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Gilbert Arenas ABANDONS Pregnant Fiance' Laura Govan AND Their 3 Kids?!

Looks like that tumultuous on-again off-again relationship of 28-year-old Wizards tuned Magic baller Gilbert Arenas and the pregnant 31-year-old Laura Govan is on the outs again.  But this time, Gilbert abandoned both Laura and all the kids and even cut money off to them--all during the Holidays!

 

We've got the deets on this foolery when you read on...

Gilbert's known to do some foul ish and to treat Laura like trash on many occasions--many times publicly doing so.  But while Laura continues to take him back, she's gotten knocked up by him pretty much every year for the last 4 years.  The two attempted to act like they were tighter than a pregnant woman's bra straps after the whole Shaq and Laura cheating debacle popped off.  But now Gilbert has thrown deuces to his whole family.

After getting traded to the Orlando Magic weeks ago, Gilbert apparently picked up and left with even saying goodbye.  Almost like this dude was just waiting on an out to get away from Laura.  He left his mansion in VA and hit the road to Florida.  Laura's rep (now she's repped by the same person as her "Basketball Wives" star sister Gloria Govan and Matt Barnes) says Gilbert has not spoken to Laura or the kids since Thanksgiving and has been avoiding doing so.  And he has cut off all money to them.  Even though Laura is several months along in her fourth pregnancyThe Washington Post reports:

Govan, who is four months pregnant with their fourth child, "has not heard from Arenas the whole month of December," said publicist Laura Wright in an e-mailed statement. "Govan and the children feel like they have been abandoned."

Wright - who has worked for Govan's sister Gloria and her fiance, Los Angeles Lakers forward Matt Barnes - said that Govan was left at their Great Falls home "with no money to purchase food or Christmas gifts."

 The breakup happened around Thanksgiving. Though he didn't reveal a relationship rift at the time, Arenas recently told reporters he had been staying with Wizards teammate Nick Young for about a month.

WOW.  But there's more.  After his first game witht he Magic a few days ago, Gilbert made it very public he was ditching his old life back in DC/VA. 

He told The Post after his Dec. 20 debut with the Magic that he was so eager to move that he bought a same-day ticket to Florida the minute he'd heard about the trade: "I went to the airport and left. I didn't have a chance to say bye to anybody. I didn't even say bye to the kids." (But Arenas also said that Washington would remain "in my heart" because "that's where I raised my kids and have my family.")

This isn't the first time Gilbert has done some foul ish like this.  But, at the same time, is Laura THIS desperate to be a "baller's wife" that she will remain an eternal fiance and keep popping out kids and not have any type of back up plan for money...despite the fact this is not the first time this has happened?  This ish is just pure foolery.

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Anonymous's picture

That chick DO look like a

That chick DO look like a MAN....makes me question??? Gilbert do you have a little frost on your flake--she real manish looking---He just as retarded as she is---he better play ball till is balls fall off because of the child support he gone have to pay...he trapped in BEAR CLAWS...
Ha Ha  Real Funny's picture

lauren has sat on her nasty

lauren has sat on her nasty lazy ass and set trap after trap after trap. You guys don't really think those babies were mistakes do you. She's a baby factory and she did it to secure her future with or without him but WITH HIS MONEY. This trick is wack at best. She knew exactly what she was doing and this desperate attempt at attention and pretending to be a woman wronged is silly. The silly thing is gilberts dumb ass will go right back to her in a few months and their not done having babies. Miss NO WALLS will have at least two more of his babies after this one. She's trife and he's stupid!!!!
Anonymous's picture

This is soooo f**ked up!!!

This is soooo f**ked up!!! Nine years + 4 kids - marriage - secure income = DISASTER!!!!! This is what's so messed up about "relationships" today...there are no standards. It's one thing to have a kid with someone you are not married to. I know two good friends who have a kid but are not married to their child's father. Sometimes things don't go as planned, that we all canunderstand. But really, you have 3 kids with 1 on the way...and yet your still not pass the dating stage?? Come on, you're not thinking with your brain!!! If he has yet to make a full fledge commitment to you AFTER you have settled into the husband/wife thing then you need to start thinking about taking better care of yourself. Sweety you need to find yourself a stable career and find a place for both you & the kids. He doesn't respect you enough to at least make sure the kids are okay, then you need to jet!!!!!!! Boys play around, guys make babies, but REAL men take responsiblity for what they contributed to the relationship. You're 31 years old...get a grip on reality and leave that "I got me a baller" mentality behind. As for Gilber Arenas...boy oh boy...you took the easy way out didn't you?!?! Put her up in a big home, have her do the wifey thing, reproduce, and show no intention on making it official...It's one thing to have problems with the mother of your children...but really??? Ditch them cause you got tired of playing house?!? Do yourself a favor and think with your brain...TAKE CARE OF YOUR KIDS. The least you can do is put in an effort to provide a stable environment... SMH PPL NEED TO GROW THE F**K UP!!!!!!!!!!!
Sophia's picture

PREACH!! There's NO excuse

PREACH!! There's NO excuse for running out on your children and avoiding them for a month. You don't want to be with her anymore? Fine. But the kids didn't ask to have you two low-lifes as parents, so get your ish together and stop punishing them. And dammit, stop having children!!! Here's a thought: if you don't know if you want to spend the rest of your life with someone, then DON'T MAKE A LIFELONG COMMITTMENT TO THEM BY HAVING F*CKING CHILDREN!!! When are people gonna learn??
Lauren's picture

she needs new gig. this one

she needs new gig. this one isn't working for her anymore
SOCIALITE's picture

Gloria can give sis a loan

Gloria can give sis a loan right? SMH what a hot ass mess!!
Chelly's picture

Common example of a chick

Common example of a chick trying to hold on to something she never had. Yea karma is a bitch but I wouldn't wish this shit on any female. Seriously. No matter what he still has a responsibility to those kids. BUT he's not wrong for leaving. No one should be in a relationship they aren't happy in. And her dumb ass should have been looking out for her and her kids since she already knows how shady his punk ass is. How difficult is it to put some money to the side, go to school and have a side hussle. She is ignorant on so many levels. He nut up too damn much for her not to have seen this coming. Let this be a lesson to all woman. Don't ever get so comfy (lazy) that you forget who the hell you're dealing with. ALWAYS look out for you and your kids.
April's picture

She just look like a manly

She just look like a manly Guatemalan bus driver to me.
Bronze Duchess's picture

LMAOF...

LMAOF...
SOCIALITE's picture

That is strange Laura says

That is strange Laura says she hasn't talk to him for whole month of December. Her and her whack sister Gloria was at the Wizards vs Lakers game on Dec 14th and was going in and out the lockerroom. Again strange!
Anonymous's picture

That is strange Laura says

That is strange Laura says she hasn't talk to him for whole month of December. Her and her whack sister Gloria was at the Wizards vs Lakers game on Dec 14th and was going in and out the lockerroom. Again strange!
Anonymous's picture

I read this story and got

I read this story and got angry. WHY do they keep bringing babies into the world when they are being messy? Dang it! It's one thing to not get along with the mother of your kids, but those kids shouldn't have to suffer because of it. His azz didn't even say good-bye to his dang kids!!! The kids shouldn't have to suffer because you and their mother can't get your shyt together. Re-damn-diculous!
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Jenny's picture

agent 0 pay your child

agent 0 pay your child support and keep it moving laura get a job and stop being a basketball groupie you and your sis are def cut from the same cloth.always a BM never a wife
Anonymous's picture

FAIL

FAIL
no_maam's picture

Oh my....she slept with other

Oh my....she slept with other ballers??? Well then hell...he knew the bytch wasn't shyt and still had babies by her. Doesn't anyone bag it up anymore? Sheesh!
lockstress's picture

If we could just take what

If we could just take what you said and put it in fortune cookies throughout the hood, I think we'd be in a better place.
Bronze Duchess's picture

Guess she should go head on

Guess she should go head on down to the welfare now...Karma is a bitch!
Anonymous's picture

When i first heard this story

When i first heard this story on another site, I thought to myself that it was bullshit! Who gets that excited about being transferred to another team and then leave so quick that you forget about their family? She should have known better dealing with this man. I would not put up with that mess: getting knocked up four times from someone who's behaves like that, let alone not making it official.
Anonymous's picture

while you are giving

while you are giving girlfriend advice, maybe you should tell that sleeping with other basketball players who are married behind Gilbert's back usually ends up bad.
Anonymous's picture

Dammit...I meant sign...ugh!

Dammit...I meant sign...ugh!
lockstress's picture

maybe if homegirl had a JOB

maybe if homegirl had a JOB or some extra cash stashed away, she wouldnt even have to worry about money. these chicks kill me. shes not even married to him. but has 4 kids by him? he has no obligation to stay with you..smh.
Jasminee's picture

Agreed. That's why you don't

Agreed. That's why you don't have kids before you're married. And I'm not downing anyone who has, I have my own, but that's exactly how I know. He had no obligation to stay so he left. Make a man responsible and he will be.
Anonymous's picture

Agreed. That's why you don't

Agreed. That's why you don't have kids before you're married. And I'm not downing anyone who has, I have my own, but that's exactly how I know. He had no obligation to stay so he left. Make a man responsible and he will be.
Anonymous's picture

Just cause a dude marries you

Just cause a dude marries you dont mean he will stay ..... regardless of them not being married, he still should take care of the kids..
Anonymous's picture

Just cause a dude marries you

Just cause a dude marries you dont mean he will stay ..... regardless of them not being married, he still should take care of the kids..
Anonymous's picture

#KARMA #SLUT

#KARMA #SLUT
BEBE's picture

Regardless to how adults use

Regardless to how adults use kids as leverage...he clearly had 3 of them with her so he's the azz! If you knew the bytch was crazy why have 2 more wiht her???? I just don't understand. The kids don't stop needing just cuz the adults can't get along. Sing the phucking check and direct deposit that shyt in their individual accounts and she can walk her azz to the bank and handle her scandle. There is never an excuse for not doing for the kids.
lockstress's picture

For those of you screaming,

For those of you screaming, "no matter the situation he shouldnt have left them with no money" need to get a grip and wake up. You know damn well FIRST HAND, how some women use children as leverage to keep a man, stop a man from leaving, or for simply a check. This man really wanted to get the hell anyway from Laura, so stop using the children. How can I feel sorry for them when YOU put them in that situation trying to lock down a baller? GF's with children get just a monthly CHILD SUPPORT check, in which wives get half of assests, child support, and alimony. Ask Tami where do you need to apply for Food Stamps? Because your dreams of marrying a baller didnt work. Dasmyname.
Dasmyname's picture

She should ask Shaq for some

She should ask Shaq for some Christmas gifts...
Anonymous's picture

LMAO You wild for that one!

LMAO You wild for that one!
Real Talk's picture

For real Gilbert aint ish to

For real Gilbert aint ish to leave his kids like that no excuse they ur kids right? Ima just say this im 29 corporate dude that knows how to keep it street at the same time graduated from Hampton U so Ive been around these DC celebs and I live in California so Im surrounded by Hollywood real talk I respect the old school dudes. If you gonna creep keep it on the hush stop puttin ya business out its bad enough your cheating but the kids have to deal with this in the public eye there is no more respect for morality or discreetness everythings ok and out in the open
wolf's picture

Get a damn job BISH!!!! She

Get a damn job BISH!!!! She said in an interview with Sister 2 Sister that this MAN came b4 her children. That shows you the caliber of her mind. She is lazy, a golddigger and needs 2 sell some gucci, parada etc on ebay to get some cash.
Anonymous's picture

I have been married for many

I have been married for many years and my kids are grown, but they knew that I supported her over them in any conflict. Laura is not married, but I understand her mindset.
Drnat's picture

I never knew there was soo

I never knew there was soo much drama surrounding this dude no wonder he had a gun in the lockeroom you may wanna put him on suicide watch for real his actions are all over the place. He seems unstable. Jesus Bless Him Ima bout to google this situation this is outta control
wolf's picture

Not even married to this

Not even married to this jerk- *ss brother, but poping out all of these kids?? She's dumber than a bag of rocks, she needs to get a lawyer asap and keep it movin.
Shay's picture

LMAO. Here's the gem: "Govan

LMAO. Here's the gem: "Govan was left at their Great Falls home "with no money to purchase food or Christmas gifts." The women are quite simply, disgusting leeches. So she has no other income/savings where she can at least buy food for herself and her children for a month. She should get a job!!!
Anonymous's picture

As a single mom my advice to

As a single mom my advice to Laura would be...get off your stank Ass and get a job. Her Vajayjay is problem so damn stretched now, maybe that's the other reason Gilbert left.
Anonymous's picture

Co-signing, trapping a man

Co-signing, trapping a man with children and not working is soooo 1950's. SMDH. As a single mom here's my advice to you Laura- Get off your stank ass and get a job!
Anonymous's picture

Check out rapper Nicki Garbaj

Check out rapper Nicki Garbaj clown Nicki Minaj and others for the 2010 Idiots of the Year Awards! HILARIOUS!! (Oh, and Gilbert won an award this year) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9EqbknBiG3E&feature=mfu_in_order&list=UL
Anonymous's picture

I want the judges to treat

I want the judges to treat these women like they on probabtion when they get child support. They should have to show reciepts of them spending ALL the money on the children since this is CHILD SUPPORT & not ALIMONY and I mean every single penny should be accounted for. They should also have to show a proof of income on how they can afford designer labels when their only source of income is the CHILD support. Then if they dont follow the rules, the judge should lower the amount of $$$ the woman recieves & make the father take the other part of the money and proivde items for the child. I bet it would be a lot of more gold diggers aiming for marriage instead of ruining kids lives by using them as paychecks! Bitches...
yoyo's picture

I agree w/u on that, I'll bet

I agree w/u on that, I'll bet they will stop having all of these kids too and get off their lazy *sses and get a job, McDonalds is always hiring-the kids don't deserve this!
Shay's picture

FYI. Mcdonalds is not always

FYI. Mcdonalds is not always hiring.
Anonymous's picture

I couldn't have said it

I couldn't have said it better. Enough is really enough. The judicial system in this country needs to be re-evaluated. I'm a woman and I'm saying this when normally I'm pro-women. But, these women are so fucking transparent. It makes me sick. That's why she has been popping out kids because she has been hanging on by a thin thread.
Anonymous's picture

lmao...wow! YES, Gilbert is

lmao...wow! YES, Gilbert is bogus for leaving his children like that. I wonder does he think they are his?? Anyways, I can't wait until judges start making these trifling women just as much responsible for taking care of these kids FINANCIALLY as they do the rich fathers. Yeah the fathers would've been taking care of most of the finances if they were MARRIED but the mother also would've been doing her part in cooking, cleaning & taking care of the kids so...Lets make it an even playing field...
yoyo's picture

Dummy..Child support is based

Dummy..Child support is based on how much the parent makes and whom the children reside with... maybe if more dudes step up to the plate and go for full custody of the childrenif not the mother will always bare the burden of raising the children. Hey if dude is paid, thats his fault. yall dont know if she works or not, maybe he told her she didnt have to, with 3 kids, he's always on the road they need at least 1 full time parent. hey if the % of child support happens to be enough for her not to work then she doesnt have to. and why she got to be trifilin he had a choice to pull out or wrap it up. STFU!!
Anonymous's picture

Yeah and I guess she got

Yeah and I guess she got preggers on her own. Maybe he should have wrapped it up. She has 3 kids and another on the way. Why souldnt he provide for them. hey they make Ray ray an average dude pay 500.00 a month for 1 kid and he makes 15.00hr. This multi millionare should pay for the life sytle her and the children are used to, or stop making babies
Anonymous's picture

Comprehension is key. When

Comprehension is key. When did I ever say he shouldn't support his kids? I said that these women should equally support their child as the men when it comes to finances. No matter if its Ray Ray or Gilbert. These women need to take responsibility too
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