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T.I. Takes Daughter Deyjah To Her OBGYN Appointments To Confirm Virginity – ‘Check The Hymen Please & Give Me Back My Results Expeditiously’

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T.I. takes the controlling - or mysogonistic - dad label to a whole new level. He revealed he takes his daughter, Deyjah Harris, to her yearly gynecologist exams to ensure her hymen is still intact. More inside…

There’s a lot to unpack here.

When it comes controlling dads, T.I. has everyone beat. And not in a good way.

The Paper Trail rapper sat down to chop it up on the “Life Hacks” episode of the “Ladies Like Us” podcast with Nazanin Mandi (Miguel’s wife) and makeup artist Nadia Moham. The ladies were asking Tip about his parenting skills – specifically how he handled the sex talk - when he revealed he goes an extra mile when it comes to his 18-year-old daughter, Deyjah Harris.

He shared he goes with Deyjah to the gynecologist every year to ensure she’s still a virgin.

“Have I? This is the thing. Deyjah’s 18, just graduated high school now and she’s attending her first year of college, figuring it out for herself,” he said. “And yes, not only have we had the conversation, we have yearly trips to the gynecologist to check her hymen.”

Wait, what? Tip said he’s very much involved when it comes to her pelvic exams, requesting the doctor to share the results with him. Bruh.

“So it’s this one time we go, I think this might have been after her 16th birthday. This is what we do. Right after the birthday we celebrate,” he said. “Usually like the day after the party she’s enjoying her gifts. I put a sticky note on the door: ‘Gyno. Tomorrow. 9:30.’ So we’ll go and sit down and the doctor will come and talk and the doctor’s maintaining a high level of professionalism. He’s like, ‘You know sir, I have to, in order to share information’ — I’m like, ‘Deyjah they want you to sign this so we can share information. Is there anything you wouldn’t want me to know? See doc? No problem.’

He continued, “And so then they come and say, ‘Well I just want you to know that there are other ways besides sex that the hymen can be broken like bike riding, athletics, horseback riding and just other forms of athletic physical activity.’ So I say, ‘Look doc, she don’t ride no horses, she don’t ride no bike, she don’t play no sports. Just check the hymen please and give me back my results expeditiously.'”

 

 

The "Ready For Whatever" rapper hasn’t received any news he wasn’t pleased with…yet.

“I will say as of her 18th birthday, her hymen is still intact.”

In Tip’s mind, he believes the fact his daughter is a virgin would more so keep guys away from her because he said virgins are “no fun.”   Oh?

“They’re no fun. Who wants a virgin?” he asked. “Like really? All that work.”

Wow, Tip. Just wow. And if you aren't telling your own sons to stay away from sticking their penises in girls, you can REALLY keep this.

Take a listen below:

 

 

You can listen to the interview here, starting at the 43-minute mark. 

What’s interesting is that on the last season of “T.I. & Tiny: Friends & Family Hustle,” Tip’s wife Tiny Harris couldn’t believe her & Tip's son King Harris – who’s still in high school – wasn’t a virgin. We wonder if the Kang of the South is tagging along on doctor visits with his sons, trying to find a way to check their virginity and drill into their heads to stay virgins forever. Basically, he wants his daughter to stay from being a sexual being while his sons can have sex with other people’s daughters.  Welcome to the patriarchy.

Folks are going off on Twitter about T.I.’s parenting choices:

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

If she has "no hymen" next year, then what? You cut her off, kick her to the curb, shame her into submission, and ostracize her from the family?  She's suddenly a worthless human being because....she HAD SEX? Women who have sex are dirty and lesser than to you?  What does that make your wife, Deyjah's mother, your stepdaughter Zonnique (if she's not also a virgin), etc.?

At what age is any girl or woman "allowed" to be a complete sexual being? You sound iditotic, T.I.P., especially when you have zero qualms about having sex with all the women, before and during your marriage, and heaven forbid us say you're a lesser human being for doing that type of dirt.

Controlling a girl's sexuality does more harm than good.  It reeks of misogony, it takes away her bodily autonomy, it makes her ashamed of her body and sexuality, and wanting her to suddenly wake up at 50 and be able to handle sexual situations perfectly is just silly.  Focus on raising children with self respect, and Deyjah seemingly has plenty, and they will appropriately choose who they share THEIR body with and when, especially when they're over 18. A man - father or not - using shame to control when/if/how a woman has sex is unnecessary misogony. No one owns a girl's or woman's body, not even her father.

Thoughts?

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