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Look who was spotted having an intimate dinner with his new mystery woman at the exclusive Miami restaurant Prime One Twelve last night?: Oh yes.  Michael Jordan. The woman is relatively unknown, but apparently they have been very chummy in South Beach lately.  And I doubt he would take a simple jump off to such a paparazzi haven "exclusive" restaurant such as this one.  So this one might actually be his new main chick. I mean, I know Mike loves some Beckys but clearly he loves all of Beckys friends too.  Y'all get what I'm sayin'... UPDATE:  YBF snitches are on the case and Mike's girlfriend is Yvette Prieto, a Cuban model and former girlfriend of Julio Inglesias, Jr. She and Michael have actually been together for a little while now.  Not my fault chicks look like totally different people with and without makeup.  I guess I should strike my previous Becky comment.  Or not.
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[quote comment="231478"]I call myself trying to quote someone but shorten the post.... I know I’m going but I’m not ready to meet the King yet…lol. But I will continue to try my best to do right while I’m still here. I don’t feel deprived…I see so many women at church crying and blowing snot over dudes they have slept with for whatever reason only to be right back at square one. I don’t want to look back 10 years from now and realize I been with XXX amount of men looking for love. I sleep good at night not wondering where he is, what he’s doing and who he’s doing it with, does he love me and all that other nonsense. I don’t knock what other folks are doing but I have never really understood the concept of folks sleeping with someone and then they just go their separate ways like its nothing. My heart and vajayjay are tied together with some Timberland boot shoelaces…you can’t have one without the other.[/quote] -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- I guess....so I take it you never had a cut.... Pretty much...a guy you get down with, with no strings attached... When I was in college I went through a phase where I was sleeping around....but hey its college..that you suppose to do, LOL!!!! I mean hell I like sex....so I'm gonna have boyfriend or not...Now I'm not saying I am or I was screwing every Tom, Dick, and Harry, but I wasnt really looking for no committments, it was too many dudes on campus to pick just ONE!!! But when I moved to Chicago, I put my hoe cards down and settled down...which is pretty hard..cause I still want to do my thing...but I love my man too much..so I just resist the temptations...but I aint giving up my sex life.... I have one question: Do you think by you practicing abstinance is going to get you into heaven? I'm sure there are other sins you DO...that God sees as well. Remember there is no sin bigger than another!!
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New post!!!!!

New post!!!!!
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[quote comment="231450"][quote comment="231381"][quote comment="231362"]When BLACK WOMEN stop waiting for BLACK MEN to VALIDATE them, only then will they move on.[/quote] Why is it that a Black man has to validate a Black woman? Why is it that we have to "move on"? What is so wrong with wanting a relationship/love with a Black man? I'm not saying that I would NEVER EVER EVER date outside of my race, but i would PREFER to be in love with and create a family with a Black man. If that makes me dumb, stupid, old-fashioned, ignorant, etc. then i guess i am.........[/quote] Les, let me start off by saying I am a SOLDIER for Black men. I love them and I can't ever see myself w/o anyone else, but I don't wanna pass up true love either for the sake of being w/ a BM. I won't generalize and say all BM or even most because I don't believe that all of them are lusting after non-black woman. However, I REFUSE to make a woman that isn't black feel as if she is superior to me because she is w/ a BM. I just wish my sista's would stop b*tchin about them because BM doing them regardless. These BM that date white women seem to forget about The Civil Rights movement and Emmit Till. I'm trying to not make this into a essay, but BW are beautiful but intimidating for a lot of non-black men. That's why we naturally want "our kings" (imo) to be by our side. For all the brothers out there salivating over non-black women, there are still brothers that are down for their sistas.It's embarrassing to me when some are up in these blogs going off because it's not just YBF chicks that read this blof. You'd be surprised to know how mainstream media be "all up in the bizniz" on the low. They come to these black based blogs when they want info, and to see some of my ppl bickering over a black man and his Becky, it's a bit sad and redundant. I just think we shouldn't give these topics so much energy. So what. It's his money, his life, and if he likes his Becky, I love it and like Is aid, could care less.[/quote] I agree with you, in "real life" I could care less about Jordan cuz if he is with a black woman my mortgage is due on the first and if he is with a white woman my mortgage is still due on the first, so in the frand scheme of things it really doesn't make a difference in my life, but color me stupid but I'm just a champion for Black love and i would just simply prefer to have my man and my children look like me. It's just ironic when you think back to slavery days when families where ripped apart from each other and the Black man would risk death trying to find his Black woman & Black family and now-a-days the Black man is voluntarily turning their back on Black woman.
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She looks like Capricorn.

She looks like Capricorn. Diddy's former assistant. Whatever Mike. At least your ex-wife was a sista.
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[quote comment="231493"]Tasha, please get us outta this post![/quote] lol please do
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[quote comment="231479"][quote comment="231454"][quote comment="231449"][quote comment="231428"][quote comment="231421"][quote comment="231415"]Okay, Now I'm inspired. I'm gonna tell my husband that I'm not gonna have sex for a year!!! Thank Ladies for empowering me!![/quote] Riiiiiiight! Okay Toya, lemme know how that little experiment goes so I can tell MY husband, 'cause "I gotta headache" ain't cutting it anymore! :lol:[/quote] Oops...TONYA![/quote] Girl Please...I can hear my husband now,"Whatever, I bet you better be naked when I get home!"[/quote] LMAO!!!!!! ...WITH the baby oil and a shoehorn! Oops, T.M.I.! :lol:[/quote] Shoehorn? Ohhhhhhhh helllllllll nawwwwwww, you ain't gonna drop some info like that and NOW wanna be quiet.......what you use a shoehorn for? Enquiring minds wanna now, lol.[/quote] shiit im curious too lol
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Tasha, please get us outta

Tasha, please get us outta this post!
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My last post was @

My last post was @ Southernbella *AKA* I Hope Obama’s “Swag” Rubs Off On Our Youth!!! Will The Real Black Men Please Stand Up!!! I will do what you asked then. Oh another note...I love that guys response to that letter. It was very true, honest and very straight to the point.
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[quote comment="231474"][quote comment="231442"][quote comment="231427"][quote comment="231410"][quote comment="231397"][quote comment="231367"][quote comment="231366"][quote comment="231356"]I'm shy to use my real name but here I go. I haven't had sex for 5 years ladies. Any comments?[/quote] First question 1. Is it for spiritual reasons?[/quote] ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Well I guess I'm going to hell then....[/quote] My goodies have been locked up for 1 year and 3 months on Oct. 12th...its definitely for spiritual and personal reasons. No need of giving up the goods to men who are not good enough. If you like it, put a ring on it...I'm sure I'll be renewing my application I have men fill out when they try to get at me while playing that song 50-11 times this weekend.[/quote] ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------- What about your OWN need to have sex....good Lord 15 months w/o sex....I hope you got some toys or something...[/quote] I haven't had sex in a minute. Since I'm not in a relationship, I really don't have a desire to. I mean if "IT" was around me all the time, it would be harder to resist but I don't need it like that.[/quote] You know, I don't have toys or desire to have them or "it" right now. I'm 27 and want a relationship and courtship firmly established before I have sex with someone ever again. I mean, I'm human, I have urges and lustful thoughts like the next person, but I just know that good things (pun intended) literally and figuaratively come to those who wait and be patient. I know if I wait on Him to continue to mature me, perfect me, groom and prune me; He will be able to trust me with the Godly man that He has for me.[/quote] I told my current boyfriend that I'm not gone jump and just have sex when was dating and that if he didn't want a girl like me he could leave, but he stayed, dated for a couple months and we in a relationship.I pray he is the one, but it is too early to determine.I think some women want to rush and just find a man to find a missing void.But love is deeper.But the only thing that irks me is when he gets on myspace, LORD!!!!Lol[/quote] Girl, stick to ya guns.... I've made the mistake of confusing good sex with love and ended up huuuuuurt lookin stupid... Love is deeper....Love is God.. God is the only one who can fill that void... Take it from someone who knows first hand!!
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[quote comment="231469"][quote comment="231457"][quote comment="231442"][quote comment="231427"][quote comment="231410"][quote comment="231397"][quote comment="231367"][quote comment="231366"][quote comment="231356"]I'm shy to use my real name but here I go. I haven't had sex for 5 years ladies. Any comments?[/quote] First question 1. Is it for spiritual reasons?[/quote] ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Well I guess I'm going to hell then....[/quote] My goodies have been locked up for 1 year and 3 months on Oct. 12th...its definitely for spiritual and personal reasons. No need of giving up the goods to men who are not good enough. If you like it, put a ring on it...I'm sure I'll be renewing my application I have men fill out when they try to get at me while playing that song 50-11 times this weekend.[/quote] ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------- What about your OWN need to have sex....good Lord 15 months w/o sex....I hope you got some toys or something...[/quote] I haven't had sex in a minute. Since I'm not in a relationship, I really don't have a desire to. I mean if "IT" was around me all the time, it would be harder to resist but I don't need it like that.[/quote] You know, I don't have toys or desire to have them or "it" right now. I'm 27 and want a relationship and courtship firmly established before I have sex with someone ever again. I mean, I'm human, I have urges and lustful thoughts like the next person, but I just know that good things (pun intended) literally and figuaratively come to those who wait and be patient. I know if I wait on Him to continue to mature me, perfect me, groom and prune me; He will be able to trust me with the Godly man that He has for me.[/quote] That's wonderful....I hate I was a Ho before I got married. I've been ho-free for some time now.[/quote] Wht's Being a Ho to you ?[/quote] I be a hoe only to my man!It's only appropriate.[quote comment="231469"][quote comment="231457"][quote comment="231442"][quote comment="231427"][quote comment="231410"][quote comment="231397"][quote comment="231367"][quote comment="231366"][quote comment="231356"]I'm shy to use my real name but here I go. I haven't had sex for 5 years ladies. Any comments?[/quote] First question 1. Is it for spiritual reasons?[/quote] ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Well I guess I'm going to hell then....[/quote] My goodies have been locked up for 1 year and 3 months on Oct. 12th...its definitely for spiritual and personal reasons. No need of giving up the goods to men who are not good enough. If you like it, put a ring on it...I'm sure I'll be renewing my application I have men fill out when they try to get at me while playing that song 50-11 times this weekend.[/quote] ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------- What about your OWN need to have sex....good Lord 15 months w/o sex....I hope you got some toys or something...[/quote] I haven't had sex in a minute. Since I'm not in a relationship, I really don't have a desire to. I mean if "IT" was around me all the time, it would be harder to resist but I don't need it like that.[/quote] You know, I don't have toys or desire to have them or "it" right now. I'm 27 and want a relationship and courtship firmly established before I have sex with someone ever again. I mean, I'm human, I have urges and lustful thoughts like the next person, but I just know that good things (pun intended) literally and figuaratively come to those who wait and be patient. I know if I wait on Him to continue to mature me, perfect me, groom and prune me; He will be able to trust me with the Godly man that He has for me.[/quote] That's wonderful....I hate I was a Ho before I got married. I've been ho-free for some time now.[/quote] Wht's Being a Ho to you ?[/quote] Its safe to say that you should be a ho to your man lol.IMO
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[quote comment="231474"][quote comment="231442"][quote comment="231427"][quote comment="231410"][quote comment="231397"][quote comment="231367"][quote comment="231366"][quote comment="231356"]I'm shy to use my real name but here I go. I haven't had sex for 5 years ladies. Any comments?[/quote] First question 1. Is it for spiritual reasons?[/quote] ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Well I guess I'm going to hell then....[/quote] My goodies have been locked up for 1 year and 3 months on Oct. 12th...its definitely for spiritual and personal reasons. No need of giving up the goods to men who are not good enough. If you like it, put a ring on it...I'm sure I'll be renewing my application I have men fill out when they try to get at me while playing that song 50-11 times this weekend.[/quote] ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------- What about your OWN need to have sex....good Lord 15 months w/o sex....I hope you got some toys or something...[/quote] I haven't had sex in a minute. Since I'm not in a relationship, I really don't have a desire to. I mean if "IT" was around me all the time, it would be harder to resist but I don't need it like that.[/quote] You know, I don't have toys or desire to have them or "it" right now. I'm 27 and want a relationship and courtship firmly established before I have sex with someone ever again. I mean, I'm human, I have urges and lustful thoughts like the next person, but I just know that good things (pun intended) literally and figuaratively come to those who wait and be patient. I know if I wait on Him to continue to mature me, perfect me, groom and prune me; He will be able to trust me with the Godly man that He has for me.[/quote] I told my current boyfriend that I'm not gone jump and just have sex when was dating and that if he didn't want a girl like me he could leave, but he stayed, dated for a couple months and we in a relationship.I pray he is the one, but it is too early to determine.I think some women want to rush and just find a man to find a missing void.But love is deeper.But the only thing that irks me is when he gets on myspace, LORD!!!!Lol[/quote] ======================================================================================= Naw, I wont go find no boyfriend to fill that missing void...but I will call up my cutty buddy...that's the purpose they serve!!
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Heeeeeeeeey y'all! I'm

Heeeeeeeeey y'all! I'm tired, because I thought it said Michael Jackson until I saw the pic. And either way... I'm not surprised.
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[quote comment="231479"][quote comment="231454"][quote comment="231449"][quote comment="231428"][quote comment="231421"][quote comment="231415"]Okay, Now I'm inspired. I'm gonna tell my husband that I'm not gonna have sex for a year!!! Thank Ladies for empowering me!![/quote] Riiiiiiight! Okay Toya, lemme know how that little experiment goes so I can tell MY husband, 'cause "I gotta headache" ain't cutting it anymore! :lol:[/quote] Oops...TONYA![/quote] Girl Please...I can hear my husband now,"Whatever, I bet you better be naked when I get home!"[/quote] LMAO!!!!!! ...WITH the baby oil and a shoehorn! Oops, T.M.I.! :lol:[/quote] Shoehorn? Ohhhhhhhh helllllllll nawwwwwww, you ain't gonna drop some info like that and NOW wanna be quiet.......what you use a shoehorn for? Enquiring minds wanna now, lol.[/quote] HAHAHAHA! Ah Girl I'm just trippin, you know..jokes! Er, um, ah, yeah... :oops:
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[quote comment="231271"][quote comment="231258"][quote comment="231244"]here we go again...! cant a brotha just be with who he wants to be with? i mean come on its not that serious! lol a woman is a woman...i know that much, the reason why some of y`all sistas cant keep a man is because of your insecurities.....yesterday y`all were all up on gabrielle union because she`s supposedly with dwayne wade..hmmm last time i checked gabrielle union isnt exactly what you call white or light skin...so what do you finally want? a brotha gets a girl with a big booty its another problem..black men dont have any issues....look at yourselves in the mirror...[/quote] Damn....i'm surely happy I got a man! lol....Who cannot stand pink people.....lol[/quote] girl me too! lol[/quote] LMAO..cosign* me too!!!
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[quote comment="231461"][quote comment="231453"][quote comment="231443"][quote comment="231434"][quote comment="231397"][quote comment="231367"][quote comment="231366"][quote comment="231356"]I'm shy to use my real name but here I go. I haven't had sex for 5 years ladies. Any comments?[/quote] First question 1. Is it for spiritual reasons?[/quote] ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Well I guess I'm going to hell then....[/quote] My goodies have been locked up for 1 year and 3 months on Oct. 12th...its definitely for spiritual and personal reasons. No need of giving up the goods to men who are not good enough. If you like it, put a ring on it...I'm sure I'll be renewing my application I have men fill out when they try to get at me while playing that song 50-11 times this weekend.[/quote] I hear that..us ladies and guys can avoid so much heartache and pain if we just wait on JESUS!! I wish I would have!!!!! I'm just starting to understand that now!! *looking to see if I still have the key to my Chasity Belt handy*[/quote] ---------------------------------------------------------------------------- Wait broke the wagon....If I gotta stop having sex to get to heaven....then I'm in BIG trouble!!![/quote] I will be at the altar for you on Sunday and you are now on my prayer list for tonight...lol.[/quote] --------------------------------------------------------------------------- Uhm if you are gonna pray for me...dont worry about that..pray I get a new job or a check or something...dont waste your time praying for me to stop having sex...it aint gonna happen....[/quote] why would u want to stop ?...cuz u're not married ?
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[quote comment="231454"][quote comment="231449"][quote comment="231428"][quote comment="231421"][quote comment="231415"]Okay, Now I'm inspired. I'm gonna tell my husband that I'm not gonna have sex for a year!!! Thank Ladies for empowering me!![/quote] Riiiiiiight! Okay Toya, lemme know how that little experiment goes so I can tell MY husband, 'cause "I gotta headache" ain't cutting it anymore! :lol:[/quote] Oops...TONYA![/quote] Girl Please...I can hear my husband now,"Whatever, I bet you better be naked when I get home!"[/quote] LMAO!!!!!! ...WITH the baby oil and a shoehorn! Oops, T.M.I.! :lol:[/quote] Shoehorn? Ohhhhhhhh helllllllll nawwwwwww, you ain't gonna drop some info like that and NOW wanna be quiet.......what you use a shoehorn for? Enquiring minds wanna now, lol.
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I call myself trying to quote

I call myself trying to quote someone but shorten the post.... I know I’m going but I’m not ready to meet the King yet…lol. But I will continue to try my best to do right while I’m still here. I don’t feel deprived…I see so many women at church crying and blowing snot over dudes they have slept with for whatever reason only to be right back at square one. I don’t want to look back 10 years from now and realize I been with XXX amount of men looking for love. I sleep good at night not wondering where he is, what he’s doing and who he’s doing it with, does he love me and all that other nonsense. I don’t knock what other folks are doing but I have never really understood the concept of folks sleeping with someone and then they just go their separate ways like its nothing. My heart and vajayjay are tied together with some Timberland boot shoelaces…you can’t have one without the other.
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[quote comment="231470"]And

[quote comment="231470"]And these white women better realise that once the African American numbers start to dwindle (because of race mixing) that there won't be any black men left for them anyway. The Hispanic, East Indian, Arab, etc communities are rapidly growing in the States because they are proud of their race and culture. More conservative communities like Indians or Pakistanis or something actively encourage staying within their own race/religion, as there's a lot of arranged marriages for their children (who were born and raised in the States!). Even love marriages mostly occur between same race couples. Here in New Jersey, there are large numbers of Indian people, and they often see mixing out as a shame to the family and community. As racist as it may sound, at least their numbers will flourish and not die out like ours. Maybe if more back families taught their children about pride of their own culture and how to preserve it, we wouldn't be in this dilemma.[/quote] ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ Thank you!!!! We are the only mixing our race like that...or culture and bloodline is already tainted...before you know it,it'll be gone!!
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[quote comment="231469"][quote comment="231457"][quote comment="231442"][quote comment="231427"][quote comment="231410"][quote comment="231397"][quote comment="231367"][quote comment="231366"][quote comment="231356"]I'm shy to use my real name but here I go. I haven't had sex for 5 years ladies. Any comments?[/quote] First question 1. Is it for spiritual reasons?[/quote] ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Well I guess I'm going to hell then....[/quote] My goodies have been locked up for 1 year and 3 months on Oct. 12th...its definitely for spiritual and personal reasons. No need of giving up the goods to men who are not good enough. If you like it, put a ring on it...I'm sure I'll be renewing my application I have men fill out when they try to get at me while playing that song 50-11 times this weekend.[/quote] ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------- What about your OWN need to have sex....good Lord 15 months w/o sex....I hope you got some toys or something...[/quote] I haven't had sex in a minute. Since I'm not in a relationship, I really don't have a desire to. I mean if "IT" was around me all the time, it would be harder to resist but I don't need it like that.[/quote] You know, I don't have toys or desire to have them or "it" right now. I'm 27 and want a relationship and courtship firmly established before I have sex with someone ever again. I mean, I'm human, I have urges and lustful thoughts like the next person, but I just know that good things (pun intended) literally and figuaratively come to those who wait and be patient. I know if I wait on Him to continue to mature me, perfect me, groom and prune me; He will be able to trust me with the Godly man that He has for me.[/quote] That's wonderful....I hate I was a Ho before I got married. I've been ho-free for some time now.[/quote] Wht's Being a Ho to you ?[/quote] Boy Hush!
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[quote comment="231442"][quote comment="231427"][quote comment="231410"][quote comment="231397"][quote comment="231367"][quote comment="231366"][quote comment="231356"]I'm shy to use my real name but here I go. I haven't had sex for 5 years ladies. Any comments?[/quote] First question 1. Is it for spiritual reasons?[/quote] ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Well I guess I'm going to hell then....[/quote] My goodies have been locked up for 1 year and 3 months on Oct. 12th...its definitely for spiritual and personal reasons. No need of giving up the goods to men who are not good enough. If you like it, put a ring on it...I'm sure I'll be renewing my application I have men fill out when they try to get at me while playing that song 50-11 times this weekend.[/quote] ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------- What about your OWN need to have sex....good Lord 15 months w/o sex....I hope you got some toys or something...[/quote] I haven't had sex in a minute. Since I'm not in a relationship, I really don't have a desire to. I mean if "IT" was around me all the time, it would be harder to resist but I don't need it like that.[/quote] You know, I don't have toys or desire to have them or "it" right now. I'm 27 and want a relationship and courtship firmly established before I have sex with someone ever again. I mean, I'm human, I have urges and lustful thoughts like the next person, but I just know that good things (pun intended) literally and figuaratively come to those who wait and be patient. I know if I wait on Him to continue to mature me, perfect me, groom and prune me; He will be able to trust me with the Godly man that He has for me.[/quote] I told my current boyfriend that I'm not gone jump and just have sex when was dating and that if he didn't want a girl like me he could leave, but he stayed, dated for a couple months and we in a relationship.I pray he is the one, but it is too early to determine.I think some women want to rush and just find a man to find a missing void.But love is deeper.But the only thing that irks me is when he gets on myspace, LORD!!!!Lol
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OK ladies. Some of you may

OK ladies. Some of you may have read this (considering its old), but this is how some "white women" think of us: CAUTION: VERY LONG White women's opinion of black women & a brother's response Please take a moment and read this. Pretty Deep! Thumbs up to this black man. Enjoy. It seems that an article was written to Sister 2 Sister magazine by a Caucasian woman who requested a response from black men. I'm so glad she got what she asked for (and more) !!! Dear Jamie: I'm sorry but I would like to challenge some of your Black male readers. I am a White female who is engaged to a Black male-good-looking, educated and loving. I just don't understand a lot of Black female's attitudes about our relationship. My man decided he wanted me because the pickings amongst Black women were slim to none. As he said they were either too fat, too loud, too mean, too argumentative, too needy, too materialistic or carrying too much excess baggage. Before I became engaged, whenever I went out I was constantly approached by Black men, willing to wine and dine me and give me the world. If Black women are so up in arms about us being with their men, why don't they look at themselves and make some changes. I am tired of the dirty looks I get and snide remarks when we're out in public. I would like to hear from some Black men about why we are so appealing and coveted by them. Bryant Gumbel just left his wife of 26 years for one of us Charles Barkley, Scottie Pippen, the model Tyson Beckford , Montell Williams, Quincy Jones, James Earl Jones, Harry Belafonte, Sydney Poitier, Kofi Anan, Cuba Gooding Jr., Don Cornelius , Berry Gordy , Billy Blanks, Larry Fishburne, Wesley Snipes ... I could go on and on. But, right now, I'm a little angry and that is why I wrote this so hurriedly. Don't be mad with us White women because so many of your men want us. Get your acts together and learn from us and we may lead you to treat your men better. If I'm wrong, Black men, let me know. Disgusted White Girl, Somewhere in VA RESPONSE Dear Jamie: I would like to respond to the letter written by A Disgusted White Girl. Let me start by saying that I am a 28-year old black man. I graduated from one of the most prestigious universities in Atlanta , Georgia with a Bachelor of Arts Degree in Business Management. I have a good job at a major corporation and have recently purchased a house. So, I consider myself to be among the ranks of successful black men. I will not use my precious time to slander white people. I just want to set the record straight of why black men date white women. Back in the day, one of the biggest reasons why black men dated white women was because they were considered easy. The black girls in my neighborhood were raised in the church. They were very strict about when they lost their virginity and who they lost it to. Because of our impatience to wait, brothers would look for someone who would give it up easy without too much hassle. So, they turned to the white girls. Nowadays, in my opinion, a lot of brothers date white women because they are docile and easy to control. A lot of black men, because of insecurities, fears, and overall weaknesses, have become intimidated by the strength of our black women. We are afraid that our woman will be more successful than us, make more money than us, drive nicer cars and own bigger houses. Because of this fear, many black men look for a more docile woman. Someone we can control. I have talked to numerous black men and they continuously comment on how easy it is to control and walk over their white women. I just want to set the record straight. I want A Disgusted White Girl to know that not all successful black men date white women. Brothers like Ahmad Rashad, Denzel Washington , Michael Jordan, Morris Chestnut, Will Smith, Blair Underwood, Kenneth 'Babyface' Edmonds , Samuel L. Jackson, and Chris Rock all married strong black women And,to flip the script, there are numerous white men, in and out of the spotlight, who openly or secretly desire black women over white women. Ted Danson, Robert DeNiro, and David Bowie to name a few. I just don't want a disgusted white girl to be misinformed Stop thinking that because you are white that you are some type of goddess. Remember, when black Egyptian Queens like Hatsepshut and Nitorcris were ruling Dynasties and armies of men in Egypt , you were over in the caves of Europe eating raw meat and beating each other over the head with clubs. Read your history! It was the black woman that taught you how to cook and season your food. It was the black woman that taught you how to raise your children. It was black women who were breast feeding and raising your babies during slavery. It is the black woman that had to endure watching their fathers, husbands, and children beaten, killed, and thrown in jail. Black women were born with two strikes against them: being black and being a woman. And, through all this, Still They Rise! It is because of the black women's strength, elegance, power, love and beauty that I could never date anyone except my black Queen. It is not just the outer beauty that captivates and draws me to them. It is not the fact that they come in all shapes, sizes, colors and shades that I love them. Their inner beauty is what I find most appealing about black women. Their strong spirit, loving and nurturing souls, their integrity, their ability to overcome great obstacles, their willingness to stand for what they believe in, and their determination to succeed and reach their highest potential while enduring great pain and suffering is why I have fallen in love with black women. I honestly believe that your anger is geared more toward jealousy and envy more so than snotty looks. If this were not so, then why do you continuously go to tanning salons to darken your skin? If you are so proud to be white, then why don't you just be happy with your pale skin? Why do you continue to inject your lips, hips, and breasts with unnatural and dangerous substances so you can look fuller and more voluptuous? I think that your anger is really a result of you wanting to have what the black woman has. BOTTOM LINE: If I were looking for a docile woman, someone I can walk over and control, I would give you a call. But, unfortunately, I am looking for a Virtuous Woman . Someone that can be a good wife and mother to my children. Someone who can be my best friend and understands my struggles. I am looking for a soul mate. I am looking for a sister and; unfortunately, you do not and CANNOT fit the bill. No offense taken, none given. Signed, Black Royalty
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[quote comment="231457"][quote comment="231442"][quote comment="231427"][quote comment="231410"][quote comment="231397"][quote comment="231367"][quote comment="231366"][quote comment="231356"]I'm shy to use my real name but here I go. I haven't had sex for 5 years ladies. Any comments?[/quote] First question 1. Is it for spiritual reasons?[/quote] ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Well I guess I'm going to hell then....[/quote] My goodies have been locked up for 1 year and 3 months on Oct. 12th...its definitely for spiritual and personal reasons. No need of giving up the goods to men who are not good enough. If you like it, put a ring on it...I'm sure I'll be renewing my application I have men fill out when they try to get at me while playing that song 50-11 times this weekend.[/quote] ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------- What about your OWN need to have sex....good Lord 15 months w/o sex....I hope you got some toys or something...[/quote] I haven't had sex in a minute. Since I'm not in a relationship, I really don't have a desire to. I mean if "IT" was around me all the time, it would be harder to resist but I don't need it like that.[/quote] You know, I don't have toys or desire to have them or "it" right now. I'm 27 and want a relationship and courtship firmly established before I have sex with someone ever again. I mean, I'm human, I have urges and lustful thoughts like the next person, but I just know that good things (pun intended) literally and figuaratively come to those who wait and be patient. I know if I wait on Him to continue to mature me, perfect me, groom and prune me; He will be able to trust me with the Godly man that He has for me.[/quote] That's wonderful....I hate I was a Ho before I got married. I've been ho-free for some time now.[/quote] :shock: You are silly!!!!!!!
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[quote comment="231448"][quote comment="231442"][quote I hope you make it to heaven hunny....but I aint depriving myself of one of God's most precious gifts.....LOL!!![/quote] I know I'm going but I'm not ready to meet the King yet...lol. But I will continue to try my best to do right while I'm still here. I don't feel deprived...I see so many women at church crying and blowing snot over dudes they have slept with for whatever reason only to be right back at square one. I don't want to look back 10 years from now and realize I been with XXX amount of men looking for love. I sleep good at night not wondering where he is, what he's doing and who he's doing it with, does he love me and all that other nonsense. I don't knock what other folks are doing but I have never really understood the concept of folks sleeping with someone and then they just go their separate ways like its nothing. My heart and vajayjay are tied together with some Timberland boot shoelaces...you can't have one without the other.
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And these white women better

And these white women better realise that once the African American numbers start to dwindle (because of race mixing) that there won't be any black men left for them anyway. The Hispanic, East Indian, Arab, etc communities are rapidly growing in the States because they are proud of their race and culture. More conservative communities like Indians or Pakistanis or something actively encourage staying within their own race/religion, as there's a lot of arranged marriages for their children (who were born and raised in the States!). Even love marriages mostly occur between same race couples. Here in New Jersey, there are large numbers of Indian people, and they often see mixing out as a shame to the family and community. As racist as it may sound, at least their numbers will flourish and not die out like ours. Maybe if more back families taught their children about pride of their own culture and how to preserve it, we wouldn't be in this dilemma.
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[quote comment="231457"][quote comment="231442"][quote comment="231427"][quote comment="231410"][quote comment="231397"][quote comment="231367"][quote comment="231366"][quote comment="231356"]I'm shy to use my real name but here I go. I haven't had sex for 5 years ladies. Any comments?[/quote] First question 1. Is it for spiritual reasons?[/quote] ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Well I guess I'm going to hell then....[/quote] My goodies have been locked up for 1 year and 3 months on Oct. 12th...its definitely for spiritual and personal reasons. No need of giving up the goods to men who are not good enough. If you like it, put a ring on it...I'm sure I'll be renewing my application I have men fill out when they try to get at me while playing that song 50-11 times this weekend.[/quote] ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------- What about your OWN need to have sex....good Lord 15 months w/o sex....I hope you got some toys or something...[/quote] I haven't had sex in a minute. Since I'm not in a relationship, I really don't have a desire to. I mean if "IT" was around me all the time, it would be harder to resist but I don't need it like that.[/quote] You know, I don't have toys or desire to have them or "it" right now. I'm 27 and want a relationship and courtship firmly established before I have sex with someone ever again. I mean, I'm human, I have urges and lustful thoughts like the next person, but I just know that good things (pun intended) literally and figuaratively come to those who wait and be patient. I know if I wait on Him to continue to mature me, perfect me, groom and prune me; He will be able to trust me with the Godly man that He has for me.[/quote] That's wonderful....I hate I was a Ho before I got married. I've been ho-free for some time now.[/quote] Wht's Being a Ho to you ?
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[quote comment="231461"][quote comment="231453"][quote comment="231443"][quote comment="231434"][quote comment="231397"][quote comment="231367"][quote comment="231366"][quote comment="231356"]I'm shy to use my real name but here I go. I haven't had sex for 5 years ladies. Any comments?[/quote] First question 1. Is it for spiritual reasons?[/quote] ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Well I guess I'm going to hell then....[/quote] My goodies have been locked up for 1 year and 3 months on Oct. 12th...its definitely for spiritual and personal reasons. No need of giving up the goods to men who are not good enough. If you like it, put a ring on it...I'm sure I'll be renewing my application I have men fill out when they try to get at me while playing that song 50-11 times this weekend.[/quote] I hear that..us ladies and guys can avoid so much heartache and pain if we just wait on JESUS!! I wish I would have!!!!! I'm just starting to understand that now!! *looking to see if I still have the key to my Chasity Belt handy*[/quote] ---------------------------------------------------------------------------- Wait broke the wagon....If I gotta stop having sex to get to heaven....then I'm in BIG trouble!!![/quote] I will be at the altar for you on Sunday and you are now on my prayer list for tonight...lol.[/quote] --------------------------------------------------------------------------- Uhm if you are gonna pray for me...dont worry about that..pray I get a new job or a check or something...dont waste your time praying for me to stop having sex...it aint gonna happen....[/quote] :lol:
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[quote comment="231462"][quote comment="231455"][quote comment="231449"][quote comment="231428"][quote comment="231421"][quote comment="231415"]Okay, Now I'm inspired. I'm gonna tell my husband that I'm not gonna have sex for a year!!! Thank Ladies for empowering me!![/quote] Riiiiiiight! Okay Toya, lemme know how that little experiment goes so I can tell MY husband, 'cause "I gotta headache" ain't cutting it anymore! :lol:[/quote] Oops...TONYA![/quote] Girl Please...I can hear my husband now,"Whatever, I bet you better be naked when I get home!"[/quote] --------------------------------------------------------------------------------- OK!!!! I can hear my man now.."Empowerment...you aint giving me none cause you looking for empowerment?" You better "empower" your ass in this bed and get naked....empower dis D$Ck!!!![/quote] LMAO!!!!!![/quote] DEAD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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[quote comment="231445"][quote comment="231440"][quote comment="231429"][quote comment="231356"]I'm shy to use my real name but here I go. I haven't had sex for 5 years ladies. Any comments?[/quote] honey, have sex.. like go now.. run to have sex.[/quote] LOL! I'd rather be in love.[/quote] well i cant say i dont understand bc these no good ass n***as will make ya do things like that.. i just dont think i could do it.. but i will tell u.. when u get ready to do it.. wooooooooooooooooooweeeeeeeeeee girl!! mmph! its gonna be love-lyyy ;) now, keep that in mind.[/quote] Don't get me wrong I have lustful thoughts. When the feeling comes I fix it(you know what I mean without the details)and I move on. LOL @ wooooooooowee!
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[quote comment="231455"][quote comment="231449"][quote comment="231428"][quote comment="231421"][quote comment="231415"]Okay, Now I'm inspired. I'm gonna tell my husband that I'm not gonna have sex for a year!!! Thank Ladies for empowering me!![/quote] Riiiiiiight! Okay Toya, lemme know how that little experiment goes so I can tell MY husband, 'cause "I gotta headache" ain't cutting it anymore! :lol:[/quote] Oops...TONYA![/quote] Girl Please...I can hear my husband now,"Whatever, I bet you better be naked when I get home!"[/quote] --------------------------------------------------------------------------------- OK!!!! I can hear my man now.."Empowerment...you aint giving me none cause you looking for empowerment?" You better "empower" your ass in this bed and get naked....empower dis D$Ck!!!![/quote] LMAO!!!!!!
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[quote comment="231453"][quote comment="231443"][quote comment="231434"][quote comment="231397"][quote comment="231367"][quote comment="231366"][quote comment="231356"]I'm shy to use my real name but here I go. I haven't had sex for 5 years ladies. Any comments?[/quote] First question 1. Is it for spiritual reasons?[/quote] ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Well I guess I'm going to hell then....[/quote] My goodies have been locked up for 1 year and 3 months on Oct. 12th...its definitely for spiritual and personal reasons. No need of giving up the goods to men who are not good enough. If you like it, put a ring on it...I'm sure I'll be renewing my application I have men fill out when they try to get at me while playing that song 50-11 times this weekend.[/quote] I hear that..us ladies and guys can avoid so much heartache and pain if we just wait on JESUS!! I wish I would have!!!!! I'm just starting to understand that now!! *looking to see if I still have the key to my Chasity Belt handy*[/quote] ---------------------------------------------------------------------------- Wait broke the wagon....If I gotta stop having sex to get to heaven....then I'm in BIG trouble!!![/quote] I will be at the altar for you on Sunday and you are now on my prayer list for tonight...lol.[/quote] --------------------------------------------------------------------------- Uhm if you are gonna pray for me...dont worry about that..pray I get a new job or a check or something...dont waste your time praying for me to stop having sex...it aint gonna happen....
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New post y'all!

New post y'all!
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[quote comment="231356"]I'm

[quote comment="231356"]I'm shy to use my real name but here I go. I haven't had sex for 5 years ladies. Any comments?[/quote] I hit 13 years in August!
Jobell's picture

Play on playa...he's got $$

Play on playa...he's got $$ power and respect .. Let him be man..a woman is a woman no matter wht color she is..
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[quote comment="231442"][quote comment="231427"][quote comment="231410"][quote comment="231397"][quote comment="231367"][quote comment="231366"][quote comment="231356"]I'm shy to use my real name but here I go. I haven't had sex for 5 years ladies. Any comments?[/quote] First question 1. Is it for spiritual reasons?[/quote] ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Well I guess I'm going to hell then....[/quote] My goodies have been locked up for 1 year and 3 months on Oct. 12th...its definitely for spiritual and personal reasons. No need of giving up the goods to men who are not good enough. If you like it, put a ring on it...I'm sure I'll be renewing my application I have men fill out when they try to get at me while playing that song 50-11 times this weekend.[/quote] ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------- What about your OWN need to have sex....good Lord 15 months w/o sex....I hope you got some toys or something...[/quote] I haven't had sex in a minute. Since I'm not in a relationship, I really don't have a desire to. I mean if "IT" was around me all the time, it would be harder to resist but I don't need it like that.[/quote] You know, I don't have toys or desire to have them or "it" right now. I'm 27 and want a relationship and courtship firmly established before I have sex with someone ever again. I mean, I'm human, I have urges and lustful thoughts like the next person, but I just know that good things (pun intended) literally and figuaratively come to those who wait and be patient. I know if I wait on Him to continue to mature me, perfect me, groom and prune me; He will be able to trust me with the Godly man that He has for me.[/quote] That's wonderful....I hate I was a Ho before I got married. I've been ho-free for some time now.
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Lol. It looks like an episode

Lol. It looks like an episode of Jerry Springer/Montell/& Dr. Ruth went down in here. :lol: -dueces.
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[quote comment="231449"][quote comment="231428"][quote comment="231421"][quote comment="231415"]Okay, Now I'm inspired. I'm gonna tell my husband that I'm not gonna have sex for a year!!! Thank Ladies for empowering me!![/quote] Riiiiiiight! Okay Toya, lemme know how that little experiment goes so I can tell MY husband, 'cause "I gotta headache" ain't cutting it anymore! :lol:[/quote] Oops...TONYA![/quote] Girl Please...I can hear my husband now,"Whatever, I bet you better be naked when I get home!"[/quote] --------------------------------------------------------------------------------- OK!!!! I can hear my man now.."Empowerment...you aint giving me none cause you looking for empowerment?" You better "empower" your ass in this bed and get naked....empower dis D$Ck!!!!
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[quote comment="231449"][quote comment="231428"][quote comment="231421"][quote comment="231415"]Okay, Now I'm inspired. I'm gonna tell my husband that I'm not gonna have sex for a year!!! Thank Ladies for empowering me!![/quote] Riiiiiiight! Okay Toya, lemme know how that little experiment goes so I can tell MY husband, 'cause "I gotta headache" ain't cutting it anymore! :lol:[/quote] Oops...TONYA![/quote] Girl Please...I can hear my husband now,"Whatever, I bet you better be naked when I get home!"[/quote] LMAO!!!!!! ...WITH the baby oil and a shoehorn! Oops, T.M.I.! :lol:
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[quote comment="231443"][quote comment="231434"][quote comment="231397"][quote comment="231367"][quote comment="231366"][quote comment="231356"]I'm shy to use my real name but here I go. I haven't had sex for 5 years ladies. Any comments?[/quote] First question 1. Is it for spiritual reasons?[/quote] ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Well I guess I'm going to hell then....[/quote] My goodies have been locked up for 1 year and 3 months on Oct. 12th...its definitely for spiritual and personal reasons. No need of giving up the goods to men who are not good enough. If you like it, put a ring on it...I'm sure I'll be renewing my application I have men fill out when they try to get at me while playing that song 50-11 times this weekend.[/quote] I hear that..us ladies and guys can avoid so much heartache and pain if we just wait on JESUS!! I wish I would have!!!!! I'm just starting to understand that now!! *looking to see if I still have the key to my Chasity Belt handy*[/quote] ---------------------------------------------------------------------------- Wait broke the wagon....If I gotta stop having sex to get to heaven....then I'm in BIG trouble!!![/quote] I will be at the altar for you on Sunday and you are now on my prayer list for tonight...lol.
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Definitely his woman,

Definitely his woman, although I'm not sure how "new" the relationship is. My husband and I saw them together at the Kentucky Derby back in late April and they carried on like a seasoned couple. It didn't seem new at all.
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[quote comment="231442"][quote comment="231427"][quote comment="231410"][quote comment="231397"][quote comment="231367"][quote comment="231366"][quote comment="231356"]I'm shy to use my real name but here I go. I haven't had sex for 5 years ladies. Any comments?[/quote] First question 1. Is it for spiritual reasons?[/quote] ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Well I guess I'm going to hell then....[/quote] My goodies have been locked up for 1 year and 3 months on Oct. 12th...its definitely for spiritual and personal reasons. No need of giving up the goods to men who are not good enough. If you like it, put a ring on it...I'm sure I'll be renewing my application I have men fill out when they try to get at me while playing that song 50-11 times this weekend.[/quote] ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------- What about your OWN need to have sex....good Lord 15 months w/o sex....I hope you got some toys or something...[/quote] I haven't had sex in a minute. Since I'm not in a relationship, I really don't have a desire to. I mean if "IT" was around me all the time, it would be harder to resist but I don't need it like that.[/quote] You know, I don't have toys or desire to have them or "it" right now. I'm 27 and want a relationship and courtship firmly established before I have sex with someone ever again. I mean, I'm human, I have urges and lustful thoughts like the next person, but I just know that good things (pun intended) literally and figuaratively come to those who wait and be patient. I know if I wait on Him to continue to mature me, perfect me, groom and prune me; He will be able to trust me with the Godly man that He has for me.[/quote] Girl....you hit it on the head.. * Only those that have the Spirit understand what the Spirit is saying...* :wink:
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[quote comment="231381"][quote comment="231362"]When BLACK WOMEN stop waiting for BLACK MEN to VALIDATE them, only then will they move on.[/quote] Why is it that a Black man has to validate a Black woman? Why is it that we have to "move on"? What is so wrong with wanting a relationship/love with a Black man? I'm not saying that I would NEVER EVER EVER date outside of my race, but i would PREFER to be in love with and create a family with a Black man. If that makes me dumb, stupid, old-fashioned, ignorant, etc. then i guess i am.........[/quote] Les, let me start off by saying I am a SOLDIER for Black men. I love them and I can't ever see myself w/o anyone else, but I don't wanna pass up true love either for the sake of being w/ a BM. I won't generalize and say all BM or even most because I don't believe that all of them are lusting after non-black woman. However, I REFUSE to make a woman that isn't black feel as if she is superior to me because she is w/ a BM. I just wish my sista's would stop b*tchin about them because BM doing them regardless. These BM that date white women seem to forget about The Civil Rights movement and Emmit Till. I'm trying to not make this into a essay, but BW are beautiful but intimidating for a lot of non-black men. That's why we naturally want "our kings" (imo) to be by our side. For all the brothers out there salivating over non-black women, there are still brothers that are down for their sistas.It's embarrassing to me when some are up in these blogs going off because it's not just YBF chicks that read this blof. You'd be surprised to know how mainstream media be "all up in the bizniz" on the low. They come to these black based blogs when they want info, and to see some of my ppl bickering over a black man and his Becky, it's a bit sad and redundant. I just think we shouldn't give these topics so much energy. So what. It's his money, his life, and if he likes his Becky, I love it and like Is aid, could care less.
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[quote comment="231428"][quote comment="231421"][quote comment="231415"]Okay, Now I'm inspired. I'm gonna tell my husband that I'm not gonna have sex for a year!!! Thank Ladies for empowering me!![/quote] Riiiiiiight! Okay Toya, lemme know how that little experiment goes so I can tell MY husband, 'cause "I gotta headache" ain't cutting it anymore! :lol:[/quote] Oops...TONYA![/quote] Girl Please...I can hear my husband now,"Whatever, I bet you better be naked when I get home!"
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[quote comment="231442"][quote comment="231427"][quote comment="231410"][quote comment="231397"][quote comment="231367"][quote comment="231366"][quote comment="231356"]I'm shy to use my real name but here I go. I haven't had sex for 5 years ladies. Any comments?[/quote] First question 1. Is it for spiritual reasons?[/quote] ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Well I guess I'm going to hell then....[/quote] My goodies have been locked up for 1 year and 3 months on Oct. 12th...its definitely for spiritual and personal reasons. No need of giving up the goods to men who are not good enough. If you like it, put a ring on it...I'm sure I'll be renewing my application I have men fill out when they try to get at me while playing that song 50-11 times this weekend.[/quote] ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------- What about your OWN need to have sex....good Lord 15 months w/o sex....I hope you got some toys or something...[/quote] I haven't had sex in a minute. Since I'm not in a relationship, I really don't have a desire to. I mean if "IT" was around me all the time, it would be harder to resist but I don't need it like that.[/quote] You know, I don't have toys or desire to have them or "it" right now. I'm 27 and want a relationship and courtship firmly established before I have sex with someone ever again. I mean, I'm human, I have urges and lustful thoughts like the next person, but I just know that good things (pun intended) literally and figuaratively come to those who wait and be patient. I know if I wait on Him to continue to mature me, perfect me, groom and prune me; He will be able to trust me with the Godly man that He has for me.[/quote] --------------------------------------------------------------------------------- I hope you make it to heaven hunny....but I aint depriving myself of one of God's most precious gifts.....LOL!!!
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[quote comment="231442"][quote comment="231427"][quote comment="231410"][quote comment="231397"][quote comment="231367"][quote comment="231366"][quote comment="231356"]I'm shy to use my real name but here I go. I haven't had sex for 5 years ladies. Any comments?[/quote] First question 1. Is it for spiritual reasons?[/quote] ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Well I guess I'm going to hell then....[/quote] My goodies have been locked up for 1 year and 3 months on Oct. 12th...its definitely for spiritual and personal reasons. No need of giving up the goods to men who are not good enough. If you like it, put a ring on it...I'm sure I'll be renewing my application I have men fill out when they try to get at me while playing that song 50-11 times this weekend.[/quote] ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------- What about your OWN need to have sex....good Lord 15 months w/o sex....I hope you got some toys or something...[/quote] I haven't had sex in a minute. Since I'm not in a relationship, I really don't have a desire to. I mean if "IT" was around me all the time, it would be harder to resist but I don't need it like that.[/quote] You know, I don't have toys or desire to have them or "it" right now. I'm 27 and want a relationship and courtship firmly established before I have sex with someone ever again. I mean, I'm human, I have urges and lustful thoughts like the next person, but I just know that good things (pun intended) literally and figuaratively come to those who wait and be patient. I know if I wait on Him to continue to mature me, perfect me, groom and prune me; He will be able to trust me with the Godly man that He has for me.[/quote] Go 'head Christin...that's cool! Keep yo head up Girl!
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[quote comment="231432"][quote comment="231415"]Okay, Now I'm inspired. I'm gonna tell my husband that I'm not gonna have sex for a year!!! Thank Ladies for empowering me!![/quote] Now if you married, you better give it up. Don't play with your hubbie like that. That's NOT right. LOL :lol:[/quote] Noooooooooo don't do that!!!!!
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[quote comment="231440"][quote comment="231429"][quote comment="231356"]I'm shy to use my real name but here I go. I haven't had sex for 5 years ladies. Any comments?[/quote] honey, have sex.. like go now.. run to have sex.[/quote] LOL! I'd rather be in love.[/quote] well i cant say i dont understand bc these no good ass n***as will make ya do things like that.. i just dont think i could do it.. but i will tell u.. when u get ready to do it.. wooooooooooooooooooweeeeeeeeeee girl!! mmph! its gonna be love-lyyy ;) now, keep that in mind.
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[quote comment="231434"][quote comment="231397"][quote comment="231367"][quote comment="231366"][quote comment="231356"]I'm shy to use my real name but here I go. I haven't had sex for 5 years ladies. Any comments?[/quote] First question 1. Is it for spiritual reasons?[/quote] ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Well I guess I'm going to hell then....[/quote] My goodies have been locked up for 1 year and 3 months on Oct. 12th...its definitely for spiritual and personal reasons. No need of giving up the goods to men who are not good enough. If you like it, put a ring on it...I'm sure I'll be renewing my application I have men fill out when they try to get at me while playing that song 50-11 times this weekend.[/quote] I hear that..us ladies and guys can avoid so much heartache and pain if we just wait on JESUS!! I wish I would have!!!!! I'm just starting to understand that now!! *looking to see if I still have the key to my Chasity Belt handy*[/quote] ---------------------------------------------------------------------------- Wait broke the wagon....If I gotta stop having sex to get to heaven....then I'm in BIG trouble!!!
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[quote comment="231427"][quote comment="231410"][quote comment="231397"][quote comment="231367"][quote comment="231366"][quote comment="231356"]I'm shy to use my real name but here I go. I haven't had sex for 5 years ladies. Any comments?[/quote] First question 1. Is it for spiritual reasons?[/quote] ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Well I guess I'm going to hell then....[/quote] My goodies have been locked up for 1 year and 3 months on Oct. 12th...its definitely for spiritual and personal reasons. No need of giving up the goods to men who are not good enough. If you like it, put a ring on it...I'm sure I'll be renewing my application I have men fill out when they try to get at me while playing that song 50-11 times this weekend.[/quote] ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------- What about your OWN need to have sex....good Lord 15 months w/o sex....I hope you got some toys or something...[/quote] I haven't had sex in a minute. Since I'm not in a relationship, I really don't have a desire to. I mean if "IT" was around me all the time, it would be harder to resist but I don't need it like that.[/quote] You know, I don't have toys or desire to have them or "it" right now. I'm 27 and want a relationship and courtship firmly established before I have sex with someone ever again. I mean, I'm human, I have urges and lustful thoughts like the next person, but I just know that good things (pun intended) literally and figuaratively come to those who wait and be patient. I know if I wait on Him to continue to mature me, perfect me, groom and prune me; He will be able to trust me with the Godly man that He has for me.
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[quote comment="231427"][quote comment="231410"][quote comment="231397"][quote comment="231367"][quote comment="231366"][quote comment="231356"]I'm shy to use my real name but here I go. I haven't had sex for 5 years ladies. Any comments?[/quote] First question 1. Is it for spiritual reasons?[/quote] ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Well I guess I'm going to hell then....[/quote] My goodies have been locked up for 1 year and 3 months on Oct. 12th...its definitely for spiritual and personal reasons. No need of giving up the goods to men who are not good enough. If you like it, put a ring on it...I'm sure I'll be renewing my application I have men fill out when they try to get at me while playing that song 50-11 times this weekend.[/quote] ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------- What about your OWN need to have sex....good Lord 15 months w/o sex....I hope you got some toys or something...[/quote] I haven't had sex in a minute. Since I'm not in a relationship, I really don't have a desire to. I mean if "IT" was around me all the time, it would be harder to resist but I don't need it like that.[/quote] ------------------------------------------------------------------------------- I guess, I live with my man...and I STILL whip out my toys every other day..... (sigh)I guess some women are stronger than others....
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[quote comment="231429"][quote comment="231356"]I'm shy to use my real name but here I go. I haven't had sex for 5 years ladies. Any comments?[/quote] honey, have sex.. like go now.. run to have sex.[/quote] LOL! I'd rather be in love.
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