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  • COUPLED UP: Fonzworth Bentley & Girlfriend Fuane Chambers Lunch It Up

    Written by Natasha - Last updated: Wednesday, January 7, 2009

    Fonzworth Bentley took his longtime girlfriend actress Fuane Chambers out to lunch at Newsroom in LA yesterday afternoon:



    Well aren’t they cute.  I wonder if Diddy’s still bitter Fonzy left him for a chick.  Let me stop…

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    1. posted by Portia

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:17 PM

      She’s pretty

    2. posted by I'm that chick

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:17 PM

      First! I think.

    3. posted by klovely

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:18 PM

      2nd???

    4. posted by Portia

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:18 PM

      Did he gain some weight? He looks so much better!

    5. posted by ♥Ms. Toya♥ Obama Stan #2/Ay Hazel I like you/Can't see myself without you/my sweet hazel/cuz I think I'm in love, I'm in loooovee/ ~Lloyd

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:18 PM

      :shock: Am I the only one who thought he was gay? lol Oh well they’re a cute couple!

    6. posted by ChOOsEyLoVeR

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:19 PM

      top 10

    7. posted by meeya

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:19 PM

      I LIKES THOSE BOOTS :)

    8. posted by tRaCi

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:19 PM

      she is pretty…

    9. posted by Martinique_fr

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:19 PM

      They look good together… the few pounds he gained looks good on him.

    10. posted by Tyronda

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:20 PM

      I got those boots, black suede ones! Nine WEST

    11. posted by meeya

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:20 PM

      oh & he still looks gay….especially in that first pic. those pants are huggin the hips & I don’t think Fonzi’s mad at that lol

    12. posted by carib-cutie in cali

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:21 PM

      why is he look’n mighty feminine around the hips and tummy area in the first photo to me?

    13. posted by loveislove~OBAMA STAN #INFINITY~AKA MRS. WEST ((SAYIN "MY PERSIAN CAT IS FLYIN HIGH IN THE SKY..SHE IS NOW MY GUARDIAN ANGEL....WITH THAT I KNOW '09 IS MINE!!!!))

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:23 PM

      Tasha comin with all the side wayz jokes today huh??

    14. posted by Bootee o Rootee

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:23 PM

      okay….so i thought bentley was diddy’s bitch?
      And are those boot cut jeans he is wearing? a no-no

    15. posted by VOGUE "Even when the sky comes falling..Even when the sun don’t shine..I got faith in you & I"

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:23 PM

      I need her boots.
      Fonzy like girls??? Couldve fooled me!!!

    16. posted by Just Me

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:23 PM

      I love this man lol! I’ve had the chance to meet him personally and he was so much different than what I thought he was. He’s sexy,educated, and well mannered lol. Not gay by far either. Good Christian brother on top of all that.

    17. posted by *stopthemadness*

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:23 PM

      [quote comment="370892"]:shock: Am I the only one who thought he was gay? lol Oh well they’re a cute couple![/quote]
      Nope!!! I thought he was TANGY as they come but I guess not…they look cute…did you get my email?

    18. posted by luvdabiz

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:23 PM

      Still look tangy as hell to me

    19. posted by ...IMISSMYHBCU

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:24 PM

      He looks better with that weight gain

    20. posted by S&J

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:25 PM

      she was in Benjamin Button and Ne-yo’s ‘Mad’ video….

      Cute couple, I’m glad I’m getting over that mini crush I had on Fonz :oops:

    21. posted by Bootee o Rootee

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:25 PM

      I guess he will fake it till he makes it!…but i do love me some Cool Outrageous Lovers Of Unique Raw Style or wateva that group name is!

    22. posted by Tealeaf

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:26 PM

      Saying Fonze with a girlfriend is very interesting..

    23. posted by I'm that chick

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:28 PM

      Homie is flaming like a grill on a hot summer day. He’s GAY GAY GaY…OkaYYYYY!!!!

    24. posted by ~*Cherishedbyu*~ hates this part right here

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:28 PM

      THANKS TASHHHHH!!

      I like Mr. Bentley and the girl from White Chicks! Cute couple

    25. posted by I am Me ~Emancipation NOW!!!!!!!~

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:28 PM

      Cute boots! She must be feeding him at home :-)

    26. posted by Bootee o Rootee

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:28 PM

      Someone gave me pistchios for a christmas gift…..how am i to react?

    27. posted by VOGUE "Even when the sky comes falling..Even when the sun don’t shine..I got faith in you & I"

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:29 PM

      Is that a Jesus piece? :shock:

    28. posted by Bootee o Rootee

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:29 PM

      Should i give them to bentley…..apparently he likes nuts!

    29. posted by MoneyBaby

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:30 PM

      @ carib-cutie in cali and meeya

      i agree his body is looking female shaped in those pics. made me say “girl stop.” while i was looking at them. let me find out Fonzworth is the black pregnant man. MAN DOWN! CODE 10! HOLLLA!!!!!!

    30. posted by I am Me ~Emancipation NOW!!!!!!!~

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:30 PM

      [quote comment="370940"]Is that a Jesus piece? :shock:[/quote]

      :lol: I don’t know if I’m laughing at your quote or your gravi

    31. posted by pROTOTYPE

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:30 PM

      IM STILL WAITING ON HIS DAMN ALBUM…………

    32. posted by sasha

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:30 PM

      i love her shoes, and they’re so cute together.

    33. posted by beautifuldaidreamer is feeling crappy :(

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:30 PM

      Girlfriend???? Nuh uh! I don’t believe it *shaking head hard* Yous a lie!

    34. posted by Tiago218

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:31 PM

      [quote comment="370925"]I guess he will fake it till he makes it!…but i do love me some Cool Outrageous Lovers Of Unique Raw Style or wateva that group name is![/quote]

      you got it right….. I loved that song “Everybody”

    35. posted by I am Me ~Emancipation NOW!!!!!!!~

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:31 PM

      [quote comment="370937"]Someone gave me pistchios for a christmas gift…..how am i to react?[/quote]

      Keep it cracking like pistachios

    36. posted by Miss GQ (Striving to be the female Hype Williams)

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:31 PM

      I knew she was dating him…she’s really pretty, and they look great together

    37. posted by IT IS WHAT IT IS....

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:31 PM

      [quote comment="370941"]Should i give them to bentley…..apparently he likes nuts![/quote]
      THAT WAS LAME..NOT FUNNY EVERYBODY ISNT GAY B/C THEY DONT WEAR BAGGY JEANS OR ACT THUGGISH. WHAT ABOUT HIM IS GAY???

    38. posted by ♥Ms. Toya♥ Obama Stan #2/Ay Hazel I like you/Can't see myself without you/my sweet hazel/cuz I think I'm in love, I'm in loooovee/ ~Lloyd

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:32 PM

      [quote comment="370916"][quote comment="370892"]:shock: Am I the only one who thought he was gay? lol Oh well they’re a cute couple![/quote]
      Nope!!! I thought he was TANGY as they come but I guess not…they look cute…did you get my email?[/quote]
      Oh aiight especially when I heard he went to Morehouse. I was yeah DEFINITELY gay. Wow I stand corrected. You sent me the email??? THANKS! Going to check it now!

    39. posted by Foley.

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:32 PM

      [quote comment="370912"]Tasha comin with all the side wayz jokes today huh??[/quote]
      LMFAO YES SHE IS.

    40. posted by I am Me ~Emancipation NOW!!!!!!!~

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:32 PM

      I appreciate Bentley because he tried to teach these knuckleheads how to dress like men

    41. posted by IT IS WHAT IT IS....

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:33 PM

      [quote comment="370950"]I knew she was dating him…she’s really pretty, and they look great together[/quote]
      I AGREE HOPE THEY LAST, U KNOW HOW HOLLYWEIRD IS!

    42. posted by beautifuldaidreamer is feeling crappy :(

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:33 PM

      Hey that’s Marlon’s girlfriend from White Chicks!! I was tryna figure out who she was. E’erybody wanna put actress as their title but ain’t done nothin but a Mickey D’s commercial :roll:

    43. posted by SAI HOLMES- THE ONE AND ONLY

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:33 PM

      ALTHOUGH FONZWORTH BENTLEYS LADY IS VERY PRETTY THIS POST IS OF NO INTEREST SO I WILL BE RIDING THE UNDERGROUND RAILROAD EXPRESS COMMONLY KNOWN AS BACK ON MY COMPUTER TO THE FORMER POST.

    44. posted by Miss GQ (Striving to be the female Hype Williams)

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:34 PM

      [quote comment="370951"][quote comment="370941"]Should i give them to bentley…..apparently he likes nuts![/quote]
      THAT WAS LAME..NOT FUNNY EVERYBODY ISNT GAY B/C THEY DONT WEAR BAGGY JEANS OR ACT THUGGISH. WHAT ABOUT HIM IS GAY???[/quote]
      thank you!!! i don’t see what’s gay about him either

    45. posted by Kay hopes you DJ @ a party and they throw drinks @ your WACK ass!!

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:34 PM

      So we stopped our discusion on the uprising of the black community for a questionable dude???

    46. posted by Foley.

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:34 PM

      [quote comment="370955"]I appreciate Bentley because he tried to teach these knuckleheads how to dress like men[/quote]
      Yes. He is an educated Black man and for that, I will not say any slick things about him. He taught a group of men, black and white how to do better.

    47. posted by VOGUE "Even when the sky comes falling..Even when the sun don’t shine..I got faith in you & I"

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:34 PM

      [quote comment="370943"][quote comment="370940"]Is that a Jesus piece? :shock:[/quote]

      :lol: I don’t know if I’m laughing at your quote or your gravi[/quote]
      LOL I’m just saying…my man brought out the Jesus piece! :cool: Fonzy and gravi man are some cool motha lovas!!!

    48. posted by loveislove~OBAMA STAN #INFINITY~AKA MRS. WEST ((SAYIN "MY PERSIAN CAT IS FLYIN HIGH IN THE SKY..SHE IS NOW MY GUARDIAN ANGEL....WITH THAT I KNOW '09 IS MINE!!!!))

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:35 PM

      [quote comment="370951"][quote comment="370941"]Should i give them to bentley…..apparently he likes nuts![/quote]
      THAT WAS LAME..NOT FUNNY EVERYBODY ISNT GAY B/C THEY DONT WEAR BAGGY JEANS OR ACT THUGGISH. WHAT ABOUT HIM IS GAY???[/quote]

      AND THE CHOIR SINGS “AAAAAAAAMMMMMMMMMMMMMEEEEEEEEEN”!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    49. posted by I love black people

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:35 PM

      [quote comment="370892"]:shock: Am I the only one who thought he was gay? lol Oh well they’re a cute couple![/quote]
      No you are NOT..I met him before and he screams homosexual

    50. posted by beautifuldaidreamer is feeling crappy :(

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:35 PM

      [quote comment="370953"][quote comment="370916"][quote comment="370892"]:shock: Am I the only one who thought he was gay? lol Oh well they’re a cute couple![/quote]
      Nope!!! I thought he was TANGY as they come but I guess not…they look cute…did you get my email?[/quote]
      Oh aiight especially when I heard he went to Morehouse. I was yeah DEFINITELY gay. Wow I stand corrected. You sent me the email??? THANKS! Going to check it now![/quote]
      LMAO! Toya you know you wrong for that. But you right, it’s so many homies @ The House, it’s like a gay man’s paradise…

    51. posted by Miss GQ (Striving to be the female Hype Williams)

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:36 PM

      [quote comment="370955"]I appreciate Bentley because he tried to teach these knuckleheads how to dress like men[/quote]
      yes…i loved that show

    52. posted by Foley.

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:36 PM

      [quote comment="370959"] ALTHOUGH FONZWORTH BENTLEYS LADY IS VERY PRETTY THIS POST IS OF NO INTEREST SO I WILL BE RIDING THE UNDERGROUND RAILROAD EXPRESS COMMONLY KNOWN AS BACK ON MY COMPUTER TO THE FORMER POST. [/quote]
      I agree with you ——>

    53. posted by Keith

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:36 PM

      These two look great together!

    54. posted by Jamaicaseemiya

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:36 PM

      They look like brother and sister to me!!

    55. posted by VOGUE "Even when the sky comes falling..Even when the sun don’t shine..I got faith in you & I"

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:36 PM

      [quote comment="370962"][quote comment="370955"]I appreciate Bentley because he tried to teach these knuckleheads how to dress like men[/quote]
      Yes. He is an educated Black man and for that, I will not say any slick things about him. He taught a group of men, black and white how to do better.[/quote]
      Indeed.
      However the transformation was short lived…did you see that guy get punched? Good Lord :shock:

    56. posted by I love black people

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:36 PM

      [quote comment="370958"]Hey that’s Marlon’s girlfriend from White Chicks!! I was tryna figure out who she was. E’erybody wanna put actress as their title but ain’t done nothin but a Mickey D’s commercial :roll:[/quote]
      haha is it really?? I didn’t recognize her

    57. posted by loveislove~OBAMA STAN #INFINITY~AKA MRS. WEST ((SAYIN "MY PERSIAN CAT IS FLYIN HIGH IN THE SKY..SHE IS NOW MY GUARDIAN ANGEL....WITH THAT I KNOW '09 IS MINE!!!!))

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:37 PM

      [quote comment="370955"]I appreciate Bentley because he tried to teach these knuckleheads how to dress like men[/quote]

      aAND THE COIR SINGS AGAIN “AAAMMMMMMMMMEEENNNNN”…..thats a man with exceptional style and swag…..and nows fashion like no other!!!!!!!!!

    58. posted by Tonya-If you can't turn a hoe into a housewife...Can you turn a housewife into a hoe???

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:38 PM

      [quote comment="370914"]I need her boots.
      Fonzy like girls??? Couldve fooled me!!![/quote]
      I’m gonna attempt to go online and try to find someone uglier than the guy in your gravie….Wish me luck!

    59. posted by IT IS WHAT IT IS....

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:38 PM

      [quote comment="370962"][quote comment="370955"]I appreciate Bentley because he tried to teach these knuckleheads how to dress like men[/quote]
      Yes. He is an educated Black man and for that, I will not say any slick things about him. He taught a group of men, black and white how to do better.[/quote]
      THANK YOU COSIGNING ALL UP N THRU!

    60. posted by JPEEZY

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:39 PM

      [quote comment="370960"][quote comment="370951"][quote comment="370941"]Should i give them to bentley…..apparently he likes nuts![/quote]
      THAT WAS LAME..NOT FUNNY EVERYBODY ISNT GAY B/C THEY DONT WEAR BAGGY JEANS OR ACT THUGGISH. WHAT ABOUT HIM IS GAY???[/quote]
      thank you!!! i don’t see what’s gay about him either[/quote]
      Something about that umbrella and the way he used to dance threw me. I’m sorry. I just thought he was on the list. If it’s the real thing, I hope it lasts.

    61. posted by EvShugah

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:39 PM

      [quote comment="370900"]I got those boots, black suede ones! Nine WEST[/quote]
      Me too, girl!

    62. posted by VOGUE "Even when the sky comes falling..Even when the sun don’t shine..I got faith in you & I"

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:39 PM

      [quote comment="370978"][quote comment="370914"]I need her boots.
      Fonzy like girls??? Couldve fooled me!!![/quote]
      I’m gonna attempt to go online and try to find someone uglier than the guy in your gravie….Wish me luck![/quote]
      LOL OK…Good Luck
      There arent many faces that can beat this cool motha lova :cool:

    63. posted by S&J

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:40 PM

      [quote comment="370973"][quote comment="370958"]Hey that’s Marlon’s girlfriend from White Chicks!! I was tryna figure out who she was. E’erybody wanna put actress as their title but ain’t done nothin but a Mickey D’s commercial :roll:[/quote]
      haha is it really?? I didn’t recognize her[/quote]
      Isnt she also in Ne-Yo’s mad video?

    64. posted by Tonya-If you can't turn a hoe into a housewife...Can you turn a housewife into a hoe???

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:41 PM

      [quote comment="370973"][quote comment="370958"]Hey that’s Marlon’s girlfriend from White Chicks!! I was tryna figure out who she was. E’erybody wanna put actress as their title but ain’t done nothin but a Mickey D’s commercial :roll:[/quote]
      haha is it really?? I didn’t recognize her[/quote]
      That’s not her, the girl in white chicks is in Tyler Perry movies.

    65. posted by I love black people

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:41 PM

      [quote comment="370891"]Did he gain some weight? He looks so much better![/quote/]
      He sure does..he looks really good here

    66. posted by SxyKole *Obamas Stan #4*Take A Day To Heal From The Lies You've Told Yourself And The One That Have Been Told To You!!!

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:42 PM

      [quote comment="370924"]she was in Benjamin Button and Ne-yo’s ‘Mad’ video….

      Cute couple, I’m glad I’m getting over that mini crush I had on Fonz :oops:[/quote]
      LOL.. you was crushing on him!?!? I must admitt I think he is quite handsome..

    67. posted by fii5foe

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:42 PM

      [quote comment="370940"]Is that a Jesus piece? :shock:[/quote]
      WORD i didn’t know people were still rockin those……at all……ever…..in real life :|

    68. posted by S&J

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:42 PM

      FONZ IS NOT GAY! I’m tellin ya’ll the “thugs” be gay! I never hear “50 is gay, Wayne is gay” these men got ya’ll confused!

    69. posted by Miss GQ (Striving to be the female Hype Williams)

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:42 PM

      [quote comment="370985"][quote comment="370973"][quote comment="370958"]Hey that’s Marlon’s girlfriend from White Chicks!! I was tryna figure out who she was. E’erybody wanna put actress as their title but ain’t done nothin but a Mickey D’s commercial :roll:[/quote]
      haha is it really?? I didn’t recognize her[/quote]
      Isnt she also in Ne-Yo’s mad video?[/quote]
      YUP

    70. posted by Foley.

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:43 PM

      [quote comment="370972"][quote comment="370962"][quote comment="370955"]I appreciate Bentley because he tried to teach these knuckleheads how to dress like men[/quote]
      Yes. He is an educated Black man and for that, I will not say any slick things about him. He taught a group of men, black and white how to do better.[/quote]
      Indeed.
      However the transformation was short lived…did you see that guy get punched? Good Lord :shock:[/quote]
      Yea for one at least. But what can you expect from an ignoramus? Lol

    71. posted by S&J

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:43 PM

      [quote comment="370992"][quote comment="370924"]she was in Benjamin Button and Ne-yo’s ‘Mad’ video….

      Cute couple, I’m glad I’m getting over that mini crush I had on Fonz :oops:[/quote]
      LOL.. you was crushing on him!?!? I must admitt I think he is quite handsome..[/quote]
      yup I like him. Hes a cutie!

    72. posted by ♥Ms. Toya♥ Obama Stan #2/Ay Hazel I like you/Can't see myself without you/my sweet hazel/cuz I think I'm in love, I'm in loooovee/ ~Lloyd

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:43 PM

      [quote comment="370966"][quote comment="370953"][quote comment="370916"][quote comment="370892"]:shock: Am I the only one who thought he was gay? lol Oh well they’re a cute couple![/quote]
      Nope!!! I thought he was TANGY as they come but I guess not…they look cute…did you get my email?[/quote]
      Oh aiight especially when I heard he went to Morehouse. I was yeah DEFINITELY gay. Wow I stand corrected. You sent me the email??? THANKS! Going to check it now![/quote]
      LMAO! Toya you know you wrong for that. But you right, it’s so many homies @ The House, it’s like a gay man’s paradise…[/quote]
      HELL YEAH! I went to Spelman I know!!!

    73. posted by ~*Cherishedbyu*~ hates this part right here

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:43 PM

      [quote comment="370994"]FONZ IS NOT GAY! I’m tellin ya’ll the “thugs” be gay! I never hear “50 is gay, Wayne is gay” these men got ya’ll confused![/quote]
      :lol: Wayne n 50 are not gay, for my sake!

    74. posted by Miss GQ (Striving to be the female Hype Williams)

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:43 PM

      [quote comment="370992"][quote comment="370924"]she was in Benjamin Button and Ne-yo’s ‘Mad’ video….

      Cute couple, I’m glad I’m getting over that mini crush I had on Fonz :oops:[/quote]
      LOL.. you was crushing on him!?!? I must admitt I think he is quite handsome..[/quote]
      he is a little cutie..lol

    75. posted by S&J

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:44 PM

      [quote comment="370995"][quote comment="370985"][quote comment="370973"][quote comment="370958"]Hey that’s Marlon’s girlfriend from White Chicks!! I was tryna figure out who she was. E’erybody wanna put actress as their title but ain’t done nothin but a Mickey D’s commercial :roll:[/quote]
      haha is it really?? I didn’t recognize her[/quote]
      Isnt she also in Ne-Yo’s mad video?[/quote]
      YUP[/quote]
      okay so that was definitely her in Benjamin Button! I wish her luck in her acting career, I see big thangs for her!

    76. posted by ☼GhettoGossipGirl☼ ~Needs a Concealed Carry Permit and a Pistol~

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:44 PM

      [quote comment="370984"][quote comment="370978"][quote comment="370914"]I need her boots.
      Fonzy like girls??? Couldve fooled me!!![/quote]
      I’m gonna attempt to go online and try to find someone uglier than the guy in your gravie….Wish me luck![/quote]
      LOL OK…Good Luck
      There arent many faces that can beat this cool motha lova :cool:[/quote]

      :lol:

    77. posted by IT IS WHAT IT IS....

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:44 PM

      [quote comment="370985"][quote comment="370973"][quote comment="370958"]Hey that’s Marlon’s girlfriend from White Chicks!! I was tryna figure out who she was. E’erybody wanna put actress as their title but ain’t done nothin but a Mickey D’s commercial :roll:[/quote]
      haha is it really?? I didn’t recognize her[/quote]
      Isnt she also in Ne-Yo’s mad video?[/quote]
      YEP

    78. posted by S&J

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:44 PM

      [quote comment="371000"][quote comment="370994"]FONZ IS NOT GAY! I’m tellin ya’ll the “thugs” be gay! I never hear “50 is gay, Wayne is gay” these men got ya’ll confused![/quote]
      :lol: Wayne n 50 are not gay, for my sake![/quote]
      I think Wayne is for sure but IDK about 50 yet…

    79. posted by MoneyBaby

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:44 PM

      what’s so gay about him? please, this boy is on the low. have you read supaheads book? he is in it with Diddy. plus it’s been word all around the industry that he gets down….on the low…he gets the side eye til further notice. you betta wake up and smell a finger or two. half these guys, scratch that, more then half these industry dudes tip toe on the other side. some are tops so they don’t consider it gay at all and the others just get really missed up and act like they don’t know what happen. trust, it’s a secret society and all we ask is trust.

    80. posted by Foley.

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:45 PM

      [quote comment="370984"][quote comment="370978"][quote comment="370914"]I need her boots.
      Fonzy like girls??? Couldve fooled me!!![/quote]
      I’m gonna attempt to go online and try to find someone uglier than the guy in your gravie….Wish me luck![/quote]
      LOL OK…Good Luck
      There arent many faces that can beat this cool motha lova :cool:[/quote]
      Vogue, your gravi makes me nauseous.

    81. posted by Miss GQ (Striving to be the female Hype Williams)

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:46 PM

      [quote comment="371000"][quote comment="370994"]FONZ IS NOT GAY! I’m tellin ya’ll the “thugs” be gay! I never hear “50 is gay, Wayne is gay” these men got ya’ll confused![/quote]
      :lol: Wayne n 50 are not gay, for my sake![/quote]
      bull shit, them clowns are gay on the SNEAK tip (not sure about 50, but wayne for sure) but I wudn’t be surprised if evidence of 50 came up

    82. posted by lori

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:46 PM

      I don’t care what anybody says those are women’s jeans he’s wearing.

    83. posted by IT IS WHAT IT IS....

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:46 PM

      [quote comment="370999"][quote comment="370966"][quote comment="370953"][quote comment="370916"][quote comment="370892"]:shock: Am I the only one who thought he was gay? lol Oh well they’re a cute couple![/quote]
      Nope!!! I thought he was TANGY as they come but I guess not…they look cute…did you get my email?[/quote]
      Oh aiight especially when I heard he went to Morehouse. I was yeah DEFINITELY gay. Wow I stand corrected. You sent me the email??? THANKS! Going to check it now![/quote]
      LMAO! Toya you know you wrong for that. But you right, it’s so many homies @ The House, it’s like a gay man’s paradise…[/quote]
      HELL YEAH! I went to Spelman I know!!![/quote]
      LOL THAT IS TRUE, I WENT TO TUSKEGEE AND EVERY CLASSIC U COULD EASILY POINT OUT WHICH ONES WERE GAY. BUT OF COURSE ALL MEN THAT ATTEND MOREHOUSE ARENT

    84. posted by SxyKole *Obamas Stan #4*Take A Day To Heal From The Lies You've Told Yourself And The One That Have Been Told To You!!!

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:47 PM

      [quote comment="370998"][quote comment="370992"][quote comment="370924"]she was in Benjamin Button and Ne-yo’s ‘Mad’ video….

      Cute couple, I’m glad I’m getting over that mini crush I had on Fonz :oops:[/quote]
      LOL.. you was crushing on him!?!? I must admitt I think he is quite handsome..[/quote]
      yup I like him. Hes a cutie![/quote]
      [quote comment="371001"][quote comment="370992"][quote comment="370924"]she was in Benjamin Button and Ne-yo’s ‘Mad’ video….

      Cute couple, I’m glad I’m getting over that mini crush I had on Fonz :oops:[/quote]
      LOL.. you was crushing on him!?!? I must admitt I think he is quite handsome..[/quote]
      he is a little cutie..lol[/quote]
      Yep.. I never thought he was gay, he don’t give off that gay vibe from me.. My friend says he is her husband LOL

    85. posted by IT IS WHAT IT IS....

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:47 PM

      [quote comment="371007"]what’s so gay about him? please, this boy is on the low. have you read supaheads book? he is in it with Diddy. plus it’s been word all around the industry that he gets down….on the low…he gets the side eye til further notice. you betta wake up and smell a finger or two. half these guys, scratch that, more then half these industry dudes tip toe on the other side. some are tops so they don’t consider it gay at all and the others just get really missed up and act like they don’t know what happen. trust, it’s a secret society and all we ask is trust.[/quote]
      THANKS FOR THE INFO HOMO EXPERT :roll:

    86. posted by Tina

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:48 PM

      For those of you who liked the boots they happen to be Nine West….honestly. They are from last season but i just came across them at the Nine West outlet here in manhattan…I believe on sale for $59.99….come in the black on black too….and they has alot of sizes. HTH

    87. posted by ~*Cherishedbyu*~ hates this part right here

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:48 PM

      [quote comment="371008"][quote comment="370984"][quote comment="370978"][quote comment="370914"]I need her boots.
      Fonzy like girls??? Couldve fooled me!!![/quote]
      I’m gonna attempt to go online and try to find someone uglier than the guy in your gravie….Wish me luck![/quote]
      LOL OK…Good Luck
      There arent many faces that can beat this cool motha lova :cool:[/quote]
      Vogue, your gravi makes me nauseous.[/quote]
      DEAD……Vogue ur gravie is sum popular!!! But while we laughing I think that’s that guy who was being held captive by his aunt’s friends n when he escaped he was extremely malnourished.

    88. posted by VOGUE "Even when the sky comes falling..Even when the sun don’t shine..I got faith in you & I"

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:49 PM

      [quote comment="371008"][quote comment="370984"][quote comment="370978"][quote comment="370914"]I need her boots.
      Fonzy like girls??? Couldve fooled me!!![/quote]
      I’m gonna attempt to go online and try to find someone uglier than the guy in your gravie….Wish me luck![/quote]
      LOL OK…Good Luck
      There arent many faces that can beat this cool motha lova :cool:[/quote]
      Vogue, your gravi makes me nauseous.[/quote]
      Awwww come on! He’s not that bad.
      He’s likeable in a Benjamin Button kind of way!
      Dont you agree?

    89. posted by S&J

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:50 PM

      [quote comment="371017"][quote comment="371007"]what’s so gay about him? please, this boy is on the low. have you read supaheads book? he is in it with Diddy. plus it’s been word all around the industry that he gets down….on the low…he gets the side eye til further notice. you betta wake up and smell a finger or two. half these guys, scratch that, more then half these industry dudes tip toe on the other side. some are tops so they don’t consider it gay at all and the others just get really missed up and act like they don’t know what happen. trust, it’s a secret society and all we ask is trust.[/quote]
      THANKS FOR THE INFO HOMO EXPERT :roll:[/quote]
      LOL

    90. posted by Bubbles*

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:51 PM

      She’s cute. I like her boots.

      The End.

    91. posted by ~*Cherishedbyu*~ hates this part right here

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:51 PM

      [quote comment="371010"][quote comment="371000"][quote comment="370994"]FONZ IS NOT GAY! I’m tellin ya’ll the “thugs” be gay! I never hear “50 is gay, Wayne is gay” these men got ya’ll confused![/quote]
      :lol: Wayne n 50 are not gay, for my sake![/quote]
      bull shit, them clowns are gay on the SNEAK tip (not sure about 50, but wayne for sure) but I wudn’t be surprised if evidence of 50 came up[/quote]
      Damn, I can’t win for lose….My b-ball player gotta babe on the way n these two are gay….I’m just gonna have to get used to being lonely :lol:

    92. posted by Captivating!! I got a BIG ego cuz I can back it up!

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:51 PM

      Nine west boots. got them in black last year!!!!

    93. posted by SxyKole *Obamas Stan #4*Take A Day To Heal From The Lies You've Told Yourself And The One That Have Been Told To You!!!

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:51 PM

      [quote comment="371023"][quote comment="371008"][quote comment="370984"][quote comment="370978"][quote comment="370914"]I need her boots.
      Fonzy like girls??? Couldve fooled me!!![/quote]
      I’m gonna attempt to go online and try to find someone uglier than the guy in your gravie….Wish me luck![/quote]
      LOL OK…Good Luck
      There arent many faces that can beat this cool motha lova :cool:[/quote]
      Vogue, your gravi makes me nauseous.[/quote]
      Awwww come on! He’s not that bad.
      He’s likeable in a Benjamin Button kind of way!
      Dont you agree?[/quote]
      LOL and Benjamin Button was hard to look at..esp when he was a baby

    94. posted by RAINYWATERS

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:52 PM

      [quote comment="370974"][quote comment="370955"]I appreciate Bentley because he tried to teach these knuckleheads how to dress like men[/quote]

      aAND THE COIR SINGS AGAIN “AAAMMMMMMMMMEEENNNNN”…..thats a man with exceptional style and swag…..and nows fashion like no other!!!!!!!!![/quote]

      whoever won that show? was it creepa?

    95. posted by MoneyBaby

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:53 PM

      say what you want, but it’s not a game out here

    96. posted by Niecy

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:53 PM

      [quote comment="370915"]I love this man lol! I’ve had the chance to meet him personally and he was so much different than what I thought he was. He’s sexy,educated, and well mannered lol. Not gay by far either. Good Christian brother on top of all that.[/quote]
      Amen. We black women send so many mixed messages. When a brother is on here acting like a gentlemen, being dignified and acting like a real MAN, we belittle him and call him gay. BUT when a thug fool is on here we go off about his ignorance, but still sweat his swagger and alleged “sexiness”.
      These same women are the ones that swear they love Obama and Michelle for everything they stand for as respectful, classy, educated black folks. We are so stupid. No wonder brothers do not know how to “court” us. Hell, we have no real standards of respect even for ourselves.

    97. posted by Captivating!! I got a BIG ego cuz I can back it up!

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:53 PM

      Imma put it out there…..LIL WAYNE IS NOT GAY!!!!!

    98. posted by ~*Cherishedbyu*~ hates this part right here

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:53 PM

      [quote comment="371035"][quote comment="370974"][quote comment="370955"]I appreciate Bentley because he tried to teach these knuckleheads how to dress like men[/quote]

      aAND THE COIR SINGS AGAIN “AAAMMMMMMMMMEEENNNNN”…..thats a man with exceptional style and swag…..and nows fashion like no other!!!!!!!!![/quote]

      whoever won that show? was it creepa?[/quote]
      Yeppp….I think he deserved it the most though

    99. posted by S&J

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:54 PM

      [quote comment="371037"][quote comment="370915"]I love this man lol! I’ve had the chance to meet him personally and he was so much different than what I thought he was. He’s sexy,educated, and well mannered lol. Not gay by far either. Good Christian brother on top of all that.[/quote]
      Amen. We black women send so many mixed messages. When a brother is on here acting like a gentlemen, being dignified and acting like a real MAN, we belittle him and call him gay. BUT when a thug fool is on here we go off about his ignorance, but still sweat his swagger and alleged “sexiness”.
      These same women are the ones that swear they love Obama and Michelle for everything they stand for as respectful, classy, educated black folks. We are so stupid. No wonder brothers do not know how to “court” us. Hell, we have no real standards of respect even for ourselves.[/quote]
      LOL Harsh! But u have a point! I HATE THUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUGS!

    100. posted by ☼GhettoGossipGirl☼ ~Needs a Concealed Carry Permit and a Pistol~

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:54 PM

      [quote comment="371023"][quote comment="371008"][quote comment="370984"][quote comment="370978"][quote comment="370914"]I need her boots.
      Fonzy like girls??? Couldve fooled me!!![/quote]
      I’m gonna attempt to go online and try to find someone uglier than the guy in your gravie….Wish me luck![/quote]
      LOL OK…Good Luck
      There arent many faces that can beat this cool motha lova :cool:[/quote]
      Vogue, your gravi makes me nauseous.[/quote]
      Awwww come on! He’s not that bad.
      He’s likeable in a Benjamin Button kind of way!
      Dont you agree?[/quote]

      Nah, he is truly a mess

    101. posted by ~*Cherishedbyu*~ hates this part right here

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:54 PM

      [quote comment="371038"]Imma put it out there…..LIL WAYNE IS NOT GAY!!!!![/quote]
      A sister after my own ♥ :) <—is that how the quote goes? :?

    102. posted by LSU GYRL *has on her black berret and shirt with her fist in the air!*

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:54 PM

      I like Fonzworth but those snug bootcut jeans and suede shoes are not a good look for him.

    103. posted by Yetta.... ~Now accepting applications...If you can not provide assistance, please keep ya distance!!~

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:55 PM

      [quote comment="371031"][quote comment="371023"][quote comment="371008"][quote comment="370984"][quote comment="370978"][quote comment="370914"]I need her boots.
      Fonzy like girls??? Couldve fooled me!!![/quote]
      I’m gonna attempt to go online and try to find someone uglier than the guy in your gravie….Wish me luck![/quote]
      LOL OK…Good Luck
      There arent many faces that can beat this cool motha lova :cool:[/quote]
      Vogue, your gravi makes me nauseous.[/quote]
      Awwww come on! He’s not that bad.
      He’s likeable in a Benjamin Button kind of way!
      Dont you agree?[/quote]
      LOL and Benjamin Button was hard to look at..esp when he was a baby[/quote]
      You wrong Sky!! I would have had the same reaction as dude did in that movie!!! :oops:

    104. posted by VOGUE "Even when the sky comes falling..Even when the sun don’t shine..I got faith in you & I"

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:55 PM

      [quote comment="371043"][quote comment="371023"][quote comment="371008"][quote comment="370984"][quote comment="370978"][quote comment="370914"]I need her boots.
      Fonzy like girls??? Couldve fooled me!!![/quote]
      I’m gonna attempt to go online and try to find someone uglier than the guy in your gravie….Wish me luck![/quote]
      LOL OK…Good Luck
      There arent many faces that can beat this cool motha lova :cool:[/quote]
      Vogue, your gravi makes me nauseous.[/quote]
      Awwww come on! He’s not that bad.
      He’s likeable in a Benjamin Button kind of way!
      Dont you agree?[/quote]

      Nah, he is truly a mess[/quote]
      :lol:

    105. posted by S&J

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:56 PM

      Lil Wayne is gay, Cap :lol:

    106. posted by ♥Ms. Toya♥ Obama Stan #2/Ay Hazel I like you/Can't see myself without you/my sweet hazel/cuz I think I'm in love, I'm in loooovee/ ~Lloyd

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:56 PM

      [quote comment="371012"][quote comment="370999"][quote comment="370966"][quote comment="370953"][quote comment="370916"][quote comment="370892"]:shock: Am I the only one who thought he was gay? lol Oh well they’re a cute couple![/quote]
      Nope!!! I thought he was TANGY as they come but I guess not…they look cute…did you get my email?[/quote]
      Oh aiight especially when I heard he went to Morehouse. I was yeah DEFINITELY gay. Wow I stand corrected. You sent me the email??? THANKS! Going to check it now![/quote]
      LMAO! Toya you know you wrong for that. But you right, it’s so many homies @ The House, it’s like a gay man’s paradise…[/quote]
      HELL YEAH! I went to Spelman I know!!![/quote]
      LOL THAT IS TRUE, I WENT TO TUSKEGEE AND EVERY CLASSIC U COULD EASILY POINT OUT WHICH ONES WERE GAY. BUT OF COURSE ALL MEN THAT ATTEND MOREHOUSE ARENT[/quote]
      Of course! Its just a joke…but still!! lol

    107. posted by Captivating!! I got a BIG ego cuz I can back it up!

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:56 PM

      LES~~~~~are you still in here???? That email was funny!!!! Was that a Gay college dorm? they all look suspect and I do believe i can kick both of their asses!

    108. posted by Yetta.... ~Now accepting applications...If you can not provide assistance, please keep ya distance!!~

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:56 PM

      [quote comment="371042"][quote comment="371037"][quote comment="370915"]I love this man lol! I’ve had the chance to meet him personally and he was so much different than what I thought he was. He’s sexy,educated, and well mannered lol. Not gay by far either. Good Christian brother on top of all that.[/quote]
      Amen. We black women send so many mixed messages. When a brother is on here acting like a gentlemen, being dignified and acting like a real MAN, we belittle him and call him gay. BUT when a thug fool is on here we go off about his ignorance, but still sweat his swagger and alleged “sexiness”.
      These same women are the ones that swear they love Obama and Michelle for everything they stand for as respectful, classy, educated black folks. We are so stupid. No wonder brothers do not know how to “court” us. Hell, we have no real standards of respect even for ourselves.[/quote]
      LOL Harsh! But u have a point! I HATE THUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUGS![/quote]
      I would take a Bently any day of the year over a Lil Wayne, plies, or any ‘nem niggas!!!!

    109. posted by VOGUE "Even when the sky comes falling..Even when the sun don’t shine..I got faith in you & I"

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:57 PM

      [quote comment="371047"][quote comment="371031"][quote comment="371023"][quote comment="371008"][quote comment="370984"][quote comment="370978"][quote comment="370914"]I need her boots.
      Fonzy like girls??? Couldve fooled me!!![/quote]
      I’m gonna attempt to go online and try to find someone uglier than the guy in your gravie….Wish me luck![/quote]
      LOL OK…Good Luck
      There arent many faces that can beat this cool motha lova :cool:[/quote]
      Vogue, your gravi makes me nauseous.[/quote]
      Awwww come on! He’s not that bad.
      He’s likeable in a Benjamin Button kind of way!
      Dont you agree?[/quote]
      LOL and Benjamin Button was hard to look at..esp when he was a baby[/quote]
      You wrong Sky!! I would have had the same reaction as dude did in that movie!!! :oops:[/quote]
      Awww that aint right. His dad was dead wrong for that LOL

    110. posted by Yetta.... ~Now accepting applications...If you can not provide assistance, please keep ya distance!!~

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:57 PM

      Is anyone still in that last post?

    111. posted by southernBella*AKA* B%tch Better Have My Money!!!

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:57 PM

      [quote comment="371042"][quote comment="371037"][quote comment="370915"]I love this man lol! I’ve had the chance to meet him personally and he was so much different than what I thought he was. He’s sexy,educated, and well mannered lol. Not gay by far either. Good Christian brother on top of all that.[/quote]
      Amen. We black women send so many mixed messages. When a brother is on here acting like a gentlemen, being dignified and acting like a real MAN, we belittle him and call him gay. BUT when a thug fool is on here we go off about his ignorance, but still sweat his swagger and alleged “sexiness”.
      These same women are the ones that swear they love Obama and Michelle for everything they stand for as respectful, classy, educated black folks. We are so stupid. No wonder brothers do not know how to “court” us. Hell, we have no real standards of respect even for ourselves.[/quote]
      LOL Harsh! But u have a point! I HATE THUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUGS![/quote]

      I like them both!! Both I really like educated thugs…those are the ones that I fawn over…

    112. posted by ~*Cherishedbyu*~ hates this part right here

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:57 PM

      [quote comment="371050"]Lil Wayne is gay, Cap :lol:[/quote]
      So is P.Williams!!!

    113. posted by TRUTHHURTS

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:57 PM

      [quote comment="371008"][quote comment="370984"][quote comment="370978"][quote comment="370914"]I need her boots.
      Fonzy like girls??? Couldve fooled me!!![/quote]
      I’m gonna attempt to go online and try to find someone uglier than the guy in your gravie….Wish me luck![/quote]
      LOL OK…Good Luck
      There arent many faces that can beat this cool motha lova :cool:[/quote]
      Vogue, your gravi makes me nauseous.[/quote]
      Just being nosey,but where is this ugly gravi at that vouge has i do not see. all i see is beyonce in her gravi,am i missing something do i need a special pair of glasses,LOL

    114. posted by MsLaTonya

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:57 PM

      [quote comment="371037"][quote comment="370915"]I love this man lol! I’ve had the chance to meet him personally and he was so much different than what I thought he was. He’s sexy,educated, and well mannered lol. Not gay by far either. Good Christian brother on top of all that.[/quote]
      Amen. We black women send so many mixed messages. When a brother is on here acting like a gentlemen, being dignified and acting like a real MAN, we belittle him and call him gay. BUT when a thug fool is on here we go off about his ignorance, but still sweat his swagger and alleged “sexiness”.
      These same women are the ones that swear they love Obama and Michelle for everything they stand for as respectful, classy, educated black folks. We are so stupid. No wonder brothers do not know how to “court” us. Hell, we have no real standards of respect even for ourselves.[/quote]

      PREACH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    115. posted by ANCHA

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:58 PM

      They look like Bro n Sis. I like her Nine West boots though. Cute.

    116. posted by S&J

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:58 PM

      [quote comment="371055"][quote comment="371042"][quote comment="371037"][quote comment="370915"]I love this man lol! I’ve had the chance to meet him personally and he was so much different than what I thought he was. He’s sexy,educated, and well mannered lol. Not gay by far either. Good Christian brother on top of all that.[/quote]
      Amen. We black women send so many mixed messages. When a brother is on here acting like a gentlemen, being dignified and acting like a real MAN, we belittle him and call him gay. BUT when a thug fool is on here we go off about his ignorance, but still sweat his swagger and alleged “sexiness”.
      These same women are the ones that swear they love Obama and Michelle for everything they stand for as respectful, classy, educated black folks. We are so stupid. No wonder brothers do not know how to “court” us. Hell, we have no real standards of respect even for ourselves.[/quote]
      LOL Harsh! But u have a point! I HATE THUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUGS![/quote]
      I would take a Bently any day of the year over a Lil Wayne, plies, or any ‘nem niggas!!!![/quote]
      Yup. Bentley probably treats a lady just right and dont have twelve baby mommas running around (Wayne)!

    117. posted by Respect me, even if you don't RESEPCT yourself.

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:58 PM

      She the chic in Neyo new video, right?

      Be nice, awww, I guess

    118. posted by ♥Ms. Toya♥ Obama Stan #2/Ay Hazel I like you/Can't see myself without you/my sweet hazel/cuz I think I'm in love, I'm in loooovee/ ~Lloyd

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:58 PM

      [quote comment="371017"][quote comment="371007"]what’s so gay about him? please, this boy is on the low. have you read supaheads book? he is in it with Diddy. plus it’s been word all around the industry that he gets down….on the low…he gets the side eye til further notice. you betta wake up and smell a finger or two. half these guys, scratch that, more then half these industry dudes tip toe on the other side. some are tops so they don’t consider it gay at all and the others just get really missed up and act like they don’t know what happen. trust, it’s a secret society and all we ask is trust.[/quote]
      THANKS FOR THE INFO HOMO EXPERT :roll:[/quote]
      LOL

    119. posted by ☼GhettoGossipGirl☼ ~Needs a Concealed Carry Permit and a Pistol~

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:58 PM

      [quote comment="371059"][quote comment="371050"]Lil Wayne is gay, Cap :lol:[/quote]
      So is P.Williams!!![/quote]

      :shock:

    120. posted by Yetta.... ~Now accepting applications...If you can not provide assistance, please keep ya distance!!~

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:58 PM

      [quote comment="371056"][quote comment="371047"][quote comment="371031"][quote comment="371023"][quote comment="371008"][quote comment="370984"][quote comment="370978"][quote comment="370914"]I need her boots.
      Fonzy like girls??? Couldve fooled me!!![/quote]
      I’m gonna attempt to go online and try to find someone uglier than the guy in your gravie….Wish me luck![/quote]
      LOL OK…Good Luck
      There arent many faces that can beat this cool motha lova :cool:[/quote]
      Vogue, your gravi makes me nauseous.[/quote]
      Awwww come on! He’s not that bad.
      He’s likeable in a Benjamin Button kind of way!
      Dont you agree?[/quote]
      LOL and Benjamin Button was hard to look at..esp when he was a baby[/quote]
      You wrong Sky!! I would have had the same reaction as dude did in that movie!!! :oops:[/quote]
      Awww that aint right. His dad was dead wrong for that LOL[/quote]
      I am horrified at your Gravi…is that a Zombie from Tomb Raider??????

    121. posted by southernBella*AKA* B%tch Better Have My Money!!!

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:59 PM

      [quote comment="371057"]Is anyone still in that last post?[/quote]

      I’m so glad we all that discussion. It’s good to see everybody talk about something of importance..the black community as a whole needs to have more discussions like that!

    122. posted by S&J

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:59 PM

      [quote comment="371059"][quote comment="371050"]Lil Wayne is gay, Cap :lol:[/quote]
      So is P.Williams!!![/quote]
      LOL, but Pharrell doesnt have a picture of kissing his “daddy” tho. I WIN!

    123. posted by ~*Cherishedbyu*~ hates this part right here

      Wed, January 7, 2009 2:59 PM

      [quote comment="371063"][quote comment="371055"][quote comment="371042"][quote comment="371037"][quote comment="370915"]I love this man lol! I’ve had the chance to meet him personally and he was so much different than what I thought he was. He’s sexy,educated, and well mannered lol. Not gay by far either. Good Christian brother on top of all that.[/quote]
      Amen. We black women send so many mixed messages. When a brother is on here acting like a gentlemen, being dignified and acting like a real MAN, we belittle him and call him gay. BUT when a thug fool is on here we go off about his ignorance, but still sweat his swagger and alleged “sexiness”.
      These same women are the ones that swear they love Obama and Michelle for everything they stand for as respectful, classy, educated black folks. We are so stupid. No wonder brothers do not know how to “court” us. Hell, we have no real standards of respect even for ourselves.[/quote]
      LOL Harsh! But u have a point! I HATE THUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUGS![/quote]
      I would take a Bently any day of the year over a Lil Wayne, plies, or any ‘nem niggas!!!![/quote]
      Yup. Bentley probably treats a lady just right and dont have twelve baby mommas running around (Wayne)![/quote]

      Just two!! Get it right! And he’s not out designing baby blue glitter onesies either! :lol:

    124. posted by S&J

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:00 PM

      [quote comment="371058"][quote comment="371042"][quote comment="371037"][quote comment="370915"]I love this man lol! I’ve had the chance to meet him personally and he was so much different than what I thought he was. He’s sexy,educated, and well mannered lol. Not gay by far either. Good Christian brother on top of all that.[/quote]
      Amen. We black women send so many mixed messages. When a brother is on here acting like a gentlemen, being dignified and acting like a real MAN, we belittle him and call him gay. BUT when a thug fool is on here we go off about his ignorance, but still sweat his swagger and alleged “sexiness”.
      These same women are the ones that swear they love Obama and Michelle for everything they stand for as respectful, classy, educated black folks. We are so stupid. No wonder brothers do not know how to “court” us. Hell, we have no real standards of respect even for ourselves.[/quote]
      LOL Harsh! But u have a point! I HATE THUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUGS![/quote]

      I like them both!! Both I really like educated thugs…those are the ones that I fawn over…[/quote]
      No thugs for me! Anti-thug!

    125. posted by Yetta.... ~Now accepting applications...If you can not provide assistance, please keep ya distance!!~

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:00 PM

      [quote comment="371060"][quote comment="371008"][quote comment="370984"][quote comment="370978"][quote comment="370914"]I need her boots.
      Fonzy like girls??? Couldve fooled me!!![/quote]
      I’m gonna attempt to go online and try to find someone uglier than the guy in your gravie….Wish me luck![/quote]
      LOL OK…Good Luck
      There arent many faces that can beat this cool motha lova :cool:[/quote]
      Vogue, your gravi makes me nauseous.[/quote]
      Just being nosey,but where is this ugly gravi at that vouge has i do not see. all i see is beyonce in her gravi,am i missing something do i need a special pair of glasses,LOL[/quote]
      Clear your cookies hun!! It’s a horrible sight…

    126. posted by VOGUE "Even when the sky comes falling..Even when the sun don’t shine..I got faith in you & I"

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:00 PM

      [quote comment="371060"][quote comment="371008"][quote comment="370984"][quote comment="370978"][quote comment="370914"]I need her boots.
      Fonzy like girls??? Couldve fooled me!!![/quote]
      I’m gonna attempt to go online and try to find someone uglier than the guy in your gravie….Wish me luck![/quote]
      LOL OK…Good Luck
      There arent many faces that can beat this cool motha lova :cool:[/quote]
      Vogue, your gravi makes me nauseous.[/quote]
      Just being nosey,but where is this ugly gravi at that vouge has i do not see. all i see is beyonce in her gravi,am i missing something do i need a special pair of glasses,LOL[/quote]
      If you want to feast your eyes on the cool motha lova :cool: in my gravi clear your cookies :lol: I havent had B in my gravi for ages.

    127. posted by Captivating!! I got a BIG ego cuz I can back it up!

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:00 PM

      [quote comment="371050"]Lil Wayne is gay, Cap :lol:[/quote]
      S&J….do you want me to call out your gravi???? :)

    128. posted by SxyKole *Obamas Stan #4*Take A Day To Heal From The Lies You've Told Yourself And The One That Have Been Told To You!!!

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:01 PM

      [quote comment="371047"][quote comment="371031"][quote comment="371023"][quote comment="371008"][quote comment="370984"][quote comment="370978"][quote comment="370914"]I need her boots.
      Fonzy like girls??? Couldve fooled me!!![/quote]
      I’m gonna attempt to go online and try to find someone uglier than the guy in your gravie….Wish me luck![/quote]
      LOL OK…Good Luck
      There arent many faces that can beat this cool motha lova :cool:[/quote]
      Vogue, your gravi makes me nauseous.[/quote]
      Awwww come on! He’s not that bad.
      He’s likeable in a Benjamin Button kind of way!
      Dont you agree?[/quote]
      LOL and Benjamin Button was hard to look at..esp when he was a baby[/quote]
      You wrong Sky!! I would have had the same reaction as dude did in that movie!!! :oops:[/quote]
      :lol: What?? What did I say? which dude? The Dad?

    129. posted by Yetta.... ~Now accepting applications...If you can not provide assistance, please keep ya distance!!~

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:01 PM

      [quote comment="371074"][quote comment="371063"][quote comment="371055"][quote comment="371042"][quote comment="371037"][quote comment="370915"]I love this man lol! I’ve had the chance to meet him personally and he was so much different than what I thought he was. He’s sexy,educated, and well mannered lol. Not gay by far either. Good Christian brother on top of all that.[/quote]
      Amen. We black women send so many mixed messages. When a brother is on here acting like a gentlemen, being dignified and acting like a real MAN, we belittle him and call him gay. BUT when a thug fool is on here we go off about his ignorance, but still sweat his swagger and alleged “sexiness”.
      These same women are the ones that swear they love Obama and Michelle for everything they stand for as respectful, classy, educated black folks. We are so stupid. No wonder brothers do not know how to “court” us. Hell, we have no real standards of respect even for ourselves.[/quote]
      LOL Harsh! But u have a point! I HATE THUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUGS![/quote]
      I would take a Bently any day of the year over a Lil Wayne, plies, or any ‘nem niggas!!!![/quote]
      Yup. Bentley probably treats a lady just right and dont have twelve baby mommas running around (Wayne)![/quote]

      Just two!! Get it right! And he’s not out designing baby blue glitter onesies either! :lol:[/quote]
      BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAAAHAHAA!!!!!!!!!!!!

      Wait…….who designs baby blue glitter onesies..??? :shock:

    130. posted by S&J

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:01 PM

      [quote comment="371074"][quote comment="371063"][quote comment="371055"][quote comment="371042"][quote comment="371037"][quote comment="370915"]I love this man lol! I’ve had the chance to meet him personally and he was so much different than what I thought he was. He’s sexy,educated, and well mannered lol. Not gay by far either. Good Christian brother on top of all that.[/quote]
      Amen. We black women send so many mixed messages. When a brother is on here acting like a gentlemen, being dignified and acting like a real MAN, we belittle him and call him gay. BUT when a thug fool is on here we go off about his ignorance, but still sweat his swagger and alleged “sexiness”.
      These same women are the ones that swear they love Obama and Michelle for everything they stand for as respectful, classy, educated black folks. We are so stupid. No wonder brothers do not know how to “court” us. Hell, we have no real standards of respect even for ourselves.[/quote]
      LOL Harsh! But u have a point! I HATE THUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUGS![/quote]
      I would take a Bently any day of the year over a Lil Wayne, plies, or any ‘nem niggas!!!![/quote]
      Yup. Bentley probably treats a lady just right and dont have twelve baby mommas running around (Wayne)![/quote]

      Just two!! Get it right! And he’s not out designing baby blue glitter onesies either! :lol:[/quote]
      I bet you Wayne is gunna be the first to rock those onesies. Act like u dont know, my baby is a trendsetter. Wayne is always underneath his balls wearing his BBC shirts soooo :roll: to you Cherished!

    131. posted by Lexo

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:01 PM

      Is Fonzy feeling the recession?What’s up with a haircut?

    132. posted by nychele

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:01 PM

      hmmm, FonzWorth is lookin’ a little hippy…It remindes me of the episode of girlfriends when Joan didnt want to date a guy because he had hips like a women,lol.

    133. posted by Lovely One

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:02 PM

      [quote comment="370994"]FONZ IS NOT GAY! I’m tellin ya’ll the “thugs” be gay! I never hear “50 is gay, Wayne is gay” these men got ya’ll confused![/quote]
      You’ve never heard anyone say that 50 or Lil Wayne is gay? You must be deaf. lol

    134. posted by S&J

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:02 PM

      [quote comment="371079"][quote comment="371050"]Lil Wayne is gay, Cap :lol:[/quote]
      S&J….do you want me to call out your gravi???? :)[/quote]
      who Iman? What she down low now?

      LOL PHARRELL IS NOT GAY! Ya’ll got it twisted! He has no pics kissing his alleged “Father” but Wayne does soooo wat does that make him? GAY!

    135. posted by Yetta.... ~Now accepting applications...If you can not provide assistance, please keep ya distance!!~

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:02 PM

      [quote comment="371083"][quote comment="371047"][quote comment="371031"][quote comment="371023"][quote comment="371008"][quote comment="370984"][quote comment="370978"][quote comment="370914"]I need her boots.
      Fonzy like girls??? Couldve fooled me!!![/quote]
      I’m gonna attempt to go online and try to find someone uglier than the guy in your gravie….Wish me luck![/quote]
      LOL OK…Good Luck
      There arent many faces that can beat this cool motha lova :cool:[/quote]
      Vogue, your gravi makes me nauseous.[/quote]
      Awwww come on! He’s not that bad.
      He’s likeable in a Benjamin Button kind of way!
      Dont you agree?[/quote]
      LOL and Benjamin Button was hard to look at..esp when he was a baby[/quote]
      You wrong Sky!! I would have had the same reaction as dude did in that movie!!! :oops:[/quote]
      :lol: What?? What did I say? which dude? The Dad?[/quote]
      ….hard to look at….

      No, Queenie’s husband..Remember how he looked at him after he stepped on him?

    136. posted by VOGUE "Even when the sky comes falling..Even when the sun don’t shine..I got faith in you & I"

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:02 PM

      [quote comment="371074"][quote comment="371063"][quote comment="371055"][quote comment="371042"][quote comment="371037"][quote comment="370915"]I love this man lol! I’ve had the chance to meet him personally and he was so much different than what I thought he was. He’s sexy,educated, and well mannered lol. Not gay by far either. Good Christian brother on top of all that.[/quote]
      Amen. We black women send so many mixed messages. When a brother is on here acting like a gentlemen, being dignified and acting like a real MAN, we belittle him and call him gay. BUT when a thug fool is on here we go off about his ignorance, but still sweat his swagger and alleged “sexiness”.
      These same women are the ones that swear they love Obama and Michelle for everything they stand for as respectful, classy, educated black folks. We are so stupid. No wonder brothers do not know how to “court” us. Hell, we have no real standards of respect even for ourselves.[/quote]
      LOL Harsh! But u have a point! I HATE THUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUGS![/quote]
      I would take a Bently any day of the year over a Lil Wayne, plies, or any ‘nem niggas!!!![/quote]
      Yup. Bentley probably treats a lady just right and dont have twelve baby mommas running around (Wayne)![/quote]

      Just two!! Get it right! And he’s not out designing baby blue glitter onesies either! :lol:[/quote]
      LMAO!! You seen that too? I almost DIED!! Sales for that foolishness better remain at ZERO!

    137. posted by southernBella*AKA* B%tch Better Have My Money!!!

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:02 PM

      [quote comment="371061"][quote comment="371037"][quote comment="370915"]I love this man lol! I’ve had the chance to meet him personally and he was so much different than what I thought he was. He’s sexy,educated, and well mannered lol. Not gay by far either. Good Christian brother on top of all that.[/quote]
      Amen. We black women send so many mixed messages. When a brother is on here acting like a gentlemen, being dignified and acting like a real MAN, we belittle him and call him gay. BUT when a thug fool is on here we go off about his ignorance, but still sweat his swagger and alleged “sexiness”.
      These same women are the ones that swear they love Obama and Michelle for everything they stand for as respectful, classy, educated black folks. We are so stupid. No wonder brothers do not know how to “court” us. Hell, we have no real standards of respect even for ourselves.[/quote]

      PREACH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!![/quote]

      I messed around and told my guy he didnt have no swagger…he got so pissed…

      He was like so I beating your a$$ everyday and not taking care of my responsibilities you’d call that having swagger…He was like just because I dont curse a lot and I respect my mama and go to church dont mean I wont beat nigga’s a$$…He was remember I was in the military for 8 years..do you know how many people I had to “deal with” in Iraq…I was like “I’m sowwy”

    138. posted by ☼GhettoGossipGirl☼ ~Needs a Concealed Carry Permit and a Pistol~

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:03 PM

      [quote comment="371085"][quote comment="371074"][quote comment="371063"][quote comment="371055"][quote comment="371042"][quote comment="371037"][quote comment="370915"]I love this man lol! I’ve had the chance to meet him personally and he was so much different than what I thought he was. He’s sexy,educated, and well mannered lol. Not gay by far either. Good Christian brother on top of all that.[/quote]
      Amen. We black women send so many mixed messages. When a brother is on here acting like a gentlemen, being dignified and acting like a real MAN, we belittle him and call him gay. BUT when a thug fool is on here we go off about his ignorance, but still sweat his swagger and alleged “sexiness”.
      These same women are the ones that swear they love Obama and Michelle for everything they stand for as respectful, classy, educated black folks. We are so stupid. No wonder brothers do not know how to “court” us. Hell, we have no real standards of respect even for ourselves.[/quote]
      LOL Harsh! But u have a point! I HATE THUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUGS![/quote]
      I would take a Bently any day of the year over a Lil Wayne, plies, or any ‘nem niggas!!!![/quote]
      Yup. Bentley probably treats a lady just right and dont have twelve baby mommas running around (Wayne)![/quote]

      Just two!! Get it right! And he’s not out designing baby blue glitter onesies either! :lol:[/quote]
      I bet you Wayne is gunna be the first to rock those onesies. Act like u dont know, my baby is a trendsetter. Wayne is always underneath his balls wearing his BBC shirts soooo :roll: to you Cherished![/quote]

      LOL…S&J you know that onsie is a mess…

    139. posted by ~*Cherishedbyu*~ hates this part right here

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:04 PM

      [quote comment="371085"][quote comment="371074"][quote comment="371063"][quote comment="371055"][quote comment="371042"][quote comment="371037"][quote comment="370915"]I love this man lol! I’ve had the chance to meet him personally and he was so much different than what I thought he was. He’s sexy,educated, and well mannered lol. Not gay by far either. Good Christian brother on top of all that.[/quote]
      Amen. We black women send so many mixed messages. When a brother is on here acting like a gentlemen, being dignified and acting like a real MAN, we belittle him and call him gay. BUT when a thug fool is on here we go off about his ignorance, but still sweat his swagger and alleged “sexiness”.
      These same women are the ones that swear they love Obama and Michelle for everything they stand for as respectful, classy, educated black folks. We are so stupid. No wonder brothers do not know how to “court” us. Hell, we have no real standards of respect even for ourselves.[/quote]
      LOL Harsh! But u have a point! I HATE THUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUGS![/quote]
      I would take a Bently any day of the year over a Lil Wayne, plies, or any ‘nem niggas!!!![/quote]
      Yup. Bentley probably treats a lady just right and dont have twelve baby mommas running around (Wayne)![/quote]

      Just two!! Get it right! And he’s not out designing baby blue glitter onesies either! :lol:[/quote]
      I bet you Wayne is gunna be the first to rock those onesies. Act like u dont know, my baby is a trendsetter. Wayne is always underneath his balls wearing his BBC shirts soooo :roll: to you Cherished![/quote]
      :lol: Awwwwww!!! I can deal with the BBC, but the adult baby outfit has to go….Now smile cuz u know it was funny

    140. posted by S&J

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:04 PM

      [quote comment="371090"][quote comment="370994"]FONZ IS NOT GAY! I’m tellin ya’ll the “thugs” be gay! I never hear “50 is gay, Wayne is gay” these men got ya’ll confused![/quote]
      You’ve never heard anyone say that 50 or Lil Wayne is gay? You must be deaf. lol[/quote]
      Nope, not as much as I hear them callin out Pharrell, Fonz and the other “diff” guys

    141. posted by Yetta.... ~Now accepting applications...If you can not provide assistance, please keep ya distance!!~

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:04 PM

      [quote comment="371069"][quote comment="371057"]Is anyone still in that last post?[/quote]

      I’m so glad we all that discussion. It’s good to see everybody talk about something of importance..the black community as a whole needs to have more discussions like that![/quote]
      I know…Convos like that actually bring people together.. You really have to be mature though, and I think we all handled each other’s comments well, even if we didn’t agree on errthang!!

    142. posted by southernBella*AKA* B%tch Better Have My Money!!!

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:04 PM

      [quote comment="371090"][quote comment="370994"]FONZ IS NOT GAY! I’m tellin ya’ll the “thugs” be gay! I never hear “50 is gay, Wayne is gay” these men got ya’ll confused![/quote]
      You’ve never heard anyone say that 50 or Lil Wayne is gay? You must be deaf. lol[/quote]

      I surely think 50 and Yayo be getting it on with each other!!

    143. posted by S&J

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:05 PM

      [quote comment="371096"][quote comment="371085"][quote comment="371074"][quote comment="371063"][quote comment="371055"][quote comment="371042"][quote comment="371037"][quote comment="370915"]I love this man lol! I’ve had the chance to meet him personally and he was so much different than what I thought he was. He’s sexy,educated, and well mannered lol. Not gay by far either. Good Christian brother on top of all that.[/quote]
      Amen. We black women send so many mixed messages. When a brother is on here acting like a gentlemen, being dignified and acting like a real MAN, we belittle him and call him gay. BUT when a thug fool is on here we go off about his ignorance, but still sweat his swagger and alleged “sexiness”.
      These same women are the ones that swear they love Obama and Michelle for everything they stand for as respectful, classy, educated black folks. We are so stupid. No wonder brothers do not know how to “court” us. Hell, we have no real standards of respect even for ourselves.[/quote]
      LOL Harsh! But u have a point! I HATE THUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUGS![/quote]
      I would take a Bently any day of the year over a Lil Wayne, plies, or any ‘nem niggas!!!![/quote]
      Yup. Bentley probably treats a lady just right and dont have twelve baby mommas running around (Wayne)![/quote]

      Just two!! Get it right! And he’s not out designing baby blue glitter onesies either! :lol:[/quote]
      I bet you Wayne is gunna be the first to rock those onesies. Act like u dont know, my baby is a trendsetter. Wayne is always underneath his balls wearing his BBC shirts soooo :roll: to you Cherished![/quote]

      LOL…S&J you know that onsie is a mess…[/quote]
      I support everything my man does :lol:

    144. posted by Dame(AFTERNOON LADIES)

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:05 PM

      Fonzworth got a WHAT? moving on heeeey ladies xoxoxoxo

    145. posted by southernBella*AKA* B%tch Better Have My Money!!!

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:06 PM

      [quote comment="371102"][quote comment="371069"][quote comment="371057"]Is anyone still in that last post?[/quote]

      I’m so glad we all that discussion. It’s good to see everybody talk about something of importance..the black community as a whole needs to have more discussions like that![/quote]
      I know…Convos like that actually bring people together.. You really have to be mature though, and I think we all handled each other’s comments well, even if we didn’t agree on errthang!![/quote]

      Yeah for one!!

    146. posted by southernBella*AKA* B%tch Better Have My Money!!!

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:07 PM

      *once

    147. posted by ~*Cherishedbyu*~ hates this part right here

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:07 PM

      [quote comment="371111"]Fonzworth got a WHAT? moving on heeeey ladies xoxoxoxo[/quote]
      HEYYYYYYY!

    148. posted by Obama for 8!!! Whether you like it or not he is your President!!!

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:07 PM

      [quote comment="370925"]I guess he will fake it till he makes it!…but i do love me some Cool Outrageous Lovers Of Unique Raw Style or wateva that group name is![/quote]

      OKAY! Don’t Stop! LOL

    149. posted by Keli

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:07 PM

      I don’t gay from Bentley at all..

      He’s just as gay as Andre 3000.

    150. posted by S&J

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:08 PM

      [quote comment="371111"]Fonzworth got a WHAT? moving on heeeey ladies xoxoxoxo[/quote]
      Afternoon Dame!

    151. posted by VOGUE "Even when the sky comes falling..Even when the sun don’t shine..I got faith in you & I"

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:08 PM

      [quote comment="371108"][quote comment="371096"][quote comment="371085"][quote comment="371074"][quote comment="371063"][quote comment="371055"][quote comment="371042"][quote comment="371037"][quote comment="370915"]I love this man lol! I’ve had the chance to meet him personally and he was so much different than what I thought he was. He’s sexy,educated, and well mannered lol. Not gay by far either. Good Christian brother on top of all that.[/quote]
      Amen. We black women send so many mixed messages. When a brother is on here acting like a gentlemen, being dignified and acting like a real MAN, we belittle him and call him gay. BUT when a thug fool is on here we go off about his ignorance, but still sweat his swagger and alleged “sexiness”.
      These same women are the ones that swear they love Obama and Michelle for everything they stand for as respectful, classy, educated black folks. We are so stupid. No wonder brothers do not know how to “court” us. Hell, we have no real standards of respect even for ourselves.[/quote]
      LOL Harsh! But u have a point! I HATE THUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUGS![/quote]
      I would take a Bently any day of the year over a Lil Wayne, plies, or any ‘nem niggas!!!![/quote]
      Yup. Bentley probably treats a lady just right and dont have twelve baby mommas running around (Wayne)![/quote]

      Just two!! Get it right! And he’s not out designing baby blue glitter onesies either! :lol:[/quote]
      I bet you Wayne is gunna be the first to rock those onesies. Act like u dont know, my baby is a trendsetter. Wayne is always underneath his balls wearing his BBC shirts soooo :roll: to you Cherished![/quote]

      LOL…S&J you know that onsie is a mess…[/quote]
      I support everything my man does :lol:[/quote]
      S&J you shouldve told him about that.
      I dont think I would let my man sign his name off on something like that…

    152. posted by southernBella*AKA* B%tch Better Have My Money!!!

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:08 PM

      [quote comment="371119"]I don’t gay from Bentley at all..

      He’s just as gay as Andre 3000.[/quote]

      3000 is sooooo sexy to me!!

    153. posted by Yetta.... ~Now accepting applications...If you can not provide assistance, please keep ya distance!!~

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:09 PM

      [quote comment="371112"][quote comment="371102"][quote comment="371069"][quote comment="371057"]Is anyone still in that last post?[/quote]

      I’m so glad we all that discussion. It’s good to see everybody talk about something of importance..the black community as a whole needs to have more discussions like that![/quote]
      I know…Convos like that actually bring people together.. You really have to be mature though, and I think we all handled each other’s comments well, even if we didn’t agree on errthang!![/quote]

      Yeah for one!![/quote]
      :P

    154. posted by Miss GQ (Striving to be the female Hype Williams)

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:09 PM

      What are we talking about???

    155. posted by Yetta.... ~Now accepting applications...If you can not provide assistance, please keep ya distance!!~

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:10 PM

      [quote comment="371125"][quote comment="371119"]I don’t gay from Bentley at all..

      He’s just as gay as Andre 3000.[/quote]

      3000 is sooooo sexy to me!![/quote]
      Yessir!! I just saw him in Idlewild a few weeks ago!! Me likey!!!

    156. posted by ~*Cherishedbyu*~ hates this part right here

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:10 PM

      BRB….I still have a Christmas tree up. Time to take it down

    157. posted by S&J

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:10 PM

      [quote comment="371119"]I don’t gay from Bentley at all..

      He’s just as gay as Andre 3000.[/quote]
      Im guessin u are saying they are not gay?

    158. posted by LSU GYRL *has on her black berret and shirt with her fist in the air!*

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:10 PM

      *ponders* I bet you Fonzy is hung like a horse…

    159. posted by SxyKole *Obamas Stan #4*Take A Day To Heal From The Lies You've Told Yourself And The One That Have Been Told To You!!!

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:10 PM

      [quote comment="371092"][quote comment="371083"][quote comment="371047"][quote comment="371031"][quote comment="371023"][quote comment="371008"][quote comment="370984"][quote comment="370978"][quote comment="370914"]I need her boots.
      Fonzy like girls??? Couldve fooled me!!![/quote]
      I’m gonna attempt to go online and try to find someone uglier than the guy in your gravie….Wish me luck![/quote]
      LOL OK…Good Luck
      There arent many faces that can beat this cool motha lova :cool:[/quote]
      Vogue, your gravi makes me nauseous.[/quote]
      Awwww come on! He’s not that bad.
      He’s likeable in a Benjamin Button kind of way!
      Dont you agree?[/quote]
      LOL and Benjamin Button was hard to look at..esp when he was a baby[/quote]
      You wrong Sky!! I would have had the same reaction as dude did in that movie!!! :oops:[/quote]
      :lol: What?? What did I say? which dude? The Dad?[/quote]
      ….hard to look at….

      No, Queenie’s husband..Remember how he looked at him after he stepped on him?[/quote]
      LOL.. Oh okay.. Yeah that.. I kind of felt sorry for the baby, bcuz it seemed he stepped on that baby hard as hell.. His whole face expression was full of disgust

    160. posted by Mademoiselle Kiki.....the future Madame

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:11 PM

      [quote comment="370940"]Is that a Jesus piece? :shock:[/quote]

      :shock: Jesus, Mary, and Joseph..! that gravi pic nearly scared me to death.

    161. posted by ☼GhettoGossipGirl☼ ~Needs a Concealed Carry Permit and a Pistol~

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:11 PM

      [quote comment="371134"]*ponders* I bet you Fonzy is hung like a horse…[/quote]

      :shock:

    162. posted by Niecy

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:11 PM

      [quote comment="371058"][quote comment="371042"][quote comment="371037"][quote comment="370915"]I love this man lol! I’ve had the chance to meet him personally and he was so much different than what I thought he was. He’s sexy,educated, and well mannered lol. Not gay by far either. Good Christian brother on top of all that.[/quote]
      Amen. We black women send so many mixed messages. When a brother is on here acting like a gentlemen, being dignified and acting like a real MAN, we belittle him and call him gay. BUT when a thug fool is on here we go off about his ignorance, but still sweat his swagger and alleged “sexiness”.
      These same women are the ones that swear they love Obama and Michelle for everything they stand for as respectful, classy, educated black folks. We are so stupid. No wonder brothers do not know how to “court” us. Hell, we have no real standards of respect even for ourselves.[/quote]
      LOL Harsh! But u have a point! I HATE THUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUGS![/quote]

      I like them both!! Both I really like educated thugs…those are the ones that I fawn over…[/quote]

      Sis, there is no such thing as an educated thug. We black women have become so enthralled with this hood culuture that we now make excuses for accepting ill behavior wrapped in Christmas paper with a bow.

      What you really want is a real black man that is hard-working, that honors education, Christ,and family BUT will defend your honor at the bat of an eye. That is a real man.

      This is the Webster definition of a thug:
      Main Entry: thug
      Pronunciation: \ˈthəg\
      Function: noun
      Etymology: Hindi & Urdu ṭhag, literally, thief
      Date: 1810
      : a brutal ruffian or assassin : gangster , tough

      So is this what you want with an “education” to provide for your family, pray over your family and help protect you?

      God wants more for you than an “educated” thug.

    163. posted by Lovely One

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:11 PM

      [quote comment="371029"][quote comment="371010"][quote comment="371000"][quote comment="370994"]FONZ IS NOT GAY! I’m tellin ya’ll the “thugs” be gay! I never hear “50 is gay, Wayne is gay” these men got ya’ll confused![/quote]
      :lol: Wayne n 50 are not gay, for my sake![/quote]
      bull shit, them clowns are gay on the SNEAK tip (not sure about 50, but wayne for sure) but I wudn’t be surprised if evidence of 50 came up[/quote]
      Damn, I can’t win for lose….My b-ball player gotta babe on the way n these two are gay….I’m just gonna have to get used to being lonely :lol:[/quote]
      Changed my mind. I remember that post where you said you were chillin with a ball player and how the N.O. preferred this dude over Bush…I thought you were talking about a Saints player…I was completely off.

    164. posted by VOGUE "Even when the sky comes falling..Even when the sun don’t shine..I got faith in you & I"

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:12 PM

      [quote comment="371138"][quote comment="370940"]Is that a Jesus piece? :shock:[/quote]

      :shock: Jesus, Mary, and Joseph..! that gravi pic nearly scared me to death.[/quote]
      :lol: awww come on now! give him a chance!

    165. posted by Miss GQ (Striving to be the female Hype Williams)

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:12 PM

      [quote comment="371134"]*ponders* I bet you Fonzy is hung like a horse…[/quote]
      :shock:

    166. posted by Obama for 8!!! Whether you like it or not he is your President!!!

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:12 PM

      [quote comment="371042"][quote comment="371037"][quote comment="370915"]I love this man lol! I’ve had the chance to meet him personally and he was so much different than what I thought he was. He’s sexy,educated, and well mannered lol. Not gay by far either. Good Christian brother on top of all that.[/quote]
      Amen. We black women send so many mixed messages. When a brother is on here acting like a gentlemen, being dignified and acting like a real MAN, we belittle him and call him gay. BUT when a thug fool is on here we go off about his ignorance, but still sweat his swagger and alleged “sexiness”.
      These same women are the ones that swear they love Obama and Michelle for everything they stand for as respectful, classy, educated black folks. We are so stupid. No wonder brothers do not know how to “court” us. Hell, we have no real standards of respect even for ourselves.[/quote]
      LOL Harsh! But u have a point! I HATE THUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUGS![/quote]

      Yeah I agree but kind of harsh, but we need it.
      Like Jack Nicholson said “YOU CAN’T HANDLE THE TRUTH” and tha’s us!
      I don’t hate thugs, but I dislike the attributes that they lack as men! Especially as Black men!

    167. posted by S&J

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:12 PM

      [quote comment="371124"][quote comment="371108"][quote comment="371096"][quote comment="371085"][quote comment="371074"][quote comment="371063"][quote comment="371055"][quote comment="371042"][quote comment="371037"][quote comment="370915"]I love this man lol! I’ve had the chance to meet him personally and he was so much different than what I thought he was. He’s sexy,educated, and well mannered lol. Not gay by far either. Good Christian brother on top of all that.[/quote]
      Amen. We black women send so many mixed messages. When a brother is on here acting like a gentlemen, being dignified and acting like a real MAN, we belittle him and call him gay. BUT when a thug fool is on here we go off about his ignorance, but still sweat his swagger and alleged “sexiness”.
      These same women are the ones that swear they love Obama and Michelle for everything they stand for as respectful, classy, educated black folks. We are so stupid. No wonder brothers do not know how to “court” us. Hell, we have no real standards of respect even for ourselves.[/quote]
      LOL Harsh! But u have a point! I HATE THUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUGS![/quote]
      I would take a Bently any day of the year over a Lil Wayne, plies, or any ‘nem niggas!!!![/quote]
      Yup. Bentley probably treats a lady just right and dont have twelve baby mommas running around (Wayne)![/quote]

      Just two!! Get it right! And he’s not out designing baby blue glitter onesies either! :lol:[/quote]
      I bet you Wayne is gunna be the first to rock those onesies. Act like u dont know, my baby is a trendsetter. Wayne is always underneath his balls wearing his BBC shirts soooo :roll: to you Cherished![/quote]

      LOL…S&J you know that onsie is a mess…[/quote]
      I support everything my man does :lol:[/quote]
      S&J you shouldve told him about that.
      I dont think I would let my man sign his name off on something like that…[/quote]
      Hey he ain’t rockin it..yet! :lol:

    168. posted by Captivating!! I got a BIG ego cuz I can back it up!

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:13 PM

      [quote comment="371139"][quote comment="371134"]*ponders* I bet you Fonzy is hung like a horse…[/quote]

      :shock:[/quote]
      thats a parasol you see

    169. posted by S&J

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:13 PM

      [quote comment="371144"][quote comment="371134"]*ponders* I bet you Fonzy is hung like a horse…[/quote]
      :shock:[/quote]
      I think he is too. LOL

    170. posted by IT IS WHAT IT IS....

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:14 PM

      [quote comment="371134"]*ponders* I bet you Fonzy is hung like a horse…[/quote]
      OKAY! THESE ARE THE TYPE OF MEN THAT ARE SLEPT ON B/C WOMEN THINK THEY ARE GAY!

    171. posted by ☼GhettoGossipGirl☼ ~Needs a Concealed Carry Permit and a Pistol~

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:14 PM

      [quote comment="371149"][quote comment="371139"][quote comment="371134"]*ponders* I bet you Fonzy is hung like a horse…[/quote]

      :shock:[/quote]
      thats a parasol you see[/quote]

      LMAO

    172. posted by VOGUE "Even when the sky comes falling..Even when the sun don’t shine..I got faith in you & I"

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:14 PM

      [quote comment="371149"][quote comment="371139"][quote comment="371134"]*ponders* I bet you Fonzy is hung like a horse…[/quote]

      :shock:[/quote]
      thats a parasol you see[/quote]
      _______________ DEAD

    173. posted by Miss GQ (Striving to be the female Hype Williams)

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:15 PM

      [quote comment="371152"][quote comment="371134"]*ponders* I bet you Fonzy is hung like a horse…[/quote]
      OKAY! THESE ARE THE TYPE OF MEN THAT ARE SLEPT ON B/C WOMEN THINK THEY ARE GAY![/quote]
      yup

    174. posted by ♥Ms. Toya♥ Obama Stan #2/Ay Hazel I like you/Can't see myself without you/my sweet hazel/cuz I think I'm in love, I'm in loooovee/ ~Lloyd

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:16 PM

      [quote comment="371125"][quote comment="371119"]I don’t gay from Bentley at all..

      He’s just as gay as Andre 3000.[/quote]

      3000 is sooooo sexy to me!![/quote]
      Speaking of numbers everytime I watch the movie 300 I wonder are the abs on those guys airbrushed on??????? lol

    175. posted by southernBella*AKA* B%tch Better Have My Money!!!

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:16 PM

      [quote comment="371140"][quote comment="371058"][quote comment="371042"][quote comment="371037"][quote comment="370915"]I love this man lol! I’ve had the chance to meet him personally and he was so much different than what I thought he was. He’s sexy,educated, and well mannered lol. Not gay by far either. Good Christian brother on top of all that.[/quote]
      Amen. We black women send so many mixed messages. When a brother is on here acting like a gentlemen, being dignified and acting like a real MAN, we belittle him and call him gay. BUT when a thug fool is on here we go off about his ignorance, but still sweat his swagger and alleged “sexiness”.
      These same women are the ones that swear they love Obama and Michelle for everything they stand for as respectful, classy, educated black folks. We are so stupid. No wonder brothers do not know how to “court” us. Hell, we have no real standards of respect even for ourselves.[/quote]
      LOL Harsh! But u have a point! I HATE THUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUGS![/quote]

      I like them both!! Both I really like educated thugs…those are the ones that I fawn over…[/quote]

      Sis, there is no such thing as an educated thug. We black women have become so enthralled with this hood culuture that we now make excuses for accepting ill behavior wrapped in Christmas paper with a bow.

      What you really want is a real black man that is hard-working, that honors education, Christ,and family BUT will defend your honor at the bat of an eye. That is a real man.

      This is the Webster definition of a thug:
      Main Entry: thug
      Pronunciation: \ˈthəg\
      Function: noun
      Etymology: Hindi & Urdu ṭhag, literally, thief
      Date: 1810
      : a brutal ruffian or assassin : gangster , tough

      So is this what you want with an “education” to provide for your family, pray over your family and help protect you?

      God wants more for you than an “educated” thug.[/quote]

      Sweetie,

      You mean to tell me you think any thugs have an education…you are sadly mistaken…I went to an HBCU and there were plenty of “thuggish” dudes in class with me….They dressed thuggish and knew all about the streets but can do the hell outta some math or know more about world history than most of the nerds in the class…

      But if you say so!!

    176. posted by Jaurdyn22 - Out w/ the old....in w/ the MUTHA-PHUCKIN new

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:17 PM

      hola

    177. posted by SxyKole *Obamas Stan #4*Take A Day To Heal From The Lies You've Told Yourself And The One That Have Been Told To You!!!

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:17 PM

      [quote comment="371111"]Fonzworth got a WHAT? moving on heeeey ladies xoxoxoxo[/quote]
      Heyy Daammmmmmeeeeeeee!!!! :)

    178. posted by LSU GYRL *has on her black berret and shirt with her fist in the air!*

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:17 PM

      [quote comment="371144"][quote comment="371134"]*ponders* I bet you Fonzy is hung like a horse…[/quote]
      :shock:[/quote]

      what? you dont think so? lol

    179. posted by Miss GQ (Striving to be the female Hype Williams)

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:17 PM

      [quote comment="371150"][quote comment="371144"][quote comment="371134"]*ponders* I bet you Fonzy is hung like a horse…[/quote]
      :shock:[/quote]
      I think he is too. LOL[/quote]
      *side eye*

    180. posted by ~*Cherishedbyu*~ hates this part right here

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:17 PM

      WTF!?!? Tell me why I got another got damn mouse! I’m moving….My house is clean as a damn whistle! They gonna pay me for this exterminator!!

    181. posted by Yetta.... ~Now accepting applications...If you can not provide assistance, please keep ya distance!!~

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:18 PM

      [quote comment="371140"][quote comment="371058"][quote comment="371042"][quote comment="371037"][quote comment="370915"]I love this man lol! I’ve had the chance to meet him personally and he was so much different than what I thought he was. He’s sexy,educated, and well mannered lol. Not gay by far either. Good Christian brother on top of all that.[/quote]
      Amen. We black women send so many mixed messages. When a brother is on here acting like a gentlemen, being dignified and acting like a real MAN, we belittle him and call him gay. BUT when a thug fool is on here we go off about his ignorance, but still sweat his swagger and alleged “sexiness”.
      These same women are the ones that swear they love Obama and Michelle for everything they stand for as respectful, classy, educated black folks. We are so stupid. No wonder brothers do not know how to “court” us. Hell, we have no real standards of respect even for ourselves.[/quote]
      LOL Harsh! But u have a point! I HATE THUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUGS![/quote]

      I like them both!! Both I really like educated thugs…those are the ones that I fawn over…[/quote]

      Sis, there is no such thing as an educated thug. We black women have become so enthralled with this hood culuture that we now make excuses for accepting ill behavior wrapped in Christmas paper with a bow.

      What you really want is a real black man that is hard-working, that honors education, Christ,and family BUT will defend your honor at the bat of an eye. That is a real man.

      This is the Webster definition of a thug:
      Main Entry: thug
      Pronunciation: \ˈthəg\
      Function: noun
      Etymology: Hindi & Urdu ṭhag, literally, thief
      Date: 1810
      : a brutal ruffian or assassin : gangster , tough

      So is this what you want with an “education” to provide for your family, pray over your family and help protect you?

      God wants more for you than an “educated” thug.[/quote]
      Let the Chuch say…. AAAAAAAAAAAAMMMMMMMMMMMMMEEEEEEEENNNNNNNNNNNN!! You deserve better Bella..Not saying that that is the only “type” you attract, I’m just going off your statement….

    182. posted by Foley.

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:18 PM

      [quote comment="371140"][quote comment="371058"][quote comment="371042"][quote comment="371037"][quote comment="370915"]I love this man lol! I’ve had the chance to meet him personally and he was so much different than what I thought he was. He’s sexy,educated, and well mannered lol. Not gay by far either. Good Christian brother on top of all that.[/quote]
      Amen. We black women send so many mixed messages. When a brother is on here acting like a gentlemen, being dignified and acting like a real MAN, we belittle him and call him gay. BUT when a thug fool is on here we go off about his ignorance, but still sweat his swagger and alleged “sexiness”.
      These same women are the ones that swear they love Obama and Michelle for everything they stand for as respectful, classy, educated black folks. We are so stupid. No wonder brothers do not know how to “court” us. Hell, we have no real standards of respect even for ourselves.[/quote]
      LOL Harsh! But u have a point! I HATE THUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUGS![/quote]

      I like them both!! Both I really like educated thugs…those are the ones that I fawn over…[/quote]

      Sis, there is no such thing as an educated thug. We black women have become so enthralled with this hood culuture that we now make excuses for accepting ill behavior wrapped in Christmas paper with a bow.

      What you really want is a real black man that is hard-working, that honors education, Christ,and family BUT will defend your honor at the bat of an eye. That is a real man.

      This is the Webster definition of a thug:
      Main Entry: thug
      Pronunciation: \ˈthəg\
      Function: noun
      Etymology: Hindi & Urdu ṭhag, literally, thief
      Date: 1810
      : a brutal ruffian or assassin : gangster , tough

      So is this what you want with an “education” to provide for your family, pray over your family and help protect you?

      God wants more for you than an “educated” thug.[/quote]
      I couldn’t agree more. Amen my sista..

      BTW:

      Have you read Midnight by Sister Souljah?

    183. posted by Miss GQ (Striving to be the female Hype Williams)

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:18 PM

      [quote comment="371165"][quote comment="371144"][quote comment="371134"]*ponders* I bet you Fonzy is hung like a horse…[/quote]
      :shock:[/quote]

      what? you dont think so? lol[/quote]
      yea he probably does lol

    184. posted by S&J

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:19 PM

      [quote comment="371162"][quote comment="371140"][quote comment="371058"][quote comment="371042"][quote comment="371037"][quote comment="370915"]I love this man lol! I’ve had the chance to meet him personally and he was so much different than what I thought he was. He’s sexy,educated, and well mannered lol. Not gay by far either. Good Christian brother on top of all that.[/quote]
      Amen. We black women send so many mixed messages. When a brother is on here acting like a gentlemen, being dignified and acting like a real MAN, we belittle him and call him gay. BUT when a thug fool is on here we go off about his ignorance, but still sweat his swagger and alleged “sexiness”.
      These same women are the ones that swear they love Obama and Michelle for everything they stand for as respectful, classy, educated black folks. We are so stupid. No wonder brothers do not know how to “court” us. Hell, we have no real standards of respect even for ourselves.[/quote]
      LOL Harsh! But u have a point! I HATE THUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUGS![/quote]

      I like them both!! Both I really like educated thugs…those are the ones that I fawn over…[/quote]

      Sis, there is no such thing as an educated thug. We black women have become so enthralled with this hood culuture that we now make excuses for accepting ill behavior wrapped in Christmas paper with a bow.

      What you really want is a real black man that is hard-working, that honors education, Christ,and family BUT will defend your honor at the bat of an eye. That is a real man.

      This is the Webster definition of a thug:
      Main Entry: thug
      Pronunciation: \ˈthəg\
      Function: noun
      Etymology: Hindi & Urdu ṭhag, literally, thief
      Date: 1810
      : a brutal ruffian or assassin : gangster , tough

      So is this what you want with an “education” to provide for your family, pray over your family and help protect you?

      God wants more for you than an “educated” thug.[/quote]

      Sweetie,

      You mean to tell me you think any thugs have an education…you are sadly mistaken…I went to an HBCU and there were plenty of “thuggish” dudes in class with me….They dressed thuggish and knew all about the streets but can do the hell outta some math or know more about world history than most of the nerds in the class…

      But if you say so!![/quote]
      a degree doesn’t make a person educated, Southern.

    185. posted by Yetta.... ~Now accepting applications...If you can not provide assistance, please keep ya distance!!~

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:19 PM

      [quote comment="371154"][quote comment="371149"][quote comment="371139"][quote comment="371134"]*ponders* I bet you Fonzy is hung like a horse…[/quote]

      :shock:[/quote]
      thats a parasol you see[/quote]
      _______________ DEAD[/quote]
      I’m _______________________ lookin at your Gravi!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    186. posted by ~*Cherishedbyu*~ hates this part right here

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:19 PM

      [quote comment="371141"][quote comment="371029"][quote comment="371010"][quote comment="371000"][quote comment="370994"]FONZ IS NOT GAY! I’m tellin ya’ll the “thugs” be gay! I never hear “50 is gay, Wayne is gay” these men got ya’ll confused![/quote]
      :lol: Wayne n 50 are not gay, for my sake![/quote]
      bull shit, them clowns are gay on the SNEAK tip (not sure about 50, but wayne for sure) but I wudn’t be surprised if evidence of 50 came up[/quote]
      Damn, I can’t win for lose….My b-ball player gotta babe on the way n these two are gay….I’m just gonna have to get used to being lonely :lol:[/quote]
      Changed my mind. I remember that post where you said you were chillin with a ball player and how the N.O. preferred this dude over Bush…I thought you were talking about a Saints player…I was completely off.[/quote]
      :lol: He done made a baby on me!! At least the girl is black. I can live with that

    187. posted by Captivating!! I got a BIG ego cuz I can back it up!

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:20 PM

      [quote comment="371167"]WTF!?!? Tell me why I got another got damn mouse! I’m moving….My house is clean as a damn whistle! They gonna pay me for this exterminator!![/quote]
      WTFFFFFFFF GROSSSSSSSS

    188. posted by S&J

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:20 PM

      [quote comment="371171"][quote comment="371165"][quote comment="371144"][quote comment="371134"]*ponders* I bet you Fonzy is hung like a horse…[/quote]
      :shock:[/quote]

      what? you dont think so? lol[/quote]
      yea he probably does lol[/quote]
      what happened 2 ur gravi?

    189. posted by Yetta.... ~Now accepting applications...If you can not provide assistance, please keep ya distance!!~

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:20 PM

      [quote comment="371170"][quote comment="371140"][quote comment="371058"][quote comment="371042"][quote comment="371037"][quote comment="370915"]I love this man lol! I’ve had the chance to meet him personally and he was so much different than what I thought he was. He’s sexy,educated, and well mannered lol. Not gay by far either. Good Christian brother on top of all that.[/quote]
      Amen. We black women send so many mixed messages. When a brother is on here acting like a gentlemen, being dignified and acting like a real MAN, we belittle him and call him gay. BUT when a thug fool is on here we go off about his ignorance, but still sweat his swagger and alleged “sexiness”.
      These same women are the ones that swear they love Obama and Michelle for everything they stand for as respectful, classy, educated black folks. We are so stupid. No wonder brothers do not know how to “court” us. Hell, we have no real standards of respect even for ourselves.[/quote]
      LOL Harsh! But u have a point! I HATE THUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUGS![/quote]

      I like them both!! Both I really like educated thugs…those are the ones that I fawn over…[/quote]

      Sis, there is no such thing as an educated thug. We black women have become so enthralled with this hood culuture that we now make excuses for accepting ill behavior wrapped in Christmas paper with a bow.

      What you really want is a real black man that is hard-working, that honors education, Christ,and family BUT will defend your honor at the bat of an eye. That is a real man.

      This is the Webster definition of a thug:
      Main Entry: thug
      Pronunciation: \ˈthəg\
      Function: noun
      Etymology: Hindi & Urdu ṭhag, literally, thief
      Date: 1810
      : a brutal ruffian or assassin : gangster , tough

      So is this what you want with an “education” to provide for your family, pray over your family and help protect you?

      God wants more for you than an “educated” thug.[/quote]
      I couldn’t agree more. Amen my sista..

      BTW:

      Have you read Midnight by Sister Souljah?[/quote]
      OMG Foley.. Ya’l making me wanna go out and get this da$$ book!!!!!!!!!!! Everytime you all talk about it..I feel left out…..

    190. posted by LSU GYRL *has on her black berret and shirt with her fist in the air!*

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:20 PM

      [quote comment="371152"][quote comment="371134"]*ponders* I bet you Fonzy is hung like a horse…[/quote]
      OKAY! THESE ARE THE TYPE OF MEN THAT ARE SLEPT ON B/C WOMEN THINK THEY ARE GAY![/quote]

      Oh well…if I had to go on that notion about gayness with dudes these days I would be a damn nun. It’s the ones you LEAST expect that be driving up the Hershey highway…

    191. posted by southernBella*AKA* B%tch Better Have My Money!!!

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:21 PM

      [quote comment="371169"][quote comment="371140"][quote comment="371058"][quote comment="371042"][quote comment="371037"][quote comment="370915"]I love this man lol! I’ve had the chance to meet him personally and he was so much different than what I thought he was. He’s sexy,educated, and well mannered lol. Not gay by far either. Good Christian brother on top of all that.[/quote]
      Amen. We black women send so many mixed messages. When a brother is on here acting like a gentlemen, being dignified and acting like a real MAN, we belittle him and call him gay. BUT when a thug fool is on here we go off about his ignorance, but still sweat his swagger and alleged “sexiness”.
      These same women are the ones that swear they love Obama and Michelle for everything they stand for as respectful, classy, educated black folks. We are so stupid. No wonder brothers do not know how to “court” us. Hell, we have no real standards of respect even for ourselves.[/quote]
      LOL Harsh! But u have a point! I HATE THUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUGS![/quote]

      I like them both!! Both I really like educated thugs…those are the ones that I fawn over…[/quote]

      Sis, there is no such thing as an educated thug. We black women have become so enthralled with this hood culuture that we now make excuses for accepting ill behavior wrapped in Christmas paper with a bow.

      What you really want is a real black man that is hard-working, that honors education, Christ,and family BUT will defend your honor at the bat of an eye. That is a real man.

      This is the Webster definition of a thug:
      Main Entry: thug
      Pronunciation: \ˈthəg\
      Function: noun
      Etymology: Hindi & Urdu ṭhag, literally, thief
      Date: 1810
      : a brutal ruffian or assassin : gangster , tough

      So is this what you want with an “education” to provide for your family, pray over your family and help protect you?

      God wants more for you than an “educated” thug.[/quote]
      Let the Chuch say…. AAAAAAAAAAAAMMMMMMMMMMMMMEEEEEEEENNNNNNNNNNNN!! You deserve better Bella..Not saying that that is the only “type” you attract, I’m just going off your statement….[/quote]

      My guy aint got an announce of thug in him…..I’m always calling him lame….he was in the military so he has Military swagger…I dont know what to call it!!

      I’m just attracted to thugs… that’s all I’m saying!!

    192. posted by Foley.

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:21 PM

      [quote comment="371162"][quote comment="371140"][quote comment="371058"][quote comment="371042"][quote comment="371037"][quote comment="370915"]I love this man lol! I’ve had the chance to meet him personally and he was so much different than what I thought he was. He’s sexy,educated, and well mannered lol. Not gay by far either. Good Christian brother on top of all that.[/quote]
      Amen. We black women send so many mixed messages. When a brother is on here acting like a gentlemen, being dignified and acting like a real MAN, we belittle him and call him gay. BUT when a thug fool is on here we go off about his ignorance, but still sweat his swagger and alleged “sexiness”.
      These same women are the ones that swear they love Obama and Michelle for everything they stand for as respectful, classy, educated black folks. We are so stupid. No wonder brothers do not know how to “court” us. Hell, we have no real standards of respect even for ourselves.[/quote]
      LOL Harsh! But u have a point! I HATE THUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUGS![/quote]

      I like them both!! Both I really like educated thugs…those are the ones that I fawn over…[/quote]

      Sis, there is no such thing as an educated thug. We black women have become so enthralled with this hood culuture that we now make excuses for accepting ill behavior wrapped in Christmas paper with a bow.

      What you really want is a real black man that is hard-working, that honors education, Christ,and family BUT will defend your honor at the bat of an eye. That is a real man.

      This is the Webster definition of a thug:
      Main Entry: thug
      Pronunciation: \ˈthəg\
      Function: noun
      Etymology: Hindi & Urdu ṭhag, literally, thief
      Date: 1810
      : a brutal ruffian or assassin : gangster , tough

      So is this what you want with an “education” to provide for your family, pray over your family and help protect you?

      God wants more for you than an “educated” thug.[/quote]

      Sweetie,

      You mean to tell me you think any thugs have an education…you are sadly mistaken…I went to an HBCU and there were plenty of “thuggish” dudes in class with me….They dressed thuggish and knew all about the streets but can do the hell outta some math or know more about world history than most of the nerds in the class…

      But if you say so!![/quote]
      They were faking the funk Bella. They knew damn well if they went on an interview with Microsoft they would not dress the way they dressed in class. Thats all she is saying: Thugs don’t go to school. They damn sure don’t go to college. Men do. Men take care of what needs to be taken care of, and don’t give a shit about what other people think about them. They don’t have to have the pants to their knees or tats all over their arms.

    193. posted by Miss GQ (Striving to be the female Hype Williams)

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:21 PM

      [quote comment="371178"][quote comment="371171"][quote comment="371165"][quote comment="371144"][quote comment="371134"]*ponders* I bet you Fonzy is hung like a horse…[/quote]
      :shock:[/quote]

      what? you dont think so? lol[/quote]
      yea he probably does lol[/quote]
      what happened 2 ur gravi?[/quote]
      i changed it, and it wasn’t showing, but now i can see it

    194. posted by S&J

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:21 PM

      [quote comment="371181"][quote comment="371152"][quote comment="371134"]*ponders* I bet you Fonzy is hung like a horse…[/quote]
      OKAY! THESE ARE THE TYPE OF MEN THAT ARE SLEPT ON B/C WOMEN THINK THEY ARE GAY![/quote]

      Oh well…if I had to go on that notion about gayness with dudes these days I would be a damn nun. It’s the ones you LEAST expect that be driving up the Hershey highway…[/quote]
      Exactly!

    195. posted by ~*Cherishedbyu*~ hates this part right here

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:22 PM

      [quote comment="371177"][quote comment="371167"]WTF!?!? Tell me why I got another got damn mouse! I’m moving….My house is clean as a damn whistle! They gonna pay me for this exterminator!![/quote]
      WTFFFFFFFF GROSSSSSSSS[/quote]
      I know this ish is getting outta hand…

    196. posted by SxyKole *Obamas Stan #4*Take A Day To Heal From The Lies You've Told Yourself And The One That Have Been Told To You!!!

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:22 PM

      [quote comment="371158"][quote comment="371125"][quote comment="371119"]I don’t gay from Bentley at all..

      He’s just as gay as Andre 3000.[/quote]

      3000 is sooooo sexy to me!![/quote]
      Speaking of numbers everytime I watch the movie 300 I wonder are the abs on those guys airbrushed on??????? lol[/quote]
      Man Oh Man… However those abs got there, they looked very nice…

    197. posted by Yetta.... ~Now accepting applications...If you can not provide assistance, please keep ya distance!!~

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:22 PM

      [quote comment="371167"]WTF!?!? Tell me why I got another got damn mouse! I’m moving….My house is clean as a damn whistle! They gonna pay me for this exterminator!![/quote]
      It’s cold outside… those little rodents are looking for some warm hole to be in, and I guess they found out about your crib!! I guess those are the downs to having a nice, warm, cozy place!!! :P

    198. posted by VOGUE "Even when the sky comes falling..Even when the sun don’t shine..I got faith in you & I"

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:22 PM

      [quote comment="371180"][quote comment="371170"][quote comment="371140"][quote comment="371058"][quote comment="371042"][quote comment="371037"][quote comment="370915"]I love this man lol! I’ve had the chance to meet him personally and he was so much different than what I thought he was. He’s sexy,educated, and well mannered lol. Not gay by far either. Good Christian brother on top of all that.[/quote]
      Amen. We black women send so many mixed messages. When a brother is on here acting like a gentlemen, being dignified and acting like a real MAN, we belittle him and call him gay. BUT when a thug fool is on here we go off about his ignorance, but still sweat his swagger and alleged “sexiness”.
      These same women are the ones that swear they love Obama and Michelle for everything they stand for as respectful, classy, educated black folks. We are so stupid. No wonder brothers do not know how to “court” us. Hell, we have no real standards of respect even for ourselves.[/quote]
      LOL Harsh! But u have a point! I HATE THUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUGS![/quote]

      I like them both!! Both I really like educated thugs…those are the ones that I fawn over…[/quote]

      Sis, there is no such thing as an educated thug. We black women have become so enthralled with this hood culuture that we now make excuses for accepting ill behavior wrapped in Christmas paper with a bow.

      What you really want is a real black man that is hard-working, that honors education, Christ,and family BUT will defend your honor at the bat of an eye. That is a real man.

      This is the Webster definition of a thug:
      Main Entry: thug
      Pronunciation: \ˈthəg\
      Function: noun
      Etymology: Hindi & Urdu ṭhag, literally, thief
      Date: 1810
      : a brutal ruffian or assassin : gangster , tough

      So is this what you want with an “education” to provide for your family, pray over your family and help protect you?

      God wants more for you than an “educated” thug.[/quote]
      I couldn’t agree more. Amen my sista..

      BTW:

      Have you read Midnight by Sister Souljah?[/quote]
      OMG Foley.. Ya’l making me wanna go out and get this da$$ book!!!!!!!!!!! Everytime you all talk about it..I feel left out…..[/quote]
      Me too. I went to Borders, but it was sold out :sad:

    199. posted by S&J

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:23 PM

      [quote comment="371185"][quote comment="371178"][quote comment="371171"][quote comment="371165"][quote comment="371144"][quote comment="371134"]*ponders* I bet you Fonzy is hung like a horse…[/quote]
      :shock:[/quote]

      what? you dont think so? lol[/quote]
      yea he probably does lol[/quote]
      what happened 2 ur gravi?[/quote]
      i changed it, and it wasn’t showing, but now i can see it[/quote]
      Ooooh I still dont see it…prolly gunna take a lil while…

    200. posted by Jglamore

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:23 PM

      [quote comment="371170"][quote comment="371140"][quote comment="371058"][quote comment="371042"][quote comment="371037"][quote comment="370915"]I love this man lol! I’ve had the chance to meet him personally and he was so much different than what I thought he was. He’s sexy,educated, and well mannered lol. Not gay by far either. Good Christian brother on top of all that.[/quote]
      Amen. We black women send so many mixed messages. When a brother is on here acting like a gentlemen, being dignified and acting like a real MAN, we belittle him and call him gay. BUT when a thug fool is on here we go off about his ignorance, but still sweat his swagger and alleged “sexiness”.
      These same women are the ones that swear they love Obama and Michelle for everything they stand for as respectful, classy, educated black folks. We are so stupid. No wonder brothers do not know how to “court” us. Hell, we have no real standards of respect even for ourselves.[/quote]
      LOL Harsh! But u have a point! I HATE THUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUGS![/quote]

      I like them both!! Both I really like educated thugs…those are the ones that I fawn over…[/quote]

      Sis, there is no such thing as an educated thug. We black women have become so enthralled with this hood culuture that we now make excuses for accepting ill behavior wrapped in Christmas paper with a bow.

      What you really want is a real black man that is hard-working, that honors education, Christ,and family BUT will defend your honor at the bat of an eye. That is a real man.

      This is the Webster definition of a thug:
      Main Entry: thug
      Pronunciation: \ˈthəg\
      Function: noun
      Etymology: Hindi & Urdu ṭhag, literally, thief
      Date: 1810
      : a brutal ruffian or assassin : gangster , tough

      So is this what you want with an “education” to provide for your family, pray over your family and help protect you?

      God wants more for you than an “educated” thug.[/quote]
      I couldn’t agree more. Amen my sista..

      BTW:

      Have you read Midnight by Sister Souljah?[/quote]
      (jumping in) I did… but I still don’t see how he’s a gangster?? especially hooking up with akemi?

    201. posted by Miss GQ (Striving to be the female Hype Williams)

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:23 PM

      [quote comment="371184"][quote comment="371162"][quote comment="371140"][quote comment="371058"][quote comment="371042"][quote comment="371037"][quote comment="370915"]I love this man lol! I’ve had the chance to meet him personally and he was so much different than what I thought he was. He’s sexy,educated, and well mannered lol. Not gay by far either. Good Christian brother on top of all that.[/quote]
      Amen. We black women send so many mixed messages. When a brother is on here acting like a gentlemen, being dignified and acting like a real MAN, we belittle him and call him gay. BUT when a thug fool is on here we go off about his ignorance, but still sweat his swagger and alleged “sexiness”.
      These same women are the ones that swear they love Obama and Michelle for everything they stand for as respectful, classy, educated black folks. We are so stupid. No wonder brothers do not know how to “court” us. Hell, we have no real standards of respect even for ourselves.[/quote]
      LOL Harsh! But u have a point! I HATE THUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUGS![/quote]

      I like them both!! Both I really like educated thugs…those are the ones that I fawn over…[/quote]

      Sis, there is no such thing as an educated thug. We black women have become so enthralled with this hood culuture that we now make excuses for accepting ill behavior wrapped in Christmas paper with a bow.

      What you really want is a real black man that is hard-working, that honors education, Christ,and family BUT will defend your honor at the bat of an eye. That is a real man.

      This is the Webster definition of a thug:
      Main Entry: thug
      Pronunciation: \ˈthəg\
      Function: noun
      Etymology: Hindi & Urdu ṭhag, literally, thief
      Date: 1810
      : a brutal ruffian or assassin : gangster , tough

      So is this what you want with an “education” to provide for your family, pray over your family and help protect you?

      God wants more for you than an “educated” thug.[/quote]

      Sweetie,

      You mean to tell me you think any thugs have an education…you are sadly mistaken…I went to an HBCU and there were plenty of “thuggish” dudes in class with me….They dressed thuggish and knew all about the streets but can do the hell outta some math or know more about world history than most of the nerds in the class…

      But if you say so!![/quote]
      They were faking the funk Bella. They knew damn well if they went on an interview with Microsoft they would not dress the way they dressed in class. Thats all she is saying: Thugs don’t go to school. They damn sure don’t go to college. Men do. Men take care of what needs to be taken care of, and don’t give a shit about what other people think about them. They don’t have to have the pants to their knees or tats all over their arms.[/quote]
      *round of applause* for you..THANK YOU!! i agree

    202. posted by southernBella*AKA* B%tch Better Have My Money!!!

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:24 PM

      [quote comment="371173"][quote comment="371162"][quote comment="371140"][quote comment="371058"][quote comment="371042"][quote comment="371037"][quote comment="370915"]I love this man lol! I’ve had the chance to meet him personally and he was so much different than what I thought he was. He’s sexy,educated, and well mannered lol. Not gay by far either. Good Christian brother on top of all that.[/quote]
      Amen. We black women send so many mixed messages. When a brother is on here acting like a gentlemen, being dignified and acting like a real MAN, we belittle him and call him gay. BUT when a thug fool is on here we go off about his ignorance, but still sweat his swagger and alleged “sexiness”.
      These same women are the ones that swear they love Obama and Michelle for everything they stand for as respectful, classy, educated black folks. We are so stupid. No wonder brothers do not know how to “court” us. Hell, we have no real standards of respect even for ourselves.[/quote]
      LOL Harsh! But u have a point! I HATE THUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUGS![/quote]

      I like them both!! Both I really like educated thugs…those are the ones that I fawn over…[/quote]

      Sis, there is no such thing as an educated thug. We black women have become so enthralled with this hood culuture that we now make excuses for accepting ill behavior wrapped in Christmas paper with a bow.

      What you really want is a real black man that is hard-working, that honors education, Christ,and family BUT will defend your honor at the bat of an eye. That is a real man.

      This is the Webster definition of a thug:
      Main Entry: thug
      Pronunciation: \ˈthəg\
      Function: noun
      Etymology: Hindi & Urdu ṭhag, literally, thief
      Date: 1810
      : a brutal ruffian or assassin : gangster , tough

      So is this what you want with an “education” to provide for your family, pray over your family and help protect you?

      God wants more for you than an “educated” thug.[/quote]

      Sweetie,

      You mean to tell me you think any thugs have an education…you are sadly mistaken…I went to an HBCU and there were plenty of “thuggish” dudes in class with me….They dressed thuggish and knew all about the streets but can do the hell outta some math or know more about world history than most of the nerds in the class…

      But if you say so!![/quote]
      a degree doesn’t make a person educated, Southern.[/quote]

      I didnt say that it did…but what I’m saying is I know alot of street dudes that’s just as smart as these so called nerds or gentlemen dudes…

      I just like aggresive guys, but that’s not what God whats me to have….instead I’ve fallen in love with a lame!! LOL!!

    203. posted by Yetta.... ~Now accepting applications...If you can not provide assistance, please keep ya distance!!~

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:25 PM

      [quote comment="371183"][quote comment="371169"][quote comment="371140"][quote comment="371058"][quote comment="371042"][quote comment="371037"][quote comment="370915"]I love this man lol! I’ve had the chance to meet him personally and he was so much different than what I thought he was. He’s sexy,educated, and well mannered lol. Not gay by far either. Good Christian brother on top of all that.[/quote]
      Amen. We black women send so many mixed messages. When a brother is on here acting like a gentlemen, being dignified and acting like a real MAN, we belittle him and call him gay. BUT when a thug fool is on here we go off about his ignorance, but still sweat his swagger and alleged “sexiness”.
      These same women are the ones that swear they love Obama and Michelle for everything they stand for as respectful, classy, educated black folks. We are so stupid. No wonder brothers do not know how to “court” us. Hell, we have no real standards of respect even for ourselves.[/quote]
      LOL Harsh! But u have a point! I HATE THUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUGS![/quote]

      I like them both!! Both I really like educated thugs…those are the ones that I fawn over…[/quote]

      Sis, there is no such thing as an educated thug. We black women have become so enthralled with this hood culuture that we now make excuses for accepting ill behavior wrapped in Christmas paper with a bow.

      What you really want is a real black man that is hard-working, that honors education, Christ,and family BUT will defend your honor at the bat of an eye. That is a real man.

      This is the Webster definition of a thug:
      Main Entry: thug
      Pronunciation: \ˈthəg\
      Function: noun
      Etymology: Hindi & Urdu ṭhag, literally, thief
      Date: 1810
      : a brutal ruffian or assassin : gangster , tough

      So is this what you want with an “education” to provide for your family, pray over your family and help protect you?

      God wants more for you than an “educated” thug.[/quote]
      Let the Chuch say…. AAAAAAAAAAAAMMMMMMMMMMMMMEEEEEEEENNNNNNNNNNNN!! You deserve better Bella..Not saying that that is the only “type” you attract, I’m just going off your statement….[/quote]

      My guy aint got an announce of thug in him…..I’m always calling him lame….he was in the military so he has Military swagger…I dont know what to call it!!

      I’m just attracted to thugs… that’s all I’m saying!![/quote]
      I know….I read your comment about you telling him he had no swag and he got upset.
      Even you being attracted to them is enough to say you deserve better, even if all you do is think about em…

      You feel me? Or not..

    204. posted by Niecy

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:26 PM

      [quote comment="371162"][quote comment="371140"][quote comment="371058"][quote comment="371042"][quote comment="371037"][quote comment="370915"]I love this man lol! I’ve had the chance to meet him personally and he was so much different than what I thought he was. He’s sexy,educated, and well mannered lol. Not gay by far either. Good Christian brother on top of all that.[/quote]
      Amen. We black women send so many mixed messages. When a brother is on here acting like a gentlemen, being dignified and acting like a real MAN, we belittle him and call him gay. BUT when a thug fool is on here we go off about his ignorance, but still sweat his swagger and alleged “sexiness”.
      These same women are the ones that swear they love Obama and Michelle for everything they stand for as respectful, classy, educated black folks. We are so stupid. No wonder brothers do not know how to “court” us. Hell, we have no real standards of respect even for ourselves.[/quote]
      LOL Harsh! But u have a point! I HATE THUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUGS![/quote]

      I like them both!! Both I really like educated thugs…those are the ones that I fawn over…[/quote]

      Sis, there is no such thing as an educated thug. We black women have become so enthralled with this hood culuture that we now make excuses for accepting ill behavior wrapped in Christmas paper with a bow.

      What you really want is a real black man that is hard-working, that honors education, Christ,and family BUT will defend your honor at the bat of an eye. That is a real man.

      This is the Webster definition of a thug:
      Main Entry: thug
      Pronunciation: \ˈthəg\
      Function: noun
      Etymology: Hindi & Urdu ṭhag, literally, thief
      Date: 1810
      : a brutal ruffian or assassin : gangster , tough

      So is this what you want with an “education” to provide for your family, pray over your family and help protect you?

      God wants more for you than an “educated” thug.[/quote]

      Sweetie,

      You mean to tell me you think any thugs have an education…you are sadly mistaken…I went to an HBCU and there were plenty of “thuggish” dudes in class with me….They dressed thuggish and knew all about the streets but can do the hell outta some math or know more about world history than most of the nerds in the class…

      But if you say so!![/quote]
      Sis,I too graduated from an HBCU(Clark Atlanta.

      There is a difference in thug dress and thug behavior. You said you wanted a educated thug not a educated dude dressed like a thug. I am going off of what you wrote.

    205. posted by southernBella*AKA* B%tch Better Have My Money!!!

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:27 PM

      [quote comment="371184"][quote comment="371162"][quote comment="371140"][quote comment="371058"][quote comment="371042"][quote comment="371037"][quote comment="370915"]I love this man lol! I’ve had the chance to meet him personally and he was so much different than what I thought he was. He’s sexy,educated, and well mannered lol. Not gay by far either. Good Christian brother on top of all that.[/quote]
      Amen. We black women send so many mixed messages. When a brother is on here acting like a gentlemen, being dignified and acting like a real MAN, we belittle him and call him gay. BUT when a thug fool is on here we go off about his ignorance, but still sweat his swagger and alleged “sexiness”.
      These same women are the ones that swear they love Obama and Michelle for everything they stand for as respectful, classy, educated black folks. We are so stupid. No wonder brothers do not know how to “court” us. Hell, we have no real standards of respect even for ourselves.[/quote]
      LOL Harsh! But u have a point! I HATE THUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUGS![/quote]

      I like them both!! Both I really like educated thugs…those are the ones that I fawn over…[/quote]

      Sis, there is no such thing as an educated thug. We black women have become so enthralled with this hood culuture that we now make excuses for accepting ill behavior wrapped in Christmas paper with a bow.

      What you really want is a real black man that is hard-working, that honors education, Christ,and family BUT will defend your honor at the bat of an eye. That is a real man.

      This is the Webster definition of a thug:
      Main Entry: thug
      Pronunciation: \ˈthəg\
      Function: noun
      Etymology: Hindi & Urdu ṭhag, literally, thief
      Date: 1810
      : a brutal ruffian or assassin : gangster , tough

      So is this what you want with an “education” to provide for your family, pray over your family and help protect you?

      God wants more for you than an “educated” thug.[/quote]

      Sweetie,

      You mean to tell me you think any thugs have an education…you are sadly mistaken…I went to an HBCU and there were plenty of “thuggish” dudes in class with me….They dressed thuggish and knew all about the streets but can do the hell outta some math or know more about world history than most of the nerds in the class…

      But if you say so!![/quote]
      They were faking the funk Bella. They knew damn well if they went on an interview with Microsoft they would not dress the way they dressed in class. Thats all she is saying: Thugs don’t go to school. They damn sure don’t go to college. Men do. Men take care of what needs to be taken care of, and don’t give a shit about what other people think about them. They don’t have to have the pants to their knees or tats all over their arms.[/quote]

      And that’s fine if they were faking…..I dont want Ray Ray the drug dealer or Tiny the murderer….I like guys that have street AND book knowledge…you know that guy that ait afraid to hang with his buddies from the hood, but goes to work on Monday morning and under those work clothes he might have some tats…

    206. posted by SxyKole *Obamas Stan #4*Take A Day To Heal From The Lies You've Told Yourself And The One That Have Been Told To You!!!

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:27 PM

      Hey, Did any of ya’ll get an email from les? With these 2 gay dudes fighting? LOL

    207. posted by Yetta.... ~Now accepting applications...If you can not provide assistance, please keep ya distance!!~

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:27 PM

      [quote comment="371191"][quote comment="371180"][quote comment="371170"][quote comment="371140"][quote comment="371058"][quote comment="371042"][quote comment="371037"][quote comment="370915"]I love this man lol! I’ve had the chance to meet him personally and he was so much different than what I thought he was. He’s sexy,educated, and well mannered lol. Not gay by far either. Good Christian brother on top of all that.[/quote]
      Amen. We black women send so many mixed messages. When a brother is on here acting like a gentlemen, being dignified and acting like a real MAN, we belittle him and call him gay. BUT when a thug fool is on here we go off about his ignorance, but still sweat his swagger and alleged “sexiness”.
      These same women are the ones that swear they love Obama and Michelle for everything they stand for as respectful, classy, educated black folks. We are so stupid. No wonder brothers do not know how to “court” us. Hell, we have no real standards of respect even for ourselves.[/quote]
      LOL Harsh! But u have a point! I HATE THUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUGS![/quote]

      I like them both!! Both I really like educated thugs…those are the ones that I fawn over…[/quote]

      Sis, there is no such thing as an educated thug. We black women have become so enthralled with this hood culuture that we now make excuses for accepting ill behavior wrapped in Christmas paper with a bow.

      What you really want is a real black man that is hard-working, that honors education, Christ,and family BUT will defend your honor at the bat of an eye. That is a real man.

      This is the Webster definition of a thug:
      Main Entry: thug
      Pronunciation: \ˈthəg\
      Function: noun
      Etymology: Hindi & Urdu ṭhag, literally, thief
      Date: 1810
      : a brutal ruffian or assassin : gangster , tough

      So is this what you want with an “education” to provide for your family, pray over your family and help protect you?

      God wants more for you than an “educated” thug.[/quote]
      I couldn’t agree more. Amen my sista..

      BTW:

      Have you read Midnight by Sister Souljah?[/quote]
      OMG Foley.. Ya’l making me wanna go out and get this da$$ book!!!!!!!!!!! Everytime you all talk about it..I feel left out…..[/quote]
      Me too. I went to Borders, but it was sold out :sad:[/quote]
      Vogue..don’t ever quote me again with that zombie in your Gravi…Scared the be’jesus out of me!!! J/K!!!!!!!!!!!

      We HAVE to get that book, man!!!! :evil: I wonder if Overstock may have it?

    208. posted by Yetta.... ~Now accepting applications...If you can not provide assistance, please keep ya distance!!~

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:28 PM

      [quote comment="371206"]Hey, Did any of ya’ll get an email from les? With these 2 gay dudes fighting? LOL[/quote]
      I did, but it kept stopping… What I saw was funny though!!

    209. posted by ☼GhettoGossipGirl☼ ~Needs a Concealed Carry Permit and a Pistol~

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:29 PM

      [quote comment="371206"]Hey, Did any of ya’ll get an email from les? With these 2 gay dudes fighting? LOL[/quote]

      LMAO! Yes, I was over here crying

    210. posted by VOGUE "Even when the sky comes falling..Even when the sun don’t shine..I got faith in you & I"

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:29 PM

      [quote comment="371167"]WTF!?!? Tell me why I got another got damn mouse! I’m moving….My house is clean as a damn whistle! They gonna pay me for this exterminator!![/quote]
      Please stop. I’m itching just reading that.
      I remember when I got a mouse in my room and they put down those sticky traps that look like hot pocket packages…
      A few days later I was getting dressed and something of mine fell behind my dresser by the radiator — where the trap was. I reached down to get it and my hand got stuck to the trap!!!! :shock: *imagine a vomit emoticon* :shock:

      && THE MOUSE WAS ON IT! DEAD!

    211. posted by southernBella*AKA* B%tch Better Have My Money!!!

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:29 PM

      [quote comment="371201"][quote comment="371183"][quote comment="371169"][quote comment="371140"][quote comment="371058"][quote comment="371042"][quote comment="371037"][quote comment="370915"]I love this man lol! I’ve had the chance to meet him personally and he was so much different than what I thought he was. He’s sexy,educated, and well mannered lol. Not gay by far either. Good Christian brother on top of all that.[/quote]
      Amen. We black women send so many mixed messages. When a brother is on here acting like a gentlemen, being dignified and acting like a real MAN, we belittle him and call him gay. BUT when a thug fool is on here we go off about his ignorance, but still sweat his swagger and alleged “sexiness”.
      These same women are the ones that swear they love Obama and Michelle for everything they stand for as respectful, classy, educated black folks. We are so stupid. No wonder brothers do not know how to “court” us. Hell, we have no real standards of respect even for ourselves.[/quote]
      LOL Harsh! But u have a point! I HATE THUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUGS![/quote]

      I like them both!! Both I really like educated thugs…those are the ones that I fawn over…[/quote]

      Sis, there is no such thing as an educated thug. We black women have become so enthralled with this hood culuture that we now make excuses for accepting ill behavior wrapped in Christmas paper with a bow.

      What you really want is a real black man that is hard-working, that honors education, Christ,and family BUT will defend your honor at the bat of an eye. That is a real man.

      This is the Webster definition of a thug:
      Main Entry: thug
      Pronunciation: \ˈthəg\
      Function: noun
      Etymology: Hindi & Urdu ṭhag, literally, thief
      Date: 1810
      : a brutal ruffian or assassin : gangster , tough

      So is this what you want with an “education” to provide for your family, pray over your family and help protect you?

      God wants more for you than an “educated” thug.[/quote]
      Let the Chuch say…. AAAAAAAAAAAAMMMMMMMMMMMMMEEEEEEEENNNNNNNNNNNN!! You deserve better Bella..Not saying that that is the only “type” you attract, I’m just going off your statement….[/quote]

      My guy aint got an announce of thug in him…..I’m always calling him lame….he was in the military so he has Military swagger…I dont know what to call it!!

      I’m just attracted to thugs… that’s all I’m saying!![/quote]
      I know….I read your comment about you telling him he had no swag and he got upset.
      Even you being attracted to them is enough to say you deserve better, even if all you do is think about em…

      You feel me? Or not..[/quote]

      Yeah I think we on the same page!!

    212. posted by Miss GQ (Striving to be the female Hype Williams)

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:29 PM

      [quote comment="371206"]Hey, Did any of ya’ll get an email from les? With these 2 gay dudes fighting? LOL[/quote]
      sounds intersting send it to me

    213. posted by Foley.

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:30 PM

      [quote comment="371193"][quote comment="371170"][quote comment="371140"][quote comment="371058"][quote comment="371042"][quote comment="371037"][quote comment="370915"]I love this man lol! I’ve had the chance to meet him personally and he was so much different than what I thought he was. He’s sexy,educated, and well mannered lol. Not gay by far either. Good Christian brother on top of all that.[/quote]
      Amen. We black women send so many mixed messages. When a brother is on here acting like a gentlemen, being dignified and acting like a real MAN, we belittle him and call him gay. BUT when a thug fool is on here we go off about his ignorance, but still sweat his swagger and alleged “sexiness”.
      These same women are the ones that swear they love Obama and Michelle for everything they stand for as respectful, classy, educated black folks. We are so stupid. No wonder brothers do not know how to “court” us. Hell, we have no real standards of respect even for ourselves.[/quote]
      LOL Harsh! But u have a point! I HATE THUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUGS![/quote]

      I like them both!! Both I really like educated thugs…those are the ones that I fawn over…[/quote]

      Sis, there is no such thing as an educated thug. We black women have become so enthralled with this hood culuture that we now make excuses for accepting ill behavior wrapped in Christmas paper with a bow.

      What you really want is a real black man that is hard-working, that honors education, Christ,and family BUT will defend your honor at the bat of an eye. That is a real man.

      This is the Webster definition of a thug:
      Main Entry: thug
      Pronunciation: \ˈthəg\
      Function: noun
      Etymology: Hindi & Urdu ṭhag, literally, thief
      Date: 1810
      : a brutal ruffian or assassin : gangster , tough

      So is this what you want with an “education” to provide for your family, pray over your family and help protect you?

      God wants more for you than an “educated” thug.[/quote]
      I couldn’t agree more. Amen my sista..

      BTW:

      Have you read Midnight by Sister Souljah?[/quote]
      (jumping in) I did… but I still don’t see how he’s a gangster?? especially hooking up with akemi?[/quote]
      That was love. That had nothing to do with his gangster. His gangster was defending his family and standing up to those that attempted to disrespect him or anyone close to him. The book wasn’t centered around that, it was centered around his growing into manhood.

    214. posted by Niecy

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:30 PM

      [quote comment="371170"][quote comment="371140"][quote comment="371058"][quote comment="371042"][quote comment="371037"][quote comment="370915"]I love this man lol! I’ve had the chance to meet him personally and he was so much different than what I thought he was. He’s sexy,educated, and well mannered lol. Not gay by far either. Good Christian brother on top of all that.[/quote]
      Amen. We black women send so many mixed messages. When a brother is on here acting like a gentlemen, being dignified and acting like a real MAN, we belittle him and call him gay. BUT when a thug fool is on here we go off about his ignorance, but still sweat his swagger and alleged “sexiness”.
      These same women are the ones that swear they love Obama and Michelle for everything they stand for as respectful, classy, educated black folks. We are so stupid. No wonder brothers do not know how to “court” us. Hell, we have no real standards of respect even for ourselves.[/quote]
      LOL Harsh! But u have a point! I HATE THUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUGS![/quote]

      I like them both!! Both I really like educated thugs…those are the ones that I fawn over…[/quote]

      Sis, there is no such thing as an educated thug. We black women have become so enthralled with this hood culuture that we now make excuses for accepting ill behavior wrapped in Christmas paper with a bow.

      What you really want is a real black man that is hard-working, that honors education, Christ,and family BUT will defend your honor at the bat of an eye. That is a real man.

      This is the Webster definition of a thug:
      Main Entry: thug
      Pronunciation: \ˈthəg\
      Function: noun
      Etymology: Hindi & Urdu ṭhag, literally, thief
      Date: 1810
      : a brutal ruffian or assassin : gangster , tough

      So is this what you want with an “education” to provide for your family, pray over your family and help protect you?

      God wants more for you than an “educated” thug.[/quote]
      I couldn’t agree more. Amen my sista..

      BTW:

      Have you read Midnight by Sister Souljah?[/quote]

      Not yet. I plan to.

    215. posted by Yetta.... ~Now accepting applications...If you can not provide assistance, please keep ya distance!!~

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:31 PM

      [quote comment="371214"][quote comment="371167"]WTF!?!? Tell me why I got another got damn mouse! I’m moving….My house is clean as a damn whistle! They gonna pay me for this exterminator!![/quote]
      Please stop. I’m itching just reading that.
      I remember when I got a mouse in my room and they put down those sticky traps that look like hot pocket packages…
      A few days later I was getting dressed and something of mine fell behind my dresser by the radiator — where the trap was. I reached down to get it and my hand got stuck to the trap!!!! :shock: *imagine a vomit emoticon* :shock:

      && THE MOUSE WAS ON IT! DEAD![/quote]
      OMG!!!!!!!!!! :shock:

    216. posted by ☼GhettoGossipGirl☼ ~Needs a Concealed Carry Permit and a Pistol~

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:31 PM

      [quote comment="371214"][quote comment="371167"]WTF!?!? Tell me why I got another got damn mouse! I’m moving….My house is clean as a damn whistle! They gonna pay me for this exterminator!![/quote]
      Please stop. I’m itching just reading that.
      I remember when I got a mouse in my room and they put down those sticky traps that look like hot pocket packages…
      A few days later I was getting dressed and something of mine fell behind my dresser by the radiator — where the trap was. I reached down to get it and my hand got stuck to the trap!!!! :shock: *imagine a vomit emoticon* :shock:

      && THE MOUSE WAS ON IT! DEAD![/quote]

      They would have had to cut my hand off.

    217. posted by ~*Cherishedbyu*~ hates this part right here

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:31 PM

      [quote comment="371190"][quote comment="371167"]WTF!?!? Tell me why I got another got damn mouse! I’m moving….My house is clean as a damn whistle! They gonna pay me for this exterminator!![/quote]
      It’s cold outside… those little rodents are looking for some warm hole to be in, and I guess they found out about your crib!! I guess those are the downs to having a nice, warm, cozy place!!! :P[/quote]
      Why me!?!? I’m scared of everything!! I’m sittin here crying like a baby b/c maintenance is taking forever…I can deal with a roach or huge bug but not a rodent

    218. posted by ♥Ms. Toya♥ Obama Stan #2/Ay Hazel I like you/Can't see myself without you/my sweet hazel/cuz I think I'm in love, I'm in loooovee/ ~Lloyd

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:31 PM

      [quote comment="371202"][quote comment="371162"][quote comment="371140"][quote comment="371058"][quote comment="371042"][quote comment="371037"][quote comment="370915"]I love this man lol! I’ve had the chance to meet him personally and he was so much different than what I thought he was. He’s sexy,educated, and well mannered lol. Not gay by far either. Good Christian brother on top of all that.[/quote]
      Amen. We black women send so many mixed messages. When a brother is on here acting like a gentlemen, being dignified and acting like a real MAN, we belittle him and call him gay. BUT when a thug fool is on here we go off about his ignorance, but still sweat his swagger and alleged “sexiness”.
      These same women are the ones that swear they love Obama and Michelle for everything they stand for as respectful, classy, educated black folks. We are so stupid. No wonder brothers do not know how to “court” us. Hell, we have no real standards of respect even for ourselves.[/quote]
      LOL Harsh! But u have a point! I HATE THUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUGS![/quote]

      I like them both!! Both I really like educated thugs…those are the ones that I fawn over…[/quote]

      Sis, there is no such thing as an educated thug. We black women have become so enthralled with this hood culuture that we now make excuses for accepting ill behavior wrapped in Christmas paper with a bow.

      What you really want is a real black man that is hard-working, that honors education, Christ,and family BUT will defend your honor at the bat of an eye. That is a real man.

      This is the Webster definition of a thug:
      Main Entry: thug
      Pronunciation: \ˈthəg\
      Function: noun
      Etymology: Hindi & Urdu ṭhag, literally, thief
      Date: 1810
      : a brutal ruffian or assassin : gangster , tough

      So is this what you want with an “education” to provide for your family, pray over your family and help protect you?

      God wants more for you than an “educated” thug.[/quote]

      Sweetie,

      You mean to tell me you think any thugs have an education…you are sadly mistaken…I went to an HBCU and there were plenty of “thuggish” dudes in class with me….They dressed thuggish and knew all about the streets but can do the hell outta some math or know more about world history than most of the nerds in the class…

      But if you say so!![/quote]
      Sis,I too graduated from an HBCU(Clark Atlanta.

      There is a difference in thug dress and thug behavior. You said you wanted a educated thug not a educated dude dressed like a thug. I am going off of what you wrote.[/quote]
      My niece goes to Clark Atlanta now. I graduated from Spelman in 03. What year did u graduate?

    219. posted by Miss GQ (Striving to be the female Hype Williams)

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:32 PM

      [quote comment="371214"][quote comment="371167"]WTF!?!? Tell me why I got another got damn mouse! I’m moving….My house is clean as a damn whistle! They gonna pay me for this exterminator!![/quote]
      Please stop. I’m itching just reading that.
      I remember when I got a mouse in my room and they put down those sticky traps that look like hot pocket packages…
      A few days later I was getting dressed and something of mine fell behind my dresser by the radiator — where the trap was. I reached down to get it and my hand got stuck to the trap!!!! :shock: *imagine a vomit emoticon* :shock:

      && THE MOUSE WAS ON IT! DEAD![/quote]
      :lol: :lol: :lol: that is too funny

    220. posted by les923~Obama Stan #1~ The struggles of my past becomes the strength for my future.

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:32 PM

      [quote comment="371214"][quote comment="371167"]WTF!?!? Tell me why I got another got damn mouse! I’m moving….My house is clean as a damn whistle! They gonna pay me for this exterminator!![/quote]
      Please stop. I’m itching just reading that.
      I remember when I got a mouse in my room and they put down those sticky traps that look like hot pocket packages…
      A few days later I was getting dressed and something of mine fell behind my dresser by the radiator — where the trap was. I reached down to get it and my hand got stuck to the trap!!!! :shock: *imagine a vomit emoticon* :shock:

      && THE MOUSE WAS ON IT! DEAD![/quote]

      LMAO – that’s funnnneeeeeee, my god-daughter’s foot (when she was like 2 – 3 years old, got stuck on it & that little girl screamed bloody murder, i was on the floor rolling – her mother had to take it off for her, i told her that’s what you get, lol, if you had kept your azz steady bet that wouldn’ta happened.

    221. posted by I am Me ~Emancipation NOW!!!!!!!~

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:33 PM

      [quote comment="371222"][quote comment="371190"][quote comment="371167"]WTF!?!? Tell me why I got another got damn mouse! I’m moving….My house is clean as a damn whistle! They gonna pay me for this exterminator!![/quote]
      It’s cold outside… those little rodents are looking for some warm hole to be in, and I guess they found out about your crib!! I guess those are the downs to having a nice, warm, cozy place!!! :P[/quote]
      Why me!?!? I’m scared of everything!! I’m sittin here crying like a baby b/c maintenance is taking forever…I can deal with a roach or huge bug but not a rodent[/quote]

      You need a cat

    222. posted by ~*Cherishedbyu*~ hates this part right here

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:33 PM

      [quote comment="371221"][quote comment="371214"][quote comment="371167"]WTF!?!? Tell me why I got another got damn mouse! I’m moving….My house is clean as a damn whistle! They gonna pay me for this exterminator!![/quote]
      Please stop. I’m itching just reading that.
      I remember when I got a mouse in my room and they put down those sticky traps that look like hot pocket packages…
      A few days later I was getting dressed and something of mine fell behind my dresser by the radiator — where the trap was. I reached down to get it and my hand got stuck to the trap!!!! :shock: *imagine a vomit emoticon* :shock:

      && THE MOUSE WAS ON IT! DEAD![/quote]

      They would have had to cut my hand off.[/quote]
      I’m dead! That’s what happened to me. I just went to go clean up the living room and the damn thing is right there next to my TV

    223. posted by ♥Ms. Toya♥ Obama Stan #2/Ay Hazel I like you/Can't see myself without you/my sweet hazel/cuz I think I'm in love, I'm in loooovee/ ~Lloyd

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:34 PM

      [quote comment="371189"][quote comment="371158"][quote comment="371125"][quote comment="371119"]I don’t gay from Bentley at all..

      He’s just as gay as Andre 3000.[/quote]

      3000 is sooooo sexy to me!![/quote]
      Speaking of numbers everytime I watch the movie 300 I wonder are the abs on those guys airbrushed on??????? lol[/quote]
      Man Oh Man… However those abs got there, they looked very nice…[/quote]
      OKAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! lol

    224. posted by Yetta.... ~Now accepting applications...If you can not provide assistance, please keep ya distance!!~

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:34 PM

      [quote comment="371222"][quote comment="371190"][quote comment="371167"]WTF!?!? Tell me why I got another got damn mouse! I’m moving….My house is clean as a damn whistle! They gonna pay me for this exterminator!![/quote]
      It’s cold outside… those little rodents are looking for some warm hole to be in, and I guess they found out about your crib!! I guess those are the downs to having a nice, warm, cozy place!!! :P[/quote]
      Why me!?!? I’m scared of everything!! I’m sittin here crying like a baby b/c maintenance is taking forever…I can deal with a roach or huge bug but not a rodent[/quote]
      I’d rather the rodent…They run from you, but huge bugs try to welcome you when you come home….like a puppy… Those jokers aint scared…Well, it depends on the type of bug….

    225. posted by SxyKole *Obamas Stan #4*Take A Day To Heal From The Lies You've Told Yourself And The One That Have Been Told To You!!!

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:35 PM

      [quote comment="371210"][quote comment="371206"]Hey, Did any of ya’ll get an email from les? With these 2 gay dudes fighting? LOL[/quote]
      I did, but it kept stopping… What I saw was funny though!![/quote]
      That ish was to funny, LOL he smacked the hell out of ole dude, then throw him against the wall.. Oh did you see the bad day at work one.. Now that one was crazy!!

    226. posted by southernBella*AKA* B%tch Better Have My Money!!!

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:35 PM

      [quote comment="371215"][quote comment="371201"][quote comment="371183"][quote comment="371169"][quote comment="371140"][quote comment="371058"][quote comment="371042"][quote comment="371037"][quote comment="370915"]I love this man lol! I’ve had the chance to meet him personally and he was so much different than what I thought he was. He’s sexy,educated, and well mannered lol. Not gay by far either. Good Christian brother on top of all that.[/quote]
      Amen. We black women send so many mixed messages. When a brother is on here acting like a gentlemen, being dignified and acting like a real MAN, we belittle him and call him gay. BUT when a thug fool is on here we go off about his ignorance, but still sweat his swagger and alleged “sexiness”.
      These same women are the ones that swear they love Obama and Michelle for everything they stand for as respectful, classy, educated black folks. We are so stupid. No wonder brothers do not know how to “court” us. Hell, we have no real standards of respect even for ourselves.[/quote]
      LOL Harsh! But u have a point! I HATE THUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUGS![/quote]

      I like them both!! Both I really like educated thugs…those are the ones that I fawn over…[/quote]

      Sis, there is no such thing as an educated thug. We black women have become so enthralled with this hood culuture that we now make excuses for accepting ill behavior wrapped in Christmas paper with a bow.

      What you really want is a real black man that is hard-working, that honors education, Christ,and family BUT will defend your honor at the bat of an eye. That is a real man.

      This is the Webster definition of a thug:
      Main Entry: thug
      Pronunciation: \ˈthəg\
      Function: noun
      Etymology: Hindi & Urdu ṭhag, literally, thief
      Date: 1810
      : a brutal ruffian or assassin : gangster , tough

      So is this what you want with an “education” to provide for your family, pray over your family and help protect you?

      God wants more for you than an “educated” thug.[/quote]
      Let the Chuch say…. AAAAAAAAAAAAMMMMMMMMMMMMMEEEEEEEENNNNNNNNNNNN!! You deserve better Bella..Not saying that that is the only “type” you attract, I’m just going off your statement….[/quote]

      My guy aint got an announce of thug in him…..I’m always calling him lame….he was in the military so he has Military swagger…I dont know what to call it!!

      I’m just attracted to thugs… that’s all I’m saying!![/quote]
      I know….I read your comment about you telling him he had no swag and he got upset.
      Even you being attracted to them is enough to say you deserve better, even if all you do is think about em…

      You feel me? Or not..[/quote]

      Yeah I think we on the same page!![/quote]

      Maybe deep down I just wish my guy had more street in him…sometimes we be different pages about stuff…

      It’s like he grew living like the Huxtibles and I grew up living like The Evans (Goodtimes) minus the good mama!!!

      He sugarcoats a lot of stuff..and I just come raw!! And that drives him crazy because he dont know how to handle me sometimes when going raw on him or a situation…but when I get around his mother (I call her Clarie Huxtible and it pisses him off, LOL) I have act like I got some sense…and sometimes I get annoyed with that!!

    227. posted by EDUBB.. A diva is female version of a hustla

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:35 PM

      Cute by Why every time I see him I think of RYAN LESLIE are they one in the same!!!

    228. posted by ~*Cherishedbyu*~ hates this part right here

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:35 PM

      [quote comment="371229"][quote comment="371222"][quote comment="371190"][quote comment="371167"]WTF!?!? Tell me why I got another got damn mouse! I’m moving….My house is clean as a damn whistle! They gonna pay me for this exterminator!![/quote]
      It’s cold outside… those little rodents are looking for some warm hole to be in, and I guess they found out about your crib!! I guess those are the downs to having a nice, warm, cozy place!!! :P[/quote]
      Why me!?!? I’m scared of everything!! I’m sittin here crying like a baby b/c maintenance is taking forever…I can deal with a roach or huge bug but not a rodent[/quote]

      You need a cat[/quote]
      I was about to go get the one that roam around on the streets n lock it in my apt for like an hour

    229. posted by Yetta.... ~Now accepting applications...If you can not provide assistance, please keep ya distance!!~

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:36 PM

      [quote comment="371229"][quote comment="371222"][quote comment="371190"][quote comment="371167"]WTF!?!? Tell me why I got another got damn mouse! I’m moving….My house is clean as a damn whistle! They gonna pay me for this exterminator!![/quote]
      It’s cold outside… those little rodents are looking for some warm hole to be in, and I guess they found out about your crib!! I guess those are the downs to having a nice, warm, cozy place!!! :P[/quote]
      Why me!?!? I’m scared of everything!! I’m sittin here crying like a baby b/c maintenance is taking forever…I can deal with a roach or huge bug but not a rodent[/quote]

      You need a cat[/quote]
      Are you JUST leaving the last post??

    230. posted by LSU GYRL *has on her black berret and shirt with her fist in the air!*

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:36 PM

      Thugs vs Real Men…interesting.

      i consider a “thug” to be someone who cuts corners in life. You know the guy that’s always tryna come up on everybody else’s expense. A guy who would rather rob, steal and sell drugs than work a legal job but is the first to talk ish whenever someone doesn’t do what they do. I believe the thug’s common line is “he aint on my level”. He also doesnt like to come home at night because he is usually “hustling”. Hustling which leads to prison time that he DOES NOT mind doing because he thinks that makes him a man. Thugs usually think that the macho thug persona is cool. Although many “thugs” are smart they lack the skills that make them men. The thug may be sexy and fun at first but nothing good ever comes out from dating a thug.

      Thats just my opinion. Been there and done that. Got the t-shirt and the war wounds to prove it.

    231. posted by Miss GQ (Striving to be the female Hype Williams)

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:36 PM

      [quote comment="371236"][quote comment="371210"][quote comment="371206"]Hey, Did any of ya’ll get an email from les? With these 2 gay dudes fighting? LOL[/quote]
      I did, but it kept stopping… What I saw was funny though!![/quote]
      That ish was to funny, LOL he smacked the hell out of ole dude, then throw him against the wall.. Oh did you see the bad day at work one.. Now that one was crazy!![/quote]
      Kole, did u send it to me??? do u even have my e-mail??

    232. posted by IT IS WHAT IT IS....

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:36 PM

      YALL R MOVING TO FAST FOR ME TO GET MY COMMENT IN LOL.. ANYWHO..
      I TOO A GRAD FROM AN HBCU AND CLOTHES IS NOT WHAT MAKES A MAN A THUG, ITS HIS ATTITUDE. NOT ALL MEN HAVE THE SAME PREP STYLE. SO THE DUDE U SEE WITH OVERSIZED JEANS AND HOODY COULD BE THE ONE WITH THE 4.0. CLOTHES ARE JUST THAT CLOTHES.

    233. posted by Foley.

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:37 PM

      [quote comment="371205"][quote comment="371184"][quote comment="371162"][quote comment="371140"][quote comment="371058"][quote comment="371042"][quote comment="371037"][quote comment="370915"]I love this man lol! I’ve had the chance to meet him personally and he was so much different than what I thought he was. He’s sexy,educated, and well mannered lol. Not gay by far either. Good Christian brother on top of all that.[/quote]
      Amen. We black women send so many mixed messages. When a brother is on here acting like a gentlemen, being dignified and acting like a real MAN, we belittle him and call him gay. BUT when a thug fool is on here we go off about his ignorance, but still sweat his swagger and alleged “sexiness”.
      These same women are the ones that swear they love Obama and Michelle for everything they stand for as respectful, classy, educated black folks. We are so stupid. No wonder brothers do not know how to “court” us. Hell, we have no real standards of respect even for ourselves.[/quote]
      LOL Harsh! But u have a point! I HATE THUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUGS![/quote]

      I like them both!! Both I really like educated thugs…those are the ones that I fawn over…[/quote]

      Sis, there is no such thing as an educated thug. We black women have become so enthralled with this hood culuture that we now make excuses for accepting ill behavior wrapped in Christmas paper with a bow.

      What you really want is a real black man that is hard-working, that honors education, Christ,and family BUT will defend your honor at the bat of an eye. That is a real man.

      This is the Webster definition of a thug:
      Main Entry: thug
      Pronunciation: \ˈthəg\
      Function: noun
      Etymology: Hindi & Urdu ṭhag, literally, thief
      Date: 1810
      : a brutal ruffian or assassin : gangster , tough

      So is this what you want with an “education” to provide for your family, pray over your family and help protect you?

      God wants more for you than an “educated” thug.[/quote]

      Sweetie,

      You mean to tell me you think any thugs have an education…you are sadly mistaken…I went to an HBCU and there were plenty of “thuggish” dudes in class with me….They dressed thuggish and knew all about the streets but can do the hell outta some math or know more about world history than most of the nerds in the class…

      But if you say so!![/quote]
      They were faking the funk Bella. They knew damn well if they went on an interview with Microsoft they would not dress the way they dressed in class. Thats all she is saying: Thugs don’t go to school. They damn sure don’t go to college. Men do. Men take care of what needs to be taken care of, and don’t give a shit about what other people think about them. They don’t have to have the pants to their knees or tats all over their arms.[/quote]

      And that’s fine if they were faking…..I dont want Ray Ray the drug dealer or Tiny the murderer….I like guys that have street AND book knowledge…you know that guy that ait afraid to hang with his buddies from the hood, but goes to work on Monday morning and under those work clothes he might have some tats…[/quote]
      You remember Boyz in the Hood right? Cuba (I forgot his name in the movie) was that character you are describing. What happened to him in the end? He had to leave that shit behind because the Hood took one of his friends away and almost took him.

      One cannot rise above others and expect to still hang with them. Its the lesser of two evils because when you start to do good for yourself, people are gonna hate and 9 times out of 10, its gonna be the “Hood” friends. Sometimes when you upgrade, you can’t half-ass it.

    234. posted by VOGUE "Even when the sky comes falling..Even when the sun don’t shine..I got faith in you & I"

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:37 PM

      @ Everyone

      I’m serious I was shaking and shivering.
      I didnt know what to do with myself!
      The RA and some other person from the office had to come down to my room and REMOVE that mess AT ONCE!

    235. posted by Jglamore

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:37 PM

      [quote comment="371218"][quote comment="371193"][quote comment="371170"][quote comment="371140"][quote comment="371058"][quote comment="371042"][quote comment="371037"][quote comment="370915"]I love this man lol! I’ve had the chance to meet him personally and he was so much different than what I thought he was. He’s sexy,educated, and well mannered lol. Not gay by far either. Good Christian brother on top of all that.[/quote]
      Amen. We black women send so many mixed messages. When a brother is on here acting like a gentlemen, being dignified and acting like a real MAN, we belittle him and call him gay. BUT when a thug fool is on here we go off about his ignorance, but still sweat his swagger and alleged “sexiness”.
      These same women are the ones that swear they love Obama and Michelle for everything they stand for as respectful, classy, educated black folks. We are so stupid. No wonder brothers do not know how to “court” us. Hell, we have no real standards of respect even for ourselves.[/quote]
      LOL Harsh! But u have a point! I HATE THUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUGS![/quote]

      I like them both!! Both I really like educated thugs…those are the ones that I fawn over…[/quote]

      Sis, there is no such thing as an educated thug. We black women have become so enthralled with this hood culuture that we now make excuses for accepting ill behavior wrapped in Christmas paper with a bow.

      What you really want is a real black man that is hard-working, that honors education, Christ,and family BUT will defend your honor at the bat of an eye. That is a real man.

      This is the Webster definition of a thug:
      Main Entry: thug
      Pronunciation: \ˈthəg\
      Function: noun
      Etymology: Hindi & Urdu ṭhag, literally, thief
      Date: 1810
      : a brutal ruffian or assassin : gangster , tough

      So is this what you want with an “education” to provide for your family, pray over your family and help protect you?

      God wants more for you than an “educated” thug.[/quote]
      I couldn’t agree more. Amen my sista..

      BTW:

      Have you read Midnight by Sister Souljah?[/quote]
      (jumping in) I did… but I still don’t see how he’s a gangster?? especially hooking up with akemi?[/quote]
      That was love. That had nothing to do with his gangster. His gangster was defending his family and standing up to those that attempted to disrespect him or anyone close to him. The book wasn’t centered around that, it was centered around his growing into manhood.[/quote]
      I get that..I actually enjoyed the book.. a real eye opener in a lot of ways. However she did title it a Gangster’s Love story sooo that was kind of misleading. I would classify in as of yet (waiting on part 2) as a gangster.

    236. posted by Yetta.... ~Now accepting applications...If you can not provide assistance, please keep ya distance!!~

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:38 PM

      [quote comment="371238"][quote comment="371215"][quote comment="371201"][quote comment="371183"][quote comment="371169"][quote comment="371140"][quote comment="371058"][quote comment="371042"][quote comment="371037"][quote comment="370915"]I love this man lol! I’ve had the chance to meet him personally and he was so much different than what I thought he was. He’s sexy,educated, and well mannered lol. Not gay by far either. Good Christian brother on top of all that.[/quote]
      Amen. We black women send so many mixed messages. When a brother is on here acting like a gentlemen, being dignified and acting like a real MAN, we belittle him and call him gay. BUT when a thug fool is on here we go off about his ignorance, but still sweat his swagger and alleged “sexiness”.
      These same women are the ones that swear they love Obama and Michelle for everything they stand for as respectful, classy, educated black folks. We are so stupid. No wonder brothers do not know how to “court” us. Hell, we have no real standards of respect even for ourselves.[/quote]
      LOL Harsh! But u have a point! I HATE THUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUGS![/quote]

      I like them both!! Both I really like educated thugs…those are the ones that I fawn over…[/quote]

      Sis, there is no such thing as an educated thug. We black women have become so enthralled with this hood culuture that we now make excuses for accepting ill behavior wrapped in Christmas paper with a bow.

      What you really want is a real black man that is hard-working, that honors education, Christ,and family BUT will defend your honor at the bat of an eye. That is a real man.

      This is the Webster definition of a thug:
      Main Entry: thug
      Pronunciation: \ˈthəg\
      Function: noun
      Etymology: Hindi & Urdu ṭhag, literally, thief
      Date: 1810
      : a brutal ruffian or assassin : gangster , tough

      So is this what you want with an “education” to provide for your family, pray over your family and help protect you?

      God wants more for you than an “educated” thug.[/quote]
      Let the Chuch say…. AAAAAAAAAAAAMMMMMMMMMMMMMEEEEEEEENNNNNNNNNNNN!! You deserve better Bella..Not saying that that is the only “type” you attract, I’m just going off your statement….[/quote]

      My guy aint got an announce of thug in him…..I’m always calling him lame….he was in the military so he has Military swagger…I dont know what to call it!!

      I’m just attracted to thugs… that’s all I’m saying!![/quote]
      I know….I read your comment about you telling him he had no swag and he got upset.
      Even you being attracted to them is enough to say you deserve better, even if all you do is think about em…

      You feel me? Or not..[/quote]

      Yeah I think we on the same page!![/quote]

      Maybe deep down I just wish my guy had more street in him…sometimes we be different pages about stuff…

      It’s like he grew living like the Huxtibles and I grew up living like The Evans (Goodtimes) minus the good mama!!!

      He sugarcoats a lot of stuff..and I just come raw!! And that drives him crazy because he dont know how to handle me sometimes when going raw on him or a situation…but when I get around his mother (I call her Clarie Huxtible and it pisses him off, LOL) I have act like I got some sense…and sometimes I get annoyed with that!![/quote]
      I guess that balances the relationship out. You don’t want a dude who acts JUST LIKE YOU!! You would probably want to kill him after a while, or him, you!! Just thank God that you have someone who is not whoopin your tale and cursing you out errday!!!!

    237. posted by Encouragement

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:38 PM

      [quote comment="370963"][quote comment="370943"][quote comment="370940"]Is that a Jesus piece? :shock:[/quote]

      :lol: I don’t know if I’m laughing at your quote or your gravi[/quote]
      LOL I’m just saying…my man brought out the Jesus piece! :cool: Fonzy and gravi man are some cool motha lovas!!![/quote]
      is that a real person on your gravi b/c he is the ugliest person i’ve seen in my lifetime just like flava flav

    238. posted by Captivating!! I got a BIG ego cuz I can back it up!

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:38 PM

      [quote comment="371217"][quote comment="371206"]Hey, Did any of ya’ll get an email from les? With these 2 gay dudes fighting? LOL[/quote]
      sounds intersting send it to me[/quote]
      i got it…it looked like a gay college dorr everyone in that piece looked suspect

    239. posted by Miss GQ (Striving to be the female Hype Williams)

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:39 PM

      [quote comment="371243"]Thugs vs Real Men…interesting.

      i consider a “thug” to be someone who cuts corners in life. You know the guy that’s always tryna come up on everybody else’s expense. A guy who would rather rob, steal and sell drugs than work a legal job but is the first to talk ish whenever someone doesn’t do what they do. I believe the thug’s common line is “he aint on my level”. He also doesnt like to come home at night because he is usually “hustling”. Hustling which leads to prison time that he DOES NOT mind doing because he thinks that makes him a man. Thugs usually think that the macho thug persona is cool. Although many “thugs” are smart they lack the skills that make them men. The thug may be sexy and fun at first but nothing good ever comes out from dating a thug.

      Thats just my opinion. Been there and done that. Got the t-shirt and the war wounds to prove it.[/quote]
      i agree

    240. posted by cantstopwontstop

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:39 PM

      [quote comment="371037"][quote comment="370915"]I love this man lol! I’ve had the chance to meet him personally and he was so much different than what I thought he was. He’s sexy,educated, and well mannered lol. Not gay by far either. Good Christian brother on top of all that.[/quote]
      Amen. We black women send so many mixed messages. When a brother is on here acting like a gentlemen, being dignified and acting like a real MAN, we belittle him and call him gay. BUT when a thug fool is on here we go off about his ignorance, but still sweat his swagger and alleged “sexiness”.
      These same women are the ones that swear they love Obama and Michelle for everything they stand for as respectful, classy, educated black folks. We are so stupid. No wonder brothers do not know how to “court” us. Hell, we have no real standards of respect even for ourselves.[/quote]

      You’re right. But I still thought he was gay. He was playing that kind of role and it wasn’t just about having good manners. There are plenty of non-thug dudes with good manners who don’t act effeminate. He did. Sorry.

    241. posted by SxyKole *Obamas Stan #4*Take A Day To Heal From The Lies You've Told Yourself And The One That Have Been Told To You!!!

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:40 PM

      [quote comment="371217"][quote comment="371206"]Hey, Did any of ya’ll get an email from les? With these 2 gay dudes fighting? LOL[/quote]
      sounds intersting send it to me[/quote]
      Okay.. Hold on..

    242. posted by Lovely One

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:40 PM

      [quote comment="371162"][quote comment="371140"][quote comment="371058"][quote comment="371042"][quote comment="371037"][quote comment="370915"]I love this man lol! I’ve had the chance to meet him personally and he was so much different than what I thought he was. He’s sexy,educated, and well mannered lol. Not gay by far either. Good Christian brother on top of all that.[/quote]
      Amen. We black women send so many mixed messages. When a brother is on here acting like a gentlemen, being dignified and acting like a real MAN, we belittle him and call him gay. BUT when a thug fool is on here we go off about his ignorance, but still sweat his swagger and alleged “sexiness”.
      These same women are the ones that swear they love Obama and Michelle for everything they stand for as respectful, classy, educated black folks. We are so stupid. No wonder brothers do not know how to “court” us. Hell, we have no real standards of respect even for ourselves.[/quote]
      LOL Harsh! But u have a point! I HATE THUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUGS![/quote]

      I like them both!! Both I really like educated thugs…those are the ones that I fawn over…[/quote]

      Sis, there is no such thing as an educated thug. We black women have become so enthralled with this hood culuture that we now make excuses for accepting ill behavior wrapped in Christmas paper with a bow.

      What you really want is a real black man that is hard-working, that honors education, Christ,and family BUT will defend your honor at the bat of an eye. That is a real man.

      This is the Webster definition of a thug:
      Main Entry: thug
      Pronunciation: \ˈthəg\
      Function: noun
      Etymology: Hindi & Urdu ṭhag, literally, thief
      Date: 1810
      : a brutal ruffian or assassin : gangster , tough

      So is this what you want with an “education” to provide for your family, pray over your family and help protect you?

      God wants more for you than an “educated” thug.[/quote]

      Sweetie,

      You mean to tell me you think any thugs have an education…you are sadly mistaken…I went to an HBCU and there were plenty of “thuggish” dudes in class with me….They dressed thuggish and knew all about the streets but can do the hell outta some math or know more about world history than most of the nerds in the class…

      But if you say so!![/quote]
      There are no thugs in college…just “wanna-be” thugs.

    243. posted by Another Nobody

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:40 PM

      Does anyone biut me recall the fact that the News Room cafe was shut down by the health department for an outbreak of roached in the kitchen?!?! Gross. Stick with Chaya Fonz!

    244. posted by S&J

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:41 PM

      [quote comment="371257"][quote comment="371243"]Thugs vs Real Men…interesting.

      i consider a “thug” to be someone who cuts corners in life. You know the guy that’s always tryna come up on everybody else’s expense. A guy who would rather rob, steal and sell drugs than work a legal job but is the first to talk ish whenever someone doesn’t do what they do. I believe the thug’s common line is “he aint on my level”. He also doesnt like to come home at night because he is usually “hustling”. Hustling which leads to prison time that he DOES NOT mind doing because he thinks that makes him a man. Thugs usually think that the macho thug persona is cool. Although many “thugs” are smart they lack the skills that make them men. The thug may be sexy and fun at first but nothing good ever comes out from dating a thug.

      Thats just my opinion. Been there and done that. Got the t-shirt and the war wounds to prove it.[/quote]
      i agree[/quote]
      me 2,

    245. posted by I love black people

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:42 PM

      1. I don’t think that if a man comes off as gay to a woman that means the woman ‘likes thugs.’ I, personally am not attracted to thugs, but I’ll say if I think a man is gay or not. Also, men with ‘gay tendencies’ at least what our society deems as gay tendencies, are not the only men that someone can get a gay vibe from. The opposite of gay is not thug. Just because a woman says, oh I thought he was gay doesn’t mean she would prefer a thug because thugs don’t exude these ‘gay tendencies.’

      2. We need to start using the word swagger correctly. Everyone has a certain swag. Swag does not mean hood acting, or fly, what have you. A person’s swagger is how they carry themselves. Someone can’t not have swag.

    246. posted by Yetta.... ~Now accepting applications...If you can not provide assistance, please keep ya distance!!~

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:42 PM

      [quote comment="371243"]Thugs vs Real Men…interesting.

      i consider a “thug” to be someone who cuts corners in life. You know the guy that’s always tryna come up on everybody else’s expense. A guy who would rather rob, steal and sell drugs than work a legal job but is the first to talk ish whenever someone doesn’t do what they do. I believe the thug’s common line is “he aint on my level”. He also doesnt like to come home at night because he is usually “hustling”. Hustling which leads to prison time that he DOES NOT mind doing because he thinks that makes him a man. Thugs usually think that the macho thug persona is cool. Although many “thugs” are smart they lack the skills that make them men. The thug may be sexy and fun at first but nothing good ever comes out from dating a thug.

      Thats just my opinion. Been there and done that. Got the t-shirt and the war wounds to prove it.[/quote]
      And also.. what is knowledge if one does NOT APPLY IT!!!!!!!!!!!! An “educated thug”, ( if there is such a thing), will always be that an educated thug…not a doctor, lawyer, or any of teh such..Because like you said, they will always have to cut corners…

    247. posted by loveislove~OBAMA STAN #INFINITY~AKA MRS. WEST ((SAYIN "MY PERSIAN CAT IS FLYIN HIGH IN THE SKY..SHE IS NOW MY GUARDIAN ANGEL....WITH THAT I KNOW '09 IS MINE!!!!))

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:42 PM

      [quote comment="371249"][quote comment="371218"][quote comment="371193"][quote comment="371170"][quote comment="371140"][quote comment="371058"][quote comment="371042"][quote comment="371037"][quote comment="370915"]I love this man lol! I’ve had the chance to meet him personally and he was so much different than what I thought he was. He’s sexy,educated, and well mannered lol. Not gay by far either. Good Christian brother on top of all that.[/quote]
      Amen. We black women send so many mixed messages. When a brother is on here acting like a gentlemen, being dignified and acting like a real MAN, we belittle him and call him gay. BUT when a thug fool is on here we go off about his ignorance, but still sweat his swagger and alleged “sexiness”.
      These same women are the ones that swear they love Obama and Michelle for everything they stand for as respectful, classy, educated black folks. We are so stupid. No wonder brothers do not know how to “court” us. Hell, we have no real standards of respect even for ourselves.[/quote]
      LOL Harsh! But u have a point! I HATE THUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUGS![/quote]

      I like them both!! Both I really like educated thugs…those are the ones that I fawn over…[/quote]

      Sis, there is no such thing as an educated thug. We black women have become so enthralled with this hood culuture that we now make excuses for accepting ill behavior wrapped in Christmas paper with a bow.

      What you really want is a real black man that is hard-working, that honors education, Christ,and family BUT will defend your honor at the bat of an eye. That is a real man.

      This is the Webster definition of a thug:
      Main Entry: thug
      Pronunciation: \ˈthəg\
      Function: noun
      Etymology: Hindi & Urdu ṭhag, literally, thief
      Date: 1810
      : a brutal ruffian or assassin : gangster , tough

      So is this what you want with an “education” to provide for your family, pray over your family and help protect you?

      God wants more for you than an “educated” thug.[/quote]
      I couldn’t agree more. Amen my sista..

      BTW:

      Have you read Midnight by Sister Souljah?[/quote]
      (jumping in) I did… but I still don’t see how he’s a gangster?? especially hooking up with akemi?[/quote]
      That was love. That had nothing to do with his gangster. His gangster was defending his family and standing up to those that attempted to disrespect him or anyone close to him. The book wasn’t centered around that, it was centered around his growing into manhood.[/quote]
      I get that..I actually enjoyed the book.. a real eye opener in a lot of ways. However she did title it a Gangster’s Love story sooo that was kind of misleading. I would classify in as of yet (waiting on part 2) as a gangster.[/quote]

      Well later on when he was working for Winter’s dad (which we all knew him first by) he did become a GANGSTER

    248. posted by VOGUE "Even when the sky comes falling..Even when the sun don’t shine..I got faith in you & I"

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:42 PM

      [quote comment="371252"][quote comment="370963"][quote comment="370943"][quote comment="370940"]Is that a Jesus piece? :shock:[/quote]

      :lol: I don’t know if I’m laughing at your quote or your gravi[/quote]
      LOL I’m just saying…my man brought out the Jesus piece! :cool: Fonzy and gravi man are some cool motha lovas!!![/quote]
      is that a real person on your gravi b/c he is the ugliest person i’ve seen in my lifetime just like flava flav[/quote]
      Yeah he’s real!! A REAL COOL MOTHA LOVA :cool:

    249. posted by ~*Cherishedbyu*~ hates this part right here

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:42 PM

      [quote comment="371243"]Thugs vs Real Men…interesting.

      i consider a “thug” to be someone who cuts corners in life. You know the guy that’s always tryna come up on everybody else’s expense. A guy who would rather rob, steal and sell drugs than work a legal job but is the first to talk ish whenever someone doesn’t do what they do. I believe the thug’s common line is “he aint on my level”. He also doesnt like to come home at night because he is usually “hustling”. Hustling which leads to prison time that he DOES NOT mind doing because he thinks that makes him a man. Thugs usually think that the macho thug persona is cool. Although many “thugs” are smart they lack the skills that make them men. The thug may be sexy and fun at first but nothing good ever comes out from dating a thug.

      Thats just my opinion. Been there and done that. Got the t-shirt and the war wounds to prove it.[/quote]
      PREACH

    250. posted by southernBella*AKA* B%tch Better Have My Money!!!

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:42 PM

      [quote comment="371247"][quote comment="371205"][quote comment="371184"][quote comment="371162"][quote comment="371140"][quote comment="371058"][quote comment="371042"][quote comment="371037"][quote comment="370915"]I love this man lol! I’ve had the chance to meet him personally and he was so much different than what I thought he was. He’s sexy,educated, and well mannered lol. Not gay by far either. Good Christian brother on top of all that.[/quote]
      Amen. We black women send so many mixed messages. When a brother is on here acting like a gentlemen, being dignified and acting like a real MAN, we belittle him and call him gay. BUT when a thug fool is on here we go off about his ignorance, but still sweat his swagger and alleged “sexiness”.
      These same women are the ones that swear they love Obama and Michelle for everything they stand for as respectful, classy, educated black folks. We are so stupid. No wonder brothers do not know how to “court” us. Hell, we have no real standards of respect even for ourselves.[/quote]
      LOL Harsh! But u have a point! I HATE THUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUGS![/quote]

      I like them both!! Both I really like educated thugs…those are the ones that I fawn over…[/quote]

      Sis, there is no such thing as an educated thug. We black women have become so enthralled with this hood culuture that we now make excuses for accepting ill behavior wrapped in Christmas paper with a bow.

      What you really want is a real black man that is hard-working, that honors education, Christ,and family BUT will defend your honor at the bat of an eye. That is a real man.

      This is the Webster definition of a thug:
      Main Entry: thug
      Pronunciation: \ˈthəg\
      Function: noun
      Etymology: Hindi & Urdu ṭhag, literally, thief
      Date: 1810
      : a brutal ruffian or assassin : gangster , tough

      So is this what you want with an “education” to provide for your family, pray over your family and help protect you?

      God wants more for you than an “educated” thug.[/quote]

      Sweetie,

      You mean to tell me you think any thugs have an education…you are sadly mistaken…I went to an HBCU and there were plenty of “thuggish” dudes in class with me….They dressed thuggish and knew all about the streets but can do the hell outta some math or know more about world history than most of the nerds in the class…

      But if you say so!![/quote]
      They were faking the funk Bella. They knew damn well if they went on an interview with Microsoft they would not dress the way they dressed in class. Thats all she is saying: Thugs don’t go to school. They damn sure don’t go to college. Men do. Men take care of what needs to be taken care of, and don’t give a shit about what other people think about them. They don’t have to have the pants to their knees or tats all over their arms.[/quote]

      And that’s fine if they were faking…..I dont want Ray Ray the drug dealer or Tiny the murderer….I like guys that have street AND book knowledge…you know that guy that ait afraid to hang with his buddies from the hood, but goes to work on Monday morning and under those work clothes he might have some tats…[/quote]
      You remember Boyz in the Hood right? Cuba (I forgot his name in the movie) was that character you are describing. What happened to him in the end? He had to leave that shit behind because the Hood took one of his friends away and almost took him.

      One cannot rise above others and expect to still hang with them. Its the lesser of two evils because when you start to do good for yourself, people are gonna hate and 9 times out of 10, its gonna be the “Hood” friends. Sometimes when you upgrade, you can’t half-ass it.[/quote]

      S%it I had to leave the hood (I almost got sucked back in once I moved here, but that another story) so I understand that..I just want a dude with some street in him!! My guy can be so lame sometimes..and now that I’m preggers it really, really irks the hell outta me.

      Now the guy I messed with at the job is a prime example if what I’m talking about…dude is hella smart but he can talk abotu street stuff too!

      I need a balance sometimes!!!

    251. posted by Another Nobody

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:42 PM

      (Might explain why he’s scratchin)

    252. posted by ☼GhettoGossipGirl☼ ~Needs a Concealed Carry Permit and a Pistol~

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:43 PM

      [quote comment="371255"][quote comment="371217"][quote comment="371206"]Hey, Did any of ya’ll get an email from les? With these 2 gay dudes fighting? LOL[/quote]
      sounds intersting send it to me[/quote]
      i got it…it looked like a gay college dorr everyone in that piece looked suspect[/quote]

      They sure did

    253. posted by Foley.

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:43 PM

      [quote comment="371248"]@ Everyone

      I’m serious I was shaking and shivering.
      I didnt know what to do with myself!
      The RA and some other person from the office had to come down to my room and REMOVE that mess AT ONCE![/quote]
      LMFAO. TAKE DOWN THAT GRAVI NOW!! :shock:

    254. posted by ~*Cherishedbyu*~ hates this part right here

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:43 PM

      And Les, if ur here thanks for the email! U helped to ease my nerves!

    255. posted by Yetta.... ~Now accepting applications...If you can not provide assistance, please keep ya distance!!~

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:44 PM

      [quote comment="371252"][quote comment="370963"][quote comment="370943"][quote comment="370940"]Is that a Jesus piece? :shock:[/quote]

      :lol: I don’t know if I’m laughing at your quote or your gravi[/quote]
      LOL I’m just saying…my man brought out the Jesus piece! :cool: Fonzy and gravi man are some cool motha lovas!!![/quote]
      is that a real person on your gravi b/c he is the ugliest person i’ve seen in my lifetime just like flava flav[/quote]
      I just bursted with laughter!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Why, you ask..IDK!! I thought this was hilarious for some reason!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    256. posted by les923~Obama Stan #1~ The struggles of my past becomes the strength for my future.

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:44 PM

      [quote comment="371247"][quote comment="371205"][quote comment="371184"][quote comment="371162"][quote comment="371140"][quote comment="371058"][quote comment="371042"][quote comment="371037"][quote comment="370915"]I love this man lol! I’ve had the chance to meet him personally and he was so much different than what I thought he was. He’s sexy,educated, and well mannered lol. Not gay by far either. Good Christian brother on top of all that.[/quote]
      Amen. We black women send so many mixed messages. When a brother is on here acting like a gentlemen, being dignified and acting like a real MAN, we belittle him and call him gay. BUT when a thug fool is on here we go off about his ignorance, but still sweat his swagger and alleged “sexiness”.
      These same women are the ones that swear they love Obama and Michelle for everything they stand for as respectful, classy, educated black folks. We are so stupid. No wonder brothers do not know how to “court” us. Hell, we have no real standards of respect even for ourselves.[/quote]
      LOL Harsh! But u have a point! I HATE THUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUGS![/quote]

      I like them both!! Both I really like educated thugs…those are the ones that I fawn over…[/quote]

      Sis, there is no such thing as an educated thug. We black women have become so enthralled with this hood culuture that we now make excuses for accepting ill behavior wrapped in Christmas paper with a bow.

      What you really want is a real black man that is hard-working, that honors education, Christ,and family BUT will defend your honor at the bat of an eye. That is a real man.

      This is the Webster definition of a thug:
      Main Entry: thug
      Pronunciation: \ˈthəg\
      Function: noun
      Etymology: Hindi & Urdu ṭhag, literally, thief
      Date: 1810
      : a brutal ruffian or assassin : gangster , tough

      So is this what you want with an “education” to provide for your family, pray over your family and help protect you?

      God wants more for you than an “educated” thug.[/quote]

      Sweetie,

      You mean to tell me you think any thugs have an education…you are sadly mistaken…I went to an HBCU and there were plenty of “thuggish” dudes in class with me….They dressed thuggish and knew all about the streets but can do the hell outta some math or know more about world history than most of the nerds in the class…

      But if you say so!![/quote]
      They were faking the funk Bella. They knew damn well if they went on an interview with Microsoft they would not dress the way they dressed in class. Thats all she is saying: Thugs don’t go to school. They damn sure don’t go to college. Men do. Men take care of what needs to be taken care of, and don’t give a shit about what other people think about them. They don’t have to have the pants to their knees or tats all over their arms.[/quote]

      And that’s fine if they were faking…..I dont want Ray Ray the drug dealer or Tiny the murderer….I like guys that have street AND book knowledge…you know that guy that ait afraid to hang with his buddies from the hood, but goes to work on Monday morning and under those work clothes he might have some tats…[/quote]
      You remember Boyz in the Hood right? Cuba (I forgot his name in the movie) was that character you are describing. What happened to him in the end? He had to leave that shit behind because the Hood took one of his friends away and almost took him.

      One cannot rise above others and expect to still hang with them. Its the lesser of two evils because when you start to do good for yourself, people are gonna hate and 9 times out of 10, its gonna be the “Hood” friends. Sometimes when you upgrade, you can’t half-ass it.[/quote]

      That’s what happens to these rappers & ball players, they do move up in tax brackets but they can’t remove the hood mentality. That’s why they always wanna come back to the “hood” to hang out or party – can’t work, when people are hungry, loyalty & friendship goes thru the window and you will end up as the next victim.

    257. posted by Niecy

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:44 PM

      To Bella and anyone that thought I was being harsh, I was really not trying to insult anyone, but I soooo want sistas to wake up. We have been sleeping for 40 years( after the death of MLK). I do believe with the election of President-Elect Obama God is trying to wake us up. He wants us to take our dignity back, our families back and most importantly re-establish our deep love for him. We black women have allowed too much. We accept whoredom from black men like a passing fancy, we accept them exploiting us like its the order of the day, and we allow them to not look at us a wife material because we are promoting ourselves like video hoes for a brotha’s attention.
      Don’t get me wrong, I have made my fair share of idiot mistakes in relationships which is why I woke up, repetented and asked God to put me on a path to what he truly desired for me in the beginning. It ain’t easy, but its better than where I was headed before.

      The only way for black men or ANY man to respect us is for us to have REAL standards, self-respect and proper expectations. All this gold-digging, misdirected thinking and obsession with materialism that is constantly promoted even on this site is not what is going to help us thrive as daughters of the Almighty and meet the man that he has for us. If anything it will keep you at arm-length distance from him and from God.

    258. posted by ~*Cherishedbyu*~ hates this part right here

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:45 PM

      OMGGGGGGG! DEADD @ this karma email!!!!

    259. posted by Yetta.... ~Now accepting applications...If you can not provide assistance, please keep ya distance!!~

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:45 PM

      [quote comment="371272"](Might explain why he’s scratchin)[/quote]
      Is that the Rock with a midget in his arms? Or a young child?

    260. posted by VOGUE "Even when the sky comes falling..Even when the sun don’t shine..I got faith in you & I"

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:45 PM

      [quote comment="371260"][quote comment="371162"][quote comment="371140"][quote comment="371058"][quote comment="371042"][quote comment="371037"][quote comment="370915"]I love this man lol! I’ve had the chance to meet him personally and he was so much different than what I thought he was. He’s sexy,educated, and well mannered lol. Not gay by far either. Good Christian brother on top of all that.[/quote]
      Amen. We black women send so many mixed messages. When a brother is on here acting like a gentlemen, being dignified and acting like a real MAN, we belittle him and call him gay. BUT when a thug fool is on here we go off about his ignorance, but still sweat his swagger and alleged “sexiness”.
      These same women are the ones that swear they love Obama and Michelle for everything they stand for as respectful, classy, educated black folks. We are so stupid. No wonder brothers do not know how to “court” us. Hell, we have no real standards of respect even for ourselves.[/quote]
      LOL Harsh! But u have a point! I HATE THUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUGS![/quote]

      I like them both!! Both I really like educated thugs…those are the ones that I fawn over…[/quote]

      Sis, there is no such thing as an educated thug. We black women have become so enthralled with this hood culuture that we now make excuses for accepting ill behavior wrapped in Christmas paper with a bow.

      What you really want is a real black man that is hard-working, that honors education, Christ,and family BUT will defend your honor at the bat of an eye. That is a real man.

      This is the Webster definition of a thug:
      Main Entry: thug
      Pronunciation: \ˈthəg\
      Function: noun
      Etymology: Hindi & Urdu ṭhag, literally, thief
      Date: 1810
      : a brutal ruffian or assassin : gangster , tough

      So is this what you want with an “education” to provide for your family, pray over your family and help protect you?

      God wants more for you than an “educated” thug.[/quote]

      Sweetie,

      You mean to tell me you think any thugs have an education…you are sadly mistaken…I went to an HBCU and there were plenty of “thuggish” dudes in class with me….They dressed thuggish and knew all about the streets but can do the hell outta some math or know more about world history than most of the nerds in the class…

      But if you say so!![/quote]
      There are no thugs in college…just “wanna-be” thugs.[/quote]
      I heard that. My BF’s bff is what you call a thug and his mom paid GOOD money for him to go to school (enrolled his ass and everything) and get off the streets and stop acting a fool (dealing drugs etc) do you think he went? HELL NO!

      that was one long sentence, but you get the point.

    261. posted by SxyKole *Obamas Stan #4*Take A Day To Heal From The Lies You've Told Yourself And The One That Have Been Told To You!!!

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:45 PM

      [quote comment="371255"][quote comment="371217"][quote comment="371206"]Hey, Did any of ya’ll get an email from les? With these 2 gay dudes fighting? LOL[/quote]
      sounds intersting send it to me[/quote]
      i got it…it looked like a gay college dorr everyone in that piece looked suspect[/quote]
      Yeah, the dude in middle was trying to stop them.. LOL Okay I’m going to watch it one more time..

      GQ I just sent it to you!!!

    262. posted by Yetta.... ~Now accepting applications...If you can not provide assistance, please keep ya distance!!~

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:46 PM

      [quote comment="371279"]To Bella and anyone that thought I was being harsh, I was really not trying to insult anyone, but I soooo want sistas to wake up. We have been sleeping for 40 years( after the death of MLK). I do believe with the election of President-Elect Obama God is trying to wake us up. He wants us to take our dignity back, our families back and most importantly re-establish our deep love for him. We black women have allowed too much. We accept whoredom from black men like a passing fancy, we accept them exploiting us like its the order of the day, and we allow them to not look at us a wife material because we are promoting ourselves like video hoes for a brotha’s attention.
      Don’t get me wrong, I have made my fair share of idiot mistakes in relationships which is why I woke up, repetented and asked God to put me on a path to what he truly desired for me in the beginning. It ain’t easy, but its better than where I was headed before.

      The only way for black men or ANY man to respect us is for us to have REAL standards, self-respect and proper expectations. All this gold-digging, misdirected thinking and obsession with materialism that is constantly promoted even on this site is not what is going to help us thrive as daughters of the Almighty and meet the man that he has for us. If anything it will keep you at arm-length distance from him and from God.[/quote]
      You my new Cyber BFF!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :P

    263. posted by southernBella*AKA* B%tch Better Have My Money!!!

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:46 PM

      [quote comment="371250"][quote comment="371238"][quote comment="371215"][quote comment="371201"][quote comment="371183"][quote comment="371169"][quote comment="371140"][quote comment="371058"][quote comment="371042"][quote comment="371037"][quote comment="370915"]I love this man lol! I’ve had the chance to meet him personally and he was so much different than what I thought he was. He’s sexy,educated, and well mannered lol. Not gay by far either. Good Christian brother on top of all that.[/quote]
      Amen. We black women send so many mixed messages. When a brother is on here acting like a gentlemen, being dignified and acting like a real MAN, we belittle him and call him gay. BUT when a thug fool is on here we go off about his ignorance, but still sweat his swagger and alleged “sexiness”.
      These same women are the ones that swear they love Obama and Michelle for everything they stand for as respectful, classy, educated black folks. We are so stupid. No wonder brothers do not know how to “court” us. Hell, we have no real standards of respect even for ourselves.[/quote]
      LOL Harsh! But u have a point! I HATE THUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUGS![/quote]

      I like them both!! Both I really like educated thugs…those are the ones that I fawn over…[/quote]

      Sis, there is no such thing as an educated thug. We black women have become so enthralled with this hood culuture that we now make excuses for accepting ill behavior wrapped in Christmas paper with a bow.

      What you really want is a real black man that is hard-working, that honors education, Christ,and family BUT will defend your honor at the bat of an eye. That is a real man.

      This is the Webster definition of a thug:
      Main Entry: thug
      Pronunciation: \ˈthəg\
      Function: noun
      Etymology: Hindi & Urdu ṭhag, literally, thief
      Date: 1810
      : a brutal ruffian or assassin : gangster , tough

      So is this what you want with an “education” to provide for your family, pray over your family and help protect you?

      God wants more for you than an “educated” thug.[/quote]
      Let the Chuch say…. AAAAAAAAAAAAMMMMMMMMMMMMMEEEEEEEENNNNNNNNNNNN!! You deserve better Bella..Not saying that that is the only “type” you attract, I’m just going off your statement….[/quote]

      My guy aint got an announce of thug in him…..I’m always calling him lame….he was in the military so he has Military swagger…I dont know what to call it!!

      I’m just attracted to thugs… that’s all I’m saying!![/quote]
      I know….I read your comment about you telling him he had no swag and he got upset.
      Even you being attracted to them is enough to say you deserve better, even if all you do is think about em…

      You feel me? Or not..[/quote]

      Yeah I think we on the same page!![/quote]

      Maybe deep down I just wish my guy had more street in him…sometimes we be different pages about stuff…

      It’s like he grew living like the Huxtibles and I grew up living like The Evans (Goodtimes) minus the good mama!!!

      He sugarcoats a lot of stuff..and I just come raw!! And that drives him crazy because he dont know how to handle me sometimes when going raw on him or a situation…but when I get around his mother (I call her Clarie Huxtible and it pisses him off, LOL) I have act like I got some sense…and sometimes I get annoyed with that!![/quote]
      I guess that balances the relationship out. You don’t want a dude who acts JUST LIKE YOU!! You would probably want to kill him after a while, or him, you!! Just thank God that you have someone who is not whoopin your tale and cursing you out errday!!!![/quote]

      I am so blessed to have him in my life, trust me I know that…but girl when I say that if I want to watch a lil Wayne video or if I know everword to the Chronic album I dont need so side eyeing….you get what I’m saying!!

    264. posted by les923~Obama Stan #1~ The struggles of my past becomes the strength for my future.

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:47 PM

      [quote comment="371276"]And Les, if ur here thanks for the email! U helped to ease my nerves![/quote]

      Lol, no problem mamacita

      I e-mailed Heaven, ain’t heard from her in a hot minute – i was wondering if Silkk boy done chopped her up! I’ve been watching too many First 48 hours, it’s got me paranoid.

    265. posted by ~*Cherishedbyu*~ hates this part right here

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:47 PM

      [quote comment="371270"][quote comment="371247"][quote comment="371205"][quote comment="371184"][quote comment="371162"][quote comment="371140"][quote comment="371058"][quote comment="371042"][quote comment="371037"][quote comment="370915"]I love this man lol! I’ve had the chance to meet him personally and he was so much different than what I thought he was. He’s sexy,educated, and well mannered lol. Not gay by far either. Good Christian brother on top of all that.[/quote]
      Amen. We black women send so many mixed messages. When a brother is on here acting like a gentlemen, being dignified and acting like a real MAN, we belittle him and call him gay. BUT when a thug fool is on here we go off about his ignorance, but still sweat his swagger and alleged “sexiness”.
      These same women are the ones that swear they love Obama and Michelle for everything they stand for as respectful, classy, educated black folks. We are so stupid. No wonder brothers do not know how to “court” us. Hell, we have no real standards of respect even for ourselves.[/quote]
      LOL Harsh! But u have a point! I HATE THUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUGS![/quote]

      I like them both!! Both I really like educated thugs…those are the ones that I fawn over…[/quote]

      Sis, there is no such thing as an educated thug. We black women have become so enthralled with this hood culuture that we now make excuses for accepting ill behavior wrapped in Christmas paper with a bow.

      What you really want is a real black man that is hard-working, that honors education, Christ,and family BUT will defend your honor at the bat of an eye. That is a real man.

      This is the Webster definition of a thug:
      Main Entry: thug
      Pronunciation: \ˈthəg\
      Function: noun
      Etymology: Hindi & Urdu ṭhag, literally, thief
      Date: 1810
      : a brutal ruffian or assassin : gangster , tough

      So is this what you want with an “education” to provide for your family, pray over your family and help protect you?

      God wants more for you than an “educated” thug.[/quote]

      Sweetie,

      You mean to tell me you think any thugs have an education…you are sadly mistaken…I went to an HBCU and there were plenty of “thuggish” dudes in class with me….They dressed thuggish and knew all about the streets but can do the hell outta some math or know more about world history than most of the nerds in the class…

      But if you say so!![/quote]
      They were faking the funk Bella. They knew damn well if they went on an interview with Microsoft they would not dress the way they dressed in class. Thats all she is saying: Thugs don’t go to school. They damn sure don’t go to college. Men do. Men take care of what needs to be taken care of, and don’t give a shit about what other people think about them. They don’t have to have the pants to their knees or tats all over their arms.[/quote]

      And that’s fine if they were faking…..I dont want Ray Ray the drug dealer or Tiny the murderer….I like guys that have street AND book knowledge…you know that guy that ait afraid to hang with his buddies from the hood, but goes to work on Monday morning and under those work clothes he might have some tats…[/quote]
      You remember Boyz in the Hood right? Cuba (I forgot his name in the movie) was that character you are describing. What happened to him in the end? He had to leave that shit behind because the Hood took one of his friends away and almost took him.

      One cannot rise above others and expect to still hang with them. Its the lesser of two evils because when you start to do good for yourself, people are gonna hate and 9 times out of 10, its gonna be the “Hood” friends. Sometimes when you upgrade, you can’t half-ass it.[/quote]

      S%it I had to leave the hood (I almost got sucked back in once I moved here, but that another story) so I understand that..I just want a dude with some street in him!! My guy can be so lame sometimes..and now that I’m preggers it really, really irks the hell outta me.

      Now the guy I messed with at the job is a prime example if what I’m talking about…dude is hella smart but he can talk abotu street stuff too!

      I need a balance sometimes!!![/quote]
      Sooo why are u with him!? :?

    266. posted by Lovely One

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:48 PM

      [quote comment="371246"]YALL R MOVING TO FAST FOR ME TO GET MY COMMENT IN LOL.. ANYWHO..
      I TOO A GRAD FROM AN HBCU AND CLOTHES IS NOT WHAT MAKES A MAN A THUG, ITS HIS ATTITUDE. NOT ALL MEN HAVE THE SAME PREP STYLE. SO THE DUDE U SEE WITH OVERSIZED JEANS AND HOODY COULD BE THE ONE WITH THE 4.0. CLOTHES ARE JUST THAT CLOTHES.[/quote]
      I agree with that. But baggy clothes…and clothes that are way too preppy, makes me think that the dude just follow trends. Doing that TOO much is a bit feminine to me. I would not automatically holla at the dude the XXX white tee just as I would not holla at the dude with the skinny jeans and mohawk. I like a bit of individuality in my man.

    267. posted by Niecy

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:48 PM

      [quote comment="371224"][quote comment="371202"][quote comment="371162"][quote comment="371140"][quote comment="371058"][quote comment="371042"][quote comment="371037"][quote comment="370915"]I love this man lol! I’ve had the chance to meet him personally and he was so much different than what I thought he was. He’s sexy,educated, and well mannered lol. Not gay by far either. Good Christian brother on top of all that.[/quote]
      Amen. We black women send so many mixed messages. When a brother is on here acting like a gentlemen, being dignified and acting like a real MAN, we belittle him and call him gay. BUT when a thug fool is on here we go off about his ignorance, but still sweat his swagger and alleged “sexiness”.
      These same women are the ones that swear they love Obama and Michelle for everything they stand for as respectful, classy, educated black folks. We are so stupid. No wonder brothers do not know how to “court” us. Hell, we have no real standards of respect even for ourselves.[/quote]
      LOL Harsh! But u have a point! I HATE THUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUGS![/quote]

      I like them both!! Both I really like educated thugs…those are the ones that I fawn over…[/quote]

      Sis, there is no such thing as an educated thug. We black women have become so enthralled with this hood culuture that we now make excuses for accepting ill behavior wrapped in Christmas paper with a bow.

      What you really want is a real black man that is hard-working, that honors education, Christ,and family BUT will defend your honor at the bat of an eye. That is a real man.

      This is the Webster definition of a thug:
      Main Entry: thug
      Pronunciation: \ˈthəg\
      Function: noun
      Etymology: Hindi & Urdu ṭhag, literally, thief
      Date: 1810
      : a brutal ruffian or assassin : gangster , tough

      So is this what you want with an “education” to provide for your family, pray over your family and help protect you?

      God wants more for you than an “educated” thug.[/quote]

      Sweetie,

      You mean to tell me you think any thugs have an education…you are sadly mistaken…I went to an HBCU and there were plenty of “thuggish” dudes in class with me….They dressed thuggish and knew all about the streets but can do the hell outta some math or know more about world history than most of the nerds in the class…

      But if you say so!![/quote]
      Sis,I too graduated from an HBCU(Clark Atlanta.

      There is a difference in thug dress and thug behavior. You said you wanted a educated thug not a educated dude dressed like a thug. I am going off of what you wrote.[/quote]
      My niece goes to Clark Atlanta now. I graduated from Spelman in 03. What year did u graduate?[/quote]
      1994. I am an old-head. LOL.

    268. posted by Yetta.... ~Now accepting applications...If you can not provide assistance, please keep ya distance!!~

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:49 PM

      [quote comment="371288"][quote comment="371250"][quote comment="371238"][quote comment="371215"][quote comment="371201"][quote comment="371183"][quote comment="371169"][quote comment="371140"][quote comment="371058"][quote comment="371042"][quote comment="371037"][quote comment="370915"]I love this man lol! I’ve had the chance to meet him personally and he was so much different than what I thought he was. He’s sexy,educated, and well mannered lol. Not gay by far either. Good Christian brother on top of all that.[/quote]
      Amen. We black women send so many mixed messages. When a brother is on here acting like a gentlemen, being dignified and acting like a real MAN, we belittle him and call him gay. BUT when a thug fool is on here we go off about his ignorance, but still sweat his swagger and alleged “sexiness”.
      These same women are the ones that swear they love Obama and Michelle for everything they stand for as respectful, classy, educated black folks. We are so stupid. No wonder brothers do not know how to “court” us. Hell, we have no real standards of respect even for ourselves.[/quote]
      LOL Harsh! But u have a point! I HATE THUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUGS![/quote]

      I like them both!! Both I really like educated thugs…those are the ones that I fawn over…[/quote]

      Sis, there is no such thing as an educated thug. We black women have become so enthralled with this hood culuture that we now make excuses for accepting ill behavior wrapped in Christmas paper with a bow.

      What you really want is a real black man that is hard-working, that honors education, Christ,and family BUT will defend your honor at the bat of an eye. That is a real man.

      This is the Webster definition of a thug:
      Main Entry: thug
      Pronunciation: \ˈthəg\
      Function: noun
      Etymology: Hindi & Urdu ṭhag, literally, thief
      Date: 1810
      : a brutal ruffian or assassin : gangster , tough

      So is this what you want with an “education” to provide for your family, pray over your family and help protect you?

      God wants more for you than an “educated” thug.[/quote]
      Let the Chuch say…. AAAAAAAAAAAAMMMMMMMMMMMMMEEEEEEEENNNNNNNNNNNN!! You deserve better Bella..Not saying that that is the only “type” you attract, I’m just going off your statement….[/quote]

      My guy aint got an announce of thug in him…..I’m always calling him lame….he was in the military so he has Military swagger…I dont know what to call it!!

      I’m just attracted to thugs… that’s all I’m saying!![/quote]
      I know….I read your comment about you telling him he had no swag and he got upset.
      Even you being attracted to them is enough to say you deserve better, even if all you do is think about em…

      You feel me? Or not..[/quote]

      Yeah I think we on the same page!![/quote]

      Maybe deep down I just wish my guy had more street in him…sometimes we be different pages about stuff…

      It’s like he grew living like the Huxtibles and I grew up living like The Evans (Goodtimes) minus the good mama!!!

      He sugarcoats a lot of stuff..and I just come raw!! And that drives him crazy because he dont know how to handle me sometimes when going raw on him or a situation…but when I get around his mother (I call her Clarie Huxtible and it pisses him off, LOL) I have act like I got some sense…and sometimes I get annoyed with that!![/quote]
      I guess that balances the relationship out. You don’t want a dude who acts JUST LIKE YOU!! You would probably want to kill him after a while, or him, you!! Just thank God that you have someone who is not whoopin your tale and cursing you out errday!!!![/quote]

      I am so blessed to have him in my life, trust me I know that…but girl when I say that if I want to watch a lil Wayne video or if I know everword to the Chronic album I dont need so side eyeing….you get what I’m saying!![/quote]
      I feel you!!!!! Now, when he says that he wants to listen to Tom Jones, you can’t side eye him and snatch his record and break it into 100 pieces either!!! :P

      P.S. I could see you doing that!!! :lol:

    269. posted by Jglamore

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:49 PM

      [quote comment="371287"][quote comment="371279"]To Bella and anyone that thought I was being harsh, I was really not trying to insult anyone, but I soooo want sistas to wake up. We have been sleeping for 40 years( after the death of MLK). I do believe with the election of President-Elect Obama God is trying to wake us up. He wants us to take our dignity back, our families back and most importantly re-establish our deep love for him. We black women have allowed too much. We accept whoredom from black men like a passing fancy, we accept them exploiting us like its the order of the day, and we allow them to not look at us a wife material because we are promoting ourselves like video hoes for a brotha’s attention.
      Don’t get me wrong, I have made my fair share of idiot mistakes in relationships which is why I woke up, repetented and asked God to put me on a path to what he truly desired for me in the beginning. It ain’t easy, but its better than where I was headed before.

      The only way for black men or ANY man to respect us is for us to have REAL standards, self-respect and proper expectations. All this gold-digging, misdirected thinking and obsession with materialism that is constantly promoted even on this site is not what is going to help us thrive as daughters of the Almighty and meet the man that he has for us. If anything it will keep you at arm-length distance from him and from God.[/quote]
      You my new Cyber BFF!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :P[/quote]
      Very well said!

    270. posted by ~*Cherishedbyu*~ hates this part right here

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:49 PM

      [quote comment="371290"][quote comment="371276"]And Les, if ur here thanks for the email! U helped to ease my nerves![/quote]

      Lol, no problem mamacita

      I e-mailed Heaven, ain’t heard from her in a hot minute – i was wondering if Silkk boy done chopped her up! I’ve been watching too many First 48 hours, it’s got me paranoid.[/quote]
      :shock: Me too

    271. posted by southernBella*AKA* B%tch Better Have My Money!!!

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:50 PM

      The other day they played the “Hotgirl” video from back in the day..and I almost lost my mind cause I turned the Tv up loud and knew every word..He was all like I cant believe you like that song..blah blah!!!

      I’m like you are so lame!!

    272. posted by les923~Obama Stan #1~ The struggles of my past becomes the strength for my future.

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:50 PM

      [quote comment="371279"]To Bella and anyone that thought I was being harsh, I was really not trying to insult anyone, but I soooo want sistas to wake up. We have been sleeping for 40 years( after the death of MLK). I do believe with the election of President-Elect Obama God is trying to wake us up. He wants us to take our dignity back, our families back and most importantly re-establish our deep love for him. We black women have allowed too much. We accept whoredom from black men like a passing fancy, we accept them exploiting us like its the order of the day, and we allow them to not look at us a wife material because we are promoting ourselves like video hoes for a brotha’s attention.
      Don’t get me wrong, I have made my fair share of idiot mistakes in relationships which is why I woke up, repetented and asked God to put me on a path to what he truly desired for me in the beginning. It ain’t easy, but its better than where I was headed before.

      The only way for black men or ANY man to respect us is for us to have REAL standards, self-respect and proper expectations. All this gold-digging, misdirected thinking and obsession with materialism that is constantly promoted even on this site is not what is going to help us thrive as daughters of the Almighty and meet the man that he has for us. If anything it will keep you at arm-length distance from him and from God.[/quote]

      Guhrl i agree a 1000% (shout out to the Maury show)

      I always say how is a dude gonna step to you with his “A” game when we keep accepting his “C” game?

    273. posted by Yetta.... ~Now accepting applications...If you can not provide assistance, please keep ya distance!!~

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:50 PM

      [quote comment="371290"][quote comment="371276"]And Les, if ur here thanks for the email! U helped to ease my nerves![/quote]

      Lol, no problem mamacita

      I e-mailed Heaven, ain’t heard from her in a hot minute – i was wondering if Silkk boy done chopped her up! I’ve been watching too many First 48 hours, it’s got me paranoid.[/quote]
      My First 48 sistah!!! The new season started right!?!? That show will give a nigga paranoia!!

    274. posted by LSU GYRL *has on her black berret and shirt with her fist in the air!*

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:51 PM

      [quote comment="371280"]OMGGGGGGG! DEADD @ this karma email!!!![/quote]

      I still didnt get my email about your NYE boo..

      send it to lsugyrl2002@hotmail.com

    275. posted by S&J

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:52 PM

      [quote comment="371279"]To Bella and anyone that thought I was being harsh, I was really not trying to insult anyone, but I soooo want sistas to wake up. We have been sleeping for 40 years( after the death of MLK). I do believe with the election of President-Elect Obama God is trying to wake us up. He wants us to take our dignity back, our families back and most importantly re-establish our deep love for him. We black women have allowed too much. We accept whoredom from black men like a passing fancy, we accept them exploiting us like its the order of the day, and we allow them to not look at us a wife material because we are promoting ourselves like video hoes for a brotha’s attention.
      Don’t get me wrong, I have made my fair share of idiot mistakes in relationships which is why I woke up, repetented and asked God to put me on a path to what he truly desired for me in the beginning. It ain’t easy, but its better than where I was headed before.

      The only way for black men or ANY man to respect us is for us to have REAL standards, self-respect and proper expectations. All this gold-digging, misdirected thinking and obsession with materialism that is constantly promoted even on this site is not what is going to help us thrive as daughters of the Almighty and meet the man that he has for us. If anything it will keep you at arm-length distance from him and from God.[/quote]
      I was just kiddin, you was speaking the truth!

    276. posted by Lovely One

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:53 PM

      [quote comment="371290"][quote comment="371276"]And Les, if ur here thanks for the email! U helped to ease my nerves![/quote]

      Lol, no problem mamacita

      I e-mailed Heaven, ain’t heard from her in a hot minute – i was wondering if Silkk boy done chopped her up! I’ve been watching too many First 48 hours, it’s got me paranoid.[/quote]
      Can you send me the email with the two gay dudes fighting? shannon683@gmail.com

    277. posted by southernBella*AKA* B%tch Better Have My Money!!!

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:53 PM

      [quote comment="371292"][quote comment="371270"][quote comment="371247"][quote comment="371205"][quote comment="371184"][quote comment="371162"][quote comment="371140"][quote comment="371058"][quote comment="371042"][quote comment="371037"][quote comment="370915"]I love this man lol! I’ve had the chance to meet him personally and he was so much different than what I thought he was. He’s sexy,educated, and well mannered lol. Not gay by far either. Good Christian brother on top of all that.[/quote]
      Amen. We black women send so many mixed messages. When a brother is on here acting like a gentlemen, being dignified and acting like a real MAN, we belittle him and call him gay. BUT when a thug fool is on here we go off about his ignorance, but still sweat his swagger and alleged “sexiness”.
      These same women are the ones that swear they love Obama and Michelle for everything they stand for as respectful, classy, educated black folks. We are so stupid. No wonder brothers do not know how to “court” us. Hell, we have no real standards of respect even for ourselves.[/quote]
      LOL Harsh! But u have a point! I HATE THUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUGS![/quote]

      I like them both!! Both I really like educated thugs…those are the ones that I fawn over…[/quote]

      Sis, there is no such thing as an educated thug. We black women have become so enthralled with this hood culuture that we now make excuses for accepting ill behavior wrapped in Christmas paper with a bow.

      What you really want is a real black man that is hard-working, that honors education, Christ,and family BUT will defend your honor at the bat of an eye. That is a real man.

      This is the Webster definition of a thug:
      Main Entry: thug
      Pronunciation: \ˈthəg\
      Function: noun
      Etymology: Hindi & Urdu ṭhag, literally, thief
      Date: 1810
      : a brutal ruffian or assassin : gangster , tough

      So is this what you want with an “education” to provide for your family, pray over your family and help protect you?

      God wants more for you than an “educated” thug.[/quote]

      Sweetie,

      You mean to tell me you think any thugs have an education…you are sadly mistaken…I went to an HBCU and there were plenty of “thuggish” dudes in class with me….They dressed thuggish and knew all about the streets but can do the hell outta some math or know more about world history than most of the nerds in the class…

      But if you say so!![/quote]
      They were faking the funk Bella. They knew damn well if they went on an interview with Microsoft they would not dress the way they dressed in class. Thats all she is saying: Thugs don’t go to school. They damn sure don’t go to college. Men do. Men take care of what needs to be taken care of, and don’t give a shit about what other people think about them. They don’t have to have the pants to their knees or tats all over their arms.[/quote]

      And that’s fine if they were faking…..I dont want Ray Ray the drug dealer or Tiny the murderer….I like guys that have street AND book knowledge…you know that guy that ait afraid to hang with his buddies from the hood, but goes to work on Monday morning and under those work clothes he might have some tats…[/quote]
      You remember Boyz in the Hood right? Cuba (I forgot his name in the movie) was that character you are describing. What happened to him in the end? He had to leave that shit behind because the Hood took one of his friends away and almost took him.

      One cannot rise above others and expect to still hang with them. Its the lesser of two evils because when you start to do good for yourself, people are gonna hate and 9 times out of 10, its gonna be the “Hood” friends. Sometimes when you upgrade, you can’t half-ass it.[/quote]

      S%it I had to leave the hood (I almost got sucked back in once I moved here, but that another story) so I understand that..I just want a dude with some street in him!! My guy can be so lame sometimes..and now that I’m preggers it really, really irks the hell outta me.

      Now the guy I messed with at the job is a prime example if what I’m talking about…dude is hella smart but he can talk abotu street stuff too!

      I need a balance sometimes!!![/quote]
      Sooo why are u with him!? :?[/quote]

      Cause I love him, he’s a great man….he goes to church….he’s what I’m looking for..he just lame!!

    278. posted by les923~Obama Stan #1~ The struggles of my past becomes the strength for my future.

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:53 PM

      [quote comment="371297"][quote comment="371290"][quote comment="371276"]And Les, if ur here thanks for the email! U helped to ease my nerves![/quote]

      Lol, no problem mamacita

      I e-mailed Heaven, ain’t heard from her in a hot minute – i was wondering if Silkk boy done chopped her up! I’ve been watching too many First 48 hours, it’s got me paranoid.[/quote]
      :shock: Me too[/quote]

      You e-mailed her too? If you did, “GET OUTTA MY HEAD CHERISH!” lol

    279. posted by Lovely One

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:54 PM

      [quote comment="371299"]The other day they played the “Hotgirl” video from back in the day..and I almost lost my mind cause I turned the Tv up loud and knew every word..He was all like I cant believe you like that song..blah blah!!!

      I’m like you are so lame!![/quote]
      You from New Orleans?

    280. posted by SxyKole *Obamas Stan #4*Take A Day To Heal From The Lies You've Told Yourself And The One That Have Been Told To You!!!

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:55 PM

      GQ, did you get the email?

    281. posted by Foley.

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:56 PM

      [quote comment="371278"][quote comment="371247"][quote comment="371205"][quote comment="371184"][quote comment="371162"][quote comment="371140"][quote comment="371058"][quote comment="371042"][quote comment="371037"][quote comment="370915"]I love this man lol! I’ve had the chance to meet him personally and he was so much different than what I thought he was. He’s sexy,educated, and well mannered lol. Not gay by far either. Good Christian brother on top of all that.[/quote]
      Amen. We black women send so many mixed messages. When a brother is on here acting like a gentlemen, being dignified and acting like a real MAN, we belittle him and call him gay. BUT when a thug fool is on here we go off about his ignorance, but still sweat his swagger and alleged “sexiness”.
      These same women are the ones that swear they love Obama and Michelle for everything they stand for as respectful, classy, educated black folks. We are so stupid. No wonder brothers do not know how to “court” us. Hell, we have no real standards of respect even for ourselves.[/quote]
      LOL Harsh! But u have a point! I HATE THUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUGS![/quote]

      I like them both!! Both I really like educated thugs…those are the ones that I fawn over…[/quote]

      Sis, there is no such thing as an educated thug. We black women have become so enthralled with this hood culuture that we now make excuses for accepting ill behavior wrapped in Christmas paper with a bow.

      What you really want is a real black man that is hard-working, that honors education, Christ,and family BUT will defend your honor at the bat of an eye. That is a real man.

      This is the Webster definition of a thug:
      Main Entry: thug
      Pronunciation: \ˈthəg\
      Function: noun
      Etymology: Hindi & Urdu ṭhag, literally, thief
      Date: 1810
      : a brutal ruffian or assassin : gangster , tough

      So is this what you want with an “education” to provide for your family, pray over your family and help protect you?

      God wants more for you than an “educated” thug.[/quote]

      Sweetie,

      You mean to tell me you think any thugs have an education…you are sadly mistaken…I went to an HBCU and there were plenty of “thuggish” dudes in class with me….They dressed thuggish and knew all about the streets but can do the hell outta some math or know more about world history than most of the nerds in the class…

      But if you say so!![/quote]
      They were faking the funk Bella. They knew damn well if they went on an interview with Microsoft they would not dress the way they dressed in class. Thats all she is saying: Thugs don’t go to school. They damn sure don’t go to college. Men do. Men take care of what needs to be taken care of, and don’t give a shit about what other people think about them. They don’t have to have the pants to their knees or tats all over their arms.[/quote]

      And that’s fine if they were faking…..I dont want Ray Ray the drug dealer or Tiny the murderer….I like guys that have street AND book knowledge…you know that guy that ait afraid to hang with his buddies from the hood, but goes to work on Monday morning and under those work clothes he might have some tats…[/quote]
      You remember Boyz in the Hood right? Cuba (I forgot his name in the movie) was that character you are describing. What happened to him in the end? He had to leave that shit behind because the Hood took one of his friends away and almost took him.

      One cannot rise above others and expect to still hang with them. Its the lesser of two evils because when you start to do good for yourself, people are gonna hate and 9 times out of 10, its gonna be the “Hood” friends. Sometimes when you upgrade, you can’t half-ass it.[/quote]

      That’s what happens to these rappers & ball players, they do move up in tax brackets but they can’t remove the hood mentality. That’s why they always wanna come back to the “hood” to hang out or party – can’t work, when people are hungry, loyalty & friendship goes thru the window and you will end up as the next victim.[/quote]
      And then they end up getting arrested on account of these “Hood” friends, then you lose all your damn money and your career. Over what? An idiot.

      Les: I started dying when I saw the Karma e-mail. That ish was hilarious! It was the reaction from his boys that had me rolling! :lol:

    282. posted by southernBella*AKA* B%tch Better Have My Money!!!

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:56 PM

      [quote comment="371295"][quote comment="371288"][quote comment="371250"][quote comment="371238"][quote comment="371215"][quote comment="371201"][quote comment="371183"][quote comment="371169"][quote comment="371140"][quote comment="371058"][quote comment="371042"][quote comment="371037"][quote comment="370915"]I love this man lol! I’ve had the chance to meet him personally and he was so much different than what I thought he was. He’s sexy,educated, and well mannered lol. Not gay by far either. Good Christian brother on top of all that.[/quote]
      Amen. We black women send so many mixed messages. When a brother is on here acting like a gentlemen, being dignified and acting like a real MAN, we belittle him and call him gay. BUT when a thug fool is on here we go off about his ignorance, but still sweat his swagger and alleged “sexiness”.
      These same women are the ones that swear they love Obama and Michelle for everything they stand for as respectful, classy, educated black folks. We are so stupid. No wonder brothers do not know how to “court” us. Hell, we have no real standards of respect even for ourselves.[/quote]
      LOL Harsh! But u have a point! I HATE THUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUGS![/quote]

      I like them both!! Both I really like educated thugs…those are the ones that I fawn over…[/quote]

      Sis, there is no such thing as an educated thug. We black women have become so enthralled with this hood culuture that we now make excuses for accepting ill behavior wrapped in Christmas paper with a bow.

      What you really want is a real black man that is hard-working, that honors education, Christ,and family BUT will defend your honor at the bat of an eye. That is a real man.

      This is the Webster definition of a thug:
      Main Entry: thug
      Pronunciation: \ˈthəg\
      Function: noun
      Etymology: Hindi & Urdu ṭhag, literally, thief
      Date: 1810
      : a brutal ruffian or assassin : gangster , tough

      So is this what you want with an “education” to provide for your family, pray over your family and help protect you?

      God wants more for you than an “educated” thug.[/quote]
      Let the Chuch say…. AAAAAAAAAAAAMMMMMMMMMMMMMEEEEEEEENNNNNNNNNNNN!! You deserve better Bella..Not saying that that is the only “type” you attract, I’m just going off your statement….[/quote]

      My guy aint got an announce of thug in him…..I’m always calling him lame….he was in the military so he has Military swagger…I dont know what to call it!!

      I’m just attracted to thugs… that’s all I’m saying!![/quote]
      I know….I read your comment about you telling him he had no swag and he got upset.
      Even you being attracted to them is enough to say you deserve better, even if all you do is think about em…

      You feel me? Or not..[/quote]

      Yeah I think we on the same page!![/quote]

      Maybe deep down I just wish my guy had more street in him…sometimes we be different pages about stuff…

      It’s like he grew living like the Huxtibles and I grew up living like The Evans (Goodtimes) minus the good mama!!!

      He sugarcoats a lot of stuff..and I just come raw!! And that drives him crazy because he dont know how to handle me sometimes when going raw on him or a situation…but when I get around his mother (I call her Clarie Huxtible and it pisses him off, LOL) I have act like I got some sense…and sometimes I get annoyed with that!![/quote]
      I guess that balances the relationship out. You don’t want a dude who acts JUST LIKE YOU!! You would probably want to kill him after a while, or him, you!! Just thank God that you have someone who is not whoopin your tale and cursing you out errday!!!![/quote]

      I am so blessed to have him in my life, trust me I know that…but girl when I say that if I want to watch a lil Wayne video or if I know everword to the Chronic album I dont need so side eyeing….you get what I’m saying!![/quote]
      I feel you!!!!! Now, when he says that he wants to listen to Tom Jones, you can’t side eye him and snatch his record and break it into 100 pieces either!!! :P

      P.S. I could see you doing that!!! :lol:[/quote]

      Girl and you know this!!

    283. posted by Miss GQ (Striving to be the female Hype Williams)

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:57 PM

      LMAO that shit was too funny.. :lol: dude with the green pants was BREAKIN’ (is that like a gay dorm??? ) everyone seemed to be a bit fruity

    284. posted by ~*Cherishedbyu*~ hates this part right here

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:57 PM

      [quote comment="371302"][quote comment="371280"]OMGGGGGGG! DEADD @ this karma email!!!![/quote]

      I still didnt get my email about your NYE boo..

      send it to lsugyrl2002@hotmail.com[/quote]
      SENT

    285. posted by Miss GQ (Striving to be the female Hype Williams)

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:58 PM

      [quote comment="371309"]GQ, did you get the email?[/quote]
      LOL..yea, thanks

    286. posted by VOGUE "Even when the sky comes falling..Even when the sun don’t shine..I got faith in you & I"

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:58 PM

      [quote comment="371301"][quote comment="371290"][quote comment="371276"]And Les, if ur here thanks for the email! U helped to ease my nerves![/quote]

      Lol, no problem mamacita

      I e-mailed Heaven, ain’t heard from her in a hot minute – i was wondering if Silkk boy done chopped her up! I’ve been watching too many First 48 hours, it’s got me paranoid.[/quote]
      My First 48 sistah!!! The new season started right!?!? That show will give a nigga paranoia!![/quote]
      I love crime shows
      especially 20/20 on WE and Women Behind Bars, and CSI
      Hell all of them shows!!

      I know we all strive to get that doctor/lawyer etc. But they be the MAIN ones ready to KILL your ass!! :shock:

    287. posted by southernBella*AKA* B%tch Better Have My Money!!!

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:59 PM

      [quote comment="371308"][quote comment="371299"]The other day they played the “Hotgirl” video from back in the day..and I almost lost my mind cause I turned the Tv up loud and knew every word..He was all like I cant believe you like that song..blah blah!!!

      I’m like you are so lame!![/quote]
      You from New Orleans?[/quote]

      No, but I use to think I was a Hot Girl!! I almost got it tatted on my arm with some flames coming out..Probably would have been the worst mistake of my life…

      I use to lose my mind when that song came on!!

    288. posted by ~*Cherishedbyu*~ hates this part right here

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:59 PM

      [quote comment="371307"][quote comment="371297"][quote comment="371290"][quote comment="371276"]And Les, if ur here thanks for the email! U helped to ease my nerves![/quote]

      Lol, no problem mamacita

      I e-mailed Heaven, ain’t heard from her in a hot minute – i was wondering if Silkk boy done chopped her up! I’ve been watching too many First 48 hours, it’s got me paranoid.[/quote]
      :shock: Me too[/quote]

      You e-mailed her too? If you did, “GET OUTTA MY HEAD CHERISH!” lol[/quote]
      LOL…no I was co-signing the paranoia

    289. posted by PrettyBlaqueGirl ~ "Jive Turkey"...Gotta Love the '70's

      Wed, January 7, 2009 3:59 PM

      *CHIMING IN* WHAT VIDEO?

    290. posted by Foley.

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:00 PM

      [quote comment="371279"]To Bella and anyone that thought I was being harsh, I was really not trying to insult anyone, but I soooo want sistas to wake up. We have been sleeping for 40 years( after the death of MLK). I do believe with the election of President-Elect Obama God is trying to wake us up. He wants us to take our dignity back, our families back and most importantly re-establish our deep love for him. We black women have allowed too much. We accept whoredom from black men like a passing fancy, we accept them exploiting us like its the order of the day, and we allow them to not look at us a wife material because we are promoting ourselves like video hoes for a brotha’s attention.
      Don’t get me wrong, I have made my fair share of idiot mistakes in relationships which is why I woke up, repetented and asked God to put me on a path to what he truly desired for me in the beginning. It ain’t easy, but its better than where I was headed before.

      The only way for black men or ANY man to respect us is for us to have REAL standards, self-respect and proper expectations. All this gold-digging, misdirected thinking and obsession with materialism that is constantly promoted even on this site is not what is going to help us thrive as daughters of the Almighty and meet the man that he has for us. If anything it will keep you at arm-length distance from him and from God.[/quote]
      Amen. If you don’t value yourself, no man is ever going to value you.

    291. posted by Miss GQ (Striving to be the female Hype Williams)

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:00 PM

      [quote comment="371319"] *CHIMING IN* WHAT VIDEO?[/quote]
      2 gay dudes fighting

    292. posted by ~*Cherishedbyu*~ hates this part right here

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:01 PM

      [quote comment="371317"][quote comment="371308"][quote comment="371299"]The other day they played the “Hotgirl” video from back in the day..and I almost lost my mind cause I turned the Tv up loud and knew every word..He was all like I cant believe you like that song..blah blah!!!

      I’m like you are so lame!![/quote]
      You from New Orleans?[/quote]

      No, but I use to think I was a Hot Girl!! I almost got it tatted on my arm with some flames coming out..Probably would have been the worst mistake of my life…

      I use to lose my mind when that song came on!![/quote]
      :shock: I liked the song but my mama forbid from playing it cuz she said it was the most degrading song ever

    293. posted by PrettyBlaqueGirl ~ "Jive Turkey"...Gotta Love the '70's

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:01 PM

      [quote comment="371322"][quote comment="371319"] *CHIMING IN* WHAT VIDEO?[/quote]
      2 gay dudes fighting[/quote]
      WHERE? WHEN?

    294. posted by les923~Obama Stan #1~ The struggles of my past becomes the strength for my future.

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:02 PM

      [quote comment="371305"][quote comment="371290"][quote comment="371276"]And Les, if ur here thanks for the email! U helped to ease my nerves![/quote]

      Lol, no problem mamacita

      I e-mailed Heaven, ain’t heard from her in a hot minute – i was wondering if Silkk boy done chopped her up! I’ve been watching too many First 48 hours, it’s got me paranoid.[/quote]
      Can you send me the email with the two gay dudes fighting? shannon683@gmail.com[/quote]

      Surrrrrrrreeeeeee

    295. posted by VOGUE "Even when the sky comes falling..Even when the sun don’t shine..I got faith in you & I"

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:03 PM

      [quote comment="371319"] *CHIMING IN* WHAT VIDEO?[/quote]
      Me too!!

    296. posted by Niecy

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:03 PM

      [quote comment="371287"][quote comment="371279"]To Bella and anyone that thought I was being harsh, I was really not trying to insult anyone, but I soooo want sistas to wake up. We have been sleeping for 40 years( after the death of MLK). I do believe with the election of President-Elect Obama God is trying to wake us up. He wants us to take our dignity back, our families back and most importantly re-establish our deep love for him. We black women have allowed too much. We accept whoredom from black men like a passing fancy, we accept them exploiting us like its the order of the day, and we allow them to not look at us a wife material because we are promoting ourselves like video hoes for a brotha’s attention.
      Don’t get me wrong, I have made my fair share of idiot mistakes in relationships which is why I woke up, repetented and asked God to put me on a path to what he truly desired for me in the beginning. It ain’t easy, but its better than where I was headed before.

      The only way for black men or ANY man to respect us is for us to have REAL standards, self-respect and proper expectations. All this gold-digging, misdirected thinking and obsession with materialism that is constantly promoted even on this site is not what is going to help us thrive as daughters of the Almighty and meet the man that he has for us. If anything it will keep you at arm-length distance from him and from God.[/quote]
      You my new Cyber BFF!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :P[/quote]Hey girl!!

    297. posted by Yetta.... ~Now accepting applications...If you can not provide assistance, please keep ya distance!!~

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:03 PM

      [quote comment="371316"][quote comment="371301"][quote comment="371290"][quote comment="371276"]And Les, if ur here thanks for the email! U helped to ease my nerves![/quote]

      Lol, no problem mamacita

      I e-mailed Heaven, ain’t heard from her in a hot minute – i was wondering if Silkk boy done chopped her up! I’ve been watching too many First 48 hours, it’s got me paranoid.[/quote]
      My First 48 sistah!!! The new season started right!?!? That show will give a nigga paranoia!![/quote]
      I love crime shows
      especially 20/20 on WE and Women Behind Bars, and CSI
      Hell all of them shows!!

      I know we all strive to get that doctor/lawyer etc. But they be the MAIN ones ready to KILL your ass!! :shock:[/quote]
      I didn’t say I wanted one!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I mean, it wouldn’t be a bad deal, but as you said they are crazy!!

      See..that’s what First 48, Cold Case Files, and shows of the like will do to us.. I’m sure there are some sane doctors and thangs still out there….. :P

      Gotta stop watching those darned shows!!! :lol:

    298. posted by southernBella*AKA* B%tch Better Have My Money!!!

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:04 PM

      [quote comment="371323"][quote comment="371317"][quote comment="371308"][quote comment="371299"]The other day they played the “Hotgirl” video from back in the day..and I almost lost my mind cause I turned the Tv up loud and knew every word..He was all like I cant believe you like that song..blah blah!!!

      I’m like you are so lame!![/quote]
      You from New Orleans?[/quote]

      No, but I use to think I was a Hot Girl!! I almost got it tatted on my arm with some flames coming out..Probably would have been the worst mistake of my life…

      I use to lose my mind when that song came on!![/quote]
      :shock: I liked the song but my mama forbid from playing it cuz she said it was the most degrading song ever[/quote]

      It was!!! Especially the last verse…(But that was my favorite one)

      I told ya’ll I was inches from straying to the other side…God always manage to send people in my life that help me stay focused..cause Lord knows my mama didnt do it!!

    299. posted by PrettyBlaqueGirl ~ "Jive Turkey"...Gotta Love the '70's

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:04 PM

      [quote comment="371325"][quote comment="371305"][quote comment="371290"][quote comment="371276"]And Les, if ur here thanks for the email! U helped to ease my nerves![/quote]

      Lol, no problem mamacita

      I e-mailed Heaven, ain’t heard from her in a hot minute – i was wondering if Silkk boy done chopped her up! I’ve been watching too many First 48 hours, it’s got me paranoid.[/quote]
      Can you send me the email with the two gay dudes fighting? shannon683@gmail.com[/quote]

      Surrrrrrrreeeeeee[/quote]
      Hey Les, I wanna see it too. Yes, I AM NOSEY. My email is shatorab@yahoo.com

    300. posted by Yetta.... ~Now accepting applications...If you can not provide assistance, please keep ya distance!!~

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:04 PM

      [quote comment="371327"][quote comment="371287"][quote comment="371279"]To Bella and anyone that thought I was being harsh, I was really not trying to insult anyone, but I soooo want sistas to wake up. We have been sleeping for 40 years( after the death of MLK). I do believe with the election of President-Elect Obama God is trying to wake us up. He wants us to take our dignity back, our families back and most importantly re-establish our deep love for him. We black women have allowed too much. We accept whoredom from black men like a passing fancy, we accept them exploiting us like its the order of the day, and we allow them to not look at us a wife material because we are promoting ourselves like video hoes for a brotha’s attention.
      Don’t get me wrong, I have made my fair share of idiot mistakes in relationships which is why I woke up, repetented and asked God to put me on a path to what he truly desired for me in the beginning. It ain’t easy, but its better than where I was headed before.

      The only way for black men or ANY man to respect us is for us to have REAL standards, self-respect and proper expectations. All this gold-digging, misdirected thinking and obsession with materialism that is constantly promoted even on this site is not what is going to help us thrive as daughters of the Almighty and meet the man that he has for us. If anything it will keep you at arm-length distance from him and from God.[/quote]
      You my new Cyber BFF!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :P[/quote]Hey girl!![/quote]
      *Cyber high-five*!!! I could not have stated this better!!!

    301. posted by Miss GQ (Striving to be the female Hype Williams)

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:05 PM

      [quote comment="371324"][quote comment="371322"][quote comment="371319"] *CHIMING IN* WHAT VIDEO?[/quote]
      2 gay dudes fighting[/quote]
      WHERE? WHEN?[/quote]
      LMAO it’s on video, what’s ur e-mail?? i’ll forward it to u

    302. posted by SxyKole *Obamas Stan #4*Take A Day To Heal From The Lies You've Told Yourself And The One That Have Been Told To You!!!

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:05 PM

      [quote comment="371322"][quote comment="371319"] *CHIMING IN* WHAT VIDEO?[/quote]
      2 gay dudes fighting[/quote]
      You should see the Karma is a bitch lol.. Okay I’m done for right now.. Whew I had a good laugh..
      I’ll talk to you guys later!!

    303. posted by Yetta.... ~Now accepting applications...If you can not provide assistance, please keep ya distance!!~

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:06 PM

      [quote comment="371322"][quote comment="371319"] *CHIMING IN* WHAT VIDEO?[/quote]
      2 gay dudes fighting[/quote]
      Tell Les to send you that Karma vid!! OMG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Now that one was horrific!!!! Like Vogue’s gravi!!! :P

    304. posted by PrettyBlaqueGirl ~ "Jive Turkey"...Gotta Love the '70's

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:06 PM

      [quote comment="371334"][quote comment="371324"][quote comment="371322"][quote comment="371319"] *CHIMING IN* WHAT VIDEO?[/quote]
      2 gay dudes fighting[/quote]
      WHERE? WHEN?[/quote]
      LMAO it’s on video, what’s ur e-mail?? i’ll forward it to u[/quote]
      shatorab@yahoo.com

    305. posted by Miss GQ (Striving to be the female Hype Williams)

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:07 PM

      [quote comment="371332"][quote comment="371327"][quote comment="371287"][quote comment="371279"]To Bella and anyone that thought I was being harsh, I was really not trying to insult anyone, but I soooo want sistas to wake up. We have been sleeping for 40 years( after the death of MLK). I do believe with the election of President-Elect Obama God is trying to wake us up. He wants us to take our dignity back, our families back and most importantly re-establish our deep love for him. We black women have allowed too much. We accept whoredom from black men like a passing fancy, we accept them exploiting us like its the order of the day, and we allow them to not look at us a wife material because we are promoting ourselves like video hoes for a brotha’s attention.
      Don’t get me wrong, I have made my fair share of idiot mistakes in relationships which is why I woke up, repetented and asked God to put me on a path to what he truly desired for me in the beginning. It ain’t easy, but its better than where I was headed before.

      The only way for black men or ANY man to respect us is for us to have REAL standards, self-respect and proper expectations. All this gold-digging, misdirected thinking and obsession with materialism that is constantly promoted even on this site is not what is going to help us thrive as daughters of the Almighty and meet the man that he has for us. If anything it will keep you at arm-length distance from him and from God.[/quote]
      You my new Cyber BFF!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :P[/quote]Hey girl!![/quote]
      *Cyber high-five*!!! I could not have stated this better!!![/quote]
      yetta, since your @ attention, im going to re-ask my question from the other day…

      did u see ya man’s video??

    306. posted by Yetta.... ~Now accepting applications...If you can not provide assistance, please keep ya distance!!~

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:08 PM

      [quote comment="371339"][quote comment="371332"][quote comment="371327"][quote comment="371287"][quote comment="371279"]To Bella and anyone that thought I was being harsh, I was really not trying to insult anyone, but I soooo want sistas to wake up. We have been sleeping for 40 years( after the death of MLK). I do believe with the election of President-Elect Obama God is trying to wake us up. He wants us to take our dignity back, our families back and most importantly re-establish our deep love for him. We black women have allowed too much. We accept whoredom from black men like a passing fancy, we accept them exploiting us like its the order of the day, and we allow them to not look at us a wife material because we are promoting ourselves like video hoes for a brotha’s attention.
      Don’t get me wrong, I have made my fair share of idiot mistakes in relationships which is why I woke up, repetented and asked God to put me on a path to what he truly desired for me in the beginning. It ain’t easy, but its better than where I was headed before.

      The only way for black men or ANY man to respect us is for us to have REAL standards, self-respect and proper expectations. All this gold-digging, misdirected thinking and obsession with materialism that is constantly promoted even on this site is not what is going to help us thrive as daughters of the Almighty and meet the man that he has for us. If anything it will keep you at arm-length distance from him and from God.[/quote]
      You my new Cyber BFF!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :P[/quote]Hey girl!![/quote]
      *Cyber high-five*!!! I could not have stated this better!!![/quote]
      yetta, since your @ attention, im going to re-ask my question from the other day…

      did u see ya man’s video??[/quote]
      :shock: WHO? WHAT? WHERE? WHEN? NO!! Where do I find it..Tell me, tell me now!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    307. posted by Kay hopes you DJ @ a party and they throw drinks @ your WACK ass!!

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:09 PM

      Oh, so we over here now???

    308. posted by VOGUE "Even when the sky comes falling..Even when the sun don’t shine..I got faith in you & I"

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:11 PM

      [quote comment="371328"][quote comment="371316"][quote comment="371301"][quote comment="371290"][quote comment="371276"]And Les, if ur here thanks for the email! U helped to ease my nerves![/quote]

      Lol, no problem mamacita

      I e-mailed Heaven, ain’t heard from her in a hot minute – i was wondering if Silkk boy done chopped her up! I’ve been watching too many First 48 hours, it’s got me paranoid.[/quote]
      My First 48 sistah!!! The new season started right!?!? That show will give a nigga paranoia!![/quote]
      I love crime shows
      especially 20/20 on WE and Women Behind Bars, and CSI
      Hell all of them shows!!

      I know we all strive to get that doctor/lawyer etc. But they be the MAIN ones ready to KILL your ass!! :shock:[/quote]
      I didn’t say I wanted one!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I mean, it wouldn’t be a bad deal, but as you said they are crazy!!

      See..that’s what First 48, Cold Case Files, and shows of the like will do to us.. I’m sure there are some sane doctors and thangs still out there….. :P

      Gotta stop watching those darned shows!!! :lol:[/quote]
      Oh no, not you specifically. :lol: But there certain ladies who only want yt doctors and stuff like that. But I’ve seen enough Cold Cases to know that after 15 years of marriage he will be cheating on you with the baby sitter or one of his nurses! BAM next thing you know you are naked in the closet, bound and gagged and he is injecting you with rat poison!!!! If not that he will use anesthesia and drag you out to the woods and shoot you :shock:

    309. posted by Yetta.... ~Now accepting applications...If you can not provide assistance, please keep ya distance!!~

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:11 PM

      [quote comment="371341"]Oh, so we over here now???[/quote]
      Where were you Kay!! STILL in that last post!?

    310. posted by VOGUE "Even when the sky comes falling..Even when the sun don’t shine..I got faith in you & I"

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:13 PM

      [quote comment="371336"][quote comment="371322"][quote comment="371319"] *CHIMING IN* WHAT VIDEO?[/quote]
      2 gay dudes fighting[/quote]
      Tell Les to send you that Karma vid!! OMG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Now that one was horrific!!!! Like Vogue’s gravi!!! :P[/quote]
      :evil: HEY NOW!!
      What ya’ll looking at? Send it to me:
      beglamorous01@aol.com

    311. posted by SAI HOLMES- THE ONE AND ONLY

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:14 PM

      OK WHAT ARE WE TALKING ABOUT?

    312. posted by Lovely One

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:15 PM

      [quote comment="371323"][quote comment="371317"][quote comment="371308"][quote comment="371299"]The other day they played the “Hotgirl” video from back in the day..and I almost lost my mind cause I turned the Tv up loud and knew every word..He was all like I cant believe you like that song..blah blah!!!

      I’m like you are so lame!![/quote]
      You from New Orleans?[/quote]

      No, but I use to think I was a Hot Girl!! I almost got it tatted on my arm with some flames coming out..Probably would have been the worst mistake of my life…

      I use to lose my mind when that song came on!![/quote]
      :shock: I liked the song but my mama forbid from playing it cuz she said it was the most degrading song ever[/quote]
      I wouldve thought Bella was from the N.O. going crazy over that song. My fav part was, “Like to say he small i know he working with sumthin” Throwback Lil Wayne!

    313. posted by SAI HOLMES- THE ONE AND ONLY

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:15 PM

      [quote comment="371346"][quote comment="371336"][quote comment="371322"][quote comment="371319"] *CHIMING IN* WHAT VIDEO?[/quote]
      2 gay dudes fighting[/quote]
      Tell Les to send you that Karma vid!! OMG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Now that one was horrific!!!! Like Vogue’s gravi!!! :P[/quote]
      :evil: HEY NOW!!
      What ya’ll looking at? Send it to me:
      beglamorous01@aol.com[/quote]
      ME TOO I’M FEELING OUT OF THE LOOP

    314. posted by Kay hopes you DJ @ a party and they throw drinks @ your WACK ass!!

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:15 PM

      [quote comment="371344"][quote comment="371341"]Oh, so we over here now???[/quote]
      Where were you Kay!! STILL in that last post!?[/quote]
      Hell yes!! Trying to help uplift the black community….

    315. posted by SAI HOLMES- THE ONE AND ONLY

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:18 PM

      [quote comment="371343"][quote comment="371328"][quote comment="371316"][quote comment="371301"][quote comment="371290"][quote comment="371276"]And Les, if ur here thanks for the email! U helped to ease my nerves![/quote]

      Lol, no problem mamacita

      I e-mailed Heaven, ain’t heard from her in a hot minute – i was wondering if Silkk boy done chopped her up! I’ve been watching too many First 48 hours, it’s got me paranoid.[/quote]
      My First 48 sistah!!! The new season started right!?!? That show will give a nigga paranoia!![/quote]
      I love crime shows
      especially 20/20 on WE and Women Behind Bars, and CSI
      Hell all of them shows!!

      I know we all strive to get that doctor/lawyer etc. But they be the MAIN ones ready to KILL your ass!! :shock:[/quote]
      I didn’t say I wanted one!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I mean, it wouldn’t be a bad deal, but as you said they are crazy!!

      See..that’s what First 48, Cold Case Files, and shows of the like will do to us.. I’m sure there are some sane doctors and thangs still out there….. :P

      Gotta stop watching those darned shows!!! :lol:[/quote]
      Oh no, not you specifically. :lol: But there certain ladies who only want yt doctors and stuff like that. But I’ve seen enough Cold Cases to know that after 15 years of marriage he will be cheating on you with the baby sitter or one of his nurses! BAM next thing you know you are naked in the closet, bound and gagged and he is injecting you with rat poison!!!! If not that he will use anesthesia and drag you out to the woods and shoot you :shock:[/quote]
      OK U HAVE BEEN WATCHING UR LIFETIME AS WELL, CUZ THIS SOUNDS LIKE THE BABYSITTERS SEDUCTION OR SOMETHING

    316. posted by nonebetter

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:18 PM

      [quote comment="371019"]For those of you who liked the boots they happen to be Nine West….honestly. They are from last season but i just came across them at the Nine West outlet here in manhattan…I believe on sale for $59.99….come in the black on black too….and they has alot of sizes. HTH[/quote]

      i’m feeeeeening for these boots..would you happen to know the style name so that i can search for them.

    317. posted by Yetta.... ~Now accepting applications...If you can not provide assistance, please keep ya distance!!~

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:18 PM

      [quote comment="371343"][quote comment="371328"][quote comment="371316"][quote comment="371301"][quote comment="371290"][quote comment="371276"]And Les, if ur here thanks for the email! U helped to ease my nerves![/quote]

      Lol, no problem mamacita

      I e-mailed Heaven, ain’t heard from her in a hot minute – i was wondering if Silkk boy done chopped her up! I’ve been watching too many First 48 hours, it’s got me paranoid.[/quote]
      My First 48 sistah!!! The new season started right!?!? That show will give a nigga paranoia!![/quote]
      I love crime shows
      especially 20/20 on WE and Women Behind Bars, and CSI
      Hell all of them shows!!

      I know we all strive to get that doctor/lawyer etc. But they be the MAIN ones ready to KILL your ass!! :shock:[/quote]
      I didn’t say I wanted one!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I mean, it wouldn’t be a bad deal, but as you said they are crazy!!

      See..that’s what First 48, Cold Case Files, and shows of the like will do to us.. I’m sure there are some sane doctors and thangs still out there….. :P

      Gotta stop watching those darned shows!!! :lol:[/quote]
      Oh no, not you specifically. :lol: But there certain ladies who only want yt doctors and stuff like that. But I’ve seen enough Cold Cases to know that after 15 years of marriage he will be cheating on you with the baby sitter or one of his nurses! BAM next thing you know you are naked in the closet, bound and gagged and he is injecting you with rat poison!!!! If not that he will use anesthesia and drag you out to the woods and shoot you :shock:[/quote]
      Wow!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Yeah……case in point!! :lol:

      Watching too much!! You even know what method of murder they’ll use…. :P

      ( P.S. I would have said Cyanide poisoning myself!!! :P)

    318. posted by southernBella*AKA* B%tch Better Have My Money!!!

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:18 PM

      [quote comment="371349"][quote comment="371323"][quote comment="371317"][quote comment="371308"][quote comment="371299"]The other day they played the “Hotgirl” video from back in the day..and I almost lost my mind cause I turned the Tv up loud and knew every word..He was all like I cant believe you like that song..blah blah!!!

      I’m like you are so lame!![/quote]
      You from New Orleans?[/quote]

      No, but I use to think I was a Hot Girl!! I almost got it tatted on my arm with some flames coming out..Probably would have been the worst mistake of my life…

      I use to lose my mind when that song came on!![/quote]
      :shock: I liked the song but my mama forbid from playing it cuz she said it was the most degrading song ever[/quote]
      I wouldve thought Bella was from the N.O. going crazy over that song. My fav part was, “Like to say he small i know he working with sumthin” Throwback Lil Wayne![/quote]

      My fav part was

      ” I like’em hot, the ones that dont tell me to, beat it up, swallow the _____ and they know pop…I need a project chick, a hood rat chick, one that dont give a f%uck and say she took that di&k”

      I use to live for that part!!!

    319. posted by PrettyBlaqueGirl ~ "Jive Turkey"...Gotta Love the '70's

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:19 PM

      [quote comment="371346"][quote comment="371336"][quote comment="371322"][quote comment="371319"] *CHIMING IN* WHAT VIDEO?[/quote]
      2 gay dudes fighting[/quote]
      Tell Les to send you that Karma vid!! OMG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Now that one was horrific!!!! Like Vogue’s gravi!!! :P[/quote]
      :evil: HEY NOW!!
      What ya’ll looking at? Send it to me:
      beglamorous01@aol.com[/quote]
      I forwarded it to you.

    320. posted by Yetta.... ~Now accepting applications...If you can not provide assistance, please keep ya distance!!~

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:20 PM

      [quote comment="371351"][quote comment="371344"][quote comment="371341"]Oh, so we over here now???[/quote]
      Where were you Kay!! STILL in that last post!?[/quote]
      Hell yes!! Trying to help uplift the black community….[/quote]
      *Putting on my Dashiki and raising my fist in the air*

      Keep it alive girl!!!!!!!!!!!!

    321. posted by SAI HOLMES- THE ONE AND ONLY

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:20 PM

      [quote comment="371356"][quote comment="371346"][quote comment="371336"][quote comment="371322"][quote comment="371319"] *CHIMING IN* WHAT VIDEO?[/quote]
      2 gay dudes fighting[/quote]
      Tell Les to send you that Karma vid!! OMG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Now that one was horrific!!!! Like Vogue’s gravi!!! :P[/quote]
      :evil: HEY NOW!!
      What ya’ll looking at? Send it to me:
      beglamorous01@aol.com[/quote]
      I forwarded it to you.[/quote]
      send it to me as well please saidamitchell@yahoo.com

    322. posted by southernBella*AKA* B%tch Better Have My Money!!!

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:21 PM

      [quote comment="371347"] OK WHAT ARE WE TALKING ABOUT? [/quote]

      I’m on my hot girl tip right now!! LOL!!

    323. posted by Miss GQ (Striving to be the female Hype Williams)

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:21 PM

      [quote comment="371340"][quote comment="371339"][quote comment="371332"][quote comment="371327"][quote comment="371287"][quote comment="371279"]To Bella and anyone that thought I was being harsh, I was really not trying to insult anyone, but I soooo want sistas to wake up. We have been sleeping for 40 years( after the death of MLK). I do believe with the election of President-Elect Obama God is trying to wake us up. He wants us to take our dignity back, our families back and most importantly re-establish our deep love for him. We black women have allowed too much. We accept whoredom from black men like a passing fancy, we accept them exploiting us like its the order of the day, and we allow them to not look at us a wife material because we are promoting ourselves like video hoes for a brotha’s attention.
      Don’t get me wrong, I have made my fair share of idiot mistakes in relationships which is why I woke up, repetented and asked God to put me on a path to what he truly desired for me in the beginning. It ain’t easy, but its better than where I was headed before.

      The only way for black men or ANY man to respect us is for us to have REAL standards, self-respect and proper expectations. All this gold-digging, misdirected thinking and obsession with materialism that is constantly promoted even on this site is not what is going to help us thrive as daughters of the Almighty and meet the man that he has for us. If anything it will keep you at arm-length distance from him and from God.[/quote]
      You my new Cyber BFF!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :P[/quote]Hey girl!![/quote]
      *Cyber high-five*!!! I could not have stated this better!!![/quote]
      yetta, since your @ attention, im going to re-ask my question from the other day…

      did u see ya man’s video??[/quote]
      :shock: WHO? WHAT? WHERE? WHEN? NO!! Where do I find it..Tell me, tell me now!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!![/quote]
      christain keyes (please tell me, you knew he can sing too)..well go on youtube and type in christian keyes boots on…and you’ll see his new music video

    324. posted by southernBella*AKA* B%tch Better Have My Money!!!

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:22 PM

      [quote comment="371358"][quote comment="371351"][quote comment="371344"][quote comment="371341"]Oh, so we over here now???[/quote]
      Where were you Kay!! STILL in that last post!?[/quote]
      Hell yes!! Trying to help uplift the black community….[/quote]
      *Putting on my Dashiki and raising my fist in the air*

      Keep it alive girl!!!!!!!!!!!![/quote]

      LOok at me!! Here I am talking about being a hot girl….LOL!! So not uplifting to my people!!

    325. posted by PrettyBlaqueGirl ~ "Jive Turkey"...Gotta Love the '70's

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:23 PM

      [quote comment="371359"][quote comment="371356"][quote comment="371346"][quote comment="371336"][quote comment="371322"][quote comment="371319"] *CHIMING IN* WHAT VIDEO?[/quote]
      2 gay dudes fighting[/quote]
      Tell Les to send you that Karma vid!! OMG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Now that one was horrific!!!! Like Vogue’s gravi!!! :P[/quote]
      :evil: HEY NOW!!
      What ya’ll looking at? Send it to me:
      beglamorous01@aol.com[/quote]
      I forwarded it to you.[/quote]
      send it to me as well please saidamitchell@yahoo.com [/quote]
      Sent it.

    326. posted by Lovely One

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:23 PM

      [quote comment="371325"][quote comment="371305"][quote comment="371290"][quote comment="371276"]And Les, if ur here thanks for the email! U helped to ease my nerves![/quote]

      Lol, no problem mamacita

      I e-mailed Heaven, ain’t heard from her in a hot minute – i was wondering if Silkk boy done chopped her up! I’ve been watching too many First 48 hours, it’s got me paranoid.[/quote]
      Can you send me the email with the two gay dudes fighting? shannon683@gmail.com[/quote]

      Surrrrrrrreeeeeee[/quote]
      Thanks for the email. I thought gay dudes could fight. MYTH BUSTED!

    327. posted by VOGUE "Even when the sky comes falling..Even when the sun don’t shine..I got faith in you & I"

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:23 PM

      [quote comment="371356"][quote comment="371346"][quote comment="371336"][quote comment="371322"][quote comment="371319"] *CHIMING IN* WHAT VIDEO?[/quote]
      2 gay dudes fighting[/quote]
      Tell Les to send you that Karma vid!! OMG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Now that one was horrific!!!! Like Vogue’s gravi!!! :P[/quote]
      :evil: HEY NOW!!
      What ya’ll looking at? Send it to me:
      beglamorous01@aol.com[/quote]
      I forwarded it to you.[/quote]
      thanks

    328. posted by SAI HOLMES- THE ONE AND ONLY

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:23 PM

      [quote comment="371353"][quote comment="371019"]For those of you who liked the boots they happen to be Nine West….honestly. They are from last season but i just came across them at the Nine West outlet here in manhattan…I believe on sale for $59.99….come in the black on black too….and they has alot of sizes. HTH[/quote]

      i’m feeeeeening for these boots..would you happen to know the style name so that i can search for them.[/quote]
      WELL THEN DAMN FONZWORTH IS LUCKY, HE SCORED A PRETTY GIRL PLUS SHE KNOWS HOW TO ROCK A HOT SHOE GAME FOR A BARGAIN. CAN’T EVEN HATE ON THAT

    329. posted by Yetta.... ~Now accepting applications...If you can not provide assistance, please keep ya distance!!~

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:24 PM

      [quote comment="371361"][quote comment="371340"][quote comment="371339"][quote comment="371332"][quote comment="371327"][quote comment="371287"][quote comment="371279"]To Bella and anyone that thought I was being harsh, I was really not trying to insult anyone, but I soooo want sistas to wake up. We have been sleeping for 40 years( after the death of MLK). I do believe with the election of President-Elect Obama God is trying to wake us up. He wants us to take our dignity back, our families back and most importantly re-establish our deep love for him. We black women have allowed too much. We accept whoredom from black men like a passing fancy, we accept them exploiting us like its the order of the day, and we allow them to not look at us a wife material because we are promoting ourselves like video hoes for a brotha’s attention.
      Don’t get me wrong, I have made my fair share of idiot mistakes in relationships which is why I woke up, repetented and asked God to put me on a path to what he truly desired for me in the beginning. It ain’t easy, but its better than where I was headed before.

      The only way for black men or ANY man to respect us is for us to have REAL standards, self-respect and proper expectations. All this gold-digging, misdirected thinking and obsession with materialism that is constantly promoted even on this site is not what is going to help us thrive as daughters of the Almighty and meet the man that he has for us. If anything it will keep you at arm-length distance from him and from God.[/quote]
      You my new Cyber BFF!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :P[/quote]Hey girl!![/quote]
      *Cyber high-five*!!! I could not have stated this better!!![/quote]
      yetta, since your @ attention, im going to re-ask my question from the other day…

      did u see ya man’s video??[/quote]
      :shock: WHO? WHAT? WHERE? WHEN? NO!! Where do I find it..Tell me, tell me now!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!![/quote]
      christain keyes (please tell me, you knew he can sing too)..well go on youtube and type in christian keyes boots on…and you’ll see his new music video[/quote]
      Iknewhecouldsing, sawthatonMadea………….. BRB…

      *Out the door like a bolt of lightning*

    330. posted by ☼GhettoGossipGirl☼ ~Needs a Concealed Carry Permit and a Pistol~

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:24 PM

      [quote comment="371365"][quote comment="371325"][quote comment="371305"][quote comment="371290"][quote comment="371276"]And Les, if ur here thanks for the email! U helped to ease my nerves![/quote]

      Lol, no problem mamacita

      I e-mailed Heaven, ain’t heard from her in a hot minute – i was wondering if Silkk boy done chopped her up! I’ve been watching too many First 48 hours, it’s got me paranoid.[/quote]
      Can you send me the email with the two gay dudes fighting? shannon683@gmail.com[/quote]

      Surrrrrrrreeeeeee[/quote]
      Thanks for the email. I thought gay dudes could fight. MYTH BUSTED![/quote]

      LOL! I know chicks who fight better than that…

    331. posted by SAI HOLMES- THE ONE AND ONLY

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:25 PM

      [quote comment="371361"][quote comment="371340"][quote comment="371339"][quote comment="371332"][quote comment="371327"][quote comment="371287"][quote comment="371279"]To Bella and anyone that thought I was being harsh, I was really not trying to insult anyone, but I soooo want sistas to wake up. We have been sleeping for 40 years( after the death of MLK). I do believe with the election of President-Elect Obama God is trying to wake us up. He wants us to take our dignity back, our families back and most importantly re-establish our deep love for him. We black women have allowed too much. We accept whoredom from black men like a passing fancy, we accept them exploiting us like its the order of the day, and we allow them to not look at us a wife material because we are promoting ourselves like video hoes for a brotha’s attention.
      Don’t get me wrong, I have made my fair share of idiot mistakes in relationships which is why I woke up, repetented and asked God to put me on a path to what he truly desired for me in the beginning. It ain’t easy, but its better than where I was headed before.

      The only way for black men or ANY man to respect us is for us to have REAL standards, self-respect and proper expectations. All this gold-digging, misdirected thinking and obsession with materialism that is constantly promoted even on this site is not what is going to help us thrive as daughters of the Almighty and meet the man that he has for us. If anything it will keep you at arm-length distance from him and from God.[/quote]
      You my new Cyber BFF!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :P[/quote]Hey girl!![/quote]
      *Cyber high-five*!!! I could not have stated this better!!![/quote]
      yetta, since your @ attention, im going to re-ask my question from the other day…

      did u see ya man’s video??[/quote]
      :shock: WHO? WHAT? WHERE? WHEN? NO!! Where do I find it..Tell me, tell me now!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!![/quote]
      christain keyes (please tell me, you knew he can sing too)..well go on youtube and type in christian keyes boots on…and you’ll see his new music video[/quote]
      I’M BOUT TO GO YOU TUBE YETTA’S MAN RIGHT NOW….. SORRY YETTA!

    332. posted by Miss GQ (Striving to be the female Hype Williams)

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:27 PM

      [quote comment="371369"][quote comment="371365"][quote comment="371325"][quote comment="371305"][quote comment="371290"][quote comment="371276"]And Les, if ur here thanks for the email! U helped to ease my nerves![/quote]

      Lol, no problem mamacita

      I e-mailed Heaven, ain’t heard from her in a hot minute – i was wondering if Silkk boy done chopped her up! I’ve been watching too many First 48 hours, it’s got me paranoid.[/quote]
      Can you send me the email with the two gay dudes fighting? shannon683@gmail.com[/quote]

      Surrrrrrrreeeeeee[/quote]
      Thanks for the email. I thought gay dudes could fight. MYTH BUSTED![/quote]

      LOL! I know chicks who fight better than that…[/quote]
      LMAO @ ur gravi

    333. posted by SAI HOLMES- THE ONE AND ONLY

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:27 PM

      [quote comment="371368"][quote comment="371361"][quote comment="371340"][quote comment="371339"][quote comment="371332"][quote comment="371327"][quote comment="371287"][quote comment="371279"]To Bella and anyone that thought I was being harsh, I was really not trying to insult anyone, but I soooo want sistas to wake up. We have been sleeping for 40 years( after the death of MLK). I do believe with the election of President-Elect Obama God is trying to wake us up. He wants us to take our dignity back, our families back and most importantly re-establish our deep love for him. We black women have allowed too much. We accept whoredom from black men like a passing fancy, we accept them exploiting us like its the order of the day, and we allow them to not look at us a wife material because we are promoting ourselves like video hoes for a brotha’s attention.
      Don’t get me wrong, I have made my fair share of idiot mistakes in relationships which is why I woke up, repetented and asked God to put me on a path to what he truly desired for me in the beginning. It ain’t easy, but its better than where I was headed before.

      The only way for black men or ANY man to respect us is for us to have REAL standards, self-respect and proper expectations. All this gold-digging, misdirected thinking and obsession with materialism that is constantly promoted even on this site is not what is going to help us thrive as daughters of the Almighty and meet the man that he has for us. If anything it will keep you at arm-length distance from him and from God.[/quote]
      You my new Cyber BFF!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :P[/quote]Hey girl!![/quote]
      *Cyber high-five*!!! I could not have stated this better!!![/quote]
      yetta, since your @ attention, im going to re-ask my question from the other day…

      did u see ya man’s video??[/quote]
      :shock: WHO? WHAT? WHERE? WHEN? NO!! Where do I find it..Tell me, tell me now!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!![/quote]
      christain keyes (please tell me, you knew he can sing too)..well go on youtube and type in christian keyes boots on…and you’ll see his new music video[/quote]
      Iknewhecouldsing, sawthatonMadea………….. BRB…

      *Out the door like a bolt of lightning*[/quote]
      OHHHHHHH SWEET JESUS HE IS SEXY I’M WATCHING THE VIDEO NOW, FORGET ABOUT HIS SINGING HE GETS PROPS ALONE FOR HAVING A SISTA AS HIS LEAD

    334. posted by southernBella*AKA* B%tch Better Have My Money!!!

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:27 PM

      [quote comment="371369"][quote comment="371365"][quote comment="371325"][quote comment="371305"][quote comment="371290"][quote comment="371276"]And Les, if ur here thanks for the email! U helped to ease my nerves![/quote]

      Lol, no problem mamacita

      I e-mailed Heaven, ain’t heard from her in a hot minute – i was wondering if Silkk boy done chopped her up! I’ve been watching too many First 48 hours, it’s got me paranoid.[/quote]
      Can you send me the email with the two gay dudes fighting? shannon683@gmail.com[/quote]

      Surrrrrrrreeeeeee[/quote]
      Thanks for the email. I thought gay dudes could fight. MYTH BUSTED![/quote]

      LOL! I know chicks who fight better than that…[/quote]

      I dont know about fighting , but they will cut your a$4 though!!!

    335. posted by HOTFOX `CANT FIND A GOOD MAN SO WILL SETTLE FOR A GOOD MARRIED 1`

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:28 PM

      YEP

    336. posted by Yetta.... ~Now accepting applications...If you can not provide assistance, please keep ya distance!!~

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:29 PM

      Ok…I’m having a coronary right now!!! Why can’t I hear anything GQ!! I’ve checked all my sound settings… :evil:

      Why, Lord, Why??????????? :cry:

    337. posted by Foley.

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:29 PM

      [quote comment="371365"][quote comment="371325"][quote comment="371305"][quote comment="371290"][quote comment="371276"]And Les, if ur here thanks for the email! U helped to ease my nerves![/quote]

      Lol, no problem mamacita

      I e-mailed Heaven, ain’t heard from her in a hot minute – i was wondering if Silkk boy done chopped her up! I’ve been watching too many First 48 hours, it’s got me paranoid.[/quote]
      Can you send me the email with the two gay dudes fighting? shannon683@gmail.com[/quote]

      Surrrrrrrreeeeeee[/quote]
      Thanks for the email. I thought gay dudes could fight. MYTH BUSTED![/quote]
      LOL! Did you see the Karma one, now that was hilarious :lol:

    338. posted by Yetta.... ~Now accepting applications...If you can not provide assistance, please keep ya distance!!~

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:30 PM

      [quote comment="371373"][quote comment="371368"][quote comment="371361"][quote comment="371340"][quote comment="371339"][quote comment="371332"][quote comment="371327"][quote comment="371287"][quote comment="371279"]To Bella and anyone that thought I was being harsh, I was really not trying to insult anyone, but I soooo want sistas to wake up. We have been sleeping for 40 years( after the death of MLK). I do believe with the election of President-Elect Obama God is trying to wake us up. He wants us to take our dignity back, our families back and most importantly re-establish our deep love for him. We black women have allowed too much. We accept whoredom from black men like a passing fancy, we accept them exploiting us like its the order of the day, and we allow them to not look at us a wife material because we are promoting ourselves like video hoes for a brotha’s attention.
      Don’t get me wrong, I have made my fair share of idiot mistakes in relationships which is why I woke up, repetented and asked God to put me on a path to what he truly desired for me in the beginning. It ain’t easy, but its better than where I was headed before.

      The only way for black men or ANY man to respect us is for us to have REAL standards, self-respect and proper expectations. All this gold-digging, misdirected thinking and obsession with materialism that is constantly promoted even on this site is not what is going to help us thrive as daughters of the Almighty and meet the man that he has for us. If anything it will keep you at arm-length distance from him and from God.[/quote]
      You my new Cyber BFF!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :P[/quote]Hey girl!![/quote]
      *Cyber high-five*!!! I could not have stated this better!!![/quote]
      yetta, since your @ attention, im going to re-ask my question from the other day…

      did u see ya man’s video??[/quote]
      :shock: WHO? WHAT? WHERE? WHEN? NO!! Where do I find it..Tell me, tell me now!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!![/quote]
      christain keyes (please tell me, you knew he can sing too)..well go on youtube and type in christian keyes boots on…and you’ll see his new music video[/quote]
      Iknewhecouldsing, sawthatonMadea………….. BRB…

      *Out the door like a bolt of lightning*[/quote]
      OHHHHHHH SWEET JESUS HE IS SEXY I’M WATCHING THE VIDEO NOW, FORGET ABOUT HIS SINGING HE GETS PROPS ALONE FOR HAVING A SISTA AS HIS LEAD [/quote]
      Now, now Sai…..pump your brakes missy!!! :twisted:

    339. posted by Hotstuff

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:30 PM

      Why does HE look preggers in the first pic??? Either way they look nice together…eventhough I can’t help but to think dude is gay..but whatever floats ya boat

    340. posted by Miss GQ (Striving to be the female Hype Williams)

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:30 PM

      [quote comment="371373"][quote comment="371368"][quote comment="371361"][quote comment="371340"][quote comment="371339"][quote comment="371332"][quote comment="371327"][quote comment="371287"][quote comment="371279"]To Bella and anyone that thought I was being harsh, I was really not trying to insult anyone, but I soooo want sistas to wake up. We have been sleeping for 40 years( after the death of MLK). I do believe with the election of President-Elect Obama God is trying to wake us up. He wants us to take our dignity back, our families back and most importantly re-establish our deep love for him. We black women have allowed too much. We accept whoredom from black men like a passing fancy, we accept them exploiting us like its the order of the day, and we allow them to not look at us a wife material because we are promoting ourselves like video hoes for a brotha’s attention.
      Don’t get me wrong, I have made my fair share of idiot mistakes in relationships which is why I woke up, repetented and asked God to put me on a path to what he truly desired for me in the beginning. It ain’t easy, but its better than where I was headed before.

      The only way for black men or ANY man to respect us is for us to have REAL standards, self-respect and proper expectations. All this gold-digging, misdirected thinking and obsession with materialism that is constantly promoted even on this site is not what is going to help us thrive as daughters of the Almighty and meet the man that he has for us. If anything it will keep you at arm-length distance from him and from God.[/quote]
      You my new Cyber BFF!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :P[/quote]Hey girl!![/quote]
      *Cyber high-five*!!! I could not have stated this better!!![/quote]
      yetta, since your @ attention, im going to re-ask my question from the other day…

      did u see ya man’s video??[/quote]
      :shock: WHO? WHAT? WHERE? WHEN? NO!! Where do I find it..Tell me, tell me now!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!![/quote]
      christain keyes (please tell me, you knew he can sing too)..well go on youtube and type in christian keyes boots on…and you’ll see his new music video[/quote]
      Iknewhecouldsing, sawthatonMadea………….. BRB…

      *Out the door like a bolt of lightning*[/quote]
      OHHHHHHH SWEET JESUS HE IS SEXY I’M WATCHING THE VIDEO NOW, FORGET ABOUT HIS SINGING HE GETS PROPS ALONE FOR HAVING A SISTA AS HIS LEAD [/quote]
      yea, she really pretty too

    341. posted by Kay hopes you DJ @ a party and they throw drinks @ your WACK ass!!

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:31 PM

      [quote comment="371363"][quote comment="371358"][quote comment="371351"][quote comment="371344"][quote comment="371341"]Oh, so we over here now???[/quote]
      Where were you Kay!! STILL in that last post!?[/quote]
      Hell yes!! Trying to help uplift the black community….[/quote]
      *Putting on my Dashiki and raising my fist in the air*

      Keep it alive girl!!!!!!!!!!!![/quote]

      LOok at me!! Here I am talking about being a hot girl….LOL!! So not uplifting to my people!![/quote]
      And change your tag…..

    342. posted by SAI HOLMES- THE ONE AND ONLY

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:31 PM

      I’M PISSED I CAN’T OPEN UP THE GIRL FIGHT VID HERE I’LL WATCH IT WHEN I GET HOME!

    343. posted by ☼GhettoGossipGirl☼ ~Needs a Concealed Carry Permit and a Pistol~

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:32 PM

      [quote comment="371371"][quote comment="371369"][quote comment="371365"][quote comment="371325"][quote comment="371305"][quote comment="371290"][quote comment="371276"]And Les, if ur here thanks for the email! U helped to ease my nerves![/quote]

      Lol, no problem mamacita

      I e-mailed Heaven, ain’t heard from her in a hot minute – i was wondering if Silkk boy done chopped her up! I’ve been watching too many First 48 hours, it’s got me paranoid.[/quote]
      Can you send me the email with the two gay dudes fighting? shannon683@gmail.com[/quote]

      Surrrrrrrreeeeeee[/quote]
      Thanks for the email. I thought gay dudes could fight. MYTH BUSTED![/quote]

      LOL! I know chicks who fight better than that…[/quote]
      LMAO @ ur gravi[/quote]

      :lol: Dont be laughing at my Uncle… :lol:

    344. posted by Miss GQ (Striving to be the female Hype Williams)

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:32 PM

      [quote comment="371376"]Ok…I’m having a coronary right now!!! Why can’t I hear anything GQ!! I’ve checked all my sound settings… :evil:

      Why, Lord, Why??????????? :cry:[/quote]
      AH well, you gotta wait till you get home..hehe! :-D

    345. posted by SAI HOLMES- THE ONE AND ONLY

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:33 PM

      [quote comment="371378"][quote comment="371373"][quote comment="371368"][quote comment="371361"][quote comment="371340"][quote comment="371339"][quote comment="371332"][quote comment="371327"][quote comment="371287"][quote comment="371279"]To Bella and anyone that thought I was being harsh, I was really not trying to insult anyone, but I soooo want sistas to wake up. We have been sleeping for 40 years( after the death of MLK). I do believe with the election of President-Elect Obama God is trying to wake us up. He wants us to take our dignity back, our families back and most importantly re-establish our deep love for him. We black women have allowed too much. We accept whoredom from black men like a passing fancy, we accept them exploiting us like its the order of the day, and we allow them to not look at us a wife material because we are promoting ourselves like video hoes for a brotha’s attention.
      Don’t get me wrong, I have made my fair share of idiot mistakes in relationships which is why I woke up, repetented and asked God to put me on a path to what he truly desired for me in the beginning. It ain’t easy, but its better than where I was headed before.

      The only way for black men or ANY man to respect us is for us to have REAL standards, self-respect and proper expectations. All this gold-digging, misdirected thinking and obsession with materialism that is constantly promoted even on this site is not what is going to help us thrive as daughters of the Almighty and meet the man that he has for us. If anything it will keep you at arm-length distance from him and from God.[/quote]
      You my new Cyber BFF!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :P[/quote]Hey girl!![/quote]
      *Cyber high-five*!!! I could not have stated this better!!![/quote]
      yetta, since your @ attention, im going to re-ask my question from the other day…

      did u see ya man’s video??[/quote]
      :shock: WHO? WHAT? WHERE? WHEN? NO!! Where do I find it..Tell me, tell me now!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!![/quote]
      christain keyes (please tell me, you knew he can sing too)..well go on youtube and type in christian keyes boots on…and you’ll see his new music video[/quote]
      Iknewhecouldsing, sawthatonMadea………….. BRB…

      *Out the door like a bolt of lightning*[/quote]
      OHHHHHHH SWEET JESUS HE IS SEXY I’M WATCHING THE VIDEO NOW, FORGET ABOUT HIS SINGING HE GETS PROPS ALONE FOR HAVING A SISTA AS HIS LEAD [/quote]
      Now, now Sai…..pump your brakes missy!!! :twisted:[/quote]
      DUCKING FROM YETTA WITH KEVLAR VEST AND GRENADES IN TACT READY TO BUST…. LMAO

    346. posted by southernBella*AKA* B%tch Better Have My Money!!!

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:34 PM

      [quote comment="371381"][quote comment="371363"][quote comment="371358"][quote comment="371351"][quote comment="371344"][quote comment="371341"]Oh, so we over here now???[/quote]
      Where were you Kay!! STILL in that last post!?[/quote]
      Hell yes!! Trying to help uplift the black community….[/quote]
      *Putting on my Dashiki and raising my fist in the air*

      Keep it alive girl!!!!!!!!!!!![/quote]

      LOok at me!! Here I am talking about being a hot girl….LOL!! So not uplifting to my people!![/quote]
      And change your tag…..[/quote]

      What???

      Why do you insist on messing with ME!!! I people have bogus stuff on their tag all day…

      You know what never mind!!

    347. posted by HUNEY_LUVV - Took a LONG vacation...... and might get fired for it.

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:35 PM

      [quote comment="371355"][quote comment="371349"][quote comment="371323"][quote comment="371317"][quote comment="371308"][quote comment="371299"]The other day they played the “Hotgirl” video from back in the day..and I almost lost my mind cause I turned the Tv up loud and knew every word..He was all like I cant believe you like that song..blah blah!!!

      I’m like you are so lame!![/quote]
      You from New Orleans?[/quote]

      No, but I use to think I was a Hot Girl!! I almost got it tatted on my arm with some flames coming out..Probably would have been the worst mistake of my life…

      I use to lose my mind when that song came on!![/quote]
      :shock: I liked the song but my mama forbid from playing it cuz she said it was the most degrading song ever[/quote]
      I wouldve thought Bella was from the N.O. going crazy over that song. My fav part was, “Like to say he small i know he working with sumthin” Throwback Lil Wayne![/quote]

      My fav part was

      ” I like’em hot, the ones that dont tell me to, beat it up, swallow the _____ and they know pop…I need a project chick, a hood rat chick, one that dont give a f%uck and say she took that di&k”

      I use to live for that part!!![/quote]

      THATS MY FAV PART TOO!!!!!!!!

    348. posted by Miss GQ (Striving to be the female Hype Williams)

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:35 PM

      [quote comment="371384"][quote comment="371371"][quote comment="371369"][quote comment="371365"][quote comment="371325"][quote comment="371305"][quote comment="371290"][quote comment="371276"]And Les, if ur here thanks for the email! U helped to ease my nerves![/quote]

      Lol, no problem mamacita

      I e-mailed Heaven, ain’t heard from her in a hot minute – i was wondering if Silkk boy done chopped her up! I’ve been watching too many First 48 hours, it’s got me paranoid.[/quote]
      Can you send me the email with the two gay dudes fighting? shannon683@gmail.com[/quote]

      Surrrrrrrreeeeeee[/quote]
      Thanks for the email. I thought gay dudes could fight. MYTH BUSTED![/quote]

      LOL! I know chicks who fight better than that…[/quote]
      LMAO @ ur gravi[/quote]

      :lol: Dont be laughing at my Uncle…

      :lol:[/quote]
      :lol:

    349. posted by Whoa! Is opening an ING Direct acct this Friday so I can be Bossy like Foley :-)

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:35 PM

      ……

    350. posted by ~*Cherishedbyu*~ hates this part right here

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:35 PM

      [quote comment="371376"]Ok…I’m having a coronary right now!!! Why can’t I hear anything GQ!! I’ve checked all my sound settings… :evil:

      Why, Lord, Why??????????? :cry:[/quote]
      For which one!? The bad day @ work had no noise!!!

      I’m mouse free!!!

    351. posted by Kay hopes you DJ @ a party and they throw drinks @ your WACK ass!!

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:36 PM

      [quote comment="371388"][quote comment="371381"][quote comment="371363"][quote comment="371358"][quote comment="371351"][quote comment="371344"][quote comment="371341"]Oh, so we over here now???[/quote]
      Where were you Kay!! STILL in that last post!?[/quote]
      Hell yes!! Trying to help uplift the black community….[/quote]
      *Putting on my Dashiki and raising my fist in the air*

      Keep it alive girl!!!!!!!!!!!![/quote]

      LOok at me!! Here I am talking about being a hot girl….LOL!! So not uplifting to my people!![/quote]
      And change your tag…..[/quote]

      What???

      Why do you insist on messing with ME!!! I people have bogus stuff on their tag all day…

      You know what never mind!![/quote]
      I was just teasing with you, but…OK, I guess….

    352. posted by southernBella*AKA* B%tch Better Have My Money!!!

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:36 PM

      I’m out before I say something outta line…

      I’ll come back later…cause I cant get stressed over no fucking blog!!

      I thought my mama lived in Dallas!!!

    353. posted by PrettyBlaqueGirl ~ "Jive Turkey"...Gotta Love the '70's

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:37 PM

      I wanna see the karma vid. Can somebody forward that to me?

    354. posted by Yetta.... ~Now accepting applications...If you can not provide assistance, please keep ya distance!!~

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:37 PM

      [quote comment="371386"][quote comment="371376"]Ok…I’m having a coronary right now!!! Why can’t I hear anything GQ!! I’ve checked all my sound settings… :evil:

      Why, Lord, Why??????????? :cry:[/quote]
      AH well, you gotta wait till you get home..hehe! :-D[/quote]
      I’ve re-booted my computer..let me see if this works!! :evil:

      @ Sai…what I got for any chick looking at my Keyes the wrong way will go straight through the Kevlar!!!

    355. posted by Miss GQ (Striving to be the female Hype Williams)

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:37 PM

      [quote comment="371392"]……[/quote]
      Hi Whoah!!! :-)

    356. posted by southernBella*AKA* B%tch Better Have My Money!!!

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:38 PM

      [quote comment="371395"][quote comment="371388"][quote comment="371381"][quote comment="371363"][quote comment="371358"][quote comment="371351"][quote comment="371344"][quote comment="371341"]Oh, so we over here now???[/quote]
      Where were you Kay!! STILL in that last post!?[/quote]
      Hell yes!! Trying to help uplift the black community….[/quote]
      *Putting on my Dashiki and raising my fist in the air*

      Keep it alive girl!!!!!!!!!!!![/quote]

      LOok at me!! Here I am talking about being a hot girl….LOL!! So not uplifting to my people!![/quote]
      And change your tag…..[/quote]

      What???

      Why do you insist on messing with ME!!! I people have bogus stuff on their tag all day…

      You know what never mind!![/quote]
      I was just teasing with you, but…OK, I guess….[/quote]

      Well it seems like I’m the only one you tease…and personally I dont think its funny!!!

    357. posted by SAI HOLMES- THE ONE AND ONLY

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:38 PM

      [quote comment="371391"][quote comment="371384"][quote comment="371371"][quote comment="371369"][quote comment="371365"][quote comment="371325"][quote comment="371305"][quote comment="371290"][quote comment="371276"]And Les, if ur here thanks for the email! U helped to ease my nerves![/quote]

      Lol, no problem mamacita

      I e-mailed Heaven, ain’t heard from her in a hot minute – i was wondering if Silkk boy done chopped her up! I’ve been watching too many First 48 hours, it’s got me paranoid.[/quote]
      Can you send me the email with the two gay dudes fighting? shannon683@gmail.com[/quote]

      Surrrrrrrreeeeeee[/quote]
      Thanks for the email. I thought gay dudes could fight. MYTH BUSTED![/quote]

      LOL! I know chicks who fight better than that…[/quote]
      LMAO @ ur gravi[/quote]

      :lol: Dont be laughing at my Uncle…

      :lol:[/quote]
      :lol:[/quote]
      HE LOOKS LIKE HIS NAME IS CLETUS ELGIN THE 3RD

    358. posted by ☼GhettoGossipGirl☼ ~Needs a Concealed Carry Permit and a Pistol~

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:38 PM

      :shock:

    359. posted by HUNEY_LUVV - Took a LONG vacation...... and might get fired for it.

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:38 PM

      [quote comment="371396"]I’m out before I say something outta line…

      I’ll come back later…cause I cant get stressed over no fucking blog!!

      I thought my mama lived in Dallas!!![/quot
      WHY U LEAVIN BELLA????

    360. posted by Miss GQ (Striving to be the female Hype Williams)

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:39 PM

      [quote comment="371398"]I wanna see the karma vid. Can somebody forward that to me?[/quote]
      got you..hold on

    361. posted by SAI HOLMES- THE ONE AND ONLY

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:39 PM

      [quote comment="371399"][quote comment="371386"][quote comment="371376"]Ok…I’m having a coronary right now!!! Why can’t I hear anything GQ!! I’ve checked all my sound settings… :evil:

      Why, Lord, Why??????????? :cry:[/quote]
      AH well, you gotta wait till you get home..hehe! :-D[/quote]
      I’ve re-booted my computer..let me see if this works!! :evil:

      @ Sai…what I got for any chick looking at my Keyes the wrong way will go straight through the Kevlar!!![/quote]
      :shock: as well as :lol:

    362. posted by Yetta.... ~Now accepting applications...If you can not provide assistance, please keep ya distance!!~

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:39 PM

      IT WORKED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
      My hubby..I’ll tell ya..he does it everytime!!!

    363. posted by Whoa! Is opening an ING Direct acct this Friday so I can be Bossy like Foley :-)

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:39 PM

      [quote comment="371400"][quote comment="371392"]……[/quote]
      Hi Whoah!!! :-)[/quote]
      Hey babygirl. What you been up to?

    364. posted by ~*Cherishedbyu*~ hates this part right here

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:40 PM

      [quote comment="371396"]I’m out before I say something outta line…

      I’ll come back later…cause I cant get stressed over no fucking blog!!

      I thought my mama lived in Dallas!!![/quote]
      U get worked up…..nobody makes u do it, dearie!!

    365. posted by VOGUE "Even when the sky comes falling..Even when the sun don’t shine..I got faith in you & I"

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:41 PM

      :shock:

    366. posted by Kay hopes you DJ @ a party and they throw drinks @ your WACK ass!!

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:41 PM

      [quote comment="371401"][quote comment="371395"][quote comment="371388"][quote comment="371381"][quote comment="371363"][quote comment="371358"][quote comment="371351"][quote comment="371344"][quote comment="371341"]Oh, so we over here now???[/quote]
      Where were you Kay!! STILL in that last post!?[/quote]
      Hell yes!! Trying to help uplift the black community….[/quote]
      *Putting on my Dashiki and raising my fist in the air*

      Keep it alive girl!!!!!!!!!!!![/quote]

      LOok at me!! Here I am talking about being a hot girl….LOL!! So not uplifting to my people!![/quote]
      And change your tag…..[/quote]

      What???

      Why do you insist on messing with ME!!! I people have bogus stuff on their tag all day…

      You know what never mind!![/quote]
      I was just teasing with you, but…OK, I guess….[/quote]

      Well it seems like I’m the only one you tease…and personally I dont think its funny!!![/quote]
      ok

    367. posted by PrettyBlaqueGirl ~ "Jive Turkey"...Gotta Love the '70's

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:41 PM

      [quote comment="371405"][quote comment="371398"]I wanna see the karma vid. Can somebody forward that to me?[/quote]
      got you..hold on[/quote]
      Aww thanks. I love to burst out laughing in this office while people look at me.

    368. posted by Lovely One

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:42 PM

      [quote comment="371377"][quote comment="371365"][quote comment="371325"][quote comment="371305"][quote comment="371290"][quote comment="371276"]And Les, if ur here thanks for the email! U helped to ease my nerves![/quote]

      Lol, no problem mamacita

      I e-mailed Heaven, ain’t heard from her in a hot minute – i was wondering if Silkk boy done chopped her up! I’ve been watching too many First 48 hours, it’s got me paranoid.[/quote]
      Can you send me the email with the two gay dudes fighting? shannon683@gmail.com[/quote]

      Surrrrrrrreeeeeee[/quote]
      Thanks for the email. I thought gay dudes could fight. MYTH BUSTED![/quote]
      LOL! Did you see the Karma one, now that was hilarious :lol:[/quote]
      no…can you send it to me? shannon683@gmail.com

    369. posted by Yetta.... ~Now accepting applications...If you can not provide assistance, please keep ya distance!!~

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:42 PM

      [quote comment="371393"][quote comment="371376"]Ok…I’m having a coronary right now!!! Why can’t I hear anything GQ!! I’ve checked all my sound settings… :evil:

      Why, Lord, Why??????????? :cry:[/quote]
      For which one!? The bad day @ work had no noise!!!

      I’m mouse free!!![/quote]
      For my hubby’s video!!!! I can hear now..I can hear now Cherished!!!!

    370. posted by Whoa! Is opening an ING Direct acct this Friday so I can be Bossy like Foley :-)

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:42 PM

      [quote comment="371403"]:shock:[/quote]
      Me too GGG….I would prefer a 9 or beretta

    371. posted by Miss GQ (Striving to be the female Hype Williams)

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:44 PM

      [quote comment="371413"][quote comment="371405"][quote comment="371398"]I wanna see the karma vid. Can somebody forward that to me?[/quote]
      got you..hold on[/quote]
      Aww thanks. I love to burst out laughing in this office while people look at me.[/quote]
      sent

    372. posted by ~*Cherishedbyu*~ hates this part right here

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:44 PM

      [quote comment="371415"][quote comment="371393"][quote comment="371376"]Ok…I’m having a coronary right now!!! Why can’t I hear anything GQ!! I’ve checked all my sound settings… :evil:

      Why, Lord, Why??????????? :cry:[/quote]
      For which one!? The bad day @ work had no noise!!!

      I’m mouse free!!![/quote]
      For my hubby’s video!!!! I can hear now..I can hear now Cherished!!!![/quote]
      What vid he got!? I wanna see…don’t side eye me *lol*

    373. posted by loveislove~OBAMA STAN #INFINITY~AKA MRS. WEST ((SAYIN "MY PERSIAN CAT IS FLYIN HIGH IN THE SKY..SHE IS NOW MY GUARDIAN ANGEL....WITH THAT I KNOW '09 IS MINE!!!!))

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:45 PM

      Is Rainy here?? Can I get a recap??

    374. posted by Miss GQ (Striving to be the female Hype Williams)

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:45 PM

      [quote comment="371408"][quote comment="371400"][quote comment="371392"]……[/quote]
      Hi Whoah!!! :-)[/quote]
      Hey babygirl. What you been up to?[/quote]
      nuttin..how bout you??

    375. posted by ☼GhettoGossipGirl☼ ~Needs a Concealed Carry Permit and a Pistol~

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:45 PM

      [quote comment="371416"][quote comment="371403"]:shock:[/quote]
      Me too GGG….I would prefer a 9 or beretta[/quote]

      LOL, either one is just fine, I dont discriminate

    376. posted by VOGUE "Even when the sky comes falling..Even when the sun don’t shine..I got faith in you & I"

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:46 PM

      Lights campfire….

      Kumbaya my Lord Kumbaya
      :lol:

    377. posted by Kay hopes you DJ @ a party and they throw drinks @ your WACK ass!!

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:46 PM

      Whoa, check ya email

    378. posted by Yetta.... ~Now accepting applications...If you can not provide assistance, please keep ya distance!!~

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:46 PM

      [quote comment="371418"][quote comment="371415"][quote comment="371393"][quote comment="371376"]Ok…I’m having a coronary right now!!! Why can’t I hear anything GQ!! I’ve checked all my sound settings… :evil:

      Why, Lord, Why??????????? :cry:[/quote]
      For which one!? The bad day @ work had no noise!!!

      I’m mouse free!!![/quote]
      For my hubby’s video!!!! I can hear now..I can hear now Cherished!!!![/quote]
      What vid he got!? I wanna see…don’t side eye me *lol*[/quote]
      :evil:

      SIKE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! It’s not the best, but he is soooo fine…WHO CARES!! Google him, you’ll see plenty!!!

    379. posted by Miss GQ (Striving to be the female Hype Williams)

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:47 PM

      [quote comment="371418"][quote comment="371415"][quote comment="371393"][quote comment="371376"]Ok…I’m having a coronary right now!!! Why can’t I hear anything GQ!! I’ve checked all my sound settings… :evil:

      Why, Lord, Why??????????? :cry:[/quote]
      For which one!? The bad day @ work had no noise!!!

      I’m mouse free!!![/quote]
      For my hubby’s video!!!! I can hear now..I can hear now Cherished!!!![/quote]
      What vid he got!? I wanna see…don’t side eye me *lol*[/quote]
      go on youtube, and type in christian keyes boots on, and watch the video

    380. posted by SAI HOLMES- THE ONE AND ONLY

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:48 PM

      [quote comment="371419"]Is Rainy here?? Can I get a recap??[/quote]
      Ok Love, now as we know I’m no Rainy, but I will give u a recap to the best of my abilities. It started off clowning Bentley but then the hate ceased once realized his chick is hot as well as her boots, now we are looking at Christian Keyes (Yetta’s boo) video. And yes a real sista is the lead, Southern Bella left and said she is coming back later cuz she feels attacked and there are emails being passed back and forth that show to guys (I assume they are gay but my computer won’t let me open it) fighting, and they look mad queenie. Is that good enough?

    381. posted by ~*Cherishedbyu*~ hates this part right here

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:48 PM

      [quote comment="371424"][quote comment="371418"][quote comment="371415"][quote comment="371393"][quote comment="371376"]Ok…I’m having a coronary right now!!! Why can’t I hear anything GQ!! I’ve checked all my sound settings… :evil:

      Why, Lord, Why??????????? :cry:[/quote]
      For which one!? The bad day @ work had no noise!!!

      I’m mouse free!!![/quote]
      For my hubby’s video!!!! I can hear now..I can hear now Cherished!!!![/quote]
      What vid he got!? I wanna see…don’t side eye me *lol*[/quote]
      :evil:

      SIKE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! It’s not the best, but he is soooo fine…WHO CARES!! Google him, you’ll see plenty!!![/quote]
      :lol: I love ya Yetta!! I won’t steal him!! Goes to google

    382. posted by Miss GQ (Striving to be the female Hype Williams)

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:48 PM

      [quote comment="371422"]Lights campfire….

      Kumbaya my Lord Kumbaya
      :lol:[/quote]
      *singing with you*

    383. posted by Kay hopes you DJ @ a party and they throw drinks @ your WACK ass!!

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:50 PM

      Alright ladies..have a peaceful night….

    384. posted by Yetta.... ~Now accepting applications...If you can not provide assistance, please keep ya distance!!~

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:50 PM

      Testing…..

    385. posted by Whoa! Is opening an ING Direct acct this Friday so I can be Bossy like Foley :-)

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:51 PM

      [quote comment="371420"][quote comment="371408"][quote comment="371400"][quote comment="371392"]……[/quote]
      Hi Whoah!!! :-)[/quote]
      Hey babygirl. What you been up to?[/quote]
      nuttin..how bout you??[/quote]
      Tired as hell and ready to go to Starbucks, get my Signature hot chocolate and take my azz home

    386. posted by ~*Cherishedbyu*~ hates this part right here

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:51 PM

      [quote comment="371426"][quote comment="371419"]Is Rainy here?? Can I get a recap??[/quote]
      Ok Love, now as we know I’m no Rainy, but I will give u a recap to the best of my abilities. It started off clowning Bentley but then the hate ceased once realized his chick is hot as well as her boots, now we are looking at Christian Keyes (Yetta’s boo) video. And yes a real sista is the lead, Southern Bella left and said she is coming back later cuz she feels attacked and there are emails being passed back and forth that show to guys (I assume they are gay but my computer won’t let me open it) fighting, and they look mad queenie. Is that good enough? [/quote]
      Great job, Sai!!!!!

    387. posted by Miss GQ (Striving to be the female Hype Williams)

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:52 PM

      [quote comment="371429"]Alright ladies..have a peaceful night….[/quote]
      bye Kay!!

    388. posted by ☼GhettoGossipGirl☼ ~Needs a Concealed Carry Permit and a Pistol~

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:52 PM

      [quote comment="371432"][quote comment="371426"][quote comment="371419"]Is Rainy here?? Can I get a recap??[/quote]
      Ok Love, now as we know I’m no Rainy, but I will give u a recap to the best of my abilities. It started off clowning Bentley but then the hate ceased once realized his chick is hot as well as her boots, now we are looking at Christian Keyes (Yetta’s boo) video. And yes a real sista is the lead, Southern Bella left and said she is coming back later cuz she feels attacked and there are emails being passed back and forth that show to guys (I assume they are gay but my computer won’t let me open it) fighting, and they look mad queenie. Is that good enough? [/quote]
      Great job, Sai!!!!![/quote]

      Im DEAD @ they look mad queenie :lol:

    389. posted by ~*Cherishedbyu*~ hates this part right here

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:52 PM

      [quote comment="371429"]Alright ladies..have a peaceful night….[/quote]
      Toodlez!!!!

    390. posted by SAI HOLMES- THE ONE AND ONLY

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:52 PM

      [quote comment="371432"][quote comment="371426"][quote comment="371419"]Is Rainy here?? Can I get a recap??[/quote]
      Ok Love, now as we know I’m no Rainy, but I will give u a recap to the best of my abilities. It started off clowning Bentley but then the hate ceased once realized his chick is hot as well as her boots, now we are looking at Christian Keyes (Yetta’s boo) video. And yes a real sista is the lead, Southern Bella left and said she is coming back later cuz she feels attacked and there are emails being passed back and forth that show to guys (I assume they are gay but my computer won’t let me open it) fighting, and they look mad queenie. Is that good enough? [/quote]
      Great job, Sai!!!!![/quote]
      Thanks :lol:

    391. posted by Whoa! Is opening an ING Direct acct this Friday so I can be Bossy like Foley :-)

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:53 PM

      [quote comment="371429"]Alright ladies..have a peaceful night….[/quote]
      Check ya email. Nite hon

    392. posted by SAI HOLMES- THE ONE AND ONLY

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:53 PM

      [quote comment="371434"][quote comment="371432"][quote comment="371426"][quote comment="371419"]Is Rainy here?? Can I get a recap??[/quote]
      Ok Love, now as we know I’m no Rainy, but I will give u a recap to the best of my abilities. It started off clowning Bentley but then the hate ceased once realized his chick is hot as well as her boots, now we are looking at Christian Keyes (Yetta’s boo) video. And yes a real sista is the lead, Southern Bella left and said she is coming back later cuz she feels attacked and there are emails being passed back and forth that show to guys (I assume they are gay but my computer won’t let me open it) fighting, and they look mad queenie. Is that good enough? [/quote]
      Great job, Sai!!!!![/quote]

      Im DEAD @ they look mad queenie :lol:[/quote]
      I GOT QUEENIE COURTESY OF WENDY WILLIAMS, SHE USED TO ALWAYS SAY THAT ABOUT DIDDY :lol:

    393. posted by loveislove~OBAMA STAN #INFINITY~AKA MRS. WEST ((SAYIN "MY PERSIAN CAT IS FLYIN HIGH IN THE SKY..SHE IS NOW MY GUARDIAN ANGEL....WITH THAT I KNOW '09 IS MINE!!!!))

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:55 PM

      [quote comment="371426"][quote comment="371419"]Is Rainy here?? Can I get a recap??[/quote]
      Ok Love, now as we know I’m no Rainy, but I will give u a recap to the best of my abilities. It started off clowning Bentley but then the hate ceased once realized his chick is hot as well as her boots, now we are looking at Christian Keyes (Yetta’s boo) video. And yes a real sista is the lead, Southern Bella left and said she is coming back later cuz she feels attacked and there are emails being passed back and forth that show to guys (I assume they are gay but my computer won’t let me open it) fighting, and they look mad queenie. Is that good enough? [/quote]

      Awwww thanks Bold N Caps…good job!!!!

    394. posted by Yetta.... ~Now accepting applications...If you can not provide assistance, please keep ya distance!!~

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:56 PM

      Has my Gravi changed?

    395. posted by loveislove~OBAMA STAN #INFINITY~AKA MRS. WEST ((SAYIN "MY PERSIAN CAT IS FLYIN HIGH IN THE SKY..SHE IS NOW MY GUARDIAN ANGEL....WITH THAT I KNOW '09 IS MINE!!!!))

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:56 PM

      [quote comment="371431"][quote comment="371420"][quote comment="371408"][quote comment="371400"][quote comment="371392"]……[/quote]
      Hi Whoah!!! :-)[/quote]
      Hey babygirl. What you been up to?[/quote]
      nuttin..how bout you??[/quote]
      Tired as hell and ready to go to Starbucks, get my Signature hot chocolate and take my azz home[/quote]

      Oh STOP WHOA!!!! You callin out my spot!!!! There’s a Joe’s Pike about to be made with my name on it

    396. posted by Yetta.... ~Now accepting applications...If you can not provide assistance, please keep ya distance!!~

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:57 PM

      Testing…

    397. posted by TeeTee

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:57 PM

      PLEASE!! this is his beard!!!!

      He was just booed up in his lovenest w/Andre Harrell.

      He is doing a little damage control to keep his image together. Just because we see him with a chick we sooo
      want to beleive that he is straight.

      I am a realist and the HIPS don’t lie :)

      I don’t beleive it and I know BETTER!!
      THANKS FOR THE LAUGH TASHA!! LOVE YOU GIRL!!!

    398. posted by les923~Obama Stan #1~ The struggles of my past becomes the strength for my future.

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:57 PM

      [quote comment="371407"]IT WORKED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
      My hubby..I’ll tell ya..he does it everytime!!![/quote]

      Ok, phukk work now – i don’t know what’s gotten into me – gotta YBF my last half hour on this here plantation

    399. posted by loveislove~OBAMA STAN #INFINITY~AKA MRS. WEST ((SAYIN "MY PERSIAN CAT IS FLYIN HIGH IN THE SKY..SHE IS NOW MY GUARDIAN ANGEL....WITH THAT I KNOW '09 IS MINE!!!!))

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:57 PM

      [quote comment="371440"]Has my Gravi changed?[/quote]

      Still see you and the princess that I asked about 5 million times and got no response as of yet to!!!!! HMPH!!!!

    400. posted by Yetta.... ~Now accepting applications...If you can not provide assistance, please keep ya distance!!~

      Wed, January 7, 2009 4:59 PM

      [quote comment="371445"][quote comment="371440"]Has my Gravi changed?[/quote]

      Still see you and the princess that I asked about 5 million times and got no response as of yet to!!!!! HMPH!!!![/quote]
      Love, your kidding me!! I’m sowwie. I have been slacking on my blogging chile!! Wassup?

    401. posted by PrettyBlaqueGirl ~ "Jive Turkey"...Gotta Love the '70's

      Wed, January 7, 2009 5:00 PM

      [quote comment="371444"][quote comment="371407"]IT WORKED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
      My hubby..I’ll tell ya..he does it everytime!!![/quote]

      Ok, phukk work now – i don’t know what’s gotten into me – gotta YBF my last half hour on this here plantation[/quote]
      Hey Les, got the emails, thanks.

    402. posted by les923~Obama Stan #1~ The struggles of my past becomes the strength for my future.

      Wed, January 7, 2009 5:00 PM

      [quote comment="371439"][quote comment="371426"][quote comment="371419"]Is Rainy here?? Can I get a recap??[/quote]
      Ok Love, now as we know I’m no Rainy, but I will give u a recap to the best of my abilities. It started off clowning Bentley but then the hate ceased once realized his chick is hot as well as her boots, now we are looking at Christian Keyes (Yetta’s boo) video. And yes a real sista is the lead, Southern Bella left and said she is coming back later cuz she feels attacked and there are emails being passed back and forth that show to guys (I assume they are gay but my computer won’t let me open it) fighting, and they look mad queenie. Is that good enough? [/quote]

      Awwww thanks Bold N Caps…good job!!!![/quote]

      *standingovation*

      Not Bad Cap n Bold

    403. posted by loveislove~OBAMA STAN #INFINITY~AKA MRS. WEST ((SAYIN "MY PERSIAN CAT IS FLYIN HIGH IN THE SKY..SHE IS NOW MY GUARDIAN ANGEL....WITH THAT I KNOW '09 IS MINE!!!!))

      Wed, January 7, 2009 5:00 PM

      [quote comment="371446"][quote comment="371445"][quote comment="371440"]Has my Gravi changed?[/quote]

      Still see you and the princess that I asked about 5 million times and got no response as of yet to!!!!! HMPH!!!![/quote]
      Love, your kidding me!! I’m sowwie. I have been slacking on my blogging chile!!

      Wassup?[/quote]

      HMPH you keep it up missy….keepin my away from my niece and nephew!!!!

    404. posted by Whoa! Is opening an ING Direct acct this Friday so I can be Bossy like Foley :-)

      Wed, January 7, 2009 5:00 PM

      [quote comment="371441"][quote comment="371431"][quote comment="371420"][quote comment="371408"][quote comment="371400"][quote comment="371392"]……[/quote]
      Hi Whoah!!! :-)[/quote]
      Hey babygirl. What you been up to?[/quote]
      nuttin..how bout you??[/quote]
      Tired as hell and ready to go to Starbucks, get my Signature hot chocolate and take my azz home[/quote]

      Oh STOP WHOA!!!! You callin out my spot!!!! There’s a Joe’s Pike about to be made with my name on it[/quote]
      :lol: Girl can’t go home w/o it.

    405. posted by les923~Obama Stan #1~ The struggles of my past becomes the strength for my future.

      Wed, January 7, 2009 5:01 PM

      [quote comment="371447"][quote comment="371444"][quote comment="371407"]IT WORKED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
      My hubby..I’ll tell ya..he does it everytime!!![/quote]

      Ok, phukk work now – i don’t know what’s gotten into me – gotta YBF my last half hour on this here plantation[/quote]
      Hey Les, got the emails, thanks.[/quote]

      No problemo

    406. posted by Yetta.... ~Now accepting applications...If you can not provide assistance, please keep ya distance!!~

      Wed, January 7, 2009 5:01 PM

      [quote comment="371444"][quote comment="371407"]IT WORKED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
      My hubby..I’ll tell ya..he does it everytime!!![/quote]

      Ok, phukk work now – i don’t know what’s gotten into me – gotta YBF my last half hour on this here plantation[/quote]
      I can’t get away!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I must blog!!!!!!!! I feel like I have been brainwashed to sit in front of this computer and blog all day!!! I wonder if Tasha has some sublimital messages that we haven’t seen!!!

    407. posted by Yetta.... ~Now accepting applications...If you can not provide assistance, please keep ya distance!!~

      Wed, January 7, 2009 5:02 PM

      [quote comment="371449"][quote comment="371446"][quote comment="371445"][quote comment="371440"]Has my Gravi changed?[/quote]

      Still see you and the princess that I asked about 5 million times and got no response as of yet to!!!!! HMPH!!!![/quote]
      Love, your kidding me!! I’m sowwie. I have been slacking on my blogging chile!!

      Wassup?[/quote]

      HMPH you keep it up missy….keepin my away from my niece and nephew!!!![/quote]
      NEVER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    408. posted by SAI HOLMES- THE ONE AND ONLY

      Wed, January 7, 2009 5:02 PM

      [quote comment="371444"][quote comment="371407"]IT WORKED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
      My hubby..I’ll tell ya..he does it everytime!!![/quote]

      Ok, phukk work now – i don’t know what’s gotten into me – gotta YBF my last half hour on this here plantation[/quote]
      OK LES ME AND U R GONNA HAVE A PROBLEM! HOW COME I NEVER GET ANY OF THESE EMAILS THAT ARE TALKED ABOUT SO HIGHLY?

    409. posted by loveislove~OBAMA STAN #INFINITY~AKA MRS. WEST ((SAYIN "MY PERSIAN CAT IS FLYIN HIGH IN THE SKY..SHE IS NOW MY GUARDIAN ANGEL....WITH THAT I KNOW '09 IS MINE!!!!))

      Wed, January 7, 2009 5:04 PM

      [quote comment="371450"][quote comment="371441"][quote comment="371431"][quote comment="371420"][quote comment="371408"][quote comment="371400"][quote comment="371392"]……[/quote]
      Hi Whoah!!! :-)[/quote]
      Hey babygirl. What you been up to?[/quote]
      nuttin..how bout you??[/quote]
      Tired as hell and ready to go to Starbucks, get my Signature hot chocolate and take my azz home[/quote]

      Oh STOP WHOA!!!! You callin out my spot!!!! There’s a Joe’s Pike about to be made with my name on it[/quote]
      :lol: Girl can’t go home w/o it.[/quote]

      Bout to go get one right now……Ladies enjoy the rest of the night and catch up with you all tomorrow…BYE SWEETIES!!!!

    410. posted by ~*Cherishedbyu*~ hates this part right here

      Wed, January 7, 2009 5:04 PM

      dead @ Christian Keyes singing!!!!! OMG! HILARIOUS

    411. posted by southernBella*AKA* B%tch Better Have My Money!!!

      Wed, January 7, 2009 5:04 PM

      [quote comment="371452"][quote comment="371444"][quote comment="371407"]IT WORKED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
      My hubby..I’ll tell ya..he does it everytime!!![/quote]

      Ok, phukk work now – i don’t know what’s gotten into me – gotta YBF my last half hour on this here plantation[/quote]
      I can’t get away!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I must blog!!!!!!!! I feel like I have been brainwashed to sit in front of this computer and blog all day!!! I wonder if Tasha has some sublimital messages that we haven’t seen!!![/quote]

      She does! Cause as I mad as I am…I still cant leave…I feel like I’m gonna miss something!!!

    412. posted by chaka1

      Wed, January 7, 2009 5:04 PM

      who on earth gives a flying f— about this guy. He’s as gay as Bobby Brown (confirmed).

    413. posted by Whoa! Is opening an ING Direct acct this Friday so I can be Bossy like Foley :-)

      Wed, January 7, 2009 5:05 PM

      [quote comment="371455"][quote comment="371450"][quote comment="371441"][quote comment="371431"][quote comment="371420"][quote comment="371408"][quote comment="371400"][quote comment="371392"]……[/quote]
      Hi Whoah!!! :-)[/quote]
      Hey babygirl. What you been up to?[/quote]
      nuttin..how bout you??[/quote]
      Tired as hell and ready to go to Starbucks, get my Signature hot chocolate and take my azz home[/quote]

      Oh STOP WHOA!!!! You callin out my spot!!!! There’s a Joe’s Pike about to be made with my name on it[/quote]
      :lol: Girl can’t go home w/o it.[/quote]

      Bout to go get one right now……Ladies enjoy the rest of the night and catch up with you all tomorrow…BYE SWEETIES!!!![/quote]
      Lata mama, I got 10 more minutes myself.

    414. posted by les923~Obama Stan #1~ The struggles of my past becomes the strength for my future.

      Wed, January 7, 2009 5:05 PM

      [quote comment="371407"]IT WORKED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
      My hubby..I’ll tell ya..he does it everytime!!![/quote]

      Hmmmmmmm, i never knew who this Christian Keyes was………. i won’t say nothing though – out of respect for my Iddy

    415. posted by Yetta.... ~Now accepting applications...If you can not provide assistance, please keep ya distance!!~

      Wed, January 7, 2009 5:06 PM

      [quote comment="371457"][quote comment="371452"][quote comment="371444"][quote comment="371407"]IT WORKED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
      My hubby..I’ll tell ya..he does it everytime!!![/quote]

      Ok, phukk work now – i don’t know what’s gotten into me – gotta YBF my last half hour on this here plantation[/quote]
      I can’t get away!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I must blog!!!!!!!! I feel like I have been brainwashed to sit in front of this computer and blog all day!!! I wonder if Tasha has some sublimital messages that we haven’t seen!!![/quote]

      She does! Cause as I mad as I am…I still cant leave…I feel like I’m gonna miss something!!![/quote]
      Why you mad Bella!! Don’t be!!!!!!!!!!