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  • YBF Celebs “Keep A Child Alive” With Alicia Keys

    Written by Natasha - Last updated: Friday, October 16, 2009

    Last  night, YBF celebs hit up the Hammerstein Ballroom in NYC to celebrate Alicia Keys‘ Keep A Child Alive Benefit Black Ball.  Halle Berry looked gorgeous as usual and snapped some pics with the woman behind the event Alicia.  This event benefits children and families with HIV/AIDS in Africa & India.

    Y’all know Alicia’s boo Swizzy was there.  He snapped a pic with Gayle King.

    Robin Thicke and his fab wife Paula hit the black carpet.

    Iman looked stun-tastic in this shimmery tulle embellished cocktail dress.

    And Halle, rocking a cut out and backless Kaufman Franco dress, brought her man Gabe along.

    Lots more fabulousness when you read the rest…



    This is just really ridiculous Halle.  No reason you should look this hot at 40+ on somebody’s black carpet.  Ugh…..

    Loved Iman’s look as well.

    Kerry Washington rocked a long black gown with white origami embellishments.  I actually love the detail, but the fishtail hem is throwing me off.

    Robin looked dapper in his grey shimmery suit.

    Paula got boldly colorful and pulled it off nicely.

    Usher made an appearance.  Solo of course.

    Mary and Kendu love them some leather and exotic textiles…

    Tyson looked dapper.

    Gayle King also hit the carpet in a champagne colored embroidered cocktail dress.  Nice necklace.  Didn’t beed the bracelets or the wide belt with it though.

    I feel like somebody needs to tap Roland Martin on his shoulder and just ask “Why?”  I mean, I guess a full out white dashiki could play into what the evening was about.  But um….yeah.

    Estelle rocked a black long sleeved dress that honestly could have doubled as a female officer’s uniform.

    And Spike and his wife Tonya hit the carpet.

    Inside the Gala, Nick Cannon kicked it with Tyler Perry.

    While Halle chatted it up with Iman and Kerry.

    Lawyer Londell McMillian was there.

    Queen Latifah gave a speech.

    Tyler also kicked it with Halle, L.A. and Erica Reid.

    And Alicia performed for her guests.  She brought Chris Martin of ColdPlay on stage and John Mayer also performed.

    Photogs: Mazur/Wargo
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    137 Comments »

    1. posted by BrendaFierce Vote bey at AMA's

      Fri, October 16, 2009 8:58 AM

      first! Hallie,A.keys and Gayle look beautiful! lol at the last pic

    2. posted by Black Vesper

      Fri, October 16, 2009 9:00 AM

      Everyone looks nice and for a great cause! However, I can’t help but notice Swizz sticks out like a sore thumb. Cest la vie! It is what it is!

    3. posted by Yardy

      Fri, October 16, 2009 9:00 AM

      A lot of fabulosity, mixed in with some meh!! :)

    4. posted by Lanubian

      Fri, October 16, 2009 9:01 AM

      Love it all!!! Gabe and Halle are such a gorgeous couple, I hate them!!!

    5. posted by Daryl

      Fri, October 16, 2009 9:02 AM

      Have never posted on this site before. It’s always good to see our people represented nicely. Well dressed etc. Iman and Halle are ageless.

    6. posted by Miz Pride & Joy

      Fri, October 16, 2009 9:02 AM

      DAMN YOU IMAN!!!!!!!!!!! Freaking Gorgeous!!!!! STUNNING!

    7. posted by Reality Please

      Fri, October 16, 2009 9:03 AM

      Great event but every and anything Alicia does at this point is tainted to me.. while reading this I find myself trying to focus on the event and not the person but that is hard… I just don’t trust her…

    8. posted by diva

      Fri, October 16, 2009 9:04 AM

      lots of fabulousness….on another note alicia has perfected her sincere smile….too bad we all now know it’s fake. lol

    9. posted by Princess Pink

      Fri, October 16, 2009 9:04 AM

      I had no idea that A.Keys had that much clout in the industry that she got all the A list from each medium to attend. Go head

      and don’t insult Roland Martin, that is an intellgent right there that always match wits (but who couldnt?) with the Noise Machine aka Republican Party!!!

    10. posted by Reality Please

      Fri, October 16, 2009 9:05 AM

      Miz Pride & Joy: DAMN YOU IMAN!!!!!!!!!!! Freaking Gorgeous!!!!! STUNNING!

      Yeah.. damn you IMAN and YOU TOO HALLE.. URGH you GORGEOUS BEAUTIFUL oooh women…

      All jokes aside.. wow.. how stunning to see such amazing black beauty… I love to see a beautiful black woman carry herself as such.. Teach those hollywood chicken heads how to be a real hollywood, classy woman..

    11. posted by MsDonnaGirl

      Fri, October 16, 2009 9:05 AM

      I really love that Alicia is pushing past the obvious and continuing to work on her more positive efforts. Keep A Child Alive is a great organization, from what I hear. Now cue the, “But what about the Keep A Home Together Foundation?” Teeheeheehee!

    12. posted by Princess Pink

      Fri, October 16, 2009 9:06 AM

      btw, my girl crush Keri Washington is shutting it down!!

    13. posted by Jessiebell

      Fri, October 16, 2009 9:07 AM

      LMAO@ Alicia and Swizz not takin a pic together.

      Halle,Paula Patton,Kerry and Iman look FAB.

      Gayla’s gaudy necklace and big ass belt is hurtin my soul.

      The guy in the african wear looks like my uncle at a fam event…just why?

      Latifah!!

      Fun Times.

    14. posted by Reality Please

      Fri, October 16, 2009 9:08 AM

      MsDonnaGirl: I really love that Alicia is pushing past the obvious and continuing to work on her more positive efforts. Keep A Child Alive is a great organization, from what I hear. Now cue the, “But what about the Keep A Home Together Foundation?” Teeheeheehee!

      Is it really that she’s simply just pushing pass the obvious or using her charitable foundations and things that she does to build up some good PR and distract everyone from the fact that she is sleeping and living with someone’s husband…

      I know she does these events regardless and she has been a sparehead advocate for Keep a Child Alive.. and I think that’s amazing.. all of her charitable attempts are all excellent but now I think she’s using them to distract people from the obvious…

    15. posted by Lite1

      Fri, October 16, 2009 9:08 AM

      I think that Alicia and Halle look similar. Like they have similar features. Everyone looked gorgeous expect for a few, like Erica Reed, that shirt just does something weird to her appearance. I don’t like it. I think that was alot of leather, but I still love Mary.

    16. posted by J

      Fri, October 16, 2009 9:08 AM

      DANGGGGGG EVERYONE LOOKS NICE!!!!!
      ESPECIALLY HALLE AND IMAN!

      AND OF COURSE I LOVEEEEE ALICIA KEYS! GO ON GIRL

      WISH I COULDVE WENT :(

    17. posted by J

      Fri, October 16, 2009 9:10 AM

      OMGGGGG I FORGOT PAULA!!!
      THAT WOMAN IS STUNNING!!!!!

    18. posted by Reality Please

      Fri, October 16, 2009 9:11 AM

      Gayle dear less is more.. the gaudy necklace, the belt, and the teach.. scale them back.. dang

    19. posted by imooanh

      Fri, October 16, 2009 9:12 AM

      Still a homewrecker… I don’t like to see anyone have bad luck but justice delayed is never denied… Alicia and Swizz gonna pay in some form or another

    20. posted by Reality Please

      Fri, October 16, 2009 9:12 AM

      that’s what I get for typing so dang fast.. I meant teeth…

      Reality Please: Gayle dear less is more.. the gaudy necklace, the belt, and the teach.. scale them back.. dang

    21. posted by Whoa! Libra TIME!!! Ok Mario I'm loving "Thinking of you". I may just buy your album. But can we get ONE sistah in the next video please?

      Fri, October 16, 2009 9:13 AM

      Everyone looks GREAT except Halle. She looks AMAZING!!

      Leave my homie alone and his dashiki. At least it didn’t have an Obama face on it.

      I wish PETA was there to flour and toss paint at Mary. She has no shame. And she looks a mess with all that shit on.

    22. posted by Lite1

      Fri, October 16, 2009 9:13 AM

      I don’t condone what Alicia is doing, but why everybody saying its her fault. It takes 2 to tango. Swizz clearly sleeping with her too. In my opinion he is more at fault because he took an oath to marry that woman not Alicia, If Swizz thought it was alright then I can see why Alicia thought so. I feel like he was probably giving mixed signals. HE obviously don’t care or give a damn about his wife so why we hating on Alicia Keys, its more his fault than hers

    23. posted by Yas

      Fri, October 16, 2009 9:14 AM

      Great cause, people sho’nuff bought the fab with them. Nice.

    24. posted by Memar

      Fri, October 16, 2009 9:14 AM

      I think Roland looks fine

    25. posted by Reality Please

      Fri, October 16, 2009 9:15 AM

      imooanh: Still a homewrecker… I don’t like to see anyone have bad luck but justice delayed is never denied… Alicia and Swizz gonna pay in some form or another

      that is true… we all have to deal with our demons at some point.. but shoot.. I guess if Angelina and Brad can be cheating whores and ppl are loving them now just b/c they are media savvy I guess Alicia and Swizz corny looking asses can work it out too…

      They’ll do the charity events… Guest appearances… etc. and as long as they keep their mouths shut the public is always willing to forgive; especially with a hot song..

      SAD but so true..

    26. posted by Whoa! Libra TIME!!! Ok Mario I'm loving "Thinking of you". I may just buy your album. But can we get ONE sistah in the next video please?

      Fri, October 16, 2009 9:16 AM

      Alicia looks GREAT!

    27. posted by k504

      Fri, October 16, 2009 9:18 AM

      Halle and Iman looked soooo good! One question…what’s your secret ladies? Always smiling and thang…Is the secret a WHITE MAN? Let ME know so I can try SOMETHING NEW! LOL!

    28. posted by Reality Please

      Fri, October 16, 2009 9:19 AM

      Lite1: I don’t condone what Alicia is doing, but why everybody saying its her fault. It takes 2 to tango. Swizz clearly sleeping with her too. In my opinion he is more at fault because he took an oath to marry that woman not Alicia, If Swizz thought it was alright then I can see why Alicia thought so. I feel like he was probably giving mixed signals. HE obviously don’t care or give a damn about his wife so why we hating on Alicia Keys, its more his fault than hers

      I can’t speak for anyone else posting comments but I know for me I am not just blaming Alicia..

      I blame them both but I think with Alicia as a fan I expected more of her… I wasn’t really a fan of Swizz.. but being a man in the business I expected this of him… sad but true…

      But Alicia… she preached women empowerment… and her entire media persona was built off of her being the woman’s woman.. the good girl.. the empowered one.. and then to find out she’s doing this to another woman.. willingly and knowingly.. that’s upsetting.. and since I don’t buy Swizz’s music any how but I’ve spent my money on Alicia I feel like I have a right to voice my opinion of the fact that I think she is dead ass wrong for allowing this to go down… she should have more sense and it’s dissapointing..

    29. posted by NikNak

      Fri, October 16, 2009 9:20 AM

      I’m waiting to see Halle Berry in a Tyler Perry movie, lol. Alicia Keys wouldn’t be a stretch, but Halle? Then I’d know Tyler Perry has made it, lol.

    30. posted by Reality Please

      Fri, October 16, 2009 9:21 AM

      Oh and I agree that Swizz is more at fault.. b/c marriage is serious and if you are not prepared to be committed to someone then you shouldn’t take those vows.. but the double standard is out there that “men cheat” and while I don’t believe that of EVERY man.. it’s the personna that is in the air.. and we all know it… see it.. and most live it.. and in that industry it’s the bible… it’s expected… but Alicia blew my mind..

    31. posted by MsDonnaGirl

      Fri, October 16, 2009 9:23 AM

      Reality Please: Is it really that she’s simply just pushing pass the obvious or using her charitable foundations and things that she does to build up some good PR and distract everyone from the fact that she is and living with someone’s … I know she does these events regardless and she has been a sparehead advocate for Keep a Child Alive.. and I think that’s amazing.. all of her charitable attempts are all excellent but now I think she’s using them to distract people from the obvious…

      All good points…and I respect that this is a gossip site so like I was saying, comments on her personal life in the midst of a feature about her human rights work is inevitable. Although I’d like to think that at some point the positive that she’s doing for the world through her music and her work might just obscure the negative that/s in her personal life. After all, Tucan Sam won’t be the first ungrateful bastard to leave his wife and child “for” another woman. No news there. If she really is part of that problem, then the road to hell is wide and she seems to be happily walking the path for herself. I am glad that at least her peers who have a means and an interest to support her worthy cause aren’t holding her personal decisions against her.

    32. posted by Reality Please

      Fri, October 16, 2009 9:23 AM

      NikNak: I’m waiting to see Halle Berry in a Tyler Perry movie, lol. Alicia Keys wouldn’t be a stretch, but Halle? Then I’d know Tyler Perry has made it, lol.

      TRUUUEE

    33. posted by Jazae Celanj

      Fri, October 16, 2009 9:24 AM

      Def feel the tension with the “Swizlicia” thing. Love is love, but all-in-all, she should respect his family and wait until their divorce is final (Pray that’s the shape of her dress and not a bump in her stomach). Gail looks gorgeous, and I differ with you on her accessories Tash, she looks beau all-around. Keri Washington’s dress, in full, is beau, you triping about that mermaid bottom; I think it adds major points to its design. Cute. I notice how anytime women are drawn towards Halle, they feel the need to embrace her. It’s got to be crazy to be that (NATURALLY) beau. Damnit lady, you are gorgeous (No Homo).

      JC

    34. posted by Princess Pink

      Fri, October 16, 2009 9:26 AM

      I love that photo of Iman, Padma, and A.Keys – women of color…true definition of beauty

    35. posted by P.O.V.

      Fri, October 16, 2009 9:27 AM

      This is wonderful!! I am going to look into donating to this cause!!

    36. posted by Princess Pink

      Fri, October 16, 2009 9:28 AM

      MsDonnaGirl: All good points…and I respect that this is a gossip site so like I was saying, comments on her personal life in the midst of a feature about her human rights work is inevitable. Although I’d like to think that at some point the positive that she’s doing for the world through her music and her work might just obscure the negative that/s in her personal life. After all, Tucan Sam won’t be the first ungrateful bastard to leave his wife and child “for” another woman. No news there. If she really is part of that problem, then the road to hell is wide and she seems to be happily walking the path for herself. I am glad that at least her peers who have a means and an interest to support her worthy cause aren’t holding her personal decisions against her.

      well freaking said!!!!

      do we have to clog this post with AK and Tuscon Sam’s (lol) love life? please!!!

    37. posted by mz.cee ♥

      Fri, October 16, 2009 9:31 AM

      Halle looks HAWT, love the dress – Love Paula Patton’s style here and Mary J. needs a new haircut stat!

    38. posted by chocolate diva-its libra season in this bish

      Fri, October 16, 2009 9:32 AM

      this is just a damn shame that Halle looks better and younger than all the women she took pics with, Halle you are just too FAB for words… that dress is HOT!!!

      Iman you’re another one, do you age? ever?

      I love Roland Martin so I wont comment on the dashiki

      Usher and Tyson look yummy

      Gayle stay getting her red carpet invites

      Paula, Queen, and Kerry look Fab

      Not sure abt Mary and Estelle’s getup’s

      Fab post tash

    39. posted by RealOnAndOffLine

      Fri, October 16, 2009 9:36 AM

      MsDonnaGirl:
      All good points…and I respect that this is a gossip site so like I was saying,comments on her personal life in the midst of a feature about her human rights work is inevitable. Although I’d like to think that at some point the positive that she’s doing for the world through her music and her work might just obscure the negative that/s in her personal life.After all, Tucan Sam won’t be the first ungrateful bastard to leave his wife and child “for” another woman.No news there.If she really is part of that problem, then the road to hell is wide and she seems to be happily walking the path for herself. I am glad that at least her peers who have a means and an interest to support her worthy cause aren’t holding her personal decisions against her.

      I could not have stated it any better…..

    40. posted by camille

      Fri, October 16, 2009 9:36 AM

      so swizz beats is being raped by alicia keys is that whats happening ? i think not you have heard his wife ex wife whatever side but have we heard alicia or swizz beats side no we have not. he said they got together after he was seperated why not belive that. i think alicia is doing what she should living her life and not catering to the opinion of others because at the end of the day her music will still be bought and she will still be rich if roman polanski can rape a 13 year old girl and go on to win oscar after oscar well i am sure i have made my point life is too short miss keyes do you thing. judge he less he be judged ….

    41. posted by makeup

      Fri, October 16, 2009 9:37 AM

      Karma is coming for you A. Keys, i’m just saying. Swizz was always a dog.

    42. posted by pretty paige

      Fri, October 16, 2009 9:37 AM

      Finally, a post where everyone looks fabulous.
      (It is a charity event so I will give Roland Martin a free-pass).

    43. posted by Jazae Celanj

      Fri, October 16, 2009 9:38 AM

      I’m so mad with Erica Reid. Those Finger-Waves, and that top. Thank “Him” the picture’s too black, I can’t see the bottom of her attire because I have a feeling she “Went There”. Please, let’s never go there again Mrs. Reid, please?!

      JC

    44. posted by Foley..I love shoes..sigh lol

      Fri, October 16, 2009 9:41 AM

      Ummm Tasha, maybe Roland Martin is wearing the traditional African wear because the event was sponsored by Arise which is a very popular Nigerian magazine so he could possibly be paying homage to that, or the fact that most of the kids that Alicia helps are in Africa..just thinking aloud..Nice job Roland for being proud of what you are and doing you..don’t have to conform all the time :-)

      Everyone looks nice and even stunning, except Gayle’s dry thirsty ass, lol

    45. posted by iolastar

      Fri, October 16, 2009 9:41 AM

      Halle and Iman…wow…beautiful! Just beautiful. They are over 40, OMG just stunning.

      Now this is A list black hollywood. These are the stars that make it in all types of magazines.This is an event many reality “stars” would love to be at.

    46. posted by BrendaFierce Vote bey at AMA's

      Fri, October 16, 2009 9:43 AM

      Why even bring up Swiss A.keys allegations! 2 quote jigga “nigga we off that” “Ma cry me a river build a bridge and get over it” A.Keys is doing something positive and your trying 2 bring her down!

    47. posted by all woman

      Fri, October 16, 2009 9:43 AM

      Everyone looks amazing…BUT, I have a question? Does A Keys have a wandering eye? I’ve noticed in recent pics that one eye is looking one way and the other is kind of looking another…

      Just want to know if anyone else noticed it as well…

    48. posted by Lite1

      Fri, October 16, 2009 9:46 AM

      I thought the same thing, that damn top was hurting my eyes

      Jazae Celanj: I’m so mad with Erica Reid. Those Finger-Waves, and that top. Thank “Him” the picture’s too black, I can’t see the bottom of her attire because I have a feeling she “Went There”. Please, let’s never go there again Mrs. Reid, please?!JC

    49. posted by Candace

      Fri, October 16, 2009 9:48 AM

      Ok, ummm… Keep a child Alive (great cause) has a benefit gala sponsored in part by Hennessey Black??? Anyone else think that’s a bit odd… I mean out of all blackstar power in that room, and all of the possible sponsors, Hen-rock, really?

    50. posted by Erica (original)

      Fri, October 16, 2009 9:51 AM

      Reality Please: Is it really that she’s simply just pushing pass the obvious or using her charitable foundations and things that she does to build up some good PR and distract everyone from the fact that she is and living with someone’s husband… I know she does these events regardless and she has been a sparehead advocate for Keep a Child Alive.. and I think that’s amazing.. all of her charitable attempts are all excellent but now I think she’s using them to distract people from the obvious…

      If you know she’s been doing all these things how can you say she is doing it now because of rumors? Why should she stop because people like yourself insist on judging her based of what another is saying? No, she is keeping it moving like she is suppose to do. Nobody has heard anything from Alicia or Swiss yet they are so quick to say negative things about them.
      Halle is simply flawless.

    51. posted by Jazae Celanj

      Fri, October 16, 2009 10:00 AM

      You know you got you a good post when you have to keep going back to it, lol. “He” knows I love me some Skike Lee. I embrace the “differenceness” (If I may create such a word, lol) in him. And his wife will just be his wife. I can’t hate her, but I bet I could jazz that dress up real nice if it were mine. Very influential man, love me some Spike!

      JC

    52. posted by MERCY

      Fri, October 16, 2009 10:02 AM

      I love Mary, but I’m gonna need her to re-evaluate her style; maybe switch stylist or something. She can do much better.
      Halle, Iman, Paula, and Kerry look beautiful.

    53. posted by MS.LABEJA

      Fri, October 16, 2009 10:04 AM

      DAMN…HALLE BERRY IS SHITTING ALL OVER ALICIA HOMEWRECKA EFFORTLESS WITHOUT TRYING AND SHE’S TWICE ALICIA’S AGE. LOL @ ALICIA AND SWIZZ OBVIOUSLY NOT TAKING PICS TOGETHER.SURE HER CHARITABLE EFFORT IS ADMIRABLE BUT IT’S OBVIOUSLY SERVING AS A DISTRACTION TO HER SCANDAL.

    54. posted by Amsterdammed

      Fri, October 16, 2009 10:05 AM

      Dammm Halle & Iman, no words. All I know I need to look like that when I am their age..

      Mary’s jacket OH MY GOD, hot!!

      Everybody else looks good

    55. posted by ROYALFLUSHLADY

      Fri, October 16, 2009 10:07 AM

      Reality Please: Great event but every and anything Alicia does at this point is tainted to me.. while reading this I find myself trying to focus on the event and not the person but that is hard… I just don’t trust her…

      Yikes!

    56. posted by adindc

      Fri, October 16, 2009 10:10 AM

      Dashiki is a a shit and it is by definition colorful

    57. posted by ROYALFLUSHLADY

      Fri, October 16, 2009 10:10 AM

      diva: lots of fabulousness….on another note alicia has perfected her sincere smile….too bad we all now know it’s fake. lol

      Yikes!

    58. posted by ROYALFLUSHLADY

      Fri, October 16, 2009 10:11 AM

      MS.LABEJA: DAMN…HALLE BERRY IS SHITTING ALL OVER ALICIA HOMEWRECKA EFFORTLESS WITHOUT TRYING AND SHE’S TWICE ALICIA’S AGE. LOL @ ALICIA AND SWIZZ OBVIOUSLY NOT TAKING PICS TOGETHER.SURE HER CHARITABLE EFFORT IS ADMIRABLE BUT IT’S OBVIOUSLY SERVING AS A DISTRACTION TO HER SCANDAL.

      Yikes!

    59. posted by Asea

      Fri, October 16, 2009 10:12 AM

      My thoughts: Women choose to ignore things sometimes. They don’t want to see what is right there in front of them. Every woman I know has been in a relationship with a man and KNEW daggone well he was not giving 100%, not even 50% maybe. Yet we only wanted to see what we wanted to see. When he cheated or left we were sooooooooooo shocked…. but not really. DENIAL will get you in trouble.

      YES, marriage is holy & sacred, YES it is a commitment, YES you should not be hanging around a women you are immensely attracted to when you are married. Don’t even put yourself in a position to be tempted….

      BUT – I know a couple men who have had indiscretions in their marriages…. BUT they will not leave their wives. Halle Berry herself could come in and try to swoop em. Hey they might spend a night with her, lol, but then go back home to the woman they love. And it’s not about alimony or child support, they REALLY need their wives.

      If your man leaves you, think of it as a blessing. HE DOESNT WANT TO BE WITH YOU. HE WOULD CHOOSE ANOTHER OVER YOU. HE DOESNT LOVE YOU!!!! Thank God he made it clear!

      What is the use in going over it 1,000 times and talking about it 1,000 times and having debates about what should have been done and what should have been sacred??

      Whether Karma will slap Alicia and Swizz… who knows? But love is stronger than pride, stronger than fear, stronger than anger, stronger that revenge! Their love will last if it’s REAL.

    60. posted by Lovely One

      Fri, October 16, 2009 10:14 AM

      Halle looks so awesome. I’m jealous :-)

    61. posted by Hollywood

      Fri, October 16, 2009 10:14 AM

      Reality Please: Great event but every and anything Alicia does at this point is tainted to me.. while reading
      this I find myself trying to focus on the event and not the person but that is hard… I just don’t trust her…

      Erica (original):
      If you know she’s been doing all these things how can you say she is doing it now because of rumors? Why should she stop because people like yourself insist on judging her based of what another is saying? No, she is keeping it moving like she is suppose to do. Nobody has heard anything from Alicia or Swiss yet they are so quick to say negative things about them.
      Halle is simply flawless.

      What do you mean you don’t trust her? YOU DON’T KNOW HER! It’s like people take what they read on these sites as biblical truth. You don’t personally know these people, nor were there cameras following Swizzy, Mashonda, and A Keys to document exaactly what went down.

    62. posted by michelle

      Fri, October 16, 2009 10:17 AM

      gayle’s wig is killin me!!! can’t oprah throw her a new one?

    63. posted by ROYALFLUSHLADY

      Fri, October 16, 2009 10:21 AM

      k504: Halle and Iman looked soooo good! One question…what’s your secret ladies? Always smiling and thang…Is the secret a WHITE MAN? Let ME know so I can try SOMETHING NEW! LOL!

      TWISTED OBSSESSION…Ya Know

      FLAWLESS Secret? – The BEST BLACK MEN on Earth!

      No offense to either Woman HOWEVER, Iman divorced David Bowies Gay, Drug abusing Self AND Halle has been treated Very Badly by Her Own – this Dude is No Better…She used him as a Stud & He IS USING her for ” exposure “.

      No Real Love & they both Know that

      Re The SOMETHING NEW – You’ve never Dated Interacially – Wonder Why?

    64. posted by ROYALFLUSHLADY

      Fri, October 16, 2009 10:23 AM

      Mrs Positively PERFECT Says: I Love Halles Dress!

    65. posted by MeMe

      Fri, October 16, 2009 10:24 AM

      camille: so swizz beats is being raped by alicia keys is that whats happening ? i think not you have heard his wife ex wife whatever side but have we heard alicia or swizz beats side no we have not. he said they got together after he was seperated why not belive that. i think alicia is doing what she should living her life and not catering to the opinion of others because at the end of the day her music will still be bought and she will still be rich if roman polanski can rape a 13 year old girl and go on to win oscar after oscar well i am sure i have made my point life is too short miss keyes do you thing. judge he less he be judged ….

      COSIGN!!!!! Live or let die!!!

    66. posted by Ms.Mel

      Fri, October 16, 2009 10:31 AM

      What a great event! Alica, Halle,Iman and Kerri look beautiful!!! Mary needs a new hairstyle ASAP but i still love her!!

    67. posted by Hotness

      Fri, October 16, 2009 10:31 AM

      Those are some BEAUTIFUL black women. Every women was just ………lovely and Halle is just…..WOW!!!!!

      The benefit looked like fun PLUS it is 4 a GREAT CAUSE!!!!

    68. posted by Erica (original)

      Fri, October 16, 2009 10:35 AM

      Hollywood: What do you mean you don’t trust her? YOU DON’T KNOW HER! It’s like people take what they read on these sites as biblical truth. You don’t personally know these people, nor were there cameras following Swizzy, Mashonda, and A Keys to document exaactly what went down.

      Umm…you quoted the wrong person. :\

    69. posted by Daisy

      Fri, October 16, 2009 10:43 AM

      Halle and Paula look absolutely FAB!!!

    70. posted by rena1970

      Fri, October 16, 2009 10:47 AM

      I’m never against anything that’s helping the kids, but the bitch who’s behind the event needs to go and sit the fuck down somewhere. It’s all for show. She know damn well she don’t give a flying fuck about no damn kids, cause if she did, she would not have came into a child’s home, and made matters worse for his parents. Yeah it takes two, but as a woman, you’re suppose to have some type of respect for your self and the next black woman, with that damn crooked ass smile. Every time I look at her she disgusts me. Can’t stand fake ass people. And why the hell she felt the need to perform in spandex for a benefit for kids? I mean I know there weren’t any there but still. I guess whatever gets the men to dig in their pockets for her charity!! And yeah, we see your bird nose ass sex buddy, even if yall don’t take pictures together. Yall bogus asses ain’t fooling nobody but yourselves. I’m not a racist or anything, but some people do say that these white women are taking all of the black men, so I guess it is some truth to that. Bitch, you can stop claiming BLACK, and go claim your white side, cause that shit you did to Mashonda, disgraced you as a Black woman! NEWSFLASH!!!!!!!!!!!

    71. posted by Sharie

      Fri, October 16, 2009 10:47 AM

      Everyone looks fabulous!! oh yeah, except Swizz, can’t Alicia do better than that?

    72. posted by NAY

      Fri, October 16, 2009 10:47 AM

      MsDonnaGirl: I really love that Alicia is pushing past the obvious and continuing to work on her more positive efforts.Keep A Child Alive is a great organization, from what I hear.Now cue the, “But what about the Keep A Together Foundation?” Teeheeheehee!

      VERY FUNNY LOVED THAT! SO TRU…

    73. posted by Harlem Chic

      Fri, October 16, 2009 10:53 AM

      Now that’s the party that I want to be at next year. I’m telling you Black People. The crown has been bought and paid for….if you don’t get our shine on in the next 8 years….we’ll have noone to blame but ourselves….

    74. posted by lala

      Fri, October 16, 2009 10:58 AM

      They all look so beautiful! Has Iman stolen Beyonce’s tights or stockings as americans call it? Because her legs can’t be that colour lol. What are these women doing to stay looking sooo young, please share

      I am suprissed Natasha has not put up a post about leona lewis getting punched, leona is half black you know

    75. posted by Nic

      Fri, October 16, 2009 11:05 AM

      Reality Please: Yeah.. damn you IMAN and YOU TOO HALLE.. URGH you GORGEOUS BEAUTIFUL oooh women…All jokes aside.. wow.. how stunning to see such amazing black beauty… I love to see a beautiful black woman carry herself as such.. Teach those hollywood chicken heads how to be a real hollywood, classy woman..

      Preach!!!!! I’m so sick of this spandex, ghetto booty, rapper’s wife mentality. Grow up and do something with your lives. Force these children to do better by being a better example.

    76. posted by pwhat?

      Fri, October 16, 2009 11:11 AM

      Lite1: I don’t condone what Alicia is doing, but why everybody saying its her fault. It takes 2 to tango. Swizz clearly sleeping with her too. In my opinion he is more at fault because he took an oath to marry that woman not Alicia, If Swizz thought it was alright then I can see why Alicia thought so. I feel like he was probably giving mixed signals. HE obviously don’t care or give a damn about his wife so why we hating on Alicia Keys, its more his fault than hers

      If a woman is going to cheat with a married man then yes it is her fault just as much as it is his.I believe people are focusing on Alicia because she puts on this show like she is for empowering women but takes another woman’s husband.It is obvious that she was only thinking about herself. As far as Swiss Beats go Mashonda does not desreve a man like that no woman doesn’t, unless you are the woman who who stole that husban. Cause trust Alicia Karma is looking for you and she will find you.

    77. posted by I Luv NeYo

      Fri, October 16, 2009 11:24 AM

      Wow everyone looks fantastic. Wish I was there..

    78. posted by Whoever

      Fri, October 16, 2009 11:30 AM

      MY BOO CHRIS MARTIN!!! I LOVE COLDPLAY! I wish I was there!

    79. posted by Oh Please....

      Fri, October 16, 2009 11:33 AM

      I am done…I am through with Halle in that dress!!! Done I say! She is killing it! I dont even know what else to say, LOL!!!

      But I guess a question is is why do some people say “Halle looks good for her age”, as if she is 60 yrs old or something? She is only 43 yrs old…Selma Hayek, Nicole Kidman, J.Lo and many others are in their 40’s and they are all sh*tting on women half their age. Halle looks great for ANY age. So im confused by the “she looks good for her age” concept. Iman is someone you can say that about…but as far as Halle, she’s looking exactly the way you are supposed to look if you take care of yourself.

      As far as Alicia, I could care less what people have to say. Alicia has been doing charity for so long and I respect her for that. All that other nonsense, I could care less about cause its not my life…people have’nt even heard Swizz Beats or Alicias side of the story…just going by what Mashonda is saying… I guess thats what happens when folks are so thirsty for gossip. SMH

    80. posted by Oh Please....

      Fri, October 16, 2009 11:35 AM

      ROYALFLUSHLADY: TWISTED OBSSESSION…Ya KnowFLAWLESS Secret? – The BEST BLACK MEN on Earth!No offense to either Woman HOWEVER, Iman divorced David Bowies Gay, Drug abusing Self AND Halle has been treated Very Badly by Her Own – this Dude is No Better…She used him as a Stud & He IS USING her for ” exposure “.No Real Love & they both Know thatRe The SOMETHING NEW – You’ve never Dated Interacially – Wonder Why?

      I beleive Iman is still married to David Bowie and Halle Berry has been with her man for years now…so the whole “using her for exposure” claim is getting a little old. Im just saying, he was a top model before he even met Halle.

    81. posted by Alive and Well in Tejas

      Fri, October 16, 2009 11:53 AM

      Okay, all the women look great, and I love the back of Halle’s dress….while Kerry Washington’s couture looking self is refreshingly sweet. However, I think Paula Patton is KILLLING the whole situation. Life isn’t a competition, but she just looks UBER gorge to me. It’s funny, her clothes are almost never the norm, always a little off, and yet I still think she looks so fresh in the face and gorgeous all round.

      She & Halle need to take a pic together so people can see they’re not the same person, lol, which everyone was saying around “Deja Vu” release time.

      Iman looks great, but her outfit makes me think of holiday wrapping, like cellophane or something.

      As for Alicia—sigh. It is what it is. She and Swiz are together, it’s up to him to make sure that she & Mashonda can hash it out as women, and be civil. He need to man up and take an active role, if his ex is mature, which I think she is. But Im not going to lie, that’s a pain that can’t be explained.

    82. posted by Ewurafua

      Fri, October 16, 2009 11:55 AM

      Why are people showing SOOO much hate toawrds Alicia? I KNOW she is WRONG for being with a married man and all, but it seems like the marriage between Swizzy and Mashanda was over before she got involved with him.
      And if my memory serves me right…TRINA is still sleeping and living with a married man! K-MART IS A MARRIED MAN AND HAS NOT gotten a divorce!! Why are ppl not on her case then?
      Or is it because she is not as popular/famous as Alicia?
      Unfortunately, Alicia seems to be the subject of ppl’s grunts, yet Swizzy isnt getting any blame! Even Mashonda’s letter was targeted at AK and not her hubby!

    83. posted by Missy Poo

      Fri, October 16, 2009 11:56 AM

      If Alicia Skeez and Swiss Cheatz truly had remorse for what they are doing they would at lest have enough respect and empathy for his wife and child to chill the hell out. He was there so they might as well took pictures together. They are both being very hurtful, disrespectful and childish. True she don’t own Mashonda nothing but she should have had enough respect to leave a married man alone and enough compassion for that baby to encourage his father to stay in the home with him. They may “luv” each other which I doubt but when someone is married with children involved it is not all about love any damn more. Sometimes as a parent you suffer a little to make sure your children are straight. Hell do most mothers want 2 get up @6am to get the kids ready. We are see men that we would love to be with but only a selfish, self centered narcissist would actually act on their desires. They will have there down fall and those same famous friends who they think are not noticiing will be the first to jump ship. Alicia is trying to do go to attract attention because her latese cd is about to come out and flop!!! 2 words Bytch please and 3 more Ho sit down!!!!!

    84. posted by Truth

      Fri, October 16, 2009 11:56 AM

      I agree with Oh Please, everybody so quick to form an opinion with one side of the story. We don’t know if Mashonda was creeping, she certainly wouldn’t cop to it and since AK & Swizz are quiet, we don’t know if that was even the case. Yes, it is wrong to sleep with a married man, but if it’s only on paper & not in his heart, then IDK. No woman can TAKE what doesn’t want to be taken. If they were solid 2 begin with, it wouldn’t gone down in the 1st place. Sometimes shit happens despite best intentions.

      Anyway, AK’s been doing this kind of charity work practically her whole career, why would she stop now? I think folks are so quick to point the finger at her because until now, she hardly ever had any negative press.

    85. posted by KiKi

      Fri, October 16, 2009 12:00 PM

      Reality Please: I can’t speak for anyone else posting comments but I know for me I am not just blaming Alicia.. I blame them both but I think with Alicia as a fan I expected more of her… I wasn’t really a fan of Swizz.. but being a man in the business I expected this of him… sad but true… But Alicia… she preached women empowerment… and her entire media persona was built off of her being the woman’s woman.. the good girl.. the empowered one.. and then to find out she’s doing this to another woman.. willingly and knowingly.. that’s upsetting.. and since I don’t buy Swizz’s music any how but I’ve spent my money on Alicia I feel like I have a right to voice my opinion of the fact that I think she is dead ass wrong for allowing this to go down… she should have more sense and it’s dissapointing..

      Soooo very true!

    86. posted by Let's See You Do It Better

      Fri, October 16, 2009 12:08 PM

      rena1970: I’m never against anything that’s helping the kids, but the bitch who’s behind the event needs to go and sit the fuck down somewhere. It’s all for show. She know damn well she don’t give a flying fuck about no damn kids, cause if she did, she would not have came into a child’s home, and made matters worse for his parents. Yeah it takes two, but as a woman, you’re suppose to have some type of respect for your self and the next black woman, with that damn crooked ass smile. Every time I look at her she disgusts me. Can’t stand fake ass people. And why the hell she felt the need to perform in spandex for a benefit for kids? I mean I know there weren’t any there but still. I guess whatever gets the men to dig in their pockets for her charity!! And yeah, we see your bird nose ass sex buddy, even if yall don’t take pictures together. Yall bogus asses ain’t fooling nobody but yourselves. I’m not a racist or anything, but some people do say that these white women are taking all of the black men, so I guess it is some truth to that. Bitch, you can stop claiming BLACK, and go claim your white side, cause that shit you did to Mashonda, disgraced you as a Black woman! NEWSFLASH!!!!!!!!!!!

      Interesting – I see black women dogging eachother ALL the time; and I am talking about in ways that don’t involve men. In fact, I see you dogging one too – is yours justified but hers is not? What is the barrometer – you can fight a girl but you can’t take their man, you can encourage your girl to drop out of school but your good as long as you don’t take her man; black women can be on tv with thier t & a out; but that is ok – just as long as you don’t take their man. I am just curious as to how you define boundaries. I find it very appauling that we process sins as if there is a hierarachy – God said all sins are equal and because he loved us, sacrficed his only sons life to wash away our projected sins. I am certain you sin – can you explain the difference between your indiscretions vs. the rest of the world. Also, I am confused about the whole race reference. Because she did something you don’t like she is somehow not black (summarized)- really confusing. Also, i am having a difficult time linking her charity work to her personal life. I don’t have kids and don’t want any in the near future (so someone could easily say i don’t give a damn about children) however, I have taken two young ladies under my wing to mentor them through spending time with them and helping support them financially. Because I don’t have kids or even want any in the near future, does that mean i somehow wouldn’t help them if that was presented. You sound as bad Rush Limbaugh! Rena – i am not just repsonding to your post either b/c it appears there are many that share your perspective – i just don’t understand it and i don’t understand why everyone sounds so dag on bitter. I at least have to be done wrong to get to that point of being bitter – it takes work to get there. In a nutshell, unless you are completely free of all of the following: you shall not covet, you shall not bare false witness, you shall not steal, you shall not committ adultry, you shall not committ murder, honor mom and dad, keep the sabath day holy, do not take the lords name in vain, put no other god before GOD, do not make graven images (summarized) – there is no room to talk.

    87. posted by Jenn

      Fri, October 16, 2009 12:08 PM

      WoW Halle poo poo’s on these chicks in her sleep friggen FLAWLESS I think she ages backwards….definately some Benjimen Button ish going on there

    88. posted by Just Sayin'

      Fri, October 16, 2009 12:17 PM

      rena1970: I’m never against anything that’s helping the kids, but the bitch who’s behind the event needs to go and sit the fuck down somewhere. It’s all for show. She know damn well she don’t give a flying fuck about no damn kids, cause if she did, she would not have came into a child’s home, and made matters worse for his parents. Yeah it takes two, but as a woman, you’re suppose to have some type of respect for your self and the next black woman, with that damn crooked ass smile. Every time I look at her she disgusts me. Can’t stand fake ass people. And why the hell she felt the need to perform in spandex for a benefit for kids? I mean I know there weren’t any there but still. I guess whatever gets the men to dig in their pockets for her charity!! And yeah, we see your bird nose ass sex buddy, even if yall don’t take pictures together. Yall bogus asses ain’t fooling nobody but yourselves. I’m not a racist or anything, but some people do say that these white women are taking all of the black men, so I guess it is some truth to that. Bitch, you can stop claiming BLACK, and go claim your white side, cause that shit you did to Mashonda, disgraced you as a Black woman! NEWSFLASH!!!!!!!!!!!

      Um, don’t you think ur getting a bit worked up over something that shouldn’t concern you? Let her do her damn charity event, what are you doing to help kids? If you don’t like her then skip past her damn postings and don’t buy her CDs, its as simple as that!
      And what the hell do you mean she should ’stop claiming black and go claim your white side?’ Do you realize how stupid that makes you sound? And the fact that you had to preface your comment by saying ‘I’m not a racist or anything, but…’ indicates that your ass is probably racist. That’s the same ish a lot of white folks use when they say, ‘I’m not a racist, one of my friends is black.’ Chick, please!
      If she wanna perform in her spandex, that’s her choice, aint got nothing to do with you. If she had worn a dress you would’ve had an issue with it. Ugh! I can’t stand self-righteous people, they’re usually the biggest hypocrites! Ok, we get that ur pissed off at her, it aint none of your damn business, just keep it moving! There are ways to state ur disapproval of an issue without allowing yourself to come across as an idiot. There’s a famous Mark Twain phrase where he says ‘It is better to keep your mouth closed and let people think you’re a fool that to open it and remove all doubts…’

    89. posted by Whoever

      Fri, October 16, 2009 12:18 PM

      Ewurafua: Why are people showing SOOO much hate toawrds Alicia? I KNOW she is WRONG for being with a married man and all, but it seems like the marriage between Swizzy and Mashanda was over before she got involved with him.
      And if my memory serves me right…TRINA is still sleeping and living with a married man! K-MART IS A MARRIED MAN AND HAS NOT gotten a divorce!! Why are ppl not on her case then?
      Or is it because she is not as popular/famous as Alicia?
      Unfortunately, Alicia seems to be the subject of ppl’s grunts, yet Swizzy isnt getting any blame! Even Mashonda’s letter was targeted at AK and not her hubby!

      Your hurr is looking mighty fine in your gravi!

    90. posted by Pretishia

      Fri, October 16, 2009 12:34 PM

      Oh Please….: I am done…I am through with Halle in that dress!!! Done I say! She is killing it! I dont even know what else to say, LOL!!! But I guess a question is is why do some people say “Halle looks good for her age”, as if she is 60 yrs old or something? She is only 43 yrs old…Selma Hayek, Nicole Kidman, J.Lo and many others are in their 40’s and they are all sh*tting on women half their age. Halle looks great for ANY age. So im confused by the “she looks good for her age” concept. Iman is someone you can say that about…but as far as Halle, she’s looking exactly the way you are supposed to look if you take care of yourself. As far as Alicia, I could care less what people have to say. Alicia has been doing charity for so long and I respect her for that. All that other nonsense, I could care less about cause its not my life…people have’nt even heard Swizz Beats or Alicias side of the story…just going by what Mashonda is saying… I guess thats what happens when folks are so thirsty for gossip. SMH

      I very much agree with everything you said

    91. posted by Kimmy

      Fri, October 16, 2009 12:35 PM

      - Iman looks stunning and so does Kerry!
      - I still heart Alicia!

    92. posted by Pretishia

      Fri, October 16, 2009 12:36 PM

      Truth: I agree with Oh Please, everybody so quick to form an opinion with one side of the story. We don’t know if Mashonda was creeping, she certainly wouldn’t cop to it and since AK & Swizz are quiet, we don’t know if that was even the case. Yes, it is wrong to sleep with a married man, but if it’s only on paper & not in his heart, then IDK. No woman can TAKE what doesn’t want to be taken. If they were solid 2 begin with, it wouldn’t gone down in the 1st place. Sometimes shit happens despite best intentions. Anyway, AK’s been doing this kind of charity work practically her whole career, why would she stop now? I think folks are so quick to point the finger at her because until now, she hardly ever had any negative press.

      Aint that the truth?

    93. posted by That's How They Get You

      Fri, October 16, 2009 12:38 PM

      Halle Berry looks great per usual. Iman looks great. Paula Patton, I love you. Alicia Keys… it’s something about her WAY.. I don’t know. Plus is it me or are her arms to short for her body? Then she’s always waving them in the air making fake gang signs when she sings… lmao. Oh and Gabe is a really handsome guy, perfect sperm donor. One more thing: is it me or does the guy in the photo with Nick Cannon and Tyler Perry look like a bloated Ashton Kutcher?

    94. posted by Paul

      Fri, October 16, 2009 12:44 PM

      A Lot Jungle Fever. Woooooo I love it. Everyone look sexy as Hell. Lets go!

    95. posted by Miss. Tiandez Jones

      Fri, October 16, 2009 12:47 PM

      Halle don’t let A.Keys get too close to your Gabe now! lol

      All jokes aside lol, my black sistahs look FAB. O. LOUS. ESPECIALLY HALLE AND IMAN! MY GAWD, THEY INSPIRE ME EVERYDAY! I want to look fly too when I’m past 40. BLACK DON’T CRACK LOL. And omg to Paula! She is another one! Fabolous darling! She’s so stunningly drop dead gorgeous.

    96. posted by Blakbarbie

      Fri, October 16, 2009 12:48 PM

      Jazae Celanj: I’m so mad with Erica Reid. Those Finger-Waves, and that top. Thank “Him” the picture’s too black, I can’t see the bottom of her attire because I have a feeling she “Went There”. Please, let’s never go there again Mrs. Reid, please?!JC

      I was thinking the same thing. Her head is too big for that short cut. She needs bangs.

    97. posted by Evade

      Fri, October 16, 2009 12:49 PM

      How can people say she’s doing this to hide the rumors..For the past 6 years in October, she’s had the Black Ball. How about doing some research instead of judging. That’s what I mean, Alicia is/was always a humanitarian, and just because you think she’s a bad person, she’s not gonna stop helping kids.

    98. posted by nlwilliams

      Fri, October 16, 2009 12:54 PM

      I’m sorry but Black folks can be their own damn worse enemy!! Always something negative to say!!Alicia Keys has been involved charities long before this and will be long after.. so why would folks make this dumb comments about her relationship with whoever like they know what happened personally. It’s obvious that the caliber of the people at the function are supporting her and don’t give a damn about who she’s sleeping with!! She’s doing a hell of a lot more than yacking on a website about somebody personal relationship with any facts!!

    99. posted by Athena

      Fri, October 16, 2009 1:20 PM

      I beg to disagree to people who are saying Alicia did this for show. She has had this organization for sometime now and if I remember correctly, Oprah brought her on her show and she donated one million dollars to Alicia’s org, way before this Swizz guy came along.
      I just don’t get it when people become all worked up about Alicia being a home wrecker. Marriage is much more than a court document. It should be about trust, understanding, love, tolerance, passion. But if these things are not there, then I don’t care what a piece of paper says. True people fall out of love, decide to live their separate lives but that doesn’t mean they can’t love another person until that paper is no longer valid.
      Nobody can wreck anyone’s marriage. The people in that marriage wreck it themselves. When love goes wrong, move on. This goes for both men and women. If Swizz was dating a nonentity, his enstranged wife would’t say anything about it. Alicia, is a human being no different from you and I, who should be allowed to make mistakes and learn from them. We all have made bad choices that we could look back and laugh on or made our lives better!

    100. posted by rio

      Fri, October 16, 2009 1:24 PM

      tonya lee, sarah lawrence college alum! woooo!

    101. posted by #1diva

      Fri, October 16, 2009 1:53 PM

      all of you are dumb who talk trash about alicia.here u have a beautiful event and all you can do is talk bad about alicia were you there wen she slept with him u act as if mashonda is speaking the truth and plus alicia dont want swizz she too good for him wow they took couple of pic together big deal

    102. posted by Mo

      Fri, October 16, 2009 2:23 PM

      Reality Please: Great event but every and anything Alicia does at this point is tainted to me.. while reading this I find myself trying to focus on the event and not the person but that is hard… I just don’t trust her…

      I agree. I hate to look at it that way, but I have an intense dislike for females who kick it with married men. I think it takes two to tango, but there always seems to be some trifling chick in the wind willing to go there. If he was that into you, then he’d wrap up his situation at home and THEN come calling. If you’re around, great, if not, then it’s his loss. When will women start demanding more for themselves??? Do better AK!

    103. posted by hellifiknow

      Fri, October 16, 2009 2:45 PM

      All the biracial ladies put ya hands up! Sorry, couldn’t resist. Love MJB’s jacket and boots but HATE the hair….Iman is oh so fab with the darker hair, glad I’m going darker too…
      Everyone looks nice although Gayle is overaccessorized….

      Bitter Bitch Posse is back again….damn, you know the whole story? There is his side, her side and the truth and NONE of us know it….

      In the words of Ocho Cinco…c’mon son!

    104. posted by LYNDA@NYC

      Fri, October 16, 2009 2:51 PM

      All the people jumping on the hate wagon of A-Keys need to get a damn life!!! Who the hell she sleeps with is none of your damn business. My goodness the man has been seperated from his wife for a minute now and I’m sure she’s moved on as well. I don’t give a rat’s ass!!

      One more thing…Tyler Perry got a big ol’ water head!!!
      LMBAO

    105. posted by to shame

      Fri, October 16, 2009 2:56 PM

      HALLE PUT ALL THOSE CHICKS TO SHAME…. TO SHAME I TELL YOU, SHE LOOKS MARVELOUS!

    106. posted by INsession

      Fri, October 16, 2009 3:03 PM

      Memar: I think Roland looks fine

      He does. He is wearing formal traditional African wear. He attended a formal event. What’s wrong with that? GO AHEAD ROLAND!!!!!!!!

    107. posted by brandy

      Fri, October 16, 2009 3:38 PM

      that is a cool event, but some people outfits are not right for that event, Iman is a beautiful mature women, halle wronge dress she now can only play someone mother, she looks her age, with alittle botox, stone face, keys is always beautiful, and queen is just queen

    108. posted by Yeah I said it!

      Fri, October 16, 2009 4:54 PM

      Some of these chicks actin’ like they know Alicia Keys personally. Damn Bitter Bitch Posse! Take a chill pill and keep it moving, heifers! U don’t know her, you don’t know Mashonda and you don’t know Swizz so I don’t know why you feel that you have some kinda authority to come up in here talkin’ ish. Don’t nobody care how you feel, or how Swizzy got a bird looking nose or how you don’t trust Alicia. Maybe you need to hop off the computer and check to make sure that ur husband aint out doing the same ish that ur accusing Alicia of doing. Bitches getting their panties in a wad over some ish that Mashonda said. And I don’t even know why Mashonda putting her business on front street, keep that ish to yourself, ma. Shoot, maybe that’s why that nigga left, she so damn busy trying to get pity from every damn body that he just up and bounced. As long as he stays involved in his kids life I don’t see a problem… Happy Friday all! I’m out!

    109. posted by LuckyCandy

      Fri, October 16, 2009 5:40 PM

      Halle looks INCREDIBLE. It makes no sense for one woman to be so stunning.

      Usher is looking quite dapper. I love a man in a tux.

    110. posted by Ali

      Fri, October 16, 2009 7:09 PM

      k504: Halle and Iman looked soooo good! One question…what’s your secret ladies? Always smiling and thang…Is the secret a WHITE MAN? Let ME know so I can try SOMETHING NEW! LOL!

      LOL…Girl u so crazy!

    111. posted by candy

      Fri, October 16, 2009 7:09 PM

      what so incredible about old halle you see the samething since she been around, move on, she just use people for her rotten career, now she needs help from the black community, so if you want to pay your hard money for flops, go ahead, but now we know her, she wanted you to think she was pregnant, putting bags in front of her, what’s up with that, trying to keep playing up to rumors, most people with a high IQ don’t agree with her need for attention. check out some of the black actress with some university education, and talent, halle lack college education and acting skills, she just show her ass, low class, who needs it anymore, move on, to a better class of actress’s for young black girls.

    112. posted by Ali

      Fri, October 16, 2009 7:27 PM

      ROYALFLUSHLADY: TWISTED OBSSESSION…Ya KnowFLAWLESS Secret? – The BEST BLACK MEN on Earth!No offense to either Woman HOWEVER, Iman divorced David Bowies Gay, Drug abusing Self AND Halle has been treated Very Badly by Her Own – this Dude is No Better…She used him as a Stud & He IS USING her for ” exposure “.No Real Love & they both Know thatRe The SOMETHING NEW – You’ve never Dated Interacially – Wonder Why?

      What are you talking about?

      Every woman has a right to choose who she dates.

      David Bowie and Iman are still happily married, so I don’t know where the hell you are getting your information.

      How is Halle using him as a stud? Do you know how ridiculous you sound. Halle can get plenty of men and she’s using him as a stud….Ummm No.

      Halle dated plenty of black men before and married, but she siad Gabe is who she found love with.

      First off, Gabriel is a model that commands like 30,000 a day and that was before he even got with Halle. He definitely does not need the exposure. He is a big time model.

      Open up your mind……people date people and fall in love. It’s just that simple.

    113. posted by Ladybug#2

      Fri, October 16, 2009 7:55 PM

      rena1970: I’m never against anything that’s helping the kids, but the bitch who’s behind the event needs to go and sit the fuck down somewhere. It’s all for show. She know damn well she don’t give a flying fuck about no damn kids, cause if she did, she would not have came into a child’s home, and made matters worse for his parents. Yeah it takes two, but as a woman, you’re suppose to have some type of respect for your self and the next black woman, with that damn crooked ass smile. Every time I look at her she disgusts me. Can’t stand fake ass people. And why the hell she felt the need to perform in spandex for a benefit for kids? I mean I know there weren’t any there but still. I guess whatever gets the men to dig in their pockets for her charity!! And yeah, we see your bird nose ass sex buddy, even if yall don’t take pictures together. Yall bogus asses ain’t fooling nobody but yourselves. I’m not a racist or anything, but some people do say that these white women are taking all of the black men, so I guess it is some truth to that. Bitch, you can stop claiming BLACK, and go claim your white side, cause that shit you did to Mashonda, disgraced you as a Black woman! NEWSFLASH!!!!!!!!!!!

      Mashonda is that you?

    114. posted by Oh Please....

      Fri, October 16, 2009 8:00 PM

      candy: what so incredible about old halle you see the samething since she been around, move on, she just use people for her rotten career, now she needs help from the black community, so if you want to pay your hard money for flops, go ahead, but now we know her, she wanted you to think she was pregnant, putting bags in front of her, what’s up with that, trying to keep playing up to rumors, most people with a high IQ don’t agree with her need for attention. check out some of the black actress with some university education, and talent, halle lack college education and acting skills, she just show her ass, low class, who needs it anymore, move on, to a better class of actress’s for young black girls.

      Bitter much? You sound ridiculous..that is all.

    115. posted by Oh Please....

      Fri, October 16, 2009 8:02 PM

      Ladybug#2: Mashonda is that you?

      *dead*

      Girl im starting to wonder if Eric Benet and Moshanda are trolling up in this comment secition…with some of the bitter comments up in here. SMH

    116. posted by DOO RIGHT

      Fri, October 16, 2009 9:22 PM

      I LOVE PAULA PATTON AND HALLE BERRY. THEY ARE GORGEOUS.

    117. posted by sexy nigerian

      Fri, October 16, 2009 9:26 PM

      adindc: Dashiki is a a shit and it is by definition colorful

      i could be wrong, but i don’t think that Roland Martin is wearing a dashiki at all, lyk u sadi, dashiki’s are by definition colorful and they aren’t made from lace. At frist glance, i think its actually a Nigerian outfit and seeing as Arise is one of d sponsors it makes sense. I didn’t eve notice til she said it

      Foley..I love shoes..sigh lol: Ummm Tasha, maybe Roland Martin is wearing the traditional African wear because the event was sponsored by Arise which is a very popular Nigerian magazine so he could possibly be paying homage to that, or the fact that most of the kids that Alicia helps are in Africa..just thinking aloud..Nice job Roland for being proud of what you are and doing you..don’t have to conform all the time Everyone looks nice and even stunning, except Gayle’s dry thirsty ass, lol

    118. posted by Is the YBF or KKK??

      Fri, October 16, 2009 11:07 PM

      How dare you all make fun of Roland Martin!!!! Hes proudly wearing the clothes are ancestors use to wear! When you make fun of his clothing you make fun of yourself and your ancestors!!! You need to apololgize!

    119. posted by Roberto

      Sat, October 17, 2009 12:01 AM

      GOT DAMN!!!!!!!!!! Halle looks hot as hell, she is too fine to be real…..

    120. posted by Foxy

      Sat, October 17, 2009 12:08 AM

      Alicia “Homewrecker” Keys should never stand next to Halle Berry again! Ms. Berry is killing her in the pic & she has almost 15yrs on her.

    121. posted by kashe

      Sat, October 17, 2009 12:19 PM

      Iman is absolutely REGAL. GORGEOUS. FLAWLESS. STUNNING.

    122. posted by labelle

      Sat, October 17, 2009 3:16 PM

      Oh Please….: Bitter much? You sound ridiculous..that is all.

      U sound stupid!

    123. posted by labelle

      Sat, October 17, 2009 3:17 PM

      labelle: U sound stupid!

      wrong person sorrry, directed to the girl with the stupid ass comments about Halle!

    124. posted by labelle

      Sat, October 17, 2009 3:19 PM

      Athena: I beg to disagree to people who are saying Alicia did this for show. She has had this organization for sometime now and if I remember correctly, Oprah brought her on her show and she donated one million dollars to Alicia’s org, way before this Swizz guy came along.I just don’t get it when people become all worked up about Alicia being a home wrecker. Marriage is much more than a court document. It should be about trust, understanding, love, tolerance, passion. But if these things are not there, then I don’t care what a piece of paper says. True people fall out of love, decide to live their separate lives but that doesn’t mean they can’t love another person until that paper is no longer valid.Nobody can wreck anyone’s marriage. The people in that marriage wreck it themselves. When love goes wrong, move on. This goes for both men and women. If Swizz was dating a nonentity, his enstranged wife would’t say anything about it. Alicia, is a human being no different from you and I, who should be allowed to make mistakes and learn from them. We all have made bad choices that we could look back and laugh on or made our lives better!

      Well said!

    125. posted by labelle

      Sat, October 17, 2009 3:20 PM

      Foxy: Alicia “Homewrecker” Keys should never stand next to Halle Berry again! Ms. Berry is killing her in the pic & she has almost 15yrs on her.

      thats a lie! Halle aint got nothing on Alicia, wonder what u look like, u cudnt even stand next 2 Alicia’s or Halle’s toes!

    126. posted by Cece

      Sat, October 17, 2009 4:09 PM

      When I saw the comment about Roland Martin, I looked again to see if I missed something. Tasha, if you are commenting about him wearing an African outfit, the only thing i will say is, don’t be ignorant, and be open to something different.

      Ok, if you don’t think it looks nice, don’t make it seem like it’s so bad. He wore an African outfit, especially when the event is about Africa, and he actually looks nice in it. Period.

    127. posted by Tara

      Sat, October 17, 2009 10:25 PM

      Iman has had too much work done on her face. Her face been botoxed and she has had a face lift for sure. Her boobs are fake and her legs are retaining water and bloated. Her dress looks like a Meringue and her weave is old. She has a lot of money and should have worn something much better. Not impressed IMAN.

      Halle and Gabe are stunning.
      If You have a Body LIKE Ms Berry u better work it.

      I found this on the internet and it made me laugh… Ewan McGregor was being interviewed about some movie and at one point was lost for words and the next thing he said was…
      Isn`t Halle Berry the most beautiful woman? I have a film I`d like to be in her with. I mean, I`d like to be with her in. – At the 2002 Golden Globe Awards commenting to Melissa Rivers on Halle Berry, who just walked by

    128. posted by Alec

      Sat, October 17, 2009 10:51 PM

      Halle and Gabe looks stunning.Halle better keep a close eye on Gabe when Alica comes-a-calling…Alica looks like a hag next Ms Berrrrry.

      Paulo looks good and she should keep her eye on Robin especially when Alica is around lol…I love this running joke. Ms Goody 2 shoes is a SLAPPER lol after all.

      Mary JB, I hate to say this cos I love u but the HAIR AND THE JACKET IS A NO NO. Please give the Jacket to the HOMELESS the jacket its visually offensive. Sorry MJB, I had to say it. Normally you look amazing.

      The Dude wearing the African get up looks AMAZING. Its an African/Indian Event…and he is wearing a great attire. Good for you.

      Estelle/Fanta, you could do much better. 100% Better. enuf said…

    129. posted by Alec

      Sat, October 17, 2009 11:02 PM

      The African out fit is specific to the Yoruba Tribe based in Nigeria, they like to wear lace a lot. He should have gone with a Babariga he would have looked more distinguished IMO. I lived in Northern Nigeria and Moroc for awhile, HAPPY DAYS.

      Anyway, the Dude looks Great.

    130. posted by JYGALO

      Sat, October 17, 2009 11:06 PM

      Say what u will about Alicia, she defs brings out the big names…I just love Chris Martin!

      …you know where Gayle goes Oprah’s money is in two and full approval…

      And Halle, that makes no damn sense…but she always really kills it when she is short hair Halle…she and Tina at 70 will look betta than these 21 year olds lol

    131. posted by Kerri

      Sun, October 18, 2009 11:05 AM

      Kerry Washington kind of looks tired to me, but she still looks better than a whole heap of folks. Alicia, ,Halle and Iman look beautiful.

    132. posted by ybf_oz

      Sun, October 18, 2009 8:49 PM

      I LOVE halle! but i wasn’t feeling that dress…..

    133. posted by randy

      Sun, October 18, 2009 11:47 PM

      alicia keys standing next to halle makes halle looks like an old women, she is now showing her age, she will never turn back the clock, she will never look like she use to, maybe she should try botox. everyone else in hollywood does, gayle king dress is ugly.

    134. posted by Bean

      Mon, October 19, 2009 8:45 AM

      Alicia is holding Halle Berry like a straight dude!

    135. posted by Love Alicia!

      Mon, October 19, 2009 12:07 PM

      Keep A Child Alive is a beautiful charity… AIDS is devastating to our global community.

      I have contributed to Keep A Child Alive and will continue to get involved in charitable work.

      Black people need to be less concerned about Alicia Keys personal life and more involved in resolving the problems of our community: crime, drop outs, prison, etc.

      There are more important problem. Her music is positive and she has a beautiful spirit.. I see the GOD in her…

    136. posted by mark

      Mon, October 19, 2009 2:21 PM

      hey bean at 8;45am, how can you tell which one is the dude, both look manly, but one look old now her age, and the other one look young.

    137. posted by Old versus New

      Mon, October 19, 2009 6:44 PM

      they should have got a shot of the old halle and the new hall together

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