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  • COUPLEDOM: Laurence Fishburne & Gina Torres+Xzibit & Girlfriend Krista

    Written by Natasha - Last updated: Monday, September 21, 2009

    Xzibit was spotted on a fishing trip in Los Cabos, Mexico with his girlfriend Krista Davis this weekend.  Not only am I shocked (and slightly disappointed) that he has a girlfriend (Y’all know about my secret crush on Xzibit).  But this chick looks old enough to be his mother.  And how are they taking trips to Cabo?  Isn’t he half a million dollars behind on taxes?  Just wondering…

    Oh wells….

    And Laurence Fishburne and his wife of 7 years Gina Torres were spotted getting kissy and cutesy after having lunch in West Hollywood yesterday:

    Awww.

    Photos via Splash News
    Filed in Candids, Coupledom •

    87 Comments »

    1. posted by Tealeaf

      Mon, September 21, 2009 12:44 PM

      I don’t find Xzibit is not that pretty

      Gina looks nice

    2. posted by Tam

      Mon, September 21, 2009 12:44 PM

      X, you get the gas face for that one..LOL

    3. posted by Simms

      Mon, September 21, 2009 12:44 PM

      I love black love…adorable!

    4. posted by Yas

      Mon, September 21, 2009 12:45 PM

      Awwwwwwwwwwwwwwww love is a bootyfull thing!

    5. posted by tb

      Mon, September 21, 2009 12:45 PM

      X bit the dust too. Oh well.

    6. posted by Tealeaf

      Mon, September 21, 2009 12:45 PM

      Tealeaf: I don’t find Xzibit is not that prettyGina looks nice

      I meant Xzibit girlfriend is not that pretty

    7. posted by shawn

      Mon, September 21, 2009 12:46 PM

      xzibit wtf man ! smh

    8. posted by bubblin brown shuga

      Mon, September 21, 2009 12:47 PM

      well actually xzibit is looking kinda old in the face too so its only fair.

      now watch what happens–SOME of u ladies are going to talk about how bad the men look and then complain about them not dating/marrying a black woman.

      sometimes men date outside the race because WE DONT WANT THEM. i dont know if thats what happened in these cases but i know dam well i wouldnt want corny ass tiger woods (for example).

    9. posted by michelle

      Mon, September 21, 2009 12:48 PM

      LAURENCE USED TO BE SO HOT IN BOYZ IN DA HOOD…. WTF HAPPENED? AND I SEE WE’VE LOST ANOTHER BROTHER TO A WHITE GIRL SMH!

    10. posted by Kellie S

      Mon, September 21, 2009 12:49 PM

      I would climb Xzibit like a tree.

    11. posted by bubblin brown shuga

      Mon, September 21, 2009 12:51 PM

      michelle: LAURENCE USED TO BE SO HOT IN BOYZ IN DA HOOD…. WTF HAPPENED? AND I SEE WE’VE LOST ANOTHER BROTHER TO A WHITE GIRL SMH!

      lol……case and point

    12. posted by NitaBonita

      Mon, September 21, 2009 12:52 PM

      gina and larry(lol) look soooo cute!

    13. posted by This_Is_A_Stick_Up!

      Mon, September 21, 2009 12:52 PM

      Awww @ Laurence and wife hangin’ out … Can’t wait for the new season of CSI to start this week, hope Laurence is still in.

    14. posted by oVa

      Mon, September 21, 2009 12:55 PM

      EVERY BLACK WOMAN….EVERY WOMAN OF COLOR SHOULD GIVE XZIBIT A BIG THE FUCK ASS “X” FOR THAT WACK PASTY CHICK!

      DUDE! YOU JUST FIT EVERY IGNORANT STEREOTYPE MADE ABOUT BLACK MEN THAT GET SOME LOT AND GET A PINK TOE!
      THAT CONVO LOOKS BORING ASS HELL!!!

      SHE AINT EVEN GOT NO ASS!
      SUCKA!

    15. posted by kimpavita4

      Mon, September 21, 2009 12:59 PM

      xibit girl looks ooooold like garbage!!!!! the fishburnes look fresh and happy!!

    16. posted by Hey Hey

      Mon, September 21, 2009 1:01 PM

      Lawrence an Gina looked so cute!

    17. posted by white chocolate

      Mon, September 21, 2009 1:03 PM

      Is it a problem for people that he is dating a woman that is not black?
      Man, it is really sad that comments like that are ok on this site. I guess racism is ok when it is black people that are judging, right?

      Face it, black men like women, dark, light, whatever, why is it a bad think for a black man to date a white/hispanic woman?

    18. posted by Z-Block

      Mon, September 21, 2009 1:04 PM

      Hey Hey: Lawrence an Gina looked so cute!

      Ditto!

    19. posted by white chocolate

      Mon, September 21, 2009 1:05 PM

      Ova, could you sound like anymore of a jealous girl?

      What are we in 1908 here?

      TIME TO EVOLVE Everybody else has…..

    20. posted by TRUTHHURTS

      Mon, September 21, 2009 1:07 PM

      always had a big crush on Xzibit No i’m not mad thats his girl but i would have been a better choice,lol I think laurence wife is real pretty & that was her in I think I love my wife right?

    21. posted by white chocolate

      Mon, September 21, 2009 1:08 PM

      I have ask this, do people hate on Kerry Washington for only dating white guys?

      Hey if your going to judge, you better judge consistantly

    22. posted by ishouldbeworkinginstead (did hair go out of style and i missed the memo?)

      Mon, September 21, 2009 1:15 PM

      white chocolate: I have ask this, do people hate on Kerry for only dating white guys?
      Hey if your going to judge, you better judge consistantly

      Any black people that date outside of their race, more power to them. But fyi, as Black women it is somewhat harder for us to deal with Black men dating white women based on historical reasons and the fact that we have always been so loyal to our Black men so to have them go out and start dating white women and marrying white women felt like a slap in the face. As time has gone on, many Black women have began to accept this and to realize that we too can step outside our race to find love… but for some of us its still a touchy issue.

    23. posted by TIA

      Mon, September 21, 2009 1:16 PM

      I WONDER HOW OLD IS THEIR BABY NOW GINA’S AND LAURENCE’S BABY…

    24. posted by Off da radar

      Mon, September 21, 2009 1:17 PM

      Da females who make so much noise about black men dating other women from another race are dealing with personal self esteem issues and insecurities. Dis is 2009 and I can’t understand why dis discussion goes on, on a site like dis. Im not claiming this site are filled wit intellectuals, but dude get off your period. It is not dat serious and da last I checked, love is blind.

    25. posted by Shayla

      Mon, September 21, 2009 1:17 PM

      TRUTHHURTS: always had a big crush on Xzibit No i’m not mad thats his girl but i would have been a better choice,lol I think laurence wife is real pretty & that was her in I think I love my wife right?

      Yes that was her in “I Think I Love My Wife”….I LOVE that movie!

    26. posted by Martinique_fr

      Mon, September 21, 2009 1:17 PM

      Hey if they’re happy, good for them. Life’s too short, enjoy it with whomever makes you happy, even if it’s short lived.

    27. posted by Ok Kanye! aka Zane Mac

      Mon, September 21, 2009 1:18 PM

      Tahsa… how old do you think X is? And white women tend to age faster than black women so, she might look waaayyyy older than him but chances are she isnt. Anyway, instead of being mad, I just say congrats bc I dont want X anyway!!! :)

    28. posted by jagplatinum

      Mon, September 21, 2009 1:19 PM

      oVa: EVERY BLACK WOMAN….EVERY WOMAN OF COLOR SHOULD GIVE XZIBIT A BIG THE FUCK ASS “X” FOR THAT WACK PASTY CHICK! DUDE! YOU JUST EVERY IGNORANT STEREOTYPE MADE ABOUT BLACK MEN THAT GET SOME LOT AND GET A PINK TOE!THAT CONVO LOOKS BORING ASS HELL!!!SHE AINT EVEN GOT NO ASS!SUCKA!

      SAY IT! YOU SAID A MOUTHFUL AND I SO AGREE. WOW.

      TASHA, I FEEL YOU GIRL. I AM SHOCKED AND DISAPPOINTED. DAMN XZIBIT, I EXPECTED MORE FROM YOU THAN THIS! I AM GOING TO STEP OUT ON A LIMB AND SAY THAT SHE MUST BE LOADED. OTHERWISE, W-T-F? DAMN DUDE.

      AS FOR LAWRENCE & GINA; LOVES THEM! THEY ARE SO CUTE TOGETHER. SOME PEOPLE SAY WHAT THEY WILL ABOUT HIM BUT I LOVE HIS MANLINESS…LAWRENCE LOOKS LIKE HE WILL WHUPP SOMEBODY’S AZZ, DON’T HE?!! LOL

    29. posted by Shay

      Mon, September 21, 2009 1:21 PM

      ishouldbeworkinginstead (did hair go out of style and i missed the memo?): Any black people that date outside of their race, more power to them. But fyi, as Black women it is somewhat harder for us to deal with Black men dating white women based on historical reasons and the fact that we have always been so loyal to our Black men so to have them go out and start white women and marrying white women felt like a slap in the face. As time has gone on, many Black women have began to accept this and to realize that we too can step outside our race to find love… but for some of us its still a touchy issue.

      I wholeheartedly agree..It really disappoints me..Black women can’t catch any breaks..

    30. posted by Black girl Brooklyn

      Mon, September 21, 2009 1:21 PM

      SO wait older women can’t have a chocolate youngin? Stop it!
      cougar roar!

    31. posted by white chocolate

      Mon, September 21, 2009 1:22 PM

      ishouldbeworking-

      Thank You for a very logical explanation.
      You know I have to say I have a few latin and white guy friends that love black chicks,and only black chics, and I would never hate on them for, so in turn I would not expect someone to hate on anyone for who they prefer to date.
      Racism is not ok either way is pretty much my point.

    32. posted by ROYALFLUSHLADY

      Mon, September 21, 2009 1:24 PM

      Xzibit- GOD Willin’ – Yikes!!! lol

    33. posted by jagplatinum

      Mon, September 21, 2009 1:24 PM

      ishouldbeworkinginstead (did hair go out of style and i missed the memo?): Any black people that date outside of their race, more power to them. But fyi, as Black women it is somewhat harder for us to deal with Black men dating white women based on historical reasons and the fact that we have always been so loyal to our Black men so to have them go out and start white women and marrying white women felt like a slap in the face. As time has gone on, many Black women have began to accept this and to realize that we too can step outside our race to find love… but for some of us its still a touchy issue.

      BROTHA…IT’S ALWAYS GOING TO BE A TOUCHY ISSUE. YES, THE WORLD IS A LOT MORE ACCEPTING AND OPEN BUT NO MATTER WHAT, THE ISH STILL DOESN’T SEEM RIGHT. WE JUST GO WITH THE FLOW. I MEAN, I GUESS YOU CAN’T HELP WHO FLOATS YOUR BOAT..THERE’S GOT TO BE A REASON TO BEGIN WITH. I JUST SAY, IF YOU GO THAT ROUTE THEN MAKE IT SO ONE RACE OR THE OTHER SHOULD GO “DAMN, I SEE WHY”! LIKE HALLE & GABRIEL OR KIM & REGGIE, ETC… BUT XZIBIT JUST LOOK LIKE HE GRABBED A BONE (MAYBE LITERALLY)! FEEL ME.

    34. posted by ROYALFLUSHLADY

      Mon, September 21, 2009 1:25 PM

      Larry Fishburne is from Augusta, Ga.

    35. posted by kimpavita4

      Mon, September 21, 2009 1:25 PM

      white chocolate: I have ask this, do people hate on Kerry Washington for only dating white guys? Hey if your going to judge, you better judge consistantly

      yeah!! i’ve never understood that fact.When black men date outside the race,it’s like bloodbath.Sistas get out of control.they’re just turning into sharks which just smelt blood. But….when it comes to black women dating outside the race…………..silence follows.
      I need an explanation.

    36. posted by white chocolate

      Mon, September 21, 2009 1:25 PM

      well my daughter is white, black and hispanic so I guess she can date anybody LOL???

    37. posted by ROYALFLUSHLADY

      Mon, September 21, 2009 1:26 PM

      jagplatinum: BROTHA…IT’S ALWAYS GOING TO BE A TOUCHY ISSUE. YES, THE WORLD IS A LOT MORE ACCEPTING AND OPEN BUT NO MATTER WHAT, THE ISH STILL DOESN’T SEEM RIGHT. WE JUST GO WITH THE FLOW. I MEAN, I GUESS YOU CAN’T HELP WHO FLOATS YOUR BOAT..THERE’S GOT TO BE A REASON TO BEGIN WITH. I JUST SAY, IF YOU GO THAT ROUTE THEN MAKE IT SO ONE RACE OR THE OTHER SHOULD GO “DAMN, I SEE WHY”! LIKE HALLE & GABRIEL OR KIM & REGGIE, ETC… BUT XZIBIT JUST LOOK LIKE HE GRABBED A BONE (MAYBE LITERALLY)! FEEL ME.

      No, I don’t wanna Feel U, Who are You???

    38. posted by ROYALFLUSHLADY

      Mon, September 21, 2009 1:27 PM

      white chocolate: well my daughter is white, black and hispanic so I guess she can date anybody LOL???

      U are an IDIOT & that is NOT a Guess – OBSESSED…

    39. posted by Tamy

      Mon, September 21, 2009 1:28 PM

      white chocolate: Is it a problem for people that he is that is not black?Man, it is really sad that comments like that are ok on this site. I guess racism is ok when it is black people that are judging, right?Face it, black men like women, dark, light, whatever, why is it a bad think for a black man to date a white/hispanic woman?

      white chocolate, you’ll never understand.

    40. posted by jagplatinum

      Mon, September 21, 2009 1:28 PM

      jagplatinum: BROTHA…IT’S ALWAYS GOING TO BE A TOUCHY ISSUE. YES, THE WORLD IS A LOT MORE ACCEPTING AND OPEN BUT NO MATTER WHAT, THE ISH STILL DOESN’T SEEM RIGHT. WE JUST GO WITH THE FLOW. I MEAN, I GUESS YOU CAN’T HELP WHO FLOATS YOUR BOAT..THERE’S GOT TO BE A REASON TO BEGIN WITH. I JUST SAY, IF YOU GO THAT ROUTE THEN MAKE IT SO ONE RACE OR THE OTHER SHOULD GO “DAMN, I SEE WHY”! LIKE HALLE & GABRIEL OR KIM & REGGIE, ETC… BUT XZIBIT JUST LOOK LIKE HE GRABBED A BONE (MAYBE LITERALLY)! FEEL ME.

      MY BADD…I MEAN “SISTA”!!

    41. posted by Lyn

      Mon, September 21, 2009 1:32 PM

      Off da radar: Da females who make so much noise about black men dating other women from another race are dealing with personal self esteem issues and insecurities. Dis is 2009 and I can’t understand why dis discussion goes on, on a site like dis. Im not claiming this site are filled wit intellectuals, but dude get off your period. It is not dat serious and da last I checked, love is blind.

      you must be a black man who won’t date sistahs. LOL

    42. posted by Chica

      Mon, September 21, 2009 1:38 PM

      ishouldbeworkinginstead (did hair go out of style and i missed the memo?): Any black people that date outside of their race, more power to them. But fyi, as Black women it is somewhat harder for us to deal with Black men dating white women based on historical reasons and the fact that we have always been so loyal to our Black men so to have them go out and start dating white women and marrying white women felt like a slap in the face. As time has gone on, many Black women have began to accept this and to realize that we too can step outside our race to … but for some of us its still a touchy issue.

      As a black woman…I never found it hard to accept a black man dating outside of his race because I damn sure don’t care! Please, I will take a fine ass man who treats me like the queen I am ANY DAY over the black man who wants to do whatever he wants with no regards to my feelings…to hell with that. I don’t settle for any man’s bullshit…I don’t care what color his skin is.

      There are black, white, Asian, Hispanic women who will be a doormat for a man…that’s their issue…any man who wants a woman like they, I hope they keep them…on less piece of garbage I will run into…

    43. posted by Jaurdyn22 - Excuses me...'it's Mrs.'

      Mon, September 21, 2009 1:39 PM

      me, i do not care about interacial dating. never tried it and never will, as i am happily married to my hubby, but even so, i don’t shun the ppl that are in them. it is like walking down the street and seeing a handicapped person–u c them but b/c u don’t want to seem rude, u barely look their way–that is what i do when i see an interacial couple that aint my business–look the other way. notice it–hale yeah, worry about it–hale no!

      and this is not to compare handicap to interacial–that was my analogy for the day

    44. posted by Chica

      Mon, September 21, 2009 1:44 PM

      *wants a woman like that
      *one less piece of garbage….hate typos…my mind is workin too fast…

    45. posted by white chocolate

      Mon, September 21, 2009 1:47 PM

      royal flush-
      you are a racist f*ck and that is probably why you are so angry.

    46. posted by ishouldbeworkinginstead (did hair go out of style and i missed the memo?)

      Mon, September 21, 2009 1:52 PM

      Chica:
      As a black woman…I never found it hard to accept a black man dating outside of his race because I damn sure don’t care!Please, I will take a fine ass man who treats me like the queen I am ANY DAY over the black man who wants to do whatever he wants with no regards to my feelings…to hell with that.I don’t settle for any man’s bullshit…I don’t care what color his skin is.There are black, white, Asian, Hispanic women who will be a doormat for a man…that’s their issue…any man who wants a woman like they, I hope they keep them…on less piece of garbage I will run into…

      Lol, I agree… He could be blue… if he is treating you right then that’s what matters forreal.

    47. posted by rated_x_32

      Mon, September 21, 2009 2:06 PM

      I just knew Xzibit’s girl was white, lol. It really doesn’t bother me that brothers date outside of their race. What bothers me is that once they get a little money, black women aren’t good enough anymore. They need an “exotic” chick on their arm. A light skin woman with long hair ain’t even good enough no more.

    48. posted by chaka1

      Mon, September 21, 2009 2:09 PM

      My man is Dominican and ALL THAT!

    49. posted by Ok Kanye! aka Zane Mac

      Mon, September 21, 2009 2:14 PM

      chaka1: My man is Dominican and ALL THAT!

      x?

    50. posted by Jolie

      Mon, September 21, 2009 2:16 PM

      OMG! I have been looking for a green dress exactly like Gina Torres. Is that really Xzbit’s girl friend??? Maybe she’s his meal ticket.

    51. posted by Mocha

      Mon, September 21, 2009 2:18 PM

      I lost all respect for X. By looking at him I would never thought he would go that route. And I use to watch his shows like crazy. A black man can date a white girl all he wants but the real problem is when they start dis black women. Stop comparing black women and white women. Black women are totally different in which a black man should know about. They are so fast to say a black women is mean, their fat, lazy, care about getting their hair and nails, done or my favorite line is….. There is no descent looking black women out there. hello!! look at some of these white girls they be getting wit. Some have no butt, ugly, heavy set, etc. But yet they want to talk bad about a sista. I dont care how much money a white women has or able to get things faster. As a black man, they should learn how to stand on the own to feet. And stop copping out by getting with a white girls so they don’t have to struggle. There is some white girls that don’t play either. Some are mean and will call a black man out his name. I will never understand….

    52. posted by Tealeaf

      Mon, September 21, 2009 2:23 PM

      White, black, hispanic..whatever race..the woman is…She isn’t pretty

    53. posted by oVa

      Mon, September 21, 2009 2:40 PM

      white chocolate: Ova, could you sound like anymore of a jealous girl?What are we in 1908 here?TIME TO EVOLVE Everybody else has…..

      CHICK!!!! IM A DUDE! MY GAL AINT BLACK AND THAT NIGGAS PINK TOE IS UGLY DEN A BITCH!! YOU RIGHT!! IT IS NOT 1863 BUT IT ALSO AINT 1973 WHEN ALL RICH NIGGS HAD UGLY WHITE HOES. HE CAN DATE BIG BIRD FOR ALL I CARE AS LONG AS SHE LOOK LIKE SOMETHN!

      HOW BIG IS YOUR MUSTACHE????

    54. posted by Tar Baby aka Coal Black African formerly known as African Girl

      Mon, September 21, 2009 2:46 PM

      I love me some Laurance Fishburne. He and his wife Gina Torres look very nice together and seem to be still in love with each other.

      I’m questioning if that’s a woman with Xzibit. Yes, I’m going there. Man/woman looks like Jocelyn Wildenstein the woman who had all those plastic surgery and ended up looking like a cat. My advice to Xzibit is to keep that man/woman in the closet.

    55. posted by kimpavita4

      Mon, September 21, 2009 2:50 PM

      black men are whore, prostitute, the epitome of bitchassness!! they’ll protitute themselves to the women of other race for nothing. I dont date them. they’re wack. Point blank!

    56. posted by Jolie

      Mon, September 21, 2009 3:00 PM

      oVa: EVERY BLACK WOMAN….EVERY WOMAN OF COLOR SHOULD GIVE XZIBIT A BIG THE FUCK ASS “X” FOR THAT WACK PASTY CHICK!
      DUDE! YOU JUST FIT EVERY IGNORANT STEREOTYPE MADE ABOUT BLACK MEN THAT GET SOME LOT AND GET A PINK TOE!
      THAT CONVO LOOKS BORING ASS HELL!!!SHE AINT EVEN GOT NO ASS!
      SUCKA!

      Right on Point!

    57. posted by Brooklyn

      Mon, September 21, 2009 3:07 PM

      As black people, African-American, (whatever we want to call ourselves) why are we so critical about who someone is dating. If Xzibit who are we to judge.

    58. posted by REBEL X

      Mon, September 21, 2009 3:10 PM

      WELL ITS OBVIOUS WHY X IS WITH THIS WOMAN… I THINK YOU JUST POSTED THAT HE IS HALF A MILLION OWED IN BACK TAXES RIGHT?…. WELL, IT DOESN’T TAKE A ROCKET SCIENTIST TO FIGURE THIS ONE OUT… SHE “HELPED” SOLVE HIS TAX PROBLEM… :-)

    59. posted by Butterflygirl

      Mon, September 21, 2009 3:20 PM

      Tar Baby aka Coal Black African formerly known as African Girl: I love me some Laurance Fishburne. He and his wife Gina Torres look very nice together and seem to be still in love with each other.I’m questioning if that’s a woman with Xzibit. Yes, I’m going there. Man/woman looks like Jocelyn Wildenstein the woman who had all those plastic surgery and ended up looking like a cat. My advice to Xzibit is to keep that man/woman in the closet.

      I was thinking the same thing her face is really hard. Either why she has had some plastic surgery. Did he just have a baby from some chick and that baby didn’t make it?

    60. posted by REBEL X

      Mon, September 21, 2009 3:25 PM

      …. AND MY GIRL JUST TOLD ME, THE REASON WHY SHE WIT THE HISPANIC CHICK IS BECAUSE THEY TAKE IT UP THE BUTT.. LOL, IM NOT SAYIN…. I’M JUST SAYIN LOL

    61. posted by Mizz M

      Mon, September 21, 2009 3:35 PM

      Chica: As a black woman…I never found it hard to accept a black man dating outside of his race because I damn sure don’t care! Please, I will take a fine ass man who treats me like the queen I am ANY DAY over the black man who wants to do whatever he wants with no regards to my feelings…to hell with that. I don’t settle for any man’s bullshit…I don’t care what color his skin is.There are black, white, Asian, Hispanic women who will be a doormat for a man…that’s their issue…any man who wants a woman like they, I hope they keep them…on less piece of garbage I will run into…

      Well said….

    62. posted by Mizz M

      Mon, September 21, 2009 3:39 PM

      i just get tired of seein all these brothers w/ non black women. yeah love has no color yada yada but come on now there’s a reason u see SOO many brotha’s in real life and in hollywood with non black chicks and not the other way around its not that simple to say love has no color.

      i really dont give a damn bout X tho.

    63. posted by Empress Scorpio

      Mon, September 21, 2009 4:19 PM

      I sat and read through all of these comments and still have no clue as to why people are so upset. Are you seriously telling me that if you met someone who is just a good damn person but they weren’t black, then you wouldn’t give them a chance? That closed-minded thinking is exactly why we are contributing to the effing problem as far as racism is concerned. Perhaps people just dig each other, why the eff is it assumed that in order to date outside of your race, then you have to only be specifically seeking that out? And by the way, I have dated black, white, hispanic and once an asian man. My husband is white but he just happened to be the one that I clicked with the most.

    64. posted by DeVon

      Mon, September 21, 2009 4:47 PM

      I never knew Gina was married to him! They look happy!

    65. posted by TheTruth

      Mon, September 21, 2009 6:41 PM

      So what are you going to change Black Women, thats going to help get your men back?……

    66. posted by hellifiknow

      Mon, September 21, 2009 7:03 PM

      Yeah, a little disappointed in Xzibit…not that I had a chance…honestly is it that she’s white? I mean there ARE plenty of gorgeous white women to choose from. I think it’s more that some black men do complain about black women and their hygeine, habits, fitness etc., but then show up with a white woman who seems not to have to reach those lofty standards. But who really knows what brings people together? I could never, ever see myself with Larry Fishburne, but his wife seems to appreciate him. To each his own. You never know just what people see in each other.

    67. posted by msbliss

      Mon, September 21, 2009 7:07 PM

      First of all just because their of the ethnic group or skin color as Us doesn’t mean they Belong to us. Blk men are not a purchase, or a pet. They are a Man just like all other men & as long as their screw any woman regardless of race let’s not make them exclusive to us! People like variety & as long as u love that person its all good. As much as we blk folks LOVE to talk about equality a lot of us don’t feel that way about issues like this. Seal is with a beautiful white woman because he wants to be & cause she accepts Him 4 who He is. Don’t pull that gold digger crap cause she has jus as much dollars as him! They love 1another! Let’s be honest a lot of blks as me feel out of place in the blk community. I luv 2 write, read, & study Not many men around here R checkin 4 that because the hip pop culture is dominated & no1 wants to be them But like who they see on tv from bey 2 lil wayne. education is Not what were known for Be 4real & until We step out this twisted,hypocrisy box we put ourselves in stupid debates will continue like this until all of ignorant people of this planet have destroyed it & finally wiped out mankind. Read Ur History about the human condition & physic

    68. posted by wak

      Mon, September 21, 2009 7:09 PM

      I didn’t know Xzibit was divorced. Both men have been looked good in there prime. But they both look like two fat buffalo’s. When women get fat nobody want’s them. It’s a shame.lol

    69. posted by married and happy

      Mon, September 21, 2009 7:44 PM

      This is my first time posting on this blog but I have to say I dont agree with the statement below. This week I will be celebrating my 4 year wedding anniversary to a black man and I happy and satisfied. My hubby has a great job I get to stay home with my son and not worry about money and things like that and we are happy. So I am in no way bitter, have self esteem issues or insecurities when I say that I am just a little puzzled as to why every time I see a pic posted on this site or other similar sites of a black male “celebrity” more often then not the women they are with are not black and if the women is black its like “I have indian in my family” black. It seems almost like a trend and I find it sad that when you look at non-black male celebrities the same does not hold true(Ok I will give you Sean Penn Jessica White). I actually dont have a problem with interracial relationship my family itself is a melting pot (my sister in law is hispanic, my husbands best friend wife is white, my brother in law is white/hispanic) and we do things as a family and I dont treat the non black members of our extended family any different when they are around honestly I dont even really notice it just odd to me that it just happens that most black male celebrities always seem to go outside their race and I just dont see the same trend with other races and I wonder why that is.

      Off da radar: Da females who make so much noise about black men dating other women from another race are dealing with personal self esteem issues and insecurities. Dis is 2009 and I can’t understand why dis discussion goes on, on a site like dis. Im not claiming this site are filled wit intellectuals, but dude get off your period. It is not dat serious and da last I checked, love is blind.

    70. posted by msbliss

      Mon, September 21, 2009 8:06 PM

      Offdaadar… u are rite its something inside of u that feels less than if u see a “problem” with it & other blk females don’t. I’m blk, my dad is blk,he married a white woman & it don’t bother me. Me auntie lost her bf after several yrs 2gether 2 cancer who she loved very much-he was white! Some blks are just as guilty of racism & bigotry as the whites they protest against. And cause we went though slavery makes no difference. its only a excuse now & we need to realize it doesn’t justify us to practice hatred/racism because of that. 2 wrongs don’t make a right. And as long as we both retaliate,when will tru peace start?

    71. posted by TheTruth

      Mon, September 21, 2009 8:07 PM

      Damn!Black women!.. When are some of you gonna wake up and realize that this is not a trend…this shit ain’t new. We are attracted to different types of women. They are attracted to us, so why wouldn’t we be attracted to them? We are a creative people, so naturally we’re gonna do somethin different. Love is truly blind. It is, what it is! We still love you, and we’ll always love you (the confident women), but feelin sympathetic for woman because she ain’t got the confidence to hang…those days are over. The strong, confident, intelligent, beautiful Black woman, isn’t worried bout no other woman…Period!

    72. posted by married and happy

      Mon, September 21, 2009 8:23 PM

      Love is blind and I have seen that with my own eyes and I fully want everyone to be happy with whoever they choose to be with. It is is not a question of racism or insecurities it is merely an observation and I think its sad that if a black women points this out she is all of a sudden she is not a “strong, confident, intelligent, beautiful Black woman” LOL. My question still is why do you see that more with black males and then any other race. Sorry Thetruth I dont see what being creative have to do with anything, so its also being creative when you see videos and the women all look more jennifer lopezish then anything else?

    73. posted by msbliss

      Mon, September 21, 2009 8:31 PM

      TheTruth…that is the truth! I am a strong,intelligent,attractive blk female & I don’t conpete with Any Woman therefore that’s why it doesn’t bother me 2 see blk men with other ethnic women. I agree some blk men are with them because they think their more attractive & have better features,some what fairer skin kids,some think their more trustworthy I know its not tru But u can’t change peoples stuipid views & that’s their option. On the other hand blk men think some blk women R wit white men or latino men 4 the same reasons! Love urself & connect with some1 who luvs u Whatever Race they are.its just skin damn!

    74. posted by TheTruth

      Mon, September 21, 2009 8:37 PM

      married and happy: Love is blind and I have seen that with my own eyes and I fully want everyone to be happy with whoever they choose to be with. It is is not a question of racism or insecurities it is merely an observation and I think its sad that if a black women points this out she is all of a sudden she is not a “strong, confident, intelligent, beautiful Black woman” LOL. My question still is why do you see that more with black males and then any other race. Sorry Thetruth I dont see what being creative have to do with anything, so its also being creative when you see videos and the women all look more jennifer lopezish then anything else?

      We are simply attracted to various types of women and that includes our very own Black women. Why is that so hard to understand or believe, or better yet…why is that so wrong in certain Black women’s eyes? I’m also saying that a less confident woman (any race) is less attractive to a confident man. So when we hear a woman hating on another, please believe, we’re not impressed. We wish that more Black women would not even be concerned with other groups (races) of women. All women (races)can bring something different to the table…and thats a good thing. So can all different types of men for that matter..

    75. posted by TheTruth

      Mon, September 21, 2009 8:44 PM

      msbliss: TheTruth…that is the truth! I am a strong,intelligent,attractive blk female & I don’t conpete with Any Woman therefore that’s why it doesn’t bother me 2 see blk men with other ethnic women. I agree some blk men are with them because they think their more attractive & have better features,some what fairer skin kids,some think their more trustworthy I know its not tru But u can’t change peoples stuipid views & that’s their option. On the other hand blk men think some blk women R wit white men or latino men 4 the same reasons! Love urself & connect with some1 who luvs u Whatever Race they are.its just skin damn!

      WORD the Fuk UP! Thank you…my Strong, Beautiful, Black woman…

      msbliss:
      Quo

      Word the Fuk Up!!!!!

    76. posted by TheTruth

      Mon, September 21, 2009 8:54 PM

      That confidence game is whats up. You don’t wake up one day and just say: “I’ve got confidence” and walk around with your chest out. It takes time, work, discipline, education, repetition, understanding and learning others and on and on and on..Some people need to put their work in…for real!

    77. posted by married and happy

      Mon, September 21, 2009 9:38 PM

      I think I will just leave you two to big each other up LOL

    78. posted by doodoo

      Mon, September 21, 2009 9:44 PM

      GUESS EVERYBODY GON BE MAD AGAIN. GINA TORRES IS CUBAN

    79. posted by WHAAAT!!!

      Mon, September 21, 2009 10:02 PM

      xzibits girl looks like Octomum. How did laurence fishburne bag himself such a stunna??

    80. posted by yum329

      Mon, September 21, 2009 10:43 PM

      =ditto! for all those peeps especially blacks that dont see a problem with the sooo many black men dating white/or other groups of women besides ours have been brainwashed and program to believe the BS. Itz called the Stockholm Syndrome. We live in a white manz world and everyday we see the good in them. When do you get to see your images and the good in you? Never and rarely and if you do…itz negative/stereotypical. So I agree with you wholeheartedly!

      oVa: EVERY BLACK WOMAN….EVERY WOMAN OF COLOR SHOULD GIVE XZIBIT A BIG THE FUCK ASS “X” FOR THAT WACK PASTY CHICK!
      DUDE! YOU JUST FIT EVERY IGNORANT STEREOTYPE MADE ABOUT BLACK MEN THAT GET SOME LOT AND GET A PINK TOE!
      THAT CONVO LOOKS BORING ASS HELL!!!SHE AINT EVEN GOT NO ASS!
      SUCKA!

      case and point… and i agree wholeheartedly! 5 high fives! He dont even like himself. Hez a sell out like the other folks. Bustas!

      white chocolate: Is it a problem for people that he is that is not black?
      Man, it is really sad that comments like that are ok on this site. I guess racism is ok when it is black people that are judging, right?Face it, black men like women, dark, light, whatever, why is it a bad think for a black man to date a white/hispanic woman?

    81. posted by msbliss

      Mon, September 21, 2009 11:13 PM

      TooToo…Cuban is a mix of african, european, & native american. That speaks for just about all latinos. If u heard the term “black latino” it refers 2 latinos who have more african in their blood than NA or european. Depending on the south or central american country or Caribbean island u see a lot of people made up of this or in some areas its more euro/indian or indian/african. Your Nationality might be Cuban but you are a mixed race person of black,indian,&european. Same as me if I am a American But I’m mixed with all of this I’m not cuban rite?,I’m still an American. So 2 say she isn’t black But cuban is incorrect. Obama is Not black he is biracial. came out a white coochie 2 a black man. he is both. We’re all mixed in one way or another that’s why the whole race debate is so stupid

    82. posted by sista2sista

      Tue, September 22, 2009 9:51 AM

      not commenting on race but age. maybe laurence and x should switch mates…

    83. posted by Brenda

      Tue, September 22, 2009 6:14 PM

      I love Laurence Fishburne and he has a beautiful wife. Lovely couple.

    84. posted by anthropology major

      Tue, September 22, 2009 10:04 PM

      how hypocritical are you people? “i hate that woman x is with that isnt “African American” {black person descending of american slaves} but keep jocking gina TORRES..shes a cubana like me and if you cannot tell she is a mulata{mixed with spanish and african} yall hatin on niggas getting with females that arent black{not just black, but the girl better not looked mixed}…gtfoh x wouldnt date none of yall because youre hateful..

    85. posted by binky

      Wed, September 23, 2009 12:43 AM

      I think some of these comments are missing the mark competely and I have read every comment and one person has hit it on the head. I don’t think it is the fact that BLACK WOMEN HAVE A PROBLEM WITH INTERACIAL DATING in general but some of the REASONS THAT GOES WITH WHY BLACK MEN CHOOSE TO DATE INTERACIALLY! Yes, love is love and at the end of the day you like who you like. I’ am a black woman and I clicking well with a Native American guy now but I also click with white, black, hispanic, asians guys as well as many other black women but some of the excuses that SOME black men use when they say they date interacially kills me sometimes. Some black guys who date interacially act like black women are on the bottom of the chart when it comes to women as a whole and it is sad and they should be called out on it! The excuse you hear now in hollywood is “black women wouldn’t have check for this black guy if he wasn’t rich, with someone else of a different race, etc, etc” I mean wtf how do you know? again there is nothing wrong with interracial dating/relationships but some comments and the insults to why some of these guys chose to date outside of their race needs to stop. Most of the time black guys have reasons of why they date outside of their race, like WHY do you need a reason to begin with just do it, come on call a spade a spade.

    86. posted by doodoo

      Wed, September 23, 2009 9:20 PM

      AND SO WHAT. ME AND MY FAMILY FROM MISSISSIPPI.

    87. posted by DOO RIGHT

      Sun, November 1, 2009 10:45 PM

      I MEAN I’M JUST SAYING I DON’T UNDERSTAND HOW Y’ALL CAN BE CONSIDERED BLACK Y’ALL MF’S SPEAK SPANISH. SO WHATEVER THE FUCK!!!

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