Reading in depth is the LEAST of this chick problems. She is delusively ignorant thinking that she's dropping gems to us poor black folks who don't know any better. There is nothing worse than willful ignorance being proudly put on display and a blissfully unaware bigot--of which she is the prime example of both with her condescending and ignorant comments. I tell you, white folks like her just don't know when to just shut the fuck up.

LOL..Im African and I agree...we starting to become like American Niggas ...its sad...and its from the influence of watching lots of rap videos and american media...no offence.....it even boggles my mind when i hear my african brothers using the word nigga when they talk to each other...i have to say i may not agree with you sometimes but a fan of your comments...

Not a chance....every American i know....kisses the ground when they get back here........

I would like to say I see your comments on here all the time bashing black women. If you prefer to date and or marry out of your race no one cares. It is a disrespectful and ignorant to lump all black women in the same basket which is what you normally do. Black women are the backbone of their households and communities. Most of us not by choice. Unfortunately due to many reasons we have had to raise children alone without the fathers. Not because we did not want them there but because they choose to leave or just could not be there. This goes back to slavery when most plantations had very few black men on them mostly black women because women are easier to control. Black women have been raising children alone for many many years. Black women had no choose like the black man but to be strong in order to endure slavery. That strength has been handed down to black women from generation to generation. Black people as a race do not understand the family structure what it really means for a man to be the head of a household. In order for a man to be head of the house he first has to be a "man" in likeness of god because you are quoting the bible. Being male does not make you a man. Your character does ; your soul does. Who you really are inside makes you a man. Understanding that being the head of the household does not mean you have complete power over your household and the people in your household should do as their told by you. It means that you guide your children with a gentle but firm hand leading by example the type of behavior your household should display. You set the foundation for morals and conduct once again leading by example. Your wife is not a child and should not be treated as such. She is your mate; your rib and should be respected as such. The bible says when a man finds a wife it is a good thing. She should be treated as such a good thing not as someone's property to be told what to think, when to speak and how to look. If you treat any race of women like a treasure they will treasure you. You focus a lot on skin colors which has nothing to do with real beauty the outside fades it is the inside that counts. Just because other races of women who give black men compliments does not mean they appreciate you. It could just simply mean they are intrigued by something different than themselves. In order to truly appreciate someone you first have to get to know them as a person. If this is what you base love and appreciation on well you sir are very shallow. You should date people who you have a connection with period. Maybe your childhood was difficult and has given you some biases and hate against black women. Black single family household started to grow during the middle to late 70 right around the same time black men being incarcerated started to grow and unemployment with black men grew. Even now more black men are unemployed than black women. There are more successful everyday black women than black men. You are only speaking about celebrities that does not apply to everyday black people. Look ay home owners between black men and black woman. Who is graduating from college more. Black women. The reason why a lot of children not all have issues coming from a single family home is because the father was not there not because the mother was. It takes a man to teach a boy how to act like a man and what it means to be a man. It takes a man to teach a girl how a man should treat her. I was raised by both parents in my home loved by both. The reason why I am single and raising my two sons alone is because my father taught me what to accept and what not to accept by example by the way he treats me and continues to treat my mother. I am not on welfare I am a college gradate. I am a god fearing woman but that does not mean I am a doormat. Thanks to my daddy. My sons are both straight A students, have never been trouble with the law and very multi-talented from poetry to music and writing short stories. Single parents can and do raise successful children because it is about the foundation you lay as a parent and what morals you lead by example with in your household. Success is not measured by your wealth but by how many lives you touch and change while you are on this earth. It is measured by your work for mankind. Period. It does not matter if you have a black ,white or any color woman as your wife if YOU have hate in your heart and do nothing for mankind than you are a failure. Trust me God does not care about your money or your success. Wake up and stop spreading hate. Much love to you LetsGetIt.

I have no idea what you're talking about. Re-read.

Really? I had a white roommate in college and the first thing she said when we met was "I assumed since you were black you'd have weave, long fake nails, talk ghetto, and not have a father". She was shocked to see that my dad was always there for me and my family supported me and in her words "talked proper English". You know why?? Because the media pushes the reflection of about 7% of an entire race and people buy it. I got everything in college from "I didn't know Black People could wear braces, to do you iron your hair with the same iron as used on clothing"? That's not coming from blacks.