3-8) the new Baby Alive Doll (she’s in African American too!) would be nice.[/quote]
No for me! I have to make mt list of stuff I want.[/quote]
I love jewelry, so I say a nice Flex Bangle or a nice Tennis Bracelet…. ( These are things that I want… :P )
Mon, November 24, 2008 1:39 PM
[quote comment="304188"][quote comment="304160"][quote comment="304128"]I need help pick three things for my polyanna for $100[/quote]
If she is in the doll age ( I guess 3-8) the new Baby Alive Doll (she’s in African American too!) would be nice.[/quote]
No for me! I have to make mt list of stuff I want.[/quote]
oh…lol. My bad. Okay, I know you are a fashionista so…let me get something together.
Mon, November 24, 2008 1:40 PM
Uhh..I’m lost..had to catch up on work… Update anyone?
Mon, November 24, 2008 1:41 PM
[quote comment="304079"][quote comment="304058"][quote comment="304053"]dang i haven’t spoken to my father in a year :shock:[/quote]
Youre not the only one. I have a terrible relationship with my dad. I cant remember the last time I’ve seen or spoken to him.[/quote]
**he always has always taking care of me financially. i glad i got to live half my life in other countries. it made me more open.. but emotionally…he remarried some women after 26 years with my mother. i think the last time i saw him was four years ago at my wedding that he just popped up at :shock:[/quote]
I just buried my dad in June….Be thankful that you still have your father around…believe me when you lose a parent it will be one of the hardest things you will ever go through.
Mon, November 24, 2008 1:44 PM
You should ask for the new sky/L snake & leather hobo bag from Jimmy Choo. Its from the Cruise 09 line and its beautiful.
[quote comment="304216"][quote comment="304188"][quote comment="304160"][quote comment="304128"]I need help pick three things for my polyanna for $100[/quote]
If she is in the doll age ( I guess 3-8) the new Baby Alive Doll (she’s in African American too!) would be nice.[/quote]
No for me! I have to make mt list of stuff I want.[/quote]
oh…lol. My bad. Okay, I know you are a fashionista so…let me get something together.[/quote]
Mon, November 24, 2008 1:45 PM
Most fab post EVER.
Mon, November 24, 2008 1:52 PM
Listening to my Bishop online…so I’m out for a minute.
Mon, November 24, 2008 2:07 PM
[quote comment="304141"]So I can pretty much assume that a couple of people in here don’t acknowledge Father’s Day…..huh?[/quote]
My sisters and I give our Mother Father’s day gifts. This past year she got a GPS system! She loves it.
Mon, November 24, 2008 2:17 PM
It’s nothing like the love between a father and daughter. My dad and I have always been close.
Mon, November 24, 2008 2:28 PM
I am lucky too that my father was there when we were growing up.
But Mr. President, *le sigh*….
Where do I find me an Obama man???????
Mon, November 24, 2008 2:40 PM
You could tell they have a special relationship. Makes ya jealous……in a good way
Mon, November 24, 2008 2:46 PM
Cutsy
Mon, November 24, 2008 2:47 PM
[quote comment="304127"]Malia is such a beautiful girl. She has a regal bearing like Barack and Michelle Obama.[/quote]
So very true! Malia looks so much like her mom too. I can’t wait for the Obamas to call DC home!
Mon, November 24, 2008 3:42 PM
Sometimes the best thing about this website is the OBAMA juice. It’s like the only time the haters don’t come out in droves and we can all agree that this is a great family with beautiful children and a smart woman by his side. Aside from the slutty comments people make about getting with the president (even though we may think them *smile*) it’s a little less ignorant and it is uplifting. I hope it never goes away. I love the Obama’s they make me happy dammit.
Mon, November 24, 2008 3:57 PM
i wish i had a father like him ..
:(
we need some more good dads around like barack .
Mon, November 24, 2008 4:11 PM
[quote comment="304203"]How much you think Obama’s Sperm is worth in a sperm bank. Would you pay a few hundred thousand?[/quote]
:shock:
Mon, November 24, 2008 4:12 PM
I know i’m wrong to say this, but there is something strange looking about Malia. I don’t want to get too specific, but there is just something off… Maybe it’s because she’s just really tall?!?! Little sis, Sasha is sooooooo cute though!!!! She’s one of the most adorable girls I’ve seen!
Mon, November 24, 2008 5:15 PM
Malia is too cute with those afro puffs…she’s going to be soooooo gorgeous when she gets older.
Absolutely love this fam!
Mon, November 24, 2008 5:56 PM
too cute too cute too cute
Mon, November 24, 2008 6:13 PM
i love to see a man and his child bonding, such a rare sight nowadays
Mon, November 24, 2008 8:24 PM
She looks like any 10 yr old. Stop with the overrated comments.
Mon, November 24, 2008 8:40 PM
She walks funny and sadly, she got her Mama’s teeth. She is OK. Please stop hyping it. Not hating, calling it like I see it.
Mon, November 24, 2008 9:02 PM
She is so cute! Looking just like Michelle. And at the age of 10 her level of intelligence and articulation says alot about Barack and Michelle as parents. THIS is the kind of black familty I don’t mind representing us internationally.
Mon, November 24, 2008 11:22 PM
I love the Obama’s. Can’t wait until they get in the White House, they have beautiful children and they seem down to earth as well.
Sat, November 29, 2008 9:52 PM
The Obama’s Rock